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Speaker 3: I went out of town for a concert while my

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Speaker 2: How sick? Like like Kickflip sick or like Limp biscuits sick?

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Speaker 3: What was the concert? That is the question. Over six

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Speaker 3: months ago, I bought tickets to a concert more than

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Speaker 3: five hours away from my city. The concert is tomorrow,

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Speaker 3: and I plan to drive down tonight after work and

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Speaker 3: after dropping my daughter off at her dad's. The ticket

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Speaker 3: and my accommodations are already paid for and non refundable.

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Speaker 3: I've been really excited for this trip since I found

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Speaker 3: out about it. By the way, this comes from Visaria

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Speaker 4: And I'm Angie.

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Speaker 3: Mine Dakota and I'm Carly, and we're here to give

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Speaker 3: good advice goofully.

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Speaker 4: But we don't have all the answers.

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Speaker 3: We just know what we would do in these situations,

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Speaker 3: So let us know what you would do down mellow

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Speaker 3: and Ope says, all week, my daughter ten has been

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Speaker 3: home sick. She has a dry cough, slight fever but

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Speaker 3: nothing extreme, and a decreased appetite. I work from home

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Speaker 3: and it's the slow season at work, so I was

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Speaker 4: Keep an eye on it.

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Speaker 3: But now he's saying that I'm being selfish and then

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Speaker 3: I should skip my trip so he doesn't catch whatever

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Speaker 3: she has. Okay, but okay, but but I mean that

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Speaker 3: that Ope catches where she has.

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Speaker 2: So I think we just went through a big thing

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Speaker 2: to not catch things right. Right, So maybe let's put

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Speaker 2: a little mask on your daughter, a little mask on ourselves. Sure,

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Speaker 2: and let Opeek go on the trip. Why are you

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Speaker 2: doing this? This feels like more than anything, like a

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Speaker 2: power play and just trying to bother you because divorce, right.

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Speaker 3: Perhaps I think we need to know the relationship between

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Speaker 3: you two and how you got divorced. That's important we

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Speaker 3: need to know, so we share custody during the school year.

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Speaker 3: I have her during the week so I can stay

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Speaker 3: on top of her schooling, homework, extracurricular activities, et cetera.

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Speaker 3: If I'm not on top of it, he can't be bothered.

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Speaker 3: Her dad picks her up from school on Fridays and

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Speaker 3: horseback riding lessons, and the cycle continues. The only exception

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Speaker 3: but she spends ninety percent of her summer with me

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Speaker 4: Side of the family.

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Speaker 3: She first started getting sick last weekend while she was

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Speaker 4: Would have already. Bro, that's crazy, because that's something I

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Speaker 3: Was like, well, I guess if it started while she

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Speaker 4: And then he doesn't want to be around it.

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Speaker 3: But it's simply not the case, not at all.

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Speaker 2: This guy just wants to make you life worse.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, He's like, actually, I didn't want to say it,

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Speaker 3: but I also got tickets to see Katy Perry.

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Speaker 2: I want to go. I kissed a girl.

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Speaker 3: I won't spoil it, but she is gonna tell us. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: let's find out. He insists that I should keep her

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Speaker 3: called me a selfish which am I the a hole?

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Speaker 3: And definitely not? But at its ad since people are

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Speaker 3: asking the concert is Papa roach, No, I want to

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Speaker 3: see this. You're already saying, you're already saying another one

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Speaker 2: This she is my final plan.

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Speaker 4: I did not know that that's who that was.

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Speaker 3: You'll learn something new every day. But okay, good thing,

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Speaker 2: What a thorough back. Oh my god father, bug father,

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Speaker 2: bug bug No, I wouldn't say you're I mean, is

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Speaker 2: it selfish to hawk your sick child to their actual

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Not really, because that's also his daughter. Yeah, would it

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Speaker 2: be selfish of you to like abandon your child at

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Speaker 2: than self. So you're really you're not really making the

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Speaker 4: As that exactly.

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Speaker 3: Like she's being taken care of. You already have a

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Speaker 2: I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: It's this like one exception of a thing that was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is not a last minute surprise. I won

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Speaker 4: Yeah, long time ago.

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Speaker 3: Did you have another edit? I asked my daughter what

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Speaker 3: play Minecraft with dad Oo. Sounds like your great weekend

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Speaker 3: six sick weekends playing Minecraft, dude, Stellar time, Stellar time. No,

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Speaker 3: she does not witness our arguments. They're always in text.

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Speaker 3: I made it a condition in our custody agreement that

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Speaker 3: She knows she's loved and.

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Speaker 4: That I would never abandon her if she truly needed me.

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Speaker 3: With the mild cold where she's actively getting better, she

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Speaker 3: but yeah, I think again, like, it's not like she's

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Speaker 4: We don't know what's wrong with her. We've tried everything,

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Speaker 4: we can't figure it out. She has a little cold.

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Speaker 2: Yeah's she has not crawled up into the corner of

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Speaker 2: it's like, right, she's all right, she's okay, she's not possessed. Oh,

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Speaker 2: she's not down with the sickness, right, she is simply

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Speaker 2: a tel Do you hope it sailed?

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Speaker 4: Was it does?

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Speaker 2: She's just got a little cold, got.

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Speaker 3: A little cold, all right, And if she's actively getting better,

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Speaker 3: then like she's probably not even contagious anymore. So you

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Speaker 3: just don't know anything about colds comma. But we do

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Speaker 3: have some comments here. One comment says, not the a hole.

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Speaker 3: I can see why y'all are divorced. Opie says never married. Thankfully,

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Speaker 3: I saw his true colors before.

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Speaker 4: We got to that point.

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Speaker 3: Uh And a down voted commentary says, how many nights

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Speaker 3: will you be gone? If more than one, can you

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Speaker 3: you have a kind sister, mom or other relative who

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Speaker 3: could care for your child while you are away? You

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Speaker 3: certainly deserve a break, but also thinking of your daughter,

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Speaker 3: who will be feeling she's a burden to both parents

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Speaker 2: Oh, shut up, she said, I want to play Minecraft

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she doesn't even know that all this arguing is

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Speaker 3: She's like blissfully unaware, just ready to like make some houses.

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Speaker 3: Will your ex prepare her meals and give her meds?

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Speaker 3: She's literally been taking care of her for like over

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Speaker 2: Who knows what is he hiding in there? He's got

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Speaker 2: like actual Reagan from the exercise. I was trying to

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Speaker 2: it the puzzle cube? The thing from Hell Raiser? He's

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Speaker 2: the da Vinci code. He's trying to crack it. He's

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Speaker 2: got a secret. Dang it whatever.

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Speaker 5: He stole the Declaration of Independence.

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Speaker 2: Yes, thank god, Carly. That was great.

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Speaker 3: Needs some sort of ending to this joke. Someone take

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Speaker 2: He has him and Nick cage or hanging out. He's like,

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Speaker 2: I can't, can't me and Nikki stole the Declaration of Independence?

