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Speaker 1: tuning in at the very beginning of the episode, everyone's

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Speaker 1: wearing orange today except for Andrew. So if you're wearing

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Speaker 2: No? I don't own anything orange.

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Speaker 1: Hmm, Well, I don't you know which your coloring. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it's gonna look like. I don't know

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if it meshes well with the

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Speaker 1: Right I don't know if it pairs well with your undertones.

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Speaker 2: We have the same color eyes?

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Speaker 1: Who is the same color eyes?

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Speaker 2: Don't we all have? We all have brown eyes.

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Speaker 1: My eyes are hazel bin.

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Speaker 3: Marie does have a different shade of brown than everybody else.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the sun has to be directly in my eyes,

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Speaker 3: And I love like I don't Sometimes I'm I'm scared

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Speaker 1: I mean you're dating somebody who does have like very

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, Mary. It's good eyes. You have

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Speaker 1: when people get too much fillers, their eyes kind of

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Speaker 3: I don't even think she needed it, per se, not

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Speaker 1: So fillers go under the eye, like if you have

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Speaker 3: Yes, less dark. And also you lose elasticity in your

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Speaker 1: Obsession with having a full face when you're grown. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So it wasn't It wasn't a good job. And

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Speaker 3: No, your your body, your face is not like a shirt.

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Speaker 3: It should not be on sale. Like right, y'all, don't

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Speaker 3: No, they it's it's a better job in terms of

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Speaker 3: and it's because they're getting those things left and right.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but all of the bodies in Brazil, all of

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Speaker 1: Right. You gotta take that up with the God that

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Speaker 1: that's what I think. You think you think if somebody

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Speaker 3: And then she'd be bringing it she Yeah, she brings

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Speaker 3: I want this, but like a little bit bitty, it's

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Speaker 1: like a thicker sheet, you know, that glossy photo paper

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Speaker 1: He might he might do yours. Cricket.

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Speaker 3: Don't get your titties on groupon period. And that is

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't subscribe to this auntie title. It

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Speaker 3: I mean, Murray, do you think do you think I

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Speaker 3: but your energy is auntie. Sometimes I don't think that

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Speaker 3: What's your fucking face?

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Speaker 1: Talk to me.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I'm okay, get in, Marie. You're going to this

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Speaker 2: You're saying.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not calling them aunties. I'm saying they look

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Speaker 2: Trying to clarify you're saying the thing. Okay, but it's

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Speaker 2: because it is anybody saying that to you, people.

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Speaker 1: Within the roop chat that I'm in, being like, we're aunties. Now,

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Speaker 3: We just don't want to fucking grow up. We don't

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Speaker 1: But it's not that I don't want to grow up.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like when you're the older you get,

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Speaker 3: No, I mean, I mean truly, I want to get

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Speaker 3: it's sickening. And I am closer to forty than everybody

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Sidney? You so wait, hold on, take a step back.

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Speaker 1: You're saying that you care what people think about you?

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Speaker 1: You you so what that affects how you live your life?

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Speaker 3: Sometimes sometimes it does affect I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, I don't know. There's you're pretty open and you

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Speaker 2: I think that Sidney, you're very protective of your your

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Speaker 3: Let let's get into it right. So, like I obviously

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Speaker 1: But what Marie, go ahead, go ahead, Sidney.

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Speaker 3: And she was like, Sidney, you have to stop, like

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Speaker 3: But also I know what it is to feel like

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Speaker 3: You, Yes, without necessarily having to.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Sydney, we actually do need to talk about this.

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Speaker 2: Your phone number is on your Instagram account.

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Speaker 1: Your phone number is on your Instagram account. I don't

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Speaker 2: I don't it is in your Instagram account. Someone messaged

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Speaker 1: Honestly, it don't matter because Sydney is giving her phone

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Speaker 2: So I think it does speak very highly of you

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Speaker 1: I took it off.

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Speaker 1: Like somebody going up to Beyonce, and I am definitely

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Speaker 3: No, no, I I have to work on it, and

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Speaker 1: But then you said you want to be nice. You

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Speaker 3: Yeah, be nice, keep your distance.

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Speaker 3: Like, be nice and backup. I like that too. That's

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, Andrew, what do you think about them? Wasn't

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Speaker 2: if we were that I'm.

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00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 1: Saying we both weren't cool, but we're not approaching not

436
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,360
Speaker 1: ye out in public the same way socially, right.

437
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: But I think that like Sydney's allowed to approach her

438
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 2: adult self differently now that she's responding to the situation.

439
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 1: Andrews, I'm telling you, is they missing ears the tail

440
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 1: is clipped. Sydney is picking up people, and I'm like, Sidney,

441
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 1: we live in a very crazy time and people are

442
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 1: you don't ever know who you're talking to when you're

443
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 1: talking to them. And I've seen The Bodyguard and I've

444
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,360
Speaker 1: watched too much lor on sv you. I've watched too

445
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 1: much Lifetime to just welcome any and everybody into my space. Specifically,

446
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm talking to people who are listening right now. People

447
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 1: be like, Oh, I love you on Instagram, I love

448
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 1: you on this I saw you here. I mean I

449
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 1: was on an app today. This guy was like, is

450
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: the knitting factory coming back? Y'all are freaking hilarious. People

451
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: recognize me or people think they know me, and that

452
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 1: for me gives me pause. Anybody who feels like they

453
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: know me, I already don't really like you because I

454
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 1: don't know anything about you right So for me, it's

455
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: like a safety thing. You you're if you're calling yourself

456
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: a fan of mine, then I don't really want to

457
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: be friends with you. Like we can, you can come

458
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 1: support and I'll chit chat. We can take pictures, but

459
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: like we not go hang out after.

460
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 3: I think I don't live my life in fear because

461
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 3: I don't.

462
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: I don't.

