1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Welcome to decisions Decisions. 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded 3 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:08,120 Speaker 2: like you was talking to cursing. You definitely say to welcome. 4 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: Welcome to the new podcast. Oh wait, you want to 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: say together decisions decisions. Welcome y'all. 6 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 3: We back at it again, and I still do not 7 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 3: have an insho for decisions decisions, but it is coming soon. 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: Hon, you can say city owns the. 9 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 4: I. 10 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 3: I kind of want to get some new aka's, but 11 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 3: I haven't thought of them just yet because I'm a 12 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 3: I'm not about you and the bleep. Yeah, I mean, 13 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 3: at this point, we just got to say, I'm bleep bleep, bleep, 14 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 3: bleep bleep. If y'all watch us on YouTube, listen y'all. 15 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 3: If you want to hear our curse words that bad, 16 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 3: go to the audio. You can listen to Decisions Decisions 17 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,279 Speaker 3: wherever you listen to your paper podcast. Really excited though, 18 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 3: we got some guests today. 19 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 1: We do. I'm weasy welcome to decisions Decisions. 20 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 2: Our guests came on horrible decisions, like more than five 21 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 2: years ago, did. 22 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: Y'all y'all and y'all were did y'all both come on? No? No, 23 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: we know they did. They never been on here, that's 24 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: why did they did? 25 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 2: We were together and then we did separately or Marie went. 26 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 1: We did together. I think Marie only came on. 27 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 2: No, I came on there too. In the other it 28 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: was like a small studio. It was not like this, 29 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: she said, y'all, we know. 30 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: Growth, but well it was that little. 31 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 3: Box y'all may have known, or I know, we both 32 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 3: individually went on to your previous podcast, Unofficial Experts, and 33 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 3: now y'all are just mess now that the rebrand. 34 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: How from unofficial experts to mess to mess? 35 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: Well, the unofficial Expert was, but it was very like 36 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 2: the sound is corporate, but it's down the earth mess 37 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: for Oh no, I listen and I'm excited because the 38 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: ground is corporate for unofficial nficial. 39 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: It was very much so mess but messes. 40 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: Definitely, you guys, I would say, okay, okay, right, hold okay, 41 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 3: So you know what's crazy mess to me? Like when 42 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 3: I describe y'all as like you know how when you 43 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 3: say bitch, But it's endearing. I love the mess of 44 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: y'all's lives that I get to hear every week. 45 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: You're not cleaning it, Okay, I'm sorry, I fix it 46 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: for you. Let me fix it for you. Okay. 47 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 2: I think everybody misuses the word mess. I think that 48 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 2: things can be messy, but a lot of times you're 49 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 2: just living. 50 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: You're just being yourself, like growing up, not a horrible 51 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: something else. So that's what I mean. I like y'all's live. Okay. 52 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 3: Okay, So we're gonna dig into it today because we're 53 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 3: gonna talk about uh, dating being a mess. And I've 54 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 3: listened to Reezie. I can't wait to get into her 55 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:42,119 Speaker 3: her dating woes. Can I say woes? You could say woe? 56 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: Girls? 57 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 2: So you give us a great little recap on that 58 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 2: Instagram recap. 59 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: I run into. 60 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: Reezy maybe once a year somewhere, but I feel like 61 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: I'm connected to you from what's going on on the internet. Okay, 62 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 2: you writing the camera and I'd be like, she must 63 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 2: have seen a nigga last night. 64 00:02:56,000 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: I feel like he was still there. Are you doing 65 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: the lights? Okay? 66 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 3: So I guess before we start, just because we're going 67 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 3: to be talking about dating, let's start with you two 68 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 3: and talk about where you're at currently and your dating world, 69 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 3: just so that the audience also knows what lens we're 70 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 3: taking it from okay, okay, So are you currently dating 71 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 3: with intention? 72 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: Do you want to be married? Are you single? Are 73 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 1: you in a situationship? Reezie? What is your girl? You 74 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: sound like my mom? Are you dating with intention? What's up? 75 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 1: Where my grandbaby? Control? 76 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 3: Realistically, my mom has never asked me about dating at all. 77 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 3: I think my mom didn't want to ever have kids, 78 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 3: so she's like, you shouldn't have a me. 79 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: So that's a good bit I would like her. 80 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: We need to hear more moms talking about how being 81 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 2: child free is a choice. 82 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: That's okay because like doing it on TikTok. They're saying 83 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: it on TikTok all the time. 84 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 2: They're showing you, like what their days are and how 85 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: they're like not worried and they can just get on 86 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 2: a fly. 87 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: Girl. By the time we y'all leave here, will we 88 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: have TikTok? I'm not gonna lie. I'm surprised. 89 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 3: Uh, my mom luckily has a grand baby and it's 90 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 3: by my lesbian sister, so like she already knew she 91 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 3: wasn't gonna get a baby out of me. 92 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 1: But like for my sister. 93 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 2: To look at the gays picking picking y'all. 94 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: Up once again, the good work that we do. That 95 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: is crazy. So reason, what's your relationship status? I'm dating 96 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: to have a good time. 97 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 3: If I meet somebody that I feel like, I'm not 98 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 3: even gonna say checks the boxes, because what is a box? 99 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: You know they can she'll know they can. Wait a minute, 100 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 1: y'all know about boxes? 101 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 2: A queen about any pocket of boxes? 102 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: Y'all have multiple boxes pocket. Let me tell you how. 103 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 5: I don't know, like if just being a little gay 104 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 5: is something you can see. 105 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: I saw her abundance. 106 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 5: I'm talking about sid If you're not watching and uh 107 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 5: my boyfriend watched me. 108 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: He goes, do you like her? What was that? I 109 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: was like, what? He was like? You said five times 110 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 1: you had saga? You at saga? I was like, what 111 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,919 Speaker 1: did girl? I was like, is she a molly? 112 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 2: She's really like, why are you all molly? 113 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. You're It's good. You looked good. You 114 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 1: looked fun and free and having a good. 115 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 2: I think it's because like when I see someone that 116 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 2: I haven't seen in a while and this is fucked up. 117 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: You better say it, dope, go ahead and stay take 118 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: your time. 119 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a mess. There's not many people I see 120 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 2: that I haven't seen in a while that look better 121 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 2: or great, and they don't necessarily have something great to say. 122 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 5: They're kind of like, oh, you know, life is like 123 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,919 Speaker 5: But Sid didn't have that. She was just great energy, 124 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 5: her friends around. They just had a vibe. 125 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: Not everybody always feels like that when you run into them. 126 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 1: We just came from Marie Show. We had a good time. 127 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 2: We were like, I had my pants on, my butt 128 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 2: looked big, like yeah, I was feeling feeling great. 129 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 3: That was why I couldn't stop saying it, because I 130 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 3: feel like when I run into people lately, it's just like. 131 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: You was doing a little better. 132 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 3: Also, when you tell when you see somebody and you're like, 133 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: how you doing? You know, there's always that one random 134 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 3: person that will tell you that they're not doing good, 135 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 3: and it's. 136 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 1: Like you could have kept that. 137 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 3: The way to the backfield drinking my hand, Molly's still going, 138 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 3: what is your relationship status? 139 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: You know? 140 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: During the pandemic and before that, I was very I'm 141 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 2: a monogamous, like serial dater, and I'm always you know, 142 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:36,239 Speaker 2: with somebody. So I went to LA I came back, 143 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 2: I had some fun and I am dating someone okay. 144 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: But the thing is is that I'm trying not to. 145 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,119 Speaker 2: I used to talk about my girlfriends all the time 146 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 2: and on podcasts or whatever, and then somebody would message 147 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: them and be like, hey, did you did you hear Sidney? 148 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 2: And it's like, oh, I'm like, yo, miss, I'm here 149 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 2: to entertain. 150 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: Why are you even like listening to this? 151 00:06:59,760 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 4: No? 152 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: Why are you listening to this? Listen to it? Yeah? No, 153 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: but don't be reporting bad apparent. Apparently one of the 154 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 1: dudes that I'm dating posted me in his close Friends 155 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: with my Yeah, I didn't. He didn't even in the 156 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: in the photo. What was happening? 157 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 3: It was like a selfie that I had sent him there. 158 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: It was like posted in the close Friends. 