WEBVTT - Body Doubles

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<v Speaker 1>Hell I Suck At Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jared

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<v Speaker 1>and I Heart Radio podcast. Well, hello there, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for listening to this week's episode of Help I Suck

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<v Speaker 1>At Dating. I don't know why I always do these

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<v Speaker 1>lead ins. It's Dean Hungler, joined in studio by Jared Habon.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on. I'm currently taking off my sweater because

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<v Speaker 1>it's pretty hot in here right now. Vanessa is taking

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<v Speaker 1>a sick day today. Eastern is here as well, and

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<v Speaker 1>Mark is nowhere to be found because who the heck

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<v Speaker 1>knows why? Yeah, without Mark and Vanessa here, it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of feels like mom and dad are a way and

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<v Speaker 1>they left the kids to play. The lights in the

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<v Speaker 1>studio are off. It's Dean Easton and Jared and it's

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<v Speaker 1>something it just feels right about all of this. It

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<v Speaker 1>just feels like when the cats away, the dogs will play.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the way the saying goes, right, I think, So,

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<v Speaker 1>I know the lights aren't on in the studio. Everything's

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<v Speaker 1>just array. We're literally putting this podcast together five minutes before.

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<v Speaker 1>It's think of It's like when you go, like when

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<v Speaker 1>we were in high school and you're on summer vacation,

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<v Speaker 1>but then for some and you go into the high

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<v Speaker 1>school like yeah, and it's like it's empty and like

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<v Speaker 1>all the lights are off, but like the natural light

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<v Speaker 1>is flooding in and you're like, I shouldn't be here

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<v Speaker 1>right now, but I'm here. It's the taboo factor, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what it is. It's it's like, it's a crazy how

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<v Speaker 1>went back in high school? You'd always talk about how

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to get out of high school. But like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, during summer vacation, where would you go? Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you go mess around with this you got Do you

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<v Speaker 1>ever go on the roof of your school? Yeah? You

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<v Speaker 1>were that troublemaker, dude. I never I was way too scared.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember it was a big deal because we had

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<v Speaker 1>three separate buildings for our elementary, middle, and high school.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I was in I was in middle school

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<v Speaker 1>and I went on the high school roof and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I've got all three school roots. Watch out world.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. I was way too scary. I played football

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<v Speaker 1>during school, so summer was mostly, you know, just practices,

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<v Speaker 1>training camp, all that good stuff. And I remember seeing

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<v Speaker 1>kids all the time on the rooftop and thinking they're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get in so much trouble, So, Dean, somebody on

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<v Speaker 1>the Facebook group actually tagged you, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you about this because I'm a little concerned

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<v Speaker 1>about your mental stability after this article is being released,

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<v Speaker 1>so it says hot for hot does Texas doctors worn

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<v Speaker 1>to lay off the spicy snacks after spike in ulcers? Dean,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what's funny is I I think I

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<v Speaker 1>need to be the brand spokesperson for hot Cheeses. How

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<v Speaker 1>many times a day do you get tagged and something

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<v Speaker 1>about hot Cheetos? A dozen? And you want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what's funny is because last year, Um, after going on

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelorette and after my affinity for hot Cheetos came

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<v Speaker 1>to surface and everyone started to know about it, I

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<v Speaker 1>started to see more hot cheetoh centric foods and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>claiming responsibility for that. People were basing their turkeys and

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<v Speaker 1>hot cheeto crust. People are making hot cheeto pop up restaurants,

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<v Speaker 1>And part of me thinks that it's because of me,

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<v Speaker 1>because every tall because everyone started talk about hot Cheetos

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as I came off the Bachelorette and it

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<v Speaker 1>professed my love for hot cheets publicly what's the what's

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<v Speaker 1>the name of the guy that the Cheeto guy? He's

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<v Speaker 1>a Hispanic janitor? Right? Oh? No? Um? Why Chester? Chester,

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<v Speaker 1>Chester the Cheetah Hispanic? Oh I didn't know that backstory? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I meant cheater Cheaters is a Chester, the Chester Jesus Chess,

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<v Speaker 1>the cheese Cheetah. So you're just claiming now that you

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<v Speaker 1>should replace Chester. I would love to replace Chester. I

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<v Speaker 1>can totally see that. Spokesperson. You could be the Hot Cheetah.

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<v Speaker 1>Hot Cheetahs don't have anything. That's a good point. And

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<v Speaker 1>Chester just came out with a pretty cool rap because

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<v Speaker 1>Doritos copied their flame and hot flavor, and so Chester

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<v Speaker 1>came out with a disc track for Doritos. It's pretty good. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the question is can you wrap? Can you be like

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<v Speaker 1>the Hot Cheeto Chester of rap? You're you're messing all

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<v Speaker 1>your chise up. Um I could. I'm not gonna freestyle,

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<v Speaker 1>but if you if you give me some time to

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<v Speaker 1>prepare a rap, how about next week's episode, I'll prepare

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<v Speaker 1>a Hot Cheetos wrap and that will be your audition

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<v Speaker 1>tape for the sprokesperson for Hot Cheetos. But it's funny

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't even like, Okay, I eat a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hot cheos, but I don't eat as much as

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<v Speaker 1>people like. People think I'm having them for breakfast, lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>and dinner when reality, I'm having like a bag of

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<v Speaker 1>week that's still a big bag or a little snack

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<v Speaker 1>little bag of lime hot cheetos, like a bag that

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<v Speaker 1>you buy the grocery store for say a party, or

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<v Speaker 1>like a snack size that you bring to your personal size.

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<v Speaker 1>And then that little nothing, that little can't be the

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<v Speaker 1>spokesperson for this cheetoh if you have a snack sized

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<v Speaker 1>bag all week, but you're gonna make me eat it

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<v Speaker 1>for a breakfast on Engineer, then that little zan guy

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<v Speaker 1>he goes to the hospital for ulcers speak he ate

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<v Speaker 1>too many hot Cheetahs and he had to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital for it. And who is like stupid, little

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<v Speaker 1>most obnoxious looking Zane right, and you're thinking of his

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<v Speaker 1>Zane from one direction, Google little Inn. You're gonna look

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<v Speaker 1>at him and you're gonna be how do you spell

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<v Speaker 1>his name? L I l x A N. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>how he spelled? Little? Anyways, when he went to the hospital,

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<v Speaker 1>people kept tagging me like do you if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>change your ways, you're gonna end up in the hospital

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<v Speaker 1>like little zan did. And I'm like, come on, I

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<v Speaker 1>I consume responsibly. Yeah, there's a CNN article says little

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<v Speaker 1>Zane can't stay away from flaming hot cheetos. Z all right,

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<v Speaker 1>like zan X got you got you got? Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>was taken to the hospital. That's what it's based off of. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he also said he says, I guess I too many

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<v Speaker 1>hot cheetos and it ripped something in my stomach. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, and I puked a little blood. This

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't happened to me in my adult life, but as

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, I may be consumed more frequently than in now,

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<v Speaker 1>and my digestive system wasn't well equipped enough to handle it,

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<v Speaker 1>and so my bm my bms were pretty bad, Like

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<v Speaker 1>they were pretty red and they were pretty hot. Um

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<v Speaker 1>my body. I think I think has since maybe adjusted

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<v Speaker 1>and can handle it now. But back when I was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, ten years old to sixteen years old, it

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<v Speaker 1>was there was some pretty brutal times. Would you say

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<v Speaker 1>Cheetos is your favorite food? Like, for example, if you

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<v Speaker 1>were stuck in an island and you had one food, No,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's not enough nutritional value coming from a cheeto.

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<v Speaker 1>But I will say whenever anyone asks, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty common question. It's like, what's your favorite food.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've ever once thought to answer hot cheetos.

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<v Speaker 1>I always think it's more of like a meal, like

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<v Speaker 1>a pizza or hot wings or something like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would never think of answering it with a snack totally.

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<v Speaker 1>It would always be pizza or tacos or something along

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<v Speaker 1>those lines. That's actually a meal. Spaghetti is very specific,

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<v Speaker 1>not pasta. No no, no no, no, no no no no. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, penney, you can throw penne out. I

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<v Speaker 1>want spaghetti and I like penney. I hate elbow noodles. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't stand elbow What if you haven't? Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever had macaroni salad. I've had macaroni salad. I had

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<v Speaker 1>macaroni and cheese, of course, with the elbow noodles, and

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<v Speaker 1>I like macaroni with shells. Yeah, I like macaroni better

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<v Speaker 1>with shells as well. The elbow noodles, though, it's far

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<v Speaker 1>better for pasta Saladyterally, I'm about to puke because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking of elbow noodles. They're so bad. The noodle to

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<v Speaker 1>to to sauce ratio just doesn't make sense for me.

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<v Speaker 1>With the elbows, the shape, they always fall off your fork.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't even you can't poke them with the fork,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't scoop them with the fork. See, I disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>I find that it's easier to eat the elbow noodles

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<v Speaker 1>because they have the open ends on slide and open.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes when I get the fork in there, and

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes if I don't get a pasta, like if I

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<v Speaker 1>stab it, sometimes the fork will slide into the noodles

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<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden, I have like three noodles

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<v Speaker 1>on my fork, and I'm like, Jack Pott, this didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even take any effort. I don't know, man, you we

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk about this more. Anyways, we just had well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got our first guests of the day walk in

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<v Speaker 1>and and I wish you guys could see what we're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing right now, because it's fantastic. It's a very busy

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<v Speaker 1>studio right now. I saw them. I saw them as

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<v Speaker 1>I was walking into the studio and I saw them

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<v Speaker 1>from behind, and I immediately knew that they were our

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<v Speaker 1>guests today because it is two sets of identical twins

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<v Speaker 1>and they both married. They're significant identical two pairs of

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<v Speaker 1>identical twins that are married, which is kind of incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>And I haven't have a laundry list of questions that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm racking up in my head right now. Well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>introduce our our guests. We have identical twin sisters, Brittany

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<v Speaker 1>and Brianna Deanne Oh my god, okay, deanogi telling them

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<v Speaker 1>the story that there was a girl in high school

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<v Speaker 1>that I went to to high school with and her

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<v Speaker 1>last name was Dean, and I always told her. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, if we get married, I'm taking your last

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<v Speaker 1>name so I could be Dean Dean. Yes, well there,

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<v Speaker 1>your last name is spelt with any at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>You're drop the Obviously we don't have to worry about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, and then we have their significant other's,

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<v Speaker 1>their husband, their twin brothers, Joshua and Jeremy Saliers. That's right,

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<v Speaker 1>Sally did it? Oh yeah, well you know I got

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<v Speaker 1>one of two of the last names. Right. Well, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you guys for joining us today. We really appreciate you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are all wearing the same thing too. Well that

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<v Speaker 1>not all four about the two sisters who wearing the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. That's what I was talking about when I

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<v Speaker 1>saw them from behind, because um, Brianne and Brittany are

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<v Speaker 1>both wearing yellow jackets, and then Joshua and Jeremy are

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<v Speaker 1>both wearing great blazers, and like Matt, it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's perfect, that really is in every single way. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys both have the square pocket. And you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>read it again. I was gonna ask you this earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>How common is it for identical twins to have annunciated

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<v Speaker 1>first names. They're not annunciated um um, alliterative. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>very common. Yes. So when we go to the Twins Festival,

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<v Speaker 1>which is actually where the four of us met, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to interrupt you. The Twins Festival you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear about. Right, Well, let's put in let's put everything

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<v Speaker 1>in perspective. So you guys have a show coming out

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<v Speaker 1>on TLC and that airs Monday night. Correct twin Wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>Twin Sane, Wedding in the Membrane, Twin Sane in the Membrane,

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<v Speaker 1>Vint even Saine would have a run for his money. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys have this show coming out now, you

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<v Speaker 1>are already married, yes, and this is awesome, And you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are documented. You documented your wedding, and when was

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<v Speaker 1>you It was two thousand eighteen. When did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>get married? August four? August four? Congratulations, thanks so much.

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<v Speaker 1>We actually got married in Twinsburg, which is a real

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<v Speaker 1>place and it's in Ohio and every August, twins and

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<v Speaker 1>multiples take over that city. So that's why we chose

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<v Speaker 1>to have our wedding. Then the exactly, so what what

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<v Speaker 1>year did you guys meet? The previous year? Next year,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Babies that year? Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's could be great and you could have the twins

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<v Speaker 1>Sane Wedding Part two, Babies Edition, twins Edition, because if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys so, Actually, the question is do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have more I'm thinking ahead here. Is there a more

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<v Speaker 1>likelihood to have twins? There must be we know that

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<v Speaker 1>fraternal twins. That's right. So all of us were identical twins,

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<v Speaker 1>were mirror image identical twins. But there's got to be

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<v Speaker 1>I think a little bit more of a chance that

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<v Speaker 1>will have identical twins. But identical twins are kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a fluke of nature. I guess read the fraternals who

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<v Speaker 1>running the family. But everybody basically has the same chance

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<v Speaker 1>of having an identical twin. But there's got there's got

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<v Speaker 1>that will happen. When you guys met. Did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>meet each other at the same time, or did one

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<v Speaker 1>of you show interest in the other first, We've all

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<v Speaker 1>met at the exact same moment. Okay, hold on before

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<v Speaker 1>we move any further, can I just okay? So, Joshua

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeremy, Joshua, It's very nice to be you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Jared great, Janet is all around, and then Brittany, Brittney,

0:11:13.840 --> 0:11:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Brittany and Brina Brianna. Excuse me, I'm so sorry, Joshua, Jeremy, Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Brittany and Joshua and Jared and Jared and

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<v Speaker 1>Dean and Easton. Okay, so you guys met at the

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<v Speaker 1>Twins Festival in Ohio. How did you hear of this

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<v Speaker 1>twin festival? We had heard of this festival when we

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<v Speaker 1>were little. Our our father told us about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was this magical place we dreamed about going. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>pre internet, it was this huge paper, huge story in

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<v Speaker 1>the paper, and I remember we always wanted to go.

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<v Speaker 1>We said we would and we started going. Gosh, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand eleven and I have been going. Does an

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<v Speaker 1>annual thing for you guys? You go to our only

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<v Speaker 1>twins allowed at the festival? No, no, no, everybody can come. Anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going next year. What's on the year? Is it first?

