WEBVTT - Ep 408: Dating is a MESS (Ft. Sydnee & Marie) 

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to decisions Decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded

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<v Speaker 2>like you was talking to cursing. You definitely say to welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the new podcast. Oh wait, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>say together decisions decisions. Welcome y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>We back at it again, and I still do not

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<v Speaker 3>have an insho for decisions decisions, but it is coming soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Hon, you can say city owns the.

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<v Speaker 4>I.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of want to get some new aka's, but

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't thought of them just yet because I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not about you and the bleep. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>at this point, we just got to say, I'm bleep bleep, bleep,

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<v Speaker 3>bleep bleep. If y'all watch us on YouTube, listen y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>go to the audio. You can listen to Decisions Decisions

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<v Speaker 3>wherever you listen to your paper podcast. Really excited though,

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<v Speaker 3>we got some guests today.

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<v Speaker 1>We do. I'm weasy welcome to decisions Decisions.

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<v Speaker 2>Our guests came on horrible decisions, like more than five

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<v Speaker 2>years ago, did.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all y'all and y'all were did y'all both come on? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we know they did. They never been on here, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why did they did?

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<v Speaker 2>We were together and then we did separately or Marie went.

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<v Speaker 1>We did together. I think Marie only came on.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I came on there too. In the other it

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<v Speaker 2>was like a small studio. It was not like this,

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<v Speaker 2>she said, y'all, we know.

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<v Speaker 1>Growth, but well it was that little.

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<v Speaker 3>Box y'all may have known, or I know, we both

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<v Speaker 3>individually went on to your previous podcast, Unofficial Experts, and

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<v Speaker 3>now y'all are just mess now that the rebrand.

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<v Speaker 1>How from unofficial experts to mess to mess?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the unofficial Expert was, but it was very like

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<v Speaker 2>the sound is corporate, but it's down the earth mess

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<v Speaker 2>for Oh no, I listen and I'm excited because the

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<v Speaker 2>ground is corporate for unofficial nficial.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very much so mess but messes.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely, you guys, I would say, okay, okay, right, hold okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So you know what's crazy mess to me? Like when

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<v Speaker 3>I describe y'all as like you know how when you

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<v Speaker 3>say bitch, But it's endearing. I love the mess of

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<v Speaker 3>y'all's lives that I get to hear every week.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not cleaning it, Okay, I'm sorry, I fix it

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Let me fix it for you. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think everybody misuses the word mess. I think that

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<v Speaker 2>things can be messy, but a lot of times you're

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<v Speaker 2>just living.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just being yourself, like growing up, not a horrible

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<v Speaker 1>something else. So that's what I mean. I like y'all's live. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So we're gonna dig into it today because we're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna talk about uh, dating being a mess. And I've

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<v Speaker 3>listened to Reezie. I can't wait to get into her

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<v Speaker 3>her dating woes. Can I say woes? You could say woe?

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<v Speaker 1>Girls?

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<v Speaker 2>So you give us a great little recap on that

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram recap.

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<v Speaker 1>I run into.

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<v Speaker 2>Reezy maybe once a year somewhere, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm connected to you from what's going on on the internet. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you writing the camera and I'd be like, she must

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<v Speaker 2>have seen a nigga last night.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like he was still there. Are you doing

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<v Speaker 1>the lights? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>So I guess before we start, just because we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to be talking about dating, let's start with you two

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<v Speaker 3>and talk about where you're at currently and your dating world,

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<v Speaker 3>just so that the audience also knows what lens we're

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<v Speaker 3>taking it from okay, okay, So are you currently dating

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<v Speaker 3>with intention?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to be married? Are you single? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you in a situationship? Reezie? What is your girl? You

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<v Speaker 1>sound like my mom? Are you dating with intention? What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Where my grandbaby? Control?

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<v Speaker 3>Realistically, my mom has never asked me about dating at all.

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<v Speaker 3>I think my mom didn't want to ever have kids,

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<v Speaker 3>so she's like, you shouldn't have a me.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's a good bit I would like her.

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<v Speaker 2>We need to hear more moms talking about how being

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<v Speaker 2>child free is a choice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay because like doing it on TikTok. They're saying

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<v Speaker 1>it on TikTok all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>They're showing you, like what their days are and how

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<v Speaker 2>they're like not worried and they can just get on

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<v Speaker 2>a fly.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl. By the time we y'all leave here, will we

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<v Speaker 1>have TikTok? I'm not gonna lie. I'm surprised.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh, my mom luckily has a grand baby and it's

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<v Speaker 3>by my lesbian sister, so like she already knew she

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't gonna get a baby out of me.

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<v Speaker 1>But like for my sister.

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<v Speaker 2>To look at the gays picking picking y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Up once again, the good work that we do. That

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<v Speaker 1>is crazy. So reason, what's your relationship status? I'm dating

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<v Speaker 1>to have a good time.

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<v Speaker 3>If I meet somebody that I feel like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>even gonna say checks the boxes, because what is a box?

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<v Speaker 1>You know they can she'll know they can. Wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know about boxes?

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<v Speaker 2>A queen about any pocket of boxes?

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all have multiple boxes pocket. Let me tell you how.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, like if just being a little gay

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<v Speaker 5>is something you can see.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her abundance.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm talking about sid If you're not watching and uh

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<v Speaker 5>my boyfriend watched me.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes, do you like her? What was that? I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what? He was like? You said five times

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<v Speaker 1>you had saga? You at saga? I was like, what

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<v Speaker 1>did girl? I was like, is she a molly?

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<v Speaker 2>She's really like, why are you all molly?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. You're It's good. You looked good. You

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<v Speaker 1>looked fun and free and having a good.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's because like when I see someone that

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen in a while and this is fucked up.

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<v Speaker 1>You better say it, dope, go ahead and stay take

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<v Speaker 1>your time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a mess. There's not many people I see

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<v Speaker 2>that I haven't seen in a while that look better

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<v Speaker 2>or great, and they don't necessarily have something great to say.

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<v Speaker 5>They're kind of like, oh, you know, life is like

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<v Speaker 5>But Sid didn't have that. She was just great energy,

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<v Speaker 5>her friends around. They just had a vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>Not everybody always feels like that when you run into them.

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<v Speaker 1>We just came from Marie Show. We had a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>We were like, I had my pants on, my butt

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<v Speaker 2>looked big, like yeah, I was feeling feeling great.

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<v Speaker 3>That was why I couldn't stop saying it, because I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like when I run into people lately, it's just like.

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<v Speaker 1>You was doing a little better.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, when you tell when you see somebody and you're like,

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<v Speaker 3>how you doing? You know, there's always that one random

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<v Speaker 3>person that will tell you that they're not doing good,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you could have kept that.

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<v Speaker 3>The way to the backfield drinking my hand, Molly's still going,

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<v Speaker 3>what is your relationship status?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>During the pandemic and before that, I was very I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a monogamous, like serial dater, and I'm always you know,

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<v Speaker 2>with somebody. So I went to LA I came back,

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<v Speaker 2>I had some fun and I am dating someone okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is is that I'm trying not to.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to talk about my girlfriends all the time

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<v Speaker 2>and on podcasts or whatever, and then somebody would message

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<v Speaker 2>them and be like, hey, did you did you hear Sidney?

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, oh, I'm like, yo, miss, I'm here

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<v Speaker 2>to entertain.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you even like listening to this?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you listening to this? Listen to it? Yeah? No,

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<v Speaker 1>but don't be reporting bad apparent. Apparently one of the

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<v Speaker 1>dudes that I'm dating posted me in his close Friends

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<v Speaker 1>with my Yeah, I didn't. He didn't even in the

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<v Speaker 1>in the photo. What was happening?

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<v Speaker 3>It was like a selfie that I had sent him there.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like posted in the close Friends.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone saw it and commented and said.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like, hey, uh, do you listen to her

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<v Speaker 3>podcast because she talking to other people?

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like no, and then he sent him

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<v Speaker 1>to the links to the both things. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what was worse. Someone violated you like that telling your business.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I said that, don't sound like a

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<v Speaker 1>close friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I'll tell you that's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>The close friends.

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<v Speaker 5>If you're in the photo and y'all are doing something

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<v Speaker 5>it's like, okay, he could have the excuse, so my bad.

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<v Speaker 5>I was just posting being out whatever a selfie you

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<v Speaker 5>say is wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Selfie, No, that's wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>If you send a guy that you're talking to a

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<v Speaker 3>photo of yourself, because that's technically private and technically intimate.

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<v Speaker 3>You shouldn't be posting that to a social media patient.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's so crazy because also hearing four women agree

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<v Speaker 3>on that, I know men be like, but women want

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<v Speaker 3>to be posted no, no, no, not like that.

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<v Speaker 1>No no no, not like that. And I had no idea

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<v Speaker 1>that you were doing that. Also, what I said to

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<v Speaker 1>you and what I was saying to the way, are you.

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<v Speaker 2>Not because I look, you know, I'm just sending you

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<v Speaker 2>something super sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>I may not give that much of a fun. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>reason are you and his close friends? Did you see

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<v Speaker 1>him posting? You don't follow each other? That's the and

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<v Speaker 1>that's the beautiful that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I tell you that's the if you're dating you,

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<v Speaker 2>Guys should not be following each other. And even sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you shouldn't follow your friends because what

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<v Speaker 2>if people are now you're doing to me because sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>especially if you're a public figure, what you're posting outwardly

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<v Speaker 2>for the masses is it might not hit for your friends.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not for them.

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<v Speaker 2>And so sometimes when friends be watching other people do

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<v Speaker 2>their thing, it's their little judgment.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're like, oh, that's cringe or whatever. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my business. This is you're not buying my tickets.

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<v Speaker 1>This is for the people.

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<v Speaker 3>That's so crazy because my homegirl, uh, we was on

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<v Speaker 3>the phone and she was like, but I know you

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<v Speaker 3>see my stories and I say, you post your kids

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<v Speaker 3>too much.

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<v Speaker 1>I go through, right, I go right.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to see a whole bunch of post

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<v Speaker 3>about children. I can't relate. I don't want to watch it.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever seen a get in the car? This

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<v Speaker 3>is the type of you already know what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all know too.

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<v Speaker 2>It'd be a long ass fucking story or balla Dante.

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<v Speaker 5>And then it starts like so how was that word?

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like, oh, bitch, click click, And then.

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<v Speaker 1>You called me thinking I know this aren't to sit

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<v Speaker 1>there for seven I didn't wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you don't just x I X out of it?

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<v Speaker 1>You speed you through?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, I maybe you got to I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to see the whole I don't want to look like.

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<v Speaker 1>A Wait, I'll wait till the next day, till yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I can't saying, take on a bitch

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<v Speaker 1>story and it's stay birthday. No, I like it. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the only way I know. It's your birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, hold on, wait, wait, I'm gonna finish this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>finish this first?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the reposts? Are you mad at the reposts?

