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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater Only on the Gable Show.

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Speaker 2: Bethany is on the phone today for to Catch a

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Speaker 2: Cheater and she's been dating her boyfriend Dustin for two years,

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Speaker 2: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Bethany, sorry

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Speaker 2: you have to come on the show this way, But

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Speaker 2: what's up? Why do you think Dustin might be cheating

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Speaker 2: on you?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Well, it's kind of a crazy story. So yeah, basically,

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Speaker 3: Dustin and I have been together for two years and

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Speaker 3: we've had like a pretty good relationship. I mean it's

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Speaker 3: been work, but like all relationships are worked, and I

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Speaker 3: don't ever really have any doubt that he loves me,

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Speaker 3: which is really important. Yeah, and there's just certain times

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Speaker 3: that I see and look at me or just you know,

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Speaker 3: little things he does that lets me know that he's

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Speaker 3: always thinking with me, and so we have a good foundation.

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Speaker 3: So even though there's no major problems about like a

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Speaker 3: year into our relationship, I you know, I did catch

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Speaker 3: him cheating. I saw text messages. I will say that.

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Speaker 3: You know, he admitted it right then and there. He

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Speaker 3: was like, yes, you're right. I've been wanting to tell you,

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Speaker 3: and it was it's done. It was only one time,

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Speaker 3: and so it did take a while for me to

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Speaker 3: trust him again. And you know, that was like a

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Speaker 3: year ago and it's been pretty good ever since. But

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Speaker 3: now there's like this moment that happened and I am

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Speaker 4: Kind of what happened.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I just was like, like two days ago,

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Speaker 3: I was just you know, choking her man And as

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Speaker 3: soon as I saw this, like, I just was like,

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Speaker 3: I need to call the show immediately because I don't

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Speaker 3: know how to handle this. Basically, I was just mindlessly

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Speaker 3: opening a letter and it was addressed to Dustin because

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Speaker 3: I just like opening our mant like I handle, you know,

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Speaker 3: our bills and everything, and my heart saying it's a

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Speaker 3: court orgin or a fraternity.

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Speaker 4: Tex whoa does it say? Who's asking for it?

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Speaker 3: Yes? The name was there, and I probably can't say

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Speaker 3: on the radio, I've never heard of this woman in

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Speaker 3: my life. I even tried to look her up on

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Speaker 3: Instagram and Facebook. I couldn't really find anything. I'm freaking

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Speaker 3: did you.

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Speaker 4: So you haven't confronted him? Have you?

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Speaker 3: No? I don't even know how to.

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Speaker 2: You don't have any clue that he might have a

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Speaker 2: kid out there or anything like that, like or that

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Speaker 2: he involved on a court thing at all.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know what I can do other than

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Speaker 3: going through his phone again, and I really don't want

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Speaker 3: to do that. I just don't want to like retraumatize myself,

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Speaker 3: and so I really I just want like a different

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Speaker 3: way to approach this, because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 3: it's like I just want to know why, Like we've

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Speaker 3: been through so much, we made it out to the

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Speaker 3: other side. Like if he did age when he cheated

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Speaker 3: a year ago, this person is pregnant, like I m

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Speaker 3: had a child, like I need to I don't even

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Speaker 3: know if this is the first person he cheated on

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Speaker 3: me with they were another girl, Like I'm so confused,

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Speaker 3: Like there are a one year old out there, Like

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Speaker 3: what right happening there is?

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Speaker 1: I mean, there is definitely a chance that this could

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Speaker 1: be from that one girl, the one off quote unquote,

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Speaker 1: unless yeah, there were other ones something happened. So I

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Speaker 1: guess we have confirmation that he has cheated. We just

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Speaker 1: don't know yeah when or who or we'll try.

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Speaker 2: To figure it out for you already told us what

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Speaker 2: grocery store he's a rewards card member at. So we'll

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Speaker 2: do the usual and call him and pretend to be

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Speaker 2: from the grocery store and say that he's this month's

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Speaker 2: lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our floral department,

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Speaker 2: and we'll see if he sends those to you or

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Speaker 2: somebody else.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Pleas I'll come back and get your to catch a

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Speaker 2: cheater next. If you're just joining us for today, is

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Speaker 2: to catch a cheater. It's a big one. Bethany is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and she set her boyfriend of two

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Speaker 2: call him and pretend to be from the grocery store

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Speaker 2: that he's a rewards member at and say that every

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Speaker 2: single month, we choose one lucky rewards member who gets

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Speaker 2: a free gift from our store just for being a

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Speaker 2: loyal customer, and it's flowers delivered from our Florida department

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Speaker 2: to anybody that they want, and we'll see if he

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Speaker 2: sends those to his girlfriend, Bethany or to somebody else.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Bethanye, why don't you run

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Speaker 2: down your situation for us again real quick.

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend, I've been together for two years. A year ago,

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Speaker 3: he did cheat on me. We were very responsible about

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Speaker 3: you know how. We handled it with therapy and we've

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Speaker 3: been great. But two days ago I was going to

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Speaker 3: run mayor and I see a court ordered eternity cast

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Speaker 3: and I'm freaking out. It was addressed in him and

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Speaker 3: I just want to know. Yeah, I just want to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's thank him.

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Speaker 2: Ready, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, this is Corbett

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Speaker 2: calling for there. I was looking for our rewards card

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Speaker 2: member named Dustin.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, that's me.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Dustin. Please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 4: marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually calling with a big congratulations and thank you

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Speaker 2: for shopping with us. Here this month's winner.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I won something?

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Speaker 4: Yeah the flowers.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, flowers. That's that's that's pretty cool. Yeah, I guess, yeah,

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Speaker 5: thank you.

