1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: Welcome back. That's our happy our listeners. If you tuned 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: in last week, you now know we had our next Bachelorette, 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: Claire Crowley on the podcast, and she spoke so much 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: truth you guys. We obviously had so much to talk 5 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: to her about. So here is part two of that conversation. 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: Right now, I feel like, Becca, this is the perfect 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: time for us to give you advice Claire, because I 8 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: don't know. I know that now you know some more 9 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: details about your season, but I don't know if we're 10 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: usually bachelorettes come on the season you know and give advice. 11 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's going to be able to happen. 12 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 1: So I think now is a good time where we 13 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: give you some advice. I would love you kidding me. 14 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: I've been waiting for this moment. I would love it. Well, Claire, 15 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: this wasn't planned in the podcast, but right before you 16 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 1: hopped on, I did a little digging in a bunch 17 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: of boxes in my apartment and I found the Bachelor 18 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: Bible that Rachel, Caitlin and Joejoe made for me. I 19 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: met them one before I met my guys, and they 20 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: gave me the Batchelor, a bible they have some great 21 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: things written in here, so we'll go through them. But 22 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: I also I think we need to add our own 23 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 1: and like write some more stuff and then I'll send 24 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: it to you. But this was so good to carry 25 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: on and pass down. Yeah, I don't know why we 26 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: didn't give it to Hannah. I blame you because you 27 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: had it and you didn't give it to Hannah. Hey, okay, 28 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna blame it on my mom then, because it 29 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: was in her basement for the past two years and 30 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: she just send this to me. Claire's like, I'll take it. 31 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: That's fine. I could just through Like it's fine. No, 32 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: I mean, truth be told, it was an idea that 33 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: started with your season. Becca. We didn't have it before, 34 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: so it was an idea with you. We can make 35 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: Hannah one so she has one too, and so she 36 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: feels included. But we should get it, you know, pass 37 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 1: it on down to Claire. If I don't remember what 38 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: I wrote, and I hope it's not the same information 39 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: that the advice that I'm about to give you off 40 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: the top of my head now, Claire. But the thing, 41 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: the thing that stands out to me the most is 42 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: I thought, obviously never been the beast wrap. But I 43 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: just thought I had this down, Like I was like, 44 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: I know who I am. I got this, you know, 45 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 1: I know what I want. I know the type of 46 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: man I want. I know what I'm looking for. You know, 47 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: I'll meet these guys, but whatever. And I remember the 48 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: first night, which is Claire I was. I said the 49 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: same thing to you, Becca. I was like, this night 50 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: is so, it's so exciting, Claire, you have no I 51 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: could cry talking about the first night because I know 52 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: that joy, the joy you're gonna feel getting ready and 53 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: knowing that however many men come, there are there for you, 54 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: right reasons, wrong reasons, forget it. It's your season, you're 55 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: in charge. They came to be a part of your journey. 56 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: It is powerful, every emotions, it's all of it. But 57 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: that first night I remember and they come up in 58 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: the limo. You're standing there, Chris like leaves you and 59 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: it's just you. And I remember meeting the guys and 60 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: I had gone through all of the women, and I 61 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: was like, this is it worth the rest? I was 62 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,519 Speaker 1: so it was, And honestly because not because they were 63 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: bad guys, because I overall loved the group of men 64 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: that I had it was just it happened so fast, 65 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: and people are doing silly things when they come out 66 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: of the limo that I wasn't overall impressed. And I 67 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: remember a producer pulling me to the side. They were like, 68 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: you know, you do you have some favorites. I couldn't 69 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: name favorites. I wasn't. I just it just didn't hit 70 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: me the way that I thought all that emotion I 71 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: had coming in. So I remember a producer said to me, 72 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: give it time and be open because there really are 73 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: some great men. And that was the best advice I 74 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: could get because after the limo interests and then I 75 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: was talking to the men. It was amazing. After that, 76 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: I was like, I like this one, this one, this one, 77 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: this one and this one, and so if I could 78 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 1: give you advices, it's like you think you know that 79 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 1: you have no idea, So truly be open to everybody 80 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: that comes through, because you will be beautifully surprised at 81 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: the men that you meet on your season. M oh b, 82 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: I am. I feel like that's amazing advice. Thank you, 83 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for saying that, because it is 84 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: scary going what if my guy's not there? You know, like, 85 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: what if there's so many things that go through your mind, 86 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: you know, if like m damn, or what if I 87 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 1: don't feel it right away or so I appreciate that. Oh, 88 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: but the joy of the first night, I just can't 89 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: put it into words for you, Claire. It's so much fun. 90 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: It's so great it is, and as Rachel said, it 91 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: goes by so incredibly fast, Like I like, because I 92 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: think I had twenty eight guys maybe, And as Rachel said, 93 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: you're like, that's it, like the arrivals are already done, 94 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: and then you go into something else and you're being 95 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: like pulled every which way. But it's that anticipation that 96 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: like you have so much to look forward to. I 97 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: think play on top of what Rachel said, too, is 98 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: like there's no other time in your life where you 99 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,679 Speaker 1: will meet this many guys at once, like all vying 100 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: for you and your attention. And I look at first 101 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: felt awkward. I was like I don't deserve this, like 102 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm not worthy. Like it was very weird because it's 103 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: like you want to be humble, you want to stay grounded. 