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<v Speaker 1>The first weekend of August? Nothing like a beautiful August

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<v Speaker 1>day in Ohio. And it's in Ohio? What part of Ohio? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Very nice? I can't believe it's a place called that

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<v Speaker 1>where you guys at the Twin Festival where two sets

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<v Speaker 1>of twins met and now we're married. That was like

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<v Speaker 1>the holy That was like you know, when like all

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<v Speaker 1>of the planets aligned together. I don't know what it's called,

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<v Speaker 1>but that was that moment, Twinsburg twins getting married in

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<v Speaker 1>Twinsburg where they met. So you guys have been going

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<v Speaker 1>since two thousand and eleven, Jeremy and Joshua, how long

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<v Speaker 1>have you guys been going? We met them on our

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<v Speaker 1>first year, though, so we're so lucky. We told about

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<v Speaker 1>the festival growing up, and we really didn't think too

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<v Speaker 1>much about it. Then that year we just on a

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<v Speaker 1>whim decided to to pack up and check out the

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<v Speaker 1>Twins Festival in Twinsburg. Walk us through the initial encounter

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<v Speaker 1>with each other. We had seen Josh and Jeremy earlier, like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>those guys are that's exactly right, and they were just

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<v Speaker 1>in the sea of twins, right, so it's this huge

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<v Speaker 1>gathering of twins. But we spotted them. They were this

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<v Speaker 1>handsome visions round six four boys and we're not and

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<v Speaker 1>so we we couldn't get to them fast enough. They

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<v Speaker 1>were they were too fast for so we didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>to introduce ourselves. Yeah, and then later is when we

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<v Speaker 1>actually all the last night of the festival. Last night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so the act Actually towards the end of the festival

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<v Speaker 1>that year, we Brittany and I walked in to this

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<v Speaker 1>conference center where a party was going on for all

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<v Speaker 1>the twins, and Josh and Jeremy are coming down toward

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<v Speaker 1>us from you know, the other side of the course leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>We were on our way out of the festival entirely,

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<v Speaker 1>We're getting ready to go home, so we almost missed them.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys, ladies exercise some very great patients there, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because you saw initially you're like those guys, something about them,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you waited into you met them later on,

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<v Speaker 1>and then how did you so you just approached them

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<v Speaker 1>and said, hi, we're so we were so excited because

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<v Speaker 1>they came up and spoke with us. We had our

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<v Speaker 1>eye on then throughout dude, we just we just never

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<v Speaker 1>had the opportunity to talk to him, and really we

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<v Speaker 1>just thought they were too beautiful for us and out

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<v Speaker 1>of our league. We were just hoping. I think there

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<v Speaker 1>are guys because it doesn't bring you back to like

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<v Speaker 1>memories of being like seeing the girl across from the

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<v Speaker 1>bar while you're still doing it. I guess, so it's different. Yeah,

0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:38.800
<v Speaker 1>but it's a good thing, but just like that that awkwardness,

0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:41.480
<v Speaker 1>but that excites you where you see someone you're like, Wow,

0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:43.440
<v Speaker 1>they're really cute. I'd love to talk to him, and

0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:45.760
<v Speaker 1>then hours go by, right, and then you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>keep seeing them, and then finally like eight hours go

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<v Speaker 1>by and like that's your moment, cause you're like, okay,

0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:53.040
<v Speaker 1>it's now or never. And then you kind of cross

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<v Speaker 1>paths and you're walking next to each other, like, oh, hey,

0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:58.960
<v Speaker 1>how are you remember one time? This is so creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm a have been like nineteen or twenty,

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<v Speaker 1>but there was a girl the gym that I was

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<v Speaker 1>really attracted to, and I didn't know how to go

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<v Speaker 1>up to her. I don't want to approach your girl

0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:07.840
<v Speaker 1>at the gym, and so literally I was done with

0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:09.720
<v Speaker 1>my workout, but she was still in the treadmill. So

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<v Speaker 1>I just continued working out, like doing the dumbest thing

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<v Speaker 1>for forty five minutes, just kind of like lingering by,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she walked out. My whole plan was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I have an idea. When we're walking out, I'll hold

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<v Speaker 1>the door for her. And that's my in right there,

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<v Speaker 1>right easy. So of course what happens. I wait for

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<v Speaker 1>like forty five minutes. I finally see her walking out,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm like walking next to her, hold the door opened,

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<v Speaker 1>and she goes, thank you, and I was like, you're welcome,

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<v Speaker 1>and walked to my car, and I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>such an idiot. I waited all of this time. I

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<v Speaker 1>had my plan ready to go. It worked perfectly, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just failed to execute it. So good good job

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys and girls for like not failing at

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<v Speaker 1>that moment. Yeah, they made it happen. And then they drove,

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<v Speaker 1>which was a very big deal to us. They drove

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<v Speaker 1>like seven hours to see us. This was a huge

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<v Speaker 1>deal to me in Brittany that when driving and it

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<v Speaker 1>was so you guys, you guys met, you guys talked,

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<v Speaker 1>hit it off, exchange numbers, and then and then like

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<v Speaker 1>the next weekend, you guys drove to see him seven

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<v Speaker 1>hours there after, and then actually every every week after that,

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<v Speaker 1>and we became inseparable and they just kept coming to

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<v Speaker 1>see us and take us on dates and seven eight

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<v Speaker 1>hours was nothing to them. Okay, So when you guys met,

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<v Speaker 1>was there an instant like division of Okay, I'm interested

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<v Speaker 1>in him, I'm interested in him? Or how did that work? Yes? Yes,

0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:31.160
<v Speaker 1>it was exactly that. Um, you know, I was drawn

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<v Speaker 1>to Brittany just immediately as Jeremy was to Brianna, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just immediate connection there, initial reading, and we

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<v Speaker 1>talked to the group and as we progressed in the conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>we split off and it was me and Brianna and

0:16:48.440 --> 0:16:50.920
<v Speaker 1>Josh and Brittany, and it was just a natural connection.

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<v Speaker 1>And we happened to be the older twins and they're

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<v Speaker 1>the younger twins. Were actually carried off by birth order

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<v Speaker 1>rated by five minutes. Also, I can tell you guys

0:16:57.800 --> 0:17:05.080
<v Speaker 1>are much more mature. Um, so you guys are five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes apart. So Jeremy and Joshuy your older one, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and sorry, Jeremy, you're the older one, Okay, I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Brianna, you are five minutes older than Brittany?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that is it usually about five minutes? Is there

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<v Speaker 1>an interesting time lapse that happens between twins? It varies

0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:30.119
<v Speaker 1>very thirty seconds. We've heard hours and hours. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>imagine being a mom and giving birth and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, not you're not done yet, four or

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<v Speaker 1>more hours before you do this all over? If I

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<v Speaker 1>was the older twin, I would constantly, if I was

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<v Speaker 1>like five minutes older, would constantly be texting my younger

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<v Speaker 1>twin and be like when I was your age, like

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<v Speaker 1>looking into the future. Yes, okay, great do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>got married last year and we can finally watch it

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<v Speaker 1>on Monday on TLC. That's amazing. So what made you

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<v Speaker 1>decide to do this whole documentary? Really your wedding? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean clearly because we're not, you know, blown away by

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<v Speaker 1>anything over here right now used to publicizing our relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>It's terrible kidding, this is still I'm still like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still absolutely blown away. But yeah, what what was the

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<v Speaker 1>whole process, like it started with the proposal, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>we decided to post them at the same time. So

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<v Speaker 1>we had this big elaborate proposal planned and uh and

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna be able to see that on this show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well the proposal already already aeroin said edition. Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>so they might last year, right, And that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>where things took off. So Josh and Jeremy did this

0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:38.520
<v Speaker 1>beautiful proposal. They had us trick Fate had us thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that we were going to film a commercial to advertise

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<v Speaker 1>this place called Twin Lakes. So we thought were gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be in a commercial. Wait, that's in Colorado. It's in Virginia, Colorado.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, the camera crew turned out to be when

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<v Speaker 1>when the director said action for this commercial, it turned

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<v Speaker 1>out to be inside it Asian and Josh and Jeremy

0:19:01.480 --> 0:19:04.440
<v Speaker 1>both dropped to one knee and proposed that the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing was on camera. Did you did you propose first?

0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:11.400
<v Speaker 1>Because you're older? Actually we did it exccultaneously. Okay, okay,

0:19:12.440 --> 0:19:14.440
<v Speaker 1>but'd be like, well, like all you're gonna to wait

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes and so you can actually ask your proposal.

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<v Speaker 1>We often will say thanks at the same time, just

0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:21.919
<v Speaker 1>like they will. But we we really wanted to to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, nail that. You know, we weren't going to

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<v Speaker 1>get a second take on it or anthy. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>guys ever confuse each other? Has that ever happened? Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever just gone up to Jeremy like, um, Joshua,

0:19:36.960 --> 0:19:40.760
<v Speaker 1>have you seen like I'm your fiance? You know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. We all look alike, right, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>we look alike, so I don't see the resemblance, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like from behind or from the side. It happens, of

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<v Speaker 1>course sometimes we I think that josh and Jeremy looked

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<v Speaker 1>the most alike in the mornings. Okay, interesting on their

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<v Speaker 1>hair and well I can see that. Oh and you

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<v Speaker 1>guys both swoop it to the right. Yeah, never mind,

0:20:01.040 --> 0:20:03.760
<v Speaker 1>similar hairstyles, looking good. And when we don't have on

0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:06.000
<v Speaker 1>makeup and we're not done up, we look like So

0:20:06.080 --> 0:20:08.600
<v Speaker 1>that is when that's like the danger zone. Yeah, so

0:20:08.720 --> 0:20:12.159
<v Speaker 1>breakfast is the danger zone? Morning coffee watch out? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you guys all live together? Yes, we all lived together

0:20:15.000 --> 0:20:18.080
<v Speaker 1>under one roof? Wow? And how long have you lived

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<v Speaker 1>together for? Sorry? We were for six made it easy

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<v Speaker 1>for filmings. So we're still learned like we're still getting

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<v Speaker 1>used to yeah, because I'm sure the girls have lived

0:20:30.359 --> 0:20:32.680
<v Speaker 1>together for a while, right and the guys, A, yeah,

0:20:32.720 --> 0:20:36.680
<v Speaker 1>we've always worked and lived together. We planned to continue

0:20:36.720 --> 0:20:38.639
<v Speaker 1>doing that because we were not lived with each other

0:20:38.760 --> 0:20:42.280
<v Speaker 1>at dis siblings. This is now we we're apart for

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a year. I went out and got my own

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<v Speaker 1>apartment and we lived separately, and we just didn't didn't

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<v Speaker 1>like it sucks. So two of my really good friends

0:20:52.280 --> 0:20:54.600
<v Speaker 1>are identical twins as well, and they went to separate colleges.

0:20:54.720 --> 0:20:56.359
<v Speaker 1>One went to college in Colorado, w went to college

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<v Speaker 1>in Washington, and they were like, those four years were

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<v Speaker 1>so hard to bear from each other. That a five

0:21:02.359 --> 0:21:04.920
<v Speaker 1>years Brittany and I did and it was really hard,

0:21:04.960 --> 0:21:06.959
<v Speaker 1>and you know, you never get those years back, right,

0:21:07.480 --> 0:21:09.760
<v Speaker 1>interest it's because it's something that obviously someone that doesn't

0:21:09.760 --> 0:21:11.680
<v Speaker 1>have a twin wouldn't really be able to understand because

0:21:11.720 --> 0:21:13.240
<v Speaker 1>you're just like, oh, it's just a sibling. But no,

0:21:13.320 --> 0:21:14.720
<v Speaker 1>there's like a connection that you guys have that's a

0:21:14.760 --> 0:21:17.479
<v Speaker 1>little bit deeper than a regular sibling would happen. It's insane.

0:21:17.520 --> 0:21:19.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I had to learn how to do everything

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<v Speaker 1>all over again by myself, right, So most people, like

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<v Speaker 1>in kindergarten, they learned to walk into class by themselves,

0:21:24.240 --> 0:21:26.520
<v Speaker 1>and that's something we never learned. So it wasn't until

0:21:26.520 --> 0:21:28.600
<v Speaker 1>we separated, we were in our twenties that I learned

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<v Speaker 1>to like walk into a grocery store or to school alone.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's Do you think that it's more of a

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<v Speaker 1>genetic thing why you guys are so close or because,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, you did everything together growing up. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's both. But I think there is something to

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<v Speaker 1>the genetic thing. You just are born with this esoteric,

0:21:48.320 --> 0:21:52.480
<v Speaker 1>just very strong bond. Um I do you finish each

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<v Speaker 1>other's sensences or do you have like a certain like

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<v Speaker 1>do you know when like, for example, Brittany, do you

0:21:57.440 --> 0:22:02.439
<v Speaker 1>know when brand Is just is just hurting or sad

0:22:02.560 --> 0:22:05.520
<v Speaker 1>or like even when she's not near, you're like something's wrong. Yes,

0:22:05.600 --> 0:22:08.880
<v Speaker 1>I definitely know when something's wrong. And it's the same

0:22:09.000 --> 0:22:11.800
<v Speaker 1>vice versa. I remember I had a pendicitis so I

0:22:11.840 --> 0:22:13.639
<v Speaker 1>had to go get my appendix out and I was

0:22:13.680 --> 0:22:16.399
<v Speaker 1>not with Brianna at the time, so terrible what he

0:22:16.520 --> 0:22:19.280
<v Speaker 1>called me freaking out, like, oh my gosh, you're I

0:22:19.280 --> 0:22:21.000
<v Speaker 1>can tell that you're so sick what is going on?

0:22:21.080 --> 0:22:24.400
<v Speaker 1>So we definitely have that connection. It's like a quantum entanglement.

0:22:24.440 --> 0:22:26.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, they can they can feel what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>And so are you guys once once you are you

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<v Speaker 1>guys gonna plan you plan on having kids? Yes, I

0:22:31.720 --> 0:22:34.439
<v Speaker 1>would tell me that process. Are we going to have

0:22:34.480 --> 0:22:38.040
<v Speaker 1>the kids together at the same time? Hopefully? So, yeah,

0:22:38.080 --> 0:22:41.359
<v Speaker 1>that would be ideal, right, would like to experience that

0:22:41.920 --> 0:22:45.359
<v Speaker 1>aspect of the life together also, Um, so yeah, if

0:22:45.440 --> 0:22:47.520
<v Speaker 1>we could make that happen, that would be that would

0:22:47.520 --> 0:22:50.320
<v Speaker 1>be pretty awesome. And obviously it's a challenging to make

0:22:50.359 --> 0:22:54.360
<v Speaker 1>that happen together. But you're as long as you guys

0:22:54.359 --> 0:23:00.800
<v Speaker 1>have open communication, you should be fine. Did you say, well,

0:23:00.840 --> 0:23:04.320
<v Speaker 1>we're trying to de stigmatized menstruation anyways, right, true, So

0:23:04.320 --> 0:23:06.080
<v Speaker 1>so might as well just put it out there, put

0:23:06.119 --> 0:23:08.720
<v Speaker 1>it out there for everybody in know. Um, what about

0:23:08.720 --> 0:23:10.880
<v Speaker 1>like vacations and stuff? So as a couple's now so

0:23:11.160 --> 0:23:14.480
<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's interesting because as the girls going up together,

0:23:14.520 --> 0:23:16.280
<v Speaker 1>you guys were inseparable, right and then as the guys

0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:19.359
<v Speaker 1>you were inseparable as well. But now as couples, are

0:23:19.400 --> 0:23:21.320
<v Speaker 1>you inseparable or as couples, can you kind of go

0:23:21.400 --> 0:23:24.120
<v Speaker 1>off and do your own thing without necessarily worrying about

0:23:24.119 --> 0:23:26.320
<v Speaker 1>the other. Four of us are together a lot of

0:23:26.359 --> 0:23:29.480
<v Speaker 1>the time, but we do split off sometimes into couples.

0:23:29.920 --> 0:23:33.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, we went on, for example, a joint honeymoon.

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:35.560
<v Speaker 1>We all went to Prince Edward Islands for our honeymoon.

0:23:36.840 --> 0:23:41.720
<v Speaker 1>Different rooms, right, different rooms. I don't know if you guys,

0:23:41.960 --> 0:23:43.560
<v Speaker 1>You guys turn a lot of it as you're walking

0:23:43.600 --> 0:23:49.720
<v Speaker 1>down the stairs. That's right, double takes um. So you're

0:23:49.720 --> 0:23:52.760
<v Speaker 1>all living under one house, do you, guys? Isn't for me?

0:23:52.840 --> 0:23:54.920
<v Speaker 1>I guess from an outsider, it looks like you guys

0:23:54.920 --> 0:23:59.880
<v Speaker 1>are kind of all in on this together. I don't

0:24:00.160 --> 0:24:01.920
<v Speaker 1>just sound weird like that, but it just it just

0:24:01.960 --> 0:24:04.640
<v Speaker 1>seemed like this bond almost like you guys are going

0:24:04.680 --> 0:24:08.200
<v Speaker 1>through this marriage, this this journey together. Would you agree

0:24:08.280 --> 0:24:10.639
<v Speaker 1>or like the dean, like Dean said, is it is

0:24:10.640 --> 0:24:13.200
<v Speaker 1>the individual couples where you guys are just kind of

0:24:13.800 --> 0:24:16.480
<v Speaker 1>it's like person you married two people kind of Yeah.

0:24:18.680 --> 0:24:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Jeremy said this, I think really great phrase that kind

0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:25.480
<v Speaker 1>of summed it up that we weren't looking for the one,

0:24:25.720 --> 0:24:27.840
<v Speaker 1>we were looking for the ones because we do we

0:24:27.880 --> 0:24:30.760
<v Speaker 1>feel it's funny. It's you know, we're twins looking for

0:24:30.800 --> 0:24:33.280
<v Speaker 1>our double dose of prince charming. We found them and

0:24:33.320 --> 0:24:35.920
<v Speaker 1>we are all for in it very much together. Were

0:24:35.960 --> 0:24:37.760
<v Speaker 1>you guys looking for twins today? I think I read

0:24:37.800 --> 0:24:40.320
<v Speaker 1>that somewhere right. That was the dream, that was our

0:24:40.400 --> 0:24:43.040
<v Speaker 1>dream since we were a little girl, and the dream

0:24:43.240 --> 0:24:47.680
<v Speaker 1>true identical twin princes. Absolutely, how about you guys? Yeah,

0:24:47.680 --> 0:24:51.080
<v Speaker 1>that was definitely, uh, something that we had always thought

0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:53.520
<v Speaker 1>was just going to be the only way that, uh,

0:24:53.640 --> 0:24:56.280
<v Speaker 1>that we could get married is if we found our

0:24:56.840 --> 0:25:01.000
<v Speaker 1>twins out there. And so we went to Wednesdays. You know,

0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:05.439
<v Speaker 1>we didn't go there with that soul you know, um

0:25:05.680 --> 0:25:07.800
<v Speaker 1>it was they're open to it. You wanted to self

0:25:07.840 --> 0:25:10.560
<v Speaker 1>debtle the prophecy or something like that, right, and you know,

0:25:10.600 --> 0:25:13.480
<v Speaker 1>we hit hit the jackpot first try, first time we went.

