Speaker 1: Second date update. We've got an email from a woman
Speaker 1: who wanted a second date update with us, and in
Speaker 1: her message I thought there was a weird typo. Really,
Speaker 1: our producer contacted her and just asked her. Apparently it
Speaker 1: was not a mistake, so she's on the phone right now.
Speaker 1: So I just want to double check with you. Is
Speaker 1: this right. Your name is Hat, Yes, it is. Is
Speaker 1: it short for like Hattie or something for Harriet? Nope,
Speaker 1: it's just the hat you wear on your head. Your
Speaker 1: mom had a real hard labor. It sounds like she
Speaker 1: was a fan of blues clue. So Hat, tell us
Speaker 1: about the guy that you want to call today. What's
Speaker 1: his name? His name is Mannie Manny? Okay, okay, yes,
Speaker 1: how'd you meet Manny? So you know it's super interesting.
Speaker 1: We met on a zoom party. Oh cool, like a
Speaker 1: happy hour with friends. Yeah, you know, it was a
Speaker 1: bunch of different friends and I just kind of noticed
Speaker 1: him during the call. He had a cute look about him.
Speaker 1: Kind of WiFi though, but um, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: See like the wrinkles in your forehead they're like WiFi.
Speaker 1: Oh oh my god, it does look like the Wi
Speaker 1: Fi symbol. Oh well, so wait, he was heavily wrinkled,
Speaker 1: and that's what you liked about. I know, I just
Speaker 1: noticed that, like, you're cute, but okay, you've got some wrinkles,
Speaker 1: so maybe he's a little age. You know, his WiFi
Speaker 1: is fully connected. Okay, but no, he was just kind
Speaker 1: of cute and I didn't think much of it. Said.
Speaker 1: He ended up private messaging me afterwards. I mean, were
Speaker 1: you excited about that? Well? I wasn't sure at first. Okay, no,
Speaker 1: it's a little weird, but it was fun. And he
Speaker 1: said that I was cute, said you're a cute. What
Speaker 1: a line? Yeah. I was like, come on, what else
Speaker 1: can you tell me? But like he said, I had
Speaker 1: a che and you went vibe, which was a nice
Speaker 1: compliment to get. Oh gosh, okay, okay, well, you know
Speaker 1: it's better than just like, yeah, you're cute, come over.
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure. So did you guys meet in person
Speaker 1: for a date or did you do it all virtually
Speaker 1: as well? Yeah, we started with just the private messaging dming,
Speaker 1: you know, some spicy, flirty chat. Yeah, and then we
Speaker 1: just recently finally met. Okay, all right, and that's that
Speaker 1: kind of typical you know, you get meet on the app,
Speaker 1: then you get the number, then you just move baby steps.
Speaker 1: I mean, and you'd seen this guy on zoom, so
Speaker 1: you know currently what he's looking like. Like, you can't
Speaker 1: get catfished at this point, but they're still like, how
Speaker 1: did he read in person compared to like his two
Speaker 1: dimensional image? Were you excited? Well, he's you know, he's cute.
Speaker 1: The WiFi was going on, and so what did you
Speaker 1: guys do for your date? It was actually really clever
Speaker 1: and cute. He is a chef at a pizza plate,
Speaker 1: a pizza chef. Yeah, he had so on his day off,
Speaker 1: he brought me over to make pizza. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: isn't he so sick of that? You would think that
Speaker 1: he'd want to make something else. Yeah, I guess he
Speaker 1: wanted well, you know, he's really good at it, so
Speaker 1: he probably just wanted a show off. Yeah. If there's
Speaker 1: one food that you could eat constantly, it is Pizza's true. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's true. Yeah, well, I mean I've never done that,
Speaker 1: you know, the spinning of the dough and stuff. So
Speaker 1: it was really different. Oh my god. Yeah, we're getting
Speaker 1: really you know, silly and cute. But it got really busy,
Speaker 1: like order wise and so this was during the restaurant. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was at his work, chef. I thought he was
Speaker 1: at home. He was not working. Oh, but he just
Speaker 1: took you there while the restaurant was open. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: So he thought that you guys could go back into
Speaker 1: the kitchen because it'd be slow, and he could show
Speaker 1: you where he works makes some pizzas he wasn't on
Speaker 1: the clock. Is that what you're saying, correct? Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: that makes sense. And then there's a Russia pizza. What happened? Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: sook out pretty busy, and his boss asked him if
Speaker 1: he could just work a teeny bit and so it
Speaker 1: was fine at first, but it was like twenty minutes
Speaker 1: or more of me just watching him make pizza, and
Speaker 1: you know, it's like the line cooks are screaming at
Speaker 1: each other. Okay, so I felt sort of bad, but
Speaker 1: I was just like, I'm gonna, you know, head out
Speaker 1: and when you can call me later or whatever. So
Speaker 1: I don't know if that was the best idea, but
Speaker 1: you know, I was cramping his style. It wasn't that
Speaker 1: fun for me anymore. Is that how the date ended?
