Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 3: Gwinn is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 3: Cheater and she's been married to her husband John for
Speaker 3: two years, but now she thinks something might be going on,
Speaker 3: so we'll see if we can help her out.
Speaker 4: Gwenn, what's going on? Why do you think your husban's cheating?
Speaker 2: Well, it's been you know, a good two years so far,
Speaker 2: and I've got a clothing business that's really just taken off,
Speaker 2: so I can spend a little bit of time at home.
Speaker 2: And my husband, John, he just started culinary school and
Speaker 2: he's working his butt off and he's always had a
Speaker 2: drive for it. He's totally excited about it, and I
Speaker 2: want to be there to support him in any way
Speaker 2: I can. And I'm also really glad that I can
Speaker 2: support him while he finishes school. You know. So again,
Speaker 2: things have been pretty good. It's just that ever since
Speaker 2: she started these classes in school, she hasn't been necessarily
Speaker 2: absent when it comes to us, but just like a
Speaker 2: little bit more standoffish, you know, like he's super focused
Speaker 2: and wants a little bit more than just finishing the school.
Speaker 2: He wants to just knock it out of the park,
Speaker 2: and he's just focused on everything other than us, you know.
Speaker 2: And there's also this you know, other dynamic where there's
Speaker 2: this girl in this class named April. She's cute, mousey
Speaker 2: and sort of the arts be guy, you know, and
Speaker 2: I know he likes her, you know, and she actually
Speaker 2: came over one night, you know, so they could work
Speaker 2: on a project for school together, and they made this
Speaker 2: amazing seared fish and you know, it was really good,
Speaker 2: so hard to be mad. But you know, while they
Speaker 2: were cooking together, they seemed a little cozy, you know,
Speaker 2: and it just it's sort of sent off some alarms
Speaker 2: in my head. Like I was like, that's a little
Speaker 2: bit too cozy for my taste, you know, get your
Speaker 2: hands off my mane. So I let it go, you know,
Speaker 2: but just decided it's a good idea to maybe keep
Speaker 2: an eye on that. And then I started to notice
Speaker 2: that he was getting these weird texts at like all hours,
Speaker 2: you know, sometimes even late at night. And I don't
Speaker 2: want to be the jealous type, and like immediately jumped
Speaker 2: to conclusion, but in the back of my mind, I'm like,
Speaker 2: I know it's that girl. I know it is Oh,
Speaker 2: so I asked him one night, like, where are these
Speaker 2: texts coming from?
Speaker 1: Who is this?
Speaker 2: You know? We were watching a movie and I was like,
Speaker 2: I can't take it anymore. I just need to know.
Speaker 2: And he got really annoyed, like she you know. When
Speaker 2: I asked he you know, and he's like, look, it's
Speaker 2: this April. She's got some school stuff she sent me
Speaker 2: and you know, it's nothing, It's no big deal. So
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, you know again, I didn't want
Speaker 2: to start a random fight. Didn't want to be like
Speaker 2: the total jealous type, not just two years into the marriage.
Speaker 2: But it bothers me so much. And I know him
Speaker 2: and he loves me, and I don't feel like he
Speaker 2: would cheat on me. But ever since he started these
Speaker 2: classes and hanging out with her, it's like he's turned
Speaker 2: into almost a different guy. You know.
Speaker 5: I just wonder if this is one of those situations
Speaker 5: where it's like April's not clearly seeing what boundaries are
Speaker 5: and is just kind of trying to make her way in,
Speaker 5: and maybe she is actually flirting with your man, like
Speaker 5: you read probably was right. I just I mean, what
Speaker 5: are the chances you think that your man actually would
Speaker 5: cross that line? And he probably feels good getting attention
Speaker 5: from somebody. I mean, jubile, doesn't it always feel good
Speaker 5: regardless if you're in a relationship. If somebody's crushing on you.
Speaker 3: I'm different with that. I don't like it. If they
Speaker 3: know I'm in a relationship, I don't like it.
Speaker 4: That's true. It's disrespectful. Okay.
Speaker 2: I could see that he didn't bothered him very much,
Speaker 2: you know, I mean honestly, like I was just like
Speaker 2: a wallpaper.
Speaker 4: I should say.
Speaker 3: I'm also very unaware if people are flirting with me too,
Speaker 3: So I wouldn't even probably know.
Speaker 4: Do you think that your man would know if somebody
Speaker 4: was flirting with him, Gwen.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Sometimes you doesn't know what I'm flirting with.
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. I'm the same way.
Speaker 3: So I've been in situations like that before, Like they're
Speaker 3: flirting with I'm like, what just having a conversation out
Speaker 3: taking my shirt off?
