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Speaker 1: My name is Millie to Cherico of Daniel Henderson, and

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Speaker 1: we want to do for our first bonus episode. We

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Speaker 1: it right. We were talking a lot about quarantine as we're.

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Speaker 2: Still in and have been in for many many months.

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Speaker 1: And you know we're just kind of catched up with

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Speaker 1: So we we figured we'd probably just talk about that.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to talk a little bit about a couple

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Speaker 1: So before we get into it, we've decided that we're

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Speaker 1: going to choose a handful of things that are kind

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Speaker 1: of getting us through quarantine, and that can be like books, music, television, things, apps,

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Speaker 1: I want to ask Danielle, because this is truly fascinating

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's so that is tough. I remember the last

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Speaker 4: And it's kind of it's it's Moby's Restaurant.

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Speaker 3: Some if you don't live in la Like, maybe you've

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Speaker 4: And he was what's funny to you about that night?

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Speaker 3: Is it? Not? Only was I seeing a friend from

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Speaker 2: Now to tell me, tell me, tell me.

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Speaker 4: But I want to hear this story.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, do you want to hear my lame

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Speaker 2: I guarantee you mind's labor.

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Speaker 4: I was actually good. Okay, try to thank you.

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Speaker 4: Oh see, that's a good one. I know.

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Speaker 3: It was so good, and I remember I was in

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Speaker 4: Oh god, it was. It was such a good movie.

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Speaker 3: But it was such a good day, like just to

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Speaker 1: Because I've always had a crush on Henry Thomas always.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember when we went and saw ad Astra

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Speaker 1: So we go to a rowdy screening, which is basically

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Speaker 1: The thing about this browdy screening is that you just

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Speaker 3: Let's say they earn this rowdy viewing into a super

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Speaker 1: Yes, I remember sitting in the movie theater going, should

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Speaker 1: Now I'm sitting there going like having a bad time

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Speaker 1: And it's it's like and it feels like just the

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Speaker 4: I know, we got to get you to a drive

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Speaker 1: Well, listen, I'm so glad that you had a great

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Speaker 2: Let's just get real.

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Speaker 4: It was always such a good movie. It was such good.

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Speaker 3: We have to talk about it on an episode. It

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Speaker 1: I said, has now like broken it up a lot

441
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 1: more for me, because there was the first five months

442
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 1: or so where I was alone in LA and then

443
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,560
Speaker 1: now I'm with my family, and that has a whole

444
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: different vibe, as you can imagine, from going from being

445
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:45,479
Speaker 1: completely alone to like being within my parents and you know,

446
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,879
Speaker 1: now I have like two little nephews around and my

447
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,160
Speaker 1: sister and her husband, so it's kind of like it's

448
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 1: a different vibe. But I was going to ask you,

449
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 1: so we were talking about when we started, like, what

450
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 1: are some things that are kind of just like getting

451
00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 1: me through stuff that is just kind of keeping your

452
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 1: spirits high or whatever. I mean, anything that is helping

453
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 1: you kind of.

454
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,679
Speaker 2: Move through this weird shit. I would love to hear it.

455
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've got I mean, you know about a couple

456
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 3: of them. One of them is that, like I moved

457
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:18,479
Speaker 3: into this apartment in December, so right before pandemic stuff,

458
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 3: and it was winter, and winter in LA is mostly

459
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 3: just rain.

460
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 4: But when the pandemic hit, I.

461
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:26,679
Speaker 3: Was like, all right, we're going to be in this

462
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 3: for a while. I just I knew, like we're going

463
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 3: to be like I looked in America, We're going to

464
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 3: be doing this for a while. And I think one

465
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 3: of the best and smartest things I did, I talked

466
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:37,919
Speaker 3: with my neighbor we live in.

467
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 4: I live in a.

468
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 3: Duplex and we have a little private, enclosed yard and

469
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,199
Speaker 3: a little kind of like private area. There was an

470
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 3: old couch out there and some kind of older furniture,

471
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 3: and I just asked my landlord, like, hey, would you

472
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 3: come pick this up because I'm going to buy some

473
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:54,639
Speaker 3: new furniture. And I completely trick that place out. So

474
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,880
Speaker 3: it was like having its own It was like having

475
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 3: a new room. It was like outdoor space and a

476
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 3: safe that I felt comfortable about. I could have people

477
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 3: over and safely socially distanced. That is one of the

478
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 3: best things I've ever done. I bought like two lounge chairs,

479
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 3: a couch and a couple of chairs and the little

480
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 3: coffee table and it was the best thing I could

481
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 3: and like couple of umbrellas and.

482
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 4: It was just so nice.

483
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: I got to tell you, I got to take advantage

484
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 1: of that a few times before I left.

485
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 2: And you are absolutely right.

486
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 1: And on top of that, knowing that you know, most

487
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: of the time, like living in la if you live

488
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: in an apartment, you have like no outdoor space. Yeah,

489
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: And so the fact that you were able to have

490
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,760
Speaker 1: your own place that was beautiful.

491
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 4: When you made it.

492
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: Your own is so oh god, it's so great.

493
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 3: It was a good move because it was just one

494
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 3: hundred percent just like, Okay, I am not going as

495
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 3: stir crazy as I was prone to getting because and honestly,

496
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 3: I've never felt I think this approach to quarantine for

497
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 3: me has been kind of different from most people because

498
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 3: I was a freelancer for years, and then before that,

499
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 3: I was in college and I was in great at school.

500
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 3: I'm so accustomed to working from home. It's actually weird

501
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 3: for me when I have to go out when I

502
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 3: get like a TV writing job, and I have to

503
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 3: go out and work in an office and like have

504
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,199
Speaker 3: a schedule, because I'm used to working from home, like

505
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 3: I write books and all kinds of stuff. So that

506
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 3: adjustment wasn't hard for me. And the fact that I

507
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 3: just moved into a new place was even better because

508
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 3: my new place had a washer and dryer, so I

509
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 3: didn't have to go to the laundromat anymore, girl, which

510
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 3: I would have been the most disgusting person in the city.

511
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 3: But I still had to go to laundromat.

512
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 2: Oh.

513
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, your place is goddamn beautiful

514
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 1: inside and out.

515
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 2: And because that is the thing that.

516
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 1: I think now is coming to full focus is where

517
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: you live and how you live is very important in

518
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: this aspletely.

