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Speaker 1: Stress, was part of the reason we were slowly self imploding.

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Speaker 1: That I knew simply figuring out the logistics of any

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Speaker 1: And that was before I tore open the quarterly statement

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Speaker 1: I wasn't always a peach to live with, and in

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Speaker 2: There was a bigger.

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Speaker 1: Issue, though most days I had to sense that while

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Speaker 1: I was frantically dog paddling to keep our family afloat,

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Speaker 1: Signja was selling by our short term agreement, had morphed

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Speaker 2: I was again preschool Signjay.

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Speaker 1: Had applied for a few jobs in local publications and

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Speaker 1: hadn't mind it, though, because after years of dabbling he

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Speaker 1: had decided to pursue a freelance writing career in earnest.

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Speaker 1: That was nearly three years earlier, and while he had

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Speaker 1: just a handful of byline stories, things were looking up

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Speaker 1: he got an increasingly engrossed in his writing, my husband

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Speaker 1: had become markedly less involved in our household. I had

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Speaker 1: waited so long for him to find something to replace

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Speaker 1: what would have been his medical career that I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to dissuade him from sticking to his official career plan,

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Speaker 1: even if I wished I too could stay.

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Speaker 2: At home to write all day. Hey, welcome to the

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Speaker 2: Blackoutist podcast.

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Speaker 1: Your host Rod and here, and we're alive on a Sunday,

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Speaker 1: actually doing feedback on a Sunday, Yes, sir, oh, because

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Speaker 1: we're about to take this week off from the regular feed. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Now that doesn't mean I mean there's still some premium

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Speaker 3: And we got like three games this week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we got a lot of Hornets games this week.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, listen, gush. You understand it's Christmas time,

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Speaker 1: y'all taking holidays at child job too, y'all taking days off?

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Speaker 1: Plus do you really need our opinion on everything?

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Speaker 1: Working hard behind the scenes, diligently, so there's still stuff

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Speaker 1: Of course it's feedback, so we're gonna get it to

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Speaker 1: all your feedback in a second.

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Speaker 2: The quote that.

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Speaker 1: I got today was from the book I'm Fine and

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Speaker 1: Neither Are You, which is a book, well, it's a

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Speaker 2: Camille Pagan, I guess her name.

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Speaker 1: She's a best selling author of Life and Other Near

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Speaker 1: Death Experiences. But it's a book about like a married

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Speaker 1: couple and this woman who's just like really unhappy with

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Speaker 1: how happy, how well they're coping when people aren't, and

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Speaker 1: she had to examine her life and be like, am

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Speaker 1: I like my friend like on drugs? But clearly things

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Speaker 1: behind the scenes weren't nearly as perfect as the way

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Speaker 1: her life was set up to look. And why didn't

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Speaker 1: she want other people to know that? Why didn't she

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Speaker 2: And a resource to her.

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Speaker 1: And the thing she says and talks about her marriage

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Speaker 1: I always found kind of interesting because it's one of

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Speaker 1: those books where the stakes are lower than most books,

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Speaker 1: so you never really feel like no one's gonna die.

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Speaker 1: There's no murder mystery, there's no abuse or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: But these are real problems people have every day in marriages,

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Speaker 1: and lack of communication, lack a commitment, lack of understanding,

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Speaker 1: who was supposed to go to medical school, but you

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Speaker 1: and was like, I want to be a writer. She

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Speaker 3: When it comes to marriage, just particularly I'm talking about

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Speaker 3: women's lives. And when people go when a lot of

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Speaker 3: it's literally like another child for another for women because

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Speaker 3: But you're an adult man, you know, and it's one

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Speaker 3: funny is how if the rose would have been reversed,

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Speaker 3: you know, but since it's him, that's quote unquote woman's.

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Speaker 1: Worth, and if the roles were reverse, she would have

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Speaker 3: Correct.

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Speaker 1: A lot of the stuff in their relationship was really

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Speaker 1: And what's funny is when each relationship is different, correct,

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Speaker 1: And I think even in a relationship it can extend

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Speaker 1: of nice. Even in this space where I'm at home,

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Speaker 1: I should be comfortable. I'm not saying you need to

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Speaker 1: There should be enough comfort and love here for me

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Speaker 1: to be honest and to say, hey, I love you

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Speaker 1: as my husband. I'm glad you're here. You're here all

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Speaker 2: This by myself and I don't.

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have to worry so much about your ego

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Speaker 2: And uh, you know.

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Speaker 1: In the book is kind of a best case scenario

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Speaker 1: because son Jay turns out to be a pretty like

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Speaker 1: woke dude, and he had his own insecurities about the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Too, you know, about his about his role.

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Speaker 1: Because he felt inadequate and he felt like a loser,

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Speaker 1: you know. And it was that silence in the room

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting enough done, I don't have a job.

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Speaker 1: This isn't working out the way I thought it was.

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Speaker 1: And it took her bringing that up for them to

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Speaker 1: And because we keep looking at these white patriarchal goals

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Speaker 1: Like these are things that I'm supposed to stand up

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Speaker 3: No. And also I think you hit on it. For

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Speaker 3: you know, in most cases, most women can advocate for

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Speaker 2: Possibly, I don't know, always doesn't know.

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Speaker 1: They won't even apply for a job a little above

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Speaker 2: Like women will cut themselves off there.

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Speaker 3: I'm guilty of that, Like I like most of it.

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Speaker 3: they're gonna scrutinize it. They're gonna look, they're gonna verify

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Speaker 3: So that's why I'm like, I don't lie about shit,

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Speaker 2: And certain shit.

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Speaker 3: They have to know everything. If they don't, they get scrutinized,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go learn about it and fuck it up.

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Speaker 3: But for a woman, you know, anything that she does

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Speaker 3: you know, all of a sudden, it's something she quote

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Speaker 3: of it to just tap out of like fucking why

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Speaker 1: Well, we also support men who fail in a way

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Speaker 2: When a woman fails, it's.

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Speaker 1: Like you you're not a good woman anymore, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, there's the sympathy and shit, isn't there,

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Speaker 1: Like look at look at a woman who does anything

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Speaker 1: Come on, Like it's completely different the way that like

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Speaker 2: Like it's like, but we wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know any woman I don't even know, like

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Speaker 1: Drea is still catching hell, you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because that boils down to the first time something happened.

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Speaker 3: I know people, and I've done this before too, and

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Speaker 3: I'm starting to change my mind. First thing, you goes

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Speaker 1: Hand side, hit the donate button. A special shout out

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Speaker 1: to all the people that are now premium yearly premium

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Speaker 1: members because we had our Black Friday, our colored Fried.

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Speaker 3: I see some of y'all clicked and was like, oh.

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Speaker 2: Our Ados Friday sale where you.

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Speaker 3: Get a negative Friday. Heaven you want to say it.

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Speaker 2: You get a year of Black Friday.

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Speaker 1: You get a year premium for one hundred dollars, and

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Speaker 1: we had some people sign up for that. Some people

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Speaker 1: that were month to month changed to a year. Some

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Speaker 1: people will say, hey, for the first time ever, I'm

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Speaker 1: about to get me a year.

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Speaker 2: So thank you for those who were quick on that.

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Speaker 1: For those that are behind on episodes and didn't look

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Speaker 1: for I'm sorry you missed out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, be on the lookout for other specials.

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe there's another day coming up soon where we'll

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Speaker 1: run that special for another twenty four hours.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, so.

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Speaker 1: Y'all check the feed, y'all check the social media all

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Speaker 1: that stuff. There's also Black Friday sales on our gear.

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Speaker 1: At the Tea Public store, I saw people buying merch

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Speaker 1: like shout out to you gonna have some fun Christmas

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Speaker 1: presents under the tree. Maybe you just want somebody in

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Speaker 1: your household that does love the blackout tips to like

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Speaker 1: have their own like shirt or mug or notebook or

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Speaker 1: some small token of your appreciation versus and slogans on it.

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Speaker 1: Check it out, you know it's right there tepublic dot com.

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Speaker 2: What else happened?

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Speaker 1: Also we put I put our movie review spoil movie review.

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Speaker 1: I went and saw Queen and Slim and I did

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Speaker 1: one review by myself.

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Speaker 2: It's a solo review. It's on our feed.

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Speaker 1: Now for the spoil movie review, like the feed that's

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Speaker 1: out there for everyone because it was a review I

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Speaker 1: did last month, two days ago. And then I have

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Speaker 1: an one that's behind the paywall and that's with me

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Speaker 1: and BOSSI that we just reviewed Queen and Slim as well.

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Speaker 2: Gave our thoughts on it.

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Speaker 1: It was a nice, long, in depth review, so hopefully

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Speaker 1: people will check that out.

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Speaker 2: There's been a lot of controversy.

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Speaker 1: About that movie online, and the one thing I'll give

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Speaker 1: it is, unlike the Harriet controversy, a lot of it

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Speaker 1: is from people who did see it, So I mean,

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Speaker 1: what the fucking I say?

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Speaker 2: I can't make you like a movie. I said that

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Speaker 2: with Harry too.

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Speaker 1: If you saw Harry that didn't like it, I understand

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Speaker 1: that too, My man Chris Sawden didn't like it.

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Speaker 2: I just thought it was whacked that people was.

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Speaker 1: You know, lying on the movie and saying shit, that

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Speaker 1: didn't have it in the movie and being like, don't

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Speaker 1: go see it. I haven't seen a petition to stop

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Speaker 1: people from seeing Queen the Slim. So, although you know,

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Speaker 1: these niggas is mad and complaining about Lena, So.

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Speaker 2: It's what they do. It's what they do.

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Speaker 1: Oh, all right, let's see what else was I gonna say. Oh,

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Speaker 1: and of course we're taking holiday cards, So email us

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Speaker 1: the Blackoutips at gmail dot com. If you want to

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Speaker 1: get a holiday card from us, email us your address, yes,

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Speaker 1: and we'll send one. And our address will be in

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Speaker 1: the show notes for this episode, as well as our

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Speaker 1: link to our Amazon wish list and all that stuff.

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Speaker 2: So if you want to send us a card, if

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Speaker 2: you want to send us.

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Speaker 1: A gift, if you want to just go on our

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Speaker 1: Amazon wishless to pick something, those things are available to you. Uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, and now I can get like Kindle books

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Speaker 1: on there and stuff. So I'm super excited about the

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Speaker 1: wish list. We'll see if it, uh, you know, if

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Speaker 1: it actually comes through this year.

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Speaker 2: What else?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm missing something and I don't know

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Speaker 1: what it is. I'll probably hit everything.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Close enough, All right, close enough, All right, let's get

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Speaker 1: into what I think.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like I'm must have hit everything.

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Speaker 1: I'm probably just being paranoid. This too much is tomorrow

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Speaker 1: tomorrow morning, me and Bossie.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know. That's about it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think that's it. Yeah, you talked about the sale.

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Speaker 2: That's all right, cold, cold, cold.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into, uh, the people that did take the

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Speaker 1: time to like go on our website and give us

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Speaker 1: money to donate to this whatever this is to be, Like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I will guys to just have some money to exist

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Speaker 1: and do what you do and continue to bring me

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Speaker 1: the heat, you know, premium person. May I you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe I just fucking love y'all and I just want

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Speaker 1: y'all to have all the money and get y'all black

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Speaker 1: capitalism all.

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Speaker 2: And to that, of course, we always.

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Speaker 1: Say thank you and we give people a shout out

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Speaker 1: for taking the time out to do that, and then

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Speaker 1: of course, Spotify says, I'm a pause real quick, and.

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Speaker 2: Just think about this.

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Speaker 3: The colia stopped for a while.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I hit an extra button off, scared

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Speaker 1: to hit the button again because they stop.

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Speaker 3: Did they sit down?

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Speaker 1: Oh see, That's why I was scared to hit the

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Speaker 1: just wasn't anyone.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we've seen Jay from Queen and j oh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We went to dinner with Jay uh uh two nights

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Speaker 1: ago and it was a great had a good time

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Speaker 1: with her talking podcasting. Yeah yeah, you're not that short,

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Speaker 1: as she said, but yeah, we had a great time

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Speaker 1: talking podcasting and life and all kinds of stuff. So

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Speaker 1: it was fun y'all to take a picture and then

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Speaker 1: we put it on all the social media's and everybody

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Speaker 1: was all like, oh my.

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Speaker 2: God, my fas together. At the same time, I.

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Speaker 1: Was like, this is dope, you know. Shout out to

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Speaker 1: y'all in that black love all right. Now, Today's a

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Speaker 1: new day, new day, new past.

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Speaker 2: Jason F recurring donator, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: Lenika M. We also would like to thank you because

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Speaker 1: you didn't have to, but you came through Anika and

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Speaker 1: then my phone says, Hey, you know what, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: need to load this next one up at while. All right, Tyrone,

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Speaker 1: M thank you, Tyrone. You better call him, you better

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Speaker 1: want you to understand, Tyrone. All right, So this is

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Speaker 1: Terry W thank you so much to Terry for hooking

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Speaker 1: us up with the recurring.

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Speaker 2: Donation and.

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Speaker 1: Why it's like the iPhone gets a month old and

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Speaker 1: just like fuck fuck all the stuff I used to

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Speaker 1: do easily.

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Speaker 2: All right, this is off to an auspicious start. Oh

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Speaker 2: Lord Jesus, help Kirk Franklin, what is happening?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but smile.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to smile, but I'm very upset by my

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Speaker 2: phone being like fuck it.

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Speaker 3: They singing it. It's when you look down.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to look up, but I kind of looked

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Speaker 1: out of my phone to see what the name is.

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Speaker 2: All right, well that's canceled, all right. Guys will get

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Speaker 2: shout outs.

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Speaker 1: Like like it's all right, okay, Eric m Attitude check

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Speaker 1: Bronco Prime.

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Speaker 2: Yes, all right, And then in five minutes and the

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Speaker 2: next one comes.

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Speaker 3: Up, we'll go to that embar embarrassing us in front

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Speaker 3: of company.

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Speaker 1: See mm hmmm, let's talk about our reviews while the

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Speaker 1: next email takes an hour to load.

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Speaker 2: Waste. Be's by Surra and we'll get back to you

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Speaker 2: in another time.

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Speaker 1: Oh and also I meant to mention, don't forget y'all

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Speaker 1: December fifth. This is Janelle James Comedy Festival. Yes, in Brooklyn,

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Speaker 1: New York. I know a lot of y'all went last year.

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Speaker 1: She gave us like a shout out. She mentioned us

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Speaker 1: on social media. If you go out there, you heard

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Speaker 1: of it from us, Like let her know.

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Speaker 2: She was supposed to be on the show.

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Speaker 1: Today, but she she had scheduled conflicts she couldn't make it.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, check out Janelle James. And uh like she

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Speaker 1: keeps adding people this comedy festival every year and big

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Speaker 1: names come through all the time.

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Speaker 3: Here.

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Speaker 2: Oh so oh what all shout out to her? Janelle? Wait?

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Speaker 1: How is Janelle here? What is going on here? I

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Speaker 1: think she's on a train right now. But yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: shout out to her, because like I.

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Speaker 3: Said, and I would go, but we too far, like y'all, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: i'd be jealous of y'all. I'm not gonna be lying.

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Speaker 3: They be having ship damn too far.

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Speaker 2: That's our people.

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Speaker 1: So yo, go out there, show up, show out, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and represent like in a good way.

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Speaker 3: Y'all.

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Speaker 2: Don't go out there and heck on no comedians or

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Speaker 2: be yelling. They don't need your help. They don't need

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Speaker 1: Clap weare inappropriate, you know what I'm saying. Appropriate, You

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Speaker 1: I'm heard about you on the black out tips man.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you all to check the time out to

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Speaker 2: do that. Yeah, so make sure you guys do that.

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Speaker 1: All right, Uh back to this, back to these five

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Speaker 2: Out to you, and then we'll get to the next

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Speaker 1: Doostreet j All right, cool, Now it's going along one

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Speaker 1: every two minutes. All right, let's talk about y'alls five

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Speaker 1: star reviews. We got a couple says the last time

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Speaker 1: we did a feedback show, we got one from Rabizi's

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Speaker 1: Been rocking with 'all for a little over four years.

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Speaker 1: I got my five in a while ago. But I've

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Speaker 1: been meeting the debo my wife's phone for a minute now,

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Speaker 1: and I finally got it.

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Speaker 2: Come along.

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Speaker 1: She loved y'all too, so it works out great. She's

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Speaker 1: my sexy best friend. Shout out to me, Vita, Rebecca,

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Speaker 2: Wow. Tried to think of a newing. It's new love

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Speaker 2: y'all too.

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Speaker 1: Y'all are truly a blessing to me and all of

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Speaker 1: us out here in the blackout this nation.

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Speaker 2: Bless up.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to you for going through your wife's phone,

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Speaker 1: not looking for cheating, like going through it for a

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Speaker 1: positive call.

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Speaker 2: This is the type of stuff.

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Speaker 1: Sex and wife loves. I want to see this type

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Speaker 1: of stuff in relationships. Okay, no more going through phones

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Speaker 1: looking for dick picks or teddy picks.

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Speaker 2: You know who the hell is Jamail like none of that.

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Speaker 2: Go through the phone teleone.

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Speaker 1: Go through the phone log on the iTunes, find our podcast,

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Speaker 1: leave us a five star review from ny Phone. That's

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Speaker 1: what I want to see, Okay, that type of trust

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Speaker 1: and love in a relationship, that's beautiful. Sunday's episode five

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Speaker 1: stars is the next five star reviewers from Daijah twenty nine,

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Speaker 1: who says, I just want to say that I truly

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Speaker 1: enjoy your show. You guys are within my roster of

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Speaker 1: podcast I'll listen to daily. This episode speaks volume surrounding

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00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: the shifting relationships between fans and artists. There's always been entitlement,

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Speaker 1: but it's on steroids because of the accessibility grated by

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Speaker 1: social media. I've been adamant on not engaging the harmful

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Speaker 1: behavior for the sake of last It's amazing to see

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Speaker 1: people turn on Summer Walker and Lizzo. I worry about

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Speaker 1: that shit all the time for everybody, like.

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Speaker 3: Everybody, because everybody, everybody. Most people think that this is

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Speaker 3: never gonna be them until it's them, and then it's

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Speaker 3: a shocker and it's surprised. But that's the way. It's like,

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Speaker 3: somebody got to go into the machine. Somebody got to

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Speaker 3: and so even if it's not to their scale, somebody

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Speaker 3: got to go into that machine. The machine is like

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Speaker 3: a bottomless pitch y'all, and one day something's gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna say something, you're gonna do something, somebody's picture

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Speaker 3: and they thing. You know, you're in the machine because

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Speaker 3: it's real easy to participate throwing people off when you've

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Speaker 3: never been thrown off before. But once you get thrown

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Speaker 3: off one good time, you'd be like, oh, this is

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Speaker 3: some fucked up shit.

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Speaker 1: I think it's also like a part of this culture

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Speaker 1: of like putting these people on pedestals. They didn't ask

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Speaker 1: for it, Like, yes, they did ask for you know,

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Speaker 1: they did want you to be entertained by them. Correct, Yes,

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Speaker 1: they did want you to enjoy that product. Like so,

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Speaker 1: if you're doing stand up, they want you to enjoy

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Speaker 1: their stand up. If you're listening to their music, they

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Speaker 1: want you to enjoy their music. You know, whatever this

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Speaker 1: thing is they're doing your actor that they want you

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Speaker 1: to enjoy their movies. What they didn't ask for was

696
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Speaker 1: and now we want you to feed us every day

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Speaker 1: with content, even when you're not working.

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Speaker 2: We want everything to be worked.

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Speaker 1: We want your political opinions, we want your relationship, we

700
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Speaker 1: want your relationship opinions.

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Speaker 3: We want to be able to harash you and you

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Speaker 3: not say nothing to us.

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Speaker 1: We want to approve of who you're married to, We

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Speaker 1: want to approve of your children and your and your

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Speaker 1: parenting techniques.

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Speaker 2: People just keep feeding.

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Speaker 1: And feeding and feeding, and there's no fucking line where

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Speaker 1: they're just like like the common decency in some people, Yeah,

709
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Speaker 1: because you don't even know that kind of.

710
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Speaker 2: Shit about your own friends and family.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes, like your own friends and family will be like,

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Speaker 1: I ain't bringing or Ricardo around you. You know your

713
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Speaker 1: you know, you ain't none your business, and we just go, okay,

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Speaker 1: you know, you got an aunt that showed up with

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Speaker 1: somebody Thanksgiving, y'all ain't met because it's not your fucking business.

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Speaker 1: But if it was like Beyonce, we expect to know

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Speaker 1: her motherfucking business, right. And so it's funny because people

718
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Speaker 1: then once they put you on a pedestal and they start,

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Speaker 1: especially these woke motherfuckers who look woke people, is they

720
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Speaker 1: have a purpose, but fanship ain't really a good one.

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Speaker 1: And because they can't reconcile the idea of people being

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Speaker 1: human with the idea that they like something, they have

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Speaker 1: to start ascribing all these these values to themselves via you.

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Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is because I'm righteous, that means

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Speaker 1: everything I consume is righteous.

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Speaker 2: And once you get to that point, you get angry

727
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Speaker 2: when a motherfucker let you down.

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Speaker 1: You can't just be like Lauryn Hill says something I

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Speaker 1: don't agree with. No, it has to be I don't

730
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Speaker 1: listening to Lauryn Hill no more. It's canceled for me

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Speaker 1: or whatever. It can't just be that Rikabad gotta get

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Speaker 1: canceled or whatever. And then what's funny is time shows

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Speaker 1: that these woke motherfuckers don't even have to wherewithal for that,

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Speaker 1: so they'll say something like it's canceled, but it's they're

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Speaker 1: not really and it's never a big hit on the

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Speaker 1: star financially, they never really get disappeared at to go anywhere.

