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Speaker 2: Her to hr oh they follow you woo.

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Speaker 1: I thirty four male, am a lead developer on a

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Speaker 1: their employees we can see, recognize, but not necessarily know

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Speaker 1: their names. Recently, we had a new hire, Christa thirty

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Speaker 1: project that I was working on. I have a history

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Speaker 1: with Christa from college. By the way, this comes from

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Speaker 1: due Construction seventy four to thirty five in the ar

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Speaker 1: slash Okay storytime subreddits. So I also hope you this

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Speaker 1: isn't the company that I used to work for. It

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Speaker 1: kind of sounds like it. In college, I was a

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Speaker 1: lot more in my own shel I didn't really treat

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Speaker 1: myself well. I was very much the introverted nerd down

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Speaker 3: And Christa did have quite a.

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Speaker 1: Few friends in college, but at least in my view,

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Speaker 1: she wasn't super popular, but she was well liked and

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Speaker 1: was conventionally attractive ah and unconventionally an ale. No just kidding,

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Speaker 1: that was just me. We shared a few glasses together,

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Speaker 1: and one day asked me for some help on an assignment.

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Speaker 1: I helped her on it and we talked, and from

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Speaker 3: Fake what's We're good?

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Speaker 1: No story. I helped her on a few more assignments,

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Speaker 1: and finally she asked me if I wanted to meet

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Speaker 3: Oh, Netflix and chill, but Krista with the coffee talk

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Speaker 3: about chemistry.

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Speaker 1: Oh goodness. I said sure, and when I got there,

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Speaker 3: Hmmm.

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Speaker 1: I waited about twenty minutes before I called her. She

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Speaker 1: Christa saying something like, why would I date a fat

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Speaker 1: loser like you?

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Speaker 3: Oh what what?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 3: Op, he's a guy or girl? A woman?

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Speaker 2: A woman?

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, wow wow wow wow.

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Speaker 2: Wow, dude, what the heck?

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Speaker 1: I looked at the front window of the shop and

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Speaker 1: saw one of Crystal's friends, one of Christa's friends, holding

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Speaker 3: Okay, just super quick, super quick.

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Speaker 1: Guys, I did not go to college dropout, were there

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Speaker 1: like bullies like this in college.

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Speaker 2: Like no, no, no, no, no, no, there there wasn't. I read

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Speaker 2: a study and it was like people saw bullying when

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Speaker 2: they hit the tenth grade for some reason. Okay, well

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Speaker 2: in college like.

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Speaker 1: This like this kind of like but there's like annoying,

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Speaker 3: The thing is, if you meet a bully, you're like

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Speaker 3: you did, You're weird. But yeah, yeah yeah, like high school,

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Speaker 3: you have to see this person every day. In college

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Speaker 3: you're like, okay, I'm just sitting next to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that that is so weird that they like

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Speaker 2: set up a prank on her in a way, what

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Speaker 1: Stupid. For the next few weeks there were jokes about

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Speaker 1: me flyers with my face from the coffee shop video

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Speaker 2: What the heck?

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Speaker 3: It kept my head.

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Speaker 1: Down, and within a month the next big thing popped

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Speaker 1: up on campus and I was forgotten. Didn't stop Christa

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Speaker 3: By the way, Opie is a man. Yes, Christa is

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Speaker 3: a woman. Oh okay, there's a little confusion there.

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Speaker 1: Come on, when they saw me, they would say that

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Speaker 1: of the student body. Thank dude, Thank you. After college,

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Speaker 1: I did learn about self care. I did learn about

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Speaker 1: But I don't know if bringing up the call college

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Speaker 1: around for our discussion. Most of my rational brain really

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Speaker 3: I have a recourse Reddit.

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Speaker 1: Would I be the a hole if it's old HR

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Speaker 1: about my past with Christa. We have a big update

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Speaker 1: coming up. We have a lot more to this story,

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Speaker 1: but this is a really interesting. This is very interesting question.

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Speaker 1: Can we put up a poll TELLHR or N. I

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Speaker 1: would love to know what Chat has to say.

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Speaker 3: Riley, what say you?

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Speaker 2: What we're telling HR? Yeah, we're telling her that. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: Let's say, like we bring someone on the team, yep,

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Speaker 2: and someone did this to me or anyone else on

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because because it's like, you don't know if they're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, that kind of past behavior like that, they're

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Speaker 2: capable of doing that. Remember that one story we read

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Speaker 2: of like some girl working at a place and she's like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I deleted I deleted all the data.

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Speaker 2: From my last job. It gives that vibes. Yeah, because

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Speaker 1: It's just like and you know, for like us at

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Speaker 1: the end of the day, we like other companies they

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Speaker 1: want to work with people who we love. You know.

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Speaker 1: It's like we love Keon, we love Riley, throw on.

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Speaker 3: The bus, we love Keon, I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: We love and all the better he.

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Speaker 3: Brings Okay, I'm tell HR.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait h in utah right now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, true, yeah, we have no HR.

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Speaker 1: Actually you know who should really head up a JAR chip?

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Speaker 1: That's true, that's true. Yeah, but yeah no. I was

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Speaker 1: But I think it is because you don't know if

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Speaker 1: she's gonna not just do this to you again. But

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Speaker 1: what about the other people.

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Speaker 3: On the Oh yeah yeah, safety for everyone, you know

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Speaker 1: And at least at least you have people know and

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Speaker 3: Maybe this is being a little bit paranoid.

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Speaker 1: But if if she just like tells the tale but

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Speaker 2: What I'm gonna do is I'm gonna get her fired.

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Speaker 2: And then oh wait, Addie proud soarsman since two months

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 1: It's bad, but it goes. It goes kind of hard.

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Speaker 1: That goes kind of hard. I'm not gonna lie. It

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Speaker 1: what that chat says. One hundred percent tell a.

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Speaker 2: Char and this is a long story too.

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Speaker 1: It's a long story. We got more guys. This is

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Speaker 1: a five K nineteen. So yesterday some things happened, some bad,

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Speaker 1: oh mostly good. There were mixed responses, most telling me

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Speaker 1: On Redditkman read its top a HR professional mister D's

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Speaker 1: I did as my lawyer instructed. I said that a

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Speaker 1: new project manager, Christa, was someone I went to college with.

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Speaker 2: This is so professional.

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Speaker 3: I like it.

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Speaker 1: I like it a lot. I liked I liked the move.

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Speaker 3: And now it's like I know he.

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Speaker 2: We're flipping that.

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Speaker 3: So Christa had started talked about we are flipping that.

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Speaker 2: We're making sure Christa is not employed at this company anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just get it fired.

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Speaker 2: Because because Sandy wasn't in that meeting and he heard

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Speaker 3: Oh, but understood it was just harmless.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm mmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmm. I'm going for the throat now.

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Speaker 2: I am sorry. I am surprised she still has a

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Speaker 1: I just had a throwt of conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 1: So I'm believing in it less now, But I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: if that didn't happen, so anyways, it's wrong.

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Speaker 2: That was conspiracy theory.

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Speaker 3: Like three, Pa, you're right, You're right.

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Speaker 1: I was to the gig, so she didn't She didn't

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Speaker 3: Now, there we go. Let's freaking go. WHOA.

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Speaker 1: Now I wasn't privy to what happened in that conference room,

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Speaker 3: That's right, I like, that's such an important detail, she said.

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Speaker 1: I was eating, eating my my chili dog, chili dog,

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Speaker 3: Excuse me?

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Speaker 2: I got mustard on my freaking I got.

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Speaker 1: Mustard on my shirt. Mustard on the beat.

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Speaker 3: Kanye, huhs Kanya, You're gonna hurt yourself. We hear something pop.

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Speaker 3: I hear something pop. I'm gonna be like, are you okay?

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Speaker 3: I'm in physical therapy. My knees are great. I did

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, the bad one. WHOA got you?

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Speaker 2: Ye got kicked in the face. Dude got them?

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Speaker 3: You just keep chatting the face. You've got John's feet

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Speaker 2: You he just got you, dude, No.

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Speaker 1: He got you. Got chat anyways, had a muster stayed

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. It just kept eating. It's kind

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Speaker 1: we went back to work, but speculation was high. It

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Speaker 3: Wow, Krista looked like she was.

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Speaker 1: this will mean, but it appears for now that Christa

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Speaker 1: is still working here. No, but I appreciate the lengths

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Speaker 1: coming up. But how are you feeling right now? You're

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Speaker 2: You want to happy, But I do feel better about

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Speaker 2: this whole thing.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it was like a warning, like you gotta stop it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like, hey, literally we told you this

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Speaker 1: what like, not even like an hour ago, like two

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Speaker 1: of this, you're out the door. Yeah, like zo, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: not only did you did you not quiet this down?

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Speaker 1: But it started right after we shut the door of

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Speaker 2: Sure, Sandy may have heard it yesterday, But why are

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Speaker 2: we telling people when you get a new job, like

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Speaker 2: do you not like working?

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Speaker 1: If anything, it's a project manager, like come on, oh,

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Speaker 1: Op could easily be making six figures. Yeah, easily easily

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Speaker 1: and uh. It just goes to show too that if

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Speaker 3: Has a trillion? Yeah, Like how far can we push this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So do we your Op?

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Speaker 1: Do we do anything more?

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 2: I think Op is on the good side, right No,

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Speaker 2: just be yourself. If it happens again, you know what

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Speaker 2: to do, you know, tell HR. But we're's good. Op

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Speaker 2: did what he was supposed to do, and you're staying low.

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Speaker 2: You were staying low, stay low, you're working harder right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's what I'd be doing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Like I'm trying to get a promotion at

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah, yeah, Like, hey, you know.

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Speaker 3: What, just take half her salary and send them like no,

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Speaker 3: I'll take her job when she's gone. Yeah, if it's

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Speaker 3: above I like yeah, no, no, he has Op is

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Speaker 3: literally in the clear right now. There's nothing he has

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Speaker 3: and smile, just smile and wave at Krista literally.

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Speaker 1: So update number two Monday wasn't a crap show, so

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Speaker 1: that was good. My supervisor and the HR officer did

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Speaker 1: there are company outing is like golf bowlings and main event,

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Speaker 1: the most fun, wild and kooky.

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Speaker 3: Thing out there. Yeah, what do we doing?

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Speaker 1: Main event? Huh?

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Speaker 2: It's a place, it's all. It's like a Daving Gusters.

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Speaker 3: Oh what, it's a real like a Raven Gusters. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I've been to that place before in Tennessee.

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Speaker 1: That's stuff. I've literally never heard him in my life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a Gaven Rusters.

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Speaker 3: I like that.

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Speaker 1: That's fun.

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Speaker 3: You could just say our kid.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that was an adults arcade and that sounds crazy, right.

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Speaker 3: I think they have gambling there now.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised. We are strictly professional and not

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Speaker 1: and looked pretty ashamed. During this, Christa was sitting at

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Speaker 1: the other end of the conference table. Bro, Christa cannot

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Speaker 2: Hertivity is down.

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Speaker 3: Bro, I guarantee you Opie is ecstatic to go to

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Speaker 3: work every day now like Christas like stressed out of

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Speaker 3: her mind, sweat stains and all. I hope they have

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Speaker 3: the like the glass meeting rooms, like they're watching her

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Speaker 3: breathe Like, just like.

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Speaker 2: Dude, it feels like it's in the olden times when

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Speaker 2: they're about to hang people. They got all the people

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Speaker 2: they are about to hang, and a Georg's like and

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Speaker 2: then they're like hang them like the guillotine. Yeah, the guillotine. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's how INTENSI feels in the professional workplace. Come on,

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Speaker 2: does be real here?

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Speaker 1: So Krista was sitting at the other end of the

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Speaker 3: Us, stop with the subtle.

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Speaker 1: My supervisor said he wants to consider this matter closed

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Speaker 1: and for us to get back to offering great solutions

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Speaker 1: to our clients. Everyone filed out of the conference room

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Speaker 1: and went back to work. Lunch on Monday was pretty tense,

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Speaker 1: but Tuesday management had a local Mexican Mexican place bring

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Speaker 1: in Taco Tuesday for us Let's go, and the mood

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Speaker 1: was put on a performance improvement plan all within her

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Speaker 1: first two weeks. That's crazy, dude.

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Speaker 2: Final warning.

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Speaker 1: Talk to me.

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Speaker 2: We pushed it over.

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Speaker 3: Oh you try? Oh yeah, what do you think You

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Speaker 3: just keep you keep trying to push it. You're like, hey, Christa,

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00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:07,960
Speaker 3: how you doing.

444
00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:09,960
Speaker 1: Here's the thing.

445
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,680
Speaker 2: There's one thing you can do to push her over.

446
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 3: Oh what's that?

447
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 2: You put creep on your laptop? Can you call a

448
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:20,679
Speaker 2: tean and.

449
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:24,280
Speaker 3: Be like, oh, yeah, you can. You can frame her.

450
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 1: You hire you hire a woman that looks similar to

451
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,479
Speaker 1: like have take take one of their like startup puddies.

452
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 1: You know, she puts it on, so it's like the

453
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 1: cameras quiet. Can't Kurt really see they? Can you know

454
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,960
Speaker 1: see your hair? Like oh she has brunette hair, yes,

455
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 1: And she like spray paints creep on the laptop in

456
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 1: the middle of the night and then walks.

457
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 3: Out of the other. Yes, okay, let's just do the

458
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 3: sensible thing here. No, this is a sensible thing. We

459
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 3: don't want her to work here anymore. I would just

460
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 3: play it. I would literally just like patronize her.

461
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 1: Honestly, I think we're so up right now, we're getting greedy.

462
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't want to, you don't want to get

463
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 3: too far ahead.

464
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: We can we can't even patronize her. I think we

465
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 1: need to. We need to stay the course and just

466
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 1: don't say anything. Yeah, it's worked out perfectly. Let her

467
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Sophia Callen just blast creep by radio

468
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,320
Speaker 1: Head the office. That's pretty funny. That's pretty funny. Yeah,

469
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 1: I think I think we need to. We've already gotten

470
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: so far by by our strategy of just like shutting

471
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:26,959
Speaker 1: up and letting it unfold.

472
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 3: I think we keep the course. It's been process this.

473
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,439
Speaker 3: Yeah she is, it's only been two weeks. She's up

474
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 3: at night.

475
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 1: She'll probably get kicked out. I would love to see

476
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 1: a short that would be fun. Well, animate it, guys.

477
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: We have a thing that we're working on that's kind

478
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:48,119
Speaker 1: of like b roll. Uh did I tell you Kean?

479
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 3: No, he saw he saw in the thing. Oh yeah,

480
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 3: you saw the chat chat.

481
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 2: Didn't you oh that?