519
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,159
Speaker 4: And I had like a breakdown before I got this.

520
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I saw this apartment and it

521
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 3: was like such sticker shock that I'm like, I don't know,

522
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 3: I don't know. I talked about it in therapy for

523
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 3: like three weeks. Basically, that was my whole therapy session.

524
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 3: Let's put my shitty family aside for a moment. Do

525
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 3: I deserve this apartment? And my therapist just broke it

526
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 3: down and she's like, where you live is the most

527
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 3: important place that you're going to put your money right now?

528
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, And they are absolutely right. It is.

529
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: That's why people are leaving places and go on other places.

530
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 2: It can be tough, for sure.

531
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 3: I still break my own heart, like every once in

532
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 3: a while look at Zillow and look at houses that

533
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 3: are for sale in my hometown, and it just it's

534
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 3: a heartbreaker because I'm like, yeah, like this mortgage is

535
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 3: so doable, and this house has so.

536
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 4: Much space, and you know, my grandma could see my

537
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 4: grandma again.

538
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 3: I haven't seen her in like all year, and yeah,

539
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 3: I don't think it didn't happen, but it's you know,

540
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 3: that desire for a change of space, I think is

541
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 3: a valid one.

542
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, kidding, Well, that's good. I'm glad you were

543
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: able to do that for yourself. That's amazing for me.

544
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: For me, I think like one of the things. It's

545
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 1: so we both talked about this because I think that like, well,

546
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 1: let's just get serious. Everybody got into cooking when.

547
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 2: The pandemic happened, right because out.

548
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 1: Of necessity, everyone had start cooking for themselves, and it

549
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: kind of became a joke. Everybody was like everybody's making

550
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 1: sourdough and shit, And I was like, I'm not making

551
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 1: sourdough because I don't know how to make bread, and

552
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 1: like it seems complicated, but if you want to make

553
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: me sour dough, please, by all means, bring it, bring

554
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:23,880
Speaker 1: it to my house.

555
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 2: I was not.

556
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: Hating on people making sourdough, by the way, but you know,

557
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: for me, you know, obviously, being a single woman, I've

558
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 1: been cooking for myself for a long time.

559
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 2: But I really like fine tuned it in Quarantine.

560
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 1: And part of that was that I downloaded the New

561
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 1: York Times cooking app and that shit was a game changer,

562
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: like truly, truly and.

563
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 2: The fact that you can like look up by ingredient

564
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 2: change the game for me.

565
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 3: That killer and I completely agree, like if you have

566
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 3: a craving, you can just look up like I'm craving this,

567
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 3: and then like, here's fifteen recipes you could do in

568
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 3: twenty minutes.

569
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was like for me, you know, I

570
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: ended up getting a CSA and I was like, again

571
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: we had that there's that moment where you're like, what

572
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: do I do with the rue de beag air, Like

573
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,199
Speaker 1: what do I do with like this and that? And

574
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: I would just like go into the New York Times

575
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 1: cooking app and be like Heirloom Carrots boom, some shit

576
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: that tastes delicious. And I did it myself and it

577
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: was great, Like, I mean I still have it.

578
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 2: I got my mom.

579
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: Now I'm getting my mom to use it because we're

580
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 1: living together, so we're both kind of like cooking for

581
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 1: each other. And I just to me, I mean I

582
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: know that that's like probably everybody has this app already,

583
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: but for me, I was like, holy.

584
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: Shit, an app that teaches you how to cook. That's amazing.

585
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 4: I love that because I don't think everybody has it.

586
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 3: I think that's why some people really panic and they're

587
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 3: like so used to that culture of subservience where people

588
00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 3: are bringing things to them because they don't know how

589
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 3: to do too manythings.

590
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's such an easy I mean, you pay five

591
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: bucks a month. You don't have to subscribe to the

592
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: paper if you don't want to. I think if you

593
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 1: do get the paper, it comes with it, or the

594
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 1: digital if you have digital access to The New York Times,

595
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 1: I think you get it. But I just pay for

596
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: it on its own. And it's incredible, like completely totally great.

597
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: So that's one for me for sure.

598
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 4: Oh I love it.

599
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 3: Well. Another thing that I think this pandemic, this time

600
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 3: in quarantine has done for me, is it kind of

601
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 3: it made me take a really like kind of an

602
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 3: intense inventory of my life and my body and all

603
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 3: the things that I've just been so uncomfortable with or

604
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 3: that I didn't really like about myself.

605
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 4: And you know, I've.

606
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 3: Always felt I have always felt bad about feeling bad

607
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 3: about my body. Because now we're in this moment of

608
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 3: like body positivity and you know, all this stuff where

609
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 3: people are like really approaching this in a different and

610
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 3: healthier way, but I still have like forty years of

611
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 3: what ingrained before that. I like, I'm sorry, but I

612
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 3: do still.

613
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 4: Feel bad about my body.

614
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,719
Speaker 3: Sometimes it's not always in a comparative way, but it

615
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 3: is just like, you know, my my own personal wishes

616
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 3: for what I wish I felt like, not even what

617
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 3: I look like, what I felt like. So I really

618
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 3: I kind of took I kind of took the bull

619
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 3: by the horns in a couple of different ways that

620
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 3: have made Quarantine incredible.

621
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 4: One is that I got braces.

622
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 3: Yes, And I've been talking about it with my my

623
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 3: dentist for a while for about a year, and was

624
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 3: just kind of always like, well, there's not ever really

625
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 3: going to be a good time to do it, and

626
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 3: you know, visil line seems like a lot of work.

627
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 3: And so when the orthodonist or office opened up again,

628
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 3: I made an appointment for a consultation and I left

629
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 3: that consultation with my top braces on.

630
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 2: And you got to metal kind then seven metal kind.

631
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's the thing, like I was like, all right,

632
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 3: like we're gonna, I'm gonna do this. I haven't smiled

633
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 3: with my whole mouth in like a over a decade.

634
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we're just gonna do this.

635
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 3: So yeah, I really just went and talked out my

636
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 3: options and I'm like, you know, stick in my hand

637
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 3: in my mouth multiple times a day. It does not

638
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 3: feel like the move right now. So I think it's

639
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 3: those the lines out. It's just out. I wanted the experience,

640
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 3: like I wanted the metal braces, and that's what I got.

641
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 3: I got top and bottom braces.

642
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 2: Well, how are you feeling about them right now? Though?