0:25:13.640 --> 0:25:16.080
<v Speaker 1>So at the wedding then, which we'll see on TV,

0:25:16.280 --> 0:25:18.639
<v Speaker 1>what was that like? You guys had the same wedding dress.

0:25:19.320 --> 0:25:23.080
<v Speaker 1>We picked out. Identical gowns and tuxedos are a little

0:25:23.080 --> 0:25:27.240
<v Speaker 1>bit easier to pick out. How about how about cakes?

0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:30.119
<v Speaker 1>Was there one kick, two kicks? Same two kicks? That's

0:25:30.119 --> 0:25:34.159
<v Speaker 1>a good question. Yes, And the theme was of our

0:25:34.160 --> 0:25:36.000
<v Speaker 1>wedding was twice upon a time, so it was a

0:25:36.040 --> 0:25:39.199
<v Speaker 1>double fairy tale. That's really cute. How's marriage life been,

0:25:39.280 --> 0:25:42.440
<v Speaker 1>because you guys been married since August, so you're five

0:25:42.520 --> 0:25:44.720
<v Speaker 1>five months in just about I don't know. I'm not

0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:48.440
<v Speaker 1>good at math. That life is good. Life is life

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 1>is twin saying, but in a good every other ever disagreements,

0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:56.080
<v Speaker 1>either among the siblings or the couples. Sure, sure we

0:25:56.119 --> 0:25:59.400
<v Speaker 1>have our moments, of course, but nothing we get along

0:25:59.440 --> 0:26:02.840
<v Speaker 1>the brittany and to get along better, like Josh and

0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:06.360
<v Speaker 1>Jeremy have made our relationship better. They've done the same

0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:12.480
<v Speaker 1>thing for us. They've made us better twins. That makes sense, Well,

0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:16.840
<v Speaker 1>it's we can understand our bond through them. We can

0:26:16.840 --> 0:26:20.359
<v Speaker 1>see how they interact and and to share it you

0:26:20.560 --> 0:26:23.840
<v Speaker 1>romantically and have my twin and they're twins. We it's

0:26:23.880 --> 0:26:29.879
<v Speaker 1>just this um like the town that we're from. You know,

0:26:29.960 --> 0:26:32.199
<v Speaker 1>we're we're kind of the twins in the area. You know,

0:26:32.200 --> 0:26:34.240
<v Speaker 1>it's not twins around around right where, So we don't

0:26:34.280 --> 0:26:37.960
<v Speaker 1>really get to see other twins interacting with each other

0:26:38.320 --> 0:26:42.760
<v Speaker 1>or really understand our own relationship as compared to another

0:26:42.800 --> 0:26:45.880
<v Speaker 1>set of twins. Alright, so we get to understand more

0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:49.680
<v Speaker 1>about ourselves. It's like there's a strong foundation for understanding

0:26:49.720 --> 0:26:51.720
<v Speaker 1>someone else before yet even never met them, right because

0:26:51.720 --> 0:26:53.320
<v Speaker 1>they had gone through so much of what you've already

0:26:53.320 --> 0:26:55.760
<v Speaker 1>gone through as a twin. Right, yeah, exactly. So what's

0:26:55.800 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 1>next for you guys? Are you still living? You don't

0:26:57.560 --> 0:27:00.320
<v Speaker 1>live in Ohio, that's just where the festival was, you,

0:27:00.359 --> 0:27:02.000
<v Speaker 1>but in the Midwest. I would assume we all live

0:27:02.040 --> 0:27:07.680
<v Speaker 1>in Virginia. Okay, Virginia, okay, part not too far from Richmond. Okay,

0:27:07.760 --> 0:27:13.920
<v Speaker 1>so my fiance was raising grateful that's right. Yeah, what's

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:15.840
<v Speaker 1>next to you? Guys? Are going to stay in Virginia.

0:27:16.400 --> 0:27:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we're going to be making a

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:21.640
<v Speaker 1>move or not, but we big things coming were the things.

0:27:21.640 --> 0:27:23.919
<v Speaker 1>We're hoping to be starting a business, the four of

0:27:23.960 --> 0:27:28.080
<v Speaker 1>us together soon. We already to start our family. Yeah,

0:27:28.200 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 1>maybe we can make that double pregnancy. Branna and I

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:37.080
<v Speaker 1>are thirty two. Okay, she started two in five minutes. Yeah,

0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:42.320
<v Speaker 1>throw that in there and we're okay, great, Okay, Well

0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:44.399
<v Speaker 1>what's this? What's this big business you guys are thinking about?

0:27:44.960 --> 0:27:46.360
<v Speaker 1>That is that's something you guys are kind of keeping

0:27:46.440 --> 0:27:50.199
<v Speaker 1>under apps for now. Sure, we plan to have an

0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:53.920
<v Speaker 1>amazing wedding venue and boutique hotel that the four of

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:56.800
<v Speaker 1>us will run together. Branna and I are attorneys, and

0:27:56.920 --> 0:27:59.399
<v Speaker 1>so we say, you know, we get divorced like a

0:27:59.440 --> 0:28:01.600
<v Speaker 1>hundred times a year, and we want to get married

0:28:01.600 --> 0:28:05.160
<v Speaker 1>a hundred times a year instead. That looks incredible even

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:08.040
<v Speaker 1>it out? Just come up with a net neutral uh

0:28:08.440 --> 0:28:10.600
<v Speaker 1>end of the year, right? That makes sense? I feel

0:28:10.640 --> 0:28:12.479
<v Speaker 1>you guys are like living the dream a little bit,

0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:15.560
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of times in marriages are relationships, you

0:28:15.880 --> 0:28:18.600
<v Speaker 1>become so close with that significant other that your best

0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:20.479
<v Speaker 1>friend kind of gets left behind a little bit, and

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:24.040
<v Speaker 1>relationship change and friendships change. But not for you guys,

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:26.399
<v Speaker 1>because I'm assuming your best friend was your sibling. It

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:30.840
<v Speaker 1>sounds like for each respective um family. And so not

0:28:30.960 --> 0:28:33.440
<v Speaker 1>only are you guys so close with your significant other now,

0:28:33.480 --> 0:28:35.679
<v Speaker 1>but you're still able to keep that close relationship with

0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:37.480
<v Speaker 1>your best friend that you've grown up and have all

0:28:37.480 --> 0:28:42.160
<v Speaker 1>these experiences with exactly awesome. Thank you. I gotta talk

0:28:42.160 --> 0:28:45.520
<v Speaker 1>to Ashley and and we gotta gotta figure something out here. Yeah,

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:49.920
<v Speaker 1>I live with my see you want to live together? Anyways?

0:28:49.920 --> 0:28:52.160
<v Speaker 1>For the listeners out there that want to watch the

0:28:52.200 --> 0:28:54.520
<v Speaker 1>Twin Saning Wedding. So you're gonna wake up, you're gonna

0:28:54.520 --> 0:28:56.080
<v Speaker 1>listen to this podcast. And what you're gonna do when

0:28:56.080 --> 0:28:57.720
<v Speaker 1>you go to bed or just get ready for bed

0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:01.440
<v Speaker 1>is watch the Twin Sane Wedding on t LC. Um

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:05.920
<v Speaker 1>and watch this this magic unfold. That's what I'm going

0:29:05.960 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 1>to be doing at least. Yeah, I'm super excited for

0:29:08.320 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 1>you guys. And what else? So for the listeners out there, um,

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:12.960
<v Speaker 1>if they want to follow you on social is there

0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:15.360
<v Speaker 1>anything else that they can do to follow your guy's journey?

0:29:15.720 --> 0:29:19.360
<v Speaker 1>We use hashtag are twin Saying wedding? Okay and hashtag

0:29:19.960 --> 0:29:27.760
<v Speaker 1>twins sell your twins? Yeah, yeah, that's pretty cool. That's amazing.

0:29:27.800 --> 0:29:31.400
<v Speaker 1>You guys appreciate it. Thank you for coming in. Guys.

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:35.160
<v Speaker 1>This has been an incredible experience for all of us,

0:29:35.200 --> 0:29:39.200
<v Speaker 1>I hope, so thank you for Yeah. We we'll be

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 1>tuned in Monday night. Yeah, Monday night, February eleventh to

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<v Speaker 1>Night Central our Twin Sane Wedding on TLC. Check out

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<v Speaker 1>how are you sleeping in night? Um? You know, Jared,

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:49.440
<v Speaker 1>I could always sleep a little bit better. Why do

0:29:49.480 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 1>you ask? Well? Because I asked because I care about

0:29:52.200 --> 0:29:53.720
<v Speaker 1>you as a human being, I care about you as

0:29:53.760 --> 0:29:55.160
<v Speaker 1>a friend, and I want you to get to the

0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:58.840
<v Speaker 1>best night's rest you could possibly get, and the only

0:29:58.920 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 1>way to do that is to get sleep number. Have

0:30:01.360 --> 0:30:04.320
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0:30:04.360 --> 0:30:06.840
<v Speaker 1>Well maybe you've considered considered a sleep number bed, but

0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:09.880
<v Speaker 1>I thought you couldn't afford one. Possibly, maybe this podcast

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<v Speaker 1>you afford another restless night? That's my question to you.

0:30:15.800 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Have coffee in the world can help

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0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:47.240
<v Speaker 1>I kind of disagree with whether we like a soft

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<v Speaker 1>crazy going from sleeping in your bed so many years

0:31:00.680 --> 0:31:03.160
<v Speaker 1>by yourself to sleeping with in a bed with your

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:06.240
<v Speaker 1>significant other for the rest of your life. And so

0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 1>we're we're lucky that we're pretty easy. But man, sometimes

0:31:09.640 --> 0:31:11.640
<v Speaker 1>I just kind of like I just need here to

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 1>sleep on the couch my significantly me the bed by

0:31:13.960 --> 0:31:16.040
<v Speaker 1>myself for one night. You know, there is as a

0:31:16.120 --> 0:31:19.400
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0:31:19.480 --> 0:31:21.320
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0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:10.840
<v Speaker 1>it out. Well, what do we think about the twins? Well,

0:32:10.880 --> 0:32:13.680
<v Speaker 1>that was double the fun. If you asked me nice,

0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:16.479
<v Speaker 1>they were awesome. They were so sweet, They're very sweet.

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:20.760
<v Speaker 1>They're there, they did everything right. But I'm still a

0:32:20.800 --> 0:32:24.280
<v Speaker 1>little creeped out. Well, I wanted to ask, but I

0:32:24.400 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 1>felt I didn't want to offend them if in previous relationships,

0:32:28.280 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 1>if they were ever interested in the same person, because

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:33.480
<v Speaker 1>that's interesting to me. Two twins is gonna back in

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:34.960
<v Speaker 1>here and asking that's a good question. It is a

0:32:34.960 --> 0:32:36.800
<v Speaker 1>good question. But they were talking so much about their

0:32:36.800 --> 0:32:38.920
<v Speaker 1>wedding and engagement, and I was like, am I going

0:32:39.000 --> 0:32:41.520
<v Speaker 1>to be really the jackass now? And it's like, all right, well,

0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:43.680
<v Speaker 1>forget about the happiness you guys have right now, let's

0:32:43.880 --> 0:32:46.120
<v Speaker 1>get into the nitty gritty of the fights that you

0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:49.800
<v Speaker 1>guys had about Because imagine this, Dean, imagine um imagine

0:32:49.800 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 1>Emily and Haley. Right, they're both identical, twins, both beautiful,

0:32:54.200 --> 0:32:56.880
<v Speaker 1>they both like you. How do you? How do you

0:32:56.920 --> 0:33:00.479
<v Speaker 1>deal with that situation? Because I mean if I if

0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 1>I was the point, because I would deal with it differently.

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:04.040
<v Speaker 1>If I was me, I'd be like, heck, yeah, let's go,

0:33:04.520 --> 0:33:07.480
<v Speaker 1>let's let's do it all the way. Would you want

0:33:07.480 --> 0:33:10.000
<v Speaker 1>a throuble not with just them? Would you do if

0:33:10.040 --> 0:33:12.280
<v Speaker 1>you ever do a throuble with twins, not just Emily

0:33:12.320 --> 0:33:15.360
<v Speaker 1>and Hanley, but twins in general? I sure, I mean

0:33:15.400 --> 0:33:16.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't think I do a throuble to

0:33:16.720 --> 0:33:18.960
<v Speaker 1>begin with. But what's the different I mean, no, Actually,

0:33:19.000 --> 0:33:20.480
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I wouldn't do a throuble with twins

0:33:20.520 --> 0:33:22.520
<v Speaker 1>because there's what's the point of having a throuble if

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:25.000
<v Speaker 1>you're dating two of the same people. Granted, obviously twins

0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:28.120
<v Speaker 1>aren't the same people. But if you want a little variety, yeah,

0:33:28.120 --> 0:33:29.560
<v Speaker 1>it's all about you. You kind of go with the

0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:33.320
<v Speaker 1>inverse of the first person to fulfill whatever the need

0:33:33.360 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 1>is that you want to have a throuble or I

0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:36.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know, I don't know what I'm saying. So what

0:33:36.680 --> 0:33:38.480
<v Speaker 1>you're saying is, if you're in a throuble, you'd want

0:33:38.520 --> 0:33:40.960
<v Speaker 1>one blonde and one brunette type thing. No, if I

0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:43.680
<v Speaker 1>was in a throuble, I would want one blonde and

0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I would want one Um, I don't know, Uh, what's

0:33:48.840 --> 0:33:51.800
<v Speaker 1>what's the opposite of a blond? I was thinking, like

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:55.080
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, I was gonna say like I

0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>was trying to go like creatively opposite and it just failed.

0:33:58.400 --> 0:34:01.160
<v Speaker 1>That's okay, Well, you know, what are you gonna do?

0:34:01.400 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm excited to see their wedding. I'm gonna watch.

0:34:05.520 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely gonna watch. They were very they were very nice, Like,

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:11.000
<v Speaker 1>they were very nice. It is the only part that

0:34:11.080 --> 0:34:14.920
<v Speaker 1>makes me not weirded out, but the idea of getting

0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:16.680
<v Speaker 1>pregnant at the same time. So I was actually thinking

0:34:16.680 --> 0:34:18.920
<v Speaker 1>that just as we were taking pictures, is what if

0:34:18.960 --> 0:34:21.320
<v Speaker 1>one of the couples gets pregnant and the others unable to.

0:34:21.440 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I think that could lead to some sort of like

0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:26.160
<v Speaker 1>depressive Well, of course, because that could cause issues. But

0:34:26.239 --> 0:34:29.520
<v Speaker 1>even one of the guys when we were talking off air,

0:34:29.640 --> 0:34:32.200
<v Speaker 1>said like, well, we hoped, you know, it works out,

0:34:32.280 --> 0:34:34.799
<v Speaker 1>but you know, he said something along the lines of

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:38.200
<v Speaker 1>it's not in our control. Well, of course, what I'm saying,

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:40.440
<v Speaker 1>if one of the couples gets pregnant and the other

0:34:40.480 --> 0:34:42.879
<v Speaker 1>one is unable to, I think the couple wasn't able

0:34:42.920 --> 0:34:44.680
<v Speaker 1>to get pregnant is going to be even though a

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 1>couple of guess pregnant, they're gonna be sad because they're

0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:49.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna want their children to be brought up together. They're

0:34:49.520 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna want to go do the same experience together at

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:53.520
<v Speaker 1>the same time as they have their entire life. So

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:56.480
<v Speaker 1>it's like it's almost like they're setting themselves up for failure.

