1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: The Nicky Gliser Podcast. 2 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: Glaser. 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 3: Here's Nikki. Hello here, I am welcome to the show. 4 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 3: It's Nicky Glazer Podcast. I'm Nicki Glazer. I'm in Saint 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 3: Louis on on my lonesome, in my lonesome, by my lonesome. 6 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 4: Bye, it's bye. 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 3: I got there, and uh oh yeah, I got there. 8 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 4: I'm finally there. 9 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 3: I have been flirting around with it for a while, 10 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 3: but I've just embraced it. I probably am a little 11 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 3: bit like I could be that I would have no 12 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 3: problem in prison. Sure, you know, like it wouldn't be like, Oh, 13 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 3: I guess, pull my arm or twist my twist my arm. 14 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 4: I'm fucking up everything today. Pull my clit. I'll fucking 15 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 4: go down on you. 16 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 3: Brian's here, Noah's here, Noah. I want to comment on 17 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 3: did you get some eternity where? Because it looks like 18 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: that does not look like something I've seen before in 19 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 3: your wardrobe that you're trying to make fit yours is 20 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 3: now five and a half people. 21 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 5: I guess maternity style is back in. 22 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 4: Really that's just like basic free people. 23 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 5: But I probably won't fit in this. 24 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 4: It's their pregnancy is their maternity line called trapped baby, Yes, 25 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 4: trapped baby, yeah, free people, trapped baby. 26 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: So I don't understand how that can possibly fit your 27 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 3: like it's a is it an overall situation? It looks like, oh, 28 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 3: it's it's a jumper, so it's supposed to be a 29 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 3: loose jumper. But it's nice and like snug on me. Okay, 30 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 3: so it is snug, but it it looks so maternity. 31 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 4: It's so cute. 32 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 3: It's so funny because so much maternity stuff, like even 33 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 3: the jacket you were wearing on Girls Trip, which we 34 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 3: have to discuss since we haven't potted since then. 35 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 4: Right, we haven't. 36 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 3: It's been a long time, so long we really backed 37 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 3: up on some episodes. 38 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's been stained. It's been a while. 39 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 3: You had a jacket on Girls Trip that was maternity 40 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: and it was so nice and I forgot the name 41 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 3: of it. I wanted to get it because it's like this, 42 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 3: what is it even called? Like awfully flush? 43 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 5: Maternity? Is the website blush But you can wear their 44 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 5: stuff like regular. 45 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: You don't have to be over. 46 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's huge. I didn't know that. 47 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:15,239 Speaker 1: That's a life act. 48 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 3: It's like the sticker on your car that says twenty 49 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 3: six point what's a what's a marathon twenty six point three? 50 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 6: Yes, oh you can just put that on there with 51 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 6: that buy them. You could do it at the store. 52 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 3: I was like, do I have to prove to get 53 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 3: this sticker right now? And they're like no, I'm like, I'm. 54 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 1: Getting did you do it? 55 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 4: You should be able to. 56 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 3: I didn't put out my car, but I did get 57 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:39,399 Speaker 3: it because I just thought it was funny to buy 58 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 3: one and you haven't done anything just because you could. 59 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, you can. 60 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 3: The majornity where in Target, it used to be kind 61 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 3: of just a fluid transition over to the matornity wear. 62 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 3: So you would be shopping in your normal clothes and 63 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 3: then you go, oh, this rack rate, this is cute, 64 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 3: and then you'd walk to the front of the store 65 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,119 Speaker 3: and it would be called like Peapod or something. You'd 66 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 3: you'd be paying for it, and then you'd see that 67 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: and it's peapodware and it's it's an attorney wear, and 68 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 3: then you just go, Okay, well, I guess that's where 69 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 3: I'm at now. 70 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 4: Like oversized is much more comfortable for women. 71 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: And it's pretty in right now. 72 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 6: I mean I feel like I walk around La and 73 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,959 Speaker 6: everyone's wearing oversized stuff everyone on Instagram too. 74 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 3: Chris isn't a big fan of the like the Jinko 75 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 3: cut jeans or like the he doesn't like me and 76 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 3: like he goes. He said, I'll never I'm not like 77 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 3: mad about it and don't like put words in my 78 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 3: mouth of like I don't like it or I think 79 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 3: they shouldn't wear it. But I'll never like a woman 80 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 3: in a like a pant suit blazer, Like that's never 81 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 3: going to be a sexy look for me, no matter 82 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 3: if you just wear what if I wear like no 83 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 3: bra underneath it, He's like, I just know it's not 84 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 3: doing it for me. 85 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 4: So I always have that in. 86 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 3: The back of my head when I'm like trying to 87 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 3: dress up, I'm like, oh, this doesn't look sexy to 88 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 3: the one person that I'm allowed to be sexy to. 89 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 3: I'm not allowed, But you know what I mean, I 90 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 3: think it's a sexy look. 91 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 6: I feel like there's certain clothes that I have such 92 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 6: an association with men wearing them that like if a 93 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 6: girl wears them, I'm like, I'm not attracted to that style. 94 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 4: I think that's what's going on. 95 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 3: I can't speak for him, but I think that's what's 96 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 3: happening in his brain, is that it's just like a 97 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 3: masculine thing, and it's it's not like he's a bad person, 98 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 3: because you just you don't like what you don't like. 99 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 3: But is there anything that AV doesn't. 100 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 4: Like, like that women wear that you're like, you can 101 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 4: just tell he's just not as into you when you 102 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 4: wear that kind of fashion. 103 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: How do you tell. 104 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:28,119 Speaker 4: He won't? 105 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 3: Chris does not lie. So I'll be like, you look 106 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 3: so cute, and he'll be like, thanks because I said 107 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 3: this on the show before. He was like, because I complained, 108 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 3: like you never you don't coup them at me when 109 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 3: I clearly put an effort. 110 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 4: And he's like, well, what do you want me to 111 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 4: say when I don't like it? 112 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 6: Yeah? 113 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 4: And I'm just like and then that's was what I said. 114 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 3: Come up with something you like about it, the color 115 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 3: my confidence in it, Like, say, yeah, something. 116 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: I really like that you're wearing a shirt you know? 117 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, but I'm not I'd rather you bet top one. 118 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 5: So Avi and we get up at different times. I 119 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 5: don't see what he puts on. He he gets up 120 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 5: before me, and then we'll meet in the kitchen and 121 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 5: we're literally wearing the same thing. 122 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 4: Does that happen to you as well? No, No, I 123 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 4: don't know how. 124 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: It was. 125 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 4: Same color. 126 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 5: That's really cute. That's what like you and Kirston too. 127 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that happens with me and Kirsten. 128 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys have like synchronous synchronicity, synchronosity. 129 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: What does that mean? I mean you're wearing so you're 130 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 1: you're wearing the same nothing. 131 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 3: If you've ever listened to the podcasts, meaning a coincidence 132 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 3: and their most clothes are either brown or blue or 133 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 3: black or white, and so you're eventually like, line up, 134 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,559 Speaker 3: that's not that many. It's it's coincidence. It means something. 135 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 3: But it also you end up looking like your dog. 136 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 3: You end up looking like people end up dressing like 137 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 3: each other. You when you cohabit it, you like turn 138 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 3: into kind of the same person. 139 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: And then when you die, we all look alike. Eventually 140 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 1: we're just bones. 141 00:05:57,160 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're just like, yeah, smiling skeletons, just thrilled to 142 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 3: be dead, except that we all aren't all. I think 143 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 3: our brain our skulls are different shapes. So you can 144 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 3: tell a woman's skull versus a man's because of the 145 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:14,799 Speaker 3: slope of the forehead. 146 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 2: Is that it. 147 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 4: I took an anthropology class. 148 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: I don't know that one that was the browbone. 149 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 4: And also the jaw. 150 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys have a heavier one jaw frame. Oh 151 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 3: oh yeah, and our our clip bones bones, for sure, 152 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 3: we have those too. Clit has mentioned twice thus far 153 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 3: speaking of clit. 154 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:41,279 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, we went to uh we were on the 155 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 6: road this weekend and we had a plane that was 156 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 6: stopping over in Charlotte. 157 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 158 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 6: And I just don't understand why Charlotte has made their airport. 159 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 6: Uh what are those called their little word symbol. They're 160 00:06:56,560 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 6: three letters clit. It's c LT for Charlott it's clit. 161 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 6: And then if you look at the Charlotte Hornets basketball team, 162 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 6: they're jerseys. Sometimes they wear CLT jerseys, but they're in 163 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 6: the design. There's like a little line that goes up 164 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 6: between the C and the L, so it really looks 165 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 6: like clit. And I just don't understand why they chose 166 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 6: those letters. They could have used. It used to be cha, 167 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 6: I thought, and somewhere along the line they'd changed it 168 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 6: to clit. And how are they not in bounds? 169 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 3: That's right, Charleston, baby, I think there, I wouldn't be. 170 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 3: I think it's cool to have it be clit, and 171 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 3: I think it's funny and so like I always wanted 172 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 3: sixty nine as my jersey because I think that would 173 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 3: be funny to it's just funny to have a sexual 174 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 3: I think it's funnier to be a city that. 175 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 4: But it is. 176 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 3: It does seem to go against our puritanical Southern. 177 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 6: What's weird about it is that there's people who are like, 178 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 6: they have their boarding pass and they're not aware that 179 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 6: CLT says clit and they're just walking around with clits 180 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 6: on their fronts. 181 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 3: Well that's the problem or not the problem, but that's 182 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 3: probably the reason is that people don't see that and 183 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 3: think clit. And I think clit became kind of the 184 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 3: term for that that we talk about all the time. 185 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 3: It was popularized probably after it was named because I 186 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 3: don't think people were saying clit in the fifties, even Clittorus. 187 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 4: Like they hadn't even found it. 188 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 3: Yes they had, yes, it wasn't there there was no 189 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 3: research on it. Did you see the new TikTok thing 190 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 3: where I don't who knows if this is true, but 191 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 3: they just this past July twenty twenty three started testing 192 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 3: menstr Plata products with actual blood. 193 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: Are you kidding? 194 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 3: They were just using other liquids before then, And so yeah, 195 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 3: you know, women's health science is always kind of their 196 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 3: late to the game. So I think clit was not 197 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 3: something that we said all the time when this place 198 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 3: was named. I think it was U Pensacola to clit 199 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 3: is a funny one PN because I think it's PNS. 200 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, wow. 201 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 6: I think according to my research, it became clt in 202 00:08:58,600 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 6: nineteen eighty two. 203 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 3: Will you look at when clip clit became a popularized phrase, 204 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 3: like I don't or a word I don't even know. 205 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 4: It is flaying? 206 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: When did become popular? 207 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 5: Oh, the earliest when they said the clit is in 208 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 5: the fifties, according to the English. 209 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: Diction knew what they were doing. The people in Charlotte 210 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: are freaks. They're freaks out there, and we're gonna name 211 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: my airport clip. 212 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 4: And that's one of my favorite airports. 