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Speaker 4: If the data finds out, she's gonna ruin everything.

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Speaker 2: That kid's a snitch, I know, call the cops.

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Speaker 3: That commentary finishes up with let your mama heart guide

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Speaker 3: you in this difficult decision. Probably the only thing that

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Speaker 3: I agree with that Commentron but Opie says, I'm leaving

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Speaker 3: as soon as the snow hits info. Another commenter says,

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Speaker 3: is there a reason why him getting sick would be horrible?

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Speaker 3: Is he the caregiver for an elderly in immunocompromised person

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Speaker 2: Okay, that was actually good question that was actually very

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Speaker 3: Barring a yes to that, clearly not the a hole.

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Speaker 3: He just wants to be an absent father. You share custody,

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Speaker 3: that doesn't mean if it involves work or is hard.

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Speaker 4: She goes to mom's.

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Speaker 3: Opie says he is not, nor does he care for

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Speaker 3: the fact that he works on McDonald's and handles other

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Speaker 3: and this is not during the summer, correct, this is

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Speaker 3: It's like we talked about how like the summer custody

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Speaker 3: But during the rest of the year, Opie has her

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Speaker 3: during the week and he has her on weekends. This

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Speaker 2: So he's just saying, no, she's sick, don't bring her over.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, literally, because he doesn't want to get her get sick,

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Speaker 3: even though oh's already exposed it already was fine.

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Speaker 2: Stank Ooh, wipe your butt, dude.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: What probably happened is like even though they knew that

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Speaker 4: He was like, ah, she's sick.

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Speaker 3: This is my perfect opportunity to go see Baba roach myself.

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Speaker 3: It's just mine.

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Speaker 2: It's an opportunity to see the father.

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Speaker 5: Bug.

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Speaker 4: I can say that I don't want to go.

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Speaker 2: I want to see patriarch insect.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Another commentary named Alex and Carly says he just wants

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Speaker 3: a free weekend. I tell him that explicitly, since she

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Speaker 3: got sick while with him. Also, why are you telling

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Speaker 2: Yeh, well, this person is from Toronto. I looked it up.

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Speaker 2: That's what I did to a person And I was like,

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Speaker 3: Oh peer response from what she's told me, they do

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Speaker 4: Yes, I wore a mask. Near the end, Father.

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Speaker 3: Bug started walking through the crowd, climbing up in down

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Speaker 2: I picked he came right up to me and he

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Speaker 3: And he said thank you for the bug, thank you,

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Speaker 4: It's that's what, Because he's a bug.

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Speaker 3: I picked her up on Sunday morning, and when I

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Speaker 4: Lit up like a gooras mystery context for those who

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Speaker 3: When I bought my ticket, I asked my daughter if

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Speaker 4: What plot twist?

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Speaker 2: What where was she? Then? Hmmm?

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Speaker 3: Shortly after I dropped her off, he had his mom

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Speaker 3: She said she still had fun watching TV and playing

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Speaker 4: There is more to the story.

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Speaker 3: But well, no wonder he couldn't answer if she was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't even know. He pawned her off. Again.

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Speaker 2: I want to know what he was doing. Where's the declaration, sir? Sir?

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Speaker 2: Give a back the Declaration of Independence?

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Speaker 4: Please?

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Speaker 3: Come on?

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Speaker 2: Maybe he had just had a date. He had a date,

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Speaker 2: and he's like she already knows at work in McDonald.

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Speaker 2: She can't also know that I have like a kid.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I have to lie to her for her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah? But there is a little bit more to this story.

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Speaker 3: She's still coughing a bit, but she's got her energy

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Speaker 3: After dinner, we spent the evening playing crib. Thank you

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Speaker 3: I did not expect mine post to blow up like

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Speaker 3: a comment of some other artists I listened to on

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Speaker 4: To those people, I hope you find peace.

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Speaker 3: And there are some comments, but yeah, they're like, well,

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Speaker 3: I listened to Papa Roach because I am a terrible mother,

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Speaker 5: I listened to Papa Roach when I'm trying to get

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Speaker 2: We all know what you really are.

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Speaker 3: You're just a bug lady. There are some final comments here. Oh,

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Speaker 3: he actually responded to a big comment right now. She

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Speaker 3: and they go to Babelaide tournaments. What She's always so

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Speaker 4: Who is that still a thing? When was this post

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Speaker 2: This kid is so cool.

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Speaker 3: They're just letting it rip every weekend.

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Speaker 2: He just can't handle it anymore. He can he keeps

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Speaker 2: His ego can't take it anymore.

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Speaker 3: Ago December. I would love to see a Babe Blade tournament.

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Speaker 3: That's awesome, but I wouldn't be surprised if she changes

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Speaker 3: refused to give up his.

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Speaker 4: Weekend when I do.

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Speaker 3: Another commentary says, if we assume X and the daughter

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Speaker 4: More likely she's fifty to sixty. Thanks for that info.

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Speaker 2: Just nice, Batman. Detective cool.

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Speaker 3: Opie says, I got pregnant my senior year of high

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Speaker 4: That's just I'm just gonna leave.

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Speaker 3: That over to the side, and gave birth very shortly

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Speaker 4: Both their moms are in their early fifties.

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Speaker 3: Cool bit of information there, nice for that very important factor.

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Speaker 3: Fifty year old grandma, Polly Ali Oxen Freeze says, we

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Speaker 3: If so, that's awesome. I've never met anyone under forty

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Speaker 3: My grandparents thought me as soon as I could count,

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Speaker 3: and I did the same with my daughter. She skunks

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Speaker 3: I do not let her win. We play a lot

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Speaker 4: And that's the end of that story.

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Speaker 2: Wizard.

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Speaker 4: So glad we got some very important information at the

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Speaker 2: How does one play Wizard?

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Speaker 4: Do you have to have a hat, must have hatched,

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Speaker 4: and you must have a stick, a.

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Speaker 5: Only Alex didn't take your wand back be allowed in.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's all right, we'll go ask him I still

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Speaker 4: I can mat me in me?

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Speaker 3: Are you the magic paper? I mean? But that's the

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Speaker 3: It turns also, Kim, How was it Kim Fine or

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Speaker 3: If anyone else remembers, that was a crazy, crazy story

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Speaker 4: And it was like every.

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Speaker 5: little weird, probably a story about a bug.

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Speaker 3: I think it probably was, but it was like, you

446
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Speaker 3: guys need to find that story. Like if anyone knows

447
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Speaker 3: which story that was, Lea's like, find which episode that was,

448
00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:49,200
Speaker 3: because every time I tell someone my job and then

449
00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,239
Speaker 3: they're like, what was the craziest story you read? I

450
00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 3: always go to that one because it was like this

451
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Speaker 3: guy was dating this girl and like it was from

452
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Speaker 3: his perspective too, and he was like, I have been

453
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Speaker 3: picturing her being this cockroach lady while we have spicy

454
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Speaker 3: sleep because that's the only way I'm attracted to her.

