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Speaker 1: Rachel is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 1: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Zaye.

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Speaker 1: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see

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Speaker 1: I feels else why he's ghostinger, and maybe get her

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Speaker 1: a second date if she still wants one. But first, Rachel,

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Speaker 1: how long has it been since you heard from Zaye?

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Speaker 2: It's been five days since I heard from Zay?

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Speaker 3: Okay, because we're not counting or anything, right.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, we're definitely not kidding.

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Speaker 3: Now have you tried to reach out to it?

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Speaker 2: I have been, like, you know, I heard from him

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Speaker 2: like right after our date, like that night, and like

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Speaker 2: everything seemed chill, and then I heard nothing after that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, And like he even posted some stuff on

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Speaker 2: his like in the story about the we went to

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Speaker 2: a concert and he you know, he also actually like

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Speaker 2: posted it in his grid and stuff like that, and

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Speaker 2: people who have commented on it, he's responded to them there,

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Speaker 2: So I guess if you can respond on Instagram, why

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Speaker 2: can't you respond to your day?

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Speaker 3: That's so frustrating, that's weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's like me the big like, oh what's

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Speaker 2: going on?

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Speaker 3: Dude? All right? Tell us about the date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we like met at this venue in and

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Speaker 2: it was this total dive bar like vibes. It was

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Speaker 2: very punk energy, like we had message on and off

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Speaker 2: about the band that we both happened to like have

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Speaker 2: tickets to this underground indie group thing like so it

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Speaker 2: was just perfect. It was like, you know, a thing

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Speaker 2: that we're both into, you know, and like it was

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Speaker 2: a blast. We were in the front row. We were

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Speaker 2: like both super sweaty and dancing and screaming the lyrics

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Speaker 2: like he actually knew all the lyrics. Like so he

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Speaker 2: wasn't a poser, you know what I mean, And it

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Speaker 2: just felt like we were teams again, like you know,

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Speaker 2: he pulled me close during this one like slow build song,

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Speaker 2: and like we made out hard in the front row,

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Speaker 2: no shame, like teenagers. Like it was still good. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like you know, like it got a little handpeper, like

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, Like it felt like natural and

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Speaker 2: like in the moment, it wasn't a seemed like sleepy,

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Speaker 2: so he wasn't like there were no bad vibes or

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Speaker 2: like red flags like.

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Speaker 4: The night of the day, you know, m hm, did

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Speaker 4: you guys do anything after the concert?

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Speaker 2: I mean we didn't do anything like after the concert,

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Speaker 2: you know, like we were outside and like talk and

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Speaker 2: stuff a bit, but like you know, we didn't we

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Speaker 2: didn't go to like you know, like take a coffee

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Speaker 2: or something afterwards. It was just a concert. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: were staying up pretty late.

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Speaker 3: You know. Okay, it was okay, you know, we felt.

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Speaker 2: Like seens at that point. It was like I'm tired.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, is there anything that happened then during the concert

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Speaker 4: or at any point that may have been why he's gone.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like it felt so real and like honestly,

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Speaker 2: like so many guys pretend to like live music and stuff,

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Speaker 2: but like Zain actually knew the stuff, like I said,

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Speaker 2: like he was scream singing the lyrics and he knew

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Speaker 2: all of them, like he didn't have to try hard.

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Speaker 2: He was like actually into it like I am. So

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it felt real, Like there are definitely

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Speaker 2: some guys who like you know, again, I guess they're

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Speaker 2: just posers who like try to be like, oh yeah

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Speaker 2: I love pop punk still.

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Speaker 3: Right, Okay, well, why do you think he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like so like maybe like when we

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Speaker 2: were outside, like it was freezing so I asked him

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Speaker 2: for his jacket, and like jokingly I said, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: a real gentleman would have offered it to me by now,

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Speaker 2: and like we both laughed and like then he gave

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Speaker 2: his jacket to me and like kissed me on the

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Speaker 2: cheek and like it was kind of like a stiffer

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Speaker 2: kiss than like I mean a full on makeout like

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Speaker 2: we did in the front row. But like I don't know,

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Speaker 2: he said, like, oh, you didn't give me a chance

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Speaker 2: to be a gentleman before you just took it and

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Speaker 2: like laughed and walked away. So it seemed very like oh,

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Speaker 2: like I don't know, it was slirty, but like weird.