159 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 6: Oh no. 160 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: Someone saw it and commented and said. 161 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 3: I don't like, hey, uh, do you listen to her 162 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 3: podcast because she talking to other people? 163 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 1: And he was like no, and then he sent him 164 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: to the links to the both things. I don't know 165 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: what was worse. Someone violated you like that telling your business. 166 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. I said that, don't sound like a 167 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: close friend. 168 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 2: Okay, so I'll tell you that's funny. 169 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: The close friends. 170 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 5: If you're in the photo and y'all are doing something 171 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 5: it's like, okay, he could have the excuse, so my bad. 172 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 5: I was just posting being out whatever a selfie you 173 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 5: say is wrong. 174 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: Selfie, No, that's wrong. 175 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 3: If you send a guy that you're talking to a 176 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 3: photo of yourself, because that's technically private and technically intimate. 177 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 3: You shouldn't be posting that to a social media patient. 178 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,679 Speaker 3: And it's so crazy because also hearing four women agree 179 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 3: on that, I know men be like, but women want 180 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 3: to be posted no, no, no, not like that. 181 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: No no no, not like that. And I had no idea 182 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: that you were doing that. Also, what I said to 183 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: you and what I was saying to the way, are you. 184 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 2: Not because I look, you know, I'm just sending you 185 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 2: something super sexy. 186 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: I may not give that much of a fun. Wait, 187 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: reason are you and his close friends? Did you see 188 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 1: him posting? You don't follow each other? That's the and 189 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: that's the beautiful that. 190 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 2: But I tell you that's the if you're dating you, 191 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 2: Guys should not be following each other. And even sometimes 192 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 2: I feel like you shouldn't follow your friends because what 193 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 2: if people are now you're doing to me because sometimes 194 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 2: especially if you're a public figure, what you're posting outwardly 195 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 2: for the masses is it might not hit for your friends. 196 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: It's not for them. 197 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 2: And so sometimes when friends be watching other people do 198 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 2: their thing, it's their little judgment. 199 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: So they're like, oh, that's cringe or whatever. But like, 200 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: this is my business. This is you're not buying my tickets. 201 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: This is for the people. 202 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 3: That's so crazy because my homegirl, uh, we was on 203 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 3: the phone and she was like, but I know you 204 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 3: see my stories and I say, you post your kids 205 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 3: too much. 206 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 1: I go through, right, I go right. 207 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 3: I don't want to see a whole bunch of post 208 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 3: about children. I can't relate. I don't want to watch it. 209 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 3: Have you ever seen a get in the car? This 210 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 3: is the type of you already know what I'm talking about. 211 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 3: Y'all know too. 212 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 2: It'd be a long ass fucking story or balla Dante. 213 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 5: And then it starts like so how was that word? 214 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 5: And I'm like, oh, bitch, click click, And then. 215 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: You called me thinking I know this aren't to sit 216 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: there for seven I didn't wait. 217 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: Wait, you don't just x I X out of it? 218 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: You speed you through? 219 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, I maybe you got to I don't 220 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 2: want to see the whole I don't want to look like. 221 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: A Wait, I'll wait till the next day, till yeah, 222 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 1: you know what I can't saying, take on a bitch 223 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: story and it's stay birthday. No, I like it. That's 224 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 1: the only way I know. It's your birthday. 225 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, wait, wait, I'm gonna finish this. Okay, 226 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 2: finish this first? 227 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 1: Is it the reposts? Are you mad at the reposts? 228 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: It's the whole thing back? 229 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 2: Oh? 230 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: No, First of all, it's your birthday. Okay, Now I 231 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: don't click. 232 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: Now you know how don't click? So I'm gonna click out. 233 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 2: So now you know I ain't shit because I ain't 234 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 2: clicked the rest of them. On top of the fact 235 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 2: that I'm probably not gonna text you or repost pictures 236 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 2: of us, I just feel like now I have. 237 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: To be accountable because why just my happy birthday? Friend? 238 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 5: Sure, I don't even except the story, but I'm talking 239 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 5: it's random, just cool. 240 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 3: Oh just tap the heart, yeah, tap the heart, tap 241 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 3: the heart yeah, or. 242 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: Thumbs up thumbs up girl. I don't know about the 243 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: thumbs up heart. I like low effort. I might give 244 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:40,119 Speaker 1: you a little. 245 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 2: What's wrong with the happy birthday? 246 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: Oh? 247 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 3: No, no, in twenty twenty five, none of my friends 248 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 3: are getting a repost, and it's because three of them 249 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 3: last year, and you know who you are. 250 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:50,839 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna call you out because you listen to 251 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 1: the part you did three of them. You're doing that 252 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 1: on our episode. No listen three of them, three of them, 253 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: three of them hit me. 254 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 3: Okay, and we're like, now, why would you choose that picture? 255 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 3: I don't like that picture? Here post this picture? 256 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 1: Oh bitch. 257 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 3: Now, I'm not getting three friends because I've been friends 258 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: with all of my friends for over ten years. 259 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 1: I know y'all think I follo out with people I'm 260 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 1: friends with important showing up. 261 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:19,839 Speaker 3: Yet up, but I like to post post. 262 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: I was stopping right there, y'all. Why are you doing that? Mandy? 263 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: If you have blown up so much, why are we 264 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:26,079 Speaker 1: going back ten years ago? 265 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I've been friend So there's two things, bitches. 266 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 3: Because you're posting a picture that you look at it. 267 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 3: I know I look ten years ago. I was eighty, 268 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 3: but maybe you're uncomfortable with your mess, So okay for 269 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 3: you to decide. 270 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 5: They should be grateful for the post. But at the 271 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 5: same time, like, bro, if you know, like I looked 272 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 5: like ship back there. You know, I hate I don't 273 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:50,080 Speaker 5: want it. 274 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: I don't think they look like all bands up to here. 275 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 1: I need why are you why that is a Beyonce 276 00:11:56,600 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: crazy crazy bangs? Yeah? Wow, you know the SO and 277 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: I have we interviewed, y'all. Probably I was. I don't 278 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 1: know how that fly out of states. 279 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 2: My friend got a calendar, put a calendar together and 280 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 2: hit up my friends and ask them to send. 281 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: Pictures so cute. 282 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 2: I want to text me and be like, so that's 283 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 2: the photo you chose. I would hate to die and 284 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 2: there'll be an obituary and people are doing the power point. 285 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 2: I can't trust nobody except Marine power Point yesterday, and 286 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 2: it's gonna be on the casket. 287 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: You know what. 288 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 2: I was thinking about getting a white casket and doing 289 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,359 Speaker 2: a projector you know what, the photos on it. 290 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if someone's gonna die soon, but this 291 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 1: freaking me out. 292 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 5: Literally three days ago, talking of my best friend, he's like, 293 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 5: you look so pretty, Ingreen, I'll make sure you're buried 294 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 5: in it. 295 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 3: No, I don't want anyone saying that's where to say 296 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 3: that's weird and put that out. 297 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: That's weird to say but do you look pretty Ingreen? 298 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: I don't. 299 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 5: But you know what though, when you're in a yellow comedian, 300 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 5: so you already know. I kind of love talking about 301 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 5: death really well. When I was really depressed, I did. 302 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 5: But now I'm feeling good, I'm like, oh, I can 303 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 5: see myself living more. 304 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 1: Oh, I'll be honest with you. 305 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 3: I'm in Atlanta now and I went to a comedy 306 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 3: show Boy is the comedy different? When I'm up here 307 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 3: everyone's talking out suicide and jumping in front of trains. 308 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 3: Down there, they're talking about fried chicken and how they 309 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 3: talk with I'm just saying it's completely but Atlanta is 310 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 3: people are doing. 311 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: They're doing. There's garlic promisean wings. 312 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're not getting petticures with Hennessy on their It's 313 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 3: completely different out there. 314 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: And so I was like, Atlanta. 315 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:34,839 Speaker 3: So that's another thing I realized, hold on, hold on, 316 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 3: mess No sounds like a you. 317 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: Know, it's crazy. The how they speak. I didn't realize. 318 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 3: I don't really I've been in New York a long time, 319 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 3: so the way they drag everything, I'm like, what if 320 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 3: they say girl, I'm trying to have to They speak 321 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 3: a different language. 