1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: All right, This is from mister D in Chesterfield. 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 2: Mister D says, my first love married another man when 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: I went away to the service. They were married for 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 2: thirty five years and have three children. Now that they're divorced, 5 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 2: we've been going on dates and getting reacquainted. I still 6 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 2: love this woman, but I can't get past the fact 7 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: that she moved on as soon as I left town 8 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 2: years ago. I was married twice and none of my 9 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 2: past lovers compared to this woman. But I can't help 10 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 2: but still hold a grudge. How do I get over 11 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 2: the past so I can be with her? What? 12 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 3: Hey, man, you gotta let it go. 13 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta let it go. He was gone, pro 14 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: I'm married, bro. 15 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 3: Nobody else compares to her. So maybe y'all meant to 16 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 3: be it the time. 17 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: It wasn't right back then, go to hook up with her? 18 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: Quit act a stupid good advice, Good advice, deeve. 19 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 3: Man, Just let it go, man, enjoy your life. 20 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 2: It's hard, though, for people to let things go, and 21 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: I don't know why that is. 22 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: Well, y'all to talk Tommy about that? 23 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tom Yeah, any of it. 24 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, what can you help mister DI about holding onto 25 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 2: this grudge. 26 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: How can you let it go? 27 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna be hard to let it go. 28 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: Don get with it. But keep bringing it up and 29 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: throwing it in my face. Yes, it's going to do this, 30 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: but that's the only way to relieve this thing. You 31 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 1: got to keep bringing it up. That's bad advice. That's had. 32 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: You asked me what to tell the boy, and I 33 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: told her, well, I'm not. 34 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what I'm not gonna do. I'm just what, 35 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,680 Speaker 3: just be a bigger Christian than you. I'm not gonna 36 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 3: keep mentioning it an image of Ward. I'm just not 37 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 3: gonna do it. 38 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: You just brought it up again. 39 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 3: I just said I wasn't gonna do it no more 40 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: that what I was payingful right now. That's that's why 41 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna bring it up. 42 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: You know, I ain't giving an image of Ward. 43 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 3: I know exactly. When you leaving town again, I get 44 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 3: me an image. Well, I want me, I'll come on 45 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 3: and get what are you doing? 46 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: You're doing President Trump? Just taking awards that you. 47 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: Have learn what. 48 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: I'm stealing like o J. But it ain't man, I'm 49 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: taking Yes. 50 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, we have time for another one him. 51 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: This is from Vicky, We've moved on. This is from 52 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: Vicky and Tupelo. 53 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 2: Vicky says, there is a man at my job that's 54 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 2: not handsome or fine, but I find him to be 55 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 2: very funny too. But I find him to be very funny. 56 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 2: I love a funny man with a great personality. I've 57 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 2: never cared about how a man looks. In fact, my 58 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 2: friends say I love dating ugly man and I love 59 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 2: fixing them up. The guy is a big teddy bear, 60 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 2: but I can see myself whipping him into physical shape, 61 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: and I can help clean up his look. I'm forty 62 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 2: two and he's forty, so it's not like men are 63 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 2: knocking down my door. Should I date the ugly man? 64 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: Wow? 65 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,679 Speaker 3: Well, I highly recommend it. 66 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 1: He known ugly. 67 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 3: Because ugly man come with a lot of other other traits. 68 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 3: They ain't gonna leave you. Oh oh you know, I 69 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 3: already know. It's been hard to get somebody to want 70 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 3: them so that they're going no where, strong, they fight hard, 71 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 3: they willing to die. Yeah, all these are traits. People 72 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 3: die because they don't care. What what is we living for? 73 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: You see me? You see me, I reached my life 74 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: all the time. You see me? 75 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 3: What is you surprised about you see me? Others, I am. 76 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 3: I'm sitting here in all their careers I have passed 77 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 3: up on. But I thought being up that I wasn't 78 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 3: gonna be able to make it. 79 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: What did you have to do with your career? It's 80 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: got a lot to do with it. 81 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 3: I found out you didn't have to be attractive and 82 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 3: get a lot of these jobs. 83 00:03:58,160 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 84 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 3: I saw the Netflix special fifty dead on Puffy. Did 85 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 3: you see the sex worker? 86 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: I was? 87 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 3: I was just put back. Clearly I could have been 88 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 3: a sex worker. I thought you had to be attractive 89 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 3: and well built. I didn't know you could be a 90 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 3: just little, odd, little looking man sitting up in here 91 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 3: with this a little hit little mustache. 92 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: He was ripped though. 93 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 3: For lord, he was hard to look at. Even I 94 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 3: turned away more than a document I don't know how 95 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 3: the rest of them girls got through it, but I 96 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 3: couldn't even look at the documentary? 97 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 1: Did we have more of this very ignorant show? 98 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 2: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.