WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Surprise Hat Trick

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. We've got an email from a woman

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<v Speaker 1>who wanted a second date update with us, and in

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<v Speaker 1>her message I thought there was a weird typo. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>our producer contacted her and just asked her. Apparently it

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<v Speaker 1>was not a mistake, so she's on the phone right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want to double check with you. Is

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<v Speaker 1>this right. Your name is Hat, Yes, it is. Is

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<v Speaker 1>it short for like Hattie or something for Harriet? Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just the hat you wear on your head. Your

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<v Speaker 1>mom had a real hard labor. It sounds like she

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<v Speaker 1>was a fan of blues clue. So Hat, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy that you want to call today. What's

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<v Speaker 1>his name? His name is Mannie Manny? Okay, okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>how'd you meet Manny? So you know it's super interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>We met on a zoom party. Oh cool, like a

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<v Speaker 1>happy hour with friends. Yeah, you know, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of different friends and I just kind of noticed

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<v Speaker 1>him during the call. He had a cute look about him.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of WiFi though, but um, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>See like the wrinkles in your forehead they're like WiFi.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh my god, it does look like the Wi

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<v Speaker 1>Fi symbol. Oh well, so wait, he was heavily wrinkled,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what you liked about. I know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>noticed that, like, you're cute, but okay, you've got some wrinkles,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe he's a little age. You know, his WiFi

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<v Speaker 1>is fully connected. Okay, but no, he was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cute and I didn't think much of it. Said.

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<v Speaker 1>He ended up private messaging me afterwards. I mean, were

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<v Speaker 1>you excited about that? Well? I wasn't sure at first. Okay, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little weird, but it was fun. And he

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<v Speaker 1>said that I was cute, said you're a cute. What

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<v Speaker 1>a line? Yeah. I was like, come on, what else

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell me? But like he said, I had

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<v Speaker 1>a che and you went vibe, which was a nice

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<v Speaker 1>compliment to get. Oh gosh, okay, okay, well, you know

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<v Speaker 1>it's better than just like, yeah, you're cute, come over.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah for sure. So did you guys meet in person

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<v Speaker 1>for a date or did you do it all virtually

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<v Speaker 1>as well? Yeah, we started with just the private messaging dming,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, some spicy, flirty chat. Yeah, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>just recently finally met. Okay, all right, and that's that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of typical you know, you get meet on the app,

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<v Speaker 1>then you get the number, then you just move baby steps.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and you'd seen this guy on zoom, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know currently what he's looking like. Like, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>get catfished at this point, but they're still like, how

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<v Speaker 1>did he read in person compared to like his two

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<v Speaker 1>dimensional image? Were you excited? Well, he's you know, he's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>The WiFi was going on, and so what did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do for your date? It was actually really clever

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<v Speaker 1>and cute. He is a chef at a pizza plate,

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<v Speaker 1>a pizza chef. Yeah, he had so on his day off,

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<v Speaker 1>he brought me over to make pizza. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't he so sick of that? You would think that

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<v Speaker 1>he'd want to make something else. Yeah, I guess he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted well, you know, he's really good at it, so

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<v Speaker 1>he probably just wanted a show off. Yeah. If there's

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<v Speaker 1>one food that you could eat constantly, it is Pizza's true. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. Yeah, well, I mean I've never done that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the spinning of the dough and stuff. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was really different. Oh my god. Yeah, we're getting

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<v Speaker 1>really you know, silly and cute. But it got really busy,

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<v Speaker 1>like order wise and so this was during the restaurant. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was at his work, chef. I thought he was

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<v Speaker 1>at home. He was not working. Oh, but he just

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<v Speaker 1>took you there while the restaurant was open. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So he thought that you guys could go back into

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen because it'd be slow, and he could show

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<v Speaker 1>you where he works makes some pizzas he wasn't on

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<v Speaker 1>the clock. Is that what you're saying, correct? Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. And then there's a Russia pizza. What happened? Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sook out pretty busy, and his boss asked him if

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<v Speaker 1>he could just work a teeny bit and so it

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<v Speaker 1>was fine at first, but it was like twenty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>or more of me just watching him make pizza, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's like the line cooks are screaming at

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Okay, so I felt sort of bad, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, I'm gonna, you know, head out

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<v Speaker 1>and when you can call me later or whatever. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that was the best idea, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was cramping his style. It wasn't that

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<v Speaker 1>fun for me anymore. Is that how the date ended?

