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Speaker 1: This is a headgun podcastle Hi. My name is Teresa.

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Speaker 1: I'm a medium. Um. Have you ever used a medium before?

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Speaker 1: I have never used a medium before. My aunt's sisters

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Speaker 1: cousin is a psychic. She did pass away do it

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Speaker 1: a melanoma related accident? And I am familiar with your work,

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Speaker 1: but I've never seen a medium before. Okay, So all

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Speaker 1: what I do is, um, spirit just comes to me.

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Speaker 1: And all I ask is that even if you don't

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Speaker 1: believe in the worthday mediums, do you just remain open

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Speaker 1: to what spirit has to say to you. Oh I'm open, okay.

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Speaker 1: Great a skeptic, so if you see him making some

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Speaker 1: faces over here, that's not me. I believe it. If

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Speaker 1: I had to die, if I had to die for

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Speaker 1: every husband who's a skeptic, I would have bought all

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Speaker 1: of das of you warehouse. I love their saddlebacks. Oh

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Speaker 1: I just, oh, two hours yesterday I bought these sparkly wedges.

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Speaker 1: And that is the thing I was, you know, I

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Speaker 1: wanted these voy rodgers and I kept on seeing them

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Speaker 1: and seeing them, and that is the work in spirit

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Speaker 1: came to me and it was it was my nanny. Actually,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm getting choked up right now. My mother

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Speaker 1: used to Wis Bockley Wedges. She hasn't passed yet, but um,

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Speaker 1: I just always wanted him. I'm feeling a choke a

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Speaker 1: little bit my throat. It's it's almost like a dander.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting wicked allergies. Here is there? Is it? Do

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Speaker 1: you have a cat? Oh? My god, I do she

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Speaker 1: a row? Because I'm getting these. She died. She died

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Speaker 1: choking on my other pet, my fish, because I'm allergic's cats.

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Speaker 1: And so that's a spirit comes into me, and that's

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Speaker 1: that's the danders. She's here. So this is me letting

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Speaker 1: you know that your cat is present and she has

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Speaker 1: come forth and while to let you know that she

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Speaker 1: is okay. And the decisions that you made is why

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Speaker 1: you had to do and I don't. And she did

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Speaker 1: not want you to feel guilty of that because she

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Speaker 1: knows she was in pa and you seeing her in

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Speaker 1: pain made her feel even more pain. I always blame

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Speaker 1: myself because I wasn't supposed to leave the door to

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Speaker 1: the Washa tire open, and that's where we kept the fish.

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Speaker 1: That's where we kept Tulsa, who was a fish. And

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Speaker 1: then Miss Veronica, who was a cat. She went in

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Speaker 1: there one day and she went and she Tulsi and

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Speaker 1: I lost two of my best friends on the same day.

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Speaker 1: And he said, this was my fault. No, I'm getting

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Speaker 1: I was thirsty coming over here, but I'm not thirsty anymore.

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Speaker 1: And that is that is Miss Veronica is saying, that

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Speaker 1: is coming forward with spirit. It's gonna ask a question, Please,

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Speaker 1: did Tulsi Tulsey didn't suffer? And that Miss veronicas that's

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Speaker 1: the water that I'm filling my throat. Is that Tulsa

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Speaker 1: she's saying she was gonna go whether it was Miss

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Speaker 1: Veronica who had a little snack, Tulsi was sick. Miss

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Speaker 1: Veronica is saying, I knew Tulsea was sick, and so

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Speaker 1: she was actually putting Tulcie out of her pain. I

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Speaker 1: told you, Georgia was the time. It was the time

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Speaker 1: she met her goal and the time. They both wants

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Speaker 1: you to know they had a beautiful life, a beautiful life.

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Speaker 1: Right your laundry room was the most beautiful place she

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Speaker 1: could have ever lived. She's so cass, she's as she

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Speaker 1: was a character, wasn't she Yes? She was? She was

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Speaker 1: really she would she would have run around in circles.

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Speaker 1: She would always be doing circle thing. What you're doing

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Speaker 1: in there, Tulcie, what what are you training for the marathon?

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Speaker 1: That's because I just started getting dizzy. That's I just

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Speaker 1: started getting dizzy. And her and she wants you to

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Speaker 1: know that she's still chasing that tail. She is still

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Speaker 1: she is still running in circles. And I want to

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Speaker 1: thank you for letting me inside your house and filetting

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Speaker 1: spirit connect with you. Thank you so much. You have

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Speaker 1: given us peace that we have never known. God bless

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Speaker 1: that knocking at the door. It's all your friends, you

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Speaker 1: filthy horse. Your husband's gone and you've got books and

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Speaker 1: a bottle of wind to kill. It's Hollywood, it's books,

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Speaker 1: It's gossip. I'm shook. It's memoirs, Martini Cleriok Club. Come

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Speaker 1: read it while it's hot. Celebrity Book Club, tell your secrets.

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Speaker 1: We won't talk celebrity books. No boys are alloud. Celebrit

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Speaker 1: book say it Loud and Cloud Celebrity Book Club. Buzz

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Speaker 1: Man I brought the Queer voe Hey best friend. Oh mg,

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Speaker 1: my god, I what a week I have had just

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Speaker 1: being in the presence of all of my dad loved ones. No.

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Speaker 1: This week has been crazy because spirit has been really

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Speaker 1: present both of our homes. Yeah, I know actually, and

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Speaker 1: I have a very specific through line that really made

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Speaker 1: it self apparent, like after reading this book, which I

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Speaker 1: do want to really know, we will have so much

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Speaker 1: to talk about it even though of course we have

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Speaker 1: seen each other this week. But but there's so much

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Speaker 1: that we haven't talked about. There's a lot we haven't

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Speaker 1: talked about. There's a lot of dead folks who have

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Speaker 1: not really not made their way into our conversation that

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Speaker 1: maybe need to make also who haven't made themselves visible

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Speaker 1: because as you know, sometimes if it's actually a recent passing, right,

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Speaker 1: they do take a while. But also to enter, for

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Speaker 1: a spirit to enter, you need to be open to

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Speaker 1: the to the enter exactly through meditation or yoga or

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Speaker 1: or just kind of driving your big SUV throughout Long Island.

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Speaker 1: Because we are talking about none other than Teresa Kaputos,

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Speaker 1: there's more to life than this healing messages, remarkable stories

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Speaker 1: and insight about the other side. And also Jerusa Kaputo

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Speaker 1: also known as the Long Island Medium, Long Island Medium Say,

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Speaker 1: long running television program on the TLC network. I Want

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Speaker 1: to say thirteen seasons anyone. Well, and now it's like

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Speaker 1: she's that and I feel like, now it's like Teresa

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Speaker 1: Caputo here and now and that's her, like doing zoom

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Speaker 1: readings and it's a car news show and her her

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Speaker 1: kids has spin off. Kids have a spin off show

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Speaker 1: called Caputo o Kaids. She's an institution. She has huge hair.