455
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Speaker 3: She of course finds out and freaks out, and he's like, ah,

456
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Speaker 3: I shouldn't have told her.

457
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Speaker 2: It gets like so.

458
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Speaker 3: Much more inside god so but it gets so much

459
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Speaker 3: worse because then he's like imagining that they got married

460
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Speaker 3: and he like goes off on a trip as their honeymoon,

461
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Speaker 3: and then like he works at this like new job

462
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Speaker 3: and like, uh, they're saying that, like or he casually

463
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Speaker 3: mentions like his wife when he was supposed to keep

464
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Speaker 3: it a secret, and everyone's like, oh my gosh, I

465
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Speaker 3: didn't know you were married, like tell us all about her,

466
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Speaker 3: and he tells them all the truth that it's actually

467
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Speaker 3: an imaginary cockroach lady, and then all of them are

468
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Speaker 3: like reporting him to HR because they're like whoa what

469
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Speaker 3: And this whole time he literally like an update was

470
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Speaker 3: like from five years later, and he never learned. He

471
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Speaker 3: was always just like ah, and all of this would

472
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Speaker 3: be better if I just didn't tell anyone about Ada

473
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Speaker 3: is crazy.

474
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we might all be mixed up on what the

475
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Speaker 4: name was.

476
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Speaker 2: Mine is mine is always gonna be gacation. GA story

477
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Speaker 2: is always the best. I like a good one must

478
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Speaker 2: submit and I have to go to the bathroom.

479
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Speaker 4: Oh right, go right ahead.

480
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Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm so glad everyone remembers her because that

481
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Speaker 3: will Truly, I've told that story.

482
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Speaker 4: To so many people.

483
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Speaker 3: I think some people wish I hadn't, but I it's crazy,

484
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Speaker 3: like it's I remember so much from that story it

485
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Speaker 3: was in It was insane, like the fact that Goamy

486
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Speaker 3: was just that he never was like, oh yeah, maybe

487
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Speaker 3: this is a problem. He was always just like, ah,

488
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Speaker 3: I shouldn't be so honest. It's all because of my

489
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Speaker 3: honesty that everyone is turning away from me.

490
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Speaker 4: That's all. It was insane. Yeah, what's everyone's like favorite

491
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Speaker 4: story that we've read on here?

492
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Speaker 3: I would love to know. We get so so many

493
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Speaker 3: great ones. Could you scroll up a little bit? Actually,

494
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Speaker 3: I think I saw one before, thank you. It was

495
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Speaker 3: like that was wild. Oh okay, I don't remember.

496
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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe I missed it.

497
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Speaker 3: But it looks like six seven eight has some good

498
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Speaker 3: news down there right there, guys, I just have to

499
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Speaker 3: announce I stopped smoking one whole week.

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Speaker 4: Sorry for caps. I'm just really proud. You should be

501
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Speaker 4: proud of yourself.

502
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Speaker 3: That's awesome. That's awesome, good good job. And I saw

503
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Speaker 3: everyone supporting you in the chat, So thank you to

504
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Speaker 3: everyone else supporting six seven eight.

505
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Speaker 4: That's great. Good freaking job, dude.

506
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Speaker 2: Big news.

507
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Speaker 3: Dakota six seven eight has stopped smoking for a whole week,

508
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Speaker 3: big big news.

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Speaker 4: Ah, that's hard to do.

510
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Speaker 2: That's yeah, that is hard. That is very hard. Congratulations

511
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Speaker 2: six seven eight.

512
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Speaker 4: Coo, congratulations, good job job on your first week.

513
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Speaker 2: Are you talking about Tobacci. I'm guessing yeah, because you

514
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Speaker 2: did it. It takes three days and then it's all

515
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Speaker 2: gone and all the nicotine's gone. Everything after three days

516
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: is literally all in your head. It's all mental, any

517
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Speaker 2: actual physical symptoms of withdrawal, and after three days, because

518
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Speaker 2: then it is all gone. So then it becomes a

519
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Speaker 2: battle of the mine.

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Speaker 4: You can do it, You can do it. Continue, continue on.

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Speaker 5: Oh we're ready whenever.

522
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Speaker 4: Oh we've got another story here for you.

523
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Speaker 3: Fo everybody.

524
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Speaker 2: I told my father's girlfriend that she is not my parent.

525
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Speaker 4: You're not my parent.

526
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Speaker 2: That is exactly what they sounded like. I think this

527
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 2: was a few days before Halloween. My sister, Georgia fourteen female,

528
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Speaker 2: wanted to go to Alta to get some stuff for

529
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Speaker 2: their costume. I don't remember what exactly, probably make up

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Speaker 2: and I thirteen female, decided to tag along. By the way,

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Speaker 2: this comes from user practical Peach two five six, directly

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Speaker 2: from the our slash Okay Storytime Separated and if you

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Speaker 2: want to some of your own stories, go to the

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Speaker 2: r slash Okay Storytime Separate it yourself. I'm Dakota, I'm Angie,

535
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Speaker 2: I'm Carly, and we're here to give good advice. Goofy,

536
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Speaker 2: but we don't have all the answers. We only know

537
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Speaker 2: what we know, So let us know what you know

538
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Speaker 2: in the comments, and op says. We were getting in

539
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Speaker 2: the car, but as I was about to get in,

540
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 2: I saw Georgia on my side of the car. Now

541
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Speaker 2: this seems selfish, but our whole lives we have sat

542
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Speaker 2: in the exact same seats in the car and it's

543
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Speaker 2: just like a tradition. I told her to move over

544
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Speaker 2: to her side so I could sit in my seat,

545
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Speaker 2: but she didn't really want to. As this was going on,

546
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Speaker 2: my dad tried to just drive away with the door

547
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Speaker 2: open and me standing in front of it. Immediately, Georgia

548
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Speaker 2: and I started yelling at him, asking why he did that.

549
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 2: Georgia did move over, and we thought nothing of what

550
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 2: happened because we are sisters and we squabble like everyone.

551
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Speaker 2: But as I sat down, my dad's girlfriend, Mindy, not

552
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Speaker 2: sure if her age, started saying that what I did

553
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Speaker 2: was childish and we shouldn't have yelled at my dad.

554
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Speaker 2: This is where I feel I was sort of the

555
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Speaker 2: a hole. I started getting annoyed and said I don't

556
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Speaker 2: really care what you think because I don't even really

557
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Speaker 2: like you, and you are my mom. Georgia backed me

558
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Speaker 2: up and said, yeah, you are our mom, so you

559
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Speaker 2: don't really have us say on this. Mindy got pissed

560
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Speaker 2: and started going off, saying, you know what, you two

561
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Speaker 2: are bar rats, and I don't want to be in

562
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Speaker 2: the same car as two brats. She kept going off,

563
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Speaker 2: eventually got out, slammed the door, and walked away. My

564
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Speaker 2: dad started backing her up, saying how we should be

565
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Speaker 2: nicer because she is an important part of his life

566
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Speaker 2: and he loves her. At this point, Georgia and I

567
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Speaker 2: just stopped defending ourselves because he doesn't really listen to

568
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Speaker 2: us anyway, and we didn't want to go through the hassle.