104 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: But then also too, it's like, damn, like these twenty 105 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: eight men are here for me, so let me just say, 106 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: especially night one. Don't like soak that in revel in 107 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: that like appreciate the fact that, as Rachel said, all 108 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: of these men, well, hopefully they've done their homework. If 109 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: they haven't, I mean, by but all of these men 110 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: should hopefully know by now who Claire Crawley is. They 111 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 1: should want to have the opportunity and the privilege to 112 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 1: have your time and your conversations and get to know you. 113 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: And vice verst to two. As like, I'm playing off 114 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: of everything that Rachel said, but I mean, for me, 115 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, pretty like I feel it. If I like you, 116 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: I like you. If I don't, I don't. And so 117 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: I for me, really had to take a step back 118 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: and be like, maybe talk to these guys a little 119 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: bit more. Maybe talk to somebody who you kind of 120 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: just wrote off because you thought he was like the goofy, 121 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: funny one. Because you will always be surprised. There's going 122 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: to be one moment in time where your brain's going 123 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: to click to somebody else and you're gonna be like, 124 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,799 Speaker 1: I didn't see that in this man in the beginning, 125 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: and I'm really pleasantly surprised, and it's you know, and 126 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 1: not to say he might not be the one, but 127 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: there's something so powerful and special about exhausting each and 128 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: every relationship to the very end. I mean, and you're 129 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 1: you're going to exhaust a lot of them in a 130 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: very short amount of time. One other thing too, that 131 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:42,919 Speaker 1: I I've heard this from a lot of the past, 132 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: leads to is make time for yourself. You're going to 133 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 1: be going like crazy. You are going to be constantly 134 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,239 Speaker 1: having conversations, You're gonna be constantly in interviews. You're gonna 135 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: be bust from place to place and between men to 136 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: men and in fittings and all of this. There's so 137 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 1: much craziness in chaos that you really don't have a 138 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: lot of time for yourself, especially in the beginning weeks. 139 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: So even if it's fifteen minutes, like pretend you have 140 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom you don't feel good, Take 141 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes, just hide away, keep a journal if you can. 142 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: But you need that alone time to really sift and 143 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: think on your own and so utilize that whenever you can. 144 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: It's gonna be very important for your sammy be you know. 145 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: You know what's funny is I'm very much. I always 146 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: tell people I'm kind if I like, I'm an introvert 147 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: in the way where I need my own time to recharge. 148 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: So I think that is going to be key. And 149 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: that's excellent advice because I already need that in life 150 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: as it is right now, and I like my alone 151 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: time and I appreciate that's where I recharge. So I 152 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: definitely will be trying to fit in as much as 153 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: I can of that. Yeah, now you have to like 154 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: plane flights, car rides. I mean I pretended to, like 155 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: I had to go poop like every hour just because 156 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: I needed alone time. Okay, that might be t and 157 00:07:56,520 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: I but I needed to just like sit, whatever it takes, whatever, 158 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: saying her makeup like whenever you're doing that too. To 159 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: add on to that, this is something Ali told me 160 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: which I loved, was she said that she regretted not 161 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: enjoying her season, not taking the time to its one thing, 162 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: to take time for yourself and you need that, like 163 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: Becca was saying, everything she said is true, but also 164 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: taking the time to appreciate the moment of things, because 165 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: like Becca said, you'll be pulled in so many different ways, 166 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: and you go to bed late and you get up early, 167 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: and you have to do all these itms, and then 168 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: you're trying to remember names and stories and backgrounds, and 169 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,319 Speaker 1: then there's some guys you're just not interested in that. 170 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 1: You get caught up in the present and then you 171 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: don't appreciate what's actually happening. Like you're the bachelorette and 172 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 1: it's a beautiful experience and you're having this chance to 173 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: write your love story and remember that, remember those moments 174 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: like when you're taking that time to reflect, remember that 175 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: time to be grateful and to appreciate the present because 176 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: it goes so fast. It's in the blink of an eye. 177 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: It's so fast. You another one so excited for it. 178 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 1: It literally hasn't, like I said, it hasn't felt real 179 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: up until these last couple of days where I'm like, Okay, 180 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: it's really happening, and it's happening soon. So I already 181 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: was in the moment of like go go, go, go 182 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: go before the quarantine happened. So you're right, You're absolutely right. 183 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: I need to slow down and live in the moment, 184 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: because when else do we get to experience this and 185 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: live it. You know, you are one of now, well 186 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: one of fifteen other women who get to be in 187 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,680 Speaker 1: this position, like that's such a small feel few. I 188 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: cannot talk right now. That's such a small few. And 189 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: just as we're just said, live in it, soak it in, 190 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: appreciate it because it's gonna go by fast. Like I'm 191 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: two years removed now, and I still like, look back. 192 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: I kept a journal and I reread little moments for 193 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: little details. It's just a word that I I kept 194 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: in my journal, and I'm like, oh my gosh, it 195 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: takes me back to that moment to kind of be 196 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: there and remember it and embrace it and love it 197 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: because you're in for a journey, Claire. One other thing 198 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: that I think we have to say, which the producers 199 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 1: are awesome at, always keeping on hand breath mints are key. 200 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 1: Listening strips will be your best friend. You never know 201 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 1: when someone's going to show up to your hotel room 202 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: at like two in the morning to have a conversation. 