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Speaker 1: Portions of this program we're pre recorded Elvis.

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Speaker 2: Elvis's a funny character.

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Speaker 3: He's funny, he.

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Speaker 4: Straightforward with me, but he's very witty.

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Speaker 3: And also he's the best guy ever franking people.

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Speaker 5: The puntops are like, sis hilarious, like I can't even

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Speaker 5: Breeze's just awesome.

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Speaker 2: I just love you guys.

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Speaker 6: It's a good morning show.

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Speaker 7: We have a listener on the line. Good morning, listener,

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Speaker 7: good morning, good morning. It is okay if we say

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Speaker 7: your name, yeah, absolutely, good morning, Kristen.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 7: I already know why she's calling and uh and what

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Speaker 7: she's asking everything, and I already have my answer for you,

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Speaker 7: but I'm gonna leave it, leave it be until everyone

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Speaker 7: else can hear your story. So you are so excited

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Speaker 7: you're getting married right, yeah, next summer and it should

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Speaker 7: be the most happiest time of your life getting married.

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Speaker 7: So how did you guys decide to get married? What's

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Speaker 7: the ceremony going.

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Speaker 2: To be like?

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Speaker 8: So we actually had it on a cruise ship wedding.

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Speaker 8: My fiance has already been married before. The idea of

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Speaker 8: doing a full traditional wedding and being in front of

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Speaker 8: all those people and doing that stresses me out. So much,

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Speaker 8: so we were actually just going to do a courthouse

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Speaker 8: done with. But then we heard that you can do

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Speaker 8: weddings on cruise ships and it was kind of perfect

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Speaker 8: excited about the idea of that.

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Speaker 7: And that's what it is, cruise ships, you know it is.

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Speaker 7: If you can make it, we'd love to have you anyway.

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Speaker 7: So but there is a fly in the ointment as

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Speaker 7: they sell, and what is that?

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Speaker 8: That would be my sister in law. Okay, so yeah,

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Speaker 8: we have we butted heads the time or two in

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Speaker 8: the past, but we worked through it and we try

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Speaker 8: to be as civil with each other as possible. But

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Speaker 8: she's already starting to make comments about how expensive it

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Speaker 8: is and she's going to have to start fundraising and

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Speaker 8: selling peak pictures and doing this and that to be

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Speaker 2: Comes far self self feet pictures. I love it.

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Speaker 9: She has a plan.

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Speaker 7: She must really want to be there, so she's already

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Speaker 7: given you grief. Oh my god, it's going to cost

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Speaker 7: me a lot of money to go on the cruise ship.

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Speaker 2: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 7: So how is it as of today, Like, what's the

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Speaker 7: latest conversation you had?

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Speaker 8: So we haven't even had a conversation. I have a

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Speaker 8: Facebook group put together with all the information in one

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Speaker 8: central locations going on, and what they need to do

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Speaker 8: is leaving comments. She has expressly about.

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Speaker 9: It, right, she's leaving comments on the Facebook page.

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Speaker 7: Okay, well, I mean maybe there should be a direct conversation.

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Speaker 2: What's that, Daniel?

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Speaker 10: I mean, do we want to give our opinions yet?

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Speaker 11: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely?

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Speaker 12: Well.

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Speaker 10: I feel like it's your wedding and you need to

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Speaker 10: do your wedding the way you want to do it.

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Speaker 10: And unfortunately not everyone's going to agree. And if she

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Speaker 10: can't afford to be there, then you just have to

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Speaker 10: she has to just not come. And that's it. I mean,

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Speaker 10: I think, you.

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Speaker 9: Know, yeah, I think the mistake came by telling people

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Speaker 9: you were getting married. Should have been a secret you.

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Speaker 13: Did.

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Speaker 2: No, that is not real that is not real life advice.

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Speaker 9: No, because of course people are gonna people always complain

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Speaker 9: something private for yourself, you should definitely do what you want.

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Speaker 9: Just don't tell them come back and throw a tiny party.

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Speaker 7: Hey, so you haven't had a direct conversation.

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Speaker 2: I think you should first of all.

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Speaker 8: And yeah, no, yeah, that's the plan. I just needed

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Speaker 8: to complain about it a little bit.

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Speaker 2: But I don't and I get that. But here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: I so agree with Danielle, not as much Gandhi.

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Speaker 9: I said, she should do what she wants, don't you want?

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Speaker 8: It is your wedding, and you know, and so for

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Speaker 8: the wedding, we plant ceremony import Oh so they.

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Speaker 10: Can go to the ceremony before the cruise ship.

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Speaker 7: Takes off, Yes, and so they can get off. That's good,

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Speaker 7: I know, But it's your wedding. This phone line is

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Speaker 7: not doing well. Here's the thing. It is your wedding.

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Speaker 7: You should do what you want. But there's another thing

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Speaker 7: to consider. She is your sister in law and you're

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Speaker 7: stuck with each other, so there needs to be there

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Speaker 7: needs to be a conversation. You need to connect with

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Speaker 7: her because, let's face it, you want to get along.

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Speaker 7: You don't want to cause or you don't want them

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Speaker 10: Maybe she thinks she's being funny and she doesn't realize

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Speaker 10: she's really hurting your feelings.

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Speaker 8: That's probably what it is, which means it's not what

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Speaker 8: it is. It's not nearly as funny as she thinks

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Speaker 8: she is.

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Speaker 2: Well, look, let me ask you this and you can

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Speaker 2: be candid with us.

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Speaker 7: Is there a chance that you knew she wouldn't be

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Speaker 7: able to go, so that's why you did it this way?

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Speaker 10: I mean, Okay, now I'm changing my mind about what

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Speaker 10: I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Lady, you plan to have.

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Speaker 8: The ceremony in Coort, so she's come to the ceremony

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Speaker 8: but not have to come on the cruise with us.

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Speaker 9: Okay, there's a problem there.

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Speaker 2: Look, I get that. I get that.

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Speaker 7: You know and you want not only at the wedding,

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Speaker 7: but you want the people surrounding you post wedding and

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Speaker 7: out at sea to be people that you like and

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Speaker 7: get along with.

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Speaker 2: But always keep in mind in.

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Speaker 7: The back of your head, you guys are stuck with

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Speaker 7: each other forever, unless there's a divorce down the road.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You guys.

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Speaker 7: You guys, you guys are your sisters in law until

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Speaker 7: the end of whatever, so keep that in mind and

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Speaker 7: you know, be a little gentle. But at the end

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Speaker 7: of the day, it is your wedding, It is your

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Speaker 7: day and your trip. So best of luck.

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Speaker 8: Wow, yeah, I know, thank you very much. I appreciate

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Speaker 7: Well, well, thank you, and you know what, congratulations Christy.

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Speaker 7: At the end of the day, you're kicking off a

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Speaker 7: marriage and you want it to be right and uh,

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Speaker 7: but you know what, sometimes you know, you know, you

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Speaker 7: can always throw her overboard. No kidding, don't don't do that.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, Kristin and all the best of you. And again, congratulations,

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Speaker 7: thank you, Thank you.

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Speaker 8: Guys. I love listening to you so much.

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Speaker 2: We thank you. Take care. Yeah, that's a tough one.

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Speaker 2: What was that name.

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Speaker 14: Well, we had a situation with somebody that was going

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Speaker 14: to come to our family or it was gonna come

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Speaker 14: to our wedding that we didn't want there. So we

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Speaker 14: found a way to start a fight that made them

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Speaker 14: decide to not come in.

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Speaker 2: The first Wow.

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Speaker 9: Mature.

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Speaker 7: By the way, I can't even go to detail, but

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Speaker 7: your family has a lot of dry what's that scary?

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Speaker 15: I always get suspicious when people do destination weddings. I'm like,

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Speaker 15: they just want like twenty people there.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. It's what they want.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it's their their decisions.

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Speaker 2: Scary, it's what they want, which is great.

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Speaker 6: Maybe they do a dinner when they get that. For

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Speaker 6: the people who couldn't make it, don't tell anyone.

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Speaker 7: No, you gotta they're gonna find Outand can you live

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Speaker 7: in the real world? For you doing way too much coffee.

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Speaker 9: I think plenty of people get married in secret all

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Speaker 9: the time and then they come home and they're like, hey,

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Speaker 9: I got married, let's have a party.

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Speaker 2: That is a way to do it. Yeah, that is

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Speaker 2: a way to do it.

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Speaker 9: Avoid the drama. I like, that's the real world.

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Speaker 10: My favorite is when you go to like the Bahamas

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Speaker 10: or whatever, and it's just the bride and groom and

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Speaker 10: you can tell that the whole bridal party is like rented,

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Speaker 10: like everybody's from the islands.

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Speaker 7: Or people you meet at the bars. Why not, what

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Speaker 7: do you guys do here?

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Speaker 2: We're here to get married tomorrow morning. We'll see you

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Speaker 2: there at ten o'clock.

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Speaker 9: You want to be my best man?

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Speaker 7: Come on a man a man. That's a good idea.

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Speaker 1: He good Morning show are on live Elvis d ran

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Speaker 16: What now, mister Ran in the Morning Show?

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Speaker 2: Daniel, do you know who John Williams is? Yeah, you do,

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Speaker 2: you do and you don't even know it. Okay, John

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Speaker 2: Williams did mister ninety.

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Speaker 7: He's a he's a composer of conductor every fantastic, huge

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Speaker 7: blockbuster film you've ever seen growing up, the music.

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Speaker 2: Was from him.

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Speaker 7: Oh, he wrote the most incredible music, scored just amazing, amazing.

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Speaker 2: Amazing song. But did he write the NBC Nightly News theme?

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Speaker 2: He sure did? Comedy here from NBA she Headquarters, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna Tom broken. He wrote this. It's called the mission theme.

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Speaker 2: It is anyway.

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Speaker 7: John Williams, Uh friends with my parents. When I was

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Speaker 7: But you know what U And actually sometimes he'll come

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Speaker 7: the contest away. They would do nothing but Star Wars music.

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Speaker 2: For like an hour and a half.

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Speaker 7: But to sit in an auditorium and listen to an

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Speaker 7: listening to an orchestra play. To me, that is pure porn,

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Speaker 7: To me, it's just the most powerful sound. It's second

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Speaker 7: only to the sound of the ocean. To me, the

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Speaker 7: sound of an orchestra. And John Williams the world's best.

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Speaker 7: Now tell you what, Like I said, he scored some

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Speaker 7: of the biggest films of all time. If you think

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Speaker 7: you can figure out which films some of these songs

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Speaker 7: are from, you can win some money.

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Speaker 2: This is the longest NBC.

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Speaker 8: The figure out.

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Speaker 10: It sounds a little Jurassic Parking to me.

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Speaker 2: Don't say that that could be the answer.

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Speaker 7: Some of the most incredible films ever he scored.

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Speaker 2: And you're gonna guess them. You're gonna get them right.

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Speaker 7: You're gonna win some money again called one eight hundred

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Speaker 2: Yeah, someone's just in a text.

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Speaker 7: He wrote the music for almost every Stephen Spielberg film. Wow,

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Speaker 7: I think I just gave him them.

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Speaker 10: It sounds like et to.

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Speaker 2: Stop it. You're spoiling my context.

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Speaker 4: I've seen the pattern with this guy. Wait, a minute.

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Speaker 2: Stop it? Why you know your ruin? Until he ruined

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Speaker 10: Can't you just see et flying with the little stop?

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Speaker 2: All right again? Call now? Don't listen to Danielle one

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Speaker 4: You're gonna play Indiana Jones next.

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Speaker 10: Did you do this game? Did you call upiment?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 10: I apologize Gandhi, she ruined your game?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Nate's probably real sad. He was so excited about

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Speaker 16: I know.

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Speaker 2: Oh lord, Danielle, all right, let's go talk to Michelle.

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Speaker 10: I think I heard Harry Bonner.

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Speaker 9: Can't do anything around there.

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Speaker 2: You're not listening to You're not listening to Danielle?

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Speaker 6: Are you?

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Speaker 2: God?

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Speaker 7: Well, this game should be called repeat what Danielle just said.

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Speaker 7: All right, So John Williams incredible composer. We're celebrating his life.

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Speaker 7: Every time you watch the Steven Spielberg movie, you're celebrating

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Speaker 7: his life. Let's see if you can figure out what

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Speaker 2: Scary. You gotta go back. You have to go back

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Speaker 7: Here we go, all right, Uh, with every with every

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you have no good day so far.

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Speaker 8: By the way, yeah, I'm actually driving to work.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, we're having a really bad show today.

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Speaker 11: You're you guys in the shower, so you guys are

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Speaker 5: It's okay.

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Speaker 2: You see I feel dirty that knowing someone's naked listening

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Speaker 2: we didn't say anything offensive offensive? All right, here we go.

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Speaker 7: These are all uh scores, all songs written by music

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Speaker 2: What a great song? Okay, what film is that?

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Speaker 18: From Star Wars Star Wars.

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Speaker 2: Star Wars. It was nothing but star.

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Speaker 7: I knew that you never knew the lyrics to that song.

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Speaker 7: There you go, your ten dollars ahead, Michelle. Here is

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Speaker 16: Talk for.

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Speaker 19: All right.

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Speaker 12: H the guy that fights in the jungle?

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Speaker 20: I forget his name, but the of the movie, Oh

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Speaker 7: You're you're absolutely correct. It's Indiana Joe. Yeah, Michelle, Michelle,

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go. John Williams movie theme song

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Speaker 11: Is that score from Harry Potter?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 7: And on your nimbus I'm gonna help on my nimbus

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Speaker 7: two thousand fly away. All right, you've got thirty dollars.

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Speaker 7: Let's move on to John Williams movie theme number four, which.

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Speaker 2: Is Missus f It's a beautiful moving film. What is

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Speaker 12: Oh? That one?

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Speaker 8: I'm not sure. Oh my gosh, I'm kicking myself.

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Speaker 21: My cousin is a composer, so like she's probably yelling

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Speaker 2: Oh man, you didn't say Shindler's List.

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Speaker 7: I lost you lost in those Hey guys, we got

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Speaker 7: ten dollars back? All right, you're still at twenty dollars.

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Speaker 7: You don't, Okay, you'll get this next one. John Williams

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Speaker 2: Listen to this. I hear sleigh bells in the background.

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Speaker 2: That could be a hint. That is home alone. Yeah, excellent.

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Speaker 2: Thirty dollars.

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Speaker 7: You're up to thirty. Here is John Williams theme song

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Speaker 7: number whatever it is?

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Speaker 22: What's it from?

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Speaker 11: Harry Potter?

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Speaker 7: Oh god, does anyone want to get to that's Jurassic.

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Speaker 8: Yes, Jurassic Park.

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Speaker 23: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're down to twenty dollars? I think I think?

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Speaker 24: Okay, dropped?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty yeah? Sorry, what else are you doing? You

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Speaker 2: see you sound busy? Yeah, she's pull it up.

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Speaker 12: Oh, I just I just got to work, all right.

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, we'll go, we'll go faster. Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 7: John Williams movie song number seven or eight?

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Speaker 2: Who cares that?

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Speaker 25: Here it is?

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Speaker 2: You'll never get this, None of us would get that.

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Speaker 21: Good?

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Speaker 2: Do you know it?

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Speaker 6: Where is it from?

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Speaker 26: Is it?

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Speaker 27: Oh my gosh?

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Speaker 8: Is it a Leonardo DiCaprio movie?

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Speaker 28: Yes?

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Speaker 11: What is it?

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Speaker 27: The one with I'm Hanks He's flying I forget?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Oh my god, it catch me if you can.

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Speaker 2: You gotta know, I can't believe you got that.

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Speaker 7: Well you didn't, but you did this.

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Speaker 2: Next one. This next John Williams score. I know you

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Speaker 2: know this one.

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Speaker 28: Here we go, Josh Josh.

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Speaker 24: Wow.

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Speaker 7: Sure they used to call me that in high school.

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Speaker 7: All right, turn it off, all right. Now you're up

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Speaker 7: to one two forty dollars. Wow, okay, you're making it back.

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Speaker 7: Here is John Williams another John Williams score.

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Speaker 2: Well, moe us this excellent. What movie is that from

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Speaker 2: the show?

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Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, I know it.

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Speaker 21: I'm so excited that I forgot.

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Speaker 24: I can do it.

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Speaker 12: Sorry, I don't.

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Speaker 8: I know it, but I forgot.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, a little film called Superman. All right? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 7: We got ten more dollars from all right, so you're

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Speaker 7: another John Williams film score. Guess it, you gotta attack.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what film is that from? Hello?

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Speaker 12: Is it the one with Peter Pan?

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Speaker 9: Now it's I'm flying et phone home?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 21: That was, yes, Yes, I think I'm so excited at

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Speaker 21: I'm forgetting everything.

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Speaker 7: Okay, it is costing you dearly. You're down to twenty dollars.

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Speaker 7: All right, I'm gonna give you another famous not from

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Speaker 2: And John Williams wrote this theme. Listen closely.

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Speaker 8: John Williams wrote it, what is the news show startup?

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Speaker 11: You know NBC? I think it is or something like that.

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Speaker 15: Oh my goodness, coatings, that's the Olympics theme.

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Speaker 10: Could you have five dollars?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: All right? So you got ten dollars?

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Speaker 29: Yay?

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Speaker 11: Okay, I forgot everything, you know what?

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Speaker 23: You know?

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Speaker 7: What so great, though, is to really truly appreciate John

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, he's amazing.

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Speaker 2: Extra credit. What is this song we're playing in the

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Speaker 7: It's the NBC n lose the please hold it, hey Diamond,

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Speaker 7: send her ten dollars. I know she's fabulous. Look at

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Speaker 2: I have to agree. What a talented guy.

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Speaker 7: Go do a search on John Williams and if ever

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Speaker 7: You can hear his music. Just really fantastic. All right,

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Speaker 7: thank you, excellent game, Gandhi, Frank, I want to hear

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Speaker 1: This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Now, have you ever just been mining your own business?

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Speaker 7: Maybe you're at dinner, or at lunch, or in an airport,

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Speaker 7: So this happened to Froggy at the airport the other day, right, Frog. Yeah,

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Speaker 24: And so he said, and I find a power outlet.

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Speaker 6: So he was.

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Speaker 7: He listened to the whole thing, he did, Frog, You

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Speaker 24: Yeah, they weren't arguing when they sat down. When they

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Speaker 7: So it's the anatomy of an argument. Okay, So we're

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Speaker 7: At the same time, they were in a public space, right,

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Speaker 7: And it wasn't anything, you know, so bad that we

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Speaker 2: Mean, do you want to tell the story? Frog?

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Speaker 24: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Okay, you were in the airport and you heard a

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Speaker 24: Yeah. So he the gentleman had just gone to dinner

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Speaker 24: He says he didn't say anything for two reasons. One,

453
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Speaker 24: he said absolutely nothing happened, and he says that he

454
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Speaker 24: knew she would react that way and that he was

455
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Speaker 24: trying to save her from getting upset about nothing. That's

456
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Speaker 24: why he did not tell her about his ex being

457
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Speaker 24: at the dinner and him sitting next to her. Oh,

458
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Speaker 24: this is tough.

459
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Speaker 2: Should we take this to the court.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, this is a tough one.

461
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Speaker 2: I don't know it was tough. I think it is tough.

462
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Speaker 9: Besides, I see why she would get upset, but I

463
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Speaker 9: also see him. Maybe if she's a little reactive and

464
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Speaker 9: he's saying it wasn't a big deal, nothing happened. I

465
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Speaker 9: didn't see the need to tell you.

466
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Speaker 10: And the problem is pictures. Now the social stuff pops up,

467
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Speaker 10: she sees it, and he never explained it in the

468
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Speaker 10: first place.

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Speaker 9: It looks ten times worse once it pops up and

470
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Speaker 9: you get caught.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

472
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Speaker 7: The question is if pictures weren't taken versus if pictures

473
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Speaker 7: were taken. So the only reason he should have said

474
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Speaker 7: something is because pictures were taken. Other Wise you should

475
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Speaker 7: have kept it quiet.

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Speaker 24: Oh no, right, hiding anything, right, that's being dirty.

477
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Speaker 12: No.

478
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Speaker 10: But if you're not hiding anything, why couldn't you just say, hey, listen,

479
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Speaker 10: just so you know my ex was there and I

480
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Speaker 10: just wanted you to know because you might hear about it.

481
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Speaker 10: Nothing happened, but you know it's just pain in the ass.

482
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Speaker 2: Plumbing and you know what, that is easy to say.

483
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Speaker 10: Why can't you say that?

484
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Speaker 12: Right?

485
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right.