482
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah? What where were you doing that? No? Why

483
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 3: were you doing that? I don't want to see. That

484
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 3: was kind of horrific, dude. There's gonna be a lot

485
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 3: more of it, a lot, dude. Well, if I didn't

486
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,680
Speaker 3: like it, that means chat's gonna you don't even know exactly,

487
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 3: so we know what you guys want.

488
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 1: So uh, not sure how these rumors. Not sure how

489
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,119
Speaker 1: true these rumors are. But with how isolated Kristin now

490
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: appears to be to the rest of the team, it

491
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: is it is clear that everyone else is not willing

492
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: to show to socialize with her beyond their work functions.

493
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 3: I considered this matter.

494
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,719
Speaker 1: Closed for myself, and if Christa worked hard and got

495
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:33,959
Speaker 1: her redemption ARC, I'd be fine with it. But then

496
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 1: last night happened.

497
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 2: T TD.

498
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 3: We got the tea into.

499
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: Put in the team Christa. So not sure where Christa

500
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 1: got my address, but she was outside my house last

501
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 1: night and luckily my doorball camera cott it.

502
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 2: Let's go.

503
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 3: We got the recording. We got the recording.

504
00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: We got her in four K boys, so I can

505
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 1: pretty accurately transcribe it. She rung and asked if we

506
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 1: could talk, I said through the digital doorbell. There was

507
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: nothing to talk about and she better leave because this

508
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: is now harassment.

509
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 3: She pleaded for me to come.

510
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: Outside and discuss it. I declined and emphasized that she's

511
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 1: not welcome. Can I ask a question, who's the creep now?

512
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 3: Oh? Mark?

513
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 1: She then said that she had a crush on me

514
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: in college. Oh that her friends found out. She asked

515
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: me to coffee and pressured her to turn it into

516
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 1: a harassment campaign, and she was afraid of them disowning

517
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: her for liking a guy like me. Guys, I wanted

518
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: her to laugh so finhard. I was socially awkward back

519
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: in college, but even I knew that this was bs hell.

520
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 1: I wasn't even interested in Christopher for a day. I

521
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: just thought she just wanted to be my friend. I

522
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,120
Speaker 1: told her that I didn't care what she has to say.

523
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 3: She has to leave.

524
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: She told me I could just ask Sandy what she

525
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: told her and it would clear this all up.

526
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 3: Oh, now you're bringing Sandy into this girl, are you stupid?

527
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: I declined and said that this matter is in the office.

528
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,159
Speaker 1: And I said that this matter in the office is

529
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:28,719
Speaker 1: closed for good now, closing time. Christa finally made an

530
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 1: exaggerated sigh and walked off. I took the video recording

531
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: from my doorbell and sent it to the employment lawyer

532
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 1: and we'll give it to my supervisor in HR today.

533
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 3: Wow, how the tables have turned on Krista and I

534
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 3: love it.

535
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 1: I will be shocked if she lasts longer than this Friday.

536
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 3: Now, dude, beautiful and we have updates three so beautiful.

537
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 1: What do we think is gonna happen?

538
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 3: Dude? Oh that do you spare her? Hell? No? The

539
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 3: fact that no, the fact that she wanted to apologize,

540
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 3: It wasn't even a real apology. She wanted to date

541
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 3: you as.

542
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 2: She found his address. How the how the f did

543
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 2: she find his address?

544
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: First off?

545
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 2: Second off, makes up on BS story, tries to get

546
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 2: Sandy involved.

547
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 3: She's a crab and a bucket girl. All you had

548
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 3: to do was just work hard and she couldn't do that. Dude. No,

549
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 3: we're flaming her, lighted her on fire. She literally could

550
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 3: have apologized at work in front of people like hey,

551
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, and like let's be civil and just go

552
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 3: our separate ways.

553
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 2: And yet email, Yeah, you could have wrote an email

554
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 2: saying I'm sorry you didn't know.

555
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 3: That was it?

556
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 2: That was it?

557
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 3: You could go to his hat.

558
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: You did the worst thing, dude, So crazy because it's like,

559
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: do you not think that this is going to like

560
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: backfire or look crazy? Because Opie's like, hey, hey, I'm

561
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: finally at home. I I don't have to think about

562
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 1: this mess. You know, I can relax behind gets behind me.

563
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, and exactly, And he still has to see you

564
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 2: every day at work and all you do you had

565
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 2: you had to go to his house.

566
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,880
Speaker 3: Can I have no freedom? Do you do you wanna?

567
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 3: Do you want to watch me while I sleep too?

568
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 1: Do youde? Is that what you want? Do you want

569
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: to live stream so you can watch me sleep and

570
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: be like ask Sandy like incept him in his dreams?

571
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: Like you will ask Sandy tomorrow and she will clear

572
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 1: everything up and you'll believe her.

573
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 3: And we're gonna date now.

574
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 2: Dude, I'm so excited. This is beautiful.

575
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 1: You don't be a crazy plot twist. He was like,

576
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: I can't even lie. I'm kind of into it and

577
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: we're going.

578
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 3: On our date.

579
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: She bad, she bad?

580
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 3: Nah?

581
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: If you would have dated her, get her fired and then.

582
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 3: You can date her.

583
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: There we go.

584
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's gonna go yeah, and.

585
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 2: Then she feels so bad at herself that she has

586
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 2: to give. She's gonna work so hard to get your

587
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 2: approval and you're just gonna true to bad and it's

588
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: just gonna be like this whole thing because she has

589
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 2: daddy issues and it's gonna be like a toxic beautiful relationship.

590
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 1: Dude, toxic Riley and the chat ladies and gentleman.

591
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 2: We'll play with me.

592
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, my evil side is soft. So what that's pretty,

593
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 3: isn't it? Update number three Chris is fired. Yes, yes,

594
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 3: well that was quick.

595
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: I didn't even have to send hr the doorable CAMVID,

596
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: but I did send it to the lawyer I was

597
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: talking to. Lawyer is drafting a cease and desist and

598
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 1: possibly a restraining order if needed. Christa somehow got my

599
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: address from someone in it. The new it t hire

600
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 1: is suspended because of his data breach, and everyone got

601
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: a memo about data security yesterday morning, so it was

602
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: it was literally like her getting the address that already

603
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: went down.

604
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 3: So this is this is even more worse than framing her.

605
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 3: And even if she did one onto his compounder and

606
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 3: did creep right right.

607
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 2: Do do do do?

608
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 1: And everyone got a memo about data security yesterday morning,

609
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,959
Speaker 1: including the usual about fishing scams. Christa's desk was empty

610
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: when I came in yesterday morning. There we go, There

611
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 1: we go. And since I'm taking the necessary legal steps,

612
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: I'm considering this matter closed.

613
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 2: No, go farther, Go farther.

614
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 3: Your mental stability is priceless.

615
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 1: That's right.

616
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 2: Take her for all she's worth.

617
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 3: Just just go all the way.

618
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: Speaking of which, you're already seeing this, you might as

619
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: well go all the way to tap her profile and

620
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: join us every weekday live at three pm PSD. Because

621
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: we're live, you could be talking to us right now.

622
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: You could be watching Riley just vicious, vengeful joy right now?

623
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: Does really give me some good?

624
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 3: Joel gives a joy? Right? Riley looks like the boyfriend

625
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 3: from Scream right now. Oh, I'm sorry, maybe you're too

626
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 3: young for that.

627
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: Haven't seen it. I don't watch movies.

628
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 3: So you look like the guy who plays Shaggy, like

629
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 3: youing school, like boo re re Reggy, like Schoob. No,

630
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 3: it's like the black shirt and everything in, the crazy

631
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 3: eyes and the laughing. Just don't get on Riley's bad side.

632
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't do it, guys, don't do it this gird.

633
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 3: Oh kind of you look like a combination of him

634
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 3: and Matthew Brodrick. Oh, said Matthew Broderick. I don't think

635
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,719
Speaker 3: it's Matthew Padrick. Yeah, a combination of them.

636
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 2: Nice.

637
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: AnyWho? Up at number four, Christa did show up at

638
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: my front.

639
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 3: Door one more time. Chris is back. What the heck?

640
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 3: Oh oh p, I'm coming for you.

641
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: I called the cops and she was removed but not

642
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: arrested since she technically didn't do anything yet. Lawyer served

643
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: her with a season assist, and it has been communicated

644
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 1: to me that she understands work is almost back to normal.

645
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: No one wants to talk about Christa anymore. I consider

646
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: this truly resolved.

647
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 2: Now, dude, that's gonna be wild around like Christmas party time,

648
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 2: the rumors of Christo. It's be like remember the Christa incident?

649
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

650
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 3: How is it?

651
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: How is it? I feel like everyone would be talking

652
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: about I'm sorry, one's talking to you about it.

653
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 2: Friends are gonna get fired right exactly.

654
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: Just to put a bow on this, I feel like

655
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: this was a kind of a textbook example of like,

656
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 1: like if you were like like a work bullying and

657
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: harassment and stuff like that. Do what everything OPI did

658
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: because like he handled it perfectly, because it.

659
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, everything it did for the workplace, and as

660
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 2: soon as it went outside of the workplace, what he did.

661
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 1: Beautiful, beautiful, no notes, no no notes. I love it

662
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: freaking great. Congrats OPI, congrats Opie. And that's in that story.

663
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 3: But we got somesh what oh we yeah, you know it.

664
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 3: You gotta say it. Hm, hm, you know it's time

665
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Speaker 3: for it, right, yeah? Oh really yeah? Spin that wheel?

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Speaker 3: I like spin the wheel.

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Speaker 2: We could instead of trivia, we could do a switch

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Speaker 2: a switch where I'm you and you'r me.

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Speaker 1: That's true. That'd be fun. But we're gonna see right

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Speaker 1: to land on it first.

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Speaker 3: All right, we're breaking the wheel. The wheel's broken. Trivia's

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Speaker 3: horrible too. Can we do with the people? Then? Can

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Speaker 3: I not do that for the people where everyone's gonna

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Speaker 3: be really upset? Your guys trivia knowledge.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they would be very pissed off, would be John,

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Speaker 2: I'm bad.

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Speaker 3: John, you don't know, Like even Dakota was like, all right,

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Speaker 3: well we'll let you get five four and John doesn't

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Speaker 3: know it. Okay, But should we do like music? You

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Speaker 3: what about do we have any more? O K O

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Speaker 3: P Jeopardy.

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Speaker 2: I mean I haven't set it up, but we could

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Speaker 2: do just like as hut you bet for some Jeopardy questions? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: do that?

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Speaker 3: Should you like music trivia?

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Speaker 2: You do music if you do music or basketball? But

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Speaker 2: other than that, I suck at trivia?

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Speaker 3: Do we do? We wanna do one more wheel spin?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like we can do our.

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Speaker 2: Trivia, right, we get a trivia we can try trivia.

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Speaker 3: Let's give it a shot.

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Speaker 2: As shabt, I'll read these donuts, uh cleanness. Thanks for

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Speaker 2: the twenty five us D skippy. Thanks to the tim

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Speaker 2: box seven months. I'm excited to catch my first live

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Speaker 2: stream in a month. Just finish my master's degree and

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Speaker 2: can now study you guys. It can now study you guys.

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Speaker 3: Oh, let's go.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you can study us. I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: are are we your like PhD thesis? Because that would

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Speaker 1: be pretty awesome. That's so funny.

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Speaker 3: Need to do five categories of music trivia?

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Speaker 2: Music? Well, I actually do listen to more to the same,

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00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 2: but I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys want rap trivia or music trivia?

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Speaker 1: What's something? Well, what's that well, what's something that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, if you do wrap in basketball?

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Speaker 3: No, because then I'll be specific to you. Did you

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00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 3: tell about basketball? What about? What about? What about?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Uh, trivia?

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Speaker 1: That's good for kids that grew up in the two thousands, sure, right,

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Speaker 1: two thousand? Early two thousands kids two thousand stories.

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Speaker 2: Of early or brain rot trivia?

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Speaker 3: No early?

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Speaker 2: That could be fun survival or nature trivia, saw mill facts. Dude,

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Speaker 2: I don't know anything about show me a tree. I

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Speaker 2: can't tell you what that is. Yeah, I just cut

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Speaker 2: it down. Would hate you, I really would?

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Speaker 3: You guys want to do Okay, do you guys see

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Speaker 3: this right? Do you guys want to do trivia? After?

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Speaker 2: We can't see anything?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: The timer?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I'll do trivia.

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Speaker 3: Now, sure that's okay. Uh do you want let's read

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Speaker 3: the donis first? Did you eat all?

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Speaker 2: I read that?

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Speaker 3: Oh? The tomlet Tomlet?

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Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks. So look, I have one

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Speaker 2: story coming down the pipe, but I have one happening

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Speaker 2: now with the contractor screwing me out of money. Let

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Speaker 2: me submit, of freaking course always you know, slash okay,

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Speaker 2: story time please anything.

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Speaker 1: By the way, guys, we are real ones. Remember that Reddit.

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Speaker 1: They tried to shut us down. Oh, they didn't want

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Speaker 1: us to win, they didn't want us to succeed.

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Speaker 2: You know wh We're at right now on Reddit seven

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Speaker 2: point five k members on Reddit. We were at nine

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Speaker 2: k last time.

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Speaker 3: We are so close.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, guys, please keep submitting your stories because it's

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Speaker 1: growing the community over there, which is like awesome, and

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00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 1: we're literally almost back to where we.

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Speaker 2: Were ange and I read one from directly from our subreddit.

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Speaker 2: It was pretty crazy.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 1: I love when we get the ones attrection from the community.

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Speaker 2: Dude, Addie proud Swordsman since two months sending hearts for

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Speaker 2: John Riley and whispers Key Whispers. I really miss Sam

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Speaker 2: always gws, Sophia and Dakota. Dude, freaking Addy.

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Speaker 3: That guys do.

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Speaker 1: The other day, Addie was like, we were eating breakfast.

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Speaker 1: He's like, what are you eating a hamburger cheeseburger? And

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Speaker 1: we're like, we're not that American that we just just

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Speaker 1: rip a cheeseburger at thirty am in the morning. But

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Speaker 1: it was so hilarious.

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Speaker 3: I mean, we all have once in our lives, right multiple,

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Speaker 3: don't you dare, don't there's.

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Speaker 1: No shot you're lying You've definitely eat a burger for breakfast.

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Speaker 1: It's some just like road trip, all right, you need

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Speaker 1: to stop at a place whatever you in and out

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Speaker 1: like the first place to eat no responsors.

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Speaker 4: You and I.

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Speaker 2: You and I are the same when it comes to

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Speaker 2: breakfast foods. We gotta eat our breakfast food before we

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Speaker 2: do anything.

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Speaker 1: It's true, but sometimes it just happens where the first

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Speaker 1: meal of the day happens.

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Speaker 3: That's like, you mean you mean to tell me you

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Speaker 3: want to cook out and you were like, I don't want.