213 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 3: Although it was fucking crazy yesterday, so packed. Airports have 214 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 3: been really packed recently because we all got off. 215 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 4: The plane in Charlotte. 216 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 3: We were coming from Daytona to Charlotte and then me 217 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 3: Anya Matt, and Brian all scattered into for directions to 218 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 3: get our connecting flights in Charlotte. Did you you were 219 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 3: able to make your flight? Because we were like getting 220 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 3: into Charlotte. 221 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 6: It was like the beginning of hide and seek when 222 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 6: someone's counting. We all went in different directions immediately. 223 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, that is exactly it. I thought you were talking about, 224 00:09:58,520 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 3: like a horror movie I've never seen. 225 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 6: No, no, no, I made my flight easy. It was 226 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 6: like not even I wasn't even close to not making 227 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 6: the flight. 228 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 3: I stopped at the American Lounge and got a salad 229 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 3: and some soup, and then I got a Starbucks. Like, 230 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 3: I don't even know what I was worried about. I 231 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 3: was worried about my bags making it. But they made 232 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: it too. Man, was it all worked out? 233 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 6: This thing down to a science, except when the plane 234 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 6: door explodes and you get sucked out. 235 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 1: It's the only thing they haven't figured out yet. 236 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:26,959 Speaker 3: If no one was sitting in those seats, No, the 237 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,079 Speaker 3: luck I mean we've already talked about. Someone wrote to 238 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 3: me and said, why I think they use those They 239 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 3: usually reserve those seats for people who are doing like 240 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 3: the bulkhead thing or something, and so there must have 241 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 3: been no one on. 242 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 4: That flight doing that. I don't even know, but someone 243 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 4: wrote to me and explained it. It's crazy. 244 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 3: I kind of sometimes want it to like, I just 245 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 3: want something exciting to happen up there. 246 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 4: Sometimes. I know that's like the opposite of how everyone feels. 247 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 4: But I think if a door flew off, I wouldn't 248 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 4: think we would crash. I would just be like whoa, 249 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 4: because I've always buckled in as soon. 250 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 3: I'm never in my seat without a buckle, and so 251 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 3: I feel like i'd be okay. 252 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 4: I don't want if. 253 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 6: Your phone got sucked out, because I happened to a 254 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 6: lot of people the phones got sucked out and then 255 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 6: they don't have a phone. 256 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 4: He's so annoying. I'll be pissed now. I don't want 257 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 4: it to happen. 258 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 3: I don't want my phone to get sucked out of 259 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 3: my hand I've paid for I was in first class 260 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 3: and my phone got sucked out. 261 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 1: That's a reason to complain. 262 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 3: It was so funny the other day I was in 263 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 3: the edit for my special and the editor was ordering 264 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 3: us you know, Uber eats or whatever, and so he 265 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 3: passed around his phone to add to the order and 266 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 3: I had his phone for maybe like a minute longer 267 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 3: than I should have because I'm just like building the 268 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 3: salad building my own, you know, can't decide if I 269 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 3: want chickpeas or not. And I saw him just kind 270 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 3: of like start to like and I go, I still 271 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 3: have your phone. 272 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 4: He was like, oh God, it's immediate that it takes place. 273 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 5: There's a certain movement too, so it's almost like the 274 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 5: hands kind of flailing to like check your pockets if 275 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 5: they're in there. 276 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like there's I don't even know that 277 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:58,719 Speaker 3: I saw him. I just felt attention in the room, 278 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 3: like I really predicted it, like dogs before it earthquake, 279 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 3: Like I just cause as soon as I looked up, 280 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 3: he began I'm looking for it. So it was like 281 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 3: I knew because I maybe because I was holding someone 282 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 3: else's phone, so it dawned on me like where's mine? 283 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 3: Like it's such a it's so annoying. And I took 284 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 3: Instagram off my phone for two days last week because 285 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 3: I just felt crazy and I'm like, I don't want 286 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 3: any more of anyone's life. I don't care about anything 287 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 3: right now, so. 288 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 4: I took it off. And it's just you know, the 289 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 4: old story of your You just are my fingers are 290 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 4: searching for it without my brain being attached to that movement. 291 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like I just see my fingers going 292 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 3: where is it? And I'm like, I don't even know 293 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 3: that I'm doing. It's just my brain is. It's so strange. 294 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 6: It feels so good to be able to just focus 295 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 6: on things. But you're talking about football and this weekend 296 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 6: and saying how it's crazy that people watch so much football, 297 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 6: and I watch like me and Ali will both watch 298 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 6: all day Sunday, the game on Monday, the game on Thursday. 299 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 4: That's so fun. 300 00:12:58,360 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 3: But if you have a partner to watch it with, 301 00:12:59,920 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 3: I get it alone. 302 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 4: Weird. 303 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: Well, so here's here's what happens. 304 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 6: What winds up happening is when the season ends, you 305 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 6: actually feel this just relief where you're like, oh my god, 306 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 6: I have so much more free time. 307 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:16,079 Speaker 1: I have my whole Sunday's back, And. 308 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:19,199 Speaker 6: Then you get so much more done when the football 309 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 6: season is not happening. And it is kind of like 310 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 6: this past weekend there were playoff games on and because 311 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,199 Speaker 6: we were on the road, I didn't really fully watch 312 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 6: those games. I kind of just like saw the highlights 313 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 6: after or I caught like a little bit of a 314 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 6: quarter and my brain switched from sports to like thinking 315 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 6: about jokes and like comedy stuff, and I was like, Oh, 316 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 6: this is where my brain needs to be rather than 317 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 6: constantly checking to see if you know, Christian McCaffrey caught 318 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 6: a touchdown pass. 319 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that it's gotta be. I don't even know what 320 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 3: it's like to have my time and my thought. Well, 321 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 3: actually I can relate a little bit to like being 322 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 3: done with my special like it was an obsessive thing 323 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 3: right before it and then it's over. And every time 324 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:07,719 Speaker 3: I close my eyes, I used to be going over 325 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 3: jokes or not even wanting to like intrusive thoughts, going 326 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 3: over jokes where I'm like, get out of my head. 327 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 3: I don't even want to think about you right now. 328 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 3: And then there's no place you. My brain is looking 329 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 3: for the app. It's looking for the app, and there's 330 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 3: no app there because it's already done. And so it 331 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 3: feels like there is this like emptiness and you go, 332 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 3: what did I used to do for fun? 333 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 4: Like what had filled my what filled my time? But 334 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 4: I was watching or I guess Chris was watching the 335 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 4: Chiefs game was it last night. Yes, because Taylor Swift 336 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 4: was there. 337 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 5: Yes, And because Taylor Swift is over. 338 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 4: Is this moment Yeah, I saw. 339 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 3: I mean she pops up on my Instagram instantly when 340 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 3: she's I know when games are starting because I just 341 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 3: I see her arrive. And there is no more breaking 342 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 3: news than feet, Like the most breaking news there is 343 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 3: is Swifties saying where Taylor Swift is it in? I 344 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 3: could get if I am, you know, five miles away 345 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 3: from Taylor, I could still get there to see her 346 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 3: walk from her car to the building. By the time 347 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 3: a Swiftiest post it, I could then get in a 348 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 3: car and get there and see her open the door 349 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 3: and walk in because it's so fast and it's in 350 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 3: real time. But last night I saw that there was 351 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 3: a game going on. I was doing karaoke for my 352 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 3: mom's birthday with my family and Chris was I was 353 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 3: texting him about that and he said, you know, the 354 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 3: Chiefs are playing and this is the game that decides, 355 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 3: you know, if they have a chance to going to 356 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 3: super Bowl. And for some reason, I was like, I 357 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 3: am so wanting Taylor Swift to be at the super Bowl, 358 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: and I want Travis Kelcey there because I care about 359 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 3: their relationship because I've locked him because of that. 360 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 4: I was like, I really cared that they won last night. 361 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 3: I didn't want to watch it, but I really cared, 362 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: and I just said to Chris, it's already done. 363 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 4: They've won. 364 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 3: They're going all the way. There's just no doubt about it. 365 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 3: In my mind, they're winning, and of course they want 366 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 3: and I'm not saying that's why they won. But I 367 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 3: took the time to manifest for Taylor's wout, like things 368 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 3: for her life, to make her life better, and I 369 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 3: literally cannot do man manifestation for my own life right now. 370 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 3: I know I've been talking about doing it a lot recently, 371 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 3: and I want to be able to do it, but 372 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 3: I've been so depressed recently that my brain like will 373 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 3: not allow it. Because even the things I want to 374 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 3: manifest I don't want to do, because when you're depressed, 375 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 3: you don't want to do anything. So even me being 376 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 3: like I hope I win an Emmy, I'm like, I 377 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 3: don't want to go try on dresses to wear to 378 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 3: the Emmys next year. I don't want to have to 379 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 3: like write a speech. I don't want to have to 380 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 3: be on the like That's how depression works. It just 381 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 3: makes you hate everything that you even love. So I've 382 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 3: been unable to manifest anything for myself recently. But last 383 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 3: time I took the time to really send out just 384 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 3: the absolute certainty into the universe that they have already gone. 385 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 3: They're not gonna they might not win the Super Bowl. 386 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 3: I'm saying they're going all the way, and I was 387 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 3: certain of it. And then when I checked my phone 388 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 3: later and saw they won, I was so excited. So 389 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 3: the chief I felt like I had something to do 390 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 3: with it, and I absolutely they are going to the 391 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 3: Super Bowl. 392 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 6: No, They're going to championship against the Raven's going to 393 00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 6: be tough. 394 00:16:57,920 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 1: It's going to be tough. 395 00:16:58,920 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 4: Bye who they playing. 396 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:04,959 Speaker 6: Like this buzzsaw with like this amazing quarterback and a 397 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 6: really good defense, a better defense than the Bills had. 398 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: Probably it's gonna be tough. 399 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 4: And who are the other two teams? 400 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: Oh? 401 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:14,239 Speaker 6: The Lions, who've never won the Super Bowl before, and 402 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 6: they're Everyone in Detroit is like lifting up the Lions. 403 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: They're so exciting. 404 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 6: You know, if you never paid attention of football, the 405 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 6: city of Detroit is a buzz because that's fun. 406 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 4: Okay, So they're the ones we want to get in 407 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 4: really pretty much. 408 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:31,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, the NFC, the Ravens the other one. The Ravens 409 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 6: and the Chiefs are like kind of boring because the 410 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 6: Ravens have won the Super Bowl twice in the last 411 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 6: like fifteen years, and obviously the Chiefs have gone to 412 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 6: this championship game the last six years in a row. Insane. Yeah, 413 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 6: they've been to six championship games in a row. That's 414 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,520 Speaker 6: the game before the Super Bowl. Okay, so it's pretty wild. 415 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 6: But the Lions are playing the forty nine ers, who 416 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 6: may be the best team of all, so it's gonna 417 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 6: be tough. 