322 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: It's very country, very country. That's very answer. 323 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,319 Speaker 2: But I have a limit to country, right, So like 324 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 2: being from Florida, you're immersed in country ship once you 325 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 2: realize there's a place out of health. Then you go 326 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: to the country for three days and you're. 327 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 3: Like, no, they like, you know, don't mean like it's like, 328 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 3: what is the person wearing rells when they say that, 329 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 3: because I think that's even sexy. 330 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: They have a list, They got a twin. You want 331 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 1: a list? You can't wear a grill? Why you're gonna 332 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: be spitting gold teeth at me? You're all spitting bracest 333 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: right now, George. You should hear me. 334 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 2: When I read a fucking listener letter, I'd be like super. 335 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 3: I mean, like, you say you so much? You know, honey, 336 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 3: I couldn't say decisions decisions. 337 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: You still can't. You still will. 338 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 3: Y'all want to break this up a little bit with 339 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 3: are hypothetical get us out of dating before we jump 340 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 3: back into dating and this one. 341 00:14:57,480 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: I thought that we could all come up with some. 342 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 3: Pretty good an So you know, we're gonna start with 343 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 3: sit on this one and then we'll go around. I 344 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 3: do want to answer from all of us, So if 345 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 3: you could add one history fact into the books that 346 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 3: would be taught in schools and perceived to be true. 347 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 1: What would it be? Can it be messy? Or of 348 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: course it could be messy. This is the thing that 349 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 1: be okay, No, no, it's true. 350 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 2: No, it could It can also not be treated okay, 351 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 2: but this is true because a recent photo Rosa Parks 352 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 2: had yams yoh do that? 353 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 1: Why not? Why we not? She did? I just saw it. 354 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: But why would we teach our kids that Rosa Parks 355 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: how to don't? 356 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 4: Wait? 357 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: Let me look. 358 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, when she was getting off the bus, there was. 359 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 1: A picture of her doing yoga. Wait, they did yoga. 360 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 3: A there's a picture of Rosa Parks doing yoga somebody. 361 00:15:56,760 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: And this is someone to get it together? You feed 362 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: real gen Z right now. I am out. Twitter is 363 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: your resource. You know what are you crying? Well? When 364 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 1: I saw the phone, I was like, she's sitting down. 365 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: She should send me this one that AI looks like art? 366 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? I don't know the old black lady. 367 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: You have to stay off of the internet. Rose that 368 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: light would that. 369 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 3: Rosa was a little bit light? What is it always like? 370 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 3: He was like freedom fighter bro, I know. 371 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: Is coming to the dark skin girl they didn't care about. 372 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 3: But it's like calm embarrassing because literally every time somebody 373 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 3: checks me like it's always makes it just acting like this, 374 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 3: you don't want to drag They're gonna drag me for this. 375 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: Somebody say something positive, somebody to keep going. I'm going 376 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: to add to it. 377 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 3: So what I would teach, what, well, what I would 378 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 3: put in the books is that actually black people were 379 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 3: the kings and queens and we ruled the world. White 380 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 3: supremacy is actually rooted and hate literal. They were and 381 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 3: so that's why white people was like, oh now we 382 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 3: got to get them out. 383 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 1: Like it was us. 384 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 2: Man. 385 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: I would want to teach. 386 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 3: I would want to teach that white people were so 387 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 3: insecure that they just hated that they didn't rule shit, 388 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 3: so they took everything from us, which technically I think 389 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:16,880 Speaker 3: is the truth. 390 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 2: Isn't that taught in the school of Hotep that I 391 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: think that's our being taught. 392 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 1: Oh that is that at the school. There's the course 393 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 1: of Mindfulness. I think it's the thing ty on Me 394 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 1: told us about. Have you all heard about this? It's 395 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 1: a book. No, it's the Course of Miracles. 396 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 5: Miracles okay, And she was talking about how her and 397 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 5: her ex husband. 398 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: Literally she was like, girl, he. 399 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 2: Was trying to spiritually gas like me from. 400 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 3: This fucking HOTEP book and a lot of the HOTEP 401 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 3: teachings knock on front. 402 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:45,640 Speaker 1: I love a doctor Umar, but I also love. 403 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 5: The gays, and it's like they conflict each other consistently, 404 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 5: back and forth and back and forth. And I think 405 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 5: the biggest issue with hotep shit that I'm African Americans 406 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 5: that don't fuck what it is is they hate white 407 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 5: people a little too much. I have the instead of 408 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 5: like I don't care about making white people feel seen, 409 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:04,720 Speaker 5: like it's just not. 410 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:05,760 Speaker 1: A priority for me. 411 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 5: I may see a homeless person that is white and 412 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 5: I literally won't cross the street because I'll be like, oh, 413 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 5: someone's going to help you one hundred times today, you. 414 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying. 415 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:17,679 Speaker 5: So it's like I think where black people living in 416 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 5: America that are just kind of like, no, Hoteps just 417 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 5: want you to hate white people. 418 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 1: No, it's just more radical, But. 419 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 3: Like I don't think it's but I still think that 420 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 3: white supremacy is rooted in a lot of hate. 421 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: But I want to teach that they were haters. 422 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 3: I also want to say they be ignoring the white 423 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 3: homeless people too, unless they have a little dirty dog 424 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 3: with them, then they might give them right. 425 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:39,399 Speaker 1: That's why me having the dog. 426 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 2: Because they're like, I'm definitely going to trash out, you 427 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 2: know the fact that it's human beings. 428 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 3: We do care more about animals than human lives. 429 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 5: You know why though, because people look at homeless like 430 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 5: they just can't stop doing drugs. We only associate homelessness 431 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 5: with drug addiction now right, because people just don't just 432 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 5: go get a job like that's the first thing they 433 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 5: want to say. 434 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:01,239 Speaker 1: I'm living half in all. I'm telling you. 435 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 5: The way people treat homeless in Los Angeles, it's fucking crazy. Also, 436 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 5: I don't I'm sorry, there's no home, living on the street, 437 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:10,440 Speaker 5: you're homeless. 438 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:13,479 Speaker 1: I don't do that's stupid language. When they write in 439 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: who's going right they are? Don't do that. They have 440 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: wi fi. 441 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 3: I don't normal living outside as a home. It's fucked 442 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,640 Speaker 3: up because I tell you, if they ended up having 443 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 3: a kid and family, oh, is it still on housed? 444 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 2: No, you'd want them to have a fucking home. So 445 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 2: let's treat adults the same way. I'll give a about 446 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:37,120 Speaker 2: you putting no campsite. 447 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 1: Wait, what do you mean having kids? They have kids? Girl? 448 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, Now, I just think that that's irresponsible. 449 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 1: I just think that's irresponsible. 450 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 2: I mean it is because if you are because I 451 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 2: don't have a home. 452 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: I can't have sex. You sho you have anything? You 453 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 1: shouldn't be getting nutted in like. 454 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 3: You you they're outside? Pull out if you live out, 455 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 3: pull out? Yeah, like there has to be we got it. 456 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,479 Speaker 3: Like you gotta be responsible in some form of your life. 457 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 1: You're gonna make another one. 458 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 3: No, I'm not gonna lie already if you already magic, 459 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 3: I'm gonna shout out to all the parents and I 460 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 3: do you. 461 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,239 Speaker 5: Realize that a lot of women that are homeless are 462 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:20,919 Speaker 5: sex workers? 463 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 1: What do you think is going on? Oh? Really? Okay? Wow? 464 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 1: The more you know it's happening here and decisions. Seriously though, that. 465 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 3: Sounds like a horrible decision to me, know the h 466 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 3: not a fun one with the. 467 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: W okay really? What? What? 468 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:34,119 Speaker 4: What? 469 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? 470 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 3: I was just gonna also shout out parents because the 471 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:41,679 Speaker 3: more that I continue to live and thrive as a 472 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,640 Speaker 3: single person, I don't know where y'all get the money 473 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 3: to raise kids. 474 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: This kids are so expensive and the. 475 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:48,960 Speaker 3: More like I just bought furniture where I don't want 476 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 3: anyone to sit on it, and so I had to 477 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 3: call my mom and I say, Mom, I'm so sorry. 