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Speaker 1: Second date update Alexis, if you're on a dating app,

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Speaker 1: what hobbies could somebody put on their profile that would

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Speaker 1: get to know them.

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Speaker 2: Cooking's pretty nice.

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Speaker 3: They can make me some meals.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, cooking, okay? What about like a professional puppy trainer?

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Speaker 1: So what if he houses puppies inside of miniature windmills?

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Speaker 1: So technically it's a puppy mill, but it's cute because

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Speaker 1: he's raising them inside of the tiny mill. But I

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Speaker 1: would ask some follow up questions because I bring it

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Speaker 1: up since one of our listeners apparently met someone on

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Speaker 1: the dating apps with an interesting hobby that peaked his interest.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk to Corey about it. Corey, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, how you doing.

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Speaker 3: An above board puppy mill?

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Speaker 1: Like just talking about that's a fair question.

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Speaker 2: No, no, but it is equally as interesting.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 2: She was a speed puzzler.

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Speaker 1: What speed puzzler?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a speed puzzler.

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Speaker 1: Oh my, I actually saw an Instagram reel about this recent.

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Speaker 3: Where people put jigsaw puzzles together as fast as they can.

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Speaker 1: It's like a big competition that they have where there's

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Speaker 1: like eight tables of teams all in one room and

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Speaker 1: then they like dump all the pieces out at once.

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Speaker 1: Whichever team saws it first wins.

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Speaker 5: Okay, could I be the one person in the room

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Speaker 5: that just sticks one piece in your pocket?

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Speaker 3: Just be worth it? Who turns on each other?

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Speaker 1: Did I describe that right? Is that what you were

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Speaker 1: talking about? Yeah? For sure.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like we were just messaging back and forth

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Speaker 2: on a dating act and I was like it was weird,

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Speaker 2: and she told me all about it. Like three to

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Speaker 2: four people get together and like DJ plays it's like

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Speaker 2: a thing. Yeah, they throw it all down. Everybody is

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Speaker 2: on the clock and you got to put it together,

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Speaker 2: and you like pay money to like do this.

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Speaker 3: Oh it's okay. So there's like a pot that you

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Speaker 3: can win at the end. Is that how it works?

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Speaker 2: And then you split it with your team? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Oh dang, so you probably were I was going to say.

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Speaker 5: At first, I thought this would be like an easy

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Speaker 5: like activity to be like, oh, we should do it together,

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Speaker 5: but no, this is too competitive, not the most romantic experience.

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Speaker 3: She probably wouldn't let you do it right, right.

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Speaker 1: So what what did you do for a day. Did

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Speaker 1: you end up going out with her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we just totally clicked. We just decided

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Speaker 2: to do like a coffee date, you know, quick little

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Speaker 2: thirty minutes thing. What we were planning on doing.

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Speaker 6: Start a timer.

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Speaker 1: Question. How was it?

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Speaker 2: I thought it wasn't fine? I was it was all right.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like we meant we met.

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Speaker 1: We should get her name too, because oh yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: an important piece of this puzzle.

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Speaker 2: Her name is Aaron.

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Speaker 1: Aaron. Okay, it was.

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Speaker 3: Interesting how you just said. I thought it was fine.

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Speaker 3: It was all right, like.

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Speaker 2: It started off well, but it it got weird. Like

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Speaker 2: so we met up in lying like asked what she wanted,

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Speaker 2: and like I did the coffee order, and like she

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Speaker 2: sat down, and I mean, like I sat down for

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Speaker 2: a little bit. My name was called. So I went

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Speaker 2: up to go get our coffees. And as I was

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Speaker 2: like walking back to the table, I realized that on

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Speaker 2: the coffee cup there was a different one named Devin

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Speaker 2: and a phone number.

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Speaker 3: Wait what, I'm confused. Do you grab somebody else's coffee?

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Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking, And so like I went,

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Speaker 2: I went back to the coffee counter and I said, hey,

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Speaker 2: like yeah, I think I got the wrong coffee. It's

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Speaker 2: a it's a different name, and so the guy that

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Speaker 5: Oh he was trying to give his number to her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, Like I didn't ask that. So

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Speaker 2: I went back to the table and I sat down

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Speaker 2: and I was like, is somebody trying to ask you out?

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Speaker 2: And in my head I was like trying to process

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Speaker 2: it because I didn't. I didn't want to do nothing

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Speaker 5: You know, that's weird you would do that on like

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Speaker 5: some you're obviously on a date, Like you can tell

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Speaker 5: when there's two people at a coffee shop who.

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Speaker 1: Were on a first how can you tell?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it's just like the awkwardness. They don't

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Speaker 3: get a probably hear their small talk, like so how.

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Speaker 1: Is your day? Okay, so you you were giving off

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Speaker 1: first date vibes with ar in line, and I guess

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Speaker 1: another guy saw that and thought he could swoop in.

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Speaker 2: So like I went back to the counter and I

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Speaker 2: was like, so Who's I said it, like really loudly,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, who's Devin? Like I'm on a date?

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Speaker 2: Who did this?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 2: Hold on?

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Speaker 3: Oh wait?