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Speaker 2: Maybe like maybe I offended him by asking for his jacket.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, that would be it's weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be a strange reason to go somebody,

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Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, Like and he.

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Speaker 2: Gave me the jacket, like if he was like hah no,

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Speaker 2: and then didn't and it was like, oh I said

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Speaker 2: something wrong, or like I really offended him. I don't think,

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Speaker 2: like I have his jacket, Like he didn't even take

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Speaker 2: it with him at the end of the night. So

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Speaker 2: it also felt like he's letting me wear his jacket

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Speaker 2: and I'll give it to him like back to him

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Speaker 2: on the second date.

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Speaker 4: Maybe he just felt weird that you got to it first,

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Speaker 4: because you know, dudes can be like that, like if

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Speaker 4: it's not their idea or if they're not the ones

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Speaker 4: in control, they get all weird.

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Speaker 3: I mean, which again would be a stupid reason somebody,

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Speaker 3: but just.

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Speaker 2: You know, especially because I have his jacket like I

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Speaker 2: have it. Yeah, don't go if you want your clothes back.

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Speaker 3: All right, well we'll see if that is the reason.

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Speaker 1: Well, play a song, come back, and then call him

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Speaker 1: and see if hoo, tell us why is ghosting you,

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Speaker 1: and maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll get your first day follow up. Next, Rachel is

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Speaker 1: on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy

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Speaker 1: named Zaine. So in a second we're going to call

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Speaker 1: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger

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Speaker 1: and maybe get her a second date if she still

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Speaker 1: wants one. But before we do that, Rachel, why don't

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Speaker 1: you break down your situation with Zaane real quick?

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Speaker 2: First date went and thought some live music, made out

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Speaker 2: in the front left row like we're teenagers, had a

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Speaker 2: great time. He maybe I upset him because I said, hey,

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Speaker 2: a gentleman would have offered his jacket by this point

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Speaker 2: when we went outside and it was cold. Maybe you

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Speaker 2: took it the wrong way. I still have his jacket.

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard from him in five days, but he

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Speaker 2: is responding to comments on his coach from the concert.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You ready for us to call him? I am okay,

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Speaker 3: here we go.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Hello, Hi, man speak Tosain please?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is where's going?

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Speaker 3: Hey, Zane? How are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 3: It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Imina. Hi, I'm Victoria

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Speaker 3: and my name is Jebel. What's going on?

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I know you guys.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, what's up?

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Speaker 3: Oh cool?

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Speaker 1: Hey, thank you man, I appreciate it. Well, we're calling

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Speaker 1: you today because somebody wanted us to call you.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So I don't know if you how.

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Speaker 1: Much you listen to the show, But we do a

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Speaker 1: segment called the First Dight follow Up. That's where if

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Speaker 1: you go out on a date with somebody and then

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Speaker 1: you got them, that person can email us to get

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Speaker 1: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yes.

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Speaker 1: It is about Rachel. Do you have a segment to

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Speaker 1: tell us why you're ghosting her?

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Speaker 3: Man, God, okay, all.

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Speaker 6: Right, Uh look, I mean she's super cool, like fun,

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Speaker 6: but there's pous.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's just.

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Speaker 2: Like this thing. Man.

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Speaker 7: Uh, she's got this she's got this nose ring and

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Speaker 7: it's like this this like giant hoop, right, and it's

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Speaker 7: got this like dangly little charm that's just kind of like.

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Speaker 6: Hanging out of her nose. And like god, it kept

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Speaker 6: like moving when she was talking, and like I didn't

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Speaker 6: really notice it at first, Like when we were we

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Speaker 6: were in a veggy writing like super dark. Yeah, like

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Speaker 6: once we got outside and like I couldn't take my

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Speaker 4: It was just like immediately, oh no, so like you

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Speaker 4: kissed her and stuff though, right, yeah, no, for sure.