Speaker 4: What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 4: The woman always know? Yeah?
Speaker 3: All right, Well we'll see if we can figure it
Speaker 3: out for you. You told us what grocery store you
Speaker 3: guys are rewards card members at. So we'll play a song,
Speaker 3: come back and then call him and pretend to be
Speaker 3: from the grocery store and say that every single month,
Speaker 3: one random reward card winner gets the free flowers delivered
Speaker 3: from our floral department. We'll see if he sends us
Speaker 3: to you, or to April, okay, or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: Okay, got it?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well play a song, come back, get your to
Speaker 3: Catch a Cheater next. Right in the middle of to
Speaker 3: Catch a Cheater, if you're just joining us, Gwinn is
Speaker 3: on the phone and she thinks that her husband of
Speaker 3: two years named John might be cheating. So in a second,
Speaker 3: we're going to call him and pretend to be from
Speaker 3: the grocery store that they are rewards card members at
Speaker 3: and say that he's this month's lucky winner of thirty
Speaker 3: six long stimber red roses to be delivered to anybody
Speaker 3: that he wants. Will see if he sends him to Gwinn,
Speaker 3: his wife, or to somebody else. But before we do that, Gwinn,
Speaker 3: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 2: Okay? So he started culinary school and he's really into it,
Speaker 2: and you know, he's just sort of become a different person,
Speaker 2: super focused on that, and you know, a little less
Speaker 2: absence from me and the marriage so to speak. And
Speaker 2: there's always a third dynamic. You know. Her name is
Speaker 2: April and she's killed and Arcie and she actually came
Speaker 2: over one night and they were cooking together, and they
Speaker 2: were super like communicative with each other, you know, almost
Speaker 2: physically to the point where I was like, this could
Speaker 2: be a problem for me. And then all of a sudden,
Speaker 2: he started getting these texts at all hours of the night,
Speaker 2: you know, NonStop, And when I asked him about it,
Speaker 2: he got super defensive and like was like, it's no
Speaker 2: big deal, It's just April, blah blah blah. And I
Speaker 2: just feel like he's a different guy and it's sort
Speaker 2: of suspect.
Speaker 4: Well, are you ready for us to call him? Yes, Okay,
Speaker 4: here we go.
Speaker 3: Hi, this is a Joba calling from I was looking
Speaker 3: for a rewards card remember named John.
Speaker 1: I guess this is see what can I do for John?
Speaker 3: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 3: I'm actually calling with some good news. Congratulations. Here this
Speaker 3: month's big winner.
Speaker 1: Okay, big winner of what?
Speaker 4: Oh? Every single month you might not know.
Speaker 3: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member at
Speaker 3: random to say thank you very much for shopping with
Speaker 3: us and thank you for being such a loyal customer
Speaker 3: by gifting you thirty six long, slim red roses to
Speaker 3: be delivered from our floral department to anywhere in the
Speaker 3: fifty United States and a card to be delivered to
Speaker 3: anybody that you want.
Speaker 1: That's great, Okay, So like, do I have to come
Speaker 1: in or like you?
Speaker 3: That is one option. The other options are if you
Speaker 3: know who you want to send them to. I can
Speaker 3: also take the information over the phone.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I absolutely know what I'm going to send
Speaker 1: them to.
Speaker 3: Oh great, I've got my form pull up here. First,
Speaker 3: I would need the first and last name of the
Speaker 3: person that you would like to send them to.
Speaker 1: It's going to be Gwen.
Speaker 3: And is there anything you would like to put on
Speaker 3: a card? Would you like to send a card with it?
Speaker 1: Well, so it's gone to my think.
Speaker 6: I often describe her to other people at the light
Speaker 6: of my life for a reason. You know, like she is,
Speaker 6: she's smart, she's beautiful, she's so supportive of me.
Speaker 4: You know what happened with me?
Speaker 3: I was I started taking the culinary school, and then
Speaker 3: I was this other girl in the class and her
Speaker 3: and I started getting hot and heavy.
Speaker 1: Oh year, Hey, I'm actually in culinary school right now.
Speaker 4: That's interesting, Opra.
Speaker 3: Name's not Ah, that's John.
Speaker 4: This is actually, this is actually the Jubi Show. It's
Speaker 4: a radio show. My name's Jubile.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Hi, I'm Nina.
Speaker 3: Hi, I'm Victoria, and your wife Gwynn is actually on
Speaker 3: the phone.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 3: We do a segment on the show called to Catch
Speaker 3: a Cheater. Wherever you think your significant other might be
Speaker 3: sleeping around, we can try to catch them.
Speaker 4: So that's what this is.