418 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 4: Wow, this is an exciting showdown. 419 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's exciting. If the Lions win it, people are 420 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 6: going to go nuts. Everyone was excited for the Bills too, 421 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 6: because the Bills have also never. 422 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 4: Won it, and the Bills lost it last night. 423 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 6: They lost the Chiefs And famously in the ninetiesh the 424 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 6: Bills went to the Super Bowl four years in a 425 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 6: row and lost the Super Bowl four times. What, Yes, 426 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 6: and they've never won. He never won and they've never 427 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 6: been back since then either. 428 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 4: And my friend Sean O'Brien is a huge he's probably 429 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 4: the biggest football team fan I know, and it's the Bills, 430 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 4: and I'm sorry for him. Yesterday was a rough day 431 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:33,640 Speaker 4: for him. 432 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:34,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, So it would have. 433 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 6: Been really cool if it wound up being the Bills 434 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 6: versus the Lions, because that's two teams that have never 435 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 6: won before and it's. 436 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 4: Been full joy super Taylor wouldn't have been there. 437 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: Taylor wouldn't have been there. 438 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:46,679 Speaker 6: No, But I think that I want the Chiefs to 439 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 6: go to the super Bowl for the sake of Travis Kelcey. 440 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 6: And then I think that he should retire after that 441 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 6: because you can't go on a more exciting journey then 442 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 6: getting to the super Bowl with Taylor Swift as your girlfriend. 443 00:18:58,800 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: It's never going to get better than that. 444 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I want that story for that. 445 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 1: He should end it after that. He should. 446 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,880 Speaker 3: That's a love story, baby, just say yes and yeah, 447 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 3: that's a good one. 448 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:07,880 Speaker 4: And then they get engaged. 449 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 1: His brother, Jason kelce I believe, who was at the. 450 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 4: Game less hilarious shirtless shirt drunk. 451 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:15,879 Speaker 1: He was jumping around. 452 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 4: He had been drunk. It was awesome. 453 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 6: He retired. Yeah, so it's a good time for Travis 454 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:24,359 Speaker 6: to retire too. The brothers retire, that held he is Jason. 455 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: I think they're pretty close to agewer. 456 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 3: One answer, whien we get back from break. Brian's going 457 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 3: to research that. We are going to wait on baited 458 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 3: breath for that answer. We'll be right back with more 459 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:40,480 Speaker 3: shots than that. All right, we're back. How much older 460 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 3: is Jason than Travis? 461 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,880 Speaker 6: Jason Kelsey is thirty six years old and Travis Kelcey 462 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 6: is thirty four years old. 463 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 3: Sorry, Jason looks forty eight. Jason's had a hard career, 464 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 3: He's gotten knocked around. 465 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 4: He plays. 466 00:19:55,600 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 3: He plays a more intense position correct than than tight end. 467 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 6: Any Yeah, I mean tight end is also technically alignment, 468 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,439 Speaker 6: so they're similar. But Jason Kelsey is a center. He 469 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:08,439 Speaker 6: gets the shit kicked out of him every game, no 470 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 6: matter what happens. 471 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 4: Good for him to be done. 472 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 1: Yeah. 473 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 3: And and Travis, I got retiring at thirty four though 474 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,679 Speaker 3: it seems so young, Well you're. 475 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 4: Retired football, it's not. 476 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:20,199 Speaker 5: He could do another one. 477 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and then you go into another podcast. Can 478 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 3: you imagine, just imagine so fun to look at. I 479 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 3: would watch him do anything. Put him on TV. I 480 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 3: want to see In fact, I want to see him 481 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 3: do anything except football. 482 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,679 Speaker 2: To be honest with you because I can't see his face. 483 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 4: Did you see him do a little heart to her 484 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 4: last night? After he scored the touchdown? He did Taylor 485 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:44,159 Speaker 4: switch hearthand and that pointed to her box and then 486 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 4: at a heart. 487 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 2: It was so cute. 488 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 4: I love how cheesy he is. What a cutie? Oh 489 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 4: so in love? 490 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 6: Can you imagine having to bend down like you're bent 491 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 6: down like you're in you can't. 492 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's what it's. 493 00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 3: That's crabl already, I'm out, Okay, So you have to 494 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 3: bend down, Jason has to do it. 495 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 6: Yeah, you go into a squat and you bend down, 496 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 6: and your whole job is to hold a football and 497 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 6: throw it behind you to your quarterback. As soon as 498 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 6: you throw that football, a three hundred pound man is 499 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,640 Speaker 6: trying to destroy you. So it's not like the other 500 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 6: linemen are just waiting for that three hundred pound man. 501 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 6: Also a three hundred pound man, that's true. 502 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 3: So I think i'd feel okay if like, okay, so 503 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 3: if a one hundred and forty wundberg was pound woman 504 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:29,639 Speaker 3: was coming at me, I would feel less scared than 505 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,680 Speaker 3: a three You can't present this like it's like. 506 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 6: So imagine you have to bend over with a football, okay, 507 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 6: and then a lion of an elephant comes to attack. 508 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 4: You exactly what you're making. 509 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 3: Imagine if you've Beene wants anything shot. I yeah, I don't. 510 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 3: I don't understand the game. Still, I still, I'm very 511 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 3: excited for the season to be over. I'm just I'm 512 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 3: tired of It's it is so nice that people have 513 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 3: this in their lives to care about. 514 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 4: I will just say that, and it is. 515 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,120 Speaker 3: I can relate because I'm a swiftye and I get 516 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 3: obsessed with things. But people making fun of swifties. Football 517 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,679 Speaker 3: fans making fun of Swifties is so fucking funny to 518 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,400 Speaker 3: me because you are exactly the same as us. Yeah, 519 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 3: I mean, this point has been made. I'm not making 520 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 3: a new joke here. You dress up, you devote, you 521 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 3: go to arenas, you devote so much of your ten 522 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 3: hours on New Year's Day, you could have watched football, 523 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 3: and I would say even more with pre and post 524 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 3: game analysis. 525 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: Of course, and ten hours. 526 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think that if. 527 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 6: Swifties are like looking up when Taylor goes to lunch 528 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,959 Speaker 6: or when she h dresses in a certain pair of pants, 529 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 6: and then NFL fans are like, oh my god, Lamar 530 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 6: Jackson wasn't at practice today. Lamar Jackson tweaked his ankle 531 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 6: playing basketball. It's like the same exact thing. 532 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 3: We're analyzing lyrics, you're analyzing stats. And but I would 533 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 3: love a show of smart people to do like I 534 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 3: would want to part of the interruption for Taylor Swift, 535 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:14,239 Speaker 3: like a really fun show with people. Because there are 536 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 3: podcasts about Taylor Swift and I do see the clips 537 00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 3: and I like them, and you know what, actually I 538 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 3: don't want that because I don't I don't the podcast 539 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 3: I can't get into for whatever reason. I do watch. 540 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 3: I like the takes that chicks in the office have 541 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,120 Speaker 3: on Taylor Swift. I always love them. They're so positive. 542 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 3: I love a celebrity gossip thing that's just like positive. 543 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,640 Speaker 3: And sometimes they're they whenever they get to gmental, they're 544 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 3: always like right, and it's like it's they they. I 545 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,200 Speaker 3: need to be more like them because sometimes I think 546 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 3: I have the wrong take too loudly and it's mean, 547 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,520 Speaker 3: and then I regret it later on, and I need 548 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 3: to be very sure of my bad or like my 549 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 3: mean takes. 550 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 4: Sometimes I just get really mad. 551 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 6: Yeahs you gotta throughout the takes and you can take 552 00:23:58,200 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 6: it back later. That's what takes are for. 553 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh I wanted to take back something. Actually, this 554 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 4: brings up a good point. 555 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 3: I do think people need to get to the airport 556 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,439 Speaker 3: earlier than two hours if you don't have TSA PRE. 557 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 3: And I really forgot to say that point when I 558 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 3: went on the TI rade about like, you don't need 559 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 3: to be there before two hours. Please know that that 560 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 3: is if you if you have TSA PRE, you're. 561 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 4: Gonna be okay. 562 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 3: But I know you don't because if you're worried about 563 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 3: going to the airport, you definitely don't have it. So 564 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 3: I'm sorry that I assumed you had that go two 565 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 3: and a half hours early. That's that's what you'll need. 566 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 3: But also get TSA PRE. Do it for yourself. I 567 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 3: know it seems daunting, it's not a big deal. It 568 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 3: goes by really quick, and then clear you can get 569 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:41,120 Speaker 3: clear really speeds things up to a lot in certain circumstances. 570 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 4: But PRE is really the one that you. 571 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,400 Speaker 6: Too many people have pre now and the lines sometimes 572 00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 6: on PRE are longer. 573 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 4: Yeah not, and not too many people have clear even clear. 574 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 1: How much is clear? 575 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 4: Clear is backed up so much clear. 576 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 3: I don't remember. I wish I did. You can look 577 00:24:57,320 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 3: that up, but yes, it's sometimes that's nowt backing up 578 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,679 Speaker 3: and now I'm like, what's the next exclusive thing to 579 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:04,920 Speaker 3: get you through clear faster? 580 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 4: I mean, do we just keep. 581 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 3: Adding on things or do we make it cost prohibitive 582 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 3: going to a cacism? It's bullshit. Everyone should be equal. 583 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 3: It should be Southwest, even though in Southwest you can 584 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 3: buy a list preferred and get on earlier. So it's 585 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 3: like there's always a way to find how to get 586 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 3: to get more Like I like how pretty much anything 587 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 3: that you point to as being noble ends up not being. 588 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 3: It's like they're not No one's doing anything really out 589 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 3: of the kindness of their heart, of their company. 590 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 4: I've knowed other day. No, there isn't. 591 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 3: I saw I saw an at the other day from Ikea. 592 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 3: It was during the football game, which with ads during 593 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 3: football games, they're made for mentally. 594 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 4: Slow adults. 595 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 3: It's everything is bright colors and chicken crack and open. 596 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 3: They're just like there's no even like there's no information. 597 00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 3: It's just visuals and sounds loud sounds like that dumb 598 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,360 Speaker 3: commercial you talked about. I really feel like I'm special 599 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 3: needs when I watch football commercials. They I'm sorry, they 600 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 3: know who their audience is. 601 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,920 Speaker 5: Became like the most expensive time slots for commercials. 602 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, and they're they're bright and beautiful. 603 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 3: And I do like the commercials because I'm like, oh, colors, 604 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 3: like it makes you feel like a kid. But it 605 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 3: is a little bit like Coco Melon talking to you 606 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 3: kind of stupidly, like door they explorer like wow, tacos, 607 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 3: like everything is for it's for children. 608 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 1: It's really it's want tacos now? Maybe what about. 609 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 4: Tom My God Taco bells ads? Have you seen those ads? 610 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 4: You've definitely had. 611 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 1: Nineties music the. 612 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 3: Gen z ones where they show a bit at a 613 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 3: party and everyone's wearing like I don't even know how 614 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 3: to describe them. It's like a two thousands I, as 615 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 3: a millennial, feel like it's a dated look Like I'm like, 616 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 3: they're trying to be cool, but I think it they 617 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 3: might be living moss, like they might figure out how 618 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,439 Speaker 3: to live Mahas and they might have nailed it, like 619 00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 3: it might be what the younger generation wants, But it 620 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 3: looks like a two thousand and seven party to me. 621 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,359 Speaker 6: But it's wild because they're clearly going for gen Z 622 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 6: and they're trying to do a gen Z party, But 623 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 6: the music they choose is always from like the nineties 624 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 6: or early two thousand. 