203 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: You never know when some guy's going to steal you 204 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,320 Speaker 1: away to kiss you behind the fireplace. I mean, you've 205 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 1: been on the show, You've done a few seasons, so 206 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: you know. I think I kept like listening and my 207 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: brow at one point just to be like I have 208 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: it on hand. Oh I swear to God. If a 209 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: guy shows up that my place to two in the 210 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: morning and I've only get four hours to sleep, you 211 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: better turn around and go home because late I need 212 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: my sleep. Yeah. Well, yeah, you're not going to get 213 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 1: much of it, especially those first three weeks. Yeah. Function, 214 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 1: How do you function through it? I'm coffee, coffee. I 215 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 1: don't drink alcohol. I need will Claire, not even alcohol. Well, 216 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: they don't really let you drink a lot of alcohol 217 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 1: as a lead, but no coffee. Will you do a 218 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: Red Bull? Nothing? No, I don't know. You know what 219 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 1: I do get is green tea from Starbucks, or I 220 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 1: get red Coca Classic Coca Cola. That'll hop me up. 221 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: That's perfect. They'll keep you stocked up with Coca Cola 222 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: on your off days to try to get an ivy 223 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: with just extra vitamins that will hopefully help nice. Okay, 224 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: good call CoA call. But but honestly too, I don't 225 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: even remember drinking a lot of coffee. The adrenaline, the 226 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: excitement of especially when you're going to see that one 227 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: guy you're really interested in, or a few whatever. Um, 228 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: that's gonna keep you going to like you're excited. Oh 229 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm putting on this outfit. This is super cute. Oh 230 00:11:46,679 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: I love my makeup in my hair today. Oh I'm 231 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 1: in this place. This date's gonna be really exciting. It'll 232 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: be little things like that that'll get you going, that 233 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 1: will make you excited. Yeah yeah, and oh my god, 234 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop with the advice, but another thing that 235 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: would help me with as far as energy, and you'll 236 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: get this right. I remember what it was like, and 237 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: I know you guys too, did too, when we were 238 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor and you're waiting for those ten minutes 239 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: at a cocktail party you could spend with the lead, 240 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: or you're on a group date and you just want 241 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 1: that alone time for ten to fifteen minutes, and you 242 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: remember that feeling. I remember thinking when I was the lead, 243 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: whenever I'm with somebody, I have to be present and 244 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: give them my full attention because I remember what it 245 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: was like to be waiting all day just to get 246 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: ten minutes with Nick in my case, So that also 247 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 1: kept me going because I want I never wanted to forget. 248 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 1: I never wanted to feel like I was too big. 249 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: Oh I'm the lead now, No, I was just like you, 250 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: and I want to honor that you're here for me 251 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: for whatever reason. Staying present. That's so key, that's so key. 252 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: I hear you on that. I'm definitely gonna work on 253 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 1: that because it can't be overwhelming, right like you and 254 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 1: it will for directions, will so be overwhelming. It will be, yeah, 255 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: so overwhelming. But you have a great team that will 256 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: be on your side too, who's always there to kind 257 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: of especially when at first, like I'm terrible with names 258 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 1: to begin with, and we all saw I forgot Jason 259 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:19,440 Speaker 1: same at one point. But the team really is there 260 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: to help you. Then another thing that really helps is 261 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: of course Chris Harrison. Lean on him when you can. 262 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:27,839 Speaker 1: I mean, he has seen it all. He has had 263 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: every type of conversation in the book. So lean on 264 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: him when you can. And also like the dream Team, 265 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:37,119 Speaker 1: I mean we talked to Carrie and Gina on the podcast. 266 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: For those of you who didn't tune in, we had 267 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: the stylists and the makeup artist from the show who 268 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 1: really are there to just like they became such friends, 269 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: such confidence. They're there there to like make you look 270 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 1: gorgeous and flawless, but there's so much more than that. 271 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: So lean on them too, because they kept me. Saying 272 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: kept me grounded, especially in the moments when I needed it, 273 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: when I felt like I didn't want to talk about 274 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,199 Speaker 1: anything in an interview or in front of the guys. 275 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,559 Speaker 1: So they're going to be good to help you too. 276 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 1: I already love them so incredibly much. Yeah, I've known 277 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: them the whole time, but just now in this space 278 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: even doing like the fittings and the makeup for all 279 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: the shoots and stuff. Already, like, I've just adore them, 280 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: and they you can tell, like you said, they're such 281 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 1: an a friend role and that dream team of like 282 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: we got you. You know that they're not trying to 283 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: produce anything that I'm trying to do it anything more 284 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 1: than to just be there for you. And so I 285 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: think that's amazing. If you could have one date on 286 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 1: your season, or one group date, what would it be? 287 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 1: One group dates the one I've always keep trying to 288 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: commence them of. I hope they do this so bad, 289 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: but I want so. I do snnet and cold plunge. 290 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard of Oh gosh, I've 291 00:14:55,680 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: done it, Okay, So I do cold plunges every single day, um, 292 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 1: and it is the thing that I just live for 293 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 1: and I joke as my friend because he's always like 294 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: the guy who I do it with, he's his studio. 