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Speaker 1: know it could be yours, so write.

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Speaker 2: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry lot.

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Speaker 1: All right, if you thank you subject his place or

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Speaker 1: or mine, His place or mine. Dear Stephen Shirley, I

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Speaker 1: just married my soulmate and moved in with her because

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Speaker 1: her house is bigger than my bachelor pad was. I'm

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Speaker 1: years and they lived here together. They share a four

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Speaker 1: The house is the same as when her ex husband

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Speaker 1: it's a falcon's home now. She said, it will always

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Speaker 1: be a panther's household. She made me mad, so I

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Speaker 1: boxed it all up while she stood there. She has

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Speaker 1: the habit of telling me how things go in the

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Speaker 1: or how they talked about getting a pool. She bragged

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Speaker 1: about the azaleas that he planted for her, so I

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Speaker 1: was happy when the weeds killed the whole bush. I

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Speaker 1: finally got my name on the deed to the house,

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Speaker 1: and on that same day I had to tell her

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Speaker 1: All my wife said was that old habits die hard,

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Speaker 1: and they both laughed. I've asked my wife many times,

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Speaker 1: is this his place or mine? My wife said, it's

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Speaker 1: our house, but her ex has to be comfortable here

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Speaker 1: so that co parenting will work. I lost it yesterday

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Speaker 1: when she told her son to go to daddy's office

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Speaker 1: and get the football out of the box. It's not

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Speaker 1: his daddy's office anymore, it's my office. I threaten to

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Speaker 1: Should I give this more time or should I start

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Speaker 1: packing today? Please?

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Speaker 3: Help? All right?

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Speaker 1: Well, you know since you asked. I think this living

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Speaker 1: arrangement is whack. It's not working, So yeah, start packing today.

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Speaker 1: I mean she needs know you mean business now. She's

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Speaker 1: too disrespectful. This is you and her house right now,

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Speaker 1: not her and her ex's house. And there is a

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Speaker 1: third person in this marriage if you didn't know, and

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Speaker 1: that is her ex husband. Who what man walks into

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Speaker 1: another man's home without knocking even though it used to

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Speaker 1: be his, it's no longer his. She can't seem to

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Speaker 1: shake him. She can't seem to shake her ex. But

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Speaker 1: this is something you guys should have worked out way

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Speaker 1: before you got married, before you got married, not after

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Speaker 1: the fact. How did you get to this point? How

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Speaker 1: did all this happen? Did you guys talk, communicate at all?

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Speaker 1: You can't even be the man in your own house.

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Speaker 1: But it really isn't your house now, is it, even

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Speaker 1: if your name is on the deed. I say sell

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Speaker 1: this house, start fresh with a new home altogether. If

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Speaker 1: you can co parenting can work anywhere. It doesn't just

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Speaker 1: have to work at this home. If you don't sell

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Speaker 1: this house and get another house for the two of you,

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Speaker 1: you're going to continue to live in her ex husband's shadow.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know how you didn't see this coming.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you didn't see that.

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Speaker 3: Tommy, we ain't even at this house.

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Speaker 2: It's time to get Petty, and Andre, you talking to

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Speaker 2: the number one person. When it's time to get Petty.

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Speaker 2: We fin to get down in it. Okay, he got

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Speaker 2: all this Carolina stuff up there. Don't worry about that.

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Speaker 2: Take all that down. Guess what we're starting with. We're

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Speaker 2: starting with the driveway. We've been to paint a big

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Speaker 2: Petty around here.

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Speaker 3: You understand me.

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Speaker 2: When you walk in what you see, Shirton, you see

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Speaker 3: I'm finna do it to you.

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Speaker 2: When all in the bathroom red and black rugs. Matter

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Speaker 2: of fact, when that little boy come home from school

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Speaker 2: painted it red and black, yes, I have we finna

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Speaker 2: get pet up in here, because yes, as matter of fact,

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Speaker 2: since your ex stopping by, Hey, hey, guess what my ex.

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Speaker 3: Coming through too? Yeah, I'm trying to get funny. That's

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Speaker 2: What you know, hard habits is hard to break down.

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Speaker 2: You come over here, I don't know why. She just

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Speaker 2: want to come over here and cook something for me.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's just it's just something she do. Don't

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Speaker 2: worry about that.

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Speaker 3: It's hard. Habits is hard, you know.

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Speaker 1: That's it's just hard to.

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Speaker 3: It's just hard to do that. It's I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, she coming over, she gonna take care of me.

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Speaker 3: This is what I would do.

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Speaker 2: Get you a nice mural, okay, a nice mural of

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Speaker 2: famous people that played for the Falcons. So tell me

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Speaker 2: what y'all like. Michael Vick, Michael Vick, Dion Sanders, Julio Jones.

