Speaker 1: Can we get a mic check please for the microphones.
Speaker 2: Mike check one, two, three, four.
Speaker 3: Here we go scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya
Speaker 3: rat An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Hey, it's her last
Speaker 2: brain cell. She mustered out. We are fresh off of
Speaker 2: Ali's bachelorette weekend.
Speaker 3: I thought I would come home on a Sunday and
Speaker 3: get one good night of sleep and be back to
Speaker 3: health and wealth the next day. And that is not
Speaker 3: the case.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think I would have been fine, except Phoebe kept
Speaker 2: me up all night. She needed to go pee, she
Speaker 2: needed to go boop, like hours apart. Haley didn't budge.
Speaker 2: I'm like, can you help me out a little bit,
Speaker 2: I'm struggling. Finally the third time, it was at like
Speaker 2: six this morning, and I was like, Tapter, can you
Speaker 2: take her out?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I love you.
Speaker 3: I know. That's a good thing about the the fifty
Speaker 3: to fifty dog ownership is that we really do swap well.
Speaker 2: She watched her all weekend, so I was. But I
Speaker 2: was also like, I'm running low on my sleep sleep hours.
Speaker 3: I'm just running low, just running. Yeah, that could have.
Speaker 2: Been in that sentence right there.
Speaker 3: Period.
Speaker 2: It was a great time. We were in the desert.
Speaker 3: Should we start with Bacchorette or should we start with
Speaker 3: I got so many dms of people wanted to hear
Speaker 3: about your dad meeting Haley.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a really big week. Like the fact
Speaker 2: that all this happened within one week blows my mind
Speaker 2: because it was a lot. But my parents came into
Speaker 2: town from Florida, and it was my dad's first time
Speaker 2: meeting Haley, and so it was a big deal. And
Speaker 2: my mom has been out, she's met Haley obviously, but
Speaker 2: in like my dad when I'm on FaceTime or like
Speaker 2: if I'm talking to my parents on the phone or
Speaker 2: on FaceTime, like Haley and my dad will say hey
Speaker 2: and stuff. But this was the first time meeting in person.
Speaker 2: And we've been together for we're on the approaching six years.
Speaker 2: And a lot of people were like, can you talk
Speaker 2: about that? And I think it's a very normal thing.
Speaker 2: When I think for anybody, take out like religion, take
Speaker 2: out beliefs, take out culture. I think when you have
Speaker 2: expectations for who your kids are going to be, who
Speaker 2: they're going to end up with, I think it's very
Speaker 2: natural when you come out to have a reaction of
Speaker 2: shock and like, oh, like, we definitely weren't expecting that,
Speaker 2: and then you add in religion and cultural beliefs and
Speaker 2: you know, and then me going on the Bachelor. I mean,
Speaker 2: there was just like a lot where I think it
Speaker 2: totally shocked them when I started dating Haley. So it's
Speaker 2: been a journey, and it's like I'm I would love
Speaker 2: to do like a podcast or something where I sit
Speaker 2: done with my parents and like have their opinions on
Speaker 2: it out knowle Like, I don't.
Speaker 1: Know they never want to do that.
Speaker 2: That'd be great, But I know it's been a lot
Speaker 2: of grace I think on both sides of the relationship
Speaker 2: of being like I know that you don't understand this,
Speaker 2: and that's okay. Like I love you guys, and I
Speaker 2: will never not be a part or have y'all as
Speaker 2: a part of my life. And I think they have
Speaker 2: done their best to get to a place where they
Speaker 2: were comfortable with it right, And sometimes that looks like
Speaker 2: sometimes that never happens for people, you know, which is
Speaker 2: so sad. It's so sad, but it's the reality for
Speaker 2: a lot of people. And so I think a lot
Speaker 2: of people are like what six years, But it was
Speaker 2: the most like healing week that I think I've had
Speaker 2: in a really long time. Like I would say, the
Speaker 2: last time I really felt like that relief, for felt
Speaker 2: elated was when Haley and I came out publicly. But
Speaker 2: I think seeing my dad and Hailey got along so
Speaker 2: well that it was like almost shocking.
Speaker 3: Right, like you were like, why what's taking what took
Speaker 3: so long?
Speaker 2: Well, Also, it's like I knew that they would like
Speaker 2: each other, like she and Haley was so excited to
Speaker 2: meet She was like, I'm so excited to meet your
Speaker 2: dad because I know I feel like I know you
Speaker 2: and have met your mom, so I go, oh, those
Speaker 2: things are from her mom, And she was like meeting
Speaker 2: your dad, I can say like, oh, Becca gets her
Speaker 2: sarcasm and her wit and like her playfulness from her dad,
Speaker 2: Like I got to see that. So it was so
Speaker 2: fun to watch them like bond right, and it was
Speaker 2: really really special. So I think the thing that Haley
Speaker 2: and I talked about a lot was the gratitude of
Speaker 2: my parents being willing and open to come out and
Speaker 2: like see our lives and like be a part of it,
Speaker 2: like stay with us and make it feel so comfortable
Speaker 2: even though it was like, Okay, this was six years
Speaker 2: in the making, it felt so worth the weight.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, and I felt like at least you
Speaker 3: got here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally. And I don't even have I mean, I
Speaker 2: think you know a lot people I think it's like,
Speaker 2: do you hold resentment that it took so long? But
Speaker 2: I don't because I think that they did it the
Speaker 2: way that they needed to do it to get to
Speaker 2: this point. Yeah, and I feel grateful for that.
Speaker 3: Yeah. And you know, they say time heels, time heels.
Speaker 2: And I kept saying that. I was like, I just believe,
Speaker 2: like I know that there will come a time and
Speaker 2: I don't know when it's gonna happen where this happened,
Speaker 2: and it was never like my parents never did anything
Speaker 2: or said anything that like where they were like, we
Speaker 2: don't want to meet Haley, right. I think I just
Speaker 2: wanted to feel comfortable for both parties. And maybe that
Speaker 2: was a little bit on me, as when people.
Speaker 3: Pleased for it, you didn't want to like force it.
