WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: My Dad’s in the Trunk

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jebels second date. A lot of times, when you're

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<v Speaker 1>out on a first date, you do something embarrassing, You

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<v Speaker 1>embarrass yourself somehow, and then you never want to see

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<v Speaker 1>that person again. Even if they like you, they call you,

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<v Speaker 1>they try to get you on the phone, You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened on the date was just way too embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I went on a date with this girl

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<v Speaker 1>a long time ago and went out on the date

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<v Speaker 1>and we're there and like there are people coming up

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<v Speaker 1>recognizing me from the radio, and we're leaving and I

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<v Speaker 1>gave like this homeless guy like on a hundred dollar bill,

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<v Speaker 1>and he cried about how it changed this life and

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<v Speaker 1>all this stuff. And I was so embarrassed because she

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<v Speaker 1>had just gone out with the perfect man. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, there's no way I can continue this with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so embarrassed that she saw that stuff happened. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't continue it. So she'd tried to call me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be I just wouldn't ignore her calls. I knew

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<v Speaker 1>it was just going to ruin everything. But I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>she also looked like, you know, a supermodel. Yeah, well

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<v Speaker 1>but you had to turn it down, yeah, And that

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<v Speaker 1>was it. I felt like I was too attractive for her.

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<v Speaker 1>All kinds of embarrassing stuff happened on that date. Well, James,

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<v Speaker 1>who is on the phone with us right now, has

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<v Speaker 1>an embarrassing story from his date too. Maybe not as

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing as my thing, but something happened on his date

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<v Speaker 1>that is actually very embarrassing, not for him, for the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that he actually went out and that's why he

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<v Speaker 1>thinks she's not calling him back. James, what's up man?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you going on? Guys? So the problem on

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<v Speaker 1>your date wasn't that you were too perfect? Like I had?

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<v Speaker 1>No not this time. So tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl that you want us to call today.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Lauren? Yep. And where did you meet Lauren?

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<v Speaker 1>We got set up on a blind date? Was it? Oh? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it blind? Blind? Or did you Google search or

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<v Speaker 1>find her on Facebook? Completely blind? That is risky, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>it is? Yeah? Yeah? And what did you guys decide

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<v Speaker 1>to do when you went out? Well? I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do anything, you know, high pressure, high stakes, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just we we got in touch and we met

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<v Speaker 1>for breakfast one day. Okay, And how was how did

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast go? You guys enjoyed each other's company even though

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<v Speaker 1>you hadn't seen each other or known anything about each other. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to sound cliche or anything, but I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was great. I mean that we had about

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<v Speaker 1>an hour date and it just flew by. Um. She

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<v Speaker 1>was stunning, you know, when she walked up for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, she was absolutely beautiful, so that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's a lot of the anxiety of a

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<v Speaker 1>blind date. What was her reaction to you, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did you pick up on anything? Did she seem similarly,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, satisfied. Yeah, I mean we were joking around

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<v Speaker 1>by the end of it, like we were you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like we were old towels. She was laughing at my jokes.

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<v Speaker 1>She was cutting jokes around me, and uh, we were.

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<v Speaker 1>There was really no awkward low in the conversation, just

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<v Speaker 1>one sort of topic led to the other, and she

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<v Speaker 1>really Okay, the date sounds great and everything. It sounds awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want to know about the embarrassing part. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I want to talk about right now. So after

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<v Speaker 1>we finished breakfast, he didn't have anything to do for

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<v Speaker 1>a while, so I said, let's just go for a drive,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, just to drive, no explications, no, nothing like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So she said, fine, let's do it. It It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a great idea. So we hopped in my car and

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<v Speaker 1>we're driving around and we're stopping at you know, really

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<v Speaker 1>nice little parks and little things here and there that

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<v Speaker 1>just aren't nice to look at. And so while we're

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<v Speaker 1>while we're driving and we're joking around, and I start

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<v Speaker 1>to as placefully, not you can nothing expected, but placefully

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<v Speaker 1>just tickle her side, nuddering the side tickless. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just tickle herry tickle there. I just you know, goofing around,

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<v Speaker 1>aforting kind of thing real quick, James, was she into that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because tickling somebody on the first date to me sounds

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<v Speaker 1>kind of shr that you've dated for a year. N