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Speaker 2: He did drive us to Alta because he promised, but

570
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Speaker 2: he stayed in the car when we finished and got

571
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Speaker 2: back in the car. He said, Mindy is staying at

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Speaker 2: a hotel tonight because she doesn't feel comfortable staying in

573
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Speaker 2: the house, which that's Mindy's fault. Let's be honest, Mindy,

574
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Speaker 2: you got two teenage girls. They don't like you because

575
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Speaker 2: you're not their mom. That's a fact. You're gonna have

576
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Speaker 2: to deal with that. So are you, pops?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what can you do?

578
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Speaker 2: All you can do is is try. But uh yeah.

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Speaker 2: I assumed he expected us to say sorry and begg

580
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Speaker 2: her to stay, but honestly, we didn't care because we

581
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Speaker 2: didn't want her in the house. We got home and

582
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Speaker 2: I guess she wasn't actually going to a hotel because

583
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Speaker 2: she was still at the house and never left a

584
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Speaker 2: few days later, it was Halloween, and nobody ever apologized.

585
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Speaker 2: We were going over to our baby cousin's house because

586
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Speaker 2: it was one of our cousin's birthdays on Halloween and

587
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 2: we always celebrated with them. Georgia had asked our dad

588
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Speaker 2: not to bring Mindy because we really weren't comfortable with it,

589
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Speaker 2: and she isn't related to the cousins either, and he

590
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Speaker 2: promised he wouldn't bring her, so we thought nothing of it.

591
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 2: Then as we were getting into the car, we saw

592
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Speaker 2: Mindy in there. Obviously we were mad because he went

593
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Speaker 2: against his promise and brought her anyway before we could

594
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Speaker 2: back out. Georgia was not cool with this for good

595
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 2: reason and decided to get out and go back inside.

596
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Speaker 2: My dad drove off, saying he was sad that Georgia

597
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Speaker 2: wasn't coming because he wanted to be together as a family.

598
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Speaker 2: I was pissed because this was his fault, but I

599
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Speaker 2: just stayed quiet. Georgia decided to pack up and go

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Speaker 2: to our moms because they just didn't want to deal

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Speaker 2: with this any longer. I was sitting in the car

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Speaker 2: and Mindy started going off, saying she was glad Georgia

603
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Speaker 2: wasn't coming and saying a bunch of mean stuff right

604
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Speaker 2: in front of me. I texted Georgia, who was annoyed

605
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Speaker 2: and sad she couldn't see our cousins because they were

606
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Speaker 2: asking for her. Not much else happened that I remember,

607
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Speaker 2: but a week or so later, my dad started cutting

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Speaker 2: off all of our allowance and anything from him, saying

609
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Speaker 2: he wouldn't stop until we apologized. Hey, buddy, check your girlfriend,

610
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 2: I would say, my girlfriend talking smack about my actual

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Speaker 2: children is like kind of out of line.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, why are we doing that? Why are we doing that? Girlfriend?

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Speaker 2: Like it? Even if they are being you know, teenage

614
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Speaker 2: adolescent girls, you have to be bigger than that, Mindy.

615
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, they're still teenagers.

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Speaker 3: You gotta kind of I mean, like I get, I

617
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Speaker 3: don't know, complaining a little bit, getting something off your chest, whatever,

618
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Speaker 3: But like, at the end of the day, you're the

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Speaker 3: adult here.

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Speaker 4: You gotta lead with love.

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Speaker 3: Come on.

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Speaker 2: We asked why Mindy wouldn't apologize first, because we thought

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Speaker 2: she was the most wrong, and he said she didn't

624
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Speaker 2: want to apologize first and felt we should grow up

625
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 2: and just apologize. Can I just say, wtf? They want

626
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 2: us the children to grow up, but not the actual

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Speaker 2: grown adult. At some point we all sat down and

628
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,360
Speaker 2: she apologized, saying she just felt mad that we were

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Speaker 2: being mean to someone she loved and just wanted to

630
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 2: protect him, our dad. We thought that was total bs,

631
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 2: but just said the same thing back to her and

632
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 2: went on our merry way. Also, for some background, our

633
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 2: parents got divorced pretty quickly, and not even a month later,

634
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 2: he started dating Mindy and asked if she could move in. Wow,

635
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 2: that's yeah, doesn't sound like Pops has the game plan

636
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 2: set for that. Yeah, obviously I said no because what

637
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 2: But he asked if we could do a trial run

638
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: for a week to see how I felt. I agreed

639
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 2: to please him, but after the week I still didn't

640
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Speaker 2: feel comfortable, so I stuck to my word and said no.

641
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 2: He said that was okay, and she wouldn't move in.

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00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 2: I was glad about that, And there is a little

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00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: bit left to this story. Good little little teenage nothing bomb. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think good for you girl for standing your ground.

645
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 3: You're not giving it in living with Mindy anyway.

646
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it worked. At least your dad supported then, right, Yeah,

647
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 2: I do think it's kind of crazy that your dad

648
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 2: didn't check Mindy at all. I'll be like, dude, don't

649
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 2: literally like insult my children like that's I'll do, right,

650
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 2: I'll do that. They're my kids. Let me insult them. Goodbye.

651
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 2: You just gotta have to.

652
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Speaker 3: Deal, especially after like knowing Mindy for a couple months

653
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 3: or something like or how far are we into their relationship.

654
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 2: Now, I'm not sure how long it's been, but they

655
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 2: certainly got together very fast after the divorce, very fast.

656
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 2: So when we left for our mom's house and came back.

657
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 2: She was all already moved in and staying there. What, Dad, Dad?

658
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 5: What?

659
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 2: I was rightfully pissed because he promised, but I don't

660
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 2: really have a say, so I had to deal with it.

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Speaker 2: Throughout this time. She started taking over the house. We

662
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Speaker 2: weren't allowed to eat or touch anything of hers. Half

663
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 2: the stuff we didn't even know was hers, and she

664
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 2: even took over the guests slash our grandma's room. And FYI,

665
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 2: my grandma owns half the house and was not okay

666
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: with this, and now she doesn't even feel comfortable visiting.

667
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 2: She lives out of state. Even now, my dad will

668
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: continuously choose Mindy over us and always takes her side.

669
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 2: I wasn't totally sure what to put as the title,

670
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: but I feel like this was the worst I did.

671
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 2: I'll let you decide. Also, this happened quite a while ago,

672
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 2: but I can't help thinking about whether I was in

673
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 2: the wrong. No, it sounds like your dad's in the wrong. Honestly. Yeah,

674
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: for the most part.

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00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 3: You're literally thirteen, Like what would you have done wrong?