625 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 4: Yes, they picked some sea like green Day. 626 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 6: They play like Green Day. Yes, that is always like yeah, 627 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,040 Speaker 6: this is fucking use And I'm like, wow, these gen 628 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 6: Z kids are so to see. 629 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 3: They're focus groups. I want to understand it. Anyway, So 630 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 3: the ad I saw was for Ikea, and they were like, 631 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 3: when times get tough, we lower our prices. We know 632 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 3: that you're, you know, pulling your purse strings together, so 633 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 3: we considered you and we're lowering our prices. I just 634 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 3: want to make sure everyone understands know that is not 635 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,879 Speaker 3: why they did that, because I at first I really 636 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, I can't. It might be 637 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,119 Speaker 3: like Patagonia, you know, like they are just a company 638 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 3: that exists but to like raise awareness about think problems 639 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,119 Speaker 3: and they just want to help everything, which we know 640 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 3: from Adam Ruins Everything's YouTube clip that is not the 641 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 3: truth about Patagonia either. And then I took a second 642 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 3: with Ikea and I go, God, that's so nice. They 643 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:07,880 Speaker 3: lower their prices when times get tough. 644 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 4: I laugh for it at myself. I was same next 645 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 4: to Chris. 646 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 3: I laughed at my own thought, and then I go Chris, 647 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 3: I just thought Ikea was actually decent, and that is 648 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 3: I just took the extra step. I could have stayed 649 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,159 Speaker 3: in that pond of stupidity. I was just waiting in 650 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 3: of just. 651 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 4: Like they lack us and they're worried about us being 652 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 4: able to put dinner on the table. No, they're not. 653 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,880 Speaker 3: They will sell more if they lower their prices because 654 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 3: they know that people will instantly not go get a 655 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 3: new bedside table. That will not be a thing that 656 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 3: they spend their money on if times are tough, but 657 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,680 Speaker 3: it will be something they spend their money on if 658 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,080 Speaker 3: they make it twenty dollars less. And by making it 659 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 3: twenty dollars less, they they sell that table, whereas if 660 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 3: they kept to twenty dollars more, they'd never sell it. 661 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 3: So it's better to sell forty dollars table than a 662 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 3: sixty dollars table. They're not doing it because they care 663 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 3: about you having a new bedside table, and they want 664 00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 3: you to be able to still get the things you 665 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 3: enjoy and left though times are tough. 666 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 6: Then when times are good, and then when times are good, 667 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 6: we're going to charge you double because you're going to 668 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 6: pay it. 669 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. It's all bullshit, but I almost fell for it. 670 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 2: It was really good. Ad. 671 00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 6: I don't know why we're giving them a Texas accent. 672 00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 6: Ike is like Sweden, isn't it? 673 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 3: It was a man talking to me. Yeah, I doubt 674 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 3: that they would. The Swedish accent does not sound more 675 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,959 Speaker 3: intellectual than us. No offense like French. A French broken 676 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,360 Speaker 3: English sounds still elite, sounds like you're smarter than me. 677 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 3: You might not have grass oar language yet, but I 678 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 3: know you're better than me. For some reason, Swedish does 679 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 3: not convey that. 680 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 4: For whatever reason. 681 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 1: You know what I hate commercial? 682 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 6: What is when they do something that makes you feel 683 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 6: sad or emotional, they influence your emotions in some way. 684 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 6: Like there's this one commercial. People can hate this commercial. 685 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 6: There's a commercial where there's a woman who's got Alzheimer's 686 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:02,480 Speaker 6: and her husband and is like so sad during the 687 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 6: holidays or something because she can't remember anything. She can't 688 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 6: remember she doesn't even recognize her daughter, she doesn't recognize 689 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 6: her husband. And then the granddaughter get me right, and 690 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 6: then the granddaughter. 691 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 4: Is like, what am I supposed to buy? Because I'm in. 692 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,239 Speaker 6: And she's being manipulated like this because by the end 693 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 6: we're like crying and then they're like toyota and it's 694 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 6: like what the fuck? Like you made me feel bad 695 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 6: for an Alzheimer's woman. But what's so annoying about this 696 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 6: commercial is that there's this like gen Z granddaughter and 697 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,640 Speaker 6: she's like, uh, I have an idea, as if nobody 698 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 6: thought of the two do this before. They took the 699 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 6: Alzheimer's woman and she took her in the car and 700 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 6: she drove her around to all of her like old 701 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 6: like her old school and an old place where she 702 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 6: had a kiss. And the grandma then was like, wait, 703 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 6: it's all coming back to me. 704 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 4: No, because Azheimer's. 705 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 1: No, it doesn't work that way. 706 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 6: And also like the gen Z person was the first 707 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 6: person to think maybe we should take her back to 708 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 6: her old school and see if it jogs her memory 709 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 6: at all. And then she came back and the grandma 710 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,680 Speaker 6: was like grandma was like and the husband's like, oh 711 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 6: my god, where'd you go? And she's like, you can't 712 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 6: cook Thanksgiving dinner alone? 713 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: And the husband's like. 714 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 6: What she knows it's Thanksgiving, I'm gonna cook now she 715 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 6: was secured the cure for all that, and we're crying 716 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,719 Speaker 6: because it's like, oh my god, I can't believe. But 717 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 6: I'm just so pissed at this, you know, like, uh, 718 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 6: this gen Z kid coming in there and being like I. 719 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 1: Know what to do. 720 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 4: Well, I get where they were going with this Zad right, 721 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,720 Speaker 4: Like gen Z is more tuned into feelings and empathy 722 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 4: and caring about other people, and they are the future. 723 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 3: They have to have the ideas to take care of 724 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 3: us in the future. But you are right about this, 725 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 3: like like, let's do this thing. That's like, I'm like, 726 00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 3: no one has ever taken Grandma out of the house 727 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 3: at all up until this girl has this novel idea 728 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 3: to load her in the uh the CRV. 729 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 4: I guess that's. 730 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 6: Those commercials get me every time, the emotional manipulation, and 731 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 6: then it just makes me angry. I don't want to 732 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 6: buy your product. Now I'm mad because. 733 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 4: Now you you're mad that you got to take. 734 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 6: Advantage of me. They got inside, they cry, and they're 735 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 6: going to buy your Toyota. 736 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,959 Speaker 5: People who go into a boardroom and figure out how 737 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 5: to do that. Yeah, that's the part that irritates me. 738 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, And I mean it's kind of interesting though. 739 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 4: I Like, I love when someone can figure. 740 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 3: I mean I think that people cry too easily because 741 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 3: I just don't cry that much, and so when there's 742 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 3: some people, I just think that those kind of like 743 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 3: there's the one where like everyone talks about like coming 744 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 3: home from war and like. 745 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 1: Or the dog. 746 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,560 Speaker 4: I don't know why those don't get me? What am 747 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 4: I heartless? 748 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: Wait? 749 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:51,720 Speaker 6: What about when when a guy is reunited with their 750 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 6: dog that you I don't really care. 751 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:56,800 Speaker 4: I mean it's not that I don't care, but it's 752 00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 4: like I've seen a dog doesn't know he was in Afghanistan, 753 00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 4: you know, like they see the dog, but dogs don't 754 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 4: really have like a sense of time passing, so like 755 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 4: he could have gone to the gas station and would 756 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 4: have gotten the same response coming home. The dog's also feeding. 757 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 3: I mean, of course, I'm being so snarky, and I 758 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,440 Speaker 3: do know that like a dog will be like it 759 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,600 Speaker 3: is adorable when they freak out. Like I've seen videos 760 00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 3: where dogs are go missing for months or something and 761 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 3: then they reunited and that really tears uh at my 762 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 3: heart strings. But I don't know why those don't get me. 763 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:31,760 Speaker 3: The only thing that gets me to really cry is 764 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 3: when someone dead is talking from beyond or like if 765 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 3: someone is talking about a dead person and saying like 766 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 3: we miss you, like you're still a round. Like like 767 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 3: the Tyler Henry Knight was getting me so much because 768 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 3: they were like dead people were talking like they're still here. 769 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 3: Something about that it triggers me, and like if and 770 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 3: then last night I cried when I was watching and 771 00:33:56,320 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 3: by cry like it's just a little bit of tears. Ze, 772 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 3: there's no there's not a drop. It doesn't like fall down, 773 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 3: cascade down my face. Yeah, I yes, the sniffles. I 774 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 3: got teary eyed watching Love on the Spectrum season two. 775 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,800 Speaker 6: Oh that is that is almost wall to wall crying. 776 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 4: Oh my god, because it's just so nice. 777 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 3: Yes, it's just so nice everything like the the parents 778 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 3: and the daughters, like the daughters saying about her brother, 779 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,800 Speaker 3: who's like very autistic, saying like he's the best person 780 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:33,799 Speaker 3: I know, he's my favorite person. I was just like, 781 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 3: oh my god, like I'll just always remember when on 782 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 3: the first episode of the Australian version, the first version 783 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:45,800 Speaker 3: of Love on the Spectrum, the mother says about Michael, 784 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:48,680 Speaker 3: you know the autistic guy in Australia. She goes, every 785 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,080 Speaker 3: family needs a Michael, and I was like, I want 786 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,399 Speaker 3: a Michael and my family like this this person that's 787 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,440 Speaker 3: just so pure and only saying exactly how they feel 788 00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 3: and doesn't have any sense of irony or sarcasm. 789 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 4: It's really it's just so lovely. 790 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 3: It's it's interesting actually because I'm watching a show where 791 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:08,840 Speaker 3: there's no comedy. 792 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:13,640 Speaker 4: There's no comedy on purpose, hardly at all, Like they 793 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 4: never ought to see. 794 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:19,479 Speaker 3: People don't really make jokes now Down for love lots 795 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 3: of jokes being made. I think people with Down syndrome 796 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,280 Speaker 3: love to just goof around and laugh freely with abandon 797 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 3: And this is I'm not saying this for this is 798 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 3: just something I've noticed. I think autistic people don't have 799 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 3: as much of like I'm gonna trick you with a 800 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 3: joke kind of thing, or like I want to tickle 801 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:35,600 Speaker 3: you or something like last night. They want to be 802 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 3: this guy who'se autistic, lives with to Down syndrome guys, 803 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 3: and that's not what we call them, but you get 804 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. 805 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 4: And they're like they live together in this apartment. They're 806 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,879 Speaker 4: talking about him getting a girlfriend, and they're like, you 807 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 4: have You're gonna have so many giggles with her. There's 808 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 4: gonna be so many giggles. 809 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:52,760 Speaker 1: It's just so cute. 810 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 4: And they're like they're gonna be chuckles and giggles. 811 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,799 Speaker 3: And then one of them says, you can tickle her, 812 00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 3: and then they go, oh my god, we're gonna he'll 813 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 3: tackle her and she will laugh so much. And they're 814 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 3: all like rejoicing in this, and then one of them goes, 815 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 3: I don't know, wait, dude, I don't think one has 816 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 3: a moment. One of the down syndrome guys has a 817 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 3: moment of like, maybe we're calling like we don't tickle everyone. 