486
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Speaker 9: You also know sometimes you're dating people who are like

487
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Speaker 9: overreactive to things, and you can say a million times,

488
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Speaker 9: nothing happened, it was nothing, and they might still be

489
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Speaker 9: upset about it if it was really nothing. Maybe I

490
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Speaker 9: see a little bit why he didn't tell about that

491
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Speaker 9: picture sunk.

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Speaker 2: Do we know how long they had been separated?

493
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Speaker 24: No, that I did not ask. I was not able

494
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Speaker 24: to ask any questions. Okay, investing.

495
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Speaker 7: Okay, Let's say you go to dinner with a lot

496
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Speaker 7: of friends and your ex is there, and you know what,

497
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Speaker 7: there's no harm done in saying hi to them. You

498
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Speaker 7: know what I'm saying, this cold shoulder, and unless it

499
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Speaker 7: was like a really better divorce or whatever, there's nothing

500
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Speaker 7: wrong with saying hi. They're a part of your history,

501
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,640
Speaker 7: they're an old friend, whatever. Okay, do we all agree

502
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Speaker 7: there's nothing wrong with that. Yes, it's in a public Okay.

503
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Speaker 2: Now, so if I tell my current it could stir

504
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Speaker 2: up some negative vibes.

505
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Speaker 10: You know, Well, you got to weigh the pros and cons.

506
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Speaker 10: If that person was to find out on their own

507
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Speaker 10: some way, somehow, would it be a worse reaction than

508
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Speaker 10: you telling them.

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Speaker 7: I can't argue with that. I can't argue against that. Yeah.

510
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Speaker 24: The worst argument he had was when he said to her, quote,

511
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Speaker 24: I didn't tell you because I knew you'd react like this.

512
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Speaker 2: You're exact.

513
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Speaker 24: This is exactly why I don't tell you things, because

514
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Speaker 24: you react like this. I'm like, that's a that's just

515
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Speaker 24: a bad argument.

516
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Speaker 10: So you said you felt he was wrong in this situation.

517
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Speaker 24: Oh, I think he's one hundred million, one hundred million percent.

518
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Speaker 24: Just be honest.

519
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Speaker 2: At the end of the day, he didn't do anything wrong.

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Speaker 7: I mean if she, if she would, what that we

521
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Speaker 7: know of? Okay, well that opens a hole. That's a

522
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Speaker 7: whole different argument. But the only thing that was on

523
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Speaker 7: the table was the fact that he was in a

524
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Speaker 7: public place with a lot of friends and she ended

525
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Speaker 7: up there and he didn't want to tell her. It's like,

526
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Speaker 7: sometimes it's easier if I just ignore it.

527
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Speaker 2: It's no big deal, we'll move on.

528
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Speaker 7: I also sort of see that logic a little bit,

529
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Speaker 7: but it didn't play out that way.

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Speaker 24: Dishonesty.

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Speaker 2: Hi Hi, Hi, Hi, Hi, what's up right?

532
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Speaker 31: So my opinion, I would definitely feel betrayed, only because.

533
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Speaker 17: You know, you're supposed to have an open.

534
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Speaker 31: Line of communication with your significant others. So if you

535
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Speaker 31: can't feel as though you cannot tell me, just as

536
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Speaker 31: an s y you know so and so there can't

537
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Speaker 31: let you know, then there's no trust. Then maybe you

538
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Speaker 31: are hiding something.

539
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Speaker 32: Yeah, I would have felt betrayed.

540
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Speaker 31: I would have been like really, like you couldn't tell me,

541
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Speaker 31: I would have felt much better. Do social media?

542
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Speaker 7: Okay, I know, I say social media it snags you

543
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Speaker 7: every time. But you know what, I yeah, I know

544
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Speaker 7: social media can get you every time. Listen, thank you, Denise,

545
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Speaker 7: thank you very much. A lot of people are weighing

546
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Speaker 7: in and saying the same thing. There's a trust thing.

547
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Speaker 9: Yeah, of course I don't know, but don't tell.

548
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Speaker 7: Uh yeah, I mean, you know, it depends on the situation. Look,

549
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Speaker 7: if I'm just walking down the street and I see

550
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Speaker 7: an ex and we sat there and talked for a second,

551
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Speaker 7: I moved on. If I don't tell, it's like, well,

552
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 7: then it doesn't bring up any weird feelings. But if

553
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Speaker 7: I do tell it, could you know? It all depends

554
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Speaker 7: on the person you're dating. Look, I happen to be

555
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Speaker 7: with someone who doesn't fly off the handle in a

556
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Speaker 7: jealous rage. He just doesn't. He'd be like, oh whatever,

557
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 7: So I don't mind telling him. But we don't know

558
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Speaker 7: the history behind this couple. She may or they both

559
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Speaker 7: may have a history of just getting crazily jealous and

560
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Speaker 7: causing a stir, starting a fight and then you know,

561
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Speaker 7: bringing it back for three days and bringing it up again.

562
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Speaker 2: We don't know what their history is, so maybe there

563
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Speaker 2: is a history of stuff.

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Speaker 9: I know, it's very dependent on the couple, it really is, Hi, Jessica, Yeah,

565
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 9: what's up?

566
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Speaker 2: What do you think?

567
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Speaker 19: So?

568
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Speaker 17: I think that if if she's in a trusting relationship

569
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Speaker 17: with her boyfriend and you know, they're both trust each other,

570
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Speaker 17: and I mean if it's an ex, but it's an

571
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Speaker 17: ext for a reason. So if she's you know, that

572
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 17: upset about it, then obviously she either doesn't trust him.

573
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Speaker 7: Or there's more going on that, right, she wasn't upset

574
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Speaker 7: that if it sounds like she wasn't upset that he

575
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,679
Speaker 7: ran into his ex, he was. She was upset that

576
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 7: he didn't say anything to her, right.

577
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Speaker 10: See it also runs down to if he if he

578
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 10: if he's hiding something that simple? What else is he

579
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:34,159
Speaker 10: not telling me that?

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Speaker 23: You?

581
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Speaker 7: My mind works to Danielle all right, So yeah, so

582
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Speaker 7: you kind of see that, Jessica a little bit.

583
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Speaker 28: It's like if if you.

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Speaker 7: If you go into social media and you see your

585
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 7: boyfriend hanging out with an ex, alarms would go on

586
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 7: me off right, right?

587
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Speaker 2: And he even took a picture of you. What are

588
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:49,520
Speaker 2: you stupid?

589
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Speaker 10: Yea friends called dude. I can't believe Alison saw Donnie

590
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Speaker 10: like what Donne?

591
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Speaker 7: So maybe it's better like if you have if you

592
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 7: see something, say something right, right, yeah, if you see

593
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 7: one of those old timey bombs in the fuses, is

594
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Speaker 7: like you should say something. If a train's come in,

595
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Speaker 7: don't don't walk out in front of it, all right, Jessica, thank.

596
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Speaker 11: You, thank you.

597
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:12,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

598
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Speaker 7: So then you start asking all these sub questions like Danielle, Hi, Danielle, Hello,

599
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Speaker 7: and what's your question about this?

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Speaker 27: I want to know why the current girlfriend wasn't at

601
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Speaker 27: the dinner.

602
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Speaker 2: Well, no, he's allowed to go have dinner with friends,

603
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: right for sure.

604
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Speaker 7: I mean she doesn't have to go to every single

605
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Speaker 7: dinner he goes to, does no?

606
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Speaker 2: Or does?

607
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Speaker 5: But did he know that the ex girlfriend was going

608
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Speaker 5: to be there?

609
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Speaker 2: She didn't.

610
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Speaker 26: He didn't.

611
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Speaker 24: It didn't sound that way. It sounded like the ex

612
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 24: girlfriend being there was not planned. It sounded that way

613
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Speaker 24: with what I could hear.

614
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Speaker 7: See, Danielle, It's not unusual what you're asking a lot

615
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 7: of people like to start asking all the what if

616
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 7: questions and you can actually what if this? And until

617
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Speaker 7: the end of time, like like our Danielle does the.

618
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Speaker 2: Same thing I do.

619
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Speaker 10: I like to know what IF's about everything.

620
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Speaker 2: We started asking questions we don't have answers to.

621
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Speaker 10: Elvis always looks at me and he goes, Danielle, we

622
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 10: don't know that, we don't know. Your answer is we

623
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 10: don't know.

624
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't I know, but it does.

625
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 7: It does, But Danielle, it does make the suspicious mind

626
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 7: come up with follow up questions and then then there's

627
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 7: nothing wrong with that. Look, we have to walk through

628
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 7: life being suspicious of things, otherwise we, you know, be dead.

629
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Speaker 2: You know.

630
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Speaker 7: So it's okay, don't hate yourself over it. You're great, Danielle.

631
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Speaker 7: And next time, next time I needed a private investigator,

632
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Speaker 7: I'm calling.

633
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Speaker 10: You organization Danielle and Danielle.

634
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, d and d Danielle, thank you for listening. You

635
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 2: go have a great day.

636
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Speaker 24: Okay, thank you.

637
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Speaker 12: I love you guys so much.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Elvis ter Wan in the Morning Show. This is Elvis

640
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Speaker 1: Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Hey, interesting story, and I'm not going to use any

642
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 7: restaurant names here because.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm not one hundred percent sure of what

644
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Speaker 2: the story is about.

645
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 7: But they're saying that some restaurants in New Jersey actually

646
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Speaker 7: was asking nicely their employees in front of house employees

647
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Speaker 7: to post five star reviews online about their restaurants, and

648
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Speaker 7: they're if you can prove that. They say in the

649
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Speaker 7: sign that if you can prove with your name and

650
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Speaker 7: your five stars that you posted something in this online

651
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Speaker 7: that they were giving them free meals in blackout days

652
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Speaker 7: choosing and Amazon gift cards and stuff like that.

653
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Speaker 2: It's like, it makes you.

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Speaker 7: Wonder when you when you go look at reviews, and

655
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Speaker 7: we all do reviews for restaurants, you kind of wonder, like,

656
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Speaker 7: how how those get there? How accurate are these reviews?

657
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Speaker 10: But I think of that for everything that I look at.

658
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Speaker 10: If the reviews are so glowing, I'm like, I don't know,

659
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Speaker 10: something's got to be wrong here.

660
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Speaker 7: The thing I find weird about this article is I

661
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Speaker 7: don't think any restaurant in their right mind would threaten

662
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Speaker 7: an employ with their jobs if they weren't, you know,

663
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 7: posting reviews for their restaurant, right. I mean, they're dying

664
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Speaker 7: to get people to work there now, they're trying to

665
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Speaker 7: run a business. So I don't know what that's all about,

666
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 7: but it does make me wonder when I go to Amazon,

667
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Speaker 7: and when I go to anywhere and I want to

668
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Speaker 7: buy something, where did those reviews really come from?

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Speaker 9: I don't know, right, Yeah, some of them you can tell,

670
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Speaker 9: because there will be like a hundred that popped up

671
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Speaker 9: on the same day and they're from little bot sites.

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Speaker 9: But for the most part, on Amazon, you have to

673
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Speaker 9: have actually purchased the thing to be able to then

674
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Speaker 9: leave a review for them. Restaurants and stuff with YELP

675
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Speaker 9: totally different story, but Amazon seems somewhat legit.

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Speaker 2: Have you guys ever left a review? Yes? Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: positive or negative both.

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Speaker 9: Which one probably ninety nine percent of the time. I

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Speaker 9: try to leave a positive because once I left a

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Speaker 9: positive and the next time I was there, the girl

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Speaker 9: came and found me and was so happy and like thankful.

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Speaker 9: But of course, you know, somebody does me dirty. I'm

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Speaker 9: gonna let them know that too.

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Speaker 7: And by the way, back to this this article about

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Speaker 7: the restaurants, it wasn't the employees that they wanted to

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Speaker 7: do the posting. They wanted the employees to get their

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Speaker 7: customers to do it and mention and they have to

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Speaker 7: be five stars and they have to mention that employee's

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Speaker 7: name in the thing, so they get credit for it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I don't know.

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Speaker 7: Look, if I was waiting on you and you seem

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Speaker 7: like you're having a great time, I don't think I

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Speaker 7: would be embarrassed to say, hey, if you enjoyed your

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Speaker 7: experience today, I would love for you to give me

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Speaker 7: a nice five star review.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, well that's fine.

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Speaker 2: They do it. Uber drivers do it. Yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 10: But to force it and say, you know you're going

699
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Speaker 10: to lose your job, you know.

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Speaker 2: I don't think anyone's losing their job over there. I

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Speaker 2: think that's just yeah.

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Speaker 7: No, I when you're in the restaurant business, you're not.

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Speaker 7: You don't have any any space to fly or anyone

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Speaker 7: you need.

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Speaker 2: Anyone and their working what's up? Scary.

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Speaker 15: I feel like in a lot of situations, people incentivize

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Speaker 15: others to leave reviews to counterbalance all the negative ones.

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Speaker 15: Because if if someone is going to be prone to

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Speaker 15: leave a review on their own, a lot of times

710
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Speaker 15: it's a something that's negative. They have this vengeance and

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Speaker 15: they give you a one star or something. So, because

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Speaker 15: you know, businesses depend on these votes and these you

713
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Speaker 15: know they're rating to survive, sometimes they need to counteract it.

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Speaker 2: In a certain way. I don't know, it's what I've

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Speaker 2: seen in the past.

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Speaker 7: Well, I mean, have you ever checked out somewhere and

717
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Speaker 7: they give you the receipt and they say, hey, here's

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Speaker 7: a website.

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Speaker 2: If you had a good experience, to go to this website?

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Speaker 2: Yes my name, Yeah, I'd happily do that, because you're right.

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Speaker 7: People usually only bitch and moan when they're right when

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Speaker 7: they're using reviews because they want to complain. But if

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Speaker 7: things were great, they don't say a word. And I

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Speaker 7: guess we should be catching people doing things right on

725
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Speaker 7: reviews totally.

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Speaker 16: Of course.

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Speaker 9: I was at Cohle's and the woman in customer service

728
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Speaker 9: she was so friendly and sweet, and she helped me

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Speaker 9: find what I was looking for. So I asked for

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Speaker 9: her manager and just told the manager she did something

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Speaker 9: very nice. That girl lost her mind. She was so excited,

732
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Speaker 9: and I got a big old discount on some litch.

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Speaker 2: Here you go.

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Speaker 7: Great, I got Dana online twenty four I'll see what's

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Speaker 7: going on. Hi Dana, Hi guy, Well, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Are you do you work in the restaurant business.

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Speaker 21: No, I do not, I work in healthcare.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well, thank you, thank you for doing what you do.

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Speaker 7: But you wanted to add on to this conversation.

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Speaker 21: Yeah, I had just texted a little while ago that

741
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Speaker 21: I went to Myrtle Beach two years ago and we

742
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Speaker 21: went for Calibash because that's the big thing down there.

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Speaker 21: And they told us when we paid the bill that

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Speaker 21: if we wrote them a five star review online that

745
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Speaker 21: they would give us ten percent off the bill.

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Speaker 7: Okay, well, well, okay, okay, Well first first things first,

747
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Speaker 7: did you do it?

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Speaker 29: Yeah?

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Speaker 33: Why not?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 21: But I mean it was interesting because we were like, okay,

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Speaker 21: well we we're obviously not from the area, so we

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Speaker 21: looked up all of these reviews online before we picked

754
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Speaker 21: the place, and we were like, okay, well, I guess

755
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Speaker 21: this wasn't overly accurate because we came to find out

756
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Speaker 21: that most of the places in the area offer similar

757
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Speaker 21: perks if you do the same thing.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 7: Okay, so you gave them a five star review? But

760
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Speaker 7: did they deserve it?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 7: Did you do it just because of the discount or

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Speaker 7: they did they really give you a five star lunch

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Speaker 7: or whatever?

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Speaker 25: It was really good.

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Speaker 21: I don't know if it was necessarily five star, but you.

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Speaker 24: Know, okay, there you go.

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Speaker 7: So so it kind of makes you wonder, so you

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Speaker 7: did that, Dana? So because of that experience, do you

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Speaker 7: second guests? When you see five star reviews before you

771
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Speaker 7: go to places, you wonder.

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Speaker 2: How real they are?

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Speaker 5: All the time.

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Speaker 10: All the time.

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Speaker 21: I usually ask people that I know have been there.

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Speaker 2: Wow, there you go? All right?

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Speaker 7: Well, Dana, thank you for listening, Thanks for fessing up.

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Speaker 7: Ten percent discount. Okay, I'll give you a five star review.

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Speaker 23: What no, thank you for being you.

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Speaker 21: You guys are absolutely incredible and make my morning just

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Speaker 21: on damage you so much.

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Speaker 7: I give you a five star review data.

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Speaker 25: Thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: Take care you too well. Thank you. Yeah, I'm so

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Speaker 2: glad we don't have reviews like that, dear.

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Speaker 23: No.

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Speaker 1: This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: You know, if you're from Austin, Texas or you visited Austin, Texas,

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Speaker 7: you know there's a hometown thing they do there. Every night,

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Speaker 7: as the sun goes down, you watch the bats fly

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Speaker 7: out from under the bridge.

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Speaker 2: I mean the bats. There's billions of them. It's the

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Speaker 2: thing everyone in town likes go do.

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Speaker 7: Scary was in Charlotte and what Charlotte has like this

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Speaker 7: small town thing it does right, Yeah, every night, every night.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, three miles from the South Carolina state line in Waxhaw,

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Speaker 15: everyone gathers around the pedestrian bridge to stand on top

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Speaker 15: of it and wait for the long ass cargo train

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Speaker 15: to go by, the fifteen minute cargo train. So you

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Speaker 15: stand over it with your ice cream Sunday from the

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Speaker 15: old ice cream shop and you're just watching.

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Speaker 2: You just watch the train go by.

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Speaker 15: Two times a day, the trains go by, and people

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Speaker 15: have been doing this for years.

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Speaker 2: It's Waxaw tradition.

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Speaker 7: There you go, and you were talking about another one

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Speaker 7: Gandhi When people are like tubing down a river, everyone.

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Speaker 2: Shows up Yeah.

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Speaker 9: So when I lived in Ohio, there was a place

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Speaker 9: it's a water park, and they have a lazy river there,

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Speaker 9: and all of the homish people would come and just

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Speaker 9: stand on the bridge and watch everybody float through the

825
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Speaker 9: lazy river. So we just wave at them. Yeah, they

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Speaker 9: watched us. It was great in.

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Speaker 2: Nate where you're from in Pennsylvania. Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 14: We would go to allegai Any State Park just over

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Speaker 14: the border there in Salamaica, New York, and we would

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Speaker 14: go at night to the dumpsters and watch the bears

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Speaker 14: and raccoons eat tracks.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, sounds so romantic. Yeah, are you so cool?

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Speaker 7: Textas now Texas at fifty five one hundred, What weird

834
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Speaker 7: thing does your town do? And you don't know about

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Speaker 7: it unless you roll through your town or you're born

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Speaker 7: and raised there.

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Speaker 2: I would love to show up at.

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Speaker 7: The dumpsters and watch the raccoons in bears eating garbage

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Speaker 7: every night.

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Speaker 2: Let's go talk to line twenty four.

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Speaker 7: Lendsy Lindsey, Hey y'all, Hey y'all, So where are you from, Lindsay?

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Speaker 8: What town I'm from?

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Speaker 11: West I'm in a small town in West Virginia. I

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Speaker 11: don't know if I want to call it out, even

845
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Speaker 11: though I got a lot of a lot of upries.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, all right, all right, that's okay. So tell

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Speaker 7: everyone what you guys do in your town that makes

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Speaker 7: it unique.

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Speaker 22: Okay.

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Speaker 11: This is a beautiful years long Appalachian tradition. Are you

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Speaker 11: guys ready? And we called it the pipe, so I

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Speaker 11: know this could go a lot of different ways.

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Speaker 5: Don't be nervous.

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Speaker 11: At our Corey camp out back, there was a cover

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Speaker 11: missing from like a sewish pipe, and then the pipe

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Speaker 11: had a big hole in it. So we would all

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Speaker 11: stand around every year at camp and then someone would

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Speaker 11: go inside the cabin, you know, and do their business

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Speaker 11: and then come running out and.

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Speaker 29: We would all they would be all excited and we'd

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Speaker 29: all stand around and wait, and like first and bullet paper,

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Speaker 29: it would come, so we knew it was coming, and

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Speaker 29: then and then the turtacles would come and it was

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Speaker 29: just a good time.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 7: That sounds like a hearty tradition in your town. So

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Speaker 7: this is a four h camp, let's keep that in mind.

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Speaker 7: So it is, it's not something the whole public can

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Speaker 7: come watch. So you would have someone do their business

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Speaker 7: in the cabin flush and then run down and you'd

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Speaker 7: watch whatever they produced float by in the broken popet.