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Speaker 1: You fronted the boy in front of Aaron, in front

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Speaker 1: of the whole like coffee establishment.

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Speaker 6: It got weird, and.

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Speaker 2: I admit, like, it got awkward, and so she ended

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Speaker 2: up coming out and over and she was like, what

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Speaker 2: are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Calm down?

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Speaker 2: And I like we went back to the table and

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Speaker 3: Devin never came forward.

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Speaker 2: Devin never came forward.

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Speaker 1: Devin was scared.

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Speaker 2: And so like, yeah, it got awkward. After that, I

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Speaker 3: Twenty more. Wait that was only ten minutes into the

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Speaker 3: date that happened. Holy heck.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so look she's great.

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Speaker 2: I made it awkward. I want to redo. We never

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Speaker 2: even talked about puzzles.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the whole thing all.

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Speaker 5: It would just send up so many red flags that

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Speaker 5: you're like a crazy jealous type, even though it's an

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Speaker 5: inappropriate move for Devin to make, whoever the hell Devon.

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Speaker 1: Is or could have been seen as like a chivalrous

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Speaker 1: move standing up for your date. Yeah yeah, but it's

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Speaker 1: not your place yet. Yeah, it's definitely how we should

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Speaker 1: spin it. When we call Aaron, you can say he

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Speaker 3: Maybe we should just spin it as like he's embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: He wants to redo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of what I was hoping. I just

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Speaker 2: can we just try it again?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you haven't apologized yet.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no, like I have, but she hasn't texted back.

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Speaker 1: Alexis, if you were on that date, would you give

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Speaker 3: I mean, for the case of this segment, Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 1: Stop another guy from hitting on me.

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Speaker 5: Because I hope I'm gonna get hit on a lot

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Speaker 5: more times in public, so like, I don't want that

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Speaker 1: Well, I was hoping for a stronger answer from your dad. Yeah, probably,

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Speaker 1: I said for the segment. We'll hope for a yap.

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Speaker 1: Probably when we call Aaron and try and get you

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Speaker 1: a second date update right after this.

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Speaker 2: All right, great, thanks, all right, now.

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Speaker 1: Hold on second date update. Nothing worse than getting hit

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Speaker 1: with some fdsa first date swoop action where somebody else

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Speaker 1: tries to hit on your date while you're currently with that.

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Speaker 1: But that's what happened to one of our listeners, Corey,

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Speaker 1: who took a woman named Aaron out to coffee and

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Speaker 1: while they were there, one of the baristas wrote their

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Speaker 1: and in processing what to do, Corey thought the best

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, and so awkwardly.

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Speaker 1: Now he's not going to call back, which maybe means

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Speaker 1: that wasn't the best movie. But the good news is,

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Speaker 1: just like the coffees that Alexis used to serve at

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Speaker 1: Herberst the job, you can always ask for a redo,

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Speaker 1: and that's what we're doing today.

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Speaker 3: No, if something was wrong, that wasn't my fault in them. Never, it's.

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Speaker 1: Fault that happened on his dates.

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Speaker 3: It was the confrontation that turned everything that.

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Speaker 1: I think Corey can be forgiven for being put into

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Speaker 3: Oh I don't. I think he knows he did that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I definitely overacted, But we're just speculating. So we're

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Speaker 1: gonna find out once and for all when we call

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Speaker 1: Aaron how she felt about it, because maybe she felt

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Speaker 3: You know, he's always trying to defend our listeners.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to do this job sometimes over a here

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Speaker 1: listeners on the flat. I appreciate you, jeppreciate you, Corey. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Aaron to appreciate you too, So let's call her and

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Speaker 1: force her to appreciate your.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey, we're looking for Aaron.

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Speaker 6: This is she.

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Speaker 1: You made a big mistake.

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Speaker 3: Not start like that a.

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Speaker 1: Little mift.

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Speaker 3: No, you made the right choice, is what she did.

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Speaker 3: But maybe we can.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning.

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Speaker 3: We're a whole show.

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Speaker 7: Show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, this This is a segment that we do

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Speaker 1: on our show that's called a second Date Update, where

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Speaker 1: we try to help our listeners meet up with somebody

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Speaker 1: that they went out with recently for a second time.

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Speaker 7: And you're calling me because I went on a.

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Speaker 3: Date and the guy was really interested in you.

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Speaker 1: His name is Corey.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, uh huh, yeah, she's not gonna forget

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Speaker 3: I'd the story.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't loving your reaction to the name Corey there,

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Speaker 1: but we're just trying to help Corey figure out if

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Speaker 1: something maybe went wrong on the date, or.

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Speaker 7: You want me to let you know, yes happened or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Well here, let me just tell you. Corey says he

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Speaker 1: feels like he may have overreacted slightly to the situation.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if we should put slightly in there.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like he feels like it was a mild,

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Speaker 5: Of what happened, mild confrontation at the costa leaving a

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Speaker 5: phone number on your cup.

