1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a suit on the don giving 3 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: them like the million bucks things and the to me 4 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: good it. Steve listening to the other for st Please, 5 00:00:38,560 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: I don't join me. You gotta use that turn you 6 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: you got to turn to turn them out. Turn, you 7 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: got to turn them out to turn the water the 8 00:01:47,600 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: water go. Come come on your tha uh huh, I 9 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: sure will a good heart to everybody. You're listening to 10 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: the voice, come on dig me now wanting only Steve 11 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: Harvey got a radio show. Um. Five things that I 12 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: know successful people have to do to be successful. The 13 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: principles are the same. You can apply it to anything, 14 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: you know, if you want to be happily married, you know, 15 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: whatever it is. The principles of success are the same. 16 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: There are a series of things that you have to do. 17 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: You cannot skip the steps of success. If you do, 18 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: you're going to have to go back and step on 19 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: them anyway. So here's here's here's here's a part man 20 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: that I want you all to understand about me and 21 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: and and about how to look at it. You know, 22 00:02:49,400 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: you cannot underestimate faith and prayer. You just can't. You 23 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: cannot underestimate the power of faith and the power of prayer. 24 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: See for me, this is just for me. Now, this 25 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: ain't in the scripture nowhere. This is just something I discovered. 26 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 1: What prayer did for me was was it tied me 27 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:25,519 Speaker 1: to my creator. It gave me a sense and I'm 28 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: describing it this way, but I'm telling you it's deeper 29 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: than this. But it gave me a sense that I 30 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: wasn't alone and an actuality. I wasn't. But prayer helped 31 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: connect me to the power source that was available to 32 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: me to get through, get around, or get over whatever 33 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: it was that was in a way, whether it was 34 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: just a period I stretched, I had to go through 35 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: hard work. It had a period I had to go 36 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: through to learn some less some periods I had to 37 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: go through from having to pay for some of the 38 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: mistakes I've made. Whatever the case may be, Prayer gave 39 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 1: me a decided advantage, especially oh here we go, Especially 40 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: over my enemies. Now, the majority of people in my 41 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: life that were my enemies, I didn't want them to 42 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: be my enemies, Make no mistake about this. But through 43 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: the thing called life, some things went down, Some things 44 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 1: happened from here and then went over here or that way, 45 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: and a person became my enemy. The majority of enemies 46 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: I had came out of nowhere. I have no reason 47 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: to even see why they are my enemies. But you know, 48 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: life goes on, man. It happens from time to time. 49 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:56,239 Speaker 1: Some people just won't let it go. See some people, 50 00:04:56,320 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: in their quest to do something to you or to 51 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 1: make you pay, they just won't let it go. What 52 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 1: it may cause you some discomfort, and some of them 53 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: may be lies about you and all of this and 54 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 1: all of that, but you that that can't prohibit you 55 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 1: from going forward. So what I'm saying is prayer gave 56 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: me the strength, wisdom, understanding the carriage to either go 57 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: through it, go around it, or go over it. But 58 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: it happened. I do not know how I could have 59 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: made it. Without faith and without prayer, it would have 60 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 1: something would have got me. You two would have got me. 61 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: The bloggers would have got me. My partners that I 62 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: grew up with, that used to laugh behind my back. 63 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: They would have got me. My friend that would over 64 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: my mother's house one time and told her. You know 65 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 1: what Steve's problem is he out to telling them jokes. 66 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: He just lazy, he don't want to work. That would 67 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: have got me. They didn't know. I ain't really mad 68 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: at him because they were just All they was doing 69 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 1: was basing their conversations and passing judgment based on what 70 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: they knew, based on what they believed. They didn't believe 71 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: I was gonna make it. But that's them though. If 72 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: it was not for the faith, which is the belief 73 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 1: in things that you cannot see, I wouldn't have made 74 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: it because I would have listened to everybody else who 75 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: didn't see me getting here and went along with it. 76 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: And then prayer. Oh my goodness, man, how many times 77 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: has prayer bailed me out? Prayer has bailed me out? 78 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: Prestiel belling me out. Tell you the truth, man, quiet 79 00:06:53,839 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: as its kelp Prayer. That connection to your heavenly Father, 80 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: that connection to your creator, that connection to that source 81 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: of power and inspiration, that connection of never feeling that 82 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: you were alone. You know. I was watching a Bishop 83 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: Jakes on a TV yesterday and it was a repeat 84 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: and one of the things he was talking about, well, 85 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: let me just get to the gist of it. I 86 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: was going through a portion of my life and I 87 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: went through it for some years, y'all. I had gotten 88 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: myself into a jam that lasted for years, I'm telling you, 89 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: for years, with some serious consequences to follow. For years. 90 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: And I was so busy looking at who I was at. 91 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: I was sulking sometimes, Man, I'd get on the radio, Man, 92 00:07:55,080 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: I'd be just done. I was sulking. My my spirit 93 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: had gotten low. I had gotten tired of the fight, 94 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: and I would I would come on some mornings, man, 95 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: and I will try try not to let on, but 96 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: I was hurting. I was because I had been in 97 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 1: it for years. Man, I had been in this thing 98 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: for years. And one thing I was doing. I was 99 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: so busy looking at where I was at. And when 100 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: I was watching Bishop Jake's he preached this sermon. He 101 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: was talking about so busy looking at where you at 102 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: that you don't even realize that God has been with 103 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: you the entire time. And you know what, man, just yesterday, 104 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 1: just yesterday, I heard this and I text him. I 105 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 1: text Bishop Jakes, and I thanked him because it was 106 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 1: an old message I could tell. And I called a 107 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 1: X him up and I said, man, thank you so much. 108 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 1: I was just watching you on TV, and you told 109 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: me man, something that I that I'll always remember that 110 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: whatever you're going through, that he's there with you the 111 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: whole time. But see when sometimes when you're so busy 112 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: looking at where you at, you don't even notice where 113 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: he is. And see sometimes, man, that that helped me 114 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: and that's going to help me in the future to 115 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: realize that what I'm going through, that he's there. He's 116 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 1: there with me, and he gonna protect me, and he 117 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 1: ain't gonna let my enemies overcome me, and he ain't 118 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: gonna let nobody overtake me, and he ain't gonna let 119 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: me go under because he's there. It's just you can't 120 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: be so busy looking at where you at that you 121 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: don't take notice or where he at. God is always there, 122 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: He's always available, and the best way to tap into 123 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: that and know it is you got to pray. Prayer 124 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: has changed my life. Prayer can change your life. You 125 00:09:54,280 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 1: can become something if you just pray. You're show, Ladies 126 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, it is upon us to Steve Harvey Morning 127 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: Show us here alive and well and vivid, all living color. 128 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: I am the one and only himself. We are here 129 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: to entertain, uplift, educate, and provide moments of levity mostly 130 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: ignorant though, and I will be that today. I give 131 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: you my word. Ladies and gentlemen, Here I go. But 132 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 1: before I go, let me introduce you to the All 133 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: Star cast. Shirley Strawberry. Please be ignorant today embarrassing with 134 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Good morning, Colin Farrell. Yeah, be ignorant. It's 135 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: summertime and stuff. Thank you, Junior. Just make it a promise, 136 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 1: Just promise, can help. I'm a help. I'm a helper. 137 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: You could be right there. Oh how y'all doing this morning? Man? 138 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 1: How's you doing that? Oh? Man, I'm good, you know, 139 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,719 Speaker 1: just hanging in there, man, Yes, getting ready today as 140 00:10:55,800 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: my tournament, golf tournament out at Bear's Best today and tomorrow. 141 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:07,959 Speaker 1: And so it's just gonna be nice. Get on't out 142 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 1: there and get it done. It's a fundraiser for the foundation. 143 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 1: Fundraiser for the foundation. Gonna have a lot of a 144 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:16,559 Speaker 1: lot of good brothers coming out there. We have a 145 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: good time. Excuse me that line again. We have a 146 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: lot of single, beautiful ladies that listen to the show. 147 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: Say that again. Now, A lot of good brothers would 148 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 1: be out there playing golf nice place to meet upwardly 149 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:36,599 Speaker 1: mobile thinking me in at golf courses. Just say that. 150 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: I've said that to a certain member of this show 151 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 1: and she don't listen. So I'm through explaining it because 152 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: she hard hit it at all. We have a matchmaking 153 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: for her. Man, I'm about almost done. I can't try 154 00:11:54,280 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 1: no harder her head. That's how bad it guy. Yeah, 155 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 1: so it's all good though. That that's It's a wonderful 156 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 1: cause is always Steve. You guys always have a great 157 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 1: fun and come right. It's great. The Whimsie is sold 158 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: out completely a most slots. You know, it was sold 159 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: out before, so we add it today. So we go 160 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 1: out there today. It's supposed to be raining, but you 161 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: know it's okay. And then you go out there and 162 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: you put it in your foundation and it helps for 163 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,959 Speaker 1: you to mentor well, we got cigars and bourbon, so 164 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 1: whatever you're down with the calls or whatever. Well, you know, 165 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:42,839 Speaker 1: the little kids ain't gonna be out there, so you know, well, 166 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: I'm coming. What year is this, Steve, Because you've been 167 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: doing your golf tournament every year for how long? Now? 168 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:51,319 Speaker 1: Oh I don't know, I don't know how many years 169 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: it's been it's been a minute though a long time. Yeah. 170 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:58,560 Speaker 1: I mean we've been doing this Los Angeles for years. 171 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 1: Yeah to twenty Wow, I would say so yeah, yeah, 172 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 1: close to twenty close to constantly giving back over twenty years. Man. 173 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:13,199 Speaker 1: Trying to be relevant, that's all I really ask God for. 174 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: I want to ask for money or fame. I just 175 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: want to be relevant. I want to be significant and 176 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: try to change and help as many young people as 177 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: I can. Few adults along the way, you know, if 178 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: they're willing to listen, but mostly I'll dedicated a large 179 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,599 Speaker 1: part of what I do to the uplifting notification of 180 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: young people purpose. All right, all right, Steve, thank you. 181 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 1: Coming up. At thirty two minutes after the hour, it 182 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 1: is time for Ask the CLO. Chief Love Officer Steve 183 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 1: Harvey in the building. Right after this, you're listening to 184 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, guys, time now for Ask 185 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: the CLO. Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey is here. This 186 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: one CLO is from IRMA and Stanford, Connecticut. Stanford, Connecticut. 187 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: She says, I'm in my mid fifty and I've been 188 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: dating a man that's my age. He is active on 189 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: social media and takes lots of pictures with women. He 190 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 1: said he loves meeting people and that's it. There's no 191 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: romantic involvement with the women. I have no idea if 192 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: that's true or not. So I've asked him to stop 193 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: posting the pictures if he wants to continue to date me. 194 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: Instead of removing the images, he blocked me from his 195 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: Facebook page. Is this a deal breaker? Oh? Wow? What 196 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 1: fifty year old man? Just love meeting people? Yeah? For 197 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: what we are men, we don't do anything without reason. 198 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: We do nothing. Listen to me. I don't care what 199 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: man it is. We don't do nothing without a reason. 200 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: I love meeting people for what. That's cool to love 201 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: meeting people. But you've got to meet him for a reason. 202 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: Right the hell, I'm will be meeting a lot of 203 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: people for unless I want something man, please? Yeah, and 204 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: just women. Right? And So to answer her question, Steve, 205 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: it should be a a deal breaker, right because he'd 206 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 1: blocked you. Yeah, yeah, definitely. That means he not been 207 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 1: to stop for you. So yeah, you don't mean that 208 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: much to him, irma unfortunately. Yeah? All right, moving on 209 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: this one from Dallas that is the name. Dallas is 210 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio app listener Dallas says, my girlfriend and I 211 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: broke up last week over some money I owed her, 212 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 1: and she embarrassed me so badly. I repair computers for 213 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: a living, and I've been having problems with my u 214 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: siatic skiatic nerve, so I take muscle relaxes for the pain. 215 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: The pills mess with my libido, and I can't go 216 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: to work while I'm taking them, so I couldn't have 217 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 1: sex or pay my girl back. She sent a group 218 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: text to our friends calling me mister Microsoft whoa, which 219 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: implied that it is small and it doesn't work properly. 220 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: Can I recover from this? Uh? Not in this circle appearance, 221 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 1: you know, unless you unless you change your name. The 222 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: hard drive Ye, that's about all you could do. You 223 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: got to get it on a Facebook page started up 224 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 1: called hard drive drive, you know, and that's it, and 225 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: you can you know, and you could put that out 226 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: there befoul the Microsoft thing hits you know, mean, yeah, 227 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: well you know, I don't. I don't know. What are 228 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 1: you talking about? This? Uh? What you gotta scattic? What 229 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: kind of nerve? Nerve? No? I don't, okay, And you 230 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: got to take appeal for it and it makes you 231 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 1: muscle relax. Well you can't. That's the one muscle you 232 00:16:55,200 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 1: can't relax. And I'm just telling you. We get the point. Yeah, 233 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna stop taking this hill. You gotta give me, 234 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:07,159 Speaker 1: give me some vikaty, give me something else. Dog, But 235 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: we're not even take muscle relaxing. I love your answer 236 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 1: for hard drive. I love all right, all right, Yeah, 237 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: that's how you can recover from it, Dallas. All right. 238 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: Moving on Francis and Smyrna. Georgia says, I'm sixty seven 239 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 1: years old and my daughter and her son moved in 240 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: with me after they had a small house fire. Okay, 241 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: now this is a guy. No, Francis is a woman. 242 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 1: I believe. Yeah, I think it was my grandson's fault, 243 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 1: but I don't think my daughter suffects anything is wrong 244 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 1: with him. I've been losing sleep since they've been staying 245 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: with me because my grandson is up all night. He's fourteen, 246 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: so his mom allows him to cook and be independent. 247 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: How do I tell my daughter that her son might 248 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 1: need to be evaluated? Whoa baby? You need to give 249 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 1: you check down? Well you need you know, you got 250 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 1: to talk like old people. Baby, You need to take 251 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: him down and get get somebody to see about it. 252 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 1: You know. Now we're gonna start with prayer, but if 253 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: that doesn't work, we got to get him down to 254 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 1: a hospital because he just set your house o f. 255 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: And they defend to burn his house down because his 256 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: ass can't cooking in that cooking all types of night 257 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: and that's probably how it burnt your damn house down. 258 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:24,720 Speaker 1: But I can't get no sleep because he up wearing 259 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: meat that ain't gonna work. Yeah, I'd use up on 260 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 1: him at night if I was friends. What you're doing 261 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 1: in him? Every time you see me to catch you 262 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 1: walk up behind him and go let me hold twenty 263 00:18:40,040 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 1: dollars nothing mean, yeah, let me twitter. Do you say 264 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: that to a fourteen year old? Yeah? Seriously? So yeah, 265 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: you just gotta I mean clo. She just gotta tell 266 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: her daughter point her daughter point blank that her son. Yeah, 267 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: we gotta get him checked out, seriously, because you don't 268 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 1: want another disaster to happen and go to bed at night. Yeah, 269 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:25,400 Speaker 1: what a fourteen year old kid is allowed? The first 270 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: of all, he ain't disciplined exactly. She let him run 271 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: him up, and that's what's wrong. No discipline. Yeah, staying 272 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: up all night. I mean, I guess it's summertime. But 273 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:38,880 Speaker 1: he need practice, he need to be this stuff. Yeah, 274 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: but his mom allows him to cook and be independent. 275 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn if it was summertime. I 276 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: had to go to bed. Yeah, you need structure. Yes, 277 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: can you just stay up? That TV? Off? In there? 278 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: You ain't paid for nothing, exactly those lights out getting 279 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:58,880 Speaker 1: the bed. She's standing in refrigerator fall. You ain't bought 280 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:04,479 Speaker 1: nothing there now, drinking out of the milk cart. All right, 281 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,639 Speaker 1: we're moving on. Ruth Anne in Chicago says, I am 282 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 1: recently divorced and my ex husband is about to get remarried. 283 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 1: His mom and I are best friends and we go 284 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 1: to casino together often. I baby said. All of his 285 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: sisters children, so we've been a close knit family for 286 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: over twenty years. But that will all change soon. My 287 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 1: ex husband told his family members that I'm off limits 288 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: now and they need to get used to his new wife. 289 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:30,920 Speaker 1: They're not happy about it, neither am I. And do 290 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 1: we have to respect his wishes? Well? They do. You 291 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 1: might not, but you ain't gonna be running with my mama. 292 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: Thank you. Coming up next, I guess Junior is in 293 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 1: for the nephew would run that prank back right after this. 294 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:54,479 Speaker 1: You're listening to the morning show, all right. Coming up 295 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, Miss Anna is standing 296 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 1: by with today's national news. We'll do our tell me 297 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 1: something good black girl news. Uh that's worth waiting for 298 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: right there. Yeah. Yeah, Plus we'll tell you all about 299 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 1: the Black Coalition against COVID nineteen special called Making It 300 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 1: Plain town hall meeting tonight. We'll talk about all of 301 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 1: these stories at the top of the hour. But right now, 302 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: Junior is in for the nephew would run that prank back. 303 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: What you got, Junior? Zoom golla, Gali. That's it, zooma Okay, 304 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:34,280 Speaker 1: come on running, Captain. Hello, Hey, I'm trying to reach 305 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:38,880 Speaker 1: uh Ti Ti? Is that is that your name? Ty? Yeah? 306 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 1: My name is Ty. Who is this? Hey? This Kennedy Man? 307 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 1: You can call me Ken, but this Kennedy. You work 308 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,719 Speaker 1: with my wife with my wife Katrix. Oh oh yes, 309 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: sah yeah yeah, I work with katriz man working on 310 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: for years. Man. What's going on? Okay? Hey, what's what's 311 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: what's up? Bro? I can't remember if I met you before, 312 00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:01,119 Speaker 1: Ty not. I ain't sure, but I've seen your your face. 313 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: Y'all be the work the job. Y'all be doing this, 314 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: um this this this zoom thing, right, yeah, we do 315 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: zoom for conference calls. Man, what's going on? What's up? Okay? 316 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: So so let's let's take hear me out, man. So 317 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,439 Speaker 1: this what's going on? I noticed, you know, I passed 318 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 1: by the office, my wife in there doing the zoom thing, 319 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 1: and I see, you know, all these people on there 320 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: and y'all doing I guess y'all doing the conference call 321 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: or whatever. But you know, when I look closer, Yeah, 322 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 1: but when I look closer, you know, it seemed like 323 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: when my lady talking, you know, when my wife talking, 324 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 1: seemed like you you over there, uh, touching yourself, winking 325 00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 1: your eye, you know, like you trying to make passes 326 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: at her, get her a hint or something. You know, 327 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what going on, if you're trying to 328 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 1: throw her some sign leg on or something. But all 329 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: this little, this, this, this, this, this, this zoom golic 330 00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 1: goli boys, this here got us stop dog wait wait wait, 331 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 1: first off, man, you got me messed up and and 332 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 1: another thing, man, take all that base out your voice. 333 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: You're gonna talk to me with a little respect. Now 334 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 1: I've been doing your wife for years. Man, I got 335 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,239 Speaker 1: nothing but the utmost respect for her. I would never 336 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: do anything that just suspects them. And I'm I'm married myself. Man, 337 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 1: I wouldn't putting myself out there like that. So what 338 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 1: is you what? What? What are you doing while my 339 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 1: wife talking on this on this, on this, on this zoom. 340 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 1: What is you doing? Yo? I'm not doing anything but 341 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 1: my job. Man. And again we both grown ass, man. 342 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: So you ain't gonna talk to me any kind of way. 343 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: Ain't gonna talk down to me. Man, You ain't gonna 344 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 1: pull my phone and call talking like a child. Okay, 345 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,399 Speaker 1: I'm let me let me okay, let me let me 346 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:42,719 Speaker 1: go and put this Let me put this out here 347 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: right here, tyd. Let me let me tell you right here, tyd. 348 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 1: Let me tell you that right now. I'm telling you 349 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 1: right here for lord. I swear to you, man, if 350 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: I seem if when my wife get on this zoom again, 351 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,920 Speaker 1: if I find out you on there touching yourself look 352 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,719 Speaker 1: like you winking at her, I promise you soon as 353 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: just this, this this virus get through, I promise you 354 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 1: all that zoom golic gollish gonna get your ass. Whoop. 355 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: I'm telling you right, mother, no dog cut your bullsh 356 00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: got on that damn conference. Man. Hey, man, like I've 357 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 1: told you, okay, man, you need to quit talk of 358 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: me that way. And you know what cute by the way, man, 359 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: you're gonna call me and talk all this now you man, 360 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be with my wife with that bulls 361 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: touching yourself? Your wife? Man? What what did you winking? 362 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 1: Your mother and I fu Man, We ain't waking at 363 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: your wife. Are you crazy or something? Are you touched 364 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 1: in the head? Man? What's wrong with you? I ain't touched. 