643
00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 2: Are you still loving them?

644
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 4: I love it.

645
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 3: It's kind of it's a cool experience. Like it's like

646
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 3: a cool science experiment happening in my mouth. Like I

647
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 3: got a spacer one of my my bottom of feths are

648
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 3: really the most crooked ones, Like they're the ones that

649
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 3: look like the eighteenth century graveyard. But my I'm like

650
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 3: like one tooth in particular. That's like just kind of

651
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 3: pushed back a lot. What's cool is they every time

652
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 3: I go now like every six weeks I go for

653
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 3: my my appointments, and they changed the wires out. But

654
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 3: last time they put a spacer in and he like

655
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 3: he explained everything. My arth don't explained everything. He's like,

656
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 3: we're going to put a spacer into like start making

657
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 3: room for that tooth in the back. And I can

658
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 3: see it happening, like not day by day, but if

659
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 3: I look at my like when.

660
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 4: I'm brushing my teeth, I'll look like once in a

661
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 4: while and be like, oh my god, Like there's more

662
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 4: space happening.

663
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 3: So they're gonna, like the next appointment, they're gonna like

664
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 3: start putting the brackets on to bring that tooth forward.

665
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 2: It's amazing.

666
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 3: That was just they had to take out one tooth

667
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 3: on either side to make room because there's like so

668
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 3: much crowding.

669
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 4: So that's what's happening. And Millie drove me to.

670
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 3: That appointment, really drove me to that appointment because she's

671
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 3: my emergency contact and my friend and it's lovely that way.

672
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 3: I'm honored and just it was coming out of that

673
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 3: anesthesia was so funny.

674
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 2: Oh girl.

675
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to film it because

676
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's a violation of your Like,

677
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: isn't that like a hippo thing?

678
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,959
Speaker 2: No fit is or not. But I was like, I

679
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: want to so badly because you were trip in.

680
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 3: Less to say, I remember laughing so hard and you

681
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 3: were just so nice to like drive me and make

682
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 3: sure I was when we got home, like to make

683
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 3: sure that I.

684
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 4: Was, like in my apartment, I had everything I needed.

685
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 4: It was it was great.

686
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 3: But yeah, I got those teeth out and then I

687
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 3: got these braces on, and it's made me feel better,

688
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 3: Like it made me feel like I'm taking action for

689
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 3: something that I've always thought I wouldn't be able to do,

690
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 3: Like it's going to be too expensive. It's like, you know,

691
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 3: it's cost prohibitive, the timing isn't ever right. But I'm like,

692
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 3: all right, I'm in my house forever now, or at

693
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 3: least at least for the foreseeable future.

694
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 4: I'm not making out with anybody.

695
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: Which is a shame because you are cute as a

696
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: button with those braces.

697
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 2: I gotta tell you.

698
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 3: Tell Matt crush. And then the other thing I did,

699
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 3: which which is, you know, again, I know a lot

700
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 3: of people probably won't like this or but you know,

701
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 3: fuck it, it's what happened. I tried whole thirty and

702
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 3: I did the whole thirty, which is basically like it's

703
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 3: a very restrictive diet where you take out dairy and

704
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 3: beans and bread and every like. It's basically just like

705
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 3: a meat and vegetable diet and the whole point is

706
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 3: to like reset your system, like you're not eating sugar,

707
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 3: you're not eating anything. And that, more than anything, helped

708
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 3: me realize how I was eating because even though I

709
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 3: like to cook, I'm like, I've never been aware of

710
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 3: portion size. So the portion size for me is whatever

711
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 3: packet something comes in or whatever amount of food I make,

712
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,479
Speaker 3: like that's the serving because I'm by myself.

713
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 4: So it was kind.

714
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 3: Of revolutionary to realize that I could feel differently inside

715
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 3: my body and that made me feel better without even

716
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 3: losing weight. Yeah, and that was great. So the kind

717
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 3: of not being on not being on sugar was hard,

718
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 3: that's my downfall. But what was weird is that they

719
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 3: tell you you can have coffee, but you're not allowed

720
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 3: to put anything in it, Like, yeah, you can have

721
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 3: black coffee, and I'm like, what's the point of living?

722
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 2: What is Oh my god? So like totally so I

723
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: did the whole thirty once. It was when I first moved.

724
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: To LA and I was like, I couldn't have I

725
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: didn't even matter if I was never going to be

726
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: able to eat bread or pastack, and the struggle of

727
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: not having half and half in my coffee was keeping

728
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: me up at night, Like I was like, I can't

729
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 1: do this. Fuck this shit. I don't know how I

730
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: how I made it through, but I did.

731
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 4: You did it.

732
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 3: It's insane and we both did it. And I was

733
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 3: shocked because I just cut coffee out. I'm like, well,

734
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 3: if I can't have it the way I want it,

735
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 3: I'm not having it.

736
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 4: It's not worth it for me to.

737
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 3: Have black coffee.

738
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, Karen to kill Garoff will tell you different. She's

739
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: like a once you go black coffee, it's like a revelation.

740
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 2: I can't go there.

741
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 4: Remember when we were all we went we were all.

742
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 1: Out to dinner, and she was like ordering black coffee,

743
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: and I was like, god, I wish I could get

744
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 1: on your level.

745
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 2: I just can't do it.

746
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 3: It seems like such a ball or move to be

747
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 3: like this is how I like it, just how it is,

748
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 3: but it's so acidic and harsh, and I don't know.

749
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 4: I just I can't get there. I want to, I can't,

750
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 4: so I cut it out.

751
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:52,879
Speaker 1: I would love to. Yeah, I didn't cut it out.

752
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,720
Speaker 1: I ended up going on Amazon and ordering these things

753
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: called nut pods, which were basically like nuts juice flavored

754
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,399
Speaker 1: with some kind of French vanilla thing that was Whole

755
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: thirty compliance somehow.

756
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 2: I don't know how that happened.

757
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 4: Girl, you're trying to get me on that nutpod train.

758
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 3: And I took one look and I was like, I

759
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 3: can't do it. I know.

760
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, you're mileage Mayberry with this shit,

761
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 1: because it's not it's not great. And I kind of

762
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 1: got into it after a while, like and I think

763
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: it's just because I was so fucking desperate. But I

764
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 1: was like, once that Whole thirty was over, I was like,

765
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: kibona pods, I can't do it. I can't you You

766
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: served me well, so, but I can't do this anymore

767
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: at all.

