1 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: Amy roboc and TJ. 2 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: Holmes present Killer Thriller with your host Alisa Donovan. 3 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 3: Hey, everyone, a Lisa Donovan here and this is Killer Thriller. Okay, 4 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 3: today we are really getting into a very very nuts 5 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 3: o case. Because sometimes the most dangerous stories they are 6 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 3: not the ones that happen in dark alleys. They happen 7 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 3: in inboxes, courtrooms, headlines. So today we are stepping into 8 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 3: a case that played out in real time in the press, 9 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 3: in the legal system, involving former Bachelor Clayton Eckhard. So 10 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 3: what started as just a single simple date quickly spiraled 11 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 3: into a paternity claim, accusations of twins, hundreds of messages 12 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 3: and emails, court filings, and eventually felony charges. So on 13 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 3: the surface, it looked like just another celebrity scandal, but 14 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 3: underneath that, this is the out reputation, manipulation, public judgment, 15 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 3: and what it feels like to try to prove your 16 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 3: innocence to a world that pretty much already assumes that 17 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 3: you're guilty. So Clayton is here to talk about surviving 18 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 3: that storm and about his new podcast, Love Trapped Owens v. Eckard, 19 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 3: where you can hear all of the incredible details. 20 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 2: Clayton, Welcome to Killer Thriller. 21 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: Thank you for having me. I'm actually I'm super excited. 22 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 4: I've I've been on a couple other podcasts, but nothing 23 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 4: in this realm, like this genre. So I feel like 24 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 4: you're gonna You're gonna really ask. 25 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:38,119 Speaker 1: All the good questions that I've probably not be asked yet. 26 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 2: Great. 27 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, for us, this is a little bit 28 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 3: of it may feel like lighter fair, but for you 29 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 3: it clearly is not because this has had a massive 30 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: impact on your life. So we'll definitely get into a 31 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 3: lot of the legal things in like the case. But 32 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 3: when you my first question is when you look at 33 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 3: May of twenty twenty three, did you have any sense 34 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: that this was about to become your life? 35 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: No, not at all. 36 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 4: I had already actually been through one false accusation. It 37 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 4: was a cheating scandal which happened in the previous year, 38 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 4: and I disproved that within twenty four hours, thankfully due 39 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 4: to location services on my iPhone individual I claimed that 40 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 4: I went to New York, but I never did. My 41 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:27,919 Speaker 4: phone showed that I stayed in Arizona. 42 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 2: Amazing. 43 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I was able to disprove that. But I 44 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: thought that was going to be it. 45 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 4: You know, I thought, okay, wow, false accusation coming off 46 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 4: throughout a television. 47 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: I get that I wasn't really liked as a lead. 48 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 4: I was controversial, So I suppose maybe this is just 49 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 4: what happens. But I figured that'd be the extent of it. No, 50 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 4: I did not think that i'd be in a three 51 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 4: year paternity scandal. 52 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:49,959 Speaker 2: Right. 53 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 3: So when you're saying, like the false claim you are 54 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 3: speaking about Lauren Laura excuse me, Laura Owens accusing you 55 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:02,080 Speaker 3: of fathering her twins, which, if you can clarify to us, 56 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,119 Speaker 3: you claim that you two never even had intercourse. 57 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: So what is this? 58 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: Like? 59 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 2: Magical thinking? Like what is the deal? 60 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: All right? 61 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 4: So, I mean, I don't know how much I can say, 62 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 4: but I'm very descriptive, and I had to be in 63 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 4: order to basically plead mines sence. And so I found that, 64 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,519 Speaker 4: you know, the truth always prevails. And I've also just 65 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 4: found that for me, at least, honesty typically is the 66 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 4: best policy, even though can hurt some feelings, even though 67 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 4: can run people the wrong way. So we engaged in 68 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 4: oral sex. So she performed oral twice on me. The 69 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 4: second time she ran to the bathroom immediately afterwards when 70 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 4: she told me she was pregnant eleven days later, which 71 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 4: apparently in Google he says you can as early as 72 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 4: ten days you can find out. 73 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: I'm sure she googled that's why she hit me on 74 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: day eleven. 75 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 4: But I thought that she potentially split the fluid out 76 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 4: into her hands and then either had something on her 77 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 4: or just shoved it up via her fingers. So again 78 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 4: Google told me there was a small percentage chance that 79 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 4: that could create a vile, viable pregnancy if done fast enough. 80 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 4: So that was that was my concern was that she 81 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 4: trapped me, which is you know, which is the you know, 82 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 4: which is why the love Trapped is the name of 83 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 4: this podcast. Uh, there's I don't know, most people aren't 84 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 4: aware of this term called trapping. 85 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: Uh, it's very. 86 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 4: It's it's mostly prevalent in like a sports circle or 87 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 4: entertainment circle, where essentially what happens is an individual latches 88 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 4: on to somebody I would say, against their will or 89 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 4: without their participation, in order to receive some type of benefit, 90 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 4: whether it's financial benefit or whether it's you know, a 91 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 4: status they and so an example of this would be 92 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 4: it happened to a couple of my teammates back when 93 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 4: I played college ball. They became first round draft picks, 94 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 4: you know, and so they everyone knew they were going 95 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 4: to go make millions of dollars. So a woman comes 96 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 4: into their life, they have sex. The woman says she's 97 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 4: on birth control, she wasn't. She ends up getting pregnant, 98 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 4: and then she goes after his paycheck. That's that happened 99 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 4: to a few of my teammates. It's happened to many 100 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 4: people previously in that realm, and so I had I 101 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 4: was aware that there were women capable of doing something 102 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 4: like that, and so that's what I thought she was 103 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 4: doing in my situation was more for I think for 104 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 4: a career advancement. She wanted to use it because she 105 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 4: was a mental health advocate at the time. She had 106 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 4: her own mental health podcast, So she was looking to 107 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 4: line me up as her next ted X talk because 108 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 4: she had done one on a previous victim where she 109 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 4: claimed he physically abused her, which was a whole lie, 110 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 4: and so she was looking to set me up as 111 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 4: her next story, which she had even alluded. 112 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: To at one point. 113 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 3: I Wow, I don't I feel like I have so 114 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 3: many things to say about what you just said. 115 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 4: It's a lot only scratching the surface. I mean, that's 116 00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 4: the thing is there's so. 117 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 3: Much, not the least of which is be careful, you 118 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 3: know when you go to someone who claims they're a 119 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 3: mental health expert without really carring that to you. But 120 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 3: I do want to say straight away because this is 121 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 3: so unsettling to me that what really really gets me 122 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 3: about this is that she is creating this narrative that 123 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 3: women do these things all the time, you know, and 124 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 3: it's so frustrating because she is like then eighth of 125 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 3: a percentile of women that do this. You know, generally speaking, 126 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 3: we don't women don't do things like this, and so 127 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 3: it's like infuriating to me to see that this woman 128 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 3: has now she has done this repeatedly. Right, so you 129 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 3: come to find out that you were not the first 130 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 3: nor the only victim of this woman. 