365 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,400 Speaker 1: I I'm gonna touch your mother and ass up if 366 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 1: I find out you on that zoom with that that 367 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: all that zoom goli GOLLI bulls gonna get you. Stop. Well, 368 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 1: I tell you what you are. You better thank God 369 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: for the coronavirus because if it was anything different, I 370 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 1: be at your house. But your ass right now. You 371 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 1: hear what I'm saying. You can say what you want 372 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 1: and do what you want want. By the fact, soon 373 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 1: as this get up about the as it's me and 374 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 1: you Pottinger, Oh zoom, golla golla mother, me and you, 375 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 1: I ain't nothing between us for the opportunity whenever you're 376 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 1: ready by ain't nothing between us but that I'm virus. 377 00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: And as soon as that it's gone, it's me and you. 378 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 1: I told my wife you was over there doing that bulls. 379 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: I talked to Trieste. I told you more than once. 380 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: I have nothing more respect for your wife. But me 381 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 1: and you we ain't bro Yeah. Wait so man, all 382 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: this bulls. You're calling me on my phone talking all this. 383 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: I'm trying to do something. I got a married woman 384 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 1: in the house. It's me crazy right now? Are you 385 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,719 Speaker 1: get out your mind? Man? Whenever you ready to call 386 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 1: over and get your ass well, you go ahead, come 387 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,160 Speaker 1: over here, You're go ahead jump Okay, let me ask 388 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 1: you this here. Do you know do you know Dwayne 389 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: Bean and Big Mike? Do you know them? Hell? Yeah, 390 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 1: I know them? There my boys, man, So what you 391 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,920 Speaker 1: know about them? What I know about them? What I 392 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 1: know about them? Tie is they told to listen to me, 393 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: told me to call you. This is nephew Tommy from 394 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked. You 395 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 1: got pranked by your boy. Dat beat a big more day, yamsure? 396 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:30,400 Speaker 1: Hey man, we gotta laugh during this time right now, babe. Man, 397 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 1: that is the most ex safe lives. Thank you. Man. Hey, man, 398 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 1: so y'all your job doing all these uh y'all doing 399 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 1: zoom conferences? You're doing a lot of them. Yeah, Man, 400 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: that's all we've been doing, man, because you know, we 401 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,640 Speaker 1: can't go anywhere, it can't meet up with people, so man, 402 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 1: we keep been doing them a whole lot. Man, that's 403 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: all we've been doing. I hear you are hanging there, man, 404 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: Be safe, keep your family safe. Man. It's try to 405 00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 1: put a laugh on somebody's face. That's all the nephew 406 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 1: trying to do. Man. And you know what, man, we 407 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: appreciate everything you do during this time. Man. You guys 408 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:06,679 Speaker 1: are helping us stay up. So thank you. Brother. All 409 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 1: right man, twenty twenty. Let me know this, man, what 410 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show 411 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 1: in the land, Steve Harvey's show, Nephew Talk. Gotta got It? Dad? 412 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,160 Speaker 1: Is Junior? You got any dates? Man? I got something 413 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 1: caught up in the fall. Man. I'm not gonna do 414 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 1: that in this summer. Man. I'm you know, I'm gonna 415 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 1: start a room this summer. But that's about it. Man, 416 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna not gonna start a rum Yeah, I'm 417 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,159 Speaker 1: gonna start rooming it, lamb, man, just where I can 418 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 1: work out it. Oh, I thought you said you're going 419 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:40,160 Speaker 1: to start a rumor. No, no, no, start a room, Junior. 420 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,400 Speaker 1: Didn't you do that once before? Yes, sir, I showed 421 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 1: that back on Junior. What's that means? Start a coming room? 422 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: We gonna work out? Yeah, Joe, I came through that 423 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: one time. I didn't go out, just came through. Came 424 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: through uncle, you know, on back on the radio on 425 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: Saturdays here in Atlanta, do so? You know I do 426 00:27:55,480 --> 00:28:01,360 Speaker 1: that all right? Yeah? Yeah? Magic five tend to too, 427 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,719 Speaker 1: Baby tend to too? That's right, can't we just never said? Man? 428 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,440 Speaker 1: So you know you ever got the radio away? Gonna 429 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 1: tell people what a meeting. I gotta find a room, 430 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 1: you know, I gotta find a good place around here. 431 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 1: But we can do it. That's what I'm trying to find. 432 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't I don't know. I don't 433 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,440 Speaker 1: go out no more, Julia. I can't help you. Y'all 434 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:20,360 Speaker 1: know well where you live, why would you go at 435 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,200 Speaker 1: well them? Days is over them? We go out. Days 436 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 1: is done. Yeah. Yeah, So Junior, you have to find 437 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 1: a spot and then you have to go and perform there. 438 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna find a spot to have everybody to come out. Man, 439 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna have some fun to summon me. Okay, yeah, another, 440 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 1: I'm working on opening back up a little bit. We'll 441 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: definitely come and support you. Plus this vaccination of me 442 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 1: to get up a little bit more because you know, 443 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 1: I had sickle sell. I can't really risk this. Yeah, right, 444 00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 1: you know that's nothing. So yeah, a matter of fact, 445 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,120 Speaker 1: your ass need a mask on right right now, even 446 00:28:54,240 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 1: at work, even at work on the mic. And all right, junior, 447 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour, 448 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment and national news right after this. 449 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, and trending medical news, guys. 450 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 1: The Black Coalition Against COVID nineteen will be hosting a 451 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: special Call Making It Plain town hall that will be tonight, 452 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: June twenty ninth, at seven Eastern time. The live event 453 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 1: will feature White House leaders, medical professionals, and labor union 454 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: experts who will discuss how COVID nineteen is impacting black 455 00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 1: unvaccinated essential workers. As America Reopened joined the conversation tonight 456 00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: at seven pm Eastern on Facebook dot com slash blackdoctor 457 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 1: dot org. That's Facebook dot com slashback blackdoctor dot org, 458 00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 1: or you can go to YouTube dot com forward slash 459 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 1: black doctor org. All right, good team business, good information. Yeah, yeah, 460 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: don't miss on for sure. Let's y'all. Let's go, y'all, 461 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: we gotta get vaccinated. Let's do this. I don't I 462 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 1: really don't understand the hesitancy. But at the same time, 463 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 1: everybody has to make the decision for themselves. I didn't. 464 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 1: I'm not going for the theory portion of it. Let 465 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: me just tell you this. My in laws who are 466 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 1: in their eighties, both of them that their nurse gave 467 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: them COVID. The doctor said, thank god you all had 468 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: the vaccinated. This could have been really bad. They suffered 469 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 1: hardly any symptoms at all. Beautiful news. I mean at best. 470 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: At best, my mother in law had a little cold, 471 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: but my father in law and they have pre existing conditions. 472 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 1: So I thank God for the vaccination because it would 473 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,560 Speaker 1: have been bad for them. Yeah, that's what the time 474 00:30:55,800 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 1: meaning is for. You know. That's my crazy ass sister. 475 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: Won't take it, not not, moaned Polo. I don't won't 476 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 1: take no shot. Okay, stay your ass at the house, Steve. No, no, 477 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 1: you got to stay your ass at the house. Now 478 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: I want to go out, but I'm scared to go out. 479 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: So she just at the house. There ain't no problem. 480 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 1: You stay at the house. But you know, you know, 481 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 1: you do understand. Yeah, it's like a weight come off 482 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: your shoulder once you get vaccinated. Like I felt relieved 483 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 1: you when I leave. Yeah, I'm telling you. I mean 484 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 1: I lost four friends in COVID, so you know, really 485 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 1: over yeah, four and couldn't go to the funeral because 486 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 1: it's only ten people allowed, you know, so you know 487 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 1: that was a personal reason why I got vaccinated. You know, 488 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 1: not a reason why, but that was a big one. 489 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 1: Both friends, good friends. Now nobody got see every now 490 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 1: and then people I just talked to, you know, people 491 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 1: you just talk to. Yeah, the hit home like a 492 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 1: lot of people listening to us right now, lost loved 493 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: ones and friends. I lost a couple of a couple 494 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 1: of people I knew, not close friends, but some people 495 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 1: I knew definitely I lost. And yeah I think some 496 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 1: really really close calls with some too. So yeah, yeah, 497 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 1: everyone knows someone who's been touched by COVID in some 498 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: way for sure. For sure. Yeah. Well, moving on. It 499 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:27,000 Speaker 1: is time now for tell me something good. Black girl 500 00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 1: magic news. Okay, yes, that is the title. Yeah. Track 501 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,200 Speaker 1: star Gabby Thomas just set a new world record, making 502 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: her the second fastest woman of all time. Thomas just 503 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:42,120 Speaker 1: set a new record, yes, um, with the record breaking 504 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 1: speed of twenty one point sixty one seconds in that's 505 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 1: twenty one point sixty one seconds in women's two hundred meter. 506 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: All right, whoa. She will be heading to Tokyo for 507 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 1: the Summer Olympics. Gabby didn't all too far behind Florence 508 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 1: Griffith Joiner. Now that this black girl magic Harvard grad 509 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: has reached this amazing feat, she's planning her next goal. 510 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 1: She's going to have him to map out a different 511 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,040 Speaker 1: trajectory for her life. Now she says she wants to 512 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 1: make the Olympic team. Oh yeah, she's done. Now that's amazing, 513 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Yeah, we gotta move on, ladies and gentlemen, 514 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 1: miss a and trip. Okay, good morning, everybody. This is 515 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 1: a trip with the news. I'm want to start with Florida, folks. 516 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 1: According to the latest report out of Serfside Florida. The 517 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 1: remains of now eleven people have been recovered out of 518 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: what's left of that twelve story Beach froncondo building that 519 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 1: collapsed last Thursday. That leaves over one hundred and fifty 520 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,680 Speaker 1: residents still missing an unaccounted for one hundred and fifty. 521 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 1: That's a staggering number on account of for Miami Dade 522 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 1: County Mayor Dan Yello, Levy Cavis says, the search though, 523 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: goes on day and night. We're going to continue and 524 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 1: work ceaselessly to exhaust every passable option in our search. 525 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 1: I repeat. The search and rescue operation continues, and now 526 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,920 Speaker 1: the search and rescue team in Miami has been joined 527 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 1: by teams from other parts of Florida, as well as 528 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 1: teams from Mexico, even Israel. The work is painstakingly slow 529 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: because the big pieces of concrete can be removed by 530 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 1: a machine, but everything else has to be removed by hand. 531 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: And they're using both video cameras and also listening devices 532 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 1: to try and find victims because sometimes in these things, 533 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 1: sometimes a victim is caught in an air pocket and 534 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: that person is alive, so they're trying to find anybody, 535 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: any live victims. The Bide administration defending yesterday's air strikes 536 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:41,480 Speaker 1: against Iraq back militia in Iraq and Syria Iranbeck's militia. Rather, 537 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 1: it was in Iraq and Syria. The White House press 538 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 1: Sergi Jensaki says the action was meant to protect US 539 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 1: and allied positions on the ground. The President's view is 540 00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:54,880 Speaker 1: that it was necessary, appropriate and deliberate action. These strikes 541 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 1: are designed to limit the risk of escalation. We will take, 542 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,800 Speaker 1: and he believes we will should will take necessary and 543 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:04,360 Speaker 1: appropriate measures to defend US personnelity partners, and allies in 544 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 1: the region. Now, Persaki adds of the administration did notify 545 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 1: the appropriate members of Congress before the action was taken. 