Speaker 3: You wanted it to kind of happen naturally, which it did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think which we're going to do an
Speaker 2: episode about this, but we took the human Design Test
Speaker 2: and this really resonated with me because right in this time,
Speaker 2: I am a projector and a lot of that is
Speaker 2: waiting for things to come to you. And I think
Speaker 2: there's other people who would be like, I'm just going
Speaker 2: to rip the band aid and they're going to meet and.
Speaker 3: It's going to be what it is, but I'm going
Speaker 3: to make it happen.
Speaker 2: Wanted to wait for it to feel good for everybody,
Speaker 2: and we did, and I was so proud of like
Speaker 2: the collective effort on everyone's end, and it was just
Speaker 2: like such a beautiful week. So I was so grateful.
Speaker 2: If you're someone who you've had to wait for loved
Speaker 2: ones to come around, like stay hopeful, Oh cry, no,
Speaker 2: don't cry, don't make me cry. Looking at me when
Speaker 2: making eye contact, Okay, everyone's look at each other. Just
Speaker 2: it can happen.
Speaker 3: So I know I'm fine. I'm good. I'm not fine.
Speaker 3: I just think, like, you know, just from watching you,
Speaker 3: I just feel like you're so strong, and you've been
Speaker 3: so strong throughout the whole process and like loving on
Speaker 3: both sides, you know, like loving to your parents, loving
Speaker 3: to Haley and being that bridge for so many years
Speaker 3: and just kind of having that relief and that release.
Speaker 3: I just can't imagine what that feels like for you. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's really good. Yeah. Uh so I just want to
Speaker 3: say you're welcome for the Human Design Test because you
Speaker 3: always peep through the homework I give you, and now
Speaker 3: you feel like enlightened.
Speaker 2: I don't poop put. Well, actually it was a very
Speaker 2: easy test.
Speaker 1: We all.
Speaker 2: It was basically put your where you were born, what
Speaker 2: time you were born, and there you go. You got
Speaker 2: your answer. But I did We're gonna go like do
Speaker 2: a deep dive into that, but I was just we
Speaker 2: did it yesterday and it in my mind it like
Speaker 2: went so well with that. My parents, you know, just
Speaker 2: like that. Wait.
Speaker 3: So, but as I'm saying, who knows if you would
Speaker 3: have forced it, Let's say four years ago, if you
Speaker 3: were like, you know what, I'm gonna come home for
Speaker 3: Christmas and I'm bringing my girlfriend and you forced it,
Speaker 3: it could have gone bad, you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 3: I feel like it went so well because you gave
Speaker 3: it time, you gave everybody. You let everybody do it
Speaker 3: at their own time. Yeah, if you forced it, it
Speaker 3: could have been not so not gone so well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my family's wonderful, like my family's so warm, and
Speaker 2: I think if I had brought Haley home it maybe
Speaker 2: there would have been like some awkward moments, but I
Speaker 2: think Haley would have felt very welcomed in love. But
Speaker 2: I didn't want to force it on Hailey, and I
Speaker 2: didn't want to force it on my parents, and I
Speaker 2: didn't want to force it on me. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 2: like it almost felt like I was doing it for
Speaker 2: myself as well, right, So it was just no notes, no,
Speaker 2: no notes, I don't think.
Speaker 3: So when's the next gathering? Well?
Speaker 2: I told my parents because you know, it was so
Speaker 2: fun to have them out here, and like I was like,
Speaker 2: y'all have to do this at least once a year, yeah,
Speaker 2: because we normally go home for Christmas and so we
Speaker 2: see them everyone's together then. But I was like, this
Speaker 2: was such a fun just having them, you know, giving
Speaker 2: my mom all my having her go through the clothes
Speaker 2: in my closets that I didn't want, like dressing. You know,
Speaker 2: it was just so fun to have them here and
Speaker 2: not feel like ru. I mean, it was fast, but
Speaker 2: it was just it was so nice. So hopefully it
Speaker 2: happens at least once a year. Okay, good, and then
Speaker 2: you know, with the holidays. There's that, there's that now
Speaker 2: that open.
Speaker 3: Now you guys have to start splitting your holidays.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're lucky with that. Yours is just like a
Speaker 2: you could go same day as you both families.
Speaker 3: I know. But you know also we don't have the
Speaker 3: same holidays, so it's like a win.
Speaker 2: Win all round.
Speaker 3: Yeah. True.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But I was thinking, and Mark's really the only
Speaker 2: one who can speak to this, but I think when
Speaker 2: you have kids, it's like you you want them to
Speaker 2: live a life that is the easiest and least challenging, right,
Speaker 2: And so I think in my parents mind it was like,
Speaker 2: that's going to be harder for you.
Speaker 1: Yes, one hundred Yes, I've had this discussion with a
Speaker 1: number of people. There are plenty of parents who have
Speaker 1: misgivings about their children's sexuality or even gender identity. And
Speaker 1: it's not because of a home of phobia or transphobia
Speaker 1: or some sort of closed mindedness. It's just, yes, you
Speaker 1: I want your kid to have the easiest life possible,
Speaker 1: and you know they're going to get harassed. You know,
Speaker 1: the people are to try to take their rights away
Speaker 1: from them and kick them out of bathrooms and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. You know that they're going to be and
Speaker 1: they're going to be used as targets by politicians to
Speaker 1: gain votes, like it's such a gross thing. Yeah, So yeah,
Speaker 1: I understand that element of it.
Speaker 3: It's also not even like your sexuality. Like when my mom,
Speaker 3: when I first told my mom about Robbie, she had
Speaker 3: like her own I don't know what the word is.
Speaker 3: Her guard was up a little bit because because, yeah,
Speaker 3: because she was like, oh, like being with someone who has,
Speaker 3: you know, divorced with kids, it comes to a lot
Speaker 3: of hard and there's a lot of hard there, you know.
Speaker 3: And she's like, I want the easiest life for you. You
Speaker 3: have very you have a very easy life right now.
Speaker 3: I want to keep you know, I want you to
Speaker 3: keep that. And so it's it's not just about sexuality.
Speaker 3: It could also be about that, you know. Over time,
Speaker 3: I think obviously she realized, yes, it was hard at moments,
Speaker 3: but I feel like it's it's the man. It was.