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<v Speaker 1>It's the whole thing back?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>No, First of all, it's your birthday. Okay, Now I

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<v Speaker 1>don't click.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you know how don't click? So I'm gonna click out.

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<v Speaker 2>So now you know I ain't shit because I ain't

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<v Speaker 2>clicked the rest of them. On top of the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm probably not gonna text you or repost pictures

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<v Speaker 2>of us, I just feel like now I have.

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<v Speaker 1>To be accountable because why just my happy birthday? Friend?

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<v Speaker 5>Sure, I don't even except the story, but I'm talking

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<v Speaker 5>it's random, just cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh just tap the heart, yeah, tap the heart, tap

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<v Speaker 3>the heart yeah, or.

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<v Speaker 1>Thumbs up thumbs up girl. I don't know about the

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<v Speaker 1>thumbs up heart. I like low effort. I might give

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<v Speaker 1>you a little.

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<v Speaker 2>What's wrong with the happy birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, in twenty twenty five, none of my friends

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<v Speaker 3>are getting a repost, and it's because three of them

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<v Speaker 3>last year, and you know who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna call you out because you listen to

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<v Speaker 1>the part you did three of them. You're doing that

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<v Speaker 1>on our episode. No listen three of them, three of them,

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<v Speaker 1>three of them hit me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and we're like, now, why would you choose that picture?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like that picture? Here post this picture?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I'm not getting three friends because I've been friends

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<v Speaker 3>with all of my friends for over ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>I know y'all think I follo out with people I'm

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<v Speaker 1>friends with important showing up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yet up, but I like to post post.

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<v Speaker 1>I was stopping right there, y'all. Why are you doing that? Mandy?

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<v Speaker 1>If you have blown up so much, why are we

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<v Speaker 1>going back ten years ago?

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say, I've been friend So there's two things, bitches.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you're posting a picture that you look at it.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I look ten years ago. I was eighty,

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<v Speaker 3>but maybe you're uncomfortable with your mess, So okay for

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<v Speaker 3>you to decide.

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<v Speaker 5>They should be grateful for the post. But at the

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<v Speaker 5>same time, like, bro, if you know, like I looked

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<v Speaker 5>like ship back there. You know, I hate I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they look like all bands up to here.

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<v Speaker 1>I need why are you why that is a Beyonce

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<v Speaker 1>crazy crazy bangs? Yeah? Wow, you know the SO and

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<v Speaker 1>I have we interviewed, y'all. Probably I was. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how that fly out of states.

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<v Speaker 2>My friend got a calendar, put a calendar together and

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<v Speaker 2>hit up my friends and ask them to send.

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<v Speaker 1>Pictures so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to text me and be like, so that's

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<v Speaker 2>the photo you chose. I would hate to die and

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<v Speaker 2>there'll be an obituary and people are doing the power point.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't trust nobody except Marine power Point yesterday, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be on the casket.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what.

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking about getting a white casket and doing

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<v Speaker 2>a projector you know what, the photos on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if someone's gonna die soon, but this

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<v Speaker 1>freaking me out.

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<v Speaker 5>Literally three days ago, talking of my best friend, he's like,

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<v Speaker 5>you look so pretty, Ingreen, I'll make sure you're buried

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<v Speaker 5>in it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't want anyone saying that's where to say

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<v Speaker 3>that's weird and put that out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's weird to say but do you look pretty Ingreen?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>But you know what though, when you're in a yellow comedian,

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<v Speaker 5>so you already know. I kind of love talking about

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<v Speaker 5>death really well. When I was really depressed, I did.

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<v Speaker 5>But now I'm feeling good, I'm like, oh, I can

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<v Speaker 5>see myself living more.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'll be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in Atlanta now and I went to a comedy

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<v Speaker 3>show Boy is the comedy different? When I'm up here

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<v Speaker 3>everyone's talking out suicide and jumping in front of trains.

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<v Speaker 3>Down there, they're talking about fried chicken and how they

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<v Speaker 3>talk with I'm just saying it's completely but Atlanta is

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<v Speaker 3>people are doing.

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<v Speaker 1>They're doing. There's garlic promisean wings.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they're not getting petticures with Hennessy on their It's

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<v Speaker 3>completely different out there.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I was like, Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's another thing I realized, hold on, hold on,

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<v Speaker 3>mess No sounds like a you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, it's crazy. The how they speak. I didn't realize.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really I've been in New York a long time,

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<v Speaker 3>so the way they drag everything, I'm like, what if

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<v Speaker 3>they say girl, I'm trying to have to They speak

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<v Speaker 3>a different language.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very country, very country. That's very answer.

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<v Speaker 2>But I have a limit to country, right, So like

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<v Speaker 2>being from Florida, you're immersed in country ship once you

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<v Speaker 2>realize there's a place out of health. Then you go

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<v Speaker 2>to the country for three days and you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, no, they like, you know, don't mean like it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>what is the person wearing rells when they say that,

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<v Speaker 3>because I think that's even sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>They have a list, They got a twin. You want

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<v Speaker 1>a list? You can't wear a grill? Why you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be spitting gold teeth at me? You're all spitting bracest

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<v Speaker 1>right now, George. You should hear me.

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<v Speaker 2>When I read a fucking listener letter, I'd be like super.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like, you say you so much? You know, honey,

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't say decisions decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>You still can't. You still will.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all want to break this up a little bit with

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<v Speaker 3>are hypothetical get us out of dating before we jump

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<v Speaker 3>back into dating and this one.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that we could all come up with some.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty good an So you know, we're gonna start with

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<v Speaker 3>sit on this one and then we'll go around. I

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<v Speaker 3>do want to answer from all of us, So if

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<v Speaker 3>you could add one history fact into the books that

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<v Speaker 3>would be taught in schools and perceived to be true.

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<v Speaker 1>What would it be? Can it be messy? Or of

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<v Speaker 1>course it could be messy. This is the thing that

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<v Speaker 1>be okay, No, no, it's true.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it could It can also not be treated okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but this is true because a recent photo Rosa Parks

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<v Speaker 2>had yams yoh do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why not? Why we not? She did? I just saw it.

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<v Speaker 1>But why would we teach our kids that Rosa Parks

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<v Speaker 1>how to don't?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me look.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when she was getting off the bus, there was.

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<v Speaker 1>A picture of her doing yoga. Wait, they did yoga.

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<v Speaker 3>A there's a picture of Rosa Parks doing yoga somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is someone to get it together? You feed

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<v Speaker 1>real gen Z right now. I am out. Twitter is

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<v Speaker 1>your resource. You know what are you crying? Well? When

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the phone, I was like, she's sitting down.

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<v Speaker 1>She should send me this one that AI looks like art?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I wrong? I don't know the old black lady.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to stay off of the internet. Rose that

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<v Speaker 1>light would that.

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<v Speaker 3>Rosa was a little bit light? What is it always like?

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<v Speaker 3>He was like freedom fighter bro, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Is coming to the dark skin girl they didn't care about.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's like calm embarrassing because literally every time somebody

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<v Speaker 3>checks me like it's always makes it just acting like this,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't want to drag They're gonna drag me for this.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody say something positive, somebody to keep going. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to add to it.

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<v Speaker 3>So what I would teach, what, well, what I would

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<v Speaker 3>put in the books is that actually black people were

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<v Speaker 3>the kings and queens and we ruled the world. White

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<v Speaker 3>supremacy is actually rooted and hate literal. They were and

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<v Speaker 3>so that's why white people was like, oh now we

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<v Speaker 3>got to get them out.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was us.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I would want to teach.

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<v Speaker 3>I would want to teach that white people were so

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<v Speaker 3>insecure that they just hated that they didn't rule shit,

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<v Speaker 3>so they took everything from us, which technically I think

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<v Speaker 3>is the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that taught in the school of Hotep that I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's our being taught.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that is that at the school. There's the course

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<v Speaker 1>of Mindfulness. I think it's the thing ty on Me

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<v Speaker 1>told us about. Have you all heard about this? It's

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<v Speaker 1>a book. No, it's the Course of Miracles.

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<v Speaker 5>Miracles okay, And she was talking about how her and

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<v Speaker 5>her ex husband.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally she was like, girl, he.

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<v Speaker 2>Was trying to spiritually gas like me from.

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<v Speaker 3>This fucking HOTEP book and a lot of the HOTEP

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<v Speaker 3>teachings knock on front.

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<v Speaker 1>I love a doctor Umar, but I also love.

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<v Speaker 5>The gays, and it's like they conflict each other consistently,

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<v Speaker 5>back and forth and back and forth. And I think

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<v Speaker 5>the biggest issue with hotep shit that I'm African Americans

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<v Speaker 5>that don't fuck what it is is they hate white

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<v Speaker 5>people a little too much. I have the instead of

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<v Speaker 5>like I don't care about making white people feel seen,

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<v Speaker 5>like it's just not.

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<v Speaker 1>A priority for me.

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<v Speaker 5>I may see a homeless person that is white and

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<v Speaker 5>I literally won't cross the street because I'll be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>someone's going to help you one hundred times today, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's like I think where black people living in

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<v Speaker 5>America that are just kind of like, no, Hoteps just

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<v Speaker 5>want you to hate white people.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's just more radical, But.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I don't think it's but I still think that

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<v Speaker 3>white supremacy is rooted in a lot of hate.

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<v Speaker 1>But I want to teach that they were haters.

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<v Speaker 3>I also want to say they be ignoring the white

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<v Speaker 3>homeless people too, unless they have a little dirty dog

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<v Speaker 3>with them, then they might give them right.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why me having the dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Because they're like, I'm definitely going to trash out, you

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<v Speaker 2>know the fact that it's human beings.

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<v Speaker 3>We do care more about animals than human lives.

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<v Speaker 5>You know why though, because people look at homeless like

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<v Speaker 5>they just can't stop doing drugs. We only associate homelessness

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<v Speaker 5>with drug addiction now right, because people just don't just

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<v Speaker 5>go get a job like that's the first thing they

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<v Speaker 5>want to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living half in all. I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 5>The way people treat homeless in Los Angeles, it's fucking crazy. Also,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't I'm sorry, there's no home, living on the street,

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<v Speaker 5>you're homeless.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do that's stupid language. When they write in

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<v Speaker 1>who's going right they are? Don't do that. They have

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<v Speaker 1>wi fi.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't normal living outside as a home. It's fucked

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<v Speaker 3>up because I tell you, if they ended up having

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<v Speaker 3>a kid and family, oh, is it still on housed?

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<v Speaker 2>No, you'd want them to have a fucking home. So

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<v Speaker 2>let's treat adults the same way. I'll give a about

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<v Speaker 2>you putting no campsite.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, what do you mean having kids? They have kids? Girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yes, Now, I just think that that's irresponsible.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that's irresponsible.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it is because if you are because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a home.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't have sex. You sho you have anything? You

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be getting nutted in like.

