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Speaker 1: I, nineteen female, am being excluded from our gaming group.

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Speaker 1: I decided to find a new group. Boyfriend twenty male

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Speaker 1: is the one upset. I would never be excluded from

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Speaker 1: a gaming group.

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Speaker 2: Tell us more.

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Speaker 3: So, g majem jemma keep going, he does.

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Speaker 1: I am in a gaming group that has about ten

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Speaker 1: members eighteen to twenty five female slash Mail, including my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend and I. A month ago, I had a fallout

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Speaker 1: with a member in the group who who I'll call

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Speaker 1: Roger twenty five male. Basically, I don't like Roger. All

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Speaker 1: he ever does is degrade and talk about how women

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Speaker 1: are backstabbing bees who you can never trust.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oh I thought I was thinking like

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Speaker 4: actual beats, sorry.

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Speaker 1: You never trust, and how much he loves to smooth

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Speaker 1: and those are connecting statements.

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Speaker 2: That's awesome, sounds like my best friend.

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Speaker 1: Concerning hearing those things constantly became a drag. So I

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Speaker 1: decided that I didn't want to be around him anymore. Ever,

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Speaker 1: since I cut off contact, I've been excluded from games

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Speaker 1: where Roger plays because he doesn't want me there. Even

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend told me not to join because it'll piss

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Speaker 1: off Roger. Obviously, I don't want to play with Roger either,

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Speaker 1: so this is fine with me. The thing is, when

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Speaker 1: Roger's playing, I'm excluded from the group as I can't

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Speaker 1: play with anyone else because they're all playing with Roger.

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Speaker 1: This happens three to four days every week, and they

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Speaker 1: play for five to six hours a day.

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Speaker 5: This is eight Yeah probably D and D. Yeah, it

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Speaker 5: sounds like D and D. But I'm like, sometimes Roger's

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Speaker 5: not there. Eight like hours and hours four.

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Speaker 1: Days a week is a lot to play D and D.

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Speaker 1: Five to six hours is not like that is a

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Speaker 1: regular time.

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Speaker 2: Regular time to play one game with D and D. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: a session takes a long time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they're long session or is like a short amount

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Speaker 1: of hours. Yeah, but three to four days is a lot.

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Speaker 2: That's time. Yeah, I do. I played a bunch of

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Speaker 2: games too. It's good. So he is trying to do

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Speaker 2: a D and D game.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, I'm excited. But back to this story.

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Speaker 1: I'm really shy, so I don't talk much in the

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Speaker 1: group games besides doing the usual call outs. I know

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Speaker 1: everyone would much rather play with Roger than me, since

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Speaker 1: he's more outgoing and fun to them, so I don't interfere.

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Speaker 1: Even so, I still feel for being left out constantly.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend didn't even defend me the first time I

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Speaker 1: was excluded horrible. He just told me to not join

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Speaker 1: ever again and left it at that.

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Speaker 2: Sir, God, sir.

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Speaker 1: Only one other person in the group has defended me,

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Speaker 1: and that's my best friend nineteen mail since middle school.

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Speaker 1: When I first told him about the situation, he got

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Speaker 1: really angry and asked me if I wanted him to

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Speaker 1: stop playing with Roger too. I know my boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: best friend loved playing with Roger, though, so I didn't

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Speaker 1: ask them to stop. Last night, Roger and the group

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Speaker 1: were all playing again. I decided to look for some

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Speaker 1: other group groups online to play with because being alone

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Speaker 1: sucks well.

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Speaker 5: On a break, so she's on her laptop, like off

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Speaker 5: to the side, ten people just laugh and have a

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Speaker 5: jolly old time.

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Speaker 2: She's like, it's like.

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Speaker 1: I need so bad, this is so sad.

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Speaker 2: Are they playing online?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: I think they're playing in person, but she's looking for

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Speaker 1: groups online.

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Speaker 2: To play with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: On a break from his game, my boyfriend asked what

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Speaker 1: I was doing. I told him casually that I was

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Speaker 1: looking for a new gaming group to play with. His

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Speaker 1: reaction was not what I was expecting. He got up

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Speaker 1: He said, don't come back get me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why would you leave? I only told you.

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Speaker 1: I told you to leave. I told him, since I'm

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Speaker 1: being excluded from our old group so often, I may

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Speaker 1: as well find a new group to play with because

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Speaker 1: I obviously don't fit in anymore. Even after my answers,

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Speaker 1: he would keep asking me why I couldn't just stay

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Speaker 1: it weekly. At that point, I told my boyfriend to

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Speaker 1: stop talking to me about the subject and to leave it.