131 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: Right correct. 132 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's interesting, And I want to touch on 133 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 4: this because actually just came from another podcast where they 134 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 4: brought up a concern of you know, she's invalidating other women. 135 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 4: Now she's setting us back, and and I understand that 136 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 4: I know where that's I can see where that's coming 137 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 4: from you know, we want, you know, we don't want 138 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 4: people to feel, you know, that they could potentially go 139 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 4: into a position where it's like, if I happen to 140 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 4: share my story, my truth, could I you know, end 141 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 4: up then being in a situation like this woman where 142 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 4: now she's facing fourteen years or fourteen felony charges in 143 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 4: over fifty years in prison. And so I don't want 144 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 4: to deter any woman from you know, coming forward and 145 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 4: speaking their truth. And that's certainly again we as we 146 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 4: talk about even in the podcast, it's not about men 147 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 4: versus women. 148 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: We don't want it to be that. 149 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 4: And this again, when I say that this is more 150 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 4: prevalent trapping in the sports industry or entertainment, it's still 151 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 4: not prevalent. When you take you know, one or a 152 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 4: couple of women doing this over with the millions of 153 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 4: women that are out there, it's it's it's certainly less 154 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 4: than a percent of women that are doing this. Nonetheless, 155 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 4: it does exist, but it's just yeah, I mean, it's 156 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 4: a delicate subject. 157 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: I don't believe this. 158 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 4: Is going to deter any future victims from coming forward 159 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 4: and speaking their truth in fear of potentially having legal 160 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 4: action placed upon them. 161 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: If you if you speak your truth. 162 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 4: If Laura was telling the truth, she wouldn't be facing 163 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 4: you knowp to fifty years in prison. 164 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: She wouldn't have made it that far. 165 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 4: You know, Again, the county attorney wouldn't have picked up 166 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 4: the case and decided to pursue legal action against her 167 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 4: she was telling the truth. You know, if she had 168 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 4: an actual viable paternity test to present and a viable child, 169 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 4: and there was a DNA test done, somebody would have 170 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 4: come back as the father. She would have never been 171 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 4: in a situation. I could have tried to get her 172 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 4: for defamation if it wasn't my child. Sure, but again, 173 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 4: you shouldn't say that this is this is this this 174 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 4: man is the child or sorry as the father of 175 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 4: the children or child. 176 00:08:57,880 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: Unless you know so. 177 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, of course there's a risk you could get hit 178 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 4: with defamation if you're wrong. 179 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: But I think this is where it's like. 180 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 4: You know, don't if it's your truth, and speak it 181 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 4: and you'll be you know, the truth will prevail. So 182 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 4: that's that's the message is I don't think this is 183 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 4: I hope. I don't want it to deter other women. 184 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 4: I don't think it discredits them. I just think it's 185 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 4: that matter of like, hey, if you're I think if anything, 186 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 4: it deters women that are thinking they may want to 187 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 4: do this. 188 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 2: Yes, that's what I hope. 189 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 3: I mean, because it seems very clear she is not 190 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 3: the victim. 191 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it's there's no there is really no. 192 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 4: It's not for debate. I mean, it's at this point, 193 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 4: she's been caught in so many lives. She's been caught 194 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 4: with medical fraud. She's been caught admitting to medical fraud. 195 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 4: She's forged. Yeah, these documents, there's doctor appointments that she 196 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 4: never showed up to. She's not had a single expert 197 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 4: that's been able to like stand behind her, besides one 198 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 4: guy that claimed he was that came. 199 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: Into court, but he was a fraud if you asked me. 200 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 4: She has not all these doctors she claims she saw, 201 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 4: she never did so all the I mean, it's it's 202 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 4: a pile of just evidence against her. And yeah, I 203 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 4: do think though that the county attorney is looking to 204 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 4: make a statement and and and she should, you know, 205 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 4: Rachel Mitchell should, because the legal system shouldn't be played 206 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 4: around with this woman has wasted so many resources, police 207 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 4: resources with all of her phone calls having them show 208 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 4: up to the house and just taking up wasting time 209 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 4: and energy, and so I in order for a judicial 210 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 4: system to be taken seriously, there needs to be punishment 211 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 4: for when you abuse. 212 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: The system, and that's what she's done. 213 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 4: So I do think that again, like this is something 214 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 4: where it needs's a statement needs to be made, because 215 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 4: if she is let off with no penalties, this will 216 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 4: this will actually encourage other people to do something similar. 217 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 3: Sure, so she I read that, Well, first I want 218 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 3: to ask, was there a moment when you realized, oh, 219 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 3: this is not going away quickly? And was that when 220 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 3: I read that she proposed to you that she would 221 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 3: get rid of the child, the pregnancy, excuse me, the 222 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 3: pregnancy if. 223 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 2: You agreed to a dating contract of some kind. Is 224 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 2: that accurate? 225 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:11,079 Speaker 1: Yeah? 226 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 4: She stated first it was two weeks, and then you know, 227 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 4: in her desperation she took it down to one. But 228 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 4: she essentially said, if you date me, I'll have an abortion, 229 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 4: but if you don't date me, I'm having the child. 230 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 2: Who Yeah, and what was your response. Did she say 231 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 2: this on the phone or was this an email or 232 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 2: phone call? 233 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 4: Then once I blocked her, it was an email, and 234 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 4: I did try to hash things out in person with her. 235 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 4: So I had her come over to talk through things 236 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 4: at one point. 237 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: But to answer your question. 238 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 4: When I knew that it wasn't going to go away, 239 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 4: it was. 240 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: It was after she said she was pregnant. 241 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:52,079 Speaker 4: I still thought maybe she would just give it up 242 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 4: once I blocked her. I knew it wasn't going away 243 00:11:56,480 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 4: once she sent me another pattern or another pregnancy test. 244 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 4: And so after she had sent the first one saying 245 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 4: I'm pregnant, she said another one and said I'm here 246 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 4: at the doctor and here's the doctor notes. And I'm like, okay, Wow, 247 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 4: she's really really moving forward with us. She's trying to 248 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 4: convince me through documentation. And that's where that, along with 249 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 4: five sixty messages a day, she never stopped. 250 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 1: She was just continuously trying to. 251 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 4: Just just be in my head at all times with 252 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 4: new information and threatening to sue me for the real 253 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:40,119 Speaker 4: estate transactions because we originally she reached out for real estate. 