Speaker 1: Hey, thanks for finding the Second Date Update podcast. It's
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Speaker 1: of a Second Date Update. And I know when you
Speaker 1: think of Valentine's Day and romance, you think of this segment.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you think of nothing but people who are
Speaker 2: being ghosted. Yep, that's right, that's right.
Speaker 1: That's why we're going to do a very special Valentine's
Speaker 1: Day edition of your Second Date Update.
Speaker 2: It's quite a treat.
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Speaker 2: Second Date Updated.
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day can be a dangerous holiday for a single
Speaker 3: person to try and meet someone. Lot something you do,
Speaker 3: you put a lot of pressure on yourself for it
Speaker 3: to work. Just look at college aged me and my
Speaker 3: infamous Valentine's Day massacre. Oh and started with a certain
Speaker 3: hunky frat boy inviting two lucky ladies to one party
Speaker 3: and ended with said frat boy drunk alone in his room,
Speaker 3: crying and kicking a hole in the ceiling above his
Speaker 3: top bunk because he's struck out with both ladies.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they literally left together.
Speaker 1: Can't imagine why they missed out?
Speaker 3: Just saying dating around this particular holiday isn't always the
Speaker 3: best idea, And I'm not really sure how today's caller
Speaker 3: Reese feels about it. You have a bunch of holes
Speaker 3: in your house somewhere right now that.
Speaker 1: You're not lying on a top bunk of a frat Yeah.
Speaker 3: Only Jeff could have two girls in his room in
Speaker 3: a frat house and ruin it like that's accomplished.
Speaker 1: Talent whatever, anti game, that's him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, when you're going a little a little harsh,
Speaker 4: a little far, but you brought it up just to
Speaker 4: laugh at anyway, Reese, So you went out with a
Speaker 4: girl pretty close to Valentine's Day?
Speaker 2: Were you feeling the pressure?
Speaker 5: Not really because it wasn't really thinking about it at
Speaker 5: that time. Okay, okay, make create the background. I had
Speaker 5: gone through a pretty rough breakup a few months prior,
Speaker 5: and I was trying to get back in the game.
Speaker 5: Damn you, I thank you. I met Jen her and
Speaker 5: I matched, and I kind of realized after like we
Speaker 5: sort of clicked and we started talking like. I didn't
Speaker 5: want to wait until after Valentine's Day to ask her out.
Speaker 1: Right, because you could totally lose momentum if you wait
Speaker 1: too long, you have to strike while right.
Speaker 5: So I was eager and kind of realizing at that
Speaker 5: time that it was close to Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Well, as you start to book things and
Speaker 1: everything's sold.
Speaker 5: Out exactly, And that's why we decided to do something
Speaker 5: different other than a restaurant, Like, I didn't want to
Speaker 5: make her feel weird at a place where there's only
Speaker 5: couples and stuff like that.
Speaker 3: So you invited two girls to one threat, and that's
Speaker 3: when the good stuff happened.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you call the right show for that to
Speaker 1: blow up in your face?
Speaker 2: You just took out Jen though, right, Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, we're just making fun of Jeffrey for his past.
Speaker 5: Yeah, man, not yet.
Speaker 3: I mean a certain guy was brave enough to invite
Speaker 3: two at once.
Speaker 2: But you know, if you're not brave enough to do it,
Speaker 2: not a lot. Are you accomplished that?
Speaker 5: Bro?
Speaker 2: Again? It? Okay? So where did you and gen go?
Speaker 5: So she actually suggested a bar. They were having like
Speaker 5: an all things pink night?
Speaker 2: What does that mean?
Speaker 5: It's like a valen Sein's date. Ish, It's like pink clothes,
Speaker 5: pink drinks, pink food, darly. Yeah okay, and so we
Speaker 5: go in and I excuse myself to the restaurant quick.
Speaker 5: And while I'm doing that, she ordered us two pink
Speaker 5: strawberry dakeries.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, gotta say on theme.
Speaker 2: Sounds good.
Speaker 5: Here's where I messed up is I'm diabetic. She doesn't
Speaker 5: know I'm diabetic. Okay, I look at the drink. Can
Speaker 5: I think to myself, I can handle one? You know,
Speaker 5: my blood sugar is probably gonna spike. Okay, I'll get home,
Speaker 5: I'll take my insulin and I'll just monitor the Albokay, you.
Speaker 1: Will follow it up with a cake to wash it down.