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<v Speaker 1>You just left while he was making pizzas? Pretty much, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he totally owes you a call at a redo. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did actually call later that night. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>was playing sort of hard to get and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to wait like a couple of days to

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<v Speaker 1>reach back out. Okay, I don't know if that works

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<v Speaker 1>after we've already gone on a date. Yeah, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>almost like your date never ended. Yeah, right, so like

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<v Speaker 1>he just wanted to close up what had started. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I feel like it makes him feel

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<v Speaker 1>If he felt bad, it's going to continue that feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>So when she does it him up, I'll want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her right away. So you you support her decision. Why, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he messed up on the date. I have to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>teach him a lesson. I get it. Yeah. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not working though, because he's not calling you back. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>is that what's happening? Yes, after like three days or so,

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<v Speaker 1>I then called him back, and now I haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from him. Yeah. This is this is where you start

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<v Speaker 1>playing games forever, all right, hat Well, yeah, so here's

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<v Speaker 1>what we're gonna do. We're gonna play a song, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back, we'll call Manny for you, and we'll try

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<v Speaker 1>and get you a second date. Update. Okay, perfect, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>second if you're just tuning in for the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>We're on the phone with a woman named Hat. That's

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<v Speaker 1>her real name. It's not short for anything. But her

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<v Speaker 1>first date with Manny had all the romantic things that

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<v Speaker 1>women love. Large mounds of cheese, thick cuts of spiced meats, hello,

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<v Speaker 1>stop things slowly rising dough in particular. Yes, very yeasty

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<v Speaker 1>first date because they made pizzas together at Mannie's work. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>there was a food rush in the middle of their date.

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<v Speaker 1>Mannie's boss asked if he could step in to help

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<v Speaker 1>fill some orders. It got so busy. Hat decided to

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<v Speaker 1>call it off early and then to teach him a lesson. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she decided not to call him back or stay in

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<v Speaker 1>contact with him for a few days, which made him

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<v Speaker 1>sweat a little bit. But it kind of backfired because

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<v Speaker 1>now she can't get a hold of him. So now

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to try and help Hat out to get

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<v Speaker 1>another date. You know, there's a fine line when you're

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<v Speaker 1>playing hard to get. It's like you want to be accessible,

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<v Speaker 1>not too accessible, and I think you went to completely unaccessible. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you guys, can help me out. I'm I'm ready

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize. I'm ready to throw down my hat. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. You're even in on the hat shot. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, okay, so let's dial Manny's phone number right

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<v Speaker 1>now and see what he has to say. Okay, okay, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Manny please? This is him. Hi, Manny. My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Do you have a second Yeah? Cool. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing something that we do on our show called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date update. Okay, are you familiar with the show

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<v Speaker 1>or that particular segment at all? No, I'm not. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well good. So basically the way it works is if

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<v Speaker 1>you go out on a date with someone, and afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>if they're not calling you back, you can reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to our show and we'll contact that person for you

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out the reason why people do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the world's getting pretty desperate lately, so we're the last resort. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>The woman that wanted to get in touch with you,

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<v Speaker 1>her name's Hat. Okay, Yeah, I'm sure you're not getting

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<v Speaker 1>there confused with thegether hat? You know? Yeah, you know no,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know who you're talking about, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she reached out to us because she had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time with you, and she wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>why you're not getting back in touch with her. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there a reason you guys seem to know a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how much you do know. But she

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<v Speaker 1>did tell us a little bit about you guys's interaction.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, you met on zoom and eventually met up

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<v Speaker 1>in person at your pizza restaurant. Yeah. Well, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>She was a little hot, cold kind of thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>then disappeared on me. So oh. She said that the

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<v Speaker 1>pizza restaurant, when you were there showing her how to

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<v Speaker 1>make pizza, that it got busy and your boss asked

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<v Speaker 1>you to step in and start working. Yeah, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. So we met on zoom and when

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<v Speaker 1>we started talking to each other on the phone. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be inappropriate, but the calls were

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<v Speaker 1>just pretty steamy in nature, you know, they were a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of it. They were like naughty calls. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how I could say that, so you could

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<v Speaker 1>say naughty calls. Yeah. Yeah, she didn't tell us that.

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<v Speaker 1>She just said you guys had a phone conversation. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed very into and I was definitely into her.

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<v Speaker 1>So when we met each other in person, that was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like the opposite, you know, she was very different.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't the same. It was kind of awkward. So

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<v Speaker 1>you could see like where somebody has confidence, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hiding behind a phone call and then to

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<v Speaker 1>actually deliver that in real life is a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a different game, right, I understand you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you weren't there on the phone call, so you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know exactly. But it was a few phone calls

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<v Speaker 1>and they were pretty naughty, and I play, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>making her sound bad. I was definitely naughty back. But

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<v Speaker 1>so what was your expectation. I mean, you invited her

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<v Speaker 1>to where you work. She was She's probably not going

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<v Speaker 1>to lay that on thick there, right, Yeah, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I just mean, like the next days,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I didn't think she was into game playing.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was more into being straightforward. That's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what I got from her. And then when I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like she was playing games, I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not into that. Yeah, I'm I appreciated her being more straightforward,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess that's what I'm trying to say. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I could see how it would be confusing