254 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 2: Right, that's what. So she wanted to buy a house 255 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:43,079 Speaker 2: from you? 256 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: Is that? 257 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 4: So she said, yeah, she was looking to purchase investment 258 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 4: properties turn them into rentals. And so she had claimed 259 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 4: that she was trying to get in contact with my brokerage, 260 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 4: but couldn't get a hold of anybody, and so she 261 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:58,839 Speaker 4: wanted to work with us. 262 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: So that was how she reached out. 263 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 4: And I was naive and thought, hey, you know, just 264 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 4: I just got my license and I came from reality television, 265 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 4: so this makes sense. People are going to reach out 266 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 4: to me, like the business is going to come to me, 267 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,959 Speaker 4: which is really nice. And so we exchanged information and 268 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 4: then yeah, just one night it led to me crossing 269 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 4: professional boundaries. I had taken a marijuana edible and she 270 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 4: had sent me. I considered it a provocative photo. She 271 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,599 Speaker 4: wasn't like in like her you know, like underwear or 272 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 4: anything or lingerie. She was just wearing it, had tight 273 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 4: spandex on standing next to a horse. And so we 274 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 4: talked about that as well on the podcast, as far 275 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 4: as I mean, the host even gives me trouble for it. 276 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 4: She's like, I can't believe that's all it took. 277 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, I mean, I was going to ask like 278 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 2: was it worth it? 279 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: Like no, not, no, of course it wasn't. 280 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 3: No. 281 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 4: I would go back, and I would I would. I 282 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 4: would be like, I'll take it all back. The two 283 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 4: blowjobs weren't worth it. Yeah, I mean, it's it's crazy, 284 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 4: how but ultimately was it We're actually, you know, I say, 285 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 4: is it worth it? Yes, but not because for me, 286 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 4: but because of the other victims, so as people will 287 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 4: hear in this podcast. So really, what it does is 288 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 4: it places you in the shoes of the victims. And 289 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 4: first it's you know, it's in my shoes, and then 290 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 4: as we go farther along into the series, you start 291 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 4: to hear that there's others and you find out that 292 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 4: she's been doing this for ten plus years. You find 293 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 4: out that her family are all accomplices, and it gets 294 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 4: very dark, and so why it's. 295 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 1: Been worth it? 296 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 4: Actually, I have to step back on that statement, is yes, 297 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 4: it is worth it because justice is being served for 298 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 4: those previous victims that never received it. 299 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: Right that essentially I have been fighting her and. 300 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 4: Lost, you know, really they lost in court and or 301 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 4: outside of court, and she beat them up and then 302 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 4: placed restraining auras on them. 303 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 2: And any other victims on the there are men. 304 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and I got a restraining order against me. 305 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 4: I didn't realize how easy it is to get a 306 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 4: restraining order with no factual evidence, which she had none, 307 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 4: and yet she got a straining order on me. 308 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 3: And so you know, it's like a systematic manipulation, right, 309 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 3: like the step by step where it makes it look 310 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 3: like it's you, and then it's by the time you're trying. 311 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 2: To catch us, like you're trying to play catch up 312 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 2: the whole time. 313 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just she was just again and she's never 314 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 4: held an actual job outside her parents supporting her, and 315 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 4: so she does this full time. I mean, she legitimly 316 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 4: was perfecting her craft. And so again, like as the 317 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 4: series goes on, you'll hear about the other victims and 318 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 4: you'll start hearing, you know, the patterns, realizing that this 319 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 4: is one big, big, old orchestrated just a bout of 320 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 4: madness that's been yep, that's been over time refined, and 321 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 4: it goes deeper than again, like than just her. 322 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 2: So sure, yeah, so you said the family or accomplices. 323 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 2: What do you mean by that? So she had a 324 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 2: famous father, certainly in. 325 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 3: The Bay area, who is a well known what would 326 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 3: we call his commentator, radio host, radio host, radio host, 327 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 3: who I live in San Francisco, and so I wasn't 328 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 3: aware of this person, but everyone else on the planet 329 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 3: in this area was. So tell me what do you 330 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 3: mean by that about them being accomplices. 331 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 332 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 4: So again, as the stories of the other victims are shared, 333 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 4: you know, there's there there were early conversations we're talking 334 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 4: back in twenty sixteen where you know, her father had 335 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 4: involvement talking directly to a victim and basically saying that 336 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 4: he's aware of, you know, his daughter and what she's 337 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 4: doing and oh wow. 338 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: And then you know, I. 339 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 4: Spoke directly to her mother on the phone, and it 340 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 4: was as if I was speaking to Laura. 341 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: It was the all. It was almost as if I 342 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: was talking to the puppet master. 343 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 4: I mean, it was the oh wow, well everything that 344 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 4: I thought it was going to be a conversation, you know, 345 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:06,919 Speaker 4: where I talked to a mother and she goes, oh 346 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 4: my gosh, I didn't know my daughter was doing this. Yeah, 347 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 4: I don't want her to, you know, let me talk 348 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 4: with her, talk some sense into her. But no, it 349 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,400 Speaker 4: was completely there was the opposite. She said, I can't 350 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 4: you know you impregnated. 351 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 1: My daughter, and so I, oh my god, it's embarrassing. 352 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 4: Or you should be disappointed that you won't step up 353 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 4: to the plate as a man and give her a chance. 354 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,680 Speaker 3: So do you think that the parents just believed her. 355 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 3: Do you think that she's mentally ill or she's a criminal. 356 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: No, I think she's a criminal. 357 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 4: I think she's someone that's never had, ever had to 358 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 4: face accountability. 359 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: This is a. 360 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 4: Family that, you know, they were millionaires at one point 361 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:57,439 Speaker 4: in their life. They had success in multiple realms financial, 362 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 4: they had status, and so I believe they were in 363 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 4: a bracket where they could talk their way or pay 364 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:06,440 Speaker 4: their way out of things. And they raised their their 365 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 4: children in that manner. And so you know, Laura could, 366 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 4: from what I've heard, could get out of anything at 367 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 4: a young age. And and you know, and they were litigious. 368 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 4: They were willing to you know, impress you know, lawsuits 369 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 4: on people, and so I just at least just take 370 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 4: them to court or threaten to sue. And and you know, 371 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 4: when you when you grow up as a child and 372 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 4: you see that, you think, okay, well we're invincible. And 373 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 4: so I believe that's what happened. Laura felt she was invincible. 374 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 4: She's been living with her parents all of her life. 375 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 4: She still lives in their guest home, so she's never 376 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 4: been independent. So you have someone that feels that she's invincible. 377 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:45,199 Speaker 4: And she and she said she said that to me. 378 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 4: You know, she's sent me emails saying, you know, I 379 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 4: have an unlimited budget to sue you, and you know 380 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 4: I will like insinuating that there was no way she 381 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 4: could fail or lose. So some of that's never faced accountability. 382 00:18:58,600 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: This is what they would like. 383 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: Right, this is what This is what they do. 384 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 3: Don't get me started on accountability because I have like 385 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 3: a real. 386 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 2: Be in my bonnet about it. So I'm with you 387 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 2: on that. 388 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 1: I'm really big with accountability. 