1 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to stuff 2 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: I've Never told you production of iHeart Radio. 3 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 2: Okay, so for this Monday Mini Annie, we need to 4 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 2: start off with a timestamp, which is we are recording 5 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: on February eighth, twenty four and this will be released 6 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 2: though on Monday, February twelfth, twenty twenty four. If you 7 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,239 Speaker 2: happen to listen on the day of this is when 8 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 2: we were recording it. If you're listening much long further 9 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 2: down the road, you're like, why are you talking about 10 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day? Well, now you know why, because yes, Valentine's 11 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: Day is just around the corner as you're listening to this. 12 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 2: Of course, we had to do something that was related 13 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 2: to this day of love or day of commercially giving, 14 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 2: so we can judge our partners to on what they 15 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: gave us or didn't give us row food. By the way, 16 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 2: if anybody was asking, always food or a puppy, I'm 17 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 2: not adding to that list. 18 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 1: Puppy not for me. Have you seen pizza as a 19 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: breakup pizza? 20 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,399 Speaker 3: Yes, they break it up break up. 21 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: It's like broken and it's broken. 22 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 3: And the one I said we like swirled. 23 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: We've gone from Valentine's Day is all that romance to like, 24 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: let's just stop. 25 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 3: Protecting what I think. 26 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 2: It's kind of background being salty valentially as you were saying, 27 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 2: But like the one I saw had the box with 28 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 2: the name to the person, sorry about that, yes, good luck. 29 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: Can you imagine if he was a delivery person, like who, well? Breakup? 30 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 2: This is like the equivalent of when you were in 31 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 2: middle school and you don't want to break up with them, 32 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 2: so your friend goes and tells you hey, so and 33 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 2: so it is breaking up with you, sorry, and then 34 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 2: moving on, and then that friend really loving that moment 35 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 2: because you know she gets they get to be a 36 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 2: part of it even though they are not a part 37 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: of this drama. 38 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 3: I feel like this is that equivalent. 39 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 2: So if anyone, if like middle schoolers get a credit 40 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,239 Speaker 2: card or get their parents' credit card, they're going to 41 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 2: do this. 42 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 1: I can see just like sending this to people for foot. 43 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 3: I mean, if I get a free pizza out of it, 44 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 3: that's not bad. 45 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,839 Speaker 1: It's better than just being broken up with That's yeah. 46 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I haven't had a pizza Hut pizza 47 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 2: in a very long time, so I don't know the quality, 48 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 2: but I'm just saying a pizza a win is a win. 49 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah at a certain point, yes, I mean definitely I'd 50 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: be like pizza hut. But then I'd be like, all right. 51 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:48,679 Speaker 3: Sponsor, apparently we need to have it. I'm just kidding. 52 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 2: So with all of that, you know what, because we 53 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 2: have started one rabbit hole, we're gonna do another one. 54 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: So y'all can come with me into this very interesting 55 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 2: romantic tale of Mistress Day, which I didn't know anything about. 56 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: But Annie, you said you knew something about. 57 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: I had heard of it. I think we had done 58 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 1: we'd done something on Ashley Madison. Yes, and it came up, 59 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: which I know you'll talk about more in a second, 60 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: but yes, it came up with that. 61 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that makes sense. But it's been around before 62 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 2: Ashley Madison apparently. But for me personally, February thirteenth is 63 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 2: Gallantine's Day, which is all cheerful and great. See our 64 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 2: previous episode where we talked about it and we enjoy 65 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 2: the joys of that. Thank you, Parks and rec for 66 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 2: giving us a name for this holiday. But for some, 67 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: specifically those in the restaurant industry, because this is kind 68 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: of where it comes from is what many call Mistress Day. Me, 69 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: being my naive self, had no idea. Again, this was 70 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: a thing makes sense, but I didn't know. Yeah, but 71 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 2: I will say part of this is kind of the 72 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: first thing I have in my head is like the 73 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: eighties nineties soap opera thing with the rich older men 74 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 2: taking out their Valentine to these restaurants on the on 75 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 2: the low, you know. And by the way, again, rich 76 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 2: people think, because Valentine's celebration is ridiculously expensive, you try 77 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 2: to go out to this like prefixed menu, it is 78 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 2: like four hundred dollars and that doesn't include drinks, which 79 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 2: I did that last year because I just wanted to 80 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 2: do it for one time round, have a nice little 81 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: I love a prefix milk. Like if it's good, it's good, 82 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 2: But damn is expensive. 