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Speaker 29: So much fun, I mean, and it's so beautiful here.

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Speaker 29: You just really make the best of what you can.

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Speaker 11: That's what everybody does, right of course.

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Speaker 29: All of you guys so much.

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Speaker 11: You make the world such a better place.

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Speaker 7: And now we must say the same to you your camp.

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Speaker 7: I love how you call them.

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Speaker 1: Nate.

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Speaker 11: Nate was super kind, not creepy, and he was helpful.

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Speaker 11: He coached me that I could say also maybe crap,

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Speaker 11: but not you know, the brown words. I love you

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Speaker 11: so much. I've been practicing yoga for over twenty years.

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Speaker 11: I've been teaching for over ten and thank thank you

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Speaker 11: and your country and your people, my God for such

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Speaker 11: a beautiful thing, yoga meditation to save us all. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 11: thank you guys much.

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Speaker 17: So what are you doing you all?

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Speaker 2: I love if you could combine the two.

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Speaker 7: Watch the turtaicles float by in the pipe while doing

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Speaker 7: h yoga.

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Speaker 11: Thank you really embrace my Appalachian life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you should.

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Speaker 7: That sounds like a lot of fun in your town. Okay,

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Speaker 7: thank you very much. It's a pleasure meeting you.

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Speaker 2: Elizabeth.

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Speaker 7: In line twenty three, let's see what they did in

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Speaker 7: their town for for fun.

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00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 2: Hi Elizabeth, Hi, good morning.

900
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 7: Welcome to the show. All right, So this is something

901
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 7: that's very unique to your town. And is it a

902
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:59,399
Speaker 7: yearly thing, a nightly thing?

903
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 23: What is it? It's just something that I used to do,

904
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 23: I guess when I was a kid and some other kids.

905
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 23: We can't really do it anymore, so we used to

906
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 23: when we were younger. Go into the old psychiatric building.

907
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:15,279
Speaker 23: So there's a Pilgrim State and there's also King's Park

908
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 23: Psychiatric Center, which are abandoned buildings. So they're all, yeah,

909
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 23: they were abandoned.

910
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 2: With patients still all the way.

911
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, Elizabeth, these are old, creepy abandoned hospitals basically, right.

912
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 23: Yes, exactly exactly, and some of them have like underground

913
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 23: tunnels on the campus and a lot of this stuff

914
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 23: actually since that time, probably because we were such bad kids,

915
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 23: have been like demolished and you know, there's more patrols

916
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:44,760
Speaker 23: and things of that nature now so you can't probably

917
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 23: get away with it anymore. But there still those abandoned buildings.

918
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 2: Wow wow.

919
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 7: And I love that the whole town kind of shows up,

920
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 7: whether at least the kids would show up and break in.

921
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 23: Yeah, we would go like like twenty deep, probably too

922
00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 23: different buildings and just go different places and scarecrap out

923
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 23: of each other.

924
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 10: Green Haunted House at Halloween.

925
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 7: Yeah, I love that everyone in town knew about it.

926
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:08,439
Speaker 7: If you if you weren't from your town, you didn't

927
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 7: know about it. All right, Lizabeth, thank you very much.

928
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 7: I appreciate it.

929
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 2: Thank you. I have a great one, you too.

930
00:42:13,040 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 7: Now let's go to Jordan on line twenty four. Jordan

931
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 7: from Pennsylvania. You know I've heard of this, Jordan. Hi, Jordan,

932
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 7: I think I've heard of this tradition. Tell everyone what

933
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 7: you what you do at school and you're.

934
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 2: In your town.

935
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 17: So our senior boys drive their tractors to school on

936
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 17: one of the last days of school.

937
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 7: It's drive your tractor to school day.

938
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 2: Yes, that's awesome.

939
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 7: It's just like a whole parking lot filled with green

940
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 7: and yellow.

941
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 2: It's all John Deere just hanging out.

942
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 9: Do people in the town get ticked because it slows

943
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 9: down all the traffic or is it just kind of like, oh,

944
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 9: this is a fun thing, let it go.

945
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 23: They're kind of used to it.

946
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 10: To it here. Wow, you should do that in Florida.

947
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 10: Frog drive your golf cart to school day? You would

948
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 10: love that.

949
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,280
Speaker 2: You should all right, Thank you Jordan, Thanks for listening

950
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 2: to us too.

951
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 12: Thanks good day.

952
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 2: The text are coming summer in our town.

953
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 7: H here's when a brewery in our town holds the

954
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 7: Popstown Annual goat Races. Everyone gets drunk, bloated on German

955
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 7: beer and brats, and we watch goats race each other.

956
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:21,919
Speaker 2: Every year.

957
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 9: The love their animal races.

958
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 2: This is a fabulous thing.

959
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 24: Uh.

960
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 7: Right there on the Mississippi River between the tiny towns

961
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 7: of Port Byron, Illinois and Leclair, Iowa, they have a

962
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,240
Speaker 7: tug of war and they say Iowa usually wins, and

963
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 7: they say that the other.

964
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 2: Team usually ends up in the river every year. Did

965
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 2: you guys see a few of these that you liked?

966
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 21: Oh?

967
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 9: I love the salamander migration Day in East Brunswick, New Jersey.

968
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 9: I would totally watch that, right.

969
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 7: People say here in the state of uh, Illinois, we

970
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 7: get together and watch the taxes go up.

971
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 10: Pubcat Day in the Bronx, you know, get together and

972
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 10: steal up them. It was fun.

973
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 2: What about you, frog?

974
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 24: Eric co three zero two says. Then their town they

975
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 24: all get together in the fall and due to a

976
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 24: pumpkin chunkin contest everybody who can throw a punk in

977
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 24: the furthest oh I.

978
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 10: Always wanted to do that. That's so that on the

979
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 10: turn in Iowa they do the county chips. I always

980
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 10: wanted to do that.

981
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 7: Too, the punkin Chunkin's right, it's north of us, it's

982
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 7: not far. So what did you guys used to do

983
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 7: with the boat ramps straight in eight?

984
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:30,399
Speaker 2: This was a big thing.

985
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 14: People would just sit there and they'd have chairs and

986
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 14: they just watch people put their boats into the that's

987
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 14: entertainment at the boat launch because inevitably, like one out

988
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 14: of ten, people can't do it right, or they back

989
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 14: their car in too far and they flood their car.

990
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 2: It's it's it's.

991
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 24: They forget to put the brake on when they're backing in,

992
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 24: or when or the guy that's on the boat. No,

993
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 24: the best part is when the guy that's on the

994
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 24: boats like just a little more, He ReBs it a

995
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 24: little more to get it a further on the trailer

996
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 24: and it ends up in the back of the car.

997
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 24: The boat is over the trailer on the car. Okay,

998
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 24: we're good.

999
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 7: Let's go tell you what When I when I was

1000
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 7: much younger and we had a boat and we'd have

1001
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 7: a boat, you know, we'd have a hitch to the

1002
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 7: back of the car, the trailer. You have to know

1003
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 7: what you're doing to back those things down those ramps

1004
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,720
Speaker 7: because if you turn right, that means it goes left,

1005
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 7: or I don't it's it's backwards.

1006
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 24: But I've seen many marriages fail on a boat ramp

1007
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 24: where the where the husband is trying to back the

1008
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 24: trailer in and the wife's yelling at him.

1009
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 7: But it's something everyone in town had to do, you know,

1010
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 7: you had to go watch.

1011
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, scary.

1012
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 15: I saw a text from area code five oh one, Conway, Arkansas.

1013
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 2: Toad Suck Park.

1014
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 15: They have toad Suck Days and they race toads and

1015
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 15: they have a big carnival around this event.

1016
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:39,399
Speaker 7: They are toads, the frogs, they're toads, the toads. Get

1017
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 7: it right, all right, That's so cool. Whatever you're doing

1018
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,720
Speaker 7: in your town, it's your tradition. If it's watching turds

1019
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 7: float down on pipe, or if it's you know, pulling

1020
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 7: people across the river in a tug of war competition,

1021
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 7: just keep those keep those alive.

1022
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 24: There you go.

1023
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,560
Speaker 9: I love They're just so menacing, some of them, Like

1024
00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 9: we get together and throw dry corn at people's porches

1025
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 9: to in October in Toronto, Ohio. Okay, a chunk corner

1026
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 9: people's houses.

1027
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 2: So what are you gonna do?

1028
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 7: If you let's say you're born in New York City,

1029
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 7: you have you can go into the word. If you're

1030
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 7: born in the boroughs or the suburbs of New York City,

1031
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 7: you go into town and you ride the subways.

1032
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 2: I'd love to chunk some pumpkins.

1033
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:20,240
Speaker 24: Yeah, just last week we found about the testical Festival.

1034
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 24: I like to go to the testicle Festival.

1035
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 2: And what do you do?

1036
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 24: Are you showing yours off? Or you're looking at other words?

1037
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 2: Like what do you do?

1038
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 9: You're eating them?

1039
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, they're not off.

1040
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 2: People, they don't.

1041
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 10: You don't eat like I don't people's I think you

1042
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 10: eat animals? Am I right?

1043
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:35,399
Speaker 2: Okay?

1044
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 18: On that guy, don't answer the phone.

1045
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 16: Elvis Duran the Elvis Duran phone tap.

1046
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 7: Every morning at seven twenty, we give you a fresh

1047
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 7: phone tap. We love playing crank calls. Actually, you told

1048
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 7: us you loved him, That's why they're back. Got an

1049
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 7: email from Nicole Godfrey. See I think you have her

1050
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 7: on the phone. Good morning, Nicole?

1051
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 24: Is that you?

1052
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1053
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:06,359
Speaker 34: Hi?

1054
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 27: Good morning, guys, rather than.

1055
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 2: Me reading out your email, What is it you want

1056
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 2: to do to your friend Lauren?

1057
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 8: All right, Well, me and my friends this is our

1058
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 8: first year getting a beach house down in Bema, and.

1059
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 35: I thought it'd be a great idea to have.

1060
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 8: Someone pretend to be real with her and tell her

1061
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 8: that our house burnt down.

1062
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 2: Right, can you imagine? So she already you guys already

1063
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 2: put your deposit down on the house.

1064
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, and you want the realtor to call and say, well, hey, thanks,

1065
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 7: but no thanks the house burnt down?

1066
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 30: Yeah?

1067
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right? So why do you hate your friend Lauren?

1068
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 2: Why do you want to do this to her?

1069
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 34: No?

1070
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:39,360
Speaker 5: I don't hate her. I just think she is the most.

1071
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 8: Gullible out of all the girls at the house, and

1072
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 8: I think she'll really fall for it.

1073
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 11: And I can't wait to hear what you says.

1074
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 7: Can we go scary calling it Lauren telling her her

1075
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 7: beach house has burned to the ground.

1076
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 2: It's another phone.

1077
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 30: Tap, well, Lauren Gissey, please, ye, hi, this is Ray

1078
00:47:55,640 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 30: from the realty company. Okay, you've rented a house down

1079
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:01,280
Speaker 30: the shore with us for this summer.

1080
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 10: Uh huh?

1081
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 15: And I believe the address I just want to make

1082
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 15: sure I could verify this. It's two thirteen by at

1083
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 15: least venue in Belmar, right, that house burned down. What, Yeah,

1084
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 15: it's terrible.

1085
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 17: So that just means sort of screwed a house and

1086
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 17: not money.

1087
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 2: Basically, Okay, how much money did you put down here?

1088
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 14: Oh?

1089
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 8: It paid the seven hundred dollars deposit and then we

1090
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 8: made our entertainment. Right, we are all paid five hundred,

1091
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 8: so it was like twenty five hundred dollars already.

1092
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 15: Yeah, Well that money's gone and you still always to balance,

1093
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 15: which is about one thousand dollars.

1094
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 24: We still have to pay for it, regardless of the

1095
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 24: house is there or not.

1096
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 12: Yep, that's why why can you afford that money?

1097
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 5: Well?

1098
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 8: I could afford it.

1099
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 2: Are you working right obviously?

1100
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 8: If we uh what am I working right now? Yes?

1101
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 6: Money last.

1102
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,359
Speaker 15: I just wanted to make sure that you weren't some

1103
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 15: deadbeat kid out of college that wasn't going to pay

1104
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 15: her bill.

1105
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:56,720
Speaker 2: Obviously.

1106
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 33: I once on a week for a house that I

1107
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,759
Speaker 33: was running for the summer, I couldn't afford it.

1108
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 15: I just kind of figured that you're like scraping your

1109
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 15: last pennies together to get this done.

1110
00:49:05,239 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 28: No, I don't.

1111
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 17: I don't scrape my last pennies.

1112
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:09,879
Speaker 2: What do you do for a living? Why do you?

1113
00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 28: Why are you kid this?

1114
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 29: Oh?

1115
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:17,720
Speaker 2: I get it. You're still mooching off your father? Hello? Hello?

1116
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: What is she doing right now? You think?

1117
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 16: All right?

1118
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 2: Let's call her back?

1119
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 6: Hellow, Lauren?

1120
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 2: What did I say wrong? I'm sorry?

1121
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 8: What do you mean?

1122
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 28: You're sorry?

1123
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Speaker 31: I don't hear your bolt.

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00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 2: I didn't mean to pry into your personal life. What's listen?

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Speaker 15: If you need some help paying the balance on the house.

1126
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,799
Speaker 15: I do have a side business. Little go go bar

1127
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 15: here and lod I. I could hire you and you

1128
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 15: could earn some extra cash and we could have this

1129
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 15: money made up.

1130
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Speaker 9: And you kidding me?

1131
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 15: I'm just trying to offer you a way out here.

1132
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 15: The money is old, the money.

1133
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 16: Living.

1134
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 10: Are trying to offer me a job at a What

1135
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 10: do you think you are?

1136
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 15: Okay, I'll tell you what. Let me put you on

1137
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 15: the phone with my secretary.

1138
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Laurren.

1139
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 25: Yeah, Nicole, you're kick my head, aren't you?

1140
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 2: You've been phone tapped? Oh my god, are you kidding me?

1141
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 11: Our house really didn't burn down.

1142
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 10: It was just a joe.

1143
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 2: The house is fine, but the money still.

1144
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 19: Do just puting me that job at the go good?

1145
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 2: What do you want to tell Nicolelvis.

1146
00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 16: Dan's phone tap.

1147
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 13: This phone table was pre recorded permission granted by all

1148
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 13: participates the.

1149
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: Elvis Oran phone tap only on Elvis Daran in the

1150
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 1: Morning Show.

1151
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 7: The question is what stupid thing are you guys fighting

1152
00:50:56,000 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 7: about right now? Where you're in this major battle? And

1153
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 7: then you stop and realize what you're fighting about. You're like,

1154
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 7: how stupid?

1155
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 2: Are we?

1156
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 10: So silly? Half the time I don't remember, let's go,

1157
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 10: oh my gosh, exactly what did that? Was so stupid?

1158
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:11,440
Speaker 10: Why did I you know?

1159
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 2: Exactly?

1160
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's almost to the point where you're so mad,

1161
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 7: you're mad as dogs.

1162
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 2: Yeah whatever that means, you're mad, mad mad.

1163
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 7: But then you stop and think about what it is

1164
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 7: you're fighting about. You're like, what the f am I

1165
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:28,479
Speaker 7: thinking about? Yep, anyway, I know. On Twitter, Joshua Queen says,

1166
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 7: we're fighting over the one hundred and thirty five dollars

1167
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 7: I spent on a weighted blanket that's only big enough

1168
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 7: for me. You know they have those weighted blankets. It's

1169
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 7: a twenty five pound blanket. Andrea on Twitter says, I

1170
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 7: we're mad because he went to see Ready Player one

1171
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 7: without me. We are seriously in a two day fight

1172
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 7: over this.

1173
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 10: I could see being upset if you promise to go

1174
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,839
Speaker 10: to a movie together and then the other person goes

1175
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 10: and sees it without you.

1176
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 2: I know, but to fight about it for two days

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00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 2: two days.

1178
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 7: On Facebook, Alyssa says, we disagree about who's taking a

1179
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 7: shower first. This morning they're fighting about it. Jess on

1180
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 7: Facebook says, my husband and I have an ongoing fight

1181
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 7: about if a hot dog is a sandwich or not,

1182
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 7: but we actually get mad at each other.

1183
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 10: We've had the fight Caramel versus Carmel, to the point

1184
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 10: where we go to a restaurant and my husband will

1185
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 10: ask the waitress, what is your What do you think

1186
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 10: it is? Is it caramel or Carmel? You tell me

1187
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 10: what I could Really, you're gonna get somebody else exactly.

1188
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 16: Yah.

1189
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 7: So it turns into like this major, major blowout for

1190
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 7: no reason over.

1191
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,359
Speaker 2: Something so so stupid. So contact us now. I want

1192
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 2: to hear from you. It's true. We've all been there.

1193
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 2: It's okay, Ashley, Hi, how you doing?

1194
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 29: Hi?

1195
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 26: Good?

1196
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:34,680
Speaker 27: Hi guys.

1197
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 29: I love you, guys, love for you.

1198
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 7: We're doing fine. So you and your husband got in

1199
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 7: a massive fight over what.

1200
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:45,439
Speaker 27: Me ordering What's Sick on the internet for fifty two dollars.

1201
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 10: That's kind of expensive.

1202
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 5: Okay.

1203
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 27: So we're in the car right now and his life

1204
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 27: is going to be a complete nightmare. And let me

1205
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 27: tell you, he has a nerve to go on her

1206
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 27: computer and look at the history because something sparked his

1207
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 27: interest that I had typed in. So that is psychotic.

1208
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:04,320
Speaker 27: There's nothing going on on her computer, so he sees

1209
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 27: that I order flipsticks from Jeffrestar dot com and he

1210
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 27: gets all pissed off at me.

1211
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 8: Okay, there's no right to look at her computer.

1212
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 2: Well I know, well I know, but there are two things.

1213
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 7: Okay, so there's a trust issue with you, but there's

1214
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 7: there's an overspending on lipstick for him. So you both

1215
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 7: you both have an issue right now.

1216
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 27: And he's laughing that is not overspending. That life show

1217
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 27: from overspending.

1218
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 10: But let me ask you question. Do you have you

1219
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 10: guys had the discussion that you weren't going to spend

1220
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 10: a lot of money or is it you know, is

1221
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 10: it tough right now or something like that?

1222
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 27: Well not to me, I mean, we have different views

1223
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 27: on money, absolutely, but sixty two dollars that's not even

1224
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 27: in a bracket of what I would consider overspending.

1225
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 2: Wow, well not for you maybe, but massively. Yeah.

1226
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,839
Speaker 7: But when you said fifty two dollars lipstick, Daniel's face

1227
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 7: was like, Oh, that's kind of high.

1228
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 10: You can get like a Revlaan for six nights.

1229
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 2: But that's not that's not that's not our thing.

1230
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Speaker 11: Thank you.

1231
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 2: That's what she if. That's where Okay we wait a

1232
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 2: minute though. Let me be very clear.

1233
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:59,839
Speaker 7: If Ashley has her own job, she has her own

1234
00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 7: mind to come in if she if she wants to

1235
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:04,280
Speaker 7: do what we think is overspent on lipstick, that's her program.

1236
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 8: That is true.

1237
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 7: But what I find weird is we're sitting in the

1238
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:08,839
Speaker 7: car with you as you're having a fight with him.

1239
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 2: I find this kind of thing.

1240
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 27: He's right next to you laughing. He thinks this is funny,

1241
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:15,240
Speaker 27: and whenever he laughs, it makes me more angry.

1242
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 2: Okay, is it okay for you? Can we well hold on?

1243
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 2: Can we talk to him? Will they talk to us?

1244
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 27: Sure?

1245
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 2: Put him on what's his name?

1246
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 27: He doesn't want to talk to you because he's seeing

1247
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 27: a baby.

1248
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 2: No, no, he's not being a baby.

1249
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 24: That'll make it better.

1250
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 2: No, Ashley, Ashley, Ashley, I don't.

1251
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,879
Speaker 7: I don't think you're fighting fair fair here, you're calling him,

1252
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 7: you're calling him a baby.

1253
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 10: Let me ask you a question, Ashley. Have you has

1254
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,919
Speaker 10: he spent a lot of money on stupid things as well?

1255
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:41,880
Speaker 27: He doesn't buy anything?

1256
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:43,720
Speaker 29: Oh okay, it doesn't buy anything.

1257
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 7: Well okay, Look, look it's one thing to disagree and

1258
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,399
Speaker 7: have an argument, but you guys got to work this out.

1259
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 27: Okay, you got to work it in.