389 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 4: I mean, I you know, coming off Fauty television, I 390 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:21,199 Speaker 4: had to take accountability for my own actions and so 391 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 4: you know, I get it. The ego doesn't want you 392 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:27,239 Speaker 4: to take first. You want to point the finger. But 393 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 4: you know, this is a thing where even Laura, she said, 394 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 4: now that you know I we've caused all of this, 395 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 4: and it's like, no, you have. You're the reason why 396 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 4: all this exists, and you're the reason why you now 397 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 4: have fourteen felony charges that are about to be placed 398 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 4: upon you and may you got fifty plus years of 399 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 4: prison time that you're looking at, you know, and this 400 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 4: is all her doing, you know, So it's nobody else's. 401 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 4: It's like, Laura, if you decided that you just would 402 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 4: have never faked a pregnancy, then we wouldn't be here today. 403 00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 1: And yeah, I gave her an out. 404 00:19:57,240 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 4: I sent her a contract all of like a never 405 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 4: speak again clause about this, where I was like, hey, 406 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 4: before she went public, I was like, if you just 407 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 4: sign this document stating you were never pregnant by me 408 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 4: and that you'll never bring it up. But again, you'll 409 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 4: never harass me, like I will act as this never happened. Right, 410 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 4: So I sent that to her and she's sent back, 411 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 4: you know, I can't believe that you would send this, 412 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 4: And so. 413 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: Again she she believed that. 414 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:23,199 Speaker 4: She was invincible, and she believed she could lie her 415 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 4: way out of it, and she got wrapped up in 416 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 4: her own lives. And that's where, you know, with the 417 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 4: help of my incredible legal team, we were able to 418 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 4: pick apart all these things she had said, and they're 419 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:37,199 Speaker 4: all documented. I mean everything was was, you know, on 420 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 4: email or text. So when you hear this podcast, I 421 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 4: mean you're going to hear we have a voice actress 422 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 4: that you know that is really is you know, is 423 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 4: reading through these texts, and I mean it's it's it's yeah, 424 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 4: it's insidious. I mean, it's it's they picked a great voice, 425 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 4: a voice actions she sounds crazy, which is what Laura is, 426 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 4: and so it's like, you know, it's but it really 427 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 4: puts you into that position where it's like, you know, 428 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 4: these are the messages that. 429 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: Actually were being sent. 430 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 4: This is what it would feel like to be someone 431 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,680 Speaker 4: that's that's a target of a heinous act like what 432 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 4: Laura does. 433 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, so five hundred emails and texts, I 434 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 3: mean that's a very big number. 435 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 2: Did you read all of them? 436 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: Yeah? 437 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean because I was reading them out of curiosity, 438 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 4: but I was also reading them to understand her next 439 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 4: move because I had her in a block folder, but 440 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 4: she had on read receipts, so anytime I opened them, 441 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 4: she knew I was reading them. But I you know 442 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 4: that when I decided at first I'm not going to 443 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 4: read them, it didn't stop the emails from coming. And 444 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,400 Speaker 4: so when I wasn't reading the emails, she would send 445 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 4: over a text message, and when I'd blocked that, she 446 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 4: would use I was I believe she was using Google 447 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 4: Voice and so she was just creating a new phone number. 448 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 4: So she texted me from over thirteen different and phone 449 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 4: numbers so I couldn't avoid you know, those messages from 450 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 4: coming through. I also realized that if I wasn't reading 451 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 4: her emails, she'd start sending more messages to my family 452 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 4: members or in organizations I was working with. So if 453 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 4: I was in contact with her, then she was less 454 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 4: in contact with people on the outside, right, And that's 455 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 4: where I was trying to keep it under wraps. And 456 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 4: I was like, look, I don't want her, you know, 457 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 4: interacting with people on the outside because they're not aware 458 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:32,959 Speaker 4: of this story. And I mean again, they're going to 459 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 4: be like, what's going on? You know, So I was 460 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 4: trying to keep it quiet. 461 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 3: And people like this thrive on the connection with you, right, 462 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 3: Like it has to keep going. So if you could, 463 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,719 Speaker 3: I totally understand what you're saying, Like, if you could 464 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 3: contain it to just between the two of you, it 465 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 3: would stop spreading. 466 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: Like well, that's what it was. 467 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 4: Was how I was then trying to play chess with her, 468 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 4: where I was trying to get ahead of her at 469 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 4: her game, and so something I discussed on the podcast 470 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 4: as I had her come over, because I said I 471 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 4: wanted to talk with her and see if we could 472 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 4: just you know, just like let's just talk and let's 473 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 4: be reasonable and see if we can come to a 474 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 4: solution here. But I was just trying to get her 475 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 4: to come over to take an attornity or a pregnancy test. 476 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,199 Speaker 4: But when she showed up, she already had a pregnancy 477 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 4: test ready to go, and she was ready to take 478 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 4: the test as well, and and and so again we 479 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 4: talked as as to why why would she take a 480 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 4: pregnancy test? 481 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,200 Speaker 2: Did she take it there on the spot? 482 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 4: She did and it came back positive. So again this 483 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 4: and it all unravels. But this is where, like what 484 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 4: I've been really impressed by is the production of the podcast. 485 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 4: I first, when they brought it to me, I wasn't 486 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 4: too excited because I'm like, okay, podcast is a podcast, 487 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 4: but I've already talked on this a million times. But 488 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 4: you know what, what what's really incredible about this is 489 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 4: it's storytelling. So it's you know, there's voice actresses, there's 490 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 4: her voice, there's my story, there's other stories, and so 491 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 4: it takes it puts you into our shoes, and it 492 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 4: takes you through all the emotions as well. So early on, 493 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 4: you know you go wait, wait, hold. 494 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 2: On, how yeah, wait hold on? 495 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 3: And yeah speaking of weight, hold on, how did it 496 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 3: come back positive. 497 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 2: The pregnancy test and what did you What was your 498 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:17,719 Speaker 2: response when you saw it? 499 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 4: Well, it came back positive because if we jump into 500 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 4: the details a little bit, there's you know, she was 501 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 4: testing positive. Pregnancy test is testing for hCG, so you 502 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 4: know it's a pregnancy hormone. So the question then became, 503 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 4: you know, is she actually pregnant or is she manipulating 504 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 4: hCG levels in her body? And so you know, there 505 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,360 Speaker 4: we've we've obviously uncovered what that is. Now I guess 506 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 4: I'll tease that so when people listen, we do figure 507 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 4: out how she was able to manipulate those levels. 