463
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 3: I used to go. I've I've been roofed before. I

464
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 3: used to go to the clubs by myself. I've you know,

465
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 3: I've taken drugs from strangers. I've done so much that like,

466
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 3: I just don't live my life like somebody is out

467
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 3: to hurt me and kill me and doesn't have my

468
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 3: best interests. Like obviously that all those things are true,

469
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:52,959
Speaker 3: but I also look at myself and say, hey, I

470
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:58,239
Speaker 3: can feel vibes when I feel like unsafe, and I

471
00:24:58,280 --> 00:24:58,919
Speaker 3: go off of that.

472
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: But Sidney, when's the last time you felt unsafe? Because

473
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: when I see you, you you're sitting on the stranger's laps. No,

474
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: but if you're lying, I just feel like you get

475
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 1: real comfortable real quick. You're taking your shoes off at

476
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: somebody's house. You fall asleep on the couch in the

477
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: middle of the party, Like that's what you real comfortable.

478
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: So in that sense, I think really lying, I'm lying.

479
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:23,919
Speaker 1: When's the last time you.

480
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 3: Should take your shoes off at somebody's house? You should

481
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 3: be it should be a shoes off situation you should

482
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: never have.

483
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: In Sidney, We've been in plenty of dirt plenty of

484
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,479
Speaker 1: a dirty white person place for you to have been

485
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,199
Speaker 1: having your shoes on and they kicked off on them

486
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 1: next to the west down couch. So okay, Sidney, I

487
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: will say this then, Yeah, if you don't live your

488
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:55,479
Speaker 1: life in fear, you are definitely braver than me, one

489
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: hundred braver than me, because I am terrified every time

490
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: I go outside. I'm like, oh somebody might might could

491
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 1: do something to me.

492
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 3: So yes, A yeah, I love that, but I get

493
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 3: I can't recognize people come up to me and they

494
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 3: like it's the people who don't come up to me.

495
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 3: Those are the people that I'm scared of. Those were

496
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 3: the people that I think are plotting, the people who.

497
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 1: Are like, hey, what's going Like?

498
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 3: I think that they're just like fans, Hey, oh my god,

499
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 3: I love your work, you know, like.

500
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 2: What what?

501
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: Andrew? What what?

502
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 2: Wait? You're saying you're scared of the people that don't

503
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 2: come up to you. Yeah, so like that you're passing

504
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 2: people on the street, Like are you afraid of just them?

505
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 2: Or who are you saying here that aren't aren't approaching you?

506
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 3: Like sometimes I could just be like walking late at

507
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 3: night and somebody city, what are you walking?

508
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: Wait, so late at night you walk into an uber

509
00:26:55,280 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: from across the next question, next caller, wait, no, no, no.

510
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 2: And also you would rather that person in the middle

511
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 2: of the night approach you and be like, hey, love

512
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 2: the pod or what would you You would feel safer

513
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: in that situation.

514
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: Guys, the people, the people who are listening.

515
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 3: I love how you know over zealous you are about

516
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 3: the pod and knowing us and coming to the shows.

517
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 3: I love that we need that, we need. I want

518
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 3: people to ride for us. I want to have a hive.

519
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 3: I think I don't want to ever make people feel

520
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 3: weird about being obsessed with us. We're fucking dope. We

521
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 3: put out great content and we are not making people

522
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 3: feel bad.

523
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, I put no over zealous. Hold on.

524
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: I just need to look up the word over zealous

525
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 1: because I feel like that's not what I want. Okay,

526
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 1: I want people to come to the shows. You see us,

527
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: come say hi. I love that. I love that. I

528
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 1: agree with Sydney on that. But hanging out with me

529
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: after the show, that's the difference. Sydney wants to hang

530
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 1: out with these people, and it's very eminem stand moment,

531
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: It's very dear slim. I meant to you know, I

532
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 1: called you. I just drank a bit. That's what That's

533
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: what I feel. So you saying I want y'all to

534
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 1: be excited about us. I love that you come talk

535
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: to us on the street. Yes, be excited, but don't

536
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 1: follow me to where I'm going. This is this is

537
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: where this is where the tour roads diverge. Sis and I.

538
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 1: I was walking down the street once and it was nighttime,

539
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: and this guy was on the street and when I

540
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: passed him, he spoke to me, and I was like

541
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 1: ew and like he was like, he's like, oh, how

542
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: you doing tonight? And I was like I'm fine, and

543
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: I like sped up a little bit. And then he

544
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: mentioned something about my beef with Azalea Banks, and I

545
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: was like, oh, a friend. And then I slowed down.

546
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: But also I slow down because he was gay. Like

547
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: I don't need no straight men talking to me at nighttime. Yeah,

548
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 1: whether you know me or not. But uh, then he

549
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: was gay, so gay for me is safe. But I'm

550
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 1: still not giving you my phone number. I understand what

551
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: y'all saying. I get it. I heard it. Y'all.

552
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 3: Y'all are making a lot of sense. But I'm also

553
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 3: like I enjoy the fandom, and it's it's like, oh,

554
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 3: sometimes we don't know who we're reaching, and everybody who

555
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 3: comes up to us are hot and so sweet. Yeah,

556
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 3: everybody's a little off.

557
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all off.

558
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 3: Okay, if first of all, if you're starting a podcast,

559
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 3: you're strange, and if you're listening to a podcast, you're

560
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 3: so strange. Yeah, so we're both in the same motherfucking boat.

561
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 3: All right, period.

562
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: Period.

563
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 3: We went to San Francis. We went to San Francisco,

564
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 3: and the people were waiting outside in the cold for

565
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 3: an hour from us, Sidney.

566
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: That's because we're good at what we do. Period. Right

567
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 1: on the other side of that sentence, all those people

568
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: that came to see us in San Francisco, I was

569
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: not texting them later like thanks for coming out. Let

570
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: me know where I should get something to eat tomorrow.