1260
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 7: Are you got to work it out and say hey, okay,

1261
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 7: so maybe okay, but wait, look I'll tell you when

1262
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 7: when Alex gets mad at me for buying all my shoes,

1263
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:02,840
Speaker 7: I have to remind him. Look, you may not like

1264
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 7: that I'm buying shoes with all that money, but it's

1265
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 7: all that money that I made, and.

1266
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 2: There are shoes that are going on my feet. And

1267
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:09,439
Speaker 2: I'm sorry if you don't like it, but let's try

1268
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 2: to understand that we we all have our lives.

1269
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,319
Speaker 7: We have our lives together, we also have lives that

1270
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 7: are independent as well.

1271
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 27: Okay, definitely. So then now it's not a good time

1272
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:20,839
Speaker 27: to tell me I ordered something on Brighton dot Com.

1273
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,839
Speaker 2: Got gotta go all right, you guys worked it out,

1274
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:30,040
Speaker 2: love you too? She the pot. Well, no, but she

1275
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 2: she's not fighting fairly. No, I don't. I don't think

1276
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 2: she is. She's she's trying.

1277
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 7: To make him mad. I really do think that, and

1278
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 7: I want good things for them. Hello, John, how are

1279
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 7: you good?

1280
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:41,280
Speaker 28: How about yourselves?

1281
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 8: That?

1282
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 2: Did you hear that? That? That fight we were just

1283
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 2: talking about.

1284
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:47,240
Speaker 28: It's crazy, hilarious.

1285
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 2: So you got into a fight with who.

1286
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 28: My fiance because I watched all the seasons of teen

1287
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,120
Speaker 28: Wolf and didn't wait for te Wolf?

1288
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 7: Now question, okay, question John, did you guys agree you

1289
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 7: were going to wait for each other and watch it

1290
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 7: together as a couple or okay?

1291
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 2: So here's where the fight gets from.

1292
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:11,800
Speaker 28: Yeah, we were watching it together and she was falling asleep.

1293
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 28: She said, don't worry, go ahead and watch it, and

1294
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 28: of course I heard watch them all so I did.

1295
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:20,800
Speaker 2: Okay.

1296
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 7: So now it's done and there's nothing you can do

1297
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,360
Speaker 7: to turn back the hands of time. What do you

1298
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 7: do to move on and realize this is a silly

1299
00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 7: reason to get really mad?

1300
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 28: Right? So, like she was like really legitimately upset, and

1301
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 28: I couldn't understand. I was like, listen, I'll rewatch them

1302
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 28: with you. We have it on Netflix.

1303
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,439
Speaker 10: Yeah, but that's not the same. That's not the same

1304
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,879
Speaker 10: because you already know what's going to happen. You'll make

1305
00:56:46,960 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 10: little noises with your voice, like.

1306
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 24: If he doesn't what if he doesn't make us sense,

1307
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 24: doesn't matter, it doesn't matter.

1308
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 10: You shouldn't have watched it.

1309
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 2: What's done is done. What's done is done.

1310
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 28: It's over with.

1311
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 7: It's time to move forward. There's nothing you can do

1312
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:02,760
Speaker 7: about it, but go ahead.

1313
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 28: And I got in trouble because I asked her if

1314
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 28: she was seriously upset about it, because that was ridiculous.

1315
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:09,960
Speaker 28: And I guess that was a bad move too.

1316
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a bit okay, See, I agree with her.

1317
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 10: You can't tell her what to be pissed that.

1318
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1319
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 7: If someone's pissed, you gotta let them be pissed. But John,

1320
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 7: it's time to move on. And the thing is, we

1321
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 7: have a learned We call this a learning moment, right, Yes,

1322
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 7: we learned.

1323
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 6: We learned that.

1324
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 2: Let's be very clear.

1325
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 7: If we're if there's a show that we have to

1326
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 7: watch together, we must watch together, then let's make sure

1327
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 7: we do that.

1328
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 2: And so it's good, move on. Though you're good.

1329
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 28: Absolutely. I actually switched between TVs now so she can't

1330
00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 28: see what I watch.

1331
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 2: Good luck, John, that's awesome, thanks listening.

1332
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 28: I love you guys.

1333
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to U's give me one more. You

1334
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 2: know what, It's just.

1335
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 7: We all have these fights about insignificant things, and sometimes

1336
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 7: it means there's something bubbling under that has nothing to

1337
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 7: do this once a week.

1338
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 24: This is awesome.

1339
00:57:57,040 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 2: Let's go talk to Dana high.

1340
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 30: Dana, Hi, how are you doing?

1341
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 2: Okay?

1342
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 7: So you were fighting with your boyfriend because he told

1343
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Speaker 7: you not to go to his house last night.

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Speaker 32: Yeah, he's been in a bad mood and I asked

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Speaker 32: him if he wanted me to come over after I

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00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 32: got out of work and he said no. So then

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Speaker 32: he got mad later because I went home and laid

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Speaker 32: in bed.

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Speaker 2: I went to sleep, and he got mad that you

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Speaker 2: because you didn't show up.

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Speaker 36: Yeah, because I didn't show up and he wanted me

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00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 36: to show up. He expected me to.

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Speaker 5: Be a mind reader.

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Speaker 7: Okay, no, no, no, no, okay, So I agree. I when

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00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 7: I'm in and when I'm in a sensitive spot, I

1356
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 7: want people to read my mind as well.

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Speaker 2: I get that. Don't like that, I know, but.

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Speaker 7: To argue about it's one thing, but you could handle

1359
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,439
Speaker 7: it like this. Hey, look, I love you. I can't

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00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 7: read your mind. If you need me, you know I'm there.

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Speaker 7: But if you tell me you need space, I'm going

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00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 7: to give you space. I'm doing what you wanted me

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Speaker 7: to do. So don't get mad at me. You know,

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Speaker 7: I hope that's how you handled it. Is that how

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00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 7: you handled it?

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Speaker 36: Yeah, that's how I handled it. But I think that

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00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 36: kind of pissed him off a little more.

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Speaker 5: Boy, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 36: Because he's like, well, you should have known that I

1370
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 36: wanted you to come over. I'm like, well, I don't

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00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 36: know what to tell you because you told me not to.

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Speaker 17: So I respected what you wanted, and.

1373
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Speaker 10: It becomes you don't know me by now.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, oh my god.

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00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 24: Yeah, but she asked him and he said no, so

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00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 24: she didn't go. I mean that's what he said exactly.

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Speaker 7: Well, Dana, look this is Yeah, obviously he's in a

1378
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 7: very very odd spot right now. He needs to get

1379
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 7: out of it, and maybe in hindsight, after a few

1380
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 7: moments and breaths, he'll be able to logically speak about it.

1381
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 2: But I know we only all do that.

1382
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 7: Look, when we get when we get highly sensitive about stuff.

1383
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 7: Everything's a problem. We want to and if you don't

1384
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 7: have enough problems, we want more problems to help him

1385
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 7: ask what's really bothering it? So obviously he's going through

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Speaker 7: something kind of crazy.

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Speaker 27: Right, Yeah, I wouldn't even know.

1388
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 36: I guess I have to read his mind to find

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00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 36: out all that.

1390
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Speaker 27: Well.

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Speaker 7: See, that's so don't say that to him, to say, look,

1392
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 7: I'm here for you, but please you tell me what

1393
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 7: you want and I'll do it for you. That's because

1394
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 7: I love you, and that's all you can do. There's

1395
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 7: nothing else you can do beyond.

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Speaker 5: That, exactly, and we love you.

1397
01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 11: Good luck, Dana, all right, thank you.

1398
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 7: I love this text. My husband got mad at me

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Speaker 7: because I threw out his Chick fil A sauce.

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Speaker 10: Oh my gosh, did you.

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01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 2: See the one?

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Speaker 24: My biggest fight, the biggest fight my husband I ever

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01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:24,840
Speaker 24: had was because he ate my Reese's peanut butter cup.

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Speaker 7: So whatever huge fight you're in, find a way to

1405
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 7: diffuse it. Sometimes you always want to have the last dig,

1406
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:35,959
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Let it go.

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Speaker 2: You don't producer Sam.

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Speaker 7: A little while ago, you were talking about a friend

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01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:21,720
Speaker 7: of yours, Yes, who needed to.

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01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 2: Take a second look at her relationship.

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01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 7: She's in correct, maybe from someone else's viewpoint, and and

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Speaker 7: you helped her out right, Yes, So can we go

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Speaker 7: back to that.

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01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 2: For a minute. Absolutely.

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Speaker 7: I mean I don't want to, you know, I don't

1427
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 7: want to embarrass anyone to use names or anything.

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01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 2: No, I won't use her name.

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Speaker 3: And she's a very very smart girl. I've known her

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Speaker 3: since high school, so yeah, she's a very wise person.

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Speaker 3: But sometimes when you're in the thick of a relationship

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Speaker 3: and feeling in love with someone, you fail to see

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Speaker 3: what was to.

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Speaker 37: Me a really obvious red flag.

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Speaker 7: Right, So what's the obvious If I may ask, what's

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01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 7: the obvious red flag?

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Speaker 3: They've been together for over a year and he keeps

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01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:59,840
Speaker 3: coming up with different reasons why he's yet to introduce

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Speaker 3: her to any of his friends.

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Speaker 7: Okay, well we could break that down. Well, maybe he

1441
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 7: hangs out with people he's embarrassed to hang out with,

1442
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 7: or maybe he doesn't want them to meet her.

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01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 37: So true, there's a bunch of different reasons.

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Speaker 3: So I was very careful to not be like that

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Speaker 3: means he's blank because I don't know.

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Speaker 9: I don't know the guy.

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Speaker 37: I couldn't tell you what it is.

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Speaker 3: But I couldn't even come up with a best case

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Speaker 3: scenario where I felt like that was treating her the

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Speaker 3: way she deserved to be treated in a relationship.

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Speaker 7: I get that if I had a friend coming to

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Speaker 7: me and say, hey, you know, we've been dating for

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01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 7: a year and I haven't met anyone that they are

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Speaker 7: friends with, but they go out with them.

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Speaker 2: So I'm assuming this person goes out with the friend time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he goes out with his friends.

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Speaker 2: But she's not invited.

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Speaker 37: Correct, I don't know.

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Speaker 10: I mean it could be that his friends are just

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Speaker 10: scumbags and he doesn't want her around them because he

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Speaker 10: values what he has. But if that's the case, then

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Speaker 10: do you want to be with someone who has friends

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Speaker 10: that are scumbacks?

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Speaker 7: You know you are who you surround yourself with. But wait,

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Speaker 7: why has she not asked him?

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Speaker 37: She said she I would She said she's asked him.

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Speaker 3: But she's kind of a passive personality, so she's not

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Speaker 3: like me. It wo'd be like we're doing this this

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01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 3: weekend or not at all. She just kind of like

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Speaker 3: lets him know and then kind of lets herself get

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Speaker 3: I think a.

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Speaker 37: Little walked on.

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Speaker 7: See I couldn't I couldn't you know me? I'd be

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01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 7: right under that hood. Man's right? Who are your friends?

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Speaker 7: Who are these friends?

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Speaker 20: Right?

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Speaker 3: There's so many reasons that are potential, and most of

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01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 3: them are bad, most of them.

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Speaker 7: Is there something wonky about her that he doesn't want

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Speaker 7: them to know about?

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Speaker 3: I don't think so, not at all. She's like a

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01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 3: little bit of a silently intimidating character, So I think

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01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 3: that like might be possible. But if we're in a

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01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:47,959
Speaker 3: committed relationship, you prioritize me if you pick this personality,

1485
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 3: let me know by actually actively choosing me.

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Speaker 7: But here's the thing, I don't consider this a committed relationship.

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Speaker 2: No, if you can't bring me around, yeah, yeah, exactly.

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01:03:58,320 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 2: If howny your.

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Speaker 10: Friends not know about me, that's like a secret.

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01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 16: They know, they know.

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Speaker 2: The whole part of a relationship is you were a

1492
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 2: part of their lives. I agree with you, So they

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01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 2: know she exists.

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01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 3: Yes, she's talked to a few of them on social Oh,

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Speaker 3: he's just never allowed her or invited her, And she

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01:04:16,400 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 3: has not invited herself to mesh with these friends. And

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Speaker 3: when it comes up in conversation, he's, you know, just

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01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 3: kind of does a great job skirting it.

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Speaker 7: Okay, let's let's consider another possibility. Maybe, as sort of

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Speaker 7: on the heels of what Daniel said, there are a

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Speaker 7: bunch of scumbacks. Maybe they're not. But maybe for some reason,

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01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:37,200
Speaker 7: he is ready for a new life. He wants a

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01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 7: life with new people. But then again, if he's still

1504
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 7: hanging out with them, then that's not the case.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he says he has one like she says, he

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01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 3: has one core group, like that person you know that

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01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:49,240
Speaker 3: always hangs out with the same friends, and that's that,

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Speaker 3: that's his social life.

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Speaker 7: I have a really dear friend who has been in

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Speaker 7: a relationship for many years and has never met the family,

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Speaker 7: has never met anyone in his circle ever. Okay, continue

1513
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 7: to move on and life is still whatever it is.

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Speaker 10: And they're both happy about that.

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01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:08,320
Speaker 7: It doesn't seem that way. I think it's more of

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01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 7: a it's just the way it is, so we live

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01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:12,560
Speaker 7: with it. I would I don't know. I don't want

1518
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 7: to sit here and say, well, I would never do that.

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01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 7: I would never because I mean, because we're all different.

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01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 7: I mean we all have different different levels of patience

1521
01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 7: and whatever.

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Speaker 37: But it wasn't making her feel very secure, Like.

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Speaker 3: That's what started this part of the conversation is the

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01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 3: way she talked about it. She was feeling a little

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Speaker 3: insecure with herself and her relationship to him. So that's

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Speaker 3: why I'm like, all right, let's let's just talk about

1527
01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 3: the potential of this being a serious red flag.

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Speaker 37: And maybe it's not quite as rosy as you feel

1529
01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 37: like it is.

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Speaker 2: I like this text. Maybe he's a gamer and all

1531
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 2: his friends are online. Maybe maybe all.

1532
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 10: His friends are just imaginary friends.

1533
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 2: Maybe, or maybe maybe maybe she needs to like follow follow.

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01:05:59,440 --> 01:06:02,360
Speaker 9: Him some in finals, that's the best.

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01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 2: Answer, follow him?

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Speaker 7: Where's he going with these shap let's go see what

1537
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 7: they're doing. What if they're like, you know, some Satanists.

1538
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 10: Yeah, actually they worked for the CIA.

1539
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, maybe they're they're like they're killing frogs and things.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: Hello Melissa, Hi, how are you guys doing very well?

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Speaker 7: I'm so glad you're listening. I'm so glad you're participating

1544
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:28,480
Speaker 7: in the conversation. I know that you said you were

1545
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 7: in a relationship for two years, and yeah, I never.

1546
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:35,960
Speaker 25: Ever never have a situationship.

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01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:38,120
Speaker 2: A situationship and never met his friends. All right, go ahead.

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Speaker 33: Yeah, so we had met online and it was all

1549
01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:47,440
Speaker 33: great in the beginning, and then I couldn't wait for

1550
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 33: him to meet my family and friends. My sister went

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01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 33: on two double dates with two of my friends, but

1552
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Speaker 33: I never met his family, never met his friends, and

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Speaker 33: it started to make me feel.

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Speaker 31: Like I was a kept secret.

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Speaker 33: So I ended up taking up with him on Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 7: Okay, but what's your gut feeling telling you? Why do

1557
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 7: you think? It may not be accurate? But why do

1558
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 7: you what's your hunch? Why do you think he never

1559
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Speaker 7: ever introduced you to his family or friends?

1560
01:07:19,560 --> 01:07:20,240
Speaker 2: In two years.

1561
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:23,600
Speaker 4: Well, I think it was a couple things.

1562
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:27,920
Speaker 33: His parents, he told me, were really strict. It was

1563
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:32,960
Speaker 33: also an interracial relationship, so I think he was a

1564
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 33: little nervous to introduce me and have different aspects that.

1565
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 32: He wasn't used to to introduce me to.

1566
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 33: But I also think like for him, he had trouble

1567
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 33: with commitment, Like I was looking to always define it

1568
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 33: and he was like, oh, I feel like we're moving

1569
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:54,480
Speaker 33: to pass. But he was also older than me. He

1570
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 33: was about six years older than me, so I'm like,

1571
01:07:56,720 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 33: what do you mean, Like how long do you think

1572
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 33: you know you're looking for a commitment and how long

1573
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 33: do you think you would know? And I just felt

1574
01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:08,440
Speaker 33: like I was always making pieces for him, like why

1575
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:11,120
Speaker 33: he couldn't come out to me out with friends, because

1576
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:13,520
Speaker 33: we're always invited to things that I would always show

1577
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 33: up by myself.

1578
01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 2: And that's not a relationship.

1579
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 7: I mean, well it is, it's just not a very

1580
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:23,839
Speaker 7: healthy one in my opinion. I mean, and you obviously

1581
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 7: after two years, realized that you deserved better than that,

1582
01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 7: So kaboom, you know, goodbye.

1583
01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:30,200
Speaker 10: Yeah you know, yeah exactly.

1584
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 33: Now I'm now I'm in a new relationship and couldn't

1585
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:35,720
Speaker 33: be happier right away. He couldn't really introduce me to

1586
01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 33: friends and family. I'm like, to me, it was such

1587
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:41,680
Speaker 33: a big deal, but it was also bare minimum, and

1588
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:44,680
Speaker 33: it just made me realize how easy it is to

1589
01:08:44,720 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 33: just be treated respect and.

1590
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:48,240
Speaker 2: Yes, there you go.

1591
01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:50,519
Speaker 7: Yeah, all right, Well, thank you, Melissa, and best of

1592
01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 7: luck with your new fresh I know his friends relationship.

1593
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:56,599
Speaker 11: Thank you so much, guys.

1594
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 33: I love you guys so much.

1595
01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 29: I hope you have a great day.

1596
01:08:58,640 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 2: Oh you too, hope you do too. And finally we

1597
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 2: talked to Shannon. Hi. Shannon, Hi, how are you guys

1598
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:05,599
Speaker 2: doing very well or doing well?

1599
01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:05,880
Speaker 16: Yeah?

1600
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 2: I don't want to speak for everyone. If you're not

1601
01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:08,400
Speaker 2: doing well, speak down.

1602
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,439
Speaker 10: So I totally think she should leave him.

1603
01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 19: I mean, I was in a relationship for four years.

1604
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 19: I got engaged in December. It was done by June.

1605
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:21,800
Speaker 19: There were so many red flags. I wasn't allowed to

1606
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:23,720
Speaker 19: go out with the boys with him. He would go

1607
01:09:23,760 --> 01:09:26,639
Speaker 19: out all the time. When I asked, so can I come, No,

1608
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 19: I was never allowed to come. I mean I did

1609
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:32,240
Speaker 19: meet his family and everything, I mean down the line.

1610
01:09:32,280 --> 01:09:35,000
Speaker 19: There was some touffle there, but he was definitely a

1611
01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:39,160
Speaker 19: Mohmed's boy. But honestly, I think that it's better off.

1612
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 19: She's better alone. There's definitely some piss in this dating

1613
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 19: pool nowadays. I think men are dogs and you know,

1614
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:49,200
Speaker 19: if they can't bring you around their friends and show

1615
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:51,400
Speaker 19: you your family, like, I don't understand, I don't see

1616
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:52,679
Speaker 19: really anything happening there.

1617
01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 2: There you go.

1618
01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 7: You want someone that makes you feel secure and loved

1619
01:09:56,200 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 7: and protected and you know, and there's there should be

1620
01:09:59,240 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 7: no doubt that there that they're into you and they

1621
01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:03,599
Speaker 7: want you to meet their family and friends.

1622
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 2: What's that Danielle Sam did?

1623
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 10: She has she ever said hey, can I come out

1624
01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:07,840
Speaker 10: with you? And the guys?

1625
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 9: Yeah, she's let him know.

1626
01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:12,959
Speaker 37: He has just said no, I don't He's not He's crafty.

1627
01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 3: He hasn't said no. It's more like, we'll make a plan.

1628
01:10:15,400 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 3: This one won't work, we'll get there. And it's been

1629
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:18,080
Speaker 3: a year of not getting.

1630
01:10:17,840 --> 01:10:18,640
Speaker 2: There, which just saying no.

1631
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 9: We're just saying no basically exactly.

1632
01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:25,000
Speaker 7: Shannon sounds like you know exactly what it is you

1633
01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:27,760
Speaker 7: want and exactly what it is you deserve. And I'm

1634
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 7: so happy that you that it's totally totally totally uh,

1635
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:34,920
Speaker 7: your your walk in life, right? I love that I

1636
01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:36,639
Speaker 7: love that, go for it and.

