1 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: Hi am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson. 2 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and 3 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling 4 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: railval No, no, sibling ra don't do that with your mouth, revely. 5 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: That's good, Kate, the fucking kate A. We're in an 6 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: email episode. That means we read emails, emails, emails, emails, emails, emails. Wow, 7 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: that was really wonderful. Thank you. So are you going 8 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: to do the first one or am I gonna do 9 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the first one here in an all 10 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: email episode. Maybe a couple of voicemails, I don't know. 11 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: We're just gonna dedicate this episode to our listeners and 12 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: some of the beautiful things that they have written you. Okay, Okay, 13 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: here we go. You guys ready, I'm gonna read that. 14 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: You know what I just heard? A collective? Yeah? Oh yeah, 15 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: I heard the whole globe. Isn't it weird that every 16 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: every human on the earth listens to sibling revelry? Okay, 17 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take it away. Here we go. Hey, guys, 18 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: love love, love your episode. I'm a Hungarian living in Australia. Interesting, 19 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: my sister is Hungarian, aren't you? What do you mean 20 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: I am Hungarian? Your brother and sister like both Hungarian? Okay, 21 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: I guess I'm hungarian as well, but you claim, you 22 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: claim more hungry than I do for some reason. What 23 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: you know? We're both Hungarian jew that is what that's 24 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: where we come from. Okay. I'm a Hungarian living in Australia, 25 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: and whilst I don't have real homesickness, I do miss 26 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: my little family. Of course, the big C that's COVID 27 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: doesn't make it easier to know when I'll be seeing 28 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: them again. By the way, my name is Causa, and 29 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: I challenge in front of that kids, just Susa, Susa. 30 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: It's a silent z. I don't know actually, but you said, well, 31 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: she's challenging me to pronounce it right. I challenge Ali 32 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: to pronounce it right. That's what she says. How do 33 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: you go to she z s u z s ausa? Okay? 34 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 1: I like that. I'm gonna go. I'm going to say tutsa. Okay. Kate, 35 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: your laughter and witty humor over Alie is so cute. 36 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: I love you perfect. This is all working very well. 37 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: I love that you guys came up with this idea. 38 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: I have an older brother eight years older that I 39 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 1: miss having real, deep and also fun conversations with face 40 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: to face. What I'm looking forward to in twenty twenty 41 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: one Allie singing, Oh the heels are alive with the 42 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: sound of Susa. But for real, I really hope that 43 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: we will all continue to look after each other and ourselves. More. 44 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: To me, it is clear that the big Sea will 45 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: still take time to be defeated. But even if we 46 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: did do so, I hope we will not rush back 47 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: into running through life. I wish that this past year 48 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: made most of us realize to cherish and be grateful 49 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: for what we and who we have in our lives, 50 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: to laugh more and live through emotions even if it 51 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: is crying. We need to do this to realize that 52 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: life completes when we make others happy and be helpful 53 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: to others. To see that it is okay to take 54 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: time out to recharge. You guys are awesome. Ollie. Please 55 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 1: keep pushing Kate's buttons. It makes her do that famous 56 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 1: laugh of hers that we all love. Kate. Let Ollie 57 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 1: tell the Mattress unpacking story again and again and again. 58 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 1: He loves it and we do too much. Love guys, 59 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: and thanks God. That is so funny. I know, Oh, 60 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: I loved that. You know, she hit upon something that 61 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 1: we talked about in a prior episode. I think it 62 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:48,799 Speaker 1: was our New Year's right after New Year's episode, where 63 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: even though we are coming to a point where COVID 64 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: might be ending, it's still important to cherish the times 65 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 1: that we had together and to continue being close to 66 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: each other. You know, yeah, I don't know if he 67 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 1: or she has kids, but I do realize that I 68 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: can see the difference in the kids for us being 69 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: home and like quarantined together and connected. All that's all 70 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 1: we got to sort of make our days interesting. I 71 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: think that we'll always look back at this time as 72 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: really special because of that, and try to continue to 73 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 1: not only recreate it, but make sure that it's like 74 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: a part of our daily lives. Mm hm. You know 75 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: you read the second one from Devn Hi, Kate and Oliver. 