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Speaker 1: So now you just have anger and resentment because Ericabaidu

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Speaker 1: doesn't represent your politics one hundred percent of the time,

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Speaker 1: whatever the fuck they are. And then it's this conflict

740
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Speaker 1: and this obvious hypocrisy because they're still around, you're still

741
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Speaker 1: consuming a lot of their work and stuff, the claiming

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Speaker 1: you're not because the numbers don't lie, and so you

743
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Speaker 1: end up with all this like animosity that makes it

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Speaker 1: thankless to be a fucking h to give people these.

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Speaker 2: Parts of you.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it if I was these stars, and

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Speaker 1: I respect the stars that really cording themselves off away

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Speaker 1: from motherfuckers, because can you imagine if someone like is

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Speaker 1: especially young as Summer Walker and Lizzo and these people are.

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine that these young black women were really

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Speaker 1: taking it to their heart that they thought these people

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Speaker 1: had their best interest in mind and really really did

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Speaker 1: support them and love them. And shit, it's gotta be

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Speaker 1: devastating when the people turn around and now there's a

755
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Speaker 1: new woman and you ain't shit or now you can't

756
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Speaker 1: do nothing right. There's nothing you can say because once

757
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Speaker 1: once the Internet decides your ass is a bad person.

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Speaker 2: It's nothing. You don't even have to do anything.

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Speaker 1: You Lizzo didn't do shit, Like Lizo just won an award.

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Speaker 2: She couldn't make herself win that award.

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Speaker 1: She didn't say not a one bad thing about Ari

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Speaker 1: Lennox still hasn't, and yet somehow turned in the fuck Lizzo.

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Speaker 1: So like I, I hope they're not taking these fake as.

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Speaker 1: I hope they're not taking a fake love into their

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Speaker 1: heart as real because then when it turns into that, hey,

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Speaker 1: it's gotta hurt, you know. Anyway, I was told that

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Speaker 1: I was too angry when I was talking about that,

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Speaker 1: so you know, sorry, uh.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of Dot's capitalist. Five star says great show.

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Speaker 1: This is by Jamian, who says Roder carron A securing

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Speaker 1: all the bags.

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Speaker 2: This show is incredible. I've been listening for a long time.

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Speaker 1: Not afraid to say, when I started listening years ago,

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Speaker 1: I was a half a hotel.

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Speaker 2: Well you know what, do you know what I have?

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Speaker 1: Know what you came all the way back from the brink.

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Speaker 1: Okay you be half in fool.

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Speaker 2: Could have been worse.

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Speaker 1: Roder carn give insight the current events and give nuanced

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Speaker 1: takes instead of hot takes. Everyone needs to listen. Thanks

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00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 1: for the show and continue to do and what you obviously.

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Speaker 2: Love to do. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: All those reviews were from the United States of America,

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Speaker 1: by the way, Yeah, so you know we got international reviews.

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Speaker 2: We'll read those as well, just let us know.

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Speaker 1: And then we got one new five star review on Stitcher.

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Speaker 1: This is from Detroit retire Sims eight days ago says

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Speaker 1: five stars in my opinion, This is the best podcast,

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Speaker 1: in my opinion, is the best podcast that you can

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Speaker 1: listen to if you are looking for open minded and

791
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Speaker 1: free thinkers. Ry the care and tackle every day issues

792
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Speaker 1: and news stories by giving opinions and views from their

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Speaker 1: intelligent and well thought our perspective. Recently, the show is

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Speaker 1: added to the beginning segment passages from books that they

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Speaker 1: are currently reading.

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Speaker 2: I believe that this is elevated the show to another level.

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Speaker 3: All shit, oh shit, we elevated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're trying to just go to the whole number

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Speaker 1: level ship.

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Speaker 3: Now, we didn't do the music. This sounds Sorry about that, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all forgot to play Reading Rainbow, But I mean you

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Speaker 1: heard the sound, the issues we were having with the

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Speaker 1: sound earlier.

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Speaker 2: Do anybody really want to go through that with us?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. Also, I keep forgetting to check

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Speaker 2: my phone. Michael Irvan a playmaker.

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Speaker 1: He also him, so you know, shout out to Jasmine

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Speaker 1: A has also a recurring donator and we'll get back

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Speaker 1: to those when they started. Oh Deborah, oh she also donator. Right,

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Speaker 1: we'll get back to those.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Detroit retire Seals goes on to.

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Speaker 1: Say for making I believe this elevated show to another

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Speaker 1: level for me, making a great show even better. It

814
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 1: has inspired many people myself, including to pick up a

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Speaker 1: book and start learning about African American history, the effects

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Speaker 1: of social media on society, and even graphic novels and

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Speaker 1: comic books.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, graphic novels.

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Speaker 1: Yay, I gotta figure a way out to quote graphic

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Speaker 1: novel I wish I could quote the graphic novels on

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Speaker 1: reading the way that you can with pros and Kendle,

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Speaker 1: because you can't really highlight graphic novel panels and be like,

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Speaker 1: I want to read this on the show. But I

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Speaker 1: just finished World with the whole everybody asked, and I'm

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Speaker 1: reading that the one where he planned, the one where

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Speaker 1: he got sent away because I never when I was younger,

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Speaker 1: I didn't this back when you had to like either

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Speaker 1: collect comics or biographic novel and that for some reason,

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Speaker 1: I got some of the comics but not all.

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Speaker 2: So now I can read the story its completeness, yay.

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Speaker 2: So I read.

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Speaker 1: I try to read shit like that between these serious

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Speaker 1: black ass novels. On reading read Gumball, yep, I read

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Speaker 1: that too.

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Speaker 2: Though, you ready, because to me, I did all right.

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Speaker 1: Back to this though, I recommend for those who are

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Speaker 1: new to this podcast to listen to the weekly recap

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Speaker 1: feedback shows that are aired on Saturday. The Recap Slash

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Speaker 1: Feedback Saturday shows cover the daily shows of the week

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Speaker 1: in a short period of time, which will give you

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Speaker 1: a sense of the overall content theme of the show.

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Speaker 2: Roder Karen have given really given a.

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Speaker 1: Gift to those who listened to this free show, which

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Speaker 1: they produce about five times weekly for one to two hours.

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Speaker 2: Please ride a care and keep up the good work.

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Speaker 2: We will thank you, Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Detroit Retire sims and the last one, we got a

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Speaker 1: five star review for Black Guy to Spore movie Reviews, which,

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Speaker 1: like I.

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Speaker 2: Said, go check it out.

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Speaker 1: We have a new reviews up for that feed right now,

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Speaker 1: Like trying to think what I'll I just put on there.

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Speaker 1: I know Queen of Slim is on there, but there

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Speaker 1: were some other movies that came out last month that

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Speaker 1: I'm sure people wanted to get our opinions on, including

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Speaker 1: like some black ass movies. Matter of fact, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: go on there and check them out. Because Janiell says

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Speaker 1: she auditioned for Queen for Queen and Queen Slim.

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Speaker 2: She would have made a good She would have made

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Speaker 2: a good queen.

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Speaker 1: Because I but see, I can see Janelle Janelle being funny,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Right, I could see it turn into a whole comedy.

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Speaker 2: But you know, comedians also can do that.

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Speaker 3: Motherfucking come, they can be doing that.

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Speaker 2: You be like, oh, this niggas acting, we.

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Speaker 3: Be looking Janey will be having us crying and shit like,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know she could do this. Dum man, I'm

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Speaker 3: laughing and crying at the same time. I'm not ready.

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Speaker 1: All right, So these are the movies that I just

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Speaker 1: added that you guys may enjoy it. Okay, these are

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Speaker 1: some controversial movies that people I want to hear our

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Speaker 1: take song so Joker I reviewed with Chris.

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Speaker 2: Lambert, comedian.

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Speaker 1: We talked about that, and you know, Chris, we got

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Speaker 1: the rambling about a bunch of bullshit too. How woke

877
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 1: niggas be ruining reviews from movies Melificit.

878
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 2: Mistress of Evil, Me and Karen did that one.

879
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: I did a solo review of Zombie Laying Double tab Cared,

880
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: and I did Terminate the Dark Fate. I did a

881
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 1: solo review of Harriet and a solo review of Jojo,

882
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: Rabbit and Queen is a clam So you guys got

883
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 1: all that on the feed. Leave us five star reviews

884
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:16,240
Speaker 1: is my fucking point. All right, go to the spoil

885
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 1: win and leave five star reviews there too.

886
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 2: That's a lot of work.

887
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 3: So y'all are left five, leave ten.

888
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: Right, So Rissa of the Way shout out to our

889
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 1: girl said slept on five stars. I love these reviews

890
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: regardless of whether I've seen the movie or not. They

891
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 1: often encourage me to go back and watch movies. I

892
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: passed up right now watching the Marrowl Universe and sequential

893
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 1: Order and going back and re listening to the reviews.

894
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 2: Ten out of ten would recommend see Yeah.

895
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: That's another great reason for our spoil reviews is that

896
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: if you are a person that appreciate that doesn't want

897
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: to be spoiled, it makes show ass, get off your

898
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 1: couch and go see the review. So you won't have

899
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 1: a fucking spoiled movie review. You'll be like, Okay, I

900
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 1: saw the movie. Now let me see what this nigga

901
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: talking about. Because when I say I spoil, we spoiled

902
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: the movie right away. So like, if you just trying

903
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,720
Speaker 1: to play with the big dolls and see what we got.

904
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: We don't give you no fight, but like we give

905
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 3: you five seconds, we'll be like.

906
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: If Bruce willis dead the whole time, all right, so

907
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,879
Speaker 1: this whole time, so listen, this is how the movie went, right,

908
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: That's that's why we do it.

909
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 3: So we but like they kill Malcolm X. All right,

910
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:19,439
Speaker 3: let's move right.

911
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: So all right, let's get to the comments on each episode.

912
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: We didn't get.

913
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: Any comments on our feedback episode, which was the best

914
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 1: podcast in the known universe, not hyppropriately, but we did

915
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 1: get comment on the poll for the for the episode,

916
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: which is do you see your family for Thanksgiving?

917
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 2: Yes or no?

918
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 1: Seventy of our audience does see their family for Thanksgiving,

919
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: thirty percent.

920
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 2: Do not see.

921
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 3: If people lived out of state or was far.

922
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 2: Away, a bunch of reasons. Maybe you just don't like

923
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 2: them there.

924
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:54,239
Speaker 3: You're like, you know what, nah, or you know what?

925
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 3: You like us? Our tradition now is.

926
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 2: We go out heat because that's still seeing our family.

927
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, yeah, we see our family. But some

928
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 3: people may want to do that, you know, instead of

929
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 3: the traditional thing.

930
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:07,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

931
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: I didn't say if you do a traditional Thanksgiving just

932
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: do you see your family?

933
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 2: Yes or no?

934
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,360
Speaker 1: The thing I think it is interesting here, though, is

935
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 1: I keep seeing on Twitter and Facebook, and I keep laughing.

936
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 2: But I don't say anything.

937
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 1: In these people because I know they either meanwhile or

938
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,720
Speaker 1: they're like so woke, they're performative. But all these people

939
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: that keep saying this is funny every time to me.

940
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: By the way, so I'm letting y'all into my brain.

941
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 2: Don't judge me.

942
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: Every time I see somebody talk about you need to

943
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: go home and like argue with the conservative or not

944
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: woke members of your.

945
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: Family and drag them.

946
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: I laugh every time at the idea of like someone

947
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:54,680
Speaker 1: going home to ruin their Thanksgiving, Like after all the travel, whatever,

948
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: the logistics is right, the cooking, all the shit to

949
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: ruin your Thanksgiving for strangers on the internet, who'll ever

950
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 1: know if you did or did not do that, who

951
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: don't know your family and don't give a fuck.

952
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,359
Speaker 3: I gotta stay your ass at home then and then

953
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 3: East McDonald's.

954
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: I like, I want to know what change is happening

955
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 1: from this, cause I feel like what's happening is a

956
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: lot of people, the thirty percent of people that's not

957
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 1: gonna see their family are telling the seventy percent that

958
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 1: are to ruin it.

959
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 2: You're like, if I gotta.

960
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: Restuck here by myself, you need to go in your house,

961
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 1: slap your mom in a face and say, bitch, vote

962
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: for Obama. Okay, this is how we're doing it. Okay,

963
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: I keep it real or you not a real ally? Okay,

964
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 1: maybe you think you woke, but you ain't really woke.

965
00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 1: Like that's how it feels to me, Like just go

966
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: go tell your uncle black lives matter and then just

967
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: throw the fucking potatoes writing that.

968
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 3: Niggas face, I'm like, just go in the kitchen and

969
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 3: tying of greens over.

970
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, am I the only one that has like

971
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 1: a realistic expectation of whenever my family gets together, that

972
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: not all these niggas are like bleeding heart liberal progressive

973
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 1: motherfuckers like am I the only one that affects that

974
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: that was gonna have that.

975
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 3: You know, they're not gonna keep even the Peter Preston

976
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 3: putting that out there, They're not gonna keep that same manjury.

977
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 3: They're gonna be quiet, They're gonna eating their yam, they

978
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 3: they dressing and whatever else they're gonna be smacking on

979
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 3: and they're not gonna say shit. They just want you

980
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:20,280
Speaker 3: to embarrass yourself.

981
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: Part of the charm of the black family unit is

982
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: that ignant ass relative that you all row your eyes at.

983
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 2: That's part of the beauty. You got that one uncle

984
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 2: that love the cowboys, We all got them. Like it's Paul,

985
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 2: here he come with this bullshit.

986
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: You know, are he about to ask all the women

987
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: in the house, are they about to get pregnant and

988
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: have some babies?

989
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 2: It gonna you.

990
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: Know that one uncle that look a little too hard

991
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: at your girl that you bringing like this?

992
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 3: Oh you like, am I gonna have to fight you uncle?

993
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 1: Right?

994
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 2: Like?

995
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 1: Everybody got that that problematic You know that aunt that

996
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 1: called the cowboys the cowgirls right and shit, like everybody.

997
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 2: Has it, and yet you go to Twitter and nobody

998
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 2: has it.

999
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: Okay, my family is so they all would vote for

1000
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: Obama three times.

1001
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:06,720
Speaker 2: You know, everybody got a Republican person in their family.

1002
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: Everybody your whole life, you've been rolling your eyes like

1003
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: this nigga when he come around to give you some

1004
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: advice on anything, here he go with the bullshit. Okay,

1005
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,320
Speaker 1: Like that's only Twitter is the only place where niggas

1006
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: are encouraging fights offline that they won't even witness for

1007
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,280
Speaker 1: what for you to go back and report to them? Gods,

1008
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 1: they made me eat outside and they ain't gonna clown you.

1009
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 2: Ah.

1010
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 1: They Ma Mama took the plate out of my hand,

1011
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 1: say get the fuck out the house, and we're gonna

1012
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: be like, Yo, dumb ass really went there and told

1013
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: Jo Mama that shit, like, come on, that's the best.

1014
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 3: I had to go get a hotel for two whole days.

1015
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 3: They kicked me out.

1016
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 2: Yes, nigga, let these niggas go over there, man, because.

1017
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 3: You came in here and you turned the turkey over

1018
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 3: that I had to throw out in brin, nigga, you're

1019
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 3: gonna get the fuck out of here.

1020
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 1: I will absolutely sit across the table and be like

1021
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: this nigga is acting stupid and make a face at

1022
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 1: the smart people at the table like we both understand

1023
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: that this nigga is stupid.

1024
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 2: That's all I need.

1025
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm gonna look bitter past the gravy more

1026
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 3: corn bread.

1027
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: I don't expect anybody to do it.

1028
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:12,839
Speaker 1: It's funny, but everybody's who's checking these fucking score cards,

1029
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: because that's the other they'd be like, listen if you white,

1030
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,879
Speaker 1: and your family had anybody in your family voted for Trump,

1031
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 1: and you don't go in there and fucking say.

1032
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 2: Something to them. I'm like, who, how do we verify

1033
00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:25,320
Speaker 2: that this happened?

1034
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: They like, now they're just sitting there eating, eating eating

1035
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: this green sad. Well, they don't eat greens, eating the

1036
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: stuffing sad. Now they're just sitting there eating the stuff

1037
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: And like, I.

1038
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 2: Should have said something. Rod told me I'm not a

1039
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 2: good ally.

1040
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck man, and'sjoin your turkey and

1041
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,399
Speaker 1: then leave cause some niggas ain't.

1042
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 2: That's the other thing. None of these motherfucker's coming around.

1043
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 2: Who's the person.

1044
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 1: That's like, Man, I'm gonna tell you when I got

1045
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 1: woked Thanksgiving twenty seventeen, I'll never forget.

1046
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,320
Speaker 3: It changed my life.

1047
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: My nephew came, he said, Grandpa, you remember how you've

1048
00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: been saying niggas the whole life, or uncle you've been

1049
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:03,919
Speaker 1: saying nigga j I mean, I remember it, And I said,

1050
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: God damn it, I never thought of it that way.

1051
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 3: I remember he sliced the hem and gave it to

1052
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 3: me and changed my life. That was the best piece

1053
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 3: of honey baked ham I've ever had.

1054
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 1: He put a little bit of gravy on my potatoes,

1055
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: and then he looked over to him and said, Black

1056
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 1: Lives Matter.

1057
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,760
Speaker 2: I said, I get it now. I'm not fuck Trump?

1058
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 2: What was I thinking?

1059
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: I just just no one ever said it before, Like,

1060
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: get the fuck out here, just like I'll tell you

1061
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: what you can do if you want to help out people,

1062
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:37,399
Speaker 1: like at your Thanksgiving and the woke people, just keep

1063
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 1: changing the channel from Fox News.

1064
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:41,759
Speaker 2: That's all. That's all I ask. That's a simple point.

1065
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 3: Oh, either you smart, make it so it's blocked.

1066
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, when they put Fox News on, you know what

1067
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying, You just be like, oh, ain't the game on?

1068
00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 2: And just switch it to the game, y'all? Do know that?

1069
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 2: That's why football comes on for Thanksgiving? Right for real?

1070
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 2: Football comes on for Thanksgiving.

1071
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: Because don't nobody want to talk to these niggas about shit.

1072
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: That's it. Oh, look the Lions is playing. No one't

1073
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: even like the Lions. They's always sorry, but at least

1074
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: we're not talking to each other. That's the promise we made.

1075
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: Don't ask me about how many kids on the half.

1076
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 1: Don't ask me, you know, And that's.

1077
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 3: Why they have three games. They have the ones that

1078
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 3: actually start on time at like I like lunchtime, twelve

1079
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 3: and one. Then they have the second group of people

1080
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 3: to start a little late. Then they had the last

1081
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:25,799
Speaker 3: game for the niggas that we can finishing too. You know,

1082
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 3: we don't get started into.

1083
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: Firefot And you know, if you're black, you eat during

1084
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 1: the second game, right second or the third game. White

1085
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: people eat during the first game, yeah they Yeah, the

1086
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 1: day at noon.

1087
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 2: The first game starts at noon.

1088
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,240
Speaker 1: White people eat that and black if you're black, you're

1089
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: supposed to eat it now, but you eat during the

1090
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: second game.

1091
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 2: That's it's kind of the rule. Yeah.

1092
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 3: They, like I said, they get rid too far behound

1093
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 3: you eating the halftime a second game started third.

1094
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but listen, I'm not saying don't say anything. What

1095
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,280
Speaker 1: I am saying is, don't say anything on my behalf.

1096
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck, not on my behalf. I

1097
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: wish I would ruin.

1098
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:01,439
Speaker 2: My my Christmas presents for you. That's the other thing.

1099
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: They want you to ruin Thanksgiving with the people that

1100
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 1: are supposed to give you Christmas presents.

1101
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 2: It's a fixed setup. Don't don't fall for it.

1102
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 3: Don't fall for it. You gonna walk in that nigga,

1103
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 3: all the sweet tea gonna be going. It's gonna a

1104
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,359
Speaker 3: big old sign. No, nigga, you can't drink this. I can.

1105
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,879
Speaker 3: You better not drink a goddamn dropping my sweet tea.

1106
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 2: I'm just trying not to get your Christmas presents. Run y'all.

1107
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,799
Speaker 1: Niggas gonna get socks and ties and underwear and shit.

1108
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 1: You went in there, told grandmama this year, bigg into

1109
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 1: her face.

1110
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, and get T shirts.

1111
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:32,240
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, be careful. Okay, these woke niggas

1112
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: are not gonna get you nothing for Christmas. H Brooklyn

1113
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: shoe Bab also love a comment. I got Thanksgiving this

1114
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: year with my kids. My ex will get Christmas. It

1115
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: was the most perfect day I've had this year. I

1116
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 1: cooked my granddaughter my daughter's cook. We watched TV, and

1117
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: we napped after dinner. My daughters played music, dance with

1118
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: each other, and play hand games while I read. My

1119
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: two team daughters are usually trying to beat each other up.

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00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 2: So definitely a perfect day. That's beautiful. It's like I

1121
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 2: gotta some uh, like one of those novels type of

1122
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:00,720
Speaker 2: you know what I'm.

1123
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 3: Saying they were full and sleeping tide. That's why they

1124
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 3: ain't had an injury to.

1125
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 2: Beat each other up.

1126
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: Baby, Like, Netflix will option the rights to that day

1127
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: because that was such a perfect black person day.

1128
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 3: I know that, uh for Netflix, not a streaming services.

1129
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 3: It went through the roof everybody, Like, you know, I

1130
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 3: got that. This the plus put that shit on for

1131
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 3: the kids.

1132
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 2: Now I'm talking about just her personal day.

1133
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 1: Ah, Netflix like a movie off of just how dope

1134
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: that day was, because he will.

1135
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 2: That's nobody's thanksgiving.

1136
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 1: Nobody's thanksgiving is that we played music and dance and

1137
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: everyone cooked and chipped in.

1138
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 2: The only thing you left out was we all cleaned,

1139
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 2: I know, and left We all cleaned. I let them

1140
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 2: use the dishwasher. It was perfect, all right. We have

1141
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,320
Speaker 2: comments for episode two thousand and one, Black Capitalists.