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<v Speaker 3>You you they're outside? Pull out if you live out,

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<v Speaker 3>pull out? Yeah, like there has to be we got it.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you gotta be responsible in some form of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna make another one.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not gonna lie already if you already magic,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna shout out to all the parents and I

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<v Speaker 3>do you.

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<v Speaker 5>Realize that a lot of women that are homeless are

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<v Speaker 5>sex workers?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think is going on? Oh? Really? Okay? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>The more you know it's happening here and decisions. Seriously though, that.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds like a horrible decision to me, know the h

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<v Speaker 3>not a fun one with the.

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<v Speaker 1>W okay really? What? What?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I was just gonna also shout out parents because the

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<v Speaker 3>more that I continue to live and thrive as a

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<v Speaker 3>single person, I don't know where y'all get the money

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<v Speaker 3>to raise kids.

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<v Speaker 1>This kids are so expensive and the.

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<v Speaker 3>More like I just bought furniture where I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>anyone to sit on it, and so I had to

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<v Speaker 3>call my mom and I say, Mom, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Now understand why you didn't want us to jump on

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<v Speaker 3>your couch and do all the things that.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>That's crazy that you had a moment with a couch

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<v Speaker 3>when I was on vacation a few months ago.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one for us to do this boat right. And

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<v Speaker 2>I remember thinking about myself. Kids is eighty nine, A

0:21:07.200 --> 0:21:09.520
<v Speaker 2>kid is eight and nine. That's not you are telling

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<v Speaker 2>you if we if we would have a fucking baby,

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<v Speaker 2>we would have to bring this fucking kid eight and nine.

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<v Speaker 4>But eat it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just not now breathing. What would be your fact

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<v Speaker 3>that you add into the history books to be taught

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<v Speaker 3>cheating is not new since the beginning of time. They

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<v Speaker 3>all of the all of the stuff that we're complaining

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<v Speaker 3>about now, people been doing that since the beginning of time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure there was a cave woman washing her man's

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<v Speaker 3>favorite rock and he was at some other woman's cave

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<v Speaker 3>just throwing Fred Flintstone dig all over the place.

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<v Speaker 1>You think Adam was cheating on eve, That's not what

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<v Speaker 1>man was. There another was there another person. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>throwing it out. Sorry, that's Jesus stuff. But weren't they first?

0:21:57.240 --> 0:21:58.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean, let's just say they were.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen the way they in history, we just like to

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<v Speaker 3>uh make turn men into gods. Like, let's be very clear,

0:22:05.960 --> 0:22:09.000
<v Speaker 3>Martin Luther King was cheating, Like, hell on Correca, you're

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<v Speaker 3>not bro.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about to be Black History Month. We don't do

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<v Speaker 1>this right now, light skin, mouse up, shutouts.

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<v Speaker 2>That's talk of the Marx so Mark talking about So

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<v Speaker 2>Martin wasn't cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, I'm saying, we're not talking about this this Closebuary.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know who brought it up? No, no, no.

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<v Speaker 3>I talked about cave man and you said niggas. Now

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<v Speaker 3>that sounds let's unpack that.

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<v Speaker 1>That is mess man, you know, now that's white man.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey demonized. We think c I A.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate getting c a alabaster mother. That's what it's

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<v Speaker 2>giving lab is get another from the cocky smell?

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<v Speaker 1>Could I be fair like that is?

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes I might have an opinion and I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm too ambiguous for this. I'm not Somebody needs to

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<v Speaker 5>check y'all somebody needs to check y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, so you're saying that you can't talk about

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<v Speaker 3>how are activists.

0:23:00.760 --> 0:23:06.040
<v Speaker 1>And our leaders and all those like the way you

0:23:06.080 --> 0:23:07.919
<v Speaker 1>said it might be the braceist, but I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>the way you said it. It didn't come out right

0:23:11.800 --> 0:23:14.280
<v Speaker 1>when you said, we don't want to hear you say niggas,

0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:19.200
<v Speaker 1>like when they said they not like us. They're talking

0:23:19.240 --> 0:23:22.959
<v Speaker 1>about y'all. You're not talking about me. No, no, no, no, no,

0:23:22.960 --> 0:23:25.040
<v Speaker 1>no no no. I feel about you because you have brothers

0:23:25.040 --> 0:23:25.600
<v Speaker 1>are on today.

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<v Speaker 3>This is why we have to which I was in

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<v Speaker 3>sake Cory.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a tan, it's a this is so un serious.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't. I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be seeing y'all clips and y'all really just be

0:23:37.000 --> 0:23:42.080
<v Speaker 2>having really great discussions adult type, keep going.

0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:45.600
<v Speaker 1>It's very loose. This is our dudes for black history. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>You know Martin Luther King was a cheater. Now, what

0:23:48.560 --> 0:23:51.199
<v Speaker 3>was the purpose of that? Tell us why you bought that?

0:23:51.359 --> 0:23:52.320
<v Speaker 3>Walk us through the thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, no, no, she brought it up because you were

0:23:54.280 --> 0:23:56.960
<v Speaker 1>like the rain. He was an act activist. He was

0:23:56.960 --> 0:23:58.560
<v Speaker 1>doing stuff for his people, but he was.

0:23:58.520 --> 0:24:01.640
<v Speaker 2>Also also chipping out and you run it every week

0:24:02.240 --> 0:24:02.879
<v Speaker 2>and been around.

0:24:03.160 --> 0:24:07.200
<v Speaker 3>He was dropping off dick at for the church, ladies.

0:24:08.400 --> 0:24:08.920
<v Speaker 1>To the church.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, right now you're turning this and to pass the

0:24:14.760 --> 0:24:15.960
<v Speaker 3>jamal Brian and talking.

0:24:15.760 --> 0:24:20.560
<v Speaker 1>About what you don't know what's next on the dock. Okay.

0:24:20.680 --> 0:24:22.880
<v Speaker 3>Actually, now this is gonna be great because we could

0:24:22.920 --> 0:24:25.440
<v Speaker 3>talk about uh dating in the realm.

0:24:25.400 --> 0:24:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Of how to be a perfect side chick.

0:24:28.160 --> 0:24:29.879
<v Speaker 3>Now, this is a video that came out and I

0:24:29.880 --> 0:24:31.960
<v Speaker 3>do want us to respond, but also for any of

0:24:32.040 --> 0:24:34.800
<v Speaker 3>our listeners who have chosen the lane that I used

0:24:34.840 --> 0:24:37.960
<v Speaker 3>to the hill I used to die on. I wanted

0:24:38.000 --> 0:24:40.920
<v Speaker 3>to talk about if you agree with these this being

0:24:40.920 --> 0:24:42.080
<v Speaker 3>the perfect way to be a side check.

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<v Speaker 1>So here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>And but he's married. There's a line and invisible line.

0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:50.800
<v Speaker 6>We don't now cross the line and expect a relationship.

0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:54.840
<v Speaker 6>You can never outshine the main read the fantasy, not

0:24:54.960 --> 0:24:58.200
<v Speaker 6>the reality. Come on Monday, you don't call plus a PM.

0:24:58.320 --> 0:25:01.600
<v Speaker 6>Don't do that. That's for the white think of it

0:25:01.680 --> 0:25:03.720
<v Speaker 6>like this. You not like a genie. You rub the

0:25:03.800 --> 0:25:06.520
<v Speaker 6>lamp and then VI Jimmy appears. You don't come out

0:25:06.520 --> 0:25:12.440
<v Speaker 6>onto your summons, You can't go to Yes as women,

0:25:12.720 --> 0:25:14.200
<v Speaker 6>we're gonna feel a type of way.

0:25:14.440 --> 0:25:15.720
<v Speaker 1>You're with him, it feels good.

0:25:15.880 --> 0:25:18.800
<v Speaker 3>He turns around, he's with his wife. If you feel sad,

0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:20.000
<v Speaker 3>go and read a book.

0:25:20.200 --> 0:25:20.920
<v Speaker 1>Valentine's Day.

0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:23.040
<v Speaker 3>You think that you're supposed to do something, your day

0:25:23.119 --> 0:25:24.040
<v Speaker 3>is the fifteenth way come.

0:25:24.080 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 1>If you don't like the way it makes you feel,

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:29.159
<v Speaker 1>leave the situation. Don't get a mind, Dan, Why do

0:25:29.200 --> 0:25:31.120
<v Speaker 1>you want someone else's mind? Don't forgive us.

0:25:34.000 --> 0:25:36.320
<v Speaker 3>Why do you want somebody else's man? Why do you

0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:39.280
<v Speaker 3>want someone else's man? That's a good question, So I'm

0:25:39.280 --> 0:25:44.280
<v Speaker 3>not gonna lie. In my twenties, it was less responsibility

0:25:45.560 --> 0:25:47.399
<v Speaker 3>for me and how I showed up in the relationship,

0:25:47.800 --> 0:25:50.520
<v Speaker 3>and it was just easier to be number two because

0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:53.760
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I felt like there wasn't the pressure

0:25:53.800 --> 0:25:55.840
<v Speaker 3>for me to show up and be perfect. I think

0:25:55.880 --> 0:25:59.159
<v Speaker 3>that when you date, or you strive to be the

0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:02.280
<v Speaker 3>wife or something, sometimes you change who you are. And

0:26:02.400 --> 0:26:04.480
<v Speaker 3>the reality of it is, I just think you're insecure

0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:07.199
<v Speaker 3>and don't believe you deserve a man to yourself. But

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you could say the same for a

0:26:08.600 --> 0:26:10.760
<v Speaker 3>sad chick. Wait are you saying that's this side check?

0:26:10.760 --> 0:26:14.240
<v Speaker 3>That's what i'maying. That's incite you. I think someone who

0:26:14.600 --> 0:26:17.280
<v Speaker 3>and myself included. When I was in my twenties, I

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 3>did feel like I wasn't girlfriend or wifeyw material. I

0:26:20.080 --> 0:26:22.080
<v Speaker 3>felt like my money wasn't where I needed to be

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 3>and I needed fuck niggas who had money and if

0:26:25.119 --> 0:26:26.800
<v Speaker 3>my man or someone that I liked at the time,

0:26:26.800 --> 0:26:29.000
<v Speaker 3>I didn't think could provide for my life, I'm gonna

0:26:29.000 --> 0:26:30.879
<v Speaker 3>see here and keep dealing with the guys with money.

0:26:31.240 --> 0:26:33.120
<v Speaker 1>And then I also, do you think in.

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<v Speaker 5>Your twenties that you needed to have money or a

0:26:36.000 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 5>certain like standing for relationship?