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Speaker 3: We're going to get a whole wall.

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Speaker 2: Junior with them three right there on it, all in

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Speaker 2: the in they Falcons outfits.

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Speaker 3: That's how you do it.

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Speaker 2: You got to fight for what you want, bro, and

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Speaker 2: you over there trying to pack it up and give up.

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Speaker 3: Don't pack up and give up. Fight for your name

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Speaker 3: is on the.

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Speaker 2: Deed now, matter of fact, get that deed blowed up

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Speaker 2: and frame that and put that right there on. There's

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Speaker 2: a whole wall for that deed. You've got to fight.

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Speaker 2: You got to get petty, get down in it and

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Speaker 2: get petty. When we sit down and eat what what

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Speaker 2: what kind of dishes you think we got? What do

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Speaker 2: That's what we need done for.

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Speaker 1: What what dirty bird?

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Speaker 2: Dirty bird up in here? Now you're gonna call it.

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Speaker 2: That's what I want to put on the ceiling. Dirty

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Speaker 2: bird rise up. We look up when she matter of fact,

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Speaker 2: when she come home from work and go in the bedroom.

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Speaker 2: Guess what a whole confident with the falcon on it.

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Speaker 3: That's what. Yes, we got to get rid of that Carolina.

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Speaker 2: Now, any other plants he got outside, go out there

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Speaker 2: and poke gas on that. All right, let's kill that.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna kill all that. We gonna kill everything he had.

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Speaker 2: Y'all ain't getting no pool because y'all ain't gonna be

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Speaker 2: along together long enough to make that help. The pool

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Speaker 2: ain't gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: All this stuff that is over this has been. First

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Speaker 3: of all, y'all not finna get married.

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Speaker 2: All right, you're not. Okay, it's not gonna happen. I

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Speaker 2: just want you to get petty on the way out.

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Speaker 1: That's all I want, okay, all right, all right, nephew,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll have Junior's response to today's Strawberry letter. The subject

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Speaker 1: is his place or mine. Right after this, you walk.

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Speaker 3: In this house one more time, but I not and

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna work.

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Speaker 1: Time now to recap the Distrawberry letter for today. The

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Speaker 1: subject is his place or mind. This guy wrote in

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Speaker 1: saying his place her mind. He's just married his soulmate.

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Speaker 1: They moved They moved in together. He moved in with

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Speaker 1: her because his bachelor pad was too small. Her house

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Speaker 1: was bigger. The only problem is she hasn't really let

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Speaker 1: things go from the past, like her ex. She has

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Speaker 1: only way co parenting will work. She talks about how

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Speaker 1: she and her husband they built a rack for the

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Speaker 1: She bragged about stuff that she and her husband, her

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Speaker 1: ex husband did all while her new husband is right there.

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Speaker 1: He said he lost it when she said told her

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Speaker 1: son to go to daddy's office and get something, and

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Speaker 1: he said, it's my office now. So what he wants

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Speaker 1: to know is, uh huh is should he pack up

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Speaker 1: you know, should he give this more time? And Tommy said,

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Speaker 1: it's time to get real petty with it. They like

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Speaker 1: the Carolina Panthers she and her ex did. Her new

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Speaker 1: right there, I said, sell the house and just start

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Speaker 1: a new get a fresh new start, sell the house

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Speaker 1: by the You know if you guys can do that,

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Speaker 1: buy a new house, start over again. Junior, what do

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Speaker 1: you say his.

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Speaker 5: Place of mind?

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Speaker 6: Well, clearly you wrote it his place We know that

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Speaker 6: for sure, it is clearly his place. I don't I

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Speaker 6: don't know what youthat it was, but it's clearly his place.

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Speaker 6: But I hear what I'm saying. That's a good way

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Speaker 6: to do it, be petty and staying at it.

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Speaker 5: But you need to leave, that's all.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 5: You really should consider leaving now.

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Speaker 6: And here's another thing I did for you this morning,

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Speaker 6: because we're in Atlanta. I'm in Atlanta too, so I

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Speaker 6: already did it for you. You are open at eight am.

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Speaker 6: I already talked to them. They already they already open.

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Speaker 6: You can get to move it right now that you

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Speaker 6: open that. They got everything you need to get up

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Speaker 6: from down there. They got box they got they got

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Speaker 6: a whole bunch of boxing medium, large.

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Speaker 5: Small, did they got masking taping there, they got.

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Speaker 6: Moving tapes, they got help get your stuff out of there.

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Speaker 6: That's where you need to be. But you're still up

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Speaker 6: here trying to be petty at stay. This man told

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Speaker 5: It's his office. And how long ago did you get

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Speaker 5: when you moved in.