295 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: He's always like, guys get in here and just jump 296 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: right out. And I the best thing I want from like, 297 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: I want them to do this. I want to put 298 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 1: him in speedos. I basically want to see because you know, 299 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: you know, if you've done it before. Those ice bafts 300 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 1: are not about the water being cold. It's about sitting 301 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: in the uncomfortable and how you handle uncomfortableness. So I 302 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: want to know what guys will sit in there and 303 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 1: stay in the uncomfortable, or what guys will jump out. 304 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: I want to see because I can stay in it 305 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: and it's built me a minute. It's taken me a 306 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: minute to build that up. But I want to see 307 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: if they will or can't. That's so funny, that's good, 308 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: step it up, that's good TV. Clear this is you 309 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: got to add on an extra layer to that. So 310 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 1: when they're in the cold water, in the uncomfortable, you 311 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: have to have whoever stays in it, who chooses to 312 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: make them share something uncomfortable with you. Oh I like that. 313 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:04,680 Speaker 1: Oh that's something deep down dirty love this. That's really 314 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 1: good Okay, So I know this is our podcast and 315 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: we usually do the questioning, but while we're here and 316 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: we're just in this space of sharing advice and you know, 317 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: like just lifting each other up, Claire, what advice do you? 318 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: Not advice? But is there anything that you want to 319 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 1: ask us, Like maybe that's been on your mind. I 320 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: know we have a sisterhood and we have our own 321 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: group chat with the bachelorettes, but maybe there's something that 322 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: you know it's been on your mind that you want 323 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: to take this chance to ask us. You guys have 324 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: actually covered a lot of it. This is more than 325 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: I've talked to any prayer bachelottes about kind of doing 326 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: the season and being honest, and you guys have been 327 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: given amazing advice. So for me, I'm more so actually 328 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 1: just want to thank you guys for doing that and 329 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: kind of being here for me because I think it's 330 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 1: an important thing that, like you guys have said before, 331 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 1: and we know that there's only fifteen women or sixteen 332 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: now women that have done this. It's not of people. 333 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 1: And I'm the one that share and the ones that 334 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 1: reach out and say this helped me or this is 335 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 1: a piece of advice I have appreciated that, and I 336 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 1: appreciate it that more than anything in the entire world, 337 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:13,159 Speaker 1: because it's kind of a weird space where not a 338 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: lot of people can understand it and relate to it. 339 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,640 Speaker 1: So thank you at least even reaching out and talking 340 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: to me and messaging me. It's it's kind of lifted 341 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 1: me up and made me feel encouraged. So oh so 342 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 1: I just want to say thank you for this stuff. 343 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:27,719 Speaker 1: And I'm sure you'll be getting texted me and being like, 344 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: what about this? What do I That's what we're here for. 345 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 1: That's what this is about. When you were saying when 346 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 1: you were when you were just talking, and thank you 347 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 1: for saying that, Like it's our pleasure, Like this is 348 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 1: what this is about. I feel bad for people listening 349 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:42,880 Speaker 1: because I'm like, we're just having our own love fest. 350 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 1: Sorry you guys, but this is also just like I 351 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 1: don't know for anybody who needs this type of encouragement, 352 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: who needs to be lifted up. One thing I was 353 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 1: thinking when you were just talking now is you won't 354 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 1: because you won't get a chance to talk to us 355 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 1: while you're in your season. It's it's a different world 356 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: when it's just you as the lead, no family, no friends, 357 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 1: no former bachelorrettes. It's just you and the producers and 358 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: your gut, which is what you have to go by. 359 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 1: You know, Becca and I are both with our first 360 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: impression Rose guys. We trusted our gut. But when it 361 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: got down to the final few, it's a really hard decision. 362 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,359 Speaker 1: And for various reasons. It's not even because you don't 363 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 1: know what you're gonna do. It's just so hard. You've 364 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,200 Speaker 1: got you've grown close with these people at this point, 365 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:31,359 Speaker 1: You've shared things, you've exerted certain emotions with them, and 366 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 1: so it's hard to cut it off, to let it go, 367 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,640 Speaker 1: to break someone's heart and send them home. And so 368 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 1: when you get to those moments, I remember, like, I'm 369 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 1: asking what did Jojo do? Because Jojo was before me? 370 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 1: And I remember Becca being like, what did Rachel do? 371 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: And I'm sure Hannah asked what a Becca do? And 372 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,120 Speaker 1: you'll ask the same thing. And so the best thing 373 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: I can tell you is because you will be so 374 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: alone and it is your decision, and you have to 375 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,880 Speaker 1: be comfortable with what you're doing, and you can get 376 00:18:59,880 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 1: all all the advice in the world, but you have 377 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,280 Speaker 1: to know, you know what your what decision you're going 378 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 1: to make and live with that. So trust your gut. 379 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: Don't at the end of the day when it comes 380 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 1: down to whatever, because it will come down to the 381 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 1: one and you will have a ring on your finger 382 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: and you will be engaged. Is that what it says, 383 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 1: just follow your gut, Just follow your gut. Advice Peace 384 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: number two is just follow your guts, and that is 385 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 1: so true. It will not lead you astray. But you 386 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:32,919 Speaker 1: know what, rich I feel like, Claire, I'm not worried 387 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: about you. I mean, you sure you're gonna go through 388 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 1: the ups and the downs, and you're going to have 389 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: really sad moments and days and your heart is going 390 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,639 Speaker 1: to feel like it's being torn out of your chest. 391 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:49,200 Speaker 1: But out of anyone who has probably been in this position, 392 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 1: I am not worried about you. I think that you, 393 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, will whatever is meant 394 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 1: to happen will happen for you. And you just seem 395 00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 1: to attract such You just have this positive energy and 396 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: I feel like you'll attract that and at the end 397 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: of the day, you, if I have faith in anyone, 398 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 1: you will follow your gut. You will listen to your heart, 399 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 1: and you will hopefully find the right man for you 400 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,359 Speaker 1: that I can promise I'll definitely follow my gut. Like 401 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: we were talking out in the very beginning of this podcast, Rachel, 402 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: you had said that everything happens for a reason, and 403 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 1: one of the blessings I would say that I took 404 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 1: from my season being on one Pablo season and from 405 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 1: how I was treated was not discounting somebody for even 406 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 1: just showing up and being there and letting them know 407 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: the gratitude for them even doing that and being there. 