478 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 3: Now understand why you didn't want us to jump on 479 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 3: your couch and do all the things that. 480 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:55,879 Speaker 1: We didn't know. 481 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:57,919 Speaker 3: That's crazy that you had a moment with a couch 482 00:20:58,359 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 3: when I was on vacation a few months ago. 483 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 2: It's one for us to do this boat right. And 484 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 2: I remember thinking about myself. Kids is eighty nine, A 485 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 2: kid is eight and nine. That's not you are telling 486 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 2: you if we if we would have a fucking baby, 487 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 2: we would have to bring this fucking kid eight and nine. 488 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 4: But eat it. 489 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, just not now breathing. What would be your fact 490 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 3: that you add into the history books to be taught 491 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 3: cheating is not new since the beginning of time. They 492 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,360 Speaker 3: all of the all of the stuff that we're complaining 493 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 3: about now, people been doing that since the beginning of time. 494 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:38,360 Speaker 3: I'm sure there was a cave woman washing her man's 495 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 3: favorite rock and he was at some other woman's cave 496 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 3: just throwing Fred Flintstone dig all over the place. 497 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: You think Adam was cheating on eve, That's not what 498 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 1: man was. There another was there another person. I'm just 499 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 1: throwing it out. Sorry, that's Jesus stuff. But weren't they first? 500 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:58,360 Speaker 1: I mean, let's just say they were. 501 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 3: Listen the way they in history, we just like to 502 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 3: uh make turn men into gods. Like, let's be very clear, 503 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 3: Martin Luther King was cheating, Like, hell on Correca, you're 504 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 3: not bro. 505 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: It's about to be Black History Month. We don't do 506 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 1: this right now, light skin, mouse up, shutouts. 507 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 2: That's talk of the Marx so Mark talking about So 508 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 2: Martin wasn't cheating. 509 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying? 510 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:25,199 Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm saying, we're not talking about this this Closebuary. 511 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: You don't know who brought it up? No, no, no. 512 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 3: I talked about cave man and you said niggas. Now 513 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 3: that sounds let's unpack that. 514 00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: That is mess man, you know, now that's white man. 515 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: Hey demonized. We think c I A. 516 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:42,439 Speaker 2: I hate getting c a alabaster mother. That's what it's 517 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 2: giving lab is get another from the cocky smell? 518 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 1: Could I be fair like that is? 519 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 5: Sometimes I might have an opinion and I'd be like, 520 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,920 Speaker 5: I'm too ambiguous for this. I'm not Somebody needs to 521 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:56,919 Speaker 5: check y'all somebody needs to check y'all. 522 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 3: I thought, so you're saying that you can't talk about 523 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 3: how are activists. 524 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 1: And our leaders and all those like the way you 525 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:07,919 Speaker 1: said it might be the braceist, but I don't like 526 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,640 Speaker 1: the way you said it. It didn't come out right 527 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: when you said, we don't want to hear you say niggas, 528 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 1: like when they said they not like us. They're talking 529 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:22,959 Speaker 1: about y'all. You're not talking about me. No, no, no, no, no, 530 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: no no no. I feel about you because you have brothers 531 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: are on today. 532 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 3: This is why we have to which I was in 533 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 3: sake Cory. 534 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 1: This is a tan, it's a this is so un serious. 535 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. 536 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 2: I'll be seeing y'all clips and y'all really just be 537 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 2: having really great discussions adult type, keep going. 538 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: It's very loose. This is our dudes for black history. Absolutely. 539 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 3: You know Martin Luther King was a cheater. Now, what 540 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,199 Speaker 3: was the purpose of that? Tell us why you bought that? 541 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 3: Walk us through the thoughts. 542 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 1: But no, no, no, she brought it up because you were 543 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 1: like the rain. He was an act activist. He was 544 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: doing stuff for his people, but he was. 545 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,640 Speaker 2: Also also chipping out and you run it every week 546 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 2: and been around. 547 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 3: He was dropping off dick at for the church, ladies. 548 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 1: To the church. 549 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 3: Okay, right now you're turning this and to pass the 550 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 3: jamal Brian and talking. 551 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 1: About what you don't know what's next on the dock. Okay. 552 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,880 Speaker 3: Actually, now this is gonna be great because we could 553 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 3: talk about uh dating in the realm. 554 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: Of how to be a perfect side chick. 555 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 3: Now, this is a video that came out and I 556 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:31,960 Speaker 3: do want us to respond, but also for any of 557 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 3: our listeners who have chosen the lane that I used 558 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 3: to the hill I used to die on. I wanted 559 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,920 Speaker 3: to talk about if you agree with these this being 560 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 3: the perfect way to be a side check. 561 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 1: So here we go. 562 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 6: And but he's married. There's a line and invisible line. 563 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 6: We don't now cross the line and expect a relationship. 564 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 6: You can never outshine the main read the fantasy, not 565 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:58,200 Speaker 6: the reality. Come on Monday, you don't call plus a PM. 566 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 6: Don't do that. That's for the white think of it 567 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 6: like this. You not like a genie. You rub the 568 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 6: lamp and then VI Jimmy appears. You don't come out 569 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 6: onto your summons, You can't go to Yes as women, 570 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 6: we're gonna feel a type of way. 571 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 1: You're with him, it feels good. 572 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 3: He turns around, he's with his wife. If you feel sad, 573 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 3: go and read a book. 574 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. 575 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,040 Speaker 3: You think that you're supposed to do something, your day 576 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 3: is the fifteenth way come. 577 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: If you don't like the way it makes you feel, 578 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 1: leave the situation. Don't get a mind, Dan, Why do 579 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 1: you want someone else's mind? Don't forgive us. 580 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 3: Why do you want somebody else's man? Why do you 581 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 3: want someone else's man? That's a good question, So I'm 582 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 3: not gonna lie. In my twenties, it was less responsibility 583 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,399 Speaker 3: for me and how I showed up in the relationship, 584 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 3: and it was just easier to be number two because 585 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 3: I don't know, I felt like there wasn't the pressure 586 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 3: for me to show up and be perfect. I think 587 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,159 Speaker 3: that when you date, or you strive to be the 588 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 3: wife or something, sometimes you change who you are. And 589 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 3: the reality of it is, I just think you're insecure 590 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,199 Speaker 3: and don't believe you deserve a man to yourself. But 591 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 3: I feel like you could say the same for a 592 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 3: sad chick. Wait are you saying that's this side check? 593 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:14,240 Speaker 3: That's what i'maying. That's incite you. I think someone who 594 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 3: and myself included. When I was in my twenties, I 595 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 3: did feel like I wasn't girlfriend or wifeyw material. I 596 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 3: felt like my money wasn't where I needed to be 597 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 3: and I needed fuck niggas who had money and if 598 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 3: my man or someone that I liked at the time, 599 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 3: I didn't think could provide for my life, I'm gonna 600 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:30,879 Speaker 3: see here and keep dealing with the guys with money. 601 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 1: And then I also, do you think in. 602 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 5: Your twenties that you needed to have money or a 603 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 5: certain like standing for relationship? 604 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt like, I mean, and I think that 605 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 3: comes from again therapy, childhood, upbringing, like my grandmother and 606 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 3: what happened like there were women in my family who 607 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 3: couldn't leave really bad and abusive relationships because the man 608 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,679 Speaker 3: provided for everything. So for me, I always felt like 609 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 3: I wanted to come in and give something, which is 610 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 3: why I went back to college. I was like, no 611 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 3: man's gonna take me see as a bartender or working 612 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 3: in the clubs. 613 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,400 Speaker 1: And you worked in the clubs. 