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Speaker 2: No free sponsors. What the heck, dude, you just got me.

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Speaker 2: I know that's so, but like you know, maybe I

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Speaker 2: may have had like a like a breakfast burger at

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Speaker 2: some point in my life.

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Speaker 1: So I digress.

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Speaker 3: It sounds so good. Let's read some YouTube super.

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Speaker 2: Chat fix mixed tell hr about her. Yes we did

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Speaker 2: and she got fired LFG Carla Woods twenty five more

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Speaker 2: likes and we got it and thank you again for

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Speaker 2: your ten gift to memberships. We got one more donation

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Speaker 2: on the other link and donation for Hannah ten fifteen bucks.

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Speaker 2: Have a great night guys by Hannah.

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Speaker 3: Hannah. Did Hannah ever say what you've wanted? I think

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Speaker 3: we just put a period. Period is like a period? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Just put yeah, just put a or like a space.

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Speaker 1: I would love it if it just looks like empty.

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Speaker 3: That would be like, yeah, just parentheses. But the Great

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Speaker 3: Hannah has spoken quo quote quotation marks. I feel like

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Speaker 3: if we hit this, what we just get a big one? No?

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Speaker 1: No, oh that I know. I thought we got a

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Speaker 1: great one.

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Speaker 2: Uh, Mama, swag this for the five buckarunos. I'm loving

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Speaker 2: these boys strings and I'm looking forward to the whole

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Speaker 2: family being back together soon. Feel better everyone, Yeah, thanks, mam.

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Speaker 2: I wish everyone would be I wish people would show

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Speaker 2: up for their production meetings. I missed them.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna happen soon, I hope.

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Speaker 3: And I think that's it. I think you got some

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Speaker 3: got some trivia for us.

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Speaker 2: Buddy, I do some.

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Speaker 3: Let me see there's anything else. Oh, speaking of the.

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Speaker 2: Hand Nana Jones, mom, thanks for being here for four months.

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Speaker 2: I love watching you guys. Y'all make my day. Dude,

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Speaker 2: you commenting that makes my day.

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Speaker 1: I was literally gonna say that.

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Speaker 3: Stop. Yeah. Speaking of and sink, let's do some two

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Speaker 3: thousands trivia?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Nice kill? All right? I have again some categories for

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Speaker 3: early two thousands trivia. Since Riley is the one that's younger,

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Speaker 3: let's have John go first.

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Speaker 1: And is this early two thousands trivia or trivia kids

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Speaker 1: that grew up in the early two thousands.

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Speaker 3: Early two thousands trivia.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna I'm not gonna remember when did nine

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Speaker 2: to eleven happen?

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Speaker 3: No clue? Yeah, what are the categories? We have? Pulp culture?

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Speaker 3: We have two questions for catt pop culture, technology, movies, music, events,

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Speaker 3: and that's it. Let's do technology technology. You want one

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Speaker 3: or two? It is like it's just a question one

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Speaker 3: or question question one? Uh? Question?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 1: Sorry?

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Speaker 3: One? You guys ready again? Slap your thigh for me

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Speaker 3: as loud as you can. That's how you do the

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Speaker 3: We need to get little beepers. We do what popular

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Speaker 3: messaging app allowed users to create custom screen names and

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Speaker 3: sign in with a unique way message in the early

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Speaker 3: two thousands. You're supposed to hear the question first and yeah,

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Speaker 3: AOL it's AOL or in this case a I am,

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, AOL instant messenger. But you were right there.

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Speaker 1: We go what.

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Speaker 3: It's basically, I'll give that. Do you guys remember your

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Speaker 3: like aim accounts were.

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Speaker 1: Never made one.

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Speaker 3: I'm yeah, okay, what we're talking about? Man, That shows

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Speaker 3: how old you are.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, next time we'll do trivia that two thousand kids.

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Speaker 1: But this was a little out of Riley's.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, which this is the next category? Does

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Speaker 3: that mean technology?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, John, let's go technology too again.

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Speaker 3: Wait for me to say the question or ask the question,

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Speaker 3: and then slap first person to slap after the question.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Which mobile device became widely popular after its release in

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Speaker 3: two thousand and four, known for its sleek design and clickwheel.

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Speaker 1: iPod.

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Speaker 3: I'm looking for a specific one iPod, John, What did

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Speaker 3: you say? Uh? You John said something before you said

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Speaker 3: something in Riley?

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Speaker 2: He said it wrong.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll said I was wrong.

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Speaker 3: Oh, vix mix hundred bucks bucks more time, more time,

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Speaker 3: but no, actually we're not. We're still nothing more time yet. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we got this, but wow, we'll keep We'll keep going

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Speaker 3: with the trivia.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we got trivia.

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Speaker 3: It was I'm not going to give you any points here.

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Speaker 3: It was iPad, iPod mini, iud mini.

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Speaker 2: I said iod, Sorry that.

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Speaker 3: I was asking first one. We all missed it, all right,

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00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 3: I got pop culture, movies, music and events.

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Speaker 1: Let's do events.

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Speaker 3: Is this to me?

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Speaker 1: I lost it.

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Speaker 3: No, it's gonna be Riley this time. You want one

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Speaker 3: or two? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Which if you want rally? Which category to pop culture one?

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Speaker 3: Pop culture one? If I want to see if Riley

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Speaker 3: gets us always If any of you guys get this,

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Speaker 3: I would know it. Who starred as the lead in

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Speaker 3: the early two thousands reality TV show Newly Weds alongside

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Speaker 3: her then husband Nick Lache from ninety eight.

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Speaker 1: Degrees justin Timberlake.

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Speaker 3: It's it's a female.

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00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: Oh, justin Timberlake, Rihanna oh Man, all right, one more

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00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: guest per person Beyonce.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Beyonce's mom, Jessica Simpson.

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00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:52,880
Speaker 3: That's the answer. I'm not giving it to you. You

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Speaker 3: literally looked the chat.

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Speaker 2: Good job chat, Thank you, Jello bo.

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Speaker 3: Let's go to pop culture two. I hope, I hope

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Speaker 3: you get this. I knew you guys weren't get that.

887
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,479
Speaker 3: I hope you guys get this. One which animated? Oh sorry?

888
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 3: What animated show featuring characters like Timmy Turner and Cosmo,

889
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,360
Speaker 3: premiered on Nickelodeon in two thousand and one. Oh that

890
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 3: was John fairly odd parents. That's that's a good example

891
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 3: of something that works for both of us. Questions like

892
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 3: that John is up to zero, I got movies, music

893
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 3: and events.

894
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: Let's get movies. Movie one?

895
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,319
Speaker 3: All right? Oh nice question. In two thousand and one,

896
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 3: this movie, featuring hobbits, elves and a powerful ring to,

897
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 3: launched one of the most successful fantasy trilogies in film history.

898
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 3: What is it? Oh? Chat? That was a tiebreaker. First

899
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 3: person to say, who got it? Lord of damn it? No,

900
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 3: I was gonna say chat ya. Also, we can't, dude,

901
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 3: we can't let chat play. It's so it's so bad.

902
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 2: We already knew that one.

903
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 3: I know, we all knew that one. All right, I'll

904
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 3: give it to Riley. He deserves at least a point.

905
00:43:57,960 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, there we go.

906
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 3: Let's just finish off movies here yep. Which actress won

907
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 3: an Oscar for her role in Monster two thousand and three,

908
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 3: where she portrayed a serial killer, Eileen wornos Angel. That's

909
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 3: a great guest, but no, dang great guess what two

910
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 3: years when she was thirteen years old? Kira Knightley, that's

911
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 3: a great John with great guesses.

912
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: Charlie.

913
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 5: Let me let me keep going, let me even say

914
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 5: her name. Right, you're not getting any points. Charlie, Charlene Thropy,

915
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 5: I didn't you know what you're trying to.

916
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 3: Say, Meryl Streep, Anna, Anne Hathaway and halfway it's Charlie's Okay,

917
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 3: I don't know that for you. Riley she played Furiosa

918
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 3: in the mad Max fury Road movie Shaved Head. Not

919
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 3: the newest one.

920
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, she's cool, all right?

921
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 3: Music or events? See music one or two?

922
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 2: What too?

923
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: Trying to rhyme?

924
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 3: One it is? Oh, Grandma's got a party man? Thanks

925
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 3: for the twenty five Bruno Let's go? Which boy band

926
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:13,720
Speaker 3: released the album No Strings Attached in two thousand, becoming

927
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 3: one of the best selling albums of the decade. He

928
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 3: did it wrong back? Yeah, boys, No, it's not that shit.

929
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: Boys in sync?

930
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 3: It is inside the Fuck's.

931
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:34,800
Speaker 4: Another thirty minutes speaking of and sync. Yeah, dude, Kean's

932
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:41,720
Speaker 4: crushing the insinc chokes. Don't like this man gets SYNCD up. Okay,

933
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 4: he's too powerful. I love you don't even know what

934
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:45,920
Speaker 4: that is.

935
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 1: Oh we gotta go to karaoke, dude?

936
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, dude. Remember Leanne went to karaoke with us.

937
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 3: One More's voice is so good. Oh you know why?

938
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 3: I might know I can say it. You guys can

939
00:45:58,000 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 3: do you can say it. You want to say it

940
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 3: because she's a Filipino. Filipino, Wow, you're not gonna say it.

941
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 2: Women have women have beautiful voices.

942
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 3: Men, but no Philippine Filipinos. That's like our thing. Yeah,

943
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 3: trust me, they got crazy. Here we go. Do you

944
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 3: you with that mouth?

945
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 4: What?

946
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 2: Hey? At the time?

947
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 3: First that at the time? Please okay, hold on, let

948
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 3: me be a fresh it. Welcome new members, Tracey Herbert. Yeah, yeah, guys, welcome.

949
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 2: Welcome members. Yeah, who did that? Someone did? Vix mix

950
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 2: just did twenty I.

951
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 3: Think that's crazy.

952
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 2: What the heck?

953
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 1: That's vix just wants to stand after bro vix mixes

954
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: Piggy the Slayer, Bruh. I've seen philipp Filipino karaoke tiktoks. Ohmg,

955
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: so amazing.

956
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, Filipino that's like those of the Philippines.

957
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 3: Everyone has a giant karaoke machine in the back and

958
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:57,880
Speaker 3: they are killing it. I'm it's like the voice and

959
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 3: they're smoking a pack of cigarettes while they're doing They

960
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 3: have like a beer pack of cigarettes and theyre Have

961
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 3: you not seen the video of the guy singing Celine

962
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 3: Dion and I don't know if he murders it. Yeah,

963
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,600
Speaker 3: and he's just sitting in a chair smoking a cigarette.

964
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 3: All right, I got picks of the trivia, and let

965
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 3: me just do the Let's just finish it off. Yeah,

966
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 3: finish it off. Let me go do that events one,

967
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 3: we have three more questions. Let's fish finish off. Who

968
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 3: was known for the hit single haul of back Girl

969
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 3: in two thousand and four, which famously included the spelling

970
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 3: out of the word b A N A N A

971
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 3: s John Gwen Stefani.

972
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 2: Dude's she was one of my first crushes.

973
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: Ging Oh really nice.

974
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 3: I'll have to fight Blake Shelton for that.

975
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:45,479
Speaker 1: True.

976
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 3: You look like a young Blake Shelton.

977
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:47,840
Speaker 2: Thank you.

978
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 3: I don't know what. I don't know what he looked

979
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 3: like when he was young. All Right, we're going to events.

980
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 3: We're going to events when they're early two thousands and No.

981
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:57,240
Speaker 3: Nine to eleven is not one of the answers.

982
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 2: That's all. I'm just gonna use the bathroom.

983
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 3: Which company face one of the largest corporate scandals in

984
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 3: US history, leading to its bankruptcy in two thousand and one.

985
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 2: Afghanistan.

986
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: I know this, I know this. Actually it's a gas company. Yes,

987
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: it's a gas company. Ex that's wrong.

988
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 3: You're very very close.

989
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 1: Just let me cook a little longer. Can you give

990
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: me a hint?

991
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 3: No, you're like you need to change one of those

992
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 3: like letters pretty much. Excell.

993
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 2: Uh see on coon.

994
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you guys have really closed. You're gone.

995
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 3: Uh it's I kind of say it, Aaron, it'snet all right.

996
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 3: In two thousand and three, I really hope at least

997
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,760
Speaker 3: Riley knows. This guy gave Riley like a three second

998
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 3: like head start with this one.

999
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 2: He already one.

1000
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, you already won, John, and let's just see him.

1001
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 3: Let's just give it. Riley knows history. In two thousand

1002
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 3: and three, Riley, which war began that marked a significant

1003
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 3: event in US history, particularly in Middle Eastern politics?

1004
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,799
Speaker 2: No, no, no, not Vietnam. Afghanistan War is Afghanistan War.

1005
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 3: It is not the Afghanistan War. There's an actual title

1006
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 3: for this.

1007
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 2: Uh oh, I actually do know. It's the dusty one.

1008
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 3: Nope, it's not that.

1009
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 2: The storm.

1010
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 3: Nope, the dust bowl. Oh my goodness, all right, good

1011
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 3: to know the desert storm. That is kind of it,

1012
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 3: but not really, it's.

1013
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 2: The desert storm. Was whatever the goal for the nineties

1014
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 2: or whatever.

1015
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the that's the nineties.

1016
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,720
Speaker 2: This is early to the war on terrorism.

1017
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 3: It's the Iraq. It's the war on terror, the Iraq war.

1018
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,760
Speaker 2: Oh, we went to war with Iraq.

1019
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,760
Speaker 3: This is our youth, everybody's this is the future of America.

1020
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 3: Look at it. Look at that skivity. Ask him about

1021
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 3: nine to eleven. He doesn't even know what year it was.

1022
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 2: Hey, next time, let's do trivia and conspiracy theories. That

1023
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 2: will whip everybody's tell you skinwalkers, uh, apple Atchia mountains.

1024
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,280
Speaker 3: What god you just said words?

1025
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 1: Skin walkers are everywhere, brother, flip flops, apple trail.

1026
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, country roads, take me home?

1027
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1028
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 3: Is there a last one?

1029
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:28,919
Speaker 1: We could do it just for I think.

1030
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:29,360
Speaker 3: That's all of it.

1031
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: Oh boom, there we go.

1032
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all the questions. Honestly, that was crazy that

1033
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 3: you guys know so little.

1034
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need we need stuff that people who are

1035
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 1: children in the ninth in the two thousands would know. Yeah,

1036
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: I think, but we can do it later.

1037
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 3: I want to do one of these. I love trivia.

1038
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:50,359
Speaker 3: If Dakota were here, we would go the next time

1039
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 3: we do it.

1040
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 1: Let's get you in Dakota against each other.