1142
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 3: Jannika says old on Nigga two thousand episodes. Can you

1143
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 3: believe that, my friend, Like that's still hard to believe.

1144
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 3: Like I said, y'all know we don't keep camp, but

1145
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 3: but we us like two thousand and one, I was like,

1146
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,439
Speaker 3: oh yeah, we did. Across the two.

1147
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,359
Speaker 2: I brought it up on that episode. I brought it up.

1148
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:03,879
Speaker 3: But it's still hard to believe. Like I'm still hard

1149
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,800
Speaker 3: to believe that I got a niece. So I'm sorry.

1150
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 1: All right, well, you know what, get your We're gonna

1151
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: play some music after this. We're gonna dance to Thanksgiving

1152
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: son gonna have us a moment.

1153
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:14,479
Speaker 2: Of black Joyce.

1154
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 1: Jennia says, I'm so glad I was working from home

1155
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 1: when I heard this episode because I screamed when Karen

1156
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:22,879
Speaker 1: said that she had that piece of tissue hanging for her,

1157
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: laughing my ass. I hate I hate the bathroom in

1158
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: my job because it's usually dirty.

1159
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 2: There's so many stuck up white people there.

1160
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 1: Yet two weeks ago, I went in there and someone

1161
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 1: shot on the damn toilet.

1162
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 2: I was so fucking mad. People are truly gross.

1163
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 3: Yes, they are particular, particularly in the women's bathroom. It's

1164
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:44,919
Speaker 3: it's like me and dad. But not until you've seen

1165
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 3: the women's bathroom. Like I said, I don't have a penis,

1166
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 3: but I remember the first time what was watching if

1167
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:52,360
Speaker 3: It's for family and the dude boy did the trough

1168
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 3: That the first time I ever was seen the truck.

1169
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 3: Because you know, I've know bender boy's bathroom or the

1170
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,359
Speaker 3: men's bathroom so I was like, the fuck is this?

1171
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I worked at fast food and part of my

1172
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:07,280
Speaker 1: job was to clean the bathroom sometimes, and uh yeah,

1173
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:09,320
Speaker 1: that'll make you lose a lot of reverence for a

1174
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: lot of people, you know. I think that's really when

1175
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: I became a feminist, because I was like, oh, these women.

1176
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 2: Is equally as nasty as the niggas. This is gross,

1177
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 2: Like it was terrible.

1178
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: You can take all the illustrious ship out of the

1179
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 1: whole equation.

1180
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 3: That like they said, they don't wash their hands, and

1181
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,239
Speaker 3: on top of that, you gotta deal with periods in

1182
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:34,839
Speaker 3: bloods in past and tempons like it is disgusting.

1183
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't know about the not washing

1184
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 1: hands because I'm not in there. I was never in

1185
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:42,479
Speaker 1: there when women were, you know, washing their hands clear,

1186
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

1187
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,319
Speaker 3: Like I was just there a clean I think.

1188
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, there's nothing worse than a Nastia's bathroom.

1189
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:51,439
Speaker 1: Ms Mart says that you were talking about the general back,

1190
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 1: how the general black public treats our young black celebrities.

1191
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 1: I started to think about how treating people as if

1192
00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: they are disposable happens. Similarly in dating, every new person

1193
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:03,799
Speaker 1: is the greatest until they aren't, and then they're replaced

1194
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: by the next better things, sometimes through slow gas lighting.

1195
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,320
Speaker 1: When the discard happens, the discard gets pissed. If the

1196
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: discarded actually expresses displeasure, becomes unavailable, save, etc. Much like

1197
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: when these young ladies decide to have a reasonable reaction

1198
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: to the trauma and the public causes Lee's makes their

1199
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: talents go and save themselves, the same public that caused

1200
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 1: trauma and discarded the young women get pissed at the women.

1201
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 1: So basically the community is pulling the some brand of narcissism. Yeah,

1202
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: you know what, It makes me think about how everyone

1203
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: has those.

1204
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 2: Those social media posts where they be.

1205
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 1: Like, you know, something about something real petty and hateful

1206
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: about their ex. Right, it's always like, you know, oh

1207
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 1: that feeling when your ex game fifty pounds ha ha,

1208
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 1: or you know when you see your ex need a

1209
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: ride home and you just drive past that nigga you

1210
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: see them catching the butts or whatever, Right, and it's

1211
00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: always like, what that ex probably got ex posts about

1212
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:02,760
Speaker 1: that person.

1213
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 2: I don't know what you niggas is, right, Both of

1214
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 2: y'all could be crazy. I don't know.

1215
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 3: I don't know you know.

1216
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:11,439
Speaker 1: I saw a video, uh from a woman that put

1217
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 1: out a video of like a dude sh had fucked

1218
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: and then she was talking.

1219
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:16,959
Speaker 2: She was on like it's a comedy video.

1220
00:56:17,080 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 1: So she was on the phone like making a date

1221
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 1: with another nigga and he was and then paned over

1222
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: this other nigga still in the bed, and then she

1223
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 1: was like, listen, you could either be in your feelings

1224
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:25,879
Speaker 1: or be in my bed.

1225
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 2: And then he pulled a cover.

1226
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: Like it was so good, it was so funny, and

1227
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 1: everybody was reto and then oh it was And then

1228
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:35,800
Speaker 1: whoever retreated was like, if you're not doing.

1229
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 2: These niggas like this, blah blah blah.

1230
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: And I was like, I mean, it's funny, but if

1231
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: you are doing niggas like that, that is as fucked

1232
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 1: up as niggas doing it. Like it's still fucked up.

1233
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: Like you know, but people, I think people I don't know,

1234
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 1: they kind of like really value like demeaning somebody else

1235
00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 1: for people's pleasure and entertainment, right, And you would think

1236
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:06,800
Speaker 1: to some level it would stop with intimate like romantic

1237
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: relationships because it's like, why would I want to stay

1238
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 1: on somebody that I was interested in for an audience,

1239
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 1: but it don't stop.

1240
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 2: Man, motherfuckers are savage with this dating shit.

1241
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 1: I'm so glad because I could not handle that. I

1242
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: don't have the ego to handle somebody shitting on me

1243
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: in public to make like a joke about relationship with them.

1244
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I don't have it in me.

1245
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 1: Iur much because I wouldn't do it to them, right,

1246
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: so then to have it done to me I would

1247
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: probably be very shit right.

1248
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 3: And also I know I'm built for the way a

1249
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 3: lot of people date. Now. I'm not built for everything

1250
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 3: being recorded. I'm not built for intimate moments being recorded.

1251
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 3: I'm not fucking built for that. I'm like, motherfucker, we

1252
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 3: gonna talk, and it ain't meant for goddamn on line,

1253
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:50,960
Speaker 3: Like every second of my life is not meant for

1254
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:56,360
Speaker 3: everybody's fucking entertainment. Because even though we're together, I'm gonna

1255
00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 3: be quote unquote woke all the time because I'm a

1256
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 3: growing human being. I'm not gonna say the right thing

1257
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 3: all the time. You're not gonna say the right thing

1258
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 3: all the time. And how can I fucking grow with

1259
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 3: you together as a couple if we're always allowing these

1260
00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 3: outside entities that don't give a fuck about us to

1261
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 3: put their opinions on the relationship.

1262
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 2: Also, what are the rules to when you can share

1263
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 2: this shit and not?

1264
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: Because I see people sharing private exchanges sometimes from like

1265
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 1: either a dating app or like text between them and

1266
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: a person or instant messages, and I'm like, what are

1267
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: the rules for that?

1268
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 2: Because like when, like when is that fucked up? And

1269
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 2: when is it not? Like when is it a gross

1270
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:34,880
Speaker 2: violation of my privacy that you share something?

1271
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 1: And when and when is it not? Like because people

1272
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 1: have different barriers for what they consider to be like

1273
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: the egregious thing, because sometimes you'll see people that are

1274
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: just wrong, like somebody else says something like I.

1275
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:47,120
Speaker 2: Can't believe this guy.

1276
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,840
Speaker 1: No, I can't believe this woman actually ask for a

1277
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:53,680
Speaker 1: picture of my license plate on my car before we

1278
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 1: could go out, And then people would be like, why

1279
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 1: did you share that?

1280
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 2: And yes, she.

1281
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 1: Don't want you to be a serial killer, so she

1282
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 1: might be one to don d dad, And I'm just like,

1283
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 1: couldn't all of this have been private? Couldn't you have

1284
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 1: just been upset in private and been like I don't

1285
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: want to go out with her? She already thinks I'm

1286
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 1: serious of it, or could you have not shared it

1287
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, or what like, could you

1288
00:59:13,560 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: not have been in your feelings? Or when you share

1289
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: it and everybody jumps in your shit, be like, oh,

1290
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: I didn't see it that way.

1291
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 2: It's never like that.

1292
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 3: No, And also something somebody about up I'm looking. I

1293
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:28,240
Speaker 3: also think that we live in a society now where

1294
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:30,439
Speaker 3: feelings are bad, if that makes sense, Like any type

1295
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 3: of feeling are bad. So a lot of people get

1296
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:34,400
Speaker 3: hurt and they don't know how to handle getting hurt.

1297
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 3: So I'm hurt and I'm mad. So now put your

1298
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 3: titty picks out. Now I'm gonna put Now, I'm gonna

1299
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 3: put out this shit, these private moments that was meant

1300
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 3: for us. I'm put it out because of my hurt,

1301
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 3: because of my pain. Women do the same thing. I'm

1302
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:49,960
Speaker 3: hurt and I'm mad, and I don't know how to

1303
00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 3: deal with these emotions. I don't know how to digest

1304
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 3: these emotions in a private place and in a private setting.

1305
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 3: I don't have friends that I could call and talk to,

1306
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:01,480
Speaker 3: like real friends. But like, bitch, don't put that online

1307
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 3: or nah, bro, don't put that online like like like

1308
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:07,200
Speaker 3: we we we've lost that that that circle of people

1309
01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 3: around you that aren't yes men, that they're like this

1310
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 3: is not logical. Them people that will prevent you from just.

1311
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 2: Doing ignorant shit.

1312
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,040
Speaker 3: That's kind of lost from everybody wanting to perform for

1313
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 3: the internet.

1314
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like I think also the thing is like

1315
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 1: people aren't making being hurt look good. Like it's not

1316
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 1: looking good like because you know what I'm saying, Like

1317
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: it's not like like it's not like you look at

1318
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 1: that and go, damn, I wish that was my life.

1319
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 1: Like people out here doing really fucked up, callous shit

1320
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: to each other and then like laughing it off. But

1321
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, you're kind of laughing in that

1322
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: like I'm hurt way like that that mean like.

1323
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, aha, And the thing is right by the

1324
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 3: way the person's responded, and like I say, because the

1325
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 3: way my mind takes, I know that I'm not built

1326
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 3: for this because I I can't speak about job. But

1327
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 3: it's gonna be a motherfucking problem if intimate moments you

1328
01:01:05,040 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 3: know that me and you have shared because it's to

1329
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 3: the point now where you go, Okay, let's say I

1330
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 3: do get up with somebody. I'm sicking. I do get

1331
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 3: with somebody, we get, we get intimate. People are so foul.

1332
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 3: How do I know it's not a recording device in

1333
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 3: here recording us, Like, I don't know, because people aren't

1334
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,840
Speaker 3: truthful anymore. I don't know, because I don't know you.

1335
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:24,920
Speaker 1: It's just wild, like cause like some of my closest

1336
01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 1: communications where people come from, like text, instant message.

1337
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:30,919
Speaker 2: DMS, you know, shit like that.

1338
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 1: I can't imagine screenshotting somebody's shit, you know what I'm saying,

1339
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: Like we.

1340
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 2: Disagree, and guys, let me tell you what this person did.

1341
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: But that's like a common thing now, like motherfuckers disagree

1342
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:44,160
Speaker 1: and then it's like, and let me tell you. Back

1343
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 1: in twenty eighteen, she didn't like Rihanna. She said Rihanna

1344
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 1: was a fat bitch, and I got the DMS to

1345
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 1: prove it. I'm like, what is happening? But yeah, I

1346
01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: think people even do that, even in romantic situations, like

1347
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:55,360
Speaker 1: they do.

1348
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 3: And that's the kind of and to me, that's the

1349
01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 3: the disadvantage of the Internet because everybody is like, well,

1350
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 3: I'm open about everything, so you expect celebrities to be

1351
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 3: open about everything. Quote unquote. And the thing is some

1352
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,439
Speaker 3: people are telling truth, some people not telling the truth, Like,

1353
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 3: like that's the thing you don't ever know. Some people

1354
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:17,920
Speaker 3: are performative, right, Some people are there telling.

1355
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: You the truth.

1356
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 3: For some people, we don't know, there's reason, right, And

1357
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 3: so since you don't know for certain things, it's just

1358
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 3: best to just keep that, keep keep certain things offline.

1359
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 2: But yeah, I do think I think another thing that

1360
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 2: fucked up the dating game.

1361
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: I shouldn't say fucked up. People are always fucked up,

1362
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 1: you know, it's dating. Another thing that's kind of made

1363
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 1: it seem worse is that are so much of the

1364
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 1: interaction happens through apps now, and apps by nature are

1365
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 1: about quantity of equality for the most part, right, So

1366
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 1: you know, swipe rights, white left.

1367
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know all this. You know, do you like me?

1368
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 2: Check yes or no?

1369
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: Shit, it's got people like, you know, being their most

1370
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 1: superficial selves all the time for other people. So you

1371
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 1: got people out there that's putting out folks pictures and

1372
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 1: me like, look at this ugly motherfucker thinking weekend date.

1373
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 1: I think not in also screenshots sitting to my Instagram,

1374
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: And so I think that shit is making people more

1375
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 1: ugly The poll for this episode is does the bathroom

1376
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:17,439
Speaker 1: at your.

1377
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 2: Job have liners? No? Yes, no? Or I work from home?

1378
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 2: Fifty four percent Yes, harder than I thought it would be.

1379
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 1: Thirty seven percent say no, and nine percent say I

1380
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 1: work from home or don't have a job.

1381
01:03:31,840 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 2: That's me at the place.

1382
01:03:34,520 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 3: If you don't got a line or at least have

1383
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 3: some life sauce and sprays and white lit, just something

1384
01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 3: fucking white up the thle it down.

1385
01:03:40,440 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: You gotta get a bathroom kit, which then announces to

1386
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:44,880
Speaker 1: the world you're using the bathroom or how you get up.

1387
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 1: That's what That's what everybody got. Everybody should bring a

1388
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 1: bathroom kit to work. And it's just got like a

1389
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 1: bunch of like it's got wet wives. It's got like

1390
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:55,920
Speaker 1: it's like a buck you know how they have like

1391
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 1: the cleaning bucket when you pick like a bucket. Yeah,

1392
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: but like something fancy than a bucket. A bucket looks nasty.

1393
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 1: I'm something that like like almost like the cases people

1394
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 1: have when you have a baby and you have all

1395
01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 1: the stuff for a baby in there.

1396
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 2: Like Pampers, bottles, something like that.

1397
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 1: Before the bathroom's like it's got light salt, but like

1398
01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: it's got like pinsol, but then you took the pinshaw

1399
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 1: and poured it into like a really like cute uh

1400
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 1: not pinsole holding spray bottles.

1401
01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 3: Yes, it could be like it could be like a

1402
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 3: like a makeup pouch type of thing where you can

1403
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 3: zip it and and like, like I said, y'all, if

1404
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 3: we ever get skits, when you get ready to go,

1405
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 3: you out to reach in your joy and pull it

1406
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 3: out and it's to glow and then you open it

1407
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 3: up and did it almost blush?

1408
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 2: Right. I just want to like a vanity care.

1409
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 1: It should come with like a bluetooth speaker the covery

1410
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 1: of farts, you know, because you're gonna need that.

1411
01:04:47,040 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 3: Soundproof. So y'all know when you pull a strip off

1412
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 3: for your period, it don't echoes across the whole bathroom.

1413
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 1: It should be all like just straight up like stylish,

1414
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:57,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like like luggage. I wanted

1415
01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:01,000
Speaker 1: to look classy, Okay, we're trying to have as sophistication.

1416
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 2: I wanted to come with the good the good toilet paper.

1417
01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 3: We're talking about folk. We ain't talking about No. One

1418
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:09,720
Speaker 3: or two. We're talking about the good one.

1419
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: The toilet paper that y'all you know you spring for

1420
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: you like it's a banner day. My asshole will be

1421
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 1: treated with with like like Kim Kardashian's but today, okay,

1422
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 1: as you pull.

1423
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 3: It up and instead of positilid, but like.

1424
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 1: Right, like it comes with like yeah, potpourri, incense, lay wipes,

1425
01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 1: like all kinds of stuff that just like it comes

1426
01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 1: with all these other ideas that just like just the

1427
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 1: master scent.

1428
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:39,960
Speaker 3: Why is the window clean in the eye will to

1429
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 3: be sure that everything is Then that way, no one

1430
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 3: can shame you for knowing you're going number two, cause

1431
01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:48,440
Speaker 3: it's like I am in fucking luxury, you simpleton, you

1432
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 3: broke motherfucker.

1433
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 2: That's right.

1434
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be using the bathroom with no words of

1435
01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 1: disease or embarrassing smells or odors or my hands or

1436
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:03,280
Speaker 1: like being disaffected of y'all hearing my farts. I'm gonna

1437
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: be in here listening to fucking Whitney Houston on my

1438
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:08,880
Speaker 1: bluetooth speaker.

1439
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 2: Attached to my luggage case.

1440
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:13,640
Speaker 1: Come on, and with the disposable like it's gonna have

1441
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 1: like a like a replaceable disposable bottom or something, so

1442
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 1: whatever you sit it on, you can give itri of

1443
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 1: that too, so you're not bringing notice.

1444
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:21,760
Speaker 2: You know it.

1445
01:06:21,800 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 3: The whole time they'd been like, you know that the

1446
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 3: music be going on in the background, like you're doing this.

1447
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 1: Whole saying it's gonna play classical music or contemporary pop.

1448
01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 2: Come on one of the two you pick so soft rock? Okay?

1449
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 2: All right?

1450
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 1: We got comments on that one. Alicia says, fun fact

1451
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: of the day. Other countries don't even have toilet seats.

1452
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:48,280
Speaker 1: European countries, white people nasty, Lol, just a como. As

1453
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:51,440
Speaker 1: my grandma said, what also caring, I hear you. I

1454
01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: don't have the upper body strength to lift my small

1455
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 1: child to hover over the toilet, so now just tell

1456
01:06:56,760 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 1: her to stand on the toilet and squat. She is

1457
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 1: good for having to go number two in public, and

1458
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 1: no she can't hold it. She liked to take her

1459
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,520
Speaker 1: sweet time too, shaking my head that I haven't thought

1460
01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 1: about what y'all do with them Children's right, I don't

1461
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 1: know what you do.

1462
01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:12,840
Speaker 2: You just gotta lose your dignity, I guess.

1463
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 3: Right, because most kids have to sit.

1464
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's terrible.

1465
01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 1: Shout out to Johannine Redfield and Mary Mary h On

1466
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:21,800
Speaker 1: my a, y'all.

1467
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 2: The next people that my phone loaded me.

1468
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 1: Ms Barne seventy two says, at my job, we have

1469
01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:33,080
Speaker 1: bathroom serial killers. These heapers would just desecrate our bathrooms,

1470
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:36,400
Speaker 1: taking monster dumps and not flushing or clogging up the toilets,

1471
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: taking minstrel products and trying to flush them, smear feaces

1472
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 1: on the wall.

1473
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 2: Just disgusting.

1474
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:42,480
Speaker 3: Nigga, what do you work?

1475
01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 1: I can solemn, but the greatest offense was not washing

1476
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 1: their hands.

1477
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 2: Well yet, I think if you smear pheces on the wall,

1478
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:52,840
Speaker 2: you should probably wash your hands.

1479
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 1: These holes won't be so bold to go out the

1480
01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 1: star and keep will be so bold to go out

1481
01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:00,200
Speaker 1: the star and keep it moving. I'm thinking this is

1482
01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:04,040
Speaker 1: the level of hell built just for those yes, oh

1483
01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 1: oh god, the nerve to use a nazzy bathroom and

1484
01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: still be like, I think, I don't need.

1485
01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 2: To wash my hands.

1486
01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 1: Mark says, no liners in my office, at least not

1487
01:08:15,080 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 1: in the men's room. I have never been able to

1488
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 1: get one of those to.

1489
01:08:18,360 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 2: Stay of fixing the seat anyway. It is a beast though.

1490
01:08:21,400 --> 01:08:24,200
Speaker 1: I hate that, like I need the liner, but the

1491
01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:29,640
Speaker 1: liner is not the business because it's it's like the

1492
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 1: hospital gown of protection, you.

1493
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:34,960
Speaker 3: Know, it's like the low quality condoms.

1494
01:08:35,120 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 1: I need, like a complete disposable like toilet seat.

1495
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:42,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to get the ones. You're good, you

1496
01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:43,240
Speaker 3: get the damn.

1497
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:44,839
Speaker 2: Ones you been like, Yeah, it's the worst.

1498
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 3: Who made this lifestyle?

1499
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 2: Now? I got a combination of of liners.

1500
01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:52,440
Speaker 3: I won't Trojan liners.

1501
01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 1: I've never been a gett one of those stall fixing

1502
01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:57,120
Speaker 1: the seed anyway. I would rather drive all the way

1503
01:08:57,120 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 1: home than doce at the office. I understand the guy's

1504
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,559
Speaker 1: on the morning, Uh go in with the morning paper.

1505
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 1: They're smartphone radar clock in for business. Yeah, that's a

1506
01:09:06,080 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 1: that's a specific type of lazy, the people that are

1507
01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:12,080
Speaker 1: like I am just here to get paid to ship,

1508
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: you know, you know how game like that's a specific

1509
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 1: brand of laziness you just don't see often.