76 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: My name is Devon. I was lucky enough to have 77 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 1: my voice mail be chosen and aired on your podcast 78 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: at the beginning of the pandemic. Wow. I work at 79 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: a hospital and need outlets from the everyday grind and 80 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: stress of constant change when it comes to protocols for 81 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: dealing with COVID. Cast has been one of those outlets 82 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 1: for me, a way to escape the tunnel vision mindset 83 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: of COVID. Since vacations and getaways are not a safe 84 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: and easy possibility right now, I am so grateful to 85 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 1: use your podcast as a means for my mind to 86 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: travel away from the daily routine of life. The past 87 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: year has dragged yet flown by. Hopefully this year will 88 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: bring positive changes without taking away from the things that 89 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: I've learned to appreciate this past year, such as spending 90 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: time with loved ones and appreciating what I have. Thank 91 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: you both for sibling revelry. It has truly helped me 92 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 1: during this difficult year. I wish you nothing but the 93 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: best this new year. Thanks stefan Oh. This is a theme. 94 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: This is an ongoing theme of everyone looking at this 95 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 1: year as like, Wow, this has been really weird and 96 00:06:56,120 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 1: really life changing, and then the silver lining and how 97 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 1: we move forward and what we bring with this. I 98 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: love when people think that way, when they can think 99 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,480 Speaker 1: what are we going to take with us from this? 100 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: Not what can we wait to be? What can we 101 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: wait to be done with Amanda Klutes wrote a really 102 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: beautiful New Year's message. You know, we had her on 103 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: not that long ago, and but she wrote about that. 104 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: She's like, don't her whole thing about don't wish away 105 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: the time, you know, right, there's like beauty in everything 106 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: in this and now, so well, I'm going to I'm 107 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: going to do something for Devon right now, because Devin 108 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 1: did say that it's a means for her mind to 109 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: travel away from the daily routine of life. So I'm 110 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: going to do a quick, very quick journey for her. Devon, 111 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: close your eyes and imagine yourself on a beach and 112 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: the waves are lapping at your feet. The sun is 113 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: a perfect eighty five degrees baking your skin. You have 114 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 1: sunblock on, of course, so you don't get burned. The 115 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: breeze is blowing your hair, and you can't feel anything 116 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: but bliss and love and just pure consciousness. Devin, come 117 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: back to reality. I know you're in a heavy meditative 118 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: state right now. All right, thank you? Devin was like, 119 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 1: that was just I don't even know where you took her. 120 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: I don't know she was on a beach. I couldn't 121 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: go too long, you know, should I do this one. 122 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: I'll do this one. Hey, guys, just wanted to say 123 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: good Dye from Australia, West Australia From West Australia. Sorry, 124 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: loving the podcast and how often I laugh out loud 125 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: listen to you both. I think you're both hilarious. However, Ollie, 126 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 1: don't be too vexed with me. But you do this 127 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: thing to Kate that my sister does to me that 128 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: makes me fully crazy, which is talk over the top 129 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: of her so that she cannot be heard. Kate, you're 130 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: clearly far more patient than I am because you handle 131 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: it really well. But I'd love to know if you 132 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: ever get really cross with Allie when he does that 133 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: to you, keep making us all up renee, renee, that's bullshit. No, 134 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 1: it's not bullshit, it's true. It is bull You talk 135 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 1: over me. Actually, I don't you do. No, I don't, Yeah, 136 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: you do. I don't. I really don't. You do have 137 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: a tendency to get excited and you talk over me 138 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: sometimes on especially when we're doing interviews. That's horse crap. 139 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: I only talk over this time you go on these 140 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: you just did it. I talk over you because sometimes 141 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: you go on these rants that are really long, and 142 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: I try to like keep it going. You know, that's 143 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 1: that's you. You're projecting. It's the other way around. I 144 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 1: don't go on long rants. You go on long rants 145 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: and all the time, and you go on repetitive long 146 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: rance so you tell the same story over again. Well, 147 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 1: we keep adding listeners so they need to hear the 148 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: thing is Oliver husband? Is that Renee? To answer your question, No, 149 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 1: I don't because I know Oliver's insecurity is too well, 150 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 1: and so I just let him talk over me. 