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Speaker 1: All right, This is from d aunt Steve Harvey FM.

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Speaker 1: He says, I've banned my daughter from using our car,

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Speaker 1: and my wife disagrees, accusing me of quote overreacting. She's seventeen,

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Speaker 1: our daughter is and has started smoking. It's a disgusting habit,

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Speaker 1: and I've told her so. I also realized that kids

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Speaker 1: are going to do what they do, and I can't

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Speaker 1: do much when it's outside of our home and it's happening.

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Speaker 1: Over the weekend, I stopped to get gas and I

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Speaker 1: saw her filling up my wife's car and she was

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Speaker 1: smoking while she was doing it.

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Speaker 2: This was a real deal breaker for me.

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Speaker 1: She knows how I feel about the smoking, but doing

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Speaker 1: it while filling up at a gas station is just

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Speaker 1: playing stupid and irresponsible.

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Speaker 2: She can do whatever when she owns her own car,

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Speaker 2: but not with ours. Am I really that out of line? No,

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Speaker 2: not at all.

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Speaker 3: This is ignorant, stupid, and you, as a parent, I

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Speaker 3: totally get it.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Isn't it amazing when your key is get to that

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Speaker 3: certain age and you you have no more that that

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Speaker 3: over that big control over them. They're kind of more

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Speaker 3: of an adult now, and then you just look at

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Speaker 3: them and be like, Okay, was this my fault?

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Speaker 2: Did I do this?

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Speaker 3: You start backtrack and trying to figure out what you

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Speaker 3: did wrong. You were like, no, I didn't do this.

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Speaker 3: You just stupid all by yourself. I didn't do none

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Speaker 3: of that part. I'm sorry. I didn't raise this on you.

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Speaker 3: The choices, the choices, man, you just sit back and

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Speaker 3: be like, okay, what made you do this?

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Speaker 1: And the mom is on the daughter's side, that's what

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Speaker 1: I don't want. Yes, yes, yes, the mom is mad

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Speaker 1: at the dad for not letting the daughter drive his

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Speaker 1: car because she smokes.

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Speaker 4: Right, so they have to let the same team when

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Speaker 4: it comes to parenting and.

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Speaker 2: Front.

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Speaker 3: Yes, first of all, smoking is bad altogether, but can

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Speaker 3: I tell you as a man, it's even a bigger

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Speaker 3: it's even a bigger turn off when it's a woman.

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Speaker 3: Smoking just looks bad.

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Speaker 2: On the one it just looks bad. There you go

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Speaker 2: with that. I'm just does it just looks bad?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Carla?

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Speaker 4: What these young kids too, they're vaping now, They're they're

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Speaker 4: doing a lot. And so I think the dad what

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Speaker 4: he's trying to say is, you know, this is not

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Speaker 4: a healthy habit.

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Speaker 2: It's to toxic for your body.

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Speaker 4: All of these things, and so the mom just feels like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: she's probably smoking or doing whatever, but it was too

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Speaker 4: harsh for you to say that she can't drive the car. So,

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Speaker 4: like I said, my issue is that whatever the parents

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Speaker 4: agree on as disciplined and trying to get her this bad,

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Speaker 4: toxic habit that she's forming at a very young age,

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Speaker 4: they got to be together.

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Speaker 2: But right, okay, but that's that's the whole point. They're

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Speaker 2: not together. They're not together. And she's not just driving

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Speaker 2: his car.

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Speaker 1: She's smoking in his car.

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Speaker 2: You're car, you're not.

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Speaker 1: You're not getting in her and she's only seventeen, she's

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Speaker 1: not even grown yet.

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Speaker 3: Once again, though, once again, we not. We're not y'all, y'all,

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Speaker 3: I can't say it though I can't see it.

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Speaker 2: No, we need got they what we're a cigarette at

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Speaker 2: a gas station? You need your hands woo and you

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Speaker 2: get gas. That's dumb. That's just dumb. It really Carriage

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Speaker 2: start writing us and asking this. Am I that out

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Speaker 2: of line?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 2: What right?

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Speaker 3: You can you can?

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Speaker 2: You know you can fix this.

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Speaker 3: It's your daughter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's living under your roof. She's seventeen and smoking.

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Speaker 1: No together, none of it.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna beat that cigarette out your ass. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: beat that cigaret. I'm sorry, y'all, y'all, I'm sorry. I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna spank that cigarette out your hand every time I

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Speaker 3: see it, every time I see your hand, Gonna get

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Speaker 3: tied of this belt here, I'm finish.

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Speaker 2: What what?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in this whole thing. I'm really mad at the mom.

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Speaker 1: I really am Yeah, I'm really mad at the mom.

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Speaker 1: You need so, this is your daughter, seventeen smoking a

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Speaker 1: cigarette at a gas station.

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Speaker 3: At that gas.

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Speaker 2: Give me the pump number. What pump number was?

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Speaker 3: Y'all?

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Speaker 2: Not a good look. This is we're We're gonna show

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Speaker 2: at another four we're going bad parenting. Sorry, but bad parenting.

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Speaker 3: They got to get together.

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Speaker 1: We always have to present a united front to your kids.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, guys.

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Speaker 1: Coming up, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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