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Speaker 1: Today's Second Date Update powered by South hilm Off Rooking

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Speaker 1: Jewels Second Dat up Date. The woman on the phone

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Speaker 1: for a Second Date Update today and myself have something

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Speaker 1: in common. Both big fans of Ultimate Frisbee. That's right,

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Speaker 1: Ultimate Frisbee. Well, I've only played once. How does that

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Speaker 1: make you a fan? And I think her experience with

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Speaker 1: Ultimate Frisbee was better than mine. All I got out

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Speaker 1: of it was a bunch of people at a park

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Speaker 1: calling me a maniac and a lunatic. Why sadistic freak

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Speaker 1: whatever that means. I didn't know you weren't supposed to

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Speaker 1: take a baseball bat to play Ultimate Frisbee. I had

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Speaker 1: no idea, But then I get labeled all kinds of names.

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Speaker 1: But Jesse actually got a date out of playing Ultimate Frisbee,

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Speaker 1: and I don't think had a restraining order slapped on

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Speaker 1: her either. That I'm wrong, Jesse, Am I wrong? No,

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Speaker 1: you did bring it back to the game or an

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Speaker 1: axe or anything like that. Done. No, I wish somebody

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Speaker 1: would have told me beforehand. But your email said that

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Speaker 1: you met the guy you want to call today playing

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Speaker 1: Ultimate Frisbee. Yeah. I'm kind of a spontaneous person and

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Speaker 1: I like trying out these things, and I was online

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Speaker 1: and I saw this gaming thing, so I was like,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. I've never played before. Was it

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Speaker 1: a singles like meet up type thing? No, not necessarily.

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Speaker 1: It was just sort of like young people. So how

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Speaker 1: was it when you went out there and played? Did

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Speaker 1: you find out you were amazing and ultimate frisbee and

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Speaker 1: had no idea? No, I'm actually really bad apparently, but

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Speaker 1: there was this one guy who was really good, like

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Speaker 1: probably had been playing with that gup people for a

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Speaker 1: long time, and I know that's what really turns ladies

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Speaker 1: on as a guy who can handle a frisbee. It's

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Speaker 1: actually it's not too far from a line really, So

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Speaker 1: it was actually really nice because you know, you have

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Speaker 1: to have a certain grace, you know. Yeah, any athletic

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Speaker 1: man on a field that is good is sexy. Okay, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: it was really sexy. So I was trying to get

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Speaker 1: his attention a little bit. And so during a break,

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Speaker 1: I was like standing by him, and he like offered

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Speaker 1: me some of his gatorade. He was like, you're it

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Speaker 1: looked like you could use some of this. Offered you

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Speaker 1: some gatorade? Huh? Yeah, he offered me some blue you know,

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Speaker 1: wait a minute, though, I mean if you're sharing out

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Speaker 1: of the same bottle, that means he doesn't think you're gross, right.

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Speaker 1: That's why I was excited because I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: so breaking the ice, sharing gatorade? You already like you

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Speaker 1: guys kissed, yeah, right, next step swap it spit. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. He was just like super straightforward and

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Speaker 1: like immediately was joking with me in my extense. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I like that, you know, give it

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Speaker 1: to me. And you know, that's another thing that another

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Speaker 1: attribute the dudes that if they're able to do that,

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Speaker 1: I've heard. I've heard it's a big deal for ladies.

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Speaker 1: So did you ask him out or did he ask

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Speaker 1: you out? He asked me out? Nice, yeah, and which

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Speaker 1: was great. You know, we had a couple of drinks,

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Speaker 1: had a nice meal. But I was a little annoyed

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Speaker 1: at a fancy restaurant. They weren't. It wasn't a fancy restaurant,

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Speaker 1: but it was, you know, as a decent restaurant, and

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Speaker 1: I don't know, they were just so loud, and so

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Speaker 1: I said to him, I was like, kids are annoying,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know how people do it. And then

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Speaker 1: he was just like, oh, I have a kid. That

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Speaker 1: was good. What I meant was every kid except for

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Speaker 1: Well no, I was like no, no, no, just these kids.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure your kids. It was really awkward and I

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Speaker 1: didn't know what to say. And he was really nice

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Speaker 1: like no, no, no, I get it, like I have

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Speaker 1: How did you feel about that? I mean, it's it's yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like to try new things. So why not parenting? Yeah? Whatever,

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Speaker 1: how did everything end with him? Well? I thought things

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Speaker 1: especially from an ultimate frisbee player. Those guys are badassies.

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Speaker 1: They're usually not going for a kiss on the cheek

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Speaker 1: you think it's a kid thing? That is the reason

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Speaker 1: I've everything else was great. That was the only awkward

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Speaker 1: many times have you tried to reach out to him?