1510
01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:24,000
Speaker 3: But I got up just enough time to barely make

1511
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 3: it here, and now it's time to ship.

1512
01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 1: Episode two thousand and two. While Body keeps Winning was

1513
01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:33,240
Speaker 1: the name of that episode. We had one comment, and

1514
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:36,760
Speaker 1: then of course we got the poll and let me

1515
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:41,559
Speaker 1: see if some more names loaded. Rachel h You're the

1516
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:45,800
Speaker 1: next contestant on my phone is finally loading one at

1517
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:50,920
Speaker 1: a time. So the comment was from a mom who

1518
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:53,920
Speaker 1: says the black capitalist segment had me rolling hope y'all

1519
01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 1: had a great holiday, and mon, thank you, we did

1520
01:09:57,160 --> 01:10:00,160
Speaker 1: have a great holiday, and I'm glad that, uh you

1521
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 1: liked that segment. A lot of people was on Twitter

1522
01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:05,759
Speaker 1: talking about they liked that segment or on my Facebook page,

1523
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:07,960
Speaker 1: And now I guess they're more in on the joke

1524
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:10,680
Speaker 1: when I share these articles on Facebook and put that

1525
01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:15,080
Speaker 1: put that capitalist in there. Uh did Jada mess up

1526
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 1: by not physically murdering TI live on Facebook? Yes, she

1527
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:23,400
Speaker 1: should have killed him to send a message. No, then

1528
01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:26,559
Speaker 1: she would be throwing away her life for nothing. Or

1529
01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:29,400
Speaker 1: maybe just stab him a little bit, but not murder him.

1530
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:35,599
Speaker 1: Ah Karen b b So No, she would have been

1531
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 1: throwing her whole life away from nothing. Well, thirty five

1532
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:41,439
Speaker 1: percent of the audience agrees with care, twelve percent feel

1533
01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:43,640
Speaker 1: like she should have killed him to send a message,

1534
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 1: and fifty three percent say maybe just stab him a

1535
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 1: little but not murder him. I understand, Ama says, I mean,

1536
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 1: if you can't trust your friends to shank you, are

1537
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:52,679
Speaker 1: you really friends?

1538
01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 2: Nigga? You done messed up.

1539
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:57,040
Speaker 1: Shang Chang Chang Chang Chang chanink t I in hospital

1540
01:10:57,080 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: and the doctor said, Jada missed all his major arteries

1541
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:00,120
Speaker 1: of organs.

1542
01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:03,160
Speaker 2: That's that's why I love. I know Sis cares about me.

1543
01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: I understand patriarchy now, a term I've never heard before.

1544
01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:10,000
Speaker 3: Oh did you know they have toilet seat covers that

1545
01:11:10,040 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 3: fists over the whole toilet?

1546
01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 2: Baby? I no, I didn't know that.

1547
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 1: Maybe you should invest in something for your job, or

1548
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:16,439
Speaker 1: send it to your manager and tell.

1549
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 2: Her to buy some for everybody.

1550
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:21,400
Speaker 1: Mark says, to quote Sophia from Color Purple, he ain't

1551
01:11:21,479 --> 01:11:23,960
Speaker 1: worth it. Let that man do right by his daughter

1552
01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 1: or live in his shame. Either way, it's on him.

1553
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:30,559
Speaker 2: I guess. I mean.

1554
01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:32,799
Speaker 1: But the other thing is that Jada want that content.

1555
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:37,800
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all niggas know them clicks count, They good,

1556
01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:38,759
Speaker 1: red table, good.

1557
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 3: For getting a good guess that's their job.

1558
01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 1: If you black and you get in some controversy. I mean,

1559
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:45,800
Speaker 1: they gotta be on the short list of places you

1560
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 1: can go. And let's be frank, the other people on

1561
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:51,000
Speaker 1: the list are not places any of you niggas respect.

1562
01:11:51,080 --> 01:11:51,920
Speaker 2: So let's be real.

1563
01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:54,920
Speaker 1: If they was, if TI I go is the breakfast club,

1564
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:58,040
Speaker 1: none of us is like, they'll put them the task.

1565
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 2: None of you that shit. Oh Steve harveyal set the

1566
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:04,599
Speaker 2: record straight, like, get the fuck out of here.

1567
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 1: That's the best place to go. It's the closest you're

1568
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:09,559
Speaker 1: gonna get to what y'all want. And the other places

1569
01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:11,920
Speaker 1: that y'all really really think they should go, Nigga, they

1570
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:14,599
Speaker 1: are never going there, of course, not any place where

1571
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:17,679
Speaker 1: somebody would literally read them fulfilth and tell them name shit.

1572
01:12:18,320 --> 01:12:21,680
Speaker 2: It's a place them motherfuckers will never be. Nigga. Could

1573
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:24,840
Speaker 2: have been on Joe Budden podcast. Y'all welcome, y'all should think.

1574
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: Jada All, y'all should write her a personal letter like

1575
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 1: you did the best you could, because we know the

1576
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 1: alternatives was way worse. Come on, Brooklyn Shoe Base says

1577
01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 1: t I going to get what he deserves. Jada out

1578
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:38,519
Speaker 1: here living her best life. She doesn't need to mess

1579
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 1: up for that food. I wish there was more of

1580
01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 1: a pushback regarding the idea of mobs controlling daughters' bodies.

1581
01:12:44,200 --> 01:12:46,400
Speaker 1: Parents care for their children by feeding them, dressing them,

1582
01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: making sure they are appropriately prepared for life.

1583
01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 2: The Hoyman thing is beyond that.

1584
01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 1: Shaking my head, this hits the nerve and I can't

1585
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,519
Speaker 1: really think too hard about it without getting emotional.

1586
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I know what you're saying.

1587
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 1: I do think the thing is beyond the pale, obviously, right.

1588
01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:09,280
Speaker 1: But I also think there's some legitimacy to with girls

1589
01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:11,720
Speaker 1: feeling like their bodies were controlled by their moms on

1590
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 1: a way that wasn't fair to them, that was not.

1591
01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 2: That was not something that was placed upon their.

1592
01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 1: Brothers and other siblings to that nature.

1593
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:26,719
Speaker 2: So I can see how it would be, like, shit,

1594
01:13:26,840 --> 01:13:27,439
Speaker 2: we all know.

1595
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:30,160
Speaker 1: Moms have their women that like, my mom did traumatic

1596
01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 1: damage to me over my body developing and changing and shit.

1597
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:35,280
Speaker 2: So I can see.

1598
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: The idea of women enforcing that same patriarchy but in

1599
01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 1: a different way, and society being more okay with it.

1600
01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:46,879
Speaker 1: Like there are women that are yelling at their daughters

1601
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:49,600
Speaker 1: like keep your legs clothed and your mouth clothes and

1602
01:13:49,640 --> 01:13:53,599
Speaker 1: shit like that. Yeah, don't be don't you know, don't

1603
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:56,559
Speaker 1: wear this dressed out, don't wear your hair like this,

1604
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:00,200
Speaker 1: you know, don't wear this certain type of bra. So, like,

1605
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:04,680
Speaker 1: I can see how there's something there. I don't think

1606
01:14:04,720 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 1: it's the same impulse as like, you know, I equate

1607
01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:11,880
Speaker 1: what TI I did more than like chastity dances and shit,

1608
01:14:12,479 --> 01:14:14,920
Speaker 1: you know, those those those motherfuckers that make their daughters

1609
01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 1: promise them chastity until they meet the man they're gonna

1610
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:22,240
Speaker 1: marry and shit like. That's how his shit felt to me. Now,

1611
01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:24,160
Speaker 1: maybe he felt he was just protecting hy.

1612
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:27,120
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. It felt creepy to me. Yeah, I

1613
01:14:27,160 --> 01:14:28,559
Speaker 2: feel like that shit is way too far.

1614
01:14:29,120 --> 01:14:31,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think there are ways that women do

1615
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:33,760
Speaker 1: it that we let it go to go.

1616
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 2: That's a woman telling a girl the.

1617
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:39,599
Speaker 1: Same thing, but it's it's she's it's a woman saying

1618
01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 1: and so we can't really say anything. So anyway, that's

1619
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:47,320
Speaker 1: what I think. Yeah, I mean, yeah, but who's gonna

1620
01:14:47,320 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 1: tell a woman tell her daughter? You know what I'm saying, Right,

1621
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:51,639
Speaker 1: It's just different for women.

1622
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:53,759
Speaker 2: It's not ti. I has a point.

1623
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 1: It just doesn't make what he did okay, correct. But

1624
01:14:58,160 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 1: I see how he got to that point because he's

1625
01:14:59,880 --> 01:15:02,280
Speaker 1: not he don't think about this or he's not training

1626
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:02,640
Speaker 1: any of this.

1627
01:15:02,720 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 2: He didn't give a fuck about this shit. He just like, well,

1628
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:07,080
Speaker 2: how come women get to do it? You know?

1629
01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 1: And the truth of the matter is fair or unfair

1630
01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:13,240
Speaker 1: because they're women. That's the real truth.

1631
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:14,599
Speaker 2: Some people you know.

1632
01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 1: Have what some people in our listening artists now have

1633
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:21,559
Speaker 1: traumatic damage from the way that mothers treated them as

1634
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:24,920
Speaker 1: their bodies changed and developed, and the idea that boys

1635
01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 1: may become interested in them.

1636
01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:27,479
Speaker 2: And it wasn't always good.

1637
01:15:27,760 --> 01:15:30,400
Speaker 1: Talked about it on the show, We've read stuff about

1638
01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: it on the show.

1639
01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 2: It's not just men doing this damage, but y'all did

1640
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:34,679
Speaker 2: what spell.

1641
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:37,599
Speaker 1: It's easier for us to single him out and be like, yeah,

1642
01:15:37,800 --> 01:15:41,640
Speaker 1: you're you're crazy. But the impost and the idea of

1643
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 1: protecting a girl from the world by restricting things about

1644
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:53,920
Speaker 1: her and policing her body overly policing her body that

1645
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 1: ain't a man thing. That ain't gonna die with to y'all,

1646
01:15:56,160 --> 01:15:58,000
Speaker 1: that's not gonna die with tiny, that's not gonna die

1647
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 1: with whoever's listening to show that had it happen to them,

1648
01:16:00,840 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 1: or the people passing on that legacy. That's the same

1649
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:05,759
Speaker 1: way I think people need to break the chain of

1650
01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:09,160
Speaker 1: like beating kids and shit. You should break the chain

1651
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:12,880
Speaker 1: of like policing your daughter's body like that, like it

1652
01:16:12,920 --> 01:16:17,720
Speaker 1: belongs to you, not her right. Episode two thousand and

1653
01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:20,920
Speaker 1: three was the last one of the week. Wife Wars.

1654
01:16:21,960 --> 01:16:24,519
Speaker 1: We'll be reviewing Walking Dad, so when we get back

1655
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:28,320
Speaker 1: em Lagman says, I love the openness episode. I think

1656
01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:30,360
Speaker 1: it's why I really enjoyed the book excerpts to start

1657
01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:33,879
Speaker 1: the show. The reading sparked the theoretical and historical discussion

1658
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:36,880
Speaker 1: and then moved to present day examples and then your

1659
01:16:36,920 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 1: own personal experiences with the concept perfect I really got

1660
01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:42,240
Speaker 1: to understanding of things, and it got me thinking. The

1661
01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:44,680
Speaker 1: podcast in general is a fun show with lots of

1662
01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 1: last don't get it twisted.

1663
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:48,040
Speaker 2: You guys are geniuses at your craft.

1664
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:51,240
Speaker 1: Sorry to the listener who isn't digging the book stuff,

1665
01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:52,800
Speaker 1: but I hope it keeps on going.

1666
01:16:52,880 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 2: Best married, Thank you, Thank you. Yeah. And we started

1667
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:57,280
Speaker 2: with the We.

1668
01:16:57,200 --> 01:16:59,760
Speaker 1: Talked about the Black Resistance and how it's changed over

1669
01:16:59,800 --> 01:17:04,080
Speaker 1: the year. Robert Wright saying, I have to start back

1670
01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:06,000
Speaker 1: listening live in the chat so I can help y'all

1671
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 1: pronounce these confusing asks Louisiana city names, because there's always

1672
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:12,519
Speaker 1: an article about some sism happening here.

1673
01:17:13,640 --> 01:17:13,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1674
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 1: My favorite thing is that we never can pronounce that

1675
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:19,760
Speaker 1: shit right because we ain't from there. But let's be real,

1676
01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 1: even if it was in the chat, correcting us it's

1677
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:23,720
Speaker 1: gonna just be fucked up. I'm not gonna get it

1678
01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:26,360
Speaker 1: right and I'm never gonna remember, so it's probably like

1679
01:17:26,400 --> 01:17:28,160
Speaker 1: take it as a little joke for yourself, like, oh,

1680
01:17:28,200 --> 01:17:29,200
Speaker 1: they don't know how to pronounce that.

1681
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:30,360
Speaker 2: That's cute. You know.

1682
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 1: Maybe that makes people realize that we just niggas giving

1683
01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:36,919
Speaker 1: our opinions and not to be so upset when they disagree.

1684
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:40,439
Speaker 2: We don't even know how to pronounce by Tom Ruge, Okay,

1685
01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:41,599
Speaker 2: we just making it up.

1686
01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:46,679
Speaker 1: BSB Babe says love the New Black Capitalism segment, especially

1687
01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 1: Karen's reactions.

1688
01:17:49,160 --> 01:17:52,639
Speaker 2: Karen is not with my agendas so far, but by

1689
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 2: hooking my.

1690
01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:54,920
Speaker 3: Crew, maybe I don't get the joke. I don't know.

1691
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:57,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get this socialism in the show, y'all gonna see.

1692
01:17:57,680 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 1: I'm also still enjoyed reading The Rainbow because it lends

1693
01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:00,960
Speaker 1: self the conversations.

1694
01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 2: Keep it up if you can, we will, will you. Yeah.

1695
01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 1: The only way I won't keep it up is itout reading,

1696
01:18:07,680 --> 01:18:09,040
Speaker 1: and then I'll be like, I don't got nothing to

1697
01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 1: talk about.

1698
01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:13,960
Speaker 2: Who was Patrick Patterson calling a bulldog? That was the pole?

1699
01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 1: Still that man's wife for me personally, still probably my

1700
01:18:18,360 --> 01:18:22,080
Speaker 1: funny the funniest uh story that we covered all week,

1701
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:24,799
Speaker 1: and there were some funny stories, but man, that tickled

1702
01:18:24,840 --> 01:18:28,799
Speaker 1: me so good. Knowing that that dude did not really

1703
01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:31,640
Speaker 1: mean to get as much smoke as he got too

1704
01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 1: much dip on your chick anyway, don't matter.

1705
01:18:34,240 --> 01:18:37,880
Speaker 2: Now the poll results are all.

1706
01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:43,719
Speaker 1: Black women, duh, all of them that man's wife, dumb

1707
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:46,559
Speaker 1: or don't matter he getting fried?

1708
01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 2: Will B and C? All right?

1709
01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:51,000
Speaker 3: Can you pick more than what choice?

1710
01:18:51,280 --> 01:18:51,519
Speaker 2: Nope?

1711
01:18:51,720 --> 01:18:55,360
Speaker 1: Only one fifteen percent say all black women. He called

1712
01:18:55,439 --> 01:19:00,880
Speaker 1: all black women bulldogs. Okay, thirty three said say that

1713
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:04,040
Speaker 1: man's wife, which is probably the correct answer.

1714
01:19:05,120 --> 01:19:07,320
Speaker 2: But then fifty three percent say the answer that I

1715
01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:10,120
Speaker 2: really would go with if I was picking. It don't

1716
01:19:10,200 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 2: matter because he getting fried. It matter.

1717
01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 1: You shouldn't have said nothing about nobody. Man, your ass

1718
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:16,559
Speaker 1: got cooked.

1719
01:19:16,840 --> 01:19:17,679
Speaker 2: It was so good.

1720
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:20,120
Speaker 3: It was so good. Did anybody else pop up on

1721
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:21,800
Speaker 3: the thing or we finished.

1722
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 2: On the on my phone?

1723
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:25,800
Speaker 1: Yes, I mean we got other segments to get to,

1724
01:19:25,880 --> 01:19:30,559
Speaker 1: but yeah, sure, uh stephand h popped up on the phone.

1725
01:19:31,000 --> 01:19:34,799
Speaker 1: And now it's loading for uh Shanna a girl, Shanna,

1726
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:36,760
Speaker 1: she shut us.

1727
01:19:36,760 --> 01:19:42,960
Speaker 2: Up and Jonathan W. Jonathan H.

1728
01:19:43,760 --> 01:19:48,320
Speaker 1: Stal loaded all right, Corey b Uh. We had one

1729
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:53,040
Speaker 1: voicemail to play for the show. You can he was

1730
01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 1: a voicemail seven or four five five seven zero one

1731
01:19:56,600 --> 01:20:00,360
Speaker 1: a six and we'll uh play it on the air

1732
01:20:00,400 --> 01:20:02,800
Speaker 1: as long as it's two minutes or less. We only

1733
01:20:02,800 --> 01:20:05,640
Speaker 1: had one this week, but we appreciate the people. The

1734
01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:09,000
Speaker 1: time seven or four five five seven zero one eighty

1735
01:20:09,000 --> 01:20:12,760
Speaker 1: six is where you lead the voicemails. But yeah, if

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01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:15,640
Speaker 1: you go over two minutes, it cuts your ass off automatically.

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01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:18,599
Speaker 1: It's pre programmed, and then it looks real awkward because

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Speaker 1: you got a call.

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01:20:19,320 --> 01:20:21,639
Speaker 2: Back and Hey, Rod and Carry, this is Brent.

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01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:24,720
Speaker 4: It's been a long time since I've called in, but

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01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:28,719
Speaker 4: I just wanted to congratulate you all on your two

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01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 4: thousand episode.

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01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:31,400
Speaker 3: Man.

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01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:35,679
Speaker 4: I'm so happy for you and your wife is starting out.

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01:20:37,520 --> 01:20:39,680
Speaker 4: I guess just a dream. And I've seen you out

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01:20:39,720 --> 01:20:43,880
Speaker 4: bro your podcast change up things. And I wasn't there

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01:20:43,920 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 4: for the first one, but I've been. But I've been

1748
01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:49,719
Speaker 4: listening a long time and I appreciate you. I don't

1749
01:20:49,800 --> 01:20:52,040
Speaker 4: always agree with you, and that's one of the reasons

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01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:54,479
Speaker 4: I might to listen to you, man, because through you,

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01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 4: we've learned that all black people are not a monolis

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01:20:57,360 --> 01:21:02,960
Speaker 4: all people we have different, different, different views and different stances,

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01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 4: even as African, even within our own community. And so you,

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01:21:07,120 --> 01:21:09,360
Speaker 4: through you, I've learned to look at things from someone

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01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:14,280
Speaker 4: else's perspective. And I just appreciate you, man, So have

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Speaker 4: a good one.

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Speaker 1: Man.

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01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:19,599
Speaker 2: Here's for two thousand more. Take care O. Thank you

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01:21:19,680 --> 01:21:21,519
Speaker 2: may goes way back with the show.

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01:21:21,560 --> 01:21:26,000
Speaker 1: Appreciate you listening, Thank you for congratulating us on the milestone.

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01:21:26,200 --> 01:21:28,679
Speaker 2: And I mean me personally. You don't have to agree

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01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:28,920
Speaker 2: with me.

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01:21:29,040 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 1: I definitely don't feel like you know, if you listen

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01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:34,120
Speaker 1: to the show, you don't agree with everything I say.

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01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:36,479
Speaker 2: But I will say this, if you don't agree with me,

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01:21:36,600 --> 01:21:37,280
Speaker 2: you are a coon.

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01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:40,519
Speaker 1: So that's not a true statement because I mean, I'm

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01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:42,519
Speaker 1: not saying black people are a monolift. I'm just saying

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01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:45,960
Speaker 1: all the niggas that don't agree with me are basically

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01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:46,799
Speaker 1: Steven A Smith.

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Speaker 3: So no, you know.

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01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,360
Speaker 1: I say, stop checking the jobing for the white folks

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01:21:51,360 --> 01:21:53,040
Speaker 1: and just agree with me on everything.

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01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:54,879
Speaker 3: No, that's not a true statement.

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01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:57,320
Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, well okay, I guess Karen's trying to have

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01:21:57,400 --> 01:21:58,400
Speaker 1: your back for some reason.

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01:21:58,479 --> 01:21:58,920
Speaker 2: I don't get it.

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01:21:58,960 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 3: I'm trying to be reasonable.

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01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:02,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I personally don't understand.

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01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:03,800
Speaker 3: What if you expressed by rise?

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01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 1: Okay, right now, you sound kind of like a coon. Okay,

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01:22:07,960 --> 01:22:11,120
Speaker 1: I mean the way, the way you're going over just

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01:22:11,160 --> 01:22:14,720
Speaker 1: be a coon. Yeah, I can see that because the

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01:22:14,720 --> 01:22:15,240
Speaker 1: way you're.

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01:22:15,080 --> 01:22:19,880
Speaker 2: Going over there trying to capitalist mm hmmmm, trying to

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01:22:19,920 --> 01:22:20,679
Speaker 2: defend this coon.

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01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 3: And now you got I got my tap dancer shoes on.

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01:22:23,360 --> 01:22:24,240
Speaker 3: You want to see your word?

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01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:27,479
Speaker 2: Won't you take me that? I want some real good food.

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01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:37,720
Speaker 2: I want shocking it.

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01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:40,719
Speaker 3: Mm hmmmmm, No, I don't mind.

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01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:48,679
Speaker 2: Ta. She was right, all right, let'sten. But nah, seriously,

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01:22:49,400 --> 01:22:55,200
Speaker 2: who the fuck agrees with everything anyone says? Shout out

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01:22:55,240 --> 01:23:00,439
Speaker 2: to Andy S. Darwin, M Darwin, M appreciate you you.