Speaker 1: You just left while he was making pizzas? Pretty much, dude,
Speaker 1: I think he totally owes you a call at a redo. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he did actually call later that night. You know, I
Speaker 1: was playing sort of hard to get and you know,
Speaker 1: I wanted to wait like a couple of days to
Speaker 1: reach back out. Okay, I don't know if that works
Speaker 1: after we've already gone on a date. Yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: almost like your date never ended. Yeah, right, so like
Speaker 1: he just wanted to close up what had started. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like it makes him feel
Speaker 1: If he felt bad, it's going to continue that feeling.
Speaker 1: So when she does it him up, I'll want to
Speaker 1: talk to her right away. So you you support her decision. Why, Yeah,
Speaker 1: he messed up on the date. I have to, you know,
Speaker 1: teach him a lesson. I get it. Yeah. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: not working though, because he's not calling you back. Now,
Speaker 1: is that what's happening? Yes, after like three days or so,
Speaker 1: I then called him back, and now I haven't heard
Speaker 1: from him. Yeah. This is this is where you start
Speaker 1: playing games forever, all right, hat Well, yeah, so here's
Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. We're gonna play a song, we'll
Speaker 1: come back, we'll call Manny for you, and we'll try
Speaker 1: and get you a second date. Update. Okay, perfect, all right,
Speaker 1: second if you're just tuning in for the second date update.
Speaker 1: We're on the phone with a woman named Hat. That's
Speaker 1: her real name. It's not short for anything. But her
Speaker 1: first date with Manny had all the romantic things that
Speaker 1: women love. Large mounds of cheese, thick cuts of spiced meats, hello,
Speaker 1: stop things slowly rising dough in particular. Yes, very yeasty
Speaker 1: first date because they made pizzas together at Mannie's work. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: there was a food rush in the middle of their date.
Speaker 1: Mannie's boss asked if he could step in to help
Speaker 1: fill some orders. It got so busy. Hat decided to
Speaker 1: call it off early and then to teach him a lesson. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she decided not to call him back or stay in
Speaker 1: contact with him for a few days, which made him
Speaker 1: sweat a little bit. But it kind of backfired because
Speaker 1: now she can't get a hold of him. So now
Speaker 1: we're going to try and help Hat out to get
Speaker 1: another date. You know, there's a fine line when you're
Speaker 1: playing hard to get. It's like you want to be accessible,
Speaker 1: not too accessible, and I think you went to completely unaccessible. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you guys, can help me out. I'm I'm ready
Speaker 1: to apologize. I'm ready to throw down my hat. Okay,
Speaker 1: I like that. You're even in on the hat shot. Yes,
Speaker 1: all right, okay, so let's dial Manny's phone number right
Speaker 1: now and see what he has to say. Okay, okay, thanks,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Manny please? This is him. Hi, Manny. My name
Speaker 1: is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Do you have a second Yeah? Cool. We're
Speaker 1: doing something that we do on our show called a
Speaker 1: second Date update. Okay, are you familiar with the show
Speaker 1: or that particular segment at all? No, I'm not. Okay,
Speaker 1: well good. So basically the way it works is if
Speaker 1: you go out on a date with someone, and afterwards,
Speaker 1: if they're not calling you back, you can reach out
Speaker 1: to our show and we'll contact that person for you
Speaker 1: to figure out the reason why people do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the world's getting pretty desperate lately, so we're the last resort. Now.
