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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 3: Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest, Vanessa, good morning.

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Speaker 2: How are you hi?

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Speaker 4: I'm good than yourself.

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Speaker 2: We're just interested in hearing about this. So you met

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Speaker 2: a guy in a dating app and the guy said

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Speaker 2: something weird? Did he text it or say it?

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Speaker 4: He texted?

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Speaker 5: What do you say?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? It was a suck. Okay, what did he say

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Speaker 2: that was weird?

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Speaker 4: He said, he just made a comment about my body.

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Speaker 4: He basically said what he would do to me and

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Speaker 4: my body, and it just, you know, it felt uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, yeah, seems a little aggressive, doesn't it.

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Speaker 1: Unless if you're into him.

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Speaker 4: I mean I'm into him, but I'm not trying to be,

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Speaker 4: you know, on that level yet.

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Speaker 2: No, he needs to hold back.

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Speaker 4: You know, Like it seems like I don't know, this

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Speaker 4: has been like I experience like lately, it feels like

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Speaker 4: I don't know, like everybody's just on that mindset. Just

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Speaker 4: it's hard to find somebody that's actually looking for more.

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Speaker 2: Here's the question. Now, he said that, is it enough

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Speaker 2: to make you not go out with him? Now?

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Speaker 4: Well, you see that's the thing I like, I really like,

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Speaker 4: I was feeling him up until that point, I like

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Speaker 4: kind of want to stop talking to him, but then

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Speaker 4: it's like, okay, should I just let that be the

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Speaker 4: reason why I, you know, don't see if there's something there.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm going to tell you what I think. I

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Speaker 2: think it's a red flag, and I think it happened

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Speaker 2: so you'd feel this way so you don't go out

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Speaker 2: with him because he's not going to work out. That's

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Speaker 2: what I think. I think their universe gave you this

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Speaker 2: red flag, clear red flag, so you could say not

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Speaker 2: for me, not for me.

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Speaker 4: You're probably right, like I do tend to like whenever, like, okay,

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Speaker 4: I question it, is it a red flag? Or okay,

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Speaker 4: let me just see if there's something there, and then

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Speaker 4: that's where you know it starts to go wrong.

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Speaker 2: I think this is a clear sign that you're not

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Speaker 2: supposed to go out in them.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 2: I hate to say it.

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Speaker 1: But I feel, yeah, you got the egg already.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 7: I appreciate your input of.

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Speaker 2: Course any time. But I said thanks for calling, right.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's especially that kind of egg m that

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Speaker 2: just feels unc if you're feeling uncomfortable before you even go.

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Speaker 3: You feel uncomfortable or disrespected and you're not into it,

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Speaker 3: then that's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Red Flag. Never had that happen to me, unless

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Speaker 1: if she was into it.

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Speaker 2: Right, Well, I've never had that happen to me, right those.

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Speaker 3: Exact words been turned off, Oh something about your body.

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Speaker 1: No, I have, but it's been later in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: I mean in the early days earlier, no one says

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Speaker 2: that's just like unless you're like on that level of

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Speaker 2: sense of humor or no.

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Speaker 8: But also the dating apps just make it just kind

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Speaker 8: of this.

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Speaker 2: Well that's the other thing. You guys don't even know her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't get experience so much texting early on.

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Speaker 2: Big Red Flag, Big Red Flag. This is Whitney in

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Speaker 2: San Pedro. Oh Whitney. This is like I just read

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Speaker 2: what you're calling about. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: Oh Whitney. He is very excited.

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Speaker 2: It's like made my day. And then it just got

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Speaker 2: that light up like this all day. You made my

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Speaker 2: happy shirt happier.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Look, my question is you've said before that you start

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Speaker 6: your morning off with some olive oil in the morning.

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Speaker 7: And on an empty stomach.

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Speaker 6: It's like the first thing, and so my question is

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Speaker 6: where do you keep your olive oil? Is it in

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Speaker 6: the kitchen, on your night stamp, in your bathroom or

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Speaker 6: do you have one any room.

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Speaker 2: That's a great question, and I never thought about it

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Speaker 2: because I keep my olive oil in my kitchen. I

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Speaker 2: keep you know, you're supposed to use olive oil pretty quickly,

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Speaker 2: and I supposed to hold on to it for a

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Speaker 2: year right now, which is the benefits deplete. So I

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Speaker 2: do have it in the kitchen with a spoonful, like

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Speaker 2: a spoonful of it on an empty stomach. Because of

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Speaker 2: the more I and I'm not an expert, but the

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Speaker 2: more I read about how it could combat certain cancers

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Speaker 2: and do things for your your health, your body or

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Speaker 2: anti inflammatory process, I just and I love it. I

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Speaker 2: really love it. I put olive oil raw olive oil

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Speaker 2: on almost everything, including if I have a dessert, like

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Speaker 2: if I have ice cream, I'll put olive oil on

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Speaker 2: the ice cream.

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Speaker 6: Wow, I gotta try.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, chocolate, chocolate, Okay, so it's best. What do you say, ooh?

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Speaker 2: I mean here, we're not having the greatest moment of

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Speaker 2: the day, and you can do it.

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Speaker 8: The thought of olive oil on my ice.

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Speaker 9: Cream, I know, but just you know, we haven't tried

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Speaker 9: to basically you take the if you like dark chocolate,

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Speaker 9: Whitney olive oil on the top is it just merges beautifully.

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Speaker 2: And if you google the health benefits of olive oil,

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Speaker 2: you might be impressed. I was. I had no idea

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Speaker 2: and a lot of you know, my father was diagnosed

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Speaker 2: with prostate cancer, so I really took a deep die

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Speaker 2: into things that might help him, and I discovered not

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Speaker 2: only my love for the flavor of olive oil, but

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Speaker 2: the benefits. Well.

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Speaker 6: I actually started trying that morning olive oil tricks because

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Speaker 6: I heard you talk about on the radio so much

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Speaker 6: and I love it.

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Speaker 7: I had it this morning.

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Speaker 2: And do you know the what kind of are you having?

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what kind you buy.

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Speaker 6: I heard you said extra virgin olive oil, so that's

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Speaker 6: what I went with.