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Speaker 1: I sent him like a text few days after and

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Speaker 1: no reply. Um, yeah, so this one. But I really

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Speaker 1: want to see him again. I you know, I really

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Speaker 1: enjoyed our our date. Okay, well we'll play a song,

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Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second date update?

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Speaker 1: All right, Okay, okay, hang on frooking Jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Second update. I'm honestly really surprised that Jesse, who was

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Speaker 1: isn't getting a call back from the dude that she

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Speaker 1: qualities that men look for in a woman. She hates kids,

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Speaker 1: That's pretty much it. That's the quality, that's what you

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Speaker 1: look for. That's the quality. And she has that right, Jesse, No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't say I hated kids. I just thought the

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Speaker 1: Jesse met the dude she wants to call today while

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Speaker 1: playing Ultimate Frisbee. They went out to eat at a restaurant,

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Speaker 1: reason he's not calling back is because while they were there,

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Speaker 1: she made a comment about how annoying the kids in

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Speaker 1: and you never told him like, no, I actually like kids.

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Speaker 1: Is that what you want to tell him now? If

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Speaker 1: we get him on the phone. It sounds a little

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Speaker 1: desperate saying that, doesn't it like I don't know how

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Speaker 1: out what happened. Okay, okay, all right, here here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Douglas? Who's Douglas? Hey Doug, this

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Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. How

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Speaker 1: are you? My name is Douglas. Who's this? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Or okay,

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Speaker 1: who are you? Host a radio show called Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning. My name is Jewil. Um. What

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Speaker 1: do you need from me? Well? I wanted to talk

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Speaker 1: to you about a friend of ours who you know? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: you're pretty quick and to the point, guy, aren't you Douglas?

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Speaker 1: Yes I am. Why are you calling me? Good question?

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Speaker 1: So you went out with a girl named Jesse recently? Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Did you like Jesse? What business is that of yours? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's it's our business because she emailed us to see

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Speaker 1: if we could talk to you and find out if

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Speaker 1: you didn't like her. I didn't hate her, who I

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Speaker 1: just didn't feel it working Okay, okay, can you tell

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Speaker 1: us why I don't feel worth the same places in

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Speaker 1: and patience goes, it's just not what I'm looking for

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Speaker 1: in some of the date? Sorry? Is it because you

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Speaker 1: have a kid and she doesn't? How do you know that? Well,

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Speaker 1: she told us a little bit about your date and

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Speaker 1: go out with her again, just like amnial, So you

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Speaker 1: can't deal with it yourself. Wait, you just like put

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Speaker 1: saying that every millennial is one of those things and

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Speaker 1: So you thought she was a millennial duck? Well, after

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Speaker 1: having to listen to a five minute tirade that someone

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Speaker 1: didn't tag her in a Facebook post? Yeah kind of what? Okay? Wait,

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Speaker 1: I want to know about the tirade, but I'm really curious,

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Speaker 1: are you sixty five year old man? I'm a thirty

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Speaker 1: don't have time to screw around anymore, Okay, And by

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Speaker 1: just that she's complaining that. No, you know, I work

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think she's a bad person. I

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Speaker 1: now I don't have the time to do it. So

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Speaker 1: and you can get back to doing business. Look, it's

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Speaker 1: not doing business, it's called life. I'm actively participating in it,

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Speaker 1: and I just gotta get it done. I don't have

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Speaker 1: time for the bs. But I mean, here's the thing

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Speaker 1: I'm not faulting her. I'm just saying that I don't

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Speaker 1: one of them, all right. And look, if you guys

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Speaker 1: that'd be great. I'd appreciate it. Well, I have a

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Speaker 1: better idea. I can tell that you're, like I said,

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Speaker 1: and you actually told her what are you talking about.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's on the other line listening to this

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Speaker 1: If you have time, sir, sir, she's not on the phone. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I am hi. I'm sorry, Jesse, you had to hear that.

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Speaker 1: I don't mean it maliciously, but it's the truth. It

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Speaker 1: just sounds like you're being really, really insensitive. Honestly, it's

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Speaker 1: not about insensitivity. It's just I mean no, it's that

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Speaker 1: you don't want to You don't want to empathize with

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Speaker 1: my problems, but you think your problems are so much

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Speaker 1: bigger and greater than mine. Are you were worried about

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Speaker 1: a Facebook post? I have two kids to raise, want

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Speaker 1: to hatively much bigger problems. But I'm sorry if that

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Speaker 1: hurts your feelings. I don't mean to. It's just the

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Speaker 1: way it is. Listen. It wasn't about the Facebook post,

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Speaker 1: is the fact that I was posted by my roommate. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you have no idea what it's like to live with

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Speaker 1: two other women. It's hard, It's really hard. Are you

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Speaker 1: kidding me? I can't even believe that sentence is coming

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Speaker 1: out of your mouth. You have no idea, you know, clue,

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Speaker 1: you've never done it before. You have no idea what

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Speaker 1: it's like to be responsible for two kids that you're

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Speaker 1: responsible for keeping alive. You live with two kids. They're

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Speaker 1: not your responsibility. Two kids. I am their responsibility. The

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Speaker 1: buck stops with me, it doesn't. I'm not worried about

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Speaker 1: Facebook posts. I'm sorry. Please stop talking about my Facebook

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Speaker 1: post and stop talking about your kids. Okay? How really?

