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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject has he crossed the line with

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Speaker 1: his play sister? Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband told me

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Speaker 1: his life story when we met. He was adopted when

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Speaker 1: he was seven years old. So he has two siblings

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Speaker 1: that are not his blood relatives, but they're really close

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Speaker 1: like real sisters and brothers. There's another woman, Carmen, that's

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Speaker 1: been in his life since he was a teenager. He

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Speaker 1: he thought of her as his big sister. I didn't

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Speaker 1: meet Carmen until two weeks before our wedding, and she

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Speaker 1: wasn't nice to me. My husband said, Carmen is territory

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Speaker 1: over him, like a big sister would be. I told

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Speaker 1: my husband that Carmen would learn to love me like

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Speaker 1: everyone else, and I didn't stress him about it. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't until she came to town recently that I noticed

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Speaker 1: that Carmen is more than a big sister figure in

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Speaker 1: my husband's life. I overheard him telling Carmen that I

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Speaker 1: am a good lover and I take care of him

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Speaker 1: just like she always has. I told him what I heard,

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Speaker 1: and I asked if it meant what I thought it meant.

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Speaker 1: He refused to answer the question, and he said it's

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Speaker 1: because he'd never lied to me about something like that.

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Speaker 1: I took it to mean that he and Carmen had

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Speaker 1: crossed the line at some point over the years. When

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Speaker 1: she was at our house visiting, I noticed her grab

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Speaker 1: his ear lob a few times, and she watches as

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Speaker 1: he walked out of the room once or twice. It's

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Speaker 1: been driving me crazy now that I suspect something went

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Speaker 1: down with him. My husband said, it's not what I think,

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Speaker 1: but he loves Carmen and he always will. He said

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Speaker 1: that he told me everything about his past that I

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Speaker 1: needed to know. What do you think hiding? Should I

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Speaker 1: talk to Carmen? Okay?

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Speaker 2: I'm with you on this one.

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Speaker 1: What kind of sister wife situationship is he involved with?

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Speaker 1: I mean, really, this definitely doesn't feel right. They're way

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Speaker 1: too close and there are no boundaries in place for

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Speaker 1: miss Carmen now that he's married. And why are there

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Speaker 1: secrets about the two of them that he's keeping from you?

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Speaker 1: You said he told you his life story when you

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Speaker 1: guys met, and he said that he told you everything

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Speaker 1: about his past that you needed to know. But clearly

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Speaker 1: he left something out I mean, a big chunk of

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Speaker 1: this relationship concerning he and Carmen. Then you asked him

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Speaker 1: a direct question about whether he and Carmen had slept together,

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Speaker 1: and he refused to answer you, saying he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to lie to you about something like that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: And by the way, not answering is an answer, Huh,

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Speaker 1: I'm not answering here. You approve that lie, you approve

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Speaker 1: of it. Not answering is an answer. Carmen wasn't nice

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Speaker 1: to you, you said, And she's disrespectful. Of course. The

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Speaker 1: woman grabbed your man's ear lobes right in front of you,

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Speaker 1: And I'm just amazed at you that you didn't check

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Speaker 1: her right then and there. This is she's out of

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Speaker 1: line in your house. That that's why you don't need

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Speaker 1: to talk to her. Your problem is with your husband,

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Speaker 1: who is stupid to think that it is okay to

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Speaker 1: have another woman a play big sister as he calls

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is craziness. Let him know how you feel.

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Speaker 1: Tell him Carmen is no longer welcome in the house.

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Speaker 1: And yes, you know they crossed the line. They did

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Speaker 1: many times. That's why she can't get over the fact

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Speaker 4: Steve, Well, it's several things to this letter. M a

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Speaker 4: lot in it.

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Speaker 5: You said you husband told your life story when y'all met,

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Speaker 5: said he was adopted when he was seventy. Two kids

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Speaker 5: woman named Carmen that's been in his life since he

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Speaker 5: so he thought of her as a big system. You

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Speaker 5: ain't me calming until two weeks before y'all wedding, and

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Speaker 5: then Karmen wasn't really nice to you, and then said, Carmen,

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Speaker 5: her husband told you that karma was territory over him,

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Speaker 5: like any big sister would be. You said, don't worry

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Speaker 4: So don't worry about it.

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Speaker 5: Right, And then you overheard him telling Carmon that you

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Speaker 5: are a good lover and you take care of him

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Speaker 5: just like she always has.

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Speaker 2: My man, what's the pause for?

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Speaker 4: Still? Because here you go? Right here? Just a line?

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Speaker 5: I told him I heard, and I asked if it

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Speaker 4: Here's the most beautiful this, this one right here.

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Speaker 5: I ain't never used this one, but boy, but boy,

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to incorporate this.

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Speaker 4: No, this is so good.

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Speaker 5: I told him that I heard, and I asked him

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Speaker 5: if it meant what I thought it meant. He's refused

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Speaker 5: to answer the question, and he said it because he

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Speaker 5: never lied to me about something like that. Boy, me, boy,

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Speaker 5: you what do that mean? I'm not gonna answer that

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Speaker 5: question because I would never lie to you.