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<v Speaker 1>I know it was a little bit weird, but I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she was laughing, she seemed to have a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't told me to stop or push me away

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<v Speaker 1>or anything. And as she's laughing, as I'm having a

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<v Speaker 1>good time, she let one fly. And what did she

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<v Speaker 1>do after she parted? On your first date? She turned

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<v Speaker 1>the reddest color of red you've ever seen in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you keep tickling her? Did you say anything to

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<v Speaker 1>try to act like you didn't notice it, because I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was it wasn't like a silent one where

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<v Speaker 1>maybe her like there was no doubt that her and

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<v Speaker 1>it was from her. Did you start laughing? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I did not know. I It's like you put the

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<v Speaker 1>mute button on the car. It's so hard not to

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes because ferns are so funny. I wouldn't have known

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<v Speaker 1>how to react in that situation. I think I would

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<v Speaker 1>have just acted like it didn't happen. But obviously it's

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<v Speaker 1>one of those situations where like if you're on an

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<v Speaker 1>elevator and you smell something like one of us did it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and nobody nobody just like pretend. But unfortunately, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the elevator is safer because I mean, in a car

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<v Speaker 1>with two people, it's a pretty short process of elimination.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, and unfortunately you're stuck with or

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<v Speaker 1>not because you're on a date. So yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you could tell she was really embarrassed. She was like

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<v Speaker 1>slinking down in her seats. She was trying to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to get as close to the door as possible, like

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<v Speaker 1>she was so embarrassed, and I you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it happens you know, I mean, these things happen. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, what happens inside the left. I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to tell it, like you kidding, you got to

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<v Speaker 1>worry about Everyone does it? I I do it. We

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<v Speaker 1>all read that book growing up. Yeah, it's just a natural.

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<v Speaker 1>And what was her response to that? She was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, you know, thank you. I understand. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>really embarrassing. And she could tell that I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to help her, but I just I felt out of her.

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<v Speaker 1>I really did, because she was really beat herself up

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and she didn't really have a reason too.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, I understand where she was coming from.

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<v Speaker 1>A quarter now, I'm assuming your date ended shortly after that.

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<v Speaker 1>It did. I asked her if she wanted to keep

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<v Speaker 1>driving or if she wanted to call it, and she said,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, I really had a great time,

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<v Speaker 1>but I needsily kept going. I got stuff to do.

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<v Speaker 1>So we drove back to the restaurant where we had breakfast,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's where her car was, and we sort of

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<v Speaker 1>did that you know, awkward goodbye where we both kind

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<v Speaker 1>of still have the seatbelts on, but we hugged after

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<v Speaker 1>your driver's side right, okay, And I asked her, can

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<v Speaker 1>I call you or can I text you? Can I

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<v Speaker 1>see you again? And she told me she would text

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<v Speaker 1>me or she would call me. And you haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>anything from her at all, No, not a thing. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you tried to get a hold of her. Yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 1>texted her a couple of times in the I called

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<v Speaker 1>her once and it went right to voicemail. But otherwise,

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<v Speaker 1>of nothing. I can't imagine being so embarrassed about one

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<v Speaker 1>fart that you wouldn't ever call a guy again, especially

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<v Speaker 1>when you're especially when the guy is expressing so much

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<v Speaker 1>interest in you. Yeah, think about And if she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed before, now all of Seattle knows arras Now all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well we're gonna play a song, come back, call her

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. Okay, all right, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on rooking Cuba in the morning. Update.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, James, I think I know how you screwed

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<v Speaker 1>up on your first date. Oh yeah, yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about it. James wants us to call this girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Laurence to day. They went out on a breakfast date.