408 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,479 Speaker 1: And I can only imagine for the people that make 409 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: it to the end. I can't imagine how hard it's 410 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 1: going to be, and it's gonna be crazy hard, right, 411 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 1: But one thing that I really will and I try 412 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 1: to practice every day in life as it is, but 413 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:59,040 Speaker 1: just to those men just knowing that they're there and 414 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 1: they've put their life on hold, everything, their jobs on hold, 415 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 1: their families on hold, they put everything on hold to 416 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 1: be there for this, and to have a sense of 417 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 1: gratitude to let them know even just how much I 418 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: appreciate them doing this, I think goes a long way. 419 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: Even if it's not the person for me or I'm 420 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,640 Speaker 1: not the person for them, knowing that I appreciate them 421 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: even being there, because that was something that I wasn't 422 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:26,439 Speaker 1: told and didn't feel like that I had given up 423 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 1: my whole life and my job. I had given up 424 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: my job to be there, and I wasn't getting paid. 425 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,280 Speaker 1: I didn't get paid leave for being a hairstylist and 426 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 1: going on the show. There's a choice I made, but 427 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: it was also there wasn't even like a thank you 428 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 1: or anything of like thank you for opening up your heart, 429 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: thank you for being here, or just thank you for 430 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 1: being open thing that I want to even just be 431 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,359 Speaker 1: if things don't work out with certain people, that that 432 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 1: gratitude and let it. I hope they know, and I 433 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: hope they feel from my heart as hard as it is, 434 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 1: but also just my appreciation for appreciation for them even 435 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: being there, and I hope that comes well. And that's 436 00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,520 Speaker 1: the beauty of you now being the lead is you 437 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: have that opportunity and you know, maybe leads have failed 438 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: in the past, like he who must not be named 439 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 1: who season you started on, but you have that ability 440 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 1: and that power to show that graciousness and to show 441 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 1: that thankfulness. You know, we're lucky because at the top 442 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: of each cocktail party or at the top of each 443 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: row ceremony, you can pick and choose how you want 444 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 1: to address the men and how you want to start 445 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:32,400 Speaker 1: each night and each date. And that's something that for 446 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: me personally, I was really kind of nervous about. I 447 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: kept thinking about, like, what am I going to say? 448 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 1: I'm I ever going to find the right words for 449 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 1: these guys, and you just have to feel it out. 450 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: But but I think that sentiment will go a long 451 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: way to them. It just shows your heart and where 452 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: it is. It's in the right place with these men, 453 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: and I think that they'll appreciate it. I hope. So 454 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 1: it's one of the perks I think of being older 455 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,880 Speaker 1: is that our life experiences and things we've been through, 456 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,240 Speaker 1: even though it might not be a good experience, have 457 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 1: all taught us something. And this is one of those 458 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 1: lessons for me, is that graduate and I hope it 459 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: does convey properly to them that they see that I'm 460 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: grateful for them even be in there. Yeah, so I 461 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 1: want to ask. Obviously, especially in this day and age, 462 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: life is so unpredictable. Obviously, we don't know who you're 463 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: gonna meet, who's gonna step out of the limo. I mean, 464 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 1: we know some of the guys, but we don't know 465 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 1: who you'll end up with ultimately at the end. So 466 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: in your perfect world, envisioning a couple months down the road, 467 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 1: you're with the man of your dreams, what does that 468 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: look like, and what's your hopeful happy ending here? A 469 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 1: happy ending to me, obviously, would be staying true to myself. 470 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: And I think that's key to say, because I think 471 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 1: a lot of people have said in the past, like 472 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 1: how many shows have you been on or how many 473 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: times are you going to do this? And you, oh, 474 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,479 Speaker 1: this is You've already had four tries at this. And 475 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 1: when I say being true to myself, that means loving 476 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: myself for first. And if that means there's no man 477 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: at the end for me, that means there's no man 478 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,439 Speaker 1: at the end for me. But if they're hopefully in 479 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: my best ideal situation would be the man of my 480 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 1: dreams is there, and we can walk away and not 481 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,880 Speaker 1: be We can honestly just go back into normal life. 482 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 1: I've always said, and I told I told Mike Swie 483 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,640 Speaker 1: in them this in the very beginning. I'm not here 484 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 1: to be famous as weird as this is because it 485 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: is a TV show. I love my job and I 486 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 1: love my life here and I wouldn't change it for 487 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: the world. I want a man that I can bring 488 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,919 Speaker 1: back into that life, that will go on a Friday 489 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 1: night to the nursing home with me to visit my mom, 490 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,639 Speaker 1: and that will be after dinner going on the walks 491 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: with my dog and not care about anything other than 492 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 1: finding that happiness like that I'm looking for. That's so 493 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 1: important and it's so refreshing to hear. I mean, you 494 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: never know how this is going to take, where this 495 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 1: is going to take you, and who you're going to 496 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,960 Speaker 1: end up with, and where you may move or where 497 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 1: you may stay, or how your career path may end. 498 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 1: But it's so nice to hear you say. I just 499 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,360 Speaker 1: want a man who is going to fit into my life. 500 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to do this for whatever now Claire. 