768
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 2: And I went back.

769
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 1: And but I will say that I now drink my

770
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,439
Speaker 1: coffee with just cream. I used to do cream and sugar,

771
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 1: and I now I don't do sugar. So that's the

772
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: only thing that I did from Whole.

773
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 3: Thirty that is the best. And I mean, look, I'm

774
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 3: back on coffee. Yeah, I'm back on a lot of things.

775
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 3: I'm having cheese, I'm not eating as much sugar, which

776
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 3: is again huge.

777
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 2: To me, It's huge.

778
00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know, and also It made me realize

779
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,439
Speaker 3: much coffee I was drinking, So I'm drinking far less.

780
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 3: I have like one cup in the morning and maybe

781
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:09,760
Speaker 3: another half cup after that. But my sleep was revolutionized.

782
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 3: But that's a whole shower. Sleeping is the other thing

783
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 3: I've done in quarantine that has So we'll come to

784
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 3: that after we ask for your next item quarantine better.

785
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: My next quarantine item is not quite as essential as sleep,

786
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,320
Speaker 1: but it is truly an obsession.

787
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,240
Speaker 2: It is ninety Day Fiance.

788
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: Which is a television show that airs on the TLC network.

789
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: When I tell you that I am all in, I

790
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: am all in on ninety day Fiance.

791
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 4: Okay, you watched like all the satellite shows everything.

792
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 2: Yes, ma'am.

793
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 1: Here's the thing about ninety day Fiance, so you have

794
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: the original recipe ninety day Fiance, which the premise of

795
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: this reality show is that it is a group of

796
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 1: individuals who have basically been in a relationship with a

797
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: person that lives outside of the United States and they

798
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 1: want to bring that person to the United States to

799
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 1: marry them, and so that person has to fill out

800
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:16,919
Speaker 1: a k what they call it K one visa, which

801
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: is basically like a spousal visa for somebody that's outside

802
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: of the US. So what happens is is that they

803
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: had to go through this process I can take years.

804
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: I mean I've heard some horror stories. I know my

805
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: friend April went through like the opposite K one visa

806
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: process when she moved to England and it took forever

807
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: and it was crazy. So once they get here, the

808
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,240
Speaker 1: show starts because once they arrive in the United States,

809
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: they have ninety days to marry or else they have

810
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 1: to go back to their home country. So that's the show.

811
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 1: And the show has been on for a while and

812
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: it's basically like the premise is like, oh yeah, well,

813
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: now my internet girlfriend from you know, the Ukraine is

814
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: here in America and now I have to decide if

815
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 1: we made the right decision. We have ninety days to

816
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 1: do that, right, So that's the drama of the show.

817
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 1: So there's that original recipe. Then now they've got all

818
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 1: these like spinoff shows. So they've got a show called

819
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 1: Before the ninety Days, which is basically like essentially before

820
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 1: they fill out the K one. So it's kind of

821
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: like the process of I'm just meeting my internet boyfriend

822
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: for the first time, and that is kind of what

823
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: it is.

824
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 2: It's very interesting, and of course I'm all in, so

825
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 2: I watch it all.

826
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: Then you have Happily ever After, which is basically like,

827
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 1: let's catch up with former ninety Day Fiance couples and

828
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 1: see what they're doing, if they're still married, if they're

829
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 1: still whatever.

830
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 2: Then you have ninety Day Fiance.

831
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,359
Speaker 1: The other way, which is basically the American goes to

832
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 1: the other person's country, and of course it's like a

833
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: fish out of water.

834
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: I'm American, I don't know anything. I mean, it's insane.

835
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: I dare I say that's the craziest out of all

836
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 1: of these spinoffs is the other ways.

837
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 2: It's truly bonkers.

838
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 4: I have seen see I'm on.

839
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 3: Board with original recipe ninety Day Fiance, But I think

840
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 3: part of the reason I fell off the ninety Day

841
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 3: Fiance viewing is because there are so many other shows

842
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 3: now that I'm not watching now. I don't understand some

843
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 3: of the stories, Like they come in on the ninety

844
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 3: Day Fiance, but they've already had this couple on before

845
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 3: the ninety Days, and there's like a whole story that

846
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 3: I'm not even aware.

847
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 4: Of, and I can't catch up.

848
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 1: Dare I say, it's gotten too complicated, and I love it.

849
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 2: I love it all. I'll watch it all.

850
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: But I'm also like, whenever I try to explain it

851
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: to anyone, they're like, now, what is this one? And

852
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, man, Like they were on

853
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 1: the show and now they're just like riffin on watching

854
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: the show. So because there's this one, there's one show

855
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: called ninety Da Fiance Pillow Talk where they have old

856
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 1: couples come on and essentially do like a mystery science

857
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: theater three thousand of like an episode.

858
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm on that train.

859
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 4: I'm on.

860
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,240
Speaker 1: I mean it's they now have they have a show

861
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 1: that just started, which is basically when they have the

862
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: ninety day Fiance, people read their own social media, their

863
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: negative social media about themselves while watching themselves.

864
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 2: It is like so meta and I'm just like put

865
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 2: it into my veins. I just need it all the time.

866
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,399
Speaker 1: I don't give a shit how you chop and screw it,

867
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter.

868
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 2: I got it like I need it.

869
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,760
Speaker 4: These remixes are over the top.

870
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: It's insane, and I won't I will not tell you

871
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: how deep that I have gotten, but I will tell

872
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: you of uncovered a layer of the internet that is

873
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: like obsessed with ninety Day Fiance and it's like all

874
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,359
Speaker 1: happening usually on like Instagram. It's like a lot of

875
00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 1: people are making like fan art of ninetyday Fiance. People

876
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:04,879
Speaker 1: are doing like their own gossip blogs about the couples

877
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 1: and like is there conspiracy theories or like conspiracy theories.

878
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 1: So a lot of the ninety Day Fiance people are

879
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 1: now like on OnlyFans, do you know what Only Fans is?

880
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 3: Oh? I loosely know what it is. I think it's

881
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 3: a naked site for young people. Yeah, yes, as your

882
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 3: resident pod here, I feel like that is what it's about.

883
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 4: Like are you oh you like me? Maybe you'll pay

884
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 4: more to see me in my underwear.

885
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 2: That's exactly what it is.