Speaker 3: It was the man that was what I had always wanted,
Speaker 3: you know, And it took her some time to like
Speaker 3: learn that too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that just comes with none of us
Speaker 2: are parents yet, but I think that comes with a
Speaker 2: parent of wanting ease, wanting the best, easiest, happiest life.
Speaker 2: They don't want to see us her or struggle or
Speaker 2: have hardships or have people be mean to us. So
Speaker 2: and I think that was another thing because you know,
Speaker 2: both of my younger sisters are gay, and I think
Speaker 2: it was there was this public element to my life
Speaker 2: that it was like, are you going to get hurt?
Speaker 2: Right people who don't agree with this? So I think
Speaker 2: that's why it's important to That's why it's like what
Speaker 2: Hailey's doing and normalizing are really like what Haley's doing
Speaker 2: with her music and what you're doing it.
Speaker 4: Too, girlfriend, being that chest out, just like changing the
Speaker 4: narrative that it doesn't have to be scary, even though
Speaker 4: there's scary parts of the world where it is.
Speaker 2: Let's the tempt is to change it, you know. So
Speaker 2: I'm very grateful to my parents, I'm grateful to Haley.
Speaker 2: And it was it was wonderful, and then it was
Speaker 2: a very quick gear shift. Dropped them off at the
Speaker 2: airport and went into bachelorette mode.
Speaker 3: Yeah wow, what a one eight, three sixty whatever.
Speaker 2: It is, because I think three sixty take you all
Speaker 2: the way back?
Speaker 3: Yeah right, yeah, yeah, and we take a break before
Speaker 3: we get into the bacherette.
Speaker 5: That's what I was leading into Great minds, all right,
Speaker 5: before we get into the bacherette.
Speaker 3: I do want to thank you for sharing that because
Speaker 3: I know that that's hard and it's private, and I
Speaker 3: just wanted to thank you for sharing that because I
Speaker 3: think a lot of people are going through that as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I, like I said, it's it's such a
Speaker 2: we're all doing our best, yeah, you know, and and
Speaker 2: sometimes it's like takes people longer than it takes you,
Speaker 2: and and everyone's on their own timeline and it's easy
Speaker 2: to compare people. Like you look at people and they're
Speaker 2: like right off the bat, it's like their partner's besties
Speaker 2: with their parents, you know, and it's like that's not everything.
Speaker 2: And I'm like I said, I will never be able
Speaker 2: to express the gratitude to my parents for making the
Speaker 2: effort to come out here. Yeah, because I don't I
Speaker 2: don't know if they'll if they know like the significance, Okay,
Speaker 2: go to Bachelor atte we got it.
Speaker 3: I think it's important. And I'm very proud of you,
Speaker 3: and I just love you so much.
Speaker 2: I love you too.
Speaker 3: Next time they come out here, I'm taking my share.
Speaker 2: I know, I know, Tanya, I was like, can I
Speaker 2: come by? I'm like, we got a lot going on,
Speaker 2: but next time, Yes, I forgot. You and my dad
Speaker 2: really bonded at my blog. Yeah, I know, I forgot
Speaker 2: the bond that y'all had created. So I was like,
Speaker 2: has she met my parents?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: I know when we met my mom, but I just
Speaker 2: you know, first of all, the blog night was just
Speaker 2: to update y'all. In two thousand and I think sixteen,
Speaker 2: I launched my blog, which no longer exists, and we
Speaker 2: did the party at the Bachelor mansion and it was
Speaker 2: so fun, so fun. My whole family came out. I
Speaker 2: don't think my brother was here, but most a lot
Speaker 2: of my family and then all friends.
Speaker 3: And that's when like the Tanya Chrys Tillie love fest
Speaker 3: really started. Because they got along so well with your dad.
Speaker 3: I was like, I should just be family. Yeah, Kando
Speaker 3: to make that happen. Yeah, wait, there's a brother.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there is a brother who is now married with
Speaker 2: two beautiful children. Yes, yes, and you also are about
Speaker 2: to be married with two beautiful children.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 2: Life happens fast.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So anyways, we switched gears and we went bachelorette to
Speaker 2: the desert for Alley Grant's bachelorette party, Palm Springs.
Speaker 3: Yes, where do we start?
Speaker 2: Where do we start? First of all, we left it
Speaker 2: nine thirty in the morning, which you know, for me,
Speaker 2: that's getting out, getting packed in.
Speaker 3: Out of the house was like, wow, poor thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I have never gotten to Palm Springs that fast.
Speaker 2: No traffic, no traffic.
Speaker 3: I left around noon and I got there pretty quick too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you met us like right at the bar Spring. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So we went to Palm Springs. We had the most
Speaker 2: insane house.
Speaker 3: Insane.
Speaker 2: It was crazy in pictures, but when you it was
Speaker 2: like a resort.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like our own little hotel.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was thirteen girls, nine bedrooms, and a crazy
Speaker 2: Oh go ahead.
Speaker 3: I just have to shout out, Rebecca Tilly, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3: Why Because first of all, when you have thirteen I
Speaker 3: think if you're in a group of more than five women,
Speaker 3: and there's a lot of personalities, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: There's a lot of personalities of people who know you
Speaker 3: from high school, from college. Then there's the family, you know,
Speaker 3: the girls, from the family you're marrying into. It's a
Speaker 3: lot of different dynamics going on, and Becca literally makes
Speaker 3: every single person make makes them feel welcome and included
Speaker 3: and part of and like she was running around Ali
Speaker 3: taking videos and pictures of her all weekend like you
Speaker 3: really were made of honor goals like that, Like was
Speaker 3: so like seeing you in action, like you kept the
Speaker 3: vibes high all weekend like things, you know what I mean,
Speaker 3: Like there's there's things happen, and you were just like
Speaker 3: always steady Eddie but like happy Harry, and I don't know,
Speaker 3: it was just like so fun seeing you in that
Speaker 3: way because it, yeah, it was like really like I
Speaker 3: want to cry, and I actually wanted to, like.
Speaker 2: I want to cry.