818 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,239 Speaker 3: Some people don't like it. And he goes, maybe you 819 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,280 Speaker 3: don't tickle your girlfriend. I think that maybe your girlfriend 820 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:18,359 Speaker 3: you don't want to tickle her. 821 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 4: She might not like it. 822 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 3: And then they all go, oh, yes, that is not 823 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:22,880 Speaker 3: a good thing to do your girlfriend. You may not 824 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,919 Speaker 3: tickle your girl. It was so cute that they all 825 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 3: like wanted to tickle her. 826 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 2: And then they didn't want to and they. 827 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,799 Speaker 3: All agreed that was the best solution, and they were 828 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,280 Speaker 3: all thrilled about it, and they all are just so 829 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 3: sweet and they want love and they want friendship. And 830 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:37,560 Speaker 3: this one girl was talking. I think the part that 831 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:39,399 Speaker 3: got me crying was she was talking about her brother 832 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 3: who's really autistic and so sweet. His name is Connor, 833 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 3: and he's like hot too, Like he's so cute, I think, 834 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:51,160 Speaker 3: and he does his friends or his family like and 835 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 3: his mom said, you know, he doesn't have any friends, 836 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 3: but you know, so he's sometimes alone. If I go 837 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 3: out on a date with my husband and then the 838 00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 3: kids go out with their friends, he'll stay alone with 839 00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,840 Speaker 3: the dogs. And she goes, but you know, we're his friends, 840 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 3: and I think we're pretty great and you can tell 841 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 3: they're a really great family. 842 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,279 Speaker 4: And she was like, but I do want it, And 843 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:08,560 Speaker 4: that got me crying that. 844 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 3: They're his friends, Like it was so sweet, But what 845 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,680 Speaker 3: was I gonna say about him? Oh my god, he 846 00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:19,440 Speaker 3: goes to a speed dating thing and while he's speed dating, 847 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 3: he will write down in front of them yes or no, 848 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 3: Like he. 849 00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,359 Speaker 2: Doesn't he doesn't wait for them to get up. It's 850 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 2: so cute. 851 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 3: And then the producer, bless his heart, could have just 852 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 3: like kept letting that play out, but as soon as 853 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,319 Speaker 3: he noticed it, he was like, hey, Connor, are you 854 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 3: writing down yes or no, when she's still sitting there 855 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 3: and he. 856 00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 4: Goes, why should I not be doing that? And they're like, well, 857 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 4: she might see it, and he goes, oh no. 858 00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 2: He like it dawns on him. 859 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,279 Speaker 3: It's so sweet, And I think it's sweet that the 860 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,840 Speaker 3: producer stepped in and did that because I've worked in 861 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 3: reality TV, and when someone is making a mistake that 862 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 3: is going to hurt other people's feelings, we tend to 863 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 3: let it go. Yeah, we tend to let it happen 864 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 3: and we hope it gets worse. 865 00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 4: But then you just see that on this show. 866 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're they're really trying to help them out the audience. 867 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 6: The audience doesn't want to see that and get embarrassed. 868 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:09,720 Speaker 6: That's not this one. 869 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:10,959 Speaker 4: It's full. 870 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,760 Speaker 3: It's this This season has a lot more awkward moments 871 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,160 Speaker 3: than other seasons, because I've heard some people say they 872 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,360 Speaker 3: don't like this show because they can't stand the awkwardness 873 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 3: of it and they the secondhand embarrassment. I would say, 874 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:26,080 Speaker 3: to you, get over that, because this is not when 875 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,439 Speaker 3: they say it about it, I think you should leave. 876 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 3: Taylor actually, who's on the podcast all the time, she 877 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:31,319 Speaker 3: says she can't watch I think you should leave because 878 00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,680 Speaker 3: it's so embarrassing for her, And I'm like, but just 879 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 3: remember it's a sketch. Yeah, But I also I can't 880 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,920 Speaker 3: watch horror film Speaker and someone could say, remember that's 881 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:42,760 Speaker 3: fake blood, and I would be like, well, it doesn't 882 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 3: feel fake to me, So I can't exactly say that. 883 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 3: Some love on the spectrum. It's awkward, but it just 884 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,040 Speaker 3: it's over. It already happened somewhere, and you can get 885 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 3: through it. You're missing out on so much good just 886 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,400 Speaker 3: for those little moments and just fast forward. You're not 887 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 3: gonna miss plot if you if you can just password 888 00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,320 Speaker 3: pass it awkward, Yeah. 889 00:38:58,200 --> 00:38:58,799 Speaker 4: So much good. 890 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 6: Sometimes I felt that about certain episodes of Curb, whereas like, ah. 891 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:05,439 Speaker 1: It's just so awkward. I get through it. I don't 892 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:06,719 Speaker 1: want to mess up this much. 893 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,400 Speaker 3: Well, Curb would bother me because it would always be 894 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 3: someone acting so insanely to him. And it would bother 895 00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 3: me because I go, no one would be this mean. Yeah, 896 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,480 Speaker 3: and I know it's it has to be heightened for 897 00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,799 Speaker 3: the sake of comedy, but I would just it would 898 00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,440 Speaker 3: kind of lose me with like every woman's just like. 899 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:29,319 Speaker 4: What are you doing? Why are you doing that? Why 900 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 4: would you say that to her? Don't say that's hard. 901 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:31,680 Speaker 2: She's a child. 902 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 3: And it's just like it always like builds crazily too fast. 903 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,000 Speaker 4: But I do love it so much. 904 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 3: And yeah, there's been times where I can't watch things 905 00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,239 Speaker 3: because they're awkward. I'm trying to think of things like 906 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,319 Speaker 3: can't oh Joe Coy, I had to get up and 907 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 3: pace the room during that. I could not watch it. 908 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,880 Speaker 3: I could listen. It was like Fargo. I had to 909 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 3: close my eyes. I don't like watching people bomb at all. 910 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 3: I really don't. Some people love watching people bomb. I 911 00:39:58,480 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 3: hate it. 912 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:00,400 Speaker 4: I hate it. 913 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:01,440 Speaker 2: Maybe it's just. 914 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:02,359 Speaker 4: Because I've felt it. 915 00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,839 Speaker 5: I don't love watching people get pranked either, especially if 916 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:05,719 Speaker 5: it's something really mean. 917 00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,319 Speaker 4: No, I hate prank shows. I can't. I don't like. 918 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,719 Speaker 3: I never got into Jackass, even though I know it's brilliant. 919 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,400 Speaker 3: Some of the stuff I've heard of, I'm just like, 920 00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:15,839 Speaker 3: it's almost like the Saw movies. 921 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 5: As I came out what they do, but I don't 922 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 5: want to because it's really funny because they do it 923 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 5: to each other. But if it's an unsuspecting person, and 924 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 5: especially if it's like a mean prank that I don't like. 925 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,799 Speaker 3: I can't stand pranks. There's one that I saw on 926 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 3: TikTok yesterday or reels that was guys were walking down 927 00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:35,440 Speaker 3: the street and then there would be like a hot 928 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,239 Speaker 3: girl with huge tits walking towards them, and then behind her, 929 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 3: so these guys they're walking towards each other. Behind her 930 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 3: would be another group of guys holding some object right, 931 00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 3: so they'd go. So the guy facing her would say, Wow, 932 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,560 Speaker 3: you have the most amazing rack, and she would be 933 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,880 Speaker 3: like offended, and then all of a sudden there's a 934 00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:54,879 Speaker 3: guy with a rack right behind her, like a clothing wreck, 935 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 3: and he's like he rocks right past her, goes, this 936 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:57,839 Speaker 3: is the best wreck I've ever seen. 937 00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 4: It's huge. Can I touch your rack? 938 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:05,280 Speaker 3: And then it's one with melons, and there's one with coconuts. Classic. 939 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,400 Speaker 4: It's funny. It really is funny because the girls are 940 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 4: like shocked, and. 941 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 3: Then they're like and I'm sure they feel stupid. Yeah, 942 00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 3: I'm sure it's probably arctic, but okay, go on, I 943 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 3: don't like those because and I'm gonna get called a 944 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 3: little snowflake woke bitch. But the girl thinks for a 945 00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:27,399 Speaker 3: second she's being sexually harassed. Yeah, and it's and it's 946 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,760 Speaker 3: an uncomfortable moment, and if you're a girl that hasn't 947 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 3: been sexually harassed before, you don't understand the fear that 948 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 3: goes with that. So you've like scared someone, yeah, and 949 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 3: made them feel like they're being like preyed upon, even 950 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:40,400 Speaker 3: for a split second. 951 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 4: And I know that's what pranking is. 952 00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 3: You make someone think they're gonna fall off something, or 953 00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 3: you think, make someone think that you just kicked that 954 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,320 Speaker 3: baby or something. Whatever it is, it's always like elicit 955 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 3: some trauma response. But that's why I don't like pranks. 956 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,840 Speaker 3: For a second, you think it's real, and it changes 957 00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:53,760 Speaker 3: your brain chemistry. 958 00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:56,000 Speaker 6: I would think the phrase but it's just a prank 959 00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,839 Speaker 6: is bullshit, Like it doesn't make up for anything. I 960 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 6: remember the twenty ten to fifteen area, like pranks kind 961 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 6: of hit a peek on YouTube, whereas like everyone's trying 962 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,400 Speaker 6: to do pranks because of social media, and I remember 963 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 6: it got to the point where the prank started to 964 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 6: become just like, oh, you're just like being an asshole 965 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,359 Speaker 6: to somebody for five minutes and then saying, but it's 966 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,600 Speaker 6: just a prank. So there was this one kid who 967 00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,760 Speaker 6: was doing that and there was this on the subway. 968 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:27,880 Speaker 6: On some subway, he was just like sitting on people's laps. 969 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,080 Speaker 6: He would just go into the subway and sit on 970 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,120 Speaker 6: someone's lap and then be like what the fuck and 971 00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 6: then be like, oh, pranked you. And it's like, that's 972 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 6: not a prank. You just sat on someone's lap like 973 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:39,520 Speaker 6: an asshole and then said that. And then there's this 974 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:42,640 Speaker 6: video it happened like a few weeks after that, where 975 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 6: he sat on someone's lap and the guy beat the 976 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:45,680 Speaker 6: shit out him. 977 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, yeah, I would like that. D of course, 978 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:51,120 Speaker 4: of course that would happen. 979 00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: And he's like, no, no, it's just a prank. 980 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 6: It's just a prank, and he's just punching him. 981 00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:59,800 Speaker 3: I watched this YouTube video about this guy named Trevor 982 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,880 Speaker 3: Cup and he's he takes street photography, which. 983 00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 4: Is like my favorite thing. 984 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 3: One of my favorite things in the world is just 985 00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,399 Speaker 3: like pictures of random people when they don't know they're 986 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,359 Speaker 3: being taken a picture of or when they just find out, 987 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:12,400 Speaker 3: like they look in the camera. 988 00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 4: I love that because it is you. 989 00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:16,359 Speaker 3: And I used to do it in New York City 990 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,000 Speaker 3: and I used to almost get caught a lot of times. 991 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,799 Speaker 3: It's like it kind of feels like you're shoplifting some 992 00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,919 Speaker 3: with soul, oh, because you steal these little intimate moments 993 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,439 Speaker 3: where they don't think they're being filmed, and you get 994 00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 3: like a slice of humanity. Like you'll just see a 995 00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,800 Speaker 3: girl's face and you just can like see she's depressed 996 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,759 Speaker 3: just from the way she's like look staring at the ground, 997 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,680 Speaker 3: and you're like, wow, that's such a vulnerable thing that 998 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 3: you caught of that person. 999 00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 4: So it feels a little bad. 1000 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,200 Speaker 3: But this guy, Trevor wise Cup watch his interview on YouTube, 1001 00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,759 Speaker 3: because he just walks around a certain part of town. 1002 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 3: He becomes obsessed with it and he just snaps people 1003 00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,640 Speaker 3: pictures in people's faces and then deals with the consequences 1004 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,960 Speaker 3: and sometimes he almost gets like beat up and people 1005 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,839 Speaker 3: are confused, but most of the time people don't care. 1006 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,680 Speaker 3: But I think that is I never did that. I 1007 00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,000 Speaker 3: would always sneak it, yea, And I would use my 1008 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,239 Speaker 3: you could so you would have on headphones and they 1009 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,759 Speaker 3: used to have the wires obviously, and a sneaky way 1010 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,520 Speaker 3: to take a picture was to press the up button, 1011 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:10,000 Speaker 3: you know how the volume up the shutter, So I 1012 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,239 Speaker 3: would look like I'm doing volume on the wire of 1013 00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:13,759 Speaker 3: my so you wouldn't and I would just hold it. 1014 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,239 Speaker 3: And a lot of times I would do one where 1015 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 3: I look like I would because sometimes you want to 1016 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,640 Speaker 3: get an angle that's like littered up by your face. 1017 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:21,440 Speaker 4: You can't hold the phone up that looks like you're 1018 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 4: taking a picture. So if you make it look like 1019 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:27,239 Speaker 4: you're looking in the FaceTime mirror and doing your lipstick. 