WEBVTT - Textual Healing: Proposal Predicament 0:00:01.160 --> 0:00:03.560 If you found out your best friend is about to 0:00:03.600 --> 0:00:07.920 get proposed to, what's the first thing you do? 0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:11.680 What do you do? I don't know which. 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:13.000 Can you congratulate them. 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:20.439 Before they get proposed? Yeah, that's a good that's a 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:20.919 good rule. 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:25.200 Just in jail, don't anything. But one of our listeners 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:28.160 doesn't want to ruin the surprise. In fact, she wants 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:31.479 to stop the proposal from happening altogether. Whoa And she 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:35.200 has a pretty valid reason for it, but needs our help. 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:37.640 Oh my god, don't worry. She's not in love with 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:38.959 the guy too. It's not that. 0:00:39.000 --> 0:00:42.760 But it is a delicate situation. Can we assist without 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:46.120 destroying their friendship in the process. We're going to try 0:00:46.159 --> 0:00:56.360 in obtextual healing. Next, Text you will heal, Then. 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:57.760 Text you will know. 0:00:58.000 --> 0:00:59.880 A lot of the times on this show we try 0:00:59.880 --> 0:01:02.440 to help people improve their dating lives. 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:04.600 I love that Well, today is. 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:08.360 A little bit different. Brook's wishes have finally come true. 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:14.119 We're actually going to try and block love today. That's 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:17.119 what one of our listeners, Emily, wants us to do. 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:18.160 I love love. 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:21.399 Yeah, why do you always say that about me? 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:23.480 Well, you're always trying to stop people from going out. 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:25.200 But Emily, Welcome to the show. 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:27.280 Hi, Hi Emily. 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:29.440 I think Brook, like all of us, tries to help, 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:31.360 but we don't end up being very successful. 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:32.600 Sometimes that's okay. 0:01:32.319 --> 0:01:34.160 Speak for yourself, Emily, what do you need? 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:38.000 Doesn't that sound so sweet? And help for yourself? What 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:41.600 do you need? Emily? Thank you for emailing this show. 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:44.120 Tell us a little bit about your love situation and 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:45.720 how we can help destroy it for you. 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:46.440 What's going on? 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.720 Well, I have a really close friend. Her name is Kaylee. 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:52.360 I've known her for a long time. I love her 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:53.080 like a sister. 0:01:54.600 --> 0:01:56.480 That's so great to have those type of friendships. 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:00.880 Yeah, yeah, sound like a yes? 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:01.520 No. 0:02:01.600 --> 0:02:04.120 I love Kaylee. She's my best friend. And she's been 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:07.440 in a relationship with a guy for almost two years now. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.600 She loves how it's going. I mean, she likes the guy. 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.680 He's very handsome, he treats her right. The only thing 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.040 is she's not in a place where she wants to 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:18.239 settle down with him yet. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:21.200 Okay, that's fine. Why is that an issue? 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:25.919 Well, it wouldn't be, but like the problem is I 0:02:25.960 --> 0:02:28.800 heard a rumor that her boyfriend was going to be 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:30.800 proposing to her tonight. 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.000 Oh wait tonight? 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:34.320 Wow? 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:35.880 The team. 0:02:36.160 --> 0:02:37.519 They haven't talked about that. 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:41.919 Yeah, well, if you're dating for two years, you think 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:45.079 it would have come up. Yeah, who'd you hear the 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:45.840 rumor from. 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:49.000 It's from a mutual friend. And it's just I'm in 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:52.959 such an awkward situation right now because I've asked Haylee before, 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:55.079 like I've said, you know, if Thomas proposed to you, 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:58.440 what would you say? And she's not about it, she's 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:01.120 not into that. She told me she's not ready. 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:04.359 Just not yet like someday maybe, but just not right now. 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:06.640 You're saying that my mom told my dad no, I 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:10.200 think four times before she actually they actually agreed to 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:10.720 get married. 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:11.720 So what's the problem. 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:15.200 You're worried that what she's gonna turn him down? Like 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:16.720 he's going to make a fool of himself. 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:20.960 No, wait, is there an event happening tonight? Like is 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:23.040 it friends all getting together or something? Is that how 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:24.519 you think it's going to go down? 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:26.880 Well, I just know that they're going to go out 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:32.000 on a date tonight, and I wanted to warn her boyfriend, 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:36.040 just like without being very direct about the situation. 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:38.839 Wait, you want to tell Wait, hold on, you want 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:40.760 to tell him? Why wouldn't you want to tell her, 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:42.160 give her a heads up. 