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01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 1: And now I got to wait on the emails the

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01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:09,679
Speaker 1: load for my regular thing, okay, Mr Spad, But yeah,

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01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:11,920
Speaker 1: so you can email us too. The blackoutis at gmail

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01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:15,200
Speaker 1: dot com. We're gonna read those now. Nurse TikTok. This

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01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:20,479
Speaker 1: is by Rhea, who says, uh, Hi, Rod and Karen

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01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:22,639
Speaker 1: weighing in on the we can tell when you fake

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01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:24,879
Speaker 1: in TikTok video and the reaction from the masses.

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01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:27,479
Speaker 2: My initial reaction I'm watching the video was to chuckle.

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01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:30,800
Speaker 1: As a healthcare professional, you develop a different type of humor,

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01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:33,200
Speaker 1: one that is often morbid and what seem inappropriate to

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01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:36,120
Speaker 1: those not also within the field. I believe it comes

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01:23:36,120 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 1: from dealing with the sick and dying on a daily basis.

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01:23:38,360 --> 01:23:41,680
Speaker 1: We also deal with the not so ill people just

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01:23:41,720 --> 01:23:44,160
Speaker 1: as frequently and probably think we can spot someone faking

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01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:47,639
Speaker 1: as a result. Hence to chuckle, Yeah, I think, yeah,

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01:23:47,720 --> 01:23:49,240
Speaker 1: I mean, they have a word for that, and I

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01:23:49,280 --> 01:23:50,080
Speaker 1: forget what it's called.

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Speaker 3: I understand that doctors probably do the same thing.

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01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:54,600
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, but I remember we did an article about.

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01:23:55,200 --> 01:23:57,000
Speaker 3: It's almost like a disconnect.

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01:23:57,600 --> 01:24:02,519
Speaker 1: We did an article about ambulance ambulance drivers or something,

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01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:05,639
Speaker 1: and they did a joke that got them fired. But then,

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01:24:05,800 --> 01:24:09,680
Speaker 1: like the article explored this constant where you work, in

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01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:12,120
Speaker 1: these jobs that require you to see shit that w

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01:24:12,320 --> 01:24:17,000
Speaker 1: motherfuckers die every day, you start finding humor and joy

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01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:18,760
Speaker 1: and like trying to normalize it in your brain.

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01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:20,800
Speaker 2: And sometimes it takes these horrible.

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01:24:21,000 --> 01:24:26,000
Speaker 1: Obviously offensive the like what's funny to you is not

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01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:27,240
Speaker 1: funny to everybody, because.

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Speaker 3: Right it's one of those things where within the group

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01:24:28,920 --> 01:24:31,080
Speaker 3: it's one thing you get outside of that group general public,

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01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:32,000
Speaker 3: like this ain't funny.

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01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:34,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I forget what it's called. It's something something with empathy.

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01:24:34,880 --> 01:24:38,360
Speaker 1: But anyway, the more I thought thought about it, though,

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01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:40,760
Speaker 1: the less funny and more concerned I found a video.

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01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:42,320
Speaker 2: The issue I and a lot.

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01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:44,479
Speaker 1: Of other people have with the video is that, despite

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01:24:44,479 --> 01:24:46,439
Speaker 1: occasionally having to urge and roll my eyes, if someone's

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01:24:46,479 --> 01:24:48,920
Speaker 1: complaining of pain, anxiety, feeling weak, or whatever it may be,

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01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:51,759
Speaker 1: it's our job to assess the patient and that complain

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01:24:51,840 --> 01:24:53,880
Speaker 1: and intervene. The idea of dancing to the beat of

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01:24:53,920 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 1: someone's shortness of breath is just off putting. People die

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01:24:57,479 --> 01:25:01,120
Speaker 1: every day because of medical and nursing mistakes, including that

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01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:03,559
Speaker 1: what is called a failure to rescue, which is literally

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01:25:03,560 --> 01:25:06,519
Speaker 1: a healthcare professional not recognize the situation at leads to death.

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01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:08,559
Speaker 1: Everyone makes the stakes of their job, no matter how

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01:25:08,600 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 1: great the work you are, but our mistakes communit difference

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01:25:10,520 --> 01:25:12,120
Speaker 1: between life and death. And while I realized it was

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01:25:12,160 --> 01:25:14,080
Speaker 1: a joke and it wasn't meant to be that deep,

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01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:16,280
Speaker 1: the joke seems to ask hit the spot I wasn't

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01:25:16,280 --> 01:25:20,439
Speaker 1: aware with so sensitive. Welcome to Twitter, mm hm, Twitter,

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01:25:20,760 --> 01:25:22,640
Speaker 1: All the jokes hit the spot that you didn't know

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01:25:22,720 --> 01:25:23,240
Speaker 1: was sensitive.

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01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:25,599
Speaker 2: Why the chicken across the road, Nigga, My.

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01:25:25,520 --> 01:25:29,240
Speaker 3: Mama was a chicken and she wouldn't even across the road.

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01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:31,519
Speaker 2: I need a trigger, I need a trigger warning for

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01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:32,479
Speaker 2: these chicken jokes.

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01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:34,160
Speaker 3: And a white car hit her.

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01:25:35,520 --> 01:25:38,080
Speaker 1: You ain't say nothing about the classism of that sense,

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01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:39,920
Speaker 1: but were not ready for that conversation.

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01:25:41,080 --> 01:25:41,200
Speaker 2: Uh.

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01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:43,040
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a result of being a black woman in

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01:25:43,080 --> 01:25:44,800
Speaker 1: the field. But I'm very aware of the discrepancy is

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01:25:44,800 --> 01:25:47,879
Speaker 1: in the quality of care we receive. Anecdotally, we the blacks,

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01:25:47,920 --> 01:25:50,400
Speaker 1: do die more often from preventable errors. We are often

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01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:53,839
Speaker 1: undertreated for pay, We are scrutinized more heavily when we complaining.

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01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:55,760
Speaker 1: Doctors do test us more frequently.

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01:25:55,600 --> 01:25:56,720
Speaker 2: For drug alcohol use.

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01:25:56,840 --> 01:25:59,519
Speaker 1: Literally the very night at the first seeing the video

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01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:01,160
Speaker 1: with the work, I had an argument with the nurse,

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01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:03,439
Speaker 1: also black, who was hesitant to medicate someone for pain

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01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:06,400
Speaker 1: because she was not really in pain. Yeah, we talked

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01:26:06,439 --> 01:26:08,480
Speaker 1: about that all the time on the show. Serena Williams

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01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:11,439
Speaker 1: Beyonce I asthma as a kid.

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01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:14,400
Speaker 2: Many people. I wrote the whole thing about it on Medium.

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01:26:15,040 --> 01:26:16,880
Speaker 1: I guess I'm just at a point where I'm looking

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01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:19,160
Speaker 1: around in my field that other members of the healthcare team,

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01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:21,519
Speaker 1: and wondering how these same people would treat me and

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01:26:21,520 --> 01:26:23,160
Speaker 1: my family members in the event one of us was

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01:26:23,200 --> 01:26:26,160
Speaker 1: complaining that we couldn't breathe, which in turn brings to

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01:26:26,200 --> 01:26:29,439
Speaker 1: mind Eric Gardner. No, it wasn't nurses that ignore him,

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01:26:29,479 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 1: but still trained professionals who should have recognized a critical situation.

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01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:35,640
Speaker 1: This whole society seems to just dismiss the pain and

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01:26:35,680 --> 01:26:38,200
Speaker 1: suffering of others. And it feels like her video slacked

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01:26:38,200 --> 01:26:40,519
Speaker 1: a lot of people in the face with that. Yeah,

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01:26:40,640 --> 01:26:45,240
Speaker 1: I mean, people made it about being black, and even

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01:26:45,240 --> 01:26:48,160
Speaker 1: though she's black, people made it about like this is

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01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 1: because like there's no reason that we really should feel

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01:26:52,360 --> 01:26:57,800
Speaker 1: that she meant I want to mistreat and ignore the

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01:26:57,840 --> 01:26:59,240
Speaker 1: real symptoms of black people.

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01:26:59,360 --> 01:27:00,800
Speaker 2: Right, But when you.

1886
01:27:00,800 --> 01:27:03,280
Speaker 1: Put something out there like that in the environment that

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01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:07,120
Speaker 1: is today and especially on Twitter, that is what it's

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01:27:07,200 --> 01:27:09,280
Speaker 1: going to become, whether you fucking meant it to be

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01:27:09,400 --> 01:27:12,439
Speaker 1: or not, right, because we like to make everybody shit

1890
01:27:12,600 --> 01:27:15,439
Speaker 1: about us, but black people be on Twitter a lot,

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01:27:15,479 --> 01:27:18,200
Speaker 1: so it's like your shit might it might have just

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01:27:18,600 --> 01:27:22,200
Speaker 1: been an ill time, bad joke about anyone. Now it's

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01:27:22,240 --> 01:27:26,960
Speaker 1: about the black maternity death rate, because that's what the

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01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:30,360
Speaker 1: fuck we deal with. Add to that info, add to

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01:27:30,360 --> 01:27:32,599
Speaker 1: that info that's floating around that she's a mental health

1896
01:27:32,600 --> 01:27:35,160
Speaker 1: tech and the stigma around mental illness and a mess.

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01:27:35,479 --> 01:27:38,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's that info real. Is that verified?

1898
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:41,519
Speaker 1: Because you know Twitter, you don't know these motherfuckers be

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01:27:41,520 --> 01:27:41,960
Speaker 1: saying shit.

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01:27:42,040 --> 01:27:44,040
Speaker 2: You gotta verify that shit for real.

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Speaker 1: AnyWho, thanks for reading. Thanks for the show. You're one

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01:27:47,560 --> 01:27:50,280
Speaker 1: of my favorite podcasts. Definitely my favorite podcasting couple. The

1903
01:27:50,320 --> 01:27:52,599
Speaker 1: work you do is valuable, keeping us stressed out listeners

1904
01:27:52,640 --> 01:27:54,680
Speaker 1: company and making us laugh. I appreciate you and have

1905
01:27:54,760 --> 01:27:56,680
Speaker 1: gotten quite a few people hooked on your brand of

1906
01:27:56,760 --> 01:27:59,559
Speaker 1: fund feels appropriate that my first email was to response

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01:27:59,600 --> 01:28:02,280
Speaker 1: to the episode two thousand Congress on another milestone.

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01:28:02,360 --> 01:28:04,760
Speaker 2: Key up the excellent work, real, thank you, thank you.

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01:28:05,800 --> 01:28:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah man, And I mean, I just listened to this

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01:28:08,080 --> 01:28:11,600
Speaker 1: podcast American Scandal, and they talked about the Tuskegee experiments

1911
01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 1: and they ended it with an interview of this black

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01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:17,720
Speaker 1: woman who's a journalist who talked about the black maternity

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01:28:17,760 --> 01:28:18,240
Speaker 1: death rate.

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01:28:18,800 --> 01:28:22,400
Speaker 2: So these problems are systemic.

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01:28:23,080 --> 01:28:25,519
Speaker 1: It's not even just a well if black people care

1916
01:28:25,560 --> 01:28:28,040
Speaker 1: for black people, even other black people can be calius

1917
01:28:28,080 --> 01:28:33,560
Speaker 1: towards black people, not believing in black pain, not communicating

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01:28:33,600 --> 01:28:36,240
Speaker 1: and taking people seriously when they tell you they're in

1919
01:28:36,280 --> 01:28:39,120
Speaker 1: pain when they're experiencing certain things. I mean, all these

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01:28:39,160 --> 01:28:42,080
Speaker 1: things are real, and they're just now in twenty nineteen,

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01:28:42,560 --> 01:28:45,840
Speaker 1: exploring the idea that oh it's race, Like it's not

1922
01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:51,799
Speaker 1: the you know, income, it's not lifestyle, it's race. White

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01:28:51,800 --> 01:28:54,000
Speaker 1: women who make a certain amount of money in a

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01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:58,479
Speaker 1: certain type of shape have a much lower mortality rate.

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01:28:58,560 --> 01:29:01,840
Speaker 3: And numbers don't die. Somebody was like, wow, look at

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01:29:01,880 --> 01:29:04,160
Speaker 3: all these black people dying and these white people are

1927
01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:07,120
Speaker 3: not dying. What is the factor that's causing these extra.

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01:29:06,840 --> 01:29:09,360
Speaker 2: Del Numbers don't die exactly.

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01:29:09,000 --> 01:29:09,680
Speaker 3: Numbers don't lie.

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Speaker 2: My bad.

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01:29:10,240 --> 01:29:15,320
Speaker 1: No, Actually that's actually a better But then also the

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01:29:15,360 --> 01:29:18,519
Speaker 1: other thing was, even when you account for who the

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01:29:18,600 --> 01:29:21,320
Speaker 1: fuck like it's taking care of somebody, none of it

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01:29:21,400 --> 01:29:25,280
Speaker 1: really matters. And America in general has a higher mortality

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01:29:25,400 --> 01:29:32,120
Speaker 1: rate for women in pregnancy than other civilized, what is

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01:29:32,120 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 1: the right, industrialized countries than other ones. So even with

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01:29:35,920 --> 01:29:38,680
Speaker 1: white women, they still died a much higher rate in

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01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:41,479
Speaker 1: this country than other places. So it's like it's a

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01:29:41,520 --> 01:29:45,880
Speaker 1: systemic thing. Amber says Reading Rainbow with a Rainbow Moji.

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01:29:46,560 --> 01:29:48,559
Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all something First. I listen to my

1941
01:29:48,600 --> 01:29:50,640
Speaker 1: car so often I'm not able to put out my

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01:29:50,720 --> 01:29:52,679
Speaker 1: pull off my phone and file for email to y'all

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01:29:52,920 --> 01:29:53,240
Speaker 1: when I.

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01:29:53,200 --> 01:29:54,760
Speaker 2: Hear something I want to get feedback on.

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01:29:54,880 --> 01:29:57,040
Speaker 1: But since there's been a lot of talk about the

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01:29:57,080 --> 01:29:59,599
Speaker 1: Reading Rainbow and I have a free moment, I wanted

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01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:02,479
Speaker 1: to share my thoughts. I gotta say I did agree

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01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:04,920
Speaker 1: with that young woman and said she reads a lot

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01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:06,280
Speaker 1: and that she gets bummed.

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01:30:06,000 --> 01:30:06,960
Speaker 2: Out by the exerts.

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01:30:07,240 --> 01:30:09,599
Speaker 1: I read a lot, and I'm quite knowledgeable about a lot,

1952
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Speaker 1: if not most, of the socio political topics covered on

1953
01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:13,960
Speaker 1: the show, and it can get kind of the pressient

1954
01:30:14,000 --> 01:30:16,200
Speaker 1: that have to be faced. We'll talk about this stuff

1955
01:30:16,280 --> 01:30:18,680
Speaker 1: all the time. But then I had to slow my

1956
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Speaker 1: roll and remember that one is not about me. Two,

1957
01:30:21,920 --> 01:30:24,600
Speaker 1: there are people that can and are benefiting from the

1958
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Speaker 1: Reading Rainbow segments of the show. Yeah, not to mention

1959
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Speaker 1: the other thing I'll throw on it before I finished

1960
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Speaker 1: reading this is you also know about the topics of

1961
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Speaker 1: the day and our socio political commentary on that.

1962
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Speaker 2: You actually don't need me to tell you that.

1963
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Speaker 1: I think TH's full of shit, right, And every podcast

1964
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Speaker 1: is gonna tell you that you listen to probably that

1965
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:50,120
Speaker 1: TI o's full of shit. So I ain't really adding

1966
01:30:50,160 --> 01:30:52,559
Speaker 1: nothing new to that conversation either. I think people just

1967
01:30:52,560 --> 01:30:55,280
Speaker 1: feel affirmed by the fact that we're sharing that. Well,

1968
01:30:55,439 --> 01:30:57,840
Speaker 1: you know, we also want to share our opinions on

1969
01:30:57,880 --> 01:31:00,880
Speaker 1: other things people aren't talking about. At the first it

1970
01:31:00,960 --> 01:31:02,479
Speaker 1: did feel like a drag, but let me tell you,

1971
01:31:02,560 --> 01:31:04,760
Speaker 1: when Karen starts talking about her relationship with her mother,

1972
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Speaker 1: trust I have teared up a few times.

1973
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Speaker 2: Multiple times.

1974
01:31:08,040 --> 01:31:11,360
Speaker 1: I can relate and hearing someone else expressed their feelings

1975
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:13,760
Speaker 1: and journey of healing around their relationship with their mom.

1976
01:31:13,800 --> 01:31:18,080
Speaker 1: Few it's therapeutic now where the rapt lyrics fun and

1977
01:31:18,120 --> 01:31:20,519
Speaker 1: light hearted, absolutely, and I loved it. But I'm seeing

1978
01:31:20,520 --> 01:31:22,040
Speaker 1: now that this segment so as a purpose, And I

1979
01:31:22,080 --> 01:31:25,160
Speaker 1: love how y'all unapologetically have full control over your show,

1980
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Speaker 1: and I admire your willingness to voice that and keep

1981
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Speaker 1: doing you even among descent.

1982
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Speaker 2: Love what you do best. Amber end.

1983
01:31:31,720 --> 01:31:34,200
Speaker 1: Also, ps and X told me about your podcast and

1984
01:31:34,240 --> 01:31:36,040
Speaker 1: it's the best thing he could have done for me.

1985
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Speaker 1: Shout out to you with the positive X shout out

1986
01:31:40,160 --> 01:31:42,200
Speaker 1: normally it's an X put me on this podcast.

1987
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Speaker 2: I hope he's still listening to Rotten Hell like this

1988
01:31:45,000 --> 01:31:47,200
Speaker 2: was positive. Yes, So shout out to you.

1989
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Speaker 3: Thank you baby, and I'm glad that you have that understanding,

1990
01:31:52,439 --> 01:31:56,320
Speaker 3: because that's the whole purpose. Like I said, for people,

1991
01:31:56,320 --> 01:32:01,000
Speaker 3: there are people that actually do do a lot of

1992
01:32:01,040 --> 01:32:03,880
Speaker 3: reading and understanding things like that, but there are people

1993
01:32:04,320 --> 01:32:06,280
Speaker 3: where they're hearing these a search for the first time.

1994
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Speaker 3: They're hearing these tell us talk about these books for

1995
01:32:08,240 --> 01:32:11,000
Speaker 3: the first time. A lot of this stuff is new,

1996
01:32:11,520 --> 01:32:16,120
Speaker 3: and so it's one of those things to where I

1997
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Speaker 3: like to have the conversation with Roger. I like that

1998
01:32:19,320 --> 01:32:22,320
Speaker 3: we're talking about various different things that can actually relate

1999
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Speaker 3: to today, and so we're actually talking about shit today,

2000
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Speaker 3: but in a different manner, in a different way. It's

2001
01:32:28,680 --> 01:32:31,519
Speaker 3: not the same wash, rents and repeat that everybody else

2002
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Speaker 3: is doing. And a lot of times things we are

2003
01:32:34,880 --> 01:32:37,200
Speaker 3: talking about even though they might have happened years ago,

2004
01:32:37,600 --> 01:32:39,880
Speaker 3: you know, for some people who might not understand and

2005
01:32:39,920 --> 01:32:42,080
Speaker 3: don't know the history like that, it allows them to

2006
01:32:42,080 --> 01:32:43,960
Speaker 3: connect the dots in a way that they might not

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Speaker 3: have been thinking about before.

2008
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Speaker 1: Also, we're giving our lives like we're giving people glimpses

2009
01:32:50,640 --> 01:32:55,720
Speaker 1: of like our childhoods our marriage, Like it's deeper than

2010
01:32:55,840 --> 01:32:58,760
Speaker 1: just you know that it's what people take from it,

2011
01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:01,040
Speaker 1: but it's deeper than that, know, and if people let

2012
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Speaker 1: it grow, they'll see that it's not always a black

2013
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Speaker 1: history thing or something like a serious issue.

2014
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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's just funny shit.

2015
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Speaker 1: Sometimes it's gonna be silly, light, hardest shit, just like

2016
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Speaker 1: the Rappler, you know. And also there were people that

2017
01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:15,280
Speaker 1: didn't like the rapp Lers. I remember people writing in

2018
01:33:15,680 --> 01:33:17,800
Speaker 1: you know, oh, so you're playing rap lyric that says

2019
01:33:17,840 --> 01:33:19,679
Speaker 1: the word bitch, but you won't say I'm like nigga.

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Speaker 1: Calm down, Jesus Christ, it ain't laughing death. Jeff M

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Speaker 1: recurring donator.

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Speaker 2: Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: Micole F thank you as well. Earlier Daisy Photography, Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Michael W.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: My phone is like a gold that s called the

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Speaker 1: your h Marvin B. Yes, Marvin B. J Full, thank you,

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Speaker 1: Asia D. Solana s nerves and luxury, those luxurious ass nerves.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. And now it's loading again. Missus

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Speaker 1: span Wright saying toilet liners, Karen, I too refused to

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Speaker 1: sit on my black ass on a public toilet without

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Speaker 1: a liner. Unfortunately, at my job we run out of

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Speaker 1: them rather quickly because you've got about one hundred and

2034
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Speaker 1: seventy guys in my station, and a good number of

2035
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Speaker 1: them I have to take their morning constitution at the

2036
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Speaker 1: job as opposed a home.

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Speaker 2: But for me, what urks me the most is when you.

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Speaker 1: Get the liner in that boy and you gotta really

2039
01:34:11,560 --> 01:34:13,960
Speaker 1: gotta go, and the automatic toilet just flushes that liner

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Speaker 1: right on down the drain.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like it reads your black chicks and be like,

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01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:19,200
Speaker 3: you know, oh you're trying.

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01:34:18,960 --> 01:34:21,920
Speaker 2: To get I hate that ship. I hate that shit.