Speaker 1: The woman that wanted to get in touch with you,
Speaker 1: her name's Hat. Okay, Yeah, I'm sure you're not getting
Speaker 1: there confused with thegether hat? You know? Yeah, you know no,
Speaker 1: I know, I know who you're talking about, right, So
Speaker 1: obviously she reached out to us because she had a
Speaker 1: really good time with you, and she wants to know
Speaker 1: why you're not getting back in touch with her. Is
Speaker 1: there a reason you guys seem to know a lot.
Speaker 1: I don't know how much you do know. But she
Speaker 1: did tell us a little bit about you guys's interaction.
Speaker 1: She said, you met on zoom and eventually met up
Speaker 1: in person at your pizza restaurant. Yeah. Well, I don't know.
Speaker 1: She was a little hot, cold kind of thing, and
Speaker 1: then disappeared on me. So oh. She said that the
Speaker 1: pizza restaurant, when you were there showing her how to
Speaker 1: make pizza, that it got busy and your boss asked
Speaker 1: you to step in and start working. Yeah, that's not
Speaker 1: what I mean. So we met on zoom and when
Speaker 1: we started talking to each other on the phone. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be inappropriate, but the calls were
Speaker 1: just pretty steamy in nature, you know, they were a
Speaker 1: little bit of it. They were like naughty calls. I
Speaker 1: don't know how I could say that, so you could
Speaker 1: say naughty calls. Yeah. Yeah, she didn't tell us that.
Speaker 1: She just said you guys had a phone conversation. Well,
Speaker 1: she seemed very into and I was definitely into her.
Speaker 1: So when we met each other in person, that was
Speaker 1: kind of like the opposite, you know, she was very different.
Speaker 1: It wasn't the same. It was kind of awkward. So
Speaker 1: you could see like where somebody has confidence, you know,
Speaker 1: kind of hiding behind a phone call and then to
Speaker 1: actually deliver that in real life is a little bit.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a different game, right, I understand you,
Speaker 1: and you weren't there on the phone call, so you
Speaker 1: don't know exactly. But it was a few phone calls
Speaker 1: and they were pretty naughty, and I play, I'm not
Speaker 1: making her sound bad. I was definitely naughty back. But
Speaker 1: so what was your expectation. I mean, you invited her
Speaker 1: to where you work. She was She's probably not going
Speaker 1: to lay that on thick there, right, Yeah, that's not
Speaker 1: what I mean. I just mean, like the next days,
Speaker 1: I just I didn't think she was into game playing.
Speaker 1: I thought she was more into being straightforward. That's kind
Speaker 1: of what I got from her. And then when I
Speaker 1: felt like she was playing games, I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: not into that. Yeah, I'm I appreciated her being more straightforward,
Speaker 1: and I guess that's what I'm trying to say. Okay,
Speaker 1: I guess I could see how it would be confusing
Speaker 1: where you start off and you're basically talking dirty to
Speaker 1: each other and then the next day she won't even
Speaker 1: speak to you. Yeah, right, scenario. But also you got
Speaker 1: to give her some like slack here, because there's I mean,
Speaker 1: there's so many messages coming in when you're single and
Speaker 1: you're dating about like what men want, what they don't want,
Speaker 1: Like maybe she felt like she went too far on
Speaker 1: the phone calls and now she had to make up
Speaker 1: for lost time and play hard to get like it
Speaker 1: can get to be a lot. I totally agree with you,
Speaker 1: and I think now with technology involved, it's really hard
Speaker 1: to know what's genuine and what's not. Okay, Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: I think maybe it's enough of us trying to speculate
Speaker 1: and talk about her. Why don't we just have Hat
Speaker 1: talk directly to you dirty, because she's been on the
Speaker 1: other line listening this entire time, and she wants to
Speaker 1: speak with you. She's on the phone. Yeah, she Hat
Speaker 1: you there? Yeah, Hi Vanni, Hi, Hi Hat, Hey, how
Speaker 1: have you been doing good? I owe you an apology
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I seemed like I was playing games or
Speaker 1: you know, leading you on. I shouldn't have waited so
Speaker 1: long to get back to you. Yeah, your voice did
Speaker 1: kind of turn into like sexy hat right there. You know,
Speaker 1: the date was awkward when you know, you had to
Speaker 1: start working and stuff, So I guess I felt like
Speaker 1: I wanted to I don't know, I guess teach you
Speaker 1: a lesson or play a game. But I'm not about
Speaker 1: games or anything. It's just dating is tricky, especially when
Speaker 1: you meet over zoom. I don't know. Yeah, no, I know,
Speaker 1: and you were you were understanding. Um, we're really small business.