1041
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 3: It depends the trivia. But yeah, I was. I have

1042
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:58,320
Speaker 3: so many things up in this skull that I shouldn't know.

1043
00:50:58,760 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: I mean, we could do general trivia.

1044
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, general's trivia. Sometimes it's just so easy. But let's read. Yeah,

1045
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,359
Speaker 3: you're right right, let's rot. I mean, let's read all

1046
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:10,240
Speaker 3: right for me, beautiful, this is h S two please

1047
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 3: two s. It's too let me.

1048
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 1: Let me do it?

1049
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:18,720
Speaker 2: What time.

1050
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:21,360
Speaker 1: If you go?

1051
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 3: No, I'm just singing Backstreet Boys. I actually really like

1052
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 3: the Backstreet Boys growing up.

1053
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could tell all right, I'm with Riley. I'm

1054
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 2: twenty three and didn't pay attention in history, so I

1055
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,359
Speaker 2: know nothing about wars. I know a lot about World

1056
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,760
Speaker 2: War One and World War Two. I don't know anything

1057
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:38,879
Speaker 2: about these other little Yeah.

1058
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 3: This guy plays Call of Duty. M you play?

1059
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't play video games, not.

1060
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 3: Really listen, you know what I like more than Backstreet Boys?

1061
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,800
Speaker 3: And then thinking reading reading stories? But also, but I

1062
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 3: love Green Day and I saw the musical last night

1063
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 3: and it was phenomenal.

1064
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: Nice. That's cool.

1065
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 3: Shout out to the American idiot. And they did the

1066
00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 3: silent as words. Now, Yeah, okay, great, that's cool. I

1067
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 3: like it. He likes it. Yeah, you like it. I'm curious.

1068
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 3: I like it all right, here go, I drank too

1069
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:16,919
Speaker 3: much and flirted with an engaged co worker. I think

1070
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:17,919
Speaker 3: my career is over.

1071
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: Oops, you done goofed?

1072
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 2: You done? Did goofed it? Dolf. I've been at this

1073
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 2: company since March, and before that I worked a retail job.

1074
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 2: So this was the first company holiday party I've been to.

1075
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 2: In retrospect, I did a lot wrong. I did a

1076
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 2: lot wrong, and I embarrassed myself. By the way, this

1077
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:43,840
Speaker 2: comes from unselfish constant, unselfish conscious litter.

1078
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 3: Un self conscious litter.

1079
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 2: Ah, by the way, it comes from unseelf conscious litter

1080
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 2: on the r slash. Okay, storytime suffered him. So I

1081
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 2: have a male coworker at avacrotch On. I have not

1082
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 2: told him as he's engaged. We hang out with other

1083
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 2: co workers outside of work, and he he has slept

1084
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 2: over at my place once with other coworkers.

1085
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that was a very critical detail that since

1086
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: we are all wasted, and it was like, I try

1087
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 1: to be as respectful of as I can of his relationship.

1088
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 2: I thought at one point he may return the feelings

1089
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 2: towards me, but he has not, and said, but he

1090
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 2: has not said anything and is and is go go

1091
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 2: go go juice here he is, We're good now, but

1092
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,800
Speaker 2: he has not said anything and is still with his fiance.

1093
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 2: We are close friends in the office, and I would

1094
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,240
Speaker 2: hate to ruin things for everyone. It was my company's

1095
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 2: holiday party last night. It was at a nice hotel,

1096
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 2: wienertail attire.

1097
00:53:56,080 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 3: Talking about yeah yeah this looppy toppy stuff, to wei tail.

1098
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: We have we have A certain word is replaced with wiener.

1099
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: So now cocktail has become wier tail.

1100
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 3: Whoa cocktail? Cock tail? Say the tail.

1101
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:15,360
Speaker 2: I got together with some of the women from my

1102
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 2: office to get ready before we pregame, before I wound

1103
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 2: up having way too much to drink. I do not

1104
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 2: remember a lot of the night. I remember talking to

1105
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 2: my male coworker a lot, drinking, some speech here and there,

1106
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 2: with food from my throw up. But that's it.

1107
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:33,919
Speaker 3: I know this will be the last time I drink

1108
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 3: so heavily at these events. I woke up at my

1109
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:41,800
Speaker 3: coworker's house this morning. Oh, the mail coworker or just

1110
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 3: a coworker. I think it's the mail coworker. I hope not.

1111
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: He's married.

1112
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:52,120
Speaker 3: The works the fiance. Yeah, and to the I woke

1113
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 3: up to the fiance staring at me.

1114
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:57,920
Speaker 2: My two female co workers told me they had to

1115
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,040
Speaker 2: drag me away from the party since I was so

1116
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 2: wasted and making a scene. They told me I spent

1117
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 2: the night flirting with my mal coworker whose fiance came

1118
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 2: with him. Oh god, as they tell as the tale says,

1119
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,799
Speaker 2: he introduced me to his fiance and then I sort

1120
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 2: of went off the rails. I apparently flirted with him

1121
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 2: in front of her before someone led me away. When

1122
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 2: he went to the bar alone, I tried to share

1123
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 2: a drink with him. When he was alone again, I

1124
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 2: asked him to dance, and when he said no, I tried.

1125
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 2: When he refused, I got upset and asked why he

1126
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 2: didn't like me. Apparently this was Apparently this was overheard

1127
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 2: by a lot of my coworkers. At the end of

1128
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:42,800
Speaker 2: the night, I was making a scene and going on

1129
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 2: about things, and they finally brought me home since they

1130
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:51,439
Speaker 2: tried before and I wouldn't go. I am embarrassed. I'm

1131
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 2: never drinking again at a company event. I ruined my

1132
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 2: friendship with him. Most likely I was invited to his wedding.

1133
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 2: I doubt that they'd want me to go, want me

1134
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 2: to go now? I doubt they'd want me to go now.

1135
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 2: I did this in front of my boss and all

1136
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 2: of my coworkers. I wish I could say that people

1137
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 2: were too busy to notice, but I was making such

1138
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:14,479
Speaker 2: a scene that one of my coworkers took a video

1139
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 2: of me going off at one point. I know I

1140
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 2: can be a jealous person, but this is an ugly

1141
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 2: side of me that I have never seen and never

1142
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 2: want to see again. I realized I may have deeper

1143
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 2: feelings for my coworker than I believed.

1144
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 3: But that isn't an excuse to act like that. This

1145
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 3: sounds like a rom com, but an aura a horror movie. Yeah, hip,

1146
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:38,720
Speaker 3: you're opee.

1147
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is definitely a horror movie, right.

1148
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:43,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a rom com because it's a terrible situation.

1149
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 1: All these rom coms are terrible situations. Oh, don't let

1150
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: your girlfriend get in the way of finding your wife.

1151
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 2: I told at the Angie today, Stupid, What what did

1152
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 2: you tell her? I told her, don't let your girlfriend

1153
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,359
Speaker 2: stop you from finding your wife, because if you don't

1154
00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 2: look at your girlfriend as if she's your wife, what

1155
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:03,240
Speaker 2: are you doing? If you don't look at your girlfriend

1156
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 2: and see her as your wife. Then what are you doing?

1157
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 3: It's a great say Riley, you're a good man, thank you,

1158
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:10,800
Speaker 3: that's all that. And she's like, oh, yeah, there it is.

1159
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 2: But I mean it sounds bad, but that's my framework.

1160
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 3: But then would be your wife? Yeah, that's the point.

1161
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not going to stop My girlfriend is not

1162
00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 2: going to stop me from making her my wife.

1163
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, you heard it here. First, folks assume me.

1164
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 3: How would you feel if you were op right now?

1165
00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:34,080
Speaker 3: What would you do? What's the first thing you do

1166
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 3: after getting sober?

1167
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: Immediately apologized in a hole? Yeah, I mean that's what

1168
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: That's what one would want to do. That's what I'm doing,

1169
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: especially his But uh, you know, we can't do that.

1170
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 1: We can't do that. We can I think we start

1171
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 1: drafting up and like Bob says, you can't blame it on.

1172
00:57:55,040 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 3: Alcohol, right, yeah, Sam Fox, that's basically a christ anytime

1173
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 3: you just make it like a rap or like an

1174
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,320
Speaker 3: R and B reference, Now it's like, oh that's Kanye.

1175
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 1: It's like anyways, so quit my job, like Rebecca, so yep, Yeah, honestly, yeah, maybe.

1176
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie a lot of people have been

1177
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 3: saying quit, just quit after.

1178
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: I mean that what but like, so, what are you

1179
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 1: going to be like jobless potentially for like maybe a

1180
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: lot of months.

1181
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 2: Who is your this is like our first job in

1182
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 2: her actual career. So like if you quit, you have

1183
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 2: to find a job quick because people are gonna start

1184
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 2: asking for references. What happened at this last job?

1185
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think no, No, I think I think you

1186
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 1: have to like sit down and you like, okay, let

1187
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: me like flesh out this, like all the things of

1188
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: the apology which should include it was absolutely unacceptable.

1189
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 3: You know, you don't deserve that. You know your wife

1190
00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 3: doesn't deserve that.

1191
00:58:57,320 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: You know, as of right now, I I was thinking of,

1192
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 1: you know, not coming to the wedding, just to give

1193
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: you guys peace of mind. Like I want to make

1194
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 1: sure from this second onwards, I'm doing absolutely as much

1195
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 1: as I can't respect you, and if you don't want to,

1196
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: you know, kind of like converse and and you know,

1197
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 1: kind of be chummy anymore and kind of like keep

1198
00:59:16,680 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 1: our healthy distance. Totally fine. And yeah it was this job,

1199
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: i'd talk to the boys. But if it was any

1200
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: other job, I'm quitting, dude, man, that's that's stuff to

1201
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 1: come back from. Yeah, well, the great great news is

1202
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:33,919
Speaker 1: you don't drink so that it could never happen.

1203
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 2: But I drink a lot of go Go juice.

1204
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 3: You do drink a lot of go Go juice. So

1205
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 3: is that worse?

1206
00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes? Yeah, you get more rage.

1207
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 1: That's so funny. All right?

1208
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: If my main things are how should I act at

1209
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 2: work now? Should I apologize to him? To my coworkers?

1210
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 2: Should I like it never happened? Can I smooth things

1211
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 2: over with him? We have a solid friend group from

1212
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 2: more and I don't want to ruin that. How can

1213
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 2: I get over the shame? Here? We have an update.

1214
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:09,560
Speaker 2: I'm diving in Since people are asking for an update,

1215
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 2: I've got you one. A lot has happened in the

1216
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 2: past week plus that I have posted. I went in

1217
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 2: that Monday, actually ran into my coworker in the elevator,

1218
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 2: tried to speak to him, clearly a mistake. I apologized

1219
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:24,919
Speaker 2: to him and he told me that he never had

1220
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 2: feelings any feelings for me. I've always always viewed me

1221
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 2: as a friend and coworker and not to speak to him.

1222
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 3: Bless you, everyone say bless you, Riley. There's at least five.

1223
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 3: He actually got off earlier than he was going to.

1224
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 2: Come on, that was funny.

1225
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 1: This guy, dude, What am I going to do with him?

1226
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 3: This is the future of America?

1227
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 1: There is.

1228
01:00:57,040 --> 01:01:00,920
Speaker 3: Does it know about the Iraq War and no skimmity toilet?

1229
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 3: I know about the.

1230
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 2: Skimmity toilet war? Actually is the cameraman the YouTube? Serious?

1231
01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 2: Check it out. That's what people mean by skimvity. I

1232
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 2: wound up being called to the good old HR department.

1233
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,919
Speaker 2: They were investigating the events of the party. That's so weird.

1234
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 2: Investigating in the events that happened.

1235
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 1: It's true.

1236
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:21,439
Speaker 2: It's like a crime scene.

1237
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: That's what they do it.

1238
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:25,520
Speaker 3: I mean, it was a technical crime, apparently.

1239
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 2: More than one, but that's no excuse. They had some

1240
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 2: videos of me which were humiliating and worse than what

1241
01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 2: was described to me. They were getting the rest of

1242
01:01:35,600 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 2: the people who were there to give them a written

1243
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 2: account if they saw anything. Long story short, they gave

1244
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 2: me a choice of quitting or getting fired after the

1245
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 2: investigation was on, get fired severance again, so what so

1246
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 2: what they had I would have been fired. I choose

1247
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 2: to quit. Okay, come on, I was friendly with the

1248
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 2: HR person and I think she was trying to help

1249
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,360
Speaker 2: me by offering me a chance to quit before they

1250
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 2: could fire me. My male coworker did complain to them

1251
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 2: about what had happened at the party. He actually went

1252
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 2: to HR right after I tried to talk to him

1253
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 2: in the elevator. I know I should have listened to

1254
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 2: the people more here. I have been talking to my

1255
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 2: ala mater about getting a job there, starting the application process,

1256
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 2: and going to be moving closer to home. Nothing is

1257
01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 2: happening much right now because of the holidays. I realized

1258
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 2: that my actions were harassment. That night, I realized that

1259
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 2: I was in love with him, or at least I

1260
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:37,960
Speaker 2: thought I was. I will be booking an appointment with

1261
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,920
Speaker 2: a therapist next year once I figure out my job situation,

1262
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 2: since I want to find one where I will be

1263
01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 2: living and figure out insurance. I did talk to one

1264
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,760
Speaker 2: of my female coworkers, who I would consider a friend.

1265
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:54,440
Speaker 2: She was very apologetic that she did not She was

1266
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 2: very apologetic that she did not get me out of

1267
01:02:57,160 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 2: there earlier and admitted she thinks and admitted she thinks

1268
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 2: she egged me on with him. Oh they're good alas,

1269
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 2: this is not her fault, and I told her so yeah.

1270
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you don't know how far she was OPI

1271
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 3: was gone. It was a new person. That person was Chaos. Yeah,

1272
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 3: I know Chaos.

1273
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 2: I bet you do dance with Victoria Justice.

1274
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 3: No, I dance with Chaos myself from Thomasion. Guys, go

1275
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 3: to Victoria Justice's instagram. Stop stop.

1276
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 2: I just can't wait to have her on the show.

1277
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 2: We're not gonna tell you sitting here and you're gonna.

1278
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 3: Be like, ohre you talking about I'd be like, hey,

1279
01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 3: what's up? Sure? Oh this spider man. Oh.

1280
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 2: My advice to people is not to drink too much

1281
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 2: at a work event and to be professional there. Other

1282
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 2: people did stuff at the party too, and I heard

1283
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 2: about all that after I left. Everyone does stupid things

1284
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 2: at the Christmas party is something I told myself after this.

1285
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 2: I wish I realized this before. I tried to tell

1286
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 2: my roommate this before her holiday, which she also pregramed,

1287
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,920
Speaker 2: and she was a wasted mess there. And you can

1288
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 2: be a wasted mess every weekday at three pm PhD

1289
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 2: by typing a profile and jo want of guess on YouTube.