Speaker 6: What So you're calling me because do you think my
Speaker 6: wife is cheating?
Speaker 2: No? Actually, I was a little bit nervous because all
Speaker 2: of a sudden, you have this friend April. She comes
Speaker 2: over to the house. You're cozy, cozy all the time,
Speaker 2: and she sends you these texts like at weird hours
Speaker 2: of the night, and you get completely distracted and you're
Speaker 2: super focused on finishing school. And I just was a
Speaker 2: little bit nervous, to be quite honest.
Speaker 6: Oh, oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry. I feel real bad
Speaker 6: that you. I wish you'd come and talk to me
Speaker 6: about this before we got to it.
Speaker 2: I mean, I've asked you about the text before, and
Speaker 2: I felt like you just kind of were annoyed and
Speaker 2: blew it off, you know. So, I mean, I just
Speaker 2: didn't know what to think, honestly, because we just haven't
Speaker 2: had much time for each other. And you're, like I said,
Speaker 2: super focused on school, which is great, but I don't
Speaker 2: want you to be super focused on April.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry if I came across as annoyed when you
Speaker 6: were asking me to the text messages. It's embarrassing to admit,
Speaker 6: but I didn't want you to feel disappointed in me
Speaker 6: because I've been frolling behind in class recently, and you know,
Speaker 6: like you've been so supportive about me, you know, getting
Speaker 6: my assignments done and doing this, and you know how
Speaker 6: much I love spending time in the kitchen. I just
Speaker 6: really didn't want you to feel disappointed. So I've been Yeah,
Speaker 6: I've been talking to April, but you know, she's been
Speaker 6: kind of like a big sister to me because she's
Speaker 6: been helping me out with assignments and she's been sending
Speaker 6: me like recipes and stuff like that, and you know,
Speaker 6: as much as I'm getting done in the class of
Speaker 6: my own, you.
Speaker 1: Know, she's been like a real lifeline.
Speaker 2: Right. Well, I couldn't be disappointed in you. I mean,
Speaker 2: I love you, but does April know that she's like
Speaker 2: a big sister.
Speaker 7: Well gay, so okay, I mean not to put her
Speaker 7: business out there, but like I'm pretty certain she has
Speaker 7: no interest in me.
Speaker 4: Gwyn thought that she was kind of flirting when she
Speaker 4: saw you guys hanging out.
Speaker 6: No, I mean, like she you know, we've been we're close,
Speaker 6: but like when you're in the kitchen, like you try
Speaker 6: to have as much fun as you can, you know,
Speaker 6: even though it's kind of like an intense environment, you know,
Speaker 6: so like you won't get playful.
Speaker 1: But like we never, at least for me, there's never
Speaker 1: been anything.
Speaker 4: There is John your wife, he was really worried.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I like again, I feel bad though, because I
Speaker 6: don't want her to worry about me or with any woman.
Speaker 2: Oh good, well it sort of changes everything. Knowing you
Speaker 2: know that April's preferences not men, because you know, they
Speaker 2: just say flirt, but it's not real flirting. So that
Speaker 2: makes me feel so much better. You know, it's it's
Speaker 2: or what's the what's the time I'm looking for? It's
Speaker 2: just it's not dangerous flirting, platonic. I'm sorry, I you know,
Speaker 2: just doubted you. But that's the text thing, you know too,
Speaker 2: like late at night and whatever, and you would just
Speaker 2: get so distracted.
Speaker 1: It just bothered me.
Speaker 6: So no, like I said, I can, I'll be more
Speaker 6: than happy to show you the text message.
Speaker 1: But they're all just recipes.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: She's really been to help me carry through.
Speaker 4: Yeah that's wrong, Yeah, goodness.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I mean, if anyone's a danger in the house, it
Speaker 6: would more likely be.
Speaker 1: You than me.
Speaker 2: Like she would be a danger because like the girl
Speaker 2: would come under her and not him.
Speaker 3: I thought he was saying she would more likely to cheat.
Speaker 3: I was like, that's right, I get it.
Speaker 5: Now.
Speaker 4: It sounds like you guys are going to be just fine.
Speaker 2: I hope. So yeah, I'm sorry, honey. I love you again.
Speaker 2: I didn't mean to be you know, I just want
Speaker 2: to be that girl, but like I love you and
Speaker 2: I'm so.
Speaker 1: Now Yeah, I love you too.
Speaker 6: You know, like I was gonna when I thought this
Speaker 6: was hard, Flowers, I was gonna.
Speaker 1: Tell them the right that you're the spice of my life.
Speaker 6: And I mean that, you know, everything about you makes
Speaker 6: me a better person, make me cry.
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