546 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: He just didn't go out, they say, like a cowboy. 547 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 1: Texas Attorney General Ken Paxsons followed a suit against a 548 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 1: company called Blessings in No Time or Bent, accusing it 549 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 1: or running a pyramid scheme during the pandemic. The lawsuit 550 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,279 Speaker 1: accuses Bent of defrauding mostly black Texans out of tens 551 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 1: of millions of dollars, collecting some fourteen hundred dollars from 552 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: each person and promising to bless their family and bring 553 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 1: that sum up to eleven grand if they get some 554 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 1: other people to sign up. That Folks is a pyramid scheme. 555 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 1: Okay when somebody says that run Finally though, today is 556 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:46,400 Speaker 1: National Hug and Kiss Day. Oh wow, really really really 557 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 1: really really truly well oh yeah, okay, now back to 558 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:55,320 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show Steve, 559 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 1: you know you and your lovely wife Marjorie, especially Marjorie 560 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:04,400 Speaker 1: love fashion. Okay, Uh, you've been really flying episodes of 561 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,919 Speaker 1: celebrity Family Feud, if we must say so ourselves, don't 562 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:19,799 Speaker 1: everyone on the show. Yeah yeah, I'm like, ain't well 563 00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 1: know what he's doing? Ye? All right, So let's talk 564 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,759 Speaker 1: about a little bit about style, Steve, Um, you know, 565 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:31,239 Speaker 1: tell us about your style. Um, I mean, what I 566 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 1: like about it is it's youthful. You never you know, 567 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: you always tell us about your age. You don't hide 568 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,839 Speaker 1: your age, and a lot of guys your age look 569 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,799 Speaker 1: their age. But you dress youthful, but you still keep 570 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 1: it age appropriate, you know what I mean. So let's 571 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:48,960 Speaker 1: talk about swag. Yeah, you do all of that, Yeah, 572 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I mean I've always been a 573 00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:55,680 Speaker 1: fan of dressing up and I've always been like you 574 00:36:55,800 --> 00:37:00,800 Speaker 1: know into fashion. But I mean, of course since evolved 575 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: over the years. You know, I used to be strictly 576 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 1: urban and I represented the urban culture for show very well. 577 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:15,200 Speaker 1: You know, baggy pants, you know, gators, all of that, 578 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,880 Speaker 1: and so you know, as I've I've grown older slowly. 579 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I've always just evolved this new I have 580 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:27,239 Speaker 1: a stylus or that I hired over a little over 581 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 1: a year ago, and he he's more into more like 582 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: fitting what's really out color combinations. But we had to 583 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 1: talk this year. I said I wanted to go back 584 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 1: to some of the colors because of my Facebook watch show. 585 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:45,279 Speaker 1: They they said, we don't want you to wear, you know, 586 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,919 Speaker 1: shirts and ties like you did on your talk show 587 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 1: in the first season of Facebook. I want you to 588 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 1: just you know, you know, what would you wear? And 589 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:56,799 Speaker 1: I said, well, I could just wear what I wear 590 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,279 Speaker 1: when I'm not on TV, which is a little more 591 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 1: cutting and fashion forward. And so we decided to go 592 00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 1: back to a little bit more colors and do some 593 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 1: more different fabrics that I would wear if I was 594 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 1: just out and now celebrity family Feud of Conscious decision 595 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 1: was made was to go back to the colors. Kings 596 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:20,919 Speaker 1: of comedy colors. But but with the new tailored fit, 597 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 1: and then we did some more fabrics. We started doing 598 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:29,120 Speaker 1: a lot of monotones and stuff like that. Here strategy. 599 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: You're serious, Yeah, yeah, you know what I mean. And 600 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 1: it's fun to watch it happened. You know, this new 601 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 1: stylus is really smart too. What's out and what's not 602 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 1: and everything that's out of here for me. So I 603 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 1: just really make it my own, like you said, you know, 604 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 1: I keep it age appropriate because you know, I am 605 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:52,400 Speaker 1: sixty four years old. Blue Chief Forever. Coming up in 606 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll talk about summertime 607 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: it is upon us. Right after this you're listening to 608 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 1: Day Morning Show. Well, you guys know that it's summertime. 609 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:08,480 Speaker 1: People can't wait to travel and go on vacation. So Steven, 610 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,479 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you this, what do you like most 611 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 1: about going on vacation? Uh? Yesterday we saw you in 612 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 1: Marjorie fishing, Junior. I know you and your family fish, Tommy, 613 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:22,480 Speaker 1: you and your mommy fish. What's happening, Steve, Well, we 614 00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 1: were just out in the backyard. That's all you want, 615 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,800 Speaker 1: big dog. We were just out in the back y'all. 616 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 1: But y'all said, go on vacation. We ain't gone vacation. 617 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 1: It ain't vacation time. If I was on vacation, wise, 618 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 1: I'm on this radio. That ain't vacation today, all right. 619 00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:50,759 Speaker 1: Just went out back to see Marjorie. She she want 620 00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: to fish. I gotta go down there, set all her 621 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 1: rods and stuff up for And I wasn't even trying 622 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 1: to fish. I had on slides and everything. But then 623 00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,080 Speaker 1: she down there. She want to use another rod. So 624 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:02,719 Speaker 1: I had to go down there to show how to 625 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: use that type of rod. She want to use my rod, 626 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 1: which I use a bait caster. She ain't ready for 627 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: that because now she gonna bird nest all day long. 628 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: She threw. I told her not use my rod one time. Well, 629 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,960 Speaker 1: let's just it's three different rods. It's it's a, it's 630 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,759 Speaker 1: a it's a it's an open face, it's a it's 631 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 1: a bell hazzle, you know, and then it's a bait casting. 632 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:28,080 Speaker 1: I used bait casting. Well that's you don't know nothing 633 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 1: about it what you asked me for. We're listening, But 634 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,319 Speaker 1: see I don't surely asked me. Then when I tell 635 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 1: it you, then I don't. I don't know nothing about this. 636 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 1: What your ass bait casters Just throw the rod in 637 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 1: the water and catch a fish that ain't what it 638 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:47,840 Speaker 1: is extra stuff. Okay, So anyway, we understanding that in 639 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:55,120 Speaker 1: the backyard vacation. It's so bad. Hell you bring it up. 640 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,480 Speaker 1: Come on, I saw you and margin on that fishing. 641 00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:03,280 Speaker 1: Go ahead and tell us something, Jillior, she can understand. Okay, 642 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 1: say thank you, Shary. We don't. We don't feel we're 643 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,680 Speaker 1: crabbing people. We crab, you know, we go down to gap. 644 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,279 Speaker 1: We got the crab. You know when we do get down, Yeah, 645 00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,040 Speaker 1: we do crab. You know when we do get down 646 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,239 Speaker 1: in time. Because it's be a fight on the way down. 647 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 1: And because somebody didn't forgot the nts never gotta stop 648 00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,680 Speaker 1: and getting nts never gotta get baked. It'd be all 649 00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:25,520 Speaker 1: day by time we get there. A damn crabs that 650 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: went back in the water too long. We were waiting 651 00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 1: to get caught. They take it too long. Stop two 652 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:38,560 Speaker 1: minutes stop, somebody got buddy. I'm hungry man. But it's 653 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 1: the worst trip. Tommy. You were fishing the other day, 654 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:45,800 Speaker 1: I did. I fished in Tampa the other day. I 655 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 1: called a unique Well, it was unique to me, I 656 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:50,880 Speaker 1: never called one fish called a pumper note if you 657 00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 1: ever heard of that. But I called a pumper note 658 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 1: supossibly good for eating. But did you eat it? I 659 00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 1: didn't eat it? But that was the first time. Let 660 00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 1: me catching one, which was which was a good experience 661 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 1: out in the bay of town for catching some fish. Yeah, 662 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,799 Speaker 1: that's what I do. I could fish in hold hold, 663 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:17,200 Speaker 1: hold on. I can fish in my backyard. Yes, I 664 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,919 Speaker 1: ain't got that kind of I ain't got that kind 665 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:24,799 Speaker 1: of lake he got. I ain't got the lake he got. 666 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,879 Speaker 1: But I'm not on the lake. I'm not on the lake. 667 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,560 Speaker 1: That's right, I'm on the lake got You know, big 668 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:35,240 Speaker 1: boy got lake property at his estate at the chateau. 669 00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:41,040 Speaker 1: You know you got a river. I'm just a little 670 00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 1: shared shared river property with other people. Get the lake? 671 00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:51,520 Speaker 1: Just having to go back? Is this whose lake is 672 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:55,160 Speaker 1: bigger than? Mind? Size matters? Is that we're talking about 673 00:42:55,239 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 1: right now? I just want to get in vacation, mo. Yeah, oh, 674 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:08,360 Speaker 1: I won't a vacation, but seem going down to the chateau. 675 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,720 Speaker 1: Remember you said that you're gonna I didn't. I didn't 676 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,320 Speaker 1: go nowhere. I didn't go nowhere. Have you ever been fishing, Carla, 677 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 1: because I've never been fishing. No, I want to learn. 678 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:26,040 Speaker 1: It seems relaxing. Oh it is. It's very Yeah, it's 679 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:30,400 Speaker 1: one of my absolute favorite things to do. It's your 680 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,480 Speaker 1: favorite thing to learn. You see what Steve says is 681 00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:36,719 Speaker 1: one of his favorite things to do. Oh. Absolutely, I 682 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,479 Speaker 1: like fishing morning. I like playing golf or smokers in golf. 683 00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:46,719 Speaker 1: What you Okay, No, fishing is dope, man, All right, 684 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,280 Speaker 1: but we're moving on. Okay, Coming up next, the nephew 685 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,840 Speaker 1: is here and he'll have a praying phone call for 686 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:59,160 Speaker 1: you right after this you're listening show coming up at 687 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,719 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. 688 00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today and the subject is me, 689 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:11,480 Speaker 1: my husband, the girlfriend, and the kids. It's a lot 690 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 1: going on and we'll yeah, we'll get into it in 691 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 1: just a little bit. Right now, the nephew is here 692 00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: with today's praying phone call. What you got for us, 693 00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:27,960 Speaker 1: naff Yo, baby got my babies name? Your baby? Got 694 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:32,719 Speaker 1: my baby name? Yo, baby, got my baby name? Yeah, 695 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 1: that's it right there, Come on, cat, your baby, I'm 696 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:41,279 Speaker 1: my baby name. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a Patricia, 697 00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:45,360 Speaker 1: Patricia who is it. How you doing? Listen, Um, my 698 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,960 Speaker 1: name is Floyd. Floyd. I want to give you a call. 699 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,560 Speaker 1: Your your daughter, she'll team's middle school. Right. What's your 700 00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:55,600 Speaker 1: name again? Okay? What can I just fight you? Well, 701 00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:57,759 Speaker 1: like I said, your your daughter she goes she do 702 00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:01,040 Speaker 1: go to middle school, right, yeah, okay, Now her name, 703 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:05,319 Speaker 1: her name is Dereka. We know that. Okay. Well, it's 704 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,320 Speaker 1: something wrong or something. No, no, no, nothing wrong. I 705 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,120 Speaker 1: mean I don't mean to along, you're nothing like that. 706 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:15,320 Speaker 1: But let me see what. Well, here's the situation. My 707 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 1: daughter actually goes to middle school along along with with 708 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:23,759 Speaker 1: your daughter. Okay, and and it's it's a bit of 709 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:25,759 Speaker 1: a problem that that that has arisen that me and 710 00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 1: my wife just found out about. Okay, some issues Derek 711 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,760 Speaker 1: and your baby in in some kind of like trouble 712 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,600 Speaker 1: or something. No, no, no, no, no, nothing like that. 713 00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: But I think you don't fool with nobody at that school. 