1020 00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:28,839 Speaker 3: You could take a picture of someone and they think, 1021 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:33,200 Speaker 3: there you're using your phone as a mirror. But I 1022 00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 3: did get caught once and I was just like, I'll 1023 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,840 Speaker 3: raise it. I forget what happened, but it felt awful. 1024 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 3: We'll go to break and come back with more after this. 1025 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 3: All right, we're back. That second's sister told me that 1026 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 3: that's so funny. Okay, Matt told me your mom's birthday. 1027 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 4: It was my mom's birthday. 1028 00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,839 Speaker 3: Last night, we were all in this karaoke lounge where before 1029 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 3: we the karaoke began, we were all eating dinner and 1030 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,200 Speaker 3: Matt we were talking about kids, you know, saying weird stuff. 1031 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,040 Speaker 3: And Matt said that Arlow the other day, who's six, said, 1032 00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 3: is face fucker a bad word? 1033 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: Ah? 1034 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 3: Facefucker, which is just so funny to take it to 1035 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,919 Speaker 3: the next level, like he has no clue what that means, 1036 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:16,560 Speaker 3: but he just is wondering if that's a bad word. 1037 00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:21,800 Speaker 3: And I, like a little lyric detective, brilliantly know exactly 1038 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:25,320 Speaker 3: where he got it from. It's Olivia Rodrigo's song Vampire. 1039 00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 3: She goes, uh, the. 1040 00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 4: Vampire, so she goes, fame fucker, bleeding me dry like 1041 00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,880 Speaker 4: a goddamn vampire. She's just fame fucker. 1042 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 3: But kids are hearing that and thinking it says face 1043 00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,200 Speaker 3: fucker and also face fuck. They probably heard it somewhere 1044 00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:43,439 Speaker 3: else because that is a thing. 1045 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 4: So I go, did he get it from Olivia Orrigo? 1046 00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,319 Speaker 4: And Mac goes, how did you know that? 1047 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,200 Speaker 3: I'm like yes, because that's the only time a child 1048 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,359 Speaker 3: would He goes, why are you listening to the clean version? 1049 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,719 Speaker 3: And Matt's like, I don't know, because I didn't think 1050 00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 3: that word would be in that song, like it's. 1051 00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:01,560 Speaker 2: A beautiful song. 1052 00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:04,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, And so Arlo said his face fuckerre a bad word, 1053 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 3: and then my dad goes, you gotta listen to the 1054 00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,919 Speaker 3: clean version, and Lauren may have just said echoed that, yeah, 1055 00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:11,080 Speaker 3: like we got to get the clean versions. 1056 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:11,840 Speaker 4: And I go do you? 1057 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:13,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you? 1058 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,640 Speaker 4: Because what's the harm? 1059 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,560 Speaker 3: Like I think as a kid, I didn't say every 1060 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,280 Speaker 3: I knew that words were for adults, Like I wouldn't 1061 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,880 Speaker 3: purposely say a bad word to like get in it 1062 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 3: was helpful. The only time I said a bad word 1063 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:28,040 Speaker 3: was when I didn't know it was a bad word. 1064 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,640 Speaker 3: If I knew something was a bad word, I wouldn't 1065 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 3: say it because I was a good girl, I guess. 1066 00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 3: So the only times I got in trouble was when 1067 00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,839 Speaker 3: I thought it was a word that everyone could say, right. 1068 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 3: And I think that's most people have a story of 1069 00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:39,920 Speaker 3: just saying something you hear your mom and dad say, 1070 00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:41,120 Speaker 3: and then they get mad at you, and you're like, 1071 00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,400 Speaker 3: but I didn't even know it was bad. So but also, 1072 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:50,239 Speaker 3: if a kid is cussing, have you ever heard a 1073 00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 3: kid cuss and not thought it was funny? Has there 1074 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,360 Speaker 3: ever been a context where a kid says face fucker 1075 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,480 Speaker 3: and it wouldn't be hilarious. I don't care if my 1076 00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,120 Speaker 3: kid is saying that at a schure or at like 1077 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 3: dinner at my friends, like in front of his friend's parents, 1078 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,160 Speaker 3: I still think it's funny. It would not bother me 1079 00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,160 Speaker 3: at all. If my kids said face fucker. But maybe 1080 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,719 Speaker 3: that's because I don't have kids and I don't know 1081 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:16,600 Speaker 3: what that would feel like. But I I just my 1082 00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,480 Speaker 3: sister was like, we don't want him saying then. I'm like, 1083 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,480 Speaker 3: but why, Like if the school called and said your 1084 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,759 Speaker 3: kids saying face fucker, I would be like, this is 1085 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,880 Speaker 3: a funny story for them someday. This isn't going to 1086 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 3: really affect their bottom line. Right now, it's not that 1087 00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,800 Speaker 3: big of a deal. There will learn from right and wrong. 1088 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,120 Speaker 6: Yes, there's consequences in certain situations to cursing, and they'll 1089 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:35,520 Speaker 6: learn that. 1090 00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:37,879 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna laugh all the time. 1091 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say you don't say that around people, but 1092 00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:42,320 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be upset, like we need to shield 1093 00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:46,320 Speaker 3: the children from the words like that's crazy. I understand 1094 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:49,360 Speaker 3: not letting kids see porn because it's like a traumatic image, 1095 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 3: Like I don't think everything adults have and violence, since 1096 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,960 Speaker 3: I don't even think violence. Porn should be barred from 1097 00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,040 Speaker 3: adults too. It's all bad for your brain. But I 1098 00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 3: think curse words words should not be kept from kids. 1099 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 3: No end end statement, like final answer, just I think 1100 00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,680 Speaker 3: no words should be kept from anyone. I think it's 1101 00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 3: very strange. I understand why we don't the N word, 1102 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:16,879 Speaker 3: yet they should know it's a thing that exists, say 1103 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:17,640 Speaker 3: or horrible. 1104 00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,279 Speaker 1: If you're a white kid, you could say the N 1105 00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:20,439 Speaker 1: word until you turn eight. 1106 00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 3: No, the N word, of course, that's never going to 1107 00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 3: be funny for a kid to say or anyone to say, 1108 00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,880 Speaker 3: although I mean, I'm sure it would. But if they 1109 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,239 Speaker 3: would know what they were saying would be funny. 1110 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,800 Speaker 1: Kid was saying the N word? Would you not laugh 1111 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:35,440 Speaker 1: a little? 1112 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,480 Speaker 4: It would be funny if it was not to someone. 1113 00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 1: No, no, not to someone like. 1114 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 5: If they were saying it because they didn't know what 1115 00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,480 Speaker 5: it meant. Kids can't tell when to say it and 1116 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,480 Speaker 5: when not to say it. 1117 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:47,800 Speaker 4: But the problem then that's. 1118 00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,120 Speaker 3: Okay because we should all understand that kids don't have 1119 00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 3: the reasoning, so they shouldn't be you know, we we 1120 00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:55,040 Speaker 3: shouldn't try them as adults, So if they say the 1121 00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 3: N word, we shouldn't all go, you're the worst kid 1122 00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:01,640 Speaker 3: that's ever lived. You're bad, You're a bad person. Like 1123 00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,880 Speaker 3: that stuff matters. So I think that I don't know, 1124 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,080 Speaker 3: and I really am onto something I got to say 1125 00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:11,000 Speaker 3: with this adoption thing and how you don't you don't 1126 00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 3: care as much about your kid being an extension of you, 1127 00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 3: and you're a little bit easier with them. I've gotten 1128 00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:18,440 Speaker 3: some feedback on it, and I've some people sent me 1129 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,359 Speaker 3: some things about parents being so obsessed with their kids 1130 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,319 Speaker 3: and how it's an extension of them. I think I'm 1131 00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:27,200 Speaker 3: onto something that adopted kids have it easier with when 1132 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:30,319 Speaker 3: it comes to pressure from parents, which is a detrimental 1133 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,799 Speaker 3: thing in a child's life if you're adopted, because your 1134 00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,600 Speaker 3: parents aren't as obsessed with how you come out, because 1135 00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 3: they don't take it personally. 1136 00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:37,480 Speaker 1: I believe that. 1137 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 4: I think I'm on to your children too. 1138 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,000 Speaker 6: I think the first child gets too much pressure put 1139 00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:43,960 Speaker 6: on them and the second child there's two. 1140 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:44,960 Speaker 1: It works both ways. 1141 00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 6: You have to figure things out on your own because 1142 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,400 Speaker 6: the parent isn't quite as focused on you, and then 1143 00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 6: you also have to compete with someone older than you 1144 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:52,239 Speaker 6: all the time. 1145 00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,359 Speaker 3: Yes, wait, being a p second, I am so glad 1146 00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,480 Speaker 3: I wasn't a second kid. Although you know, all of 1147 00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,319 Speaker 3: the things I hear about being the oldest daughter are 1148 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,719 Speaker 3: uh terrible, and it's like it's a harder it's a 1149 00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:07,200 Speaker 3: hard life. 1150 00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:08,080 Speaker 4: You would have thought, like. 1151 00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:11,480 Speaker 3: All the stuff I get sent about being an old 1152 00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,880 Speaker 3: eldest daughter or all the memes and stuff. It's just 1153 00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 3: assumes we were just horribly abused, like throughout our lives, 1154 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 3: and that we've had the hardest lives. 1155 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,239 Speaker 4: It's like, it's really not that bad of a life. 1156 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,040 Speaker 3: But it does make you feel better when someone tells 1157 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,440 Speaker 3: you like you have a reason to be crazy, because 1158 00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:29,839 Speaker 3: that other think is my problem is like I get 1159 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:32,239 Speaker 3: I'd struggle with so much depression. I struggle with all 1160 00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:35,560 Speaker 3: of these like self doubt and self loathing and all 1161 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:39,839 Speaker 3: these things, and I got nothing to point at for 1162 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 3: why I feel this way. It's just it's so aggravating 1163 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:47,239 Speaker 3: that I didn't get molested or beat And I'm saying 1164 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,799 Speaker 3: that obviously comedically, but it's it would be nice to 1165 00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:54,320 Speaker 3: have had a divorce or something. But I think the 1166 00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 3: lack of divorce could have led to it. But there's 1167 00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:58,440 Speaker 3: you're frustrating. 1168 00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,520 Speaker 6: It's like your whole child, childhood, everyone else around you 1169 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,759 Speaker 6: was having these amazing excuses to be fucked up and 1170 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:10,319 Speaker 6: you had nothing. You were sitting there, parents, never molested, 1171 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:14,160 Speaker 6: no accidents, and it's just like that's your tragedy. 1172 00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,319 Speaker 3: Well, this is the crazy part is that in my 1173 00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:21,640 Speaker 3: like unpacking this stuff with my not new therapist I've 1174 00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:22,319 Speaker 3: been seeing here a while. 