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Speaker 1: He then said to me that I was overreacting to

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Speaker 1: rant about why I couldn't just be happy for once

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Speaker 1: since he still plays with me daily. My boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: I do play daily, but we play alone with just

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Speaker 1: us too, since no one else in the group can

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Speaker 1: play at the times we're online. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Being excluded from playing with everyone else is what makes

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Speaker 1: me feel like shit. Not being excluded from playing with

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend. I told him that if I find a

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Speaker 1: new group, I would always play with him first, no

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Speaker 1: matter what. However, I just want to find a new

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Speaker 1: group to play with when he and everyone else are

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Speaker 1: playing with Roger, since I can't join in the first place,

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Speaker 1: and playing alone sex. He said fine in an annoyed tone,

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Speaker 1: and we looked it at that. We haven't spoken about

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Speaker 1: it since, but I can tell he's upset over it.

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Speaker 1: Am I really overreacting to the situation. Do I just

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Speaker 1: ignore my boyfriend for now? Do I say something? This

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Speaker 1: is the first time I've ever seen him so upset

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Speaker 1: over something I did. I'm not sure what to do.

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Speaker 1: And there is an update.

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Speaker 2: Something she did.

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Speaker 4: Somebody who wants to play with you, which is you

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Speaker 4: want to play with them?

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Speaker 2: Excluded they shouldn't hang out with Roger.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sorry, but you can't hang out with someone who's like.

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Speaker 1: He seems blatantly misogynistic.

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Speaker 2: That guy, it was Roger, the one that everyone likes.

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Speaker 2: We love Roger women so hilarious. I wonder.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so she said that the group ranged from eighteen

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Speaker 5: to twenty five. I wonder if it's a bunch of

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Speaker 5: like eighteen nineteen year old dudes that are like, you know,

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Speaker 5: Roger's like twenty five, and he's really freaking living.

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Speaker 2: Life with old season.

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Speaker 5: You're freaking hating dad, just like insulting women, Like yeah,

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Speaker 5: what op.

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Speaker 1: Is nineteen and then the boyfriend is twenty, so they

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Speaker 1: are a couple of years younger.

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Speaker 2: Than Roger and Roger twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Roger knows everything about the world.

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Speaker 2: Leader, He's the leader of the pack. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Listen, guys, I'm around the block.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you get so much weed. You can't hang out

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Speaker 2: with that guy?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, but it's I mean, it's a red flag

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Speaker 4: that the boyfriend is just going along with all.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Also, break up with the boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, break up with that dude. Break up with

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Speaker 2: the boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: Ye, tak him out, tak him out, take him out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: But also like I don't know why the boyfriend's met Like,

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Speaker 5: if she actually is wanting to stay with a boyfriend,

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Speaker 5: then I would not advise.

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Speaker 2: Her to do that.

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Speaker 5: But it sounds like the boyfriend, I don't know why

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Speaker 5: he would be mad that she's trying.

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Speaker 2: To gain with other people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he told her that she can't play with them

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Speaker 1: as it's controlling. Yeah. There we have it.

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Speaker 2: We have a baby, but there is an update.

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Speaker 1: Thank you everyone for all the advice, and thank you

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Speaker 1: to those that also offered to play with me. I

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Speaker 1: wasn't expecting my post to get so many flies.

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Speaker 2: Sweet.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, I had some unrelated to family business, so I

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Speaker 1: couldn't respond to you all. However, I have read everything

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Speaker 1: and have taken all your words into consideration. Some people

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Speaker 1: have also asked me questions about how we can play

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Speaker 1: so often as we asked, yeah, how long I've been

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Speaker 1: background skip to the next line if you don't want.

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Speaker 2: To read it. We do. We do.

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Speaker 1: First off, most of us are college students eighteen to twenty,

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Speaker 1: either working part time or staying at home with our parents.

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Speaker 1: As of right now, most of us are on summer break.

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Speaker 1: We only have two older members in the group, which

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Speaker 1: are Roger twenty five mail, other guy twenty three male.

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Speaker 1: The rest of us are or fall under twenty. Roger's

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Speaker 1: has tons of free.

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Speaker 2: Lunt so much the worst what He's a.

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Speaker 4: Free Rogers just sitting out here gaming with a bunch

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Speaker 2: Mary cash in hand yeah.

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Speaker 1: Saying that he hates all women as his like wife is.

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Speaker 2: Paying every stick. Dude, what do you say? I totally

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Speaker 2: miss that?

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Speaker 1: Hold on old on Wait, he says backstapitches who you

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Speaker 1: can never trust.