1290
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:28,439
Speaker 3: You won't be a wasted mess.

1291
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 1: Well, sober you up there?

1292
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 3: We have am with some cake would you quit.

1293
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 2: I wouldn't quit, I think.

1294
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1295
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:46,400
Speaker 1: The first step would be apologizing to him, although tried to.

1296
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:52,240
Speaker 3: She did, She did, she did. Although I was gonna say, maybe.

1297
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:56,320
Speaker 1: It's tough because it's like, yeah, it's tough, because it's

1298
01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 1: like a face to face is more.

1299
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 3: Like brave quote unquote.

1300
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: But then also if you do it like written, then

1301
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: he does, like if he doesn't want to like interact

1302
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: with you, or like or be or be seen interacting

1303
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 1: with you or whatever the case is, then it gives

1304
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 1: them the option to maybe you could like write it out,

1305
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 1: send it an email and be like, uh would like

1306
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: the you know, I would be happy to apologize also

1307
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: face to face. But also if you don't wanted that,

1308
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 1: like I tentally present understand that too. Uh yeah. I

1309
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 1: was also distracted with something that I will reveal right

1310
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 1: at the end of uh to answer a lot of

1311
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 1: comments in the chat if y'all have got me going,

1312
01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 1: But what y'all have to reveal after the story is over,

1313
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 1: everyone has to wait till do I think what I think?

1314
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 3: I know what it is? You might maybe you do

1315
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 3: you was it the ones that chat was calling you

1316
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 3: out on?

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01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 1: Yes?

1318
01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 2: Ok oh, okay, Okay, Okay. My last question for everyone

1319
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:52,560
Speaker 2: here would be I was told by my friend that

1320
01:05:52,680 --> 01:05:56,040
Speaker 2: my coworker's fiance was very upset that night. Should I

1321
01:05:56,080 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 2: reach out to her via Facebook or another way and

1322
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:01,640
Speaker 2: apologize and explain I do not want to cause problems

1323
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 2: in that relationship. Yeah, I would reach out. Edit, Seeing

1324
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 2: as many people have made the comment about it being

1325
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 2: stupid to quit because I would lose unemployment benefits, I

1326
01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:13,120
Speaker 2: would not have gotten them in my state if I

1327
01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 2: was fired for spicy sleep abusement.

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01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:22,920
Speaker 3: You said, you said the word of the day, good job, Riley.

1329
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 3: You said the word, I say the word. Uh.

1330
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 2: They had plenty of evidence, so I would prefer not

1331
01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 2: to have to explain why I was fired to the

1332
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 2: next company I apply to. I may have made some

1333
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 2: bad choices, but I am not that dumb. Okay, so

1334
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 2: that makes sense. I thought she could have got severance

1335
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 2: and just wish washed that away.

1336
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 1: But but she's getting her unemployment benefits.

1337
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 2: No, she doesn't. She doesn't get her because they were like,

1338
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 2: don't quit your job. You're gonna get unemployment if you

1339
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 2: quitting saves your reference for future jobs. Quitting is just

1340
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 2: for unemployment, is lame, Riley.

1341
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, what why not?

1342
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 2: I don't like unemployment.

1343
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:11,640
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, I have to sit in your seat.

1344
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, you sit in my seat. Hold on, let

1345
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 3: me just and the because we're done, right, Yeah, I'm

1346
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 3: gonna and that recording take that you want six.

1347
01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:22,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I.

1348
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 3: Don't know if I saw it.

1349
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 1: I think Kean knows what it is. Okay, ladies and gentlemen,

1350
01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 1: I made a little I made. I made a funny

1351
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:37,600
Speaker 1: little goof right, right, blame it on the I'll call okay,

1352
01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:40,560
Speaker 1: all right? Everyone in the comments, Oh my god, John

1353
01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 1: is tea painted.

1354
01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, you did because you said you said

1355
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:48,160
Speaker 3: Jamie You said Jamie Fox. I said Jamie Fox. You

1356
01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 3: did say Jamie Fox.

1357
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:51,320
Speaker 1: I said Jamie Fox right, And it was like, oh

1358
01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:53,360
Speaker 1: my god, the confidence John had when he said Jamie

1359
01:07:53,400 --> 01:08:02,080
Speaker 1: Fox right, the confidence that Jamie Fox featuring T Pain

1360
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: blame it bread the seas on the alcohol.

1361
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:13,280
Speaker 3: Breadth the sees, blame it on the alcohol. I was

1362
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 3: not wrong. He's literally it is literally.

1363
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 1: Jamie Fox's song is T Pain on the song? Absolutely absolutely,

1364
01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 1: But ladies and gentlemen, you were clowning me as as

1365
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:32,679
Speaker 1: if I was completely completely off. Fun fact T Pain

1366
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 1: just dropped a project with Mark Zuckerberg for a song.

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01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:37,519
Speaker 3: You know, do you know what the song is? It's

1368
01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:41,000
Speaker 3: a it's a it's a real it's a oh hey wow,

1369
01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:43,240
Speaker 3: the coloring over here, I have rosy cheeks.

1370
01:08:43,280 --> 01:08:43,679
Speaker 1: What the heck?

1371
01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:49,200
Speaker 3: Wow, it's like the makeup. So it's a sorry, I

1372
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 3: got distracted by myself. I'm a little narcissistic. How can

1373
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:55,120
Speaker 3: I not be? What are you gonna say? It's a

1374
01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 3: cover of one of T Pain's greatest hits.

1375
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:00,720
Speaker 2: Well, you know why that that cover? Right?

1376
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 3: Because that's the first song they heard on their first date.

1377
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 3: Did you cover that? Really? That's the story.

1378
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:07,760
Speaker 2: That's why he did that.

1379
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:09,720
Speaker 3: I did not know that. It's a good it's a

1380
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 3: like a version suck up like Zuck for real? Man

1381
01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:16,679
Speaker 3: up everyone z Pain they call him z Pain. Oh yeah,

1382
01:09:16,840 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 3: that's like the name of it. Yeah, dude, I love te.

1383
01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:20,639
Speaker 1: Pain so much.

1384
01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 3: Man bet He's got a great voice and he's a

1385
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,719
Speaker 3: great gamer. Dude, He's a great guy all around. He's

1386
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 3: literally like.

1387
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 1: I just want to I just want him to be

1388
01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 1: my best friend.

1389
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, can we get teeth pain on here? I actually

1390
01:09:32,120 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 3: have a plot that gets pain on here. We gonna

1391
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 3: freak out my good friend Daniel Wall. I've discussed with

1392
01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 3: him and stop does he does? He got connections, bro,

1393
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:44,879
Speaker 3: he has connections to everyone. It's crazy, It's crazy. He interviewed.

1394
01:09:45,160 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 1: Uh, he dropped an interview with Benny Blanco recently.

1395
01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 3: I love Benny.

1396
01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 1: Go check out, go check out Daniel Wall. He's actually

1397
01:09:51,439 --> 01:09:52,400
Speaker 1: staying at my house right now.

1398
01:09:52,720 --> 01:09:55,360
Speaker 3: I love Daniel. Can he make me meet Juice World?

1399
01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:56,560
Speaker 2: I really want to.

1400
01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:01,240
Speaker 3: There's only one way you can meet you. I can

1401
01:10:01,400 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 3: arrange that.

1402
01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 1: We can arrange that only one way. Anyways, I'm not

1403
01:10:06,240 --> 01:10:07,720
Speaker 1: the one, two or the three, So don't play with

1404
01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 1: me anyways.

1405
01:10:10,640 --> 01:10:19,320
Speaker 2: I love Kanye, dude, kiould we please get Kanye on here?

1406
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 2: I would love to have Kanye on our podcast.

1407
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:26,879
Speaker 3: It was Pain Bob. Shout out to Bob.

1408
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:32,519
Speaker 2: Bob te Pain is Tallahassee pain and he.

1409
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 3: Just probably just got a street named after him. So

1410
01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 3: much t pain knowledge. Anyways, Yeah, speaking of early two

1411
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:42,120
Speaker 3: thousands knowledge, you guys just got schooled by John.

1412
01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:45,480
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, get anyways.

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01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:47,639
Speaker 3: All right, John, we are onto the next one.

1414
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:48,240
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

1415
01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:51,320
Speaker 3: I'm gonna wait. Let's do you have any doon'tas oh.

1416
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,560
Speaker 2: True Read YouTube YouTube.

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01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 1: Got a party mouse shout out again to that what

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01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:58,720
Speaker 1: via on one hundred more time, more time, more time,

1419
01:10:59,000 --> 01:10:59,840
Speaker 1: one more you.

1420
01:11:00,640 --> 01:11:03,400
Speaker 2: Jessica, thanks for being a member for seven months. Thanks

1421
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:06,599
Speaker 2: for the gift of memberships. Couldn't afford to keep going

1422
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 2: last month, dude, I always love it.

1423
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 3: I love it. I love sorry.

1424
01:11:11,320 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 1: I won't apologize.

1425
01:11:12,040 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 2: Tiffany Falsey, thanks for being a member for one month.

1426
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 2: Good evening, y'all, good night, pretty soon to you. Vix

1427
01:11:18,400 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 2: Mix again, thank you for the twenty gifted Membershipszly Freak Rooney.

1428
01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 3: If you're new and you got one for vix Mix,

1429
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:27,559
Speaker 3: please say thank you, thanks, thank you. And I did

1430
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 3: see a comment from vix Mix because she's like, that's

1431
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 3: it for the night, all right, Yeah, vix Mix, I'm

1432
01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:36,720
Speaker 3: still here, just letting us know. No more, no were

1433
01:11:36,880 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 3: memberships for the day, got it?

1434
01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,040
Speaker 2: Hey, we appreciate it so freaking much.

1435
01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:44,400
Speaker 3: You're the best. You are the best, all right. Speaking

1436
01:11:44,439 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 3: of the best, look at him. Let's start recording here

1437
01:11:47,040 --> 01:11:50,240
Speaker 3: one second, John, don't you dare to start just yet? Smile?

1438
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:51,920
Speaker 3: Tell me more about t Pain.

1439
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 1: He's great, dude. I just I just want to I

1440
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 1: just want to hang out with him. I do want

1441
01:11:57,120 --> 01:11:58,599
Speaker 1: to interview him eventually. It's great.

1442
01:11:58,680 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 3: It's he's just he's just so great. I don't know

1443
01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:04,280
Speaker 3: what else to say. He just seems like a great guy.

1444
01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:06,680
Speaker 2: I liked him when he dropped his project with a

1445
01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:09,759
Speaker 2: tie dollars sign and I think albums like vultures.

1446
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:15,560
Speaker 3: Okay, John Wyser title what you have right now was

1447
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 3: the title? My coworker replied, yep, yep, cool, you may start.

1448
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 1: My coworker replied inappropriately to my husband at a work event.

1449
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:25,720
Speaker 1: Now I think I'm cheating on him.

1450
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 3: Thinks I'm cheating on him.

1451
01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 2: Stop going to work events.

1452
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:32,080
Speaker 1: There was an after work event this week. Yeah, we

1453
01:12:32,120 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 1: need to stop that. A coworker was leaving for another job.

1454
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:36,960
Speaker 1: We were going out for light food and drinks.

1455
01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 3: I don't drink.

1456
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:40,559
Speaker 1: By the way, I didn't give my husband details because

1457
01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:43,360
Speaker 1: he usually doesn't ask nor appear to care that I

1458
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:46,680
Speaker 1: attended these occasional outings, which usually end at six or

1459
01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 1: seven pm. Whoa crazy? That is really late four hours

1460
01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,719
Speaker 1: past our bedtime? Come on, by the way, this comes

1461
01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:57,639
Speaker 1: from work party Throwaway seventy seven on the arsas Okay,

1462
01:12:57,640 --> 01:12:59,600
Speaker 1: short tim so abrut it. So here's kind of a

1463
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:03,599
Speaker 1: text to get an understanding of what happened. Husband, six PM.

1464
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 1: You have that thing tonight right neat dinner after me

1465
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:08,760
Speaker 1: should be out of there by eight and fed. No

1466
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 1: worries about dinner times are estimates. Husband. Okay, note to

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01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 1: the following I didn't see until a train ride around

1468
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 1: eleven pm. Husband at nine thirty PM, Hey, baby, everything, okay?

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01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:23,920
Speaker 1: What's your status? Husband at ten oh five pm? All

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01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:27,439
Speaker 1: good question mark husband at ten thirty Hey, give me

1471
01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:30,800
Speaker 1: a ping. I'm getting worried. Me at ten thirty three,

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01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:32,519
Speaker 1: sent by an ahole coworker.

1473
01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:35,559
Speaker 3: Hey, buddy, chill the f out.

1474
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 1: She's in really good hands, I can assure you.

1475
01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 2: Winky face. Oh no, oh no, no, no, no no no.

1476
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:42,560
Speaker 3: I don't like that.

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01:13:42,720 --> 01:13:44,599
Speaker 2: I don't like that. I don't like that. I don't

1478
01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 2: like that at all.

1479
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:48,600
Speaker 3: No, don't do that. No, why does that look like

1480
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 3: you're broken?

1481
01:13:49,280 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Right, dude?

1482
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:51,920
Speaker 2: Who ever sent that?

1483
01:13:53,479 --> 01:13:54,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, that's an a hole.

1484
01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:56,160
Speaker 3: So I left my home.

1485
01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 1: I left my phone at the table, and the ahole

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01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 1: coworker took it upon his wasted selfish send that text. Yep,

1487
01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 1: my itophone four S is not password protected.

1488
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:09,479
Speaker 3: Wow, that's actually your girl phone. Yeah, please, you're worse

1489
01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 3: than Riley.

1490
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:12,719
Speaker 2: Anymore?

1491
01:14:12,880 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 1: Thank you?

1492
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, hey, got.

1493
01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:19,600
Speaker 1: You don't forget who daddy is.

1494
01:14:20,880 --> 01:14:25,720
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, back to the story. Please here to

1495
01:14:25,920 --> 01:14:28,160
Speaker 3: take off all your clothes. Oh my gosh.

1496
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:31,600
Speaker 1: I didn't see any of my husband's texts because of

1497
01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 1: his notifications had been cleared when a whole coworker opened

1498
01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:37,679
Speaker 1: up the messages. Yeah, so it's like, oh, he didn't

1499
01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 1: see the replies because they had been swiped away.

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01:14:39,840 --> 01:14:39,920
Speaker 3: Right.

1501
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 1: I saw it as soon as I got on the

1502
01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 1: train and texted him immediately met at eleven five. Babe,

1503
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:48,720
Speaker 1: sorry that was me. Sorry, that was not me. See

1504
01:14:48,720 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 1: you when I get home. No response from husband. Okay, guys,

1505
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:55,400
Speaker 1: once again, once again the thing was, hey, buddy, chill

1506
01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:57,200
Speaker 1: the fout. She's in really good hands, I can assure you.