886
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,840
Speaker 1: And these ninety Day Fiance people now have them, and

887
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: so now there's like Instagram accounts where it's people like

888
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,879
Speaker 1: giving you, like up to the minute info about their

889
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,439
Speaker 1: Only Fans. I mean it is so deep, dude, it's

890
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 1: like a it's I'm calling it the ninety Day Fiance

891
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: cinematic universe. It is like a fucking cinematic universe. All

892
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 1: the different characters have their own spinoff shows and then

893
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: they're you know, in different worlds, and then there's like

894
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 1: a jam, like when they do the like three part finales, and.

895
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,760
Speaker 2: It's just it gets real crazy.

896
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 4: So this is so intense.

897
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 3: See, this is why I went off Real Housewives for

898
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 3: a while too, because I'm like, there's so many franchises.

899
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 3: I can't keep up. I don't know what's happening.

900
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I to me.

901
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: The only thing I'll say about in my defense for

902
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 1: loving this trash television so much is that if you so,

903
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: both my parents are immigrants, and so if you have

904
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: like immigration in your life in any way, you will

905
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: find it fascinating, at least for me, because it is

906
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of stuff that comes up where

907
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: you're kind of like, does the person really want to

908
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 1: be in a marriage with this person?

909
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 2: Are they coming for a green card?

910
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: How hard is it to like be in another country

911
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: with somebody and being apart from somebody, And so it's

912
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: kind of like for me, immigration is so close to

913
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: my life that I think it's fascinating.

914
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 4: But it is. It is.

915
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's fascinating, But it's also like trashy as hell,

916
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: and I get that, but.

917
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 2: It's too late. I mean it's like you need something

918
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: during quarantine.

919
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 3: It sounds like a lovely way to spend time with

920
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 3: people and kind of feel like you're in a relationship

921
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 3: and not romantic, but like you're in you're having like

922
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:13,240
Speaker 3: things to talk about.

923
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 1: I've had many dysfunctional relationships that could be catfishes.

924
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 4: So I, oh God, I.

925
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 3: Love this so much that you were so into this universe.

926
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 3: Because I knew about some of it, I didn't know

927
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 3: about all of it. This is a revelation and I'm

928
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,959
Speaker 3: glad that you have this in your life. It makes

929
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,439
Speaker 3: me Some of those episodes or seasons, I should say,

930
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 3: make me so angry, Like I think I stopped watching

931
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 3: the last season. I don't think this is probably a spoiler,

932
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,439
Speaker 3: but probably isn't because you've either watched it. You've either

933
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 3: watched it and you already know this, or you've never

934
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: watched it and you never will. But there was this

935
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 3: episode there was a season a couple on one of

936
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 3: the seasons.

937
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 4: Where he went to Russia.

938
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 3: I want to yes, and she was pregnant and they

939
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 3: met like basically like spring break in Daytona and got

940
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 3: pregnant like.

941
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 4: The first time I had sex.

942
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:03,840
Speaker 3: He goes to Russia and is like, promises, promises, promises,

943
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 3: I've got your this, I've got your that, Like I

944
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 3: put all this stuff ready to go for you, and

945
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 3: then come to find out after she gives birth, he's like,

946
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 3: maybe I'll just take the kid with me to Florida

947
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 3: and you can come later. And she was like what

948
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:22,399
Speaker 3: And it turns out that he never submitted her paperwork. Yes,

949
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 3: and I was so mad. Yes, So like this has

950
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 3: to be a crime on many levels. Yes, And I

951
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 3: mean I will give a further spoiler alert.

952
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,479
Speaker 2: They're not together anymore as you get an.

953
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 1: Option because of that that shoddy responsibility shit.

954
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's that, that is what it is.

955
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 1: Mostly, it's just sort of like it's such a fraud process,

956
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: and it's like people are literally changing their lives for

957
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 1: other people. And then there's the question of like is

958
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: this should they should they change their lives this drastically?

959
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: Is it worth leaving whatever country that you're in to

960
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: go to another country? Is it that you have this

961
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: idea of what you think it's going to be and

962
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: it's not, And like you're watching someone's entire perception just get.

963
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 4: Destroyed, demolished.

964
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: And also just people that have no infrastructure to have

965
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: children or relationships or anything.

966
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:21,760
Speaker 2: It's like so crazy.

967
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:25,320
Speaker 3: And there was also a couple and this, truly it

968
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 3: should not have made me laugh because it is dire

969
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 3: straits in that house. But in that apartment there was

970
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 3: a woman who came to the States to be with

971
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 3: this dude, and her whole thing was like, I want

972
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 3: you to lavish me with gifts and make me know

973
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,879
Speaker 3: I'm loved, and take me to fancy places and buy

974
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 3: me expensive clothes. And he was like, yep, yep, yep, yep, yep, yep.

975
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 3: They had met for one day, like he hopped off

976
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 3: of a cruise ship, met this woman.

977
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 4: You're talking about, and now she's going.

978
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:53,839
Speaker 2: To marry him.

979
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 3: And he when he took her shopping for the first

980
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 3: time and he took her to a thrift store, I

981
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 3: thought she was going to fall through the earth every

982
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 3: and then that was hilarious in its own right. But

983
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 3: then the best part. He has a child, he's like

984
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 3: a five year old who he shares a bed with.

985
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,359
Speaker 3: So when she shows up, he was like, we'll get

986
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 3: in bed's time to go to bed, and she's like,

987
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 3: with you and the kid.

988
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 4: He had made no provisions for like this woman and

989
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 4: his child.

990
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: It's like it's a It's like every moment is a

991
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: surprise motherfucker. Like it is that over and over again,

992
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 1: and you know what, Like, I I'm sorry I can't

993
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,319
Speaker 1: travel right now, but damn do I want to see

994
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: people like have an awkward just got off the plane, hug.

995
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 1: I don't know anybody in this place. I don't know

996
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: is this guy gonna feed me? I don't know what's

997
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:52,720
Speaker 1: gonna happen.

998
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 4: We didn't have a whole bonus episode about nine oh

999
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 4: my god something.

1000
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: If you're if like the people are amenable, if you

1001
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 1: if you listeners are menable to hearing about this crazy shit,

1002
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: I'll be happy to talk about it forever and ever

1003
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: and ever.

1004
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:14,479
Speaker 2: Just let me know in terms of a quarantine. Thing

1005
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 2: that is one of the greatest things that's happened to

1006
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 2: me is falling down the rabbit hole.