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Speaker 6: You've been married two years with no with no say

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Speaker 1: No, what did they talk about before marriage? Junior?

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Speaker 5: I'm gone you that no boy, the little fo yo.

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Speaker 5: They keep listening to you, and he say, go on

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Speaker 5: your daddy office. He gonna be homeless. You're gonna be

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Speaker 5: home because you clean on nothing.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna put.

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Speaker 5: You can get out of here.

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Speaker 6: You're gonna find your daddy because if you can't get

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Speaker 6: in here, I don't care. I'll kick your TV off

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Speaker 6: the wall I'm getting. I don't care if your phone.

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Speaker 6: They ain't got nothing to do with me, they got nothing.

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Speaker 6: I'll kick it off house.

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Speaker 5: You'll never play another PlayStation game in here.

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Speaker 3: Not in this house.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna start taking back and stuff I have not.

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Speaker 6: I don't care about the little boy because you're hearing

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Speaker 6: too much. Go on your daddy office. Oh you agree

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Speaker 6: to So it's two people in here.

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Speaker 5: Think I don't run nothing. It's too mean. Okay, No,

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Speaker 5: we're not gonna do this.

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Speaker 1: Not playing with you.

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Speaker 3: You get out of there.

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Speaker 5: And the fact that man, you mean tell me we're

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Speaker 5: gonna talk.

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Speaker 6: He walked in your house as if he's comfort walk

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Speaker 6: when you walk in.

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Speaker 5: Give him something? See just get nick.

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, How are you gonna say this your house

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Speaker 6: when I ain't got no clothes. I don't care how

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Speaker 6: I'm looking now.

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Speaker 5: I wrapped up in a Falcons blanket when you walk in.

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Speaker 5: That's what I got. Yeah, come on here, because it's

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Speaker 5: too much.

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Speaker 3: It's too much.

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Speaker 1: I can't do this. No, I could not do that now.

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Speaker 1: But what what? I just want to know? What did

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Speaker 1: they talk about before they got married?

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Speaker 3: Did this talk about nothing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Talk about nothing?

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Speaker 1: Right, because you would have talked about this right where

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Speaker 1: we're gonna move, where we're gonna live, name on the deed,

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Speaker 1: the X. You know all of this. He still has

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Speaker 1: a key, the X to your heart. How do you

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Speaker 1: not discuss this?

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Speaker 3: I know me, I'll go too far.

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Speaker 2: I'll be the that little boy hair red I know.

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Speaker 1: Clean the baby out of this.

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Speaker 5: Please? He participated too. I mean you say it again?

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Speaker 1: Wait what you okay?

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Speaker 5: I feel to prove to you. I ain't your daddy

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Speaker 5: because you're home. You're not staying it out?

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Speaker 6: You she gonna come home? Why is my son in

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Speaker 6: the driveway because his daddy is not here? This is right?

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Speaker 6: How do you have to like children in here? I

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Speaker 6: don't have to do that. Right? Are you performing you

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Speaker 6: say your daddy, you go do whatever your mama said

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Speaker 6: about your dad.

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Speaker 5: But you don't want to live with him. Now, you're

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Speaker 5: not gonna be here.

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Speaker 1: Putting the baby out.

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Speaker 5: To you have heard TV hit the flow because you're finish.

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Speaker 5: Hear it, little boy could be shocked.

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Speaker 1: You're not my daddy.

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Speaker 3: When you come home.

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Speaker 5: Ain't no bed in here no more. You're just gonna

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Speaker 5: see Indian style on the floor. None of them stuff

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Speaker 5: is here.

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Speaker 2: Just put all that Carolina blue in the box and burn.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: See, women are different. Women would never have moved in there.

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Speaker 1: We would make him give us a new house. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean what if we're not financially able to

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Speaker 2: do all of that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you still don't move in and just wait.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna wait till we are Yeah, for sale sign exactly.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get another house. Yes, we have to make

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Speaker 1: our own mark. You know how you guys like to

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Speaker 1: mark your territory. That's what we do too when it

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Speaker 1: comes to houses. Yes, and we would have discussed this

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Speaker 1: before marriage, for sure.

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Speaker 5: Come in here.

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Speaker 6: Hearing about what Dwayne said about the house. The way said,

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Speaker 6: we just don't get a pool. Tell me one more

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Speaker 6: thing to get the damn.

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Speaker 5: Pool get right. Forget that. Forget the Aziliens. I'm pulling

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Speaker 5: up trees. That's what you don't have. Canna have a

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Speaker 5: tree in his yow. Forget the Aziliens. The trees is

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Speaker 5: gone in this.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it, not my Aziliens. Uh huh,

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