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Speaker 6: I mean like you know, we were on the heat

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Speaker 6: of the moment in the show and it was you know,

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Speaker 6: kind of dark inside, and you know, it's all felt

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Speaker 6: really good at the moment, but like once we got

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Speaker 6: outside and like the street lights and stuff, like it's

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Speaker 6: just like, I mean, this thing is not just like

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Speaker 6: a nose ring, it's like a wind. I could not

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Speaker 6: stop looking at it, Like I had like a nightmare

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Speaker 6: about it.

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Speaker 2: That night they were bad.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, and that's the reason just that, I mean

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Speaker 3: where I just.

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Speaker 7: Like I just like could not stop looking at it.

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Speaker 6: Like the whole time she was talking to me, I

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Speaker 6: was just like, this is just I just I just

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Speaker 6: could not do it.

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Speaker 3: It was not what if she took it out? Can

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Speaker 3: you just not unsee it?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean it feels like I don't know, man, she's

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Speaker 6: like kind of I put her whole look and aesthetic

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Speaker 6: and like, I don't know, I just was not feeling it.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you for telling us. Appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: I want to know how big this nose ring is? Hey, Rachel,

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Speaker 1: how big is your nose ring? Oh wins, that's Rachel.

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Speaker 1: She's been listening and let's talk.

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Speaker 6: No, okay, did not realize you were on there too, Okay, oh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like aesthetic takedown. So you're ghosting me because

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Speaker 2: of my style with my like average sized nose ring,

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Speaker 2: my nose jangle.

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Speaker 6: Look, okay, Like I'm not trying to be a jerk

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Speaker 6: or anything. It's just not for me, all right, you know,

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Speaker 6: it's just not as to do it.

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Speaker 2: You made out with me like you were going to

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Speaker 2: propose and then you disappeared because my jewelry wasn't minimal

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Speaker 2: enough for your sensitive indie eyes.

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Speaker 6: Come on, Like that's kind of funny, but like it's

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Speaker 6: not personal, right, I just like I couldn't unsee it,

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Speaker 6: like the things just so like it had like its

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Speaker 6: own personality, like it was like on a game.

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Speaker 2: His name is Gerald, he swings my laugh and you

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Speaker 2: live been great friends. Okay, Okay, that's kind of funny.

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Speaker 2: Actually okay, but like you're such a poser, like you're

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Speaker 2: acting like you're into punk shows, but you can't handle

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Speaker 2: a nose ring.

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Speaker 6: Look, I'm obviously clearly I've did to puncture, all right, Like,

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Speaker 6: I mean, I just don't want to date the merch table.

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Speaker 2: You know, and I don't want to date a suit

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Speaker 2: who stakes his way through life.

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Speaker 6: What are you talking about? Doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 2: Listen, I'm going to keep your jacket, Vain. You don't

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Speaker 2: deserve it. It's too cool for you, you know what.

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Speaker 6: You can keep the jacket because I don't really ever

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Speaker 6: want to see that thing again.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, saying would you like another date with Rachel won't

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Speaker 3: pay for it.

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Speaker 6: No, No, that's gonna be a hard pass with you.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 2: Oh cool. You know Gerald feels the same way and

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Speaker 2: he doesn't want to see you again. So yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: with Gerald. We don't want to see you again. We

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Speaker 2: don't need this day.

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Speaker 7: Cool.

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Speaker 6: I got a guy who named you, named your nose

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Speaker 6: ring Gerald.

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Speaker 3: You know, Kurle.

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Speaker 6: Well, I'm gonna let you guys have a happy life together.

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Speaker 6: And you know what, you can keep the jacket, you know,

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Speaker 6: I don't. I don't ever need to wear that thing again.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm sure you have a ton more in

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Speaker 2: your closet because you're such a fake opposer and you

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Speaker 2: just have them there to like, try and be cool

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Speaker 2: and recapture your youth. Bro, I got it.