Speaker 3: I wanted to get you a massage last night when
Speaker 3: we got back from the Bachelorette because it was so
Speaker 3: much like it was just like a law on you
Speaker 3: and I wanted you to like relief, relief, release and
Speaker 3: just like have a night to just like relax because
Speaker 3: you were just like so on but like in such
Speaker 3: a nice way.
Speaker 2: Wow, thank you, that's so nice.
Speaker 1: Just seeing her in action? Does that put her in
Speaker 1: the lead then for your decision?
Speaker 3: So there's no like there's no there's no there was
Speaker 3: no test there's no test, but like seeing her, no,
Speaker 3: nobody's been informed interesting but but seeing you in action
Speaker 3: was like so crazy. It was so crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, where Pauline is a maid of honest you could see.
Speaker 2: Her in that and.
Speaker 3: Like, I honestly thought about it, like you could maybe
Speaker 3: start like a made of Honor school or something. I
Speaker 3: know it sounds silly. There's there's weirder out there, guys,
Speaker 3: like people do, like people do weirder stuff out there
Speaker 3: than a masterclass on being the best maid of honor.
Speaker 3: I really think you could do it.
Speaker 1: You can call it maid of Honor m A d E.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
Speaker 2: I had a lot of people. I had a few
Speaker 2: people they were like, my wedding's this date? Are you available?
Speaker 2: There's there's a movie, the one with Deborah Messing and
Speaker 2: the guy and she hires him. Wait no, I'm thinking
Speaker 2: of something different.
Speaker 3: Thinking seven. Yeah, yeah, she's honor.
Speaker 2: Oh just Bridemain.
Speaker 3: That was it was pretty epic seeing you like that.
Speaker 2: Wow, thank you. It was really fun. It It is
Speaker 2: like you go into a situation and, uh, when there's
Speaker 2: that many girls from different parts you you just want
Speaker 2: to connect everyone. And I knew for Ali it was
Speaker 2: important that everyone felt like a part and included and
Speaker 2: so and a lot of those people I haven't gotten
Speaker 2: to spend time with and they're really close to Ali,
Speaker 2: so you know, part of me was like, oh, this
Speaker 2: is my chance to have time with them. Yeah, but
Speaker 2: it was so much fun. It was such a chill
Speaker 2: group of girls too, Like you talk about that many
Speaker 2: girls and personalities and everyone was just there for Ali and.
Speaker 3: It was it was really really like a good group
Speaker 3: and it was like I literally felt like we were
Speaker 3: in our own Barbie house. Yeah, I feel like we
Speaker 3: were in the movie. So, you know, like getting ready together.
Speaker 3: Becca was on makeup duty, Margam was doing everybody's hair.
Speaker 3: I was like, this is so cute.
Speaker 2: It was really cute. And then later on Saturday night,
Speaker 2: we met up with the guys because Carson alex fiance
Speaker 2: did his bachelor party there, so we met up with
Speaker 2: them at the bar and it was fun. The vibes
Speaker 2: were high, and then we brought them back and then
Speaker 2: we were like, they're eating all of our food, they're
Speaker 2: drinking our drinks like they're like pens and we need
Speaker 2: them out of the Barbie House. They were trying to
Speaker 2: make the.
Speaker 3: Like this is not a Barbie stream House anymore. It's
Speaker 3: getting weird here.
Speaker 2: And we were like, we were like, we gotta y'all
Speaker 2: gotta go, and we played I'm just Ken on their
Speaker 2: exit walk. Yeah, it was really funny.
Speaker 1: I asked, someone who's never been to a bachelorette party before,
Speaker 1: what was the level of debauchery at this one? Like,
Speaker 1: oh wow, hi, no, hi, Hi.
Speaker 2: For me, it would be high for you. But like
Speaker 2: compared to other bachelor and Bachelor parties, it wasn't that
Speaker 2: Saturday night I got pretty crazy, but did Friday.
Speaker 3: We're taking shots like it was like.
Speaker 2: I know, but we didn't have like strippers, you know what.
Speaker 1: Penis hats and penis.
Speaker 3: There was penis confetti. That was it. Yeah, we didn't.
Speaker 2: Do Ali didn't want a lot of like penis stuff.
Speaker 2: We did make her do like a blow drop shot,
Speaker 2: which she failed at.
Speaker 3: Yeah I didn't even do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's because it was in a champagne flute.
Speaker 3: That was hard.
Speaker 2: But a professional could.
Speaker 3: Really I touch you, I take that down, no problem.
Speaker 2: But yeah, it wasn't like, you know, we didn't have
Speaker 2: like alcohol.
Speaker 1: It was very debauchous in that sense.
Speaker 2: Let's just say I myself was l I v E
Speaker 2: no what ig and I didn't sleep much like the
Speaker 2: first night, and these girls get up early and they're like,
Speaker 2: let's put our ankle weights on and go on a
Speaker 2: walk in a while.
Speaker 3: The best part is is like Friday and night. The
Speaker 3: problem with me when I get drunk is I just
Speaker 3: get really tired, especially on a Friday. I'm like done
Speaker 3: from the week. And we were like playing some game
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's called like Girls Like Us
Speaker 3: or something some girly like a card card game. And
Speaker 3: I was like laying on the catch next to Jojo
Speaker 3: and I was like, I'm just gonna close my eyes
Speaker 3: really quick, like I'm gonna like wake me up when
Speaker 3: it's my turn. So I was like basically passed out
Speaker 3: and then back up when it's because I didn't want
Speaker 3: Allie to see I was falling asleep, so I was
Speaker 3: like just me, just like hit me, it's my turn.
Speaker 3: So I'm like basically passed out, and then somehow the
Speaker 3: game heads up gets brought out and I'm like back
Speaker 3: to life, like I'm I'm back to life and thriving
Speaker 3: again until one thirty am. Yeah, and then that's when
Speaker 3: I passed out. But okay, back when I got room together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but wait, hold on, let's got back to the game.
Speaker 2: Because remember when episodes episodes ago, Tanya said, I'm not competitive.
Speaker 3: I do you remember that?
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Heads up brings out a
Speaker 2: competitive side of Donya.
Speaker 3: She was but competitive with myself. I have a title.