571
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: Like it was just like, you see us for a moment,

572
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: We have a good night, we share a nice night together,

573
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 1: and then everyone goes about their their day. You collecting,

574
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: you just collecting friends like pokemon and and I'm saying friends,

575
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: but these people are You're not friends with these people.

576
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: You're not friends with them. Sidney, you have more actual

577
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 1: friends than anybody that I know, and you talk to

578
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: those people all day long. So these other people's numbers

579
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: that you're collecting, you just taking them just to take

580
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: up space on your iPhone sys. Your eye cloud gotta

581
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 1: be full. But by now, yeah, you paying for extra

582
00:30:59,160 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: y cloud storage.

583
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 3: M hm, I am, but yeah, no, you're right for

584
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 3: people that you don't know, girl, I'm yeah, I'm I

585
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 3: definitely got some things to work through. You're not wrong,

586
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 3: But I think that you both.

587
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 2: Can learn something from each other.

588
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: I think that, come on, Andrew, you better mediate.

589
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 2: Sydney might be too receptive, and then you, Marie, I

590
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 2: think you're not receptive enough. Potentially.

591
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't think that though. When people approach me on

592
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: the street or people approach me after a show, I

593
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: always engage with them. We have a conversation now if

594
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,719
Speaker 1: they get too comfortable and they start to maybe like like,

595
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: I had somebody to come up to me the other

596
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: day and was like, don't act like I don't know you, Marie.

597
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: And I had to tell her you don't you don't

598
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: know me, and like her face was like she was

599
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 1: taken aback a little bit. But you listen, to me

600
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: for an hour a week, maybe an hour and twenty

601
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: five if we feeling funny. But you don't know me,

602
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: you know my viewpoint on certain things. You see me

603
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 1: do stand up a couple of times, but like that

604
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that we're friends. It doesn't mean that like

605
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: we've ever interacted before this moment, you know. So I

606
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: think boundaries are important boundaries, and I think that ultimately,

607
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 1: anybody who's ever met me from this podcast or from

608
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: my YouTube or from Instagram, if they told me that

609
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: they recognized me from any of those places, I was

610
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: nice to them. No, they didn't talk to me before that.

611
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: I might have been mean, but that's because my mother

612
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: told me not to talk to strangers. Right, there's valid.

613
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with that. I mean, you know, I

614
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 3: I we did we did our the solo show last Friday,

615
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 3: and you know, I was very emotional, and you know,

616
00:32:54,040 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 3: I'm I'm working on myself and working on my childhood story.

617
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 3: And I feel like people know me a little bit

618
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 3: better after watching it. And I will be a little

619
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 3: bit friendlier after that show, because that's such a like

620
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 3: vulnerable show.

621
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: I might pass my number out. I don't know. I'm just.

622
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 3: That's Andrew.

623
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't pass your number out. I mean, like now

624
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 2: it's not even on the Instagram anymore.

625
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, I.

626
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 3: Should have been getting more calls. I should have been

627
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 3: getting more call my phone. Don't be blowing up.

628
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Sidney, Yes, your phone is always blowing up.

629
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: It literally rings at least twice when we do this

630
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: podcast every week, and then Carolyn will come down on

631
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 1: break and be like, what's happening? So your phone is

632
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: always ringing?

633
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 2: Right?

634
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 3: Update. I just want you to let you all know

635
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 3: about our good, good gal Molly. I did hire her

636
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 3: as an assistant and I used her for my solo

637
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: show and she got me a videographer and she was

638
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 3: there early and she helped me put up things for

639
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 3: the back of the stage. She got me water, she

640
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:15,399
Speaker 3: got me Red Bull, she did the slide show.

641
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:15,839
Speaker 1: She did.

642
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 3: She was a good assistant.

643
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 2: Uh no, don't do that. I did the slide show.

644
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 3: You did the slide show. But she like helped me. Okay, okay,

645
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 3: oh wow, like.

646
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: I did about.

647
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 2: No, no, like as if I would like not catch it.

648
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 3: No, no, no, that's how I wasn't saying it like that, Andrew.

649
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 3: I was saying Okay, whoa Okay, good, good to know.

650
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 1: Okay, So give us the rest of the Maley update.

651
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: You give us a performance review for her sis.

652
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 3: I think she wants to learn. She wants to she.

653
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 3: I spoke to her. I told her, I said, hey,

654
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 3: you were doing too much on the pod. I know

655
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 3: you're trying to be funny, but like, we don't know

656
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 3: you like that. The audience don't know you.

657
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 1: Is it funny? Okay? Well what else you know? She

658
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:07,439
Speaker 1: was trying to be funny on the podcast? I said,

659
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: it wasn't funny. The people were not laughing, they were

660
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 1: not entertained. They were not entertained.

661
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 3: And she, you know, it was a it was a

662
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,760
Speaker 3: small pill to swallow, but it was a learning experience

663
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 3: and everybody deserves to learn and maybe, you know, get

664
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 3: another chance. And I'm happy with the work that she's

665
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 3: currently doing.

666
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: So are you paying her? Is there a stipend? Yes?

667
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 3: I paid her. I paid her for her work. You know,

668
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 3: we're going to be doing an hourly thing. She's actually

669
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 3: going away. She won't she won't be here for until September.

670
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: Oh wow, started a job and is going to be

671
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: going for two months.

672
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 3: Very very very black of her. I love that she's

673
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 3: she's a part of the fam.

674
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: Now it's giving niggardly interesting. Yeah, okay, so she's going

675
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,040
Speaker 1: to be doing work. You said, what's this hour thing

676
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: that you're doing.

677
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 3: So whenever I have, whenever I say yes to shows

678
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 3: or whatever, I'm just gonna be forwarding her things and

679
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 3: she's going to send me Google invites. So it's in

680
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 3: my calendar because I just won't put it in my calendar.

681
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 3: If people need me to send in stuff, I'm gonna

682
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 3: be like, here's her email. She knows my schedules. She'll

683
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 3: tell you what I'm available for.