1007
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,240
Speaker 4: I love that you uncovered a layer of moresion.

1008
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 2: It's dark.

1009
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: I mean they talk about four chan being dark the

1010
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: ninety Day Fiance, Hi, it is fucking.

1011
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 2: Dark, y'all, like it's bad.

1012
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 3: So well, my version of that is that I have

1013
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,320
Speaker 3: started getting a ton of sleep, and that's my obsession.

1014
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 4: Oh good. I've always been terrible.

1015
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 3: At sleeping of had insomnia since I was a little kid,

1016
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 3: and it's just always been the bit of my existence.

1017
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 3: And part of it is that I used to get

1018
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 3: a lot done at night, Like I'd wake up in

1019
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 3: the middle of the night or just stay up. I'd

1020
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 3: still be awake, and it was like the only time

1021
00:47:58,080 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 3: in my house that was quiet. I just felt like,

1022
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 3: this is my time to like sew or create or

1023
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 3: do things. And I carried that with me into adulthood.

1024
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 3: And I've been terrible at sleeping and it has ruined

1025
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 3: my life and my brain and it just has not

1026
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 3: been good for me. So I decided, all right again

1027
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 3: in quarantine, I'm gonna be here for a while. I

1028
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 3: got a new mattress. Oh first night I slept for

1029
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 3: twelve hours. First night killer. I would kill for that

1030
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 3: right now.

1031
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.

1032
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,839
Speaker 3: Like I got in and it was just like, holy shit,

1033
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 3: this is revolutionary.

1034
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 4: So that was great.

1035
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:31,720
Speaker 2: And then.

1036
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 3: I changed my bedtime and I started going to bed

1037
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 3: earlier and earlier. My general schedule when left to my

1038
00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 3: own devices, I like to go to bed around ten

1039
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,399
Speaker 3: or eleven, wake up around six or seven, and then

1040
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 3: just kind of, you know, start my day, A have

1041
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 3: a couple hours to myself before the day really kicks in.

1042
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:52,760
Speaker 4: I have started going.

1043
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 3: To bed, and I know you're gonna laugh at me,

1044
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 3: because everyone does. I go to bed at eight o'clock.

1045
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 2: In Florida, that is the time to go to bed,

1046
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 2: eight o'clock.

1047
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 1: It is shocking to people, though, I will say that,

1048
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:09,240
Speaker 1: like there are people that are like eight o'clock is insane.

1049
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like, what else are we doing. It's

1050
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 3: not like I'm missing going out to anything. It's not

1051
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 3: like I'm like to be on the phone with people.

1052
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 3: Talk like I'm not missing anything. Also, racing is being

1053
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 3: up on my phone playing games and doom scrolling, and

1054
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 3: I don't want to do either of those things. So

1055
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 3: I took all the games off my phone. I have

1056
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 3: won crossword puzzle game and one like word game, but

1057
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,919
Speaker 3: I feel like, oh, well, this is keeping Alzheimer's at bay,

1058
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 3: So these were fine, but I took all other games

1059
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 3: off my phone. Yeah, and I just put my phone

1060
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 3: in another room. I get in bed either with a

1061
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 3: book or like with one of my favorite oldie like

1062
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 3: British TV shows, and I just go to sleep. Cup

1063
00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 3: of tea, go to sleep.

1064
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 2: I got a two part question for you.

1065
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 4: Do it?

1066
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 1: I have a question and a comment. No, I'm kidding.

1067
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: That's like the worst thing. Like we have to have

1068
00:49:58,160 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 1: an episode about that, A question.

1069
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,280
Speaker 4: The whole section about that comment.

1070
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 2: So number one, did you buy new bedding?

1071
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: Because that is my favorite thing about a bed is

1072
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: betting absolutely.

1073
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 3: And I'm on the Brooklyn and train. I got some

1074
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 3: new Brooklyn and I went usually get like their basic like,

1075
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,399
Speaker 3: here's what we have. I got a set of their

1076
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 3: luxe Setene sheet.

1077
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:25,719
Speaker 2: Okay, it is.

1078
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 4: I want to make a dress out of it. Like

1079
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 4: it is. So if I could make a suit out

1080
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 4: of this sheeting, I would. It is so comfortable.

1081
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:34,360
Speaker 2: Are you like or do you do?

1082
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 1: Because for me, I love the layers? So are you

1083
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 1: like a duvet person? Do you do like quilts and

1084
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 1: duvets or blankets and quilts?

1085
00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:45,240
Speaker 4: Oh my, I've got the whole.

1086
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 3: So I've got like seven pillows on my bed because

1087
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 3: they're my prop up pillows because I will be in

1088
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 3: I know that the general if you have any kind

1089
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 3: of sleep issues, doctors will usually tell you or sleep

1090
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 3: text will usually tell you only get in your bed

1091
00:50:59,040 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 3: when you're.

1092
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 4: Ready to go to sleep. Not in this world. I'm

1093
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 4: in there watching TV. I'm like, you're reading books.

1094
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:05,320
Speaker 2: Doctors are wrong.

1095
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 4: The doctors are wrong. On this one.

1096
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 3: I can't stay out of my bed, like, I can't

1097
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 3: just be like and then my couch is fine, it's comfortable.

1098
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 4: I can't do it. So I have the whole set,

1099
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 4: and I've got the prop up pillows. I've got the

1100
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 4: nice sheets. I don't have a sham because I think

1101
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 4: those were gross, but I do have a duvet cover,

1102
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,240
Speaker 4: and so I layer the sheets, and then I also

1103
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 4: have an afghan, a crouchete afghan that my grandma made

1104
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 4: for us.

1105
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 2: Gotta have that.

1106
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 4: I gotta have thatta.

1107
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 2: I love it.

1108
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 4: Well.

1109
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 1: Then the other question I had was that, I so,

1110
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: now that you go to bed so early, do you

1111
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: get up early?

1112
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1113
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's like one hundred percent of the time.

1114
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 3: I'm usually going to wake up at three o'clock. But

1115
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 3: I've had a full night's sleep at that point, so

1116
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 3: usually it's all bonkers. Do you even say this out loud?

1117
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 3: I know it's own insane, but yeah, like, I'll go

1118
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 3: to sleep at eight. Usually I will not see the

1119
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 3: clock turn to eight thirty essentially. Yeah, So I fall

1120
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 3: asleep sometime at forty thirty and then I'm usually up

1121
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 3: at three sometimes four.