Speaker 3: You were competitive with me because the title at nine.
Speaker 3: Then Becca somehow got nine, but still I was still
Speaker 3: the first one to get nine. So I was still.
Speaker 1: Winning and was a category.
Speaker 3: It was like pop culture or something. And then I
Speaker 3: could not go to sleep until I hit ten. Until
Speaker 3: I got ten.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, and.
Speaker 3: Go yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2: She was very upset when I tied her at night.
Speaker 1: As a guesser, yes, because a lot of the onus
Speaker 1: is on the givers.
Speaker 3: Yes, as a guesser, but the guesser should get the credit.
Speaker 1: I agreed. But if the giver sucks, you're not getting ten.
Speaker 3: You have a lot of givers and only one guess, right,
Speaker 3: that's true.
Speaker 2: You know you get the givers and got the takers exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So okay, so yeah, we were rooming together, so cute,
Speaker 2: so cute.
Speaker 3: I miss rooming together.
Speaker 2: When have we roomed together?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: My god, Like, when have we've been on a trip
Speaker 2: in like years.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, in years. But like, we did
Speaker 3: Hawaii together. We did Ashley and Jared's wedding. We stayed together.
Speaker 2: It was really fun. And Hawaii it was really fun.
Speaker 3: Countless several other just.
Speaker 2: To give yours. Those were twenty nineteen.
Speaker 1: Well you were together at that wedding recently, but that
Speaker 1: was the wedding.
Speaker 2: But we have our we have our partners with us
Speaker 2: on those.
Speaker 3: So yeah, we're not quite like bed sharing, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah we shared a bed. Yeah, but we weren't in
Speaker 2: there there much. I wasn't get many hours in that unfortunately.
Speaker 3: But it felt comforting to know that you were sleeping
Speaker 3: next to me. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was very quiet. Huh. She didn't even hear me
Speaker 2: come in the second. I was three am, so I
Speaker 2: was quiet as a mouse.
Speaker 3: I was so nauseous. I was passed out both nights.
Speaker 2: I literally passed out, like what Tanya looks like when
Speaker 2: she's sleeping. It was it was like scary.
Speaker 1: Is the better worse than the picture we was haw
Speaker 1: last week that inspired her full makeover.
Speaker 2: Oh I did take a picture.
Speaker 1: Oh yes it was.
Speaker 2: I was gonna do a demonstration. My arms were corpse
Speaker 2: and one leg was out of the covers, and she
Speaker 2: was sleeping in like flannel Robbie face. It was her
Speaker 2: and Robbie's face on the pajamas. And then she would
Speaker 2: be like, it's so hot, and I'm like, you're in
Speaker 2: flannel like this weird material long sleeve and pants. You know,
Speaker 2: I'm in like a D shirt underwear.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm good and mind you. When I sleep,
Speaker 3: I'm a stomach sleeper, so I usually like lay on
Speaker 3: my my face is flat in the bed like I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 3: so bad for you. That's how I normally sleep. I
Speaker 3: was so ill I thought I was gonna like I
Speaker 3: literally thought I was gonna regurgitate whatever was going on, like,
Speaker 3: and so I had to lay flat like a corpse
Speaker 3: on my back and I couldn't move otherwise I thought
Speaker 3: something might happen. So that's I guess how I fell asleep,
Speaker 3: and that is how.
Speaker 2: You fell asleep. But then because she goes, oh, my
Speaker 2: pillow sells like noldew, I'm gonna throw in it. I can't,
Speaker 2: like I can't on my face, And I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: just fall asleep on your back. I wake up in
Speaker 2: the morning and I look over to my right and
Speaker 2: Tanya looks like she's like in the mattress. She's so
Speaker 2: deep on her stomach into the mattress. She had lost
Speaker 2: side of the millsy smell and found her comfort.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, dang, she's sleeping so hard, you know
Speaker 2: when you're And then Tanya gets up and goes to
Speaker 2: breakfast and Jojo comes in and she's like, just ton,
Speaker 2: you have toothpaste in here. And she goes to brush
Speaker 2: your teeth and she was like, did you poop in here?
Speaker 2: And I was like no, I was like, but Tanya
Speaker 2: was just She's like, I gotta I'm gonna throw up.
Speaker 3: So then the normal to go poop in the bathroom.
Speaker 1: Then weird for Joji to call you out on that.
Speaker 2: Oh well, well, I think she was asking.
Speaker 1: Me your private bathroom exactly.
Speaker 2: She was trying to blame me for that smell. And
Speaker 2: I said, that is not.
Speaker 3: Me, thank you. Yeah, there you want me to do it.
Speaker 3: It's not like I was like farting in the room.
Speaker 3: Like I went to the bathroom. I went to the bathroom,
Speaker 3: and the yeah, JoJo's fletcher.
Speaker 2: And then the next day yesterday when we were leaving Tanya.
Speaker 2: The thing is she shuts the door so it gets
Speaker 2: like trapped, and that's the problem. So I walked in
Speaker 2: there from.
Speaker 3: Coming into the room.
Speaker 1: There, though ideally you open a window shut, there was
Speaker 1: no window fan fan.
Speaker 2: There was some spray that she could have that makes
Speaker 2: it worse.
Speaker 3: Okay, So I don't like endo crime disruptors. I'm not
Speaker 3: an endocrime disruptor fan. So I think poop smell is
Speaker 3: more natural than any sort of POOPAI that you're going
Speaker 3: to be spraying in the bathroom, better for your health
Speaker 3: than the spray.
Speaker 2: I should get to choose that. I'm also jealous that,
Speaker 2: like in the morning, you're just like ready to go.
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was hard for that. Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 2: was proud. Also, you know what Tanya was, So I
Speaker 2: have to compliment you because I really felt seen and
Speaker 2: validated as I was eating just like donut hole after
Speaker 2: donut hole and cinnamon rolls. That Tanya was also indulging
Speaker 2: in the sweet treats of life with me because she normally.
Speaker 3: Is just like almonds, yeah, apples, that's like my go
Speaker 3: to snack. This weekend it was cinnamon rolls and not
Speaker 3: didn eat the pizza. Oh but what else they eat?