0:34:57.040 --> 0:34:58.799
<v Speaker 1>But obviously, like you know, it's it's if they are

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:00.319
<v Speaker 1>able to pregn at the same time, then all it better,

0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:03.360
<v Speaker 1>then it'll all work out. It's interesting there dynamic because

0:35:03.360 --> 0:35:06.360
<v Speaker 1>the individualism of each relationship, it just doesn't feel like

0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 1>it's there. It does feel even when I was talking

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:11.239
<v Speaker 1>to them, it does feel my granted I met them

0:35:11.239 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 1>for twenty minutes, it does feel like a big relationship.

0:35:16.760 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 1>Not a bad thing because there is ups and down

0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:21.279
<v Speaker 1>to that, right because you really have your best friend

0:35:21.360 --> 0:35:24.799
<v Speaker 1>going through something very the same exact thing you're going through.

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Right now, you all live on to one house. What

0:35:26.640 --> 0:35:28.400
<v Speaker 1>if you think one of them wants to get a divorce.

0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:29.719
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that means that both of them have

0:35:29.760 --> 0:35:33.440
<v Speaker 1>to get divorces? Like, you know, I don't know. I

0:35:33.440 --> 0:35:35.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know if one of them started to see if

0:35:35.440 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 1>if josh is like, well, Brittany, yeah, she's just you know,

0:35:38.280 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>it's not really going well, so I think I want

0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:43.000
<v Speaker 1>to get separated. Does that mean Jeremy's like, oh, crap,

0:35:43.040 --> 0:35:44.600
<v Speaker 1>I guess I have to do the same thing too. Well.

0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:48.480
<v Speaker 1>It would create some serious awkwardness because they have done

0:35:48.560 --> 0:35:52.480
<v Speaker 1>so much of this relationship together thus far that like, say,

0:35:53.120 --> 0:35:57.280
<v Speaker 1>hold on, it was Jeremy and Arianna, it was Jeremy Brenna.

0:35:57.360 --> 0:35:58.960
<v Speaker 1>To be honest, I sid no idea, it was Jeremy

0:35:59.000 --> 0:36:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Browna and it was josh and Brittany. So if Joshua

0:36:02.000 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, it's not working out with Brittany, We're

0:36:04.400 --> 0:36:07.279
<v Speaker 1>going to get divorced, that does create a super awkwardness

0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:10.719
<v Speaker 1>because his best friend Joshua is still married to Brianna

0:36:10.800 --> 0:36:13.120
<v Speaker 1>and they're living under the same house. Would that mean

0:36:13.120 --> 0:36:15.440
<v Speaker 1>that Brittany would have to move out too? Because did

0:36:15.440 --> 0:36:18.440
<v Speaker 1>you ever have you I'm sure you wanted Entourage? Yeah, yeah,

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:21.440
<v Speaker 1>there's a there's an episode where Ari or this he

0:36:21.480 --> 0:36:24.080
<v Speaker 1>has an employee who's a twin and his employee comes

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:27.320
<v Speaker 1>in complaining about how his twin brother slept with his wife.

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:30.399
<v Speaker 1>Do you remember that episode? I don't. I couldn't stop

0:36:30.440 --> 0:36:33.200
<v Speaker 1>thinking about it when we were doing that. So Ari

0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:35.560
<v Speaker 1>has a friend that's a twin So Ari, one of

0:36:35.600 --> 0:36:38.120
<v Speaker 1>Ori has two employees and their twin brothers. And one

0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:40.240
<v Speaker 1>of those twin brothers has a wife, and that wife

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:45.520
<v Speaker 1>slept with her husband's brother. Yeah, twinn, Yeah, that's cheating,

0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:48.640
<v Speaker 1>cheating on on his identical twin brother. Yeah, but did

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:50.640
<v Speaker 1>she know in the show? Did she know that it

0:36:50.680 --> 0:36:52.799
<v Speaker 1>was the other brother? That's what Ari asked, because he's

0:36:52.800 --> 0:36:56.359
<v Speaker 1>like that this episode. Now, yes, yes, Stitchy cheat on

0:36:56.400 --> 0:36:58.839
<v Speaker 1>you with you? Or did she cheat on you with him?

0:36:58.840 --> 0:37:02.120
<v Speaker 1>It was the question she knowing the cheat that's the problem. Like,

0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:04.799
<v Speaker 1>for example, what if, like the twin brother was just

0:37:04.800 --> 0:37:06.399
<v Speaker 1>an one was like, I'm gonna see if I could

0:37:06.400 --> 0:37:08.840
<v Speaker 1>pull one off, kind of like me myself and Irene.

0:37:08.880 --> 0:37:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know it. Granted, this a little different because

0:37:10.640 --> 0:37:15.600
<v Speaker 1>it was a I know it was schizophrenic, but technically

0:37:15.960 --> 0:37:18.120
<v Speaker 1>he was like two different people, and Hank, who was

0:37:18.200 --> 0:37:23.400
<v Speaker 1>the bad one over, pulled one over and just pretending

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:25.439
<v Speaker 1>he was the other guy. Irene, why am I beeeing

0:37:25.480 --> 0:37:31.000
<v Speaker 1>like I had sex last night? Every week time? That

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:34.319
<v Speaker 1>that movie is so under rated. That was nobody talks

0:37:34.520 --> 0:37:36.640
<v Speaker 1>about that about being Jim Carrey is one of his

0:37:36.680 --> 0:37:39.680
<v Speaker 1>funniest movies, and it might be his funniest movie. That

0:37:39.760 --> 0:37:41.239
<v Speaker 1>was the second movie I ever saw in theaters with

0:37:41.280 --> 0:37:43.759
<v Speaker 1>my mom. You saw that with your mom? I was

0:37:43.760 --> 0:37:48.160
<v Speaker 1>like ten years old. Oh god, So that's a horrible

0:37:48.480 --> 0:37:50.239
<v Speaker 1>special place in my art. That is one of the

0:37:50.280 --> 0:37:53.240
<v Speaker 1>dirtiest movies I can remember. There's an F word every

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:55.160
<v Speaker 1>other My mom was a badass. She's like, let's go

0:37:55.160 --> 0:38:01.440
<v Speaker 1>see this good for you? That's amazing. Anyway, Well, that

0:38:01.560 --> 0:38:04.040
<v Speaker 1>was a very interesting segment and I'm very fascinated to

0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:08.720
<v Speaker 1>watch Monday Night. But we also have Tore in studio here. Hi, guys,

0:38:08.960 --> 0:38:11.160
<v Speaker 1>Hey to you guys have heard from Tory in the past.

0:38:11.239 --> 0:38:14.160
<v Speaker 1>She's a producer on the podcast. She likes to hide

0:38:14.160 --> 0:38:16.440
<v Speaker 1>in the shadows, but sometimes we were able to coox

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:18.640
<v Speaker 1>her into coming onto the air. Sometimes she chimes in

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:21.200
<v Speaker 1>from time to time, but it's mostly when Venice is

0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:24.240
<v Speaker 1>out here because we just need we need that female

0:38:24.440 --> 0:38:27.279
<v Speaker 1>not only female perspective, But we just need somebody to really,

0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:30.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, rain us in. Sometimes sometimes Dean and I

0:38:30.880 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 1>can get a little crazy and sleeping paid double time

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:37.040
<v Speaker 1>to be honest, monitoring you guys, having to keep this.

0:38:37.440 --> 0:38:40.719
<v Speaker 1>Mark's not here, Amy's not here, Vanessa is not here.

0:38:40.760 --> 0:38:43.520
<v Speaker 1>You have to deal with me, Dean and Easton. If

0:38:43.560 --> 0:38:47.160
<v Speaker 1>you picture like hurting kittens as that's like what I

0:38:47.200 --> 0:38:54.120
<v Speaker 1>feel like. Are you calling us kittens? Really cute? We're dogs,

0:38:54.200 --> 0:38:58.360
<v Speaker 1>That's what we are. We are We're animals, We're not kids.

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:01.920
<v Speaker 1>I like to think of myself as polar bear. I

0:39:01.920 --> 0:39:07.359
<v Speaker 1>think Dean is a puppy actually spirit animal. A good

0:39:07.360 --> 0:39:13.120
<v Speaker 1>one is California. Boy, it makes sense. Wait why I

0:39:13.160 --> 0:39:15.000
<v Speaker 1>was saying that you're threatened by climate change just like

0:39:15.000 --> 0:39:18.719
<v Speaker 1>polar bears are. Oh yeah, I hate climate change chemicals,

0:39:19.200 --> 0:39:21.440
<v Speaker 1>that's why? Is that why you just don't use So

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:23.879
<v Speaker 1>you don't use chemicals because really you're like it hurts

0:39:23.920 --> 0:39:26.040
<v Speaker 1>the polar bears. That's I think from your own so

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:27.879
<v Speaker 1>much as you can do in your life to reduce

0:39:27.920 --> 0:39:30.440
<v Speaker 1>your carbon footprint, you should be doing it. So what

0:39:30.480 --> 0:39:36.319
<v Speaker 1>do you do? Kind of cards question? What do you do? Pretty? Yeah,

0:39:36.320 --> 0:39:38.279
<v Speaker 1>that's what I want to know polar bear. Um, I

0:39:38.320 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 1>don't overuse. I use everything in moderation. Yeah, no, you're

0:39:42.600 --> 0:39:44.920
<v Speaker 1>pretty good about the environment. My question is, though, why

0:39:45.200 --> 0:39:47.480
<v Speaker 1>why is the polar bear your spirit animal? Um? I

0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:49.400
<v Speaker 1>just love them. They're my number one favorite animal. I

0:39:49.440 --> 0:39:54.400
<v Speaker 1>picture myself as one. They're they're powerful, but they're still loving,

0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:57.480
<v Speaker 1>are they? Do you believe in reincarnation? I do not

0:39:57.520 --> 0:39:59.080
<v Speaker 1>believe in reincarnation. So you don't think, like in a

0:39:59.120 --> 0:40:02.719
<v Speaker 1>past life, you're a pull bear? Aren't polar bear is

0:40:02.719 --> 0:40:07.839
<v Speaker 1>super aggressive? Well? Yeah, they're they're killing machines. How are they?

0:40:07.960 --> 0:40:10.600
<v Speaker 1>Didn't you just say they're soft. I'm sure they're soft,

0:40:10.640 --> 0:40:13.399
<v Speaker 1>Like physically, if you touch polar barrier, things really soft

0:40:14.000 --> 0:40:16.359
<v Speaker 1>until it claws off your arm. Here's the thing with

0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 1>bears and any animal in general, like a So my

0:40:19.760 --> 0:40:23.160
<v Speaker 1>five favorite animals go polar bear, lion, tiger, grizzly bear, wolf,

0:40:23.440 --> 0:40:27.640
<v Speaker 1>and they're all alpha predators right essentially. I genuinely think

0:40:27.760 --> 0:40:29.880
<v Speaker 1>that if I were to ever encounter any one of

0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:32.359
<v Speaker 1>those five animals in the wild, I would be able

0:40:32.360 --> 0:40:37.279
<v Speaker 1>to befriend it. And I don't like the grizzly man died.

0:40:37.960 --> 0:40:39.759
<v Speaker 1>He died because he thought he could do this, and

0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:42.880
<v Speaker 1>he died doing what he loved. But he died because

0:40:42.880 --> 0:40:48.919
<v Speaker 1>he had this stupid idea. But he lived, he did.

0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:51.120
<v Speaker 1>But then there was granted, apparently there was a bear

0:40:51.200 --> 0:40:54.400
<v Speaker 1>who was just a bad bear and he knew this,

0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:57.040
<v Speaker 1>like he had really bad vibes about him, or he

0:40:57.080 --> 0:40:59.360
<v Speaker 1>did some aggressive behavior and that was the bear that

0:40:59.440 --> 0:41:02.200
<v Speaker 1>ended up killing him. Yeah, and he but he was

0:41:02.880 --> 0:41:04.239
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to prind that bear even more than the

0:41:04.280 --> 0:41:06.680
<v Speaker 1>other bears. But I'm serious. I literally think that if

0:41:06.719 --> 0:41:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I came across a bear in the wild, how would

0:41:10.040 --> 0:41:12.880
<v Speaker 1>you do this? Do we have a pot of honey? No,

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:16.240
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't coax it. I wouldn't do that. Like honestly,

0:41:16.239 --> 0:41:20.360
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't have a plan. Think that we would have

0:41:20.400 --> 0:41:24.080
<v Speaker 1>a mental connection that would go beyond words, and because

0:41:24.120 --> 0:41:29.320
<v Speaker 1>of that connection, like the twin side, we would approach

0:41:29.320 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 1>each other. We would walk up to each other calmly,

0:41:31.040 --> 0:41:32.919
<v Speaker 1>knowing that neither of us is a threat to the other,

0:41:33.160 --> 0:41:36.080
<v Speaker 1>and we would fully embrace each other with arms around.

0:41:36.480 --> 0:41:38.920
<v Speaker 1>This actually makes me very nervous because Dean, you travel

0:41:38.920 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 1>alone so much that I can just see you one

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:44.160
<v Speaker 1>time traveling and God knows where and You're in some

0:41:44.200 --> 0:41:47.520
<v Speaker 1>sort of jungle with no service on your phone, thinking

0:41:47.560 --> 0:41:50.879
<v Speaker 1>to yourself, I got this, I can do this. This

0:41:50.920 --> 0:41:53.840
<v Speaker 1>is my moment, this is my spirit animal. A bear

0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:56.000
<v Speaker 1>is in front of me. I am going to try

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:59.560
<v Speaker 1>the bear, but the bear would also be trying to

0:41:59.600 --> 0:42:02.280
<v Speaker 1>hook me. Is the thing I wouldn't misread the situation.

0:42:02.360 --> 0:42:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I know when to give. This is like a lot

0:42:04.000 --> 0:42:06.880
<v Speaker 1>like your dating life. I feel like I don't misread that.

0:42:07.480 --> 0:42:10.880
<v Speaker 1>You know the conversation and it's like, what's this title?

0:42:11.000 --> 0:42:17.919
<v Speaker 1>I don't read anything. I'll be fine on paradise. Okay, wait, wait,

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:20.080
<v Speaker 1>I actually do want to know, Jared, what's your spirit animal?

0:42:20.200 --> 0:42:22.520
<v Speaker 1>I actually haven't thought about what my spirit is. What's

0:42:22.560 --> 0:42:25.920
<v Speaker 1>your favorite animal? My it's it's such a cliche, but

0:42:25.960 --> 0:42:27.560
<v Speaker 1>of course it's a dog. No no, no no, no no, no,

0:42:27.560 --> 0:42:37.560
<v Speaker 1>non domesticated, non domesticated favorite animal. American of you, so

0:42:37.600 --> 0:42:40.920
<v Speaker 1>American of me. But I also it's the idea of flying.

0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:45.480
<v Speaker 1>That's what really fascinates me. I guess I guess my

0:42:45.560 --> 0:42:47.279
<v Speaker 1>favorite animal and an animal that I would want to

0:42:47.320 --> 0:42:48.840
<v Speaker 1>be for a day would be different, because you're right,

0:42:48.880 --> 0:42:50.239
<v Speaker 1>it would be cool to be a bird and fly

0:42:50.320 --> 0:42:52.520
<v Speaker 1>through the air of course, can't change it. You already

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:54.960
<v Speaker 1>said you. I said, my favorite animals a polar beer.

0:42:55.000 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 1>But if I could be any animal for a day

0:42:57.040 --> 0:42:58.920
<v Speaker 1>that's different than your spirit animals, I agree. That's what

0:42:58.920 --> 0:43:01.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. There is different, spared him. Yes, because I

0:43:01.640 --> 0:43:04.320
<v Speaker 1>don't know what my spirit animal. That would be non domesticated,

0:43:04.320 --> 0:43:07.719
<v Speaker 1>because I'm so domesticated as a human being. I'm such

0:43:07.760 --> 0:43:11.080
<v Speaker 1>a homebody and I'm so white. Okay, okay, let's bring

0:43:11.160 --> 0:43:13.360
<v Speaker 1>us back to dating. What would be a red flag

0:43:13.440 --> 0:43:15.560
<v Speaker 1>spirit animal you would have if a girl at a

0:43:15.600 --> 0:43:17.680
<v Speaker 1>dinner was like, You're like, hey, what's your spirit animals?