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I live with you 216 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: one time? Yeah you did? Yeah, okay, I remember, Thank you? 217 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: Thanks for that. Anyway. I'm adopted. Long story short. I 218 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: was left outside an adoption agency as an infant. I'm 219 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: now thirty five, had a great life, great family. I 220 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: got on ancestry in twenty three and me a few 221 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 1: years ago and recently got a match. On twenty three 222 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: I found out I may have had siblings. Their results 223 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: will show in February, so I'm looking forward to twenty 224 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:09,120 Speaker 1: twenty one to find out the results. I may have 225 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: some blood siblings out there, which blows my mind. There 226 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: is a lot more to all that, but I've been 227 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: drinking and it's too much to type. Our love Fern 228 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: you let it die, Love you, Kate, but Ali, you 229 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: crack me up way too much. Otgotg love you all. 230 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: Carrie so cool. That's exciting for Carrie. She's gonna find 231 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: out if she has siblings or not. That must be 232 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 1: so wild for people who are in a same situation 233 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: as Carrie and can do these twenty three and me 234 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: or ancestry dot Com and find their relatives. Yeah, I mean, 235 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: you don't have to go to an agency anymore and 236 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: be like, hey, I want to find out if I 237 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: have family. You can actually just pay one hundred and 238 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: twenty five books and yeah, it's pretty amazing. What a 239 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,879 Speaker 1: fun twenty twenty one for her? That starts off with 240 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 1: a bit of a bang. I hope they're really cool. 241 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 1: I know, I know, because that can all be ruined 242 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: if they're just complete dicks. You're like, ah, God, why 243 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 1: did I ever do this? I have a great family. 244 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,239 Speaker 1: Oh Carrie, good luck with that. That's going to be 245 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 1: super exciting. Hi, Kate and Oliver. My name is Kelsey Lifredo. 246 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 1: I am twenty seven years old and from Charles Town, 247 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: Rhode Island. I am the youngest of five and my 248 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 1: mother raised us all on her own. I've listened to 249 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 1: your podcast from day one and it has brought me 250 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: so much joy. Sadly, my oldest brother, Dave thirty six, 251 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: passed away unexpectedly in May of twenty nineteen, and your 252 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 1: podcast has helped me in more ways than I can 253 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 1: write at the moment. I've wanted to write to you 254 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:58,719 Speaker 1: both for a while now, but I just teared up 255 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: every time I went to write anything. My brother was 256 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 1: a punk rock badass with a huge heart. He would 257 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 1: blast The Misfits, Dead Kennedy's and The Clash in his 258 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: room growing up. What gave me the thought to finally 259 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: email you both to thank you was that. Just now, 260 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 1: I am cleaning my apartment and listening to some tunes. 261 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: I put my favorites playlist on from Apple Music, which 262 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: changes weekly, and the Rawnettes be My Baby came on 263 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,919 Speaker 1: and I broke down in tears because I haven't listened 264 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: to it since he passed. We would frequently go get 265 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: a coffee in the morning together and go to the 266 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:39,199 Speaker 1: beach to chat and start our day, and that was 267 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: one of our morning jams and we would scream sing it. 268 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: So as I sit here thinking and crying happy tears, 269 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart. 270 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: I love the podcast. I love what you guys are doing, 271 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 1: and I hope you know how much it helps heal 272 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: some of us and gets us through some days. I 273 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 1: hope you and your families had a lovely Christmas, and 274 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:11,400 Speaker 1: I wish you both a healthy and happy twenty twenty one. 275 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 1: I don't well, it's positive, I know, but I don't 276 00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: like when people lose people so young. You know. It's 277 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 1: like I can and I don't like. Look, life is bittersweet, 278 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: and it sucks that we all have to die. It 279 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: just does. But like when you lose your someone so 280 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: young and like unexpectedly, like she's saying, it just breaks 281 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: my heart because it's like just the worst, there's nothing, 282 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: it's just the worst. Then and yeah, you have to 283 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 1: like heal that. It's traumatic, it's unexpected, it's not how 284 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 1: it's supposed to be. And yeah, but you know, it's 285 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 1: like what I was saying about this spatula on the 286 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 1: Christmas episode when I was like, you know, one day, 287 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: like if you bought me this, like that would be engraved, 288 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 1: would be like I'd be gone, but this bachelor would 289 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: still be there and everyone be like, oh number when 290 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 1: you know, right, that's real. It's not just funny, and 291 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 1: it's it's funny because we're we have a sense of 292 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:19,959 Speaker 1: humor and we like looking at life and through a 293 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 1: funny lens. And the reality is is that there will 294 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 1: be a day where one of us will be looking 295 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 1: and going oh number one, you know, and and and 296 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: it just sucks when it's that that young but good 297 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 1: I know, well, I'm glad that we could, you know, help, 298 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: which sounds crazy, but we just I just feel like 299 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 1: I'm being I think it's I don't think the help help. 300 00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: I don't think it's about helping. I think I think 301 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 1: it's just providing some connection and levity and and and 302 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:03,359 Speaker 1: really late ability to the importance of this relationship, like 303 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: you and I and when someone had a good relationship 304 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 1: or even doesn't, it sort of gives them this feeling 305 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:15,919 Speaker 1: of coziness. It's like, right, oh yeah that you know. 306 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 1: And you know what I always say, like it's like laughter. 307 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 1: You know people, it's still underrated. It's like everyone's so 308 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:31,160 Speaker 1: goddamn serious. It's like laughter actually heals us. Yeah, it's healing. 309 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 1: It changes our brain. 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My name is Christy. 385 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 1: I am twenty seven years old from a country town 386 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 1: near Melbourne, Australia. I've been meeting a lot of Australians. 387 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 1: I've been meeting to write you an email for a 388 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 1: couple of months now to let you know the impact 389 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 1: you've had on me in the last couple of months, 390 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 1: but didn't know how to put it into words. For 391 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,159 Speaker 1: many years, my partner and I have been trying for 392 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 1: a little bubby. I had three miscarriages and in those 393 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 1: years dealt with an eating disorder, but always felt in 394 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: control of it. This year, I felt pregnant and finally 395 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,360 Speaker 1: got to that fourteen week mark and was desperately excited 396 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 1: to tell my family. That week, I found found out 397 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:04,119 Speaker 1: our tiny little bubby was very sick and we lost 398 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 1: our baby a week later. That week is when my 399 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 1: eating disorder took over my life. Finding your podcast saved 400 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 1: my life. The life I planned on taking before I 401 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 1: realized that my siblings and family dynamic was very similar 402 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 1: to you both, and that me ending my life would 403 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:26,679 Speaker 1: have the same reaction that it would with both of yours. Devastating, tragic, heartbreaking. 404 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 1: Thank you for saving my life, distracting me from my 405 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: eating disorder, brain making me want to recover. You both 406 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,640 Speaker 1: make me laugh after days I haven't, and cry when 407 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 1: I know I need to. I will never be able 408 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,640 Speaker 1: to thank you enough, but I hope this is one 409 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: step towards it. Lots of love, Christy, Oh my god, wow, Christy. Well, 410 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:55,919 Speaker 1: first of all, I am a little bit emotional right 411 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,639 Speaker 1: now because I know how challenging it is to think 412 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: that you can't or to feel at your body. It's 413 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 1: like almost like the one thing that you want to 414 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 1: be able to do that we're supposed to do as women, 415 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,679 Speaker 1: It that you're having a hard time doing, feels like 416 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 1: you're it's dysfunctional, that it doesn't work, that it doesn't 417 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,159 Speaker 1: have its purpose. I know what that feels like as 418 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: a woman. The importance of that. I also know too, that, 419 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 1: like I think, we put a lot of pressure on 420 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 1: women to feel that that is that is it that 421 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: that's the only thing, you know, that if we want 422 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 1: a kid, that that's the only way, and and that 423 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 1: if we can't do it that way, that there's something 424 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 1: wrong with us, And there's nothing wrong with you. You 425 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:52,560 Speaker 1: know this, it's this is so common, and there's probably 426 