Speaker 3: Cimon rolls? Uh, donut holes? Yeah, calls.
Speaker 2: It was so fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fun to be but yeah, it was a
Speaker 2: very fun girls weekend. We had a great time in
Speaker 2: a new bff who Kate oh Kayln Carter? Yes, who
Speaker 2: we love.
Speaker 3: Love We like literally hit it off the first night.
Speaker 3: We talked for like four hours.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they were chit chatting. What made y'all hit it
Speaker 2: off so well?
Speaker 3: She is a step parent, Uh and I am as well,
Speaker 3: And there's just this like bond. It just bonds you
Speaker 3: just parallel. It's just parallel, you know, like the parallel
Speaker 3: life situation. Nobody gets it unless they're in it. And
Speaker 3: then when somebody's in it and you can chat about it,
Speaker 3: it's like yes, Yeah.
Speaker 2: It's so interesting that when you go through something specific,
Speaker 2: if it's like considered a hardship or like a challenger
Speaker 2: or change in life, when you meet someone that maybe
Speaker 2: you never would have been able to relate to otherwise,
Speaker 2: you have this thing that bonds you in a way
Speaker 2: that it's like an instant connection.
Speaker 3: Yeah. We had literally an instant connection.
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, and we played never have I ever in
Speaker 2: the pool.
Speaker 3: Every single girl. I was shocked.
Speaker 2: What do you mean in there? Yeah, I mean the jacuzzi.
Speaker 2: Everyone fit in the dracuzzi and we played uh, never
Speaker 2: have I ever had?
Speaker 3: But then then next day I'm like pretty sure I
Speaker 3: got a uti, so I know it's like I party
Speaker 3: so hard and then my body's just like no, no, no,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, yes, it's yes. I know. That's why
Speaker 3: they go in the next day because I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: you can't make it worse.
Speaker 2: Tanya also brought her puffer vest to the desert put
Speaker 2: it on over her cocktail dress.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. It never.
Speaker 2: I never don't see you, never not seeing Tanya in
Speaker 2: a puffer.
Speaker 3: Because you know what the problem is in the desert.
Speaker 3: It's so hot outside, but they make the inside so
Speaker 3: cold everywhere that it's like you can't even wear a
Speaker 3: dress inside because it's so icicle in there. I don't
Speaker 3: know how you guys are like walking around in like dresses.
Speaker 3: I think the liquor like Antarctica in there.
Speaker 2: One fireball shot, you'd warm up.
Speaker 3: Did Ali have the best time ever?
Speaker 2: Ali's in depression, you know, like when posts what's it
Speaker 2: called like post vacation blues. She's in post bachelorette blues.
Speaker 3: Right, because like she's never gonna have that ever again.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I didn't tell her that she has
Speaker 2: the wedding right right, right, but then it's gonna be right,
Speaker 2: we're going to Spain c. Yeah, I'm gonna miss you,
Speaker 2: so we do have that. I think the post of
Speaker 2: wedding blues are gonna be We're gonna maybe check in
Speaker 2: on her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, hm, let's get.
Speaker 2: To you now, sure were you?
Speaker 3: Was I taking notes at the h Okay?
Speaker 2: But what about So?
Speaker 3: I love I love, I love girls, so like to me,
Speaker 3: reminded me of sorority days and I like lived in
Speaker 3: a house with fifty six girls and everyone's you know
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like that was the vibe and I
Speaker 3: love that. I don't know, it's like so, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I definitely want like pin the tail on the rain,
Speaker 3: the pin the penis on the Robbie, Like I want.
Speaker 2: That type of stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely want a lot more peenie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know she loves the penie.
Speaker 3: I love a peenie. That's pretty much all the notes
Speaker 3: I got. And then and then you just like on fire.
Speaker 2: Just like content left and right, not.
Speaker 3: Even content, but like high vibes.
Speaker 2: Well, I told I was told that my job was
Speaker 2: to keep the vibes high.
Speaker 3: So that was your only job.
Speaker 2: That was my main job.
Speaker 3: You kept him high?
Speaker 2: Thank you. Yeah, and I'm paying for it today.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we're all paying for it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's different to recover from these weekends in your
Speaker 2: mid thirties.
Speaker 4: Damn.
Speaker 3: That's my other thing too, is I'm like, it's so fun,
Speaker 3: drinking is so fun when you're in it, and then
Speaker 3: after it just feels so painful that I'm like, I
Speaker 3: don't know if I can do two full days of
Speaker 3: drinking ever again. Like I don't think I want to
Speaker 3: drink ever again.
Speaker 2: Yeah everyone said that, but mark this.
Speaker 3: Podcast, this is my last time drinking, okay, of my life.
Speaker 1: That's not true. March twenty fifth, but you know that's
Speaker 1: not true.
Speaker 2: We'll look back on this until my wedding date. For
Speaker 2: that you don't even know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, until my wedding. I will not be drinking in
Speaker 3: your back or wedding festivities.
Speaker 1: You mean drinking two excess, right, because you're going to.
Speaker 3: Have drinks, right, drink shots.
Speaker 1: No shots shots until my wedding. Okay, I mean that's
Speaker 1: maybe possible.
Speaker 3: You heard it here first.
Speaker 2: I don't think anyone believes you, but we like the effort.
Speaker 3: No shots till my wedding. I can definitely do that.
Speaker 2: When is that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, pretty ripped without shots though, can't you know?
Speaker 1: I mean those are mandatory.
Speaker 4: When you.
Speaker 3: Get it.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, you're saying.
Speaker 3: Yeah. The problem is I was mixing a lot of
Speaker 3: stuff this weekend. It was like and champagne and sprits
Speaker 3: and like it was kind of all over the place.
Speaker 3: I think that a fireball. I think that I did.
Speaker 3: So I mix a lot of stuff, which I think
Speaker 3: is like the big no no I took.
Speaker 2: I took this like vitamin shot or something before I
Speaker 2: started drinking, and so I had no hangover. I just
Speaker 2: was exhausted.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was.
Speaker 2: A good time. Not something I could do weekly. I
Speaker 2: do have Haley's birthday coming up this weekend, so oh
Speaker 2: my God, send thoughts and prayers, teas and peas.