614 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 3: For a long time too, and I was just like, 615 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 3: let me go back to school, let me be what 616 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:06,919 Speaker 3: a wife should be. 617 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: And then what you're telling me I should have did 618 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:09,199 Speaker 1: I should have? 619 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 2: No? No? No, no no, and then maybe I wouldn't be gay. Yeah, Lesbie, 620 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:20,920 Speaker 2: can you read? Yeah, you're ignorant ass? Oh okay, got it? 621 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:22,120 Speaker 2: Got it? 622 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 1: Dragon Like, So I mean everything that she said, though 623 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: I do. 624 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,439 Speaker 3: I do believe like there's if you sign up to 625 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 3: be a side chick, you can't sit here and believe 626 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 3: your in competition are going to steal the main chick 627 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:34,360 Speaker 3: from this guy. 628 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:35,920 Speaker 1: But I think some side chicks do think that. 629 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 3: I think because they're delusional. I think side chicks are delusions, 630 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:40,120 Speaker 3: even if. 631 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 1: They don't think they could steal them. 632 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 5: I think side chicks think, oh he likes me more, 633 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 5: I'm preferred, or he's stuck with her. 634 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,680 Speaker 1: Well he'd be saying that too, he's about to leave 635 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 1: her any day now. 636 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's pillow talking complaining about the person, the main 637 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 2: chick to the side chick, and then the side chicks like, well, 638 00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 2: I'm about to move in there, and I'm about to 639 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,199 Speaker 2: slide in. And so I think all of it is 640 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,879 Speaker 2: just like delusional and toxic. You could get wrapped up it, 641 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 2: and it's a push and pull of thinking that you're 642 00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 2: going to get something that somebody else has, because there's 643 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 2: some people who just want what other people have, not 644 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 2: just men, but just think somebody else's life. 645 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 3: Well, certain things don't look appealing or attractive to you 646 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,399 Speaker 3: until you see somebody else with it and then you 647 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,360 Speaker 3: be like But also, when you're the side chick, right, 648 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 3: you're not dealing with the messiness of who this guy 649 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 3: is on a daily because you don't live with. 650 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: Him literally, are part of the part part times. 651 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 3: You know, when I say mess i'm talking about like 652 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 3: all the things that kind of might make you start 653 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 3: disliking your partner in a relationship, right, and not even disliking, 654 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 3: But you're not dealing with the reality of what bills 655 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 3: are being paid and how you're paying them. You're not 656 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 3: dealing with this person's family. You're not dealing with this 657 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 3: person on a day to day because as a side chick, 658 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 3: you're part time and you're normally getting the best version 659 00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 3: of this guy. 660 00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:58,479 Speaker 1: I know. 661 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,440 Speaker 3: The delusion that I used to have is, oh, well, 662 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 3: he's honest with me. I know everything that's going on, 663 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 3: so he has to like me more. No, I think 664 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 3: there is a blurred line to the fact that people 665 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 3: lie to the ones they actually love. 666 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 2: Honest being told he's still a liar to somebody. No, 667 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 2: he's a liar to somebody, absolutely. 668 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 1: But I think the thing. 669 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 2: That was tough for me with like someone wanting me 670 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 2: to be a side chick, because it normally came from 671 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 2: like men I used to date and he would come 672 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:28,840 Speaker 2: back around. I'm really emotional, but I felt a lot 673 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 2: of emptiness, like if I know that you have to 674 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 2: walk outside or do something like that, like I hate it. 675 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 2: But the only time the side chick was like, oh 676 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 2: I like this was when they were giving me money. 677 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that Noel was like in exchange of my time, 678 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie for I. 679 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: Don't know about that. Eight years later. 680 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 3: I do think that if you were going to be 681 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 3: a side chick, you should be getting compensated financially. I 682 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,480 Speaker 3: don't think there's any other reason to be a side chick, 683 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 3: because as a woman, you will start becoming emotionally involved with. 684 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 5: But also, let's talk here, like what is side chick right? 685 00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 5: Because you can get some dick dropped off and then 686 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 5: be on your way. I think a side chick is 687 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 5: like you actually are. 688 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 3: Saying you're in a relationship with this man I've never Yeah, no, 689 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 3: I would. I need the situations more than any Yeah, 690 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 3: I need the definition. There's time, Yes, Alexa, what's the 691 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 3: side chip? 692 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, unfortunately, you know I've dibble, dabbled in the medium 693 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 2: of sidness. Oh that's Alexa, that's Marie. 694 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 1: Also, she just talked about delivering ingredients to a bowl. 695 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 3: What's the side chips? 696 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,480 Speaker 2: But that's what you should call him now, side side chip, 697 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 2: side chip, side fries, a little appetite. 698 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 3: But everybody's Alexia activated when I screamed that a little. 699 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 1: Side Yeah, I I didn't. 700 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 2: I don't think I was actually thinking that I was 701 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,560 Speaker 2: going to be with these people because I did it 702 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 2: more than once, because you got to do it three 703 00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 2: times to figure out if. 704 00:30:59,080 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: You really want to do it. 705 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 2: You gotta be a side three three times to figure 706 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,080 Speaker 2: out if I see, if you're really about this life. 707 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 5: Eating pussy too. I remember meeting a girl. She was like, oh, 708 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 5: I like me or woman, but I don't like eating pussy. 709 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 5: I was like, have you tried it just once? I 710 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 5: was like, it was hers. 711 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: You gotta do it two more times. I'll do it 712 00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 1: two more times. Yeah, So you got to do everything 713 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:16,920 Speaker 1: three times, so you know, you're almost there. You've done 714 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 1: it like twice. 715 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,719 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, my nigga literally said to me, we've been 716 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 5: together almost two years, a year and a half. 717 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: You and this squeezy YouTube grown like you have been 718 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: telling me you have not gotten ahead. And then she'd 719 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 1: be trying to say she can't listen to her. 720 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 2: You have to get it in in your twenties. You 721 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 2: have to do anal in your twenties. You cannot do 722 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 2: it in your thirties. 723 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 3: Doing anal in nursing home. No, I feel like I 724 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 3: jumped the skip like a level because I disagree pee play. 725 00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 2: So I'm like, how do I get here? When I 726 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 2: what's pete play? 727 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 3: She'd be asking a man to piss all over, not 728 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 3: all over neck down podcast. 729 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 1: I am a good Christian? What's going on here? Marie? 730 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: A good Christian? Gay is crazy? Wait a second, so 731 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 1: a lesbian? How do you have anal? Sex? Girl? What 732 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 1: I do? You want to know? What is going in there? 733 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: What you mean what's going in there? Fingers? Toys, okay, 734 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 1: things of that sort. Okay, can you get like the 735 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 1: penetration you can handle? 736 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 2: Like you can get Oh I haven't, like I said, 737 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 2: you see, I got my good you know church dress 738 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 2: on stockings. 739 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 1: I don't need get I don't get down like that, 740 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:22,200 Speaker 1: no more. 741 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 2: But but if we could put more than the stockings 742 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 2: tell you otherwise in a little fern. 743 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: God, you unzipp You didn't have to unzip that, love. Yeah, 744 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 1: it's so I could see a Filippian tubes. 745 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,800 Speaker 2: It was hot in here. That's that's what it is. 746 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 2: It's not very circulated. I thought you was elevated. 747 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 1: Where's ac It's nothing but heat coming on hot coming 748 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: out to them tights. Yeah, I can't. They can't go 749 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 1: like a full in and out. 750 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 2: But no, he was basically trying to tell me because 751 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 2: of the time we've been together, it's time. 752 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 5: I'm like, didn't we try it? He was like, yeah, 753 00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,479 Speaker 5: last December. I'm like, so now I'm on my years up. 754 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 5: We gotta go back into the world though. 755 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 1: You gotta reup on the warranty, you know. 756 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 3: So we got poppers. Oh doesn't help for me, It 757 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 3: doesn't help for you. I have a very tight and 758 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 3: this is not me trying to flex. I wish I 759 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 3: could flex. 760 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: It's not a flex. No. 761 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 3: I think the sphincter muscles too tight because when I 762 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 3: watch it, you gotta stretch it. 763 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:20,840 Speaker 1: O are you okay? 764 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 3: I got a little but oh you're not here forty thing. Listen, 765 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 3: I got a tiny butt. I've tried twice, so I 766 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,200 Speaker 3: guess you have one more time to try. 767 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do it on the same day. But I 768 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: really do start a group chat. 769 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 2: I really do think if you do it in your twenties, 770 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,920 Speaker 2: it's easier in your thirties. But when once you get 771 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,000 Speaker 2: us like over thirty, it's something about the body. It's 772 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 2: like it's not giving the way you used to anal experts. 773 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 1: I think I am. Yeah, I tried a nineteen, so 774 00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,040 Speaker 1: I was that ninety. 775 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 2: They definitely won't blame it. 776 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: Is that while you're back in Atlanta. No, no, no, well. 777 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:08,359 Speaker 3: Well because the guys I'm dating right now are not 778 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,080 Speaker 3: in Atlanta, and I wish well, no, I'm lying. 779 00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 1: One of them is, but he just moved there. So 780 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: how you guys are you dating? So three and I 781 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:17,799 Speaker 1: like all three of them. She gotta try them all 782 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 1: three three times. I'm not I'm not going that route. 783 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:23,799 Speaker 1: But wait, what does that mean? Like I'm not gonna 784 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:24,480 Speaker 1: try all three? 