1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: It's a fresh show. It's Kiki's court, all right. 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 2: The honorable Kikilik is here, Judge Kiki, Oh, I'm here, Yes, 3 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 2: take it away. 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 3: All right, let's get into the courtroom, it says Kiki. 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 3: My name is Mona. I've been married for two weeks 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 3: and I'm already no longer speaking to my mother in law. 7 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 3: Throughout my wedding planning process, she kept trying to add 8 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 3: people to my guest list. My husband and I paid 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 3: for our entire wedding by ourselves, and we can only 10 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 3: afford one hundred people. Well, on my wedding day, my 11 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 3: husband and I had to turn away twenty additional guests 12 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 3: that my mother in law invited instead of us enjoying 13 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 3: our reception. We were arguing and debating if we should 14 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 3: just eat the additional costs or tell the uninvited guests 15 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 3: to go home. I stood my ground and turned them 16 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 3: all away, which resulted in my mother in law throwing 17 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 3: a fit at our wedding reception. She stormed out, missing 18 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 3: most of the night and caused a complete scene. We 19 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 3: haven't spoken, and now I'm wondering if I made the 20 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 3: right decision. 21 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, Judge geeky, what say you. 22 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 4: Mona, I'm on your side. 23 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 3: I am on your side with this because I've said 24 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 3: this to every wedding I've been in and every bride 25 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 3: I've stood beside. It's like, your wedding is not the 26 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 3: family reunion. 27 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 4: You know, your cousins that you haven't seen in years. 28 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 3: If you have no direct communication with these people on 29 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 3: a regular basis, you should not feel pressure to add 30 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 3: them to your guest list. 31 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 4: And your wedding is a day for you and your husband. 32 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 3: It is not about your mom's guest list, your grandma's 33 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 3: guest list, like they need to have a party if 34 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 3: they miss their family, that bad. Because when you think 35 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 3: about how expensive a wedding can cost, would you pay 36 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 3: seventy dollars to eat with cousin Sally on. 37 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 4: A regular day? 38 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 5: No? 39 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: So why would I pay for a seventy dollars plate 40 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 3: for her to come to my wedding and we don't 41 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 3: even speak? 42 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: So yeah, just so I'm clear, and you mentioned it, 43 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 2: I'm just want to be certain to have all the 44 00:01:56,120 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 2: proper details before I assess my position on this serious. Yes, 45 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: but they paid for it. The parents didn't pay for it. 46 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,559 Speaker 3: No, the bride and the groom paid for the wedding 47 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: and they could only afford four hundred people. 48 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, well then no, then then I didn't Pauline in 49 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 2: your family, wasn't it this way where they paid for 50 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 2: their own guests. 51 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 5: No, we paid for our guests, but we also didn't 52 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 5: have anything like you know, crazy over the top legover 53 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 5: budget kind of like I don't know if this is 54 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 5: how how Mona's was. 55 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 4: But the thing is, though, even if they pay. 56 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 5: For their own guests, like your mother in law or whatever, 57 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 5: your in law's pay for their own guests, some people 58 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 5: just want to do small weddings. So if you only 59 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 5: have like a fifty person wedding, which my best friend 60 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 5: wants to do that, and then you know his mother 61 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 5: in law invites you know, the family extend to the 62 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 5: cousins or whatever from the other state, then now the 63 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 5: wedding's one hundred people. 64 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 4: Right or you know what I mean. 65 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 2: I'm just more impressed they came up, they come up. 66 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 2: I'm more impressed they come up. I'm more impressed they 67 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 2: came up with four hundred people and they didn't include 68 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 2: all the random cousins and stuff like that, because there's 69 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 2: no way there's no way. I don't I wouldn't be 70 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 2: able to invit four hundred people. No, they invited one 71 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 2: hundred people. One I don't know why I got four 72 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 2: hundred from either way, that's a lot of people I 73 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 2: don't even I guess it is. And the problem with 74 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 2: being married or getting married when you're older, you know, 75 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 2: I'm in my early forties or whatever is that Now 76 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 2: I know a lot of people and not everybody probably 77 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 2: needs to be at my wedding, but a lot of 78 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:17,959 Speaker 2: people probably think they should be, right, you know what 79 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 2: I mean? So, like there would be a lot of 80 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 2: people offended