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Speaker 1: Last night we did a Christmas light stroll at like

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Speaker 2: Like, oh ho ho ho ho, and then grinched.

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Speaker 3: Geep.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's cute. Makish moshmish. Calm Down with Erin and

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Speaker 2: Chrissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the early edition of the pregame Aaron's and

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Speaker 3: her jammies because I'm making her do this at seven

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Speaker 3: Thursday night football on Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Look at how cute those shout out to Brittany.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, CHRISA has a pair of two Brittany mahomes got

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Speaker 1: us a pair of these.

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Speaker 2: Look at the little naves on.

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Speaker 3: It's such a nice gift, so nice. And that cozy

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Speaker 3: Earth pajamas is the softest, not an ad, but does

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Speaker 2: Those are cozy cozy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I love these? Anonymous.

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Speaker 3: Should I leave this man I have been dating for

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Speaker 3: a year because he's emotionally unavailable.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, year, it's been a year.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if it's been a month, we can kind of say, like,

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Speaker 3: doing with my life?

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Speaker 2: So and define emotionally.

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Speaker 3: Unavailable like he's just right, No back, I need more

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Speaker 3: that actually means.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hit us back, let us know what it is.

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Speaker 1: Anonymous you know the one, Okay, Gina giver kin yep,

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Speaker 1: I butchered that. After all of them, after all of

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Speaker 1: them amazing folks, you have talked with, who do you

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Speaker 1: fan girl over?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So after all the amazing guys we have worked and

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Speaker 2: Do we fan fan girl over?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: I fan girl over a lot of people just because

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Speaker 1: I love sports so much. And Chrissa was on the

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Speaker 1: end of a lot of text messages this week.

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Speaker 2: Listen, I'll say it getting and I'm not complaining. I

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be doing anything else. I understand

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Speaker 1: people have it harder than me.

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Speaker 2: Disclaimer disc disclaimer disclaimer.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, lat lat lat Latin know who you are. It

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Speaker 4: is so hey, it's so hard. It's a truck, it's

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Speaker 2: To Green Bay. Now I've got a callund stuff. It

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Speaker 2: is you. How are you feeling?

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Speaker 1: God, I just got it over it well later again disclaimer.

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Speaker 2: People have it hard.

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Speaker 1: It's a truck to get there all the way from California.

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Speaker 1: But once you were there, you it is so awesome.

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Speaker 1: Let's see do you still fangirl over got Yeah? The

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Speaker 1: say this. Tom Brady in our film sessions with him,

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Speaker 2: I'm fangirling over this in year seventeen with how old

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Speaker 1: MVP, Hi, Steve, this is cool, like this is really

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Speaker 3: Well, Matthew needs to Matthew needs to call her friend

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Speaker 3: because Steve is in trouble with.

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Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, well all he asked him to do is

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Speaker 3: I think it's always a privilege and it is a

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Speaker 2: You just walk outside and now you're walking up this

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Steve Aaron's waving Okay, hi daddy. Anyways, it's a

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Speaker 3: it's like, yeah, they could be in year seventeen, but

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Speaker 2: Uh walking watching Jerry Jones walk.

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Speaker 3: Behind us, Like, I don't know, I just feel like

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Speaker 3: I mean, I still feel like there's you to have

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Speaker 1: So it's funny with TV, Like, you know, now it's yeah,

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, casual, and it is for you, not blend.

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Speaker 2: We go on the field.

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Speaker 2: Someone who was a little cold. So you go out

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Speaker 3: Next cast g seventeen favorite Christmas treat mine is peppermint Martini.

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Speaker 3: I've never had a peppermint Martine. That's seventeen. You have

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it on the big show that game.

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Speaker 2: But I love those those. Look, I'm like, where did

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Speaker 3: grandma always used to make, like spend two days making

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Speaker 3: They need to set because you put them man when

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Speaker 3: they're still a little bit warm, so that they stay.

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Speaker 2: Max making cookies. How about me? Whatever? Door dashing cookies? Yesterday?

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Speaker 2: this brand. Whatever this is is so good. Brady's Bakery.

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Speaker 2: I don't mean I miss my girlfriend Jackie Quick.

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Speaker 2: Next.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Anonymous not married but happily partnered with a great man,

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Speaker 1: He's been divorced. I have had bad relationships. We live together,

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Speaker 3: Did I write this? It is Anonymous? Maybe I wrote this.

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Speaker 3: My advice is given my experience. Again, everything is coming

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Speaker 3: The other thing too, I will say this, Steve helps

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Speaker 2: And that also just shows a lot of trust.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not sure what assets you guys have together, Anonymous,

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Speaker 2: Even if he doesn't make the bed, he's still great.

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Speaker 1: He used to I remember when you first started dating,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, that's the pregame, folks, thank you for

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Speaker 3: talk about the big matchups we had this week. Aaron

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Speaker 3: I don't even know what it's fifteen fifteen.

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