1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: Ruthie's Table for presented by Sky. 2 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 2: I was a bartender in a lot of places. I've 3 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 2: had a lot of service jobs in my life. 4 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: Do you think that working in a bar talked to 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 1: you about about people, about life did? Do you think 6 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:23,159 Speaker 1: that was an experience that you took with you? 7 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,319 Speaker 2: It was an essential experience really shaped me. I learned 8 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: more there than you know having a job like in 9 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: an ad agency in many ways in terms of you know, 10 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 2: and learning about different types of people. But I mean, 11 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 2: I was a bartender in Aspen and Saint Thomas, I 12 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: was in Martha's Vineyard in New York City. I was 13 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 2: like a king. I went through my King in the 14 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 2: Road phase and did a lot of that. So yeah, 15 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 2: you meet a lot of different type of people and 16 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 2: you and you get good at it, you develop your 17 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 2: emotional abilities. 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: A friend who at Apple, and he introduced me to 19 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: the woman who recruits for or introdews people who want 20 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: jobs at Apple, and she said that if she looks 21 00:01:02,800 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: on someone's CV and they've had years of working or 22 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: time working in a restaurant or you know, as you say, 23 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: a bar they have, they are a much better chance 24 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: of getting a job as an engineers at whatever they are, 25 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 1: you know, a designer, an administrator, if they've actually worked 26 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: in those jobs. Because it does teach you. I work 27 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: in a restaurant every day, and I think that I 28 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: see the young people who come to work, or even 29 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: for myself, it teaches you to be aware of people. 30 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: It teaches you to be you know, energetic when you're 31 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: feeling tired. You know, about performing, about dealing with a problem, 32 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: and I think those skills about and I also think 33 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 1: it teaches you about working with colleagues. Don't you how 34 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: to work with us? 35 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: You know, I hired you know, when I look to 36 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 2: hire people, I look for the exact same characteristics. I 37 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,279 Speaker 2: also look for people who had been traveled, who travel 38 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 2: have been out in the world and been somewhere and 39 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 2: knew some cultural nuance. And you know, the world's really 40 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: the greatest classroom. So those those two qualities where people 41 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 2: learn how to improvise and act on their feet and change, 42 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 2: you know, and and relate to different kinds of people, 43 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,239 Speaker 2: really important. I mean I'd take that over someone who's 44 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 2: just had a history of internships at Goldman Sachs and 45 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: you know, not as interesting. 46 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,799 Speaker 1: What kind of drinks did you make did you could 47 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: you make me amazing martin? What's what? Give me a 48 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: recipe for a great cocktail? 49 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 2: Well, in those days it was you know, it wasn't 50 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 2: this sophisticated artists in type. You know, cocktail med with 51 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: some guy with a ponytail, who's you know, laboring and 52 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: slicing fruit in all these directions. But a lot of 53 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 2: it was beer, you know, Scotch and water scotch and soda, screwdrivers. 54 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 2: I could make a martini, I could make a Manhattan. 55 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 2: I was well when I lived in the in the 56 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 2: in the Caribbean, I like I did develop a tropical repertoire, 57 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: you know, the nakeries and pinacoiladas and so forth. So 58 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 2: that was that was fun. I learned a lot you drink? 59 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: What are you drinking? What would you have? You having 60 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: a cocktail tonight? What would you have? 61 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 2: I have? Like a voka martini? 62 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: Do you have a hand to kill? All the people 63 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: listening to this how to make the perfect to martini? 64 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 2: Well, you know, uh some I was just in London 65 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 2: at Clarages and I had the greatest martini and they 66 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 2: told me, I said, wow, how did you do that? 67 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 2: It's like not too watered down. I mean it stirred. 68 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 2: You know, when people shake a martini too much, it 69 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 2: gets a little too watery. But they would pre mix them. 70 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: You probably do this at the River Cafe. They pre 71 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 2: mix them and stick them in the freezer and the 72 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: glasses in the freezer, so it comes out almost like 73 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 2: this molten liquid and it's like high. It's highly potent 74 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: and very tasty. So that's a good tip. Another one 75 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: is if you like a dry martini, there's a little 76 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: device you can get, just like a little aerosol and 77 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 2: you can sort of squirt a little bit around the glass. 78 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 2: That's what I do. I mean, I'm I'm pretty simple 79 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: in my taste with people make an art out of 80 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 2: martini making. You must know that for sure. 81 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: My husband loved martini and my father used to make 82 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: a dry martini and he would turned out. People used 83 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: to say, Jim fred you make the greatest dry martinis. 84 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: And what he did was he didn't put any remouth 85 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 1: at all. He was just giving cold, really ice cold 86 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 1: vodka with a twist of lemon called it a martini. 87 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 2: The other thing is these days the martini glasses are 88 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 2: very large. They are having a martini it's like in 89 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 2: the old days that would have been too martinis. 90 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: The thing they have we have to get off the martinis. 91 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: But in the River Cafe, the big drink right now, 92 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 1: I don't if it's in America is when you see 93 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 1: espresso martinis. Have you had those? Yeah, plat trays of 94 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 1: espresso martinis going through the room. 95 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 2: It's like a sort of an alcoholic speedball. 96 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, maybe, But what about it? Is there just 97 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: one bar that you worked in a restaurant that you 98 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: remember that you remember is. 99 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I worked in this great bar on Martha's Vineyard 100 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 2: in Oak Bluff's called the lamppost Okay, which was like 101 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 2: the place where everybody on the island passed through. If 102 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 2: you were like a trust funder or a beach bum 103 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 2: or a rock star or a carpenter or some beautiful 104 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 2: girl who was spending the summer, you know, with a 105 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 2: summer job on the vineyard. Everyone would hang out at 106 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 2: the vineyard. We had these really raucous, joyous, hoppy hours. 107 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 2: It was a fantastic spot and I was one of 108 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: the two bartenders there. So there was a great, great 109 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 2: way to spend the summer. Because of course you have 110 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 2: your days off I picked up a lot there. Yeah, 111 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 2: it keeps off the streets at night. It's a good 112 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 2: place to meet girls and you can make some money, 113 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 2: and it's a trade you can travel with