0:26:38.280 --> 0:26:41.439
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I felt like, I mean, and I think that

0:26:41.520 --> 0:26:46.359
<v Speaker 3>comes from again therapy, childhood, upbringing, like my grandmother and

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:49.280
<v Speaker 3>what happened like there were women in my family who

0:26:49.359 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 3>couldn't leave really bad and abusive relationships because the man

0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:55.679
<v Speaker 3>provided for everything. So for me, I always felt like

0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:57.560
<v Speaker 3>I wanted to come in and give something, which is

0:26:57.600 --> 0:26:59.119
<v Speaker 3>why I went back to college. I was like, no

0:26:59.200 --> 0:27:01.240
<v Speaker 3>man's gonna take me see as a bartender or working

0:27:01.240 --> 0:27:01.760
<v Speaker 3>in the clubs.

0:27:02.080 --> 0:27:03.400
<v Speaker 1>And you worked in the clubs.

0:27:03.080 --> 0:27:04.320
<v Speaker 3>For a long time too, and I was just like,

0:27:04.400 --> 0:27:06.160
<v Speaker 3>let me go back to school, let me be what

0:27:06.200 --> 0:27:06.919
<v Speaker 3>a wife should be.

0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 1>And then what you're telling me I should have did

0:27:08.800 --> 0:27:09.199
<v Speaker 1>I should have?

0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:13.840
<v Speaker 2>No? No? No, no no, and then maybe I wouldn't be gay. Yeah, Lesbie,

0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:20.920
<v Speaker 2>can you read? Yeah, you're ignorant ass? Oh okay, got it?

0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:22.120
<v Speaker 2>Got it?

0:27:22.800 --> 0:27:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Dragon Like, So I mean everything that she said, though

0:27:25.960 --> 0:27:26.280
<v Speaker 1>I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I do believe like there's if you sign up to

0:27:29.440 --> 0:27:31.520
<v Speaker 3>be a side chick, you can't sit here and believe

0:27:31.520 --> 0:27:33.760
<v Speaker 3>your in competition are going to steal the main chick

0:27:33.800 --> 0:27:34.360
<v Speaker 3>from this guy.

0:27:34.440 --> 0:27:35.920
<v Speaker 1>But I think some side chicks do think that.

0:27:36.280 --> 0:27:39.280
<v Speaker 3>I think because they're delusional. I think side chicks are delusions,

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:40.120
<v Speaker 3>even if.

0:27:40.000 --> 0:27:41.720
<v Speaker 1>They don't think they could steal them.

0:27:42.040 --> 0:27:44.840
<v Speaker 5>I think side chicks think, oh he likes me more,

0:27:45.160 --> 0:27:47.439
<v Speaker 5>I'm preferred, or he's stuck with her.

0:27:47.520 --> 0:27:50.680
<v Speaker 1>Well he'd be saying that too, he's about to leave

0:27:50.720 --> 0:27:51.520
<v Speaker 1>her any day now.

0:27:51.600 --> 0:27:55.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's pillow talking complaining about the person, the main

0:27:55.320 --> 0:27:57.879
<v Speaker 2>chick to the side chick, and then the side chicks like, well,

0:27:57.880 --> 0:27:59.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm about to move in there, and I'm about to

0:27:59.520 --> 0:28:02.199
<v Speaker 2>slide in. And so I think all of it is

0:28:02.280 --> 0:28:05.879
<v Speaker 2>just like delusional and toxic. You could get wrapped up it,

0:28:05.920 --> 0:28:09.520
<v Speaker 2>and it's a push and pull of thinking that you're

0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 2>going to get something that somebody else has, because there's

0:28:12.119 --> 0:28:14.960
<v Speaker 2>some people who just want what other people have, not

0:28:15.080 --> 0:28:17.960
<v Speaker 2>just men, but just think somebody else's life.

0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:21.760
<v Speaker 3>Well, certain things don't look appealing or attractive to you

0:28:21.840 --> 0:28:23.399
<v Speaker 3>until you see somebody else with it and then you

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:26.360
<v Speaker 3>be like But also, when you're the side chick, right,

0:28:26.720 --> 0:28:30.680
<v Speaker 3>you're not dealing with the messiness of who this guy

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:32.200
<v Speaker 3>is on a daily because you don't live with.

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 1>Him literally, are part of the part part times.

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:38.800
<v Speaker 3>You know, when I say mess i'm talking about like

0:28:39.160 --> 0:28:42.960
<v Speaker 3>all the things that kind of might make you start

0:28:43.000 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 3>disliking your partner in a relationship, right, and not even disliking,

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:48.160
<v Speaker 3>But you're not dealing with the reality of what bills

0:28:48.160 --> 0:28:49.960
<v Speaker 3>are being paid and how you're paying them. You're not

0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 3>dealing with this person's family. You're not dealing with this

0:28:52.640 --> 0:28:54.800
<v Speaker 3>person on a day to day because as a side chick,

0:28:54.840 --> 0:28:57.160
<v Speaker 3>you're part time and you're normally getting the best version

0:28:57.200 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 3>of this guy.

0:28:57.960 --> 0:28:58.479
<v Speaker 1>I know.

0:28:58.560 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 3>The delusion that I used to have is, oh, well,

0:29:00.480 --> 0:29:02.600
<v Speaker 3>he's honest with me. I know everything that's going on,

0:29:02.680 --> 0:29:04.600
<v Speaker 3>so he has to like me more. No, I think

0:29:04.640 --> 0:29:07.800
<v Speaker 3>there is a blurred line to the fact that people

0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 3>lie to the ones they actually love.

0:29:12.920 --> 0:29:15.320
<v Speaker 2>Honest being told he's still a liar to somebody. No,

0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:17.200
<v Speaker 2>he's a liar to somebody, absolutely.

0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:18.160
<v Speaker 1>But I think the thing.

0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:21.280
<v Speaker 2>That was tough for me with like someone wanting me

0:29:21.320 --> 0:29:23.080
<v Speaker 2>to be a side chick, because it normally came from

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:25.120
<v Speaker 2>like men I used to date and he would come

0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:28.840
<v Speaker 2>back around. I'm really emotional, but I felt a lot

0:29:28.840 --> 0:29:32.160
<v Speaker 2>of emptiness, like if I know that you have to

0:29:32.200 --> 0:29:34.280
<v Speaker 2>walk outside or do something like that, like I hate it.

0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:37.280
<v Speaker 2>But the only time the side chick was like, oh

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:39.200
<v Speaker 2>I like this was when they were giving me money.

0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that Noel was like in exchange of my time,

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:43.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna lie for I.

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 1>Don't know about that. Eight years later.

0:29:45.160 --> 0:29:47.720
<v Speaker 3>I do think that if you were going to be

0:29:47.800 --> 0:29:51.600
<v Speaker 3>a side chick, you should be getting compensated financially. I

0:29:51.600 --> 0:29:53.480
<v Speaker 3>don't think there's any other reason to be a side chick,

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:57.040
<v Speaker 3>because as a woman, you will start becoming emotionally involved with.

0:29:57.080 --> 0:29:59.640
<v Speaker 5>But also, let's talk here, like what is side chick right?

0:29:59.680 --> 0:30:01.560
<v Speaker 5>Because you can get some dick dropped off and then

0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:03.360
<v Speaker 5>be on your way. I think a side chick is

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 5>like you actually are.

0:30:04.960 --> 0:30:09.480
<v Speaker 3>Saying you're in a relationship with this man I've never Yeah, no,

0:30:09.560 --> 0:30:12.000
<v Speaker 3>I would. I need the situations more than any Yeah,

0:30:12.120 --> 0:30:15.760
<v Speaker 3>I need the definition. There's time, Yes, Alexa, what's the

0:30:15.760 --> 0:30:16.240
<v Speaker 3>side chip?

0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, unfortunately, you know I've dibble, dabbled in the medium

0:30:23.760 --> 0:30:29.160
<v Speaker 2>of sidness. Oh that's Alexa, that's Marie.

0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:32.400
<v Speaker 1>Also, she just talked about delivering ingredients to a bowl.

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:36.080
<v Speaker 3>What's the side chips?

0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:40.480
<v Speaker 2>But that's what you should call him now, side side chip,

0:30:40.600 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 2>side chip, side fries, a little appetite.

0:30:45.280 --> 0:30:48.320
<v Speaker 3>But everybody's Alexia activated when I screamed that a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Side Yeah, I I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I was actually thinking that I was

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:56.560
<v Speaker 2>going to be with these people because I did it

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 2>more than once, because you got to do it three

0:30:58.200 --> 0:30:59.200
<v Speaker 2>times to figure out if.

0:30:59.080 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 1>You really want to do it.

0:31:00.040 --> 0:31:02.200
<v Speaker 2>You gotta be a side three three times to figure

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:04.080
<v Speaker 2>out if I see, if you're really about this life.

0:31:04.120 --> 0:31:06.880
<v Speaker 5>Eating pussy too. I remember meeting a girl. She was like, oh,

0:31:06.920 --> 0:31:08.880
<v Speaker 5>I like me or woman, but I don't like eating pussy.

0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:10.280
<v Speaker 5>I was like, have you tried it just once? I

0:31:10.280 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 5>was like, it was hers.

0:31:11.680 --> 0:31:13.120
<v Speaker 1>You gotta do it two more times. I'll do it

0:31:13.120 --> 0:31:14.920
<v Speaker 1>two more times. Yeah, So you got to do everything

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:16.920
<v Speaker 1>three times, so you know, you're almost there. You've done

0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:17.560
<v Speaker 1>it like twice.

0:31:17.640 --> 0:31:19.719
<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, my nigga literally said to me, we've been

0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:22.360
<v Speaker 5>together almost two years, a year and a half.

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:25.120
<v Speaker 1>You and this squeezy YouTube grown like you have been

0:31:25.200 --> 0:31:27.200
<v Speaker 1>telling me you have not gotten ahead. And then she'd

0:31:27.200 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 1>be trying to say she can't listen to her.

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 2>You have to get it in in your twenties. You

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:35.080
<v Speaker 2>have to do anal in your twenties. You cannot do

0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 2>it in your thirties.

0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:41.280
<v Speaker 3>Doing anal in nursing home. No, I feel like I

0:31:41.360 --> 0:31:44.760
<v Speaker 3>jumped the skip like a level because I disagree pee play.

0:31:44.920 --> 0:31:46.320
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, how do I get here? When I

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:48.280
<v Speaker 2>what's pete play?

0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:51.240
<v Speaker 3>She'd be asking a man to piss all over, not

0:31:51.360 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 3>all over neck down podcast.

0:31:53.960 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 1>I am a good Christian? What's going on here? Marie?

0:31:56.560 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 1>A good Christian? Gay is crazy? Wait a second, so

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:03.520
<v Speaker 1>a lesbian? How do you have anal? Sex? Girl? What

0:32:03.600 --> 0:32:05.160
<v Speaker 1>I do? You want to know? What is going in there?

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:09.560
<v Speaker 1>What you mean what's going in there? Fingers? Toys, okay,

0:32:09.640 --> 0:32:12.680
<v Speaker 1>things of that sort. Okay, can you get like the

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:13.840
<v Speaker 1>penetration you can handle?