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:43.120 I want to ruin it. 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.360 Wait, she doesn't want it. 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:51.800 I know, my friend, Like, this is so much right now, 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:53.119 I don't want to put this on her. I don't 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:54.880 want to burden her with this, Like I want to 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:56.760 get rid of the situation entirely. 0:03:57.360 --> 0:03:59.880 Well, like behind the scenes, you're doing work, so she 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:01.040 has zero stress. 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:02.280 That's a good friend. 0:04:02.080 --> 0:04:04.720 Move, get rid of the situation. 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:12.520 So you want you want to text Kaylee's boyfriend and 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:16.080 stop him from proposing without alerting him that you know 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:17.159 that he's going to propose. 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:19.200 Oh that's hard to do. 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:21.680 That's why I turned to you guys, Like this is 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:25.000 so tough to navigate, Like, I need your help and 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.680 I've already started a text message with him. 0:04:27.960 --> 0:04:29.440 Oh you did good? 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:31.200 Wait, not usual for us. 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:32.480 I don't know if it's good. What did you say? 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:33.640 Well, it's good because we don't have to do as 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.359 much work. What'd you say? 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:39.400 Okay, I'm going to try to read this. So I 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:44.839 sent him Thomas, how's it going? He goes, stop, M 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:48.760 doing great? Thanks for asking? How about you put Oh 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:51.600 you know, just trying to save Kaylee from a lifetime 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:52.320 of misery. 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:58.080 Wait, what whoa, She put ha ha, it's okay, like 0:04:58.160 --> 0:04:59.359 you coming out of random. 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:01.960 This is why I needed your help because I thought 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:05.080 it was funny to kind of do this. You know, it. 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:07.400 Sounds like you're saying that being with him would be 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:08.679 a lifetime misery. 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.120 I mean, maybe he doesn't even know that. There's not 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.000 enough like context there even. 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:14.920 I mean, marriage is a lifetime of misery. 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:17.400 What did he say? 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:18.599 Yeah? 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:20.359 Well, then I tried to play it off cool. I 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:22.600 was like, but seriously, how's your day going? 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:24.600 Oh man, that's a serious time. 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:26.440 She knows that, you know. 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:26.839 Now. 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:28.719 What did he say? 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:30.960 Yeah, he goes, my day's going pretty well. Why do 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:33.960 you ask? Yeah? I put oh, no reason. I was 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:36.040 just wondering if you had any big plans. 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:37.480 Ok, oh my god, you are. 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:43.320 So we're kind of like doing more like restoration fixing 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:43.800 right now? 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:45.800 Okay? How did he respond? 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:50.240 He goes, actually I do, but it's a big secret. 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:54.279 Oh yeah, no, shut your mouth, that's what he's telling 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:55.599 me to do. Keep your mouth shut. 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:57.720 Or maybe he's kind of a dummy and doesn't know 0:05:57.760 --> 0:05:58.760 that she's on to him yet. 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:02.320 Yeah, I don't know. What have you written back to that? 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:03.719 Did you say anything. 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.120 No, I didn't because I'm really stuck and I don't 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:08.880 know what to say. So I just need help at 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:09.279 this point. 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:12.719 Okay, okay, to neutralize the situation, I think immediately for 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:16.080 the third time, how is your day going. 0:06:19.560 --> 0:06:21.960 I think one common theme that we go to with 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:24.760 these is using humor to try and get people to 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:27.520 open up a little bit more, because even though our 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:29.600 goal is a little bit serious trying to get him 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:32.359 to stop proposing, we need to get him to lighten 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:34.760 up a little bit in order to make it there. Yeah. 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:37.600 I mean we didn't start well with that whole like 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:39.839 saving her from a lifetime of misery things. 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:43.240 So I mean he's already admitted, like there is something 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:45.120 I've planned, but it's a big secret. What if we 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:48.599 throw out some horribly wrong guesses to make him laugh? 0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:50.640 Oh, like like, oh. 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:53.080 Let me guess. Is it a big casino heist tonight? 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:53.920 Oh that's better. 0:06:54.920 --> 0:07:00.480 That's funny, photographing Spider Man around the city, like just obvious, wrong, 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:01.719 that's good. 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:02.720 I like casino heist. 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:03.360 Go with that one. 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:06.240 Yeah, what do you what do you think, Emily? 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.360 I think that's good. Like I just want to like 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:13.760 not come off to too crazy, like I'm crying into 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:14.320 his life. 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:18.600 But you know, yeah, I like casino heist. 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:21.640 And then you followed up with because Kaylie's really not 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:22.960 ready for that type of commitment. 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:24.360 Yeah, I think so. 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:26.720 And why why don't you start typing that out like Ooh, 0:07:26.800 --> 0:07:30.200 let me guess we're doing a casino heist tonight and with. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:31.760 The money bag emoji. 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:33.000 Yeah, that's good. 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:34.160 Are you typing Emily? 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:34.840 Yeah? 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:37.920 Okay, so I'm putting ooh, is it going to be 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:41.880 a casino heist tonight? I guess don't get caught or something? 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:42.800 No, am I close? 0:07:42.840 --> 0:07:44.960 Am I close question mark? We just want him to 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:46.520 open up and start talking with us. 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:47.880 And if you end it with a set, you have 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.320 to end it with a question, so I'll never respond. 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:52.040 To okay, am I close question mark? 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:52.320 Yeah? 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:53.840 That's okay, I got it. 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:56.560 And are you sure your your best friend isn't like 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:59.679 telling you one thing about her commitment level and telling 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:01.080 her friends something else. 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.080 No, I swear to gone. She does not want to 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:04.960 get married right now? 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:08.240 That's great? Is that what you were doing with your husband, Brooke? 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:11.440 You were telling everybody else like the loser? 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:12.160 Are you kidding me? 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:15.120 I was begging him to propose. What are you doing? 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:16.800 Well, get on it. 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:19.440 I remember that because every weekend you'd go away. We're like, 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:19.920 this is the. 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:23.680 Weekend and then fake dropped down on the knee and 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:25.880 I'm like, so. 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:27.480 Emily, you sent that right, Yeah? 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:27.720 I did. 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:29.680 Okay, Well, we're we're running out of time for this 0:08:29.720 --> 0:08:31.560 first part. We're going to play a song, come back, 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:35.400 and we'll see if Kaylee's boyfriend has responded, and then 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:39.000 we'll try and stop him from proposing when we continue 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:43.360 textual healing next. How do you stop a guy from 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:45.520 proposing to your best friend? 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:48.280 Oh my god, Wow, it's usually the opposite. 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:49.080 How do you get a. 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:49.800 Guy to do it? 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.240 I know there must be a Cosmo magazine article about this. 0:08:54.280 --> 0:08:56.400 You must have thrown that issue away. So we're kind 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:59.240 of on our own here helping out one of our listeners, Emily, 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:03.400 because she knows her friend is about to get proposed, 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:05.280 to buy her boyfriend tonight. 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:07.880 I mean, he a text, he said he had a 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:08.680 huge surprise. 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:12.200 The thing is, Emily's friend isn't ready to get married. 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:15.880 Even told her if he proposes, I'd probably say no. 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:17.400 Oh man. 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:20.240 So to prevent all that drama, Emily wants to get 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:23.120 ahead of it and tell the boyfriend please don't do 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:26.000 it without letting him know that she knows. 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:27.520 Yeah, that's tricky. 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:29.960 There's been a whole conversation in the lead up, and 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:33.160 our suggestion was let's throw out some wrong. 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:35.040 Guesses and about what the secret is. 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:37.600 But what the secret is and we guess big casino heist? 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:40.280 Am I close? And has he responded to that? 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:40.680 Emily? 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:42.520 Yes, he has? 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:43.800 Okay, what do he say? 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:49.480 So he put OMG, no casino heights. Ah, what I've 0:09:49.480 --> 0:09:52.560 planned is kind of bigger than that. There will be 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:54.600 cameras and maybe some roses. 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:59.319 No, this guy is the worst at secrets ever. By 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.680 the way, could you give a way more clues? 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:08.280 I'm probably got a camera person though, honestly, Yeah, yeah, God. 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:11.840 All right, Well, now he's really confirming that something romantic 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:12.720 is about to go down. 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:14.959 I think we need to like deterret right now. I 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:17.200 don't think we need to do anymore back and forth, 0:10:17.360 --> 0:10:21.560 Like I don't know, like, is there any way like 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:25.080 your friend Kaylee's like going through like other life changes 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.840 and maybe we could be like, you know, Kaylee's going 0:10:27.840 --> 0:10:30.960 through so much, she just really needs a steady, non 0:10:31.080 --> 0:10:33.720 changing relationship it's. 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:37.160 Not idea, like, is she going through like a changing careers. 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:40.720 Did she get a new pet, like something really stressful? 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:45.240 She got a hamster. She just really is space to propose. 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:48.760 The hamster was pregnant and so now she's got twenty hamsters. 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:51.440 Ever since she got buttons, it's been rough for her. 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:52.800 Is anything going on like that? 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:58.080 Well, her wax person quit pretty recently, and she's been 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:00.520 looking for a new one, like. 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:05.800 The person who doesn't Bikiti way, is that taking a 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:08.160 big toll on her mentally exactly? 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:12.000 He loved before. She'd been going for her for years 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:14.360 and she just doesn't need more stress. 0:11:14.440 --> 0:11:16.839 Okay, she's really sad about wax lady. 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:18.880 Well, let's go with that, I think. 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:21.640 Are you just say I hope Kaylee's not involved in 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.200 this surprise. She's not in the right head space since 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:25.520 her wax woman left. 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:29.160 Yeah, she really can't can't handle more stress on her plate. 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:33.560 Okay, so Kaylee can't handle more stress on her plate. 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:36.000 Just say I hope she's not involved in the surprise. 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:40.120 That right, because Kayleie is not in the right head space. 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:42.400 Because we're still trying to play dumb like we don't 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:43.920 know the proposals about to happen. 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:46.600 Yeah, okay, so I put I hope Kaylee is not 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:50.120 involved in this. She doesn't need more stress. She's already 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:52.280 stressed out about finding a new wax. Person. 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:57.600 To fair, you want to get a wax before you're 0:11:57.600 --> 0:11:59.800 propose to, So it's stressful. 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:01.120 You want to look your best. 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:02.720 Come on and look. 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:05.720 That's not stressful to us, but for her friend, clearly 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:08.640 it's causing some mental anguish and that should be enough. 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:11.720 And no wonder Kaylee's not ready for a proposal or 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:13.360 an engagement if she's that fragile. 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:14.160 Yeah, you know. 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:20.199 Okay, so we've sent that text, right Emily, Okay, now he's. 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:21.240 Do you think he's freaking out? 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:23.560 Un waxed body, If you got that. 0:12:23.480 --> 0:12:25.680 Text saying the person you're about to propose to is 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:28.160 like super freaked out, would you be like, oh my god, 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:29.200 I should do it another night. 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:31.400 As a guy, to be honest, I would be like, 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:33.960 wax lady, that's nothing compared to what I'm about to. 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:36.720 You know, well, I don't know if it's gonna stop's doing. 0:12:36.600 --> 0:12:37.000 A good thing. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:39.199 Yeah, maybe I'll get her mind. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:41.800 Off of it, but that makes it about you Tonight. 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:43.320 The proposal is all about her. 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:44.120 That's true. 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:45.000 That's true. 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:46.480 So you want her to. 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:48.800 Be on the list the best headspace that she possibly 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:50.480 can be to guarantee you yes. 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:53.600 I well, especially because it sounds like they haven't even 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:57.200 talked about it. If he's proposing tonight and Kaylee is 0:12:57.240 --> 0:13:01.360 so not on board the communication in this relationship, he's. 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:04.520 Probably super nervous flying blind on this anything, Emily. 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:06.719 Something just came in. 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:07.960 Okay. 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:11.840 It says, if you think I'm proposing tonight, that's one 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:13.200 hundred percent not true. 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:14.040 Oh right? 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:14.880 Wait? 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:18.920 What so he finally clicked in his head. 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:20.680 I thought you confirmed with the rumor. 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:21.360 Yeah. 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:23.440 Wait, and what's all the roses and cameras about? 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:24.320 There's more? 0:13:24.679 --> 0:13:26.480 Yeah, he's sending something else. He's typing. 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:27.760 Wait what is going? 0:13:27.800 --> 0:13:31.360 Oh my god? What if he's breaking up with her 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:33.120 with a cameraman? 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:36.520 Right, it would make a pretty devastating TikTok video that 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:37.280 would go viral. 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:40.600 He'll be a friend proposed instead of him proposing himself. 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:46.040 Okay, I have another message. It says, wait, do you 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:47.000 know already? 0:13:47.800 --> 0:13:49.600 Oh my god? 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:49.880 I no? 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:51.600 Wait is this good or bad? 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:53.199 But I don't know proposing? 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:54.640 So what is he what is going on? 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:56.560 Do you know what you have to text about? 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:57.120 Do I know what? 0:13:58.440 --> 0:13:59.800 Just maybe you fake like you do know? 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:01.200 I totally know. 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:02.080 Yeah. 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:04.200 Times that works and then he'll ease up and go, 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:06.480 oh you know fine, I'll spill the bean. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:10.240 No, say this, tell him I know something. Tell me 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:18.480 what you know first? Okay, you first. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.360 Into a game, maybe it's like you play it kind 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:19.880 of cool, Like, I mean, I have a pretty good 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:21.760 idea of what's going on tonight. 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:24.920 But he just said that he's not proposing. Do we 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:26.120 have a good idea anymore? 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:29.880 Well, Brook, we have no idea, but we're just trying 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:30.720 to get him to tell us. 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:33.480 Yeah, we know. It's like, let me know how I 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:34.240 can help. 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:35.560 Give me the details. 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:37.960 That's a Jeff. What do you think, Emily? 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.560 Yeah, because I'm very confused right now. I'm just thinking 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:44.440 just playing along kind of telling. 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:46.440 Him text it there, let's send it. 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:48.080 Okay, I am like dying. 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:50.800 Wait, so does he mean that he's not Like was 0:14:50.800 --> 0:14:53.040 he being sarcastic when he was saying not proposing or 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:54.160 was he being serious? Yeah? 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:55.520 Now it's like what is he going to and what 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:56.000 does he think? 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:56.320 You know? 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:58.760 This is what I wrote? I put I do have 0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:02.920 a good idea happening. If there's any way that I 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:05.160 can help, and that's great. 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:06.720 Just give me the details. 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:09.480 Yeah, okay, so I'm putting please give me the details 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:10.720 and I put a heart emoji. 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:13.920 And now you're being a supportive friend. 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:15.360 But that's not what she wants to be. 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:20.680 We got no time. We got to send this send okay, 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:23.880 I sent it all right? Oh boy, Now I'm really curious. 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:24.920 What do you think it is. 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:27.040 Maybe he's going to give her like an extra kidney 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:28.400 or something that would bomb them. 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:32.320 I think that her biggest life issue right now is 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:33.800 not having a proper waxer. 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:37.360 So I don't know that kidney donation is on there. 0:15:37.560 --> 0:15:41.840 Kidney swap is pretty romantic, though a romantic wait wait 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:43.240 wait what I just. 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:49.200 Got her response? Yeah, okay, it says l O L 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:51.760 you want to help with your own proposal? 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:54.840 What no way? 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:57.320 Because I don't think Shane would be cool with that. 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:00.640 L O L just actur prized when he asked, Oh 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:06.360 my god, posed to what no way? 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:10.640 Wait about me? I thought you said that. 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:13.720 I thought you said that your friend has plans tonight, 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:14.240 not you. 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:19.800 They probably don't throw off Oh my, are you so excited. 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:25.400 I'm freaking Oh wait, hold on, are you are you 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:26.360 like your friend? 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:28.600 Are you ready for this? 0:16:28.720 --> 0:16:29.840 Do we need to text your boyfriend? 0:16:31.520 --> 0:16:32.280 I don't know. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:34.080 I didn't want to know this. 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:35.040 Oh my god. 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:38.640 Snooped around and then we went back and she just 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:39.400 kind of said it. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:44.280 She thought that she knew acted like when they shouldn't have. 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:48.680 Whose idea was that, Well, at least you're gonna look 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:50.960 great for the video because you know there's gonna be 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:52.880 a photographer that get your nails done. 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:58.280