if I had a wedding of any you know, 81 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 2: size that wasn't beyond just family and my sister, mom, dad, 82 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 2: you know, maybe a couple close friends. Even then though 83 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 2: I think there'd be a lot of people in my 84 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 2: life like what do you mean? I didn't get invited 85 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: to the wedding? Like what do you mean? And so 86 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 2: I can see why at this point in my life, 87 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 2: I can see why older people when they get married, 88 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 2: or people who are not you know, twenty something anymore 89 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: or whatever, or second marriage is I can see why 90 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 2: they just go off and the elope because you don't 91 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: have to deal with any of this. You don't have 92 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: to worry about who who got invited and who didn't 93 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 2: get invited. You don't have to have anyone else's opinion 94 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 2: on this, parents or other family members, because it's like, look, 95 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 2: I just went off and did it, and it's done, 96 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 2: and it's over and nobody came. And then maybe you 97 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 2: have a party afterwards, and that's not the expense of 98 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 2: a wedding, and you can invite everybody who wants to go, 99 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 2: because I don't think you should be obligated to pay 100 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 2: for people that you don't want there. It's your money. Now, 101 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: I've heard of people in the past where it's like 102 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 2: we're paying for the wedding, but then the parents on 103 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 2: each side pay for their guests. So like if they 104 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: insist on Aunt Sally, and they insist on Uncle Rico 105 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 2: or whatever else, then then they can pay for that. 106 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 2: But the other issue with that is if I wanted them, 107 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 2: if I wanted somebody there, I probably would have invited them. 108 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 2: So like, why am I giving you guys an extra 109 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 2: guest list, like an extraneous guest list. Why why do 110 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 2: you now get to change the whole vibe in my 111 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 2: wedding with a bunch of people. 112 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. 113 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 2: The only way I can see that being a thing 114 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: is if they if the parents paid for it, because 115 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 2: if you're going to take somebody else's money, then they're 116 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 2: going to get input on who gets to go. Yeah. 117 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 5: I also did one thing that I don't know if 118 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 5: it's common or not, is I did tell my mom 119 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 5: and my mother in law like, if they wanted to invite, 120 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 5: let's just say like a really good friend or something, 121 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 5: or someone that they worked with for twenty years. My 122 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 5: mom has been the same job forever, so she was 123 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 5: really close to her coworkers who saw me grow up. 124 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, you know, if you want 125 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 5: to invite somebody, like, you know. 126 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: Please do. 127 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 5: Obviously they wouldn't be on my let's just say my list, right, 128 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 5: They're not top of mind for me. 129 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 4: But I wanted my mom in laws. 130 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 5: To invite people that maybe I don't know who they are, 131 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 5: but you know, havy my husband maybe like grew up 132 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 5: with this person like a family friend that I don't 133 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 5: know who that is, you know, or my mom like 134 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 5: I don't have a lot of family here in the country, 135 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 5: so they weren't coming out from Poland. They were't gonna 136 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 5: fly out here for my wedding, And I was like, well, mom, 137 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:39,239 Speaker 5: who do you want to invite? 138 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 4: Right? That is like family that I might not be 139 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 4: aware of or on my radar. Did she take them advantage? Yeah, 140 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 4: she brought my high school English teacher. Oh yeah, she 141 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 4: was holding hands with Yes, like me too. 142 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: You were smart to have a destination wedding too, because 143 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 2: I think that weeds him out as well. 144 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 4: Yes, oh yeah, yeah. 145 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: Because not everyone's going to pay for that. 146 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, to hear from the brides, because I can only 147 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 3: like I get particular about a dinner party, like is 148 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 3: my dinner party? 149 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 4: This is why I want at the table. 150 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 3: So I can only imagine when it's the biggest day 151 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 3: of your life, you know, not the biggest day, but 152 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 3: you know, one of the most important days of your life, 153 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 3: and you feel like you have to please everybody else. 154 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 4: Absolutely not So. 155 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 2: Eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five 156 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 2: you can call it text the same number. But you 157 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 2: guys are the jury in Kiki's court. I want to know, 158 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 2: do you do you think that you should do you 159 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 2: think that your parents should be able to inject guests 160 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 2: onto the guest list because well, so and so is important, 161 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 2: and so and so is important and whatever. You know, 162 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 2: as where you may favor friends or coworkers or whatever. 