1637
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:38,519
Speaker 35: Exactly nobody should fight for love.

1638
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:41,760
Speaker 19: It should be you know, given and taken and you

1639
01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:42,839
Speaker 19: should give it him return.

1640
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 7: Amen. I love it all right, Shannon, Thank you very much.

1641
01:10:45,439 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 7: I appreciate your call.

1642
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:49,320
Speaker 9: Thank you guys, we love you.

1643
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 2: Love you by bye. See there you go, so best

1644
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:52,679
Speaker 2: of luck with your friend.

1645
01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 16: I know.

1646
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 3: I think the bare basement of any relationship should be

1647
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:57,720
Speaker 3: at least making you feel better about yourself than you

1648
01:10:57,720 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 3: would without them, whatever that means to you.

1649
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:02,479
Speaker 7: So if it's not well, at least in dialogue you say, look,

1650
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:04,559
Speaker 7: you're making me feel like crap about myself because you

1651
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 7: make me feel like there's something wrong right right right,

1652
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:08,519
Speaker 7: You're not introducing me to your friends and your family.

1653
01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:11,799
Speaker 37: Now, if you think you deserve better, you probably do excellent.

1654
01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:12,719
Speaker 2: I agree.

1655
01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:15,120
Speaker 7: Hey, I want to bring up something and I don't

1656
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 7: want to make anyone uncomfortable. But you know what, making

1657
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:20,800
Speaker 7: people uncomfortable is so much fun. Let's try it out, showy. Yeah,

1658
01:11:21,400 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 7: do you have an issue with people who come up

1659
01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:26,439
Speaker 7: to you, look you in the eye, and say, hey,

1660
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:28,840
Speaker 7: how come you don't follow me on Instagram?

1661
01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:29,360
Speaker 2: Yes?

1662
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 7: This happened to a Gandhi yesterday, we're having a conversation

1663
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:35,720
Speaker 7: about it. Yeah, some point blank, someone walks up to

1664
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:36,920
Speaker 7: you and someone do you work with?

1665
01:11:37,160 --> 01:11:38,840
Speaker 2: Yes, A good friend of ours.

1666
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 9: Well, here's the thing, a good friend of all of yours.

1667
01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:45,799
Speaker 9: I don't know this person that well, but very nice person.

1668
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 9: So before this this person said hello, it was a hey,

1669
01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 9: why don't you follow me on Instagram? Which is a

1670
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:57,200
Speaker 9: conversation that has had every time I see them. And

1671
01:11:57,240 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 9: there are a couple people in the building who do

1672
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 9: that all the time, and I it's not one. I'll

1673
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:04,080
Speaker 9: then give them the courtesy follow and then unfollow later.

1674
01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 9: But it's one of those questions that I'm like, wait,

1675
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 9: what is this about? Do people really care that much?

1676
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:10,720
Speaker 9: I didn't think it was a big deal, Like, if

1677
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 9: we don't know each other, what's the point of the follow?

1678
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:17,280
Speaker 9: I mean, it's not like certain celebrities who I stalk, Okay, sure,

1679
01:12:17,320 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 9: but real life people, I don't really see the need

1680
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 9: and I think that it's kind of just a lose

1681
01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 9: lose conversation as soon as it starts.

1682
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 7: Well, okay, I see your point of view. Now, this

1683
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 7: person you're talking about, who we work with, we've known

1684
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:30,240
Speaker 7: for years. He's a very dear friend, a very sweet guy.

1685
01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:32,720
Speaker 2: Of course we follow him, you know, yeah, but I

1686
01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 2: see you you don't know him that well. But the

1687
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 2: fact is that he kind of cornered you. Oh yeah,

1688
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 2: and then.

1689
01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 7: We had this conversation in the road during the song

1690
01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:42,680
Speaker 7: a minute ago, and then's scary, says, I totally get it.

1691
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:44,479
Speaker 7: I would be very offended as well if you didn't

1692
01:12:44,479 --> 01:12:44,880
Speaker 7: follow me.

1693
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:48,639
Speaker 15: Well, it's more of like it's human to wonder, right,

1694
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 15: So if I saw someone following all of you guys,

1695
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 15: but they don't follow me on Instagram, it would just

1696
01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 15: at the very least peak my curiosity. Did I say

1697
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 15: that I post something that pissed them off?

1698
01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:01,720
Speaker 2: Do they not like me?

1699
01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:03,720
Speaker 6: Do they have a vendetta against me? So I can

1700
01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 6: understand where this person is coming from.

1701
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 2: So you're putting.

1702
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:11,960
Speaker 7: Being followed on Instagram way up that on the top

1703
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:15,640
Speaker 7: of the ladder of importance. It's just so st I

1704
01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 7: want you to want me.

1705
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:17,479
Speaker 6: I want to be one.

1706
01:13:18,200 --> 01:13:20,120
Speaker 7: I don't want to be This is one of the

1707
01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 7: things that we told me about. Hold, you're equating.

1708
01:13:22,640 --> 01:13:24,479
Speaker 2: Being followed to being loved.

1709
01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 6: A common theme of our show is is everyone wants

1710
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 6: to be loved and feel loved.

1711
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:31,600
Speaker 7: So if you need to look scary, I love you.

1712
01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:33,920
Speaker 7: I don't follow you on Instagram neither.

1713
01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:36,640
Speaker 2: I want to be you.

1714
01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 6: Guys all follow me?

1715
01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:39,240
Speaker 2: We don't know, we don't. I don't. I mean, I

1716
01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:40,960
Speaker 2: don't know. About the rest of these guys, I don't.

1717
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 10: I don't follow half the people I know.

1718
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't.

1719
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:45,000
Speaker 9: There are a ton of people I don't follow on Instagram.

1720
01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:46,240
Speaker 9: I don't follow you on Instagram.

1721
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:48,439
Speaker 6: You know you, guys, don't get out of here.

1722
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 2: Look at your phone, Look at your phone. I don't know.

1723
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:51,679
Speaker 2: I don't.

1724
01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:51,960
Speaker 6: I don't.

1725
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 2: I don't recall following you. But it doesn't mean I

1726
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:55,680
Speaker 2: don't love you. I don't under you.

1727
01:13:55,720 --> 01:14:00,880
Speaker 7: Guys me, you don't follow me again? With what are

1728
01:14:01,040 --> 01:14:04,120
Speaker 7: to follow you? Your your your post drive me nuts?

1729
01:14:04,240 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 7: I can't team follow back, I follow you? The hell's

1730
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:07,760
Speaker 7: going on?

1731
01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:09,040
Speaker 37: That's not the way it works.

1732
01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:12,639
Speaker 9: And furthermore, like scary if if some if you approach

1733
01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:14,200
Speaker 9: someone and you say, hey, why don't you follow me,

1734
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 9: and then they tell you, oh, I don't like your

1735
01:14:15,880 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 9: posts or something that you did offended me or whatever

1736
01:14:18,040 --> 01:14:19,479
Speaker 9: it is, Are you going to change your life so

1737
01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:20,840
Speaker 9: that one person follows you back?

1738
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 6: Well, maybe I'd become a better person.

1739
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:26,439
Speaker 2: Maybe, like you know, scary, scary, I'm going to say

1740
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:29,599
Speaker 2: something and it's not. It's really very kind. You're a

1741
01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 2: wonderful person.

1742
01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:34,360
Speaker 7: I wouldn't want you to change anything about your life

1743
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:37,760
Speaker 7: because someone doesn't follow you on instag What the hell is?

1744
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:41,320
Speaker 10: And would it be something that like really bugged you

1745
01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:43,759
Speaker 10: that much that you would think about it that much?

1746
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:47,200
Speaker 2: It does things about it all the time, didn't.

1747
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 15: I didn't know people that have, you know, they take

1748
01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 15: social media a little bit more seriously.

1749
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 6: I know a lot of people who take would take

1750
01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:54,559
Speaker 6: offense to it.

1751
01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 9: You know, he says, for a friend, I'm speaking, it's

1752
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 9: a human it's a human thing.

1753
01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:02,559
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1754
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:05,760
Speaker 7: I think we all agree we love you. You know we

1755
01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:08,519
Speaker 7: love you. We don't have to prove it by following

1756
01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 7: you on Instagram.

1757
01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:10,640
Speaker 6: So you're going to follow me or.

1758
01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:14,559
Speaker 2: I haven't followed you in years? What you're talking about?

1759
01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I can't believe this. I believe my

1760
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:21,439
Speaker 6: own friends and my flesh and blood.

1761
01:15:22,520 --> 01:15:23,760
Speaker 2: Right, we all love you.

1762
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:24,400
Speaker 4: We love you.

1763
01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 9: Yeah, you shouldn't change anything for us on Instagram because

1764
01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:32,519
Speaker 9: it's like you have the shore every day. Then why

1765
01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:34,720
Speaker 9: does that mean that we don't love you. We still

1766
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:35,000
Speaker 9: love you.

1767
01:15:35,040 --> 01:15:36,679
Speaker 2: I just want to see that exactly.

1768
01:15:36,680 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 6: I'm just work together.

1769
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 33: Dan.

1770
01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:43,759
Speaker 7: Just keep in mind, I think just Instagram means different

1771
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:44,599
Speaker 7: things to different people.

1772
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 2: I think that's what we're getting at here.

1773
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 7: You you find Instagram acceptance to be very important, an

1774
01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:53,920
Speaker 7: important part of your relationship with people.

1775
01:15:54,080 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 9: We don't.

1776
01:15:58,000 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 6: Sounds trying.

1777
01:15:59,080 --> 01:16:02,720
Speaker 7: You Just think about that for a second. Let's go

1778
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 7: talk to Jasmine online twenty. Let's get a perspective from

1779
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:09,600
Speaker 7: someone who's not in the room. Hey, Jasmine, welcome to

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01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 7: the show. You hear what's going on?

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01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 5: But Scary right, Yes, Oh my gosh, I'm so excited.

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01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:15,120
Speaker 5: Good morning.

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01:16:15,560 --> 01:16:16,599
Speaker 2: We're excited you're here.

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01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:19,080
Speaker 7: So, Jasmine, you have a few people at work you

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01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:20,960
Speaker 7: consider your friends, but you don't follow them.

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01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:22,599
Speaker 2: How is that possible?

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01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 7: According to Scary, it's not either you are friends and

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01:16:26,040 --> 01:16:27,880
Speaker 7: you follow, or you're not friends and you don't follow.

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01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:31,759
Speaker 5: So I just I'm a teacher, I work in a school,

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01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:34,040
Speaker 5: and there's some things about your personal life that I

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01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:36,200
Speaker 5: just don't need to know. There's some things about my

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01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 5: personal life that I don't want them to know. So

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01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 5: I just don't follow people who I don't need to

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01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:42,719
Speaker 5: know that stuff.

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01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 2: About right right?

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01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 7: Okay, so see scary, but you like them professionally. These

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01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:50,519
Speaker 7: are professional friends that you don't follow, and they.

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01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:50,960
Speaker 2: Don't follow you.

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01:16:51,120 --> 01:16:54,320
Speaker 5: Right, absolutely, they are professional friends. I do like them

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01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 5: very much, But I just don't need to know about

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01:16:56,360 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 5: your personal life.

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01:16:57,160 --> 01:16:59,719
Speaker 2: Right there you go? Oh see, scary.

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01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:02,280
Speaker 7: You don't have to share everything about your personal life

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01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:04,160
Speaker 7: with everyone.

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01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:06,759
Speaker 9: It has nothing to do with real life and real love. Nothing.

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01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:08,160
Speaker 9: It's all fake.

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01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:10,120
Speaker 7: It's a picture of meat loaf. Yeah, I'm saying it's

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01:17:10,120 --> 01:17:14,400
Speaker 7: it's it's the tacos you had for dinner. Really anyway, Well, look, Jasmine,

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01:17:14,439 --> 01:17:16,320
Speaker 7: thank you for listening to us. I could have a

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01:17:16,360 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 7: great day. Okay, thank you.

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01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:20,760
Speaker 5: I love you guys so much, so much.

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01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:23,720
Speaker 2: To make sure you follow follow me on.

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01:17:27,280 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 7: So I just said a text and it says, scary

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01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 7: is really two teenage girls in a man's suit. It's okay, scary,

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01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 7: Probably shouldn't put so much emphasis on it, but scary.

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01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:44,639
Speaker 2: You know what, Since since I love you, I'm going

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01:17:44,680 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 2: to follow you. Let me go on Instagram.

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01:17:47,280 --> 01:17:48,640
Speaker 6: I can't believe you don't unless you.

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01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:50,920
Speaker 2: Unless you block me. I've never been so this is fine.

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01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:52,720
Speaker 2: You can block me. I'm totally fine with being block.

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01:17:52,840 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 6: I follow you, I like all your posts.

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01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:57,200
Speaker 7: Follow that I know, but you know what the difference is,

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01:17:57,320 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 7: I haven't posted now.

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01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:01,120
Speaker 10: I'm still on offense about following you.

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01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:03,599
Speaker 2: I'll get that as well.

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01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:07,759
Speaker 9: But Scarry, aren't you notorious for following and unfollowing people

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01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:09,439
Speaker 9: all the time? Does that mean you don't love them?

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01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:12,320
Speaker 6: No, that's not true. That was only there's only seventy

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01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 6: five hundred slots.

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01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:16,759
Speaker 15: So when it comes to listeners to put the listeners

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01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:18,680
Speaker 15: on a rotation, if they follow.

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01:18:18,360 --> 01:18:21,759
Speaker 10: Me, I don't even know that. I'll follow them back there.

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01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:23,640
Speaker 2: I kind of check in on them where he has

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01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:25,400
Speaker 2: he has a system there. The whole thing.

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Speaker 7: It's just you put so much thought into Instagram. I

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01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:30,040
Speaker 7: just I don't even I don't have that much thought

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01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:30,960
Speaker 7: for my entire life.

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01:18:31,280 --> 01:18:33,080
Speaker 6: I know that you could only do a max follow

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01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:34,000
Speaker 6: of seven thousand.

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01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:35,280
Speaker 10: Five people, no idea.

1841
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:37,400
Speaker 2: I followed like like a thousand people.

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01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:37,679
Speaker 19: Yeah.

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01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:39,360
Speaker 6: I tried to follow the whole world back and.

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01:18:39,360 --> 01:18:41,400
Speaker 2: Instagram would all right, all right, all right, this is

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01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:44,720
Speaker 2: just I'm sorry. I'm just wow. This is numbing to

1846
01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:46,720
Speaker 2: my brain. I can't can't handle any of this.

1847
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:56,760
Speaker 16: Elvis strong in the morning.

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01:18:58,360 --> 01:19:01,719
Speaker 2: So I don't want to get morose or dark.

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01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:05,640
Speaker 7: But let's talk about dying, shall we. Now, let's talk

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01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:08,840
Speaker 7: about ashes. You know, you always okay, you know, when

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01:19:08,880 --> 01:19:10,680
Speaker 7: I die, I want to be cremated. I want them

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01:19:10,720 --> 01:19:14,320
Speaker 7: to spread my ashes where, you know, And so I

1853
01:19:14,400 --> 01:19:15,120
Speaker 7: was thinking about.

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01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:17,040
Speaker 2: This last night. Where do I want my ashes to go?

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01:19:17,200 --> 01:19:20,000
Speaker 7: I mean, if you can immediately without hesitation, think of

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01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:21,719
Speaker 7: that boom, that one place where you want your ashes

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01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 7: to go.

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01:19:22,360 --> 01:19:24,720
Speaker 2: That's awesome. That means you put some thought into it,

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01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:25,840
Speaker 2: Like Danielle.

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01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 7: Watch this watch this guy's Danielle. Where do you want

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01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 7: your ashes to go after you pass away?

1862
01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:29,600
Speaker 19: Well?

1863
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:31,400
Speaker 10: Wanted at Walt disney World.

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01:19:31,760 --> 01:19:35,640
Speaker 2: Okay, wasn't there a problem with that?

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01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:38,280
Speaker 7: People were taking ashes to disney World and they were

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01:19:38,280 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 7: getting a little mad about.

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01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 10: That, I think So I think they were trying to

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01:19:41,200 --> 01:19:41,439
Speaker 10: put the.

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01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:43,559
Speaker 9: Goboche on that. I think they have a policy against it.

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01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:46,479
Speaker 10: Yeah, I think they do a little bit by the

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01:19:46,520 --> 01:19:49,160
Speaker 10: castle too, A little bit.

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01:19:48,000 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 7: We can okay, okay, so we should get like some

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01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:54,679
Speaker 7: little container that doesn't look like an ash container, whatever

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01:19:54,760 --> 01:19:59,080
Speaker 7: that looks like, and just just smell about just take

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01:19:59,120 --> 01:20:00,000
Speaker 7: a stroll around.

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01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:02,000
Speaker 2: Disne the world and just spread Daniel all over the place.

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01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 10: Gotcha a little there, like on Pixie Dusty exactly.

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01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:09,559
Speaker 9: They'll never suspect any that's it, mix.

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01:20:09,439 --> 01:20:10,040
Speaker 4: It with glitter.

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01:20:10,080 --> 01:20:11,919
Speaker 10: They'll think you're just spreading around Tinkerbell.

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01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:17,080
Speaker 7: Our friend Tom met a lot of colleagues he used

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01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:19,280
Speaker 7: to work with at a bar here in New York City,

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01:20:19,560 --> 01:20:22,360
Speaker 7: and they were having like a memorial drink, right to

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01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:25,200
Speaker 7: say goodbye to a friend who passed away. And they

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01:20:25,200 --> 01:20:28,120
Speaker 7: were in this bar he loved to frequent, and so

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01:20:28,479 --> 01:20:32,640
Speaker 7: one of his friends said, hey, distract, distract the bartender,

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01:20:33,840 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 7: And so Tom went up and distracted the bartender and

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01:20:36,920 --> 01:20:40,600
Speaker 7: his friend took their friend's ashes and sprinkled them in

1889
01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 7: like one of the planters, the potted plant planters in

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01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:46,320
Speaker 7: the bar, right there on the roof over the New

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01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 7: York City.

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01:20:47,320 --> 01:20:47,519
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 7: I mean, if it's just a little couple of ashes

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01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:51,679
Speaker 7: here and there, what's what's the harm?

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01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:53,680
Speaker 9: Right, it's a last wish. I thought there were some

1896
01:20:53,840 --> 01:20:57,320
Speaker 9: like you have to fulfill a last white.

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01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:59,200
Speaker 2: Don't right? I don't know, Froggy, what are you thinking? Ashes? Where?

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01:20:59,560 --> 01:20:59,760
Speaker 2: I know?

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01:20:59,800 --> 01:20:59,880
Speaker 29: There?

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01:21:00,360 --> 01:21:02,160
Speaker 24: You know what I would like? Mind putting an NFL

1901
01:21:02,200 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 24: football stadium and where you know, where the Tampa Bay

1902
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:04,880
Speaker 24: Buccaneers play.

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01:21:05,520 --> 01:21:06,559
Speaker 2: I know people and.

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01:21:06,520 --> 01:21:08,320
Speaker 24: There's been stories of people who have tried to do

1905
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 24: it at Foxborough Stadium and you get arrested. It's not

1906
01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 24: that they don't they don't want people like running around

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01:21:13,160 --> 01:21:14,519
Speaker 24: just spreading ashes all over the place.

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01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 7: I get it, I know, but look at look at ashes.

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01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:21,519
Speaker 7: They really aren't that, you know, granular or anything. They

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01:21:22,040 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 7: just a little bit. If I mean, maybe you get

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01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:26,040
Speaker 7: some bone fragment in there.

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01:21:26,280 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 2: There could be a problem.

1913
01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:30,240
Speaker 7: But but if just ashes, they you know whatever, scary

1914
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 7: ashes where all over.

1915
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:35,240
Speaker 15: The Brooklyn Bridge because I'm from Brooklyn and I admire

1916
01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:37,360
Speaker 15: that structure and I always have.

1917
01:21:37,520 --> 01:21:39,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, so the Brooklyn Bridge would be a place

1918
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:41,839
Speaker 2: for me. Okay, you know they're going to blow off eventually,

1919
01:21:41,920 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 2: like into the ocean.

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01:21:43,080 --> 01:21:43,760
Speaker 6: Okay, Oh my.

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01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 10: Gosh, how crazy is this. It says that the Haunted

1922
01:21:47,280 --> 01:21:51,519
Speaker 10: Mansion is one of the biggest destinations for scattering ashes.

1923
01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:52,280
Speaker 2: Wow.

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01:21:52,479 --> 01:21:53,680
Speaker 9: Yeah, that's fascinating.

1925
01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:57,080
Speaker 10: Wow. But there's a bunch of laws about scattering ashes.