501 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:09,200 Speaker 1: Should an opportunity present itself, take it, Daanan, But I'm 502 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: not taking away from what you're saying. I totally know 503 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,199 Speaker 1: what you mean by that, and I love that you 504 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: said that, and the people need to hear that, and 505 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,160 Speaker 1: that is why, like you guys, I don't I feel 506 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: like people have such short term memory Claire, they were 507 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 1: asking for you without even calling you by name, like 508 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: Beca and I were doing podcasting in these other seasons before, 509 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 1: and the audiences has been so frustrated with what we've 510 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: seen and the type of lead that they have been requesting, 511 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 1: all the things they say that they want you have. 512 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 1: So I know we're excited to watch your season and 513 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 1: they are too. I feel like, Okay, I feel like 514 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 1: we just completed the first thirty minutes of your season, 515 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: because you know how it's like the Bachelorette talk and 516 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: it's giving advice. Like I feel like I should be 517 00:25:54,040 --> 00:26:00,200 Speaker 1: like and that's a rap, no, But I do want 518 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 1: to ask you because I feel like we, you know, 519 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: we just had our moment. But I want to turn 520 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 1: this back to the people who are also listening to 521 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 1: us right now. And Claire, you're a role model, even 522 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,880 Speaker 1: though your season hasn't started. Just listening to the things 523 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 1: that you're saying, the life that you live, the experiences 524 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: that you've gone through, you have a lot to say. 525 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: I mean, we've written chapters three, four, and five in 526 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 1: this podcast of your story, but there will be a 527 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: lot of women who come to you, and it's it's 528 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: such a beautiful thing, Claire. They will come to you 529 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 1: and they're probably already in your DMS asking you for 530 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: advice about life and what is it like to be 531 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: a single woman in their thirties who has their career, 532 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,920 Speaker 1: who maybe hasn't found the man of their life or 533 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:46,199 Speaker 1: the one for them. What advice do you have for 534 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,960 Speaker 1: those women? Because you are you are wearing so many 535 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 1: hats as the lead. Yeah, I think for me, the 536 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,199 Speaker 1: best thing I could say for being somebody who is 537 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: thirty nine the piece of advice that I would give 538 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 1: that I kind of laugh people when they're like, I 539 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,879 Speaker 1: can't belave it thirty nine and single, you're desperate, or 540 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: this or that. My best best piece of advice I 541 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 1: could say is, I personally would rather be spending twenty 542 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 1: years with the man of my dreams being wholly loved 543 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 1: for who I am, rather than fifty sixty years with 544 00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:23,240 Speaker 1: the wrong man and takes that much extra time, or 545 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 1: if it takes an extra month or an extra year, 546 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 1: no matter what age, let yourself be loved by the 547 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 1: right person and find that right person for you and 548 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 1: don't settle a lot of people have said that you're 549 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 1: so picky or just you need to learn. I've been 550 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 1: told so many times to settle. I can't, even by 551 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:45,119 Speaker 1: my friends and by other people too. It's and it's 552 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: I would rather love myself enough by myself than to 553 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,119 Speaker 1: be with the wrong person, because trust me, I have 554 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 1: been with the wrong person. I have been in those 555 00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:00,080 Speaker 1: relationships and they are exhausting, and they are draining, and 556 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: they deplete and kind of take away from who you are. 557 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: And I would rather spend a shorter amount of time 558 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 1: with the right man who lifts me up and matches 559 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 1: me in my energy, rather than a longer time the 560 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 1: wrong person. Well said. And this, ladies and gentlemen, is 561 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: why Claire deserves to be our next patchirette. I know, 562 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: I feel like we should we snap him right now. 563 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,479 Speaker 1: So good. I always question. I questioned the people who 564 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 1: are like, I can't believe you're thirty nine in single, 565 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: And it's like, do you understand the perks that come 566 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: with being thirty nine in single? Like I can sleep 567 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 1: as late as I bob, no kids bothering me, I 568 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 1: can travel wherever I want to go. I mean, there 569 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 1: are perks to all different situations. But yeah, it's not 570 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: just I'm not sitting here on a Friday night going 571 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 1: what can I do with myself? And I'm not having 572 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 1: pity parties by any Yeah. Yeah, you're living your best 573 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: life and you will do that with or without a man. 574 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: And that's the advice that you're given to these ladies. Absolutely. 575 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: Man does not define you all right. So looking back, 576 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 1: if you could sit with twenty year old Claire face 577 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 1: to face, what advice would you give to her? This 578 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:22,479 Speaker 1: is the question that makes me cry every time. How 579 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 1: don't I get so emotional about it? But I don't 580 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:29,959 Speaker 1: even know where I would start with that. But if 581 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: I could speak to twenty year old Claire, I would say, 582 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 1: it's gonna be okay. And all the hard work that 583 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: you're gonna put in and that you're going to be 584 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 1: going through it's goodna sep. And it's gonna challenge you 585 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 1: to your clore, but it's all for the greater good 586 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 1: for yourself and for your life, and you you're worth it. 587 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: You're worth fighting for it, and you're worth fighting for yourself, 588 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,959 Speaker 1: you know, fighting for your own happiness. It is worth it, 589 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: and it's gonna suck and it's gonna be hard, but 590 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 1: fight for yourself because at the end of the day. 591 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 1: There are going to be times when you feel like 592 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 1: you're the only one fighting for yourself and nobody fights 593 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 1: for you, and you're all alone. But as long as 594 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: you don't give up on yourself, it's worth it. It's 595 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 1: so worth it. And I mean I say that and 596 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: it gets me emotional because I've had so many moments 597 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 1: of feeling so alone I just want to give up. 598 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 1: But seeing where I'm at now in life and seeing 599 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: how I feel about everything in life now, it is 600 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: so incredibly worth it to just when nobody else is 601 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: there for you, be there for yourself. Claire. I don't 602 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 1: have anything else to say. I mean, it's that the 603 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: okay I can't speak, that's like, clearly do you have 604 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: you have rendered racial speechless and not to cry. I 605 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,880 Speaker 1: don't know how often that happens. True, It's true. I 606 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 1: literally I was sitting here a couple like last month, 607 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 1: reflecting on it, and I was just sitting there, going, God, 608 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 1: if I could even just tell younger Claire, it's gonna 609 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,760 Speaker 1: be okay, It's gonna be okay. Be yourself, be authentic. 