676
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: Like if I mean just the like, well, shut up,

677
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 2: you're not even our mom, and like blah blah blah,

678
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 2: And it's like, yeah, of course you're saying that because

679
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 2: she moved into the house and started, you know, yeah, pretending,

680
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 2: not pretending she's your mom.

681
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 4: But like kind of you.

682
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 2: She moved in the house, and you're like, I don't

683
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 2: even like this person. I'm not already to live with

684
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 2: this person. Of course, you guys don't get along. This

685
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 2: is all this is all your dad's.

686
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 3: Fault, totally totally like you really like, if you could

687
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 3: have done anything better, maybe if there's some sort of

688
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 3: teenage angst that's in the mix, that can always you know,

689
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Speaker 3: be improved. But from what we've heard, it doesn't sound

690
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 3: like there's like enough of that to make you in

691
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 3: the wrong here. There's all of this stuff that your

692
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 3: dad and Mindy are doing.

693
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,239
Speaker 4: That is wrong. You should not have moved her in.

694
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 3: I hope you could stay at your your mom's house

695
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 3: just for a lot longer than you need to.

696
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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I hope that's that's that would probably be

697
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 2: for the best. But yeah, come on, dad, what are

698
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Speaker 2: you doing?

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Speaker 4: Come on, what are you doing? But that's the end

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Speaker 4: of that story.

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Speaker 5: John.

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Speaker 2: submit them. I'm Dakota, I'm Angie, and we're here to

716
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Speaker 2: give good advice. Goroofully and we don't have all the

717
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 2: answers to all of the questions and all of the problems.

718
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Speaker 2: We just kind of we're just people.

719
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 4: Are just people.

720
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Speaker 2: I don't have a degree, I don't have a brain,

721
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: So tell us all the stuff that you know in

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Speaker 2: your big brains. Then in the comments, please and oh

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Speaker 2: p says some context. The first confusing part might be

724
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Speaker 2: the ages. We are not twins or blood related. What

725
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 2: that's You've explained it pretty well. Our dad has been

726
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: great friends with my sister, her mom, and her aunt

727
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: since high school. We grew up just a few houses apart,

728
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 2: and our parents dated twice. From that, we ended up

729
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 2: with a shared sister. Our parents' relationship was really toxic

730
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: and we were always caught in the middle. That shared

731
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 2: trauma definitely brought us closer. So we all know exactly

732
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 2: what's going on here. So they were friends, then their

733
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 2: parents started dating, Yeah, and they became kind of sisters.

734
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 2: Then those parents had another child that is a different sister.

735
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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like like almost like a sister.

736
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: In law, but like sister in Yeah, like stepsister slash sister.

737
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 3: In law they have, but I have a mutual sister.

738
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, so I see what you guys are doing.

739
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:54,719
Speaker 4: I'm getting it.

740
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:59,239
Speaker 2: She's essentially a sister. Yeah. We've always been close and

741
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: had some all fights, but also so many great times.

742
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 2: During our teen years, we lost contact. Katie chose a

743
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 2: life involving hard stuff and I chose to stay away

744
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: from that. My boyfriend at the time didn't support me

745
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 2: being around her, But that's a whole other story. We

746
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 2: had a massive fight back then that is still on

747
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 2: my mind. To keep it short, another girl, Kennedy, was

748
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 2: spreading horrible rumors about me and my boyfriend. Another friend, Melissa,

749
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: was going through a hard time after a traumatic event.

750
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 2: Kennedy was defending Melissa's enemy, and I hated everything Kennedy said. Katie,

751
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,239
Speaker 2: who was spending a lot of time with Kennedy, then

752
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 2: messaged me with all these rumors and said some really

753
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 2: mean things. This happened about five years ago, but it

754
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 2: still bothers me sometimes. Fast forward to a little over

755
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: a year ago. My boyfriend and I broke up after

756
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 2: being together for four years. He was my first love.

757
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 2: Katie really stood by me during that time. Katie and

758
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 2: her best friend at the time, Emma, wanted to set

759
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 2: me up with JEMs. When James and I first started

760
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 2: hanging out, he wasn't at all my type, but he

761
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: seemed like a nice guy who would treat me well,

762
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 2: so I decided to give it a try.

763
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 4: What's freaking ugly, But I'm like.

764
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Speaker 2: I whatever, Like you're just like buying like off brand

765
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 2: like snacks at the grocery store. Like that's how much

766
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 2: thought you put into getting into a relationship with this guy.

767
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 4: It's like, I mean they taste all right, Yeah.

768
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 2: I mean it's not what I was looking for, But like,

769
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Speaker 2: I guess I could just give it a shot. It's

770
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Speaker 2: only five ninety nine.

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Speaker 4: Right, I mean, go for it.

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Speaker 3: I guess she's she's a teenager's figuring out what she wants.

773
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess you can date like that at nineteen.

774
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, but then when he get younger too.

775
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: But then when he gets your sister who's not your

776
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 2: sister pregnant, after you all break up, things change. You know,

777
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 2: then you maybe you thought you tuld have thought twice

778
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Speaker 2: about buying the discount.

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Speaker 3: Inside it's twenty twenty. Yeah, now you have a stomach ache, Well,

780
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:48,439
Speaker 3: your sister has.

781
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 2: A stomach ache. Come, yeah, she's got she's got.

782
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 4: Quite the he's got a lot going on in her stomach.

783
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,399
Speaker 2: As time went on, I learned a lot and this

784
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 2: might get confusing. Emma had a fling or friends with

785
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 2: benefits thing with James, and Emma is.

786
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 4: A friend Jesus so many names.

787
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 2: Katie's best friend at the time is Emma. Great, Okay,

788
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 2: Emma had a fling. We're friends of benefits thing with James.

789
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 2: James has a best friend named Caleb, and Emma tried

790
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 2: to set Caleb up with my sister Katie. After they

791
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 2: slept together, Emma decided she wanted Caleb and started dating him,

792
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 2: and they're still together today.

793
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 4: Ema.

794
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, James began dating a girl named Brook. So the

795
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:38,360
Speaker 2: current couples are Emma and Caleb and James and Brook.

796
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 4: Thank you for clarifying.

797
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,399
Speaker 2: But Emma and James still had this weird chemistry. They

798
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 2: slept together, which led to all four of them getting chlemydia.

799
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 4: Who where did she get it? Though?

800
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:59,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes chlamydia just happens? Really? No, I didn't think so.

801
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 3: First you gotta sleep with a koala bear, then you

802
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 3: gotta sleep with all four of your friends.

803
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, they just they have a koala farm. Oh god,

804
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 2: you're farming koalas. This is a completely incidental chlamydia spread incident. Anyway, Yeah,

805
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 2: that is the most important question.

806
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

807
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: So then I heard from James's ex girlfriend's ex friend

808
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 2: that James has a weird sposive proclivity for a quote

809
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 2: unquote fat girls and likes to watch The Hub regularly

810
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 2: and only wants to jok it and never be intimate so.

811
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 3: Maybe she's not attractive to these people, and I think

812
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 3: that might be what's happening.