163 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: I mean, do you think that your family should get 164 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 2: some kind of input and who gets to go to 165 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,359 Speaker 2: this stuff? Or do you think, no, it's my wedding. 166 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 2: I paid for it, and so I'll choose and if 167 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: that upsets family, well, then I guess that's a me 168 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 2: problem and not a you problem, because I guess the 169 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 2: other problem here is that you know, maybe you're not 170 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 2: as close with certain people as you're parents are. They 171 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 2: think they should be there. You'd rather invite someone who 172 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: you met more recently. It might cause long term damage. 173 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 2: You don't care right now, but your parents are like, no, 174 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: they have to come, Like, come on, they they were 175 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:13,119 Speaker 2: part of your upbringing or whatever. 176 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: I mean. It's comp families complicated. 177 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 4: No, it really is. 178 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 3: But I think I think the fair thing is to maybe, 179 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 3: if you can afford it, offer your parents a table 180 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 3: and you say, listen, this is your table. Fill it 181 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 3: with whoever you want to feel it with outside of 182 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 3: your table. 183 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 4: The rest is my wedding. You know what I'm saying. 184 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 4: I feel like that's more than fair. 185 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 3: We're talking one hundred dollars a plate at these some 186 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 3: of these maquet halls. 187 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 4: It's expensive, very. 188 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I would even again, I would even say, 189 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 2: even if you were paying for people to come, like 190 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: you want to to Paulina's point, you want to invite 191 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 2: your coworkers. You want to invite people that you know. 192 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: I don't know that. 193 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 2: Well maybe I've never even met them. I'm not paying 194 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 2: for that. But I also, even if you're paying for it, 195 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 2: I don't even know if I want them there. 196 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: I don't know them. Ye. 197 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 4: True, that's a good point. 198 00:07:59,240 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: That's tricky. 199 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're just hanging out, drinking my free bar, you know, dancing, 200 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 3: doing the electric slide, and I don't even notice person, right, Like, that's. 201 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 2: What I'm saying, Like even if you said, okay, fine, 202 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: you can pay, you can pay for fifty more people 203 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: if you want fifty more people to come, Like even 204 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 2: if you were to say that, okay, well I don't 205 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 2: know these people. Like for example, my well, my parents 206 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 2: paid for my sister's wedding, but they then had input 207 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 2: on who got to go. And there were some people 208 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 2: that were like friends but also clients of my parents' 209 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 2: business and stuff like that. They got invited and that 210 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 2: took up space from because the number of guests didn't change, 211 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: the number of people who could come didn't change, but 212 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 2: they paid for it. So they were like, well, we're 213 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 2: inviting so and so and so. My sister couldn't say 214 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 2: very much. And then some of those people didn't show up, 215 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 2: and so, well, my parents were pissed, and they had 216 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 2: every reason to me. My sister was more pissed because 217 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 2: she was like, well, we had to invite so and 218 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 2: so they didn't even come. And then these other people 219 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 2: that I did want to invite wouldn't come because we 220 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 2: had to invite so and so. And I couldn't say 221 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: anything to you because it was your money. But then 222 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 2: here we go. 223 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what. 224 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 5: It's respectful like to not show up after your RSVBDA. 225 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 5: I'm not talking about like like emergency, like the craziest 226 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 5: thing you've ever seen, you. 227 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 4: Know, car flipped over, arms fallen off. Oh no, that 228 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 4: would be I'm serious. 229 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: That might be a reason not to go to a wedding. 230 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 1: I might. 231 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 2: I might be like, well wait a minute, though, like 232 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 2: could the ambulance have stopped? Could you have like pull up, 233 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 2: you know, like what do you mean pull up by 234 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:31,719 Speaker 2: me and my wedding. 235 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: A bunch of texts. 