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: a million different reasons, and there's also so much beautiful 427 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,920 Speaker 1: life to have, and there's so much capacity to have 428 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 1: family even if you're not having the child. And that's 429 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: always I'm telling you right now that there are so many, 430 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 1: as we just read in this adopted children who've had 431 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 1: incredible lives and beautiful families, and it's you. I promise 432 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: you it will never be anything and what you ever 433 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 1: wanted it to be. There's that part. So I feel you, 434 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 1: and I'm so sorry that you've had to go through 435 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 1: all those traumatic experiences and I myself have had you 436 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,239 Speaker 1: know them, I'm sure many women have. So I feel you, 437 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: I see you. But but also I'm so glad that 438 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 1: you listened, and that you know that you're that you're listening, 439 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,959 Speaker 1: and that you're that you're feeling that you have that 440 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: kind of family unit, that that it's not us, it's 441 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: it's your family. And and and maybe we were like 442 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 1: a catalyst and the moment of glimmer into like, yes, 443 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: this is what my family is and sort of took 444 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: you out of that. And I'm so glad and grateful 445 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 1: that you were listening, because you're right, your family, everybody would, 446 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: everybody in your life would be devastated. And hopefully you're 447 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 1: healing and hopefully you're getting all of the help that 448 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,920 Speaker 1: you need and that you're reaching out and that you're 449 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 1: not as we say always like you know, we can't 450 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: suffer alone, like you can't. You have to be open 451 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 1: about this. So even just you writing this is so amazing. 452 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: It's just sharing with people that it's okay. Like so 453 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 1: many people have these thoughts and go through these, you know, 454 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: challenging moments of feeling that kind of despair and emptiness, 455 00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: and when you start talking about it, it clears it away, 456 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: it starts to it doesn't make it as mysterious that 457 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 1: it sort of opens it up and it allows people 458 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: to be there to support you and to help you. 459 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 1: And it's just so courageous. And I thank you for 460 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 1: writing that, not only for you know to I'm grateful, 461 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 1: but but for you to be able to have the 462 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: courage to say that out loud. Beautiful, Kate, oh dude, beautiful, 463 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:22,200 Speaker 1: very when Christy thanks, I love that so much, and 464 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 1: I think too, this is a wonderful actually, you know, 465 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,959 Speaker 1: way to kind of end this episode, which is that 466 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: this not only is there COVID, you know, we're dealing 467 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,240 Speaker 1: you know, we're dealing with so many people have been 468 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 1: feeling this weight. And as we get more isolated and 469 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: this COVID still is here, and as we sort of 470 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 1: the vaccine starts to get slowly spreading around and maybe 471 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,160 Speaker 1: things start to open up a little bit again and 472 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 1: hopefully we won't feel as lonely or isolated. But this 473 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 1: time has brought up so much of this for so 474 00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,600 Speaker 1: many people, and it's something that I've always been you know, 475 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 1: the you know, mental health is something that people really do, 476 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 1: like we take this for granted, Like there are so 477 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 1: many people on different spectrums, you know, from zero to 478 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:17,920 Speaker 1: ten that we're all suffering in some sense with our 479 00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 1: mental health, some more than others, but we all can 480 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 1: understand those moments when we really need to start taking 481 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: care of that. And the first step to all of 482 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,400 Speaker 1: that is having the open dialogue. Mom and I were 483 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 1: talking about it yesterday, how transparent. Everything is now how 484 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: people actually kind of expose themselves. I was watching mom 485 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:42,959 Speaker 1: on a Barbara Walters on the Barbara Walters Special, and 486 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 1: it was so cool to see her. But I said 487 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 1: to her at that time, how one was that she 488 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: was thirty eight, I think, or thirty I was three. 