684
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, Sydney, this is very exciting. Yeah, I'm

685
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: a tiny bit jealous. Now I really want an assistant

686
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: even more. But I don't want that one. Okay, oh yeah,

687
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't want I would love I would love a

688
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: straight white man assistant. So if you're listening to this,

689
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,320
Speaker 1: please please go ahead and phone call Sidney the number

690
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: that you see on her Instagram and she'll get you me. Lol.

691
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my god. She's very helpful. Andrew helps whenever

692
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 3: he cans, and uh, you know, I always am thankful

693
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 3: for the assistance that I can get whenever I can

694
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 3: can Mmm, I have no I have no problem asking

695
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 3: for help. I think it is foolish and silly to

696
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: think that you could do everything by yourself. It's no,

697
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 3: there's no need, there's people to help.

698
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:13,919
Speaker 2: I don't.

699
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 3: I can't. I really can't. In my part of my

700
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 3: life and my career. I can't be overwhelmed the way

701
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 3: that I get overwhelmed. I can't do it anymore. It

702
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 3: just it's debilitating.

703
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: M debilitating mm hmmm mm hmm. Oh man, everybody's calling today.

704
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 3: Everybody's calling today. Sorry, I apologize. Is that one of

705
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 3: your fans, No, it's my girlfriend. It's my girlfriend. She called.

706
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: It's you know, it makes sense. I mean your girlfriend

707
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: listens to the podcast. Yeah, and she doesn't know that

708
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: you record the podcast on Wednesdays.

709
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 3: Uh no, No, I like, you know, I should tell

710
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 3: her that and be like, maybe you have your assistant

711
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 3: message your girlfriend let her know that you're unavailable Wednesdays

712
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 3: at noon.

713
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: Okay.

714
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, And so again I just want to say, you know,

715
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 3: shout out to Molly for coming through and doing what

716
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 3: she needed to do. And she read all of y'all comments,

717
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 3: and you know, stay tuned because everybody deserves, you know,

718
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 3: some compliments, some nice words said their way.

719
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: You says stay tuned, like you've got to bring Molly

720
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:27,760
Speaker 1: back for a partner.

721
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 3: No, no, should we have a partner?

722
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: Look at me, and Andrews faces. We don't need your

723
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: assistant to come back on the podcast. To believe that

724
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: she's a good assistant. You could just give us weekly updates.

725
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: And honestly, Sidney, every time you FaceTime me and it's

726
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: your face and you're alive, I'm like, oh, Molly's doing

727
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: a great job.

728
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, she's doing fantastic.

729
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: You know.

730
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 3: Also, I want to speak to the people who are

731
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 3: leaving their comments. You know, the internet is mean. The

732
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 3: internet is mean. The people just will write anything like

733
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 3: a human being is not reading.

734
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 1: What you're saying. What did they say that was so bad?

735
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,680
Speaker 3: Someone of stuff was just like it was rude. It

736
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 3: was downright rude. And if I'm twenty one reading comments

737
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 3: from the internet.

738
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: It's mean.

739
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 3: You could you could say that you don't trust somebody

740
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,879
Speaker 3: without like bringing them down all the way like.

741
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 2: No, I will I will say this. I was thinking

742
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 2: about that too. I was like, some of these comments

743
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 2: are like as a twenty one year old I would

744
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 2: be hurt by this. It was mean really affect my day. However, However,

745
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 2: the fact that she was bold and brash enough to

746
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:46,439
Speaker 2: do this podcast, she understood the ramifications of coming onto

747
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 2: this podcast yep. And so I think that, you know,

748
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 2: that's just like the way it goes.

749
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: I think that you have nobody to blame but yourself

750
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: if people are if you, if you're increasing your own

751
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: visibility in that way. We didn't, we didn't We didn't

752
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: force her to do the podcast. We didn't tell her

753
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 1: to put herself out there. Ask somebody who claims to

754
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 1: listen to the unofficial expert, which people were questioning in

755
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 1: the comments, rightfully, So as somebody who claims to listen

756
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,919
Speaker 1: to the podcast, you should you already see what type

757
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: of commentary the people are giving on a regular basis.

758
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 3: So I don't know that was I need y'all to

759
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 3: have that same energy when we post episodes period. The

760
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 3: way y'all came out of left field, I didn't even

761
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 3: know we could get to that many comments on the

762
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 3: fucking post.

763
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,560
Speaker 1: No straight up and down, straight up and down, sitting

764
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: no no, no, no no, no, said don't act like you did,

765
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 1: not just say you love an over zealous fan, I love.

766
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:39,919
Speaker 3: An overze They do that in person, but they don't.

767
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 3: They don't be giving this energy on the socials. I'll

768
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 3: tell you that much. If everybody who wrote a comment

769
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 3: about Molly actually reposted the pod and told people about us,

770
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 3: I think we didn't be doing We have a lot

771
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 3: more rating Toney, just saying, just.

772
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,279
Speaker 1: Sitting I hear what you're saying, but I think you

773
00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: mad at the wrong people.

774
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 3: I'm not mad at the wrong people. I'm just I'm

775
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 3: making a valid point. It's like, when it's time to

776
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:08,479
Speaker 3: be negative, everybody would real d but when it's time

777
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 3: to there's so many good episodes that we have that

778
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 3: we have never had this many interactions with ever. So

779
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 3: I'm I'm I'm not wrong for putting out a valid point, Manrew.

780
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 2: I think the listeners were also concerned for your well

781
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 2: being as well. I think that that was coming across

782
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 2: that there were that they were coming out of the woodwork.

783
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: People were seeing red flags and they commented on the

784
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 1: red flags. Yeah, every comment was not a negative comment. Yes,

785
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: it was like one hundred and thirty comments or whatever

786
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 1: the hell it is, but the vast majority of those

787
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: comments were not mean. They're not mean spirited, they weren't nasty.