714 00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,200 Speaker 1: She don't mess with nobody. She owned the honor roll 715 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:45,360 Speaker 1: and everything. I don't have no problems out of Dereka, right, Okay, 716 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:49,040 Speaker 1: I no, call me, let me know. Let me tell you, 717 00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,880 Speaker 1: miss miss Patricia, what's the problem is. See, my daughter 718 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:56,959 Speaker 1: name is Dereka. Okay, so, and and it just blew 719 00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:59,400 Speaker 1: me and my wife away that it was another Dereka 720 00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:03,120 Speaker 1: that went to the school. Okay, all right, I don't 721 00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:06,000 Speaker 1: know too many Derecas. That's a unique name. That's cute, okay, 722 00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:10,680 Speaker 1: right right, Well here's the problem me and my wife Actually, 723 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:12,600 Speaker 1: you know, when it was time to name my child, 724 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,080 Speaker 1: we thought we was really picking a name that nobody 725 00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,360 Speaker 1: would have a tick out for their daughter. And to 726 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 1: have another Dereka in the school that blew us away. 727 00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: And I guess the real reason why I'm trying to 728 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:27,200 Speaker 1: call you, miss Patricia, see if if if there's something 729 00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 1: maybe we can work out, you know, maybe uh like 730 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:35,080 Speaker 1: your Dereka does middle name or nickname she can be 731 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 1: called by in opposed to both of them being Derek. 732 00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,359 Speaker 1: You really want our child to be the only one 733 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:44,800 Speaker 1: with this name? Okay? Wait wait wait wait now you 734 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:48,640 Speaker 1: calling me? Are you asking me to change my baby's name? Well, 735 00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,839 Speaker 1: I mean you you ain't really got to legally change 736 00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,759 Speaker 1: I mean, but just start calling us something else, you know. No, No, 737 00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,880 Speaker 1: wait a minute, so you naming police or something? Do 738 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 1: you know how many? And Luke this and Patricia's out 739 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,279 Speaker 1: there what if I ask everybody in the United States 740 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,840 Speaker 1: to change their name from Patricia, you know how crazy 741 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,840 Speaker 1: that is. And I understand that you must be on drugs. 742 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 1: Not what I'm trying to say is you know this, 743 00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,839 Speaker 1: This is something that we really have. Our baby girl 744 00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 1: was this name, and we didn't want nobody else to 745 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,400 Speaker 1: have this. So does your Dereca a middle name? She 746 00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,640 Speaker 1: can you? No, we're gonna call her Dereka like we've 747 00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,279 Speaker 1: been calling your name, your baby d D. Let's call 748 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,879 Speaker 1: your baby d D. Did you change y'all? Y'all change 749 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,239 Speaker 1: y'all baby name at the school. I'm not calling I'm 750 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,759 Speaker 1: not calling my name. I don't give me what you 751 00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 1: call it, but I'm not changing my baby name. Hey, listen, Okay, Look, 752 00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:38,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to call you and handle us like adults, 753 00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,959 Speaker 1: you know, but you've seen to see you're gonna push 754 00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,080 Speaker 1: my front to take me to another level. Obviously, you 755 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,279 Speaker 1: ain't calling me trying to handle us. It doesn't ask 756 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 1: me to change my baby name, call my baby something 757 00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,440 Speaker 1: else at the school, because y'all want your baby name 758 00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 1: to be Derek, and the only Dereka in the school. 759 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,800 Speaker 1: He you have many other kids at the damn school 760 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:57,880 Speaker 1: got the same name. I understand that, but from my 761 00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:01,120 Speaker 1: baby girls, it ain't schools to be like that. Well, 762 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm spy gonna baby go and your wife, 763 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,840 Speaker 1: but you know I'm not changing my beady damn name. Now. 764 00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 1: I'll call y'all baby. Do you know what I'm trying 765 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,439 Speaker 1: to do is get it rectified that we can call 766 00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,120 Speaker 1: you get my phone number. I'm not a school. Ain't 767 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 1: good you my number. I got your number. Don't worry 768 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,360 Speaker 1: about how I got it. The problem is that what 769 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,560 Speaker 1: we're talking about right now is call we what can 770 00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,520 Speaker 1: we start calling your child? I don't give it. I 771 00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:29,319 Speaker 1: know that school ain't called you damn number. Listen, man, 772 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 1: all I'm trying to do is thig out what can 773 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,319 Speaker 1: we start calling your daughter? Don't the cut less she's 774 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: been doing called you and your wife got need to 775 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:40,560 Speaker 1: go down to the statistics office and get your baby name. 776 00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:42,239 Speaker 1: I kind you have to sum out to kind of 777 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:46,319 Speaker 1: name beha, but my day to keep the same day name. 778 00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,360 Speaker 1: Let me explain something to you. I've been trying to 779 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 1: be calm with you even now show, but if you 780 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,840 Speaker 1: are firing something else to call on. And I'm gonna go. 781 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get all that you know, dum number, How 782 00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:57,560 Speaker 1: do you get my n Don't worry about how I 783 00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,840 Speaker 1: got the number. Listen to what I'm trying to tell you. 784 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,879 Speaker 1: If you don't find another name, I'm gonna start getting 785 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 1: the kids to call your daughter something else. You're just 786 00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:08,120 Speaker 1: going to call my daddy starting I start with a 787 00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:11,560 Speaker 1: Bay who called my buddy? Stop? Next, you're trying to 788 00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:14,160 Speaker 1: change your baby names. I want my baby name to 789 00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:21,200 Speaker 1: beat the Dereka him. It's true. My princess is supposed 790 00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,600 Speaker 1: to be the only one named Dereka. Had a chain 791 00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,399 Speaker 1: calling your baby stopping else at the school. I'm going 792 00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:30,279 Speaker 1: out of these kids starting tomorrow at school calling your daughter. 793 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,480 Speaker 1: I'm going else. I'm not standing. I'm just staring with you. 794 00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:35,400 Speaker 1: Like this number off my phone and don't call my 795 00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 1: right Let me tell you something. I got one more 796 00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:39,320 Speaker 1: thing I need to say to you. You listening to me? 797 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:43,640 Speaker 1: What are you listening to me? I'm listening to you. 798 00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:47,839 Speaker 1: What this is, Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning 799 00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:57,960 Speaker 1: to show you just got franked by your girlfriend. I 800 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:04,279 Speaker 1: would give h Wait, old y'all, ain't put me on 801 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:11,600 Speaker 1: this I'm so sorry, so solid. Yes, I'm gonna give 802 00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:18,440 Speaker 1: her your that is Oh, I'm so sorry, but you 803 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:21,440 Speaker 1: got my nerves bad this morning. Lord, have mercy. Lord, 804 00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 1: I gotta kiss my breath. I got one more thing 805 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,520 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you, darling. One is what is the 806 00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:29,719 Speaker 1: baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land, 807 00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:36,239 Speaker 1: Steve Hart, The Morning Show. I listen to y'all every morning. Crazy, 808 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,720 Speaker 1: y'all crazy and not have mercy. Y'all got my blood 809 00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,319 Speaker 1: pressure this, but I love y'all. I listen to y'all 810 00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:48,960 Speaker 1: show every morning. Come on, come on that same name. 811 00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:56,440 Speaker 1: Let the baby be Derek. Baby. You know how crazy 812 00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:02,319 Speaker 1: you sound, right, even stupid baby? She said, you name 813 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:09,040 Speaker 1: your baby d d Yeah. Yeah, that's not gonna happen. People. 814 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,240 Speaker 1: Let me let me take a look at the stupid 815 00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,920 Speaker 1: calendar and see what we have coming up on the 816 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:21,480 Speaker 1: stupid calendar. Bring it. Uh yeah, we have coming up 817 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,600 Speaker 1: on the on the stupid calendar. We have Virginia Beach, 818 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 1: Funny Bone. That's on the calendar of hun that's July sixteenth, seventeenth, 819 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:32,000 Speaker 1: and eighteenth. That's on the stupid schedule. Also on the 820 00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 1: stupid schedule is Washington, d C. For the hit TV 821 00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,920 Speaker 1: show Ready to Love, Getting Ready to be there for 822 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:41,320 Speaker 1: about three or four months, shooting across the entire city. 823 00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:45,400 Speaker 1: That's the whole DMV there, that's uh DC, Maryland, Virginia. 824 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 1: The Nephew is coming to calend So that is the 825 00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,759 Speaker 1: stupid schedule. So I'll be on the lookout. You may 826 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: be a part of the schedule and be able to 827 00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,319 Speaker 1: experience stupid at its best. It doesn't get any better 828 00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,960 Speaker 1: than that. Who is this girl? Excuse me? Who? I 829 00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:05,520 Speaker 1: don't know? Who are you? Where's Timmy? And bringing back? Yeah? 830 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:13,680 Speaker 1: Who is in there? Just trying to be uh you know, 831 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,360 Speaker 1: a little bit of both, a little bit of Timmy, 832 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:18,320 Speaker 1: a little bit of Thomas. Just kind of blend that 833 00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:21,600 Speaker 1: thing and just let people know what you why and 834 00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:25,640 Speaker 1: what's on the stupid scancer y'all don't like do y'all 835 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:30,680 Speaker 1: not like Thomas Man? We won't have her, know you 836 00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:34,279 Speaker 1: Just throw your hands Shirley, did you just who was that? 837 00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:41,480 Speaker 1: What was it? I was boyd By? Who are you well? 838 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:47,719 Speaker 1: Morning show? We had the Quiet Storm? Yeah, okay, get 839 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 1: ready stupid coming to time? But Junior Beach, funny Bone 840 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:55,920 Speaker 1: Baby July sixteen, seventeen eighteen. Stupid at its best, straight 841 00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,360 Speaker 1: ignatrocity is on the road and uh watching d C. 842 00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,719 Speaker 1: I'll keep it sexy. What I get there, y'all stay tuned. 843 00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:05,000 Speaker 1: All right, there you have it better? There we go. 844 00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 1: All right, listen, thank you, nephew. The Strawberry letter today, Me, 845 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 1: my husband, the girlfriend and the kids. Will get into 846 00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,680 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 847 00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:22,960 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 848 00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:26,600 Speaker 1: you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, 849 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,719 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 850 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,720 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. You could be the ones 851 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:37,160 Speaker 1: who's whoever? You could be the one whose letter we're 852 00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 1: reading right now. That's what I'm trying to say. You 853 00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:43,480 Speaker 1: never buckle love and hold on tight. We got it 854 00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,839 Speaker 1: for you. Here it is, this straw every letter. All right, 855 00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:51,239 Speaker 1: thank you nephew. Subject me, my husband, the girlfriend, and 856 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:55,399 Speaker 1: the kids. Woo all right, let's get into this one. 857 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:59,600 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I am forty two. I'm a forty 858 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,440 Speaker 1: two year old married woman and I've been married for 859 00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:06,720 Speaker 1: four years. I have two children from my first marriage, 860 00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:09,440 Speaker 1: and he came with four children from his first marriage. 861 00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:13,759 Speaker 1: A month ago, we celebrated our fourth wedding anniversary and 862 00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,399 Speaker 1: I found out that he had a girlfriend for as 863 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:19,360 Speaker 1: long as I've been married, as long as we've been married. 864 00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,319 Speaker 1: She called him early on the morning of our anniversary, 865 00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 1: and I answered, since he was putting out the trash. 866 00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,239 Speaker 1: The number was stored as Damien, so I thought it 867 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,759 Speaker 1: might be one of his co workers. It was a 868 00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,960 Speaker 1: woman on the phone, and she said, good morning, babe, 869 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:39,840 Speaker 1: what time will you be here? I responded, and she 870 00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:42,160 Speaker 1: was startled to hear my voice, but she called me 871 00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:45,600 Speaker 1: by my name. She said it was her daughter's third birthday, 872 00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:49,640 Speaker 1: and I asked whose daughter. She poured out her heart 873 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:53,560 Speaker 1: to me and said she has two children by my husband, 874 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,960 Speaker 1: a three year old and a one year old. Her 875 00:54:57,040 --> 00:55:00,520 Speaker 1: voice sounded from Milliar and I asked her name, and 876 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,600 Speaker 1: she said, we go to the same hairstylist, but we 877 00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,239 Speaker 1: have never met. I told her to wait till my 878 00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:09,400 Speaker 1: husband came back in so he could clear things up. 879 00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:12,200 Speaker 1: I had her own speakerphone, and he was shot to 880 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,120 Speaker 1: walk in and hear her voice. I asked if he 881 00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 1: really was the father of her children, and he said, yes, 882 00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:22,279 Speaker 1: he's done two D an a test to prove it. 883 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:24,879 Speaker 1: He sat on the bed next to me and took 884 00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:28,720 Speaker 1: the phone from me. We cried together, and he asked 885 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:31,920 Speaker 1: me to forgive him. Since that day, I've met as 886 00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:35,800 Speaker 1: other two kids, which gives us a total of eight children. 