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Speaker 4: About a thing like that.

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Speaker 2: That's an answer, Lord himns.

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Speaker 4: It may be an answer, but it's a good one, though.

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Speaker 5: It is that one right now, God, goodness and Mercy

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Speaker 5: wrote all over it. Anyway, I took it to mean

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Speaker 5: that he in common had crossed the line at some

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Speaker 5: point over the years.

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Speaker 4: Now that's highly possible that could have happened.

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Speaker 5: But you said it right here in the letter that

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Speaker 5: he in common had crossed the line at some point

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Speaker 5: over the years.

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Speaker 4: So what that gotta do with you?

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Speaker 2: Hang on, Steve, Hang on all right.

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Speaker 1: We'll have fart two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject

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Speaker 1: is has he crossed the line with his play sister?

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Speaker 1: The subject is has he crossed the line with his

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Speaker 1: play sister?

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Speaker 5: This one got a lot in it right here. This

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Speaker 5: woman's been married for a long time to her husband

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Speaker 5: and told that his life story adopted when he was seven,

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Speaker 5: grew up in the family, had two bother and sister.

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Speaker 4: He considered real sisters and everything.

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Speaker 5: And then as another woman that came and stayed with

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Speaker 5: him when they was teenagers named Carmen, and he considered

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Speaker 5: her his big sister. The lady didn't meet Calming until

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Speaker 5: two weeks before they went, and calmly wasn't nice.

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Speaker 4: To her at all. She told her husband, don't worry

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Speaker 5: She would grow to love me like everybody else well,

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Speaker 5: and then he told her calm and his territorial over

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Speaker 5: him like a big sister would be.

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Speaker 4: Anyway.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't until she came to town recently and she

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Speaker 5: noticed Calm and it's more than a big sister figure

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Speaker 5: in my husband's life. The lady overheard him telling Carmon

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Speaker 5: that I'm a good lover and I take care of him.

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Speaker 4: Just like she always has. Then the lady said, I

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Speaker 4: told him I heard what I heard, and I.

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Speaker 5: Asked what it meant and what I thought it meant.

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Speaker 5: I asked him if it meant what I thought it meant.

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Speaker 5: He refused to answer the question. Sweetest line I've ever heard.

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Speaker 5: He said it because he never lied to me about

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Speaker 5: something like that. Listen, don't make me lie to you. Wow,

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Speaker 5: that's out standing right there, that one right there. Don't

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Speaker 4: Now. I'm not gonna answer that question.

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Speaker 5: About what she more than me because I would never

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Speaker 5: to mean to hear carm And had crossed the line

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Speaker 5: at some point over the years. When she was at

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Speaker 5: a house visiting, I noticed her his earload a few times. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: my big sister grab my eelold, but it was more

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Speaker 5: of a tearing motion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're real.

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Speaker 5: And then I noticed her grab his eeload a few times,

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Speaker 5: once or twice. It's been driving me crazy. Now I

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Speaker 5: suspect something went down with them. My husband said, it's

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Speaker 5: not what I think, but he loves calming and he

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Speaker 5: Now, fellas, let me say this to you. That ain't

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Speaker 5: a statement you want to make to your wife about

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Speaker 5: another woman. That ain't unless you're talking about your actual sister.

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Speaker 5: All this play cousin, play sister, all this, shut your mouth.

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Speaker 4: Don't say that he loves comedy, always will.

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Speaker 5: He said that he told me everything about his past

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Speaker 5: that I needed to know. Another outstanding line, I told

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Speaker 5: you everything about my past that you needed to know.

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Speaker 4: I agree with that.

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Speaker 5: Everybody don't need to know everything, and no one tells

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Speaker 4: True, you don't tell everything about your past.

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Speaker 5: So now he told her, I told you every every

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Speaker 5: some things about me you don't need to know. What

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Speaker 5: do you think they're hiding? Should I talk to calm? Well, lady,

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Speaker 5: let me ask you a question. Suppose come and tell

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Speaker 5: you that they was love us. Okay, now what you're

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Speaker 5: gonna do? Okay? But now since you think that, and

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Speaker 5: you suspect that if they confirmed that what you're gonna do,

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Speaker 5: it was in his past, but he just didn't tell

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Speaker 5: you about it.

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Speaker 2: Huh. She's back and grabbing his ear loads and all

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Speaker 2: of that.

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Speaker 4: Y'all want to let y'all old to dumb.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so now it's the wife's fault.

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Speaker 4: Someone, No, it's not the white's fault.

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Speaker 5: What I'm saying is this, suppose you find out the

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Speaker 5: information that they were lovers.

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Speaker 4: It's true. What what what you're gonna do? What now?

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Speaker 1: Well that you're talking about, you're talking about what happened

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Speaker 1: in the past. But they still could be doing it though,

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Speaker 1: because he told her he loves that.