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Speaker 2: He said women are backstabbinges you can never trust. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The two things we know about Roger is that he

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Speaker 1: And he loves to smoke weed and do drugs.

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Speaker 2: And he's married his wife.

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Speaker 1: Ye makes all the cats we know about Roger. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and he's twenty five starry. It's four things.

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Speaker 2: He's like.

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Speaker 5: He's like, women are so dumb they'll marry a twenty

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Speaker 1: Oh, and then if he can news. Second about my boyfriend. Surprisingly,

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Speaker 1: we met through the gaming group as he was the

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Speaker 1: started dating. My boyfriend has known Roger for about three years,

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Speaker 1: so they're close friends. However, Roger did not join the

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Speaker 1: because he thought it'd be fun to have him there too.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know much of Roger other than that he

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Speaker 1: was my boyfriend's friend until he joined the group. So

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Speaker 1: after I posted my original post, I signed up for

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Speaker 1: two different groups. The first one was an all women's

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Speaker 1: group sixteen twenty female. They responded to me pretty quickly.

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Speaker 1: They were very nice and polite, but explained that they

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Speaker 1: only play once to twice a week. Unfortunately, that didn't

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Speaker 1: cut to the week.

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Speaker 2: What game they.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm obsessed with this game. I understand at summer break,

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Speaker 1: but you know.

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Speaker 5: Doesn't hit my quota touch Yeah, go for a while.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Unfortunately.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So the second group responded to me the next day

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Speaker 1: and I learned that they were more active, but they're

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Speaker 1: also in all men's groups seventeen to nineteen mail. However,

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Speaker 1: they were open to having me there. At first, I

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Speaker 1: felt pretty sketched. But the oldest and most popular guy like.

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Speaker 2: This weird factions.

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Speaker 1: The guy he's still in high school.

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Speaker 1: Shouldn't have to say she shouldn't have to tell him that.

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Speaker 5: That would be also him being like, I thought you

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Speaker 1: That's the only reason I'm apologizing.

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Speaker 5: Roger is so funny, five, he's so cool.

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Speaker 1: Then around the time when I decided to stop hanging

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Speaker 1: everyone understands that's crazy. Everyone, and to my shock, even

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Speaker 2: Finally it is too latest. He's like, okay, I go

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, Roger was not allowed to play with them anymore,

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Speaker 1: after all that has happened. I'm not mad at my boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Oh, but you should be.

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Speaker 1: This is both of our first relationship and we're still learning.

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Speaker 1: He's always been kind to me and I've never had

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Speaker 1: I've lost my place.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I feel happy that he realized his mistakes and did

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Speaker 5: Except for the time where Rogers said, I'm not going

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Speaker 1: He told me he would also like me to come

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Speaker 1: I will definitely be sticking with my new group from

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Speaker 1: I have been spending more time together now that Are

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Speaker 1: he's not even Roger anymore. He's just Are isn't around

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Speaker 1: as much. I have also continued playing with my new group,

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Speaker 1: and it's been awesome. If you made it this far.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for reading this long update. Thank you guys. Once again, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't really like how it ended.

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Speaker 1: There are some relevant comments.

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Speaker 5: Oh like a little flag. Yeah, Roger sucks. Boyfriend sucks,

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Speaker 5: best friend sucks. We should play with her.

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Speaker 2: Exactly? Is that really? It's not? Probably not your best

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Speaker 5: But she's like no, buts there She says, like my

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think op is like in like this puppy

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Speaker 5: Like, oh no, it's okay, Like I think a low

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Speaker 1: Relationship, right, She's like this is normal, like we're learning,

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Speaker 1: but no, this is it sucks not to do.

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Speaker 5: Roger's like a super villain to be. I could be

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Speaker 5: in the same room as Roger. So it's like crazy

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Speaker 1: Well, he seems like he's like that type of personality

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Speaker 2: This of the group. But these little gamer boys are

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Speaker 5: I want to know what game they're playing so bad? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: they always do this to us. They always like leave

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I feel like it's got to be some

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Speaker 5: Ten people in the group, Yeah right, like who the.

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Speaker 1: Kind of team game? But there are some Eleman comments

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Speaker 1: All he ever does is degrade and talk about how

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Speaker 1: It's sad, but some people are just like that quote.

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Speaker 1: Roger's actually married and his wife makes good banks, so

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Speaker 1: back with money?

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Speaker 2: That's what you wondering? What is that? What back with money?

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Speaker 6: Like he's like, because he's a he's funny, you know.