785 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 2: Like you're not gonna suck all them? 786 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,839 Speaker 1: Probably not, But you got one out of three. 787 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I fucked one out of the three. But 788 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 3: the one that I really like. 789 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be fucking soon. And if I like 790 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: girls on the Google and young, well who better fuck? 791 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 4: No? 792 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I'm I'm I'm trying to talk. 793 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 1: I would love to date all three of them. I 794 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 1: would love to be with them. But you don't want 795 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,399 Speaker 1: to bang all three. No, if I'm. 796 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,360 Speaker 3: Able to be in a relationship with all three, you 797 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 3: just look like for some reason, because there's a couch 798 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 3: and there's a chair on the side, I feel like 799 00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:57,879 Speaker 3: she was on a data show. 800 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,080 Speaker 1: I would love to date all three of them. I 801 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 1: I can only choose many. Real question, how do you 802 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 1: have the time when you're very busy? 803 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 3: Two of them don't live in my city? Okay, so 804 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 3: when do you see that? So you have to that's 805 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:09,400 Speaker 3: the thing. 806 00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,400 Speaker 1: We have to We have to plan. Okay, we have 807 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,960 Speaker 1: to plan. You're so busy. You're busy, Like I know, 808 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:15,640 Speaker 1: I'm not as busy as y'all. 809 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 2: And I still feel like I couldn't imagine doing three. 810 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 1: So I'm not gonnaly. 811 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:23,920 Speaker 3: I don't I don't want someone always with me. I 812 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 3: don't like to give people space their time. 813 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 1: That sounds great. I have they're they're all three busy 814 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:31,799 Speaker 1: woman that don't want to care. I don't like someone 815 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 1: was with me. I don't want it. 816 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,319 Speaker 3: I I get that. I don't want to see you 817 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:36,719 Speaker 3: every day. I don't need to speak to you. 818 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 1: I don't need to speak to you every day. Well, 819 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 1: one of the scientists, one of the doctor and want 820 00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:46,600 Speaker 1: of science is scientists. Yehut up at Bill Not? He's white. 821 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 1: I don't really rich. No, Bill Night as white rich. 822 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 3: No, I don't know TV. When I was two, Bill Not, 823 00:35:55,640 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 3: I probably bought Microsoft stock. You know when Bill nye worth, 824 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,399 Speaker 3: it's gonna say two thousand dollars. 825 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 2: Eight million dollars. Yeah, get him on decisions, decisions. 826 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,840 Speaker 1: I don't you know. I wouldn't Bill Night for the plot. 827 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: You would suck Bill Night just for the plot. Just 828 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:18,800 Speaker 1: are y'all in therapy for real? Because it's not sounds 829 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 1: walk me through this is it? 830 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 3: Because he's a scientist, you think he knows how to 831 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:23,719 Speaker 3: scientifically put it? 832 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 1: Put it in your butt? 833 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 5: I think like, for one fucking someone you've known for 834 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 5: your whole life, right, someone you have an affinity, he 835 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:32,840 Speaker 5: hasn't known you though. 836 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:36,080 Speaker 1: You know, but me like about this person, Yeah, like 837 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 1: I'm telling like a fan. 838 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,440 Speaker 3: I was like it sounds like yeah, I feel like 839 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 3: just for the story of it, like we like him 840 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:43,240 Speaker 3: as a groupie. 841 00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 1: Plus, there's no way the sex with Bill Night would 842 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 1: be good. Bill Night is not having sex. He's reading 843 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:49,560 Speaker 1: his kindle out loud to you. 844 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 3: I don't know why that shape the oldest nigga. He's 845 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 3: wearing glasses at the tipical. 846 00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 1: Beaker. Ah, not a beaker. You headed this out of 847 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: the podcast? 848 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 3: No, why that you want to give Bill Nye simplicity? 849 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 1: Because you know what sucks. 850 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,360 Speaker 5: I have to stand on this now for years and 851 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 5: then when y'all come back in the second we go 852 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 5: on mess, y'all gonna be like this bitch want to 853 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 5: fuck Bill not? 854 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. On Patreon. 855 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 3: Uh, there's a topic that we're talking about about, Uh, 856 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 3: how Dick gives you cloud or something? Because you know, 857 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:31,839 Speaker 3: all the girls like to see here and post who 858 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,560 Speaker 3: they who was in the d MS and all that ship. 859 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 3: I do want to ask, is there anyone that y'all 860 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 3: would just because of who they are you've known them forever, 861 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 3: you might not they not They might not even be 862 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:44,520 Speaker 3: your type. You're just like, if he wanted, I would 863 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:48,359 Speaker 3: I would consider it he or she based on who 864 00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:50,919 Speaker 3: they are. Kamala, not you just girl. 865 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 2: You are unserious. You got this blazer on. I can't 866 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:55,400 Speaker 2: with you? 867 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 1: Can I swear? 868 00:37:56,120 --> 00:38:00,359 Speaker 2: He said, switch, I need to get on the I her. 869 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,160 Speaker 2: Do you not get the concept? 870 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 3: Is there is there anyone if we started with plethink 871 00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:12,400 Speaker 3: every yeah. 872 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:13,839 Speaker 1: You know what? Can I can? 873 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:18,239 Speaker 2: I be honest and now that not saying that these 874 00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 2: celebrities of people are more accessible, the more that they talk, 875 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,720 Speaker 2: the more that they put stuff out there. It makes 876 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:29,600 Speaker 2: me be like, I'm not as attracted like I like them. 877 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,879 Speaker 2: I'm an affinity for the but I'm not. I don't 878 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 2: have like a sexual connection. 879 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 1: Okay for the men. The last time you speak for 880 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 1: the rest of the episode. 881 00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:43,720 Speaker 3: Adam Sandler, Oh, you know, smell like chips and beer 882 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:44,720 Speaker 3: when you take his clothes. 883 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,360 Speaker 1: I love him now. 884 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,400 Speaker 3: He got his little beard and Jim not now the. 885 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:50,240 Speaker 1: Girl. 886 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 2: He looked like he don't even wash his feet at all. 887 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,720 Speaker 2: He's he smells like three day old axe. 888 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,560 Speaker 5: Ray, So, is there anyone that you would that's not 889 00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:58,839 Speaker 5: necessarily attractive? 890 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,320 Speaker 1: But you're like, oh, they're iconic or something. Like, you 891 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,280 Speaker 1: can't pick someone hot. That's why I said Martin. 892 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 3: Hands, although Malcolm could Malcolm Malcolm Rock didn't land on. 893 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 1: You can't be will be hot. 894 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:27,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know he would read poetry. 895 00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 1: His gunman. Yeah, okay, I. 896 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,200 Speaker 2: Not sex, but I would like to, you know, hang 897 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:39,240 Speaker 2: out just being her, have her air queen Latifa girls. 898 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,800 Speaker 1: She's married. I don't want to be I said, dead people, 899 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,880 Speaker 1: street dead people. Okay, now we're just naving white people. 900 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,760 Speaker 3: Okay, so little let's get into dating being a mess. 901 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,359 Speaker 3: So normally during the segment we get into the history 902 00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,560 Speaker 3: of sex. But I wanted to get into the history 903 00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,960 Speaker 3: of our messy dat lives. And I did want to 904 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 3: start with you, Reezi, because I want to say skeptic. 905 00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:09,319 Speaker 1: Oh yes, actually, Marie, that's I see that for you. 906 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:13,880 Speaker 1: But the tattoo, bro, That's why I didn't say yea, 907 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 1: I know he would have the whole time. 908 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 3: Lenny would have on a big ass scarf that he 909 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,360 Speaker 3: would lay down and that's what we would bang. I 910 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:26,720 Speaker 3: would love to bang on his big scarf. I would 911 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:27,719 Speaker 3: love it. 912 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 1: It might be a little achieve a girl. Wait, what 913 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:35,680 Speaker 1: was the question. 914 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 3: No, we're getting into the mess of our dating history, 915 00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:41,920 Speaker 3: and for reasony I do want to talk to you 916 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 3: because on your pod you've had quite a few dates recently. 917 00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,560 Speaker 3: But also, this is my favorite part. You said last 918 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,319 Speaker 3: year in twenty twenty four. In one year, you ran 919 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 3: into every single X you have, every X I dated 920 00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,640 Speaker 3: in the last five years, bumped into them. 921 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,400 Speaker 1: Last she bumped into them all in one every reason 922 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,359 Speaker 1: thing go one well in the last five years. So 923 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:05,840 Speaker 1: it was. 924 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,680 Speaker 3: And then the first boyfriend I ever had, I bumped 925 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 3: into him at Union Square. And when I saw him, 926 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 3: I just started laughing because I was like, this is 927 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:12,880 Speaker 3: the universe. 928 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:14,280 Speaker 1: He's getting too small. 929 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,359 Speaker 2: That's like the universe trying to say when they show 930 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:17,600 Speaker 2: you everyone you've slept with them. 931 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,960 Speaker 3: I think the universe is taking me through a like 932 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,799 Speaker 3: ghosts of Penis past, right, Like everybody that I used 933 00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 3: to be stressed about or or obsessed with or whatever. 