1507
01:14:57,800 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 1: And then she just said, oh, that wasn't me. I'll explain, Yeah,

1508
01:15:02,840 --> 01:15:03,400
Speaker 1: that's not girl.

1509
01:15:03,439 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 2: You're not helping.

1510
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:06,200
Speaker 1: That can still be like, oh, yeah that was the

1511
01:15:06,280 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 1: guy I was sleeping, right, this is not She should

1512
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:12,519
Speaker 1: have said like, oh that was like an a hole

1513
01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 1: who is Like, you know, nothing, nothing crazy happened.

1514
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 3: I'll give you the full explanation.

1515
01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, as soon as you get that text, you

1516
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:22,640
Speaker 2: call your husband and explain everything. Yeah, no, matter how

1517
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:25,400
Speaker 2: wasted you are you yeah, no, no, oh my gosh.

1518
01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:29,040
Speaker 1: So when I get home he is in bed. I

1519
01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 1: give him a chisse, I give him a kiss him

1520
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:33,840
Speaker 1: the cheek. He is a reciprocate. And we're not talking

1521
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:37,559
Speaker 1: about Kean's cheeks, talking about one of these hm hmm. Okay.

1522
01:15:38,080 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 1: I asked him what's wrong, and he says he doesn't

1523
01:15:40,320 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 1: want to talk because he's afraid he'd say something he regrets.

1524
01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 1: The next day, he was totally ghosting. He finally approaches

1525
01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:48,760
Speaker 1: me tonight and says that he felt extremely disrespected and

1526
01:15:48,840 --> 01:15:50,679
Speaker 1: it's suspicious of my intention.

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01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:57,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean fair, when do you say so? I'm

1528
01:15:57,360 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 2: just like after, I mean, all he has is knowledge

1529
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 2: of the text messages sent back and forth. It is

1530
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:07,800
Speaker 2: and she got home really late, true that she got

1531
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:10,320
Speaker 2: home really late when she usually gets home around six

1532
01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 2: or seven. And then told him, hey, I'll be home

1533
01:16:12,400 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 2: at eight, like he can be worried, he can be suspicious.

1534
01:16:16,000 --> 01:16:21,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna keep going. He said he

1535
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:25,080
Speaker 1: wasn't keeping tabs on me, but making sure I was okay.

1536
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,400
Speaker 1: Since most of these wrap up my mid evening. I

1537
01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:31,560
Speaker 1: profusely apologize and tried to diffuse. He wasn't at all receptive.

1538
01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 1: He said he's not sure what to think. He had

1539
01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:36,560
Speaker 1: total trust in me, but think something nefarious might have

1540
01:16:36,640 --> 01:16:38,920
Speaker 1: been happening for this guy to have my phone and

1541
01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 1: feel bold enough to send him that text him if anything,

1542
01:16:42,600 --> 01:16:46,519
Speaker 1: one would assume the cheater wouldn't like expose themselves. But

1543
01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 1: I digress.

1544
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:48,600
Speaker 2: Now sometimes people do that.

1545
01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:49,439
Speaker 3: That is true.

1546
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 1: Him and I back and forth, no improvement. He finally

1547
01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:56,519
Speaker 1: dropped a serious bomb. He says he doesn't know what

1548
01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:59,400
Speaker 1: to think, but he said, if there's any hope of

1549
01:16:59,479 --> 01:17:02,639
Speaker 1: him believing this was as I say, has actually happened,

1550
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:07,719
Speaker 1: that I can't be, in his words, in the same

1551
01:17:07,800 --> 01:17:11,519
Speaker 1: effing room with that effort. No after work events. If

1552
01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 1: there's a work meeting, he wants me to notify HR

1553
01:17:14,520 --> 01:17:17,680
Speaker 1: that there's a personal conflict. He's heated and said, if

1554
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:20,479
Speaker 1: I can't make these demands, then I can either look

1555
01:17:20,560 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 1: for another job or a new husband. Oh my choice.

1556
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:31,000
Speaker 1: Everything's happening so fast. I know he's overreacting, but he

1557
01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:35,719
Speaker 1: does have his reasons. I have beat out the ahole.

1558
01:17:35,800 --> 01:17:37,760
Speaker 1: Coworker told him off and told him that if he

1559
01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:40,120
Speaker 1: touched anything that belongs to me again, I'm going straight

1560
01:17:40,240 --> 01:17:43,839
Speaker 1: to the police. What my husband is demanding is not practical.

1561
01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 3: I guess.

1562
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:48,120
Speaker 1: I'm asking if I should risk waiting out, waiting this

1563
01:17:48,200 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 1: out for cool heads to prevail or meet my husband's demands,

1564
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:54,880
Speaker 1: or if there's something I can do otherwise. I am

1565
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:57,360
Speaker 1: pretty sure he thinks something happened last night. I think

1566
01:17:57,439 --> 01:18:00,479
Speaker 1: if he was assured it is what i'll it's what

1567
01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 1: I say, it's what I say it is, he'd move

1568
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:06,400
Speaker 1: past it. But I can see from his perspective it

1569
01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:10,719
Speaker 1: looks like crap. We have some relevant comments. However, Okay,

1570
01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:16,160
Speaker 1: let's talk about it. I do think that this does

1571
01:18:16,200 --> 01:18:19,560
Speaker 1: seem suspicious. I think what Opie is failing to do

1572
01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:21,720
Speaker 1: is failing.

1573
01:18:21,479 --> 01:18:21,880
Speaker 4: To like.

1574
01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:28,840
Speaker 1: I feel like just op just has a bad way

1575
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:32,280
Speaker 1: of communicating, getting like, like what's happening? So like I

1576
01:18:32,360 --> 01:18:36,559
Speaker 1: think one she should have like at least texted her

1577
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:39,920
Speaker 1: or called or or something gave gave more context because

1578
01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,800
Speaker 1: literally again literally by and and this could have just

1579
01:18:42,880 --> 01:18:47,439
Speaker 1: been by her own like lack of communication skills, but

1580
01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:50,600
Speaker 1: literally reading that text, I was like, Okay, well, this

1581
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:53,639
Speaker 1: still reads as if like someone could have been cheating

1582
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:57,960
Speaker 1: with it wasn't obviously, but like he just reads really

1583
01:18:58,040 --> 01:19:00,560
Speaker 1: bad and still leaves them like sitting in limb. So

1584
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:04,280
Speaker 1: it's like, tell your partner as much as immediately as possible, right,

1585
01:19:04,320 --> 01:19:06,400
Speaker 1: could you over communicate everything?

1586
01:19:07,640 --> 01:19:07,840
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1587
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 1: Absolutely, because the number two point I was gonna bring

1588
01:19:11,400 --> 01:19:15,000
Speaker 1: up is like tell h R, like, hey, this guy

1589
01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:18,880
Speaker 1: took my phone, like like everyone saw, everyone was around

1590
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 1: you can you can ask them to coroborate. He'll probably

1591
01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:23,400
Speaker 1: admit it. He admitted it to me, you know, like

1592
01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 1: I already you know, you know, talk to him about it.

1593
01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:30,559
Speaker 1: It was really frustrated. Get the h R report for that. Yeah,

1594
01:19:30,800 --> 01:19:34,040
Speaker 1: bring it back to husband, like I don't know why,

1595
01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:37,479
Speaker 1: like op is saying like no, no, like it's it

1596
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:37,960
Speaker 1: didn't happen.

1597
01:19:37,960 --> 01:19:38,479
Speaker 3: It didn't happen.

1598
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:43,559
Speaker 1: But it's like I think you do have to, uh,

1599
01:19:44,479 --> 01:19:47,960
Speaker 1: just do what you can just to show your innocence,

1600
01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: like get the facts that are readily available to show

1601
01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:53,920
Speaker 1: your interview. And and again maybe she's literally just like

1602
01:19:54,840 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 1: not thinking it through, which okay, but like yeah, I

1603
01:19:59,760 --> 01:20:03,280
Speaker 1: think she should ten thousand percent go to HR. And

1604
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:06,000
Speaker 1: then probably a lot of what he was asking for

1605
01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:12,080
Speaker 1: will happen naturally. However, husband way overreacted.

1606
01:20:12,800 --> 01:20:15,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think like seems like there was a lack

1607
01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:18,760
Speaker 2: of trust and he sometimes you could say, people try

1608
01:20:18,800 --> 01:20:21,120
Speaker 2: to find issues in a relationship. Yeah, they're looking for

1609
01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:23,240
Speaker 2: and he found something and he's like, I'm just gonna

1610
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 2: hang on time to this one.

1611
01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:27,200
Speaker 1: Totally could be a case of that, And you know what,

1612
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:30,639
Speaker 1: I think he could he could have said like, hey,

1613
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:32,960
Speaker 1: like I'll be honest, like my trust right now is broken,

1614
01:20:33,120 --> 01:20:37,640
Speaker 1: and like I don't know if I want to you know,

1615
01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 1: I'm I'm feeling like I don't know if I want

1616
01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 1: to be continue to a relationship because I haven't gotten

1617
01:20:43,560 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 1: the like give get yeah, break it down more than

1618
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:49,200
Speaker 1: just saying it's not what you think, which is basically

1619
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:54,599
Speaker 1: what she said. But uh ming, m ming.

1620
01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:57,639
Speaker 3: I feel like op is an unreliable narrator.

1621
01:20:58,760 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 1: Maybe is she trying to win downie? Is she instead

1622
01:21:01,040 --> 01:21:03,760
Speaker 1: of getting the HR report, which, if being things right,

1623
01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:06,720
Speaker 1: she can't do because that's not the truth. Is she

1624
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:08,080
Speaker 1: trying to get the reddest story.

1625
01:21:08,160 --> 01:21:09,040
Speaker 2: To get the retistory?

1626
01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:11,960
Speaker 1: Hey, look look at all the comments saying like hey,

1627
01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:14,400
Speaker 1: you too much and like cool down And if he

1628
01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 1: reads dude, if you read hundreds of comments on anything,

1629
01:21:17,800 --> 01:21:19,240
Speaker 1: your mind will probably be changed.

1630
01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:21,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I don't read Facebook comments.

1631
01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:22,080
Speaker 1: Don't do that.

1632
01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:22,600
Speaker 3: Don't do that.

1633
01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:24,719
Speaker 1: It's not good. It's not good. Guys.

1634
01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:26,280
Speaker 3: That guy can't read.

1635
01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:31,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, guys, let's go. I'll like be like

1636
01:21:31,360 --> 01:21:33,120
Speaker 2: I have just like story.

1637
01:21:33,240 --> 01:21:35,439
Speaker 1: Let me let me tell you something. We need to

1638
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:40,680
Speaker 1: take a second. Boy, this man is a slex Yeah, okay, no.

1639
01:21:43,320 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 4: More.

1640
01:21:43,880 --> 01:21:46,760
Speaker 1: That would be hilarious story. I love the joke, but no,

1641
01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:51,519
Speaker 1: we're gonna keep going. This man has become is running

1642
01:21:51,560 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 1: the production for a reading podcast. Not only that, not

1643
01:21:55,840 --> 01:21:57,479
Speaker 1: only did he did he stop a running the production?

1644
01:21:57,640 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 3: Right.

1645
01:21:58,960 --> 01:22:02,240
Speaker 1: I have watched this man overtime, slowly improved, slowly prooved,

1646
01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:08,320
Speaker 1: and and over time, I'm like, wow, he has dramatically

1647
01:22:08,360 --> 01:22:13,280
Speaker 1: and I've told him this offline, he has dramatically increased

1648
01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:14,720
Speaker 1: his his like.

1649
01:22:14,800 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 3: Ability to read out loud.

1650
01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:19,160
Speaker 2: So thank you.

1651
01:22:19,320 --> 01:22:20,360
Speaker 3: Let's give it up, guys.

1652
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 1: This is a guy who appreciate it. Just I don't

1653
01:22:23,280 --> 01:22:24,080
Speaker 1: know he made it happen.

1654
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Like growing up, I was always

1655
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:31,439
Speaker 2: scared reading out loud. Oh it really is sorry?

1656
01:22:31,479 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 3: What your friends would popcorn call you? When you're yeah,

1657
01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:37,240
Speaker 3: like you don't do it, don't do it, don't do it.

1658
01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:41,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I know that fear, but yeah, yeah, thank

1659
01:22:41,200 --> 01:22:43,280
Speaker 2: you guys. I appreciate it. It's really it's really awesome

1660
01:22:43,960 --> 01:22:47,840
Speaker 2: muscle I've worked and got so Yeah yeah I like it.

1661
01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:49,840
Speaker 2: Thank you guys. I appreciate the love and support. It

1662
01:22:50,400 --> 01:22:51,200
Speaker 2: really means a lot to me.

1663
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:53,600
Speaker 3: Heart's in the chat. Hearts and the meat in the

1664
01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:57,639
Speaker 3: chat for him, I'm proud of my meat. Anyways, rolling

1665
01:22:57,640 --> 01:22:59,640
Speaker 3: the comments oh before he sorry? Like again, this was

1666
01:22:59,720 --> 01:23:03,400
Speaker 3: all entirely just a terrible recipe of terrible communication. Yes, like,

1667
01:23:03,920 --> 01:23:05,759
Speaker 3: this was so poor on both their parts.

1668
01:23:05,920 --> 01:23:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, just get the receipts that are so readily available,

1669
01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:13,000
Speaker 1: like go to HR get them to write their part

1670
01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:22,400
Speaker 1: anyways from deleted Wait, how did wait, how did you

1671
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:25,240
Speaker 1: not think to text your husband sooner? You were supposed

1672
01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:27,160
Speaker 1: to be out by eight and the event did run

1673
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:31,120
Speaker 1: much longer, which happens. But uh, One, why did you

1674
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 1: not think to send them a heads up message earlier?

1675
01:23:33,360 --> 01:23:33,519
Speaker 3: Two?

1676
01:23:34,680 --> 01:23:37,600
Speaker 1: How is your phone, regardless of passwords, more accessible to.

1677
01:23:37,640 --> 01:23:38,519
Speaker 3: Your coworker than you?

1678
01:23:39,360 --> 01:23:40,040
Speaker 1: That's a good point.

1679
01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 3: Wow.

1680
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:43,680
Speaker 1: Three why would this coworker randomly decide to send this

1681
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:45,960
Speaker 1: message to your husband, knowing that he'd have to.

1682
01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 3: See you after the fact.