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Speaker 2: E v oh, extra virgin olive oil is what you

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Speaker 2: want to make sure you look at it, make sure

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Speaker 2: you study it. And that's great. Well, Whitney, I hope

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Speaker 2: it is helpful in your wellness.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I can't wait to try the chocolate olive oil

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Speaker 6: and go dogs.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you. Actually, I'm just so happy that

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Speaker 2: you took some advice that I gave you. That's so

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Speaker 2: nice of you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling, listen to you write to be careful.

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's one person actually took my advice. Ha, No

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Speaker 2: one here does. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Back to the ev O though, Like it so overwhelming

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Speaker 3: when you're at the grocery store and there's just like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some have like a little bit of this and that.

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Speaker 2: And here's what I'm told. If it's not extra verden

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Speaker 2: and olive oil, it could be diluted with something else, Okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: And I'm also told not to buy it in plastic. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so if you you need it in a dark glass, dark.

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Speaker 1: Glass, not clear, you see, I would know these things.

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Speaker 2: It's dark glass because uh, light and heat are two

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Speaker 2: things that are not good for olive oil.

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Speaker 8: Is olive oil better than apple cider vinegar?

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Speaker 2: It's just totally different. I think, what apple side of vinegar?

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Speaker 2: You're using that in the morning for the gut?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, gut like for Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I we should. I mean I'm unprepared, but we should

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Speaker 2: google the benefits of both.

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Speaker 1: I just can't do both. That seems intense.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, maybe you need to pick one

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Speaker 2: all of has been around forever, right, I mean the

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Speaker 2: Greek gods drank olive.

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Speaker 1: Oil, so you're basically a god. Is that what you're

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Speaker 2: Say, it's around the olive tree. The olive tree. If

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Speaker 2: you are there are thousand year old olive trees, they're ancient.

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Speaker 2: It's the tree to can stand the test of times.

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Speaker 1: Say the Greek God's honest.

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Speaker 10: Say this conversation made me feel better because the olive

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Speaker 10: oil we use is a dark container as glass.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you don't think about that, but there

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Speaker 2: have been stories in history where there was all kinds

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Speaker 2: of olive oil fraud that you know, they would label

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Speaker 2: it extra virgin, but they would dilute it with olives

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Speaker 2: that weren't good, and they put other things, even petrol,

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Speaker 10: That's what happens with everything. Don't even get me started

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Speaker 10: down the tampon path.

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Speaker 2: Well, why not, let's go down the path.

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Speaker 10: Because there are some tampon brands that are promoting that

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Speaker 10: they are organic tampons, meaning that they are not dipped

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Speaker 10: in like all those chemicals and stuff. They are dipped

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Speaker 10: in similar chemicals that are not the ones that are like.

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Speaker 3: You might as well go off the brands that are

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Speaker 3: like I've been at least like f Gay approved.

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Speaker 8: They're like off brand chemicals.

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Speaker 10: So it's not like you're not getting the chemicals that

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Speaker 10: are on whatever boxes, but you're getting even worse ones

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Speaker 10: like the ones that are on Skittles.

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Speaker 2: Never before in broadcast history have the benefits of olive

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Speaker 2: oil and the flaws and tampon's been discussed in the

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Speaker 2: same moment, And I think that's why you tune in.

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Speaker 10: I'm really upset about it. I've been like really because

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Speaker 10: this is a brand that I used and trusted, and

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Speaker 10: now I'm up in arms.

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Speaker 1: And didn't you used to get a lot of UTI's.

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Speaker 8: Yes, that's why I switched organic in the first place.

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Speaker 2: My God, And look how happy you are.

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Speaker 8: Well Now I use mental cups, which are way better.

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Speaker 2: I can go down that path. Stephen is in South Kate, Stephen,

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Speaker 2: good morning. How are you doing.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I'm doing okay, I'm doing okay.

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Speaker 2: Are you good? I'm doing well. Thanks? So you need

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Speaker 2: help in your situation with your mother in law?

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Speaker 5: You got it?

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Speaker 2: I have.

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Speaker 5: I have a little issue with my mother in law.

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Speaker 5: Whenever I go out of town for work, she always

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Speaker 5: comes in and helps out with the kids, and which

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Speaker 5: is which my wife actually loves. But the issue is

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Speaker 5: really when my wife goes out of town for work,

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Speaker 5: she does exactly the same thing. She comes in in

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Speaker 5: the house. I really don't I really don't need any help.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm good. We have four amazing kids, and

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Speaker 5: I really just look forward to it just being me

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Speaker 5: and the kids and getting some good quality time with them.

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Speaker 5: But I'm really having trouble. I don't know how to

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Speaker 5: tell my mother in law that really her services aren't needed.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she she loves help, you know. I don't

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Speaker 5: want to burst her bubble, but she kind of drives

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Speaker 1: Right when you're alone with them, Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 5: Get I don't get a ton of time. I mean,

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Speaker 5: my wife travels a little less than I do, so

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Speaker 5: when I have it, I really like to just I'd

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Speaker 5: rather just be me and the kids.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: I see that.

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Speaker 2: What's your You probably closest to a situation like this.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying it's happened, but understanding it if it

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Speaker 2: And good luck all right, Stephen, Yeah, thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: Good luck.

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Speaker 2: Let's just take a moment.

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Speaker 1: What's that costa Rica?

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Speaker 2: A decompression moment of the show. I decided to add

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Speaker 8: Really, yeah, this is nice, this meditation moment. So, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Don't close your eyes if you're driving the otherwise close

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Speaker 1: I love that all.

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Speaker 2: Right, it's really feel it was like Costa Rica. I

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Speaker 1: I really enjoyed that. I needed that.

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Speaker 2: I just throw it in there. Now you feel differently.

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Speaker 2: I'm like a live version of headspace or calm.

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Speaker 1: For some reason, your voice would not be calling. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so stressed out of you're trying to

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Speaker 2: Let your bones. That's your shoulder, right, shut up your shoulder,

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Speaker 8: I feel like your life is the opposite of this app.

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Speaker 2: And now you're you're female. Let your milk just melt.

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Speaker 8: This is opposite of your brand.

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Speaker 2: Exactly. How does it feel? Take a little look out

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Speaker 2: the window? Oh god, no, you see the beach?

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Speaker 5: For me?

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Speaker 2: What he means to know for me?

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Speaker 1: No, you're mister wake up. Everybody looks exactly.