788
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: No one was calling her a bitch. Nobody was like

789
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: this dumb ass, ugly ass, young ass beach. People were

790
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: just like, you know, she didn't know about Seminaryaki. That

791
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: was a whole thread about some Saraokia on the post.

792
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: They're like interacting with each other. So I don't know,

793
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,760
Speaker 1: I don't I don't like how you're talking to our support,

794
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: our overzealous supporters. Definitely don't like how you're talking to

795
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: your friends about your friends on.

796
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 3: The podcast, and so you're only agreeing with him because

797
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 3: that's how you felt. If they were saying otherwise, you

798
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 3: would be like, it's.

799
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 1: Not I'm not saying. If you go back and look

800
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,959
Speaker 1: at the comments that I've liked, I liked good and bad.

801
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: I liked ones that were like, yeah, give Molly the job,

802
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,879
Speaker 1: it's gonna shake things up in there. Those were There

803
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 1: were plenty of comments like that, and then there are

804
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: other people who are like, mm mmmm, it's given, it's given,

805
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:41,919
Speaker 1: ticky ticky boom. I liked some of those as well.

806
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying that you're you're you're telling people

807
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: that they were being mean and the internet is blah

808
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,799
Speaker 1: bla blah blah blah. The internet is can definitely be

809
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: a mean place. People feel very bold behind a computer

810
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: or a phone screen, and they'll say things that they

811
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't say in real life. But also, Molly put her

812
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:03,439
Speaker 1: herself out there. She jumped on this platform. She knew

813
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,760
Speaker 1: what it was. She thought she was gonna be funnier,

814
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 1: she thought she was gonna be more relatable. I guess,

815
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's not what came across. And

816
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: people called her on it.

817
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 2: And also take that to the Bank, Molly, that you

818
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:19,280
Speaker 2: had a lot of people talking about your hour as well,

819
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 2: you know, Bank, like, yeah, well.

820
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 1: We're talking about her right now. She used to be

821
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: one of y'all.

822
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:28,359
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, Shed.

823
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 3: And it doesn't matter if they had positive or negative reviews.

824
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 3: Let me tell you that what they all agreed on

825
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 3: is Andrew needed a raise.

826
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 1: Like everybody loved Andrew.

827
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: There were there were a few mean comments towards me

828
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 2: scattered throughout, but really there were a few that there

829
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:50,359
Speaker 2: were that it seemed like I was being protective of

830
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: my position with you both.

831
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 3: Well, sir, you're the producer, so I mean she Molly

832
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 3: wasn't gonna take your job.

833
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 2: So I'm just saying, I'm just saying, nah, not a

834
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 2: blanket term. Not all the comments were were fully for me,

835
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: but I do this.

836
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: Is what I'm saying. All the comments were not anything. Yeah,

837
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: all of the comment it was. It wasn't all one

838
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 1: thing or all another thing. They were kind of all

839
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: over the place. But the general consensus was, yeah, let

840
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: Sydney work with her first, and if she's still alive

841
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: in three months, then you could bring her on as

842
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: a team. And I said I liked those. I thumbs

843
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 1: up to those. I said, I penned those. Hilarity.

844
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 3: Wait, do we have any We have some emails, I know,

845
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 3: but I didn't.

846
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: Read them before. I don't. I don't like to read

847
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 1: them without reading them first. Damn.

848
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:46,879
Speaker 2: Do you not want them?

849
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 3: Then?

850
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: Huh? Well, I mean said some the other day that

851
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: we we didn't get to. But let me look.

852
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 2: This one's really long.

853
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 3: Yeah if it's too long? So many words?

854
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: Mmmm? Is it the one about ghosting? Okay, I'll just

855
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: read it. I'll read it real. Oh no, it's so long.

856
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Oh okay, but she included a bunch of photos.

857
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: Oh okay, Wow, Okay, here, so I'll read the ghosting

858
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 1: one ready. Okay, yeah, yeah, Hey Sidney, Marie and Andrew

859
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,399
Speaker 1: Boo boo boo, Amali in parenthesies. No, she's not here.

860
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 1: Longtime listener here looking for some insight advice on a

861
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: perfect date that somehow went wrong. Please include music from

862
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 1: Snapped in the background, okay, like you know, or Twilight

863
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 1: Zone music. Before I jump in, here's a little info

864
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 1: on me. I'm a twenty four year old bisexual woman

865
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: living in Toronto and have written into the show before, oh,

866
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 1: regarding having my first one night stand in January and

867
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: being choked in a white man's basement Sydney. This is

868
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: the one that we were talking about in San Francisco.

869
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, let's goh.

870
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: He repeat.

871
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:03,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

872
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 1: I don't know what episode you guys got to go

873
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 1: back to to hear her story, but that's a repeat.

874
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: It was on a Patreon too, the one we did

875
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:14,439
Speaker 1: a video I love Okay, so gorgeous. Great to see

876
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 1: you again, Bange. How you doing girl? Yes, I'm still

877
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 1: out here making questionable decisions. Ever since that first one

878
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: night stand, I entered a little bit of a whole

879
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: phase and would do my thing, go on dates or

880
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: sleep with them, et cetera, and with someone and probably

881
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: ghost them afterwards. I'm not proud of it, but like sometimes,

882
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: the dick was trash and I really didn't want to

883
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: associate it with them. No more. We love her, yarroh,

884
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 1: we love it. Okay. Fast forward to a few weeks ago.

885
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 1: I haven't been on a date or even seen anyone

886
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: in a while. Shout out to COVID until I met

887
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:53,280
Speaker 1: this girl. Okay, lean in, lean In. We started talking

888
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: for a little bit and found out we had a

889
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 1: lot in common and the chemistry was instantly great. We

890
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: met up and even went on low key picnic in

891
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 1: the park and really enjoyed ourselves. Oh okay, wow making

892
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:08,279
Speaker 1: out Okay. After that date, we talked every day until

893
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: we made plans to meet up a week later. This time,

894
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: we went to a busy part of the city, got drinks, food,

895
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: spent our day together. She even surprised me buying me

896
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: a plant as a gift.