813
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 2: That's step that certainly could be the case.

814
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 4: Or he are we talking about James?

815
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 2: I think, say ya, I don't want it to I

816
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 2: don't want to talk about any of these people anymore.

817
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 2: But we're gonna finish the story.

818
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 4: We're gonna keep going.

819
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 2: I tried to give people the benefit of the doubt

820
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 2: because we've all been victims of fallse streamers before. I

821
00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 2: really thought that was gonna be like we've all gotten

822
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 2: chlamydia and given it to four other people.

823
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 4: Yes, it happens to the best of us.

824
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 2: I didn't want to be too judgmental, but honestly, I

825
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 2: can't confirm if any of this is true or not.

826
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,919
Speaker 2: So how it ended is James was honestly a really

827
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 2: sweet guy, and we'd probably been seeing each other for

828
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 2: about six months before it ended. To be honest, I

829
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 2: was sick of all the drama. Emma would always tell

830
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 2: James things like she doesn't like you, she's playing you,

831
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 2: she's not attracted to you, and a bunch of other nonsense.

832
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 4: What are we keeping Emma around for?

833
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 2: Well? I think Emma's just Katie's friend. Katie's her sister,

834
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 2: that's not her sister, but her friend. That they were

835
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 2: kind of half sisters. But then they do have a

836
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 2: half sister.

837
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 3: So we got a little bit of distance. Maybe we

838
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 3: can't quite control where Emma goes.

839
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 2: Empie says, just to be clear, Emma and I aren't friends. Okay,

840
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 2: We've had a few surface level conversations. Only I truly

841
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 2: believe she likes James and doesn't want him to be

842
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 2: with anyone but her has caused a lot of fights,

843
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 2: and towards the end it was pretty much daily. I

844
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 2: decided that once it happened again, I was going to

845
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 2: blow it up. So I did just that. I should

846
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 2: have been a big girl and ended it normally, but

847
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 2: for some reason I didn't. At some random function, we

848
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 2: did talk it out and agreed on being mutual and mature.

849
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 2: This fight actually happened on my birthday, Happy Birthday. The

850
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 2: fight this time was about my sister. Emma. Katie and

851
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 2: some other people wanted to have a little get together

852
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 2: at James's house and I wasn't invited. He told me

853
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 2: he didn't know about it and also didn't know my

854
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 2: sister was coming, which honestly makes me think they just

855
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 2: chose his house because they could get away with it.

856
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 2: I think he involuntarily hosted. So Katie actually slept in

857
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 2: James's bed that night, and I honestly don't believe anything happened,

858
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 2: but maybe that's just me being naive. I ended up

859
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 2: telling Katie's boyfriend at the time about all this too.

860
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 2: I definitely blew the fight up. James claimed that she

861
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 2: helped herself into my bed, but knowing my sister, she

862
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: shine awkward. I don't think she would ever do that.

863
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 2: And also, as a autonomous human being, if someone climbs

864
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:56,320
Speaker 2: into your bed, you can go.

865
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 4: Hey get out, Yeah, hey, get out.

866
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,399
Speaker 3: Of here, especially if you feel like sisters, I feel

867
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 3: like that's such a normal thing to like say, or

868
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 3: like a normal way to actor on her sister.

869
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 4: She's like, yo, leave, Like you know what I mean?

870
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 2: Well, this was James, what I thought this was? This

871
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 2: was James. Katie got into James's bed, So James, James

872
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 2: just being like, I don't know, she just got in there,

873
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 2: and it's like, did you forget how to speak? Did

874
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 2: you just were you so petrified you couldn't bring yourself

875
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 2: to open your mouth and say get out of my bed.

876
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a possibility, dude.

877
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 2: I remember telling him, it's so obvious you like Katie.

878
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 2: Just be with her then, which honestly wasn't how I felt.

879
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 2: I also told him, you never come to me about anything,

880
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,839
Speaker 2: but instead go to Emma and Katie. I don't want

881
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 2: a four way relationship. This isn't what I signed up for.

882
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 2: I also called him out on all those rumors. Me

883
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 2: and my sister would occasionally make fun of his looks,

884
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,719
Speaker 2: because like, how does he pull and have a new

885
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 2: girl every week? Then tensions started to build in our relationship. Honestly,

886
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 2: a lot of these things were small, nothing big enough

887
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 2: to make a fuss over. We have quite a few siblings,

888
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 2: so it's hard to really bond with all of them

889
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 2: at once. I'd have moments where I was close with

890
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 2: one sister for a few days, then hang out with

891
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 2: the other one for a few days. It kind of

892
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,760
Speaker 2: alternated who I spent my free time with. I felt

893
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 2: like every time I was bonding with one of my sisters,

894
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 2: Katie would come in, and what it felt to me

895
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 2: was bribing them away from me, stuff like hey, do

896
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 2: you want to go get coffee? Or they want to

897
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 2: go shopping with me, And it was always just one

898
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 2: child at a time, and it was always a child

899
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 2: I was hanging out with. Another thing I noticed was

900
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: that I talked about wanting to do multiple things, like

901
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 2: trips that required a passport, events, or visiting new places.

902
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 2: Katie would hear about these plans, whether I told her

903
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 2: directly or she overheard. Then within a week or less,

904
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 2: she'd say stuff like, oh, me and Ema are planning

905
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: to go to that class, and it'd be the exact

906
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,720
Speaker 2: place I wanted to go. I never really said anything

907
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,279
Speaker 2: about it. I'd just give helpful info, like did you

908
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 2: know there's one closer to us? You should have been like,

909
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 2: did you know I want to go? And what why

910
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: are you doing this?

911
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 3: Yeah?

912
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:05,800
Speaker 2: You know I want to go? Why are you saying

913
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: this to me?

914
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 3: I think this is territory where it's appropriate to invite yourself.

915
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 3: If you're hanging out with someone, two people in a room,

916
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 3: one of them's you, one of them's person you're hanging

917
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 3: out with, another person comes in and asks the other

918
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 3: person if they want to hang out and do something.

919
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 3: I feel like you can be like, hey, I want to.

920
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 2: Go too, Yeah, I want I want coffee.

921
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, sounds good. Let's all go. Let's go together, especially

922
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 4: if we're like sisters.

923
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, Like I feel like, I mean,

924
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 2: it feels like that ViBe's not there at all.

925
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 4: I guess not why you guys keep calling yourselves that.

926
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, she basically feels like your enemy, your your actual opposition.

927
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 4: At least that's how she sees it, that's for sure.

928
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 2: Hey, it's John here. We're gonna get back to the stories.

929
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 2: Put a quick three minute ad break from our sponsors

930
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 2: that keep the show going. I feel like we need

931
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 2: a bit of backstory here, but I'll keep it short

932
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 2: and simple. We have a cousin, Ashley, female nineteen, who's

933
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 2: involved in this. Katie's first love was really hard on

934
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,760
Speaker 2: her after they broke up. That ex boyfriend started dating Ashley.