489 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 1: But the thing was is, I said, you know, it's 490 00:32:56,200 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 1: so funny because people were much more like, nobody talked 491 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,560 Speaker 1: about these things out loud. Nobody talked about the things 492 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 1: that we talk about now. I mean, it's the good 493 00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 1: thing about social media, the positive, the silver lining and 494 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 1: all of the social media is that you have to 495 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 1: be really open and honest about where you're coming from. 496 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 1: And then people are coming out and talking about things 497 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: that are have been hidden for so long, and it 498 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:24,840 Speaker 1: is changing people's lives. It's allowing them to have communities 499 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 1: where they can share that they struggle and that it's 500 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: there's no stigma. You know. It's like I was watching 501 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 1: the cult's owner. You know, he's doing this thing called 502 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 1: change the Stigma, and he's doing things all about mental illness. 503 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: Let's change the stigma you know, of depression, postpartum depression, anxiety, PTSD, 504 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: all of these things that people suffer from. You know, 505 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 1: we need to talk about it. And and anyway, I 506 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: just I'm so green folded. Yes, And by her sharing that, 507 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 1: she might have helped somebody else. You know, if someone 508 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: else is listening to this, who might be going through 509 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,520 Speaker 1: what she is going through, what is going through, her 510 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 1: story might have just saved a life herself, you know, 511 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 1: the butterfly effect. Hey, allie, the big game is right 512 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: around the corner. Oh my god, it is. It's a 513 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 1: big game. It's a big game. What do you do? 514 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: It's a big game. What do you do with this 515 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: big game? It's going to be a different kind of 516 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,839 Speaker 1: big game. It's a big game. It's a big game 517 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 1: where they throw a ball that's sort of certain shape 518 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 1: and big skin and not only Yeah, well it's called 519 00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:50,360 Speaker 1: the football. It's called the football. Just a game for football. 520 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 1: It's a big game for football. That's right. And I 521 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 1: will be loaded up. Guess what's in my Guess what 522 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:59,520 Speaker 1: will be in my cooler? I'm not going to tell you. Yeah, 523 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,879 Speaker 1: you know, I knew it. I knew it. You're so 524 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,440 Speaker 1: easy to read. I know you're just so smart. You're crazy, 525 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:09,840 Speaker 1: that too, that too, I am that. But Cores wanted 526 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 1: to create the most refreshing ad of all time, so 527 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:17,440 Speaker 1: they're bringing it into a place no big game commercial 528 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 1: has ever gone before. Your dreams. Mmm, sounds impossible, right, 529 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: turns out it's not. It's not no. Cores has been 530 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 1: working with world renown dream psychologists doctor Deirdre Barrett, and 531 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 1: a team of visual artists to make this happen. So 532 00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:42,920 Speaker 1: they conducted an experiment. Participants watched a refreshing, trippy two 533 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 1: minute video. Oliver, we love the people at Cores. They 534 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,279 Speaker 1: speak our language. They do. They just said the word 535 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,760 Speaker 1: trip a trippy two minute video, and then fell asleep 536 00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 1: to an eight hour long relaxing audio soundscape. Crazy enough, 537 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 1: it acts worked, and they actually dreamed. Refreshing Cores ads 538 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 1: all right, So Cors wants listeners to try this for themselves. 539 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:13,799 Speaker 1: There's nothing more refreshing than Core's light and Core Seltzer 540 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 1: except maybe a really good dream. So starting February third, 541 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 1: you can experience the first big game commercial that you 542 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 1: have to fall asleep to watch. 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Check it out at 553 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,439 Speaker 1: Coresbiggame dream dot com and experience the first big game 554 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 1: ad that only runs in your dreams. Celebrate Responsibly twenty 555 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: twenty one Cours for Run Company, Golden Colorado and FT 556 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: Fort Worth, Texas Beer. Hey, so funny. I was so 557 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,200 Speaker 1: excited to leave you guys a message and have you 558 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 1: call me back. But it's okay if you don't. So 559 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 1: this is Jamie and I just have been binging your guys' podcast. 560 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,239 Speaker 1: I've known about it for a long time and I've 561 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 1: kind of been had just move over because I'm just 562 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: his total arm cherry. But I was like, okay, you know, 563 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,399 Speaker 1: maybe I'm not ready to stay with my sister's tuff. 564 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 1: But anyway, so I've been binging and binging and working 565 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,720 Speaker 1: a ton, So it's been a great company on walks 566 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,720 Speaker 1: and work and everything. And I've just enjoyed you guys 567 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 1: so much and all the people that you've had on 568 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,839 Speaker 1: I've learned something from everybody and start to like reconciltate 569 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 1: it to my friends or like Dan, you're listening to 570 00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 1: a lot of podcasts. Anyways, I enjoy you guys so much, 571 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 1: as so many of your other listeners do. And I 572 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 1: was excited to see this number and be like, cool, 573 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,400 Speaker 1: I can tell them. I don't know if it's just 574 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,319 Speaker 1: going to go into the universe or if you guys 575 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 1: will live here's this or not, which I know people 576 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,719 Speaker 1: also say, but just leaving the message is half of 577 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,320 Speaker 1: the enjoyment. So thank you guys so much for taking 578 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 1: the time and doing this. And I had a tricky 579 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 1: relationship with my sister and we definitely had some downtime 580 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 1: and I put up a whole bunch of walls to 581 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: keep her from getting into my middle sanctuary of easiness. 