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Speaker 6: I mean, that's not exactly what happened.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean, Well, we only have Corey's side

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well, I mean it's kind of it's kind of

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Speaker 6: So so like I'm so I'm a girl, Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: So you all you all go on dates and you know,

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Speaker 3: And right, okay, you're like safety net.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So I have a friend that is a barista at

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Speaker 3: So what does it have to do with the number

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Speaker 6: So listen, So I do this thing. My hobby is

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, he told us about that. He was excited

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Speaker 6: Oh and so I have a team of four, or

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Speaker 6: I had a team of four, but our fourth member

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Speaker 6: that my friend wanted me to text to be like, hey,

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Speaker 6: I hear you're a puzzler. You put the number on

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Speaker 1: Oh he told us about that, but he didn't mention

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he was more focused on the number than actually

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, why wouldn't your friend just text you?

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Speaker 6: Was the busiest day at the coffee shop, Like the

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, why didn't you explain this to him

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Speaker 6: This was before I even got the cop And then

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Speaker 1: So you didn't really know that that's what the confrontation

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Speaker 7: He brought the cup and I saw the number and

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Speaker 1: Nobody knew who Devin was because Devin wasn't there in

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Speaker 6: Devin is not a barista.

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Speaker 3: I thought Devon was just a scaredy cat hiding in

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If you want to talk about a scaredy cat who's

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Speaker 3: And it's got to be embarrassing.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, how you doing?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sorry, Aaron, that's how the segment works.

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Speaker 2: Yeah wait wait, so so let me just clarify Devin.

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Speaker 2: Devin is a gal that's supposed to be on your team,

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Speaker 2: and like, there was no Devon back you had a

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Speaker 2: who's this?

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Speaker 1: That's Corey on the other line. He's been listening to

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Speaker 5: Coming in a little high Yeah again yeah Corey.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hi.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, It's just like like nobody told me that I

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Speaker 2: would rather have heard that than just like nothing, you know, like,

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Speaker 2: please tell me the truth, Like I want to know

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Speaker 6: Fan we had just met.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know.

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Speaker 6: If, like you would also get mad that my friend

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Speaker 6: I get mad at chat? I thought you would get

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of a solid read on there, dude,

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Speaker 2: I don't even know, man, I like it just it

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Speaker 2: just blows my mind that your choice was to not explain.

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Speaker 3: I thought you wanted to apologize for this.

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Speaker 1: That was an apology if you really look hard at it.

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Speaker 2: Ye, Like I'm apologizing for reacting off of something that

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Speaker 2: like I didn't. I did react big. I did react big.

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Speaker 2: I'll fully admit that. I'm so sorry about that.

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Speaker 1: But like, I don't think you need about it. Then

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Speaker 1: you just leave it where you had it. Sound it good,

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Speaker 1: I'll leave it.

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Speaker 2: I'll leave it at that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, there you go. He's so deeply sorry for how

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Speaker 1: and we would love to offer you the chance to

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Speaker 1: that we would pay for. We all know he was

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Speaker 1: going to say it's your friend's fault for writing. But Aaron,

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Speaker 1: that's that's our offer to you. We'll offer to send

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Speaker 1: you and Corey out one more time on our dime.

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Speaker 1: You know, let's put the pieces of this puzzle back together. Hey,

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Speaker 1: we never even got to the puzzle.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I guess it's I guess it's up to him,

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Speaker 6: because it sounds like he's pretty mad at me for

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Speaker 2: I'm mad that you didn't tell me. You didn't, like,

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Speaker 6: Okay, you know, yeah I didn't because, like we'd known

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Speaker 6: each other for ten minutes, and I saw your reaction

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Speaker 3: Man, is this one giant red flax? Yah?

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Speaker 7: It's a girl.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know this is good. We get all

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Speaker 1: of the therapy out now. Oh and then the relationship

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Speaker 5: I have told myself many times.

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Speaker 1: The part is the first date, Yes, exactly, so there

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Speaker 1: you go, erin will send you out?

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I mean honestly, our first day was really

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Speaker 1: Corey, she's being very forgiving here because she realizes that

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Speaker 1: going on with the phone number on her cup. She

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Speaker 1: sees that, can you be forgiving of Aaron and try

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Speaker 2: Let's give another shot?

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Well, congratulations you tube. We're guys going to head up

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Speaker 1: one more time.

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Speaker 5: Why do I have a feeling we're not going to

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Speaker 1: Not that attitude, come on that.

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Speaker 2: Look and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: At the end of that call, Brooke mentioned something that

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Speaker 1: after they've agreed to go out again to find out

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Speaker 1: how the relationship's going. Brooke said she doesn't think we'll

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Speaker 1: get one from Corey and Aaron. And my question, Brooke

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Speaker 1: is why wouldn't we really why wouldn't we.

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Speaker 3: Want that because it just sounds like they're just not.

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Speaker 1: The radio gold is what it sounds like. I learn

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Speaker 1: to hear. If he's yelling at a Barisa on their

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Speaker 1: first outing, just imagine what would happen on their second

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Speaker 3: On the air.

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Speaker 5: I was thinking as a person instead of a producer, our.

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Speaker 1: Ratings, need them back for an update update. I would

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Speaker 3: Well. I would too, thought that I wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: Listen, would totally totally email us not. I mean, we're

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Speaker 1: calling you back, And by the way, for your own

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