508 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 2: Oh you do? 509 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:54,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, so that. 510 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 2: You've gotten like an education in science. And this has 511 00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 2: been all. 512 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:01,120 Speaker 4: Well, I had to google a lot of this, and 513 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 4: you know, because I was trying to uncover any holes 514 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 4: in her you know, in her story, because I was 515 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 4: so desperately wanting it to not be true. You know, 516 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 4: I thought, well, maybe she did successfully trap me, but 517 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 4: so far she's not giving me any concrete evidence. And 518 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 4: what she would send me, I would see pixelation on 519 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 4: the images, so it looked like things were photoshopped, and 520 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 4: so it was this kind of cat and mouse game 521 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,919 Speaker 4: of like, how do I, you know, get ahead of 522 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 4: her and catch her in an act where I can 523 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 4: just disprove this right now. But because I wasn't her 524 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 4: first victim, uh, you know, she had experience and I didn't. Obviously, 525 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,199 Speaker 4: this was my first go round in a situation like this. 526 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,439 Speaker 4: I was, you know, whereas she was on you know 527 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:49,159 Speaker 4: number four, at least you know where we yeah. 528 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:49,439 Speaker 2: We know. 529 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, so she was more skilled and she as again, 530 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 4: as in the podcast, it will show like previous victims, 531 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,920 Speaker 4: she was learning from her own craft and not make 532 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 4: the same mistakes so the next time around she wouldn't 533 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 4: get caught in the same lives. 534 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 3: It's like Sandra Bullock in Ocean's Eight. Yeah, she's like 535 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,480 Speaker 3: learning the whole time she's incarcerated. 536 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 4: And I wonder if you know she took inspiration from 537 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 4: a movie or something along those lines, because yeah, it 538 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,119 Speaker 4: was very well crafted. I mean, she's smart. She could 539 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 4: speak on the medical jargon. She knew a lot about 540 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:27,360 Speaker 4: real estate. She's a very intelligent person, which is scary 541 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 4: because that's where yeah, you know, she's able to manipulate 542 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 4: in gaslight, and that's her tactic. As I'm going to, 543 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,639 Speaker 4: you know, overwhelm me, but I'm going to give you 544 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 4: evidence and I'm gonna be able to put this together. 545 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: It's not sloppy. 546 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,360 Speaker 4: I mean, she she did a pretty good job of 547 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 4: selling a narrative. I just, you know, thankfully again she 548 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:50,639 Speaker 4: couldn't produce concrete evidence because she didn't have any, but 549 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 4: she was able to definitely pull me along to her. 550 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 1: I had. I definitely considered my insanity. I mean I 551 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:56,360 Speaker 1: had to. I bet. 552 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 3: How who did you lean on during this time? Were 553 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 3: you talking to friends about this or family? 554 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 4: Like? 555 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 2: How did you take care of your mental state? 556 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 1: Yeah? Mainly my family? 557 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,040 Speaker 4: And you know, I got a great bit of advice 558 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 4: from my dad. One day he called me after she 559 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,120 Speaker 4: had emailed my family. So I obviously had to tell 560 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 4: them and bring it to light. And so I told them. 561 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 4: And one day my dad, you know, called me and 562 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 4: he was just like, just want to check in and 563 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 4: see how you're doing. And I said, this is probably 564 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,640 Speaker 4: like less than a month into this whole scenario. 565 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 1: And I said, Dad, I'll be honest with. 566 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 4: You, I have no energy or you know, drive to 567 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 4: do anything like I am just laying in my bed 568 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,639 Speaker 4: staring up at the ceiling like I can't even I can. 569 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 1: I'm doing my job, you know, I work from home. 570 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 4: I do the bare minimum, and then the rest of 571 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 4: the day I just stare up at the ceiling and wonder, 572 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 4: like how bad my life is going to be? You know, 573 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 4: if this woman actually is pregnant, she's going to destroy 574 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 4: my life. You know, I co parenting with this woman. 575 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:58,920 Speaker 4: She's a monster, you know. And so I was staring 576 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,719 Speaker 4: at the ceiling and I was like, I can't function. 577 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 4: And he said, well, Clayton, he said, if she is 578 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 4: in fact pregnant, your life will not change for another 579 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 4: eight months. So you know, you're month then. But all 580 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 4: you can do is live in the present moment right now. 581 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 4: You never know what could happen. She could decide she 582 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 4: actually doesn't want to move forward with this, if she 583 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,680 Speaker 4: is actually pregnant, she could have an abortion, she could 584 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:21,840 Speaker 4: have a miscarriage, you. 585 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: Know, or she could have the child. 586 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 4: But whatever the situation, you know, scenario is, it's not 587 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 4: truth and it's not something you have to respond to 588 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,679 Speaker 4: until you know, eight more months from now, when she 589 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 4: delivers the baby. And then at that point it's real, 590 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 4: and at that point you can respond to whatever the 591 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,479 Speaker 4: actual scenario is. But you sitting here looking up at 592 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 4: the ceiling and wonder in thinking worst case. 593 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 1: Scenario, it may never present. 594 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 4: And that was incredible advice because he was right, because 595 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 4: I mean because he said that a month then before 596 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 4: we were able to obviously disprove completely, and before she 597 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 4: even went public, and when I was still questioning, is 598 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 4: she like did she trap me? 599 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: Did she not? 600 00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 4: But but yeah, I mean obviously the scenario that prevail 601 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 4: was everything was made up and here we are. So 602 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 4: you know, in that moment, I learned a really valuable 603 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 4: lesson to just live in the present moment and just 604 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 4: only respond to what's actually real. 605 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, were you able to date at all during this time? 606 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 1: It made dating really hard because was it public? 607 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 2: Yet at this point she made it public first? Is 608 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 2: that right? 609 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: Get public? 610 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 4: If I remember, it was in September of twenty twenty three, 611 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:30,960 Speaker 4: so I met her in May and I was talking 612 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 4: to somebody right around the time that I met Laura. 613 00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: I just started talking to this woman. 614 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 4: Well it started to get more serious, so about a 615 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 4: it was like a few weeks after she said she 616 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 4: was pregnant. Things were getting serious with this woman, this 617 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 4: other woman, and so I ended up, you know, basically 618 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 4: bringing it up to her and saying, hey, you know, 619 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 4: you need to be aware of this because things are 620 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 4: getting serious between us and this is something that's going on. 621 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 4: And I don't believe she's pregnant, but like I'm not 622 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 4: fully certain, but she's certainly. 623 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: Being a nuisance. Uh. 624 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 4: And I said, so I want you to know this 625 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 4: just so you understand what you might be getting into. 626 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 4: And so she said, hey, thank you for telling me ultimately, 627 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 4: and I really like you, but it's early on and like, 628 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 4: I don't want to be involved in. 629 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 1: This in any capacity. So I said, I understand, and 630 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:23,239 Speaker 1: that was the end of it. 631 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 4: So yeah, it definitely like after that that individual I 632 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 4: didn't try to date because I just was like, look, 633 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 4: this will be every single woman and why not you know. 634 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was going to say, did it affect your 635 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,479 Speaker 3: trust in other women and women in general? 636 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, not as much as people might have thought it would, 637 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 4: but it has at times. I mean there have been 638 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 4: multiple Like it has it stopped me and maybe made 639 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 4: me celibate? No, Like I think this is where like, 640 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 4: you know, the male brain under with testosterone and like 641 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 4: our aur you are these these animal brains of ours 642 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 4: like this, sometimes we just shift into one gear and 643 00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 4: we don't think about rationally on the other side until 644 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,239 Speaker 4: we have that moment of clarity afterwards, and then we go, 645 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 4: I need to do that right like that, That's when 646 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 4: those moments would hit where I was, That's where I 647 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 4: would panic. 