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Speaker 2: Can't I be.

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Speaker 3: Now, Harry Styles, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't go to listen to Harry Styles calm.

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Speaker 2: Maybe Headspace would like to hear me put people to sleep.

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Speaker 1: Well, why don't you send them your tape?

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Speaker 2: What they say to send them my reel? All right, listen,

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Speaker 2: it's time for the morning Hack. And then we have

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Speaker 2: a quote of the day. They did a study at

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Speaker 2: Kansas State University about five thousand couples. Okay, they say,

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Speaker 2: you and your spouse are always fighting. If you're fighting

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Speaker 2: about this, they say, you're on your road to divorce.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what it is?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: But is it about money?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 2: No, it's not air conditioning. I think that you could overcome.

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Speaker 2: It's about money. Couples tend to use harsher language when

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Speaker 2: And if that persists to fight about money, they say,

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Speaker 2: most couples end in a separation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see that.

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Speaker 2: It just gets intense and personal right.

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Speaker 1: In what way?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 1: Like one person spends too much money?

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Speaker 3: Is that do you think that's probably how it is? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Or and there's no communications, but in resentment from that

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Speaker 1: About That would be horrible.

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Speaker 2: Here's today's quote to get you through it. Stop carrying

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Speaker 2: old feelings into new experiences. It's pretty good to do, right, simple,

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Speaker 2: but don't carry old into new on air where Ryan Sea,

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Speaker 2: I saw this circulating in the in the news. Yep,

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Speaker 3: Whether you're married or in a long term relationship. In general,

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Speaker 2: I gotta tell you.

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Speaker 8: I got Are you one of those thirds?

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Speaker 2: Are you asking me?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I really ask I feel like, what do you ask?

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Speaker 1: I feel like you might prefer.

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Speaker 8: Do you prefer sleeping alone or sharing a bed?

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Speaker 2: So it's funny you asked me that. Ha ha ha ha.

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Speaker 2: I actually don't love to sleep alone, but I cannot

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be alone, but be as far

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Speaker 3: I'm so right, even when my kids come in the bed,

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Speaker 2: No, I feel your body heat. No, I can't sleep,

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Speaker 2: then I can't say energy energy body energy keeps me awake.

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Speaker 3: Well, this is like a whole thing, Ryan, So, insufficient

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Speaker 1: Everything goes back to like you need.

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Speaker 3: Sleep to feel better, function all you know, et cetera,

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Speaker 3: et cetera, et cetera. So it makes you moody, it

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Speaker 3: saying it may be the best thing to sleep separately.

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Speaker 2: Here's what I think about this, And there's no wrong

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Speaker 2: or right because whatever works your works too. If you're

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Speaker 2: not a problem. If you're good, Like if you got

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Speaker 2: If you don't have a solid relationship, going into the

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Speaker 10: What if you got to in beds and sack them

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Speaker 1: But Lucy and Ricky Ricardo, Yeah, yeah, they like it.

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Speaker 2: I like it. Well.

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Speaker 2: And you're like, you're in there, they're in there in case.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I like, yeah, Michael and I got a

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Speaker 1: I think we were in.

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Speaker 2: Japan and two beds and.

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Speaker 1: We slept in the two beds that whole like.

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Speaker 2: Thetel and I was like, it was nice in a room.

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Speaker 1: But it's like two nights.

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Speaker 2: But it's kind of fun. You can lay together and

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Speaker 1: It was fine, Like maybe.

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Speaker 2: I'll do that one day.

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Speaker 1: It was fine.

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Speaker 3: So they say some of the reasons why you should

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Speaker 2: We put on sixty eight and I love it.

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Speaker 1: I wish I am jealous of that temperature.

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Speaker 2: Michael likes it warmer like seventy two house. I know,

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Speaker 1: I know, So I know.

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Speaker 3: The main question that a lot of people have too

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Speaker 1: How do you?

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Speaker 3: Is there an issue there? Experts say that will probably

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Speaker 2: That, Hey, that sucks kind.

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Speaker 3: Of in a weird way. Ryan, You're right, your room

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Speaker 3: When you're not rested, you're moody and you kind of

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Speaker 2: It doesn't really have much to do for rest.

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Speaker 1: Well for women, it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't I can't hate on this, and I

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Speaker 8: I think, so.

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Speaker 1: Tuesday, if I can have the space, I'd be down

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Speaker 2: Right, well, I'm thinking when you travel book two doubles

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Speaker 1: Years on air with a Ryan Seacret.

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Speaker 2: So do you hit the snooze button tubs? I do,

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Speaker 2: It's like a cycle of never ending alarm just keeps

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Speaker 1: Well, that just means you have probably multiple alarms or.

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Speaker 2: I hit I think I hit stop, swipe it up.

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Speaker 8: You probably swipe it up instead of stop.

449
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Speaker 2: Probably, Yeah, guilty. So they say hitting snooze is so

450
00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,120
Speaker 2: bad for you, think you're getting another ten minutes or whatever.

451
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Speaker 2: Nine so bad for you because your sleep cycles, your

452
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,840
Speaker 2: your real sleep cycles work in seventy five to ninety

453
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Speaker 2: minute cycles, and if you hit snooze and get nine

454
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Speaker 2: minutes into your next sleep cycle, which many times you do,

455
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Speaker 2: you fall right back asleep right then it takes you

456
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Speaker 2: four hours to get over the grogginess of interrupting that sleep.

457
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Speaker 2: It's called sleep inertia. So it's not worth it. It

458
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Speaker 2: may when you go to bed tonight when you are

459
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Speaker 2: listening to this now, don't hit this newze. It's going

460
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Speaker 2: to take you four extra hours to get out of

461
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Speaker 2: your grogginess, even with coffee.

462
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Speaker 10: That's why they say, just to get up to when

463
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Speaker 10: you when your eyes open, even if it's before you

464
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Speaker 10: need to wake up, just get up.

465
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Speaker 1: Impossible.

466
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Speaker 2: What would be great is if we could live in

467
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Speaker 2: the rhythm of light. Oh, sunsets and.

468
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Speaker 1: No it's ray of light, thank you.