887 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,680 Speaker 1: D has planned to move away for a while and 888 00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:42,840 Speaker 1: asked us to keep the kids. I'm barely dealing with 889 00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:46,080 Speaker 1: the affair, and now I have to raise his outside children. 890 00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:49,080 Speaker 1: My husband keeps saying he chose to marry me and 891 00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:54,000 Speaker 1: not her. What do I do in this situation? Please help? Okay, 892 00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:58,200 Speaker 1: first of all, you say, no, okay, no, you're not 893 00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:02,480 Speaker 1: taking care of anyone's kid. Uh. This woman has a 894 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,480 Speaker 1: lot of nerve. I mean, she has to be slightly 895 00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:08,879 Speaker 1: out of her mind. I'm thinking because she can keep 896 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:12,919 Speaker 1: her own kids. I know she didn't think you would 897 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:16,040 Speaker 1: be babysitting the kids when she was sleeping with your husband. 898 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:19,160 Speaker 1: You think just because you forgave him doesn't mean you 899 00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:22,920 Speaker 1: have to stay with him. So what you guys cried together? 900 00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,440 Speaker 1: What else could he do in that moment? Okay? What 901 00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,919 Speaker 1: else could he do? He was busted? Yeah? Cry, that's good. 902 00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:34,560 Speaker 1: Let's go there, and um, don't you you know, look, 903 00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,520 Speaker 1: don't you go feeling all sorry for your husband and 904 00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,400 Speaker 1: you know, getting soft on him. He cheated on you. 905 00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:44,719 Speaker 1: He cheated. Uh. Inside, he was probably praying you didn't 906 00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:46,959 Speaker 1: kill him in his sleep when he when you guys 907 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:55,839 Speaker 1: were crying together, and that's why he cried. That's that's 908 00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:59,160 Speaker 1: why he cried. He was scared. Okay, he made not one, 909 00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:03,000 Speaker 1: but two kids with this woman. Was he crying then? 910 00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:07,759 Speaker 1: Maybe in ecstasy? Stop feeling like you have to do something. 911 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:10,600 Speaker 1: You've asked us, what do you do? He said? He 912 00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:13,480 Speaker 1: chose to marry you, Okay, he also chose to cheat 913 00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:15,800 Speaker 1: and have two kids with this woman who goes to 914 00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:19,640 Speaker 1: the same stylist as you, so you know she knows 915 00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 1: all about you, your husband, the girlfriend, and the kids. 916 00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:26,080 Speaker 1: The girlfriend doesn't need to go anywhere talking about she 917 00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,240 Speaker 1: needs to move away for a little while. No, you 918 00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 1: make her stay right here and deal with her own kids. 919 00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:37,000 Speaker 1: You take your kids and leave them. Steve subject me, 920 00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:43,760 Speaker 1: my husband, the girlfriend and the kids. This letter should 921 00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:47,400 Speaker 1: read like I said in the promo, me my husband, 922 00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 1: the girlfriend and the kids. The police, the hospital, child 923 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 1: protective services, and the coroner. Oh wow, all this need 924 00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 1: to be in this letter. Ladies forty two been married 925 00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:05,960 Speaker 1: four years, got two children from her first marriage. He 926 00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:10,240 Speaker 1: came with four children from his first marriage. And a 927 00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:13,360 Speaker 1: month ago they celebrated their fourth wedding anniversary. So that 928 00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:17,720 Speaker 1: means you all don't have any children together. You got 929 00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:23,920 Speaker 1: two before and he had four before, and fourth you 930 00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 1: celebrate your fourth and and you found out that he's 931 00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:29,040 Speaker 1: got a girlfriend for as long as y'all been married. 932 00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 1: Now here's what happened. She called him early on the 933 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:36,480 Speaker 1: morning of our anniversary. I answered the phone. Why because 934 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:39,040 Speaker 1: he was putting out the trash. The number was stored 935 00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:42,120 Speaker 1: as Damien, so I thought it might be one of 936 00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,520 Speaker 1: his co workers. It turned out as a woman on 937 00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:47,160 Speaker 1: the phone. She said, good morning, babe, what time would 938 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 1: you be here? What? And I responded that she was 939 00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,920 Speaker 1: startled to hear your voice. But she called you by 940 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:58,240 Speaker 1: your name and said it was their daughter's third birthday, 941 00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:00,959 Speaker 1: and I asked, whose daughter? And that's when she poured 942 00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:04,200 Speaker 1: out a heart. Now let's stop right here. You didn't 943 00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 1: had this man, didn't had an affair three years ago, 944 00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:11,880 Speaker 1: which was mean that the baby was they was had, 945 00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:15,240 Speaker 1: making the baby or nine months ten months before that, 946 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 1: and they had this baby on the same day as 947 00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:28,360 Speaker 1: your anniversary. That's ironic, man. And so now he asked her, 948 00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:32,560 Speaker 1: good morning, baby, what time will you be coming by here? Now, 949 00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:39,120 Speaker 1: I don't know how he was gonna played a birthday 950 00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:47,920 Speaker 1: and the anniversary. God dog, Now she expected him over 951 00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:50,520 Speaker 1: the Hey, baby, what time would you be here? What 952 00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:53,960 Speaker 1: he finn to tell his wife on anniversary that he 953 00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:58,600 Speaker 1: finn to go and he got a baby's birthday. Boy, 954 00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:02,360 Speaker 1: this is ugly. When he come back, he gets ugly up. Yeah, 955 01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:04,880 Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 956 01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:08,640 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Subject me, my husband, 957 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,040 Speaker 1: the girlfriend, and the kids will get back into it 958 01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:17,640 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, let's recap today 959 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:23,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry letters Steve the subject to me, my husband, the girlfriend, 960 01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:27,600 Speaker 1: and the kids. Yeah, this lady's married to this man 961 01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,040 Speaker 1: for four years. Come to find out he didn't had 962 01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 1: a girlfriend the whole time, and she's pregnant. She has 963 01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,000 Speaker 1: a three year old by him, and on one year old. 964 01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,880 Speaker 1: We don't even got to the one year old. Yah. 965 01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:44,000 Speaker 1: And she called the man's house while he was out 966 01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,640 Speaker 1: taking the trash out, and the wife picked up the 967 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:49,000 Speaker 1: phone because it was listed under Damien. She thought it 968 01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:51,040 Speaker 1: was one of the co workers and it was a 969 01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,000 Speaker 1: woman on the phone and the baby. She has to 970 01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:54,840 Speaker 1: the phone and say good morning, babe, what time will 971 01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:57,640 Speaker 1: you be here? And then the lady answered the phone 972 01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:59,640 Speaker 1: and says she was starting to hear my voice, but 973 01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,160 Speaker 1: she called me by my name. She said it was 974 01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:06,160 Speaker 1: a daughter's third birthday. I asked whose daughter. She poured 975 01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,600 Speaker 1: out a heart to me. She has two children by 976 01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:10,760 Speaker 1: my husband, a three year old and a one year old. 977 01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,480 Speaker 1: I don't know how he was gonna play this birthday 978 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 1: in the anniversary. Lord Jesus, I wish you to put 979 01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:18,840 Speaker 1: that in this letter. Her voice sounded familiar, and I 980 01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,200 Speaker 1: asked her her real name, and she said, we go 981 01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:26,840 Speaker 1: to the same hairstyles, but we've never met. Now she's 982 01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:30,000 Speaker 1: fully aware of you, you haven't been aware of her. 983 01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:35,000 Speaker 1: I told her to wait till my husband came back 984 01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:38,760 Speaker 1: in so he could clear things up, because undoubtedly this 985 01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 1: woman is doubting that this woman got the right man. 986 01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:44,080 Speaker 1: You tell me what y'all got a baby. I had 987 01:01:44,160 --> 01:01:47,600 Speaker 1: her own speaker phone. He was shocked to walk in 988 01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:52,480 Speaker 1: and hear her voice, Lady, lady, shocked is an understatement. 989 01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:58,680 Speaker 1: Shocked ain't what he wore. I'm gonna tell you. Man 990 01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:02,560 Speaker 1: on the inside of him his head, that was a 991 01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:07,680 Speaker 1: cherry bomb. Him made it explosion. I mean his whole 992 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:13,040 Speaker 1: brain liquefied and was running around his head loose. He 993 01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,760 Speaker 1: was not shocked. This was his brain sounded like when 994 01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:20,000 Speaker 1: he walked in and herd heard you talking to her. 995 01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:29,000 Speaker 1: That's how scramble it was. The people was running around 996 01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:33,240 Speaker 1: in his head having a riot. He didn't know what 997 01:02:36,680 --> 01:02:39,760 Speaker 1: it was that type of noise, so then pants couldn't 998 01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:45,360 Speaker 1: have been cleaned up. It happened to him, and then 999 01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:48,400 Speaker 1: he was shocked to hear her voice. Understatement. I asked 1000 01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:51,320 Speaker 1: if he really was the father of the children. He 1001 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:55,640 Speaker 1: on speaker phone. He got to say yes, yes, and 1002 01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:59,320 Speaker 1: he's done two DNA taste to prove him. He sat 1003 01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:01,400 Speaker 1: on the bed next to me and took the phone 1004 01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:08,840 Speaker 1: from me. Let me get this health of office first. Baby. 1005 01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:12,200 Speaker 1: He gave him a little bit of relief to have 1006 01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:16,920 Speaker 1: the phone. It's just a little bit. It wasn't much, 1007 01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:22,760 Speaker 1: but it was just And then we cried together, cares 1008 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:25,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have gave a damn about together. But I 1009 01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:28,600 Speaker 1: showed would have been crying though, yeah, what else I 1010 01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,800 Speaker 1: would I wouldn't. It wouldn't have mattered to me if 1011 01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:37,760 Speaker 1: you joined in or not. I'm crying. He was, and 1012 01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 1: he asked me to forgive him. Well, now a lot 1013 01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:44,320 Speaker 1: of time has occurred because she went from he asked 1014 01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,880 Speaker 1: me to forgive him too. Since that day, I met 1015 01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:50,680 Speaker 1: his other two kids. That's a three year old and 1016 01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,920 Speaker 1: a one year old, which gives us a tot of 1017 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:56,320 Speaker 1: eight kids. Here where the letter gets stupid, D that 1018 01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:59,520 Speaker 1: is the health of name. Girlfriend D has planned to 1019 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:01,480 Speaker 1: move away for a while, and she asks us to 1020 01:04:01,600 --> 01:04:10,040 Speaker 1: keep your kids? What? Who? WHA? What D going? D? 1021 01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:12,520 Speaker 1: D sounds like she find to go get a fresh 1022 01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:16,160 Speaker 1: start stress D find to get some of this stress 1023 01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:19,320 Speaker 1: off of her. D been tired of living this lie. 1024 01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:22,240 Speaker 1: And now that's why she just poured her heart out 1025 01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:25,000 Speaker 1: because she was tired of holding this and now you're 1026 01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:27,600 Speaker 1: on the phone, let me let this go. And now 1027 01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:29,320 Speaker 1: since how to let it go, let me go get 1028 01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:32,800 Speaker 1: me a fresh start, y'all keep these kids for me 1029 01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:35,640 Speaker 1: because I need to go start over. I need to 1030 01:04:35,880 --> 01:04:40,080 Speaker 1: find me a new life somewhere now helpful. And then 1031 01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,800 Speaker 1: she said D has planned to move away for a 1032 01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:45,200 Speaker 1: while and ask us to keep the kids. What you 1033 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:48,840 Speaker 1: mean a while? The hell is a wild You're gonna 1034 01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:51,000 Speaker 1: see your sister for a week and you coming back? 1035 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:55,760 Speaker 1: What the hell is a while? I'm barely dealing with 1036 01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:59,240 Speaker 1: the affair, and now I have to raise his outside children. No, 1037 01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:02,480 Speaker 1: you don't. No, And wait a minute, how do D 1038 01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:08,000 Speaker 1: get to get the break? Exactly D did? D did 1039 01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:12,520 Speaker 1: the D? Now she get the breaks? My husband keeps 1040 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,560 Speaker 1: saying he chose to marry me and not her. That 1041 01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:19,600 Speaker 1: ain't no consolation prize. You can't tell him. Yeah, I 1042 01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:21,640 Speaker 1: would rather you married her and asked me to be 1043 01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:25,120 Speaker 1: the sideline chick. Let me make that decision. But no, 1044 01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,520 Speaker 1: you married me, got me thinking I got something, not 1045 01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:30,320 Speaker 1: come to find out you got a sideline chick. So 1046 01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:33,280 Speaker 1: you want to know what you should do the kid? 1047 01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:35,240 Speaker 1: First of all, the kids have no blame in this. 1048 01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:39,400 Speaker 1: My question you is are you gonna forgive him? I'm 1049 01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:42,360 Speaker 1: not keeping him. I can't tell you what to do. 1050 01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:46,520 Speaker 1: Do you want to remain in this marriage? And only 1051 01:05:46,600 --> 01:05:49,240 Speaker 1: you can answer that question. I'm not gonna tell you 1052 01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:52,000 Speaker 1: leave him, because it don't sound like you planning on 1053 01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 1: doing that. Now, I've been deep in living this lie 1054 01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,800 Speaker 1: and needs a break. And she sounds like she couldn't 1055 01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:02,400 Speaker 1: wait to stop hiding hook kids. And I don't know 1056 01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:04,160 Speaker 1: how long he didn't hear a three year old in 1057 01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,120 Speaker 1: the one year old. It's hard to hide two kids. 1058 01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:09,520 Speaker 1: You knew everybody at the salon knows about it. Oh 1059 01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:13,080 Speaker 1: that's what I was gonna say. The half styles got yeah, yeah, yeah. 1060 01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:21,200 Speaker 1: You voice from being under the damn head drive talking 1061 01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:25,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check 1062 01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:27,880 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on to Man coming up 1063 01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:31,200 Speaker 1: with forty six minutes after Sports Talk with Junior. Right 1064 01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:36,880 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Stry Morning Show. All right, guys, 1065 01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:40,080 Speaker 1: Junior is here with Sports Talk. What you got, Junior? 