1683
01:23:47,720 --> 01:23:50,120
Speaker 1: For what the heck, what the heck happened that made

1684
01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 1: the event run that long? Well, another great question. Sorry

1685
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:55,000
Speaker 1: if it seems paranoid, but this post seems like it

1686
01:23:55,120 --> 01:23:59,120
Speaker 1: might be an attempt at an Aliba called that Ooh

1687
01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 1: too many questions and sprung up from it, and I'd

1688
01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:05,519
Speaker 1: love to see some responses, to which OPI responds is

1689
01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:08,880
Speaker 1: why did you not think to sen him a head

1690
01:24:08,920 --> 01:24:11,400
Speaker 1: up message earlier? Quoting that OPI response to that, this

1691
01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:14,719
Speaker 1: has pretty much been the main topic of our conversation today.

1692
01:24:15,120 --> 01:24:16,880
Speaker 1: I lost track for part of the night and didn't

1693
01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:19,200
Speaker 1: see the messages until I went to text him on

1694
01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:23,600
Speaker 1: the train. Opie did mention like he send the messages

1695
01:24:23,640 --> 01:24:26,320
Speaker 1: and like open the phone or whatever, and so the

1696
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:30,200
Speaker 1: messages were dismissed, allegedly.

1697
01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:32,719
Speaker 3: Allegedly, I afft.

1698
01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:35,439
Speaker 1: Up and assumed his easy go, of his easy go

1699
01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:37,760
Speaker 1: attitude about these things meant that he didn't need me

1700
01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:40,160
Speaker 1: to check in, so I didn't think too and time

1701
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:42,719
Speaker 1: just got away from me. Now I realize how stupid

1702
01:24:42,760 --> 01:24:44,920
Speaker 1: that was, because until that text, I am sure he

1703
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:48,840
Speaker 1: was legitimately worried and not thinking something was up, and

1704
01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:50,839
Speaker 1: not thinking something.

1705
01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:51,080
Speaker 3: Was up.

1706
01:24:52,560 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 1: After that text a different story. The event didn't run long.

1707
01:24:56,040 --> 01:24:59,000
Speaker 1: I usually leave around mid evening because I don't drink

1708
01:24:59,040 --> 01:25:01,360
Speaker 1: and get bored. There's no alibi. I was at the

1709
01:25:01,400 --> 01:25:03,599
Speaker 1: pub the entire time. My phone was on the table.

1710
01:25:03,880 --> 01:25:06,639
Speaker 1: After probably checking my Facebook, I got distracted and moved

1711
01:25:06,680 --> 01:25:09,200
Speaker 1: tables to talk to some of my other work friends.

1712
01:25:09,920 --> 01:25:12,640
Speaker 1: I deleted I believe. The same user says, is there

1713
01:25:12,720 --> 01:25:16,160
Speaker 1: any kind of evidence to coroborate your side of the story,

1714
01:25:16,479 --> 01:25:18,880
Speaker 1: something that shows your timeline of the events, when it

1715
01:25:19,000 --> 01:25:19,639
Speaker 1: let out, etc.

1716
01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:21,360
Speaker 3: Etc. Pass that.

1717
01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:24,040
Speaker 1: I think agreeing not to attend after work events for

1718
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:27,200
Speaker 1: a while and taking reasonable steps to limit contact with

1719
01:25:27,439 --> 01:25:30,640
Speaker 1: the coworker is a fair agreement. It demonstrates to your

1720
01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:33,479
Speaker 1: commitment to your partner and transparency in the relationship. It

1721
01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:36,760
Speaker 1: shows that you understand and respect his feelings, which understandable

1722
01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:39,640
Speaker 1: based on how the events went down, and presumably that

1723
01:25:39,800 --> 01:25:42,759
Speaker 1: commitment should quite as worries and you can re establish

1724
01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:43,960
Speaker 1: boundaries at that time.

1725
01:25:44,160 --> 01:25:48,080
Speaker 3: Hmm, all right, this is very technical, Opie.

1726
01:25:47,760 --> 01:25:51,320
Speaker 1: Says, I think you're right. I think you're right. I

1727
01:25:51,360 --> 01:25:55,080
Speaker 1: have no problem seeing this guy ever again, So my husband,

1728
01:25:55,200 --> 01:25:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding the evil.

1729
01:25:56,560 --> 01:25:59,880
Speaker 3: Ask a whole coworker if that means no work?

1730
01:26:00,200 --> 01:26:02,840
Speaker 1: Uh no, after we'd get togethers which really happened anyway,

1731
01:26:03,160 --> 01:26:05,720
Speaker 1: and fine by me. I can probably get my supervisor

1732
01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:08,559
Speaker 1: filled in and help limit my contact. Beyond that, there's

1733
01:26:08,640 --> 01:26:11,280
Speaker 1: not much I can do except rebuild trust. Why not

1734
01:26:11,439 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 1: go to HR, good to go superior, but go to HR,

1735
01:26:14,520 --> 01:26:17,960
Speaker 1: get that rapport, get it written down because like, honestly, dude,

1736
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:20,280
Speaker 1: Like like someone someone in in our in our chat

1737
01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:23,439
Speaker 1: mentioned it, like why is this dude taking your phone?

1738
01:26:23,520 --> 01:26:24,680
Speaker 3: Like that's crazy and.

1739
01:26:25,040 --> 01:26:27,559
Speaker 2: Saying that like it is a nefarious text to act

1740
01:26:27,800 --> 01:26:28,599
Speaker 2: to like send.

1741
01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:30,120
Speaker 3: What else is he gonna do? Like I feel like

1742
01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:31,720
Speaker 3: he needs to be sat down and have a little

1743
01:26:32,000 --> 01:26:36,080
Speaker 3: you know, a little do it freaking Oh oh no,

1744
01:26:36,360 --> 01:26:37,479
Speaker 3: I know I'm scared.

1745
01:26:39,040 --> 01:26:40,080
Speaker 2: Did you see him flinch?

1746
01:26:40,920 --> 01:26:42,360
Speaker 3: Don't do that?

1747
01:26:42,720 --> 01:26:49,679
Speaker 1: K on comme be your buddy, buddy, old body.

1748
01:26:50,320 --> 01:26:51,519
Speaker 2: HR is not here to save you.

1749
01:26:52,800 --> 01:26:54,800
Speaker 3: HR was never here to save me in the first place.

1750
01:26:56,320 --> 01:26:56,920
Speaker 2: It's funny.

1751
01:26:57,000 --> 01:27:01,760
Speaker 3: Excuse me, oh my god.

1752
01:27:02,560 --> 01:27:06,000
Speaker 1: So beyond that, there's not much I can do except

1753
01:27:06,040 --> 01:27:10,840
Speaker 1: to rebuild trust and another chop comment from Ben's dream. Yeah, no,

1754
01:27:11,200 --> 01:27:14,479
Speaker 1: you didn't tell him the event's ending at eight even roughly,

1755
01:27:14,920 --> 01:27:17,360
Speaker 1: then not get in contact until three hours later. I'd

1756
01:27:17,439 --> 01:27:19,080
Speaker 1: be fuming if my significant other.

1757
01:27:19,000 --> 01:27:19,439
Speaker 3: Did that to me.

1758
01:27:20,000 --> 01:27:23,320
Speaker 1: Amityville responds, I'd be fuming as well, just because I

1759
01:27:23,360 --> 01:27:25,559
Speaker 1: would be so worried. Your partner may have been really

1760
01:27:25,600 --> 01:27:27,519
Speaker 1: worried about you and is angry at you for making

1761
01:27:27,600 --> 01:27:31,360
Speaker 1: him feel that way, and there is an update. Oh boy,

1762
01:27:31,600 --> 01:27:36,040
Speaker 1: I do want to just super quickly say, different people

1763
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:42,599
Speaker 1: have different expectations of stuff, like I think in many couples,

1764
01:27:42,640 --> 01:27:44,320
Speaker 1: like if someone goes to an event and it goes

1765
01:27:44,360 --> 01:27:46,840
Speaker 1: on longer and they come home by like eleven PM

1766
01:27:46,920 --> 01:27:49,160
Speaker 1: or midnight, like, yeah.

1767
01:27:49,000 --> 01:27:49,840
Speaker 2: The right to be worried.

1768
01:27:50,800 --> 01:27:54,760
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, uh, it happens. Oh yeah, oh,

1769
01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:58,520
Speaker 1: like different people on different like areas of the spectrum

1770
01:27:58,640 --> 01:28:01,640
Speaker 1: on if that would be worrying to that. But the

1771
01:28:01,760 --> 01:28:07,000
Speaker 1: important part is the partner's feelings, right. Her partner was like, Hey,

1772
01:28:07,439 --> 01:28:11,599
Speaker 1: I am, you know, hurt by this, and it's like, okay,

1773
01:28:11,720 --> 01:28:14,040
Speaker 1: let me make sure I respect that you're that you're

1774
01:28:14,080 --> 01:28:16,040
Speaker 1: hurt by it, and you know, take some actions to

1775
01:28:16,200 --> 01:28:18,360
Speaker 1: address it. I think that that's what I want to

1776
01:28:18,400 --> 01:28:21,479
Speaker 1: focus on here. It's not like like you can't. I

1777
01:28:21,520 --> 01:28:24,080
Speaker 1: feel like you can't make a steadfast rule to apply.

1778
01:28:24,560 --> 01:28:28,560
Speaker 1: Blanket apply to every relationship, but in anyone's specific relationship,

1779
01:28:28,600 --> 01:28:31,240
Speaker 1: if someone's like, hey, this is something that you know,

1780
01:28:31,880 --> 01:28:33,479
Speaker 1: you know hurts me or doesn't make me feel good,

1781
01:28:33,520 --> 01:28:35,200
Speaker 1: I think that the other partner should always sit down

1782
01:28:35,240 --> 01:28:37,080
Speaker 1: and hear out and do what the best they can

1783
01:28:37,160 --> 01:28:39,120
Speaker 1: to ease their mind, to ease their mind and to

1784
01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:42,800
Speaker 1: uh yeah help. I agree, I agree, I'm on board

1785
01:28:42,840 --> 01:28:46,320
Speaker 1: with that. Yes, So getting into this update, I spoke

1786
01:28:46,360 --> 01:28:48,800
Speaker 1: to my boss first thing Wednesday morning and told him

1787
01:28:48,880 --> 01:28:51,160
Speaker 1: what happened. While he was not at the bar, he

1788
01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:52,040
Speaker 1: knew about the event.

1789
01:28:52,320 --> 01:28:53,040
Speaker 3: Later in the morning.

1790
01:28:53,160 --> 01:28:55,799
Speaker 1: He spoke to a whole coworker and didn't hear anything

1791
01:28:55,840 --> 01:28:58,160
Speaker 1: else that work day. I also told a friend at

1792
01:28:58,200 --> 01:29:00,160
Speaker 1: work what happened. She was there and can vouch for

1793
01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:03,160
Speaker 1: me at the bar without asking me. Without me asking,

1794
01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:05,960
Speaker 1: she decided to get a whole coworker on a conference

1795
01:29:06,040 --> 01:29:09,200
Speaker 1: line and called my husband and had a a hoole

1796
01:29:09,280 --> 01:29:10,040
Speaker 1: apologized for.

1797
01:29:10,080 --> 01:29:13,480
Speaker 3: What he did. Whoa wa coworker.

1798
01:29:13,120 --> 01:29:16,439
Speaker 1: Friend, Let's freaking it's huge. This coworker is the opposite

1799
01:29:16,479 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 1: of ahle coworker. Oh yeah, I don't know what exactly

1800
01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:21,240
Speaker 1: was said and had no idea this call had been

1801
01:29:21,280 --> 01:29:23,760
Speaker 1: made until I got home later in the evening. My

1802
01:29:23,880 --> 01:29:25,920
Speaker 1: husband gave me a big hug when I arrived and

1803
01:29:26,000 --> 01:29:28,560
Speaker 1: told me about the call. He said that throughout the

1804
01:29:28,640 --> 01:29:30,840
Speaker 1: day he had already come to the conclusion that it

1805
01:29:31,080 --> 01:29:35,679
Speaker 1: was a crap prank by wasted a hole, So before

1806
01:29:35,840 --> 01:29:39,160
Speaker 1: even the call, a husband already kind of like, Okay,

1807
01:29:39,360 --> 01:29:42,320
Speaker 1: I think this is what happened. As someone touched on

1808
01:29:42,439 --> 01:29:44,800
Speaker 1: in the comments, the idea that someone I was cheating

1809
01:29:44,880 --> 01:29:47,320
Speaker 1: with would send that text was so absurd that it

1810
01:29:47,439 --> 01:29:48,400
Speaker 1: must have been a prank.

1811
01:29:49,280 --> 01:29:51,640
Speaker 3: He said. The call was helpful, but warned.

1812
01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:53,680
Speaker 1: Me he laid into a hole pretty good, telling him

1813
01:29:53,680 --> 01:29:55,720
Speaker 1: what turmoil he caused, and straight up told the guy

1814
01:29:56,000 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 1: stay as far away from his wife as professionally possible.

1815
01:30:00,840 --> 01:30:04,160
Speaker 3: It's just a prank, Brough, It's just a prank, Bro,

1816
01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:08,040
Speaker 3: just a prank, bro. Oh my gosh, boom boom boom

1817
01:30:08,040 --> 01:30:10,000
Speaker 3: boom boom. Yeah, this is a prank.

1818
01:30:10,360 --> 01:30:13,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's freaking prank in your booty cake, freaking

1819
01:30:13,400 --> 01:30:17,599
Speaker 1: prank bro. Or he would make sure his career is impacting.

1820
01:30:17,960 --> 01:30:20,640
Speaker 1: Oh shot. We walked, We talked for hours, and he

1821
01:30:20,720 --> 01:30:23,760
Speaker 1: reinforced some expectations going forward, Simple stuff like giving him

1822
01:30:23,760 --> 01:30:27,040
Speaker 1: a heads up if I'm late, he will do the same, password,

1823
01:30:27,080 --> 01:30:30,559
Speaker 1: protecting my phone, and generally keeping my guard around people.

1824
01:30:30,640 --> 01:30:31,080
Speaker 3: In general.

1825
01:30:31,400 --> 01:30:34,160
Speaker 1: I think we are back to about ninety five percent normal.

1826
01:30:34,600 --> 01:30:36,360
Speaker 1: This week was kind of a shock, and I think

1827
01:30:36,400 --> 01:30:38,320
Speaker 1: we're both a little fatigued from all the drama and

1828
01:30:38,400 --> 01:30:40,840
Speaker 1: planning to spend the entire weekend together. I'm at work

1829
01:30:40,960 --> 01:30:44,320
Speaker 1: and there's no conflict. He's here, but no direct apology yet.

1830
01:30:44,439 --> 01:30:46,800
Speaker 1: But the day is young, and honestly, I don't care

1831
01:30:46,840 --> 01:30:48,759
Speaker 1: to have any contact with this guy in the future.