469
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Speaker 2: Rhythm is a dancer. So you the sunsets. You know what,

470
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Speaker 2: soon after you lay your head in your pillow and

471
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Speaker 2: you leave your window open and the sun rises and

472
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Speaker 2: you wake up. Be great to be Yeah, that's vacation.

473
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Speaker 2: It is true. It is true. On vacation. Vacation go

474
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Speaker 2: to Hawaii to shoot those Idle episodes, and we had

475
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Speaker 2: a day off and.

476
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Speaker 1: You let that happen and it was just all hap.

477
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Speaker 2: It was like the dream of dream.

478
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Speaker 1: It is the best.

479
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Speaker 8: Okay.

480
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Speaker 1: So I am a snoozer. No, I always have been

481
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Speaker 1: my entire life.

482
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Speaker 3: And I read this article and I know exactly what

483
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Speaker 3: you're talking about, and it did kind of open up

484
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Speaker 3: my eyeballs and I was like, m interesting. Interesting. If

485
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Speaker 3: I try this tomorrow, yeah, and I'm late.

486
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Speaker 2: We'll set another alarm. Don't hit snooze, just get up. Yeah,

487
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:55,880
Speaker 2: set another alum case you fall asleep standing up?

488
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Speaker 3: So what time should I set the alarm? Seah, I don't, guys,

489
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Speaker 3: set my alarms so early.

490
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Speaker 8: This is take you to get ready for work. Let's

491
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Speaker 8: work backwards.

492
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Speaker 1: Oh, you don't need to do this on the air,

493
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Speaker 1: but okay, fine, Actually we do.

494
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Speaker 8: How long does it take you to get ready for work?

495
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Speaker 3: Probably twenty five minutes total, from like get ready to

496
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Speaker 3: leave the house.

497
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Speaker 10: Awake my things, wake. It is pretty fast. Wake up

498
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Speaker 10: thirty minutes. Say you're on for thirty minutes before you

499
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Speaker 10: need to be out the door to get to work.

500
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Speaker 1: That's when you should make you see, I don't do that,

501
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Speaker 1: like an hour.

502
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Speaker 2: Minute buffer traffic? I don't know, Yeah, no traffic. This

503
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Speaker 2: is twenty five to get out the door. There's traffic

504
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Speaker 2: in our house.

505
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Speaker 8: You never know. You're trying to slip. She might you know,

506
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Speaker 8: find five minutes for incidental that's dangerous.

507
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Speaker 2: Might fall asleep again in that five minutes.

508
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Speaker 8: No, no, no, she won't. Then she gets to work

509
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Speaker 8: a little early.

510
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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, I'm gonna try this.

511
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna not I'm gonna set my alarm later and

512
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Speaker 3: not I'm not giving my snooze buffer exactly.

513
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Speaker 2: And that's sleep cycle to its full extent.

514
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Speaker 1: I'm going to try this.

515
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Speaker 3: But if if I don't, if I yeah, you just

516
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Speaker 3: do actually think no. But what's going to happen is

517
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,600
Speaker 3: I'm going to hit snooze and I'm going to realize

518
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 3: it's actually later, and then I'm going to be late.

519
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Speaker 2: Don't hit snooze.

520
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Speaker 8: Don't hit snooze like that's easy.

521
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Speaker 1: That's difficulty.

522
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Speaker 8: Goes off, Take your feet and put them on the ground.

523
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Speaker 2: That's what I do. I actually off. So when my

524
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Speaker 2: alarm goes off and I go, ah, are you kidding me?

525
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Speaker 2: And then I get up, that's what I do sometimes jumping.

526
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Speaker 3: Up this morning already morning an alarm is going off

527
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Speaker 3: and Michael goes He's like pushing me.

528
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Speaker 1: He's like, go your alarm and I was like, it's

529
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Speaker 1: not my alarm, it's your alarm. He's like, oh, sorry,

530
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Speaker 1: Like why do you have your alarm?

531
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Speaker 3: More for?

532
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Speaker 2: Do you want to know what I do?

533
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Speaker 10: You know what I did the other day I set

534
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Speaker 10: my alarm. I took a nap and I set my

535
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Speaker 10: alarm for three PM. I thought I did.

536
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Speaker 8: I did not. I set it for three am the

537
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Speaker 8: next morning, so my alarm went off at three am.

538
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Speaker 8: Both of us up.

539
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Speaker 1: The words, but liter was like, why do you have

540
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Speaker 1: your alarm before mine? Like what were you trying to do?

541
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Speaker 2: He's like I was trying to get him like that

542
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 2: kind of it.

543
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Speaker 3: No, not really, this is like after we were already awake,

544
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 3: but he was trying to do like where he wakes

545
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Speaker 3: up early, like all like the billionaires, do you know,

546
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Speaker 3: like to start the day.

547
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Speaker 2: Clearly going to go through Yeah, everything you want to

548
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Speaker 2: create extra time, I'm going to create an extra hour

549
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Speaker 2: in the day. Titans, the Titans book.

550
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Speaker 8: Yeah, like the Chris Jenners of the world.

551
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Speaker 2: I have the itch to go to Disneyland.

552
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Speaker 1: I love Disneyland.

553
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 8: It's the happiest place on Earth.

554
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Speaker 2: Together or if we should just go, let's go together.

555
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 2: Maybe we could could be fun.

556
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Speaker 3: Yes, maybe a couples that could be really fun. Triple

557
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Speaker 3: Years triple day, triple date, matching day or trappy triple

558
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Speaker 3: day matchineers.

559
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Speaker 2: Yes, what you said, but let's arrive separately.

560
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Speaker 1: Oh why party bus?

561
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Speaker 2: We can all have our own vehicles. I don't know

562
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Speaker 2: what time we're going to finish. Yeah, so this is

563
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Speaker 2: it a formal invitation. We'll figure out the date.

564
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Speaker 8: Guys, we have a company.

565
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't know what's happening here, lindsay, sorry

566
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Speaker 3: you heard all that.

567
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Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm still here.

568
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Speaker 2: The reason we're coming together for a six talk. You're going,

569
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Speaker 2: but you work with somebody it's going to Disneyland that

570
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: needs to be at work, and you're kind of outing

571
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Speaker 2: that person.