1926
01:21:57,320 --> 01:21:58,599
Speaker 2: Their laws are rules.

1927
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,719
Speaker 10: I mean, there are surprising numbers of scattering ashes laws.

1928
01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:04,360
Speaker 10: Not to mention Disney World's own rules to make this

1929
01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:07,840
Speaker 10: a complicated choice. Really, there are state and federal laws

1930
01:22:07,840 --> 01:22:09,080
Speaker 10: for scattering ashes.

1931
01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:11,479
Speaker 7: I didn't know it was against the law to scatter ash.

1932
01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:14,880
Speaker 7: I mean if it's like a body that hasn't been cremated.

1933
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:15,479
Speaker 2: I see.

1934
01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 24: You take can you take food in the Haunted Mansion.

1935
01:22:21,000 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 24: I don't like popcorn? Like, if you buy popcorn, you

1936
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:25,080
Speaker 24: can put some ashes in the bottom of your popcorn,

1937
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:27,920
Speaker 24: accidentally spill your popcorn at the bottom, and then they'll

1938
01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:29,120
Speaker 24: never even know that you were spinning.

1939
01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:32,960
Speaker 7: I've never seen people eat popcorn in the Honda Mansion.

1940
01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:34,400
Speaker 24: I don't know.

1941
01:22:34,439 --> 01:22:37,720
Speaker 2: We have a lot of ideas, uh gandhi ashes.

1942
01:22:37,360 --> 01:22:39,639
Speaker 9: Where I have three places. I want to use part

1943
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:41,439
Speaker 9: of them to get turned into a tree. You know,

1944
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:44,920
Speaker 9: you can like plant them in a tree, absolutely part

1945
01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:48,200
Speaker 9: for a coral reef. And then I've told you this.

1946
01:22:48,280 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 9: I want to have a little bit sprinkled into the

1947
01:22:50,360 --> 01:22:52,559
Speaker 9: food of my enemies so that I can live inside

1948
01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:53,920
Speaker 9: them for just a short amount of time.

1949
01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:59,120
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'll give.

1950
01:22:58,960 --> 01:22:59,320
Speaker 9: You a list.

1951
01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:01,160
Speaker 10: Do we have a choice of like the urn we

1952
01:23:01,200 --> 01:23:04,200
Speaker 10: have because i'd like Madame Liota, like that's the like

1953
01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:06,439
Speaker 10: the you know, the the crystal ball in the haunted

1954
01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:08,280
Speaker 10: mansion and then a little draw on the bottom. You

1955
01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:09,000
Speaker 10: can just shove me up.

1956
01:23:09,280 --> 01:23:10,960
Speaker 2: You know, you can design whatever you want.

1957
01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 6: Daniel.

1958
01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:11,880
Speaker 10: Thanks.

1959
01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:15,360
Speaker 2: You know, don't don't limit don't limit yourself. Uh Nate.

1960
01:23:15,400 --> 01:23:17,160
Speaker 2: If you thought about it, where your ashes go, Well,

1961
01:23:17,200 --> 01:23:17,879
Speaker 2: it's they're.

1962
01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 14: Gonna go to all the places I didn't go on

1963
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:22,479
Speaker 14: this planet. And this is actually a business I wanted

1964
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 14: to start. Let me see if there's some viability here.

1965
01:23:25,680 --> 01:23:27,400
Speaker 14: I want to start a business where I take your

1966
01:23:27,439 --> 01:23:29,559
Speaker 14: ashes and if you want to be on like Mount

1967
01:23:29,600 --> 01:23:32,439
Speaker 14: Everest or on Antarctica, I take him there.

1968
01:23:32,880 --> 01:23:33,519
Speaker 6: How about that?

1969
01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 9: Like you personally takes or.

1970
01:23:36,160 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 14: Like I hire somebody and he travels and has a

1971
01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:41,759
Speaker 14: backpack full of ashes and he just scatters all people.

1972
01:23:42,120 --> 01:23:42,720
Speaker 10: The ash Man.

1973
01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:43,639
Speaker 2: He's the Ashman.

1974
01:23:43,840 --> 01:23:48,719
Speaker 24: The Ashman and ashes go everywhere and get it back together.

1975
01:23:49,200 --> 01:23:51,599
Speaker 9: It's a great idea, but I have a question. They're

1976
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 9: also like a weird rule about traveling with ashes. How

1977
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:57,719
Speaker 9: do they know how people have gotten stopped?

1978
01:23:57,760 --> 01:23:58,640
Speaker 2: Because they're not going to be.

1979
01:23:58,640 --> 01:24:00,760
Speaker 14: In one of those typical urn It'll be in like

1980
01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 14: a coffee.

1981
01:24:02,479 --> 01:24:04,800
Speaker 2: And by the way, ashes I don't know.

1982
01:24:05,400 --> 01:24:07,720
Speaker 7: I don't think they take the form of the same

1983
01:24:07,760 --> 01:24:10,120
Speaker 7: ashes you see in an ash tray like these. I

1984
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:12,639
Speaker 7: mean it's more of it is granular, it is sandy

1985
01:24:12,720 --> 01:24:15,439
Speaker 7: because because you're talking about bone fragment, you're talking about teeth.

1986
01:24:15,760 --> 01:24:18,599
Speaker 2: This is gross, but anyway.

1987
01:24:18,479 --> 01:24:20,559
Speaker 10: Crazy that that was once a person though, or a

1988
01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:22,799
Speaker 10: pet or whatever like oh my well.

1989
01:24:22,640 --> 01:24:24,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean you could burn you know, anything, and

1990
01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:26,719
Speaker 7: it turns into something.

1991
01:24:27,280 --> 01:24:28,799
Speaker 9: You can't travel with them, by the way.

1992
01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 2: You can't travel with ashes. Yeah, you check your ashes.

1993
01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:35,000
Speaker 10: You can't. You can't. I've been worried about checking my ashes.

1994
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:36,600
Speaker 10: I wouldn't want to take them as carry on.

1995
01:24:37,200 --> 01:24:38,160
Speaker 9: Got to do, got to check.

1996
01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 2: I think you can. I think you can carry those on.

1997
01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm not worried about I haven't thought about my ash thing.

1998
01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm.

1999
01:24:44,439 --> 01:24:46,960
Speaker 7: Sure Santa Fe, New Mexico is one place, but also

2000
01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:49,759
Speaker 7: maybe a nice beach in Turks and Caicos.

2001
01:24:50,840 --> 01:24:54,720
Speaker 2: N all right, I'm gonna think it through. These are

2002
01:24:54,760 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 2: the thing, These are the important things we must have.

2003
01:24:56,880 --> 01:24:57,800
Speaker 2: You got to write them down.

2004
01:24:58,760 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 7: If something happens today, we'd know where to take your ashes,

2005
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:04,679
Speaker 7: like if you, for instance, I have my my cat's

2006
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:06,080
Speaker 7: ashes upstairs.

2007
01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:08,160
Speaker 2: Never never spread them out anywhere. There's this here. Yeah,

2008
01:25:08,200 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 2: me too, And I'm thinking kitties like bored. She must

2009
01:25:10,520 --> 01:25:11,120
Speaker 2: have go somewhere.

2010
01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:13,799
Speaker 10: I'm with kitty on the bed sometimes in his favorite spot.

2011
01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:16,639
Speaker 10: Kitty needs to sit in his spots on his little box.

2012
01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:19,200
Speaker 10: I put on I.

2013
01:25:19,160 --> 01:25:21,640
Speaker 2: Got Lynn on line nineteen. Let's talk about it.

2014
01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:25,960
Speaker 7: Heye, Lynn, Even though it is, it's a morbid conversation.

2015
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:27,719
Speaker 7: Where do you want your ashes?

2016
01:25:28,920 --> 01:25:31,439
Speaker 19: I want my ashes flushed in the mall in the

2017
01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:34,559
Speaker 19: Tri State area or you know, any mall around here.

2018
01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:38,840
Speaker 10: But if they get flushed, then they go into the system.

2019
01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:39,960
Speaker 10: They don't stay in the mall.

2020
01:25:41,240 --> 01:25:41,720
Speaker 24: I don't care.

2021
01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:42,760
Speaker 2: I want to be in the mall.

2022
01:25:43,439 --> 01:25:49,720
Speaker 7: Okay, all right, yeah, there you go. You're going to

2023
01:25:49,760 --> 01:25:51,000
Speaker 7: dupe you off in the food court.

2024
01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:53,439
Speaker 23: Oh I love the food court.

2025
01:25:53,520 --> 01:25:55,920
Speaker 2: Yeah right there, right there next to Panda.

2026
01:25:56,320 --> 01:25:59,320
Speaker 10: You know, they give you the love pandas.

2027
01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:01,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, the bourbon and chicken samples. I love that. That's

2028
01:26:01,720 --> 01:26:04,559
Speaker 2: a perfect place my life. Yeah, there you go.

2029
01:26:04,760 --> 01:26:07,880
Speaker 7: All right, Dundal Lynn, get back to us and we'll

2030
01:26:07,880 --> 01:26:08,760
Speaker 7: come up with a plan for you.

2031
01:26:08,800 --> 01:26:09,080
Speaker 2: Okay.

2032
01:26:09,560 --> 01:26:11,880
Speaker 7: You know, it's kind of a weird question. Some people

2033
01:26:11,920 --> 01:26:15,280
Speaker 7: can't answer it because they don't have one answer. They

2034
01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:18,519
Speaker 7: have several answers. The question is what is your type?

2035
01:26:19,000 --> 01:26:20,679
Speaker 2: Oh for talking.

2036
01:26:20,560 --> 01:26:24,599
Speaker 7: About dating, marrying, having sex with whatever. What type are

2037
01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:28,040
Speaker 7: you attracted to? And it's not only physical, but also

2038
01:26:29,000 --> 01:26:32,639
Speaker 7: you know they're the way they act. They act, yes,

2039
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:35,080
Speaker 7: and they are. Have you ever thought about it? Have

2040
01:26:35,120 --> 01:26:37,760
Speaker 7: you ever categorized your type? You can actually look back

2041
01:26:38,160 --> 01:26:40,000
Speaker 7: at the history of the people you've dated over the

2042
01:26:40,040 --> 01:26:41,719
Speaker 7: years and you write, Wow, they.

2043
01:26:41,560 --> 01:26:44,400
Speaker 2: Do have this in common, can you?

2044
01:26:44,840 --> 01:26:45,360
Speaker 16: I don't know.

2045
01:26:46,840 --> 01:26:50,000
Speaker 9: Oh, They're so different, all of my exes to my

2046
01:26:50,080 --> 01:26:51,960
Speaker 9: current so different, each one of them. But I would

2047
01:26:52,000 --> 01:26:54,760
Speaker 9: say probably the common thread is there fun. I have

2048
01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:57,200
Speaker 9: a lot of fun with them, So maybe that's my type.

2049
01:26:57,400 --> 01:27:00,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, no, no, that's very fair. Absolutely, Danielle, did

2050
01:27:00,560 --> 01:27:01,240
Speaker 2: you have a type?

2051
01:27:01,360 --> 01:27:05,080
Speaker 10: I mean my like you know, my ex me for Shelton,

2052
01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:09,519
Speaker 10: they're so different. One was a wallflower and one is

2053
01:27:09,520 --> 01:27:12,880
Speaker 10: the total opposite. So I mean they both made me laugh.

2054
01:27:13,400 --> 01:27:14,920
Speaker 10: That's good. They both had brown hair.

2055
01:27:15,120 --> 01:27:17,960
Speaker 7: I don't know other than that, you know, I don't know,

2056
01:27:18,479 --> 01:27:20,240
Speaker 7: Froggy your type.

2057
01:27:20,960 --> 01:27:22,680
Speaker 24: I don't really know. I'm trying to think about that.

2058
01:27:22,720 --> 01:27:24,479
Speaker 24: I don't really know. I know you think I have

2059
01:27:24,520 --> 01:27:25,479
Speaker 24: a type, and you're wrong.

2060
01:27:30,040 --> 01:27:34,640
Speaker 7: That's very telling that you said that, because honestly, that's

2061
01:27:34,880 --> 01:27:37,000
Speaker 7: it's a type that you have, but you don't want

2062
01:27:37,040 --> 01:27:38,080
Speaker 7: anyone to know you have it.

2063
01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:40,240
Speaker 24: No, But I mean like I don't really know.

2064
01:27:40,280 --> 01:27:40,479
Speaker 2: I do.

2065
01:27:40,600 --> 01:27:43,519
Speaker 24: I know for some reason, I do like darker I

2066
01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:44,360
Speaker 24: like darker hair.

2067
01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:46,880
Speaker 7: I don't know that darker hair. He always you like

2068
01:27:46,920 --> 01:27:49,639
Speaker 7: the beautiful women with they have that line for an eyebrow.

2069
01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:50,519
Speaker 7: They don't have eyebrows.

2070
01:27:51,200 --> 01:27:53,479
Speaker 10: Lisa doesn't have that, doesn't have that.

2071
01:27:53,720 --> 01:27:55,000
Speaker 2: No, no, she doesn't have.

2072
01:27:55,560 --> 01:27:57,760
Speaker 7: So you you finally came to your senses and found

2073
01:27:58,040 --> 01:27:59,600
Speaker 7: a great woman who has eyebrows.

2074
01:28:00,000 --> 01:28:01,559
Speaker 24: Okay, let's move on to somebody else.

2075
01:28:05,080 --> 01:28:05,880
Speaker 2: Interesting. Yeah.

2076
01:28:05,920 --> 01:28:09,920
Speaker 7: My type obviously is Italian, you know, from Staten Island,

2077
01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:15,080
Speaker 7: and I'm married one. You know, I grew up I

2078
01:28:15,080 --> 01:28:16,920
Speaker 7: didn't have that growing up there. I had no Staten

2079
01:28:16,920 --> 01:28:18,000
Speaker 7: Island Italians growing up.

2080
01:28:18,040 --> 01:28:19,519
Speaker 2: So when I moved to New York, I'm like, Wow,

2081
01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:23,160
Speaker 2: there's something about this island that's going on. I don't

2082
01:28:23,160 --> 01:28:25,200
Speaker 2: know what about you, Nate, what's your type?

2083
01:28:25,439 --> 01:28:26,040
Speaker 10: I have?

2084
01:28:26,200 --> 01:28:29,479
Speaker 14: Typically, thinking back on long term girlfriends, they've typically been shorter,

2085
01:28:29,720 --> 01:28:32,360
Speaker 14: like right around five feet tall.

2086
01:28:32,479 --> 01:28:35,679
Speaker 2: I would say, okay, because you cut their heads off.

2087
01:28:38,000 --> 01:28:40,800
Speaker 14: Come on, I think a lot of their features are

2088
01:28:40,840 --> 01:28:43,200
Speaker 14: smaller because it makes me look bigger in.

2089
01:28:43,200 --> 01:28:51,000
Speaker 34: Comparible, that make me look hot, I'm right, So I

2090
01:28:51,080 --> 01:28:54,480
Speaker 34: got to try and be somewhat larger inspective.

2091
01:28:54,880 --> 01:28:57,559
Speaker 24: Right right around the tree, the tree looks bigger.

2092
01:29:00,280 --> 01:29:01,840
Speaker 2: You gotta turn your mic on. Scary, I can't hear you.

2093
01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:02,160
Speaker 7: No.

2094
01:29:02,520 --> 01:29:05,000
Speaker 15: I always went for domineering women in the past, who

2095
01:29:05,040 --> 01:29:07,720
Speaker 15: would actually put me in my place, like kind of

2096
01:29:07,760 --> 01:29:10,720
Speaker 15: spar with me until my comment. And I feel like

2097
01:29:10,760 --> 01:29:13,320
Speaker 15: I'm happier this way where we're equal, you know. It's

2098
01:29:13,439 --> 01:29:15,799
Speaker 15: it's kind of like a give and take part.

2099
01:29:15,640 --> 01:29:16,440
Speaker 2: Of this relationship.

2100
01:29:16,479 --> 01:29:18,479
Speaker 15: I don't know, right, but in the past I always

2101
01:29:18,760 --> 01:29:20,840
Speaker 15: women who used me like a doormat was something that

2102
01:29:20,880 --> 01:29:23,759
Speaker 15: I would gravitate toward, but to no avail.

2103
01:29:25,120 --> 01:29:27,439
Speaker 10: And the sasquatch look you liked for a little while,

2104
01:29:28,240 --> 01:29:30,240
Speaker 10: but the moment she.

2105
01:29:30,360 --> 01:29:32,680
Speaker 7: Was definitely just putting him in his place, and she

2106
01:29:32,920 --> 01:29:36,839
Speaker 7: just so happened she had like huge feet anyway, So.

2107
01:29:39,040 --> 01:29:39,360
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2108
01:29:39,600 --> 01:29:42,240
Speaker 7: It was an interesting exercise for several friends of mine

2109
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 7: who were talking about this. It's just you think back

2110
01:29:45,400 --> 01:29:47,960
Speaker 7: over the list of people you've dated, and it takes

2111
01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:51,120
Speaker 7: you admitting to yourself, Oh my god, they all did

2112
01:29:51,160 --> 01:29:51,719
Speaker 7: have this.

2113
01:29:51,600 --> 01:29:52,439
Speaker 2: Thing in common.

2114
01:29:52,800 --> 01:29:53,160
Speaker 10: Yeah.

2115
01:29:53,200 --> 01:29:57,800
Speaker 7: Whoa interesting how you gravitated toward that without even knowing it.

2116
01:29:58,240 --> 01:30:00,799
Speaker 7: It's kind of a funny, interesting exercise to heavy yourself.

2117
01:30:00,800 --> 01:30:02,000
Speaker 7: Heather is Online twenty.

2118
01:30:01,720 --> 01:30:07,800
Speaker 2: Four Hi Heather, good morning, Good morning. I'm glad you're

2119
01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:09,240
Speaker 2: listening today. I got a question for you.

2120
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:11,679
Speaker 7: Looking back, and I'm not saying you've dated a lot,

2121
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:14,439
Speaker 7: but looking back at the people you have dated, did

2122
01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:16,599
Speaker 7: they have something in common? And it kind of freaks

2123
01:30:16,600 --> 01:30:17,960
Speaker 7: you out when you figured it out.

2124
01:30:19,360 --> 01:30:22,720
Speaker 25: All of my exes looked exactly like my dad did

2125
01:30:22,760 --> 01:30:23,799
Speaker 25: in his late thirties.

2126
01:30:24,160 --> 01:30:28,519
Speaker 12: Yoh wow, And I have dated a lot.

2127
01:30:28,880 --> 01:30:31,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, but I mean, did you actually stop and

2128
01:30:31,680 --> 01:30:33,160
Speaker 7: go why, oh my god?

2129
01:30:33,439 --> 01:30:35,800
Speaker 2: Why did I not see this before? It's interesting.

2130
01:30:37,320 --> 01:30:40,000
Speaker 25: After a lot of therapy, I did figure out what.

2131
01:30:40,720 --> 01:30:43,360
Speaker 25: But it was actually my best friend who brought it

2132
01:30:43,439 --> 01:30:46,240
Speaker 25: up to me, and uh so we've been friends since

2133
01:30:46,240 --> 01:30:48,320
Speaker 25: I was in mine, right, And she was like, you

2134
01:30:48,400 --> 01:30:50,120
Speaker 25: have a type and I was like, no, I don't

2135
01:30:50,120 --> 01:30:52,680
Speaker 25: want She was like, Heather, they all looked just like

2136
01:30:52,720 --> 01:30:53,160
Speaker 25: your dad.

2137
01:30:53,680 --> 01:30:56,240
Speaker 2: Like oh, oh, I know, But I mean at the

2138
01:30:56,320 --> 01:30:57,840
Speaker 2: end of the day, Heather, just because they look like

2139
01:30:57,880 --> 01:30:58,280
Speaker 2: your dad.

2140
01:30:58,360 --> 01:31:02,360
Speaker 7: They're not your dad, so you're okay, say you're good.

2141
01:31:02,920 --> 01:31:06,400
Speaker 25: My dad I've been told was you know, very attractive of.

2142
01:31:06,360 --> 01:31:12,040
Speaker 2: Course, and it's interesting. So you kind of you sort

2143
01:31:12,080 --> 01:31:13,160
Speaker 2: of unearthed something.