0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Would be a red flag butterfly? Butterfly? They're so innocent, sweet,

0:43:22.160 --> 0:43:23.800
<v Speaker 1>I know, but it just seems like a cliche answer

0:43:23.880 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>to give. It is. But the I I've always believe

0:43:26.640 --> 0:43:30.279
<v Speaker 1>cliches are there because they're just so popular. Like there's

0:43:30.280 --> 0:43:32.520
<v Speaker 1>a reason why cliches a cliche, because they're just a

0:43:32.560 --> 0:43:34.719
<v Speaker 1>particular But you know how anti informity I am, Like

0:43:34.719 --> 0:43:36.439
<v Speaker 1>if someone I don't, I don't want to fit into

0:43:36.440 --> 0:43:38.520
<v Speaker 1>the more you pull a bear? Did you guys see

0:43:38.560 --> 0:43:42.839
<v Speaker 1>that news article about the jogger in Colorado? The guy

0:43:42.880 --> 0:43:44.960
<v Speaker 1>was jogging through Colorado like a couple of days ago,

0:43:45.000 --> 0:43:48.120
<v Speaker 1>and a mountain lion pounced on him from behind, and

0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:50.920
<v Speaker 1>the guy killed the mountain lion ship and then walked

0:43:50.960 --> 0:43:54.560
<v Speaker 1>to the hospital and got his his his bare hands.

0:43:54.640 --> 0:43:57.000
<v Speaker 1>He choked a mountain lion out, And part of me

0:43:57.160 --> 0:43:59.640
<v Speaker 1>is like, I think I could do that too. God,

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:03.240
<v Speaker 1>if the mountain lines was refusing to be my friend,

0:44:03.680 --> 0:44:05.440
<v Speaker 1>which I don't think would happened, I think he would be.

0:44:05.560 --> 0:44:07.560
<v Speaker 1>I think he'd want to be to be receptive, to

0:44:07.560 --> 0:44:10.600
<v Speaker 1>be in my homie. He will be able to grab

0:44:10.680 --> 0:44:13.839
<v Speaker 1>him by the throat and no, I have to save

0:44:13.840 --> 0:44:15.839
<v Speaker 1>my own I mean, unless you were able to leave

0:44:15.880 --> 0:44:18.600
<v Speaker 1>the situation so well, Because the idea of you going

0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:22.200
<v Speaker 1>into a situation with a mountain lion thinking we're going

0:44:22.239 --> 0:44:25.560
<v Speaker 1>to be best friends, fast forward four seconds later to

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:27.719
<v Speaker 1>you choking this thing out. I don't think you could

0:44:27.760 --> 0:44:29.880
<v Speaker 1>change your mindset that quickly. The thing with the mountain

0:44:29.880 --> 0:44:31.920
<v Speaker 1>lion is you don't see the mountain until it's already

0:44:31.920 --> 0:44:33.560
<v Speaker 1>on top of you, you you know, because they're like experts

0:44:33.560 --> 0:44:35.279
<v Speaker 1>at self. So what if you think this mountain lion

0:44:35.480 --> 0:44:39.400
<v Speaker 1>is just trying to cuddle with you? It hurts no easy, No, no,

0:44:39.560 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 1>just a little cudd of they don't bite, don't bite.

0:44:41.040 --> 0:44:42.520
<v Speaker 1>And then he digs his teeth in and then I'm like,

0:44:42.560 --> 0:44:44.560
<v Speaker 1>all right, you've gone to that's it. That's the moment

0:44:44.640 --> 0:44:47.359
<v Speaker 1>right there. Did this jogger? Was he a badass in

0:44:47.400 --> 0:44:49.160
<v Speaker 1>real life? Or did he just I don't think they've

0:44:49.160 --> 0:44:51.280
<v Speaker 1>shared like so, no one knows who it is exactly,

0:44:51.360 --> 0:44:54.760
<v Speaker 1>but they've shared the story. You know. Yeah, I'm curious

0:44:54.760 --> 0:44:57.040
<v Speaker 1>if this guy had any type of military training or

0:44:57.080 --> 0:44:59.360
<v Speaker 1>if he was a copp or some sort of because

0:44:59.360 --> 0:45:02.239
<v Speaker 1>the idea of like a third grade teacher who's just

0:45:02.280 --> 0:45:04.319
<v Speaker 1>going on a jog in the morning, no against nothing

0:45:04.360 --> 0:45:06.720
<v Speaker 1>against third grade teachers. Let me put this, the idea

0:45:07.000 --> 0:45:11.680
<v Speaker 1>of a reality TV choking on a mountain lion seems

0:45:11.680 --> 0:45:14.399
<v Speaker 1>a little I mean I could do it, I'm telling

0:45:14.440 --> 0:45:17.359
<v Speaker 1>you right now. But I mean that's pretty powerful. All right?

0:45:17.400 --> 0:45:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Are we gone way off topic? Hold on? So did

0:45:20.600 --> 0:45:24.520
<v Speaker 1>you are? You said butterflies? It was just the first

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:28.560
<v Speaker 1>because I love butterflies. Butterflies are my favorite insects by far. Why. Um,

0:45:28.600 --> 0:45:33.120
<v Speaker 1>they're symbolic of angels. Uh, they're very they're super majestic. Actually,

0:45:33.120 --> 0:45:36.080
<v Speaker 1>there's I'll tell a real story so are moths symbolic

0:45:36.120 --> 0:45:39.120
<v Speaker 1>of demons? I don't know if it actually butterflies have

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:41.440
<v Speaker 1>like a really beautiful story. Yeah, I'm gonna share a

0:45:41.480 --> 0:45:45.280
<v Speaker 1>story that's it's a real story that's happened to you personally.

0:45:45.320 --> 0:45:47.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna take away from the joking aside for a second.

0:45:47.960 --> 0:45:49.480
<v Speaker 1>So I have a tattoo on my back from my

0:45:49.480 --> 0:45:51.000
<v Speaker 1>friend Hunter, who got hit by a truck when I

0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:52.239
<v Speaker 1>was ten. I don't know if I've shared that with

0:45:52.239 --> 0:45:55.520
<v Speaker 1>you ever. Yes, um, And five minutes before he got

0:45:55.600 --> 0:45:57.439
<v Speaker 1>hit by a truck, I remember this like beautiful yellow

0:45:57.480 --> 0:45:59.879
<v Speaker 1>monarch butterflyland. We were riding riding our bikes and we're

0:45:59.920 --> 0:46:02.720
<v Speaker 1>like sitting there and this beautiful yellow monarch butterfly landed

0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:04.960
<v Speaker 1>on the ground, and I remember he rolled his bike

0:46:05.040 --> 0:46:07.880
<v Speaker 1>over onto intentionally and killed the butterfly. And he's like,

0:46:07.880 --> 0:46:09.120
<v Speaker 1>look at me, and I killed this. But we're ten

0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:10.520
<v Speaker 1>year olds, you know, like we're just like you don't

0:46:10.520 --> 0:46:12.600
<v Speaker 1>think anything. We love chaos, so we're just like doing that.

0:46:12.719 --> 0:46:14.280
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, and I remember it so distinctly.

0:46:14.320 --> 0:46:15.839
<v Speaker 1>And then literally five minutes later is when he got

0:46:15.880 --> 0:46:17.520
<v Speaker 1>hit by the trucks. So now I'm every time I

0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:19.440
<v Speaker 1>see a butterfly fly by me, I'm like, that's my

0:46:19.480 --> 0:46:22.000
<v Speaker 1>boy Hunter thinking of me. So I have his initials

0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:23.359
<v Speaker 1>on my back. And then I've got a butterfly fly.

0:46:24.680 --> 0:46:26.600
<v Speaker 1>That's sweet. So I love butterfly. So I feel girl

0:46:26.640 --> 0:46:29.120
<v Speaker 1>said her spirited animals a butterfly. I like, she's probably

0:46:29.120 --> 0:46:34.640
<v Speaker 1>the one butterfly has always been. Mo, is there a

0:46:34.640 --> 0:46:38.040
<v Speaker 1>butterfly emoji? Oh? Yeah, you're going to be flooded with

0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:40.240
<v Speaker 1>And anytime anyone says they have like a butterfly tattoo,

0:46:40.280 --> 0:46:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Okay, that's badass. I love it. Yeah, that's

0:46:42.520 --> 0:46:44.760
<v Speaker 1>a good step right there. Game had a butterfly tattoo

0:46:44.880 --> 0:46:46.600
<v Speaker 1>on his face and he got it covered up by

0:46:46.640 --> 0:46:49.280
<v Speaker 1>the Dodgers logo. So that was a mistake. You should

0:46:49.280 --> 0:46:51.319
<v Speaker 1>have kept it. Did he say why he had a

0:46:51.320 --> 0:46:57.719
<v Speaker 1>butterfly tattoo? He was in a gang called the Butterfly Yeah. Um,

0:46:57.719 --> 0:47:00.359
<v Speaker 1>all right. So I think I don't know if there's

0:47:00.400 --> 0:47:02.279
<v Speaker 1>a red flag for a spirit animal. If somebody said

0:47:02.320 --> 0:47:06.080
<v Speaker 1>something like cockroach, yeah, I feel like I'd be more

0:47:06.120 --> 0:47:10.440
<v Speaker 1>interested cockroach. Yeah. Like if somebody was like a cockroach,

0:47:10.480 --> 0:47:11.759
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that is like one of the most

0:47:11.840 --> 0:47:16.440
<v Speaker 1>hated and undeserving little characters on this earth. Well, sorry,

0:47:16.520 --> 0:47:19.520
<v Speaker 1>that's true, but like why, like why would you want

0:47:19.520 --> 0:47:21.279
<v Speaker 1>to be? Like people flush that down the toilet? Why.

0:47:23.800 --> 0:47:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of in trade with squirrels their planners because

0:47:27.040 --> 0:47:29.799
<v Speaker 1>they store everything for winter. They got like they're on

0:47:29.840 --> 0:47:32.120
<v Speaker 1>their games. Really hard to think of an animal that's

0:47:32.120 --> 0:47:35.520
<v Speaker 1>not an insect. That's hard to justify. It's like, you

0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:37.839
<v Speaker 1>can't really think of honey badger. Oh, I'm resilient, I'm

0:47:37.840 --> 0:47:40.960
<v Speaker 1>strong and whatever. So you've thought about that, well, honey

0:47:40.960 --> 0:47:42.920
<v Speaker 1>bad I was thinking, there's a the NFL player that's

0:47:42.960 --> 0:47:45.719
<v Speaker 1>called the honey Badger because he's a badass. Yeah, um,

0:47:46.000 --> 0:47:49.880
<v Speaker 1>what about catfish? Yeah? Fish would be interesting. You know.

0:47:49.960 --> 0:47:52.360
<v Speaker 1>I used to be the manager of a van shoe store,

0:47:52.440 --> 0:47:54.560
<v Speaker 1>and when I would interview people, I'd ask them, if

0:47:54.600 --> 0:47:56.359
<v Speaker 1>you were a tree, what kind of tree would you be?

0:47:56.840 --> 0:47:59.560
<v Speaker 1>That was very and sometimes the decision was entirely made

0:47:59.600 --> 0:48:03.040
<v Speaker 1>on that answer, but a popular one. If a girl

0:48:03.080 --> 0:48:07.160
<v Speaker 1>said a palm tree the door, yeah, I was you

0:48:07.200 --> 0:48:11.520
<v Speaker 1>stole the words right out of my mind. Would you be? Oh, redwood? Good?

0:48:11.520 --> 0:48:14.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't even think of that, but all long, thick,

0:48:14.320 --> 0:48:22.759
<v Speaker 1>thickly like your body, strong, resilient, pleasing a woman, you

0:48:22.760 --> 0:48:24.960
<v Speaker 1>know everything. I was thinking fern, but is a firm

0:48:25.000 --> 0:48:27.759
<v Speaker 1>of plant, friends of plant, so wouldn't I was thinking

0:48:27.800 --> 0:48:29.520
<v Speaker 1>oak tree. That was the first one, king of mind.

0:48:31.520 --> 0:48:33.960
<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get back to dating for a few

0:48:34.000 --> 0:48:37.719
<v Speaker 1>minutes before before we go away off topic with these trees. Here, Tori,

0:48:37.880 --> 0:48:43.040
<v Speaker 1>the reason you're a girl, you're a woman. Thank you.

0:48:43.040 --> 0:48:45.520
<v Speaker 1>You have three gentlemen in the studio right now. You

0:48:45.600 --> 0:48:48.840
<v Speaker 1>have an engaged guy, a single guy, a married guy. Wow,

0:48:48.880 --> 0:48:51.520
<v Speaker 1>so much has happening, so much knowledge with this within

0:48:51.600 --> 0:48:54.480
<v Speaker 1>this one studio room. So my question to you, Tori,

0:48:55.320 --> 0:48:57.920
<v Speaker 1>do you have any anything you want a guy's perspective on,

0:48:57.920 --> 0:49:00.719
<v Speaker 1>because you can have three different threes for right here,

0:49:01.080 --> 0:49:03.240
<v Speaker 1>just some relationship to who we just had on the show.

0:49:03.440 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 1>What is a guy's obsession with twins? Why is that

0:49:06.280 --> 0:49:11.160
<v Speaker 1>immediately so hot? Yeah? But don't you think that a

0:49:11.200 --> 0:49:13.239
<v Speaker 1>twin sister is less likely to have a threesome with

0:49:13.280 --> 0:49:16.960
<v Speaker 1>her sister? It's it's it's I never said guys are smart.

0:49:17.000 --> 0:49:20.360
<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying is that a guy's dream. I'm not

0:49:20.440 --> 0:49:22.720
<v Speaker 1>saying it's my dream, so please, but for most gentlemen

0:49:22.719 --> 0:49:25.319
<v Speaker 1>out there, it's probably to sleep with two twins at

0:49:25.320 --> 0:49:27.120
<v Speaker 1>the same So we've talked about this on the podcast before.

0:49:27.160 --> 0:49:30.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm anti threesome, right, So I don't see the appeal

0:49:30.320 --> 0:49:32.759
<v Speaker 1>of twins, but I guess to Jared's point, I could

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:36.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe see why a guy would be so like, I

0:49:36.200 --> 0:49:40.000
<v Speaker 1>don't really get it, but anything, it kind of feels overwhelming. Well,

0:49:40.000 --> 0:49:45.120
<v Speaker 1>it's also like, you know, the idea of a guy

0:49:45.200 --> 0:49:47.520
<v Speaker 1>walking in with a woman on each side of him.

0:49:47.560 --> 0:49:49.719
<v Speaker 1>You know, he walks into a club with a girl

0:49:49.719 --> 0:49:51.799
<v Speaker 1>on his left arm and a girl on his right arm.

0:49:51.840 --> 0:49:53.840
<v Speaker 1>You know, you it's a power move. It shows that

0:49:53.880 --> 0:49:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you have swag, that you can get girls. And so

0:49:56.200 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 1>the idea of dating twins sisters, it's kind of it's

0:50:00.680 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 1>it's a power move, and there's also a taboo factor

0:50:03.239 --> 0:50:05.120
<v Speaker 1>to it. I feel like that guys are very intrigued

0:50:05.160 --> 0:50:09.680
<v Speaker 1>by dating sisters. Bro, you know, I hate I'm not

0:50:09.719 --> 0:50:11.560
<v Speaker 1>saying I'm a fan. Yeah, I know you're not. I

0:50:11.600 --> 0:50:14.120
<v Speaker 1>hate it, but yeah, I guess that's that's definitely a

0:50:14.160 --> 0:50:18.880
<v Speaker 1>thing it makes So you don't like twins like you's no,

0:50:19.000 --> 0:50:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm not individually, but the idea of the

0:50:21.960 --> 0:50:24.560
<v Speaker 1>dream of dating twins It's funny because I know so,

0:50:24.840 --> 0:50:26.839
<v Speaker 1>like I said earlier, I have to two friends who

0:50:26.880 --> 0:50:28.600
<v Speaker 1>are twins. They're guys, like I went to high school

0:50:28.600 --> 0:50:29.920
<v Speaker 1>with them and they live in l A. But then

0:50:29.920 --> 0:50:31.560
<v Speaker 1>there's also these two girls in l A that I've

0:50:31.560 --> 0:50:34.000
<v Speaker 1>known for since I moved here, so like four years ago, um,

0:50:34.040 --> 0:50:36.400
<v Speaker 1>who are identical twins, and they're both beautiful, and I

0:50:36.440 --> 0:50:38.560
<v Speaker 1>had a big crush on one of them for like

0:50:38.600 --> 0:50:41.279
<v Speaker 1>a like, you know, a few months, but I never

0:50:41.360 --> 0:50:44.960
<v Speaker 1>even thought for a second about the other one. And

0:50:45.000 --> 0:50:46.759
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what, why do I like that one

0:50:46.800 --> 0:50:49.359
<v Speaker 1>more than that one? I don't know, it's a weird thing.