935
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 2: Katie actually caught him cheating on her with Ashley multiple times.

936
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 2: Once Katie and that boy broke up, he and Ashley

937
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: had a full on relationship. This happened again when Katie

938
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 2: broke up with another boyfriend this year. Ashley is currently

939
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 2: with one of Katie's exes for this second time. Katie

940
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 2: was really upset about it, and I've always been there

941
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 2: to support her through it. She's wanted to do some

942
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 2: pretty crazy, irrational things, but I've talked her out of

943
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 2: it because it's not worth the battle. I felt bad

944
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 2: for her because I couldn't imagine someone doing that to me,

945
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: so I tried my best to support her through it,

946
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 2: and I pretty much still do. Actually, Ashley kind of

947
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,759
Speaker 2: stopped talking to us and coming around. I think her

948
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 2: guilty conscience weighs on her and she just didn't want

949
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 2: to face the issue. Katie's mom would definitely say something

950
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 2: about it, so Ashley new to keep her distance. So, Yeah,

951
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 2: Katie has definitely been a victim of a family member

952
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 2: dating her ex twice, and I think she would never

953
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 2: do that to someone because she knows exactly how it

954
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,359
Speaker 2: feels and how it hurts, and how wrong it is

955
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 2: to do that to someone you love and consider family.

956
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 2: So I found out that Katie is seeing James, and

957
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 2: I had already made up my mind to do minimum

958
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 2: contact with her because of it. The only time I'd

959
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 2: talk to her would be about family stuff or the sisters.

960
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 2: I wasn't going to have normal conversations or be friends

961
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 2: with her. Beyond that, I knew it was going to

962
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 2: be hard to stick around, but at least I plan

963
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,760
Speaker 2: to keep minimum contact until they break up and James

964
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,240
Speaker 2: is out of the picture. I had this game plan,

965
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: but it's been really hard. There have been a lot

966
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 2: of weird situations where I feel almost forced to confront it,

967
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 2: but I still haven't. I don't want to fight because

968
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 2: when we do, the whole family gets involved and it

969
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 2: gets twisted somehow. I always end up being the bad guy.

970
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 2: I'm too sensitive or making a fuss or causing fights

971
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: for no reason. I'm so tired of being in that

972
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 2: position and being belittled, so it's just not worth it.

973
00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:00,359
Speaker 2: I'll distance myself and avoid drama or arguments. I don't

974
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 2: want to argue or fight with her, but my feelings

975
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 2: are definitely hurt. I feel a deep sense of betrayal

976
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 2: and it really upsets me. The hard truth is she

977
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,360
Speaker 2: never talked to me about it or asked how I feel,

978
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 2: and she's never admitted there together. Then Katie told me

979
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,919
Speaker 2: about another incident with James and Emma. Apparently one night

980
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 2: they were all drinking and Emma and James slept together again.

981
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 2: I remember telling Katie it's so obvious they're in love

982
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 2: with each other. Why won't they just be together? And

983
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,399
Speaker 2: she got silent after that. Because Katie and James are

984
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,360
Speaker 2: technically dating now, whether they say it or not. So

985
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 2: today I find out from her and our shared sister

986
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 2: that Katie is now pregnant with his baby.

987
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 4: Ooh boy.

988
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 2: She didn't say it was him, but it definitely is.

989
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 2: She spends almost every night at his house and is

990
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 2: around him a lot, and he's the only guy she's seeing,

991
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 2: or at least I hope, so I can put two

992
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 2: and two together and know she's pregnant with his baby.

993
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 2: She still hasn't told me directly, but that's okay. I

994
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 2: don't want to talk to her about it anyway. She

995
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 2: said she'd know the gender by the end of the month,

996
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 2: so I assume she's about nine weeks along. I don't

997
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 2: want anything to do with this. I don't even want

998
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: to be the aunt. I don't want to talk to

999
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 2: her or be around her. I don't want to be

1000
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 2: around our shared sister either, because it's going to remind

1001
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 2: me and feel like it's being rubbed in my face.

1002
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 2: But that's just how I feel. I don't want to

1003
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 2: feel any of this, but I want us to be

1004
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 2: close and I don't want to fight. I want a

1005
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 2: good relationship, but with all this it feels impossible. Now.

1006
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 2: I love Katie and don't want to stop talking to her,

1007
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 2: but I feel like I've reached a point where for

1008
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 2: my own peace, I need to distance myself from her

1009
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,280
Speaker 2: for now and see how I feel later in life.

1010
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 2: And you've got it all and we've got a little

1011
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 2: bit left to this story, honestly, dude. Before you're like, ah,

1012
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 2: I need to like completely wait until I'm like later

1013
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 2: in my life. Just confront her. Yeah, just confront her

1014
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 2: and see what she says. Be like, so I know

1015
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 2: that's James. I know you and James are together, I

1016
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 2: know that's his baby. Why did you start? Why did

1017
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 2: you date him?

1018
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1019
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 2: And it's I think should be less about like because

1020
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 2: clearly it's not like James was the love of your

1021
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 2: life or anything. Right, Clearly you know he's not great,

1022
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 2: and I don't think you're super beat up about like

1023
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 2: not being with James anymore, but like, like it it's

1024
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 2: more just the principle of like, why would you then

1025
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 2: go and you know, date my ex without talking to

1026
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 2: me about it at all?

1027
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 4: Right, especially when that's like happened to her, right.

1028
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 2: So she gets to have that moment of hey, I'm

1029
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 2: confronting you. You did this, why did you do it?

1030
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 2: And then based on what she says, then you can

1031
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 2: make your determination on should I really cut this person

1032
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 2: out of my life? Do I need to owe low

1033
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 2: contact for the foreseeable future. But until you have that conversation,

1034
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 2: you shouldn't just unilaterally be like, ah, there's nothing to

1035
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:36,320
Speaker 2: be done.

1036
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I understand like feeling frustrated every time

1037
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 3: that an argument comes up and it never going your

1038
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 3: way and like all that stuff. I get that that

1039
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 3: seems like very tough, and that's understandable why that makes

1040
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 3: you afraid of starting things again. But yeah, I think

1041
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 3: maybe you just need to do it, And I think you, yeah,

1042
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 3: I should confront about it and then distance yourself afterwards,

1043
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,720
Speaker 3: because you already are going to do anyway, And at

1044
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 3: what better way to distance yourself than after an argument?

1045
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 3: You know?

1046
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:08,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, just why not go ahead?

1047
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1048
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 2: If she does not give you what you need in

1049
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 2: that conversation, then you can be make a fully informed decision. Yeah,

1050
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 2: but let's finish this story. But I really don't want

1051
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 2: to cut her off. Obviously, there will have to be

1052
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,879
Speaker 2: some kind of interaction unless I want to miss out

1053
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 2: on holidays, birthdays and big events, and that's not going

1054
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:28,720
Speaker 2: to happen. I'll have to see her at some point.