Speaker 5: Well, I miscalculated it. Well, I started having an episode,
Speaker 5: so I needed medical attention. And the thing is is
Speaker 5: like there was a moment where I couldn't really talk,
Speaker 5: and I wrote on a napkin and I slid it
Speaker 5: to gen and I slid the word hospital.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 3: I hate to keep drawing parallels between this and the
Speaker 3: Valentine's Day masker at the frat, But I just keep
Speaker 3: lighting up.
Speaker 2: You're not diabetic.
Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying there's a bad experience that's scared.
Speaker 2: I'm scared on a date with someone you don't know
Speaker 2: what happened.
Speaker 6: Well, she doesn't even know your diabetic.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she doesn't quite understand what the note means, and
Speaker 5: she references to someone else and the other person goes,
Speaker 5: maybe he's epileptic. You should shovel wallet in his mouth.
Speaker 3: What Oh, this is a fun Valentine's Day party game.
Speaker 2: Everybody take your wallets.
Speaker 1: Hot tip if you're having a seizure, you usually can't
Speaker 1: write at the same.
Speaker 5: Time managing to scribble diabetic on a napkin, which then
Speaker 5: Jen gets and she's got to drive me to the hospital.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what a first date experience.
Speaker 5: So things are a little foggy and I kind of
Speaker 5: come to and I realized, like all of a sudden,
Speaker 5: she's not there, and I'm surrounded by doctors, And it
Speaker 5: was a very chaotic.
Speaker 1: Night, sing I'm glad you're okay?
Speaker 3: Yeah, did you get a kiss at the end of
Speaker 3: the night.
Speaker 5: The next morning, I send her a text and say, hey,
Speaker 5: I'm good, I'm so sorry about last night, and she
Speaker 5: responds back it was like, hey, just glad you're all right,
Speaker 5: And then that's pretty much yet. And I hadn't heard
Speaker 5: anything such no.
Speaker 1: Okay, I mean obviously not like your fall out of
Speaker 1: your control, but also really traumatizing for her too.
Speaker 2: You know, think about what she said.
Speaker 3: She thinks like, oh, anytime he has one drink, he's
Speaker 3: gonna need.
Speaker 2: To go to the hospital. I don't want to date
Speaker 2: a guy.
Speaker 1: I think she would have more empathy than that.
Speaker 6: Plenty of other things.
Speaker 3: Let's see how empathetic this woman really is when we
Speaker 3: give Jenna call. Hopefully she picks up, and see what
Speaker 3: she asks to say when we do your Valentine's edition
Speaker 3: of Second Date update. Right after this Second Date update,
Speaker 3: a Valentine's themed date that ends in the hospital for
Speaker 3: some of us wouldn't be the worst Valentines that we've
Speaker 3: ever had.
Speaker 1: Okay, Jeff get over the night in the frat house.
Speaker 3: It was for our listener Reese, who was a diabetic
Speaker 3: and took a chance drank a pink strawberry dackery during
Speaker 3: his date, thinking that he could had just one. Fast
Speaker 3: forward to him being driven to the hospital by his
Speaker 3: date Jen, where he had to be treated by doctors.
Speaker 3: It's all kind of a fuzzy experienced him because he
Speaker 3: was going through an episode. But afterwards Jen was gone
Speaker 3: and hasn't responded really to him since. Lebrook you've had
Speaker 3: worse Valentines recently, right, give him a little.
Speaker 2: Bit of hope.
Speaker 1: No, Honestly, if this girl isn't calling you back because
Speaker 1: it freaked her out, that is somewhat understandable. But once
Speaker 1: I feel like she talks to you, she's really going
Speaker 1: to understand the situation and just have a lot of
Speaker 1: empathy for you. I can't imagine her not giving you
Speaker 1: another chance.
Speaker 2: How do you feel about that, Reese?
Speaker 5: I feel like if she's got empathy, she would have
Speaker 5: gone out with me already. And I really don't understand.
Speaker 2: She drove me to the hospital, ale she needs to
Speaker 2: do more than that.
Speaker 3: My mom drives me to the hospital, and I don't
Speaker 3: want from my mom what Reese wants from Jen Hopefully.
Speaker 2: Who knows?
Speaker 1: Who knows. Maybe it's not the hospital or the die beades.
Speaker 1: Maybe you had bad breath and you didn't realize that.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? You mean your blackout drawing
Speaker 2: on napkins. You were like, show me you know something.