0:50:49.440 --> 0:50:53.239
<v Speaker 1>Now I hear you. I understand where you're coming from.

0:50:53.680 --> 0:50:56.560
<v Speaker 1>So there's like it's a I don't know, there's like

0:50:56.560 --> 0:50:59.560
<v Speaker 1>a distinct difference for me having met both of them,

0:50:59.600 --> 0:51:01.319
<v Speaker 1>to be like, Okay, I like this one more than

0:51:01.360 --> 0:51:04.640
<v Speaker 1>that one. Um. Granted, they're both beautiful twins, but there's

0:51:04.680 --> 0:51:07.160
<v Speaker 1>also a person. I mean, obviously there are twins are

0:51:07.200 --> 0:51:11.400
<v Speaker 1>very similar, but I'm sure, uh they have individual personalities

0:51:11.440 --> 0:51:13.319
<v Speaker 1>as well that come shining through that made them either

0:51:13.360 --> 0:51:15.279
<v Speaker 1>more attractive or less attractive. I don't think these things

0:51:15.320 --> 0:51:17.000
<v Speaker 1>really had much of a personality to shine through with

0:51:17.239 --> 0:51:19.720
<v Speaker 1>but that I found out after a while. I actually

0:51:19.719 --> 0:51:21.560
<v Speaker 1>have a question about this. But Eastern, I want to

0:51:21.560 --> 0:51:25.000
<v Speaker 1>hear your thoughts. What is there a fascination dating twins?

0:51:25.320 --> 0:51:27.759
<v Speaker 1>How long you been married? I've been married for a

0:51:27.880 --> 0:51:30.040
<v Speaker 1>year and a half. And how long have you been

0:51:30.120 --> 0:51:34.360
<v Speaker 1>dating your wife? Uh? Five years? So even I have

0:51:34.400 --> 0:51:36.200
<v Speaker 1>a game for quite some time. Yeah yeah, but I

0:51:36.400 --> 0:51:38.680
<v Speaker 1>I like hearing perspective of guys who have just you know,

0:51:39.160 --> 0:51:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean I had a game for quite some time.

0:51:41.680 --> 0:51:43.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean I I've told the story actually on this

0:51:43.320 --> 0:51:46.600
<v Speaker 1>podcast before, but I I dated a fraternal twin and

0:51:46.640 --> 0:51:49.680
<v Speaker 1>then I had sex with the other one. Uh. But

0:51:49.800 --> 0:51:52.719
<v Speaker 1>not not my proudest moment, but I love that I

0:51:52.800 --> 0:51:56.520
<v Speaker 1>did it. Who would have thought Easter? I know. And

0:51:56.800 --> 0:51:58.279
<v Speaker 1>here's the thing, Wait, why is it not one of

0:51:58.280 --> 0:52:02.279
<v Speaker 1>your proudest moments? I felt because I feel like a

0:52:02.320 --> 0:52:04.680
<v Speaker 1>scumbag DNT because a little bit Yeah sure yeah yeah.

0:52:04.719 --> 0:52:07.600
<v Speaker 1>So like what happened was I dated this girl who

0:52:07.640 --> 0:52:10.520
<v Speaker 1>was my friend's older sister, I might add, uh, and

0:52:10.760 --> 0:52:13.400
<v Speaker 1>we did it for like a year. We broke up. Uh,

0:52:13.800 --> 0:52:16.439
<v Speaker 1>I stayed friends with the twin because we just will

0:52:16.520 --> 0:52:18.080
<v Speaker 1>the three of us hung out all the time. And

0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:19.960
<v Speaker 1>then the sister didn't want to speak to me anymore,

0:52:19.960 --> 0:52:22.600
<v Speaker 1>but the twin and I still hung out, probably inappropriate,

0:52:22.880 --> 0:52:25.799
<v Speaker 1>and then she started telling me she she she had

0:52:25.840 --> 0:52:29.839
<v Speaker 1>the hearts for the Eman. Yeah, that was not turned

0:52:29.880 --> 0:52:31.960
<v Speaker 1>anything down to that. That your nickname or did somebody

0:52:31.960 --> 0:52:35.399
<v Speaker 1>give you that? So we gave it to me and okay, yeah,

0:52:35.440 --> 0:52:38.560
<v Speaker 1>we'll go with that story. That story. My mom called

0:52:38.560 --> 0:52:41.560
<v Speaker 1>me Eman one time, so I called myself Eman every day,

0:52:41.600 --> 0:52:43.960
<v Speaker 1>every every now and then we did. And then she

0:52:44.000 --> 0:52:46.560
<v Speaker 1>said I want to date you. I want I'm interested

0:52:46.600 --> 0:52:49.160
<v Speaker 1>in you, and I was thinking, like, I can't that

0:52:49.200 --> 0:52:51.399
<v Speaker 1>would be I just felt like that would be too much,

0:52:51.520 --> 0:52:53.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, like it would would like that would destroy

0:52:53.760 --> 0:52:57.320
<v Speaker 1>things with you and your sister. Uh I, I couldn't be.

0:52:58.080 --> 0:53:01.080
<v Speaker 1>The ability that us as humans give sex to destroy

0:53:01.120 --> 0:53:05.920
<v Speaker 1>relationships is so prevalent, so real, it's and so interesting

0:53:06.000 --> 0:53:08.440
<v Speaker 1>if we think about it, because if you're like, okay,

0:53:09.160 --> 0:53:12.680
<v Speaker 1>sex can't happen with you because of the potential repercussions

0:53:12.680 --> 0:53:14.480
<v Speaker 1>that will come from it, whether it's between the two

0:53:14.520 --> 0:53:16.879
<v Speaker 1>of us, whether it's between our friends, whatever it's from

0:53:16.880 --> 0:53:19.000
<v Speaker 1>It's like there are so many well there are a

0:53:19.040 --> 0:53:21.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of good things that can come from sex, of course,

0:53:21.320 --> 0:53:23.400
<v Speaker 1>but there's also so many bad things I could come

0:53:23.400 --> 0:53:28.879
<v Speaker 1>from its wise, is what I'm talking about. Well, I'm

0:53:28.880 --> 0:53:32.279
<v Speaker 1>not talking about finarial diseases specific part of the conversation

0:53:33.160 --> 0:53:36.280
<v Speaker 1>that that aside. I'm talking about how it can destroy relationships,

0:53:36.280 --> 0:53:38.759
<v Speaker 1>whether it's between the two people engaging, or whether it's

0:53:38.800 --> 0:53:41.640
<v Speaker 1>between friends or or yes, sex changes things. Can I

0:53:41.680 --> 0:53:43.520
<v Speaker 1>take this in a little bit of a different direction,

0:53:43.520 --> 0:53:46.000
<v Speaker 1>ask because a question. Have you ever broken up with

0:53:46.040 --> 0:53:48.879
<v Speaker 1>someone or called something off depending on where you were

0:53:48.880 --> 0:53:54.200
<v Speaker 1>in the relationship status because the sex was bad? Yeah,

0:53:54.760 --> 0:53:59.480
<v Speaker 1>Jared m M. Have you had a discussion to be like, hey,

0:53:59.480 --> 0:54:01.160
<v Speaker 1>how can we make this better? We just like it's

0:54:01.320 --> 0:54:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm thrown in the towel. It's a hard nor never

0:54:09.200 --> 0:54:12.000
<v Speaker 1>has enjoyed every bit of sexy has. I think at

0:54:12.000 --> 0:54:13.880
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, some people are sexually compatible

0:54:13.880 --> 0:54:16.560
<v Speaker 1>and some people aren't. And if compatible, it's sure you

0:54:16.560 --> 0:54:20.040
<v Speaker 1>can make it better through through avenues like communication. But

0:54:21.600 --> 0:54:23.799
<v Speaker 1>sometimes it's just unachievable to make it better. Yeah, but

0:54:23.840 --> 0:54:27.360
<v Speaker 1>I also think there there's a quote one time that

0:54:27.600 --> 0:54:32.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody said women are attracted to the men they fall

0:54:32.520 --> 0:54:36.160
<v Speaker 1>in love with and men fall in love with the

0:54:36.160 --> 0:54:40.719
<v Speaker 1>women they're attracted to. Do you think that's true? I

0:54:40.719 --> 0:54:43.359
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't think I think there's I think

0:54:43.400 --> 0:54:47.719
<v Speaker 1>there's Uh. I think it's a lot of it's true

0:54:48.200 --> 0:54:50.279
<v Speaker 1>that so women fall in love with the man that

0:54:50.320 --> 0:54:53.799
<v Speaker 1>they're I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that. Uh. Yeah,

0:54:53.800 --> 0:54:55.480
<v Speaker 1>that makes sense to me because I think I can

0:54:55.480 --> 0:54:58.319
<v Speaker 1>only come from a guy's perspective, because I am men

0:54:58.440 --> 0:55:00.400
<v Speaker 1>learned to love the women they are try acted two

0:55:00.480 --> 0:55:02.440
<v Speaker 1>women learn to become attracted to the man they fall

0:55:02.440 --> 0:55:06.200
<v Speaker 1>in love with. Got I think that spakes because for guys,

0:55:06.920 --> 0:55:09.480
<v Speaker 1>they like it or not. A lot of the first

0:55:09.520 --> 0:55:13.239
<v Speaker 1>impression does come from physical appearance, right, physical attractive to

0:55:13.360 --> 0:55:16.080
<v Speaker 1>visceral things, and beauty doesn't. Beauty is an eye beholder,

0:55:16.160 --> 0:55:18.200
<v Speaker 1>right Like what I find beautiful is somebody else might not,

0:55:18.760 --> 0:55:22.920
<v Speaker 1>but like for me, what I do find beautiful is

0:55:23.000 --> 0:55:25.400
<v Speaker 1>usually the first thing I look at, right, like, whether

0:55:25.440 --> 0:55:27.759
<v Speaker 1>it's on a dating app, whether it's at a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know, I if I find somebody attractive, I

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<v Speaker 1>will try to go talk to them in my single

0:55:32.920 --> 0:55:37.720
<v Speaker 1>days not anymore. Um. And So I think it's interesting

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<v Speaker 1>because I think a lot of relationships start with that,

0:55:41.600 --> 0:55:44.920
<v Speaker 1>and then you'll try to figure out the other things

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<v Speaker 1>as you go on to make it all work because

0:55:47.280 --> 0:55:49.440
<v Speaker 1>you are so physically attracted this person and maybe the

0:55:49.480 --> 0:55:51.880
<v Speaker 1>sex is so good. The challenging thing. The challenging thing

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<v Speaker 1>about that, I feel like is do you ever take

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<v Speaker 1>like economics in college where you have the supply and

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<v Speaker 1>demand chart where the supply goes bottom left, top right,

0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:02.720
<v Speaker 1>man goes top left to bottom right. Um, I feel

0:56:02.719 --> 0:56:05.480
<v Speaker 1>like that could be similar for how men and women

0:56:05.520 --> 0:56:08.799
<v Speaker 1>see relationships. A woman starts out not being attracted to

0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:10.359
<v Speaker 1>a guy, but the ends ends up being really really

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<v Speaker 1>The guy starts out being really really attracted to her

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<v Speaker 1>and infatuated by here, and then over time that fades

0:56:16.520 --> 0:56:18.880
<v Speaker 1>away and fades down, and so there's a there's uh

0:56:19.280 --> 0:56:21.440
<v Speaker 1>an intersection at some point, But then they continue to

0:56:21.480 --> 0:56:24.560
<v Speaker 1>trend in opposite directions because because like you said, guys

0:56:24.640 --> 0:56:26.640
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0:56:26.680 --> 0:56:29.080
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0:56:29.120 --> 0:56:31.200
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<v Speaker 1>if a woman is basing her love off of uh

0:56:34.360 --> 0:56:35.839
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0:56:35.880 --> 0:56:38.080
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0:56:40.760 --> 0:56:43.640
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<v Speaker 1>So we want to talk about this new emoji. Actually

0:58:09.400 --> 0:58:12.560
<v Speaker 1>that's the iPhone update. Also, I just got notified that

0:58:12.600 --> 0:58:17.160
<v Speaker 1>they're updating the iPhone in general because the FaceTime issue. Yeah,

0:58:18.440 --> 0:58:20.280
<v Speaker 1>I know what's funny is that that came out and

0:58:20.320 --> 0:58:22.600
<v Speaker 1>I received a couple of Facetimes for my friends, and

0:58:22.640 --> 0:58:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I know what you're doing, and I don't

0:58:24.400 --> 0:58:26.040
<v Speaker 1>like it. You could, ha can You could call someone

0:58:26.440 --> 0:58:29.760
<v Speaker 1>via FaceTime, answer for them, and then basically listen to

0:58:29.840 --> 0:58:32.520
<v Speaker 1>their conversations without them knowing that you're listening. Hold on,

0:58:32.720 --> 0:58:35.720
<v Speaker 1>say it again, you call into someone's phone FaceTime. Okay,

0:58:35.760 --> 0:58:37.919
<v Speaker 1>So if I call you FaceTime, yep, and then you

0:58:38.320 --> 0:58:40.520
<v Speaker 1>and I never answer it, but you can answer. You

0:58:40.520 --> 0:58:42.120
<v Speaker 1>can make me answer from your phone and that way

0:58:42.120 --> 0:58:45.960
<v Speaker 1>you can call the conversation that I'm having it's a glitch. Yeah. Um,

0:58:46.000 --> 0:58:48.640
<v Speaker 1>that's good that they're fixing that. There's Uh, it's funny

0:58:48.640 --> 0:58:50.720
<v Speaker 1>actually because with the twins here we talked about it

0:58:50.760 --> 0:58:53.439
<v Speaker 1>for a very quick second. But there obviously they released

0:58:53.440 --> 0:58:56.400
<v Speaker 1>new emojis all the time. Um, and with this new

0:58:56.440 --> 0:59:01.760
<v Speaker 1>emoji release, they are releasing a red blood drop blit

0:59:02.640 --> 0:59:07.720
<v Speaker 1>um emoji to join like the emoji lexicon, which is bringing,

0:59:08.120 --> 0:59:13.320
<v Speaker 1>which is aiming, I guess, to destigmatize menstruation, And how

0:59:13.360 --> 0:59:16.840
<v Speaker 1>do we feel about that as men? I'm very much

0:59:17.000 --> 0:59:19.440
<v Speaker 1>I love menstruation. I think it's a beautiful process. I

0:59:20.000 --> 0:59:23.600
<v Speaker 1>just feel like red red drop, that's gonna be just blood.

0:59:23.640 --> 0:59:27.360
<v Speaker 1>I agree. I agree it's a bit ambiguous with the emoji.

0:59:27.560 --> 0:59:29.400
<v Speaker 1>And like I've said before, I wish I could menstright

0:59:29.440 --> 0:59:31.040
<v Speaker 1>because then I wouldn't have to need I wouldn't have

0:59:31.080 --> 0:59:33.000
<v Speaker 1>to have calendars. I could just get rid of all

0:59:33.000 --> 0:59:38.800
<v Speaker 1>my calendars. You just know what day it is, just

0:59:38.840 --> 0:59:41.120
<v Speaker 1>through my cycle. Um. I think it's good to de

0:59:41.200 --> 0:59:45.040
<v Speaker 1>stigmatize menstruation as a guy, like, we're not really prone

0:59:45.320 --> 0:59:50.000
<v Speaker 1>to I guess having in our lives, right like unless

0:59:50.000 --> 0:59:53.120
<v Speaker 1>you're married or you're a real relationship with someone you

0:59:53.320 --> 0:59:54.880
<v Speaker 1>don't really like, I don't think about it on a

0:59:54.920 --> 0:59:57.919
<v Speaker 1>regular basis. You're also not a female, That's what I'm saying.

