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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, we want to say we share a life,

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Speaker 1: Never talk to each other.

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Speaker 2: You'll actually, you know, it just makes you a good point.

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Speaker 2: Should we just get a divorce?

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Speaker 1: Why don't we stop before we get started out? I

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Speaker 2: Flex.

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Speaker 1: I thought it when I was twenty three. Flex after

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Speaker 1: letting my business partner take our shared assets in exchange

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Speaker 2: Be FLEXI like three times right out the gate.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, I get there, rich, I gave my assets and

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Speaker 2: Hundred Yeah what these assets? Assets? Said?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, now we owned a few properties together since

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Speaker 1: Even though we didn't work out, we stayed in business together.

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Speaker 1: I had always wanted to be a pastry chef.

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Speaker 2: I love how she goes from like tycoon business woman

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Speaker 2: I need the need. I mean I have the need.

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Speaker 1: There's a local community college program that lets you get

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Speaker 1: That's when I met my fiance, James Mail twenty seven.

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Speaker 2: Oh James, God, James. He's a pastry chef that knew

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Speaker 2: that thing. What could he do to these lips? And

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about the lips underneath these lips, Oh God,

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Speaker 1: That's one pastry you don't need to be careful with.

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Speaker 2: me with your cream. I want to. I want to

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Speaker 1: My fetishes are my own, Sam Okay, God, let me

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Speaker 2: Okay, she's living with James in his house, yes, but

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Speaker 1: There have been a few times where I've missed calls

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Speaker 2: on every fricking day, James. I know we just got married,

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Speaker 2: Yo, dowb what do you think we're married?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Guess guess guess what she told him, Sam? What

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Speaker 2: Does she have a key to his place? She lives there?

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Speaker 1: Sam, she should get the key to his house. Why

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Equality?

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Speaker 1: What being fair? Disgusting?

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Speaker 2: You know, you know I was, I was rooting for

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Speaker 2: He's making great points, you know, he's making great points

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Speaker 2: if you're gonna marry like I would give. I'm not

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Speaker 2: But yeah, that just seems like it seems like she's like,

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Speaker 1: Oh yes. Back to the episode, I pointed out that

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Speaker 2: Not true. She's on do not Disturb.

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Speaker 1: He said that wasn't the point, and me not giving

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Speaker 2: Ow.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday I noticed he had one of those minute keys

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, so he copied the key without her consent.

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Speaker 1: I found it while I was looking for my lip

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Speaker 2: Oh shit.

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Speaker 1: So I called my brother to help me change the locks.

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Speaker 1: Last night at dinner, I let him know I found

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, turning and turning all those haters into nuts.

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Speaker 2: But John, have you seeing uh these these what these nuts?

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Speaker 2: Uh? These nutty next stories? My mom won't leave me

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Speaker 2: My narcissistic mom has certain ideas of privacy. And we're

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Speaker 2: I was not safe to be alone and uninterrupted anywhere

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Speaker 1: But that's weird. It's like, what do you just barge

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Speaker 2: Yeah, height, this is my house. I can call wherever

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Speaker 1: Honestly, this takes the cake. Your mom is using the

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Speaker 2: So let's just disregard the fact that she's thinking up

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Speaker 2: So she's just freaking weird, bro, that's absolutely like way

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Speaker 2: way weird. No no no no no no no no

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Speaker 1: Good god, oh gosh, yeah, miss this fine. Oh my goodness,

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Speaker 2: She would literally coach me on how to shower and

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Speaker 1: Oh like you're supposed to like lift your legs or

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Speaker 2: We don't talk about. We don't talk about. It's unfortunate. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Whiteman the scorecard.

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Speaker 2: That's great to check the scorecard. Several years ago, my grandfather,

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Speaker 2: leaving notes on the door saying don't come in, whatever

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Speaker 2: we could think of. Sadly, we had to replace the

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Speaker 2: bathroom door with a door with a lock. None of

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Speaker 2: our internal doors in the house have locks, by the way, oh,

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Speaker 1: Part of system open door policy system.

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Speaker 2: This was great for op though, because I would lock

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Speaker 2: He's knocked at some definitely inopportune times, sure, but he's

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Speaker 2: always noted has been fine doing the dirty. The last

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Speaker 1: All my evidence.

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Speaker 2: She walked in on me, changing, on him changing, and

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Speaker 2: one time she walked in on the two of us

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Speaker 2: something like that in our house, and my father finally

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Speaker 2: went off on her.

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Speaker 1: She was being.

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Speaker 2: Disrespectful to me for not respecting my privacy. I had

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Speaker 2: really can't be replaced with other doors. Sure, I'm pretty

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Speaker 2: sure there's the door guy that I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like another lie in her kingdom of lawlessness.

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Speaker 2: He said that it was my space and I was

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Speaker 2: r espect and the fact that she didn't have any

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Speaker 2: for me. But what was worse was that it was

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Speaker 2: He even paid my dad.

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Speaker 1: Or reds, Wow, even when they didn't ask for it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's cool.

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Speaker 2: So he deserved the privacy that she was not giving

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Speaker 2: to him. Ever since that talk, she's knocked when coming

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