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Speaker 1: She's like five small body, big taws, big hair, big

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Speaker 1: sas Italian American icon. Yes, high heels, Oh yeah, hi,

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Speaker 1: are the hair the closer to God? But she does

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Speaker 1: quote in the book and she says, well, that's true,

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Speaker 1: and her hair is like so is that her tagline

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Speaker 1: or is that just like a classic last seem like

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Speaker 1: fifteen be high like yeah, be hive Texas slogan. Okay,

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Speaker 1: like hire hair closer to God like her spy. Right,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's so the help. It's just been

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Speaker 1: like the hire the hair the closer to God. Ladies. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: so we're going to really get into this book. But

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Speaker 1: she says in the book that spirit being a medium

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Speaker 1: is genetic, and she thinks her it is the way

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Speaker 1: everything is qualified. It's like everything can either be a

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Speaker 1: sign or not. And yes, free will completely exists, but yes,

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Speaker 1: fate completely exists. Everything has faded, but everything can also

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Speaker 1: be free will, and if something happens like it could

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Speaker 1: totally be fat and that's what. But then she's like, well,

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Speaker 1: I actually was a Russian orphan in a past life

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Speaker 1: who was raped and murdered, and my daughter was my

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Speaker 1: prison guard. Okay, so I can we just let's quickly

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Speaker 1: read that section because I'm not a saved. She's talking

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Speaker 1: about all her past lives. I learned it's because I

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Speaker 1: overcame these events with the ability to still love unconditionally

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Speaker 1: that I was given the gift I have. And these lives.

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Speaker 1: I was an official during the Roman Empire who was

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Speaker 1: killed on my son's wedding day, a young girl who

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Speaker 1: was held prisoner in a jail for a crime that

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Speaker 1: wasn't her fault, a child with a joyful soul despite

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Speaker 1: a crippling disability, and an orphan in Russia. This last

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Speaker 1: one had a tremendous impact on my soul. After the

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Speaker 1: on to wars, so of course you know the facility

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Speaker 1: I'm referring too. I overcame my struggles and paid it

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Speaker 1: forward in this life. The man who ran the orphanage

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Speaker 1: not want to leave. When he was adopted as my

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Speaker 1: nephew Jason, it's like, I'm sorry, so your own son

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Speaker 1: is the reincarnation of this orphan master from from Russia.

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Speaker 1: But it's like, so now you get to control him

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Speaker 1: it's more benevolent and being like this guy, it's well,

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Speaker 1: it's still a binary. She's not saying I was a

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Speaker 1: near Robi maybe non bun. I think everyone everyone was okay,

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Speaker 1: I do kind of agree with that. Well that's true.

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Speaker 1: So the episode I watched was about she went to

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Speaker 1: Fire Island, which was so iconic. Wait did she do

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Speaker 1: And she was like, she's like, I love right by

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Speaker 1: you know, we know Sunday did her pasta basta? Like

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Speaker 1: everything was not a single bad thing about her childhood.

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Speaker 1: I'm just being like, it's sort of like reeks of

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Speaker 1: fan fiction fiction seven about like time traveling, like sword

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Speaker 1: wielding samurai lesbians and it's just like, oh, but you

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Speaker 1: him and she's like, why am I sensing some a watch?

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Speaker 1: like obviously he's wearing a huge watch when this massive yeah, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: intense relationship. She's like, I'm sensing your father had a watch,

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Speaker 1: So I think there's two things here. First of all,

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Speaker 1: seen a mentalist. Yeah, like in Las Vegas. I'm like

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Speaker 1: I think that there definitely is a degree of mentalism

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Speaker 1: extremely Catholic. I think that he generally wants you to

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Speaker 1: be able to like move beyond your grief and your

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451
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Speaker 1: says German. She says that anytimes she sees Sonny Bono,

452
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Speaker 1: it means that some accident she's like, and of course

453
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Speaker 1: my sign frisky accidents is Sonny Bono. So she alsas

454
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Speaker 1: does have um a full section about celebs and how

455
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Speaker 1: Michael Jackson has come to her out. It's, of course

456
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Speaker 1: like the most folkloric celebs that we all say are alive,

457
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Speaker 1: the slabs that have come to her are Elvis' obsessed

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Speaker 1: with your use of the word folkloric. I think that

459
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Speaker 1: was like I actually very sort of like bang on

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Speaker 1: use of it, Thank you might. No, it's like these

461
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Speaker 1: absolute like iconic just like rumored to be on it's like, okay,

462
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: I should be like there's a she said, I wasn't

463
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: even a fan of Whitney Houston. But that's so funny

464
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: because two days ago, my friends and I were in

465
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Speaker 1: a car when I Will Always Love You came on

466
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Speaker 1: the radio, and you're like, so one of the most

467
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Speaker 1: popular popular songs ever and it came on while you

468
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: were listening to just like the Longerland point five the

469
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Speaker 1: Best Times Today, And it's just like there's element of

470
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Speaker 1: it that's shooting fish in a arrol where it's just like, Okay,

471
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Speaker 1: you're telling a group of guidos that like someone has

472
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Speaker 1: a butterfly tou too, that someone still thinks Elvis is alive.

473
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Speaker 1: But it's like, yeah, I'm sure so and again like

474
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Speaker 1: love Long Island, but I do feel like that is

475
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: a place where like people in their twenties pass. Oh wait, Okay,

476
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Speaker 1: So this brings me to a larger point that I

477
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Speaker 1: want to make about the book, and thank you for

478
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Speaker 1: bringing this up. I feel like this book is a

479
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Speaker 1: microcose him of America ten how deeply sick and unhealthy

480
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Speaker 1: our country is. Yes, because she she dos a lot

481
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 1: of people who have experienced a recent loss and I

482
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 1: think that her philosophy, I would say, is somewhere between

483
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Speaker 1: like the you know, so called neoliberal point of view,

484
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Speaker 1: which is like you call also sorry to connect the

485
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Speaker 1: word neoliberal, I was the funniest thing ever. And that's

486
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Speaker 1: the culture of the heart hitting cultural analysis that you

487
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,640
Speaker 1: but she like, you know, where she doesn't necessarily think

488
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: that like everything is your choice, which I would say

489
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: is the number of liberal thing where it's just like,

490
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Speaker 1: you know, it's your fault if you're fat, depressed, whatever,

491
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Speaker 1: you have to make the choice to like you know,

492
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Speaker 1: harness your life or whatever. Um. But she also you know,

493
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Speaker 1: she says that like some stuff is faded, but like

494
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Speaker 1: some stuff isn't and it's not like it's totally like

495
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: she also doesn't think that like society is responsible everything.

496
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: Like she's no concept of like they're being like you know,

497
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: societal ills that like affect people, like that's not in

498
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Speaker 1: her vocabulary. It's just like if something happens, that's out

499
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Speaker 1: of your controls because that was God's choice, right, And

500
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: then she'll be like and people do say to me,

501
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 1: she's like I had a woman who was very angry

502
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: at God because like my husband got killed by a

503
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: drunk driver. It's on his way with overtime. It's like,

504
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,360
Speaker 1: maybe you should be mad at American society because it's

505
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: like so much of this book as people who have

506
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Speaker 1: died of melanoma, and like obviously every like Guido is

507
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: like so overtanned in just like New Jersey, Long Island,

508
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: but like people who have died of cancer, of disease,

509
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: like car accidents, drunk driving off, it's a lot of suicide.