572
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Speaker 11: Yeah. So my well, my manager is out and return

573
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Speaker 11: to leave, so he's out of office and not in

574
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Speaker 11: touch with our team very much understandably. So, so my

575
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Speaker 11: coworker is using that to her advantage, and it's taking

576
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Speaker 11: a vacation all up next week and not telling anyone,

577
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Speaker 11: and she's planning to go to Disneyland, And well, I

578
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Speaker 11: feel that's a bit unethical. I wouldn't feel I need

579
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Speaker 11: to tell anyone, but she's asking me to cover for

580
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Speaker 11: her and do her work. Oh yeah, I don't want

581
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Speaker 11: to tattle.

582
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Speaker 2: But you're on the you know this podcast where Disneyland

583
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Speaker 2: is from going. Okay, well wow, I'm trying to put

584
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Speaker 2: myself in your shoes. So let's see m if Tanya.

585
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Speaker 1: You know us to lie for her so she can

586
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Speaker 1: go do something. You would do it for me, Yeah,

587
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Speaker 1: but I would want something in return.

588
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Speaker 8: No, you wouldn't.

589
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 1: You would owe me.

590
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Speaker 8: If I have to lie for you to the boss,

591
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Speaker 8: you would do it.

592
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: I would maybe do it, but I'd be like, you

593
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: owe me?

594
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 2: Like this is big.

595
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 1: Now my job is on the line. You owe me.

596
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 2: No jobs on the line.

597
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 1: Disneyland maybe want to be Disneyland. I'm just saying something else.

598
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Speaker 2: Well, she already did this. She wanted to knop a

599
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 2: valley retreat and told her she was sick, but she

600
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Speaker 2: didn't lie.

601
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Speaker 8: And I'll say that I was sick. I took vacation

602
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Speaker 8: days in workday for the that.

603
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she took Tuesday and Wednesday last minute because

604
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Speaker 2: she went to naugh back with the guy that she

605
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:09,280
Speaker 2: told she never talked.

606
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Speaker 10: I said I was going to sn every tree, weepy, weepy, weepy.

607
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 2: But she disappeared.

608
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 3: She suggest she told me she never talked to she

609
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 3: had just broken up with him and she was such a.

610
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 2: Bad stay in and we put her back together with

611
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 2: like uh huh uh huh.

612
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 3: And then she was like, she was like, I need

613
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Speaker 3: to go find myself on this tree. Exaggerating in every shape,

614
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: that's what it was. But she called a wellness retreat.

615
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Speaker 2: We understand it. We've been down this path before.

616
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Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, so exaggerated. I took off a Thursday

617
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Speaker 8: and a Friday.

618
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Speaker 2: Was it Tuesday and Wednesday?

619
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Speaker 10: No, Thursday and Friday. I never said I was never

620
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Speaker 10: going to speak to the guy again. If you shall remember,

621
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Speaker 10: I said, this doesn't make sense, this break.

622
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Speaker 2: I recall, M sorry, as I recall, it was a

623
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Speaker 2: Sunday night and I was on the phone.

624
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Speaker 1: For a long Yes, I never seen her later.

625
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 2: You took a vacation when.

626
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 3: You made me unfollow him on Instagram, and then when

627
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 3: I had to re follow him.

628
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 2: It was super proper.

629
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Speaker 10: I love, and it was a retreat. It was a

630
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 10: couple's retreat to see if we could do this again.

631
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: I've seen couples retreat. It's a movie. This was not that.

632
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,199
Speaker 2: Lindsay again, do you want to just out your coworker?

633
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

634
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 2: Okay, is there a swap. Like, listen, now you're covering.

635
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 2: Is there something she can do for you? You see you?

636
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 11: That's true, that's true. I can give her. I can

637
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 11: give her something that she has to do for me as.

638
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: She owes you. Now, let's cover it and eye for

639
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: an eye blind whatever, good luck, Thank you very much.

640
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 2: It was a long time ago, but I remember like

641
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 2: it was yesterday. Was it tuesday?

642
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 10: You obviously don't remember it like it was yesterday because

643
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 10: your facts are a little bit fuzzy.

644
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 2: Oh, it's just I sounded pretty aligned.

645
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just can't remember what you called it. You

646
00:28:59,240 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: called it.

647
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 10: A well a retreat. I said, I'm going on retret.

648
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 3: And we didn't even bat an eyelash because we were

649
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 3: so concerned for your health.

650
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 2: Romantic weekend. It taste.

651
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, we literally were like, oh my gosh, Ryan, she

652
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 3: needs this, so let's give her whatever time she needs

653
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 3: because she needs it.

654
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 10: Peace.

655
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Speaker 2: I don't know all. Yeah.

656
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 8: She comes back and she was like, oh, I was

657
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 8: frolicking through this.

658
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: Wine the vineyards, rosemary infused the halive oil. They've caught

659
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 2: it up there, got in a bottle.

660
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,239
Speaker 1: I was just you know, tasting. Oh, by the way,

661
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Speaker 1: robbing air back together.

662
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 2: On our own backs here, because look at this, they're

663
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: about to be engaged thanks to us. Clearly, he carried

664
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: out the show, they made everything go away, and now

665
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 2: they're practically married.

666
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm really glad it worked out.

667
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 10: But I never once said I'm never speaking to him again.

668
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 10: If thou shouts.

669
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Speaker 2: Recall, I mean listening to those tears, these tears, so

670
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Speaker 2: many tears. Oh, I can tell I'm doing good abs

671
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 2: because I was laughing. I sold my apps. I did

672
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 2: hanging abs last night, and I can feel it now. Ah,

673
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 2: so hard to get six hundred.

674
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 8: Wait, know we all do that?

675
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: Ever? Since you told me six hundred a day, I'm like,

676
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: oh my gosh.

677
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 8: Should we all do six hundred apps? Something's a day?

678
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 2: I guess yeah. I think we should can.

679
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 10: Text each other after we finish the crest.

680
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 2: I didn't know. You know, a lot of restaurants have

681
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 2: secret menus, and you know, when it's a staple in

682
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 2: a certain region, A lot of people talk about her.

683
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: They posted up on TikToker.

684
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 8: Like a puppuccino at Starbucks.

685
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 2: Well, that I did not know about.

686
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 1: Really, that's the only one I know about.

687
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 2: But do you know there are more so a lot

688
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: of talk on TikTok right now about a McDonald's breakfast

689
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 2: burger if you come right when they switch from breakfast

690
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 2: to lunch, a breakfast burger. Do you know about the

691
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 2: breakfast burger?