610 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 1: There will be somebody out there that will love you 611 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: for every piece of your being, regardless of how dirty 612 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 1: or ugly or bad or hard it's been. There is 613 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 1: somebody out there along with yourself that would love you 614 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: for that. I think it's so somebody needed. Apparently I 615 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 1: needed to hear that because I'm over here getting emotional. 616 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 1: I think that is the perfect way to end this 617 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:40,160 Speaker 1: podcast because what you said was so passionate, it was 618 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 1: so hard felt, it was so rich, and I felt it. 619 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: I felt like I needed to hear that at twenty. 620 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,040 Speaker 1: I needed to hear that at thirty. But I'm saying, 621 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: you know, and I just I it was. It was beautiful, 622 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: It was so well put. I becca place because well, 623 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 1: I don't even want to top that. I mean, you like, 624 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: out of any season that we've known who the lead's 625 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: going to be, I think this is the one that 626 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: I am most looking forward to. It's so deserving to 627 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 1: go to you. And I'm glad that we had you 628 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: on before you left from filming. I think when we 629 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 1: had Peter on, he had just rapped filming, so he 630 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 1: was in a different mindset. But to be able to 631 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 1: have you on and give our audience a chance to 632 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 1: get to know you a little bit more and to 633 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 1: get to know your background and your story and where 634 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 1: your heart is and what you're hopefully wanting to get 635 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 1: from this journey. I think it's just going to make 636 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: our listeners fall in love with you a little bit more. 637 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 1: And I just feel really grateful and Rachel, I hope 638 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 1: I can speak for both of us, but I just 639 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 1: feel grateful that we've had this opportunity to talk with you. 640 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: And I truly cannot wait to see where this goes 641 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: for you, because I really think it's going to be 642 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 1: the best, the best experience of your entire life, and 643 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 1: good things are going to come, and I cannot wait 644 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 1: for you. Thank you so much. I literally can't wait. 645 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:06,280 Speaker 1: It's been a long time coming for me and I'm ready. 646 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 1: I'm ready to show the hard parts and the ugly parts, 647 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 1: and I don't I guess in the past, I haven't 648 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 1: shared with it because, like I said, I looked at 649 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 1: it as a weakness or I don't want to people. 650 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 1: I still don't want people to feel sorry for me 651 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 1: or to go like she's playing the victim here, because 652 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 1: it's not that I want other people to see that. 653 00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 1: Like I'm proud of how far I've come from what 654 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 1: I've gone through, and I'm a survivor instead of a victim. 655 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: And I want people to see and to feel that 656 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: into gaining that mentality for themselves too, that you can 657 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: overcome stuff and it's so no matter how long it takes, 658 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: it's so worth it. So I feel like this is 659 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: all that that goal for me that I've been working 660 00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,920 Speaker 1: so hard and I'm still working at that I can 661 00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 1: finally be ready for this. I think it's your time, Claire, 662 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,640 Speaker 1: and we are so excited for you, happy to sit 663 00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 1: back and watch it all unfold. Yes, me too, me too. 664 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 1: We say that now, but we shall see. Yeah, I mean, Clai, 665 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: we gotta talk about you on the podcast. But it's 666 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: all up. It's all up, no well, and regardless if 667 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,759 Speaker 1: you come back with a big old rock on your 668 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 1: hand or not, you have fifteen other women who have 669 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,320 Speaker 1: been where you have been, who are here to support 670 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 1: you no matter what happens throughout the entire season. You know, 671 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 1: you can always call on us once once you get 672 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,759 Speaker 1: your phone back, but um, this is your time, so 673 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 1: soak it and live it up, balls to the walls. 674 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know what other inspirational things 675 00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 1: to say, but it's right, that's right. Somebody said, um, 676 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,879 Speaker 1: why don't are you? Were you for a dancer? I 677 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: was never a dancer. I've tried okay times, but I'm 678 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:54,760 Speaker 1: not a dancer. Hey, producers, listen to this dancing date. 679 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 1: That's Claire. It's already, it's already happened to Claire. You 680 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 1: know what's gonna happen, say your weakness is to the producers, Claire, 681 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,800 Speaker 1: we love you. We're so happy we had you on today. 682 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,480 Speaker 1: Thank you for talking with us, to just opening up 683 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,800 Speaker 1: a little bit more and to sharing your beautiful soul. 684 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,239 Speaker 1: And I cannot wait to see where this I hate 685 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: seeing journey, but where this journey is gonna take you? 686 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,400 Speaker 1: Nothing but love for you, guys and Becca, we need 687 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: to talk about Dexter. I'm gonna message you right after this. 688 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna see if we can get a Dexter date 689 00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 1: on the line. Oh shoot, my god, trying to wrap 690 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:36,359 Speaker 1: people up in plastic I can't. I can't. I think 691 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: we gotta fine tune it a little bit. But um, 692 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 1: it's that's a that's a coronavirus appropriate date though not 693 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 1: what I mean. Just see how bad you can scare 694 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,800 Speaker 1: the men like thinking that their lives are on the line. Here, Oh, 695 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,359 Speaker 1: just nothing. When it comes down to the line, fight 696 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,719 Speaker 1: or flight, Let's see what you got. Let's see fight 697 00:35:54,080 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 1: or Flight chapter six? All right, because been so much fun, Claire. 