83 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, yep. 84 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 2: So for a person to do that twice in one week, well, 85 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 2: I guess because the February thirteenth is not necessarily Actually, 86 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 2: most of the restaurants that I was looking at recently 87 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 2: they had a prefixed menu from like the twelfth to 88 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: the fifteenth, so they were covering their damn basis. 89 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's like if you can't get one, 90 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: you can't get a reservation and or you're busy. Reason Yeah, 91 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: just put that quote, say yeah for whatever. 92 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 3: For whatever reason. Yeah, yeah, yes. 93 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 2: But thanks to TikTok again for informing me of such 94 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 2: practices and more specifically to Delish the site who did 95 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 2: an article and did a whole video talking about these 96 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 2: things and traditions. So here's a definition from them. Mistress 97 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 2: Day is the day when affair havers choose to shower 98 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: their other special someone prior to whining and dining their 99 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 2: actual partner on February fourteenth, they explain. Also Mistress Day 100 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: also called mistress Night or paramore Night, which I like 101 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 2: that title better. I'm not gonna lie. It apparently occurs 102 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 2: on the day before Valentine's Day. So there you go. 103 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: And there's a couple another term that we're gonna talk 104 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 2: about a minute. I think it's just as funny. And 105 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 2: the article continues. A study from Ashley Madison Australia suggests, 106 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 2: yes the Affair Website, so take this with a grain 107 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 2: of salt, that thirty percent of male and female cheaters 108 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 2: typically spend Valentine's Day with their outside partners, and they 109 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 2: often spend the same or more on their affair partners 110 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: during the holiday, between one hundred dollars to two hundred 111 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 2: and fifty dollars per partner. Again, why would you cheat? 112 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: It's expensive, That's what I'm finding out. 113 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: It is expensive. And it's also, like I think, pretty 114 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: telling if you spend more because you don't want them 115 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: to say something, You're like, see, I appreciate you. Yeah. 116 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 2: So a couple of the articles that I read outside 117 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 2: of this, and they were older, so one of them 118 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 2: was two thousand and nine, one of them was two thousand, 119 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 2: one of them was twenty eleven, so a little older, 120 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 2: and talking about these some of them said that a 121 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: seventy percent of more people who have these partners I 122 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 2: guess will will be spending more on them, so they're 123 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 2: more likely going to spend more and then move on 124 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: and kind of talked about how the women or people 125 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 2: who are their spouses or actual partners get less and 126 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 2: less and less every year. 127 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so sad. Do better people. 128 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 2: Again, all of this makes me very sad, both for 129 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: the amount spent in general, to the cheating and to 130 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 2: the cheating, Like both of those things, I'm like don't wow, wow, 131 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 2: Like I want to be cared. 132 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 3: For, but I want thoughtful presence just knowing that you care. 133 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, any I know you care, Which does bring in 134 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 2: the perspective that it may not be about mistresses at all, 135 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 2: just as a reminder, but couples who are making smart 136 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 2: financial deals and decisions and also not messing with those crowds, 137 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 2: so they're like, yeah, we're gonna do it ahead of 138 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 2: time or later, we'll just do our own thing, so 139 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 2: you know, that's one option. Or perhaps they are polyamorous 140 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 2: or in an open relationship so they are communicating, so 141 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 2: it's not so much cheating or so we can't judge 142 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 2: any of these things by that appearance. 143 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 3: Because you never know. 144 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 2: You never know, So as just someone like, don't become 145 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 2: that person that comes to like you're cheating unless you 146 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 2: actually know. 147 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 3: I guess. 148 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 2: Also, can we talk about how this sexist idea lenks 149 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: very heavily into the rich man having an affair thing, 150 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 2: because again, mistress day is definitely gendered as we see it, 151 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 2: and of course one article the New York Post puts 152 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 2: it this way, mistress day has become a misnomer as 153 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 2: more cougars have gotten in on the action. 154 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 3: So there you go. 155 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 2: I guess, and then there are some descriptions of that. 156 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 2: So I was like, okay, add another sexist term to 157 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 2: that to make it worse. While this is just a 158 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 2: fair having men's mistresses and cougars. 159 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 3: In that term. I was like, yeah, that's about right. 