1122
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's usually early.

1123
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 4: It's really early.

1124
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 3: But since I'm now such a pro at sleep, I'll

1125
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 3: read for half an hour and then just go right

1126
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:15,839
Speaker 3: back to the sleep and then week up again at

1127
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 3: like eight, so like my next rem cycle. So I'm

1128
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 3: kidding about twelve hours a sleep, and.

1129
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 2: That's that is heavenly. I am one of those people.

1130
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 1: I never thought I would love to wake up early,

1131
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: and now iither love and love and love it.

1132
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 2: Love it.

1133
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 4: It's the secret of life.

1134
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 1: It is truly the secret of life, because I'm like,

1135
00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 1: especially when you live in place like La, if you

1136
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 1: are an early riser, you can literally do whatever the

1137
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: fuck you want to do.

1138
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 2: Like in this town.

1139
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 1: You could go to the target and park in like

1140
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 1: the first space at the very front and do all

1141
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 1: your shit. You can go hiking at Runyon and not

1142
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:59,760
Speaker 1: be up there with like one hundred thousand fucking people.

1143
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: You can like, you know, get exercise, you can like

1144
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: breathe some fresh air before all the cars are out.

1145
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 2: I mean, it is amazing to wait.

1146
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 3: Some coyotes trotting down your street like, yes, truly another

1147
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:13,800
Speaker 3: world out here in the morning.

1148
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 2: Yes, And I just love it.

1149
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: I love it now because I was the opposite for

1150
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: men like in my twenties. Obviously I went to bed

1151
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 1: at like six o'clock in the morning, you know, but

1152
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 1: it was like it was a revelation for me, I

1153
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:29,280
Speaker 1: think two like when I was starting exercise and trying

1154
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: to do exercise, like going in the morning, It's like,

1155
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: get that shit out of the way. It's brilliant. Like

1156
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: I love waking up early. I will always advocate for

1157
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: people to wake up early.

1158
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 4: So too.

1159
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 3: There have been a couple of a couple of the

1160
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 3: nights where I wake up at like three or four

1161
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 3: where usually I'll read, which is great because I get

1162
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 3: some reading time in and I love that. But there

1163
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 3: have been times where I've worked and I've just gotten

1164
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 3: up and be like, all right, I'm be up for

1165
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 3: a little bit and I'll, you know, write a couple

1166
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 3: of chapters of my next book. Or it is so

1167
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 3: lovely to be able to have quiet mental spe when

1168
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 3: the world around you is also quiet. Yes, I agree.

1169
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 3: I definitely am on this ship. This is this is

1170
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 3: where I live now. I'm going to bed at eight,

1171
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 3: and my goal is to maybe start waking up at

1172
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 3: five or six naturally instead of waking up three.

1173
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, a six. I usually do a six am. If

1174
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 1: I could do earlier, though, man, the world would truly

1175
00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: be my oyster. I could go get oysters. I could go,

1176
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: and I could go with a fisherman. Yes, I could

1177
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: be out on a boat four o'clock in the morning

1178
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 1: getting those oysters.

1179
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 4: We'll bring us home.

1180
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:39,879
Speaker 3: What's what's your last quarantine thing that you've done that's

1181
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:40,800
Speaker 3: major life better?

1182
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 2: So we're gonna talk about some more old people. Shit,

1183
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:44,759
Speaker 2: sorry about it.

1184
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 1: It's just what's gonna happen. But I'll try to explain

1185
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 1: this in the in the best way I can. So

1186
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:53,880
Speaker 1: I've always been a person that was never into like

1187
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: open toe or open heel shoes. I was like a

1188
00:54:57,600 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 1: whole foot covered person for so long. I think it's

1189
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 1: because I always lived in like major American cities where

1190
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: it's a hygiene thing, and you know, I think it

1191
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 1: does come down to like how you feel about your feet.

1192
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:13,760
Speaker 1: If you're not a foot person, if you don't want

1193
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 1: people to see your feet, or if you just in

1194
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: principle don't want to see other people's feet, and then

1195
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:21,400
Speaker 1: you are covering that whole foot up, but out of necessity,

1196
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 1: also just laziness, you know.

1197
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 2: I started like moving into some other things.

1198
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: When I moved to La, I was like, okay, it

1199
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,479
Speaker 1: gets hot here, right, So like I need to wear

1200
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: a pair. I need to buy a pair of sandals,

1201
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 1: which means I need to start getting like pedicures regularly.

1202
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: And I've always been a pedicure person, don't get me wrong,

1203
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:41,879
Speaker 1: but I'm just sort of like, now it's like the

1204
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: pedicure is that there's a purpose for it, right, So

1205
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 1: I decided, So once I got to showing the toes,

1206
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: like when I was like, ooh, a sandal or like

1207
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 1: a a dance go like an open toe clogged style,

1208
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,480
Speaker 1: I was like, how much for They're kind of go

1209
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:03,879
Speaker 1: with this because now we're in quarantine, right. I don't

1210
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: want to walk around barefoot, because it's this thing where

1211
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like I need a structure to

1212
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 1: the day and if I just like never put shoes

1213
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,879
Speaker 1: on or never put on a slipper or something, then

1214
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 1: I'm feeling crazy. So I was like, well, I don't

1215
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: want to wear a full shoe, but I also don't

1216
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 1: want to be barefoot, So what's like the happy medium?

1217
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what is mules? And

1218
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,879
Speaker 1: first of all, I was like I didn't. I don't

1219
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: even think I really understood what a mule was. What

1220
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 1: it is for people unaware. It's like an open heel shoe.

1221
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 1: So it's the opposite of an It's basically like the

1222
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: front part of the shoe is covered, but the heel

1223
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: is exposed, so it's kind of like a slip on

1224
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,720
Speaker 1: a slide. I think they call them a slide.

1225
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 2: The heel is open.

1226
00:56:57,320 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 4: For height. Is there like a heel?

1227
00:56:58,800 --> 00:56:59,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, there could.

1228
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 1: Be if you can get like a heeled mule, like

1229
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 1: a you know, a clog mule. Maybe. But it started

1230
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: because I was like I want to be able to

1231
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: just put these shoes on, and maybe I'll start with

1232
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 1: like a Birkenstock. So I basically got a pair of

1233
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 1: Birkenstock mules. And this like antique leather. It's not it's

1234
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 1: not the it's like an actual leather. It's not the

1235
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 1: fuzzy one whatever. It's not velvet, but you know what

1236
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: I mean, uh, Swede or whatever.