698 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:05,319 Speaker 1: We love you. We will let you get back to it, 699 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:08,000 Speaker 1: and we can't wait to watch you do it all. 700 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,479 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for everything, and opefully love this so much, 701 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:16,800 Speaker 1: so thank you so much, Thank you, bye girl. Becca. 702 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,720 Speaker 1: There aren't many times where I can't speak. She rendered 703 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:24,799 Speaker 1: you speechless. I got it on one hand. I mean, 704 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,320 Speaker 1: I mean it was a deep question, but I didn't 705 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:32,760 Speaker 1: know that. That's I mean, you can tell somebody who's 706 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,719 Speaker 1: really been through some things and then taken the time 707 00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 1: to reflect on where they are now. When they give 708 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 1: that kind of answer, they've definitely done the work. Like 709 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: she's not just saying I've done the work. No, no, no no, no. 710 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 1: Her last answer means she's done the work. And if 711 00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 1: you are out there listening and you're one of these 712 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: men on her season, you're welcome because we just gave 713 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 1: you a whole guy to understand Claire and the gift 714 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 1: that she is. Yes, well, and so one thing, And 715 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 1: I know I lost my train of thought earlier when 716 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 1: we were talking to her at the beginning. But you know, 717 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 1: we're in this day and age where we keep pushing 718 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 1: for change. You know, we've talked about it a lot 719 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 1: in diversity on the franchise. But one thing, and which 720 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 1: is why I'm so happy that we're changing it up 721 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 1: a little bit and bringing on Claire, is because she's 722 00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 1: done this before. She's been on a few seasons. She 723 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 1: is a little bit older, She's dated all types of men, 724 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 1: has been in all sorts of relationships, and I'm glad 725 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 1: that we're steering away from just like the young you know, 726 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,239 Speaker 1: super like just hopeful. Oh yeah, I'm here to find 727 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 1: love like. She is the real deal. As you said, 728 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: She's put in the work, she has really grown in 729 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,319 Speaker 1: herself and she owns it and so I cannot wait 730 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 1: for her season. She was one when before she was 731 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,719 Speaker 1: even announced, when they were throwing out different bachelorettes out there, 732 00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 1: at first, she didn't even cross my mind, you know, 733 00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 1: I assumed it would maybe be Tia, somebody from Peter's season. 734 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: But she, I think is well and beyond just like 735 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 1: the best choice at this time to really bring us 736 00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 1: back to the roots of what the show is, and 737 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:14,280 Speaker 1: that is to find a solid partnership and I cannot wait. 738 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,640 Speaker 1: I told her this too. I'm like, I feel like 739 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,840 Speaker 1: you're really like okay with putting the guys through the 740 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 1: ringer for your heart. And it's gonna be such a 741 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 1: balanced season, full of drama, full of fun, full of love, 742 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:29,920 Speaker 1: full of heartfelt conversations, full of depth, and she's going 743 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,080 Speaker 1: to deliver all of that and more. I have no doubt. Absolutely. 744 00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 1: And I was thinking the whole time we were doing 745 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 1: the interview with her, what would be her tagline? That's 746 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 1: what I kept thinking. I thought, what is it going 747 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,719 Speaker 1: to be? And I feel like it has to after 748 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 1: this whole time we've been talking to her, I'm like, 749 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:48,640 Speaker 1: it has to be something with clarity, right because that's 750 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,399 Speaker 1: where she is right now. And if y'all take it, 751 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:58,359 Speaker 1: I'm suing and withis. I love that? Yeah, I love 752 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 1: And this is one podcast that I think multiple times 753 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: listening to her speak, I have gotten full body chills 754 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,400 Speaker 1: with things that she has said. You know, as women, 755 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 1: we have all been through tough breakups, we have all 756 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:15,200 Speaker 1: been through hard times, like we can all relate in 757 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 1: that way. We're all human, and she does a great 758 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 1: job of putting that into words where we can all understand. 759 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 1: And I hope that viewers can watch her and listen 760 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 1: to her and not just look at her as the Bachelorette, 761 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,759 Speaker 1: but like as just Claire, this amazing human being who 762 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: has grown so much since we've seen her six years ago. Yeah, 763 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 1: I'm excited, you're excited. I just with Claire. What you 764 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,759 Speaker 1: see is what you get, and I can't wait for 765 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 1: it to all unfold. You guys, if you did know 766 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,880 Speaker 1: about Claire before, now you know. And we thank you 767 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,359 Speaker 1: so much for hanging out with us because we're so 768 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,640 Speaker 1: excited for Claire's season and we hope that you guys 769 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 1: are too. Can't wait for it to air. But in 770 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:59,320 Speaker 1: the meantime, if you need your Bachelor fixed, keep tuning 771 00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,759 Speaker 1: in to Bachelor Greatest Seasons Ever every Monday night, eight 772 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 1: seven pm Central on ABC. But please, I know that 773 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,600 Speaker 1: there's a lot going on in the world. I know 774 00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: there's a lot happening, but sometimes you just need a 775 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 1: good release, and we hope that that's what we can 776 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:15,920 Speaker 1: provide you. You know, when things are going on in 777 00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 1: the world, we do want to cover them. We want 778 00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,359 Speaker 1: to talk about things and how they are affecting our 779 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,800 Speaker 1: lives and we hope that you've appreciated that and you've 780 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,799 Speaker 1: gotten a lot from that when we've presented that on 781 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:27,719 Speaker 1: the podcast. But we also want to give you a 782 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,839 Speaker 1: good release, and so we hope that you're getting that too. 783 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 1: And I'm after this episode. My god, you got a 784 00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: word today from Claire. But also, don't forget to keep 785 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:40,000 Speaker 1: writing us. Tell us what you like on social like us, 786 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,760 Speaker 1: like us, yes that's important too, but like our post 787 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 1: comment DMUs Follow us at Bachelor Happy Hour on Instagram 788 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 1: and at Batch Happy Hour on Facebook and Twitter.