0:32:13.880 --> 0:32:16.360
<v Speaker 2>Like you can get Oh I haven't, like I said,

0:32:16.400 --> 0:32:19.200
<v Speaker 2>you see, I got my good you know church dress

0:32:19.280 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 2>on stockings.

0:32:20.120 --> 0:32:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't need get I don't get down like that,

0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:22.200
<v Speaker 1>no more.

0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:27.040
<v Speaker 2>But but if we could put more than the stockings

0:32:27.080 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 2>tell you otherwise in a little fern.

0:32:29.560 --> 0:32:32.040
<v Speaker 1>God, you unzipp You didn't have to unzip that, love. Yeah,

0:32:32.160 --> 0:32:34.000
<v Speaker 1>it's so I could see a Filippian tubes.

0:32:35.960 --> 0:32:37.800
<v Speaker 2>It was hot in here. That's that's what it is.

0:32:37.840 --> 0:32:41.360
<v Speaker 2>It's not very circulated. I thought you was elevated.

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Where's ac It's nothing but heat coming on hot coming

0:32:46.560 --> 0:32:50.600
<v Speaker 1>out to them tights. Yeah, I can't. They can't go

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 1>like a full in and out.

0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:53.920
<v Speaker 2>But no, he was basically trying to tell me because

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:55.560
<v Speaker 2>of the time we've been together, it's time.

0:32:55.760 --> 0:32:57.360
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, didn't we try it? He was like, yeah,

0:32:57.720 --> 0:33:00.479
<v Speaker 5>last December. I'm like, so now I'm on my years up.

0:33:00.520 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 5>We gotta go back into the world though.

0:33:01.880 --> 0:33:03.560
<v Speaker 1>You gotta reup on the warranty, you know.

0:33:03.720 --> 0:33:07.800
<v Speaker 3>So we got poppers. Oh doesn't help for me, It

0:33:07.840 --> 0:33:10.360
<v Speaker 3>doesn't help for you. I have a very tight and

0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:12.400
<v Speaker 3>this is not me trying to flex. I wish I

0:33:12.400 --> 0:33:12.800
<v Speaker 3>could flex.

0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:13.880
<v Speaker 1>It's not a flex. No.

0:33:14.000 --> 0:33:16.960
<v Speaker 3>I think the sphincter muscles too tight because when I

0:33:17.160 --> 0:33:19.720
<v Speaker 3>watch it, you gotta stretch it.

0:33:19.760 --> 0:33:20.840
<v Speaker 1>O are you okay?

0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:27.720
<v Speaker 3>I got a little but oh you're not here forty thing. Listen,

0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 3>I got a tiny butt. I've tried twice, so I

0:33:30.440 --> 0:33:32.200
<v Speaker 3>guess you have one more time to try.

0:33:32.440 --> 0:33:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do it on the same day. But I

0:33:34.280 --> 0:33:36.200
<v Speaker 1>really do start a group chat.

0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:39.400
<v Speaker 2>I really do think if you do it in your twenties,

0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:41.920
<v Speaker 2>it's easier in your thirties. But when once you get

0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:45.000
<v Speaker 2>us like over thirty, it's something about the body. It's

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 2>like it's not giving the way you used to anal experts.

0:33:49.040 --> 0:33:51.880
<v Speaker 1>I think I am. Yeah, I tried a nineteen, so

0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I was that ninety.

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:59.800
<v Speaker 2>They definitely won't blame it.

0:33:59.800 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 1>Is that while you're back in Atlanta. No, no, no, well.

0:34:02.480 --> 0:34:08.359
<v Speaker 3>Well because the guys I'm dating right now are not

0:34:08.480 --> 0:34:11.080
<v Speaker 3>in Atlanta, and I wish well, no, I'm lying.

0:34:11.120 --> 0:34:12.680
<v Speaker 1>One of them is, but he just moved there. So

0:34:13.880 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 1>how you guys are you dating? So three and I

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:17.799
<v Speaker 1>like all three of them. She gotta try them all

0:34:17.800 --> 0:34:21.680
<v Speaker 1>three three times. I'm not I'm not going that route.

0:34:21.719 --> 0:34:23.799
<v Speaker 1>But wait, what does that mean? Like I'm not gonna

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:24.480
<v Speaker 1>try all three?

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:27.440
<v Speaker 2>Like you're not gonna suck all them?

0:34:27.480 --> 0:34:29.839
<v Speaker 1>Probably not, But you got one out of three.

0:34:30.560 --> 0:34:33.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I fucked one out of the three. But

0:34:33.560 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 3>the one that I really like.

0:34:34.520 --> 0:34:36.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm supposed to be fucking soon. And if I like

0:34:37.520 --> 0:34:41.520
<v Speaker 1>girls on the Google and young, well who better fuck?

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:41.920
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:45.319
<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no, I'm I'm I'm trying to talk.

0:34:45.480 --> 0:34:47.000
<v Speaker 1>I would love to date all three of them. I

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:48.480
<v Speaker 1>would love to be with them. But you don't want

0:34:48.480 --> 0:34:50.399
<v Speaker 1>to bang all three. No, if I'm.

0:34:50.320 --> 0:34:53.360
<v Speaker 3>Able to be in a relationship with all three, you

0:34:53.520 --> 0:34:55.560
<v Speaker 3>just look like for some reason, because there's a couch

0:34:55.640 --> 0:34:57.120
<v Speaker 3>and there's a chair on the side, I feel like

0:34:57.160 --> 0:34:57.879
<v Speaker 3>she was on a data show.

0:34:57.880 --> 0:35:00.080
<v Speaker 1>I would love to date all three of them. I

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I can only choose many. Real question, how do you

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:05.040
<v Speaker 1>have the time when you're very busy?

0:35:05.160 --> 0:35:07.480
<v Speaker 3>Two of them don't live in my city? Okay, so

0:35:07.520 --> 0:35:08.960
<v Speaker 3>when do you see that? So you have to that's

0:35:09.000 --> 0:35:09.400
<v Speaker 3>the thing.

0:35:09.280 --> 0:35:11.400
<v Speaker 1>We have to We have to plan. Okay, we have

0:35:11.440 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>to plan. You're so busy. You're busy, Like I know,

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:15.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm not as busy as y'all.

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:18.520
<v Speaker 2>And I still feel like I couldn't imagine doing three.

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:19.480
<v Speaker 1>So I'm not gonnaly.

0:35:19.880 --> 0:35:23.920
<v Speaker 3>I don't I don't want someone always with me. I

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 3>don't like to give people space their time.

0:35:26.120 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 1>That sounds great. I have they're they're all three busy

0:35:29.960 --> 0:35:31.799
<v Speaker 1>woman that don't want to care. I don't like someone

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:33.160
<v Speaker 1>was with me. I don't want it.

0:35:33.200 --> 0:35:35.319
<v Speaker 3>I I get that. I don't want to see you

0:35:35.360 --> 0:35:36.719
<v Speaker 3>every day. I don't need to speak to you.

0:35:36.760 --> 0:35:38.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't need to speak to you every day. Well,

0:35:38.239 --> 0:35:39.759
<v Speaker 1>one of the scientists, one of the doctor and want

0:35:39.760 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 1>of science is scientists. Yehut up at Bill Not? He's white.

0:35:46.640 --> 0:35:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't really rich. No, Bill Night as white rich.

0:35:51.160 --> 0:35:55.640
<v Speaker 3>No, I don't know TV. When I was two, Bill Not,

0:35:55.640 --> 0:36:00.960
<v Speaker 3>I probably bought Microsoft stock. You know when Bill nye worth,

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:04.399
<v Speaker 3>it's gonna say two thousand dollars.

0:36:04.040 --> 0:36:08.920
<v Speaker 2>Eight million dollars. Yeah, get him on decisions, decisions.

0:36:10.040 --> 0:36:12.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't you know. I wouldn't Bill Night for the plot.

0:36:13.320 --> 0:36:15.520
<v Speaker 1>You would suck Bill Night just for the plot. Just

0:36:15.960 --> 0:36:18.800
<v Speaker 1>are y'all in therapy for real? Because it's not sounds

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:20.200
<v Speaker 1>walk me through this is it?

0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:22.120
<v Speaker 3>Because he's a scientist, you think he knows how to

0:36:22.600 --> 0:36:23.719
<v Speaker 3>scientifically put it?

0:36:23.760 --> 0:36:24.600
<v Speaker 1>Put it in your butt?

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 5>I think like, for one fucking someone you've known for

0:36:28.239 --> 0:36:31.640
<v Speaker 5>your whole life, right, someone you have an affinity, he

0:36:31.760 --> 0:36:32.840
<v Speaker 5>hasn't known you though.

0:36:32.760 --> 0:36:36.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, but me like about this person, Yeah, like

0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm telling like a fan.

0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:40.440
<v Speaker 3>I was like it sounds like yeah, I feel like

0:36:40.640 --> 0:36:42.680
<v Speaker 3>just for the story of it, like we like him

0:36:42.680 --> 0:36:43.240
<v Speaker 3>as a groupie.

0:36:43.239 --> 0:36:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Plus, there's no way the sex with Bill Night would

0:36:46.000 --> 0:36:48.200
<v Speaker 1>be good. Bill Night is not having sex. He's reading

0:36:48.239 --> 0:36:49.560
<v Speaker 1>his kindle out loud to you.

0:36:50.120 --> 0:36:53.120
<v Speaker 3>I don't know why that shape the oldest nigga. He's

0:36:53.160 --> 0:36:55.000
<v Speaker 3>wearing glasses at the tipical.

0:36:57.560 --> 0:37:03.440
<v Speaker 1>Beaker. Ah, not a beaker. You headed this out of

0:37:03.440 --> 0:37:04.040
<v Speaker 1>the podcast?

0:37:04.160 --> 0:37:08.520
<v Speaker 3>No, why that you want to give Bill Nye simplicity?

0:37:08.560 --> 0:37:09.520
<v Speaker 1>Because you know what sucks.

0:37:09.520 --> 0:37:12.360
<v Speaker 5>I have to stand on this now for years and

0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:14.279
<v Speaker 5>then when y'all come back in the second we go

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:16.160
<v Speaker 5>on mess, y'all gonna be like this bitch want to

0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:16.640
<v Speaker 5>fuck Bill not?

0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. On Patreon.

0:37:24.360 --> 0:37:28.160
<v Speaker 3>Uh, there's a topic that we're talking about about, Uh,

0:37:28.320 --> 0:37:29.960
<v Speaker 3>how Dick gives you cloud or something? Because you know,

0:37:29.960 --> 0:37:31.839
<v Speaker 3>all the girls like to see here and post who

0:37:31.880 --> 0:37:33.560
<v Speaker 3>they who was in the d MS and all that ship.