648 00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 1: I'd be like Clayton, like you. 649 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 4: Could find yourself right back in this scenario, like because 650 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 4: is Laura was normal until she wasn't? Like I talk 651 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 4: about it in the podcast, but there was a point 652 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 4: at which like she just snapped. 653 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, what was that moment? What made you? 654 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 3: Because I read that there that she I'm paraphrasing, but 655 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 3: something like she her response her reaction to you saying, 656 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 3: you know, maybe this was a mistake pretty early on 657 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 3: that she her reaction was really extreme and that made 658 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 3: you not want to continue any kind of relationship with her. 659 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I'll never forget it was, you know, 660 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 4: the next day, after we had hooked up, and she 661 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 4: was hoping that we could continue to talk and date, 662 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 4: and I told her, Hey, that was the one time 663 00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 4: thing and I'm not interested for suing this further. She 664 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:05,200 Speaker 4: began to cry, and that's when I knew something was 665 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 4: off because I had just met this woman. So I'm like, 666 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 4: this woman's now hysterically crying and begging for me to 667 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 4: date her. And I've only talked to this woman for 668 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 4: like five days, you know, So that was the first 669 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 4: time in the extreme emotion. But then when I finally said, 670 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 4: you know, no means no, stop asking me to date you, 671 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 4: because I became agitated when she kept begging and I 672 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 4: was like, you're not listening and hearing me like I 673 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 4: and so I finally just said no means no, stop 674 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 4: asking me to date you. And that moment is when 675 00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 4: her face went stone cold and she wiped the tears 676 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 4: and Gabe said, all right, I understand, have. 677 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 1: A great day. 678 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 2: And is that when she went to the Sun and 679 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 2: gave the interview. 680 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 4: No, that was just when before she even said she 681 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 4: was pregnant. But that's when I felt in that moment, 682 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm dealing with a very dark energy. I mean, 683 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 4: her eyes didn't go all black, but it felt that way. 684 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 4: When she said no, I get it, have a great day. 685 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 4: I had chills over my body because it's her eyes 686 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 4: glossed over like I the lights went off, and it's 687 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 4: like something overtook her. 688 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: Is what it felt like. 689 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 4: You know, I'm very spiritual, and I just feel like 690 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,120 Speaker 4: something some dark energy in that moment. 691 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,240 Speaker 1: I could see it in her eyes. 692 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 4: It's like as if just the glass went over, and 693 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 4: it was like, Okay, you've just slipped the switch and 694 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:21,760 Speaker 4: you're my next victim. 695 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: And that's that's what, ultimately, I mean I felt. 696 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,760 Speaker 4: And then I mean, yeah, my intuition was right, because 697 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 4: then you know, eleven days later, she's sending me a 698 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 4: positive pregnancy test and claiming that you know that I'm 699 00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 4: the father. 700 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 3: Two things, How how did it feel when you did 701 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 3: you when you read the Sun article when that came out? 702 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 2: How how did that feel to you? 703 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:00,360 Speaker 1: I mean, it was it was lot. 704 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 4: She knew that I was filming a pickleball reality TV 705 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 4: show locally, so it was my first hosting gig, and 706 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 4: she knew that that was the first day that I 707 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 4: was hosting, so she lined it up the release of 708 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 4: the article with my first day as a host. So 709 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:21,560 Speaker 4: I'm in this, you know, pickleball venue, and I'm reciting 710 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 4: my lines and I knew the article was already coming 711 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:28,359 Speaker 4: because I had the writer already texting me telling me, hey, 712 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 4: I'll give you a heads up. 713 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 1: I'm releasing this in the next few hours. 714 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:32,600 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 715 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 4: And so I knew the article was coming and then 716 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,359 Speaker 4: she said, hey, I'm about to post it. 717 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,240 Speaker 1: And I was at the time, I was recording. 718 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 4: But I then went to the locker room afterwards and 719 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,239 Speaker 4: I opened my phone up and boom it's She's like. 720 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: Hey, it's posted. 721 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 4: And I just sat there and put my head into 722 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 4: my hands and I just took probably three minutes of silence, 723 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,640 Speaker 4: and then I went straight to the owner of the 724 00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 4: facility that was orchestrating this whole show, and I said, hey, 725 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 4: I need to talk to you. 726 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 1: It's really serious. 727 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,840 Speaker 4: And he said okay, he says, do I need to 728 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:08,759 Speaker 4: get everybody else? I said, yes, you need to get 729 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,879 Speaker 4: everyone that's involved in this from a production standpoint, at. 730 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: Least the decision makers. 731 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,480 Speaker 4: So I brought it to them and I told them 732 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 4: the scenario, and ultimately they kept me on because they said, 733 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,600 Speaker 4: you know, they brought They said, okay, you can leave 734 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,799 Speaker 4: the room. And then after like five minutes they said, hey, 735 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,880 Speaker 4: come back in the room and they said, we just 736 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 4: want to know are you telling the truth? I said, 737 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:31,920 Speaker 4: one thousand percent, I'm telling the truth. This one was 738 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,719 Speaker 4: making it all up and they said, okay, then we're 739 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 4: going to stick with you. 740 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 2: I really appreciate you. 741 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 3: You know, you said this a couple of times already, 742 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 3: and I think that you are exemplifying it about being accountable, 743 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 3: and there's something incredibly valuable about meeting things head on 744 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 3: and as early and as quickly as possible. 745 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,719 Speaker 2: And I just think there's a lot of merit to that, and. 746 00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 1: So bravo, no thank you. 747 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 4: I've I just feel that again, it's like, if I've 748 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 4: made mistakes, then I want to own up to them, 749 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,279 Speaker 4: you know, And certainly it takes two to tango. I mean, 750 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,080 Speaker 4: I should have never crossed the professional boundary that I 751 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:17,520 Speaker 4: did originally with a client, and so I understand that, like, 752 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 4: had I just you know, had a hard and fast rule, 753 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 4: this would have been all avoidable. But you know again, 754 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,440 Speaker 4: I'm like, look, I'm human, and the whole point of 755 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 4: this is more just to share my story and hopes 756 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 4: that it, you know, it deters other people from doing 757 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,879 Speaker 4: something similar or also it maybe leads to other people 758 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 4: getting justice, which it will. 759 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 1: It's not just my. 760 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 4: Story, you know, there's at least three other victims, and 761 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:44,760 Speaker 4: so they're receiving justice as well. 762 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, at what point did you realize that there were 763 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 2: other victims? 764 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I found out when she went public, less than 765 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 4: twenty four hours. It was probably honestly, when she went public, 766 00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 4: it was like two hours later. I got a DM 767 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:02,799 Speaker 4: from now wife of the other victim, and she said, 768 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,279 Speaker 4: you need to look into this court case. 769 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:05,239 Speaker 1: You're not the only one. 770 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. So she really created her own demise. 