0:59:58.000 --> 1:00:00.120
<v Speaker 1>You don't go But I as a single man, and

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<v Speaker 1>I have no connection with menstruation in my life whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 1>So what Tori raised your him? Well, I was just

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<v Speaker 1>going to ask because that is something I would honestly

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<v Speaker 1>ask when you guys are, like, what do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to know about guys? Like is it weird to be like, hey, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just on my period, like or whatever, Like is

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<v Speaker 1>it gross you out? Like what is for me? I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up in a locker room, and select for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always like you just you know, everything's like normal

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<v Speaker 1>and you know it's not really Yeah, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>ask that in a way where you guys can Like

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<v Speaker 1>when I first heard about this, I was a little

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<v Speaker 1>taken back, maybe because I'm unaware. I never thought there

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<v Speaker 1>was really that much of a stigma. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if there a menstruation either, But as so for me,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't get grossed out like I'm a period. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, Okay, I got grossed out when I

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<v Speaker 1>was fifteen, you know, a teenager, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's you bleed gross. I think as an adult, I

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<v Speaker 1>think the human condition. I think the initiative here is

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<v Speaker 1>because there seems to be a connection with menstruation that

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<v Speaker 1>it's like Tori said, it's almost like people don't like

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<v Speaker 1>talking about it because they feel like they're not allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about it, even though it's a part of

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<v Speaker 1>a humanly process, bodily process that we that women go through.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, um, do women feel like they are they

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<v Speaker 1>can't talk about it to other women or they can't

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it to men. No, I think it's too

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<v Speaker 1>men women and women were like, sorry, just on my

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<v Speaker 1>period or like give a tamp on, Like everything is

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<v Speaker 1>just like asking for lipstick or something from a person.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's very normal for us because we experience it.

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<v Speaker 1>Were like course we get like there are horror but

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<v Speaker 1>like hold on, So I'm confused, is this supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>take away stigma of like you talking about your period

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<v Speaker 1>to me? So there was this Instagram photo that happened

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<v Speaker 1>probably about like a year ago now, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>this girl laying in bed and there was like a

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<v Speaker 1>blood spot and then it was reported and she had

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<v Speaker 1>to end up taking it down, and um, so I

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<v Speaker 1>think for that they're just kind of being like, we

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<v Speaker 1>can post photos and there can be blood, there can

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<v Speaker 1>be other situations informing that girls have periods, and it

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<v Speaker 1>does have to be this like report or disgusting or

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<v Speaker 1>seemed as like it's it should just be like normal

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<v Speaker 1>in our culture because every girl has I I sort

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<v Speaker 1>of disagree with that though, I'm not posting pictures on

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<v Speaker 1>my Instagram with a should I start doing that? Like, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a natural bodily function, but you but that's sexual.

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<v Speaker 1>It's aren't really sexy. Sometimes it's not. Sometimes you just

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<v Speaker 1>wake up and like what the hell? No, there are

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<v Speaker 1>many times or I'm not thinking about anything, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not thinking about sex. I just you know, sometimes, especially

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<v Speaker 1>in high school. Do you know how many times I've

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<v Speaker 1>had to flip my up into my waistband and I

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<v Speaker 1>know we have to bleep the word sorry. That's also

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<v Speaker 1>high school, but you would flip it up in your

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<v Speaker 1>waistband just so you would have to hide it from people.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're saying kids in high school should just be

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<v Speaker 1>walking with their with their tent fully pitched I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>saying that because I don't think period is sexy, Like

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<v Speaker 1>that's not like something that's like, oh, guess what I have,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know what, something where it's like we literally

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<v Speaker 1>can't control, like sometimes you just like bleat so much,

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<v Speaker 1>like it gets place. It's like it's not pretty. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of being like that's just what happens. It's

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<v Speaker 1>part of being a girl, and it sucks. I'm I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'm I think that there's a line, there's a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>there has to be somewhere. So you're saying you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate like on your friend's feed having something like showing

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<v Speaker 1>that she was like bleeding. I just don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>to announce. Yeah, there's no point in hiding it, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>but there is an issue like what's up, I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>my period? Check out my bloody crotch. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's entirely necessary because it's it's but then like like

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<v Speaker 1>moms posting breastfeeding. See, but that's like that's just nature,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's just nature versus like the put puberty is

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<v Speaker 1>very much part of nature. Right back to your original conversations,

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<v Speaker 1>like sexual round like a girl like this hard who

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<v Speaker 1>post a picture with her boobs out, You'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll report that that's very sexual. But with a baby

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<v Speaker 1>on your breast, it's natural. So it's like there's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of that level line of being like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a period. It's not sexy, but like it's just natural,

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<v Speaker 1>like just kind of like there's a reason for there's

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<v Speaker 1>just yeah, like yeah, but the idea too. Now we're

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<v Speaker 1>stigmatizing sex. Wow, good strong rebuttal And so that's my

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<v Speaker 1>only question, like what are we going to stigmatizing and

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<v Speaker 1>what are we not going I just think we should

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<v Speaker 1>swear and clothes. I'll just walk around even think the

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<v Speaker 1>whole Adam and just let the Adam Levine thing. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>There was like backlash about him taking off a shirt

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<v Speaker 1>because people were saying, if he can show his nipple

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<v Speaker 1>at the halftime show, why why was there a big fuss?

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<v Speaker 1>Is an actual like yeah, because um, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people were just wondering. But here's the thing that actually

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<v Speaker 1>brings up a good question for me, because when when

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<v Speaker 1>did it become socially acceptable for women not to show

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<v Speaker 1>their booths? I know that sounds really um. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it depends on what you believe in, because if they're

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<v Speaker 1>like the Bible, it's from day one when Adam bit

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<v Speaker 1>to that or when Eve bit to the apple, then

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<v Speaker 1>shameful and then she covered herself up. But then if

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<v Speaker 1>you go to like other places, it's like, well the

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<v Speaker 1>cavemen put for over themselves, keep them warm, like it

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of think it depends on what you believe

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<v Speaker 1>in and where it all started. I agree. So my

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<v Speaker 1>question is, if we bring it back to this whole

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<v Speaker 1>period emoji, is where do we draw the line? Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want any female to feel uncomfortable talking about

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<v Speaker 1>her period. It is a natural course of life. It's

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<v Speaker 1>something that females will go through. I also don't want

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<v Speaker 1>guys to feel uncomfortable talking about what they go through

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<v Speaker 1>during puberty and like it's just hormones and females go

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<v Speaker 1>through too, But we also know that it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a hard thing to really know balance, right, because

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<v Speaker 1>if if if we destigmatize periods, then what else are

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<v Speaker 1>we going to destigmatize? And I'm saying we shouldn't or

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<v Speaker 1>should but it's just a conversation to be had. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if ash's on our period, do you guys still pool around. Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a personal question. Well, I mean it's a hard personally.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't stop me. It doesn't stop me and I

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<v Speaker 1>We've had we've had many we we we've we've had

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<v Speaker 1>we've talked about it, and and those conversations will stay

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<v Speaker 1>private to what we do or what we don't do.

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<v Speaker 1>But certainly I'm very comfortable talking about subjects like that,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it be you know, intimate relationship while you're going

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<v Speaker 1>through your period, or whether it is you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>going through your period in general, and if I need

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<v Speaker 1>to buy you things or things of that nature. The

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<v Speaker 1>point is, I've been um as I'm sure most guys

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<v Speaker 1>have been in the situation where you're getting intimate with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and then the girl goes, oh, no, I feel bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on my period. Well maybe they're trying to stop

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<v Speaker 1>it from happening. Maybe that's what it is. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>my head went, certainly, like say it's your girlfriend or

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<v Speaker 1>something like. It's not just like some random hookup, Like

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<v Speaker 1>say it's your girlfriend, because that's typically when you would

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<v Speaker 1>accounter that. I feel like a girl is almost ashamed

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, oh, I'm on my period. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think we should do this for you're sick. But in

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<v Speaker 1>my eyes, I'm like, I don't care, no exactly, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's more of you know, it's it's it's a nice gesture.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they're just being mindful toys, right, Maybe they're

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to be like, well, I'm gonna lie, that's

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<v Speaker 1>where my head went. But I also hear the other side,

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<v Speaker 1>like I like, I don't know, you're just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>not like proud of it. You're not like this is happening.

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<v Speaker 1>You're kind of like, hey, sorry, Like honestly, it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of messy. Well it's messy and also as I'm sure,

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<v Speaker 1>god we're getting really graphic. But as a guy, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if you do involve yourself in relations while a girl

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<v Speaker 1>is going through that time of her month, like it

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<v Speaker 1>does you know it gets on you. Well that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's fine too. I'm fine with that, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand why a female with actually I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>sure if I feel comfidab. This is also another fun

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<v Speaker 1>fact as a girlfriend, not even just a hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean in a relationship, we actually release I forget

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<v Speaker 1>the scent on our period that makes us more attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to men um I forget what it's called pero, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>like a pheromone. I should probably have my facts before

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<v Speaker 1>I present this to the table. But do you know

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<v Speaker 1>we become more attractive to men through like there are pheromones.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's actually funny. Is in this article about the emoji,

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<v Speaker 1>the period emoji, they're saying with that release, they're also

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<v Speaker 1>releasing a perfume. That's what it is. It's like and

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<v Speaker 1>it makes guys. Well. It was actually kind of excited

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<v Speaker 1>cause I was like, okay, so I am being accurate

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm this is actually a thing. But you like

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<v Speaker 1>release this pheromone and it becomes and it's like on

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<v Speaker 1>your period, we become more attractive. There are two men.

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<v Speaker 1>There are articles that have kill it when you know

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<v Speaker 1>articles that have been written that say, as a guy,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're going out to a bar, you should uh

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<v Speaker 1>service yourself before you go out because you release the

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<v Speaker 1>pheromone that women find attractive. I have never heard that before.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard it before. Wikipedia doesn't Countia Street Journalist scripture.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and I'm confused. So you're saying that women release

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<v Speaker 1>the scent that men can smell. Yes, it's like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like subconscious, You're not like, oh, the smell just happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's just yeah, exactly, like alright, a little weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but yes, like you know, like it's something that happens consciously,

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<v Speaker 1>almost in a round, because like you don't really smell

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<v Speaker 1>the set, but it makes us more enticing to met

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<v Speaker 1>on our period. And on the flip, the flip side

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<v Speaker 1>of that is men servicing themselves before they go out,

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<v Speaker 1>because women subconsciously pick up on something. There's a there's

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<v Speaker 1>an article on the Independent. It's it's headlined when women

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<v Speaker 1>are at their most fertile a time of the month,

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<v Speaker 1>they smell better. And that really blows back down to

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<v Speaker 1>the visceral things that we find attractive in women, like

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<v Speaker 1>birthing hips, big butts, big boobs, for feeding their children,

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<v Speaker 1>that we just don't even associate with each other anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I look at it because we've grown up. I

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<v Speaker 1>look at a butt that's really nice, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>associate with it. Those are great birthing hips. I just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it isn't mean, I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a really nice but you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because we're comes so disconnected from these humanistic feelings

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<v Speaker 1>that we just don't even know what to relate them

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<v Speaker 1>back to. Actually the practical reasons. Why No, that's really

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<v Speaker 1>interesting because it makes sense why are we attracted certain

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<v Speaker 1>parts of the body and why are we not attracted?

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<v Speaker 1>And then, if I'm sorry for the language, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say it again, it works with us mentally because then

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<v Speaker 1>we stigmatize things like menstruation even though it's a thing

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<v Speaker 1>that we are programmed and wired in our heads to

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<v Speaker 1>be attracted to, and now we're stuck hiding it from

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<v Speaker 1>each other. See this brings me into all types of

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<v Speaker 1>conversations right now, because is there's, like you say, butts

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<v Speaker 1>and and and all hips and birthing, and that's why

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<v Speaker 1>we're like boobs boos, and that's why we're trying, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>attract to those certain parts of the body, because it

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<v Speaker 1>all goes back to human nature and birthing, but we

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<v Speaker 1>don't even think of that. It makes me curious on

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<v Speaker 1>the other side of why are we not attracted things

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<v Speaker 1>like feet? Like why are foot fetishes? Why is there

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<v Speaker 1>a stigma there? I'm curious if that relates to this

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm just literally my mind is all over place now.

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<v Speaker 1>But It's interesting, isn't it? Like? Why is there stigmature?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that? Why are people? I wonder if there's something

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<v Speaker 1>to do with human nature of maybe just the natural

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<v Speaker 1>smell things, Why would someone be attracted to a foot

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<v Speaker 1>more so than another person? I think it's what you're asking. Maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>well you're saying, you're saying people are attracted to butts

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<v Speaker 1>because subconsciously we don't even think about it. But it

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<v Speaker 1>goes back to birthing, right for men to women. That's

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<v Speaker 1>that across the board, right, men are attracted And obviously

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<v Speaker 1>it's a blanket statement that applies the stereotype of the population.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're just speaking. And then there's one foot fetishes

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<v Speaker 1>exactly Why do you think that is? Maybe just like

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<v Speaker 1>a mental misfired in your neurons? Yeah, but what if

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<v Speaker 1>women gave birth from their feet? Do you think people

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<v Speaker 1>more attracted? Well, yes, of course it interest So Freud

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<v Speaker 1>claimed that foot fetishes start because feet resemble penises. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>so you're saying, and it's similar to yeah, seen amos

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<v Speaker 1>cared and the tiny man blah. For the listeners out there,

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<v Speaker 1>they're very normal sized. Feed what's size about your normal twelve? Oh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be good. I'm just kidding into that means

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<v Speaker 1>nothing big. What were you going to say before that time?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you proud of? Alright, let's stop talking about Dean's penis,

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about my feet. Do we have time for

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<v Speaker 1>one email or should Yeah? I think we should do too.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do too all right? Um, Let's do anonymous because

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<v Speaker 1>Anonymous sorrow is my favorites and they're all from anonymous. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>man annot loves our show email. Let's do the one

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<v Speaker 1>that asked about my infertility issue. Yeah, let's do that one.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to read it for us? Yes? Absolutely? It

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<v Speaker 1>says I love that Dean brought up how he went

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<v Speaker 1>to a fertility clinic because he was serned he was infertile.

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<v Speaker 1>Would love for you guys to go more in depth

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<v Speaker 1>on the male side of infertility issues. It's funny that

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<v Speaker 1>this is It's funny that this is an email on

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<v Speaker 1>today's podcast because we're talking so much about the subject. Right. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that there is a trade ingrained in all

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<v Speaker 1>of us, whether we can identify it or not, that

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<v Speaker 1>uh encourages us to procreate. And if there's any ever,

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<v Speaker 1>if there's ever any doubt in our minds, that we

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<v Speaker 1>have an inability to procreate. We start to focus on

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<v Speaker 1>it and it becomes like a mental issue. Um. So

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<v Speaker 1>for me personally, like I said, I was twenty four,

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<v Speaker 1>had never had a pregnancy scare, and I've had friends

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<v Speaker 1>that are like, oh yeah, like she was a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days later on her period. I never experienced that

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<v Speaker 1>um with my long term girlfriend. Uh, never never had

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<v Speaker 1>that issue. So I was like, maybe there's something wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with me. And I ran through the process of like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if Dean, if you're infertile and you come back and

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<v Speaker 1>it says you can't have kids, because I want kids,

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to have my own kids. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to pass my genealogy on the next want to pass

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<v Speaker 1>that size ten and to pass these little baby feed

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<v Speaker 1>onto the next generation. And I was I started mentally

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<v Speaker 1>preparing myself. I'm like, look, if you get these results

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<v Speaker 1>back and they say that you can't have children, what's

1:14:08.880 --> 1:14:10.720
<v Speaker 1>your next step of action going to be? What's your

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<v Speaker 1>course of action. I've always wanted to adopt. I would

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<v Speaker 1>have no issue adopting, but I want to have my

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<v Speaker 1>blood in uh some offspring. So I was like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll just take your brother's sperm and have it artificially

1:14:20.880 --> 1:14:23.599
<v Speaker 1>inseminated in your wife. Hopefully she'd be okay with that idea.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just want your brother would be okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing, and I would have to bring it

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<v Speaker 1>up with him. I would have to make sure that,

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<v Speaker 1>like I would be okay raising my brother's kid. Technically,

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<v Speaker 1>there was like a lot of issues that I had

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with. UM meant to mentally prepare myself for

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<v Speaker 1>that situation, and it's not easy for for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously women you always wonder about, uh, you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be able to have children in your

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<v Speaker 1>thirties or if you're if you can you know, even

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<v Speaker 1>have a child. A lot of people aren't able to

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<v Speaker 1>which is always very sad um, but you don't really

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<v Speaker 1>think of it from the men's perspective. So for me

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<v Speaker 1>to go to that fertility clinic and objectively be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>my my swimmers are fine. What is the process entail,

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<v Speaker 1>it's I mean, it's pretty much what you expect. You

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<v Speaker 1>go into a cup and then you get a little magazine.