Speaker 3: I know, you know what I was actually gonna add.
Speaker 3: I wanted to do like, well, I'll figure it out
Speaker 3: a different day. What I was gonna do like a
Speaker 3: cute shabat dinner and invite my little bridesmaids over. When's
Speaker 3: that Friday here? It's gonna have to be postponed.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna have to do a postponed Shabbat.
Speaker 3: Yeah. The good thing was Shabbat is it comes every Friday.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I would love to join, but I've never
Speaker 2: been to one.
Speaker 3: So cute.
Speaker 2: I love that I want to talk about. There was
Speaker 2: this TikTok that was like, girls, tell me the craziest
Speaker 2: thing you've ever done in a relationship, or.
Speaker 1: Just like these are really good.
Speaker 2: It is one of my favorite comment sections I've ever seen.
Speaker 2: And you know, Tanya has some that she can add
Speaker 2: to this list. So we're gonna take a break and we'll.
Speaker 3: Be say it worked.
Speaker 2: All right, we are back. So the TikTok was it says,
Speaker 2: I want all the girls to comment the craziest thing
Speaker 2: you've done, because I want to see if I'm really
Speaker 2: that crazy. And it was the most beautiful comment section
Speaker 2: I think I've ever seen of just absolute unhinged behavior.
Speaker 1: Usually because you've been wrong by him, or since you've
Speaker 1: been wronged by him and what you've done in response, or.
Speaker 2: You're just mad you're better. Someone said all valid. Okay,
Speaker 2: let you after we read a few of these, got
Speaker 2: a job at his company, climb the corporate ladder, and
Speaker 2: then fired him.
Speaker 3: That's epic, so epic.
Speaker 1: That's the long game, playing the long game.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I also feel was a little unnecessary, but she.
Speaker 2: Had a vision. My ex cheated on me, so I
Speaker 2: convinced him to get matching tattoos and then broke up
Speaker 2: with him before I got mine.
Speaker 3: And that feels.
Speaker 1: That's good.
Speaker 2: That's a long game too, that's permanent game. Put gorilla
Speaker 2: glue in his hair, jel, that's pretty dirty. And then
Speaker 2: the comment section was like, this comment section is like
Speaker 2: a vision board, like you, you and your trigger.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did some pretty wild things.
Speaker 2: You would have been taking notes on.
Speaker 3: This, Oh my gosh, notes with permanent sharpies.
Speaker 2: Revisit that time.
Speaker 3: What did I do? Okay? One of the things I
Speaker 3: did was Robbie's like a big ice man. Sorry that
Speaker 3: sounds so weird. He likes the snow, he loves he
Speaker 3: loves the snow. He's like a snow bunny.
Speaker 1: What you're saying?
Speaker 3: A big iceman and and a friend of mine, Torri
Speaker 3: MARLDI shout out. She's definitely definitely a girl's girl, because
Speaker 3: I saw that she was in the snow ice queen,
Speaker 3: and I go, where are you? She said, I'm a
Speaker 3: big bear. And I said can you help me with something?
Speaker 3: And she said, sure, whatever you need. And I said,
Speaker 3: can you write my initials in the snow and send
Speaker 3: me a picture of it? So she does. I posted
Speaker 3: to my story, knowing it would get my iceman's attention. Meanwhile,
Speaker 3: we're not talking at this time, y'all are no contact,
Speaker 3: no contact at this point. So I posted in my
Speaker 3: stories my little t r in the snow with little boots,
Speaker 3: you know, so there, So he thinks I'm there, and
Speaker 3: guess what, It freaking worked and he sent me a message,
Speaker 3: where are you?
Speaker 2: Iceman?
Speaker 3: Iceman took the bag and guess what I did?
Speaker 1: Ignored it.
Speaker 3: I didn't open it.
Speaker 2: Oh no, the move would have been to open it
Speaker 2: and just no respond.
Speaker 3: No, because what I did at the time I discovered
Speaker 3: I don't think you could do it with Instagram anymore.
Speaker 3: But actually Paulina had discovered it for me. There was
Speaker 3: a way in which you could check your dms without
Speaker 3: them seeing you, like put it on airplane mode, check
Speaker 3: the DM and then get out of the DM and
Speaker 3: then take it off airplane mode and it.
Speaker 2: Shows this is great a great hack.
Speaker 3: It is a great hack. But I don't think you
Speaker 3: could do it anymore because somebody recently was asking me
Speaker 3: and I tried to do it, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's not working. But at the time
Speaker 3: it worked, and so I was able to read all
Speaker 3: of his messages, but it looked like I didn't even
Speaker 3: open any of them. Did really cut deep? Okay, so
Speaker 3: I didn't quit.
Speaker 2: The trigger happened early December, right mid December, mid December,
Speaker 2: the week or two before Christmas. So when did the
Speaker 2: iceman come back?
Speaker 4: When?
Speaker 3: It was like right after the New year?
Speaker 2: Okay? So January?
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, January.
Speaker 2: So there was another time also, I mean, mind, dude,
Speaker 2: this was going on. Tonya would go, should I put
Speaker 2: on like a hot outfit? So it's like a mirror
Speaker 2: picture even though I'm like not saying at home and
Speaker 2: doing and I'm like, sure, didn't. I mean, she did
Speaker 2: do it a lot, and I finally had to go,
Speaker 2: you know, Tanya, I think it's time to stop this behavior.
Speaker 2: Get rid. Then it train kept going. The train kept
Speaker 2: going chew choo. Because what you do next.
Speaker 3: Got Robert Graham to my ex boyfriend. Yeah, brought him
Speaker 3: over to my apartment, put his shoes right up on
Speaker 3: my coffee table, snapped a photo of my feet in
Speaker 3: his feet watching something.
Speaker 2: No, but the first one was he was on zoom
Speaker 2: y'all were zooming or facetiming, and you had him say
Speaker 2: you filmed the story and you had him say like, oh,
Speaker 2: it is the Postmates here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, man's boy. I wanted a man's voice
Speaker 3: in the background.
Speaker 2: That didn't get his attention. I don't think though the
Speaker 2: boys man.