1066 01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:43,479 Speaker 1: What is going on with Scottie Pippen? Oh my god? 1067 01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:46,920 Speaker 1: What Scottie's out here rattlers and feathers people. Now he 1068 01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:49,200 Speaker 1: has a book coming out. Okay, I take that in mind. 1069 01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:52,120 Speaker 1: He has a book coming out called Unguarded. Now, in 1070 01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:56,160 Speaker 1: this book, Scottie Pippen says that Phil Jackson was a racist. Now, 1071 01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:59,200 Speaker 1: I've never heard that about Phil Jackson. You ain't never 1072 01:06:59,320 --> 01:07:01,680 Speaker 1: heard nothing. And this is how he got to the conclusion. 1073 01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:04,800 Speaker 1: It was a game against the Knicks. Well, Scotty Scottie 1074 01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:07,240 Speaker 1: Pippen was on the sideline with Tony Kukoch. They over 1075 01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:09,600 Speaker 1: in the huddle and Phil Jackson dropped the play for 1076 01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:13,160 Speaker 1: Tony Kukoach to hit the game winning shot and not 1077 01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:16,480 Speaker 1: Scottie Pippen. Pippin took itself out the game and then 1078 01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:19,400 Speaker 1: Tony Kukos goes out hit the shot. Now where in 1079 01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:26,600 Speaker 1: there is the racist He picked the white man to shoot. Okay, 1080 01:07:27,040 --> 01:07:29,919 Speaker 1: that I thought this was basketball. That's what I thought 1081 01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,160 Speaker 1: this was. He didn't call you no names or nothing. 1082 01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:34,760 Speaker 1: This is about the least racist thing I can see. Yeah, 1083 01:07:34,840 --> 01:07:39,000 Speaker 1: that's how he got to scott Yeah, weigh too much 1084 01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:40,920 Speaker 1: other stuff going on, man, I mean, and this is 1085 01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:42,560 Speaker 1: this is the crazy part. Then he says he was 1086 01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:46,440 Speaker 1: not giving enough credit that Michael Jordan was not the 1087 01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:49,480 Speaker 1: real leader in the locker room. He was and he 1088 01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:52,680 Speaker 1: didn't get any respect from the organization or the press. 1089 01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:55,240 Speaker 1: Now this he got a book coming out, but we're 1090 01:07:55,280 --> 01:08:00,200 Speaker 1: not gonna sell this. Saw the move the documentary, the 1091 01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:03,840 Speaker 1: documentary I saw that damn show looked like the leader 1092 01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:09,959 Speaker 1: in the movie all the way through. So I don't 1093 01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,360 Speaker 1: know what he's come on, Scotti. This is not a 1094 01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:14,360 Speaker 1: good look, man, I mean he going out to everybody. 1095 01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:17,759 Speaker 1: Kevin Durant said, Kevin Durant can't win the championship without 1096 01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:23,320 Speaker 1: any help. That this is kind of ironic. Yeah, I 1097 01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:26,000 Speaker 1: don't know what. I don't know what Scotta talking about. 1098 01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:28,320 Speaker 1: I mean, you did have Michael Jordan. I don't know 1099 01:08:28,479 --> 01:08:34,120 Speaker 1: what ever, I got your six ring when Jordan retired 1100 01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:38,479 Speaker 1: from him two years? Where was you at? Yeah, since 1101 01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:40,840 Speaker 1: we talked about leader, Scotty, I mean, you had two 1102 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,800 Speaker 1: years to get one, you didn't. He came back, you 1103 01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,760 Speaker 1: got three more. Sound like you need Jordan. That's that's 1104 01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:50,680 Speaker 1: That's just what I think happened. I think Scottie was 1105 01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:53,760 Speaker 1: writing a book. I think Scotty could have made some 1106 01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,200 Speaker 1: off color remarks, but I don't really see how he 1107 01:08:56,240 --> 01:09:00,520 Speaker 1: could have thought he could print that in the book interview. 1108 01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:04,679 Speaker 1: I believe, Yeah, he wants to sell a lot of books. 1109 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:06,920 Speaker 1: He got to be. That's all this could be fault 1110 01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:09,120 Speaker 1: because I don't I don't know why you'd make that comment, man, 1111 01:09:09,160 --> 01:09:11,519 Speaker 1: I mean, like you said, we saw it now, we 1112 01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:14,800 Speaker 1: saw one. Now we saw, we saw when you didn't 1113 01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:21,479 Speaker 1: about Michael Jordan to see what the rest of y'all 1114 01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:24,439 Speaker 1: was in there? All right, thank you Junior. Coming up 1115 01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:27,479 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. Are your twenties really 1116 01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:31,080 Speaker 1: the best years of your life? Think about that. We'll 1117 01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:38,200 Speaker 1: talk about it right after this. You're listening to the show, Well, 1118 01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,560 Speaker 1: some people would love to go back to relive their twenties. 1119 01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:44,720 Speaker 1: You hear people talking about that all the time. Were 1120 01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:49,439 Speaker 1: those years really really the best time of your life? Um? Well, 1121 01:09:49,560 --> 01:09:52,800 Speaker 1: according to a new pole not everyone thinks, so I 1122 01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:56,320 Speaker 1: knew you. GOV survey asked Americans what are the best 1123 01:09:56,439 --> 01:09:59,080 Speaker 1: years of your life? Twenty four percent of people do 1124 01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:02,040 Speaker 1: believe that they're twenties were the best time in their life, 1125 01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:05,439 Speaker 1: but almost an equal amount say their best years were 1126 01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:09,120 Speaker 1: between thirty and thirty nine. So I got to ask you, Stephen, 1127 01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:12,320 Speaker 1: the guys, what years would you say were the best 1128 01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:16,559 Speaker 1: years of your life? And why? And if you could 1129 01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:19,160 Speaker 1: what and if you could relive any age, what would it, 1130 01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:21,680 Speaker 1: what would it be? And why? I go back to 1131 01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:26,040 Speaker 1: sixty four because last year, right, your best year. That's 1132 01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:29,000 Speaker 1: now I'm gonna go right on back sixty four. I'm 1133 01:10:29,360 --> 01:10:35,240 Speaker 1: not going back damn twenties an I had every major 1134 01:10:35,479 --> 01:10:39,479 Speaker 1: failure is that when you were homeless in your twenties 1135 01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:45,320 Speaker 1: and I was just started at thirty dude, married, flunked 1136 01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:50,560 Speaker 1: out of school, lost a bunch of jobs, didn't have 1137 01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:56,840 Speaker 1: my sugar honey iced tea together. Now, them twenties was 1138 01:10:57,000 --> 01:11:04,760 Speaker 1: brutal for me. Man, I learned a lot in them twinnies. Huh, No, 1139 01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:10,040 Speaker 1: best the best years. The Bible promised me that, though said, 1140 01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:12,559 Speaker 1: if you honor me, your latter days will be greater. 1141 01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:16,559 Speaker 1: And that's that's what I'm living. I'm living my best 1142 01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:21,920 Speaker 1: life now. So okay, yeah, what about you junior two 1143 01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:25,840 Speaker 1: thousand and eleven and owned the whole? Were you then though? 1144 01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:30,880 Speaker 1: Thirty three and up until now? Yeah? Yeah, that's the 1145 01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:32,599 Speaker 1: day I got the call to come work for Uncle 1146 01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:36,160 Speaker 1: Steve on this morning show. Best this damn decision and 1147 01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:38,680 Speaker 1: day moving forward, I'm going I'm not going back to 1148 01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:41,439 Speaker 1: mount twinnies. I was starting comedy. I was a horrible 1149 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:43,160 Speaker 1: at it. I wouldn't moving then, I wouldn't getting the 1150 01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:45,920 Speaker 1: work done, and I had no family support. You couldn't 1151 01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:49,920 Speaker 1: go back to nobody house. I'm grateful to God for 1152 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,599 Speaker 1: right now today. As a matter of fact, this morning 1153 01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:55,240 Speaker 1: best day of my life. Did they think it was 1154 01:11:55,840 --> 01:11:58,880 Speaker 1: a stupid career to get into? What do you mean? Yeah? 1155 01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:02,040 Speaker 1: Surely every time you call over there for how much 1156 01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:07,360 Speaker 1: money we make today, mister comedian? Oh, I love your family. 1157 01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:15,040 Speaker 1: They keep it. Don't say though, don't say back. What 1158 01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:22,160 Speaker 1: about you, nephew? What about mid forties? And up? Okay up? 1159 01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:25,960 Speaker 1: Not your twenty Oh no, no, I supposed die fold 1160 01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:30,400 Speaker 1: times in twenty Oh my god, I supposed to be 1161 01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:33,000 Speaker 1: up here, so die four TIMEO go went to jail 1162 01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:36,880 Speaker 1: for three times? New that was it when it was rough. 1163 01:12:37,360 --> 01:12:40,360 Speaker 1: So what's so good about your mid forties till now? 1164 01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:47,719 Speaker 1: A lot more focused, you know. Calm down one, calm 1165 01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:55,000 Speaker 1: down us me. Yeah, wait a minute, Oh this is 1166 01:12:55,040 --> 01:13:01,040 Speaker 1: a new slash. Okay, you're calm now the hot hat 1167 01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:06,840 Speaker 1: on the show. What you say? The word is you're 1168 01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:14,439 Speaker 1: welcome because you very well. There's no way, no way, tommy, 1169 01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:19,400 Speaker 1: my twenties. I was snapping right on all. Let's get 1170 01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:22,360 Speaker 1: it cracking. We fight right here right now in the church. 1171 01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:25,439 Speaker 1: I don't care. Let's go. You and your uncle are 1172 01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:28,639 Speaker 1: similar in that you both like to fight. No, I'm 1173 01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:30,800 Speaker 1: not like to, but you know, if we got to 1174 01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:34,439 Speaker 1: your rise to the occasion, Yeah, ain't run. I definitely 1175 01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:37,920 Speaker 1: don't want to, definitely don't want to. But I'm not 1176 01:13:38,040 --> 01:13:41,320 Speaker 1: standing here. Why are you just whooping on me? That 1177 01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:46,840 Speaker 1: my favorite last ye? Why? Why are you kicking my ass? 1178 01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:52,479 Speaker 1: What is I'm puposed to? Just tell me what it 1179 01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:56,479 Speaker 1: is I'm supposed to be going. You gotta fight back, right, bro, 1180 01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:59,800 Speaker 1: I ain't here for that. I just want to know 1181 01:14:00,000 --> 01:14:05,240 Speaker 1: our role we are imposing for this picture, right. I 1182 01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:09,000 Speaker 1: didn't agree to do this scene in the movie. It's 1183 01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:14,240 Speaker 1: gonna be some pushback over your all right, Okay, We'll 1184 01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:17,479 Speaker 1: be back with more of The Steve Harvey Morning Show 1185 01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:19,960 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this, 1186 01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:27,040 Speaker 1: you're listening to show. While the Daytime Emmy's had to 1187 01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:31,439 Speaker 1: apologize to actress Verona ka Red. Verona Karreed took over 1188 01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:36,000 Speaker 1: for actress Marguerite Bray her role as made Mamie Johnson 1189 01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:39,479 Speaker 1: on the soap operate Young and the Restless. Verona Karred, 1190 01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:43,840 Speaker 1: who was still alive, well, her picture was inadvertently used 1191 01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:48,679 Speaker 1: during the Daytime Emmy's in a memorium segment the Daytime 1192 01:14:48,720 --> 01:14:51,880 Speaker 1: Emmy's released a statement saying we deeply regret this era 1193 01:14:52,000 --> 01:14:55,080 Speaker 1: and attend to intend to re edit this segment for 1194 01:14:55,360 --> 01:15:02,120 Speaker 1: digital releases. Okay, just isn't Cheryl hosting the Yeah? Yeah, okay, 1195 01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:05,479 Speaker 1: she may have been the one to catch it. Wait, 1196 01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:10,720 Speaker 1: I mean already could relate to because I'm always I know, 1197 01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:14,080 Speaker 1: I know that's but y'all they already had the daytime memories. 1198 01:15:14,600 --> 01:15:20,479 Speaker 1: M M okay, well they had. They had to apologize, yeah, 1199 01:15:21,040 --> 01:15:24,320 Speaker 1: putting her picture up. Yeah, they made the mistakes saying 1200 01:15:24,400 --> 01:15:27,719 Speaker 1: she was gone already. And thank you Carlo for pointing 1201 01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:32,680 Speaker 1: that out a story. I was like, I do have 1202 01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:37,400 Speaker 1: a Tennessee sometimes to take you out of here, out 1203 01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:42,479 Speaker 1: of you. Sorry, he's the biggest virtual funeral home I 1204 01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:47,960 Speaker 1: able to say. I need to be unburied by the Bernards. 