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01:34:22,400 --> 01:34:25,080
Speaker 1: Now you got you got closed halfway undone got to

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01:34:25,080 --> 01:34:27,680
Speaker 1: step out the star, get another one, hopefully sit down

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01:34:27,720 --> 01:34:29,639
Speaker 1: quick enough so the toilet don't flush it down again.

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Speaker 1: But when the worst comes the worst and they ain't

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Speaker 1: got any I just use toilet paper because our fuses

2049
01:34:35,160 --> 01:34:38,000
Speaker 1: to sit my black ass down public toilet.

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Speaker 2: Bear. Come on, y'all, think about.

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Speaker 1: Back in the day, like before they had all this

2052
01:34:42,360 --> 01:34:44,000
Speaker 1: shit and you just had to like ship in a

2053
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Speaker 1: hole in a in a dangass house.

2054
01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:47,920
Speaker 3: And go to our house with.

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Speaker 2: That Like I don't like every like people be like

2056
01:34:52,520 --> 01:34:53,840
Speaker 2: things haven't changed.

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Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what they say our things

2058
01:34:57,160 --> 01:34:59,760
Speaker 1: is just as there ain't nothing changed since our ancestors.

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Speaker 1: I'm like like manna running water in these toilets though AC.

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Speaker 2: Though AC is hidden.

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Speaker 3: I've seen outside stalls. I think I even seen like

2062
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Speaker 3: an outhouse when I was in the country. I will

2063
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Speaker 3: mother fucking hold it.

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01:35:13,720 --> 01:35:16,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even use a bat for that Porter party.

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01:35:16,920 --> 01:35:19,160
Speaker 2: I'm good. I'll just now the parties over. I gotta

2066
01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:19,519
Speaker 2: go home.

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Speaker 1: Y'all have a good way, and by the time you

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01:35:22,280 --> 01:35:24,559
Speaker 1: read this, it'll probably be at the Thanksgiving So happy holidays,

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Speaker 1: all that jazz.

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Speaker 2: Talk to y'all again soon. Thanks Mispan.

2071
01:35:28,880 --> 01:35:33,559
Speaker 1: Let's see uh Summer Walker and Monique versus Kaepernick.

2072
01:35:33,640 --> 01:35:34,880
Speaker 2: This is from Crystal, who.

2073
01:35:34,720 --> 01:35:38,120
Speaker 1: Says, hello, Rod and Karen. I wanted to write in

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01:35:38,200 --> 01:35:40,400
Speaker 1: last week, but life happened. I'm scrolling on Instagram and

2075
01:35:40,439 --> 01:35:42,240
Speaker 1: I thought of the show. I think Summer Walker is

2076
01:35:42,280 --> 01:35:43,240
Speaker 1: aiming to be a part.

2077
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Speaker 2: Of the ant Hill Lawn Hill Lol.

2078
01:35:45,800 --> 01:35:47,439
Speaker 1: Not sure if you all heard about the issues with

2079
01:35:47,520 --> 01:35:50,439
Speaker 1: her Toronto show. I heard she didn't show up or something.

2080
01:35:50,479 --> 01:35:53,160
Speaker 1: I haven't done any research, only saw this story on Instagram,

2081
01:35:53,200 --> 01:35:57,400
Speaker 1: but apparently she had her fans waiting for two hours

2082
01:35:57,439 --> 01:35:59,599
Speaker 1: while she was roaming the city of Toronto with trait.

2083
01:36:00,000 --> 01:36:02,720
Speaker 1: They knew this because she was on Instagram Live. The

2084
01:36:02,800 --> 01:36:05,559
Speaker 1: fans couldn't eat into the building until she showed up

2085
01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:08,280
Speaker 1: apparently and was stuck out in forty seven degree Whether

2086
01:36:08,360 --> 01:36:11,599
Speaker 1: someone commented that she must have been managed, she must

2087
01:36:11,920 --> 01:36:13,960
Speaker 1: be managed by Laurence Hill's people, damn.

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Speaker 2: On another note, regarded by the way.

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Speaker 1: That is egregious, I mean, yes, that is, because that's

2090
01:36:19,439 --> 01:36:22,479
Speaker 1: not an anxiety thing. That's just that's just yeah, that's just,

2091
01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:25,679
Speaker 1: that's just meaning fucked up. If that's true.

2092
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Speaker 2: By the way, I don't have I don't know right.

2093
01:36:28,040 --> 01:36:31,439
Speaker 1: On another note, regarding Kaepernick spelling, uh yeah, you spell

2094
01:36:31,479 --> 01:36:31,760
Speaker 1: it right.

2095
01:36:31,840 --> 01:36:35,280
Speaker 2: Cluse enough, I was likely I would likely get flack.

2096
01:36:35,760 --> 01:36:38,800
Speaker 2: And please don't be angry about my thoughts. Well, you

2097
01:36:38,920 --> 01:36:41,080
Speaker 2: fucked up because you shouldn't have told me. Now I'm

2098
01:36:41,080 --> 01:36:41,599
Speaker 2: pretty bad.

2099
01:36:41,720 --> 01:36:43,560
Speaker 3: I don't matter what you say.

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Speaker 1: I had a discussion with my hubby about all the

2101
01:36:46,040 --> 01:36:49,560
Speaker 1: people supporting him or also the same people who clown Monique.

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Speaker 1: I can't help but see the similarities in their circumstances

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01:36:52,760 --> 01:36:54,880
Speaker 1: and that they feel they are not being offered a

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Speaker 1: fair chance and being black ball or speaking out. I'm

2105
01:36:57,760 --> 01:37:01,120
Speaker 1: wondering you all thoughts or if you see similar parallels

2106
01:37:01,120 --> 01:37:02,280
Speaker 1: with different reactions.

2107
01:37:02,960 --> 01:37:07,200
Speaker 2: Well, okay, you mad? Now did she mentioned these starts?

2108
01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:09,679
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, well I for one and livid?

2109
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Speaker 1: Okay, how dare you compare a black woman to a

2110
01:37:14,080 --> 01:37:14,759
Speaker 1: black man?

2111
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Speaker 2: You've betrayed the race?

2112
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Speaker 3: No, you didn't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I think I mean, obviously there's

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Speaker 1: some difference because my Nique's thing was she felt underpaid.

2115
01:37:26,640 --> 01:37:28,680
Speaker 1: She because they did offer her the job, she just

2116
01:37:28,720 --> 01:37:30,120
Speaker 1: would not do it for that cost.

2117
01:37:30,840 --> 01:37:33,160
Speaker 2: And then she went and said like we should.

2118
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Speaker 1: Boycott Netflix, which, in our fairness, Kaepernick never asked anybody

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Speaker 1: to boycott or demanded anything. Now, I think it's the

2120
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Speaker 1: privilege afforded the black man. I've talked about this before

2121
01:37:44,360 --> 01:37:47,679
Speaker 1: a straight black man. Anyway, we decided that we're gonna

2122
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Speaker 1: boycott the NFL because he's a black dude. We also

2123
01:37:50,040 --> 01:37:52,719
Speaker 1: decided he don't really got to be an outspokens civil

2124
01:37:52,800 --> 01:37:55,439
Speaker 1: rights leader. We're just gonna make him one because he's

2125
01:37:55,439 --> 01:37:59,479
Speaker 1: a black dude doing something very mainly playing quarterback in

2126
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Speaker 1: the NFL. So I think he's easier to rally around

2127
01:38:02,840 --> 01:38:04,840
Speaker 1: for people. He's also easy to rally around because he's

2128
01:38:04,880 --> 01:38:08,960
Speaker 1: quiet correct. Monique talks too much for the kind of

2129
01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:12,400
Speaker 1: people that support Kaepernick, right because she you know, she'll

2130
01:38:12,400 --> 01:38:14,639
Speaker 1: say something you disagree with, she'll voice an opinion.

2131
01:38:15,160 --> 01:38:16,760
Speaker 2: You know, she'll do well.

2132
01:38:16,840 --> 01:38:20,400
Speaker 1: She's inconsistent on things because of her, Like when she

2133
01:38:20,439 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 1: told everybody they need to forgive Roseanne because Roseanne looked

2134
01:38:23,840 --> 01:38:27,640
Speaker 1: out for her. She loses a big chunk of the

2135
01:38:27,640 --> 01:38:31,000
Speaker 1: people that otherwise would be like, oh yeah, we got

2136
01:38:31,040 --> 01:38:35,400
Speaker 1: to support the good Seismonique. You know, both of them

2137
01:38:35,400 --> 01:38:40,719
Speaker 1: are having basically employment disputes that are that are couched

2138
01:38:40,840 --> 01:38:44,720
Speaker 1: in like some black nationalism type stuff. And I don't

2139
01:38:44,760 --> 01:38:47,040
Speaker 1: know if either one of them can make the case

2140
01:38:47,760 --> 01:38:49,680
Speaker 1: because you know, the way I feel about Kaepernick is

2141
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:52,080
Speaker 1: not as I just feel like he's good enough to

2142
01:38:52,120 --> 01:38:54,320
Speaker 1: be in the league and should be playing. And I

2143
01:38:54,320 --> 01:38:57,120
Speaker 1: feel like Monique's good enough at stand up that she

2144
01:38:57,240 --> 01:38:58,840
Speaker 1: should be able to get a special. You know, I

2145
01:38:58,840 --> 01:39:00,000
Speaker 1: don't know what the right number to pay.

2146
01:39:00,520 --> 01:39:01,880
Speaker 3: I don't know what the right number is either.

2147
01:39:01,920 --> 01:39:03,280
Speaker 2: I don't want to get into that argument.

2148
01:39:03,320 --> 01:39:06,840
Speaker 1: I think it's awesomantics, but I don't think people were

2149
01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:07,160
Speaker 1: going to.

2150
01:39:08,920 --> 01:39:11,519
Speaker 2: Gather around Monique like that because I think she's given.

2151
01:39:12,200 --> 01:39:18,040
Speaker 1: She has been too outspoken about too many things for

2152
01:39:18,200 --> 01:39:22,320
Speaker 1: people to make her the solid martyr that they've made Kaepernick.

2153
01:39:22,400 --> 01:39:24,879
Speaker 3: Right, you know, she's spoken too much to be an avatar.

2154
01:39:25,479 --> 01:39:26,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think Kaepernick.

2155
01:39:27,120 --> 01:39:29,400
Speaker 1: You have a lot of people with different causes that

2156
01:39:29,760 --> 01:39:33,400
Speaker 1: support Kaepernick, with different politics, mostly because he don't talk

2157
01:39:33,439 --> 01:39:34,320
Speaker 1: about shit, right.

2158
01:39:35,280 --> 01:39:37,240
Speaker 2: I don't know what would happen if this nigga actually

2159
01:39:37,479 --> 01:39:39,479
Speaker 2: was out here saying shit.

2160
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Speaker 3: Oh, the tide would turn, you know what I mean?

2161
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Speaker 1: Because look at how shit happened when he talked about

2162
01:39:44,479 --> 01:39:46,120
Speaker 1: both two sides of the same coin and why he

2163
01:39:46,160 --> 01:39:46,759
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna.

2164
01:39:46,640 --> 01:39:47,600
Speaker 2: Vote like that.

2165
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Speaker 1: He lost a lot of people just in that moment,

2166
01:39:49,760 --> 01:39:52,479
Speaker 1: and then he went quiet again, and then people let

2167
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Speaker 1: it go. And then when he wore that shirt with

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01:39:54,720 --> 01:39:59,400
Speaker 1: Fidel Castro and Malcolm X shaking hands like he loses

2169
01:39:59,439 --> 01:40:02,360
Speaker 1: people sometimes with this shit, even the counter Kent thing.

2170
01:40:03,400 --> 01:40:06,160
Speaker 1: But I think because he's mostly quiet, it's just easier

2171
01:40:06,240 --> 01:40:09,360
Speaker 1: to like to at least keep focused on the idea

2172
01:40:09,400 --> 01:40:12,080
Speaker 1: that he deserves a job. With Monique, people don't like

2173
01:40:12,160 --> 01:40:14,599
Speaker 1: her in a lot of cases, and they're never gonna

2174
01:40:14,600 --> 01:40:19,880
Speaker 1: be fair, right, Alisha Rice in finally pressing Sin, Karen

2175
01:40:19,960 --> 01:40:23,840
Speaker 1: and Ross's ha. I've been wanting to write in for

2176
01:40:23,880 --> 01:40:25,559
Speaker 1: a while, but I just haven't done it. I've been

2177
01:40:25,600 --> 01:40:29,479
Speaker 1: slipping y'all. Now on now some other Alicia Rice into

2178
01:40:29,520 --> 01:40:32,120
Speaker 1: the show. Damn yeah, Alisha, he was late.

2179
01:40:32,920 --> 01:40:33,040
Speaker 2: Uh.

2180
01:40:33,120 --> 01:40:34,960
Speaker 1: Anyway, I wanted to throw in my two cents about

2181
01:40:35,040 --> 01:40:36,960
Speaker 1: Chick fil A. Dan Cathy goes to my church. His

2182
01:40:37,080 --> 01:40:39,080
Speaker 1: views are so strange to me, and I don't understand

2183
01:40:39,120 --> 01:40:40,599
Speaker 1: how he could be a member of my church, where

2184
01:40:40,640 --> 01:40:43,080
Speaker 1: there are so many different people, ways of life and

2185
01:40:43,120 --> 01:40:44,760
Speaker 1: coaches in one place, and be the owner of a

2186
01:40:44,800 --> 01:40:49,200
Speaker 1: company whose name is synonymous with homophobia. The son Well, Honestly,

2187
01:40:49,280 --> 01:40:52,080
Speaker 1: the only reason the name Isnai's Homophobia is because of him.

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01:40:52,360 --> 01:40:54,160
Speaker 3: Right, he had to say it, shit, nobody would have known.

2189
01:40:54,280 --> 01:40:54,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2190
01:40:54,880 --> 01:40:57,559
Speaker 1: The Sunday after the bill was passed for say Saxe's marriage,

2191
01:40:57,600 --> 01:40:59,640
Speaker 1: I passed or made a whole speech about how he

2192
01:40:59,760 --> 01:41:01,960
Speaker 1: was glad that people can legally love who they love

2193
01:41:02,320 --> 01:41:03,679
Speaker 1: and have the right to marry.

2194
01:41:03,800 --> 01:41:06,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, oh, and have the right to marry.

2195
01:41:06,400 --> 01:41:09,839
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess people are ridiculous because of this honestly,

2196
01:41:10,600 --> 01:41:13,920
Speaker 1: honestly because I am a recent vegetarian. My faux cot

2197
01:41:14,200 --> 01:41:18,920
Speaker 1: marches on, Hey don't get it how you Live? Oh yes,

2198
01:41:19,000 --> 01:41:20,200
Speaker 1: the Black Capitalist section.

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01:41:20,560 --> 01:41:21,200
Speaker 2: My new fave.

2200
01:41:21,640 --> 01:41:24,080
Speaker 1: The Chinese kids in the Nike sweat shots equal he

2201
01:41:24,120 --> 01:41:27,160
Speaker 1: looked at me with his little Chinese eyes from Black Dynamite.

2202
01:41:27,200 --> 01:41:31,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I remember that's Black Dynamite classic. Oh yes,

2203
01:41:32,400 --> 01:41:35,080
Speaker 1: when y'all when some random god says whoa during the

2204
01:41:35,760 --> 01:41:38,040
Speaker 1: get get get out of here? This is a stupid clip.

2205
01:41:38,080 --> 01:41:39,680
Speaker 1: I laugh like it's the first time I heard it

2206
01:41:39,760 --> 01:41:41,200
Speaker 1: every single time. It's my favorite.

2207
01:41:41,680 --> 01:41:44,320
Speaker 3: Yes, that one in the the one you played with

2208
01:41:44,560 --> 01:41:47,400
Speaker 3: what you call I feel sorry for this man dobed

2209
01:41:47,400 --> 01:41:48,479
Speaker 3: them two always mean laughing.

2210
01:41:51,040 --> 01:41:53,439
Speaker 1: Listening to y'all on half speed is hilarious and it

2211
01:41:53,439 --> 01:41:56,120
Speaker 1: really picks me up sometimes, especially when I'm stressed out

2212
01:41:56,160 --> 01:41:58,240
Speaker 1: at work. I've heard listening to us on two times.

2213
01:41:58,240 --> 01:42:00,240
Speaker 1: S feet that's the first time I've heard one say

2214
01:42:00,680 --> 01:42:04,320
Speaker 1: listening to us on half Yeah. I can't wait in

2215
01:42:04,400 --> 01:42:08,120
Speaker 1: summer when white girls will start having their unreasonable weddings.

2216
01:42:08,320 --> 01:42:10,640
Speaker 1: I love this section of the show, even though the

2217
01:42:10,760 --> 01:42:13,599
Speaker 1: voice you use for them is the same. In my mind,

2218
01:42:13,720 --> 01:42:16,160
Speaker 1: they are all images of different kinds of crazy ass

2219
01:42:16,160 --> 01:42:18,880
Speaker 1: white girl I went to college with. Yeah, I mean,

2220
01:42:19,000 --> 01:42:21,639
Speaker 1: I can do multiple white girl voices, but I feel

2221
01:42:21,640 --> 01:42:22,439
Speaker 1: like I don't have.

2222
01:42:22,439 --> 01:42:24,920
Speaker 2: The true range to keep it up.

2223
01:42:25,040 --> 01:42:28,639
Speaker 1: You know, I mostly slipped to either the high pitch

2224
01:42:29,080 --> 01:42:32,439
Speaker 1: Saditi spoiled white girl when it comes to these. But

2225
01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:34,280
Speaker 1: you know, if it was a wedding in the South,

2226
01:42:34,320 --> 01:42:35,479
Speaker 1: maybe I'll do a Southern bell.

2227
01:42:35,760 --> 01:42:38,000
Speaker 3: But you know, I forgot it is gonna be that time.

2228
01:42:38,400 --> 01:42:41,759
Speaker 3: You know what they planning right now about March April.

2229
01:42:42,080 --> 01:42:44,280
Speaker 3: You know, when you get a little warm with the

2230
01:42:44,400 --> 01:42:45,600
Speaker 3: articles that start popping.

2231
01:42:45,360 --> 01:42:46,360
Speaker 2: Back out, it's a art.

2232
01:42:46,680 --> 01:42:50,080
Speaker 1: Finally, what happened with Elon at twelve? I used to

2233
01:42:50,080 --> 01:42:52,880
Speaker 1: listen to listen to the show for news. I worked

2234
01:42:52,880 --> 01:42:54,720
Speaker 1: around a lot of well meaning white people at the time.

2235
01:42:54,960 --> 01:42:56,799
Speaker 1: But when I got a new job where I couldn't

2236
01:42:56,800 --> 01:42:58,400
Speaker 1: listen to podcast as much as I used to. When

2237
01:42:58,400 --> 01:43:01,080
Speaker 1: I finally go back to listen and to listen in

2238
01:43:01,120 --> 01:43:03,560
Speaker 1: the format had changed. He was doing more stuff with

2239
01:43:03,600 --> 01:43:07,160
Speaker 1: Emily and Moni was gone. He was talking about having

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01:43:07,200 --> 01:43:09,760
Speaker 1: a being a new dad. Then twelve was gone. Every

2241
01:43:09,800 --> 01:43:12,080
Speaker 1: now and then you can bring up Elin and people

2242
01:43:12,160 --> 01:43:14,559
Speaker 1: roasted him, but I don't know why. I'm not on Twitter,

2243
01:43:14,640 --> 01:43:17,120
Speaker 1: so I didn't see what happened, what popped off there,

2244
01:43:17,760 --> 01:43:20,519
Speaker 1: And when I fire up the old Google machine, I

2245
01:43:20,560 --> 01:43:23,160
Speaker 1: only give results of articles he's written. I always guess

2246
01:43:23,200 --> 01:43:26,160
Speaker 1: that something huge happened for him to stop the twelve Nation,

2247
01:43:26,560 --> 01:43:28,120
Speaker 1: the twelve Nation, but I don't know what.

2248
01:43:28,640 --> 01:43:30,679
Speaker 2: Oh shit, this was long. I'm sorry.

2249
01:43:30,720 --> 01:43:34,120
Speaker 1: Oh and I always remember you Mata, you Mata and Yalla,

2250
01:43:34,520 --> 01:43:36,320
Speaker 1: the other lesia that used to write into the show.

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01:43:36,560 --> 01:43:39,000
Speaker 2: Oh no, you know what.

2252
01:43:39,080 --> 01:43:44,160
Speaker 1: That is a good question, and i'ma be honest, I'm

2253
01:43:44,200 --> 01:43:44,920
Speaker 1: not gonna answer that.

2254
01:43:44,920 --> 01:43:46,040
Speaker 2: That's not my tea to spill.

2255
01:43:47,200 --> 01:43:50,719
Speaker 1: You gotta ask him like he on Twitter, or email

2256
01:43:50,800 --> 01:43:53,960
Speaker 1: him or something, or ask the people around him, because

2257
01:43:53,960 --> 01:43:57,200
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, nothing positive that could have

2258
01:43:57,280 --> 01:43:59,679
Speaker 1: that could come from my bird's eye view.

2259
01:44:00,160 --> 01:44:01,280
Speaker 2: I wasn't over there.

2260
01:44:02,600 --> 01:44:05,160
Speaker 1: Speaking out of turn and being like, this is what happened, y'all,

2261
01:44:06,360 --> 01:44:08,240
Speaker 1: But I don't know. You got two kids now, I mean,

2262
01:44:08,840 --> 01:44:12,040
Speaker 1: you know, your dad like life, who knows, you know?

2263
01:44:12,360 --> 01:44:15,000
Speaker 1: But I used to listen to twit religiously as.

2264
01:44:14,920 --> 01:44:18,559
Speaker 2: Well, all the way to the end, really, so you know.

2265
01:44:19,360 --> 01:44:24,160
Speaker 1: And then the Twitter thing I don't know how much

2266
01:44:24,720 --> 01:44:25,840
Speaker 1: that was written about.