510
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: And then it's like addiction and a lot of addiction.

511
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Speaker 1: You're like, this is I feel like it's such an

512
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Speaker 1: the fentanel and I think Long Island is a is

513
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Speaker 1: a microcrossum of America this way, because you know, the

514
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Speaker 1: demographics may shift, like you know, the whatever the cause

515
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Speaker 1: of death may be more or less in other punch

516
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Speaker 1: of the country where you have you know, uh, gun

517
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: violence or drugs or whatever. But big suburban area close

518
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Speaker 1: to a city, close to a city, where you have

519
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Speaker 1: you know, an absolute like lack of healthcare infrastructure, you

520
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Speaker 1: have an isolated and atomized society that has been like

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Speaker 1: you know, also huge welcome. We have people long o

522
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Speaker 1: the times that people have left the city because they

523
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Speaker 1: can't even afford the city can't afford the support communities.

524
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Speaker 1: But then you also have the huge Nassau County you

525
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: have throwing this out wealth disparity, wealth disparity. You have

526
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: um the American diet, which is just like so unhealthy,

527
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 1: has become psychotically and healthy. Of the past hundred years.

528
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: You have like you know, no public transportation infrastructure. It's

529
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Speaker 1: called the Long Island rail Road, so actually more than

530
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Speaker 1: like a Kansas Yeah, but that just takes you like

531
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Speaker 1: long distances, it does. It's not just like a local

532
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Speaker 1: public transportation. Everyone is still driving, Yes, they're drive there

533
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Speaker 1: is I'm just saying that Long Island has a little

534
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Speaker 1: bit I just want to call you in for one

535
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Speaker 1: second about that Long Island has a little bit more transportation. No, no, no,

536
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Speaker 1: I'm actually going to call you in for a second

537
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: because the Long Island Railroad has deteriorated and the quality

538
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: of service of the past twenty years, and that is

539
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: because a lack of investment in public services on the

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Speaker 1: part of the state government. You don't think I want

541
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Speaker 1: the Long Island Road to have as much money as

542
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Speaker 1: they should. I'm gonna give my whole stummy this track

543
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: to Long Island railroad. Okay, you just to Cuomo. No,

544
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: and and you know, and a healthcare system that pushes

545
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: pills and that pushes over preventative care and all of

546
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,719
Speaker 1: these things are like I think, come up on almost

547
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: like every page of this book with all these causes

548
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: of death, and it's like there's no I think you

549
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: could eat this book on ray see it as well.

550
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: It's kind of like in high school, how there was

551
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: a class at Mike Schools. Well no, not footed culture,

552
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: which we'll talk about that another time. That'll be the

553
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Speaker 1: board end episode. But m Waltham Colin a mirror of

554
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: American life. Wal Fham is a suburb of Boston that

555
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: used to manufacture watches and now it doesn't. Famously the

556
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Speaker 1: place where joke ar Sarnav the hot Boston bomber town.

557
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can't believe we just said that. Wow, Wow,

558
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: dude read literally not from Boston. Yeah, right up right

559
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 1: next to Waltham. Well he let there close. He like

560
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: ran through Waltham on that chase, but he did nice

561
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: trying to cover up over there. Yeah. No, but wal

562
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: fam it's like, you know, whatever manufacturer watches and now

563
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: there's like Indian restaurants in Italian restaurants and both went

564
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Speaker 1: to drive as eddam. Oh no, sorry, you're making up

565
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 1: your history. Didn't you go to cams No, Driver's Deadly

566
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Speaker 1: came to my school while you could go behind fancy

567
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Speaker 1: you silver spoon fed little bitch Rocksbury and Latin came

568
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: Bridge School of West and my father was a doctor.

569
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Speaker 1: My mother was at your Rocksbury Latin Boys school. She

570
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: was me, um, no, but cams were You went to

571
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Speaker 1: Driver's ed Right, that's where you met the girl you

572
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: set me up with on my first ever date, right,

573
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Speaker 1: and I took you. It was a group date at

574
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Speaker 1: a gust counter free Guster concert at the Government Center,

575
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 1: Government Head, right next to City Hall, which is a

576
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: god big brutalist building down. She asked you the question

577
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: that I feel like we live our lives by Yeah,

578
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: she said to me when I was telling her about

579
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: my my lesbian friend Lily, because I think she told

580
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 1: me she was by or something and whatever. You know,

581
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: you were like, oh, mycuse, we like didn't know anyone

582
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: like our age, right, even though there were like old

583
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 1: lesbians my school. But obviously I was intimidated anyway, So

584
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: it was like journey break from driver's at and I

585
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 1: was talking about my friend Lily and she just goes,

586
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:11,719
Speaker 1: is she a hippie or a preppie? I was like,

587
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: she's a hippie. And to this day that is like

588
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: there are only two guide agrees a person. They're two

589
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: people in the world hippi. Okay, yeah, it's like you

590
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: don't need to ask, Oh, but are they like Norman

591
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Speaker 1: Core they like, you know, are they based basic? It's

592
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:36,719
Speaker 1: like it's PREPPI, you're hippie. Okayend of day. Anyway, So

593
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Speaker 1: she brought her best friend. We came and for the

594
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Speaker 1: We've had a lot of debates about that's what I

595
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: am a prepper and you're hippie? Yes, thank you. Um

596
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: that just to end the kind of that date story

597
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: is then like you and her friend were like, okay,

598
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: we're walking away. It's like just like a girl girl. No,

599
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: it was a girl. And that's that's why you like

600
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Speaker 1: are the ultimate wing man. You are a champion, because

601
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: it's just like you were down to just be like, Okay,

602
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go talk with this random wallfam cheek up

603
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: for like, you know, a long and then I mean

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Speaker 1: my h and m Ribbon belts and yeah at three pm,

605
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: totally sober, and I'm going to talk to this other

606
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Speaker 1: random wall time girl while you talk to this I

607
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 1: remember her. She kind of had like kind of classic

608
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: like early scene hair. Yeah, it was bangs and side

609
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: swept kind of banging. And she was almost even more.

610
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 1: She was actually much more vague because I think when

611
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Speaker 1: that question classic hip, because she had that classic like

612
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Speaker 1: super low bag, the side low bag below the hip

613
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: and it's like that thing be bang, yeah, just bum bum.

614
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Speaker 1: And I feel like I probably wore my like ska

615
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: checkered skirt. Maybe you were fem I feel like I

616
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 1: was fem for because I also think I probably was,

617
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: like I actually probably be fum because they're into like girls.

618
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: So maybe I need to drast more like right a girl.