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<v Speaker 1>You go in the room for you know, twenty seconds. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have to like wait for a phone call?

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<v Speaker 1>Do they have a report for you are on a

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<v Speaker 1>percentage like one out of ten. So they make you

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<v Speaker 1>go twice. Um, you do it twice and how long

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get really personal and intimate, So please do and

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<v Speaker 1>probably over sure. I don't think I've ever shared the story,

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<v Speaker 1>even with someone my closest friends. They So I was

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<v Speaker 1>moving to Los Angeles and during the move, I knew

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<v Speaker 1>that there was a clinic in Los Angeles that I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to get tested at, and so because of that,

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<v Speaker 1>I was there a specific clinical It was just it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like that was the one that I found, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and so and as I was moving to l A,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, that's the place that I'm gonna go.

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<v Speaker 1>The move took, you know, two or three weeks, And

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<v Speaker 1>during those three weeks, I was like, look, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to self service, You're not going to hook up

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<v Speaker 1>with anyone. You're going to have the strongest, most potent

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<v Speaker 1>uh sample you possibly can have. So I get there

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<v Speaker 1>after three weeks of of of nothing, uh do it

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<v Speaker 1>in the cup, right, and then they're like, Okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>need you to come back in four days and supply

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<v Speaker 1>a second sample, because that's just we we have two samples.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, to kind of gauge consistency. And they're like

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<v Speaker 1>they came back eventually and they're like, everything's fine, but

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to let you know, for some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>your first sample was a lot different than your second sample.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, well, yeah, you told him it

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<v Speaker 1>had been three weeks at that point. In a few

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<v Speaker 1>days after, but it was like this weird thing they were.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like they called me like super concerned. They're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to tell you there was a big

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<v Speaker 1>inconsistency with their samples. But what kind of inconsistency are

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<v Speaker 1>we talking about? Like did you give them like our

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<v Speaker 1>court The first time it was a lot, Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a very interesting maybe like a two personal

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<v Speaker 1>of a story, but it was a lot. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the second one, I was just like I didn't care

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like, Okay, they already got like my

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<v Speaker 1>my best swimmers, like my strongest ones yea, so like um,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like they're they told me, they're like, everything's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just think that you should know that you're

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<v Speaker 1>a little inconsistent. I was like, Okay, well that's fine

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<v Speaker 1>because I know exactly why. That's why that is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what oh, because you didn't wait four days because once

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Okay, let's ask Eastern that I didn't was

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<v Speaker 1>the last time you went three weeks list and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just putting this story together three weeks. There was

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<v Speaker 1>actually a time where I was this is um. I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of like in a long distance relationship. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't two months with yourself. You didn't had no urge

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<v Speaker 1>to It was crazy. It was the first time where

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<v Speaker 1>I really felt, you know, there's there's no urge to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. There's actually the best. There are some studies

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<v Speaker 1>again that are not on Wikipedia but actually published uh

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<v Speaker 1>professionally whatever, academically. That's say if men are able to

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<v Speaker 1>refrain from doing that, they're able to think more clearly,

1:17:48.479 --> 1:17:51.679
<v Speaker 1>They're able to focus on more constructive things. I promise

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<v Speaker 1>you I was still dumb as I was not George Costanza.

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<v Speaker 1>I've read those. There's some people online to say, if

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<v Speaker 1>you just don't do it, you'll be able to move

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<v Speaker 1>things with your mind. Like, okay, it written by a

1:18:02.920 --> 1:18:08.280
<v Speaker 1>woman just to be like Einstein wasn't specially just never masturbated.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, um, So we'll do one more email and

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<v Speaker 1>then wrap up another one from anonymous our favorite fan.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll read this one, which one perfect my friend is

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<v Speaker 1>crossing the line. It seems like I like the sexual

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<v Speaker 1>the sexting one, but all right, do that? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>do that one. Then I was just going through whatever

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<v Speaker 1>was in order to do what everyone like. So Anonymous says,

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<v Speaker 1>because we haven't really talked about this. We've talked about

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<v Speaker 1>it before, but not recently. The topic is is sexting cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>And obviously the first response that is yes, Let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>read the situation. My boyfriend and I have been together

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<v Speaker 1>for almost three years and I just found out through

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<v Speaker 1>and I just found out that he had sent dick

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<v Speaker 1>picks to one of my friends and continue to do

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<v Speaker 1>so for the first year of us living together. He's

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<v Speaker 1>admitted to it messaging on porn sites as well, but

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<v Speaker 1>never anything physical with anyone. He He says that he'll

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<v Speaker 1>see a therapist to find out why he has a

1:18:58.280 --> 1:19:01.400
<v Speaker 1>sexting urge when he feels physically and emotionally fulfilled in

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship. What would you do in this situation, Well, one,

1:19:06.960 --> 1:19:09.680
<v Speaker 1>I would dump him. Well, he says he's going to

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<v Speaker 1>see a therapist. That's a start. You definitely want someone

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna work on their issues. But it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he is giving a lot of people that aren't you

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<v Speaker 1>his attention, and it's attention that will figuratively ultimately lead

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<v Speaker 1>to sex, and that's a cheating. What if he's a

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<v Speaker 1>sex addict? Do you believe in that? I know, do

1:19:33.080 --> 1:19:35.800
<v Speaker 1>you believe in that? It doesn't seem like you do. Yeah, Tor,

1:19:38.560 --> 1:19:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I literally just had this conversation with my friend last

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<v Speaker 1>night and what was the Yes. Absolutely. I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of forms of addiction. The celebrities that have

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<v Speaker 1>come out recently claiming sex addiction. But then I also

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like men wanted four seven, seven days a

1:19:57.000 --> 1:20:00.479
<v Speaker 1>week whatever, Like is it? I think that you're just

1:20:01.520 --> 1:20:03.559
<v Speaker 1>he was very impulsive, Like I don't know if that's

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<v Speaker 1>a word I want to put addiction to. I think

1:20:05.400 --> 1:20:09.200
<v Speaker 1>it's just impulsive. I don't know. I'm not a secondodict.

1:20:09.200 --> 1:20:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Think it's just like anything in life, you know, where

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<v Speaker 1>there are people that actually have an addiction and have

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<v Speaker 1>an issue and they should go see therapist about it,

1:20:17.680 --> 1:20:19.680
<v Speaker 1>and there's also people that used it as a cop out,

1:20:19.960 --> 1:20:22.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, just like a lot of different areas of life.

1:20:22.520 --> 1:20:26.080
<v Speaker 1>I think it's an easy way to be like like

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I was cheating on high school and this

1:20:28.160 --> 1:20:30.400
<v Speaker 1>guy he was like, we were both really drunk, and

1:20:30.439 --> 1:20:33.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yep, Like why is that a cop out?

1:20:33.920 --> 1:20:36.200
<v Speaker 1>You know where it's like you chose to drink, you

1:20:36.280 --> 1:20:38.120
<v Speaker 1>chose me in that way, obviously you're still well to

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<v Speaker 1>do the act, so like you weren't that drunk. I

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<v Speaker 1>think what's worse about claiming addiction is it's almost like

1:20:42.800 --> 1:20:45.640
<v Speaker 1>you're turning around to make them feel sorry for you exactly.

1:20:45.680 --> 1:20:47.519
<v Speaker 1>That's no, That's what I'm saying. It's like it's a

1:20:47.600 --> 1:20:50.479
<v Speaker 1>head tilt response to be like, oh, I'm so sorry

1:20:50.600 --> 1:20:53.639
<v Speaker 1>you can be addicted. But there's like a whole lying

1:20:53.760 --> 1:20:56.559
<v Speaker 1>element to this and dishonesty, because like if he always

1:20:56.600 --> 1:20:58.400
<v Speaker 1>winter and said, hey, I'm having these urges that I

1:20:58.439 --> 1:21:01.840
<v Speaker 1>can't control, Like will you you know, I understand if

1:21:01.840 --> 1:21:03.000
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be with me anymore, but I'm

1:21:03.000 --> 1:21:04.960
<v Speaker 1>going to try to get help for this. That's what

1:21:05.080 --> 1:21:07.280
<v Speaker 1>he should have been. Instead he's like, I'm gonna send

1:21:07.280 --> 1:21:10.759
<v Speaker 1>pictures of my joint to a lot of that totally.

1:21:10.760 --> 1:21:12.360
<v Speaker 1>But in the email, she does say that he has

1:21:12.439 --> 1:21:16.519
<v Speaker 1>admitted to messaging on porn. Sometimes it's not her friends, No, exactly,

1:21:16.560 --> 1:21:19.000
<v Speaker 1>So those lies and there's so I'm sure that she

1:21:19.240 --> 1:21:21.880
<v Speaker 1>came to him. I was like, what the excuse me?

1:21:22.200 --> 1:21:24.599
<v Speaker 1>And then he was like, yep, I did do it,

1:21:24.680 --> 1:21:27.280
<v Speaker 1>and I've done this. He does say he's trying to

1:21:27.280 --> 1:21:28.880
<v Speaker 1>go see a therapist. Here's the thing about addictions that

1:21:28.880 --> 1:21:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I always say is that addictions are real, and but

1:21:33.360 --> 1:21:35.519
<v Speaker 1>you have to put effort in to try to solve them.

1:21:35.560 --> 1:21:37.599
<v Speaker 1>Like you can't just be like, I'm an addict. There's

1:21:37.600 --> 1:21:39.759
<v Speaker 1>nothing I can do, Like I tried, it didn't work.

1:21:40.120 --> 1:21:41.880
<v Speaker 1>That's not good enough for me. I agree with you.

1:21:42.080 --> 1:21:44.559
<v Speaker 1>But if somebody's like, hey, I'm a sex addict, but

1:21:45.000 --> 1:21:47.160
<v Speaker 1>they go to therapy or they try to fix the

1:21:47.160 --> 1:21:50.360
<v Speaker 1>issue and they get better, you know, that's a hard

1:21:50.360 --> 1:21:52.400
<v Speaker 1>thing for me to really look down upon. I just

1:21:52.880 --> 1:21:54.960
<v Speaker 1>my question is also for you guys, like, what's your

1:21:54.960 --> 1:21:56.840
<v Speaker 1>opinion on this. A lot of people say, well, if

1:21:56.880 --> 1:21:59.840
<v Speaker 1>you're an addict, that means so let's say you're an

1:22:00.080 --> 1:22:03.679
<v Speaker 1>call like you're addicted to alcohol. You you literally don't

1:22:03.720 --> 1:22:08.960
<v Speaker 1>have a drop of alcohol and you're sober. So is

1:22:09.200 --> 1:22:12.439
<v Speaker 1>addict kind of the wrong term to use for being

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<v Speaker 1>a sex addict because technically you can't go you could

1:22:14.960 --> 1:22:17.960
<v Speaker 1>go your life without sex, but like brutal, but like

1:22:20.360 --> 1:22:22.439
<v Speaker 1>especially for men. So I don't know. I'm like, is

1:22:22.439 --> 1:22:25.040
<v Speaker 1>it just a wrong terminology. Is it just being like, hey,

1:22:25.360 --> 1:22:28.800
<v Speaker 1>I am just kind of horning and like wanted it,

1:22:29.000 --> 1:22:32.719
<v Speaker 1>or because an addict technically as you can't control indulge

1:22:32.720 --> 1:22:35.160
<v Speaker 1>in it, like you can't indulge in it, you have

1:22:35.760 --> 1:22:38.280
<v Speaker 1>you can, but like you're going to be sober, then

1:22:38.320 --> 1:22:41.240
<v Speaker 1>you're like two years sober with no alcohol. You're right.

1:22:42.040 --> 1:22:44.439
<v Speaker 1>Sex addiction would have to be like consuming your every thought.

1:22:44.520 --> 1:22:46.439
<v Speaker 1>You're doing it at every given moment. You have the

1:22:46.439 --> 1:22:50.840
<v Speaker 1>ability to I don't know, unable to stop in the

1:22:50.840 --> 1:22:53.879
<v Speaker 1>face of like what dire consequence. That's that's what addiction

1:22:54.040 --> 1:22:56.280
<v Speaker 1>is like, when you really feel compelled to compelled to

1:22:56.280 --> 1:22:59.960
<v Speaker 1>do something in the in the face of negative repercussion,

1:23:00.160 --> 1:23:01.560
<v Speaker 1>you still do it. You know what I want to

1:23:01.560 --> 1:23:03.479
<v Speaker 1>talk about not right now but next podcast, because I

1:23:03.479 --> 1:23:05.360
<v Speaker 1>think it would be an interesting segment because Tori, you

1:23:05.360 --> 1:23:09.080
<v Speaker 1>said something, you said the idea of not having sex, right,

1:23:09.760 --> 1:23:13.839
<v Speaker 1>and you said that's a big issue, like especially for men. Yeah,

1:23:14.080 --> 1:23:16.439
<v Speaker 1>I wonder who has more of a sex drive, women

1:23:16.880 --> 1:23:19.120
<v Speaker 1>or men? Because I think the idea that men want

1:23:19.120 --> 1:23:22.679
<v Speaker 1>to have sex more is a wives tale. It sounds

1:23:22.720 --> 1:23:25.200
<v Speaker 1>like we're a great closer for tomorrow, I mean for

1:23:25.240 --> 1:23:26.800
<v Speaker 1>next week's I think we should talk about that on

1:23:26.880 --> 1:23:29.120
<v Speaker 1>next week's podcast. It sounds like actually wants to have

1:23:29.160 --> 1:23:31.920
<v Speaker 1>a lot more sex than Jared does. Well, that's an

1:23:31.920 --> 1:23:35.360
<v Speaker 1>inssumption that nobody was thinking. When can we just close

1:23:35.360 --> 1:23:38.519
<v Speaker 1>out on what? What do you guys think about this guy? Oh?

1:23:38.600 --> 1:23:40.759
<v Speaker 1>I think you should dump him. I think she should

1:23:40.840 --> 1:23:43.160
<v Speaker 1>see if he if he goes to therapy and he

1:23:43.360 --> 1:23:47.080
<v Speaker 1>actually gets better. I mean, I don't know. He did

1:23:47.120 --> 1:23:49.080
<v Speaker 1>cheat on you, so you, honestly, you're on the right

1:23:49.120 --> 1:23:50.640
<v Speaker 1>of the way. If you want to be patient and

1:23:50.680 --> 1:23:52.679
<v Speaker 1>work on it with him and see if he gets better,

1:23:52.800 --> 1:23:55.040
<v Speaker 1>if you love him that much, do it. Because if

1:23:55.080 --> 1:23:56.760
<v Speaker 1>you it really blois down to if you love him

1:23:56.800 --> 1:23:59.080
<v Speaker 1>that much and you're willing to see this through with him,

1:23:59.120 --> 1:24:00.920
<v Speaker 1>because to be fair, I mean not to be fair,

1:24:01.000 --> 1:24:03.439
<v Speaker 1>the guy was in the wrong, but it wasn't physical cheating.

1:24:03.680 --> 1:24:06.840
<v Speaker 1>That doesn't make it better. Um. But if he works

1:24:06.880 --> 1:24:08.720
<v Speaker 1>on it and she wants to, you know, work this

1:24:09.400 --> 1:24:12.400
<v Speaker 1>out with him, no pun intended. UM, go with it.

1:24:12.439 --> 1:24:13.719
<v Speaker 1>And if you want to break up with him because

1:24:13.760 --> 1:24:16.400
<v Speaker 1>you're you're in the right. It sounds like to me

1:24:16.479 --> 1:24:19.320
<v Speaker 1>is like this guy likes to seek the attention validation

1:24:19.360 --> 1:24:21.519
<v Speaker 1>of other people, so it sounds like one person is

1:24:21.520 --> 1:24:23.519
<v Speaker 1>just not gonna be enough for him right now. Yeah,

1:24:23.680 --> 1:24:26.519
<v Speaker 1>totally right. That's a good that's a good analogy, not analogy.

1:24:26.600 --> 1:24:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Good hint, Thank you. I think it was as well.

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