692
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 8: Yeah, the breakfast burger, McMuffin.

693
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 2: No, it's a breakfast burger, like they're they're switching meals

694
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: and they'll merge the two for you for if you

695
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: are in the know. Now. It all turns out a

696
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 2: lot of restaurants have these secret means for your dog.

697
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 2: You have to know it word. So you'd mentioned the

698
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 2: Strawbucks Puppaccino. It's free. It's whipped cream in an espresso

699
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 2: cup for your dog to slurp. If your dog is

700
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 2: cool with Darien sugar good now, Georgia would get sick.

701
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I don't know. I don't ever

702
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: given that to my dogs.

703
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 7: No.

704
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 2: I love that people want to feed Georgia all the time,

705
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 2: but things, I'm afraid she's gonna splash out of her

706
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 2: you know.

707
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 8: Rear Sonny does too. Cheese.

708
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 2: I can't cheese.

709
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 8: No, she's sensitive, well.

710
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: Of course cheese, all right. Next, there's an in and

711
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 2: out pop patty. Do you know about that?

712
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 3: I did know about this because once we had the

713
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 3: dogs in the car when we went through in and out,

714
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 3: and they when they were taking our order, they offered

715
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 3: they were like.

716
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: You guys want to get some patties for the dogs.

717
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: Who were like, no, for the.

718
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 2: Dogs, for us, because I'll say for the dogs, we're

719
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: paying for us. You know, it's really just plain unseasoned burger.

720
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, some patties.

721
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 2: Ticket. Next dairy Queen has a secret dog menu, and

722
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: I'm that secret dog menue. Vanilla soft sir top with

723
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: a dog biscuit. Again, I'd be worried to give it

724
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 2: to Georgia, but it sounds really fun for the dog.

725
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 2: Sprinkles Cupcakes has one, yes, super cupcake with a yogurt

726
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 2: frosting and a dog bone decoration on top. Problem with

727
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 2: that is I might think that's for me.

728
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes dog treats look incredible.

729
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, we got those for Sunny's birthday party.

730
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 2: Georgia had a cake one time. I there was a

731
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 2: carrot cake.

732
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 3: The twins ate dog treats at my parents' house once

733
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 3: because my mom had them for her dog in a glass,

734
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 3: little like cute bowl, and the twins didn't know they

735
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 3: were just they were like one or two.

736
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: They didn't. They were like two years old and they

737
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 1: were like, Mom, why do you have these looks nice?

738
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: So confusing, like that's how Lola eats her treats. And

739
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh gosh.

740
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 2: So you want to sell some of your appliances, Systney.

741
00:32:55,280 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 3: So remember when I had Savellah and I was breastfeeding

742
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 3: and pumping and doing all that, I had so much

743
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 3: supply and it was taking over our freezer. So we

744
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 3: ended up having to buy a separate freezer for our garage.

745
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 3: It was We ended up beginning like one of those

746
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 3: deep freezers, and I was able to store my breast

747
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 3: milk in there, which was great.

748
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: Well, we don't really have a use for.

749
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 3: That deep freezer anymore. Like got Michael really wanted to

750
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 3: get a deep freezer. He was like, Yo, we'll store

751
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 3: all our extra meat in there and it'll be great.

752
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 3: I think he was kind of thinking like in the

753
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 3: pandemic years of like you never know type of thing.

754
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: And now it just takes up all this space.

755
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 3: And I'm trying to clean up our garage because it

756
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 3: flooded a few weeks ago with that storm that we had,

757
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 3: and so everything got ripped up, and everything's kind of

758
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 3: all stacked and so well.

759
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: Now that it's ringing again, who knows is probably flooding again.

760
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 3: But I want to eventually try to like reorganize the

761
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 3: garage and make it like we had a kind of

762
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 3: our garage and we don't use it for cars. We

763
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 3: used like as our home gym and like his little

764
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 3: man cave, and it's like a wreck room almost.

765
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: So I want to sell the deep freezer, and I

766
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 1: don't even think you'll notice.

767
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 2: If you will notice, go for it. But if you notice,

768
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 2: there's a If he does notice, you blame time. Listen,

769
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 2: there's a there's a there's I was just reading this

770
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 2: the other day, like people are getting resale on appliances

771
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 2: and furniture because it's a supply chain issue, still an issue.

772
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 2: I tried to order a pair of chairs the other

773
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 2: day and the chairs are going to take like nineteen

774
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:33,399
Speaker 2: weeks or something. It's something dumb, not quite something dumb.

775
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,839
Speaker 2: I'm like, these are two chairs. Yeah, I don't need

776
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 2: these two chairs. I'll find other chairs. And they're also

777
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 2: saying that if you're selling your home, more people are

778
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 2: buying homes with the furnishings because it takes so long

779
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:48,799
Speaker 2: to order furniture. It's true. Yeah, I think, honestly, this

780
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 2: is one of those deals where you just unloaded.

781
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: I mean I already started the process.

782
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 3: There was meat that we had in there, and I

783
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 3: already gave it away to my aunt, and so I

784
00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 3: was just like, I don't even.

785
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 1: Know how old that meat was in there.

786
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 2: He survives.

787
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. She's like, oh, no, it's

788
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 1: good you didn't meat last forever.

789
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, I don't think. So

790
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: I just try to talk about freezer burn. You see

791
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 2: freezer burn on some stuff like that.

792
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 8: Really that's yeah.

793
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,240
Speaker 1: I'm just like, we're not deep freezer people.

794
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: Like.

795
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, we have plenty of space in the freezer

796
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 3: that we haven't said the house.

797
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 2: Like no, I tell you, one of my friends growing

798
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: up had that deep freezer locker and man, we go

799
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 2: in there, there'd be cornish hens from forever ago. There'd

800
00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 2: be those fish sticks. Yeah, it's Swanson's meals.

801
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: We'll need all that in there.

802
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 2: Like by as we I felt like I was like

803
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 2: robbing a grocery store, you know, going in and getting

804
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 2: all that stuff, like meat is good for three to

805
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 2: four months in a freezer.

806
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 3: They tell me, what what about a deep freezer? That's

807
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 3: different though, but still, I mean I'm done. I'm done

808
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 3: with that freezer.