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<v Speaker 1>It was all good and everything else, but the most

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<v Speaker 1>important part of the date that we need to remember,

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<v Speaker 1>is she farted on their first date because he was

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<v Speaker 1>tickling her, and then she was very embarrassed about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and the date ended shortly after, and he thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling him back because she's embarrassed, and she

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<v Speaker 1>probably was very embarras And I think, James, the mistake

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<v Speaker 1>that you made on your date was after she did that,

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<v Speaker 1>after she tooted, you just try to make her feel

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<v Speaker 1>better by a consoling her. I mean, like, oh, don't

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<v Speaker 1>worry about it. Everybody does it. What you should have

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<v Speaker 1>done was fart yourself louder than her, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>guys could have like a little fart battle in the car,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it would be cute to be like, see,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody does it. You know that's actually a good idea

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<v Speaker 1>if I had that talent. Yeah, if you could do

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<v Speaker 1>it on command? All right? You ready to call her

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<v Speaker 1>and see if the reason that she isn't calling you

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<v Speaker 1>back is because a fart gate. Let's do it, all right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>doll the phone right now? Hello? How can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Lauren? Please? Hey, Lauren? How are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from brook and Jewil in the morning. I'm you

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<v Speaker 1>where you're calling from? Brook and Jewel in the Morning

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show. Okay, why are you calling? I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>because we do a segment on our show called the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. It's where if you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody and then aren't calling them back,

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<v Speaker 1>and they email us to see if we can get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone and ask if something went wrong. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't email anyone. I know you didn't email. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody emailed us about you though about me? M Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out on a date with one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners. Okay, his name is James. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember going out with James? You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think this is a good idea for me

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you. Really. Can I just tell you

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<v Speaker 1>real quick what he said about you, because I really

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<v Speaker 1>would like for you guys to go out again, because

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<v Speaker 1>he liked you a lot. Well, first of all, he

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't assert anything about them. Okay, Well, he told us

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<v Speaker 1>about your first date, and he told us about the

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing incident. What do you mean. Well, he said that

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<v Speaker 1>during the date he was kind of tickling you and

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<v Speaker 1>you're messing around and then you pass gas. He told

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<v Speaker 1>you that, yes, he did Okay, don't be embarrassed. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a big deal. And that's why were and

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we're call It's not even about being embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot believe he would. So what was the whole

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<v Speaker 1>point of him calling you and tell like, he called

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<v Speaker 1>you to tell you that you could just embarrass me

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<v Speaker 1>on No no, no, no, no, no, not at all, Lauren.

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<v Speaker 1>He called and told us that because when we do

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<v Speaker 1>this segment, we always talk to people about the date

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<v Speaker 1>that they went on to figure out if there's anything

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<v Speaker 1>awkward that happened. Well, it's really messed up. He shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have told you that because it's private. Okay, I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>about that. The only reason he told us that, though,

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<v Speaker 1>was because he thought that's why you weren't calling back,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're not embarrassed. This is so he should be embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a complete weirdo. Like I thought he was a psycho,

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously he is. Why do you think he's a psycho?

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, it was like weird that he was

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<v Speaker 1>tickling me by the way, that's like so weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that. Okay, so you sound like you don't like

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<v Speaker 1>him very much. Before we I mean, like, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>you would like to know how what a weirdo he is.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy to tell you because obviously he has no

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<v Speaker 1>problem calling a radio station and telling them something personal

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<v Speaker 1>about me. I would love to hear what a weirdo

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<v Speaker 1>he is. And I'm sorry. You shouldn't be embarrassed. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to embarrass you at all. No, it's more

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<v Speaker 1>just so James can know why you're not calling him back. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>So we went out for breakfast on our date because like,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to make sure it wasn't a weird at all,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was actually nice. And then he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>know if I wanted to take a drive. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice day out and on the drive it

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<v Speaker 1>was beautiful. It's like the perfect day, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>just stopped some parks, like we just stopped at various places.

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<v Speaker 1>But then when we got to one place and he

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<v Speaker 1>pulled over, and I was like, oh, I thought he

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<v Speaker 1>was going to try to make out with me, And

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<v Speaker 1>he told me that he had something he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>show me. So he got out of the car and

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<v Speaker 1>I got out of the car and he walked me

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<v Speaker 1>back to the trunk of the car. Oh, my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that is scary already. Yeah, what was going through your

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<v Speaker 1>mind at that moment? I was worried that there was

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<v Speaker 1>going to be like a sledgehammer, but I was hoping

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<v Speaker 1>it would be like I don't know, like maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>was getting the jacket or something, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, movie's getting a jacket, right. So he

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<v Speaker 1>opened the trunk and he pulled out an urn. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like a like a silver urn. Weird. And he said,

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<v Speaker 1>this is really important to me, Like this is really

