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Speaker 1: This one is from torn in Los Angeles. Steve Torren says,

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty four year old single female and I

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Speaker 1: have a roommate. She loves to go out and sometimes

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Speaker 1: she stays out all night. Her boyfriend calls me, and

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Speaker 1: I usually lie to him and say she's in her

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Speaker 1: room passed out. Well, the other night he showed up

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Speaker 1: and said he knew I was lying and he wanted

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Speaker 1: to talk. All I had on was a T shirt

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Speaker 1: and panties and I've been drinking wine all night. He

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Speaker 1: sat on the couch and I sat on him and

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Speaker 1: we had sex. I don't feel bad about it because

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Speaker 1: she treats him like crap. He wants to do it again.

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Speaker 1: Should I keep pleasuring him?

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Speaker 2: What did you get anything from this?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Nothing?

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Speaker 2: That's the question. Should I keep pleasuring him? Does that

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Speaker 2: go to the late let me answer your question. Does

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Speaker 2: that go to the woman's need to feel nurturing? Let

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Speaker 2: me help him through this? Yeah, she wanted him anyway,

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Speaker 2: and she don't like her roommate.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a little bit of both, Steve, I

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Speaker 1: honestly do, because we are nurturers by nature, and you know,

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Speaker 1: to see other people happy and the pleasure them. That

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Speaker 1: makes us feel good.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm over here looking for her. She's hurting me.

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Speaker 2: I wish I didn't all this.

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Speaker 1: Sure, good yees?

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Speaker 2: Where were these women when I was coming up? Showed

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Speaker 2: up for me?

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Speaker 1: All my girlfriends friends couldn't stand my age.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she's out. Yeah, they tell the truth.

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Speaker 1: So she keep pleasuring him.

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Speaker 2: That it's not about it's not about that. She gonna

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Speaker 2: do it anyway what she writes us for. Yeah, she

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Speaker 2: gonna do it anyway. She don't like a rule mate,

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Speaker 2: and she and she liked this. We ain't got it.

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Speaker 2: Come on, Shirley next.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we have time for another one. See

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Speaker 1: this is from Teresa in Fort Myers. Teresays I have

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Speaker 1: a fifteen year old daughter and an eight year old son.

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Speaker 1: My son's dad has raised my daughter and been the

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Speaker 1: only father figure she's had in her life. For her

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Speaker 1: sixteenth birthday, I want to give her a big sweet

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Speaker 1: sixteen party, and I've asked him to be a part

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Speaker 1: of it. He said that he's going to have to

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Speaker 1: pull back from my daughter because his fiance doesn't think

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Speaker 1: he should focus so much on a child that's not his.

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Speaker 1: Do I tell my child that he's no longer a

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Speaker 1: part of her life or should he tell her?

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Speaker 2: No, nothing, it's not a discussion to have. You don't

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Speaker 2: tell and he don't. We got to wait and see

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Speaker 2: how this all play out. Yeah, you know, you don't

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Speaker 2: go to a child and say, look, I ain't fitna

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Speaker 2: be around no more. That ain't not a fiance. Yeah

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Speaker 2: you know, it's trying to know claim her territory, cut

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Speaker 2: down on some of them. You getting ready to marry

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Speaker 2: a good guy? Yeah, man, See this is what people

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Speaker 2: don't know. This is who you're going to get.

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Speaker 1: To a child, and he's being.

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Speaker 2: Extra to the child, not to the mother.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Man, if she had a brain in her head, she

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Speaker 2: will support the kindness of the kind part of this

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Speaker 2: guy's heart because this is who you're getting, right. So

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Speaker 2: something of a word happened to y'all. You see, he

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Speaker 2: just don't abandoned.

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Speaker 1: Kids, right right.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes, women, when you when you meet and men, when

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Speaker 2: you meet a person who has a past, that past

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Speaker 2: can't just go away because you in the picture now

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Speaker 2: right right right exactly. And you shouldn't ask him to

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Speaker 2: dissolve being a father figure to a girl. You shouldn't

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Speaker 2: ask him to do that. If he's still sleeping with

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Speaker 2: the mama, you can request that you stop sleeping at

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Speaker 2: the mommy.

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Speaker 1: You can't say you have that right, you're right.

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Speaker 2: But let this man, you know, had this relationship with

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Speaker 2: this girl. Man, it's important.

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Speaker 1: Stant Yes, as a person who didn't have that, it

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Speaker 1: is extremely important, extremely Carlo, you didn't either, so we

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Speaker 1: know it's important. Dad's important. It's so important in a

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Speaker 1: woman's in a girl's life. Yeah, yes, yes, put them

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Speaker 1: on game, all right, coming up at twenty minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour, Thank you, Steve. We'll have more of the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're

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