897
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 3: Huh, that's something that I would do. Yes, keep going, Oh,

898
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 3: that is something you would do.

899
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: Absolutely. We were very flirty and very close. It was

900
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: clear she was into me, and I was making it

901
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 1: clear that I was into her too. Okay, the cities

902
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: was out, Uh did She didn't say that things got

903
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 1: weird when the date was winding down. Nothing changed between us.

904
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 1: We're still cracking jokes and being cute and shit, until

905
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: suddenly it stopped. She got really quiet and a bit distance,

906
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: but I chalked it up to being out in the

907
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 1: sun too long and smoking a little weed and didn't

908
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: think too much of it. She walks me home. I

909
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,719
Speaker 1: invite her up to my apartment. I thought it was

910
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: my chance to finally pull a move, but instant this

911
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: girl spends the whole time.

912
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 3: My cat, my actual cat, not my possess. And when

913
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 3: she ends up.

914
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: Leaving to go back home, she literally gave me the

915
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: cold shoulder. I'm talking about the one armed hug situation.

916
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 3: Oh come on, Marie, The barely.

917
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 1: Making eye contact kind of goodbye, the little awkward wave

918
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,919
Speaker 1: and head nod as she walks away without looking back.

919
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: You gotta do to look back, just to see if

920
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: they're looking at you. You know WHOA. That was the

921
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 1: last time I heard from her. It's been a week

922
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 1: since and we haven't talked once. I'm genuinely at a

923
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: loss because I'm not sure what went wrong. I went

924
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: over the whole day in my head and thought maybe

925
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 1: I said something or I did something weird or offensive,

926
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: but I couldn't think of anything. We really hit it

927
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: off and had a good time smiles and good vibes.

928
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 1: As an expert in ghosting, I know sometimes you just

929
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,640
Speaker 1: don't feel it anymore but and cut contact for whatever reason.

930
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: But I honestly thought we were vibing and meshing really well.

931
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: I've never been ghosted before. Everybody at the same time.

932
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: Oh so maybe this is karma finally catching up to me.

933
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: Is this a sign for me to stop ghosting? What

934
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 1: advice can you give me? I'm pretty bummed things didn't

935
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: work out, but more so curious as to what reasons

936
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: she would have. It really seemed like it was going

937
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,239
Speaker 1: well as usual. Here's some pics of me so you

938
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,720
Speaker 1: can get a full visual. Let me see.

939
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 3: Oh she's cute, God, Oh she's hot.

940
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: I like here she is with some pasta.

941
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 3: Okay, now a question, y'all are hanging out or whatever?

942
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 3: Is she pain all time? Are y'all going Dutch?

943
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 2: Like?

944
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 3: Cause that that kid? Like we hanging out too many times?

945
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 3: And I'm putting my car down. I can feel some

946
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,879
Speaker 3: double way. I'm like, m I don't know.

947
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: She said she bought her a plant as a gift.

948
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,920
Speaker 1: They were very flirty. Things got weird when the date

949
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,720
Speaker 1: was winding down. Nothing changed, we were still cracking jokes

950
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: and and it just she suddenly just got quiet. Did

951
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 1: she get a text from an ex? No, she must

952
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: have got a message or something that made her that

953
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,280
Speaker 1: put her in her own head or something right right.

954
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 3: Maybe, but still like, I don't know. If we just

955
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 3: started talking and having a I'd be like, can you

956
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 3: believe this nigga just text me? Like I would have

957
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 3: casually mentioned it. I like, we're not We're not serious,

958
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 3: Like we're just we've been hanging out. It's not if

959
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 3: there's no reason to not be honest when there's nothing

960
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 3: really at stake.

961
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 1: Y'all are in the beginning. Okay, so I understand what

962
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 1: you're saying. But maybe this is maybe if somebody she'd

963
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: been with for a while, maybe it was the person

964
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 1: that she just broke up with. If that person messages you,

965
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm necessarily on a date gonna

966
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: say can you believe this man just texted me? Because

967
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 1: then I'm talking about then I'm talking about my old

968
00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 1: relationship on a first, second, third day. Like, there's a

969
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: time and place I think to talk about people you

970
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: used to talk to based on how you feel about

971
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: them too.

972
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, but

973
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 3: I just listen. Guys, y'all have got to fucking grow up. If, like,

974
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 3: just if you don't want to deal with somebody anymore,

975
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 3: just give them the goodbye. Like, hey, I thought I

976
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 3: wanted like to date you, or I was looking forward

977
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 3: to blah blah blah, but my mind changed. I'm not

978
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:34,359
Speaker 3: in a place that just give somebody an ending so

979
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 3: they don't have to fucking go in their head over

980
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 3: and over and over and try to figure out what

981
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 3: the fuck happened, right, Just say hey, I like, I'm good,

982
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:46,840
Speaker 3: I'm sorry things didn't work out, and send them on

983
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 3: their way.

984
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: It's especially especially if it's the person. If the person

985
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: was nice, nice, Yeah, it's a nice person, there's no

986
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:58,360
Speaker 1: reason to ghost them, like it's for me, honestly, truly,

987
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:00,839
Speaker 1: it's easy to just tell them the truth. Yeah, it's

988
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:05,879
Speaker 1: easier to be like, hey, you know, maybe the reason is, hey,

989
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 1: I think I jumped into this too soon, I'm all ready.

990
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: We'll hit them with the Yeah, you know, I'm not

991
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,919
Speaker 1: really feeling it. The vibes weren't there for me, two

992
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 1: things that I've said to two different men, So yeah,

993
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: I'm not really feeling the vibes or you know, just yeah,

994
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 1: I thought that I was ready for this, but I

995
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: guess I'm not, or you know, I'll be in touch

996
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,280
Speaker 1: and then actually be in touch.