0:37:33.760 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 3>I do want to ask, is there anyone that y'all

0:37:35.600 --> 0:37:38.480
<v Speaker 3>would just because of who they are you've known them forever,

0:37:38.760 --> 0:37:40.279
<v Speaker 3>you might not they not They might not even be

0:37:40.280 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 3>your type. You're just like, if he wanted, I would

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:48.359
<v Speaker 3>I would consider it he or she based on who

0:37:48.360 --> 0:37:50.919
<v Speaker 3>they are. Kamala, not you just girl.

0:37:51.000 --> 0:37:54.600
<v Speaker 2>You are unserious. You got this blazer on. I can't

0:37:54.640 --> 0:37:55.400
<v Speaker 2>with you?

0:37:55.440 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Can I swear?

0:37:56.120 --> 0:38:00.359
<v Speaker 2>He said, switch, I need to get on the I her.

0:38:03.360 --> 0:38:05.160
<v Speaker 2>Do you not get the concept?

0:38:06.800 --> 0:38:11.600
<v Speaker 3>Is there is there anyone if we started with plethink

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:12.400
<v Speaker 3>every yeah.

0:38:12.680 --> 0:38:13.839
<v Speaker 1>You know what? Can I can?

0:38:13.840 --> 0:38:18.239
<v Speaker 2>I be honest and now that not saying that these

0:38:18.280 --> 0:38:21.640
<v Speaker 2>celebrities of people are more accessible, the more that they talk,

0:38:21.840 --> 0:38:24.720
<v Speaker 2>the more that they put stuff out there. It makes

0:38:24.800 --> 0:38:29.600
<v Speaker 2>me be like, I'm not as attracted like I like them.

0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:31.879
<v Speaker 2>I'm an affinity for the but I'm not. I don't

0:38:31.880 --> 0:38:33.960
<v Speaker 2>have like a sexual connection.

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay for the men. The last time you speak for

0:38:37.640 --> 0:38:38.480
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the episode.

0:38:38.640 --> 0:38:43.720
<v Speaker 3>Adam Sandler, Oh, you know, smell like chips and beer

0:38:43.760 --> 0:38:44.720
<v Speaker 3>when you take his clothes.

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:46.360
<v Speaker 1>I love him now.

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:48.400
<v Speaker 3>He got his little beard and Jim not now the.

0:38:49.960 --> 0:38:50.240
<v Speaker 1>Girl.

0:38:50.280 --> 0:38:52.120
<v Speaker 2>He looked like he don't even wash his feet at all.

0:38:52.239 --> 0:38:54.720
<v Speaker 2>He's he smells like three day old axe.

0:38:54.760 --> 0:38:57.560
<v Speaker 5>Ray, So, is there anyone that you would that's not

0:38:57.640 --> 0:38:58.839
<v Speaker 5>necessarily attractive?

0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:03.320
<v Speaker 1>But you're like, oh, they're iconic or something. Like, you

0:39:03.360 --> 0:39:05.280
<v Speaker 1>can't pick someone hot. That's why I said Martin.

0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:18.160
<v Speaker 3>Hands, although Malcolm could Malcolm Malcolm Rock didn't land on.

0:39:20.239 --> 0:39:22.600
<v Speaker 1>You can't be will be hot.

0:39:22.760 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know he would read poetry.

0:39:26.200 --> 0:39:29.680
<v Speaker 1>His gunman. Yeah, okay, I.

0:39:31.400 --> 0:39:34.200
<v Speaker 2>Not sex, but I would like to, you know, hang

0:39:34.239 --> 0:39:39.240
<v Speaker 2>out just being her, have her air queen Latifa girls.

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:45.800
<v Speaker 1>She's married. I don't want to be I said, dead people,

0:39:46.239 --> 0:39:48.880
<v Speaker 1>street dead people. Okay, now we're just naving white people.

0:39:49.719 --> 0:39:53.760
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so little let's get into dating being a mess.

0:39:53.880 --> 0:39:56.359
<v Speaker 3>So normally during the segment we get into the history

0:39:56.400 --> 0:39:58.560
<v Speaker 3>of sex. But I wanted to get into the history

0:39:58.719 --> 0:40:01.960
<v Speaker 3>of our messy dat lives. And I did want to

0:40:01.960 --> 0:40:04.600
<v Speaker 3>start with you, Reezi, because I want to say skeptic.

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:09.319
<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, actually, Marie, that's I see that for you.

0:40:09.400 --> 0:40:13.880
<v Speaker 1>But the tattoo, bro, That's why I didn't say yea,

0:40:15.360 --> 0:40:19.160
<v Speaker 1>I know he would have the whole time.

0:40:20.560 --> 0:40:22.440
<v Speaker 3>Lenny would have on a big ass scarf that he

0:40:22.480 --> 0:40:24.360
<v Speaker 3>would lay down and that's what we would bang. I

0:40:24.400 --> 0:40:26.720
<v Speaker 3>would love to bang on his big scarf. I would

0:40:26.840 --> 0:40:27.719
<v Speaker 3>love it.

0:40:27.719 --> 0:40:35.160
<v Speaker 1>It might be a little achieve a girl. Wait, what

0:40:35.200 --> 0:40:35.680
<v Speaker 1>was the question.

0:40:35.800 --> 0:40:38.880
<v Speaker 3>No, we're getting into the mess of our dating history,

0:40:39.600 --> 0:40:41.920
<v Speaker 3>and for reasony I do want to talk to you

0:40:41.920 --> 0:40:46.880
<v Speaker 3>because on your pod you've had quite a few dates recently.

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:51.560
<v Speaker 3>But also, this is my favorite part. You said last

0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:54.319
<v Speaker 3>year in twenty twenty four. In one year, you ran

0:40:54.400 --> 0:40:57.640
<v Speaker 3>into every single X you have, every X I dated

0:40:57.640 --> 0:40:59.640
<v Speaker 3>in the last five years, bumped into them.

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:02.400
<v Speaker 1>Last she bumped into them all in one every reason

0:41:02.719 --> 0:41:05.359
<v Speaker 1>thing go one well in the last five years. So

0:41:05.560 --> 0:41:05.840
<v Speaker 1>it was.

0:41:05.920 --> 0:41:07.680
<v Speaker 3>And then the first boyfriend I ever had, I bumped

0:41:07.680 --> 0:41:10.000
<v Speaker 3>into him at Union Square. And when I saw him,

0:41:10.040 --> 0:41:12.120
<v Speaker 3>I just started laughing because I was like, this is

0:41:12.160 --> 0:41:12.880
<v Speaker 3>the universe.

0:41:13.160 --> 0:41:14.280
<v Speaker 1>He's getting too small.

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:16.359
<v Speaker 2>That's like the universe trying to say when they show

0:41:16.400 --> 0:41:17.600
<v Speaker 2>you everyone you've slept with them.

0:41:17.640 --> 0:41:19.960
<v Speaker 3>I think the universe is taking me through a like

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:24.799
<v Speaker 3>ghosts of Penis past, right, Like everybody that I used

0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:28.600
<v Speaker 3>to be stressed about or or obsessed with or whatever.

0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:31.960
<v Speaker 3>I saw them and it was like, oh, this issue

0:41:32.640 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 3>this is I did spend a couple of the blocks, a.

0:41:35.600 --> 0:41:36.120
<v Speaker 1>Couple of the time.

0:41:36.640 --> 0:41:38.520
<v Speaker 5>Out of the ones that you saw, five out of ten,

0:41:38.560 --> 0:41:39.919
<v Speaker 5>I don't know it was, you know what I'm saying,

0:41:40.000 --> 0:41:42.120
<v Speaker 5>fifty percent of them were they better looking worse?

0:41:43.200 --> 0:41:45.160
<v Speaker 3>In one week got bumped into three. So the first

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:48.880
<v Speaker 3>one looked good and I looked layout and every day people.

0:41:49.120 --> 0:41:51.760
<v Speaker 3>No girl, I was walking.

0:41:51.440 --> 0:41:55.319
<v Speaker 1>By, Seriously, how are you running all the movies in

0:41:55.360 --> 0:41:57.640
<v Speaker 1>one week? I bumped into three? That's crazy. The first

0:41:57.640 --> 0:41:59.319
<v Speaker 1>one looked good and I looked bad, so I had to.

0:41:59.400 --> 0:42:02.719
<v Speaker 3>Hide ship because I was like, oh. And then the

0:42:02.719 --> 0:42:05.040
<v Speaker 3>second one looked bad and I looked good, so I

0:42:05.080 --> 0:42:06.200
<v Speaker 3>was like, I thought that.

0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:09.640
<v Speaker 1>Was hi, you left big.

0:42:12.840 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, you look your thyroid like the thyroid lord.

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:19.479
<v Speaker 1>And then the last one looked good.

0:42:19.600 --> 0:42:22.279
<v Speaker 3>He looked fantastic, Like I thought it looked like he

0:42:22.320 --> 0:42:23.600
<v Speaker 3>had found Christ or something.

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. He looked very good. I mean Sidney's

0:42:26.680 --> 0:42:28.000
<v Speaker 1>on he looked fantastic.

0:42:29.080 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 3>Can I ask you if someone went through a book

0:42:32.640 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 3>and got to see all of your exes, what would

0:42:35.200 --> 0:42:36.799
<v Speaker 3>it say about you? Like would they be able to

0:42:36.800 --> 0:42:40.920
<v Speaker 3>point out one same trend with your exes? Or like

0:42:41.040 --> 0:42:43.520
<v Speaker 3>what do you think it would say about you? I mean,

0:42:43.560 --> 0:42:46.000
<v Speaker 3>I think, with the exception of like a cubble, of

0:42:46.480 --> 0:42:48.880
<v Speaker 3>everybody that I've dated has been very nice, Like I

0:42:48.880 --> 0:42:50.120
<v Speaker 3>think nice people.

0:42:50.239 --> 0:42:50.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't.

0:42:51.000 --> 0:42:54.520
<v Speaker 3>I don't necessarily date assholes. I dated like maybe like

0:42:54.719 --> 0:42:56.160
<v Speaker 3>three liars.

0:42:57.719 --> 0:43:01.359
<v Speaker 1>Only three? Yeah, three, your whole three the last year.

0:43:01.440 --> 0:43:02.399
<v Speaker 1>Maybe they were great lives.

0:43:04.239 --> 0:43:07.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah maybe, okay, maybe I dated five liars.

0:43:07.480 --> 0:43:09.879
<v Speaker 1>We go round up? Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:13.279
<v Speaker 3>You're like God's chosen one of God's favorites. I'm like,

0:43:13.400 --> 0:43:14.799
<v Speaker 3>top top fifty in the world.

0:43:14.840 --> 0:43:17.239
<v Speaker 1>What's your sign? I'm a libra. Maybe you know how

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:18.279
<v Speaker 1>to choose them.

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:21.880
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if you have a discernment, like I

0:43:21.920 --> 0:43:23.720
<v Speaker 3>don't feel like we all get that lucky bitch.