771 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:10,600 Speaker 2: I mean she. 772 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:15,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, her going public, I'll never forget because the reporter 773 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 4: she said, maybe her going public will be the best 774 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:20,280 Speaker 4: thing that ever happened to you, And I said, I said, yeah, sure, whatever, 775 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 4: I said, just have I was pissed. I'm like, yeah, 776 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,600 Speaker 4: you can fee me your bullshit because you're just trying 777 00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 4: to justify you released this article, but you don't care 778 00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 4: about me and my well being. But she was right, 779 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,319 Speaker 4: you know she it definitely led to her demise. It 780 00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,480 Speaker 4: was the best thing she could have done, was go public, 781 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 4: because it instantly switched the narrative the second. 782 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 1: That she went public. 783 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 4: I then went and found the court case the next day, 784 00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,839 Speaker 4: and then I posted about it online to lead people to. 785 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 1: The case. 786 00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,240 Speaker 4: I just all I said was, hey, there's there's another 787 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 4: case against the same individual in the Phoenix court system. 788 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:57,319 Speaker 4: And then, you know, because that was the truth, and 789 00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 4: then people went racing to go pull dig up the 790 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 4: information and that was it. 791 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 2: And so did you feel supported by the Bachelor Nation 792 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 2: and all of your fans at that point? 793 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:10,280 Speaker 1: That's when the narrative switched. 794 00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:14,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I wouldn't say like I felt so. Well, 795 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 4: I've learned this that like Bachelor Nation, if we're talking 796 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 4: about other contestants, you know, men and women, I didn't 797 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 4: receive a lot of support, but that's also because I 798 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 4: didn't put a lot of effort into relationships post show. 799 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 4: I isolated myself from that whole environment. I was so 800 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,399 Speaker 4: upset with how the show went and I didn't feel 801 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 4: I was depicted fairly, and I just really I had 802 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 4: a bad taste in my mouth about the whole experience, 803 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 4: and so I avoided just interacting with people from the show. 804 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,319 Speaker 4: Everything was bad. If it was Bachelor related, it was 805 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 4: bad in my mind. 806 00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 1: So, you know, I was an outcast. 807 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,880 Speaker 4: I guess that I had created that myself, and I 808 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,360 Speaker 4: went to Phoenix and I didn't get involved in that scene. 809 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 4: So whenever it came time to, you know, people were 810 00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 4: to stand up and support me. Like most of the 811 00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 4: people were like, well, he doesn't really interact with us, 812 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 4: and I don't know the guy, so why would I 813 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 4: step into the middle of this. 814 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 1: So I didn't have a lot of like support, But 815 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:08,080 Speaker 1: that was my own doing. 816 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,800 Speaker 4: You know, because I wasn't you know, fostering those relationships 817 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:15,399 Speaker 4: as far as like the fans of the show. I know, 818 00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 4: I got a lot of blowback online when the scandal 819 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:18,520 Speaker 4: first came out. 820 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,279 Speaker 1: There were a lot of people that wanted it to be. 821 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 4: True because they wanted it furthered their narrative that I 822 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:25,880 Speaker 4: was this bad guy that they all believed me to be. 823 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 4: He's a monster, this tracks he you know, he is 824 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 4: with the guy we saw on TV. He's just a 825 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 4: bad person. Like this, that's what and here you go, 826 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:33,879 Speaker 4: this is what happens. You know, this is what bad 827 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 4: people do. So they all went after me with their 828 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,800 Speaker 4: pitchforks right out the gate. When I was able to 829 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,400 Speaker 4: turn the narrative and show the truth, they all acted 830 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:44,120 Speaker 4: like nothing happened. 831 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 1: Or they ignored the whole They ignored it, or. 832 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,360 Speaker 4: Some of them are like, oh, we weren't even like 833 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 4: we we we supported him right away, like they're they're 834 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,280 Speaker 4: revisionists you know history. 835 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, they're they're acting like they were all sudden supporting me. 836 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 4: I'm like, because you all can't take accountability and just 837 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,800 Speaker 4: admit that you wanted to see me fail, because that 838 00:39:58,840 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 4: would have you that you. 839 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 1: Have tomit, that you were wrong and that you were 840 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 1: that you and they don't want to do that. 841 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,440 Speaker 4: So there's just something a lot of people online that 842 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 4: weren't accountable that basically just said like, oh, whatever, this 843 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,359 Speaker 4: girl's crazy, Like let's not talk about I even saw 844 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:11,359 Speaker 4: this narrative. Well, let's not talk about this woman needs 845 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 4: serious help, So like, let's not highlight this. 846 00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, oh, so you want to. 847 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,280 Speaker 4: You wanted to push this all out there and defame 848 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 4: me and read the articles and post them online. But 849 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 4: the second that, all of a sudden, I'm I'm innocent. 850 00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 4: Oh like, guys, let's not shine light on this because like, 851 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 4: this woman needs help and we shouldn't really, you know, 852 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 4: we shouldn't make this worse than what it is. 853 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,399 Speaker 3: It was both that's such a complicated line of you know, 854 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,800 Speaker 3: mental health and accountability and criminal. 855 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,759 Speaker 2: Like it's yeah, I can just. 856 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 3: Imagine how how that went, So, what do you if 857 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 3: someone listening is facing a false accusation like similar, what 858 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,360 Speaker 3: advice would you give them? 859 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, first I would I would make sure 860 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,160 Speaker 4: that you have an adequate support system in place, because 861 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,520 Speaker 4: I think a lot of this, well a lot of 862 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:01,440 Speaker 4: your emotional energy is going to go towards. 863 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 1: Fighting this individual. 864 00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,759 Speaker 4: Of course, you have to assess how seriously they're they're 865 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:09,080 Speaker 4: going to fight you, you know, if if if you know, 866 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,000 Speaker 4: so there's levels, if if they're just going to send 867 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 4: you some messages, block them, you know, if if they 868 00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:15,840 Speaker 4: obviously show up to your house called the cops. You know, 869 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 4: I mean, make sure that you're protected. If you need 870 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 4: to get an order protection, do that. But I do 871 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 4: I think that you should go straight to getting an 872 00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,719 Speaker 4: order protection, straight to taking them to court, straight to 873 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 4: you know, defamation. No, because I think, of course, like 874 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,400 Speaker 4: if you do that to somebody that's texting you, and 875 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:35,320 Speaker 4: you ramp up the you know, all of a sudden, 876 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,640 Speaker 4: the severity of it, like you can piss them off, 877 00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 4: you know, and that's where you have to It's like 878 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,799 Speaker 4: you don't fight fire with fire per se, until like 879 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 4: fire is the only thing you can fight with. I 880 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,000 Speaker 4: think you know someone going through something similar, it's like, hey, 881 00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,800 Speaker 4: just try to let it subside, you know, just stop 882 00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,920 Speaker 4: interacting with them, block their phone number, if they email you, 883 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,000 Speaker 4: block their email. Make sure like that, you know, you 884 00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:00,160 Speaker 4: have a good support system in place to keep your 885 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,560 Speaker 4: emotions at base, so you don't. 886 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:02,360 Speaker 1: Keep suppressing all this. 887 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 4: I have an outlet to get out, like your struggles 888 00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,160 Speaker 4: and so the things you're feeling, because you don't want 889 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:12,080 Speaker 4: to push those down because otherwise they'll bubble up and 890 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:13,920 Speaker 4: then and then just from there and then and then 891 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 4: react accordingly. There does come a point where if you're 892 00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 4: fighting against somebody that is not going to let it go, 893 00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,439 Speaker 4: then I do believe there's that point where you go, okay, 894 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,400 Speaker 4: I'm switching from reactive to proactive. 