Speaker 3: No, the ice definitely got it, but the man, the
Speaker 3: other man, Robert Graham, didn't get the attention. It didn't
Speaker 3: get anything because obviously, what's he in a comment with
Speaker 3: like another guy there. But after we got back together,
Speaker 3: he did tell me that he thought I was dating somebody. Wow.
Speaker 1: You know what.
Speaker 2: The main thing that didn't even involve your crazy.
Speaker 3: Right, It was just like me being my natural, amazing self.
Speaker 3: The orange dress, my orange dress, that's and then yes,
Speaker 3: it was my orange dress that I wore to the
Speaker 3: Golden Globes that year. I posted a picture and he
Speaker 3: commented something like you look so beautiful, like like a
Speaker 3: very long message your your essence is shining through or
Speaker 3: something like that. And I was so tired because I
Speaker 3: hadn't slept that night and I was feeling vulnerable, and
Speaker 3: so guess what I did. I read it and I replied,
Speaker 3: and that's when it all started again.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, so nicely.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then he responded within seconds where because he
Speaker 3: had also he had also DM me on Valentine's Day,
Speaker 3: he also sent me a message on a very long
Speaker 3: message on Valentine's Day that I also did not open.
Speaker 2: Oh and you didn't say anything on his birthday because
Speaker 2: you remember we all went to you with Ashley and.
Speaker 3: Jade yep, and I was going to send him a
Speaker 3: birthday cake and everyone's like, why are you going to
Speaker 3: set him a birthday cake? This guy broke up with you,
Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, I'm not going to do anything,
Speaker 3: but you were upset. I was upset, not really about him. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: I hurt him.
Speaker 1: I you a couple other ones that I think are
Speaker 1: good on here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what are your favorites?
Speaker 3: That crazy? When you like, look at this stuff, right.
Speaker 1: No, compared to some of these. Now, I was still
Speaker 1: lugged into my excess emails, so I started deleting almost
Speaker 1: completed assignments on his Google Drive. That is dark's dark,
Speaker 1: that's dark.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: We broke up and he uninvited me to a group
Speaker 1: trip I was included in, so I contacted the Airbnb
Speaker 1: host and had their whole reservation canceled.
Speaker 2: That's a good one.
Speaker 3: That is a good one.
Speaker 1: After I caught him cheating, I called the airline and
Speaker 1: canceled his family's trip to Europe and used his car
Speaker 1: to pay the cancelation fee. Wow. Once I saw he
Speaker 1: was texting girls on his phone, so did a factory resets.
Speaker 1: We lost all of his contacts.
Speaker 2: That's so smart.
Speaker 3: You kind of deserved that up your cheatings.
Speaker 1: This is statistic. This would drive me insane. I sefrayed
Speaker 1: milk on this guy's bathroom walls, so it started to smell,
Speaker 1: but he could never find it. I liked that one
Speaker 1: milk when it starts to stink after a while and
Speaker 1: you'd be looking everywhere where is this gross smell coming from?
Speaker 3: That's genius Actually keeping that in my back pocket.
Speaker 1: And finally I found out he cheated after fifteen years.
Speaker 1: He thought we were refinancing our house, so he filled
Speaker 1: out the DOCU sign turns out that document was to
Speaker 1: take his name off the house and he had to
Speaker 1: move out.
Speaker 2: That that is something to put in your back pocket. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and that's also reminder read your docu signs.
Speaker 3: Yea, seriously, Wow?
Speaker 1: Anything else? What about the big Arizona Guy? Anything there?
Speaker 1: Any uh revenge?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Did you do anything crazy with it? I didn't know
Speaker 2: you at that.
Speaker 1: Time, doctor Chicago, But I don't remember the other names
Speaker 1: because I think the.
Speaker 3: Thing is when everything ended, Arizona Guy just like crushed
Speaker 3: me out. Was just like so sad that I didn't
Speaker 3: really do anything like that because I didn't really I
Speaker 3: didn't want to get back together with him and every
Speaker 3: other guy. I don't think I ever did anything like
Speaker 3: that other than just look like super hot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that's the best revenge.
Speaker 3: That's the best revenge. Yeah, because real the other ones.
Speaker 2: I was like, Robbie's attention, Sure, you're just looking super
Speaker 2: hot is what got him clicking the keyboard in the teats.
Speaker 2: Oh that's not what I meant. But I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't know what that means, but click in the teeth.
Speaker 1: Well, we have a title Easton episode in the teeth.
Speaker 3: Doesna makes sense?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I don't know that you.
Speaker 1: Would say.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the torrid m though, was so desperate.
Speaker 1: YEA toy is always in service you need.
Speaker 3: And like I knew it, Like I knew it when
Speaker 3: I asked for it, I knew it would elicit some
Speaker 3: sort of reaction from him, you know, like snowman wants
Speaker 3: loves his snow. They knew that was going to get him.
Speaker 2: Snowman loves his snow, loves the snow Iceman. I think
Speaker 2: that's all for today.
Speaker 3: That's all, folks.
Speaker 2: Unfortunately our time has come to an end.
Speaker 3: Yes, but we'll be back on Thursday. I will be
Speaker 3: back on.
Speaker 2: I will not, but Tanya will be mm hmm with
Speaker 2: Jason Tartick talking money to me, Talk money to me. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So that will air Thursday, and you'll quite enjoy it.
Speaker 3: From what I've heard, I think so. I think it's
Speaker 3: a good episode.
Speaker 2: It's a great episode, and there's some fun old school
Speaker 2: Tanya Jason stuff that comes up bts.
Speaker 3: From when we when uh we try to get set
Speaker 3: up or I don't really know exactly what it was
Speaker 3: going on the episode.
Speaker 2: Yeah, in form that one.
Speaker 1: Also, I've never heard.
Speaker 3: Someone tune in for that one. It's your podcast, Yeah,
Speaker 3: If you're not downloading it, how do we expect anybody
Speaker 3: else to?
Speaker 2: It's always downloaded. I'm subscribed.
Speaker 3: Oh nice, but I will listen. H reminder. Please ask
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Speaker 3: Bye bye