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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO. Our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Ready, CLO, Yes, here we go. This is

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Speaker 1: from Imani in Columbia. Imani writes, my husband and I

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Speaker 1: were joking about our sex life and he told me

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Speaker 1: what he wanted more of, so I chokingly said that

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Speaker 1: I want more length.

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Speaker 2: That didn't go over well.

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Speaker 1: He laughed it off, but he keeps bringing it up,

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Speaker 1: so I know it hurt him.

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Speaker 2: How do I fix his ego? Well, first of all.

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Speaker 3: Girl, you should never say that to your man. Uh,

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Speaker 3: that's like your man.

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Speaker 4: And if it's true, well, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, you can't say it though.

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Speaker 3: If that's the equivalent of your man saying, you know,

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Speaker 3: let's just say wow, it's really really roomy, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, those things you should never say. Yeah, you just can't.

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Speaker 4: Say that, you know.

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Speaker 3: And so it's it's really you can't fix that, you know,

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Speaker 3: since y'all joking. But did you say from Colombia?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, she's from Colombia, Emani.

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Speaker 3: You're talking about Oh, you're talking about Columbia, South Carolina Caroline. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I thought you was talking about Columbia Country. I'm saying

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Speaker 3: to say because I'm banned from that country. I can't,

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Speaker 3: but I can't ever since the pageant, I can't say

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Speaker 3: nothing about Columbia because they still they still a little.

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Speaker 4: Hot about that.

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Speaker 2: You're still mad?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they ain't really.

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Speaker 3: I met up in three dudes overseas from Colombia, and

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Speaker 3: they asked me to take a picture, and I said, hey, man,

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Speaker 3: where y'all from? They said, Colombia. I tried to get

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Speaker 3: out the picture right quick because I thought that you're gonna.

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Speaker 2: Try to kill me, you know, anyway?

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Speaker 4: Go ahead, Sureley next.

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Jack in Las Vegas.

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Speaker 1: Jack writes, my girlfriend and I have been together for

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Speaker 1: two years and she still won't use the bathroom around me.

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Speaker 1: We were in Miami for New Years and she went

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Speaker 1: all the way to the lobby to use the toilet.

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Speaker 1: How do I make her more comfortable around me?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 3: She trying to keep you comfortable around her. She knows

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Speaker 3: something that she know you don't need to know. Let

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Speaker 3: her go down to that lobby or wherever she got

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Speaker 3: to go down. You gonna mess around and get some

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Speaker 3: information you ain't gonna be able to download.

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Speaker 4: She gonna go in that bathroom and you're gonna be.

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Speaker 3: Packing tiles outside the door at the box.

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Speaker 2: Is that a deal breaker, Celo, Is that a deal breaker?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Yes, if you if you that rink, you know,

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Speaker 3: we're gonna we're gonna do something. We're gonna first of all,

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Speaker 3: first of all, gonna take you down to the clinic.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna get your uh colons. We're gonna do a

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Speaker 3: couple of m and then we're gonna get some coaling

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Speaker 3: clean and we're gonna change your die.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna some blood work done, and we're.

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Speaker 3: Gonna find out what it is that's going down now

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Speaker 3: and formulating this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but she knows though, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So if it were y'all, y'all would just be

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Speaker 1: sitting there.

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Speaker 2: See when you get baby.

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Speaker 3: Yep, you got your sea baby. You're gonna let her

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Speaker 3: that lobby you had two years? You know, she fine,

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Speaker 3: You know y'all been together. She got a lot of

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Speaker 3: great qualities. She just can't let you be around her.

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Speaker 3: When she used that bathroom, gone down there, I got you, hey,

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Speaker 3: take your self phone case something. But but it's some

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Speaker 3: women coming out the lobby bathroom coming like she knows

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Speaker 3: she well.

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Speaker 2: Yea, all right, moving on to Eve. I think we

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Speaker 2: get it in st Louis. That right.

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Speaker 4: I would just say this here. When I was younger, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And I used to I went to bathroom around people

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Speaker 3: over their house.

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Speaker 4: I used to have like uh, I.

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Speaker 3: Had like Roman candles that I used to travel with,

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Speaker 3: Like Roman candles.

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Speaker 4: You remember the Roman candle ye like fire work?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because when I was in there, I had to

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Speaker 3: light it and just hold it in my head and

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Speaker 3: it could be in there like a blow torch. At

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Speaker 3: least when I walked out of here, it felt like

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Speaker 3: it smelled like fire.

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Speaker 2: You're just walking around with candles people house.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I had Roman candles in my part I had

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Speaker 3: travel with. My mama told me, what did your mama say,

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Speaker 3: you need to boy, you need to light mattress in

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Speaker 3: this bathroom one water, I.

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Speaker 1: Said, Well, back in the day, one bathroom per household.

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Speaker 2: Still, that's a true story.

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Speaker 3: I had a partner. Mama made him go to the

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Speaker 3: gas station and you at the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Wow, wow, and then you change next? All right?

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Speaker 1: Event in Saint Louis, well, uh, she writes, I dated

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Speaker 1: a guy for three weeks and my intuition was telling

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Speaker 1: me to google him, so I did. He had lied

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Speaker 1: about being in the NBA in the nineties and he's

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Speaker 1: been married three times. I ghosted him, but I think

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Speaker 1: I should tell him. Why does he deserve an explanation?

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Speaker 4: He was in the NBA in the nineties.

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Speaker 2: In the nineties, Yeah, boy.

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Speaker 4: Are you that? Ain't the Canda lie?

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Speaker 2: You tell at all?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: He said, you know, not like in the nineties.

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Speaker 3: You know, if I tell you I was in the

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Speaker 3: NBA in the fifties, then you got a shot at

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Speaker 3: not signed. Yeah, yeah, the nineties, you know against Joe'll definite.

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Speaker 2: Jordan Scotty and.

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Speaker 4: He was in there with Magic, all them boys.

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Speaker 1: Kaem stop okay, Larry Bird and.

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Speaker 4: He know he knows why you quit call me?

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Speaker 2: He knows, Yeah, he knows, all right. Moving on last one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Derwanda and Laurel de Wanda writes, I'm

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Speaker 1: licensed to carry a gun, but my boyfriend hates guns.

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Speaker 1: He said he'd feel like a woman in our relationship.

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Speaker 1: He feels like the woman in the in our relationship

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Speaker 1: if I ever pulled my gun out to defend us.

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Speaker 1: I don't see it that way at all. In fact,

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Speaker 1: I want him to learn to shoot.

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Speaker 4: Too.

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Speaker 2: Am I asking for too much?

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Speaker 3: Well, if he don't like guns. You know, I don't

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Speaker 3: see how this is a deal breaker.

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Speaker 4: I just don't.

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Speaker 3: All you got to do bruh is, don't take her nowhere,

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Speaker 3: But she got.

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Speaker 4: To defend y'all.

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Speaker 2: With a gun.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, you all.

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Speaker 3: Down at uh on the strip, trying to eat at

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Speaker 3: twelve at night?

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Speaker 4: You are? Where's you going? Doog?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: So you down there?

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Speaker 3: You you down there in bank Head at the pool

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Speaker 3: hall on Saturday night?

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Speaker 1: What what.

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Speaker 3: You already know she's gonna have to pull this gun out.

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Speaker 3: I don't even understand this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he hates gun and she wants him.

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Speaker 3: You're all up in the city somewhere after after our joint,

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Speaker 3: the club, the club over, you know, after hour spot

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Speaker 3: at somebody house.

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Speaker 1: They can't go there, No, no, all right, you're listening

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Speaker 1: morning show