0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:25.319
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:26.799
<v Speaker 3>I feel like the end of last year, I just

0:43:26.880 --> 0:43:28.359
<v Speaker 3>was like, this is this is this this, this, this

0:43:28.400 --> 0:43:29.920
<v Speaker 3>is this this, you.

0:43:29.880 --> 0:43:32.040
<v Speaker 1>Know, because what is what is dating now for you?

0:43:32.200 --> 0:43:35.600
<v Speaker 3>Like, like, has there is there a trend now with

0:43:35.680 --> 0:43:38.719
<v Speaker 3>what you see how men are dating in comparison to

0:43:38.800 --> 0:43:39.680
<v Speaker 3>your past or not.

0:43:41.600 --> 0:43:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:43.959
<v Speaker 3>I didn't care about dating in my twenties. I wasn't

0:43:44.000 --> 0:43:45.880
<v Speaker 3>thinking about it at all. I would go out and

0:43:45.960 --> 0:43:48.799
<v Speaker 3>just be like, ill, stop talking to us, or like

0:43:49.000 --> 0:43:51.400
<v Speaker 3>I want to strawberry zakery, like and so does my friend,

0:43:51.600 --> 0:43:55.520
<v Speaker 3>like drinking stuff like that and ignoring them, and and

0:43:55.600 --> 0:43:59.480
<v Speaker 3>then you know, after you turned after after you leave

0:43:59.480 --> 0:44:02.280
<v Speaker 3>twenty nine behind, now you're kind of on a swivel,

0:44:02.320 --> 0:44:04.560
<v Speaker 3>and I don't like being out in that way. I

0:44:04.560 --> 0:44:06.720
<v Speaker 3>just want to be out with my friends feeling hot,

0:44:06.960 --> 0:44:08.839
<v Speaker 3>being sexy, and smelling good.

0:44:09.040 --> 0:44:09.520
<v Speaker 1>It's okay.

0:44:09.840 --> 0:44:12.440
<v Speaker 3>The attention doesn't go to going out to meet people anymore.

0:44:12.719 --> 0:44:14.800
<v Speaker 3>It just is to go out and have a good time.

0:44:14.719 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Because the pressure of meeting someone outside I think comes

0:44:18.040 --> 0:44:20.040
<v Speaker 2>from the fact that we're all meeting them online.

0:44:20.480 --> 0:44:22.520
<v Speaker 1>So it's like, damn, I'm going outside. It must be

0:44:22.600 --> 0:44:23.400
<v Speaker 1>time like it.

0:44:23.400 --> 0:44:27.560
<v Speaker 3>Just want to meet people out like online is canceled.

0:44:28.840 --> 0:44:34.640
<v Speaker 1>That's where all the liars are online outside What the

0:44:34.640 --> 0:44:37.239
<v Speaker 1>fuck is you talking about? Day out?

0:44:37.360 --> 0:44:39.399
<v Speaker 3>You know that I saw someone I used to date

0:44:39.400 --> 0:44:41.520
<v Speaker 3>in the layout and he must have had one of

0:44:41.520 --> 0:44:43.040
<v Speaker 3>the moments he was like, oh my god, how you

0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:45.759
<v Speaker 3>being Are you working out? No, nigga, I'm just making

0:44:45.760 --> 0:44:46.920
<v Speaker 3>more money.

0:44:47.239 --> 0:44:51.440
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm telling you, when someone is from the past

0:44:51.480 --> 0:44:53.640
<v Speaker 2>and they see you, I can already tell how your

0:44:53.719 --> 0:44:55.440
<v Speaker 2>dating life is going from how you pressed on me.

0:44:56.960 --> 0:44:59.479
<v Speaker 3>You know, it might not even be how their dating

0:44:59.480 --> 0:45:02.520
<v Speaker 3>life is going. It's it's just how you look true

0:45:02.719 --> 0:45:06.080
<v Speaker 3>and how you move in right. Like maybe old you

0:45:06.239 --> 0:45:08.160
<v Speaker 3>was a little bit more pressed, a little bit more thirsty,

0:45:08.200 --> 0:45:10.879
<v Speaker 3>and now you're making money and you you know, you're

0:45:10.920 --> 0:45:12.960
<v Speaker 3>at a different place in your life, and people see

0:45:12.960 --> 0:45:14.040
<v Speaker 3>that and they're like drawn to.

0:45:14.040 --> 0:45:16.319
<v Speaker 1>The thirstiness is real, though I will say that I

0:45:16.320 --> 0:45:17.520
<v Speaker 1>think that if you think.

0:45:17.360 --> 0:45:19.960
<v Speaker 2>That he doesn't have a fence still looking at your stuff,

0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:22.920
<v Speaker 2>he is, so he's already seen the progression and might not.

0:45:26.560 --> 0:45:30.160
<v Speaker 5>But I do think the thirstiness in the twenties for me,

0:45:30.960 --> 0:45:33.080
<v Speaker 5>you don't, you know, if you're looking to date someone,

0:45:33.239 --> 0:45:35.279
<v Speaker 5>I think you don't have a lot of kuth, Like

0:45:35.320 --> 0:45:38.520
<v Speaker 5>you're kind of just being like, yeah, my intentions that,

0:45:38.560 --> 0:45:41.319
<v Speaker 5>and it's just sometimes you can lead with that in

0:45:41.360 --> 0:45:43.080
<v Speaker 5>a different way. And I think I didn't know how

0:45:43.080 --> 0:45:45.680
<v Speaker 5>to communicate that properly, Like I was going on dates

0:45:45.719 --> 0:45:48.719
<v Speaker 5>when niggas that were fucking drug dealers, thinking they'd wipe

0:45:48.760 --> 0:45:51.040
<v Speaker 5>me up or they'd be a great partner.

0:45:51.160 --> 0:45:54.520
<v Speaker 2>Like you're just not really choosing right. And I think

0:45:54.560 --> 0:45:58.120
<v Speaker 2>the thirstiness definitely came from loneliness. Once you're a little

0:45:58.120 --> 0:45:59.400
<v Speaker 2>bit older, you start building.

0:45:59.160 --> 0:46:01.919
<v Speaker 5>Community and happiness in other ways, whereas when you're younger,

0:46:02.000 --> 0:46:03.400
<v Speaker 5>you're like, oh, I have to get married, get a

0:46:03.400 --> 0:46:05.160
<v Speaker 5>good job, do this, So I got to find a

0:46:05.160 --> 0:46:07.719
<v Speaker 5>partner that's next and that's the worst part of day,

0:46:08.239 --> 0:46:09.799
<v Speaker 5>going out like you are right now, just to have

0:46:09.840 --> 0:46:11.960
<v Speaker 5>a good time, Like I really believe that's what brings

0:46:11.960 --> 0:46:13.320
<v Speaker 5>the happiness.

0:46:12.880 --> 0:46:17.400
<v Speaker 3>What is the difference between dating men and women? See women,

0:46:17.760 --> 0:46:20.120
<v Speaker 3>they're women harder to date. Do you feel or I

0:46:20.200 --> 0:46:22.600
<v Speaker 3>think everybody is crazy. It doesn't matter what gender or

0:46:22.600 --> 0:46:26.000
<v Speaker 3>sexuality you are. But I do think that women are

0:46:26.120 --> 0:46:29.400
<v Speaker 3>more direct. They know what they want and they're not

0:46:29.480 --> 0:46:34.080
<v Speaker 3>afraid to say their feelings. And most women are like yeah,

0:46:34.120 --> 0:46:35.200
<v Speaker 3>that's like I'm not.

0:46:35.160 --> 0:46:38.879
<v Speaker 2>Turned off by a woman being honest because it's like, okay, good,

0:46:38.920 --> 0:46:41.319
<v Speaker 2>I don't have to like play these games or oh

0:46:41.400 --> 0:46:43.440
<v Speaker 2>I can't text you back, I gotta wait and da

0:46:43.520 --> 0:46:47.960
<v Speaker 2>da da da, So that it is like relaxing to

0:46:47.960 --> 0:46:49.920
<v Speaker 2>feel like, oh, I know that person likes me. I

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:52.960
<v Speaker 2>don't have to de cipher or look at hilogryphics to

0:46:53.000 --> 0:46:55.000
<v Speaker 2>see if they are really didn't.

0:46:54.800 --> 0:47:01.239
<v Speaker 1>Say high low graphics hieroglyphics. Oh that is man? Wait,

0:47:01.280 --> 0:47:03.120
<v Speaker 1>do you embarrassed for yourself?

0:47:04.000 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 2>You let the people in the cop was like, Mandy,

0:47:06.040 --> 0:47:11.279
<v Speaker 2>you know I don't high looglyphics, Yo, Mandy, just like

0:47:11.280 --> 0:47:17.480
<v Speaker 2>a white woman, you're like her. Ye, never put that

0:47:17.520 --> 0:47:20.560
<v Speaker 2>in the history books. Bitch, it's always gonna be a

0:47:20.960 --> 0:47:23.840
<v Speaker 2>big woman trying to correct a black, strong gay woman

0:47:24.280 --> 0:47:25.960
<v Speaker 2>on camera with that.

0:47:26.120 --> 0:47:28.759
<v Speaker 1>Put that in the books. I shared, It's all I've

0:47:28.760 --> 0:47:29.400
<v Speaker 1>said enough for.

0:47:31.160 --> 0:47:31.200
<v Speaker 4>You.

0:47:32.920 --> 0:47:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you.

0:47:33.719 --> 0:47:35.960
<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you how Cindy trying to play reezy

0:47:36.239 --> 0:47:38.960
<v Speaker 3>because again trying to play reason. You try to act

0:47:38.960 --> 0:47:40.680
<v Speaker 3>like she'd be late, and I was like, Ree's never

0:47:40.760 --> 0:47:41.160
<v Speaker 3>late for me.

0:47:44.160 --> 0:47:48.759
<v Speaker 1>Hey, you know you're like black, that's what you're with

0:47:48.840 --> 0:47:51.800
<v Speaker 1>a capitol king. Do you know that you are crying?

0:47:52.640 --> 0:47:58.040
<v Speaker 1>You are waiting at all? Had enough to wait?

0:47:58.160 --> 0:48:05.760
<v Speaker 2>I had to stick up for a police like a sister, Mandy,

0:48:05.800 --> 0:48:07.280
<v Speaker 2>who are you turning into?

0:48:07.440 --> 0:48:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Over there.

0:48:12.160 --> 0:48:12.239
<v Speaker 4>Is?

0:48:12.280 --> 0:48:16.759
<v Speaker 1>It is a color purple keeping until you do right

0:48:16.840 --> 0:48:20.520
<v Speaker 1>by me, don't. I do want to I do want

0:48:20.520 --> 0:48:23.880
<v Speaker 1>to end the show by not the song. Oh no,

0:48:23.920 --> 0:48:25.719
<v Speaker 1>we know you want to end it out. No, no, no, no,

0:48:26.400 --> 0:48:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I am having a good time. I mean no random.