934 00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 3: I saw them and it was like, oh, this issue 935 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,640 Speaker 3: this is I did spend a couple of the blocks, a. 936 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:36,120 Speaker 1: Couple of the time. 937 00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:38,520 Speaker 5: Out of the ones that you saw, five out of ten, 938 00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:39,919 Speaker 5: I don't know it was, you know what I'm saying, 939 00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 5: fifty percent of them were they better looking worse? 940 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 3: In one week got bumped into three. So the first 941 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:48,880 Speaker 3: one looked good and I looked layout and every day people. 942 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,760 Speaker 3: No girl, I was walking. 943 00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:55,319 Speaker 1: By, Seriously, how are you running all the movies in 944 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 1: one week? I bumped into three? That's crazy. The first 945 00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,319 Speaker 1: one looked good and I looked bad, so I had to. 946 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,719 Speaker 3: Hide ship because I was like, oh. And then the 947 00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 3: second one looked bad and I looked good, so I 948 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 3: was like, I thought that. 949 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,640 Speaker 1: Was hi, you left big. 950 00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you look your thyroid like the thyroid lord. 951 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:19,479 Speaker 1: And then the last one looked good. 952 00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,279 Speaker 3: He looked fantastic, Like I thought it looked like he 953 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:23,600 Speaker 3: had found Christ or something. 954 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. He looked very good. I mean Sidney's 955 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 1: on he looked fantastic. 956 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 3: Can I ask you if someone went through a book 957 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:35,200 Speaker 3: and got to see all of your exes, what would 958 00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:36,799 Speaker 3: it say about you? Like would they be able to 959 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:40,920 Speaker 3: point out one same trend with your exes? Or like 960 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,520 Speaker 3: what do you think it would say about you? I mean, 961 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,000 Speaker 3: I think, with the exception of like a cubble, of 962 00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,880 Speaker 3: everybody that I've dated has been very nice, Like I 963 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 3: think nice people. 964 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:50,560 Speaker 1: I don't. 965 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 3: I don't necessarily date assholes. I dated like maybe like 966 00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,160 Speaker 3: three liars. 967 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,359 Speaker 1: Only three? Yeah, three, your whole three the last year. 968 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:02,399 Speaker 1: Maybe they were great lives. 969 00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:07,440 Speaker 3: Yeah maybe, okay, maybe I dated five liars. 970 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,879 Speaker 1: We go round up? Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. 971 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:13,279 Speaker 3: You're like God's chosen one of God's favorites. I'm like, 972 00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:14,799 Speaker 3: top top fifty in the world. 973 00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,239 Speaker 1: What's your sign? I'm a libra. Maybe you know how 974 00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:18,279 Speaker 1: to choose them. 975 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:21,880 Speaker 3: I don't know if you have a discernment, like I 976 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:23,720 Speaker 3: don't feel like we all get that lucky bitch. 977 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:25,319 Speaker 1: I don't know. 978 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:26,799 Speaker 3: I feel like the end of last year, I just 979 00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:28,359 Speaker 3: was like, this is this is this this, this, this 980 00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 3: is this this, you. 981 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 1: Know, because what is what is dating now for you? 982 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:35,600 Speaker 3: Like, like, has there is there a trend now with 983 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 3: what you see how men are dating in comparison to 984 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:39,680 Speaker 3: your past or not. 985 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:41,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. 986 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,959 Speaker 3: I didn't care about dating in my twenties. I wasn't 987 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,880 Speaker 3: thinking about it at all. I would go out and 988 00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 3: just be like, ill, stop talking to us, or like 989 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,400 Speaker 3: I want to strawberry zakery, like and so does my friend, 990 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 3: like drinking stuff like that and ignoring them, and and 991 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:59,480 Speaker 3: then you know, after you turned after after you leave 992 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,280 Speaker 3: twenty nine behind, now you're kind of on a swivel, 993 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,560 Speaker 3: and I don't like being out in that way. I 994 00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,720 Speaker 3: just want to be out with my friends feeling hot, 995 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,839 Speaker 3: being sexy, and smelling good. 996 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 1: It's okay. 997 00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,440 Speaker 3: The attention doesn't go to going out to meet people anymore. 998 00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:14,800 Speaker 3: It just is to go out and have a good time. 999 00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 2: Because the pressure of meeting someone outside I think comes 1000 00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 2: from the fact that we're all meeting them online. 1001 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 1: So it's like, damn, I'm going outside. It must be 1002 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 1: time like it. 1003 00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 3: Just want to meet people out like online is canceled. 1004 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:34,640 Speaker 1: That's where all the liars are online outside What the 1005 00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,239 Speaker 1: fuck is you talking about? Day out? 1006 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,399 Speaker 3: You know that I saw someone I used to date 1007 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,520 Speaker 3: in the layout and he must have had one of 1008 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,040 Speaker 3: the moments he was like, oh my god, how you 1009 00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,759 Speaker 3: being Are you working out? No, nigga, I'm just making 1010 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:46,920 Speaker 3: more money. 1011 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:51,440 Speaker 2: Like I'm telling you, when someone is from the past 1012 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,640 Speaker 2: and they see you, I can already tell how your 1013 00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,440 Speaker 2: dating life is going from how you pressed on me. 1014 00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,479 Speaker 3: You know, it might not even be how their dating 1015 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,520 Speaker 3: life is going. It's it's just how you look true 1016 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:06,080 Speaker 3: and how you move in right. Like maybe old you 1017 00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:08,160 Speaker 3: was a little bit more pressed, a little bit more thirsty, 1018 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:10,879 Speaker 3: and now you're making money and you you know, you're 1019 00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 3: at a different place in your life, and people see 1020 00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,040 Speaker 3: that and they're like drawn to. 1021 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,319 Speaker 1: The thirstiness is real, though I will say that I 1022 00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 1: think that if you think. 1023 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,960 Speaker 2: That he doesn't have a fence still looking at your stuff, 1024 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,920 Speaker 2: he is, so he's already seen the progression and might not. 1025 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,160 Speaker 5: But I do think the thirstiness in the twenties for me, 1026 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,080 Speaker 5: you don't, you know, if you're looking to date someone, 1027 00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,279 Speaker 5: I think you don't have a lot of kuth, Like 1028 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 5: you're kind of just being like, yeah, my intentions that, 1029 00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:41,319 Speaker 5: and it's just sometimes you can lead with that in 1030 00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 5: a different way. And I think I didn't know how 1031 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 5: to communicate that properly, Like I was going on dates 1032 00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 5: when niggas that were fucking drug dealers, thinking they'd wipe 1033 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,040 Speaker 5: me up or they'd be a great partner. 1034 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:54,520 Speaker 2: Like you're just not really choosing right. And I think 1035 00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:58,120 Speaker 2: the thirstiness definitely came from loneliness. Once you're a little 1036 00:45:58,120 --> 00:45:59,400 Speaker 2: bit older, you start building. 1037 00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,919 Speaker 5: Community and happiness in other ways, whereas when you're younger, 1038 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,400 Speaker 5: you're like, oh, I have to get married, get a 1039 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 5: good job, do this, So I got to find a 1040 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 5: partner that's next and that's the worst part of day, 1041 00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:09,799 Speaker 5: going out like you are right now, just to have 1042 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:11,960 Speaker 5: a good time, Like I really believe that's what brings 1043 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:13,320 Speaker 5: the happiness. 1044 00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:17,400 Speaker 3: What is the difference between dating men and women? See women, 1045 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 3: they're women harder to date. Do you feel or I 1046 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,600 Speaker 3: think everybody is crazy. It doesn't matter what gender or 1047 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,000 Speaker 3: sexuality you are. But I do think that women are 1048 00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 3: more direct. They know what they want and they're not 1049 00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 3: afraid to say their feelings. And most women are like yeah, 1050 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 3: that's like I'm not. 1051 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:38,879 Speaker 2: Turned off by a woman being honest because it's like, okay, good, 1052 00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,319 Speaker 2: I don't have to like play these games or oh 1053 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 2: I can't text you back, I gotta wait and da 1054 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:47,960 Speaker 2: da da da, So that it is like relaxing to 1055 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 2: feel like, oh, I know that person likes me. I 1056 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 2: don't have to de cipher or look at hilogryphics to 1057 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 2: see if they are really didn't. 1058 00:46:54,800 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 1: Say high low graphics hieroglyphics. Oh that is man? Wait, 1059 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,120 Speaker 1: do you embarrassed for yourself? 1060 00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 2: You let the people in the cop was like, Mandy, 1061 00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:11,279 Speaker 2: you know I don't high looglyphics, Yo, Mandy, just like 1062 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:17,480 Speaker 2: a white woman, you're like her. Ye, never put that 1063 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 2: in the history books. Bitch, it's always gonna be a 1064 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,840 Speaker 2: big woman trying to correct a black, strong gay woman 1065 00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 2: on camera with that. 1066 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 1: Put that in the books. I shared, It's all I've 1067 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:29,400 Speaker 1: said enough for. 1068 00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 4: You. 1069 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 1: Let me tell you. 1070 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 3: Let me tell you how Cindy trying to play reezy 1071 00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 3: because again trying to play reason. You try to act 1072 00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,680 Speaker 3: like she'd be late, and I was like, Ree's never 1073 00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 3: late for me. 1074 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:48,759 Speaker 1: Hey, you know you're like black, that's what you're with 1075 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,800 Speaker 1: a capitol king. Do you know that you are crying? 1076 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:58,040 Speaker 1: You are waiting at all? Had enough to wait? 1077 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:05,760 Speaker 2: I had to stick up for a police like a sister, Mandy, 1078 00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:07,280 Speaker 2: who are you turning into? 1079 00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:08,000 Speaker 1: Over there. 