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Speaker 1: I guess.

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure if you know.

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Speaker 2: This is not but every single month, we choose one

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Speaker 2: Rewards card member who gets a free gift from us

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Speaker 2: just for being such a valued and loyal customer. It's

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Speaker 2: our way of saying thank you for shopping. You've won

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Speaker 2: thirty six long stem red roses, a box of candy

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Speaker 2: or chocolate, and a card to be delivered to anybody

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Speaker 2: that you want within the fifteen United States. Absolutely free.

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Speaker 2: It's actually a three hundred and sixteen dollars value.

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Speaker 4: Wow, I'm with Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Congratulations and again thank you for shopping with us. And

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Speaker 2: it is all free. And the first thing I would

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Speaker 2: need will be the name of the person and then

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Speaker 2: if you want to put anything on a card, and

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Speaker 2: then we'll get the address and you'll be off the

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Speaker 2: phone and they'll get in flowers.

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Speaker 5: Okay. So the person that's receiving the roses, her name is.

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Speaker 4: Best in me and the last name on that got you? Okay?

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Speaker 4: And would you like a card included with that?

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Speaker 5: Ah? Yes, yes, okay, No matter what, it's always you

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Speaker 4: Always great. Got that down.

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Speaker 2: And at this point I'll let you know it's not

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Speaker 2: a grocery store at all. On the phone, Hey what Yeah,

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Speaker 2: this is actually a radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 4: I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victorian and my name is Jewbel.

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Speaker 5: I'm on the radio right now.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we do a segment on a show that's called

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Speaker 2: to Catch a Cheater. Where if you think your significant

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Speaker 2: other might be messing around you see they send flowers too,

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Speaker 2: And your girlfriend Bethany is actually on the phone, and

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Speaker 2: I think still have some question.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, uh hi, wow, it's so okay. You you

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Speaker 5: saw the paternity ordered in you Oh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, buddy, I did. And okay, so so you knew

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Speaker 3: about it already because I haven't. Yeah, I haven't even

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Speaker 5: Mail, but I've known about it for for about a month.

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Speaker 5: It's it's it's from from that that same girl that

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Speaker 5: we talked about before. It might actually be be true.

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Speaker 5: It might her name isa Alicia. I'm sorry, I'm sorry

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Speaker 5: for I'm so embarrassed right now.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm so confused because you told me this is

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Speaker 3: one time. I mean, it's so for it. Okay, that's

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Speaker 3: pretty rare for that to happen. Like it's like, what

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Speaker 3: don't she know she was omulating? Like this is crazy.

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Speaker 3: Even worse than that, it's like you shouldn't.

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Speaker 5: Have kept this for me, you know, I know, And

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Speaker 5: I I'm so sorry about this. I didn't mean to

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Speaker 5: just trying to ignore it because it just seemed like

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Speaker 5: I feel so just I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 1: It just.

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Speaker 3: Y, you don't know what. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: What did you see?

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Speaker 3: It was a year ago and we talked about it.

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Speaker 5: It was one time, and it was we've we've been

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Speaker 5: through it and everything like that. But it just keeps

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Speaker 5: coming back now with with this eternity test. And here's

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Speaker 5: here's the thing, Destiny, I don't think it's mine. I

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Speaker 5: really don't think it's mine because I've seen pictures of

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Speaker 3: First of all, I don't know why you're calling it

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Speaker 3: an a. It's a child very likely to be yours.

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Speaker 3: And like, how is her life going to change if

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Speaker 3: you're like a dad, Like I'm not, am I supposed

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't and I'm so sorry about this.

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Speaker 5: I don't want this to mess us up. I don't

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Speaker 5: want this to ruin us. I know I have to

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Speaker 5: take that paternity test because she's definitely starting to come

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Speaker 5: after me for money to it. She wants that praternity

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Speaker 5: test because she's gonna want some child support.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know, Like, of course, she would like

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Speaker 3: if she had a child from you, I would also

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Speaker 3: like I would also want a child to port it like, like,

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Speaker 3: this is your responsibility, don't put it on her, Bethany.

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Speaker 4: Do you think you could stay if it is his?

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Speaker 1: Would you be willing to raise somebody else's kid with

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Speaker 3: Like I'm my head of spending.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, personally, I promise you that this It was the

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Speaker 5: one time and we talked about it, we went to

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Speaker 5: therapy together about it, and I know that, and I

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Speaker 5: don't I did not want to go down that road again,

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Speaker 5: and I didn't go down that road again. I've been

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Speaker 5: spending this whole time making up for that one mistake,

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Speaker 5: and now because of that one mistake, I'm probably going

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Speaker 5: to lose you anyway, and I don't want that. I

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Speaker 5: don't want to lose you. Okay, Please just believe me

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Speaker 5: on that, and please just just just hear me out

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Speaker 5: and just work with me with this. Please, I'm begging you.

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Speaker 5: You can even come with me to take the test.

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Speaker 5: We can find out at the same time together. I'm

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Speaker 5: not trying to hide this from you. I don't know

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Speaker 5: why I didn't tell you about it before, but I

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Speaker 5: don't want to hide it from you.

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Speaker 4: Obviously, you guys had a lot to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I guess first things first, right, just find

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Speaker 1: out what's going on with the fraternity, and then you

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Speaker 1: guys can take it from there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a lot of things.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like he has cheated since the time

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Speaker 2: that you knew about, but obviously there's a lot. So yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: give us an update and let us know how you

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Speaker 2: guys are doing well.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much, you guys, good luck. The Jewble

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Speaker 3: shows to catch a Cheater