2267
01:44:25,880 --> 01:44:27,879
Speaker 2: Like you said, you googled and you couldn't find.

2268
01:44:27,680 --> 01:44:33,000
Speaker 1: Out what it was, so that you know, I'll explain

2269
01:44:33,080 --> 01:44:35,280
Speaker 1: that in a second. We got to go to the break,

2270
01:44:36,439 --> 01:44:37,760
Speaker 1: all right, so part too.

2271
01:44:38,920 --> 01:44:41,400
Speaker 2: The only the thing about the.

2272
01:44:42,439 --> 01:44:45,479
Speaker 1: Twitter thread, I think this is kind of widespread, so

2273
01:44:45,560 --> 01:44:50,719
Speaker 1: everybody kind of knows. But he was tweeting about how

2274
01:44:50,800 --> 01:44:53,320
Speaker 1: when he first got married, his in laws, who were white,

2275
01:44:53,840 --> 01:44:56,840
Speaker 1: had like, we're basically we're racist, and had issues with

2276
01:44:56,960 --> 01:44:58,920
Speaker 1: him and had issues with his wife.

2277
01:44:59,000 --> 01:45:02,320
Speaker 2: Marrying a black man and how awkward.

2278
01:45:01,920 --> 01:45:04,880
Speaker 1: And terrible it was and he refused to eat or

2279
01:45:05,200 --> 01:45:06,679
Speaker 1: ate outside or something like that.

2280
01:45:06,880 --> 01:45:09,639
Speaker 2: And now it's become like embellished over time.

2281
01:45:09,720 --> 01:45:11,479
Speaker 1: But he was trying to write this thread to be

2282
01:45:12,800 --> 01:45:14,800
Speaker 1: to say how thankful he was for the fact that

2283
01:45:14,800 --> 01:45:17,920
Speaker 1: black women have held him down and you know, he's

2284
01:45:17,920 --> 01:45:19,800
Speaker 1: been able to lean on his friends to get through

2285
01:45:19,800 --> 01:45:23,120
Speaker 1: shit like that. Obviously, even if it is true, it's

2286
01:45:23,160 --> 01:45:27,479
Speaker 1: a bad look for Twitter because you know, people are

2287
01:45:27,520 --> 01:45:30,360
Speaker 1: gonna be like, you using black women for emotional labor

2288
01:45:30,479 --> 01:45:34,120
Speaker 1: and then you marry a white women woman and so

2289
01:45:34,280 --> 01:45:37,000
Speaker 1: that basically that was the backlash that he received on

2290
01:45:37,080 --> 01:45:43,400
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving and then it moreked from like clowning that day

2291
01:45:43,560 --> 01:45:46,400
Speaker 1: to like, it's been three years now, I think, and

2292
01:45:46,520 --> 01:45:51,479
Speaker 1: people basically do it every year since then, to the

2293
01:45:51,520 --> 01:45:54,599
Speaker 1: point where he deletes his account and then comes back.

2294
01:45:54,640 --> 01:45:56,719
Speaker 1: It's probably a good social media break, to be honest,

2295
01:45:56,760 --> 01:46:01,599
Speaker 1: but you know, and so that's it became others. There's

2296
01:46:01,640 --> 01:46:03,800
Speaker 1: other stuff where people talk about the working environment with

2297
01:46:03,840 --> 01:46:04,960
Speaker 1: twib and all that stuff.

2298
01:46:05,080 --> 01:46:08,519
Speaker 2: I did not work there, I don't. You know, those

2299
01:46:08,520 --> 01:46:11,519
Speaker 2: are stories for them to tell, and I'm sure and they've.

2300
01:46:11,360 --> 01:46:14,599
Speaker 1: All kind of hinted at or told their stories either

2301
01:46:14,640 --> 01:46:16,960
Speaker 1: online and stuff. So I'm not gonna be messy and

2302
01:46:16,960 --> 01:46:19,719
Speaker 1: get into that part. But that's what happened on Twitter.

2303
01:46:19,840 --> 01:46:24,120
Speaker 1: And because other people say he was difficult to work

2304
01:46:24,160 --> 01:46:26,880
Speaker 1: with and shit, then you also have an extra element

2305
01:46:26,920 --> 01:46:29,960
Speaker 1: of people keeping it going because now that they're turning

2306
01:46:29,960 --> 01:46:32,240
Speaker 1: themselves into heroes for mocking this man.

2307
01:46:33,400 --> 01:46:35,640
Speaker 2: And it got real bad to me.

2308
01:46:36,680 --> 01:46:38,680
Speaker 1: I never participated in the shit, but it got real

2309
01:46:38,760 --> 01:46:41,479
Speaker 1: bad to me because like they were talking about his

2310
01:46:41,640 --> 01:46:44,320
Speaker 1: wife and her looks, they were talking about his child.

2311
01:46:46,200 --> 01:46:49,200
Speaker 1: People went to me, that's that's that's one of the

2312
01:46:49,200 --> 01:46:51,439
Speaker 1: reasons I don't really fuck with the woke niggas, because

2313
01:46:52,280 --> 01:46:55,519
Speaker 1: they're not really woke. They're just mean the other way,

2314
01:46:55,720 --> 01:46:58,240
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like that, harassing people and

2315
01:46:58,320 --> 01:47:01,200
Speaker 1: dragging people is the same shit to me, It just

2316
01:47:01,240 --> 01:47:04,160
Speaker 1: depends on if you agree with it or not. And

2317
01:47:04,200 --> 01:47:07,479
Speaker 1: so sometimes they do shit and then they claim it's

2318
01:47:07,479 --> 01:47:09,000
Speaker 1: for these altruistic reasons.

2319
01:47:09,000 --> 01:47:12,000
Speaker 2: It's just them being assholes to pass the time.

2320
01:47:12,200 --> 01:47:14,400
Speaker 1: And I think now that we're three four years later

2321
01:47:14,479 --> 01:47:16,960
Speaker 1: and people still want to do it, it's really more

2322
01:47:17,000 --> 01:47:20,560
Speaker 1: about just them being assholes because it's not the original

2323
01:47:20,600 --> 01:47:24,600
Speaker 1: point of it is lost and it was not the

2324
01:47:24,680 --> 01:47:26,759
Speaker 1: kind of thing where even when he tried to explain

2325
01:47:26,800 --> 01:47:29,000
Speaker 1: it and clean it up and it just nothing ever

2326
01:47:29,120 --> 01:47:31,040
Speaker 1: was going to change it because people had too good

2327
01:47:31,040 --> 01:47:33,280
Speaker 1: of a time that first time.

2328
01:47:33,439 --> 01:47:36,240
Speaker 2: So you know, whatever work he's ever done and shit

2329
01:47:36,400 --> 01:47:37,639
Speaker 2: was basically forfeit.

2330
01:47:37,720 --> 01:47:39,760
Speaker 1: And like I said, you on the other side of that,

2331
01:47:39,960 --> 01:47:42,800
Speaker 1: you got people to have legitimate grits with him that

2332
01:47:43,400 --> 01:47:47,840
Speaker 1: you know, were drowned out because no one really listened

2333
01:47:47,840 --> 01:47:50,160
Speaker 1: to those people's grits because they was like, fuck this,

2334
01:47:50,320 --> 01:47:53,080
Speaker 1: we got jokes and right.

2335
01:47:53,000 --> 01:47:55,360
Speaker 2: So it's just all jokes and calling him names and shit,

2336
01:47:55,520 --> 01:47:59,640
Speaker 2: and you know, I feel I feel.

2337
01:48:00,920 --> 01:48:03,120
Speaker 1: Not really even conflicted, but I just feel like I'm

2338
01:48:03,120 --> 01:48:06,559
Speaker 1: not participating in certain shit because I think that's so

2339
01:48:06,960 --> 01:48:12,519
Speaker 1: fair weather to you know, like Elon is part of

2340
01:48:12,680 --> 01:48:19,120
Speaker 1: what inspired us to keep podcasting, and part of you know,

2341
01:48:19,160 --> 01:48:22,360
Speaker 1: I was a fan of twelve, so, you know, and

2342
01:48:22,360 --> 01:48:24,360
Speaker 1: we were pretty cool we met him before and stuff.

2343
01:48:24,400 --> 01:48:27,559
Speaker 1: I mean, it's I don't know, I just think some

2344
01:48:27,680 --> 01:48:29,600
Speaker 1: of this shit I just keep in you have to

2345
01:48:29,640 --> 01:48:33,320
Speaker 1: keep in house for yourself because there's no reason. In

2346
01:48:33,360 --> 01:48:35,439
Speaker 1: the same other thing, I wouldn't go on Twitter and

2347
01:48:35,479 --> 01:48:37,639
Speaker 1: be like defending him or telling everybody to chill out,

2348
01:48:37,640 --> 01:48:40,600
Speaker 1: because it's really not worth it for who for what,

2349
01:48:41,040 --> 01:48:43,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like it wasn't my bed

2350
01:48:43,120 --> 01:48:46,559
Speaker 1: to make or lie in. And I don't believe you

2351
01:48:46,600 --> 01:48:50,320
Speaker 1: have to defend motherfuckers because they your friends. Like if

2352
01:48:50,320 --> 01:48:52,639
Speaker 1: he did something fucked up or something clownable, he gonna

2353
01:48:52,640 --> 01:48:54,960
Speaker 1: get clowned. Ain't shit I can do about it, But

2354
01:48:55,080 --> 01:48:57,160
Speaker 1: I just don't have to participate in it. And so

2355
01:48:57,240 --> 01:48:59,080
Speaker 1: that was my line. I just said, I'm not gonna

2356
01:48:59,720 --> 01:49:03,080
Speaker 1: put dinticipated in talking shit about this dude, because you know,

2357
01:49:03,400 --> 01:49:06,760
Speaker 1: they're among the things that may have been fucked up.

2358
01:49:06,760 --> 01:49:08,480
Speaker 2: He's also done some good things.

2359
01:49:08,200 --> 01:49:09,240
Speaker 3: Too, and agreed.

2360
01:49:09,560 --> 01:49:12,639
Speaker 1: You know, I'll leave other people to reconcile with how

2361
01:49:12,640 --> 01:49:15,400
Speaker 1: they you know, talk about it, because there's people that

2362
01:49:15,479 --> 01:49:16,680
Speaker 1: benefited from him and his.

2363
01:49:16,680 --> 01:49:18,519
Speaker 2: Platform and shit that.

2364
01:49:19,960 --> 01:49:24,400
Speaker 1: Completely understood at their point like this is not gonna

2365
01:49:24,479 --> 01:49:27,320
Speaker 1: work out, and continue to fuck with him because he

2366
01:49:27,560 --> 01:49:30,640
Speaker 1: you know, he's very persuasive, you know, and I just

2367
01:49:30,920 --> 01:49:32,760
Speaker 1: I think the other reason I'm not mad at him

2368
01:49:32,800 --> 01:49:35,640
Speaker 1: is because I just consistently stand up for myself and

2369
01:49:35,680 --> 01:49:37,479
Speaker 1: stand up for our show, and I'll be like, no,

2370
01:49:38,520 --> 01:49:39,960
Speaker 1: you know, there's plenty of shit he asked us to

2371
01:49:40,000 --> 01:49:41,200
Speaker 1: do it. I just said no, I don't want to

2372
01:49:41,240 --> 01:49:41,439
Speaker 1: do that.

2373
01:49:41,960 --> 01:49:43,000
Speaker 2: And then when when he.

2374
01:49:43,120 --> 01:49:44,960
Speaker 1: Asked why, I'm like, because if it doesn't work out,

2375
01:49:45,000 --> 01:49:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be mad, and so I'd rather do something

2376
01:49:47,880 --> 01:49:50,360
Speaker 1: with you that is fun.

2377
01:49:51,120 --> 01:49:53,720
Speaker 2: Then switch this fun shit into work, because I don't

2378
01:49:53,720 --> 01:49:55,960
Speaker 2: play about my work, no, sir, you know.

2379
01:49:56,320 --> 01:50:00,960
Speaker 1: So anyway, Ana rites in High Ride and Care, can

2380
01:50:01,000 --> 01:50:02,960
Speaker 1: you help explain why I've been waking up with the

2381
01:50:03,000 --> 01:50:05,800
Speaker 1: reading Rainbow Themes song going on through my head and

2382
01:50:05,840 --> 01:50:08,439
Speaker 1: the words are all crisp like when Karen sings it.

2383
01:50:09,400 --> 01:50:14,080
Speaker 1: Also now whenever something yeah, Ray Sinney actually said something

2384
01:50:14,080 --> 01:50:18,200
Speaker 1: similar to me. Also now, whenever something hilariously strange happens,

2385
01:50:18,240 --> 01:50:21,120
Speaker 1: I always want to respect, like, oh no, and I

2386
01:50:21,160 --> 01:50:24,679
Speaker 1: love that she's bringing back right in front of my salad.

2387
01:50:25,360 --> 01:50:28,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I loved that.

2388
01:50:28,880 --> 01:50:32,400
Speaker 3: And when I found out what that meant, I was like,

2389
01:50:32,520 --> 01:50:36,519
Speaker 3: oh no, Like that's what happened. Everybody was like yeah, Karen,

2390
01:50:36,600 --> 01:50:38,920
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my bad. I didn't realize it.

2391
01:50:40,120 --> 01:50:41,599
Speaker 2: I want to say thank you for all that you do.

2392
01:50:41,640 --> 01:50:44,840
Speaker 1: I think because of what you've been talking about, I

2393
01:50:44,920 --> 01:50:46,840
Speaker 1: was more ready to receive some insight from a work,

2394
01:50:46,840 --> 01:50:49,240
Speaker 1: a sign book, and also to reflect on myself and

2395
01:50:49,280 --> 01:50:51,920
Speaker 1: my habits and behaviors. It's also helps knowing that a

2396
01:50:51,920 --> 01:50:54,519
Speaker 1: relationship that appears a smoothly run and tune is yours

2397
01:50:54,560 --> 01:50:56,559
Speaker 1: really does require a lot of work and checking in.

2398
01:50:56,920 --> 01:51:00,280
Speaker 1: So while I'm a Canadian, I had my Thanksgiving to go.

2399
01:51:00,560 --> 01:51:04,479
Speaker 1: I'm heartily thankful for both of you, and you're heartily,

2400
01:51:04,520 --> 01:51:08,560
Speaker 1: not hardly, heartily heartily thankful for both of you and

2401
01:51:08,640 --> 01:51:10,920
Speaker 1: your help and making me a better version of myself.

2402
01:51:10,920 --> 01:51:16,280
Speaker 2: Thank you, Anna, thank you, thank you Anna. We appreciate it.

2403
01:51:17,000 --> 01:51:20,679
Speaker 2: Our girl Allegra right saying Hello, Ron and Karen.

2404
01:51:20,920 --> 01:51:23,639
Speaker 1: This is feedback on two thousand episode Hope your Thanksgiving

2405
01:51:23,720 --> 01:51:24,599
Speaker 1: Day was a good one.

2406
01:51:25,240 --> 01:51:26,200
Speaker 2: I have some things to be.

2407
01:51:26,160 --> 01:51:29,240
Speaker 1: Thankful for the opportunity to podcast you to Though my

2408
01:51:29,360 --> 01:51:32,000
Speaker 1: husband and I have been at it for over three years,

2409
01:51:32,040 --> 01:51:34,559
Speaker 1: we've learned a lot. You both were part of that

2410
01:51:35,240 --> 01:51:37,639
Speaker 1: through working with us and through us listening to your

2411
01:51:37,680 --> 01:51:40,439
Speaker 1: share you share your journey on your show. We respect

2412
01:51:40,479 --> 01:51:42,680
Speaker 1: you not for your celebrity, but for your sincerity.

2413
01:51:42,760 --> 01:51:45,000
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you. We're not celebrities.

2414
01:51:45,120 --> 01:51:47,599
Speaker 1: I appreciate the fact that I'm not only in a

2415
01:51:47,640 --> 01:51:50,240
Speaker 1: lot of I'm not only in a lot the only

2416
01:51:50,240 --> 01:51:51,640
Speaker 1: one in a lot of things that swell around in

2417
01:51:51,640 --> 01:51:53,960
Speaker 1: my head. Hearing you and Karen discuss the shit that

2418
01:51:54,800 --> 01:51:58,160
Speaker 1: Marianno and I talk about is refreshing. I've always been

2419
01:51:58,160 --> 01:52:00,760
Speaker 1: a pragmatic thinker who has a pa for social and

2420
01:52:00,760 --> 01:52:03,639
Speaker 1: civil rights and equality, but that wasn't always Invogud.

2421
01:52:03,960 --> 01:52:08,000
Speaker 2: It's so endaring to know that there are more like me.

2422
01:52:08,280 --> 01:52:12,120
Speaker 1: In my forty and fifty age range group that aren't

2423
01:52:12,160 --> 01:52:14,840
Speaker 1: afraid to share and have grace and share it on

2424
01:52:14,840 --> 01:52:18,240
Speaker 1: the public platform. Okay, that's enough. Thank you always. Thanks

2425
01:52:18,240 --> 01:52:19,679
Speaker 1: for the shout out. It made my heart.

2426
01:52:19,520 --> 01:52:22,559
Speaker 2: Swell three sizes allegra, Oh, thank you, thank you.

2427
01:52:23,320 --> 01:52:26,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of grace and mercy. People trying to

2428
01:52:26,760 --> 01:52:28,840
Speaker 3: kill that, but lord, but it's one of those things

2429
01:52:28,840 --> 01:52:31,080
Speaker 3: where everybody needs it and everybody wants it, but they

2430
01:52:31,080 --> 01:52:32,040
Speaker 3: don't want to extend it.

2431
01:52:32,680 --> 01:52:32,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2432
01:52:33,320 --> 01:52:35,920
Speaker 1: I think that's the other thing is like, I also

2433
01:52:35,960 --> 01:52:39,440
Speaker 1: think people are scared now to say I forgive somebody,

2434
01:52:39,680 --> 01:52:43,040
Speaker 1: or I'm moving on, or I'm letting something go, because

2435
01:52:43,120 --> 01:52:45,439
Speaker 1: you really don't get rewarded for those three things you give.

2436
01:52:46,240 --> 01:52:47,120
Speaker 2: It's the Elon shit.

2437
01:52:47,160 --> 01:52:50,000
Speaker 1: You get more rewarded for bringing up Elon three four

2438
01:52:50,080 --> 01:52:52,440
Speaker 1: years later, even though he didn't do shit to you.

2439
01:52:52,439 --> 01:52:53,200
Speaker 2: You get more.

2440
01:52:53,360 --> 01:52:56,800
Speaker 1: And by rewarded, I mean retweets, interaction, helping meine. You

2441
01:52:56,840 --> 01:52:59,400
Speaker 1: get more from that than being like, I'm gonna sit

2442
01:52:59,400 --> 01:53:01,640
Speaker 1: this out because I'm I don't know that man, you know,

2443
01:53:01,920 --> 01:53:04,160
Speaker 1: or that you know that was you know, like, Okay,

2444
01:53:04,160 --> 01:53:06,559
Speaker 1: it's funny at first, but now you know that y'all

2445
01:53:06,960 --> 01:53:09,200
Speaker 1: taking pictures of his wife and calling her ugly and shit,

2446
01:53:09,360 --> 01:53:12,600
Speaker 1: maybe that's wrong. Maybe we should chill the fuck out,

2447
01:53:12,840 --> 01:53:15,000
Speaker 1: you know, And it makes you And that's the other thing,

2448
01:53:15,040 --> 01:53:17,479
Speaker 1: because of the way that group dynamics work online. You

2449
01:53:17,560 --> 01:53:19,519
Speaker 1: become the bad guy if you say I think y'all

2450
01:53:19,560 --> 01:53:22,840
Speaker 1: might be going too far. Yeah, that's the way they

2451
01:53:22,920 --> 01:53:26,519
Speaker 1: just they eat and eat everybody who's not on board.

2452
01:53:27,600 --> 01:53:31,639
Speaker 1: This is from Mark Hey, Ryan Carren. Good morning as always,

2453
01:53:31,680 --> 01:53:33,840
Speaker 1: Thank you both for everything that you do. I'm old

2454
01:53:33,960 --> 01:53:36,200
Speaker 1: enough that I don't mess with social media. Seeing and

2455
01:53:36,200 --> 01:53:38,720
Speaker 1: hearing about the garbage that is spread there makes me

2456
01:53:38,840 --> 01:53:41,400
Speaker 1: sure this action is correct. I hate that you both

2457
01:53:41,400 --> 01:53:43,320
Speaker 1: are being impacted to the extent that you are, and

2458
01:53:43,439 --> 01:53:46,599
Speaker 1: hope that you are doing everything possible to minimize exposure

2459
01:53:46,640 --> 01:53:51,080
Speaker 1: from the more ridiculous elements we are. We've taken steps, man,

2460
01:53:51,680 --> 01:53:54,640
Speaker 1: for sure. I think part of what we do with

2461
01:53:54,760 --> 01:53:56,880
Speaker 1: this job, at least what I do. I don't know

2462
01:53:56,920 --> 01:53:59,760
Speaker 1: that I'll ever be able to completely be away from

2463
01:53:59,840 --> 01:54:02,960
Speaker 1: it because what we do, how to fuck We're gonna

2464
01:54:02,960 --> 01:54:06,719
Speaker 1: promote this shit, you know what I mean? But yeah,

2465
01:54:07,000 --> 01:54:09,120
Speaker 1: I mean definitely taking more steps, and it's not really

2466
01:54:09,160 --> 01:54:10,960
Speaker 1: about social media, is just taking more steps to be

2467
01:54:11,520 --> 01:54:16,519
Speaker 1: healthy mentally period period. You know, social media is just

2468
01:54:16,520 --> 01:54:18,600
Speaker 1: one of those things that you see in it or

2469
01:54:18,720 --> 01:54:23,360
Speaker 1: I see at it like it reiterates over and over

2470
01:54:23,439 --> 01:54:26,200
Speaker 1: to me like why you can't really take it seriously

2471
01:54:26,439 --> 01:54:28,960
Speaker 1: or you have to be careful with it. That said,

2472
01:54:29,000 --> 01:54:31,879
Speaker 1: I appreciate when you provide context of clarity on Internet

2473
01:54:31,920 --> 01:54:34,760
Speaker 1: stories where other outlets ignored for the sake of content.