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Speaker 1: She says, Yeah, I thought that was kind of weird too.

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Speaker 1: He talked about women all the time, but he's married,

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Speaker 1: Sounds like Roger has an inferiority complex and I'm betting

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Speaker 1: he'll soon also have a divorce to go with it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Davianna Morgan says, OPI, I hope you're reconsidering your relationship

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Speaker 1: Opie says, I'm definitely reconsidering it. I did confront him

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Speaker 2: He's doubling down. Yeah, yeah, did you what he said?

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Speaker 1: He said he didn't want to tell me because he

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Speaker 1: the grass there, very two faced. Pernes says, probably hoping

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Speaker 1: then he could swoop in with her, none the wiser

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Speaker 1: he was part of the reason she got pushed out.

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Speaker 1: Opie says, I certainly hope not, but now I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: For starters, my best friend is gay. Despite Roger's attitude,

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Speaker 1: He's a charmer and caught my best friend's attention for sure,

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Speaker 1: And that's.

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Speaker 5: She's implying like her best friend of a question at Roger. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: so he was like, yeah, anyway, my friend sucks in

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Speaker 1: At first, I thought he agreed with Roger because he

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Speaker 1: he was attracted to guys, he said he finds me

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Speaker 1: It was I really hope that's not the case.

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Speaker 2: Though, but it is the case. He just said, I

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Speaker 5: Wanted you out of the gaming group and then also

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. It was like, oh my god. I was

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Speaker 2: like wiggling around. I was like, oh, maybe it's.

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Speaker 1: Where is this going.

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Speaker 5: It's what the commenter said right where he was like

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Speaker 5: he was trying to get her out of here, quickly

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Speaker 5: and then sweep it and be like, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: I'm so sorry, SOLS just kicked you out of the group.

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Speaker 2: Let me be your shoulder.

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Speaker 1: He was like, no, no, no, I couldn't possibly be it

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Speaker 1: because he's gay. But then again, he did tell me

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's yeah. Wow, you need to do friends op.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, new gaming.

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Speaker 2: They have that new game group. Yeah, they stick with them. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: It's just like have friends that are just normal. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: Like I feel like everyone is playing a weird dimensional

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Speaker 5: chess game with each other in the game they're playing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so weird. Yeah. Actually that's for advice. That's great.

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Speaker 2: Just leave everyone.

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Speaker 1: I think that's for today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, go on a walk for thirty years miles, we

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Speaker 1: we had all unperfect people today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely.

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Speaker 5: If you could share with the people where they could

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Speaker 5: learn to become a perfect person, absolutely well. You can

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Speaker 5: callers on the show every week and they call me

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Speaker 5: with their problems and I solve them expertly with the

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Speaker 5: help of special guests on the show.

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Speaker 2: There we go. Guys, if you call into your show,

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Speaker 2: let them know that you came from here. Yeah. Absolutely,

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Speaker 2: please doom. But if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 5: We totally should have prepped you for that.

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Speaker 2: This is an episode from deep within the archives.

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Speaker 5: Time for okop relam.

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Speaker 4: I'm mad at my wife for backing out a Thanksgiving

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Speaker 4: because my mom didn't like her cookies.

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Speaker 5: You know, if someone doesn't like your cookies, I think

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Speaker 5: that's grounds for leaving the family.

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Speaker 4: Let's see if this person's dable. Context for every holiday,

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Speaker 4: my mother would ask the woman in the family, my sister,

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Speaker 4: sister in law, my wife, my female cousins to send

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Speaker 4: samples of the desserts they plan to bring to the

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Speaker 4: celebration for testing, to see if these desserts could make

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Speaker 4: it to the food menu, the prestigious food menu. My

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Speaker 4: wife has been complaining about my mother deliberately rejecting every

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Speaker 4: dessert sample. She said, so savage God. So many times

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Speaker 4: my mother has told her that she's being honest and

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Speaker 4: keeping the guests best interest at heart, not letting your

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Speaker 4: shit wo covin.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm letting your disgusting piece of filth wife cook

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Speaker 5: a cookie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: My wife still thought that my mother was deliberately excluding her,

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Speaker 4: since two of her dessert samples were rejected before.

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Speaker 2: This is so weird. This is such a weird dessert sample.

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Speaker 2: This thing is very strange. I don't like it.

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Speaker 4: For this year's girl says, my mother is doing the

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Speaker 4: same thing, but this time, he said, just like a

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Speaker 4: dessert sample. She told every woman who was participating to

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Speaker 4: make a cookie sample and send it to her for testing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my wife took.