160 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 2: But there is another term also for this practice I 161 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 2: enjoy a bit more, I will say, which is valence 162 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 2: swinds day, y'all valence swins And I was like, oh, okay, 163 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: which is not to be confused to the German tradition 164 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 2: of their own form of Valentine's I guess I don't 165 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 2: know if that's. 166 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 3: What they call it. 167 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 2: I'm sure they don't call it valence Wine's day that 168 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: Germany has a term for it. But they do actually 169 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 2: exchange pigs. Oh unfortunately, not real ones, because I want 170 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 2: to pop belly pigs. I'm gonna give me one, just kidding, 171 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 2: but keep seeks and the such, and pigs are considered 172 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 2: good luck and oftentimes will be a picture of pig 173 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 2: instead of cupid. So yeah, that's a practice, but this 174 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 2: is not what we're talking about. This is not a 175 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 2: cute term of endearment for that no, but as would indicate, 176 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 2: people use this term as more of a dig as 177 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 2: a New York Post titled it. Titled their twenty eleven 178 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: piece about this subject, Valence Swine's Day When Pigs romance mistresses. Dang, 179 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 2: and I was like, you know what, I really appreciate 180 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 2: this title, So we're going to gender it. 181 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 3: Let's do it this way. 182 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 2: Because I'm like, at the very least, we're not blaming 183 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 2: the mistress on this one, just the mistress this way. 184 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 2: Paramore day, Paramore night. I feel like it is a 185 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 2: fancier version, right, Yeah, maybe that's Ashley Madison term. And 186 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 2: of course we had to do the our urban dictionary 187 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 2: example about this term the day before Valentine's Day that 188 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 2: guys used to spend time with their second or third 189 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 2: most important woman in their lives. February thirteenth is the 190 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: day that mistresses get to feel like wives and sideline 191 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 2: hoes get to feel like star players. Yes, this is 192 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 2: all urban dictionary, y'all. It's especially sad when the girl 193 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 2: doesn't know she's not the only girl her boyfriend is seeing. 194 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 2: And of course they have a little dialogue. So you 195 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 2: want to be girl too in this Annie, Yeah, sure, 196 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 2: all right, here we go, girl. So he's taking you 197 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 2: out the day before Valentine's Day. 198 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, he has to work late on Valentine's Day. 199 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,839 Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure he's going to be with his actual girlfriend. 200 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 2: That's why he's taking you out on valence Swine's Day. 201 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 2: Living and scene and scene, Well, you need to do 202 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 2: these more often. But yeah, so apparently it's a thing. 203 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 2: I'm not really I try to find the history of 204 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 2: where that began. Maybe it's just the easily done, like 205 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 2: obvious term and it just kind of grew with that, 206 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 2: But yeah, it did start. It does look like it 207 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 2: originated from restaurants because they had to prepare and knowing 208 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 2: that how much money they were going to make or 209 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 2: who's coming in. A lot of servers were interview talking 210 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 2: about how they were, you know, given the eye or 211 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 2: the look from the cheater like please please play it cool. 212 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 2: How often times they were so uncreative, not creative that 213 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 2: they would come to the same place two or three 214 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 2: times back to back to back, so they knew who 215 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 2: these people were. I think there was one person talked 216 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 2: about how they did out them quite loudly and it 217 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: was quite funny. And then there was another person talking 218 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 2: about how she had a huge tip because the dude 219 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 2: was like realizing she wasn't playing along because she would 220 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 2: look just look more confused more than anything else, not 221 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 2: saying anything, just obviously wasn't aware of what's happening. And 222 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 2: it was like please with the love of Jesus and 223 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,079 Speaker 2: gave her a huge tip in order to keep her quiet. 224 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: Ah geez. 225 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:35,719 Speaker 3: So there you go. 226 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 2: Happy Valentine's Day. I hope your Valentine's Day is better 227 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 2: than this mess right here if you happen to celebrate, 228 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 2: If you would just rather do the joys of Gallantines, 229 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 2: we hear you, and Happy Gallantine's Day from us. 230 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes, and if you want to go 231 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: check out are you know not too oftenly updated Instagram. 232 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 1: We did prior to the pandemic a Gallentine's Day post 233 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: from Disneyland. It's true, it's very cute. Thank you, that 234 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 1: is very cute. But yes, whatever you're doing, because again, 235 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: I'm pretty much just like eating food by myself and 236 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm pretty excited about it. 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