997
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 3: It's just like we went through a whole fucking pandemic,

998
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 3: like the worst of the worst has happened. The least

999
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 3: you can do is give somebody a closing like, hey,

1000
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not really feeling this. You think it

1001
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 3: hurts to tell somebody I'm not into you, but it

1002
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 3: actually hurts more when you give them no answer at all,

1003
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:58,160
Speaker 3: because they're just gonna be thinking about, like, what did

1004
00:52:58,160 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 3: they do wrong?

1005
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: I think that, Yara, something that you could have done

1006
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: differently and should do differently next time. Is what's wrong?

1007
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, if it goes from hot to cold to

1008
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:09,839
Speaker 3: be like is everything good?

1009
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:11,399
Speaker 1: And I'm inviting you to the house and you playing

1010
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: with my cat put out my cat, I'm gonna be like, hey,

1011
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: are you okay? And then see how they respond because

1012
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: something definitely happened. Yeah, something I definitely went down.

1013
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 3: Something, something went down. She I don't know, y'all. You

1014
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 3: gotta let us know what's she paying?

1015
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:34,280
Speaker 1: What's she paying? What were you wearing? Did you call somebody?

1016
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: Was a slur used? Like what happened in Toronto that day?

1017
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 3: Something happened, Something definitely happened.

1018
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,280
Speaker 1: Did she sneeze and you didn't say? Let you like, girl,

1019
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: what happened?

1020
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 3: But if you're not feeling it, and then I still

1021
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 3: come up to your place, I mean, what could it

1022
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 3: have been happened? What possibly has happened with me? Is

1023
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 3: like I just want to see your place, like I

1024
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:56,000
Speaker 3: want to check it.

1025
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: Okay, cool? Yeah, I'm inviting you to my house. If

1026
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: you're if we're on a date and I'm inviting you

1027
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: to my house, then you know what it is and

1028
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 1: you know what it ain't. Granted. When we get to

1029
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: my house, I can change my mind. Maybe you can

1030
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: get shoes off, and I'm like, ill, the sock, that's

1031
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 1: the socks? Yeah, film the socks or I don't know.

1032
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:19,359
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm in my house and the vibes are off,

1033
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you to leave. But why are you

1034
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: coming up to my house if you don't, if you

1035
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: don't want to even acknowledge me in my home. Yeah,

1036
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: that's the weird thing.

1037
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 3: That's that's the thing that I'm like, you don't have

1038
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,319
Speaker 3: to come up to somebody's house and fuck, but you

1039
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:36,720
Speaker 3: definitely can't come up to somebody's house and be acting

1040
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 3: all like distant giving me church ladyhook. Yeah, that's weird.

1041
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 3: That's disrespectful. And you could take your ass home. You

1042
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 3: can always take your ass home. You don't have to

1043
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,319
Speaker 3: do anything. You could if you're in a bad mood

1044
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 3: or the vibes are, you can go home, sweetie, go home, sweetye.

1045
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 3: I like that title as well, go home, sweet home sweetie.

1046
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 1: I mean she worked her home. She a plan.

1047
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 3: That feels like a good day to me.

1048
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, up until it got weird.

1049
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 2: It's also been like a full month since this email

1050
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 2: from Yara, so I'm wondering if there's been any updates since.

1051
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yara, if you're listening, please please.

1052
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 2: But also she didn't mention I think this might go

1053
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:27,719
Speaker 2: without saying, but this like barely making eye contact goodbye

1054
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,319
Speaker 2: that they had. She said that that was the last

1055
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 2: she heard from her, and it's been a week and

1056
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 2: they haven't talked once. But Yara didn't mention if she's

1057
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 2: tried reaching out. Yeah, did she ever say.

1058
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:42,319
Speaker 1: That, I don't be in here your babe, sweetie?

1059
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 2: Follow up?

1060
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 1: Please give us the Please give us a follow up

1061
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 1: on this, because I think that sometimes for our peace

1062
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:54,520
Speaker 1: of mind, it's easier to just ask, hey, is everything okay?

1063
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: Like I thought things were cool? What happened? And then

1064
00:55:57,680 --> 00:55:59,319
Speaker 1: give them a chance to see if they're even gonna

1065
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: be honest with you. They're gonna lie. But sometimes you

1066
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 1: sometimes you just don't get closure from these things. You're

1067
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 1: not guaranteed closure with every single person that you do with. No, No,

1068
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 1: you don't have to get closure.

1069
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 3: But if you're listening to this podcast, you're not always

1070
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:21,880
Speaker 3: gonna get closure. But I think it's it's okay to

1071
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 3: give someone closure. Don't feel like, oh, I don't have

1072
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 3: to do anything like I Sometimes I want to end

1073
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 3: things so that we don't have to discuss this. No mo,

1074
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,799
Speaker 3: So there's no back and forth, right if you if

1075
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 3: you let somebody know, el fiend, this is the end,

1076
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,919
Speaker 3: then if they hit you back up, that's on them.

1077
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Speaker 3: You know, it's a power move to be honest. It's

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Speaker 3: a power move to end things and be like I'm

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00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 3: I'm all set on this. But it's also a power thing.

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00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 3: When you don't give someone a reason and you have

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00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 3: them guessing, that's it's a power thing. But I think

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Speaker 3: that's a toxic.

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Speaker 1: It's also a cowardly thing too. Though it's easy to

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00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 1: just say, hey, I don't really like you like that,

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00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 1: or you know what, when you smiled at me, the

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00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 1: sun bounced off your tooth and hit me in the

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Speaker 1: eye and I didn't like that, Like give me a

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00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: reason or just like, like to be a woman, ghosting

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00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: another woman feels like a little bit of a hate crime.