2144
01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:16,680
Speaker 7: So once anyone and everyone figures out that type that

2145
01:31:16,680 --> 01:31:19,000
Speaker 7: they've been dating and all that they had in common,

2146
01:31:19,439 --> 01:31:22,719
Speaker 7: now you wonder why you gravitated toward that. And that's

2147
01:31:22,760 --> 01:31:24,680
Speaker 7: what you said you found out in therapy and it's

2148
01:31:24,720 --> 01:31:28,160
Speaker 7: none of our business, but it's interesting. So it makes

2149
01:31:28,200 --> 01:31:31,360
Speaker 7: me wonder why am I attracted to these these Italian

2150
01:31:31,520 --> 01:31:34,720
Speaker 7: uh you know, guys from Staten Island. Obviously they have

2151
01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:37,640
Speaker 7: something that I needed in my life. Or maybe I

2152
01:31:37,680 --> 01:31:40,559
Speaker 7: don't need. That's dangerous and I don't know, so then

2153
01:31:40,760 --> 01:31:43,120
Speaker 7: we start overthinking it and then we drive ourselves nuts,

2154
01:31:43,760 --> 01:31:45,160
Speaker 7: you know, I don't know.

2155
01:31:45,640 --> 01:31:47,760
Speaker 2: Well, look, Heather, I hope you're happy in life. Now

2156
01:31:47,760 --> 01:31:48,400
Speaker 2: you doing okay?

2157
01:31:49,439 --> 01:31:50,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's great.

2158
01:31:50,720 --> 01:31:52,519
Speaker 25: I love it all right, Thank you for talking to

2159
01:31:52,520 --> 01:31:53,800
Speaker 25: you guys that listen every morning.

2160
01:31:54,040 --> 01:31:56,200
Speaker 7: Well, thank you, thank you very much, and have a

2161
01:31:56,200 --> 01:32:01,040
Speaker 7: great day. Thanks for calling in Katie on line twenty three. Uh, Katie,

2162
01:32:01,120 --> 01:32:02,720
Speaker 7: did you figure out with all the guys you date,

2163
01:32:02,760 --> 01:32:03,920
Speaker 7: they all have something in common.

2164
01:32:05,080 --> 01:32:08,200
Speaker 20: Oh yeah, I apparently have a thing for gingers. I

2165
01:32:08,280 --> 01:32:09,439
Speaker 20: love a ginger.

2166
01:32:10,080 --> 01:32:10,960
Speaker 6: Now did you know this?

2167
01:32:11,040 --> 01:32:13,600
Speaker 7: I mean you probably already knew this. This is not

2168
01:32:13,680 --> 01:32:14,160
Speaker 7: a surprise.

2169
01:32:15,479 --> 01:32:18,320
Speaker 20: No, No, I've dated several gingers and like, just out

2170
01:32:18,360 --> 01:32:22,719
Speaker 20: in public, I'll see you and walk by and I'm like, oh, hey,

2171
01:32:23,200 --> 01:32:23,600
Speaker 20: good for you.

2172
01:32:24,400 --> 01:32:25,080
Speaker 5: To explain it.

2173
01:32:25,240 --> 01:32:27,040
Speaker 20: Maybe it's the whole not having a soul thing.

2174
01:32:27,200 --> 01:32:30,600
Speaker 29: I don't know, but I love it.

2175
01:32:31,800 --> 01:32:34,080
Speaker 2: They have a soul though, Prove it, Prove it?

2176
01:32:34,720 --> 01:32:35,639
Speaker 10: Oh my gosh.

2177
01:32:35,680 --> 01:32:37,680
Speaker 20: I mean from my period it's not so much, but

2178
01:32:37,960 --> 01:32:39,559
Speaker 20: you know, I feel they're my thing.

2179
01:32:39,880 --> 01:32:41,880
Speaker 7: Well look, you know, no matter what hair color, you

2180
01:32:41,880 --> 01:32:44,760
Speaker 7: can find some soul as people out there. But you so,

2181
01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:47,559
Speaker 7: did you ever really stop and go, Okay, maybe it's

2182
01:32:47,560 --> 01:32:48,479
Speaker 7: just an attraction thing.

2183
01:32:48,520 --> 01:32:54,120
Speaker 2: It's not it goes no deeper than that, right, Well, yeah.

2184
01:32:53,920 --> 01:32:56,200
Speaker 20: It's definitely an attraction thing. But I feel like the

2185
01:32:56,560 --> 01:32:58,760
Speaker 20: ones I did at least, you know, we're also kind

2186
01:32:58,760 --> 01:33:02,360
Speaker 20: of like Lumberjack, big and bird. That's kind of my thing.

2187
01:33:02,400 --> 01:33:03,120
Speaker 5: And it's more of like.

2188
01:33:03,080 --> 01:33:04,920
Speaker 20: A country boy thing than I like, So I think

2189
01:33:05,040 --> 01:33:06,479
Speaker 20: it has that in common as well.

2190
01:33:06,680 --> 01:33:08,760
Speaker 7: Okay, so now you don't have to do it here

2191
01:33:08,920 --> 01:33:10,479
Speaker 7: or you don't have to process it live in front

2192
01:33:10,520 --> 01:33:13,400
Speaker 7: of ten million people. But once you stop and think

2193
01:33:13,479 --> 01:33:18,200
Speaker 7: you like a ginger, burly lumberjack guy, do you ever

2194
01:33:18,240 --> 01:33:21,000
Speaker 7: wonder why, like why that's the type.

2195
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:21,200
Speaker 2: That you like.

2196
01:33:22,760 --> 01:33:25,040
Speaker 20: I don't really know the ginger part, but I know,

2197
01:33:25,160 --> 01:33:28,160
Speaker 20: like i'm more fatigue. I'm you know, I'm five to one,

2198
01:33:28,560 --> 01:33:30,479
Speaker 20: So I think I like having a bigger guy because

2199
01:33:30,520 --> 01:33:31,519
Speaker 20: it makes me feel safe.

2200
01:33:31,800 --> 01:33:35,679
Speaker 7: Yeap, okay, I like that. I mean it's easy to define.

2201
01:33:35,720 --> 01:33:38,959
Speaker 7: All right, excellent, Thank you, Katie, You and attention all gingers.

2202
01:33:39,080 --> 01:33:41,080
Speaker 2: She thinks you're soulless.

2203
01:33:41,320 --> 01:33:43,760
Speaker 20: And well I'm so single, so there's that.

2204
01:33:44,640 --> 01:33:48,360
Speaker 5: Okay, there's nothing being single is.

2205
01:33:48,479 --> 01:33:50,720
Speaker 7: It's perfectly fine and you know that you're good there.

2206
01:33:50,840 --> 01:33:54,080
Speaker 7: All right, Katie, thank you for listening. Have a good day.

2207
01:33:54,160 --> 01:33:54,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2208
01:33:54,400 --> 01:33:57,280
Speaker 7: Maybe I'm overanalyzing. Is it really bad to overanalyze like

2209
01:33:57,320 --> 01:33:58,880
Speaker 7: why you choose the people you choose?

2210
01:33:59,280 --> 01:33:59,920
Speaker 2: Or is it good? Now?

2211
01:34:00,360 --> 01:34:02,400
Speaker 9: I think it's important to do that. You learn about

2212
01:34:02,439 --> 01:34:04,240
Speaker 9: yourself and then you learn about other people. You can

2213
01:34:04,320 --> 01:34:07,080
Speaker 9: learn some of the red flags maybe that you find

2214
01:34:07,320 --> 01:34:09,720
Speaker 9: unintentionally that then ruin the relationship.

2215
01:34:09,760 --> 01:34:12,160
Speaker 10: I think it's important and also especially if you're attracted

2216
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:14,320
Speaker 10: to like the same type that keeps hurting you or

2217
01:34:14,360 --> 01:34:16,720
Speaker 10: it's not a good person, it's good to know, you know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, Why am I attracted to the person who

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Speaker 7: always hurts me?

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Speaker 1: Elvis da Ran in the Morning Show. Listen to Elvis

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Speaker 1: Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Come on, let's tell Grandma stories. I love Grandma, you know,

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01:35:12,040 --> 01:35:12,680
Speaker 2: I will tell you.

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01:35:12,560 --> 01:35:14,880
Speaker 7: You know, doing this show for twenty five years, every

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01:35:14,880 --> 01:35:18,120
Speaker 7: time we've talked about Grandma's for some reason, it's fun.

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01:35:18,680 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 7: I like, we remember the time we talked about Grandma's

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01:35:21,320 --> 01:35:23,880
Speaker 7: whose boobs always popped out, Oh yeah, yeah.

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01:35:24,200 --> 01:35:29,599
Speaker 2: Or grandma's who were popular in the neighborhood we had.

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Speaker 7: I remember we had a listener call once and said, look,

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Speaker 7: I love my grandmother, I love her so much, but

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01:35:33,920 --> 01:35:38,160
Speaker 7: we've recently found out that grandma was she loved to

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01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:41,240
Speaker 7: date lots and lots and lots of men, like lots

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01:35:41,240 --> 01:35:43,280
Speaker 7: of men. And I said, well, look, we don't want

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01:35:43,280 --> 01:35:45,720
Speaker 7: to slut shame grandma. That's the last thing we want

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01:35:45,760 --> 01:35:48,240
Speaker 7: to do. There's nothing wrong with dating lots of men.

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01:35:48,360 --> 01:35:50,880
Speaker 7: I mean, who you know, I've dated lots of men.

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01:35:50,960 --> 01:35:53,200
Speaker 2: I'm not a slut. You know what I'm saying. I

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01:35:53,200 --> 01:35:56,080
Speaker 2: don't know anymore now stop it.

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Speaker 7: No, but keep in mind grandma's You know, they have

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01:35:59,720 --> 01:36:03,160
Speaker 7: years and years to accrue mileage, if you know what

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01:36:03,200 --> 01:36:07,719
Speaker 7: I'm saying. Or what about the grandmother who set herself

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01:36:07,720 --> 01:36:09,920
Speaker 7: on fire? We actually brought that up one day. Tell

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01:36:10,000 --> 01:36:12,519
Speaker 7: us how your grandmother set herself on fire? Oh my goodness,

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01:36:12,680 --> 01:36:16,000
Speaker 7: it was Gandhi it was dozens of people responded, yeah, Grandma,

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01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:18,840
Speaker 7: it usually is a wig.

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01:36:18,640 --> 01:36:19,360
Speaker 2: Thing, you know.

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01:36:19,479 --> 01:36:22,040
Speaker 9: Ah, okay, okay. I was thinking a different type of

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01:36:22,040 --> 01:36:23,840
Speaker 9: set themselves on fire like a protest.

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01:36:24,280 --> 01:36:29,800
Speaker 7: No, no, no, your grandmother was kind of famous in

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01:36:29,800 --> 01:36:31,280
Speaker 7: the neighborhood, right, Yes.

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01:36:31,200 --> 01:36:34,400
Speaker 9: My grandmother was apparently the one who struck the fear

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01:36:34,400 --> 01:36:36,160
Speaker 9: of God into a lot of the men around there,

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01:36:36,200 --> 01:36:39,559
Speaker 9: because she was one of the pioneers of planned parenting

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01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:42,800
Speaker 9: or plan sorry, planned parenthood in India. So she was

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01:36:42,840 --> 01:36:45,840
Speaker 9: responsible for going house to house and giving people vasectomies

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01:36:45,840 --> 01:36:47,519
Speaker 9: and they hated her for it.

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01:36:47,600 --> 01:36:48,840
Speaker 10: Oh my gosh.

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01:36:48,880 --> 01:36:51,320
Speaker 7: So if anyone saw your grandma walk into the front door,

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01:36:51,560 --> 01:36:54,439
Speaker 7: she was about to like rip out their vez devrns

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01:36:54,479 --> 01:36:55,880
Speaker 7: or whatever they call it, tube.

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01:36:56,120 --> 01:36:59,720
Speaker 9: A snipping so yeah, snipping, so snip snip.

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01:37:00,920 --> 01:37:02,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, here she comes, and.

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01:37:02,800 --> 01:37:05,000
Speaker 9: My Grandma's like, you have seventeen kids, you don't need

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01:37:05,080 --> 01:37:07,520
Speaker 9: this thing anymore. What is going on? Let's have a conversation.

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01:37:07,880 --> 01:37:08,720
Speaker 9: Oh they hated her?

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01:37:09,320 --> 01:37:09,599
Speaker 16: Wow.

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01:37:11,000 --> 01:37:14,040
Speaker 7: Feel free to text textas. I just want to read

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01:37:14,080 --> 01:37:17,200
Speaker 7: your responses, like something great about your grandmother. It doesn't

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01:37:17,200 --> 01:37:19,720
Speaker 7: have to be something about her catching her hair on

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01:37:19,840 --> 01:37:23,600
Speaker 7: fire or slicing you know below this Grona Maria and

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01:37:23,880 --> 01:37:24,679
Speaker 7: all the guys of India.

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01:37:25,200 --> 01:37:28,320
Speaker 10: Do you remember Henry Bendall in the city, the big store. Yeah,

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01:37:28,479 --> 01:37:30,920
Speaker 10: my grandmother was a seamstress for them back in the

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01:37:31,040 --> 01:37:34,000
Speaker 10: day when they all kicked it off. Yeah, she's got

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01:37:34,040 --> 01:37:34,920
Speaker 10: a really cool job.

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01:37:35,080 --> 01:37:37,760
Speaker 2: That's so cool. Yeah, I love that. Did she also

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01:37:37,840 --> 01:37:38,280
Speaker 2: get around?

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01:37:38,760 --> 01:37:39,000
Speaker 11: She did?

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01:37:39,080 --> 01:37:43,040
Speaker 10: I don't think so, Okayne.

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01:37:43,160 --> 01:37:43,400
Speaker 11: Five?

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01:37:44,400 --> 01:37:47,760
Speaker 2: I got John online five real quick. Hey John, good

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01:37:47,840 --> 01:37:50,760
Speaker 2: morning morning. So I said something that hit a nerve

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01:37:50,840 --> 01:37:52,360
Speaker 2: with you and your family. What was that, John?

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01:37:53,439 --> 01:37:55,639
Speaker 22: Yes, When I was younger, my granny had a friend

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01:37:55,720 --> 01:37:58,840
Speaker 22: who went through chemotherapy, and so she started to wear

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01:37:58,920 --> 01:38:01,519
Speaker 22: wigs with her friend, just to support her. But my

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01:38:01,720 --> 01:38:04,639
Speaker 22: poor granny didn't know that you couldn't use curling irons

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01:38:04,720 --> 01:38:06,360
Speaker 22: on wigs. And she set her wig on fire.

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01:38:06,680 --> 01:38:11,559
Speaker 2: Oh she's okay, right, She didn't get any burns or anything,

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01:38:11,600 --> 01:38:11,800
Speaker 2: did she?

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Speaker 16: Oh?

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01:38:12,479 --> 01:38:14,559
Speaker 22: Yeah, No, it was on like a little wig ahead thing.

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01:38:14,640 --> 01:38:17,040
Speaker 22: She was styling and getting it ready, and she said, she,

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01:38:17,240 --> 01:38:18,720
Speaker 22: I guess she just held it on there too long,

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01:38:18,720 --> 01:38:20,000
Speaker 22: and all of a sudden it started smoking.

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01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:23,400
Speaker 7: And then with the wigs, John, you should see these

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01:38:23,400 --> 01:38:26,880
Speaker 7: text messages. Here's when my grandma brought powdered sugar with

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01:38:26,960 --> 01:38:30,519
Speaker 7: her through TSA. You know, only grandmothers travel with powdered sugar.

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01:38:30,800 --> 01:38:33,160
Speaker 7: Oh no, And they thought Grandma was doing cocaine and

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01:38:33,200 --> 01:38:36,200
Speaker 7: they pulled. They pulled her aside. I thought Grandma had

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01:38:36,240 --> 01:38:45,160
Speaker 7: cocaine in a box. It's horrible my grandma. Oh my god,

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01:38:45,200 --> 01:38:47,960
Speaker 7: they're coming in leaps and bounds. My grandma was so

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01:38:48,080 --> 01:38:51,360
Speaker 7: mad at my dad that she told him to drop dead.

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01:38:52,320 --> 01:38:54,960
Speaker 7: Because grandma's they can say anything to get away with it.

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01:38:55,120 --> 01:38:58,760
Speaker 7: Oh yea, my grandma makes the best eggplant palm. I

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01:38:58,840 --> 01:39:00,880
Speaker 7: did CrossFit with my grandma last night.

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01:39:01,280 --> 01:39:02,240
Speaker 10: Oh that's awesome.

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01:39:03,800 --> 01:39:04,200
Speaker 2: I love it.

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01:39:04,320 --> 01:39:06,040
Speaker 7: Hey, listen, John, thanks for listening. You go have a

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01:39:06,120 --> 01:39:08,120
Speaker 7: great day, and God bless your grandma.

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01:39:09,160 --> 01:39:09,840
Speaker 28: Thanks you guys.

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01:39:09,920 --> 01:39:12,680
Speaker 2: To take it easy. George on line twenty four.

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01:39:14,360 --> 01:39:17,160
Speaker 24: George, Hey, how are y'all?

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01:39:17,680 --> 01:39:20,559
Speaker 2: We're doing great? Man, tell me about what your grandma

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01:39:20,680 --> 01:39:21,840
Speaker 2: did in the parking lot.

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Speaker 26: So my grandma beat up some lady in the parking lot.

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01:39:26,920 --> 01:39:30,760
Speaker 7: Now why did okay, why did your grandma and some

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01:39:30,920 --> 01:39:32,599
Speaker 7: old other lady get into a fight in the parking

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01:39:32,640 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 7: lot And why did your grandma whoop her ass?

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01:39:36,160 --> 01:39:39,880
Speaker 26: Because the other lady was talking smack about my cousin

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01:39:40,080 --> 01:39:43,280
Speaker 26: and my grandma was not having that, and so she

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01:39:43,439 --> 01:39:45,000
Speaker 26: called up and said, you can meet me in the

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01:39:45,040 --> 01:39:47,400
Speaker 26: grocery store parking lot. And she did and she whooked

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01:39:47,439 --> 01:39:47,840
Speaker 26: her behind.

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01:39:50,640 --> 01:39:52,479
Speaker 2: Yes, my god, oh my god.

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01:39:52,600 --> 01:39:55,400
Speaker 7: Look, we don't condone violence, but it's it's you know

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01:39:55,479 --> 01:39:56,799
Speaker 7: what's don't mess with grandma.

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01:39:56,960 --> 01:39:58,160
Speaker 2: She's gonna kick your ass.

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01:39:58,880 --> 01:40:00,880
Speaker 9: Love that never show up up in the parking lot

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01:40:00,920 --> 01:40:02,880
Speaker 9: when you get the invite. That is a terrible plan.

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01:40:03,040 --> 01:40:05,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's a good plan, especially if it's George g

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01:40:05,479 --> 01:40:08,160
Speaker 7: George's grandma. Hey George, thank you man, thanks for listening

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01:40:08,200 --> 01:40:10,240
Speaker 7: to us today. And it's it's great hearing about your grandma.

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01:40:11,200 --> 01:40:11,680
Speaker 26: Thank y'all.

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01:40:12,840 --> 01:40:14,599
Speaker 2: You take it easy, okay, I love.

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01:40:14,680 --> 01:40:16,720
Speaker 7: A lot of these texts are saying these wonderful things

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01:40:16,760 --> 01:40:19,400
Speaker 7: about their grandma's. Grandma would always bring her own chicken

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01:40:19,439 --> 01:40:20,519
Speaker 7: cutlet to the restaurant.

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01:40:21,320 --> 01:40:24,000
Speaker 2: Yes, she bring your own chicken.

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01:40:24,400 --> 01:40:25,240
Speaker 24: So how do you do that?

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01:40:25,600 --> 01:40:26,880
Speaker 2: She just cooked it up and said, you know what,

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01:40:26,960 --> 01:40:28,800
Speaker 2: I prefer mine. I'm gonna sit here and you're gonna

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01:40:28,840 --> 01:40:33,839
Speaker 2: do something with They.

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01:40:31,720 --> 01:40:34,080
Speaker 10: Did take salad dressings and stuff out of their purse

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01:40:34,160 --> 01:40:34,639
Speaker 10: all the time.

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01:40:35,000 --> 01:40:36,439
Speaker 9: I put my stuff into that person.

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01:40:36,840 --> 01:40:39,240
Speaker 7: Of course, this texture says my grandmother could kill a

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01:40:39,320 --> 01:40:41,920
Speaker 7: chicken by tapping it on its head. It would freeze,

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01:40:41,920 --> 01:40:43,280
Speaker 7: and she would grab it by the neck and just

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01:40:43,320 --> 01:40:47,080
Speaker 7: twist it in circles. Oh, dear God, Grandma's I know,

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01:40:47,200 --> 01:40:50,000
Speaker 7: but they would make fresh chicken from those chickens. My

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01:40:50,080 --> 01:40:52,120
Speaker 7: grandma used to hit us with her cane every time

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01:40:52,160 --> 01:40:54,160
Speaker 7: we cursed, and she made us put a dollar in

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01:40:54,240 --> 01:40:54,519
Speaker 7: a jar.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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01:40:56,240 --> 01:40:59,200
Speaker 7: My grandma always used to drop food down her shirt,

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01:40:59,200 --> 01:41:01,519
Speaker 7: and she would always say that her boobs were hungry.