809
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: Four and a half months. I don't know. Yeah, Lexi

810
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 2: is on the phone, listen in on this. Got a

811
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 2: parking ticket outside a friend's house. All right, but the

812
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 2: friend didn't say you wear parking out there you might

813
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:01,840
Speaker 2: get a ticket?

814
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 5: Is that right?

815
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: Liked she?

816
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 2: Or did your friend.

817
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 7: She did not?

818
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:06,919
Speaker 5: No?

819
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,160
Speaker 7: Like, yeah, no, heads up whatsoever?

820
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 2: All right? So you park in the front of friend's house,

821
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,760
Speaker 2: you get a ticket, and now what's your question?

822
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 7: Yeah, so my question is like him, it was literally

823
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 7: over one hundred bucks, and it's just I don't like, yeah,

824
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 7: it's not possible to like really pay her right now?

825
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 7: Like can I ask her to pay the parking ticket?

826
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 2: Like and on what grounds? Because she didn't warn you

827
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 2: about the note parking out front?

828
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 7: Yeah?

829
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, I read that signs.

830
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 7: Yeah that's also a very good player. Yeah, it's just

831
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 7: it's rough though, just because it's literally like in the

832
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 7: triple digits, Like, I don't know, but.

833
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 2: You're assisting about parking in LA. You have to go

834
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 2: into every parking situation thinking you can't park there. Yeah,

835
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 2: anytime I park anywhere, I assume I cannot, So I ask, like,

836
00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 2: I don't understand the sign system, so I assume I

837
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 2: cannot park anywhere ever, because it's like, really that spot's available,

838
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 2: something must be up, Like, if there is parking, something

839
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 2: must be up.

840
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 1: I think it's kind of on you, Lexi.

841
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to look at the signs like and

842
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 3: see or have asked your friend like, hey, is it

843
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 3: cool to park on your street overnight? Lexi?

844
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 2: How long have you lived in La?

845
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 7: Yeah? I'm super new to La. I've only been here

846
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 7: for a few months.

847
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 2: So yeah, I will let this be a wake up call.

848
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: We can't park anywhere. And they get you. I mean

849
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,319
Speaker 2: they were walking on that pencil ye talk talking it up.

850
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: But if I was your friend, I would offer it

851
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 1: at least split it. I would just be nice and

852
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: be like, oh my gosh, I feel so bad. Let's

853
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 1: just at least split it.

854
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,839
Speaker 2: But will she learn her lesson that way? I don't

855
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 2: think lessons? Yeah, welcome to La. Welcome to La, all right, Lexie.

856
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 2: Welcome to La.

857
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 3: Seriously, though, I mean some of those signs in like

858
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 3: West Hollywood, forget it.

859
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: I mean, they're so confusing.

860
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 10: No, I got a parking ticket in West Hollywood because

861
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 10: my tire was like on the line of my parking spot.

862
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:12,240
Speaker 3: Huh oh, like when you had when they have the yeah,

863
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 3: yeah there your car needs to go in.

864
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 8: I had my tire on the line and I got

865
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 8: a parking ticket.

866
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 1: That's just mean.

867
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:21,839
Speaker 8: No, that's what happens here.

868
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 2: But you broke the law. Okay, off, But the line

869
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 2: is there for a reason.

870
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, the lines are more like guides.

871
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, the lines and that guides. The lines are specific.

872
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: There's a lot of permitting and studying and is you

873
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 2: know sighting that goes into all that.

874
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 8: That one was that one enraged me?

875
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that one would have stung.

876
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 2: Did you call me broth by the way it happens

877
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 2: right this, I really want to learn about this assistanty

878
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 2: here in a second. So you there's a there are

879
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:03,439
Speaker 2: people dropping out of some of the most common and

880
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 2: most historic dating apps for locations on Instagram right exactly.

881
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 3: And the concept is quite simple, and it's almost like.

882
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 1: Why didn't we think about this years ago? And maybe

883
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:17,239
Speaker 1: some people have.

884
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: I want to see, like Tanya, if you and I

885
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 2: were out there, Yeah, we've been out there. We know

886
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 2: it's like to be out there.

887
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 8: Oh I've been out there and I've been all over there.

888
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,280
Speaker 2: Too, right, so we know it's like to be out there. Okay,

889
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 2: So let's listen to what Sysney is sort of briefing

890
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 2: us on in terms of dating, if we were out

891
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Speaker 2: there dating right now, Tanya Sisney, go ahead, Okay.

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Speaker 3: So I stumbled across this article the other night, and

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Speaker 3: basically it was this woman explaining how she had been

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Speaker 3: on a few dates this way, and it was.

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Speaker 1: Almost like a Eureka moment.

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Speaker 3: So let's say you love the bungalow in Long Beach, Okay, beautiful,

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Speaker 3: and so you what you would do is you would

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Speaker 3: you know, sometimes you go there, you take a picture,

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Speaker 3: and then you put the location tag on it on

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Speaker 3: your Instagram. So in Instagram, you would go to that

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Speaker 3: location tag and then if you did that, you'd it

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Speaker 3: would pull up everybody's pictures that has tagged the sore

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Speaker 3: right now, but it like, yeah, I have it either

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Speaker 3: And then you can see when they've been there. It

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Speaker 3: could have been earlier that day or that last weekend

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Speaker 3: or whenever. Either way, it gives you access to their

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Speaker 3: profile if they're public, if they're private, then probably not,

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Speaker 3: but at least you see their picture and you can

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Speaker 3: probably still DM them if you wanted to. So this

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Speaker 3: can kind of be either genius or borderline stockersh who knows? Right?

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Speaker 3: So this so this guy, this is how it happened

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Speaker 3: to her. He saw her at a bar that he

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Speaker 3: frequented all the time and hit her up on her

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Speaker 3: DM in Instagram and basically just started flirting with her

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Speaker 3: on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Because he said, hey, we hang like, I know your bar,

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Speaker 2: you know my bar.

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Speaker 3: Kind of yeah, kind of like, oh I saw you

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Speaker 3: tag this bar, this and that. And they went on

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Speaker 3: a first day. It didn't end up working out with them,

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Speaker 3: but she said it was a great first day and

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Speaker 3: there was like it was as if it was a

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Speaker 3: dating app almost.