1237
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 4: I think we got the same shoe.

1238
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 3: It's that like, uh kind of like like a brown

1239
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 3: new book kind.

1240
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 2: Of kind of but it's not dark, it's light.

1241
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I had.

1242
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 2: It took me forever to find it.

1243
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 1: I had to go on some like crazy rich people

1244
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: resale website to find it because in my size too.

1245
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:48,959
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't even know because I guess

1246
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: they don't really make them anymore.

1247
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 2: But anyway, I.

1248
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: Fucking love these shoes and because it feels like it's

1249
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 1: a little hippie but it's also a little like put together,

1250
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: but it's also comfortable, and I'm like, okay, why have

1251
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 1: I not fucked with open heel shoes in my life?

1252
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 2: So and then after that it was like a wrap.

1253
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 1: I got a pair of like Llban like winter slipper mules.

1254
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 1: I got like some crocs. I know what, there's a

1255
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: very it crocs are very contentious. But I have a

1256
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: pair of crocs for the outdoors in the garden type

1257
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: of thing, not in public.

1258
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 4: You've got a mule for every season and every event.

1259
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: Every season, every event and every like purpose. Because there's

1260
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 1: some mules you can wear out in public, and then

1261
00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 1: the others it's like are you just taking out the garbage?

1262
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 2: This is what you wear.

1263
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: So I am now a mule person and I'm like, huh,

1264
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: this shit has changed my quarantine game.

1265
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 2: And that's that's pretty much shit.

1266
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:48,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, in your life, it seems like like this is

1267
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 3: to be comfortable in your shoe choice is paramount. That's

1268
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 3: why I like, I don't fuck with heels. I don't

1269
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 3: fuck with a lot of shoes because I refuse to

1270
00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 3: be walking around on bloody stumps.

1271
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 4: I need the comfort.

1272
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:01,919
Speaker 1: And here's the thing about what I will say about

1273
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 1: shoe shoe game.

1274
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:06,440
Speaker 2: From my experience. Right now, we're.

1275
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: Seeing or we have I don't know if this is

1276
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: going out again, but we over the past like year

1277
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 1: or two, I've seen a lot of like young people

1278
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,919
Speaker 1: with plenty of our support and plenty and no plan

1279
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,160
Speaker 1: or fasci itis issues as far as I know, like

1280
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 1: young people with perfect feet wearing like super orthopedic old

1281
00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: people shoes that I got to wear and have been

1282
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 1: wearing forever I started seeing dance go clocks. So let

1283
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: me just tell you I've been This is not a

1284
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 1: flex but I've been wearing dance sold clock since college

1285
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:38,440
Speaker 1: because I just like, I like the clunky look, but

1286
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: also they're comfortable.

1287
00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 2: I used to wear restaurants. Restaurant shoe for yes.

1288
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 1: Yes, if you have to stand behind a bar for

1289
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: like nine hours, that's the shoe. And then all of

1290
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:51,760
Speaker 1: a sudden, I start seeing them in the streets, like

1291
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 1: people on Melros, like wearing dance Goo clogs, and.

1292
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck they're taking my shoe.

1293
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 4: They always bite the style.

1294
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Birkenstock thing came back, like a lot of

1295
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,200
Speaker 1: that stuff came back, and then I was just sort

1296
01:00:04,240 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 1: of like, Okay, I can't control it.

1297
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 2: It's Chinatown.

1298
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 1: If the kids want to start like ironically wearing orthopedic

1299
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 1: mommy Aunt shoes like I wear, than fine, I guess

1300
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:20,520
Speaker 1: I'll just be a trendsetter. But it's also a strange.

1301
01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 3: It was a strange moment of confluence because it was

1302
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 3: at the same time that a lot of very young

1303
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 3: people were like dyeing their hair gray. So I'm like,

1304
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 3: you're dyeing your hair gray, You're wearing orthopedic shoes and

1305
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 3: high waisted jeans are back.

1306
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 4: What is happening?

1307
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 1: Well, say, I can't tell if I should be mad

1308
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 1: or not, because I'm just sort of like, well, now

1309
01:00:36,840 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 1: you're in my territory and this is just like what

1310
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 1: we this is what age is is comfortable shoes and

1311
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 1: gray hair, and are you should I be flattered?

1312
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 4: Should I be pissed?

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Speaker 1: Like I don't understand so now, but now I'm into

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Speaker 1: mules and you know what, thank God because it really

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Speaker 1: has like made my quarantine situation a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit more bearable.

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Speaker 4: So excellent. Oh this is so good. I know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's it's small things. It's simple things

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Speaker 3: that make life worth living right now, and that's okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And honestly, like I would love if you guys

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Speaker 1: want to weigh in and tell us like, yeah, what

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Speaker 1: are you into? If you want to email us, it's

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Speaker 1: I saw what you did pod at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 1: Just like come up with some stuff like if you're like,

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Speaker 1: by the way, I'm into you know, whatever this app

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Speaker 1: or this thing or whatever gets you through, we'd love.

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Speaker 3: To hear it.

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Speaker 2: I'm curious about that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope you enjoyed our bonus episode. I'm so

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Speaker 1: glad that you know you've decided to come check it out.

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Speaker 1: And thanks Danielle for revealing some interesting things about yourself.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for these these these secret mially lives that

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Speaker 3: I'm so excited to dip into.

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Speaker 1: So I'm still so fucking pissed about Henry Thomas, but

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Speaker 1: let me save that for another time.

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Speaker 3: Edie has the same cute face he's got, like the

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Speaker 3: same little kid cute face that he's always had.

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Speaker 4: Shut up, bye.

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Speaker 3: This has been an exactly right production. Our producer is

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Speaker 3: Laura Elizabeth Brown. Our engineer is Katie Levine. Our social

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Speaker 3: media assistant is Taren Matza. Our theme songs by Tom

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Speaker 3: bry Foegel, artwork by Garrett Ross. Our executive producers are

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Speaker 3: Georgia Hardstark, Karen Colgareth and Danielle Kramer. You can follow

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Speaker 3: us on Instagram and Twitter at I Sawpod and please listen, subscribe,

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Speaker 3: or leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or

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Speaker 3: wherever you listen