1832
01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:51,920
Speaker 1: We're talking ahole coworker. Sorry I didn't respond to more

1833
01:30:51,960 --> 01:30:53,800
Speaker 1: in the original thread, but it kind of turned into

1834
01:30:53,840 --> 01:30:55,400
Speaker 1: a crap show of picking.

1835
01:30:55,479 --> 01:31:02,640
Speaker 3: Apart my alibi. I agree it did look odd that I.

1836
01:31:02,640 --> 01:31:04,760
Speaker 1: Didn't realize the time or didn't look at my phone

1837
01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:06,400
Speaker 1: for three hours, as someone claimed.

1838
01:31:06,520 --> 01:31:08,240
Speaker 3: I did have an idea about the time.

1839
01:31:08,600 --> 01:31:10,960
Speaker 1: I did look at my phone during the evening, but

1840
01:31:11,120 --> 01:31:14,920
Speaker 1: didn't think to check in because during that time I

1841
01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 1: felt like I was always on my way out.

1842
01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:18,439
Speaker 3: I dropped my.

1843
01:31:18,479 --> 01:31:20,679
Speaker 1: Phone on the table at some point before the text

1844
01:31:21,280 --> 01:31:23,240
Speaker 1: came in and moved to the other table to chat

1845
01:31:23,320 --> 01:31:26,360
Speaker 1: with some coworkers and said goodbye. I got distracted, didn't

1846
01:31:26,400 --> 01:31:28,840
Speaker 1: get to my phone until the text had been sent.

1847
01:31:29,520 --> 01:31:30,320
Speaker 3: I won't lie.

1848
01:31:30,400 --> 01:31:33,320
Speaker 1: It is like a pretty crazy like series of events,

1849
01:31:33,400 --> 01:31:35,040
Speaker 1: like I dropped my phone on the table, I went

1850
01:31:35,120 --> 01:31:35,559
Speaker 1: over here.

1851
01:31:36,080 --> 01:31:39,040
Speaker 2: You don't drink too, yeah, and you don't drink like

1852
01:31:39,240 --> 01:31:40,880
Speaker 2: I don't drink. And I always on my phone on

1853
01:31:40,960 --> 01:31:43,120
Speaker 2: me because I get bored pretty easily if I am

1854
01:31:43,160 --> 01:31:44,759
Speaker 2: bullet to a bar, like come.

1855
01:31:44,680 --> 01:31:45,880
Speaker 1: On, keep that thang on you.

1856
01:31:46,040 --> 01:31:46,400
Speaker 2: That's right.

1857
01:31:46,520 --> 01:31:50,240
Speaker 3: Oh god, hey baby baby, that's me at eight pm.

1858
01:31:50,400 --> 01:31:52,200
Speaker 1: I know I should have checked in, but it skipped

1859
01:31:52,280 --> 01:31:55,200
Speaker 1: my mind. By the way, it should never skip your mind.

1860
01:31:55,439 --> 01:31:57,960
Speaker 1: That were live every single weekday at three pm PST.

1861
01:31:58,520 --> 01:32:00,800
Speaker 1: So you tap the profile and skip your mind. You

1862
01:32:00,920 --> 01:32:03,880
Speaker 1: have to join You could join it right now. We're

1863
01:32:03,880 --> 01:32:04,640
Speaker 1: probably live right now.

1864
01:32:05,640 --> 01:32:06,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, just come on over.

1865
01:32:07,560 --> 01:32:09,920
Speaker 1: Thanks to those who voice their opinions about not having

1866
01:32:09,960 --> 01:32:11,960
Speaker 1: a cell phone strapped to your body every minute of

1867
01:32:12,000 --> 01:32:14,160
Speaker 1: the day, I'm pretty notorious for putting it into my

1868
01:32:14,240 --> 01:32:16,600
Speaker 1: purse and missing half the calls I received. That is

1869
01:32:16,640 --> 01:32:18,599
Speaker 1: such a good point dude, if you have a freaking purse,

1870
01:32:18,600 --> 01:32:19,320
Speaker 1: you're not gonna feel it.

1871
01:32:20,000 --> 01:32:23,479
Speaker 3: So true why we should get more pockets for women.

1872
01:32:24,240 --> 01:32:26,519
Speaker 1: I'm a believer in that. I'm a believer in that.

1873
01:32:26,520 --> 01:32:28,880
Speaker 1: I feel like women are with it too. Oh yeah,

1874
01:32:28,920 --> 01:32:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna speak on behalf of women right now.

1875
01:32:31,040 --> 01:32:33,759
Speaker 2: Women, tell me if you want more pocket in your genes.

1876
01:32:34,080 --> 01:32:37,320
Speaker 3: Yep, tread lightly, I'm speaking on behalf of women. Tread lightly.

1877
01:32:37,920 --> 01:32:38,400
Speaker 2: Look at them.

1878
01:32:38,800 --> 01:32:39,719
Speaker 1: I'm standing out business.

1879
01:32:39,720 --> 01:32:41,479
Speaker 3: We've seen those feet, so tread lightly.

1880
01:32:43,880 --> 01:32:46,160
Speaker 1: Also, I think the next time that we meet for

1881
01:32:46,240 --> 01:32:48,160
Speaker 1: drinks after work, I'm going to invite my husband.

1882
01:32:48,320 --> 01:32:49,200
Speaker 3: Also a great idea.

1883
01:32:50,000 --> 01:32:52,080
Speaker 1: He is very social and talkative, and we get along

1884
01:32:52,160 --> 01:32:53,800
Speaker 1: with every one for sure.

1885
01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:56,479
Speaker 2: That's so true. Uh sorry, real quick, Brittany Beach, I

1886
01:32:56,560 --> 01:32:58,280
Speaker 2: am gen z. I was not born with the phone

1887
01:32:58,320 --> 01:33:02,080
Speaker 2: in my hand. I got my first actual like smartphone

1888
01:33:02,080 --> 01:33:04,240
Speaker 2: when I was eighteen. Mom didn't want me to have one,

1889
01:33:04,280 --> 01:33:05,639
Speaker 2: and I had a flip phone when I was sixteen.

1890
01:33:05,960 --> 01:33:09,519
Speaker 2: Smart anyways, Yeah, dude, that's good. I feel I'm glad

1891
01:33:09,560 --> 01:33:12,680
Speaker 2: that they were able to get their trust back and

1892
01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:14,040
Speaker 2: they're ninety five percent normal.

1893
01:33:14,360 --> 01:33:15,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good.

1894
01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:16,639
Speaker 3: I think Oswald. That ends well.

1895
01:33:16,920 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 1: I think the husband he didn't say this exactly, but

1896
01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:21,880
Speaker 1: I feel like he kind of realized he overreacted. Yeah,

1897
01:33:22,360 --> 01:33:24,400
Speaker 1: he on his own came to the conclusion. And it

1898
01:33:24,520 --> 01:33:27,759
Speaker 1: was great that once again we had so many options

1899
01:33:27,840 --> 01:33:31,120
Speaker 1: to display the evidence the coworker getting the a whole

1900
01:33:31,160 --> 01:33:34,680
Speaker 1: coworker to call and apologize was a great way of

1901
01:33:34,800 --> 01:33:41,320
Speaker 1: doing that, although she could have just pulled a random person.

1902
01:33:42,920 --> 01:33:46,560
Speaker 3: Oh god, and I told him stop, what do you do?

1903
01:33:46,800 --> 01:33:48,919
Speaker 3: This is what you say? This is my homegirl.

1904
01:33:49,040 --> 01:33:50,960
Speaker 1: So we got to make sure that we keep in

1905
01:33:51,080 --> 01:33:52,439
Speaker 1: this same He got.

1906
01:33:52,360 --> 01:33:54,280
Speaker 2: Like a fake person to apologize.

1907
01:33:54,400 --> 01:33:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, just grabbed some like hey, just like pretend to

1908
01:33:58,080 --> 01:34:01,640
Speaker 1: apologize and just you know, just him scream indie you

1909
01:34:01,720 --> 01:34:04,400
Speaker 1: because we got a you know, discussion.

1910
01:34:04,479 --> 01:34:04,880
Speaker 3: But that's it.

1911
01:34:05,320 --> 01:34:05,560
Speaker 1: That's it.

1912
01:34:05,680 --> 01:34:09,479
Speaker 3: I think that is true. Good agree, all right? We

1913
01:34:09,560 --> 01:34:14,720
Speaker 3: got any donuts left? For sure? Donation from words? Five

1914
01:34:14,840 --> 01:34:18,439
Speaker 3: dollars more words. We gave you some. We gave you

1915
01:34:18,520 --> 01:34:20,840
Speaker 3: some good words. Did we already need skippies? No?

1916
01:34:21,040 --> 01:34:22,320
Speaker 1: No, why don't you read that one?

1917
01:34:22,400 --> 01:34:25,680
Speaker 2: Riley Skippy for the five bucks. Great job, Riley, from

1918
01:34:25,720 --> 01:34:28,559
Speaker 2: a teacher, you are a great role model that your

1919
01:34:28,720 --> 01:34:32,280
Speaker 2: disability does not need, does not need to limit you.

1920
01:34:33,640 --> 01:34:38,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you just you're just so. It took overcome

1921
01:34:38,360 --> 01:34:42,719
Speaker 3: with emotion. It took the words right on. I appreciate skippy.

1922
01:34:45,280 --> 01:34:47,680
Speaker 2: I saw another like comment earlier that was, like, I

1923
01:34:47,800 --> 01:34:51,200
Speaker 2: watched the show for Riley because my uh like kid

1924
01:34:51,680 --> 01:34:54,880
Speaker 2: has a disability and it's a it is kind of crazy.

1925
01:34:55,400 --> 01:34:56,040
Speaker 3: I will say.

1926
01:34:56,320 --> 01:34:59,200
Speaker 2: In college, uh sorry, I will say in college, I

1927
01:34:59,400 --> 01:35:02,160
Speaker 2: was trying to get into finance. I asked my teacher, Hey,

1928
01:35:02,280 --> 01:35:05,680
Speaker 2: can you get me into like microeconomics macroeconomics? And she

1929
01:35:05,760 --> 01:35:07,600
Speaker 2: put me into speech classes and I had like a

1930
01:35:07,640 --> 01:35:10,400
Speaker 2: speech impediment growing up and stuff. She's like, I just thought,

1931
01:35:10,640 --> 01:35:13,680
Speaker 2: like that was that looked better on you than microeconomics.

1932
01:35:13,880 --> 01:35:15,960
Speaker 2: There's always put me in speech classes. So thank you

1933
01:35:16,120 --> 01:35:19,040
Speaker 2: college liaison in early college, miss Austin.

1934
01:35:19,120 --> 01:35:20,840
Speaker 1: Oh nice, So yeah it was, it was. It was

1935
01:35:20,840 --> 01:35:21,439
Speaker 1: a helpful move.

1936
01:35:21,560 --> 01:35:23,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I need to think a lot of teachers

1937
01:35:23,200 --> 01:35:28,000
Speaker 2: are actually in my life. Just Justina Reid, thank you

1938
01:35:28,120 --> 01:35:31,439
Speaker 2: for becoming a night. Let's go Amy John should pee

1939
01:35:31,600 --> 01:35:34,799
Speaker 2: on a tree to show his appreciation. Riley getting awesome

1940
01:35:34,880 --> 01:35:38,679
Speaker 2: and is reading aloud solidarity for Riley. Great job, Riley.

1941
01:35:38,920 --> 01:35:41,320
Speaker 1: I peed on many trees, but peak on one back,

1942
01:35:42,000 --> 01:35:42,160
Speaker 1: just not.

1943
01:35:43,360 --> 01:35:44,599
Speaker 3: I will gladly pee.

1944
01:35:44,439 --> 01:35:45,880
Speaker 1: On a tree, just on my back.

1945
01:35:46,120 --> 01:35:49,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. The coffee girl says, like the stream like it

1946
01:35:50,080 --> 01:35:53,000
Speaker 3: do the one uh in our neighbor's yard, peel on

1947
01:35:53,040 --> 01:35:53,320
Speaker 3: that one.

1948
01:35:53,880 --> 01:35:55,200
Speaker 1: True. I'm way more.

1949
01:35:55,320 --> 01:35:56,400
Speaker 3: I'm way more open to that.

1950
01:35:57,680 --> 01:36:00,720
Speaker 2: M O worm Queen's night. Thank you for being here

1951
01:36:00,760 --> 01:36:04,479
Speaker 2: for six months. I've noticed the improvement in Riley's luency.

1952
01:36:05,000 --> 01:36:08,040
Speaker 2: And I tell my students about your about your story

1953
01:36:08,120 --> 01:36:10,680
Speaker 2: of not letting learning disabilities stop you. Let's go.

1954
01:36:11,360 --> 01:36:17,760
Speaker 1: That's so cute, dude. Oh guy, you're gonna shed a

1955
01:36:17,840 --> 01:36:18,360
Speaker 1: thug tear.

1956
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:21,719
Speaker 3: You inspire just me, Riley, you inspire so many others.

1957
01:36:22,040 --> 01:36:22,719
Speaker 1: It's so cool.

1958
01:36:22,800 --> 01:36:27,400
Speaker 2: That's actually so great a model, Jessica, thanks for being

1959
01:36:27,479 --> 01:36:29,640
Speaker 2: here for seven months. I think we read that one

1960
01:36:30,160 --> 01:36:33,360
Speaker 2: gifts the membership couldn't afford it while you're here. Yeah,

1961
01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:34,600
Speaker 2: I think it's let's go.

1962
01:36:34,760 --> 01:36:35,599
Speaker 3: Let me just refresh.

1963
01:36:36,560 --> 01:36:37,599
Speaker 2: Let's go, guys, that's straight.

1964
01:36:38,200 --> 01:36:40,160
Speaker 3: Let's just go down a little bit here. I think

1965
01:36:40,240 --> 01:36:41,800
Speaker 3: that we got all those from vix mix.

1966
01:36:41,960 --> 01:36:46,040
Speaker 2: Yes, good stuff, all right, good double check, thanks double checking,

1967
01:36:46,200 --> 01:36:48,880
Speaker 2: cool discount double chick. Guys. We're going home, all right,

1968
01:36:48,880 --> 01:36:50,920
Speaker 2: I'm going to the room down there. I'm going down

1969
01:36:50,960 --> 01:36:51,360
Speaker 2: the hole.

1970
01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:52,439
Speaker 1: Were you belaving.

1971
01:36:52,720 --> 01:36:55,240
Speaker 2: He's out of here, a little event. Let's go. I'm

1972
01:36:55,240 --> 01:36:56,320
Speaker 2: glad you're getting out there.

1973
01:36:56,400 --> 01:36:59,960
Speaker 1: Thank you guys. If you love us, make sure to subscribe.

1974
01:37:00,320 --> 01:37:03,479
Speaker 3: We love you and see you to morrow.