236 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 2: My mother in law wanted people my husband and I 237 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 2: didn't want or no, we paid for one hundred percent, 238 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,319 Speaker 2: and she threatened to keep the money that they were 239 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 2: going to give us. Oh, I guess it's a gift. 240 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 2: So we laughed at her. No one's going to control 241 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 2: my story, that's what this person said. Yeah, I like 242 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 2: that one. Yes, I had friends that had their wedding 243 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 2: in Colorado just to avoid having a bunch of people come. Yeah. 244 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 1: I think that's a very smart thing. 245 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 2: The further away you have it and the more expensive 246 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 2: it is, you got to realize that fewer people are 247 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:04,560 Speaker 2: going to come, but you might be able to use 248 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 2: that to your advantage. 249 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 4: Remember when Paulina tried Thanksgiving week? 250 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: Oh, I do. 251 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 4: Up again. 252 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 2: For those of you who are new friends of this year, 253 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 2: Paulina got married what last two years ago? 254 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: Last year? I can't keep. 255 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 2: Well, you were pregnant, so it was yeah, it was 256 00:10:23,480 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 2: like a year and a half ago, right last summer 257 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:29,199 Speaker 2: or tummer anyway, whatever, and and so the initial plan 258 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 2: was Mexico on Thanksgiving week, and then you were offended 259 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 2: that people wouldn't go. You were offended that people were 260 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: saying they couldn't go, And I'm like, Paulina, it's Thanksgiving 261 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 2: in Mexico, Like that's a very nice thing, except most 262 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 2: people want to spend Thanksgiving with their family. You're asking 263 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 2: people to go to your wedding on a holiday. You 264 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 2: can't be upset if people don't go. If you're gonna 265 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 2: have your if you're gonna have your wedding an all 266 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 2: inclusive resort in Mexico that is going to coust people 267 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 2: a little bit of money. You also can't be offended 268 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 2: if they don't go. 269 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 5: I know, I had to grow up from that mentality 270 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 5: because I st don't like Thanksgiving guys. No, that's I 271 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 5: don't really care for it. But hey, listen, it all 272 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 5: worked out in the end in Vegas. 273 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 4: So you were the reverse. I thought it. 274 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 3: I thought you planned it that way so that maybe 275 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 3: people can't come. Y're saying like, oh, I know they 276 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 3: won't come now because it's on this day. But yeah, 277 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 3: OURSVP to a wedding and I show up. That is 278 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 3: extremely rude. But as his mother in law like, she 279 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,959 Speaker 3: threw a fit at the reception too, And now it's 280 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 3: not speaking to her daughter in law because she turned 281 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 3: people away. 282 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 2: See, let's talk to Eva. Eva's the one. Good morning, 283 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 2: by the way, good morning. So you're the one that 284 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 2: laughed at your your mother in law because you're like, no, 285 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: you're not inviting people to this wedding, especially if I'm 286 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 2: paying for it's my day exactly. 287 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 1: My husband and I excuse me, paid for our wedding 288 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 1: and one hundred percent, and she was like, well, we're 289 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: keeping the. 290 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 4: Twenty five hundred and we're not coming. 291 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 2: And we're like, okay, it's gonna cost way more than that. 292 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: So what exactly? 293 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 4: But she ended up coming. The day was great, But 294 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 4: it's just like the threatening is not gonna work, you 295 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 4: know what I mean? 296 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, And why is it up to you to 297 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 2: determine who comes to my stuff, like, especially if you're 298 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: not paying for it? 299 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: Exactly? Yeah, Like, hey, thank you, have a great day. 300 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 4: You too, Bye bye. 301 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 2: Look at this all these people weddings, Man, it brings 302 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 2: out all kinds of drama, Like everyone's got a wedding story. 303 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: Both my sisters had holiday weddings and then wonder wondered 304 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 2: why people didn't come. 305 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 5: That where a y'all at right? 306 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,200 Speaker 4: I mean forget that Turkey ways come to myself. 307 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 2: I had my wedding on Christmas in Mexico and nobody 308 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 2: showed up. 309 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: It's very offensive. I'm like, what do you mean you 310 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 1: don't What do you mean you won't come? 311 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 5: Beautiful though, come on, like holiday is in Mexico on 312 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 5: the beach in Kenkoon. 313 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: Because yeah, it does sound nice except for the whole you. 314 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 4: Know, family thing is family tradition. 315 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever problem solve, I think we all agree. 316 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 2: If it ain't your day and you're not paying for it, 317 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 2: then you don't have a like to stand On the 318 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 2: Entertainment Report, we'll do it in two minutes. 319 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 1: Headlines and fund set coming up.