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<v Speaker 1>where you start off and you're basically talking dirty to

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<v Speaker 1>each other and then the next day she won't even

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<v Speaker 1>speak to you. Yeah, right, scenario. But also you got

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<v Speaker 1>to give her some like slack here, because there's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many messages coming in when you're single and

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<v Speaker 1>you're dating about like what men want, what they don't want,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe she felt like she went too far on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone calls and now she had to make up

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<v Speaker 1>for lost time and play hard to get like it

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<v Speaker 1>can get to be a lot. I totally agree with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think now with technology involved, it's really hard

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<v Speaker 1>to know what's genuine and what's not. Okay, Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe it's enough of us trying to speculate

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<v Speaker 1>and talk about her. Why don't we just have Hat

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<v Speaker 1>talk directly to you dirty, because she's been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening this entire time, and she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>speak with you. She's on the phone. Yeah, she Hat

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<v Speaker 1>you there? Yeah, Hi Vanni, Hi, Hi Hat, Hey, how

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<v Speaker 1>have you been doing good? I owe you an apology

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I seemed like I was playing games or

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<v Speaker 1>you know, leading you on. I shouldn't have waited so

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<v Speaker 1>long to get back to you. Yeah, your voice did

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<v Speaker 1>kind of turn into like sexy hat right there. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the date was awkward when you know, you had to

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<v Speaker 1>start working and stuff, So I guess I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to I don't know, I guess teach you

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<v Speaker 1>a lesson or play a game. But I'm not about

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<v Speaker 1>games or anything. It's just dating is tricky, especially when

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<v Speaker 1>you meet over zoom. I don't know. Yeah, no, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were you were understanding. Um, we're really small business.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I get called in sometimes, so I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>you understanding that. So wait, do you guys still like

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<v Speaker 1>each other right now? I mean I never stopped liking her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you look at you a little shooty. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>definitely still interested in him. Might be sad if I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get to see him again. Guys, And is this

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<v Speaker 1>more than just like you know, like dirty phone calls.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this like you like you see potential? Maybe manny?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she strikes me as someone that I could

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<v Speaker 1>definitely have a long relationship with. I mean, I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I like more and more relationships like that. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a one and done type of guy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well, I mean this is sounding like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are a really good match. He was just a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a miscommunication. Chet. What is that right? Well, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's super genuine and I love his vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>But I want to make sure I am honest and

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<v Speaker 1>not playing any games. So I really want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you know that. Um, I am in two other

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<v Speaker 1>open relationships. Well, hold on, you can't hold all the

0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:03.320
<v Speaker 1>boyfriends you do, and you're just like gathering men. You

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<v Speaker 1>have two other boyfriends. Well, it's like an open relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>We see each other, you know, every now and again,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know they know about each other and they know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it could potentially become free. So now with Manny,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going for the hat trick. So that's where that

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<v Speaker 1>term got it. Yeah, you naughty little hat man. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you feeling about this? So open? Like? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I know the term, but like what do you open?

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<v Speaker 1>Like open? Like full on open open everything like eleven? Yeah, well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know we see each other, we don't all hang

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<v Speaker 1>out together. Just you know, you're dating multiple people, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>So does that mean Manny could also date other people? Correct? Huh,

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<v Speaker 1>this feels like something that's more normal now, like everybody's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much dating everybody anyway. It is, It's very normal.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not the only person doing that. There's two other guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so hard to find one relationship. How are you

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<v Speaker 1>finding so many? I don't know. It's zoom calls guys, zoomo.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you on board? Manny? Uh? There's like two answers

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't. Uh, well, let's get one of those answers,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm going to ask you right now, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out on a date with Hat? I

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<v Speaker 1>really like you. I think you're a great person. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not I don't want to judge you at all, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't know if I'm into two other dudes.

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<v Speaker 1>That just sounds right. You don't have to be into

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<v Speaker 1>the dudes like you just have to be into Hat.

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<v Speaker 1>You're never gonna Yeah, No, I'm absolutely willing to have

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation about it because it would probably be one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most interesting conversations I've ever had. Well, Manny,

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<v Speaker 1>I just have to check with the other two guys.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that this has happening but it should be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have checked with them before you call us, like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's how this works. Well, they knew about the

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<v Speaker 1>awkward situation. Now I can let them know that we're

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<v Speaker 1>going on another day. There you go, Just just go

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<v Speaker 1>to your other boyfriend's hat in hand and ask them

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<v Speaker 1>for permission. This has been so great. Thank you guys

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<v Speaker 1>so much. Yeah, all right, well, congratulations, Hat, you got

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<v Speaker 1>a third boyfriend. Like she's buying them in the bulk section.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.