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01:41:02,960 --> 01:41:06,880
Speaker 9: Sounds like a grandma in the same nine froggie as

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01:41:06,920 --> 01:41:09,360
Speaker 9: a grandma, like nine as Jen does.

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01:41:09,760 --> 01:41:14,200
Speaker 2: Hey, Jen, Hi, how are you? We're doing very well.

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01:41:14,320 --> 01:41:15,400
Speaker 2: Tell us about your grandma.

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01:41:16,479 --> 01:41:19,439
Speaker 35: So I actually I'm a speech therapist. I lived with

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01:41:19,560 --> 01:41:23,240
Speaker 35: her for the last year during COVID. She passed away

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01:41:23,400 --> 01:41:26,200
Speaker 35: three weeks out of her ninety ninth birthday. Oh wow,

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01:41:26,439 --> 01:41:29,200
Speaker 35: but she lived the best life and when she was

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01:41:29,280 --> 01:41:32,120
Speaker 35: eighty we actually just were sharing this story at her week.

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01:41:32,760 --> 01:41:35,639
Speaker 35: She was living in Yonkers and her neighbor's house got

2379
01:41:35,760 --> 01:41:40,559
Speaker 35: robbed and she ran down the street after the robber screaming, can.

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01:41:40,560 --> 01:41:41,479
Speaker 5: You get over here.

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01:41:42,520 --> 01:41:45,599
Speaker 27: They really looked him at the time, but then they

2382
01:41:45,720 --> 01:41:47,200
Speaker 27: found him robbing another.

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01:41:47,000 --> 01:41:50,360
Speaker 35: House a couple of days later, and they showed her

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01:41:50,680 --> 01:41:53,200
Speaker 35: his headshot to her and she identified him and they.

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01:41:56,400 --> 01:41:57,360
Speaker 2: God rest her soul.

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01:41:57,560 --> 01:41:58,000
Speaker 24: I love that.

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01:41:58,520 --> 01:41:58,720
Speaker 25: Yeah.

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01:41:59,160 --> 01:41:59,360
Speaker 22: Yeah.

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01:42:00,400 --> 01:42:01,759
Speaker 5: Making chocolate chip cookies.

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01:42:01,840 --> 01:42:04,960
Speaker 35: She counted eight chips for every cookie, so making chocolate

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01:42:05,040 --> 01:42:07,040
Speaker 35: chip cookies was like a four hour activity.

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01:42:08,960 --> 01:42:11,240
Speaker 7: Grandma's are allowed to do it because they had a

2393
01:42:11,320 --> 01:42:14,280
Speaker 7: lot of time and they Hey, thanks, Jen, thanks a lot.

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01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:17,120
Speaker 2: I appreciate that story. Of course, have a good one

2395
01:42:17,360 --> 01:42:17,640
Speaker 2: you too.

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01:42:17,720 --> 01:42:20,360
Speaker 7: Another text, a Rottwiler bit my grandma and she bit

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01:42:20,400 --> 01:42:23,200
Speaker 7: it back and got arrested for animals.

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01:42:23,720 --> 01:42:24,040
Speaker 30: Damn.

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01:42:25,800 --> 01:42:27,960
Speaker 7: My grandma would make food I didn't like to eat

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01:42:28,000 --> 01:42:30,000
Speaker 7: for lunch. She would tell me that I can just

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01:42:30,080 --> 01:42:35,479
Speaker 7: go eat crap and die. Here's one grandma that always

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01:42:35,479 --> 01:42:37,360
Speaker 7: had holy water with her, so if someone pissed her off,

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01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:38,519
Speaker 7: she sprinkled it on them.

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01:42:38,560 --> 01:42:41,680
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yeah, scary, it's great. My grandma was

2405
01:42:41,760 --> 01:42:44,280
Speaker 2: more of a fiction's bar stealer, where she would take

2406
01:42:44,280 --> 01:42:47,280
Speaker 2: home the pickle chips. She was like a savor of everything.

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01:42:47,400 --> 01:42:49,680
Speaker 6: She would take aluminum foil and hang it out on

2408
01:42:49,800 --> 01:42:51,280
Speaker 6: the wash line to reuse it.

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01:42:52,280 --> 01:42:55,400
Speaker 10: My grandmother would sew her pantyhose, like if you got

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01:42:55,479 --> 01:42:57,479
Speaker 10: to run in your pantyhose. Instead of going to buy

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01:42:57,479 --> 01:42:59,800
Speaker 10: a new pair of pantios, she would sew it up

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01:43:00,400 --> 01:43:03,000
Speaker 10: and save it somehow. My mother's like, what are you doing.

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01:43:04,320 --> 01:43:07,160
Speaker 2: These texts? My grandma had weed growing in her front yard.

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01:43:07,720 --> 01:43:10,160
Speaker 7: Yes, Grandma, my grandma when she was alive, she would

2415
01:43:10,200 --> 01:43:12,080
Speaker 7: curse at you in Spanish if you said anything bad

2416
01:43:12,120 --> 01:43:16,840
Speaker 7: about her baseball team, the Yankees. I mean, the list

2417
01:43:17,200 --> 01:43:19,559
Speaker 7: goes on and on. My grandma gets into fistfights over

2418
01:43:19,680 --> 01:43:25,200
Speaker 7: men in the nursing home. Oh my god, my grandma

2419
01:43:25,200 --> 01:43:28,639
Speaker 7: always farts when she's walking and blames the floorboards.

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01:43:28,120 --> 01:43:32,759
Speaker 2: Thanks to Grandma. Finally we talked to Tile, Yeah, exactly. Oops.

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01:43:33,680 --> 01:43:38,840
Speaker 2: We finally we talked to Grace. Hey, Grace, Hi, good morning,

2422
01:43:39,600 --> 01:43:41,160
Speaker 2: good morning. Tell us about your grandma.

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01:43:42,080 --> 01:43:46,360
Speaker 12: So my grandmother was a typical, strict, very old school

2424
01:43:46,400 --> 01:43:50,280
Speaker 12: grandma and she would sit with a machete outside the

2425
01:43:50,400 --> 01:43:54,320
Speaker 12: house while my sister and I would ride bike, and anyone,

2426
01:43:54,320 --> 01:43:56,120
Speaker 12: anyone that would come close to us, she would just

2427
01:43:56,200 --> 01:43:59,120
Speaker 12: grab out the machete. And you know, my grandma was

2428
01:43:59,200 --> 01:44:01,000
Speaker 12: hispanic that away.

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01:44:03,200 --> 01:44:05,840
Speaker 2: She would come come at them with a machete.

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01:44:07,880 --> 01:44:10,720
Speaker 35: You know what, I gotta be honest, out with a machete.

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01:44:10,400 --> 01:44:11,160
Speaker 2: Ye, Grace.

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01:44:11,240 --> 01:44:13,519
Speaker 7: I would take your grandma very seriously at that point.

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Speaker 7: No problem, Hey, listen. Thanks for listening to us.

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Speaker 2: Grace.

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Speaker 7: I hope you have a really great day today. Don't

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Speaker 7: let anyone mess with you. If not, Grandma's a machete

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01:44:20,360 --> 01:44:20,920
Speaker 7: is waiting for him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, you two guys, if you love the

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01:44:26,000 --> 01:44:28,840
Speaker 1: Morning Show, it's a good idea to follow our socials.

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01:44:29,439 --> 01:44:31,080
Speaker 2: How do you know what's good for me?

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01:44:33,120 --> 01:44:36,560
Speaker 1: Elvis Duran show, follow them to day Elvis dan in

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01:44:36,600 --> 01:44:37,280
Speaker 1: the Morning Show.

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01:44:45,560 --> 01:44:47,040
Speaker 16: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: So maybe you're driving in early today or this is

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01:44:49,760 --> 01:44:51,280
Speaker 2: the time you drive it every day. Look down? How

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01:44:51,360 --> 01:44:53,680
Speaker 2: much gas do you have in your gas tank? You

2447
01:44:53,760 --> 01:44:54,240
Speaker 2: know it's scary.

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01:44:54,320 --> 01:44:56,200
Speaker 7: Brought this up earlier where he has this car that

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01:44:56,280 --> 01:44:59,200
Speaker 7: doesn't flash and sirens don't go off. Yeah, you just

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01:44:59,280 --> 01:45:00,840
Speaker 7: have to keep an eye on on the on the

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01:45:01,240 --> 01:45:03,360
Speaker 7: meter or the gas meter whatever it is called, whatever,

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01:45:03,400 --> 01:45:03,879
Speaker 7: the gaess.

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01:45:03,720 --> 01:45:06,360
Speaker 2: Hometer, what do you call the gauge, the gauge, the

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01:45:06,479 --> 01:45:06,920
Speaker 2: guess home?

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01:45:07,240 --> 01:45:13,000
Speaker 7: Anyway, why is it we wait until the very last

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01:45:13,200 --> 01:45:15,320
Speaker 7: minute some of us, I know, Froggy is the worst.

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01:45:15,360 --> 01:45:18,040
Speaker 7: It says, wait until the last minute, where you're actually

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01:45:18,240 --> 01:45:22,080
Speaker 7: sweating and you have cramps, you're cramping knowing that.

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01:45:22,120 --> 01:45:24,080
Speaker 2: You're about to run out of gas. You're on fumes.

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01:45:24,120 --> 01:45:25,240
Speaker 2: Why do we do that to ourselves?

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01:45:25,280 --> 01:45:26,240
Speaker 9: I like living on the edge.

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Speaker 2: Bungee cord jumping is one thing, but low gas tank.

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01:45:31,960 --> 01:45:35,040
Speaker 10: My husband did it once where I had gotten my

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01:45:35,280 --> 01:45:38,920
Speaker 10: four wisdom teeth pulled, and he runs out of gas.

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01:45:39,160 --> 01:45:42,600
Speaker 10: As we're coming home from the procedure. He says to me,

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01:45:42,720 --> 01:45:44,800
Speaker 10: you got a choice. You can sit in the car

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01:45:44,840 --> 01:45:46,720
Speaker 10: and wait for me to go get the gas, or

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Speaker 10: we can walk home.

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01:45:47,760 --> 01:45:49,000
Speaker 2: And I walked home.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and after that he's still other days. Forget with fumes.

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01:45:54,920 --> 01:45:56,840
Speaker 7: We just we just take our chances, and then you know,

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01:45:57,280 --> 01:45:59,640
Speaker 7: before you know it, you're below e and then you know.

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01:45:59,720 --> 01:46:01,519
Speaker 7: You A lot of cars like my car says you

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01:46:01,800 --> 01:46:03,640
Speaker 7: have so many miles left until it runs out. I

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01:46:03,680 --> 01:46:06,519
Speaker 7: don't trust that thing. No what that think's wrong? I'll

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01:46:06,520 --> 01:46:07,040
Speaker 7: tell you ready.

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01:46:07,080 --> 01:46:08,719
Speaker 24: The other damn in my car says, you have twenty

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01:46:08,800 --> 01:46:10,599
Speaker 24: two miles before you run out of gas. I knew

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Speaker 24: I had to drive twenty five miles. I made it

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01:46:12,840 --> 01:46:15,439
Speaker 24: where I was going, and then another three four miles

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Speaker 24: down the road before I got gas. That thing's full

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01:46:17,840 --> 01:46:18,240
Speaker 24: of crap.

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01:46:18,600 --> 01:46:19,680
Speaker 10: Yeah, trying to protect you.

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Speaker 2: You don't need to be waiting that long.

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Speaker 7: I My question is this, why do you want to

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01:46:24,360 --> 01:46:29,080
Speaker 7: keep putting yourself in this life where you're just living

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01:46:29,160 --> 01:46:31,439
Speaker 7: on the edge and you're just you're putting yourself into this,

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01:46:32,200 --> 01:46:33,600
Speaker 7: into this frantic.

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01:46:33,280 --> 01:46:35,920
Speaker 2: State for no reason. Go go stop and get gas,

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01:46:36,080 --> 01:46:36,599
Speaker 2: lazy ass.

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Speaker 10: But sometimes the gas station's like on the other side

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Speaker 10: of town.

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01:46:40,040 --> 01:46:42,120
Speaker 2: Don't get gass straight anymore?

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01:46:42,320 --> 01:46:44,360
Speaker 24: And why do people turn the radio down when their

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01:46:44,360 --> 01:46:45,120
Speaker 24: cars low on gas?

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01:46:45,160 --> 01:46:48,720
Speaker 7: Okay, well, okay, back in the old days, if you

2497
01:46:48,800 --> 01:46:51,599
Speaker 7: turn the air conditioning on, it used some of your fuel.

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01:46:51,760 --> 01:46:53,439
Speaker 4: Oh wait a minute, that's not the case anymore.

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01:46:53,520 --> 01:46:55,519
Speaker 7: No, I don't think that's the case anymore. No, No,

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Speaker 7: I don't think it is. I really Okay, maybe it

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01:46:58,360 --> 01:47:00,920
Speaker 7: is Brody, of course, I forget he's an auto expert.

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01:47:01,000 --> 01:47:03,519
Speaker 7: But I don't think I was told by someone who said, no,

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01:47:03,640 --> 01:47:05,880
Speaker 7: you can run the AC all you want. But in

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01:47:05,920 --> 01:47:07,360
Speaker 7: the old days, they said you got to turn everything

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01:47:07,360 --> 01:47:08,960
Speaker 7: off otherwise you're going to use your gas faster.

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Speaker 24: Do a google on that.

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01:47:10,040 --> 01:47:12,920
Speaker 7: Goat Brodie, Let's make sure we know what we're talking about. Anyway,

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01:47:13,240 --> 01:47:16,080
Speaker 7: So now people turn the radio down to save gas.

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01:47:16,520 --> 01:47:19,320
Speaker 2: No, it doesn't. Oh, like like me you know.

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Speaker 7: Do you ever do this when I think we've talked

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01:47:21,160 --> 01:47:23,360
Speaker 7: about this. When you're driving and you think you need

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01:47:23,439 --> 01:47:25,479
Speaker 7: to focus a little more, you turn the radio off.

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01:47:25,800 --> 01:47:27,559
Speaker 9: Yeah, like looking for a street sign.

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01:47:27,600 --> 01:47:29,960
Speaker 7: I turn it down, Yeah, turne Yeah, because I don't

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01:47:29,960 --> 01:47:31,439
Speaker 7: I'm gonna miss my street if I don't turn off.

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01:47:31,600 --> 01:47:33,200
Speaker 2: But I don't turn off the Elvis drain morning shows?

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01:47:33,240 --> 01:47:34,920
Speaker 10: Have you ever done what I've done? If I've been

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01:47:34,960 --> 01:47:36,559
Speaker 10: sitting in traffic and I know I'm low on gas,

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01:47:36,600 --> 01:47:38,680
Speaker 10: I turned the car off and they'll turn it back

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01:47:38,720 --> 01:47:40,280
Speaker 10: on when we're ready to move. Then I turned the

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Speaker 10: car off.

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Speaker 9: I think that's worse for it, isn't it?

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Speaker 16: I don't know?

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Speaker 2: No, No, the car's actually my car does that?

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01:47:45,479 --> 01:47:45,639
Speaker 15: Yeah?

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01:47:45,720 --> 01:47:46,120
Speaker 10: Oh it does?

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01:47:46,320 --> 01:47:48,040
Speaker 7: I turn that thing when you stop it stoplights, it

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01:47:48,120 --> 01:47:51,080
Speaker 7: turns off the engine. I'm like, and I wanted to

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01:47:51,120 --> 01:47:52,360
Speaker 7: call the dealer when I first got the car.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, dude, this thing is stalling. Yeah anyway, No,

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01:47:56,640 --> 01:47:57,040
Speaker 2: So why do.

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01:47:57,080 --> 01:47:59,960
Speaker 7: You want to put yourself under this veil of aggravation

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01:48:00,800 --> 01:48:01,519
Speaker 7: to test the limits?

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01:48:01,560 --> 01:48:01,600
Speaker 29: Go?

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01:48:01,680 --> 01:48:03,080
Speaker 2: Get what's the what's the what does it say?

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01:48:03,120 --> 01:48:03,200
Speaker 8: Bro?

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Speaker 2: To tell me in the microphone what it says? He

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Speaker 2: says it drops your average gas mileage for three miles

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01:48:07,920 --> 01:48:11,160
Speaker 2: per gallon if you use your AC. Really, I drive

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01:48:11,200 --> 01:48:12,120
Speaker 2: a spaceship. It doesn't do that.

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Speaker 9: Also with my car, I feel like I know that

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01:48:15,840 --> 01:48:17,600
Speaker 9: that car. I know what was going on with it.

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01:48:17,720 --> 01:48:19,880
Speaker 9: I could tell when it was in a bad mood

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01:48:19,960 --> 01:48:21,040
Speaker 9: or when it was going to run out of gas

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01:48:21,280 --> 01:48:22,760
Speaker 9: until it actually ran out of gas and I was

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Speaker 9: an idiot.

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Speaker 7: The other myth is that you have to warm your

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01:48:25,640 --> 01:48:27,719
Speaker 7: car up when you get in it. I was told also,

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Speaker 7: you don't. Oh I never did, because we have we

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01:48:30,000 --> 01:48:31,200
Speaker 7: have new electronics in the car.

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Speaker 2: You just turn it on. It's on, right, Oh? Is

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01:48:33,640 --> 01:48:34,000
Speaker 2: that true?

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01:48:34,360 --> 01:48:34,400
Speaker 19: No?

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01:48:34,439 --> 01:48:36,040
Speaker 9: No, that's why I'm with you. That's what I did.

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01:48:36,080 --> 01:48:37,120
Speaker 9: I don't know if I was being bad.

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01:48:37,200 --> 01:48:38,040
Speaker 6: Brody looked that up.

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01:48:38,439 --> 01:48:40,799
Speaker 2: Brody prove us all wrong today, going to Google.

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01:48:42,080 --> 01:48:42,320
Speaker 10: Huh.

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01:48:43,600 --> 01:48:44,960
Speaker 7: I got in the car the other day, I turned

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01:48:44,960 --> 01:48:46,840
Speaker 7: it on, I put in reverse, and someone went, what

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01:48:47,520 --> 01:48:49,360
Speaker 7: you gotta let you gotta let your baby warm up?

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01:48:49,960 --> 01:48:50,000
Speaker 19: What?

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01:48:50,680 --> 01:48:51,760
Speaker 2: Really, I don't think so.

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01:48:51,880 --> 01:48:53,240
Speaker 10: I mean, it's nice to let it warm up in

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01:48:53,280 --> 01:48:55,840
Speaker 10: the winter so that he's just not freezing car.

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01:48:56,000 --> 01:48:59,360
Speaker 7: But they say you got to get your fluids runned, Danielle,

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01:48:59,439 --> 01:49:01,360
Speaker 7: do you or your fluid running always?

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01:49:03,840 --> 01:49:04,160
Speaker 6: It says?

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01:49:04,240 --> 01:49:06,759
Speaker 7: Experts say new cars should warm up for thirty seconds

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01:49:07,040 --> 01:49:09,200
Speaker 7: and then start driving, because your car warms up faster

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01:49:09,240 --> 01:49:10,920
Speaker 7: while you're driving, exactly thirty seconds.

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Speaker 2: In the old days, you have to start your car

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Speaker 2: like a day before. Hey, producer Sam, However, i.

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01:49:18,160 --> 01:49:20,599
Speaker 37: Have anxiety from this discussion. But other than that, I'm great.

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01:49:21,120 --> 01:49:22,439
Speaker 7: So you don't have to let your car warm up,

2576
01:49:22,439 --> 01:49:23,920
Speaker 7: but you shouldn't turn your AC on. And if you're

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01:49:23,960 --> 01:49:26,519
Speaker 7: out of gas, fill up your gas tank. People, please

2578
01:49:26,600 --> 01:49:27,760
Speaker 7: put some gas in that money.

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01:49:28,320 --> 01:49:32,519
Speaker 2: Good morning, Elisa, Dear God, what's this woman doing?

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01:49:32,920 --> 01:49:33,840
Speaker 16: And the morning Show?

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01:49:36,439 --> 01:49:38,479
Speaker 7: All right, show's done. We'll come back tomorrow and do

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01:49:38,560 --> 01:49:42,560
Speaker 7: it again. Till next time. Say peace out, everybody, Peace out, everybody,