1175 00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:24,520 Speaker 4: No, this wasn't even from her. 1176 00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,280 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry we talked about this because I'm reading 1177 00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,480 Speaker 3: this book. What is the book I'm reading? Oh, okay, 1178 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:34,800 Speaker 3: it's I'm reluctant to share the title because I'm sorry, 1179 00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,520 Speaker 3: but it is helping me. And I've sent it to 1180 00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,399 Speaker 3: my cousin and I've said it to h and I've 1181 00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:43,040 Speaker 3: told another friend to get it. It's called Unworthy and 1182 00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:46,120 Speaker 3: it's I think the sub heading is something like how 1183 00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 3: to stop hating yourself or something like that. Anyway, I 1184 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:53,160 Speaker 3: just put in I put in self loathing books like 1185 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:54,799 Speaker 3: I just type that in and this was the first 1186 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,160 Speaker 3: one that came up, and so I got it and 1187 00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,560 Speaker 3: it's really good and it's teaching me about like why 1188 00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,680 Speaker 3: do I like, why do we hate ourselves? And the 1189 00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,640 Speaker 3: science says that you know, you can hate yourself because 1190 00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,319 Speaker 3: you have abusive parents that never believed in you and 1191 00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:13,480 Speaker 3: were you know, code dependent on you and narcissistic and 1192 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 3: emotionally abusive and alcoholic and all these things. Or or 1193 00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:24,280 Speaker 3: you could just have been a very sensitive little kid 1194 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:28,920 Speaker 3: and your mom maybe was when you were a baby 1195 00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,080 Speaker 3: before the age of three, you could have been around 1196 00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:35,440 Speaker 3: your mom a handful of times when she was just 1197 00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,600 Speaker 3: not in a good mood and didn't smile at you 1198 00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:42,759 Speaker 3: in the right way and wasn't returning your smiles. I mean, 1199 00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 3: that's how sensitive some babies are. That can actually lead 1200 00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:50,440 Speaker 3: to attachment disorder where it's like, if your mom is 1201 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,399 Speaker 3: just in a fucking bad mood. There's been times where 1202 00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:58,680 Speaker 3: I don't want to smile at a baby, so through 1203 00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,600 Speaker 3: no fault of a mother, just being stuck with a 1204 00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 3: baby and being tired, overwhelmed and. 1205 00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:07,960 Speaker 1: Just busy done. 1206 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,799 Speaker 3: With it yet busy or distracted whatever it is. And 1207 00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,359 Speaker 3: I can only imagine what phones add to this. But 1208 00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:17,080 Speaker 3: like if a baby isn't given the response that it needs, 1209 00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,080 Speaker 3: if it has a wet diaper, and it's not that 1210 00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,440 Speaker 3: its needs are getting met, it's hungry and the food, oh, 1211 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,359 Speaker 3: this was one example. Well, that can fuck up your 1212 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,759 Speaker 3: baby and make them insecure and feel like they have 1213 00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,000 Speaker 3: self loathing the rest of their lives. Is that that 1214 00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,280 Speaker 3: you could feed a baby and the baby is expecting 1215 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,520 Speaker 3: what it usually gets is, which is like warm, a warm, 1216 00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:40,440 Speaker 3: yummy food, and the bottle could be cold, and it 1217 00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:44,920 Speaker 3: would alarm the baby's brain and neural pathways in such. 1218 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,320 Speaker 4: A way that it now can't trust. That could happen 1219 00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 4: two times. 1220 00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:50,520 Speaker 3: This isn't science, but I think it's like it doesn't 1221 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:52,400 Speaker 3: have to happen that many times. I don't know this 1222 00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,759 Speaker 3: for a fact, but this was a reference that was like, 1223 00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:58,960 Speaker 3: you know, came from research in this woman's book. 1224 00:53:59,239 --> 00:53:59,840 Speaker 4: That can happen just. 1225 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,279 Speaker 3: Hand full of times that a baby gets cold when 1226 00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:05,839 Speaker 3: it's expecting warm, and it will lose trust in the 1227 00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 3: things that love it the most. And if you lose 1228 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,919 Speaker 3: trust in something that loves you the most, you must 1229 00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:12,120 Speaker 3: not be that lovable if the thing that's supposed to 1230 00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,919 Speaker 3: love you doesn't and gives you cold. And so you 1231 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:16,640 Speaker 3: you decide, Okay, well I got to do this on 1232 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,080 Speaker 3: my own, and like it's shit, like that final answer, 1233 00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 3: we're fucked, a final thought, we we're how. 1234 00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:27,320 Speaker 4: That is so delicate. 1235 00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,880 Speaker 3: So that's that's what I'm it's helping me reading these 1236 00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,799 Speaker 3: books because I'm learning that just because I don't have 1237 00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:36,719 Speaker 3: some like crazy pivotal abusive situation to point to in 1238 00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:38,919 Speaker 3: my past, it could have been just something like that, 1239 00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:40,920 Speaker 3: Like my mom was just watching a soap opera and 1240 00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,440 Speaker 3: kind of distracted, and I was like, wh and like 1241 00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:46,400 Speaker 3: she was just like had just maybe read something like 1242 00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,640 Speaker 3: you don't need to calm them right away, and then 1243 00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,440 Speaker 3: that could have led to me later on. 1244 00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:54,279 Speaker 1: You know, it makes me want like, isn't there a 1245 00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:55,319 Speaker 1: flaw in just that? 1246 00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,719 Speaker 6: And like if everybody's fucked up and the littlest thing 1247 00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,040 Speaker 6: could fuck you up as a baby, yes, And I 1248 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:04,200 Speaker 6: feel like our parents' generation, or even the one before that, 1249 00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,680 Speaker 6: the idea we're just like, stop exploring those things, just 1250 00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:11,359 Speaker 6: suck it up and just live your life. And then, 1251 00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:14,120 Speaker 6: you know, beat your wife and die of a heart 1252 00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:15,040 Speaker 6: attack at forty eight. 1253 00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:16,720 Speaker 1: But at least you're going. 1254 00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:17,640 Speaker 4: The other way. Just give up. 1255 00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,080 Speaker 6: You're saying, well, yeah, like we I think, because we're 1256 00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:23,799 Speaker 6: trying to always constantly figure out why we're wrong and 1257 00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:27,000 Speaker 6: improving our condition in life, that we have this aversion 1258 00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,080 Speaker 6: to being uncomfortable, We have this aversion to being yes. 1259 00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,000 Speaker 6: And it's like you're becoming we're all becoming more and 1260 00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:37,920 Speaker 6: more sensitive because we're expecting everything to be good and 1261 00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,839 Speaker 6: it's just not and you should just accept that and. 1262 00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:42,279 Speaker 4: Suck it up with you. 1263 00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:46,240 Speaker 3: That is I completely agree with you. There is that 1264 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:50,279 Speaker 3: that life, everything you love will go away. Someday you 1265 00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,000 Speaker 3: will either die and it will all go away or 1266 00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,640 Speaker 3: it will lead it will die before you die, and 1267 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:58,000 Speaker 3: you so human existence is losing everything you have. It 1268 00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:01,120 Speaker 3: does end up horrible no matter what you can even 1269 00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:04,000 Speaker 3: like in the end, we lose everything we love, which 1270 00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:07,600 Speaker 3: is by definition not a good not a good system. 1271 00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,840 Speaker 3: So by definition, being a human is pain and exists. 1272 00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:15,400 Speaker 4: It's it's pain and you do have to accept that. 1273 00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:17,799 Speaker 3: The problem is is that I do accept that, and 1274 00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,879 Speaker 3: I still you should be able to enjoy the good 1275 00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,360 Speaker 3: stuff though, And that's where I run into issues, is 1276 00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,359 Speaker 3: that I can I embrace the pain. 1277 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:28,640 Speaker 4: I know I'm gonna die someday. I think it's crazy 1278 00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:30,960 Speaker 4: all the animals suffering around that we're just like whatever 1279 00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:34,200 Speaker 4: we're bloing like, I see it all around. I accept it. 1280 00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,239 Speaker 3: I do still want to enjoy shit, though, And that's 1281 00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,279 Speaker 3: where I think my depression gets the best of me, 1282 00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,200 Speaker 3: is that I can't. You can't enjoy the things you 1283 00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:45,920 Speaker 3: unce left. I mean, I've heard it as a left 1284 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 3: commercial time and time again. That is like, That's what 1285 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,600 Speaker 3: I'm trying to and I'm just tired of like not 1286 00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:55,359 Speaker 3: liking myself. We've all heard the thing of like if 1287 00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:56,880 Speaker 3: you talk to the way you talk to yourself to 1288 00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:59,759 Speaker 3: your friend, like you would they never let someone talk 1289 00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:01,880 Speaker 3: to your friend the way you talk to yourself. And 1290 00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:06,600 Speaker 3: it's so true. I can't even imagine anyone. If someone 1291 00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:08,840 Speaker 3: spoke to my friend the way I talk to myself, 1292 00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:12,640 Speaker 3: I would probably be in prison for murder like I 1293 00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,719 Speaker 3: would be. I really would do some crazy shit to 1294 00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,439 Speaker 3: come after whoever talk to anyone I love this way, 1295 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:23,880 Speaker 3: Like I've anyone that's hurt my friends before I immediately 1296 00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:25,280 Speaker 3: I'm like, can I is there a way I can 1297 00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:27,960 Speaker 3: cyber bully them so they'll jump off a bridge? Like 1298 00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,760 Speaker 3: I mean, I that's my first thought, Like I hate 1299 00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:34,200 Speaker 3: anyone that is mean to my friends, and I would 1300 00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,560 Speaker 3: never cyber bully someone, by the way, Have I been 1301 00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:37,080 Speaker 3: tempted to? 1302 00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 4: Of course? 1303 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,360 Speaker 3: Is it seemed like a good idea when you really 1304 00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,040 Speaker 3: want to make someone feel bad and you don't want 1305 00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:42,680 Speaker 3: them to know it's you. 1306 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:44,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, do I get why people do it? 1307 00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:45,160 Speaker 1: Uh huh? 1308 00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:46,360 Speaker 4: But should you do it? Never? 1309 00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 3: It's so cruel and awful, But yes, I've thought about 1310 00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:50,200 Speaker 3: it before. Of like, man, I wish I was a 1311 00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:51,360 Speaker 3: worst person and could just. 1312 00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:54,640 Speaker 6: Some people have come after is that are sick and 1313 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:56,320 Speaker 6: the dogs on someone. 1314 00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,200 Speaker 1: Like a swiftie yeah, or like yeah swifties. 1315 00:57:58,280 --> 00:57:59,840 Speaker 6: I mean, there's are plenty of examples of it where 1316 00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:03,040 Speaker 6: you even accidentally sick the dogs on somebody. And I 1317 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:04,440 Speaker 6: don't think the besties are capable. 1318 00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:05,960 Speaker 4: Have you ever been tempted to do that? 1319 00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,480 Speaker 6: Do you think the besties, though, are capable of Uh? No, 1320 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:09,800 Speaker 6: I don't think are the. 1321 00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:11,600 Speaker 3: I don't think they're capable of it, but I do 1322 00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:15,000 Speaker 3: think they'll admit that it would be very satisfying too. 1323 00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 3: And I don't mean cyber boys. I want to get 1324 00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:18,800 Speaker 3: someone to jump off a bridge. I was being comedic 1325 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,880 Speaker 3: and being that hyperbolic, but like just cyberbly someone to 1326 00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:23,520 Speaker 3: make them feel bad about who they are. 1327 00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:25,040 Speaker 4: I've been tempted to do it. 1328 00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,440 Speaker 3: I really am someone that's like hurt a friend of 1329 00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:29,920 Speaker 3: mine and gone out of their way, Like I remember 1330 00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:33,760 Speaker 3: Carlisle telling me a story about someone making fun of 1331 00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:36,600 Speaker 3: her being a waitress as she's waitressing and being like 1332 00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:38,880 Speaker 3: failed at what she could have done in front of 1333 00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:41,120 Speaker 3: his whole table of all these really accomplished people that 1334 00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:45,680 Speaker 3: are all her age. And I fucking went psycho dude. 1335 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,560 Speaker 3: I wanted to. I found out I found him on Instagram. 1336 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:52,160 Speaker 3: I stared at pictures of him, this person who tried 1337 00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:53,840 Speaker 3: to humiliate my friend in public. 1338 00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:56,640 Speaker 4: I would have. I wanted to. 1339 00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:58,240 Speaker 3: I wanted to take the next step and make a 1340 00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,000 Speaker 3: fake account and just start harassing him. 1341 00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:03,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, I really did, you know, but I did it. 1342 00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,880 Speaker 5: I'm hearing this stuff and it's kind of I can't 1343 00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:07,320 Speaker 5: figure out how to put into words. But it's the 1344 00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,320 Speaker 5: same way that I would feel about pranking someone who 1345 00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:14,240 Speaker 5: is an innocent bystander. It's the same kind of feeling 1346 00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,760 Speaker 5: to me. The ultimate reward would be like, Okay, let's 1347 00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:22,040 Speaker 5: let's give Carlisle a glow up that this person's jealous 1348 00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:24,520 Speaker 5: of her even more I would like I would focus 1349 00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:27,120 Speaker 5: it more on my friend coming up. 1350 00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:30,640 Speaker 3: That's the healthy way, Yes, yes, absolutely, But that's is 1351 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:34,120 Speaker 3: that your first instinct, like, you don't don't you like 1352 00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:34,640 Speaker 3: I want to. 1353 00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,040 Speaker 5: I don't like this person. I'll never be friends with 1354 00:59:37,080 --> 00:59:39,400 Speaker 5: this person. Now I can see them for who they don't. 1355 00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:40,960 Speaker 4: Want to ruin their life. Now, I don't want to 1356 00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:43,600 Speaker 4: ruin their life. I just want them to feel bad 1357 00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,400 Speaker 4: about who they are and know that I see what 1358 00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,400 Speaker 4: they did put too much, you know when I went 1359 00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:49,160 Speaker 4: off about that. 1360 00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:51,560 Speaker 1: But it's so satisfying. 1361 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:56,959 Speaker 3: Oh boy, you're you're so right. Noah, it's Fargo season five. 1362 00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,280 Speaker 3: Yeah you want to I think it is. Yeah, are 1363 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:00,880 Speaker 3: you talking from John Ham's perspective? 1364 01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:01,840 Speaker 4: From me? 1365 01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:03,240 Speaker 1: Let it go to the matriarch. 1366 01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:06,920 Speaker 6: The matriarch, she's so vindictive and she doesn't just let 1367 01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:10,640 Speaker 6: the person fail. She figures out a way to destroy 1368 01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:11,480 Speaker 6: everything they have. 1369 01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1370 01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:13,440 Speaker 4: I don't want to do that. 1371 01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:16,440 Speaker 3: I really, I want to backtrack. I don't want them 1372 01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,960 Speaker 3: to hate themselves to the point. I just want them 1373 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:20,960 Speaker 3: to have a bad day and I want them to know. 1374 01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 2: I know. 1375 01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:23,840 Speaker 5: But if they're if you're like that kind of person, 1376 01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:26,919 Speaker 5: I know that they are having a bad day every 1377 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,640 Speaker 5: day because they're miserable on the inside if they need to. 1378 01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:33,000 Speaker 3: And you're absolutely right the other you are ready to 1379 01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,240 Speaker 3: be a mother. I swear to God that is like. 1380 01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:40,680 Speaker 4: You're you are You're there, girl, because I if someone 1381 01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,800 Speaker 4: is just energy as a parent. 