1055
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 2: Today she brought up this news and said we should

1056
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: hang out now. I really don't know what to do.

1057
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 2: She wants me to help her with her pregnancy, support her,

1058
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 2: and give her advice. I feel like I'm being put

1059
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 2: in a position where I either have to accept this

1060
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 2: situation or lose my friendship with my sister, and I

1061
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 2: don't want either of those things. So would I be

1062
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: the a hole if I decided not to talk to

1063
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 2: her anymore? Or what do I do? And that is

1064
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 2: the end of that story. And I don't really think

1065
00:47:55,600 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 2: you're an a hole. It's more about just doing the

1066
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,919
Speaker 2: hard part before you do. You know, the hard part

1067
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 2: is actually confronting her and having the conversation right. And

1068
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 2: it sounds like she wants to talk, so you have

1069
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 2: your perfect opportunity.

1070
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, in best case scenario, you guys can figure things out.

1071
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 3: You don't feel like you don't want to talk to

1072
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 3: her anymore, and then maybe you will be happy to

1073
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 3: help her with her pregnancy, you know, Yeah, win win,

1074
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,959
Speaker 3: But we do have to have that uncomfortable conversation first.

1075
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 3: And I think it's also too It's like in any relationship,

1076
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 3: it's so much easier said than done. But like, if

1077
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 3: you want that to be the dynamic of people talking

1078
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 3: about things, like, you have to start that. You know,

1079
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 3: you can't like wait for someone else to get the

1080
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 3: communication thing right. But also yeah, again, like you said,

1081
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 3: she's she is wanting to talk, so maybe she is

1082
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:45,720
Speaker 3: open to communication already.

1083
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 2: Man, just gotta do it, see what she says. But

1084
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: that is the end of that story. And we have

1085
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 2: some comments.

1086
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 3: Oh oh oh, right, we have some comments from the video.

1087
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 3: My mother in law harassed my father out of my wedding,

1088
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 3: so I left my husband. This one was posted on

1089
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:08,320
Speaker 3: December thirteenth, twenty twenty five, and tildr of this story.

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Speaker 3: It's the first story in the episode. Opi married her

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00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 3: boyfriend thinking she was joining a loving family, but his

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00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 3: mom had no boundaries at Opie's wedding, and the mother

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00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 3: in law got drunk and openly flirted with Opie's father,

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Speaker 3: even cornering.

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Speaker 4: Him before their father daughter dance.

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Speaker 3: When Opi confronted her, the mother in law insulted her,

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Speaker 3: and Opie's husband fully defended his mom and blamed Ope instead.

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Speaker 3: Shocked and disgusted, Opie left the marriage just weeks later,

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00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:40,879
Speaker 3: divorced him, moved away with his cousin. Wait what, and

1100
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,919
Speaker 3: started over realizing that she didn't just marry a man,

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00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 3: she married his family.

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Speaker 4: If you're curious to know.

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00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 3: The full story, you can go watch the full episode

1104
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 3: and we have some comments from that.

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00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 2: Yes, sorry, we do. Wait you're over there, Yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: we do. We have comments. We have some comments. Comment

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Speaker 2: one by snock Venture Gaming forty seven, forty six. I

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00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 2: would like to point out the Ope's father speaks zero

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00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 2: English and the mother in law speaks zero French. I

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00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,399
Speaker 2: would also be horrified on the father's behalf. I imagine how

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00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 2: scary it must have been to have this crazy, drunk

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00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,479
Speaker 2: mother in law going after him and he not only

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00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: isn't interested, but has no idea what he even wants

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Speaker 2: or is saying, m yeah, that'd be that'd be pretty bad.

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Speaker 2: Just bad. Just someone come up and be like bad,

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00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: bad and you're.

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00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, it's yeah.

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Speaker 3: It's interesting though, that he defended the mom though, and

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00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 3: then blamed Dope because maybe he was into it. Maybe

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Speaker 3: he wasn't that uncomfortable. Maybe he was like, dude, o pee,

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00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 3: you're like, you're messing with my vibe right now.

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00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 2: No I do. I do remember this story, and he

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00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 2: was just.

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Speaker 4: Like he was like visibly uncomfortable. Yeah, okay, okay, but.

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Speaker 2: It's yeah, that'd be funny. Eleana bans Sent five says

1126
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 2: being wasted is not an excuse for SA. She had

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00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,800
Speaker 2: him cornered and he was incredibly uncomfortable and confused, agreed.

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Speaker 2: Deborah Ruth Trotta twenty one to fifty four says, my

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00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: mom handled my brother's laundry baskets when they were in

1130
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 2: junior high and informed them they'd be responsible for their

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00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 2: own laundry. From that point on. Brenda sounds cray cray.

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00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 2: She is some level of narcissismo or narcissismo adjacent.

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00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm guessing there was a spot about her doing

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Speaker 3: She probably laundry.

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00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 2: She probably still does his laundry. Dang coming forward by

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00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: Tifla f Tiff laugh six. Creepy mother in law hitting

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00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:48,280
Speaker 2: on father. I'm with Dakota, Oh, I wouldn't take issue

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00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 2: with my parent dating my ESO's parent. It's only weird

1139
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 2: if you make it weird. That's not to say there's

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00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 2: no issue with this particular mother in law and the

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00:51:56,840 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 2: way she went after Op's father. Yeah, I do remember

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00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 2: making that. I was like, if these two people did

1143
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 2: like flirt at the wedding and then did want to

1144
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 2: like smooch and get together, Yeah, not really bad on

1145
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,359
Speaker 2: its face, but just like doing that at your own

1146
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 2: child's wedding is insane. And then also the way, of course,

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00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,440
Speaker 2: given the full context, the mother in law is just

1148
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:23,800
Speaker 2: drunkenly like harassing this guy, right, who can't even communicate

1149
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:24,240
Speaker 2: with her.

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00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,800
Speaker 4: Right, so right, Yeah, it's just weird all around.

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00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 3: Like if if it was consensual and they did end

1152
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 3: up dating for real skis like that, I think that

1153
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 3: would be fine, but it would be really confusing to

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00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 3: explain to the grandkids, just.

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00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 2: Don't don't flirt and hook up with your new What

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Speaker 2: is it? Uh?

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00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 4: I guess yeah? What would that? What would that.

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00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,919
Speaker 2: Be be an in law, sister in law?

1159
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 4: Maybe no, because if your.

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00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 2: Kids are marrying, well, then you just become I don't know,

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00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 2: the in laws, the in laws. It should be a

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00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 2: law that in laws can't hook up and canoodle at

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00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 2: their kids web I would agree, mostly any other context,

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00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 2: and it's like, you're probably fine.

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00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, like technically it's okay, but it still feels weird.

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00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 2: Oh yes it does, and I've got all the widgets

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Speaker 2: on over here, so everyone ignore that. That is the

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Speaker 2: end of those comments and the end of this episode.

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Speaker 3: Yes it is, so if you love us, make sure

1170
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 3: to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: We love you and see you tomorrow.