Speaker 3: Do you want to speculate a hundred more things that
Speaker 3: could have gone wrong?
Speaker 2: Or should we just call this girl? Don't speculate?
Speaker 5: I like, please call good choice, good solid.
Speaker 2: Let's dial Jen to see if she answers. You just
Speaker 2: sit tight there. Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Jen?
Speaker 6: Yes speaking Hey Jen.
Speaker 3: This is a radio show. We're called Broken Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the Morning. How are you doing?
Speaker 6: Oh h yeah, I'm I'm okay.
Speaker 5: How are you guys?
Speaker 1: Thanks for asking Jen? You people aren't that polite?
Speaker 2: Very well? That was kind of an empathetic move there.
Speaker 3: It was.
Speaker 2: Oh, good point, jes So that's that's good news for you.
Speaker 6: Jen. What's what's a radio station calling me?
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll give you five guesses. That was unfair.
Speaker 1: He's just gonna tell you right now.
Speaker 2: Sure, people take the joy out of it.
Speaker 3: This is called second Date Update, and we're trying to
Speaker 3: help out one of our listeners that you went out
Speaker 3: on a date with recently named Reese.
Speaker 6: A very memorable night.
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 1: Yeah dude, it sounds like that night was crazy.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, great, you got the rundown.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: We spoke to him a little bit, just too kind
Speaker 3: a snapshot of what happened that night, and he told
Speaker 3: us that you're not really responding for another date at all,
Speaker 3: and he doesn't really understand why.
Speaker 6: Hmm, well, yeah, I mean I'm not answering him back.
Speaker 7: That's accurate.
Speaker 2: Oh, I see, do you hate diabetics? Is that what's
Speaker 2: going on. I've had a few of those people answer, Oh.
Speaker 6: My gosh, no, it literally nothing to do with that.
Speaker 7: I don't.
Speaker 6: I don't hate people who have diabetes. I hate people
Speaker 6: who have girlfriends.
Speaker 7: Girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Wait what did you just say?
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 6: I hate people who already have girlfriends.
Speaker 2: He doesn't have a girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Well, we didn't ask her. Want to come on here, Like, wait,
Speaker 1: are you saying you're saying that he's in a relationship.
Speaker 2: You think, why do you think that?
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, if he gave you the rundown, I'm assuming
Speaker 6: he told you that I took him to the hospital, right, yeah.
Speaker 3: Because he was having an episode and you were like
Speaker 3: his savior.
Speaker 6: Yes, I was his savior, but somebody else was his
Speaker 6: emergency contact. I guess because I'm sitting in.
Speaker 7: The reception area and.
Speaker 6: This woman comes in and she's asking for Reese. She's
Speaker 6: saying that she's his emergency contact. She's saying that she's his.
Speaker 7: Girlfriend and they took her back there to see him.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, that okay, objectively looks really bad. But the
Speaker 3: thing is Obviously, we don't know everything about Reese and
Speaker 3: his situation.
Speaker 1: Maybe there was another Reese having a different diabetic It's
Speaker 1: like a where my past boss is really my best friend.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's like those things.
Speaker 3: But do you remember when we first talked to me,
Speaker 3: he mentioned that he went through a bad breakup with
Speaker 3: somebody a little while back.
Speaker 2: I forgot maybe it's his like ex girlfriend.
Speaker 3: Who's who's listed as his girlfriend?
Speaker 2: How often do you update your emergency contact stuff like?
Speaker 2: That's possible, it possibly. I mean, we don't know.
Speaker 3: The thing is, we could ask Reese right now, because
Speaker 3: he's been on the phone this whole time listening what
Speaker 3: the heck?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I.
Speaker 1: Think that this is something he actually needs to hear.
Speaker 2: Okay, it couldn't give us a little bit of clarity. Reese,
Speaker 2: are you there?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Hi? Jen hithe so? Uh. I guess I was
Speaker 5: just wondering, what's going on? Why haven't you gotten back.
Speaker 2: With Are you serious, dude?
Speaker 1: Why are you not coming in and saying I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: there's a misunderstanding.
Speaker 2: Let me clear it up.
Speaker 5: I mean, do we really have to talk about that?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty important to her, and I think tell
Speaker 3: all of our listeners at this point, Are you in
Speaker 3: a relationship?
Speaker 5: Okay? Look so here like yes, Like, but what.