1080 00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:12,239 Speaker 4: Is? 1081 00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:16,759 Speaker 1: It is a color purple keeping until you do right 1082 00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 1: by me, don't. I do want to I do want 1083 00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: to end the show by not the song. Oh no, 1084 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,719 Speaker 1: we know you want to end it out. No, no, no, no, 1085 00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 1: I am having a good time. I mean no random. 1086 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:30,239 Speaker 1: I do want us to. 1087 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,879 Speaker 3: Talk about what we have intentionally changed in the way 1088 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:37,000 Speaker 3: we pursue partners and dating and sex in our thirties 1089 00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 3: compared to our twenties. Like, I know that you said 1090 00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,760 Speaker 3: clearly you're not out looking exactly. But is there anything 1091 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 3: intentionally that you're doing different. 1092 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,000 Speaker 2: I'm trying to work on me. I just I just 1093 00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 2: want to be good for me. I don't care about 1094 00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:51,839 Speaker 2: the people per se anymore. I just want to show 1095 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:53,640 Speaker 2: up for me. I want to be good to me. 1096 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:57,279 Speaker 2: I want to do things in a way that it's 1097 00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,520 Speaker 2: not chaotic. Our podcast is messed, but I don't want 1098 00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:01,840 Speaker 2: to be a mess anymore. 1099 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 1: So I want an hour I don't I don't want 1100 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:05,680 Speaker 1: to be a mess anymore. 1101 00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. I starting today, started starting today, starting 1102 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 2: right fucking now because of you, man, d okay, wait 1103 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:13,239 Speaker 2: till I come back. 1104 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have high rogue glyphics. 1105 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:21,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say hi, Hi, drogue Griffin. To be honest, 1106 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,680 Speaker 2: high glow Olympics is a great makeup line, man. 1107 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:33,320 Speaker 1: Hydroglyphics, Hi glows. Nobody wants you to blow high glow. Listen, 1108 00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:38,720 Speaker 1: what about you in twenty twenty five, what you're doing different? 1109 00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:39,759 Speaker 1: You're gonna get a boot this year? 1110 00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,239 Speaker 3: Maybe I think twenty five is gonna be good. I 1111 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:44,839 Speaker 3: did see a psychic last year for the first time 1112 00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:46,959 Speaker 3: in my life. Oh and she says she sees loving 1113 00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:47,759 Speaker 3: my future. 1114 00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:49,759 Speaker 1: And the window, or did you get like a good one? 1115 00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:51,400 Speaker 3: I went up, I went up the stairs. I had 1116 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 3: to ring a bell, actually know, I had to hit 1117 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 3: the little you know this thing, you know, a little door, 1118 00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 3: you know, because that's how you summon a wizard. 1119 00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:01,600 Speaker 1: You got. But you say that's where they live, most 1120 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:02,040 Speaker 1: of them live. 1121 00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,440 Speaker 3: There was it was it, but you believe in has 1122 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,960 Speaker 3: anything else. I'm never going to see a psychic. Before 1123 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:08,480 Speaker 3: my friend was like, why would you go see a 1124 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 3: white psychic? That's why I would ancest to talk to 1125 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,600 Speaker 3: a white psychic. The only white psychics I think are real? 1126 00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:16,880 Speaker 3: Are you telling gypsy? Kind of like you're not supposed 1127 00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,600 Speaker 3: to say that? That's how Yeah, you can't call somatic. 1128 00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:20,760 Speaker 1: You're not allowed to say gypsy. 1129 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,640 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, she said, I am saying homeless 1130 00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 2: and gypsy. 1131 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:27,880 Speaker 1: No, no, no, you can't call someone a gypsy. But gypsy 1132 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:28,640 Speaker 1: is a word. 1133 00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 2: Yes, there are people, and so is nigger. Just because 1134 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:37,520 Speaker 2: it's a word doesn't mean you can't g word. 1135 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,239 Speaker 1: It is not. No they say that word like, we 1136 00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:43,399 Speaker 1: can't even say no more you just how wait, can 1137 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,919 Speaker 1: y'all ai me out of this part? Can I just say? Wait? 1138 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:49,560 Speaker 2: You know I'm being serious about gypsy. It's a culture. 1139 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 2: You can't call someone a gypsy by looking at him 1140 00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 2: or about talking like you can say the world. I 1141 00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 2: think you need to go back into the history books. 1142 00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,319 Speaker 2: Gypsy water my pay favorite part. You might to start 1143 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:01,080 Speaker 2: bleaking myself. 1144 00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:06,560 Speaker 1: Aren't they hipsty hips we have? 1145 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,319 Speaker 2: It's probably gonna have the most engagement because people are 1146 00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:12,319 Speaker 2: gonna be dragging. 1147 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:14,759 Speaker 3: No, no question of the stupid question. Okay, now come on, 1148 00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:18,280 Speaker 3: we have to do something Asian to make it right. No, no, no, 1149 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:23,760 Speaker 3: not no to talk about you okayre Asian? 1150 00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:24,000 Speaker 4: No? 1151 00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:33,280 Speaker 1: Oh Latino? Are you a gypsy? Are you a madge? No? 1152 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 1: Are you a house? Are you? I love a good 1153 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 1: offensive episode. It's not even really offensive. Gypsy. Don't listen 1154 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 1: to this podcast I heard. 1155 00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,359 Speaker 2: It's gonna be like we put both the ladies, both 1156 00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:48,680 Speaker 2: podcasts on the network together. 1157 00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:51,759 Speaker 1: Yeah. What was the question? 1158 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,680 Speaker 3: Like, how you're being intentional with dating this year? Oh, 1159 00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:01,960 Speaker 3: I'm stepping outside of my house. You can't meet nobody 1160 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,399 Speaker 3: sitting in I mean Uber eats. 1161 00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:05,520 Speaker 1: No, I don't do Uber eats. 1162 00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:09,000 Speaker 3: I I go pick up my takeout, not if I'm 1163 00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,800 Speaker 3: not gonna cook. I'm traveling the world. I feel like 1164 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:15,759 Speaker 3: I meet my person in the Delta lounge or you know, 1165 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 3: some random place. 1166 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:20,560 Speaker 2: Like that Delta one at this point, lounges for the streets. 1167 00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 3: Now, everybody up in the well, let's let's make a 1168 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 3: quick disclaimer. The lamp sucks. Stop trying to go to 1169 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,479 Speaker 3: the lounge. Don't go, just be by together. 1170 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:33,680 Speaker 1: Canceled. Yeah, bro, I hate the lines in there. Yes, 1171 00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,880 Speaker 1: y'all shouldn't go. It's canceled. 1172 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,600 Speaker 2: They need to put congestion prices for the for the bro. 1173 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:40,000 Speaker 1: They know. 1174 00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,680 Speaker 3: They tried to. That's why they did the sky miles. 1175 00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,400 Speaker 3: They tried to get your motherfuckers out of there. 1176 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:46,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's limits. 1177 00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:51,840 Speaker 3: No, no, no, Well, let's playing TikTok because TikTok is white. 1178 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,640 Speaker 1: Bitch. They served me steak and sushi. Bitch. Oh yeah, 1179 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,799 Speaker 1: they get massages and facials in it. Get it one? 1180 00:52:57,880 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 1: Do you have a plus one? Can you get a 1181 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:07,520 Speaker 1: because I'm going over there now. You don't want to 1182 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:12,480 Speaker 1: ward of a little stocking. Tell me where to find you? Wait? 1183 00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:13,000 Speaker 1: Are we done? 1184 00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:16,799 Speaker 2: From? 1185 00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 1: Where? Can our listeners check you out? Come? 1186 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:25,040 Speaker 3: Find us also on iHeart mess That's where you can 1187 00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:28,040 Speaker 3: find us. Our podcast is called that you can find 1188 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 3: Me on Instagram it's reezy our e e z y 1189 00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:33,840 Speaker 3: And I just want to tell y'all what's also amazing 1190 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,080 Speaker 3: about mess is that you have to Luckily it just 1191 00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 3: started to start from the beginning because you get to 1192 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,920 Speaker 3: listen to Sydney trying to find an apartment, and then 1193 00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,239 Speaker 3: you listen to a man who bought her oxtails, who 1194 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,920 Speaker 3: she thought was going to be her man and isn't 1195 00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:52,960 Speaker 3: feel like it's not by seemed like he bought her oxtail, 1196 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:56,440 Speaker 3: bitch that it's inflation is expensive, like that was good and. 1197 00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:57,360 Speaker 1: I'll try to get a little one. 1198 00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:06,799 Speaker 4: He got me a large Wow, but being a man 1199 00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 4: now worth being a side check for. 1200 00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:15,319 Speaker 3: Side see, I'm not doing it? Said where can they 1201 00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:16,959 Speaker 3: catch you and follow you? 1202 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:20,200 Speaker 2: And all the things also on mess okay on the 1203 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:24,279 Speaker 2: on instagram's ooh mess, and my Instagram is just said, 1204 00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:27,200 Speaker 2: b w how many o's two with an H. 1205 00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,120 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm trying to get to three. We 1206 00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,000 Speaker 1: should have like we're gonna tag it. 1207 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,359 Speaker 3: I talk for y'all every day through the Instagram because 1208 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:34,799 Speaker 3: we just be sitting memes. 1209 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,240 Speaker 1: And ship and pedicure. 1210 00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 3: I told them, oh no, and and you know what, 1211 00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:40,319 Speaker 3: real quick p s A before we get out of here. 1212 00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,879 Speaker 3: Stop turning everything into a martinis. We want no more 1213 00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:46,480 Speaker 3: seafood boiled martini except. 1214 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,000 Speaker 1: For more collar green martini. 1215 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:52,080 Speaker 3: Three martinis. Stop it with the martinis. Were fed up. 1216 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,839 Speaker 1: You know who you are. It's you know who you are. 1217 00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,440 Speaker 1: You know that must be where you live. You know 1218 00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:57,920 Speaker 1: who you are. 1219 00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:02,319 Speaker 3: You know. If you want to hear more horrible decisions, 1220 00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:04,640 Speaker 3: that's right, Horrible Decisions hasn't gone anywhere. 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