0:48:29.239 --> 0:48:30.239
<v Speaker 1>I do want us to.

0:48:30.320 --> 0:48:33.879
<v Speaker 3>Talk about what we have intentionally changed in the way

0:48:33.920 --> 0:48:37.000
<v Speaker 3>we pursue partners and dating and sex in our thirties

0:48:37.000 --> 0:48:40.040
<v Speaker 3>compared to our twenties. Like, I know that you said

0:48:40.080 --> 0:48:42.760
<v Speaker 3>clearly you're not out looking exactly. But is there anything

0:48:42.760 --> 0:48:44.160
<v Speaker 3>intentionally that you're doing different.

0:48:44.960 --> 0:48:47.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to work on me. I just I just

0:48:47.040 --> 0:48:49.560
<v Speaker 2>want to be good for me. I don't care about

0:48:49.840 --> 0:48:51.839
<v Speaker 2>the people per se anymore. I just want to show

0:48:51.880 --> 0:48:53.640
<v Speaker 2>up for me. I want to be good to me.

0:48:53.920 --> 0:48:57.279
<v Speaker 2>I want to do things in a way that it's

0:48:57.320 --> 0:49:00.520
<v Speaker 2>not chaotic. Our podcast is messed, but I don't want

0:49:00.520 --> 0:49:01.840
<v Speaker 2>to be a mess anymore.

0:49:02.160 --> 0:49:04.640
<v Speaker 1>So I want an hour I don't I don't want

0:49:04.640 --> 0:49:05.680
<v Speaker 1>to be a mess anymore.

0:49:05.760 --> 0:49:09.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I starting today, started starting today, starting

0:49:09.760 --> 0:49:12.520
<v Speaker 2>right fucking now because of you, man, d okay, wait

0:49:12.560 --> 0:49:13.239
<v Speaker 2>till I come back.

0:49:13.280 --> 0:49:15.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have high rogue glyphics.

0:49:15.760 --> 0:49:21.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna say hi, Hi, drogue Griffin. To be honest,

0:49:21.360 --> 0:49:23.680
<v Speaker 2>high glow Olympics is a great makeup line, man.

0:49:23.880 --> 0:49:33.320
<v Speaker 1>Hydroglyphics, Hi glows. Nobody wants you to blow high glow. Listen,

0:49:34.719 --> 0:49:38.720
<v Speaker 1>what about you in twenty twenty five, what you're doing different?

0:49:38.719 --> 0:49:39.759
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna get a boot this year?

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:43.239
<v Speaker 3>Maybe I think twenty five is gonna be good. I

0:49:43.239 --> 0:49:44.839
<v Speaker 3>did see a psychic last year for the first time

0:49:44.880 --> 0:49:46.959
<v Speaker 3>in my life. Oh and she says she sees loving

0:49:47.000 --> 0:49:47.759
<v Speaker 3>my future.

0:49:47.480 --> 0:49:49.759
<v Speaker 1>And the window, or did you get like a good one?

0:49:49.800 --> 0:49:51.400
<v Speaker 3>I went up, I went up the stairs. I had

0:49:51.400 --> 0:49:53.120
<v Speaker 3>to ring a bell, actually know, I had to hit

0:49:53.160 --> 0:49:55.560
<v Speaker 3>the little you know this thing, you know, a little door,

0:49:56.640 --> 0:49:58.200
<v Speaker 3>you know, because that's how you summon a wizard.

0:49:58.239 --> 0:50:01.600
<v Speaker 1>You got. But you say that's where they live, most

0:50:01.640 --> 0:50:02.040
<v Speaker 1>of them live.

0:50:02.040 --> 0:50:04.440
<v Speaker 3>There was it was it, but you believe in has

0:50:04.680 --> 0:50:06.960
<v Speaker 3>anything else. I'm never going to see a psychic. Before

0:50:07.080 --> 0:50:08.480
<v Speaker 3>my friend was like, why would you go see a

0:50:08.480 --> 0:50:11.000
<v Speaker 3>white psychic? That's why I would ancest to talk to

0:50:11.000 --> 0:50:13.600
<v Speaker 3>a white psychic. The only white psychics I think are real?

0:50:13.719 --> 0:50:16.880
<v Speaker 3>Are you telling gypsy? Kind of like you're not supposed

0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:19.600
<v Speaker 3>to say that? That's how Yeah, you can't call somatic.

0:50:19.680 --> 0:50:20.760
<v Speaker 1>You're not allowed to say gypsy.

0:50:21.200 --> 0:50:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Well, first of all, she said, I am saying homeless

0:50:23.640 --> 0:50:24.200
<v Speaker 2>and gypsy.

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:27.880
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, you can't call someone a gypsy. But gypsy

0:50:27.960 --> 0:50:28.640
<v Speaker 1>is a word.

0:50:28.840 --> 0:50:34.520
<v Speaker 2>Yes, there are people, and so is nigger. Just because

0:50:34.600 --> 0:50:37.520
<v Speaker 2>it's a word doesn't mean you can't g word.

0:50:37.560 --> 0:50:39.239
<v Speaker 1>It is not. No they say that word like, we

0:50:39.280 --> 0:50:43.399
<v Speaker 1>can't even say no more you just how wait, can

0:50:43.480 --> 0:50:46.919
<v Speaker 1>y'all ai me out of this part? Can I just say? Wait?

0:50:47.080 --> 0:50:49.560
<v Speaker 2>You know I'm being serious about gypsy. It's a culture.

0:50:50.080 --> 0:50:52.640
<v Speaker 2>You can't call someone a gypsy by looking at him

0:50:52.800 --> 0:50:54.520
<v Speaker 2>or about talking like you can say the world. I

0:50:54.520 --> 0:50:56.160
<v Speaker 2>think you need to go back into the history books.

0:50:58.000 --> 0:51:00.319
<v Speaker 2>Gypsy water my pay favorite part. You might to start

0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:01.080
<v Speaker 2>bleaking myself.

0:51:01.160 --> 0:51:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Aren't they hipsty hips we have?

0:51:07.000 --> 0:51:09.319
<v Speaker 2>It's probably gonna have the most engagement because people are

0:51:09.320 --> 0:51:12.319
<v Speaker 2>gonna be dragging.

0:51:10.360 --> 0:51:14.759
<v Speaker 3>No, no question of the stupid question. Okay, now come on,

0:51:14.800 --> 0:51:18.280
<v Speaker 3>we have to do something Asian to make it right. No, no, no,

0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:23.760
<v Speaker 3>not no to talk about you okayre Asian?

0:51:23.960 --> 0:51:24.000
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:51:24.600 --> 0:51:33.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh Latino? Are you a gypsy? Are you a madge? No?

0:51:33.440 --> 0:51:37.560
<v Speaker 1>Are you a house? Are you? I love a good

0:51:37.560 --> 0:51:43.000
<v Speaker 1>offensive episode. It's not even really offensive. Gypsy. Don't listen

0:51:43.040 --> 0:51:44.960
<v Speaker 1>to this podcast I heard.

0:51:44.960 --> 0:51:47.359
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be like we put both the ladies, both

0:51:47.400 --> 0:51:48.680
<v Speaker 2>podcasts on the network together.

0:51:50.040 --> 0:51:51.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. What was the question?

0:51:52.360 --> 0:51:54.680
<v Speaker 3>Like, how you're being intentional with dating this year? Oh,

0:51:57.080 --> 0:52:01.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm stepping outside of my house. You can't meet nobody

0:52:02.000 --> 0:52:03.399
<v Speaker 3>sitting in I mean Uber eats.

0:52:04.520 --> 0:52:05.520
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't do Uber eats.

0:52:05.600 --> 0:52:09.000
<v Speaker 3>I I go pick up my takeout, not if I'm

0:52:09.000 --> 0:52:11.800
<v Speaker 3>not gonna cook. I'm traveling the world. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I meet my person in the Delta lounge or you know,

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<v Speaker 3>some random place.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that Delta one at this point, lounges for the streets.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, everybody up in the well, let's let's make a

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<v Speaker 3>quick disclaimer. The lamp sucks. Stop trying to go to

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<v Speaker 3>the lounge. Don't go, just be by together.

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<v Speaker 1>Canceled. Yeah, bro, I hate the lines in there. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all shouldn't go. It's canceled.

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<v Speaker 2>They need to put congestion prices for the for the bro.

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<v Speaker 1>They know.

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<v Speaker 3>They tried to. That's why they did the sky miles.

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<v Speaker 3>They tried to get your motherfuckers out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's limits.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, Well, let's playing TikTok because TikTok is white.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch. They served me steak and sushi. Bitch. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they get massages and facials in it. Get it one?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a plus one? Can you get a

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm going over there now. You don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>ward of a little stocking. Tell me where to find you? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Are we done?

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<v Speaker 2>From?

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<v Speaker 1>Where? Can our listeners check you out? Come?

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<v Speaker 3>Find us also on iHeart mess That's where you can

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<v Speaker 3>find us. Our podcast is called that you can find

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<v Speaker 3>Me on Instagram it's reezy our e e z y

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<v Speaker 3>And I just want to tell y'all what's also amazing

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<v Speaker 3>about mess is that you have to Luckily it just

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<v Speaker 3>started to start from the beginning because you get to

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<v Speaker 3>listen to Sydney trying to find an apartment, and then

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<v Speaker 3>you listen to a man who bought her oxtails, who

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<v Speaker 3>she thought was going to be her man and isn't

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<v Speaker 3>feel like it's not by seemed like he bought her oxtail,

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<v Speaker 3>bitch that it's inflation is expensive, like that was good and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll try to get a little one.

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<v Speaker 4>He got me a large Wow, but being a man

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<v Speaker 4>now worth being a side check for.

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<v Speaker 3>Side see, I'm not doing it? Said where can they

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<v Speaker 3>catch you and follow you?

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<v Speaker 2>And all the things also on mess okay on the

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<v Speaker 2>on instagram's ooh mess, and my Instagram is just said,

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<v Speaker 2>b w how many o's two with an H.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm trying to get to three. We

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<v Speaker 1>should have like we're gonna tag it.

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<v Speaker 3>I talk for y'all every day through the Instagram because

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<v Speaker 3>we just be sitting memes.

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<v Speaker 1>And ship and pedicure.

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<v Speaker 3>I told them, oh no, and and you know what,

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<v Speaker 3>real quick p s A before we get out of here.

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<v Speaker 3>Stop turning everything into a martinis. We want no more

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<v Speaker 3>seafood boiled martini except.

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<v Speaker 1>For more collar green martini.

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<v Speaker 3>Three martinis. Stop it with the martinis. Were fed up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know who you are. It's you know who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that must be where you live. You know

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<v Speaker 1>who you are.

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