895 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:26,279 Speaker 1: And that's what I did. 896 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,239 Speaker 4: I got to a point where I said, you know, 897 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:30,040 Speaker 4: I'm tired of being reactive. 898 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,279 Speaker 1: This woman is not going to stop. I have to 899 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:33,760 Speaker 1: now take charge. 900 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 4: I have to get ahead of her game and put 901 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,520 Speaker 4: the pressure on her by being becoming proactive. So I 902 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 4: hired a legal team and filed and in the court 903 00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,000 Speaker 4: to get her to prove that she was pregnant. And 904 00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 4: and that's where things switched all of a sudden. I 905 00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 4: was like, no, we're not playing your game. We're going 906 00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:50,800 Speaker 4: to play my game. 907 00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 3: Right, going from de escalating it actually escalating it. Like 908 00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 3: that's that fine line, right, figuring out which is which? 909 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:03,520 Speaker 2: So what do you hurt? The trial is now set 910 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:04,080 Speaker 2: for July. 911 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,600 Speaker 3: What are you expecting from the upcoming trial? And what 912 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 3: will moving on look? 913 00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 1: Like? What I'm hoping is for justice in the form 914 00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: of prison time. 915 00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:17,359 Speaker 4: I do At this point, she's still she said she's 916 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,120 Speaker 4: not guilty, so that's that's the claim she's going with. 917 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 4: She's not you know, I don't think she's taking a 918 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 4: plea at this point. I haven't heard that she is, 919 00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:28,960 Speaker 4: so no accountability has still been taken. So I want 920 00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:33,320 Speaker 4: her to face charges. So that's, you know, to me, 921 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,919 Speaker 4: what does that look like? I mean, sometime in federal prison. 922 00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:40,320 Speaker 4: If she's facing fifty seven years. I don't anticipate expect 923 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 4: her to get fifty seven years, but she better not 924 00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:46,200 Speaker 4: get off, you know, with with no jail time. I mean, 925 00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,279 Speaker 4: because look like, ultimately I can't persuade, you know, I 926 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,440 Speaker 4: can share my story and I can testify, but if 927 00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 4: the county attorney just lets her get will you testify. 928 00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,439 Speaker 2: Do you know yet you have to? You will? 929 00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely am. 930 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 4: But here thing like if I don't if it gets off, 931 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 4: if she gets off with a slap on the wrist 932 00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 4: and like this, will she will do it again? And sure, 933 00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 4: and then not only will she do it again, but 934 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 4: someone that's following this will go, oh, so you can 935 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,279 Speaker 4: just get away with all this and waste people's time 936 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 4: and not face any accountability. And this will set up 937 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 4: the next round of perpetrators. Right, So the you know, 938 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,600 Speaker 4: the kind of attorney has to make an example out 939 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 4: of her if they want the court system to be 940 00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:30,800 Speaker 4: taken seriously, because if she gets off, you've just showed 941 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:35,120 Speaker 4: that the judicial system has no accountability and there's no 942 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:36,840 Speaker 4: you know, as long as you just keep lying and 943 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,960 Speaker 4: lying and lying, there's you know, there's no punishment to 944 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:40,359 Speaker 4: be had. 945 00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,280 Speaker 1: So I don't see that happening. 946 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,080 Speaker 4: I really do believe Rachel Mitchell, I mean, has pursued 947 00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:49,400 Speaker 4: her and has pursued her hard, and is continually stacking. 948 00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:49,880 Speaker 1: More and more charges. 949 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 4: I've even heard that there's potentially more coming on top 950 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:53,320 Speaker 4: of the fourteen. 951 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 3: I also read that her parents they had filed for 952 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,879 Speaker 3: bankruptcy and there was all sorts of discrepancies about what 953 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:02,440 Speaker 3: they were going to be using the money for, and 954 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,719 Speaker 3: they you know, in insinuating that perhaps they were going 955 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,839 Speaker 3: to use it for her legal defense. And so it 956 00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 3: does seem as though they're they're trying to make everyone 957 00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 3: accountable to some degree. 958 00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I mean her I just actually found out 959 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,000 Speaker 4: today that her parents' house is up for auction. So 960 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,840 Speaker 4: I mean, they they are completely over leveraged from what 961 00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,640 Speaker 4: I understand. You know, they are in heavy debt, they 962 00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:26,960 Speaker 4: don't they don't have the money they used to have anymore, 963 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,279 Speaker 4: and so you know, they're why they're liquidating the home. 964 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:34,560 Speaker 4: That means because they're not paying their mortgage, is my understanding. 965 00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,880 Speaker 4: And so yeah, I mean assets are getting liquidated, and 966 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:41,520 Speaker 4: you know, the curtain is falling. So I mean, accountabilities 967 00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 4: is seemingly on the way. I'd be shocked if we 968 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 4: you know, if if if at the end of July, 969 00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,280 Speaker 4: if if she was able to walk freely. 970 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,880 Speaker 2: I will be surprised as well if that happens. 971 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,040 Speaker 4: And then I'll become an advocate for for you know, 972 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,759 Speaker 4: victims like me, And I'm like, look like I don't 973 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,399 Speaker 4: want to do that, but I'm like, if if, if 974 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 4: it gets to that point where like she gets off 975 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,920 Speaker 4: Scott free, it's it's definitely something that I've then considered, like, 976 00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 4: do I start advocating, do I start going for pushing 977 00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,880 Speaker 4: for new legislation. I mean, I don't really because to me, 978 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 4: this like it would make me sick to my stomach 979 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,520 Speaker 4: and I would be extremely angry at the court system. 980 00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,239 Speaker 4: I don't want to Again, I have nothing but great 981 00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,759 Speaker 4: things to say about the court system right now. Is 982 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:29,680 Speaker 4: not so much about the time the slowness. Certainly could 983 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 4: it could speed up, it could have a little bit 984 00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 4: of a faster process, but outside of that, we've got, 985 00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 4: you know, things have worked in our favors. So I'm like, look, 986 00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 4: I'm fine with this working at a snail's pace as 987 00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 4: long as we get the justice. 988 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:43,839 Speaker 1: But we get right. 989 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 4: I mean, how many other people out there you hear 990 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,239 Speaker 4: about this where they go to court and they you know, 991 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,719 Speaker 4: they lose and it's like there's no accountability. I just 992 00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,239 Speaker 4: think it's it's a point where it's like, guys, like 993 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,480 Speaker 4: we need to have like there needs. 994 00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:57,239 Speaker 1: To be punishment for people that do stuff like this. 995 00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:01,400 Speaker 4: So so yeah, I agree, optimistic. I am actually, you 996 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 4: really do believe that she's going to I mean the 997 00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 4: fact that she's facing fifty seven years. 998 00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,000 Speaker 1: I didn't think we're going to get to that amount, right. 999 00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:14,080 Speaker 3: Well, people can hear all of the details, all the 1000 00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:18,000 Speaker 3: media details of this on your new podcast, Love Trapped 1001 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:23,319 Speaker 3: Owens the Eckard and the first episode drops today and 1002 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,960 Speaker 3: Clayton cool, first two, first two. Clayton, thank you so 1003 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,719 Speaker 3: much for you know, in all honesty, I didn't know 1004 00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,440 Speaker 3: that much about this before I knew that we were 1005 00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:37,560 Speaker 3: going to speak, and then the more I read, the 1006 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:42,080 Speaker 3: further my jaw was dropping on to the desk, like 1007 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:45,439 Speaker 3: I just, uh so, I'm sorry for all that you've 1008 00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,040 Speaker 3: been through and I really appreciate you being here. 1009 00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,640 Speaker 2: Today and I hope that this all goes the right 1010 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 2: direction for you. 1011 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you so much for giving me a platform. Again. 1012 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:56,759 Speaker 4: It just helps to get the story out so that 1013 00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,880 Speaker 4: way justice will have a higher chance of getting sir. 1014 00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:02,360 Speaker 2: So thank you, all right, thank you