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Speaker 1: It is a hate crime like this, I get a

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Speaker 1: tamp on that one time, Like what do you girl?

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Speaker 3: You have my hair tie in your hair right now,

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00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 3: and then you're gonna ghost me.

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Speaker 1: Beach, I gave you a scrunchy when you needed it

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Speaker 1: the most, and you're not gonna tell me what happened. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean just say that for the men. But even then,

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00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:47,439
Speaker 1: like it's easier to just be honest, just in all

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00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 1: aspects of life. I think it's just easier to tell

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00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: the truth than it is to lie or omit things,

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00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: because sometimes you be forgetting your lies or sometimes you

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00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 1: sit there and you're like, well, why did I what

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00:57:59,240 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 1: happened with that?

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00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 3: Her?

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00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 1: Damn?

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00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 3: And if you want us to do the legwork, just

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00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 3: send us her email. You got her number, I'll text her,

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00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 3: I'll call her. Yeah, I'll call her.

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00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: And we still yeah what Yeah, I don't.

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00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:23,040
Speaker 3: I don't have any problem with checking in and being like, yo,

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Speaker 3: what's really good?

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Speaker 1: Nah?

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Speaker 3: I mean you you ghosted my good siss a month ago?

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00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 1: What happened? What happened was yeah, message Mali at assistant,

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00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: Mali at assistant do yeah.

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Speaker 3: Imagine if she emails that would be funny, though, that

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00:58:39,520 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 3: would be fun.

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00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 1: I feel like I used to ghost people, but I

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00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 1: don't do that anymore. What was her reasoning? I didn't

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00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:54,439
Speaker 1: really like them to begin with, so okay, that's real

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00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 1: or you know sometimes they like sometimes they'll say the

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00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: wrong thing. But like also when I say used to ghost,

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00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:06,120
Speaker 1: I don't do that anymore. Like it's just easier, especially

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00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: if a dude is persistent and like, you know, we've

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00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 1: spent more than just one time together, then it's it's

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00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:18,800
Speaker 1: just easier to tell a nice person, hey, I'm not

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00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: really feeling this. Yeah, you know, the person's not mean,

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00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:25,640
Speaker 1: they didn't do anything bad to you, Like tell them

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Speaker 1: the truth.

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00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 3: It's annoying to be shut down, But like y'all got

1130
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 3: to also be able to take these ls too, Like

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00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 3: if somebody's like, I'm not into you, like, okay, just

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00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 3: take it, like, don't fight it, because that also is

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00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 3: what makes people not want to be honest. You're like

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00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 3: me because you're like, oh, what can I do? You know,

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00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 3: I just know they don't like you. It's okay, Yeah,

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00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 3: well what can I do? You got to change your face? Yeah,

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00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 3: I hate the you were sweet? Yeah, your pasture is terrible, terrible,

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01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 3: it's given terodaptyal beak, it's not straight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I think it's just easier for

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Speaker 1: me as a grown up now because what happens when

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01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 1: you guys are out that now that outside is open,

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01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 1: you out when you bump into this person in the wild.

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01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, now now it's awkward.

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01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: Because your ass couldn't couldn't say what you needed to

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01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 1: say to me. Yeah, and I'm gonna roll up on

1146
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:31,200
Speaker 1: you if I got enough to kill it in my sisters,

1147
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 1: Well that's what I remember when I want to die. Yeah,

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01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fight, well, not me. If I see somebody.

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01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 1: If somebody shows me that they're not interested in me,

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01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: then I obviously that person is dead to me. May

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01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: they rest in peace. If I see you out in public,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be looking good.

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01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 3: My friends will always all without a doubt, without a doubt,

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Speaker 3: all the.

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01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 1: More reason to not go outside in a bonnet, because

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01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,840
Speaker 1: you gotta be looking amazing, just.

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01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,479
Speaker 3: To say somebody who ghosted you was there. That's one

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01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 3: thing that we're gonna do. We're gonna we're gonna pull

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01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 3: up and it's gonna look.

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01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:12,439
Speaker 1: Good, right good. We're gonna be late, but we're gonna

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01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:12,919
Speaker 1: look good.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's a great thing. I'm probably could have

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01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 3: been in the same room with somebody I used to

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01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 3: have sex with, but I came so late that they

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01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 3: left already. I missed the window to see them exactly.

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01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: And you know what, who is that, God, God, universe? Yeah, well,

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01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:35,880
Speaker 1: I think we did what we needed to do. We did.

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Speaker 3: Oh my God, so proud of us. We haven't had

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01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 3: a solo in a minute. So that was cute. Thank

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01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 3: you friends, and idless I was as well. I was

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01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 3: as well sprise. So you know, after hearing everything that

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01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 3: we say, you know, just comment more, bitch, comment more

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01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 3: if you like. We just there was no drama here,

1174
01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 3: so you know what I mean? If you have, you

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01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 3: want to say one.

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01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 1: Hundred and forty one hundred and I want to see

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Speaker 1: one hundred comments under this post, even when we boasted.

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Speaker 3: Not asking, not not asking for too much? Y'all, just

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Speaker 3: one hundred and forty comments.

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01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 1: Talk amongst yourselves, poor. But also we want to hear

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01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:22,200
Speaker 1: about your last your last ghosting experience. Have you been ghosted?

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01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: Have you ghosted somebody? Yeah? Tell us why and give

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01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 1: us a little synopsis.

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01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to know when your last ghost and why.

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01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 3: And then hopefully the person who you ghosted is also

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01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,920
Speaker 3: listening to the pot and they can see in a thread.

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01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 3: If it's the reason why, we can all get some

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01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:43,200
Speaker 3: closure in the comments. Closure in the comments. Look at

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01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 3: that in the comment, closure in the comments.

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Speaker 1: Like that? That works? Man? If you're Casper, then you

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Speaker 1: know tell us why you be disapparented. H you want

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