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Speaker 4: Ain't what that ain't what this letter is about.

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Speaker 2: She's grabbing his ear low.

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Speaker 4: Grabbing a ear load, but is not having sex.

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Speaker 2: Surely I know that, No.

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Speaker 4: It really is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but why is she so touchy peey with her

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Speaker 4: Is she was his big sister. She was his big system.

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Speaker 1: You said your a big sister didn't touch her ear

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Speaker 1: loaves unless it was in a what kind of way?

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Speaker 4: But see, but listen to me.

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Speaker 5: There was a time where she was acting as the

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Speaker 5: with it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but why is she met at the wife? Why

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Speaker 1: is she why is she mean to be mean to.

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Speaker 5: Surely my question to you is, if you find out

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Speaker 5: they will love us? What she gonna do. What's the

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Speaker 5: letter for what?

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Speaker 4: She won't?

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Speaker 1: Well, there's nothing you could do about the past. I

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Speaker 1: agree with that. They've already done it.

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Speaker 5: It's been surely. Her last question was should I talk

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Speaker 5: to Carmen?

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Speaker 2: Karmen's not gonna tell her anything?

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Speaker 4: Well, I bet she will.

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Speaker 2: You think Karen's Carmen?

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Speaker 5: What if Carmen tells you that, What are you gonna

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Speaker 4: This is what I'm trying.

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Speaker 1: Might she might, Yeah, she might, she might divorce them.

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Speaker 2: She might for the past. Not for the.

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Speaker 1: Past for what, No, it is stupid, but for right now. Okay,

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let me give you a quick update. The woman

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Speaker 5: is married to a man who told her his life story.

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Speaker 5: He was adopted when he was seven years old. He

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Speaker 5: lived with a family head a boy and a girl,

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Speaker 5: and they were so close they were almost real brother's assistant.

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Speaker 5: Another girl came in when they was teenagers, named Carmen,

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Speaker 5: and who was more like a big sister to him.

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Speaker 5: The woman that's married to this man didn't meet calming

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Speaker 5: into two weeks for the wedding, and she wasn't nice

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Speaker 5: to the lady at all. Told my told her husband, though,

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Speaker 5: don't worry about it. She'll learn to love me like

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Speaker 5: everybody else. And recently she noticed that Carmen is more

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Speaker 5: telling carm And that she's a good lover and take

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Speaker 5: care of him just like she always has. And then

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Speaker 5: the lady confronted her husband, said, I told him what

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Speaker 5: I heard, and I asked what it meant?

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Speaker 4: Did it mean what I thought I meant?

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Speaker 5: He didn't answer the question and said, is because he

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Speaker 2: Outstanding you thought that's brilliant, That was brilliant.

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Speaker 5: I took it to mean that he and Carmon had

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Speaker 5: crossed the line at some point or begin me. And

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Speaker 5: when she was at a house visiting, I noticed she

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Speaker 5: grabbed my husband's ill over a few times, and she

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Speaker 5: suspect something went down with them. My husband said, it's

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Speaker 5: always will and he told me everything about his past

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Speaker 5: that I needed to know. Another outstanding line, what do

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Speaker 5: you think they're hiding? Here's the question, see lady and

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Speaker 5: let her wants to know what do you think they're hiding?

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Speaker 4: And should I talk to Carmen?

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Speaker 5: Well, lady, you already suspect that they crossed the line,

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Speaker 5: and so she wants to talk to Carmen to verify that,

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Speaker 5: because she wants to verify what she's thinking. She asked

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Speaker 5: I would never lie to you.

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Speaker 1: But that's not what she needs to be talking to

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Speaker 1: Carmen about. About pulling his ear lobe and disrespecting her.

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Speaker 5: That ain't what she said to Let us think, what

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Speaker 5: do you think they're hiding? And should I talk to Karmen.

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Speaker 5: She's trying to reaffirm the fact that she thinks they

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Speaker 5: crossed the line before and if that's the question, my answer,

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Speaker 5: my question to you is if you find out they

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Speaker 5: crossed the line, what you're gonna.

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Speaker 7: Do well, Because this is the thing, it's not if

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Speaker 7: she crossed the line.

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Speaker 2: She has to handle her differently.

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Speaker 7: See why you know your husband's ex is in your presence.

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Speaker 4: She has to handle her differently.

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Speaker 7: She can't be flirting with her husband in her house,

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Speaker 7: disrespecting her.

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Speaker 2: She seria she shouldn't have done it anyway.

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Speaker 1: She should have done it anyway in her house, and

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Speaker 1: that's the issue. She's asking the wrong question. The wife

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Speaker 1: is period. She already knows they cross the line.

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Speaker 4: Carmen got to go.

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Speaker 2: She knows no I said that Carmen is no one.

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Speaker 4: Welcome, y'all right.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Tommy, I'm ignored.

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Speaker 1: We gotta go. Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: a woman needs some advice because she hates her boyfriend's toes.

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