619
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: And I'm sure if you had been so rockabilly, but

620
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: she would have actually been into and she could have

621
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 1: been your first girlfriend and you would have lost her

622
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:17,720
Speaker 1: virginity like three years earlier. Damn, you'd be so fucking

623
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: ahead of the gay. And now I'm just like, oh,

624
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: and then it's like now you're like Joss cutting your

625
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Speaker 1: first sold Okay, not true, ospreading lies. No, I know

626
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Speaker 1: as you've mentioned do you have a whole room full

627
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Speaker 1: of it? Okay, I do want to mention. I want

628
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Speaker 1: to get serious for a second. I actually do think

629
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: that spirit is president right now or this weekend, this

630
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 1: in the past week, that there has been an element

631
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Speaker 1: of spirit. And it happened while reading this book, and

632
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 1: it was this weird thing because she says, like, basically

633
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,720
Speaker 1: one of her biggest points is that like, don't ignore coincidences,

634
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: Like every coincidence is spirit. And it's like, okay, yeah,

635
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 1: but it is like to that to that end, it's

636
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: like if you actually follow you know, your mind where

637
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: it goes, like just saddle to a spirit. Yeah, that's

638
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 1: the intuition of spirit. It's just intuition. And basically like

639
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: trust the vibe I think could be like in some

640
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: ways the more vibes are vibes, as Chloe says, like

641
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: if you say Costa Rica vibes and you're not in

642
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 1: Costa Rica, it doesn't mean that that's wrong because vibes

643
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 1: are vibes and feelings are facts. Okay, So this movie

644
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 1: was so weird. She was like, if you like get something, Oh,

645
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: she talked about like throat issues in the book, so

646
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 1: let me preference this by saying the past few months,

647
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: I've been going through a health question mark where I've

648
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 1: had this throat a soreness in my throat that developed

649
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 1: like a month and a half after I had surgery

650
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: on my nose, and I was like, is it related

651
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: to the surgery, because it's an anti doctor who goes

652
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: in the whole area. And it started into semb and

653
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: going on and on. It's very persistent. Sometimes it comes

654
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: with a good day. Seen a lot of doctors bent

655
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: up through all this stuff. Last week we read Shania Twain.

656
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: In Shania Twain's book, she talks about throat issues, having

657
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: a sore throat issue for like three or four months

658
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: as long as I've had it while she was on tour,

659
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 1: and it totally aft to the tour, and they had

660
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: like changed the way that they were like rehearsing and

661
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: everything and be much more conscious after the Mud, of course,

662
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 1: was it after the Mud doors the divorce? I think

663
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 1: it was maybe before the mut divorce, but but maybe

664
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 1: that was part of it. Anyway, she had a lot

665
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 1: of anxiety. She finally saw this doctor or therapist. Maybe

666
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: that was like the reason that you are actually having

667
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 1: this real, actual real pain in your throat. That's a

668
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: real soreness. Is because you are so emotionally choked up

669
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 1: and literally not crying and not letting your emotions out

670
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: that you're having this feeling. And I have been producer

671
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: Magan's lily clapping at this, and I have been very

672
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:34,840
Speaker 1: aware of it. Right the past few months, I have

673
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: been like, super could be psychosomatic. And I've said this

674
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: to you, right, I mean a sort of you have

675
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 1: been an absolutely I've sensed, just knowing you very well,

676
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:45,359
Speaker 1: a dark place. I've been in a dark place, had

677
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: been very stressed and very anxious. And obviously, again it's

678
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 1: a pandemic. And we no society stous when this one

679
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: saying not to be new liberal. I don't think it's

680
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: my fault. I think in society. However, I've also been

681
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: very open the idea that it could be psychostomatic. I've

682
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,720
Speaker 1: seen a bunch of different doctors. They've all said different things. Finally,

683
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: I went to a follow up last week. The same

684
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 1: week whit Shanaya and I had a visit with this doctor,

685
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: chief resident at Bellevue pardon me, and he gave me

686
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: the full exam he had looked at a cat skin

687
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: then I had the week before all the stuff, and

688
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 1: he literally said, there is nothing wrong with you. And

689
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: he was like, you know, you're having the symptoms there,

690
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 1: you know, and that's that's true, But there is literally

691
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with you. My biggest fears that you will

692
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: overtreat this issue, and that is one of your biggest

693
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: fears to overtreat things, such a big fear to overtreat.

694
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 1: And he was just like, you know, I think this

695
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: literally will get better on its own, and the best

696
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: thing you can do is try to, like you know,

697
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: take less and less medication, like just try to like

698
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 1: ignore it and be okay with it for the next

699
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 1: few months, and it will get better, like when the

700
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: weather gets better. And that almost like placebo effect of

701
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 1: him saying that like gave me this release to be

702
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 1: okay with it and to just sort of like decide

703
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,439
Speaker 1: to move past it and table the anxiety about whether

704
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: or not if you had cancer you had this, or

705
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: even whether or not it is ychosomatic, you know what

706
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: I mean, like whether or not I am I'm causing

707
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: this bo. Did you feel what he said that then

708
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: you knew it was psychosomatic, So then you started dealing

709
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: with what my emotions of what it was, what I

710
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,919
Speaker 1: felt was like, it doesn't even matter if it's psychosomatic

711
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: or not, because what I need to do is deal

712
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: with my own emotions and treat every single day as

713
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: if it were if just as if it's the day

714
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: that I'm in, you know, and not think about like

715
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 1: three weeks I had or six months I had or

716
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,760
Speaker 1: one week behind, or should I regret the surgery or whatever,

717
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: and just be like, how do I enjoy this day?

718
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: How do I go to bed tonight and feel like

719
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: I've lived a full life? You know? And so the

720
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 1: fact that Teresa said this the week after, which Chania

721
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: and I was like wow. The fact that the Shania

722
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: book and that doctor visit that was kind of like

723
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: a big release for me happened in the same week,

724
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 1: that is spirit. No, that is spirit also because here's

725
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: kind of a look behind, you know, the curtain. I

726
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 1: don't know, no one's of the pot. Is that Usually

727
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: I feel like we more carefully plan out the three

728
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: weeks and Shania was a little bit the week before

729
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we was getting paid. No, no, we

730
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: didn't learn yeah, and we were like, you know, let's

731
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: just do Shania because we didn't we like didn't actually

732
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: plan it out. So we're in ahead and we said

733
00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: we have to do Shani because it's like arriving in

734
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: the mail or whatever. And then I read that part

735
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: about the throat and I was like, wait, this could

736
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 1: be me, and the doctor was like maybe this is you,

737
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: and and and we almost did Caputo before, but we

738
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 1: needed to do a time. Now that I'm reading out, wait,

739
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: this is so true. This is crazy. And it was

740
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: Teresa waiting, yes, spirits for spirits, and we needed to

741
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: read that we are ready. No spirit, God, I really,

742
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:53,919
Speaker 1: I'm like for freaking out. This is so insane. This

743
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: is so helpful to hear. Okay, this is why spirit

744
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 1: is real. Well and you okay, this is something so

745
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 1: small about spirit. But in this book is she mentioned

746
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 1: spirit coming to her bar tuc Chiese. Did I not

747
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 1: two weeks ago? Anyway, this is grab even and you

748
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 1: said in their Kevin Garnett episode, you said that's where

749
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: you would want your announcement to and then she brought

750
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,320
Speaker 1: it up in this book. There comes to their memoir

751
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: we've ever read as mentioned, I didn't even know that

752
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:30,200
Speaker 1: had location changing there we have to go. Obviously, it's

753
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 1: also just like this like beautiful like message of acceptance

754
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 1: where it's just like you, you can never change what's

755
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: happened to you. You can never change the situation that

756
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 1: you're in, like, you know, at least all the events

757
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: proceeding up to the moment that you're in, you know,

758
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: And what she says, I mean usually when she is

759
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: like comforting someone who has a dead parent, is that

760
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: just like they always like feel guilty, the living feel

761
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: guilty for like something they should have done or how

762
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: are they now? And I feel like she always does

763
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: say okay, spirit is present and they want you to

764
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: know you did all you can do, which is like classic, Yeah,

765
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: I think. I mean she says that to pretty much everyone.

766
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,720
Speaker 1: She's doing this how and yeah, you know, there's literally

767
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: no one who doesn't need to hear that. Well, I'm

768
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 1: just saying because that is after him the past, right,

769
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: almost a year ago, almost a year ago, Um, a

770
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 1: little over a year, but that is the main over

771
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: a year now. Sorry, he was January thirtieth, twenty twenty.

772
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,359
Speaker 1: You're right, of course, it was before the Pantama. Yeah, oh,

773
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:32,720
Speaker 1: I was remembering that we had the memorial service schedule

774
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 1: for April. For April, it was yeah, for April. Then

775
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: I had to cancel it. But that's also well that

776
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: something was Spirit telling me. And again I'm not pro

777
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: pandemic or anything, but it was it was it was

778
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,839
Speaker 1: like I was so stressed out. I was like had

779
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: barely even like realized he like died, and it was

780
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: just like the stress of the last year of like

781
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: him being so sick in the visiting. And then I

782
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: was like and so much it was like his death

783
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: has been obviously, it was like so much ad minute

784
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and it's like the pain. And then

785
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 1: it was so like now I have to like be

786
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: ordering I mean, this is all so caputo. It was

787
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 1: like I was on like the website for like Dave's

788
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 1: Fresh Italian Pasta and Somerville and it's like and now

789
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: I'm having to figure out how much salami I want,

790
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean for this memorial And I

791
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: was like I'm just truly not in a place to

792
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 1: be like making an E card and like ordering the

793
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:25,320
Speaker 1: salami and just like yeah, And that was Spirit saying like, Okay,

794
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 1: this is just not the time. Yeah. And Spirit did

795
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 1: cause them millions and millions of people. And again that

796
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 1: is not what I'm saying. I'm just saying Spirit was

797
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 1: saying the thous and there and the thing is like

798
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: whether or not the and see what I think what

799
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: Teresa would say is whether or not that was the

800
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: pandemicic the funeral would have been paused. Yes, I would

801
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: have been stopped by time and that that would have

802
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: been okay because you weren't ready to go through all

803
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: those decisions right now, and that actually wasn't helping you

804
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: grief right and what you needed was time alone and

805
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 1: like to eventually find a therapist and like go through

806
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 1: all of this process through. So you know, I feel

807
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: like I haven't forgot if I've told the story, but

808
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: that I was visited by an angel who I don't

809
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 1: know if I believe her. But now after reading this,

810
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, is it true? So I called to I

811
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 1: was my dad had a triple A account and then

812
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 1: I like paid extra to be like a part of it,

813
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: and so but he was ahead of the triple A

814
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 1: account or something. So I had to call, which has

815
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: also has been like my life for the past years,

816
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,919
Speaker 1: like canceling cards and canceling things and just like calling

817
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: every person that I remember. I had to call the

818
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,279
Speaker 1: Stephen imitated my dad to call easy Pass because I

819
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 1: couldn't find out the password. And of course easy pass

820
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: is like literally the CIA to cancel, just like the

821
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 1: automatic link to your credit card to pay for the

822
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 1: toll on the mass Pike. And yeah, you had to

823
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: be like, hello, it is just Chasmata. I want to

824
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 1: switch cards, like literally, just so I could put on

825
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 1: my debit card and not his debut card. And she

826
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: made me play a guessing game to guess the code.

827
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean they're out of control over

828
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 1: there past And I was like, is it three point

829
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: ninety seven? And she was like there is a seven?

830
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: Is it three five six seven? And she was like

831
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 1: you're very close? And I'm like, why are we doing this?

832
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 1: Is insane? See is this just fun for you? Yeah?

833
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: So I got Triple A to um, can't you know,

834
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: make myself, you know, cancel his card and just be

835
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: the only one. And I think because it was, you know,

836
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: a man and a woman on one Triple A account,

837
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 1: she did assume we were married. She assumed you were

838
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: Charles Marata's wife, because she was like, I'm so sore

839
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,600
Speaker 1: for your loss, and she was almost like southern and

840
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 1: speaking like so quietly, and then she was like, and

841
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:37,760
Speaker 1: do know that he is with you? Wait she said

842
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 1: that to you, and then she kind of went on

843
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 1: and said she literally actually was an angel sent from God. Well,

844
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I think you told me that. That's like

845
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: what had happened. And it's like, what's so crazy that

846
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: she's just too insane? So she went and I was like, oh,

847
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 1: of course she was like, and I want. She was

848
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 1: like when someone passes, it's so hard, like my husband

849
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 1: passed a few years ago, and like, what's going on

850
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 1: about it? How hard it wasn't I thought? At first?

851
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, she's just been like Christian customer service, right,

852
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: And then she was like, and do know when you

853
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: feel the wind, that is him being present, and that

854
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: is him kissing you, and that she is an angel's

855
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: sent for God. And I was kind of like, okay,

856
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: when I guess the kissing part where she was like,

857
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 1: every time you feel the wind, it's him kissing you.

858
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, so I'm actually now making

859
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: out my father like every time I'm outside, Like that's

860
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 1: what's so insane. It's like when They're like, oh, like

861
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: your spirit is President, butterflies. We never seen butterflies. It's like,

862
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: I don't. That's actually an incredibly common thing that happens

863
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: all the time. No, I don't see butterflies a lot.

864
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not looking. Oh okay, but I guess just

865
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: to get back to your dad for a time. Yeah, President, Like,

866
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: I think it's important that this episode's happening because we're

867
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: talking about but I do want it. Of course I laughed.

868
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:47,720
Speaker 1: I was like, this is I wish I was recording.

869
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 1: This is the funniest thing ever. You know. I'm like, oh.

870
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: And it was because also she didn't stop. It was

871
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: like I was like, great, let's you know, cancel it.

872
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 1: Go ahead, right, let's go ahead. And she was like, no, y'all,

873
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: like Gabriel's in the room. No, she was at Gabriel's room.

874
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: And she really went off talking about Yes, she was

875
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 1: telling me about her husband and yeah, just so much Deiah.

876
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: It was really she was actually more someone who called

877
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: into Delilah okay, because Delila's always like and that is

878
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: so dark, and we will play your song. Yeah. And

879
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 1: the woman is like, so I'm gonna have an affair

880
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: with a man that's an Afghanistan thirteen years and he

881
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 1: does have a wife, but I am hoping that when

882
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,919
Speaker 1: he does return from tour that he will leave her

883
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 1: for me. And she's like, I was like, well, we

884
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 1: all make mistakes, and I do honor the man. You're

885
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 1: having an affair way for his service. So you have

886
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 1: not felt your dad kissing you every time you hear

887
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: the wind, I'm guessing I don't think so. But are

888
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: you also like so butch that you don't notice the wind? Well? Well,

889
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 1: last week last weekend, my sister and I met for

890
00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: a walk and it was a cold walk and it

891
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: was like, oh, fifty degrees and then it was so

892
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: windy in Prospect Park that we had to leave the

893
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: park spiritus and then no, and then she was like,

894
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:11,920
Speaker 1: I'm hungry, and then she got a burrito and then

895
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: I bought a record and you're a child loved audio

896
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: visual and he liked records because I meant one of

897
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: our first you know alone post divorce trips, we just

898
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 1: went to New York City. We studied Field Club, which

899
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: is where he always stayed. She was very proud of.

900
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: That was another admin call had to call because he

901
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: had like a membership and they were still charging him

902
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: membership dues. Did he also have like so many like

903
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 1: martinis that were unpaid? No, it was just like you

904
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 1: just pay a monthly membership so you can stay there,

905
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 1: but you still have to pay to stay there. Yeah,

906
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: but it's like a cheaper raid, I guess, or just

907
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: use their facilities. It's it's a fucking scam for That's

908
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Can we go to the bathroom there

909
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: if we're in Mentown or no, it's over. I'm sure

910
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: it's well, I bet the hotel is on, but that

911
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 1: thing I close the account if we If that, you

912
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 1: can if you live in York and you're's a member

913
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 1: of the Yale Club, you can go there and just

914
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: sit in the library and like sit under Bill Clinton,

915
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 1: you know, get a martini. Wouldn't I pay? So it's

916
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 1: kind of like the wing for Yale grads. Yes, it's

917
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,439
Speaker 1: like all those social clubs, like the Soho House, Yale Club.

918
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: Yeah you think so he may have been there at

919
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: that Windy Walk, but not at other times. Yeah, I

920
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 1: mean maybe he was there at the Windy Walk. Um,

921
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but I also do wonder she talks

922
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: about well here's what I'm too soon. Maybe there are

923
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: there times that so she says, like she she ignored

924
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: her gift she was finding and she had all this

925
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 1: anxiety and panic attacks around it, and like she was

926
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: just always seeing visions, always like waking up in the

927
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: middle of night. Screen. He came to me, Okay, as

928
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,919
Speaker 1: you know, we have really even hardly process this off air,

929
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: but I decided to move apartments today. Yeah, it's a

930
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 1: lot to process, and the reason for our listeners it's

931
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: a nay far their neighborhood from Steven. Yeah, she's she's

932
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,919
Speaker 1: she's moving to didn't miss part. It's a forty minute

933
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 1: drive vers a twenty minute North Carolina. Okay, I'm sorry,

934
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 1: Richmond is all too far to a lot of people. Anyway,

935
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: we're not going to do this here because we're talking

936
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:13,799
Speaker 1: about spirit. Okay. So you made this decision to move

937
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 1: to North Carolina. And the apartment has a sunken living room,

938
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 1: which is why I was super attracted to it. My

939
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: father and I we loved Fraser and I dream since

940
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,760
Speaker 1: ever seeing Frasier. Oh my gosh, Frasier has the sunkend

941
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 1: living room overlooking Seattle, and obviously your eyes do you

942
00:49:30,360 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: think I'm literally moving to Seattle. You are anyway. I'm

943
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: just wondering if the sunken living room is my father saying,

944
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: starting new with the sunken living room frasier stuff. That's

945
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 1: almost him giving you permission, yeah, to move on, and

946
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 1: not this apartment where I was living in while he

947
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: was sick, going back and forth from it, bringing all

948
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 1: of his furniture. He's saying, put my bowhouse chair in

949
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: the sunken living room where it's meant to be right. Wow,

950
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 1: that's beautiful, okay, And it's almost it's like him giving

951
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 1: you permission to pursue your top surgery. Yes, to recover

952
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 1: from from recovering, he can say that can still be frasier. Yes,

953
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: it's frasier to recover from top surgery and a living

954
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: in about house chair. Huh um. I want to read

955
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 1: a part where she contacts another celebrity historical figure and

956
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: in the most long island way possible. In Queens, New York.

957
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 1: I read a guy who's tattooed, bearded and tough looking.

958
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,399
Speaker 1: In a quick flash, I saw a blinco and soul

959
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 1: standing next to him. It was like boom, a blanket.

960
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 1: I told the guy that Abe was with us any

961
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 1: filipped because he wasn't only a fan of our sixteenth president,

962
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: but also one of those guys of his Civil War

963
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: reenactments all the enough. I've since sort of other Abe

964
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 1: Lincoln spirits sightings throughout Queens. Don't ask me why, though

965
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:00,720
Speaker 1: I know Lincoln and his wife are very virtual, especially

966
00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: after their son Williams death. But maybe Abe has a

967
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 1: fundness for New York City's boroughs because when he died,

968
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: his body was paraded through the streets and the funeral

969
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 1: march on his final resting spot in Springfield, Illinois. Or

970
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: maybe he's just having a round Author Avenue hopened to

971
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: scare up a canoli. So yeah, President Abe Lincoln is

972
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: just waltzing through the streets of Arthur Avenue. Where a

973
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 1: guy and it's like some middle aged tirement. It's like

974
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 1: obsessed with like war stuff stuff. It's like this weird

975
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 1: guy loves war. It was so random that Abe Lincoln

976
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 1: was parading through New York. It's just like, wow, that

977
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: was such a thing. And there was a few cities,

978
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:42,319
Speaker 1: and there was the Three Cities and on tour it's

979
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,879
Speaker 1: kind of the big one. You would do New York

980
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 1: if you did a tour of a body. They do

981
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 1: never do that anymore. No, and I wish they did

982
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: whatever happened to sort of corpse parades? What happened to

983
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: presidential assassination? I know we've lost the magic Roman drama conspiracy.

984
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: I know. No. I mean it's that thing where there's

985
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 1: so much security and computers that it's like, right, obviously

986
00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: if it was like the sixties, I feel like Trump

987
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: would have been assassinated, right. Well, I mean this is

988
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 1: the I mean, like we can get into the politics later,

989
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 1: but it's very this thing where everyone's just like we

990
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 1: live in the craziest time in history. It's like, well,

991
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: actually the sixties, everyone was being assassinated left right, and

992
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 1: it was like there was so many, like high profile assassinations,

993
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: and it's just like, that's actually not happening right now. Well,

994
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 1: to quote again an essay I wrote in my food

995
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: culture class, the sixties were a time of great change,

996
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 1: and every single person actually that it wasn't just it

997
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: was they said, everyone in the entire class had to

998
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: start their essay with these sixties were a time of

999
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 1: great change. That was like the fourth prompt. Yeah, it

1000
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 1: was kind of in the Exquisite corpse like writing exercise,

1001
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: and again that could be a cool social media thing.

1002
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: Everyone write an essay started with post post segment is

1003
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 1: present and what does she does she wear? How does

1004
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:07,839
Speaker 1: she lave? She eats spaghetti meatballs? Well, okay, but well

1005
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 1: she's sparing meatballs every Sunday. But I think she's very

1006
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,040
Speaker 1: grilled chicken salad the whole week in a very Italian

1007
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: long island white. She's like ice bark, cherry tomatoes, caesar.

1008
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 1: Because the hold about the book, she's like, I eat

1009
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 1: good and heard her husband in the episodes of They're like,

1010
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 1: we take care of our bodies. And I just feel

1011
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 1: like she's getting like, No, when she says she eats good,

1012
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 1: she means this like a penny chicken. Yes, it's like

1013
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: chicken caesars. There's so much like garlic crotons in it, right,

1014
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,200
Speaker 1: and it's just like buffalo chicken salads, chicken caesar salads.

1015
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, there is a spaghetti and meatballs.

1016
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 1: But I don't think she's meatballs on Wednesday, No, because

1017
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 1: I honestly, you know she for her age. You know

1018
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,760
Speaker 1: she's she's got, she's fifty. She's also like he's five

1019
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: feet she's like five feet tall. I would say she's

1020
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: got like a pretty flat tomb and like she'stas got

1021
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:56,280
Speaker 1: a rack. So it's just like to maintain that cropology

1022
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: as you can't be eating pasta every night. No, so

1023
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:03,799
Speaker 1: she's not chicken salad. She has not drink though her

1024
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 1: husband now now that he is kind of finding himself,

1025
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,439
Speaker 1: and I do think it's like their divorce was very sad,

1026
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 1: but they were both just like, oh we did get

1027
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: married up. Training No, he now has a wine line

1028
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 1: called Sissim was later so it's called just like Desperately,

1029
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 1: which we Desperately obviously wanted for the episode. You've never

1030
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: had Cameron Diez's wine, never had Lorenzo Caputo's wine. We're

1031
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: only going to drink. We've only had STPs wine, really

1032
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 1: base wine, which was like pretty normal and like not

1033
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 1: that good. Yeah, and then you have that bottle of

1034
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: wine signed from Big Age that we're only going to

1035
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: drink on. Just like when we Daught Death, we had

1036
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: Kate Husson's vodka, which was like also incredibly normal, like

1037
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: Spirit off Women May and Vodka who Women Led to Vodka.

1038
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:54,799
Speaker 1: I had post Malone's Rose. Is that fine? It was Rose? Yeah?

1039
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: Was it better? I would say better than the Babe Rose.

1040
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,080
Speaker 1: The baby Rose was very like cheesy boots girl Rose,

1041
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: like as it was intended. Yes, it was supposed to be.

1042
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:07,399
Speaker 1: I mean because I was expecting just like any celeb Rose.

1043
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 1: You're like, is this harsh and sweet and kind of

1044
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: like a little bit sharp? Okay? So so b took

1045
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: in solid all along in peples on Sunday and of

1046
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:19,360
Speaker 1: course sauce from her father's tomatoes garden, father's tomato garden,

1047
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:23,839
Speaker 1: her father tomatoes. What does she wear? I mean, yeah,

1048
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 1: it's a very mini dress in that way that like

1049
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: if you're five one with tas you like wear it

1050
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,840
Speaker 1: or she it's it's like labandage dress. It's um super

1051
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: tight tops that like our shorter tops, not like a

1052
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: crop top, but's so they accentuate I feel like the

1053
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: tall exactly and then like a tight capri I mean

1054
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,879
Speaker 1: on the cover she's wearing. Okay, like a very like

1055
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: it's a skirt is it it's not a dress? Is

1056
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 1: it a dress? It's more of a skirt suit. She

1057
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: loves this, you know what I mean. It's like it's

1058
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,920
Speaker 1: not a it's a tank two piece. It's kind of

1059
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,359
Speaker 1: Lori and this way it's kind of granier where it's

1060
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 1: like a weird like custom separates, Yes, custom separates, you know,

1061
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: and like a big stiletto. She's adding height obviously, like

1062
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,360
Speaker 1: hair to the gods, I'm trying. She always has no

1063
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:12,480
Speaker 1: What's interesting about her hair is that even though she

1064
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: got like known for her massive hair, she unlike Snooky,

1065
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 1: like never had like a makeover. She just still has

1066
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 1: this insane hair. Oh yeah, I mean interesting to try.

1067
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 1: I think because she's of that middle age that it's

1068
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: like she's never gonna stop. And I think it's just

1069
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: been this hair for her whole life, because like Snooky

1070
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 1: eventually stopped doing the pomp and then started doing more

1071
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 1: just like regular reality show girl hair of just like

1072
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 1: layers like curl cocker spaniel to the side. But she's

1073
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: just been fifty in Long Island for like a hundred years,

1074
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: so it's like she's just not gonna change. I mean,

1075
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 1: she's going to do stuff. She's grabbing keels, but I'm

1076
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 1: sure she's getting her She maybe now has like more

1077
00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 1: custom mini dresses that show off the taws and are

1078
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: made for her. Yeah, it's almost like I feel like herself.

1079
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: It's gonna even more consistent overtime where she's like, this

1080
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 1: is what works, this is what works because she's in

1081
00:56:57,840 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: the show. She's about, you know, in the fire Island up,

1082
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 1: so she was I would the dress was this exact

1083
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,640
Speaker 1: same cut except for this weird ruffle of like the

1084
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 1: body con and it was like glitter pride. Okay, it

1085
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 1: wasn't full pride, but it was like a subtle values. Yes,

1086
00:57:13,000 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: it was a rainbow of sorts. How does she live?

1087
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 1: I mean island, but yeah, it's white island. Her furniture

1088
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 1: is not It's big, but it's not the hugest in

1089
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: a way, you know what you mean. It's no medium

1090
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: rainmar plan against in this way, it's actually very um

1091
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: like boat. It's very the furniture you would see on

1092
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 1: a ninety foot boat. Like it's leather and like curved

1093
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:41,439
Speaker 1: in this way. There's a lot of kind of round leather,

1094
00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 1: black leather, black leather, like there's glass. There's like a

1095
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 1: weird mix of colors, but there's but it's like a

1096
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: lot of like color blocking. Like the floor is very white. Also,

1097
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: she has not moved like in her riches. She still

1098
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: lives in. She lives right next to her her parents. Yeah,

1099
00:57:57,920 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: and how she grew up in No, and in that

1100
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: way she kind of there was when she said, oh

1101
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 1: my god, she's she's sake, shut up, stop making fun

1102
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 1: of my house. Come from Okay. Here's the thing though,

1103
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: It's like I thought only dead people can like make

1104
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 1: fun of you through spirit. I think Teresa has higher

1105
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: powers where she is hearing us and she's saying, well,

1106
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: it's one of her loved ones. Could be making fun

1107
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: could be telling you to stop making fun of her. Yeah, nanny,

1108
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 1: her grandma, He'll be coming through and then in her lawn.

1109
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,919
Speaker 1: It's very just like big Oh. They have a koi

1110
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: pond on the show, which I think that is what

1111
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 1: that's so like they're long enough meditation a lot, so

1112
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:42,880
Speaker 1: I feel like the koi is relaxed, nod. Okay, who

1113
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: are you in the book? Wait? How we didn't have Okay?