1205 01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:54,920 Speaker 1: I know. Well, at least they apologized, yes, and and 1206 01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:59,160 Speaker 1: and made it right. So that's the important thing. We'll 1207 01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:02,880 Speaker 1: have more the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Guess we will 1208 01:16:03,600 --> 01:16:07,479 Speaker 1: coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right 1209 01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:12,600 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the show, all right, and 1210 01:16:12,720 --> 01:16:16,559 Speaker 1: trending medical news, guys, the Black Coalition against COVID nineteen 1211 01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:20,559 Speaker 1: will be hosting a special call Making It Plain town 1212 01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:23,599 Speaker 1: hall that will be tonight, June twenty ninth, at seven 1213 01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:27,320 Speaker 1: Eastern time. The live event will feature White House leaders, 1214 01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:31,240 Speaker 1: medical professionals, and labor union experts who will discuss how 1215 01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 1: COVID nineteen is impacting black unvaccinated essential workers as America reopened. 1216 01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:41,680 Speaker 1: Join the conversation tonight at seven pm Eastern on Facebook 1217 01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:47,080 Speaker 1: dot com slash blackdoctor dot org. That's Facebook dot com 1218 01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:51,040 Speaker 1: slashback blackdoctor dot org, or you can go to YouTube 1219 01:16:51,080 --> 01:16:57,280 Speaker 1: dot com forward slash black doctor org. All right, good business, 1220 01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:00,880 Speaker 1: good information. Yeah, yeah, don't miss up on that information 1221 01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:04,600 Speaker 1: for sure. Let's y'all, let's go, y'all, we gotta get vaccinated. 1222 01:17:04,760 --> 01:17:10,680 Speaker 1: Let's do this. I don't, I really don't understand the hesitancy. 1223 01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:14,200 Speaker 1: But at the same time, everybody else to make the 1224 01:17:14,320 --> 01:17:17,600 Speaker 1: decision for themselves. I didn't. I'm not going for the 1225 01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:20,840 Speaker 1: theory portion of it. Let me just tell you this. 1226 01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:25,040 Speaker 1: My in laws, who are in their eighties, both of 1227 01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:32,280 Speaker 1: them that their nurse gave them COVID. The doctor said, 1228 01:17:32,560 --> 01:17:36,200 Speaker 1: thank god you all had the vaccinated. This could have 1229 01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:41,479 Speaker 1: been really bad. They suffered hardly any symptoms at all. 1230 01:17:42,520 --> 01:17:45,320 Speaker 1: Good news. I mean at best. At best, my mother 1231 01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:48,320 Speaker 1: in law had a little cold, but my father in 1232 01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:51,720 Speaker 1: law and they have pre existing conditions, so I thank 1233 01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:53,920 Speaker 1: God for the vaccination because it would have been bad 1234 01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:56,840 Speaker 1: for them. Yeah, that's what the time hall meeting is for. 1235 01:17:57,120 --> 01:18:02,719 Speaker 1: Educate yourself about it. You know that's right. My crazy 1236 01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:08,439 Speaker 1: ass sister won't take not not moan. Yeah, I don't 1237 01:18:08,479 --> 01:18:11,200 Speaker 1: want to take no shot. Okay, stay your ass at 1238 01:18:11,240 --> 01:18:15,360 Speaker 1: the house, Steve. No, no, you got to stay your 1239 01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:18,599 Speaker 1: ass at the house. Now. I want to go out, 1240 01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:21,040 Speaker 1: but I'm scared to go out. So she just at 1241 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,679 Speaker 1: the house. There ain't no problems. You stay at the house. 1242 01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:27,200 Speaker 1: But you know, it's like you know, you do understand. Yeah, 1243 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:29,160 Speaker 1: it's like a weight come off your shoulder. And once 1244 01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:32,960 Speaker 1: you get vaccinated, like I felt relieved when I leave. Yeah, 1245 01:18:33,000 --> 01:18:35,160 Speaker 1: I'm telling you know. I mean I lost four friends 1246 01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:38,600 Speaker 1: in COVID, so you know, real COVID. Yeah, four and 1247 01:18:38,640 --> 01:18:40,880 Speaker 1: couldn't go to their funerals because it's only ten people allowed. 1248 01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:45,280 Speaker 1: You know, So you know that was a personal reason 1249 01:18:45,320 --> 01:18:47,639 Speaker 1: why I got vaccinated. You know, not a reason why, 1250 01:18:47,640 --> 01:18:50,080 Speaker 1: but that was a big one. Four friends, good friends. No, 1251 01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:51,960 Speaker 1: nobody got see everything now, and then people I just 1252 01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:56,840 Speaker 1: talked to, you know, people just talk to. Yeah, hit home, 1253 01:18:56,920 --> 01:18:59,080 Speaker 1: like a lot of people listening to us right now, 1254 01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:03,200 Speaker 1: lost loved one and friends. I lost a couple, a 1255 01:19:03,240 --> 01:19:05,960 Speaker 1: couple of people I knew, not close friends, but some 1256 01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:08,920 Speaker 1: people I knew. Definitely I lost him. Yeah, I think 1257 01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:12,920 Speaker 1: some really really close calls with some too. So everyone 1258 01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:16,679 Speaker 1: knows someone who's been touched by COVID in some way, 1259 01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:20,800 Speaker 1: for sure, for sure. Yeah. Yeah, coming up, it is 1260 01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:23,680 Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and at forty nine 1261 01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:26,360 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have some closing remarks from 1262 01:19:26,560 --> 01:19:31,559 Speaker 1: our fabulous, wonderful leader, our fearless leader, mister Steve Harvey. 1263 01:19:31,760 --> 01:19:37,639 Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening show. All right, here we are, guys, 1264 01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:40,120 Speaker 1: our last break of the day. It's been a pretty 1265 01:19:40,160 --> 01:19:46,920 Speaker 1: good day. Uh yeah, I think so. Yeah. Yes, and 1266 01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:50,959 Speaker 1: short week, well not short week, but the holiday, the holiday, 1267 01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:55,680 Speaker 1: thank you. We're in vacation mode. I think, get out 1268 01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:57,200 Speaker 1: of here so I can get out to this golf 1269 01:19:57,280 --> 01:20:00,920 Speaker 1: tournament today and tomorrow. You know, you know, I wanted 1270 01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:06,240 Speaker 1: to talk about something because I was Sunday, my closing 1271 01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:14,040 Speaker 1: remarks of Sunday. I watched two sermons on computer Sunday. 1272 01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:19,000 Speaker 1: That's I do that often, don't, not just Sundays. But 1273 01:20:19,320 --> 01:20:22,719 Speaker 1: you know, whenever I'm doing my meditation, sometimes I decide. 1274 01:20:23,320 --> 01:20:26,680 Speaker 1: I was watching a sermon by Joel Oldstein and I 1275 01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:30,920 Speaker 1: was I was thinking about some things after he got through, 1276 01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:37,280 Speaker 1: and I thought about something that I've changed in my 1277 01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:40,760 Speaker 1: thought process that has helped me a great deal. I'm 1278 01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:43,120 Speaker 1: gonna try to share it with you. It may not 1279 01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:46,160 Speaker 1: be crystal clear to some people. Some people may get 1280 01:20:46,200 --> 01:20:48,479 Speaker 1: it because they may not understand where I'm coming from. 1281 01:20:49,360 --> 01:20:53,720 Speaker 1: But you know, I don't worry like I used to. 1282 01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:57,160 Speaker 1: And I know I'm not talking about that saying where 1283 01:20:57,160 --> 01:20:59,640 Speaker 1: if you're gonna pray about it, don't worry about it, 1284 01:20:59,680 --> 01:21:01,840 Speaker 1: and if you're gonna weary about it, don't pray about it. 1285 01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:04,400 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about that because I've been saying that 1286 01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:08,599 Speaker 1: for years and been wearying anyway. I'm talking about really, 1287 01:21:09,360 --> 01:21:14,559 Speaker 1: what I've really grown to understand about wary and my future. 1288 01:21:15,160 --> 01:21:18,320 Speaker 1: And I know it's only human nature to be concerned 1289 01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:22,040 Speaker 1: about your future, try to figure out your next move 1290 01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:28,240 Speaker 1: and what you're gonna do. Now, that's human nature, and 1291 01:21:28,400 --> 01:21:31,519 Speaker 1: I've been extremely guilty of that. I mean, i spend 1292 01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:35,040 Speaker 1: a great deal of time thinking about my future. My 1293 01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:38,880 Speaker 1: next move, I would even took it so far, was 1294 01:21:39,479 --> 01:21:43,040 Speaker 1: I would set a goal and then I would go 1295 01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:45,840 Speaker 1: about the goal with the idea of how I thought 1296 01:21:45,920 --> 01:21:52,160 Speaker 1: the goal should be accomplished. Now that's human nature also correct. 1297 01:21:52,840 --> 01:21:57,679 Speaker 1: But as I've grown older, I've found out that, Steve, 1298 01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,080 Speaker 1: you have to not only have your goals and the 1299 01:22:01,240 --> 01:22:04,160 Speaker 1: things you want in life, and you have to have 1300 01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:09,240 Speaker 1: a plan, but you have to open up your plan also, 1301 01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:14,800 Speaker 1: mister Harvey, to the will of God. That has been 1302 01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:18,599 Speaker 1: the key for me of late, and I really started 1303 01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:22,560 Speaker 1: gathering this during the pandemic. See, sitting down during the 1304 01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:26,760 Speaker 1: pandemic got me really, really in a better place with 1305 01:22:27,040 --> 01:22:32,040 Speaker 1: my spirituality because it made me understand it a lot better. 1306 01:22:32,800 --> 01:22:39,400 Speaker 1: I mean just a lot better, you know. So I 1307 01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:42,400 Speaker 1: was I was. I was sitting there and I thought 1308 01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:46,519 Speaker 1: about all the times that I worried about different things, 1309 01:22:46,600 --> 01:22:49,080 Speaker 1: you know. But what I had to come to terms 1310 01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:52,920 Speaker 1: with was as I planned my life and I ordered 1311 01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:55,120 Speaker 1: to and I wrote down the steps I thought it 1312 01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:59,679 Speaker 1: should go, the key that I was missing was I failed. 1313 01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:05,720 Speaker 1: I failed to incorporate God's will, and that right there 1314 01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:09,360 Speaker 1: would cause me because God gives us the power of choice, 1315 01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:12,439 Speaker 1: and God allows us, as the creatures that he created, 1316 01:23:12,520 --> 01:23:16,280 Speaker 1: to make decisions, he has to allow me to make 1317 01:23:16,400 --> 01:23:22,719 Speaker 1: those decisions. Just like I could decide to use God's will, 1318 01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:25,880 Speaker 1: I can also decide to do it my way. So 1319 01:23:26,160 --> 01:23:29,320 Speaker 1: in doing it my way, I found that I was 1320 01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:33,519 Speaker 1: working against myself sometime because He had to go ahead 1321 01:23:33,560 --> 01:23:35,760 Speaker 1: and let my will exist because that's the power of 1322 01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:38,080 Speaker 1: my choice, and then I have to work back through 1323 01:23:38,120 --> 01:23:40,840 Speaker 1: it later when I found out God really wanted me 1324 01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:43,360 Speaker 1: to do something else. I don't know if I'm explaining 1325 01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:44,840 Speaker 1: this right, and I knew I was gonna have a 1326 01:23:44,920 --> 01:23:47,760 Speaker 1: struggle with it because I don't have the quite the 1327 01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:49,920 Speaker 1: order of it in my head. But if you could 1328 01:23:49,960 --> 01:23:52,040 Speaker 1: stay with me for just a second, I'm gonna clean 1329 01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:55,960 Speaker 1: it up for you. If what I was working on 1330 01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:59,360 Speaker 1: and what I was planning on was not exactly the 1331 01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:03,360 Speaker 1: will of God, and he would have done it another way. 1332 01:24:03,960 --> 01:24:06,599 Speaker 1: Me going about it doing it my way was getting 1333 01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:09,160 Speaker 1: in the way of his way, and it was delaying 1334 01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:11,479 Speaker 1: the blessing, and it was causing me to take the 1335 01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:16,599 Speaker 1: long way round. Does that make better sense? Yes, sir? Okay? Cool? 1336 01:24:17,120 --> 01:24:20,080 Speaker 1: So what I had to stop doing was. I had 1337 01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:23,680 Speaker 1: to stop making these concrete plans and setting it out 1338 01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:25,760 Speaker 1: there so rigid. This is how I want to go, 1339 01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:27,720 Speaker 1: and then I want this step in that way. So 1340 01:24:27,960 --> 01:24:30,320 Speaker 1: now when I make a plan and I have an 1341 01:24:30,400 --> 01:24:32,800 Speaker 1: idea and I put it on my vision board, I 1342 01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:37,960 Speaker 1: always say, God, give me the understanding to know what 1343 01:24:38,280 --> 01:24:41,720 Speaker 1: your wheel is and your way is, to help me 1344 01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:44,320 Speaker 1: better understand the way you want me to do it, 1345 01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:46,240 Speaker 1: and give it to me in the time and the 1346 01:24:46,360 --> 01:24:49,080 Speaker 1: fashion you got set up for me. And I got 1347 01:24:49,120 --> 01:24:52,559 Speaker 1: out the way. And once I got out the way, y'all, 1348 01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:57,160 Speaker 1: it made the worrying go out the window, because now 1349 01:24:57,680 --> 01:25:00,439 Speaker 1: I don't have to worry about should I call this 1350 01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:03,280 Speaker 1: person and order this? Should I call that person and 1351 01:25:03,360 --> 01:25:06,040 Speaker 1: see if I can get him to see it this way? Nah? Man, 1352 01:25:06,520 --> 01:25:09,800 Speaker 1: I ask God for it. I put it out there. 1353 01:25:10,640 --> 01:25:13,320 Speaker 1: I made a plan, but I opened it up to 1354 01:25:13,439 --> 01:25:16,120 Speaker 1: the will of God. And I gotta tell y'all something, man, 1355 01:25:16,760 --> 01:25:20,400 Speaker 1: It has changed the wary factor because now that I 1356 01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:24,080 Speaker 1: know that God is always working on my behalf and 1357 01:25:24,320 --> 01:25:27,719 Speaker 1: always working on your behalf, just like he always has. 1358 01:25:28,200 --> 01:25:30,640 Speaker 1: I just had to get out the way so I 1359 01:25:30,720 --> 01:25:33,120 Speaker 1: could allow him to do it his way, because it's 1360 01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:36,839 Speaker 1: only gonna happen in a certain amount of in due time. Anyway, 1361 01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:40,200 Speaker 1: It's not gonna always happen when you want it to anyway. 1362 01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:43,280 Speaker 1: Have you heard somebody say, if you want something bad enough, 1363 01:25:43,360 --> 01:25:46,360 Speaker 1: it had happened. Do you know how untrue that is? 1364 01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:50,360 Speaker 1: You know how many things I've really wanted and never 1365 01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:54,360 Speaker 1: got that ain't true. You can want it all you want, 1366 01:25:55,120 --> 01:25:57,840 Speaker 1: but if you could learn to put it into God's will, 1367 01:25:58,200 --> 01:26:01,080 Speaker 1: you would be amazed how you could get it, and 1368 01:26:01,200 --> 01:26:02,759 Speaker 1: you could get it in a way that he wants 1369 01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:04,720 Speaker 1: you to have it, and he fixed it up in 1370 01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:06,880 Speaker 1: a way. What can nobody take it from you? And 1371 01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:09,960 Speaker 1: it causes you not to worry anymore. And that's the 1372 01:26:10,080 --> 01:26:12,560 Speaker 1: thing I've come to. They'll try to better explain it 1373 01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:15,800 Speaker 1: again tomorrow. Maybe, Buddy, I hope you've got something for it. 1374 01:26:16,080 --> 01:26:18,599 Speaker 1: Those are my clothing marks. Have a great day. By 1375 01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:25,160 Speaker 1: for all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary void where prohibited. 1376 01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:28,680 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1377 01:26:28,840 --> 01:26:32,599 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1378 01:26:32,800 --> 01:26:36,760 Speaker 1: FM dot com. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning show