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I hope you're ready. 12 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 2: Buckle up, baby, because it's another brand new episode. 13 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: Of Two Cool Moms. I am Joe Gatto. 14 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:43,319 Speaker 2: I'm not Joe Coy. I'm Steve Burn. You get coy 15 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 2: a lot. Thanks for listening to Two Cool Moms. We're 16 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 2: very excited to be here today. 17 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 3: Big day, big day, big day, massive, huge day. Here's 18 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 3: our super Bowl. 19 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 1: This is it. 20 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 2: We're here in Nashville, Yes, and we I've come to 21 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 2: Stevie's hometown. 22 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 23 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's got hometown town advantage. We're in front 24 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 2: of a fireplace here, yes, one of well, and thank 25 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 2: you for having me in your lovely town. 26 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: Steve. 27 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 3: Of course, why is it such a big day? 28 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 2: Because we build it up because I came to you 29 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 2: and this has happened maybe four times and the whole 30 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 2: whole time that we've been doing Two Cool Moms, over 31 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 2: ninety episodes. 32 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: Most of them are filmed in New York. 33 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 3: But something we did live in Nashville. 34 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 2: We did a couple of live ones in Nashville at 35 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 2: the Zanes Comedy Club. Then we also recorded a couple 36 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 2: in the Zanies place We've never done recently here, but 37 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 2: I'm very excited to be here in Nashville. 38 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: So you know, tell me your. 39 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 2: Top five favorite spots, top five favorite spots. I had 40 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 2: a very interesting thing happened with my son. Okay, I 41 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 2: had a couple of shows canceled because of weather. I 42 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 2: was able to go home for a weekend. I was 43 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 2: able to catch them play basketball. 44 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 3: Very nice. 45 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 2: So my son, unfortunately athleticism comes from his father. 46 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: Athlete. 47 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 2: Athlete, yes, yes, so he was the first half of 48 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 2: the game. They do like a practice and then a game. 49 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: He's seven, so it's not really a thing. So they 50 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 2: do a half hour practice and then a half hour game. 51 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 2: And the first half hour he was just in tears 52 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 2: at the foul line, reaching to me as if I 53 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 2: could save him, like he was sinking in the Titanic, 54 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 2: like I know, like Buddy, I was just like clapping him, 55 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 2: trying to get him all the love. 56 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: Okay. 57 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 2: Then they start the game and he's not first string, surprise, 58 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 2: and they put him in the second string and he 59 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 2: goes in and he just starts crying and he's just 60 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 2: while he's playing, but he's playing, so he's dribbling and 61 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:29,240 Speaker 2: crying and he's like gauding people and crying and then 62 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 2: he shoots the ball and by the grace of Baby Jesus, 63 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: that goes in and he turns. 64 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: Oh, he turned into lebron. 65 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: He was like boxing half, he started dancing, he was 66 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: flipping off, he was waving to me. 67 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that's all took. 68 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: It was super easy, and I think that's a really 69 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: cool moment as a parent, But it came right after 70 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 2: the most uncomfortable and I think worse that I felt 71 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 2: as a parent, knowing that they'll get to that part 72 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:56,839 Speaker 2: where he'll be into it. 73 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: But it was like one of the first times I 74 00:02:58,280 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: was like, Oh, he's got to get there on his own, 75 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 1: and you're not like sleep in and help them. 76 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:04,959 Speaker 3: It was really, you can only do so much, right, Yeah, 77 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 3: you can only do so much. But it's interesting. It's 78 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 3: like once the kids get there, yeah, no matter what. 79 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: Like my son's the same thing. It's just like I 80 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 3: don't want to go. I don't want to go, and 81 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 3: then you get there. It's like there's always that pivot 82 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 3: moment where it's like, oh, this is fun. Yeah, and 83 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 3: then they're they're off to the race. 84 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: It's so fun to see these little moments because my 85 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 2: son's at seven and you're really seeing I think this 86 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 2: is his six month year period where I'm going to 87 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 2: see a lot of the things. Were just at the ocean, 88 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 2: Turks and Caicos. He gets walloped by a wave and 89 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 2: I'm like that that's it. We gotta go out of 90 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 2: the water. We're gonna sit down. 91 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: He popped up, went awesome, and ran back in and 92 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: I was like, oh the hell did you hit your 93 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: head on a rock? Like? What happened? Did you hit 94 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: a cod cell? I was like, Dad, and I'm like what. 95 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: He's hanging ten? I couldn't believe it. Yeah, I said 96 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 2: the best of you. I was like, did you just 97 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 2: see that? She was like I can't believe And he 98 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: was like in the ocean and I was like, wow, 99 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 2: this is pretty he's becoming like a real boy, like 100 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 2: a Pinocchio, Like he's like really like doing these kinds 101 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 2: of things. He's really just like jumping off stuff. And 102 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 2: like it's really interesting to see because he was so reserved. 103 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 3: You know, you can see, especially your son, he's he's 104 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 3: he's very there's kids you meet, You're just like, this 105 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 3: is a smart kid. He's very introspective. And again that 106 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 3: that day we're hanging out, he's doing math problems with 107 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 3: the professor of the university. It's like that's fascinating stuff, 108 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 3: and like most kids wouldn't be doing that. And I 109 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 3: was just like, Wow, this kid is going to be 110 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 3: to go JPL. He's gonna get t or something like sure, 111 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 3: you just tell brainy. 112 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: But it was really it's just really cool to see 113 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: that part of it. 114 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 2: And then I was trying to think back of like 115 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 2: my sports moments, which you're very few and far between. 116 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: And that's all the time we have to I don't 117 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: know how long you want me to go. I mean, 118 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: because I could tell you what was. 119 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 2: Your greatest athletic sports moment, Oh, you had to have 120 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 2: had one. Eighth grade our star player Francisco de Francisco 121 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 2: fails out, files out right. So now Francisco Francis. Friend's 122 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 2: name is friend, Frankie D. Francisco de Francisco, a great name. 123 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: Files out, fifth foul, go sixth man, Joe get in here, 124 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 2: I get in there. Okay, I'm playing pounder guard. Here 125 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 2: I go point guard. Were down by two, Okay, I 126 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: know what. 127 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: Down by one? I get fouled. Okay, it's one and one, 128 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:14,679 Speaker 1: one second on the clock, so the first one solution. 129 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:20,239 Speaker 2: Okay, this is your Albundi moment. 130 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: Okay, I wish that's what happened. 131 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 2: What happened was I threw it so hard because I 132 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 2: was so nervous that it hit the. 133 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: Rafters of the gym. 134 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 3: Wait what I overshot? 135 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: It's so bad that I hit the ceiling of the gym. 136 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: That's how nervous I was. 137 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 2: And we lost that Fast forward a couple of games 138 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 2: later in the season, same deal. I was a six 139 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 2: minute and Frankie D comes in too hard fell you know, 140 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 2: he fouls out three minutes left in the game. 141 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: I shoot, I score, make us lead by one. But 142 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: then the game. 143 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 2: Runs out and it wasn't like at the moment thing 144 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: nobody else scored, so we ended up winning the game 145 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 2: on my shot that happened two minutes earlier, you know, 146 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 2: and I got picked up on the shoulder. Didn't even 147 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: realize what happened. The kids will pick me on the shoulder. 148 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 2: Everybody's going nuts. It is the one game that both 149 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: of my parents didn't come to. No one of my 150 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 2: parents would always come, but my sisters, who both were 151 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 2: good athletes. My sister Gina was a badass high school player. 152 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 2: She had her championship game. My dad went to watch her. 153 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 2: My mom went to watch my sister cheerlead because my 154 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 2: sister is a cheerleader, and they're like, he's not going 155 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 2: to do anything. 156 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: He never does, And of course my mom, I remember 157 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 1: it like it was yesterday. 158 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 2: My mom walked into the gymnasium as I was on 159 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: the shoulders of the kids and everybody's going god, oh, 160 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 2: and she just dropped her keys and her face turned white, 161 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 2: and she was like, like, what did I miss? 162 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 1: Well? 163 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 2: She saw that, she saw well, she saw that, like 164 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,919 Speaker 2: she saw the aftermath of like it happened. You know, 165 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 2: she didn't see the moment she walked in literally as 166 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 2: putting me down, and I ran over and I hugged 167 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 2: her and I was like, I won the game, and 168 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 2: she just started crying because she felt so dude. 169 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: Never happened again. She died. That was it. That was it. 170 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 3: That was her moment. 171 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: She lost it. 172 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 3: She lost it. 173 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 2: She want to see my sister go okay, ready, okay, 174 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: all right, that is the way. 175 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 1: It's not roudy, that's what she's saying. And a boy 176 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: sinking deuces O. So yeah, that was crazy. 177 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 2: That was That was probably one of the most insane 178 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 2: moments of like, I think from a parent point of 179 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 2: view too. 180 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: My mom was like, what are the chances this kid 181 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 1: wins the game? 182 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 3: Yeaheah, but you've had many many victory laps at a 183 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 3: roulette table. 184 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: A roulette table, oh yeah, craps table, a bowling alley. 185 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 3: You know what was your best? What's the high street 186 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 3: of her bowl to eighty eight? Are you kidding me? Wait? 187 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: Three? 188 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: N YEA was it was a complete fluke In high school. Yeah, 189 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: in high school, I was just in the zone. I 190 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: was that's like probably turkey in it up, got gobble. 191 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: I was just hitting them up, lining them up, knocking 192 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: them down. 193 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 2: It's kind of annoying too, because I had like the 194 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 2: open frame like in the beginning and then I like 195 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 2: struck out all the way to the end. So I 196 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 2: was like, oh, man, if I didn't mess up in 197 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 2: the beginning, you know, I just found my groove though. 198 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 3: Wow, that was it. 199 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: That was I had never bowled over to. 200 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 2: I don't think like a two ten after that or whatever, 201 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 2: but that was like, that was like a fluke that 202 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 2: I had one game. 203 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: It was killer and then uh yeah, I. 204 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 2: My average and high school was one eighty one ninety 205 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 2: around there. 206 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 3: Wow, but to get up to two eighty eight, that's good. 207 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: Remember that. Yeah, it was cool. 208 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 3: My daughter just went on her first date. 209 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 2: Time outep, back her up, back her up. 210 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 3: Hit me with it. Oh my god. 211 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 2: She went on her first date seventh grade. Nice first date, 212 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 2: falling date. No, here's what it would jump park? 213 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: Oh nice. 214 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 3: By the way, my wife said, they she wants to 215 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 3: go to bounce house. I'm like, don't say that. It's 216 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 3: a jump park. So so my my daughter said, can 217 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 3: I go to this jump park and meet this boy 218 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 3: I like on a date and then just them. Well 219 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 3: here's what she said. She goes, Mom, you could sit 220 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 3: there and hang out and then even if Kent wants 221 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 3: to come, Kent can come. And so she was at 222 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 3: dinner and Kent She's like, Kent, would you want to go? 223 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 3: And Kent was like, well, I should probably go there 224 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 3: just to look out. And I was like, wow, that 225 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 3: was cool. So it was nice to see like my 226 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 3: daughter felt secure, right. She wasn't like inhibited or nervous 227 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 3: or felt embarrassed by it. She was very forthcoming to say, 228 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 3: is it okay if I go on a date, you 229 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 3: can be there? And she invited my my son. 230 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: Which includes a boy. 231 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: That's great, that includes the that's that's and then the 232 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 2: sun volumes and then your boy to be there to 233 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 2: look out for you. 234 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 3: It was like, you're doing. 235 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: Something right, Stevie, you do it. Sorry, that's that's all, Jess. 236 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 3: That's all just what I meant by you. 237 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: I had to say about Jess. 238 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 2: Good work, Jess because he's ship, but job that got 239 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 2: to have you, Jess. 240 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 3: And then uh, obviously you just you know. I was like, 241 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 3: what's his name? Of course, and then she said the 242 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 3: boy's name and I was like, okay, he's definitely white, 243 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 3: so that's good. Idiot, you idiot, what you gotta keep that? 244 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 3: I gotta keep it in. She wants to meet demurvious. 245 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:49,839 Speaker 3: I'll be there now too. 246 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: You said it it? So did you? So you did 247 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: you know the boy? Have you? Did you know who 248 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: he was? Yeah? 249 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 2: I hang out with boys. Yeah, I'm Kevin Spacey. How 250 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,079 Speaker 2: would I How would I know a thirteen year old boy? 251 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: I don't know you know the school that you go to? 252 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,319 Speaker 3: Hi, I'm a youth pastor with a shady past. 253 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: We're just chopping minutes out at this point. I don't 254 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. 255 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 3: I don't know the boy. 256 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: I don't know who he is. Okay, So did you 257 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: want to know what he looks like? Did you like 258 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: go on Facebook? 259 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 3: I just want to know what Racey was. 260 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:18,679 Speaker 1: That's it what you need as a father, as a dad. 261 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 3: No, No, I'm totally. 262 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 2: No. 263 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 3: I just look, it's it's that it's at popular age. 264 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 3: It's like it's fine. Yeah, it's cute and it's sweet. 265 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 2: So what were they Was he just going to meet 266 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 2: her and they were gonna jump around the park together, 267 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 2: just the two of them or was it a group 268 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 2: of friends? 269 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: One on one? 270 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 3: It was just one on one. But then my my 271 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 3: son was there, he brought a friend, my wife was there, 272 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 3: and it's like a huge like, it's not like there's 273 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:42,719 Speaker 3: anywhere to go off. 274 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: No, no, no, Yeah, it's like a park. Yeah, okay, So 275 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: did she have fun? 276 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,199 Speaker 3: She had fun. I guess she likes the kid. 277 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: Does she talk to you about this stuff? 278 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 3: Like? 279 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,720 Speaker 1: Does she or she talked to Jess? 280 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 3: Or she talks to Jess. I've let her know, like 281 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 3: I try to lay the groundwork. I've told my kids 282 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 3: this their whole lives, and my daughters, I said, there's 283 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 3: gonna come a point in your life where you don't 284 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 3: want to talk to me. It's gonna come point in 285 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 3: your life where you don't even want to be around me. 286 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: But even when that happens, I'm letting you know I'll 287 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 3: always be here for you, and I want you to 288 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,679 Speaker 3: be honest with me. And no matter how bad a 289 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 3: situation is, if you're honest with me, you'll never be 290 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 3: in trouble. So just tell me the truth from the beginning. 291 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 3: So there's like the two things I've tried to tell 292 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:22,439 Speaker 3: them that's important. 293 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: But yeah, I heard a great great thing be a 294 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: gotta dad, not a don't. 295 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 2: And what a gotta dad not a don't? When your 296 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 2: kid's in trouble, you don't want them to say, don't 297 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 2: call my father. 298 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 1: You want to say, I gotta call my father. 299 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 4: Right, that stuff with me, stick with me. 300 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good one. I gotta call my dad. 301 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 2: You want to be that when they're in the biggest 302 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:52,079 Speaker 2: trouble they need, they want to call you. 303 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 1: Not I can't call my father, Like if they find out, 304 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 1: they'll kill me. Like you don't want that. 305 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 3: It's even like when when she said she's going on 306 00:11:57,920 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 3: a date, I'm like, well, she's the seventh grade. I 307 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 3: guess is when it starts my and I asked my wife. 308 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 3: I was like, when did you go on the first date? 309 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 3: She's like seventh grade. I'm like you you slung Yeah? 310 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: What was his name? Yeah? 311 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 3: But she's like, how about you? 312 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 2: I was like, I graduated high school and then and 313 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,319 Speaker 2: went on my first Well, yeah, I was my first 314 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 2: double date I went on. 315 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: I was in eighth grade. I went to the movies 316 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: and I. 317 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 3: Did the whole Yeah, but you were you were very 318 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 3: confident is that grade? 319 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: No? 320 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 2: No, super giky No, I was terrible. I did a 321 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 2: whole yawn thing. It was a group date. She like 322 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 2: called her mom to take her home. Like I was 323 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 2: all the other dates. Everybody was making out in the 324 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 2: arcade and I was like, yeah, yeah, I bowl. 325 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: I was actually a bowl. 326 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 2: Yond that's funny show places entertainment and it's that, but 327 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 2: I uh yeah, I never I wanted I think that 328 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 2: was what I would consider that probably my first date 329 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 2: in eighth grade. But it was a double It was 330 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 2: a double date, like just it was a bunch of 331 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 2: people together, right, Yeah, but the seventh grade seems about 332 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: the right time, especially nowadays. 333 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 3: That's probably. Yeah. 334 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, my my daughter is going to have her Valentine's dance, 335 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 2: so that's gonna be interesting. That's the But it's like 336 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 2: a group thing. Although these girl she's fourth she's in 337 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 2: fourth grade. Yea fourth grade okay, so it's the fourth 338 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 2: and fifth graders of the school and it's just basically 339 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 2: it's a two hour thing, you know. Then they asked 340 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 2: for parents a chaperone, and I looked at best. I said, 341 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 2: do I chaperon? She goes, you can't, You'll be such 342 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 2: a distraction of the school. 343 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like you can't. I said, well you have 344 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:18,959 Speaker 1: to do that, and she's like, I'm not going to 345 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: do it. I don't want to do that. You know. 346 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,559 Speaker 1: She's an introvert, totally gonna do that. I want to 347 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: be a stroll. 348 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 2: So one of the moms that we know, a couple 349 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 2: of the moms that we know that we're close with 350 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 2: their kids, a couple of them signed ups are like, okay, 351 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 2: do was a fair just. 352 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: Let's never see anything? 353 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, you know what's interesting though? Is it seventh grade? 354 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 3: I remember my friend Matt Kirshner, who was like, I 355 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 3: was joined the hip with this guy seventh grade. 356 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 2: I went to his house. This is the first experience 357 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 2: I had with alcohol and a friend. He drank like 358 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 2: wild turkey. He's like, why don't you try this? And 359 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 2: I remember smelling like this is disgusting. 360 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 3: And I tried it and then he chased me around 361 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 3: his house with a kitchen knife, pretending to kill me. 362 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 3: And I'd never been more frightened in my life. And 363 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 3: I was like, seventh grade alcohol, chase, you are out 364 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 3: a kitchen knife with a kitchen knife. 365 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, he got hammered and I ran out of his 366 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 2: house and I ran down the street to my other friend, 367 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 2: Brian Doherty's house, and I asked to call my mom 368 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 2: to pick me up. 369 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 3: That's in yeah, crazy. 370 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: That's wild turkey. 371 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 3: I was a chicken. 372 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: Well there's a title, yeah, Wild Turkey. 373 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 3: But I was thinking, boy, that was seventh grade. And 374 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 3: then I was like, oh my god, I should talk 375 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 3: to my daughter. And that was another thing I talked 376 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 3: to her. I pulled her side after dinner. I said, 377 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 3: I know you're going on the state. I also want 378 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 3: to tell you this is an age where kids are 379 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 3: going to expose you to things and I can't make 380 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 3: the decision for you. I can only tell you what 381 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 3: is the right thing and the wrong thing to do. 382 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 3: So I hope in these situations you make the right decision. 383 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 3: But know this, I'll always be here for you. You 384 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 3: can call me right. But it's not a smart thing 385 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 3: to indulge in these things at that age, okay, And 386 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 3: there's kids that are going to indulge and they're going 387 00:14:59,920 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 3: to exposed to you things and say it's okay and 388 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 3: it's kind of fun or whatever, and they're not. They're not. 389 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 3: So I'm trying to you know, she's gonna learn her 390 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 3: own mistake, absolutely, but. 391 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: It's kind of crazy you have that talk. It's seventh grade. Now. 392 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 3: Seventh grade though, but then that's when I think I 393 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 3: remember my friends were going I was scared. 394 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: You're gonna have the liquor is taking the liquor cabinets. 395 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, going in the woods, drinking cores, light beer, skunked 396 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 3: didn't matter, getting popped up, you know, I just I 397 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 3: don't know. I was always scared of it when I 398 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 3: was a kid. 399 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 2: And oh, you conquered that fair buddying a superhero. 400 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 3: Now, thank you do it? 401 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: You tell you you're like, listen, you're gonna go drink 402 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 1: and call me because I want to come. 403 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's uh, I think that's interesting. You know, 404 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 2: you worry about that stuff. I always said my parents 405 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 2: didn't really lay guilt. It was kind of really interesting 406 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 2: how they did it because I was always worried about 407 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 2: the words I'm disappointed in you would like to feel that, 408 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 2: and my parents barely said it to me, but they 409 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 2: did a great job of instilling. 410 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: That in me, which I don't still don't know to say. 411 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 2: That's one of the biggest things I wish about that 412 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 2: I could talk to them about as a parent, Like 413 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: if I think about like what I would learn from that. 414 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 1: I wish I could garner how. 415 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 2: They made me be good by fearing disappointing them without 416 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 2: ever making me feel like I disappointed them, Like there's 417 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 2: such a magic trick they pulled off, you know. 418 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 3: But it is, it's you know, it's something. It's funny 419 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 3: you mentioned that because it's something like even with me 420 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 3: and my kids, Like, I think it's more impactful to 421 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 3: be in a situation where your child messes up and 422 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 3: you sit them down, you explain why, and then you 423 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 3: leave them with a I'm so disappointed in you and 424 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 3: you walk away. That is I believe more impactful than 425 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 3: get to your room, because it's so emotionv for three weeks. Yeah, 426 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 3: like I'd rather do what I disappointed in you than 427 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 3: go to your room. 428 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: I agree, I don't think. 429 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 2: I trying to like rack my brain right now and 430 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 2: think about there was a time where that that even happened. 431 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 2: And I remember one time that I punished myself because 432 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 2: I not I was out sick from school and I 433 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 2: didn't study for this exam and I ended up getting 434 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 2: a sixty five, which is still passing, but it. 435 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: Was like the worst grade in the world for me. 436 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: I was in seventh grade, right. 437 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 2: I got a sixty five, and I went home. I 438 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 2: was beside myself. I was like my mother was like 439 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 2: my mom was like, she's like, what's the matter. I 440 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:22,679 Speaker 2: was like, I messed up. 441 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm so bad. 442 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 2: I hung it on the refrigerator to remind me how 443 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 2: bad it was, and then I went up, says, and 444 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 2: I disconnected my Nintendo and I put it away and 445 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 2: I punished myself. 446 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: I was like, you can't. 447 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 3: You punished yourself. 448 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. So my father came home. 449 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 2: He had the sixty five in his hand and he 450 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 2: looked at me, and I was in my room. I 451 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 2: was like, like beside myself, and he's like, he's like, 452 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 2: what's the matter with you. He's like, it's one test. 453 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 2: He crumpled it up. He said, doesn't matter. And then 454 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 2: I was like that and I was and I was 455 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 2: like wow. But like he had the opportunity to like, 456 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:51,400 Speaker 2: it's as if right, it's as if he. 457 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 1: Said, you're disappointing you because grades was super poor my pets. 458 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 2: Especially knowing how you were reacted, and it was just like, oh, fine, 459 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 2: it's already fine. 460 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't need There was only one time my 461 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 3: kid ever said I'm disappointed in you. It ate hurt. 462 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,479 Speaker 3: That's bad, that hurt. She said, I just saw your 463 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 3: last special and I directed it. Yeah, damn so. 464 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 1: Disappointed in you. Was so sorry. 465 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:17,160 Speaker 2: She's like, you put me in it, she said, I'd 466 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 2: like this off my IFBB. 467 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 3: How's your date? 468 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 1: You saw your special? 469 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 3: All right? 470 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,959 Speaker 2: Let me uh shall we get in this, Let's get 471 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 2: into it, Let's have some uh, let's help the people's 472 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 2: right that while we're here now, thanks so much for 473 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,199 Speaker 2: listening to you are our wonderful podcast. 474 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: I having so much fun doing Two Cool Moms. 475 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 2: And if you want to submit a question, it's at 476 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 2: too Cool Mom's pod, or you could go to the 477 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 2: gmails and it's at two Cool Mom's Pod at gmail 478 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 2: dot com. 479 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 3: That's right, all right, This coming on is from Phoebe. Phoebe, 480 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 3: thank you for the question. 481 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 2: I was surprised at my Spotify wrapped from twenty twenty four. 482 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 2: Do you have any surprising music or artists that made 483 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,440 Speaker 2: your top listens this year? 484 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 3: Huh? I'll tell you. I went down a Red Clay 485 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 3: Strays rabbit hole when we when we had them as guests. 486 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 3: I knew them before and then haven't seen them and 487 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 3: hanging out with but I really went down like a 488 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,360 Speaker 3: deep dive on them, and I really came to appreciate them. 489 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 3: You know who I discovered recently that was always on 490 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 3: the radio when we were kids, Bruce Hornsby and Range. 491 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:22,240 Speaker 3: And I was like, there was a song that came 492 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,119 Speaker 3: up and then another one was recommended. I was like, 493 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 3: you know, let me I know two of his songs. 494 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 3: Let me go down a deep dive. I took a 495 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,160 Speaker 3: deep dive and he just came up with an album 496 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 3: like two or three years ago, and I was like, 497 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 3: this is amazing, and just to give myself the moment 498 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,919 Speaker 3: to be exposed to him, it was awesome. He did 499 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 3: a lot of collaborations and that was a surprising one 500 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,160 Speaker 3: for me. And then I saw a documentary on yacht rock, 501 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:51,719 Speaker 3: and then I know, I spotified all the Christopher Cross 502 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 3: and the you know, Kenny Loggins and Michael McDonald and 503 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:56,680 Speaker 3: all those like great. 504 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: What is the number one yacht rock song? It's gotta 505 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: be sill Away, right, come sell away that way. 506 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 3: It's a rock song. You're licking, you know, takes taking 507 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 3: away and. 508 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:13,879 Speaker 2: Then they have the icebreak and then that should have 509 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: been Yeah, that would have been a great song. 510 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: I like that rock. 511 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 512 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: I mean you're talking to a guy who had multiple cruises. 513 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: We love the out rock. Of course, yeah, I love 514 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,639 Speaker 1: the out rock, out rocks fun. I I love a 515 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 1: good you know, yacht rock. 516 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,360 Speaker 2: You know, for me different experience becausey out rock isn't 517 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 2: much dancing. It's more like singing and swaying and where 518 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 2: my body gets music and it wants to move. 519 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: Baby. So like I, you know, I get enough of it. 520 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 2: I kind of get bored, to be honest, like I 521 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 2: can't take a yacht rock concert. 522 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 1: You dabble, your dibble, you put it in there a 523 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: little bit. I'm okazy with it. 524 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 2: But once you're really getting into the yacht, I need 525 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 2: more rocking of this boat and don't come and knocking 526 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:46,240 Speaker 2: and this boat rock. 527 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:49,920 Speaker 3: That's really the way it goes, right, it's your color fhyll, 528 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 3: that's your son. 529 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 2: Like after like a couple, it's like okay, and now 530 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 2: I want to start moving my body a little bit. 531 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, So for me now, but I will say 532 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 2: for my wrapped I don't know. I I I really 533 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 2: went down when I saw A JR. 534 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 1: Brothers live. 535 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 2: When I saw A jar I literally went back to 536 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 2: like all their catalogs and me and my daughter were 537 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 2: listening to all their songs and and really discovered a 538 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 2: lot of there I bought a lot of their I 539 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 2: bought every album to put out on vinyl and I 540 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,159 Speaker 2: I just really like liked a lot of their stuff. 541 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,640 Speaker 2: And it was started with a couple songs. And now 542 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 2: I'm a fan of albums. 543 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,720 Speaker 3: Of You're a big top forty guy. Yeah, like very 544 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 3: mainstream pop heavy today. 545 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 2: Yes, I do find that I am in the popoclectic 546 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 2: of people. But I do dabble in like a motown. 547 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 2: I love like old school kind of, so when it 548 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,639 Speaker 2: goes to old school, it's like American standards and like 549 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:41,359 Speaker 2: Motown and my two biggest we're I'll go into stuff right. 550 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: You know. 551 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 2: But as far as like because A Jr. Really Is 552 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 2: I mean, they have a couple songs that were on 553 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 2: the radio, but there I. 554 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 3: Enjoyed ready the SpongeBob song. Do you know what I'm 555 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 3: talking about? 556 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 1: I'm ready? 557 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 3: And then they had a SpongeBob SpongeBob sample. 558 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 1: Sample in it? Is that possibly? Okay? I don't, I 559 00:21:58,160 --> 00:21:58,439 Speaker 1: don't know. 560 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 3: That was the one song by them? 561 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:00,880 Speaker 1: Probably sure? 562 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, they do well, they do bang bang bang with this. 563 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 2: This subway conductor in New York, please stand to the 564 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 2: stand clear of the closing doors. 565 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: Please. Yeah, they got him to actually say on the record, yeah, 566 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 1: say here we go, and that's in the song. It's 567 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 1: really fun. 568 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 2: But I think, like, for as far as I listened 569 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 2: to the radio to find music, you know, I don't. 570 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 3: But are there any surprises you've had, like any deep 571 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 3: dives that you've taken this year on somebody or an 572 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 3: artist that that kind of shocked you. 573 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: I would say no, No, I would say it's just 574 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: the radio. Yeah, through the radio. 575 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 2: But I will say a lot of times, are our 576 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 2: good friend, uh Jiggy Mark Jeguardian are our producer on this? 577 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: He will be like, oh, you got to listen. 578 00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 2: And the songs he'll pick are like old school, they're 579 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 2: still poppy, but I've never heard them. 580 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 1: Like he's got a catalog. 581 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 3: Of just He brought busted out Donnie Osman the other 582 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 3: day on me and I'm like, wait, Soldier of Love 583 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 3: really and I listen, I'm like, well. 584 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 2: I have a couple friends that are like and you're 585 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 2: one of those who have like these just that's the 586 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,680 Speaker 2: way that brain works, that you music as their thing, 587 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 2: like you sal Mark, you know the Justin you know 588 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 2: Justin especially just you know works in music. 589 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 3: Any mood it's just like. 590 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 1: Really, he's he's somebody I wish. That's a gift I had. 591 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 2: I'll just say, put some music on and he will 592 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 2: ten at a ten times nail it. 593 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 3: Whenever I was in the temperature. 594 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: He knows. He's a he's a thermostat. That guy. He's 595 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: right up in there setting it. 596 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,440 Speaker 2: What do you need at sixty nine seventy two, let's 597 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 2: warm it up here in a little bit a little 598 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 2: too hot. We'll knock her down to a sixty you 599 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 2: know what, turn a fan from all that. We're gonna 600 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 2: go medium blow, you know, like he knows these things. 601 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 2: Like it really is interesting because he comes on the 602 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,919 Speaker 2: road and does the green room stuff and you know, 603 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 2: when we're driving and whatnot. 604 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,199 Speaker 1: He's just great to have, like a DJ friend that 605 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: just gets it. 606 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:43,639 Speaker 3: There's a science to it. 607 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. But what I really like. 608 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 2: About him now is that he produces music and I'm 609 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 2: able to like he made an original mix to end 610 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 2: my hour now. So I used to close whatever, and 611 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 2: now every night I hear the someone I closed. It's 612 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 2: the song that he made for me, and it's like 613 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 2: it's fun. 614 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 3: So even like Benson Boone, right, that's somebody you discover 615 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 3: th iHeart I soon. But my daughter went to the 616 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 3: show got the sweatshirt? Where is it every three days 617 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 3: to school the same sweatshirt. I'm like, Libby, let me 618 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 3: watch it. And then to know like you're friends with 619 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 3: the guy, Like you're just like, hey, I'm at dinner 620 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 3: with Benson. Miller's like, of course you are, because you're 621 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 3: Joe Gatto. That's pretty awesome. 622 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,199 Speaker 1: But he's somebody I saw live and I was like, 623 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: this kid has got it. 624 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 3: He's an entertainer that. 625 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 2: Is somebody that's a rock star that's legit, a rot 626 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 2: like he put on a show and also could could 627 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 2: sing like. 628 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 3: A yeoh yeah. 629 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:36,119 Speaker 1: He's florish. On a second, he's not all razzal dazzle. 630 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 1: He's got something, you know what I mean. 631 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 2: So he's like really got it and he's like I 632 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 2: talked to him about some of his music. I got 633 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,439 Speaker 2: to see him, which was so cool. So with the 634 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 2: iHeart thing, I got to be able to do all 635 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 2: the jingle balls, which was fun. And they do this 636 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 2: thing the Capitol Won Acoustic Lounge where they pick a 637 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 2: couple of fans to come up and one artist will 638 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 2: come to a couple of songs, and he played acoustic 639 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: a couple songs, and he played this song that he 640 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 2: had wrote and writ about his mother, and I was 641 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 2: like this, it was so such a real cool moving 642 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 2: right well, just to see that so stripped and raw 643 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 2: and you see that, and then you fast forward to 644 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,479 Speaker 2: you see him with the pirate technics going off. He's 645 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 2: flipping off the piano, and just to see that he's 646 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,120 Speaker 2: able to hold both hands steadily. 647 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, yeah, it's interesting because some of the 648 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 3: music I get exposed to us through my children. Now 649 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 3: my daughter plays again him NonStop in the car, so 650 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 3: I'm exposed to it. And you know, the first few times, 651 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 3: there's a big grudging, like, you know, I want to 652 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 3: listen to my stuff, and then you listen to your 653 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,879 Speaker 3: kids stuff, and I'm like, there's a theatricality to his music. 654 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 3: And obviously he's got a he's got a great voice, 655 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 3: but you hear it. It's it's almost kind of like 656 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 3: Elton John esque, where there's there's a I don't know, 657 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 3: there's like a production behind where there's a real resonance 658 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 3: story behind it as well. But but he's got it. 659 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,159 Speaker 3: He's got a great voice. And then my wife. You know, 660 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 3: she's forty two, and she comes back from this concert 661 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 3: and I was like, how was she? Like amazing, amazing, 662 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,000 Speaker 3: She's like that that guy's an entertainer on top of 663 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 3: obviously you're going. 664 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 1: There for the music. 665 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 3: So it's pretty wild to cross pass as you have 666 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 3: for sure. 667 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say that seeing him, like when you 668 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 2: get to it's a different level, right when you get 669 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,040 Speaker 2: to know a person you know on top of it, 670 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,199 Speaker 2: like Kobe Klay or you know, like Benson, and like 671 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 2: you just actually have dinner with them, yeah, and talk 672 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 2: with them and you're just not even talking about anything. 673 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 1: You're not talking about music, you're not talking about comedy. 674 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,840 Speaker 1: You're just talking. And then you're like, oh they realized, 675 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 1: Like I played cards with them. 676 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 2: We were playing cards and like hanging out like it's 677 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:22,879 Speaker 2: so fun, such a nice guy. And he just was 678 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 2: instantly like You're like, oh, this is somebody I could 679 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 2: be friends with, right, just you both feel and just 680 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: turn that way. I'm big on that because I know 681 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:32,360 Speaker 2: how fickle life is, and you gotta grab somebody if 682 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 2: you some enjoy spend time with somebody, like I'll put 683 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 2: the time in. I'll reach out say hello, how you been, 684 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,120 Speaker 2: you know kind of thing, send video like we send 685 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 2: videos back and forth, kidding around like he was at 686 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 2: the Grammy's at worsdhom luck like things like that and stuff. 687 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 2: You know, we were exchanging texts and things. But that's 688 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 2: the kind of thing just you know, let people know 689 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 2: you want to nurture those things. 690 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 3: You are great at that. 691 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I try. 692 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 3: By the way, the oh my god, the Chinese antique 693 00:26:53,560 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 3: you sent me? Can I tell you? Said things? So 694 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 3: it comes to me, you let me in on it. 695 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 3: I'm hahaha, okay, it's it's creepy. It's in my office. 696 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 3: So I brought it out and had the doll set 697 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 3: up at the dining room table and I was I 698 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,359 Speaker 3: was just had it out there and I was like, 699 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,879 Speaker 3: I was like, Jess, you'll never believe. And so I 700 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 3: told her the story about it. And that night we 701 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,160 Speaker 3: had some neighbors come over and they have two little 702 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 3: girls and these girls are like the one girl sees 703 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,880 Speaker 3: you go, ah, she goes what is that. I was like, Oh, 704 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 3: it's it's an antique dollar or whatever. She's like, that 705 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,879 Speaker 3: is scary. It's like a scary doll. So what I 706 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 3: had was, I said Jess, you got to start playing 707 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 3: with them. So they got off the bus and just 708 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 3: put it at the bus stop, and so I was 709 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 3: sitting there at the bus stop. And then like two 710 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,199 Speaker 3: days later they came home and it was in their 711 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 3: hall when you got so the one kicked it. The 712 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:58,360 Speaker 3: youngest one, Coco like kicked it, and uh, she's still 713 00:27:58,440 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 3: with us. 714 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: It worked, it came, it went on purpose. Dream. 715 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 2: That's so funny because I that was one of my 716 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,480 Speaker 2: favorite things that I think I've probably ever done to you, 717 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 2: for sure. 718 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yeah, absolutely hilarious. Okay, here we go. Well, Joe, 719 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,360 Speaker 3: let's see how you feel. You're Italian. Of course, this 720 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,679 Speaker 3: comes to us from Danielle. Does pineapple belong on pizza? 721 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 2: No, stop with your stupid questions. You can't have a pineapple. 722 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,120 Speaker 2: You don't put a fruit on top of a cheese. 723 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,640 Speaker 2: Everybody knows this. Here's something else that annoys me when 724 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,440 Speaker 2: people get the fruit of themar and they take the parmegian 725 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:36,959 Speaker 2: cheese and they sprinkle it on top. You don't put 726 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 2: cheese on seafood. You don't do it, stupid, You don't 727 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 2: put cheese on seafood. One exception you get is a shrimp, parmesan, 728 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 2: that's it. I don't want to cheese on your seafood. 729 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 1: That's weird. And you don't put pineapple on a pizza and. 730 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, red sauce. 731 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: Would you if I gave you a bowl of h 732 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: if I gave you a bowl. 733 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 2: Of spaghetti and they made the balls and I said, here, 734 00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 2: we want to become some pineapple in that? 735 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:00,080 Speaker 1: No? 736 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 3: Absolutely not no. 737 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,000 Speaker 1: And and the amount of non sauce that has no business, 738 00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 1: no business. 739 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 3: I like how the like like when a Mexican UH 740 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 3: journalist is like, and we're going to like I wish 741 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 3: I could do that with Korean stuff, but there's just 742 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 3: like no, it's like it's kimchi kimchi. 743 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, you just did it. No, I think for me 744 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 1: it's not. 745 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 2: But you've I will say this though, I will find 746 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 2: that it has the later the night is the more 747 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 2: acceptable it is, right, the late. 748 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 1: Like you're the more beverages you popped in pineapple, Yeah, 749 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 1: of course it's pineapple. 750 00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, give me a candy cotton wrapped burrito. 751 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: Did you ever have that? What do they call that? 752 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: They called it Hawaiian pizza? 753 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 3: Right, white pizza? 754 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:43,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? Do you have you? 755 00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 3: Do you do that? Never never, I'm I'm greatest hits. 756 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 3: When it comes to pizza, give me pepperoni. When it's 757 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 3: fully loaded, it loses like then, I'm it doesn't taste 758 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 3: like anything when I take a. 759 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,160 Speaker 1: Bite, too much has fallen off it. I hate that. 760 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, even when I get like a vegetable slice, like 761 00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:58,560 Speaker 2: I like, I like a black olive and maybe a 762 00:29:58,600 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 2: mushroom warm. 763 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: But I want I still want just enough. 764 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 2: I want to sprinkling. Yeah, I don't want to. I 765 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 2: don't want to farm. I don't want to farm. Salad 766 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 2: pizza no, literally just gonna shit on that. 767 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 3: And you said, no, you like you hate a salad pies. 768 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, because you. 769 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:17,719 Speaker 3: You're tricking yourself. 770 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 2: And they're like, I'm healthy, I get my I'm having Yes, 771 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 2: I'm having a salad pizza. 772 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 3: A Caesar Pizza's a pizza. 773 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:25,960 Speaker 1: Same thing. Those for me are a little much. I 774 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: mean they just kind of fall like it doesn't do anything. 775 00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 1: All the ship falls off. Yeah, yeah for me. For me, 776 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: I'm a classic. 777 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 2: I like, you know, I do love an upside down pie, 778 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 2: the one with the cheese is on the bottom and 779 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 2: the top greatest. Okay, this is coming to us from 780 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 2: why God, I just had three windows pop up. Okay, 781 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 2: this is coming us from Sue. I struggle with planning ahead. 782 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 2: How far ahead do you plan? If you could jump 783 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 2: into the future ten years, where do you see yourselves? 784 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 2: Not ten years. I don't jump ten years. I don't 785 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 2: plant ten years out. Do you plant ten years out? 786 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 2: It's crazy? Ten it's give again. I'll give you ten months. 787 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 2: I won't do I wan't to ten years. 788 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 1: I probably take it by I should probably do better 789 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: than this, but I take it by the year. 790 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:10,960 Speaker 3: Okay, I probably do. 791 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 1: Like at the beginning of the year. 792 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 2: End of the year, I'm like, what do I want 793 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 2: to do this year kind of thing where I'll be 794 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 2: like looking around that November through January timeframe and I'll 795 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 2: be like, Okay, what do I want to accomplish? Or 796 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:21,840 Speaker 2: do I think the rest of the time, I'm just 797 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 2: kind of trying to survive. But I yeah, you know, 798 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 2: of course we have long term goals. Want to make 799 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 2: a film, want to do you know, those kind of things. 800 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 2: But as far as like putting up plan and acting 801 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:32,920 Speaker 2: up plan for that, I don't really do that. 802 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's just I think you're more of 803 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 1: a planner than me though. 804 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 3: I definitely plan ahead, and this is the problem. I 805 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,160 Speaker 3: plan so much ahead. I never have time to think 806 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 3: about the past. Like but we were like, do you 807 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 3: remember that time where I'm like, it's all a blur 808 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 3: because I am always thinking about tomorrow, next week. 809 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 2: What do I gotta do for this? Always planning ahead. 810 00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 2: I have no recollection of the past. Absolutely, I'm one 811 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 2: of the worst people to ask. But do you remember 812 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 2: that time? Have no idea, so your future no clue. 813 00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 1: You're living in the future. 814 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 2: You're like Doc Brown always yes, yeah, yes, Marty, yeah, 815 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 2: always about the future. 816 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 3: But I think if you're struggling to plan, if you're 817 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 3: struggling to think about how to plan ahead, I just 818 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 3: write things down on a calendar, like I'm like, you know, 819 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 3: by X, I'd like to have this accomplished by Z. 820 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 3: Need to have that done. So and constantly like creating 821 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 3: meetings or things for myself like noon Wednesday, you're gonna 822 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 3: sit down, you will think about this, you know, or 823 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 3: who are you working with that you could generate ideas with, 824 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 3: you know. 825 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 2: I think organizing is a very smart tool to look 826 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,400 Speaker 2: It's definitely better for me, and I think anybody would 827 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 2: say it's better a plan than not flying by seat 828 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,400 Speaker 2: of the pants. Sometimes you work out for you, but 829 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,959 Speaker 2: you're stumbling forward. It's nice to have a plan if 830 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 2: you want to be somebody that has a plan. I 831 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 2: think that's an amazing tip. You just gave get a 832 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 2: blank calendar. Fill it up with just random dates, people like, hey, 833 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 2: by March eighteenth, I'm gonna be doing this or whatever. 834 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 2: I think that's a really cool idea. Absolutely one of 835 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,080 Speaker 2: the best ideas you've ever shared with us. Here on 836 00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 2: two Cool Moms. 837 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 1: You got one, Stevie, thank you, you got one. 838 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 3: Buddy, great child, you did it. I did it. 839 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: I'm cool only episode ninety seven. 840 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 3: I'm cool. Okay, here we go. 841 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 2: Well I think we did that. God, this keeps like okay, 842 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 2: this is coming us from Ryan. 843 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 3: My girl and I have a two year old son, 844 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 3: but have not had keep it. 845 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 1: That was an easy one. 846 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,000 Speaker 2: Okay, Caroly and I have had a two year old son, 847 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 2: but I have not had any intimacy since his birth 848 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 2: two years She said she doesn't feel like herself. We're 849 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 2: not married, but care for each other deeply. Now we're 850 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 2: at a crossroads. 851 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 3: Can I propose and risk not having into Can I 852 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 3: propose and risk not having intimacy forever. How can I 853 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 3: approach a subject with her? 854 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,640 Speaker 1: Well, it's definitely a talking to. 855 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 2: It might be a very heavy talk that may require 856 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 2: a third party in. It might be a couple's therapist session, 857 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,920 Speaker 2: you know, because I do think, like I never did 858 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,359 Speaker 2: couple therapy, but I do think that sometimes you're gonna 859 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 2: need it out. You both have spoken your piece, right, 860 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 2: you want some intimacy. She doesn't feel sexy, good, good 861 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 2: enough as herself. Okay, you need your intimacy. She doesn't 862 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 2: want to provide it and does not feel in the 863 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:22,880 Speaker 2: space where she can. You both have valid points, So 864 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 2: you need somebody who's an outside party that could sit 865 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 2: down and help you work through the answer because you're 866 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 2: gonna just keep this the two. This is where we 867 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,799 Speaker 2: are in life, and there's nothing wrong with either perception. Yeah, 868 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 2: you want this, she wants done, and you know that's 869 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,640 Speaker 2: that's the way it is. So I think I think 870 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 2: it would be smart to have outside countsl to help 871 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 2: you work through it. 872 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:44,879 Speaker 1: And I don't think this is like you should start 873 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:45,480 Speaker 1: going to therapy. 874 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 2: I mean, I think honestly, in a couple sessions where 875 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:49,399 Speaker 2: you're have an honest conversations, you could figure something out. 876 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 2: So you should just go and think about, like how 877 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,279 Speaker 2: do we get through this? You know, that would be 878 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 2: my that would be my thing. This again, unless you 879 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,200 Speaker 2: haven't talked about it yet and you just said, well 880 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 2: she said this. 881 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 1: Once and she said she doesn't feel like herself. 882 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 2: Well did you have an honest conversation about it? First 883 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 2: of all, sit down and be like, like, this is being 884 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 2: a deal breaker from me here. I would love to 885 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 2: marry you, but I can't see myself being locked in 886 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 2: an intimate, seed less marriage. You know, let her know 887 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,239 Speaker 2: the gravity of the situation and then maybe we could 888 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 2: course correct a little. 889 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,399 Speaker 3: I completely agree with you. You got to communicate, right, But 890 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,920 Speaker 3: I think also you can fall into the routine of 891 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,399 Speaker 3: like understanding, Okay, it's all about the kid now, right, 892 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 3: So why not surprise it with like a date night, Like, 893 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 3: surprise her, take her out, make it romantic, whine and 894 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 3: dine her like you're on your third date and you're 895 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,839 Speaker 3: trying to impress her again, don't stop dating, right and 896 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,759 Speaker 3: spark that romance and then uh, you know, get the 897 00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,600 Speaker 3: chocolate covered strawberries, pop a boner pill there, you put 898 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 3: some condoms on the table. 899 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:49,400 Speaker 1: Perfect and be like your move. 900 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 3: Exactly, but let her know, give her some gatorades, say 901 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 3: I don't want you cramping up game time. This is 902 00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:56,320 Speaker 3: gonna be a session. 903 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 2: I think I do think that there is something to 904 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,719 Speaker 2: the spontaneity you know of of it all, but there 905 00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 2: is also a piece like of like get a calendar 906 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,480 Speaker 2: and mark March eighteenth as. 907 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 1: Boo will. 908 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 2: It is like, let's do it like so you know, 909 00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 2: everybody could stretch out, hydrate and be ready to go. 910 00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 911 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 2: Give me a thing too. It might be something where 912 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 2: you're like, hey, look I want to have a date night, 913 00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:21,319 Speaker 2: let's do it. I want to looking at this like 914 00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 2: if you get and also as always, like we always 915 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 2: say with. 916 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 1: Come with solutions, tell me like this is a problem. 917 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 1: What do we do? Like be like, hey, here's something 918 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:31,319 Speaker 1: I thought about that maybe could do. 919 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 2: What do you think start the conversation with solutions is 920 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 2: always going to come off as a better conversation. 921 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,359 Speaker 3: What woman doesn't feel like insecure after birth? They all 922 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 3: feel that way and she hasn't probably gotten over it 923 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 3: since so. 924 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:44,600 Speaker 1: As a baby. Wait, Milana is not. 925 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 3: Make her feel sexier though, make her feel good. Compliment 926 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:52,480 Speaker 3: her and you know, and you know, let her come 927 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 3: home and see a treadmill. 928 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 2: Get to get the tread get each other for Christopher 929 00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,439 Speaker 2: your anniversary. Let her get you a lawnmower, you get 930 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 2: her a treadmill. It's two great, great gifts that everybody appreciates. 931 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 3: Get to work, no carbs, no sugar for the next month. 932 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:07,840 Speaker 1: They we're doing Atkins. 933 00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 3: We trim it down. Okay, here we go with it. 934 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 2: Steve, you've got another question for us, and again, thank 935 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 2: you everybody who submitted. We love you, we appreciate you. Yes, 936 00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 2: this is coming to us from Will. Will says, I 937 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:29,520 Speaker 2: have feelings for friend. 938 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 3: What can I do to see if the feeling is 939 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 3: mutual without jeopardizing the French to it? 940 00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 1: Don't do it? 941 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:40,359 Speaker 2: Well, Yeah, keep your mouth shut, it's not gonna pan out. 942 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 3: Well, go to a laundry, get some panties, take a whiff. 943 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:43,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've already. 944 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 2: I mean, that's the best, I guess, the best advice 945 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 2: I think that you're gonna get from us too, because 946 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 2: this is ain't happening. We've we've spoken to said crush 947 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 2: and uh, we had to break it to you. But 948 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 2: the question that we haven't read was what do I do? 949 00:37:56,160 --> 00:38:00,440 Speaker 2: I think Will likes me, so I don't. I don't 950 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 2: know what to tell you at this point. I think 951 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:02,840 Speaker 2: you just got to chalk it up and move on 952 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 2: to the next one. 953 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:08,719 Speaker 3: It's interesting because it's like, how like it's primarily guys 954 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,479 Speaker 3: in this situation, and it's just like, have. 955 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 2: Their it's not one hundred percent, it's heavily guys. You're right, 956 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,920 Speaker 2: heavily guys. Have there been warning flares? Have there been like. 957 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:18,799 Speaker 1: Read the room is number one? 958 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly the room. 959 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,439 Speaker 2: If she called you, like if she calls you your brother, 960 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,919 Speaker 2: you're out forget it and she's like you're like a brother. 961 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 1: You're done. You're done that, You're done now. And the 962 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 1: call you can't you can't get passed. Here's what you 963 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 1: need to know. 964 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:35,680 Speaker 3: This is only only a crush due to proximity. You've 965 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,759 Speaker 3: got maybe three great friends. One of them is a 966 00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 3: cute girl, and because you see her all the time, 967 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,840 Speaker 3: and that's the girl you're exposed to, that your desert rose. 968 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,680 Speaker 2: You have no choice but to be attracted to her. 969 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 2: What you need to do is expand your palette. Get 970 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,399 Speaker 2: out there, meet more people, meet more girls, and I'm 971 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,720 Speaker 2: telling you, it's going to get a back burner so quick. 972 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,440 Speaker 2: The mini you're out, you're having fun, you're at the 973 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,239 Speaker 2: book club or whatever, just meeting whoever you can. I 974 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 2: think the more you give yourself the opportunity to meet 975 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 2: different people, the less this will be there, because it's 976 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,560 Speaker 2: I think the times it's just it's it's due to proximity. 977 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:13,920 Speaker 1: The collection of it. Yeah, I will say this too. 978 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:15,319 Speaker 2: I do think there's a way to approach it, if 979 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 2: you've got to approach it, and I don't think the 980 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:18,240 Speaker 2: way you approach it is can I talk. 981 00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:18,640 Speaker 1: To you for a minute. 982 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 2: Look, I've been having feelings about you, and I really 983 00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,919 Speaker 2: think that there could be something. No, it's I think 984 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:24,640 Speaker 2: the way you approach it is be like, do you 985 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,480 Speaker 2: ever think about us dating? Literally something like that, something 986 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 2: not heavy entry and take it step by step from there. 987 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 2: If she's like no, that'd be so weird, you're like, yeah, probably, yeah, 988 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,319 Speaker 2: you're done. If she's like, oh, I never thought about that, 989 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe I don't know. That might be a little weird, 990 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,600 Speaker 2: wouldn't it If she says wouldn't it back to you, 991 00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 2: it's a conversation now, So now you could go next 992 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 2: step and like, nah, I don't know, it'd be weird. 993 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 2: I'd think it pretty you know, something like that, like 994 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 2: if you've approach it that way. But I think those 995 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 2: grand gesture sit downs, I highly highly I think there's 996 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 2: a big failure right there. 997 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 1: I don't think they ever really work out. 998 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 2: It becomes an interrogation, it becomes a pressure situation that 999 00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 2: ruins the friendship. 1000 00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:00,840 Speaker 1: If she's able to brush it off and like no, 1001 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,319 Speaker 1: that's that would be weird and it's done. You could 1002 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 1: remain friends easily if you're like. 1003 00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 3: Every rose. 1004 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 1: She's like, what fuck you doing? 1005 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 2: Well, we're going to get pizza and put some pineapple 1006 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 2: on it. 1007 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,879 Speaker 1: Like it's a totally different thing. 1008 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,879 Speaker 3: So for me, I would wait. I would wait. 1009 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: Like the sky riding it was like, you know, that 1010 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 1: whole thing. I don't think it's that's so true though. 1011 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:27,759 Speaker 3: I think it always comes down to the first that 1012 00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,399 Speaker 3: one of the first who said read the room. 1013 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, there'll be warning signs, you know they'll be 1014 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,240 Speaker 2: there'll be signs, you know, So I think. 1015 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:39,440 Speaker 1: Uh, I think I think that's uh, proceed with. 1016 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 3: Caution, right, Yeah, okay, this last one more we got time. 1017 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:48,480 Speaker 2: One more comes to us from Jill. Hi, Moms, you 1018 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 2: guys are the best. Thank you for the question, Jill, 1019 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,120 Speaker 2: thanks for including me in that. Usually it's Joe, You're 1020 00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:55,759 Speaker 2: the best, Hi Moms. And the other guy's funny too, 1021 00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,839 Speaker 2: and the other guy. Yeah, Hi Joe and the other guy. 1022 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,240 Speaker 2: I just finished a great series. 1023 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,680 Speaker 3: Any recommendations on anything you guys happen to be watching 1024 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 3: right now? 1025 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:06,799 Speaker 1: You know what? 1026 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,239 Speaker 2: I have so many I'm so backlogged right now. The 1027 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:11,799 Speaker 2: number one thing that I need to watch now, which 1028 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 2: I haven't watched them. You're gonna be mad at me, 1029 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 2: iin because you've seen it, and everybody out there is 1030 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,520 Speaker 2: gonna be mad at me because I know everybody loves it. 1031 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 1: Is the first season of White Lotus. I've never seen one. 1032 00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 3: I've never seen it. 1033 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,839 Speaker 2: Okay, so people gonna hate you too. People swear by 1034 00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,279 Speaker 2: this AI. It's phenomenal. So that's one I need to 1035 00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 2: go watch. I'm backlogged. I'm not really watching anything now. 1036 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,120 Speaker 2: I'm not a big watcher. 1037 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:30,440 Speaker 1: This is the thing. 1038 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,399 Speaker 2: Bessie falls asleep early. I normally just I'm on my phone, 1039 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:34,799 Speaker 2: then I go play video games. If I'm in a 1040 00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:36,759 Speaker 2: video game, I'm not so right now, I'm in a 1041 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:38,840 Speaker 2: video games. I'm not really watching anything okay, you know, 1042 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 2: and even on the road, I don't really do a 1043 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 2: lot of watching. I threw on a couple of movies 1044 00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:45,880 Speaker 2: that I hadn't seen, but as far as series, no, 1045 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:47,440 Speaker 2: I don't really have anything. I know a lot of 1046 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 2: people are talking about, you know, but I haven't seen 1047 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,280 Speaker 2: anything of note. 1048 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 3: I still love the experience of going to movies. I 1049 00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 3: love buying a ticket. I love supporting something. I love 1050 00:41:56,680 --> 00:42:00,880 Speaker 3: supporting somebody who's adventurous, like Steven Soderberg saw A Presence, 1051 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 3: which is a horror film, and I saw the trailer. 1052 00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,960 Speaker 3: I was like, Wow, that looks cool. And then I 1053 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,799 Speaker 3: showed the trailer to my daughter and she goes, oh, 1054 00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,360 Speaker 3: so there's a film about the perspective of a ghost 1055 00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 3: and the ghost is haunting the house. And I was like, wait, 1056 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,799 Speaker 3: how did you pick that up? I didn't pick that up, 1057 00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,759 Speaker 3: Like she's in seventh grade, and she knew it then 1058 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,560 Speaker 3: forty five seconds and I thought it was just kind 1059 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,840 Speaker 3: of like cool place. And I was like, I'm a dipshit, 1060 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 3: of course it is so. But I saw the film 1061 00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 3: phenomenal and it's from the ghost perspective and it can't communicate, 1062 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:37,280 Speaker 3: but it's it's haunting a house. And then you realize 1063 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,480 Speaker 3: why it's haunting a house. And I'd never seen a 1064 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:40,040 Speaker 3: film like that. 1065 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 1: I never see anything like that. 1066 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 3: I'll tell you it was wild. You don't feel bored, great, 1067 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:46,920 Speaker 3: you feel like you're a fly on the wall. It 1068 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,840 Speaker 3: was really really cool. I love that knows Faratu I saw, 1069 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:50,760 Speaker 3: which was amazing. 1070 00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 1: I was saying, I look like the guy. 1071 00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:58,359 Speaker 3: You do not look like I feel. 1072 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 2: We like, send me pictures and put Joseph Joe's Ferato. 1073 00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:07,240 Speaker 2: No no, no, no no, you do not look like those. 1074 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 3: Hold and then I. 1075 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 1: Just yeah, like, well, but what I think are you? 1076 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:15,440 Speaker 1: It's safe to say you're more of a movie guy 1077 00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 1: than a TV guy. I'm definitely more of a movie 1078 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 1: I love movies. 1079 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 2: I have my chance to sit down I watch a 1080 00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,760 Speaker 2: movie because I like knowing I'm committing to ninety minutes 1081 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,399 Speaker 2: to one hundred and twenty minutes and that's it. 1082 00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,360 Speaker 3: I'm knowing ten hours. 1083 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:29,960 Speaker 1: What am I doing over ten hours? It was like, 1084 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:30,719 Speaker 1: that's too much. 1085 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, I'd rather do anything else. 1086 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:33,240 Speaker 1: Agree. 1087 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,319 Speaker 2: I will say the last great series that I just saw, 1088 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:37,960 Speaker 2: I just watched Penguin. I thought, oh, amazing, amazing. I 1089 00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:39,640 Speaker 2: tho it was phenomenal. It felt like it felt like 1090 00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,640 Speaker 2: a movie. The actress was, yes. 1091 00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:42,279 Speaker 1: Was so good. 1092 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,840 Speaker 3: I forget her name, but holy she was crazy amazing. 1093 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think overall, I thought everything was great and 1094 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,400 Speaker 2: it even the kid was great. I think it was 1095 00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,120 Speaker 2: a really really good, well done series. It was reminiscent 1096 00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,880 Speaker 2: to me of the first Daredevil. I think Daredevil was. 1097 00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,000 Speaker 3: I never saw the first dared Devil and it's coming 1098 00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:57,560 Speaker 3: back though, right. 1099 00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 2: The first series of Daredevil is arguably one of the 1100 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,760 Speaker 2: best best series. 1101 00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,120 Speaker 1: That, in my opinion, that made TV. 1102 00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 2: It has the best fight scene in episode one that 1103 00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,400 Speaker 2: I think that ever is on television. 1104 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:09,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's it's amazing. 1105 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 2: He's I'm not spoiling anything, but he fights down the 1106 00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 2: hallway blind and it's one shot, really yeah, and the 1107 00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,799 Speaker 2: camera's just going in and through rooms and just like 1108 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 2: watching him come down. It's one of the best coolest things. 1109 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:23,919 Speaker 2: I've said, and I've seen it copied multiple times. It's 1110 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:24,279 Speaker 2: really good. 1111 00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 3: You know what's interesting. I I, my kids and I 1112 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,000 Speaker 3: we you know, we tried to watch like Acolyte, They're 1113 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 3: like they got two in they're like bait it and 1114 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:36,320 Speaker 3: or was a little too adult for them to like. Sorry, 1115 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:40,879 Speaker 3: they loved they loved Mandalorian both my kids, daughter and son. 1116 00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 3: And then because the last few Star Wars shows that 1117 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:47,279 Speaker 3: were hesitant on Scalet Skeleton Crew if you've watched. 1118 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:50,280 Speaker 2: It and yet awesome, awesome, Should I watch my kidscause 1119 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:50,880 Speaker 2: they've been asking me. 1120 00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:53,319 Speaker 3: My kids love it. And it was one of those 1121 00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,040 Speaker 3: things where it's like, Okay, we're gonna watch this together. 1122 00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:57,160 Speaker 3: It's all on the road for two days. Oh it's 1123 00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,279 Speaker 3: it's a it's a blast and on the road four 1124 00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 3: ahead of me, and I'm like, all right, I'll just 1125 00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:03,799 Speaker 3: catch up later. And I watched I watched two more 1126 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:05,960 Speaker 3: with him last night, so we got two more left. 1127 00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 3: And my son and daughter both love it. They love 1128 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 3: that show. It is fun. There's no ego, there's no like, 1129 00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,280 Speaker 3: there's no agenda to it. It's just a great story 1130 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 3: and it's kids having fun. And Jude Law is great 1131 00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:19,719 Speaker 3: and it's kind of fun to see Jude Law play 1132 00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 3: somebody who's a little more fun, I guess fun than 1133 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,320 Speaker 3: what he's normal played the past. I love it. 1134 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,319 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll check that out. Well, there you go. Skelton Crow, 1135 00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:26,560 Speaker 1: that's what. 1136 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 3: Skelter Crew there you go there, or there's great movies 1137 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,919 Speaker 3: or better man the Robbie Williams want to keep talking 1138 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 3: about it. I can't recommend that movie more highly. It 1139 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,320 Speaker 3: is a blast. I think it's one of those films 1140 00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:41,320 Speaker 3: because it's like the Justin Timberlake of the of England. 1141 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 3: He left a popular boy band, he blew up. He's 1142 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 3: big everywhere apparently, but the States and this film came 1143 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,560 Speaker 3: out and the La fires happened that weekend and that 1144 00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 3: you know, he's gonna have this big premiere and just 1145 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 3: like bad timing again. I could not recommend this film 1146 00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:59,240 Speaker 3: more highly. And I I'm telling you it's so fun, 1147 00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:03,120 Speaker 3: it's so heartfelt. There's a lot of great messaging behind it, 1148 00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 3: and he's fully open and transparent about all his failures 1149 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,080 Speaker 3: in his life whatever. But man, it's an absolute blast. 1150 00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 3: And if you if you want to know, just want 1151 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:17,759 Speaker 3: just go rock DJ scene from They put up the 1152 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 3: whole scene on YouTube. I think there's gonna be one 1153 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 3: of those films that comes down in streaming and people. 1154 00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,000 Speaker 1: Discovered go and find it again. 1155 00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:24,320 Speaker 3: Shit, it is awesome. 1156 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,080 Speaker 1: Head of the Curve here on two cool moms. That's 1157 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,280 Speaker 1: what we do. 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