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Speaker 1: What you got, Garla. Okay, so listen to this, Steve,

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Speaker 1: my friends, a lot of us appearents. You know, we

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Speaker 1: hang out, we do things together with our children. So

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Speaker 1: the latest discussion is at what age should you teach

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Speaker 1: your child how to curse or say bad words?

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Speaker 2: Well, you shouldn't teach them. There's no age when you

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Speaker 2: should teach them bad words because bad words are not necessary.

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Speaker 2: It all depends on circumstance and environment. Cussing is an environmental,

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Speaker 2: circumstantial thing that you have to be able to participate in.

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Speaker 2: And every circumstance and all environments do not require cussing.

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Speaker 3: You need to be able.

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Speaker 2: So it's not a good time for the situations will

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Speaker 2: bring out the child when it's necessary.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So it's not.

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Speaker 2: For you to decide I'm gonna teach my child cuse

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Speaker 2: I never taught any of my kids to cuss.

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Speaker 3: My father never taught me to cuss. I just picked

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Speaker 3: it up. Okay, so you overheard it, and you just

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Speaker 3: for me personally.

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Speaker 2: The decision to use cussing a little bit more regularly

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Speaker 2: was somewhere around nine. Yees see, nine is when I

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Speaker 2: started implementing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty young. By twelve.

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Speaker 2: I was you know, I wasn't It wasn't really fun good.

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Speaker 2: I was just throwing it out there. But I had

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Speaker 2: a lot more situations, and all I got the more

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Speaker 2: useful and more timely and more situations presented themselves. So

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Speaker 2: that's how I did it. So I don't say that

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Speaker 2: there's an age that you give a child.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here's why I'm asking this because I know a

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Speaker 1: lot of people look uncomfortable with this questions. But it's

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Speaker 1: a different time for these kids and going into school.

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Speaker 3: It's just been.

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Speaker 1: Tough with a group of people that we hang with

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Speaker 1: with their kids. So they were saying they want to

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Speaker 1: teach their children how to say blank, you be get

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Speaker 1: out my face in a situation of bullying. So yeah.

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Speaker 3: Them that I don't think it's necessary.

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Speaker 2: See, here's the problem calling your little crew that y'all

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Speaker 2: go to school with. Y'all suburban parents, y'all parents, y'all

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Speaker 2: from the hood, but y'all have become suburbanized and you

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Speaker 2: all are suburban parents. So now you've you've tried to

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Speaker 2: remain bugey and you're trying to live up to your status.

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Speaker 3: Status in life now. But your colleague.

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Speaker 2: And you're trying to know when to implement hoodism into

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Speaker 2: your kids, and your kids don't really need that, and

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Speaker 2: so you've got to teach them other ways. I don't

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Speaker 2: recommend teaching seriously, do not recommend teaching cussing to kids,

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Speaker 2: because I mean, it's it's gonna backfire, you know. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you don't teach them negative behavior.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: Did I teach my children to take care of themselves? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I found out I was doing it for no reason.

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Speaker 2: Somebody hit you. Everybody go down there. My kids ain't

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Speaker 2: down the street fighting and then come home and you

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Speaker 2: go get all your brothers and go.

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Speaker 3: Back down there. My kid don't look. Matter of fact,

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Speaker 3: the house too far away.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to tell my sons that, but they went

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Speaker 2: to school where they ain't fight.

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Speaker 3: Cause they ain't fight you. They talk about your Instagram.

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Speaker 4: Even had my daddy took me to get my cousin

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Speaker 4: said that was training. That was my daddy took me

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Speaker 4: over there because we were They weren't fighting in my neighborhood,

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Speaker 4: but over there my cousin every day every said by

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Speaker 4: twelve thirty, yeah, get tore up.

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Speaker 3: That's how you grew up.

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Speaker 1: It's like you said how we grew up and how

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Speaker 1: we're parenting and how our children are growing up.

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Speaker 3: It's just a two it's two different.

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Speaker 2: Worlds, and it's and it's some parenting that just doesn't

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Speaker 2: apply today, and then a lot of it does, but

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Speaker 2: you all have removed it because of your new way.

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Speaker 3: But your kids are suburban kids.

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Speaker 2: So when the bullying goes down in school, how do

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Speaker 2: you teach them how to cuss? You ain't got to

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Speaker 2: teach them how to cuss. You got to get the

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Speaker 2: bully out your face. You don't get the bully out

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Speaker 2: your face by cussing. There's a physical activity that can

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Speaker 2: get the bully out. Now, if you don't want to

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Speaker 2: teach the physical activity, then you got to go with

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Speaker 2: something else. But bullies don't respond to get your blankety

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Speaker 2: blank out my blankety blank. They don't cause they bullies.

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Speaker 2: Hell they they one told you I'm beIN to put

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Speaker 2: my blankety blank in your blankety blank. Now you sell

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Speaker 2: a little pot, what's your comeback? See, it's hard to

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Speaker 2: outcuss a bully, So you got to teach your children

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Speaker 2: the other things.

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Speaker 3: But I don't recommend teaching your children.

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Speaker 2: How to talk bad to people because that doesn't work

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Speaker 2: because it's talk.

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Speaker 3: Just eventually, if once you talk bad, you had to

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Speaker 3: bag some of it up.

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Speaker 4: Did your parents have put motivation behind you behind the bully, like,

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Speaker 4: if you don't wolf his, I'm yours.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was the motivation I had again again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what what you're crying for?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, come home crying one long time.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you something to cry about. They I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna take you down there. My brothers then took me

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Speaker 2: back down the street to fight Manny. Me and Mannick

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Speaker 2: got in four fights in one day. Me and Manny

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Speaker 2: was through with it. Man hit in the picture right

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Speaker 2: up there, the dude with the hat on with the

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Speaker 2: gold jacket standing. That what they name in my street,

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Speaker 2: my boy Manny. We fought full time. One Me and

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Speaker 2: Manny was through. After the first fight, our brothers and

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Speaker 2: sisters got involved. Rose Calhoun bought Manny back up to

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Speaker 2: my house to beat me up.

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Speaker 3: Big throws.

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Speaker 2: Man Now, Manny whooped me the first time. I'm through

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Speaker 2: you when many were friends. But since she brought him

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Speaker 2: up to my house and my daddy was on the

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Speaker 2: porch watching, I got you ten minutes.

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