582 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,960 Speaker 1: But you guys have really helped me think about opening 583 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: up more and we've really come together a lot over 584 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:40,879 Speaker 1: the past few years. And I think there's some really 585 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:42,600 Speaker 1: cool tools in here that are going to help us 586 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 1: become even closer. So thank you guys so much, keep 587 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,400 Speaker 1: up the great work, and can't wait for a more episodes. 588 00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 1: Take care, guys, say, I love it. That makes me happy. 589 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:58,040 Speaker 1: I know. Oh god, Well, here's the thing I what 590 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 1: I'm learning from this episode. No, I was so educational. 591 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 1: I just never knew how amazing I was changing people's lives. 592 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:13,359 Speaker 1: I have no idea. Oh my god, I think we 593 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,440 Speaker 1: need to stop doing me. He's gonna get right to 594 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 1: Oliver's head. Next thing, you know, he's going to be 595 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 1: putting like his like his college account into some weird change. 596 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,720 Speaker 1: My I'm gonna change my names like Bug one Hudson 597 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:36,800 Speaker 1: and create some sort of community Bug one, Bug one Hudson. 598 00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's funny. No, but it's so great 599 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,840 Speaker 1: to hear. It's so great to hear. I mean it's humbling. Honestly, 600 00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,640 Speaker 1: it's humbling. It really really is. I mean, no, I 601 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,879 Speaker 1: know what you mean. It's it's one of those things 602 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,839 Speaker 1: where you go, you know, we're doing this because we 603 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 1: love each other, and we we it gives us an 604 00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:02,239 Speaker 1: opportunity to not only it's like, if you're going to work, 605 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 1: you want to work with people that you enjoy and 606 00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,359 Speaker 1: We're so lucky that we've been able to do this 607 00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:15,000 Speaker 1: and actually have this great following of people who dig it. 608 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:21,200 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm just so happy, and we really do. 609 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,160 Speaker 1: I mean, it just goes to show when people always 610 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: ask like, Okay, how do you create a business that's successful, 611 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,719 Speaker 1: You're like, well, you just have to be real and 612 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 1: authentic and you have to do what you love to do, 613 00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,120 Speaker 1: and it has to come from an honest place and 614 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 1: that's the number one thing, and that really, I mean, 615 00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 1: we are passionate about not only raising awesome kids and 616 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:48,040 Speaker 1: a family and creating our own good family, but we're 617 00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:51,920 Speaker 1: passionate about our own family. And as crazy as it is, 618 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: I mean, my text to the family that I was 619 00:40:56,080 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 1: dictating in the playground is true. I wrote to our family, 620 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,799 Speaker 1: our family group text. I said, no matter what, no 621 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:09,680 Speaker 1: matter how crazy, no matter what anyone's going through, there's 622 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:15,239 Speaker 1: no other family unit I'd ever ever, ever want. We're 623 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,880 Speaker 1: so lucky to have each other. And if I could 624 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:23,920 Speaker 1: bottle that and sell that, I would devote my life 625 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:28,920 Speaker 1: to it because it would bring so much safety and 626 00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:34,920 Speaker 1: happiness to people. And so I didn't get the text. 627 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,640 Speaker 1: How was I on the chain now you were like, 628 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: you know, trying to be you know, Bobby Flay, like 629 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:47,200 Speaker 1: over your grill outside, You're like coming from Bobby. It's true, 630 00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 1: and you do what you love and it resonates. But 631 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 1: I do want to climb the charts, you know I do. 632 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 1: We got to climb the charts. At the end of 633 00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:58,839 Speaker 1: the day, did you climb the podcast charts? We got 634 00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 1: to do it. I mean, it's twenty twenty one, okay, 635 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 1: I love you, Love you. Sibling. Revelry is executive produced 636 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:13,120 Speaker 1: by Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson. Producer is Alison Presnik. 637 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 1: Editor is Josh Wendish. Music by Mark Hudson aka Uncle Mark.