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Speaker 5: But it wasn't it.

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Speaker 2: If we're out there and you I saw you at

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Speaker 2: a restaurant, like you know, it's all about the food, right,

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Speaker 2: So if I saw you at a restaurant that's my

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Speaker 2: favorite restaurant for Italian or Mexan whatever. Yeah, and I

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Speaker 2: saw that, that's like soulmate material for me.

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Speaker 10: I know, And I kind of already do this if

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Speaker 10: I'm like going to a hotel and I want to

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Speaker 10: see like what bars people go to, what restaurants, or

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Speaker 10: what food they're eating.

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Speaker 8: I do this already, like I'll go and I'll look

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Speaker 8: and see what people are posting pictures and what they're

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Speaker 8: posting pictures of.

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Speaker 2: In a weird way, it answers a lot of questions

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Speaker 2: that I might have to have answered on other dating

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Speaker 2: apps just by going through this, And it seems casual

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Speaker 2: and a little less threatening to me and a little

941
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Speaker 2: less obviously it's.

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Speaker 8: Like a hair creepy, but if you.

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Speaker 2: Really like the same haunts, like oh we have we

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Speaker 2: have this same we like this, we have the similar taste,

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Speaker 2: Like what if you order the same thing at this

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Speaker 2: place where I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, yeah, it's like all you have in common is

948
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Speaker 3: the fact that you both go to the same bar,

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Speaker 3: the same That's.

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Speaker 2: Not all you have in common. You're led to that

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Speaker 2: bar or that restaurant. You're led there because of traits

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Speaker 2: that are similar to the other people led there. Like

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Speaker 2: don't you feel a bond when you're at the Chargers game?

954
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Speaker 2: It's like these are my people? Yes, So what if

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Speaker 2: I location Chargers.

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Speaker 1: Cames right exactly and they would.

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Speaker 2: Be like this, This answers a lot of questions out

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Speaker 2: of the gate.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like it?

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Speaker 2: How did too well? None of us are using it?

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Speaker 3: Well, charge If you did, Chargers game would be very

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Speaker 3: broad because it would be so Fi stadiums.

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Speaker 1: It'd be like is it rams? Is it concerts?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Well, but whatever, just so Fi stadium? If you

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Speaker 2: like that and everybody does. Just the fact that you've

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Speaker 2: been to so far, I feel a bond HELDA is

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Speaker 2: on the line, held a good morning, good morning. So, uh, Hilda,

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Speaker 2: you're calling in Los Angeles and you have a questionnaire.

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Speaker 2: Should you stop talking to the guy you're seeing because

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Speaker 2: he's always busy? Is that right?

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Speaker 7: Correct?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well, how long have you been seeing the busy man?

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Speaker 6: It's been my eight months?

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Speaker 2: Yes, And he always tells you that he's busy.

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Speaker 6: Doing what it's because you're supply as turned in so

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Speaker 6: he's like never home.

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Speaker 11: Like we make plans, somehow they get canceled because he

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Speaker 11: needs to go out to work.

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Speaker 2: I maybe I've seen too many movies. I worry about

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Speaker 2: flight attendants layovers. I do flight attendant.

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Speaker 1: This should be easy.

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Speaker 3: He should be flying you out to places to meet him.

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Speaker 3: How romantic. He should be making more of an effort

985
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Speaker 3: because he's a flight attendant, not canceling, or.

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Speaker 2: Is he seeing someone in the city where he hubs.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing.

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Speaker 8: I just look.

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Speaker 3: Everybody will make time, you know, if you're into somebody,

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Speaker 3: you make the time.

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Speaker 1: You don't cancel.

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Speaker 2: Can I tell you secret? Hill it while we're here,

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Speaker 2: you're tell everybody. I kind of always wanted to be

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Speaker 2: a flight attendant.

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Speaker 8: I think everybody did at some point, right.

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Speaker 2: I really want to be a flight attendant for a

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Speaker 2: lot of my life, and especially even when I find

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Speaker 2: out I want to get on the PA.

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Speaker 1: My roommate in college was I kind of I.

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Speaker 2: Find it remarkable. I'm always trying to make eyes with

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Speaker 2: the person reading the blackcard when they're doing the instructions

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Speaker 2: liked on good, good delivery, on like announcements of appreciate

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Speaker 2: what they're doing right, like we do it here. But

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Speaker 2: there's this thing inside of me that wants to do

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Speaker 2: that on a flight anyway, Hilda, I agree with Steny.

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Speaker 2: If a man isn't making time for you after eight months,

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Speaker 2: he's telling you you're not a priority, you need to

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Speaker 2: move on full stop.

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Speaker 8: I don't think so. I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I think So.

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Speaker 2: Are you committed? Did you guys say you're committed to

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Speaker 2: each other? Only?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Because the thing is like he does streat me right,

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Speaker 6: like we see him. We still go out and stuff.

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Speaker 7: So that's why I'm like kind of lost at this point.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't right, But you don't get to treat you

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Speaker 2: right conveniently. It's got to be all the time. And

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Speaker 2: by saying you're busy and pushing you off, he's guys,

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Speaker 2: he's telling you in a subtle, not so subtle way,

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Speaker 2: I'm not really that interested to make you a priority.

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Speaker 2: That's what's happening.

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Speaker 10: No, it's not this time setting you up for success

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Speaker 10: for long term with this guy, because this is what happens.

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Speaker 10: I have had friends who their boyfriends make them the

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Speaker 10: number one priority they are, they're queen's and they bend

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Speaker 10: over backwards and then they have a kid and they're

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Speaker 10: not their priority anymore and she can't handle it.

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Speaker 5: So this is exactly the point.

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Speaker 10: I'm like, I don't know, I don't success like just

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Speaker 10: having your well they're immatere No, that's not.

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Speaker 2: The kill y'all. No, I agree with me.

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Speaker 1: I agree with me very much.

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Speaker 2: I agree with we Thank you for calling you've really

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Speaker 2: your evaluation of relationship skills has been diluted since you've

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Speaker 2: been one.

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Speaker 1: On air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: That is going to do it for us tomorrow and

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Speaker 2: all Ryan's roses seven to carry yourself. Thanks for listening

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Speaker 2: so on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe

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