1382 01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:46,760 Speaker 5: Oh I remember, Okay, you were on Joe Rogan's podcast 1383 01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:49,680 Speaker 5: like years and years ago, but he said something to 1384 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:52,720 Speaker 5: you that really really stuck with me. Up until today. 1385 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:55,600 Speaker 5: He said, when you wake up in the morning, your 1386 01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:58,680 Speaker 5: tank has one hundred percent, and you get to choose 1387 01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:00,800 Speaker 5: what you do with that energy and how you spend it. 1388 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,720 Speaker 4: And I think about that a lot. And it's true. 1389 01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:06,360 Speaker 6: When I wake up in the morning, my tank has 1390 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:07,600 Speaker 6: like thirty eight percent. 1391 01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:08,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's nice. 1392 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:10,080 Speaker 5: I don't want as you get older it gets less 1393 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:11,040 Speaker 5: and less, that's for sure. 1394 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:15,000 Speaker 6: I spend thirty thinking about how to destroy my enemies. 1395 01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:19,200 Speaker 3: No, I you know what I think I'm it. Hearkens 1396 01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:23,120 Speaker 3: back to I get a surge of dopamine when I 1397 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,040 Speaker 3: get upset, and I think, as someone with ADHD, I'm 1398 01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:29,400 Speaker 3: constantly looking for highs sure and it and. 1399 01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:30,240 Speaker 4: I've talked about it before. 1400 01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:32,480 Speaker 3: When I get angry, I feel like very clear headed 1401 01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:34,760 Speaker 3: and like the best version of myself. It's almost like 1402 01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:37,960 Speaker 3: it feels good. So I think that I'm searching for 1403 01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,840 Speaker 3: that dopamine high when I do have an opportunity to 1404 01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:46,200 Speaker 3: really get someone. And I don't really care about the 1405 01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:49,120 Speaker 3: status I like. Obviously, status is something that's important to me, 1406 01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:50,640 Speaker 3: something that's important to all humans. 1407 01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:52,640 Speaker 4: It's a it's something that keeps you. 1408 01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:58,280 Speaker 6: Hierarchy of needs is status on there not quite statistic. 1409 01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,840 Speaker 1: Self fulfillment and stuff is links stores, right. 1410 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,600 Speaker 3: I mean, Sam Harris did a whole podcast about status 1411 01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,080 Speaker 3: and how someone who wrote a book about status, how we're. 1412 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:06,560 Speaker 4: All seeking it. 1413 01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:10,000 Speaker 3: I mean, it's especially in a capitalist society. But my 1414 01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:14,120 Speaker 3: status buys me one thing other than all the things 1415 01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:15,840 Speaker 3: that buys me with literal money that I get from 1416 01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:18,720 Speaker 3: having status, But one thing it gets me that is 1417 01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:20,720 Speaker 3: not it is I guess it's money dependent. Because the 1418 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:22,960 Speaker 3: power comes from the money. I have the power to, 1419 01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:30,280 Speaker 3: uh like it, Well, I can, I guess with this guy, 1420 01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,240 Speaker 3: like this certain guy that said this to Carlisle, like, 1421 01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:36,000 Speaker 3: I had the power because he's in the industry I 1422 01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,360 Speaker 3: work in where I have a little bit of status. 1423 01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:41,200 Speaker 3: I have the power to keep him from getting things 1424 01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 3: if I mean, which I would absolutely do if I ever, 1425 01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:46,400 Speaker 3: I don't even remember his name or anything, so it 1426 01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:50,320 Speaker 3: wouldn't happen. But if I found out he was up 1427 01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:52,720 Speaker 3: for a job on a show, I would one hundred 1428 01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,720 Speaker 3: percent say no, you don't get it, because because that's. 1429 01:02:55,600 --> 01:02:57,120 Speaker 4: A and that's the reason that it gives someone. Not 1430 01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:58,520 Speaker 4: gives someone a job, you're a shitty person. 1431 01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:01,160 Speaker 3: So I like that, and I like the fact that 1432 01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 3: if he finds out I don't think he's cool. He 1433 01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,800 Speaker 3: might because he's such a petty piece of shit that 1434 01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:11,440 Speaker 3: like cares about vapid stuff like fame. It might make 1435 01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 3: him feel less cool to know that Nicki Glazer hates 1436 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:15,640 Speaker 3: him like I would like. It would really hurt my 1437 01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:17,720 Speaker 3: feelings to find out if Taylor Swift hated me, and 1438 01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:21,320 Speaker 3: not that I'm Taylor Swift or anything, but like having 1439 01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,320 Speaker 3: the ability to maybe he'd be like, oh, I'm such 1440 01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 3: a fan. 1441 01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:27,080 Speaker 4: I'm like, well, I hate you would be very satisfying 1442 01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 4: to me. 1443 01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:27,919 Speaker 1: Wow. 1444 01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:29,480 Speaker 3: But it didn't get to that. I didn't write to him. 1445 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:31,520 Speaker 3: I didn't say anything Carlisle said not to him, not 1446 01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:35,360 Speaker 3: that I would have, But man, I think there's got 1447 01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:38,520 Speaker 3: to be besties out there that dream of I don't 1448 01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:40,560 Speaker 3: dream of murder, and I don't even think it's bad 1449 01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:42,479 Speaker 3: if you do, because some people are just think about 1450 01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:44,880 Speaker 3: murdering someone and really get off on that thought of it. 1451 01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 3: And I don't think that means you're gonna do it. 1452 01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:48,560 Speaker 3: There's lots of things I think about that I don't 1453 01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:52,160 Speaker 3: want to happen. But yeah, I got to embrace those 1454 01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:55,080 Speaker 3: really sick parts of me that just imagine, like what 1455 01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:58,680 Speaker 3: if what could I do if I if I was 1456 01:03:58,720 --> 01:03:59,960 Speaker 3: a little bit more unhinged. 1457 01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:03,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, so we figured it out, I think. 1458 01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:04,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1459 01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:08,720 Speaker 6: Any final thoughts, Brian, I mean, I'm I cannot wait 1460 01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:11,480 Speaker 6: for the day that I get a phone call asking 1461 01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:15,160 Speaker 6: me for a recommendation or asking me to give a 1462 01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:20,080 Speaker 6: recommendation to somebody that was shit. I mean someone told 1463 01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:21,680 Speaker 6: me that story once. I was I got at a 1464 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:23,320 Speaker 6: panel or something and she's like, you got to be 1465 01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:24,479 Speaker 6: cool when you're at a job. 1466 01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:25,280 Speaker 1: You have to. 1467 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:27,920 Speaker 6: You have to be a cool person that everyone likes 1468 01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:30,800 Speaker 6: being around, that's nice and kind and a hard worker, 1469 01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:33,040 Speaker 6: but most of all, just nice and kind and normal. 1470 01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,760 Speaker 6: Because when the day comes that someone calls you, it'll come. 1471 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:37,200 Speaker 1: It'll come. 1472 01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:40,160 Speaker 6: Eventually, somebody in your orbit, if you're a piece of 1473 01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,400 Speaker 6: shit and you're a piece of shit at work, or 1474 01:04:42,440 --> 01:04:45,880 Speaker 6: if you're spoiled or whatever, somebody in your orbit will 1475 01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:49,160 Speaker 6: one day have to say answer the question do you 1476 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:52,560 Speaker 6: recommend this person for a job? And man, just I 1477 01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:54,280 Speaker 6: hope that happens to me one day where I get 1478 01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:57,840 Speaker 6: to say, oh that person under no circle, Actually I 1479 01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,880 Speaker 6: might have already done this for somebody. Yeah, really, under 1480 01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,120 Speaker 6: no circumstances, should you hire this I think I said 1481 01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:08,960 Speaker 6: this just for about somebody actually under say the flip. 1482 01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:12,080 Speaker 4: Side of them. Remember who was I have said the 1483 01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:16,000 Speaker 4: opposite obviously, when someone calls me, finally I get to say, 1484 01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,840 Speaker 4: this is the greatest This person deserves it more than anything. 1485 01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:20,920 Speaker 4: If my word means anything, please. 1486 01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:22,800 Speaker 3: Just give this person the job on the spot, and 1487 01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:25,000 Speaker 3: that I will speak to Noah's feelings. 1488 01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:27,920 Speaker 6: Feels so so much better than the other one. 1489 01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:29,240 Speaker 4: I don't know if better. 1490 01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:30,880 Speaker 3: I haven't been able to do the other one yet, 1491 01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:34,040 Speaker 3: but I can't wait to. But it being able to 1492 01:05:34,160 --> 01:05:38,960 Speaker 3: give someone an opportunity feels so good when you know 1493 01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:40,920 Speaker 3: that they're like such a good person and you're like, 1494 01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:42,640 Speaker 3: oh my god, everyone on this job is going to 1495 01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:44,760 Speaker 3: love them, And like I. 1496 01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:47,480 Speaker 6: Got to feel that this weekend for somebody. What I 1497 01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:52,800 Speaker 6: recommended somebody for a job. Oh yeah to uh, I 1498 01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,600 Speaker 6: don't know if Chris. Yeah to Chris. I recommended someone 1499 01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,440 Speaker 6: for a job to Chris, And I got to speak 1500 01:05:57,480 --> 01:05:59,640 Speaker 6: so highly of this person and it brought me great 1501 01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:04,520 Speaker 6: joy to you know, try to give somebody something that 1502 01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,520 Speaker 6: I thought was amazing. And I've done the other thing 1503 01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:10,520 Speaker 6: where I would I go around town speaking ill of 1504 01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:14,360 Speaker 6: this particular thing or a person or group of people, 1505 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:17,320 Speaker 6: and I tell everybody I see, like, under no circumstances, 1506 01:06:17,320 --> 01:06:18,400 Speaker 6: diould you work with this company? 1507 01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:18,880 Speaker 4: Uh? 1508 01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:23,880 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, not this company, with this whatever, Brian Uh? 1509 01:06:24,280 --> 01:06:24,760 Speaker 1: And I say it. 1510 01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:26,560 Speaker 4: Almost time, companies you've worked with. 1511 01:06:28,880 --> 01:06:31,880 Speaker 6: BP the oil company, And I say that all the time, 1512 01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:34,400 Speaker 6: And it doesn't feel great, but it does feel like 1513 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:37,200 Speaker 6: I have I feel like a duty to report this 1514 01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:40,880 Speaker 6: to people, whereas the other side of it, I feel 1515 01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:43,720 Speaker 6: like a big old brown duty. The other side of it, though, 1516 01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:46,880 Speaker 6: when you're saying something good about somebody that actually does 1517 01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:48,640 Speaker 6: make you feel good inside? 1518 01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:50,120 Speaker 4: It does? It does? 1519 01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:53,240 Speaker 3: It's better to do good. You're right, all right, we 1520 01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:54,920 Speaker 3: figured it out. I was gonna say, so, oh, you 1521 01:06:54,920 --> 01:06:57,800 Speaker 3: know what I wanted in speaking of these like recommendations. 1522 01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:00,840 Speaker 3: One of the best YouTube clips that I've seen in 1523 01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:02,360 Speaker 3: the past couple years. I don't think I've ever talked 1524 01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:03,960 Speaker 3: about on the show, but it is worth looking up 1525 01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:06,640 Speaker 3: right now if you want to continue your entertainment. Busties 1526 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:13,160 Speaker 3: YouTube Hamish and Andy the Best Australian Award or like 1527 01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:16,040 Speaker 3: the greatest guy in the World, because they do this 1528 01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:19,280 Speaker 3: thing where they call. They call a random number and 1529 01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:21,800 Speaker 3: they say to him, Hey, I just got to have 1530 01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:24,040 Speaker 3: a job interview. I picked a random number and I 1531 01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:25,920 Speaker 3: put your number down as a reference. Will you just 1532 01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,760 Speaker 3: pretend if they call you that I worked at your 1533 01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:31,360 Speaker 3: company and that I was a great employee and the guy, 1534 01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:33,440 Speaker 3: and the guy goes sure, and they call him back 1535 01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:35,680 Speaker 3: five minutes later as the company and the guy gives 1536 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:37,960 Speaker 3: him the best reference ever and it's just a stranger 1537 01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:40,360 Speaker 3: and it's called and this guy ends up getting like 1538 01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:42,120 Speaker 3: to go on the Hamish and Andy Show and is 1539 01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:44,800 Speaker 3: celebrated as like the greatest man alive. And it's just 1540 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:48,040 Speaker 3: I didn't spoil it. It's such a fun like rollercoaster 1541 01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:48,720 Speaker 3: of things that happen. 1542 01:07:48,800 --> 01:07:50,160 Speaker 4: So go check that out Hamish and Andy. 1543 01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:53,120 Speaker 3: It's like the called the greatest Australian ever or something 1544 01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:53,400 Speaker 3: like that. 1545 01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:55,360 Speaker 4: All right, that's the show. 1546 01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:57,680 Speaker 3: We will see you tomorrow on the show, and we'll 1547 01:07:57,680 --> 01:07:59,760 Speaker 3: talk about girls trip, we'll talk about my mom's birthday, 1548 01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:02,959 Speaker 3: last to night, my La trip on the road. 1549 01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:05,040 Speaker 4: So much to go over and. 1550 01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,080 Speaker 3: We this weekend I'm going to be in Atlanta and 1551 01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:11,280 Speaker 3: kansasas City with Anya, Marina and a special guests on 1552 01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,600 Speaker 3: Kansas City show Tim Conby, so come out to those shows, 1553 01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:16,479 Speaker 3: Atlanta and Kansas City. We had so much fun this 1554 01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,679 Speaker 3: past weekend in Florida. We'll talk about it as well, 1555 01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:21,880 Speaker 3: all right. Thank you, bust Ees, Cina, Marwbika, and did 1556 01:08:22,720 --> 01:08:23,640 Speaker 3: give a recommendation.