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Speaker 1: I refuse to give my sister any of my six

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Speaker 2: And here's why, man, you better have the best dang

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Speaker 2: reason ever in a history of planet Earth.

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Speaker 1: The reason is it's my money.

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Speaker 2: What else are you going to do?

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Speaker 1: Get away from my gold? I'm a freaking dragon and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit on my horse.

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Speaker 2: I'm screwede you making deck count in my coins.

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Speaker 1: If I don't have all my six million, how am

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Speaker 1: I going to dive from a diving board into it?

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Speaker 1: I female, twenty four, have four siblings, Max male thirty one,

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Speaker 1: Lisa female twenty, Chris male twenty, Emily female eighteen. Emily

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Speaker 1: is disabled, and because of that, my parents dedicated themselves

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Speaker 1: one hundred percent to her, leaving the rest of us

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Speaker 1: defend for ourselves. When Max left for college, I became

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Speaker 1: the main caregiver for my siblings, and all household chores

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Speaker 1: were my responsibility. I want to make it clear that

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Speaker 1: Emily's disability does not stop her from functioning like any

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Speaker 1: other person, and she doesn't require any assistance or supervision

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Speaker 1: or twenty four to seven care. I love to actually

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Speaker 1: know what.

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Speaker 2: The yeah I was just about to ask.

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Speaker 1: I wonder what it is adhd. However, my parents have

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Speaker 1: always spoiled or rotten, and she is very rude, mean

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Speaker 1: and entitled. My parents raised her with mentality that her

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Speaker 1: disability means she's allowed to do whatever and everyone needs

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Speaker 1: to bend backwards for her, which is probably not a

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Speaker 1: great parenting style. My grandparents passed away three years ago

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Speaker 1: and I inherited everything approximately six million dollars.

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Speaker 2: Wow, golly, that's a lot. That's just imagine you just

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Speaker 2: got every billion dollars. I mean, when everything is six million,

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Speaker 2: you know, everything could be two paper clips.

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Speaker 1: They were very well off. I know. The reasons I

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Speaker 1: received all of it are because of the following one.

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Speaker 1: When my parents were sick, Max contacted them after almost

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Speaker 1: ten years of silence because he wanted to know how

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Speaker 1: much he will receive. Nice, how se a plus move, bro.

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Speaker 1: Two they were very aware of how my mom treated

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Speaker 1: me and my siblings and she was disowned. Three they

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Speaker 1: are very religious, and Lisa came out as by at

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Speaker 1: fourteen and Chris came out as gay at seventeen.

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Speaker 2: So they're not the Basically, the grandparents are homophobic and

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Speaker 2: not giving the right Wow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I went to North Carolina with my parents after

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Speaker 1: I moved for college, and when Lisa and Chris started college,

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Speaker 1: I offered to cover all of their living such educational

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Speaker 1: expenses as long as they do well in school. Okay,

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Speaker 1: they gladly accept it. Okay, nice, that is good.

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Speaker 2: That's a good start.

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Speaker 1: I also helped my bff Lola start her own business.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of nice.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's the need to do that. That's cool move.

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Speaker 1: I haven't spoken to my parents in six years. I

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Speaker 1: haven't blocked them, they just never called or texted. This year,

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Speaker 1: Emily started college and she burned out all of her

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Speaker 1: college fund in less than four months because she's a

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Speaker 1: spoiled brat and bags are more important than rent. But

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Speaker 1: the louis though, the louis. My disability is not being poor.

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Speaker 1: Oh I don't know how to conserve my cash. In addition,

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Speaker 1: she's doing a horrible in school because she isn't even

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Speaker 1: attending her classes and she will most likely be expelled

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Speaker 1: or held back.

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Speaker 2: Oh dang.

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Speaker 1: My mom called me two weeks ago, not to ask,

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Speaker 1: but demand that I do the same for her as

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Speaker 1: I do for Lisa and Chris. I said no, because

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Speaker 1: growing up I was literally a slave for her. And

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Speaker 1: my parents. I'm helping Lisa and Chris because the only

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Speaker 1: by telling her that for eighteen years, Emily was their

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Speaker 1: anything from the kids that they practically abandoned. Dang, now

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Speaker 1: I'm getting from everyone except Lisa and Chris because I'm

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Speaker 1: causing unnecessary drama. I'm causing a rift between Emily and

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Speaker 1: her siblings. Emily will be the only one without a degree.

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Speaker 1: It's not really my money, and my grandparents would want

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Speaker 1: me to help her, then why didn't they leave anything

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Speaker 2: Facts?