1114
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 1: Who um um? Are you the guy who passed and

1115
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: you're like asking his wife to pick the right sheets. Yes,

1116
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 1: I think you're right because I'm like, yeah, those really

1117
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,680
Speaker 1: really really does and you would come through and you

1118
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: would make yourself present. Yeah, just be like I don't

1119
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: know if those are the sheets? Um? Are you? I

1120
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 1: had this fear. I mean I didn't want to give

1121
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:13,040
Speaker 1: too much credence to it because I'm with the little

1122
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,439
Speaker 1: boy who like knows he's going to die. Yeah, oh

1123
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 1: my god, no, like is that me? And I actually

1124
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 1: the one who keeps in telling his parents just like

1125
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 1: and then he drowned in the lake that one. Yeah,

1126
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 1: and then and then and he like knew and he

1127
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: like was like buying me a suit for my funeral.

1128
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, I mean you're not such a

1129
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 1: creepy children of the corn like thank you? Yeah, you

1130
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: want to, like your parents are shop for you. But

1131
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: like when you tell your dad take me to May

1132
00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 1: Season by me under where, it's not because you want

1133
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: to be buried in Calvin Clin boxer briefs. No, I

1134
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,480
Speaker 1: certainly don't. So I don't think there's that little boy

1135
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: are you? Um? Are you a Victoria? Do you have

1136
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 1: a natural gift gymnastics with a little bit of medium?

1137
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I really don't think I'm so naturally gifted

1138
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 1: at gymnastics. Like I was at the gym today as

1139
00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: part of my new regimen, and I was like, I,

1140
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 1: I you know, stretching is a little bit difficult. Like

1141
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 1: I see these drag means on drag Race, like always

1142
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: doing full splits, and I'm just like, how is that

1143
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: even possible? Okay, I do definitely think you are spirit

1144
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 1: that has visited Teresa. I'm a pet. I'm a I'm

1145
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:24,120
Speaker 1: a teen who committed suicide in a car accidents who

1146
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 1: then shot himself and is coming back to make peace.

1147
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:32,439
Speaker 1: Am I grow with a butterfly tattoo? Yeah? The girl

1148
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 1: she just mentioned that movie? Right are you? Are you

1149
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: just her co writer? Oh? Her Kristen? We don't really

1150
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 1: kind of find out a lot about Kristen. Yeah. I

1151
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 1: can definitely see myself. I mean, and neither of us

1152
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:49,440
Speaker 1: is Teresa. I mean, if anyone, You're obviously much more

1153
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: Teresa and I you know I do. I mean, Okay,

1154
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: here's the thing though, like we are in many ways

1155
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 1: both like lovers of like mall culture, and that's like

1156
01:00:57,880 --> 01:00:59,640
Speaker 1: we're are we going a lot less? And just yeah,

1157
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 1: like we sifting through flip flops, We do have to

1158
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:04,440
Speaker 1: sift through four dollars flip flops and like buy new

1159
01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: trash cancel all the time like chargers. So in that way,

1160
01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 1: like we are kind of Teresa, but yeah, you know,

1161
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 1: you're more I think grew up. You do have a

1162
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 1: real Italian, actual Italian background and liked your credit. You know,

1163
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: are like you know Meepole Marianera. The middle name is Mazzarella, yep.

1164
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 1: Middle name Montz. But I also think we also maybe

1165
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: just generally are audience members because the thing we love

1166
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: a show, going to the Capudo, going to the Mentalist,

1167
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: we're like ready there to contact, you know, actually I

1168
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 1: think that's really true. We are in the audience and

1169
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 1: we're actually not getting red. And it's also the mentalist

1170
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: we wanted to get and we really want them to

1171
01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: him to like pick our numbers out of the hat

1172
01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: or whatever, and like, no, we did not get picked.

1173
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:56,960
Speaker 1: And Spirit made himself present for like other people in

1174
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: the audience, but that was their time, that was our time,

1175
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 1: and we were really entertained by the whole process and

1176
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:04,200
Speaker 1: we enjoyed it, and we were super respectful of mental culture.

1177
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 1: Well not necessarily participated, not that that's the last time

1178
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 1: we're going to a medium. That's not the last scene.

1179
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: We're going for the mentalist and the medium community, and

1180
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 1: I hope they do. And if you feel like you

1181
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 1: are a mentalist or a medium. Justice is also, you know,

1182
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: we're new to your culture, so if you are mad

1183
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 1: that we are putting you together, I'm sorry. No, I'm

1184
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 1: deeply apothetical. But please also like right in call Us

1185
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: and like tell Us where we went wrong, because the

1186
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: works the work. Okay, okay, UM, give this book. I

1187
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: would say four out of five haunted spirits of like,

1188
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: I don't loving year old who killed themself in a

1189
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 1: pouting accident, this book is. It's just it's very funny

1190
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: and easy to read, and I love those qualities. Yeah, okay,

1191
01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to give three point nine meatballs that your

1192
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 1: grandmother used to make out of five meatball as that

1193
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 1: your grandmother used to make, um and she has now passed.

1194
01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 1: I think it's hilarious. I love every single story. I

1195
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 1: also feel like for me and it had a Marian

1196
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:10,920
Speaker 1: Williamson quality where it didn't make me like make some

1197
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: connections that I was kind of ready to make, and

1198
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 1: so I really appreciated that element. Maybe I wouldn't give

1199
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 1: it such higher if if I wasn't ready to receive

1200
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 1: this book through my solar plexus chakra, right, but I

1201
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 1: was ready. Wow, So four to five Chakras. Okay, m

1202
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 1: next book another reality TV maven Man asked The fashion asked, Yeah,

1203
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 1: basically the most stylish person in history in history fan clothes,

1204
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 1: Tan France, and his book is called Naturally Tan great name. Um, sure,

1205
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,760
Speaker 1: it's going to be an absolute journey. I really can't wait.

1206
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 1: If you don't know Tan Frances obviously from the new

1207
01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:52,640
Speaker 1: iteration of Quiera. He is the fashion gay and I'm

1208
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 1: excited to learn about what it's like to be five

1209
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:58,840
Speaker 1: four and where a blazer just like go to Bona

1210
01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 1: Bows and like see what you're in emos, you know

1211
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:02,440
Speaker 1: what I mean? And wear a vast or don't wear

1212
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:04,440
Speaker 1: a beast and like, well you grew up Mormont and

1213
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 1: we're going to find all about find what's white for you.

1214
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:11,439
Speaker 1: Thank you to Australian. Okay, welcome. Do you see don't

1215
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 1: you do so much bitter and this blaze that fits you? Anyway?

1216
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 1: Join us next week. We're not going to get too

1217
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 1: into it because I mean, thank you get Australian because

1218
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: it's hard, because if you were a get Irish, it's hard. Yeah,

1219
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:26,680
Speaker 1: it's always okay. Follow us asleep a little. Follow follow

1220
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 1: us on Instagram. And Twitter. Um Happy grilled Chicken, Solid

1221
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: week slash month week month, Yeah until Sunday, just meet

1222
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: both day. Thank you so much, thank you listening, thank you,

1223
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 1: thank you Spirit for coming here and having us here

1224
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 1: and uh yeah, make you know. Just just be open,

1225
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: be open. We're not telling you to believe. No, we're

1226
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 1: not telling you what to think. We're just saying, be open.

1227
01:04:55,840 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: Thank you, best best That was a hit. Gum Podcast