Speaker 1: You just said you broke up with your axe and
Speaker 1: you were heartbroken and you were finally back in the
Speaker 1: dating pool.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean when you when you do stuff on
Speaker 5: the radio, I mean you might say a lot of stuff.
Speaker 3: What you're trying to make yourself look good?
Speaker 1: Bro, you're using us to cheat, Jen, I kind of
Speaker 1: feel like his girlfriend might know though, Just.
Speaker 3: Say it was your ex girlfriend and we're good.
Speaker 2: Jeff, Jeff, you were You're just joking again radio, you saying.
Speaker 1: Girlfriend, Jen, I'm sorry, very sloppy, sloppy work, y'all, y'all.
Speaker 6: Should have betted him.
Speaker 5: Like okay, Jen, Like, yes, I'm in a relationship, but
Speaker 5: I'm not happy and I want to see what was
Speaker 5: out there.
Speaker 6: So this is like your whole is getting dug deeper
Speaker 6: and deeper.
Speaker 5: Man, Sorry, I guess so, Jenny, I mean, does this
Speaker 5: ruin our chances?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you've kind of created a big mess for yourself.
Speaker 3: So I don't know what it is that you want
Speaker 3: to say to Jen.
Speaker 5: But all right, look, I'm just saying Jen, like I'm
Speaker 5: not happy and I feel like if you want to
Speaker 5: have like an actual Valentine's Day together.
Speaker 6: Like we can do that.
Speaker 5: We can have like a legit reece.
Speaker 6: You're just a big walking red flag.
Speaker 2: Ah like Valentines you.
Speaker 7: Got a free ambulance ride and let's just chalk it
Speaker 7: up to that. Okay, you got lucky.
Speaker 3: Are you saying that him telling you how sad he
Speaker 3: is doesn't make you want to date him right now?
Speaker 7: It really is. It's tugging at my heart strength.
Speaker 1: That was sarcasm, Jeff, Well, yeah, why why don't you
Speaker 1: just break up with your girlfriend? I don't understand this.
Speaker 5: I want to, I don't. I don't know that I
Speaker 5: want to do that either.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, you're the worst. You know what I'm
Speaker 6: almost regarding taking him to the hospital.
Speaker 1: Told you.
Speaker 2: It's a little far Jen, although we understand the same
Speaker 2: to me.
Speaker 1: Okay, are you worried that your girlfriend's going to hear
Speaker 1: this or.
Speaker 6: Does she know?
Speaker 3: I'm not worried yet, because the thing is, Jen could
Speaker 3: be his new girlfriend if she says yes to this question.
Speaker 3: You have two girls in his room like someone I
Speaker 3: know didn't want to die. I'm telling you works for
Speaker 3: the Frank guys were never in Jeff's room. Bottom line,
Speaker 3: Jen is we would love to pay, not love, but
Speaker 3: we will. We'll pay, We'll pay for the second date
Speaker 3: with and.
Speaker 5: Yeah, come on.
Speaker 7: And it's like, it's not a no, it's a hell no.
Speaker 2: I did not see that coming. Blindsided by that one.
Speaker 2: Sure he was at least you have a backup. You
Speaker 2: can always go back to your girlfriend. Is his girlfriend?
Speaker 2: I don't know, inviting two girls.
Speaker 3: Into the studio Jeffrey in the morning. Man, I thought
Speaker 3: I knew what cheap voice sounded like because.
Speaker 2: He he didn't have cheater voice. But I was totally wrong.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: I was so like nice.
Speaker 3: But you know what, give him some points, Brooke, because
Speaker 3: he was honest at least admitted that he had a girlfriend.
Speaker 2: He got exposed. He admitted it though he got there,
Speaker 2: not to be honesty.
Speaker 1: You think he went and was honest with his girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Suddenly I doubted Jeff.
Speaker 2: He cares that he was honest with us. Yeah, and
Speaker 2: yet he was still trying to go out with Jen
Speaker 2: even afterwards.
Speaker 1: See.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's that type of hootspud that if I had
Speaker 3: back at the frat house, things would have turned out
Speaker 3: so much differently that night.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what you're crying. Hey, before you ladies leave them,
Speaker 2: are are you sure?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Consider the Valentine's Day masker could have been the Valentine's
Speaker 3: Day rodeo for me.
Speaker 2: But I don't think so, Miss Stopportunity, you could.
Speaker 1: Still do it, Jeff Do not admire to be this dude?
Speaker 7: Yeah, please, let's get out.
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Speaker 5: Yeah.
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