Speaker 1: You know, I get called in sometimes, so I appreciate
Speaker 1: you understanding that. So wait, do you guys still like
Speaker 1: each other right now? I mean I never stopped liking her.
Speaker 1: Oh you look at you a little shooty. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: definitely still interested in him. Might be sad if I
Speaker 1: didn't get to see him again. Guys, And is this
Speaker 1: more than just like you know, like dirty phone calls.
Speaker 1: Is this like you like you see potential? Maybe manny?
Speaker 1: I mean she strikes me as someone that I could
Speaker 1: definitely have a long relationship with. I mean, I like,
Speaker 1: I like more and more relationships like that. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm not a one and done type of guy. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, well, I mean this is sounding like you
Speaker 1: guys are a really good match. He was just a
Speaker 1: little bit of a miscommunication. Chet. What is that right? Well, yes,
Speaker 1: I think he's super genuine and I love his vibe.
Speaker 1: But I want to make sure I am honest and
Speaker 1: not playing any games. So I really want to make
Speaker 1: sure you know that. Um, I am in two other
Speaker 1: open relationships. Well, hold on, you can't hold all the
Speaker 1: boyfriends you do, and you're just like gathering men. You
Speaker 1: have two other boyfriends. Well, it's like an open relationship.
Speaker 1: We see each other, you know, every now and again,
Speaker 1: but you know they know about each other and they know,
Speaker 1: you know, it could potentially become free. So now with Manny,
Speaker 1: you're going for the hat trick. So that's where that
Speaker 1: term got it. Yeah, you naughty little hat man. How
Speaker 1: are you feeling about this? So open? Like? I mean,
Speaker 1: I know the term, but like what do you open?
Speaker 1: Like open? Like full on open open everything like eleven? Yeah, well, no,
Speaker 1: you know we see each other, we don't all hang
Speaker 1: out together. Just you know, you're dating multiple people, you know,
Speaker 1: So does that mean Manny could also date other people? Correct? Huh,
Speaker 1: this feels like something that's more normal now, like everybody's
Speaker 1: pretty much dating everybody anyway. It is, It's very normal.
Speaker 1: I'm not the only person doing that. There's two other guys.
Speaker 1: It's so hard to find one relationship. How are you
Speaker 1: finding so many? I don't know. It's zoom calls guys, zoomo.
Speaker 1: Are you on board? Manny? Uh? There's like two answers
Speaker 1: and I don't. Uh, well, let's get one of those answers,
Speaker 1: because I'm going to ask you right now, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on a date with Hat? I
Speaker 1: really like you. I think you're a great person. I'm
Speaker 1: not I don't want to judge you at all, but
Speaker 1: I just don't know if I'm into two other dudes.
Speaker 1: That just sounds right. You don't have to be into
Speaker 1: the dudes like you just have to be into Hat.
Speaker 1: You're never gonna Yeah, No, I'm absolutely willing to have
Speaker 1: a conversation about it because it would probably be one
Speaker 1: of the most interesting conversations I've ever had. Well, Manny,
Speaker 1: I just have to check with the other two guys.
Speaker 1: You know that this has happening but it should be fine.
Speaker 1: You should have checked with them before you call us, like,
Speaker 1: that's that's how this works. Well, they knew about the
Speaker 1: awkward situation. Now I can let them know that we're
Speaker 1: going on another day. There you go, Just just go
Speaker 1: to your other boyfriend's hat in hand and ask them
Speaker 1: for permission. This has been so great. Thank you guys
Speaker 1: so much. Yeah, all right, well, congratulations, Hat, you got
Speaker 1: a third boyfriend. Like she's buying them in the bulk section.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.