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Speaker 1: But I mean, I don't know if I can really

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Speaker 1: That's true, so you know, family is family and I

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Speaker 1: should help my little sister. It's not her fault that

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Speaker 1: my parents for bad parents to me, true, but she

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Speaker 1: doesn't do anything to change her behavior. She's disabled and

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Speaker 1: it's not okay to discriminate. I feel like I'm doing

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Speaker 1: so am I the a hole? There is a little

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Speaker 1: update giving some clarification, but quick input. What do you think?

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Speaker 1: And also all of you, and also anyone listening and

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Speaker 1: also anyone watching. What do you think what would you

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Speaker 1: do in this situation if you got six million dollars

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Speaker 1: and it was only to you, would you just run

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Speaker 1: off to an island would help your family? What would

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I think Opie is pretty much that that not

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Speaker 2: the a hole and is seems to be the angel. Again,

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Speaker 2: we'd love to know what the disability was and also,

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Speaker 2: uh was it Lisa and Chris those were the two

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Speaker 2: people that were not straight that didn't receive so Max.

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Speaker 1: Max is the one that called and was like, how

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Speaker 1: much money I get? And it was to sound Lisa

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Speaker 1: and Chris were the like bisexual guy. Right, So yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm almost a little bit like, I'll just say

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Speaker 1: this one thing before moving on, Like you just you

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Speaker 1: I know, maybe a little more. Maybe I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I would don't. I would like split a

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Speaker 2: Maybe, I mean, maybe that's to come, That's what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she just wants to be a constant benefactor in

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Speaker 1: their life for like years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, but That's what I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: Okay, So for the Q and A, which is actually

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Speaker 1: kind of interesting, we get some updates. Right, What disability

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Speaker 1: does she have? OPI doesn't know. My parents never told me,

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Speaker 1: is it what is the disability if it doesn't require like.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's good for family to know.

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Speaker 1: Is it a physical disability that you can see?

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Speaker 2: I I totally, I totally understand, not like wanting to

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Speaker 2: explain yourself to everyone, But I don't know. I'm curious

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I guess OPI doesn't know at all about

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Speaker 1: Does it do anything interesting? Can Emily get government assistance? No,

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Speaker 1: because she doesn't have any documentation that a test she

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Speaker 1: all refused to sign any document that said she had disabled. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it sounds like Emily eight disabled. How much is Emily

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Speaker 1: actually spending well? She renewed her closet, purchased a very

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Speaker 1: expensive car, and partied until she dropped. For reference, my

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Speaker 1: five hundred and eighty seven thousand dollars and she booted.

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Speaker 2: That in four months.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what, it's crazy. Oh my wow, did me and

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Speaker 1: my siblings have a college fund? No? FYI writing these,

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Speaker 1: I'm starting to question if my sister's actually disabled or

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Speaker 1: My family thinks she was disabled because she did not

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Speaker 1: the juiciest update of all.

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Speaker 2: Oh there's a juicy your update.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, my mom called a few minutes ago to

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Speaker 1: tell me Emily is pregnant, so I need to help her.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, oh my god, I blocked them all.

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Speaker 1: It's a fake pregnancy lmao.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh wow, coercion.

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Speaker 1: I'm so confused because it's start like like the family

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Speaker 1: has a family just been lying about Emily's disability, But then.

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Speaker 2: It's like why unless they're like, I mean, look, we

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Speaker 2: and do things for unexplicable reasons.

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Speaker 1: But still none of the doctors wanted to say that

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Speaker 2: That's crazy to me, that's weird.

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Speaker 1: That's weird. Wait, we'll break this down a little bit more,

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Speaker 1: but please let me know what you think. Do you

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Speaker 1: think that OPI's sister Emily actually has a disability. Do

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Speaker 1: you think op has to give Emily any money? Please

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Speaker 1: let us know in the comments below. John, who's the

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Speaker 1: a hole? Who are the angels? What do you think?

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Speaker 1: What would you do?

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Speaker 2: Pretty much to Angel? Seems seems like, seems like Opie

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Speaker 2: I'm rocking with that. The parents a holes for sure,

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Speaker 2: for not like I totally get like you kind of

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Speaker 2: you do have to spend probably more time and attention there.

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Speaker 2: But also, you know some so any parent that loves

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, at the risk of being crowned the

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Speaker 2: rage and ablest if doctors are.

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Speaker 1: Refusing to say that you're disabled, I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: really don't know where that leaves you. I feel like

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Speaker 1: you might not be disabled. Who are we to say?

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Speaker 1: The real test is what that comment say? Yes, so

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Speaker 1: please put in the comments. Already won and excited to

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Speaker 1: read through it.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, and I'm excited to read through another story for you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: We have another inheritance story, but this one involves a

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Speaker 2: Nigerian Prince, sam Oh