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Speaker 1: How hard can indeed raise two kids? Okay? You just

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Speaker 1: sit them in front of a TV? Why not? I'm

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Speaker 1: really I'm starting to lose my patience. Like I said,

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Speaker 1: she's not an evil person. I just do not have

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Speaker 1: time for this nonsense anymore. I'm sure she'd do great.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she's gonna find a great guy. I really

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Speaker 1: gotta go listen. Working is hard, Okay. I work from

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Speaker 1: that's assiful. If you don't even want to hear me out, yeah,

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Speaker 1: hear out ten to five. You want to? You want

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Speaker 1: to do something like the day that I that we

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Speaker 1: met playing up with frisbee. You know the kind of

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Speaker 1: days off I get like that one of those a month.

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Speaker 1: Even when I have a day off, Jesse, I don't

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Speaker 1: have a day go off. I have to babysit two

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Speaker 1: to sleep a night. That is a choice you made. Okay,

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Speaker 1: if you were two kids, that's your choice. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: be a father. Okay, you can't blame me if I

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Speaker 1: want to get more than a date hour and to

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Speaker 1: sleep at night, Jesse, I'm not blaming you. I just

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Speaker 1: don't want to date you. Jesse. I think that you

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Speaker 1: should probably just quit while your ahead. Because he is

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Speaker 1: being way nicer than I expected to be to you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I'd like to hear more from him. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I think you guys would

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Speaker 1: be a great couple. Oh really, yeah, Douglas, would you

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Speaker 1: like to go out with Jesse on another date? We

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Speaker 1: will pay for it. Come on, guys, please please get

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Speaker 1: you a second date. Douglas. Look, I appreciate that you're

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Speaker 1: having a lot of fun with the the radio, but I

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Speaker 1: really got stuff to do. I'm sorry Jesse and I

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Speaker 1: didn't get along. I'm sorry you guys couldn't put us

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Speaker 1: back together for a date. Everything will be fine. The

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Speaker 1: sun's coming up tomorrow, nobody's gonna die. But I have

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Speaker 1: to go get my kids ready for school. Please go

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Speaker 1: all right, We'll let you go. Douglas, thank you, thank you, bye?

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, and he is gone. Jesse, I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry that didn't work out for you. I mean, I'm

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Speaker 1: kind of blown away by it. I honestly thought it

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Speaker 1: didn't go that badly. So you thought it didn't go back? Well, Jesse, Uh,

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Speaker 1: better luck next time, okay, okay. And I feel your

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Speaker 1: pain about the Facebook tagging thing. It is so annoying

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Speaker 1: when people leave you off the posts. Thank you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he just didn't get it, I know. Jerk broken Jupil

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Speaker 1: in the morning text message in at seven eighty five

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Speaker 1: to nine two says that girl makes me ashamed to

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Speaker 1: be a millennial. Talking about today's a second date update

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Speaker 1: that was taped twelve, Brooke was still here, brooks out

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Speaker 1: on eternity to leave. Jackie is filling in. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: the couple Jesse and Douglas, that's their names. Jesse wanted

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Speaker 1: to call Douglas. He wasn't calling back after they had

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Speaker 1: a great date. And the reason why is because he's

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Speaker 1: a busy man with kids and she has big problems too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah does. She was really upset that her roommates didn't

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Speaker 1: work that they demand that of her? I know, that

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Speaker 1: is ridiculous. I'm sure she could call somebody. That's got

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Speaker 1: to be illegal. Gym laid and then the bachelor's only

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Speaker 1: and there's so much going on in her life. There's

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Speaker 1: such easy work hours, and I know, and the guy

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Speaker 1: was kind. He was kind of a jerk about it,

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Speaker 1: you know, like we're in two different places in life.

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Speaker 1: I'm busy, I got kids, and she doesn't understand the pressures.

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Speaker 1: He's a little barky about it. Yeah, he was. He

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Speaker 1: was a little angry about it. But almost everybody texting

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Speaker 1: his side, just because of the trivial stuff that she

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Speaker 1: complained about. Seriously, your roommate's not tagging you in a

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Speaker 1: I think that's in the constitution. Yeah, seriously. And then

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Speaker 1: a lot of parents are mad at her because she

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Speaker 1: used the line, well, you have kids, just put them

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Speaker 1: from the TV or whatever, right, super easy. I don't

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Speaker 1: even think that. Then again, none of us do that.

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Speaker 1: If you want to do a second a update, I

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Speaker 1: have to do his email the show and we will

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Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back. Fellas