2474
01:54:35,200 --> 01:54:38,120
Speaker 1: What few stories there are about Patrick Patterson, the NBA

2475
01:54:38,200 --> 01:54:40,560
Speaker 1: players supported the impression that he flat out referred to

2476
01:54:40,600 --> 01:54:43,680
Speaker 1: black women as bulldogs. Granted, his actual statement was too

2477
01:54:43,720 --> 01:54:46,760
Speaker 1: imprecise for a written medium, but too many outlets went

2478
01:54:46,800 --> 01:54:50,400
Speaker 1: with the errant interpretation, waiting until after the apology. The

2479
01:54:50,440 --> 01:54:53,879
Speaker 1: context that he was responding to a comment office Instagram

2480
01:54:53,920 --> 01:54:57,520
Speaker 1: post was enlightening. This might be more of a caution

2481
01:54:57,600 --> 01:55:00,720
Speaker 1: for balls deep, but if Patrick Patterson that major presence

2482
01:55:00,760 --> 01:55:03,600
Speaker 1: in the NBA. No, not that I follow sports, but

2483
01:55:03,600 --> 01:55:06,600
Speaker 1: I've never heard of this man before this article. Same baby,

2484
01:55:06,680 --> 01:55:09,560
Speaker 1: same yeah, I Patrick Patterson.

2485
01:55:10,360 --> 01:55:11,920
Speaker 3: I would not know this man if he delivered me

2486
01:55:11,960 --> 01:55:13,520
Speaker 3: Papa Johan's pizza. Yeah.

2487
01:55:13,640 --> 01:55:17,320
Speaker 1: He's not exactly a household name, which is another reason

2488
01:55:17,360 --> 01:55:18,880
Speaker 1: I thought it was funny because.

2489
01:55:19,600 --> 01:55:21,520
Speaker 2: I hate to see it. I hope I don't sound ridiculous.

2490
01:55:21,560 --> 01:55:23,800
Speaker 2: I don't know who this man is. I mean, he

2491
01:55:23,840 --> 01:55:26,480
Speaker 2: could be walking down the street. I wouldn't. I wouldn't

2492
01:55:26,480 --> 01:55:28,800
Speaker 2: know a thing, sorry to this man.

2493
01:55:29,160 --> 01:55:32,040
Speaker 1: This the other reason is funny, Like I know other

2494
01:55:32,080 --> 01:55:33,600
Speaker 1: niggas was mad, but it's why it was.

2495
01:55:33,520 --> 01:55:37,000
Speaker 2: Funny to me. He only gonna be known for this.

2496
01:55:38,160 --> 01:55:41,000
Speaker 1: Like it's even funnier now cause it's like, damn, nigga,

2497
01:55:41,000 --> 01:55:42,720
Speaker 1: you fucked up one time.

2498
01:55:43,520 --> 01:55:46,440
Speaker 2: This you forever and you never gonna be able to clear.

2499
01:55:46,560 --> 01:55:48,960
Speaker 3: It's like somebody google your name. This is we're gonna pop up.

2500
01:55:49,000 --> 01:55:51,320
Speaker 1: It's like an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where like

2501
01:55:51,400 --> 01:55:53,840
Speaker 1: Larry's trying to explain, like, no, I don't think black

2502
01:55:53,880 --> 01:55:56,280
Speaker 1: women are bulldogs. I'm saying this man has an ugly

2503
01:55:56,280 --> 01:55:58,040
Speaker 1: white that looks like a bulldog. She just happened to

2504
01:55:58,040 --> 01:56:02,800
Speaker 1: be black. And we're gonna be like, really, I don't

2505
01:56:02,840 --> 01:56:04,000
Speaker 1: know you're married to a white woman.

2506
01:56:04,040 --> 01:56:07,000
Speaker 2: You in the NBA. M So it's fucked up, but

2507
01:56:07,040 --> 01:56:07,560
Speaker 2: it's funny.

2508
01:56:09,560 --> 01:56:11,560
Speaker 1: Uh not that I follow sports, but I've never heard

2509
01:56:11,560 --> 01:56:12,480
Speaker 1: this man for this article.

2510
01:56:12,480 --> 01:56:14,320
Speaker 2: I do know, I don't know what. I do not

2511
01:56:14,400 --> 01:56:14,600
Speaker 2: know what.

2512
01:56:14,680 --> 01:56:17,240
Speaker 1: It's sadder the person who follows the NBA player just

2513
01:56:17,280 --> 01:56:19,320
Speaker 1: to talk smack about his marriage, or the NBA player

2514
01:56:19,400 --> 01:56:22,440
Speaker 1: responding to someone obviously that the trough he fucked up

2515
01:56:22,520 --> 01:56:26,680
Speaker 1: when he responded, But I mean, yeah, both are fucked man. Haha,

2516
01:56:27,320 --> 01:56:29,320
Speaker 1: that's a good question. I don't know what's worse. I

2517
01:56:29,320 --> 01:56:32,600
Speaker 1: can't picture me following any motherfucker on any platform to

2518
01:56:32,720 --> 01:56:33,720
Speaker 1: be mad at them.

2519
01:56:34,280 --> 01:56:34,600
Speaker 2: I don't.

2520
01:56:34,640 --> 01:56:38,000
Speaker 3: I don't follow for mads. I follow, uh because the

2521
01:56:38,200 --> 01:56:40,720
Speaker 3: like it. I follow big butts like you know.

2522
01:56:41,320 --> 01:56:44,360
Speaker 1: I just don't know why people follow like Trump even

2523
01:56:45,240 --> 01:56:46,560
Speaker 1: like I don't unless it's your job.

2524
01:56:46,680 --> 01:56:48,360
Speaker 2: I don't even want to know what DISNIEGT got to say.

2525
01:56:49,120 --> 01:56:51,200
Speaker 2: Let me guess some more racism. Wow.

2526
01:56:52,120 --> 01:56:54,320
Speaker 1: Uh anyway, Hell, the great work, and I appreciate the

2527
01:56:54,360 --> 01:56:56,840
Speaker 1: reading rainbow moments that you started doing it to start

2528
01:56:56,920 --> 01:56:57,200
Speaker 1: the show.

2529
01:56:57,240 --> 01:56:57,680
Speaker 2: Amazing.

2530
01:56:58,240 --> 01:57:00,520
Speaker 1: Amazon should hook y'all up in some way because I

2531
01:57:00,520 --> 01:57:03,000
Speaker 1: have literally gone straight to one click off of a

2532
01:57:03,040 --> 01:57:05,120
Speaker 1: couple of the books you've exerted in the.

2533
01:57:05,120 --> 01:57:07,400
Speaker 2: Past few weeks. Thank you, Thank you.

2534
01:57:08,000 --> 01:57:10,680
Speaker 1: Maybe we should make an Amazon link O, don't that's work? No,

2535
01:57:12,640 --> 01:57:15,840
Speaker 1: y'alli Lee right said, Hi, they're riding, Karen. When I

2536
01:57:15,880 --> 01:57:20,200
Speaker 1: heard about the five oh four queens from Louisiana, the

2537
01:57:20,240 --> 01:57:22,320
Speaker 1: first thing I thought about was the ladies that do

2538
01:57:22,440 --> 01:57:25,160
Speaker 1: the walking out the door from Marti Gras. If you

2539
01:57:25,240 --> 01:57:28,880
Speaker 1: haven't seen a video, I've included one of the lady

2540
01:57:29,360 --> 01:57:31,920
Speaker 1: buck jumpers. They are too cool. And this is how

2541
01:57:31,960 --> 01:57:33,920
Speaker 1: I imagine the five O four queens walked out of

2542
01:57:33,960 --> 01:57:36,160
Speaker 1: the theater to jump into the manager's face.

2543
01:57:36,280 --> 01:57:41,200
Speaker 2: You go, five O four queens. Yeah, I'm trying to think.

2544
01:57:41,320 --> 01:57:43,640
Speaker 1: Is this that video where of that gift where the

2545
01:57:43,720 --> 01:57:45,000
Speaker 1: two women are walking and sink?

2546
01:57:45,200 --> 01:57:47,840
Speaker 2: Is that them the buck jumpers? I have not heard.

2547
01:57:48,240 --> 01:57:50,800
Speaker 2: I'm sorry they did include a video.

2548
01:57:51,040 --> 01:57:52,720
Speaker 1: I'll try to put it on screens so we can

2549
01:57:52,760 --> 01:57:55,560
Speaker 1: all watch it together as a family. But you know,

2550
01:57:55,680 --> 01:57:58,520
Speaker 1: my computer, it likes to move at the speed that

2551
01:57:58,640 --> 01:58:01,040
Speaker 1: my computer likes to move whatever the fuck it feel

2552
01:58:01,120 --> 01:58:11,440
Speaker 1: like it. Actually, I got trying to pause it so

2553
01:58:11,560 --> 01:58:12,800
Speaker 1: the other screen has time to.

2554
01:58:12,840 --> 01:58:14,240
Speaker 3: Go there all right, And I was like, we don't

2555
01:58:14,280 --> 01:58:14,800
Speaker 3: see nothing.

2556
01:58:14,960 --> 01:58:20,879
Speaker 1: Shout the h justin j they donated recurring donating Chrichelle,

2557
01:58:21,120 --> 01:58:24,080
Speaker 1: our girl Cochelle. Shout out to her Adam s if,

2558
01:58:24,120 --> 01:58:25,280
Speaker 1: I m A A P.

2559
01:58:26,200 --> 01:58:30,280
Speaker 2: Michael s Tom w and that's everybody.

2560
01:58:30,360 --> 01:58:32,720
Speaker 3: Wow, we did it to the end of the last.

2561
01:58:32,520 --> 01:58:37,480
Speaker 2: Took us an hour, all right, Is it showing No,

2562
01:58:38,880 --> 01:58:40,000
Speaker 2: it's trying to show it.

2563
01:58:40,440 --> 01:58:42,320
Speaker 3: Okay, it's coming there you go.

2564
01:58:42,480 --> 01:58:44,720
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, now let me see what these ladies

2565
01:58:44,760 --> 01:58:46,760
Speaker 1: is working with, because I don't know these ladies like that.

2566
01:58:47,720 --> 01:58:50,600
Speaker 1: They so they so this is some New Orleans ship.

2567
01:58:50,840 --> 01:58:59,880
Speaker 1: I heard the Yeah this gotta be normalans live. Let

2568
01:58:59,920 --> 01:59:01,840
Speaker 1: me go back because its kind of freezing on my screen,

2569
01:59:01,840 --> 01:59:05,880
Speaker 1: I do, it's freezing on youalls. Oh why they just

2570
01:59:05,920 --> 01:59:08,839
Speaker 1: be sashaying out. They got feathers, they're wearing all yellow.

2571
01:59:22,200 --> 01:59:25,560
Speaker 1: First of all, every woman that is showing so far

2572
01:59:26,120 --> 01:59:28,640
Speaker 1: clearly makes a mean macaroni and cheese.

2573
01:59:29,120 --> 01:59:32,680
Speaker 3: Come on, you know that potatoes sillar be banging problem,

2574
01:59:32,720 --> 01:59:34,800
Speaker 3: make the biscuits from scratch and the corn bread.

2575
01:59:34,960 --> 01:59:38,560
Speaker 1: Okay, that is some mean that is a Thanksgiving you'll

2576
01:59:38,600 --> 01:59:40,520
Speaker 1: never forget walking out of this door and it's yellow.

2577
01:59:40,640 --> 01:59:44,800
Speaker 2: I just want you to understand that. But yeah, I don't.

2578
01:59:44,880 --> 01:59:46,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I've never seen it before.

2579
01:59:52,080 --> 01:59:54,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean, listen, you know these women went

2580
01:59:54,360 --> 01:59:59,880
Speaker 1: in South Harriet in the theater. You okay, we got

2581
02:00:00,240 --> 02:00:02,480
Speaker 1: they let you wote niggas ruin Harriet for them.

2582
02:00:02,920 --> 02:00:05,320
Speaker 3: They don't give a fuck about what y'all talking about.

2583
02:00:05,560 --> 02:00:08,720
Speaker 1: Cynthia or Revo. Cynthia Shriver. I don't give a fuck.

2584
02:00:08,880 --> 02:00:10,040
Speaker 1: I'm watching this, Harriet.

2585
02:00:10,240 --> 02:00:12,760
Speaker 2: I know that much. Harriot. Y'all not gonna mess up

2586
02:00:12,800 --> 02:00:13,360
Speaker 2: my Harriet.

2587
02:00:13,560 --> 02:00:16,360
Speaker 3: I guarantee you you have to put your win' gonna

2588
02:00:16,400 --> 02:00:17,240
Speaker 3: we going girl.

2589
02:00:17,800 --> 02:00:20,040
Speaker 1: Now, I'm not one hundredson Shoven pronouncing it right. It's

2590
02:00:20,040 --> 02:00:23,480
Speaker 1: either Katanya or Katanya who writes our last email? Happy

2591
02:00:23,480 --> 02:00:27,240
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving Karen and Rod Happy Saturday Rider, Karen. If it's

2592
02:00:27,280 --> 02:00:31,080
Speaker 1: your lady, Katanya or Katanya. I've been laying low the

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Speaker 1: past couple of weeks. However, I've been listening as always

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Speaker 1: you to our amazing and engaging podcasters, and in this

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Speaker 1: season of gratitude, I just want to let you know

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Speaker 1: that I'm grateful and thankful for you too, the content

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Speaker 1: you create, and for sharing your views life less than

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Speaker 1: humor with us all. Since it's been a while since

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Speaker 1: I've written in, I'm gonna quickly summarize a couple of

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Speaker 1: things that have stood out to me. What the edition

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Speaker 1: of the reading Rainbow theme music love it. I admire

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Speaker 1: that you were able to make a joke out of

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Speaker 1: that every time you play the song. Now I can't

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Speaker 1: help but have a smile on my face. Number two

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Speaker 1: fighting for your joint. I don't quite remember if that's

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Speaker 1: the name of the episode. However, I remember you in

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Speaker 1: care broaching this topic a few weeks back. I totally

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Speaker 1: can relate to what you were saying about fighting for

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Speaker 1: what brings one happiness and joy in life in spite

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Speaker 1: of what other people will say. And reflecting on how

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Speaker 1: I've been fighting for my joy, I realized what surprised

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Speaker 1: me along my journey is realizing that my parents can

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Speaker 1: be unsupportive when I try to do something that is

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Speaker 1: outside of the vision of what is acceptable in my

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Speaker 1: effort to find my bliss. For example, a year after

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Speaker 1: I graduated from grad school with the Masters in International Affairs,

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Speaker 1: I left the position in the Study abroad grad school

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Speaker 1: with a masters and oh wait, I left the position

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Speaker 1: in Study of broad Department at NYU and procured a

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Speaker 1: six week unpaid internship in a small contemporary ballet company

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Speaker 1: because I wanted to move into the direction of arts

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Speaker 1: management and administration. Since it was unpaid, I got a

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Speaker 1: healthful story in order to keep some money coming during

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Speaker 1: those six weeks. When I inform my parents are what

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Speaker 1: I was doing, they both reject reacted very negatively. My

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Speaker 1: dad I mean, yeah, that's first of all, shout out

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Speaker 1: to you, because that's like something off of like this

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Speaker 1: is us right, like that the balls to be like

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Speaker 1: you know what, or the ovaries to whatever you know

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Speaker 1: to be like, Yo, this ain't it. I'm about to

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Speaker 1: go do unpaid internship and get apart to our gig

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Speaker 1: because this I'm not happy doing what I'm doing. Black

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Speaker 1: people just do not normally get to do shit like that.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like, is this a TV script? Because normally

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Speaker 1: black people shit?

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Speaker 3: Knowing that this is some shit you hear about Becky doing.

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Speaker 1: My dad commented that this was something that only high

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Speaker 1: schoolers do work as a cashier and a helpful store.

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Speaker 2: My mom stated that I didn't love myself. Wow.

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Speaker 1: They were shouting so much that I shut down and

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Speaker 1: left the house and went to an art gallery a

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Speaker 1: couple of times over the cool down.

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Speaker 2: It was hard to have them react this way, and.

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Speaker 1: While I spent four years since this incident, I realized

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Speaker 1: that I have to find support from people outside my parents.

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Speaker 1: I've been blessed and surprised to find and have found

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Speaker 1: support for my career change from a couple of college friends.

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Speaker 1: My younger sister coworkers from a part time jobs and

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Speaker 1: even parents from the day studio. I volunteered that in

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Speaker 1: saying all this, I guess I wanted to add that

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Speaker 1: I'm in fighting for your joy. You can be surprised

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Speaker 1: who really does not support you and that you still

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Speaker 1: that you should keep still keep going to fight for

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Speaker 1: it anyway.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and how can I say this? A lot

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Speaker 3: of times in parents fear they do more harm than good,

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Speaker 3: and the fear of you got this degree, you got

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Speaker 3: a education. In their mind, they feel like you gotta

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Speaker 3: be making money, you know that, Like like so their

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Speaker 3: their quote unquote anger was coming from a place of fear,

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Speaker 3: you know, them not understanding them not seeing your vision,

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Speaker 3: you know, because parents can't see a child's vision because

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Speaker 3: the vision isn't theirs, the vision is yours. And so

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Speaker 3: for a lot of parents you have to almost do

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Speaker 3: shit and then eventually they'll slowly come around. It should

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Speaker 3: not have to be like that. It's sad that they

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Speaker 3: have to be like that, but it's almost like you

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Speaker 3: have to prove the parents wrong before parents are like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: this shit ain't that bad because the initial response was

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Speaker 3: completely out of fear. Yeah, the cost of being wrong

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Speaker 3: or failing for a black woman and black person is

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Speaker 3: normally considered so high, so steep that our parents think

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Speaker 3: they're protecting us by telling us, don't try to delive

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Speaker 3: in dreams, don't get too ambitious with your supports, don't

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Speaker 3: take to with your efforts, I mean, don't take too

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Speaker 3: much risk. Every person that you see that's black and

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Speaker 3: like pursuing some type of artistic endeavor normally don't have

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Speaker 3: the support of their parents, you know, or you have

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Speaker 3: to like work hard, as Karen said, to already be

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Speaker 3: doing the thing and then they go, Okay, I think

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Speaker 3: you can do the thing, and it's not, you know, unfortunately.

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Speaker 2: I hate the way that it happened, that they were

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Speaker 2: yelling and shit like that. That's that's terrible, you know, And.

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Speaker 1: You would almost hope that they would want that moment back,

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Speaker 1: But I don't know your parents or whatever, so I

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Speaker 1: don't want to assume. But that's, you know, that's that's

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Speaker 1: a horrible thing, you know moment. But at the same time,

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Speaker 1: it's like they they do it out of love and protection.

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Speaker 1: They just don't understand that it's it's traumatic as well.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: It reminds me of Queen Sugar when Michael chose to

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Speaker 1: go to HBCU instead of the white elite school that

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Speaker 1: his mom wanted to go to, and she freaked the

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Speaker 1: fuck out and yelled at him in front of everybody.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, it does come from a place to warrant

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Speaker 1: your kid to do the best, but at the same time,

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Speaker 1: it's uh that your kid will always remember that.

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Speaker 2: Mariah Carrie number three.

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Speaker 1: I went on your website looking to leave a comment

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Speaker 1: on the last This Too Much episode when I stumbled

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Speaker 1: upon your two guest spots music Ate my Brain podcast

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Speaker 1: episodes Praise the Almighty Mariah Carry.

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Speaker 2: I thoroughly enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: This might be to your point, Rid where you stated

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Speaker 1: that Mariah has succeeded at not having her private life

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Speaker 1: derail or the track from her musical success. I was

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Speaker 1: surprised that you all did not mention her first marriage

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Speaker 1: to Tommy Mottola, the head of Columbia Records, back in

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Speaker 1: nineteen ninety three. It was rumored that he full had

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Speaker 1: a control of nature, which is why her first albums

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Speaker 1: were a bit more poppy and why her first videos

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Speaker 1: attempted to make us seen racially ambiguous and more acute.

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Speaker 2: Cy I've heard that before.

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Speaker 1: Once they separated in nineteen ninety seven, Mariah was able

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Speaker 1: to exercise more control over her music and her image.

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Speaker 1: Chance While her album Butterfly, which was released in nineteen

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Speaker 1: ninety seven, was a big deal, the video Honey marked

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Speaker 1: the first time she got to be more sexy, and

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Speaker 1: that the album lean more heavily in the R and.

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Speaker 2: B hip hop sounds.

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Speaker 1: Just wanted to put that out there. Yep, yep, love Maria,

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Speaker 1: that's our girl. I feel like this email is pretty long,

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Speaker 1: so I'll stop here.

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Speaker 2: Love you too. Keep being amazing and I look forward

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Speaker 2: to hear your voices soon.

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Speaker 1: Have a great break where whenever you two take it

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Speaker 1: this week, we're charging is necessary, love, Katanya, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel and that sucks. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how you and your parents feel now, or if y'all

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Speaker 1: able to heal that or whatever, but I hope you

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Speaker 1: guys can at some point, if you know that, because yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that just sucks. Man.

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Speaker 2: Uh, that's everybody. That's all the feedback.

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Speaker 1: This is a long feedback episode, two hours, but uh,

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Speaker 1: this is it for the week for us. As far

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Speaker 1: as the main show, do oh y'all are this too much,

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Speaker 1: so y'all get that.

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Speaker 2: But that's about it.

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Speaker 1: So we'll see you guys in the week and until then,

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Speaker 1: I love you.