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Speaker 4: It as a challenge, and to be honest, she worked

497
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Speaker 4: really hard to make a good sample and sent it

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Speaker 4: to my mother days ago and the results just came

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Speaker 4: in yesterday. What is this fucking like a weird show?

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Speaker 5: And like op is like so useless, Like oh yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's it's the desert. And it's like, bro, why why

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Speaker 5: are you like doing this with all Like what what

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Speaker 5: is this?

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Speaker 2: What is this for competition? Literally? Like what the hell?

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Speaker 4: I came home from work and found my wife upset.

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Speaker 4: I asked her what's wrong, and she told me that

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Speaker 4: my mother rejected the sample she sent and decided to

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Speaker 4: exclude her baking from the Foodless Slash menu for Christmas

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Speaker 4: this year.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. I didn't know what to.

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Speaker 4: Say, but she then told me she was backing out

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Speaker 4: of the invitation to attend Christmas with my family. I

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Speaker 4: was stunned when I heard her make this statement. I

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Speaker 4: tried to talk to her, but she said it was

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Speaker 4: done I called her unreasonable decide to bail on the

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Speaker 4: whole family over some cookie sample. That's just freaking crazy

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Speaker 4: and quite unreasonable. But to be fair, the cookie see

518
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Speaker 4: up like shit is unreasonable in the first place.

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Speaker 2: What the hell is that shit?

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Speaker 4: Literally we had a full on argument about it, and

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Speaker 4: she stated that my mother caused this, but I told

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Speaker 4: her that my mother is pretty serious and careful about

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Speaker 4: the fuji offers to the guests since we were going

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Speaker 4: to have relatives from all all sides of the country.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you told me to stop mentioning it. Later

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Speaker 4: I heard her cry despite telling her that her baking

527
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Speaker 4: is amazing and people have preferences, that's all. So am

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Speaker 4: I the a hole for insisting that her decision wasn't reasonable.

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Speaker 2: Who cares about your stupid fucking like what are we

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Speaker 2: doing here? Like? Bring it so simple?

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Speaker 5: Anyone who wants to cook something, You bring a thing,

532
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Speaker 5: you set it out, and people eat it or they don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's so sick that the people decide it's so it's

534
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Speaker 5: so so simple.

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Speaker 2: But maybe they're.

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Speaker 4: Doing something where it's like they're like they have a

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Speaker 4: dish that's pretty set and they're giving it to everyone.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, maybe, but also like, like, if you

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Speaker 5: think about it like this, logistically speaking, you're like, you

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Speaker 5: have family coming in for all over the place. You

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Speaker 5: need a lot of food. Yeah, so you would probably

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Speaker 5: excluding people. You would want as much food as possible

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Speaker 5: to make it as easy as possible and have as

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Speaker 5: much options as possible. It's ridiculous. But there's some more updates.

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Speaker 5: Oh God, if you're asking whose cookie sample made it

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Speaker 5: to the menu, the answer is my sister and my

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Speaker 5: two cousins.

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Speaker 4: Some more info. My wife wasn't the only one who

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Speaker 4: sample was projected. We have sister in law's brother's wife

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Speaker 4: and my younger sisters. My mother did not force anyone

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Speaker 4: to participate. It was up to whoever who wanted to

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Speaker 4: take part. This is just about the dessert since my

553
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Speaker 4: mother tends to be very careful in this category, but

554
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Speaker 4: for other types of food dishes, appetiser, salad, stuff like that,

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Speaker 4: she's more welcome to more people.

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Speaker 5: This setup is dumb as fuck, it's weird, dumb as fuck,

557
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Speaker 5: and he doesn't realize it because he's like grown up. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: this is a stupid and nobody should do this.

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Speaker 2: Update.

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Speaker 4: So I just got off the phone with my brother,

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Speaker 4: and he told me that his wife is doing the

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Speaker 4: same thing as my wife and that she has backed

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Speaker 4: out of the invitation to spend Christmas with my family

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Speaker 4: as well. Turns out my wife must have told her

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Speaker 4: about her decision and she decided to follow her lead.

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Speaker 4: My brother's pissed, saying, my wife is encouraging a rebellion.

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Speaker 2: I see that the problem that's gotten bigger now.

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Speaker 4: Who knows my younger sister if I joined in and

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Speaker 4: decided not to go as well, I know it. Know

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Speaker 4: how to control this, and it's gotten down to control

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Speaker 4: so quickly. I guess we'll try to have a discussion

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Speaker 4: with my mother about this soon and see how it goes.

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Speaker 2: This is so funny. He's so stupid. Really backfired on him. Wow,