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<v Speaker 1>special to me. This is my father. What. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>a bit that's a little bit heavy for a first date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't even know what to think. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just silent, like I didn't even ask anything. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to know anything about it at that point. And

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<v Speaker 1>then he just said, because my father really loved birds,

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<v Speaker 1>and so whenever I arrived the something's beautiful and see

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<v Speaker 1>bird feeders, I stopped because it was his final wish

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<v Speaker 1>that I sprinkle his ashes into the bird feeders so

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<v Speaker 1>he can be free with the birds. Oh wow, that

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<v Speaker 1>is that's kind of weird, so weird. If that's his

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<v Speaker 1>father's last wishes, that's one thing, but to do that

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<v Speaker 1>with you on a first date, like, hey, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to share this special experience and feed my dad's father's

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<v Speaker 1>ashes to some birds. I could see how that would

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<v Speaker 1>kind of turn you off a little bit. What is

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<v Speaker 1>at least third date material one? Did you guys spread

0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:17.240
<v Speaker 1>ashes together? Yeah? Because I hope for he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to kill me because I was like, how did his

0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:25.280
<v Speaker 1>father die? Like yeah, wow, all right, I can see

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<v Speaker 1>why that turns you off. And Lauren, that's that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of that's kind of strange. Yeah. I was just like

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<v Speaker 1>so relieved, honestly when I got home and I was

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<v Speaker 1>not dad. Yeah, yeah, all right, hey Lauren, Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>also on the other line right now. I am sorry, Hi, Lauren,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm just a little offended that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to open myself up and let you in

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<v Speaker 1>on something you know, personal and special to me, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you judge me by it, you know what. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, here's the thing, I'm really sorry to hear

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<v Speaker 1>about your dads, but you need to understand that that's

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<v Speaker 1>actually nuts what you did. Like it like, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know your dad was dad. Like if we've been

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<v Speaker 1>dating for a while, fine, maybe, but not only was

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<v Speaker 1>it our first date, it was the first thing that

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<v Speaker 1>I met you. Like, so, did you know we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to do that? Like that's weird? No, I had

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<v Speaker 1>no intention. But when we were driving and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>the birds and I said, yeah, just birds everywhere. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you see a bird? Make it to my dad? And

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, you know what kind of connection

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<v Speaker 1>I have with this girl that I had a great

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<v Speaker 1>time at breakfast with, at a great time talking to you,

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time driving with. And I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she was kind of real. Maybe she was a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit deeper than just a puddle, you know that,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe serious. Because I'm weirded out you pulled that an

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<v Speaker 1>urn on our first date. I'm I'm shallow. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit because if you can't say why I'm doing it,

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<v Speaker 1>it is weird that you would take me to the

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<v Speaker 1>tonk of your car, let an urn of your dad's

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<v Speaker 1>ashes on our first date and then feed the birds

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<v Speaker 1>with it. I mean, I didn't get weird when you

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<v Speaker 1>know you told me about all these traditions do you

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<v Speaker 1>have with your grandma and all these other things, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is different you can make on Thanksgiving if I

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<v Speaker 1>told you that she was dead and I baked her

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<v Speaker 1>ashes into a pie to then it would be the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Must I remind you that I overlooked the factors to

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<v Speaker 1>completely stunk up my car. That is so like, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, it's like completely weird. Also out to tickle

0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:42.800
<v Speaker 1>people on the first date, like, oh, yeah, we forgot

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<v Speaker 1>about the tad thing. Well, it sounds like you two

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<v Speaker 1>just had a wonderful time together, and that would mean

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<v Speaker 1>that I need to ask Lauren if she would like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with James. But we'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for you on a second date. No, you answered

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<v Speaker 1>before I was even done asking the question, Lauren. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I just can't. I understand that this is

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<v Speaker 1>very personal to him that I cannot. Sorry, James, I'm sorry, man,

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<v Speaker 1>no second date for you. I can't blame me for

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<v Speaker 1>trying to go. Yeah, maybe just wait a little while

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<v Speaker 1>to bust out your dad's ashes on a date. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I could probably try that out. Yeah, try that and

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<v Speaker 1>then also wait a little while to bust out the

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<v Speaker 1>tickling on the date. Yes, she should not own the

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<v Speaker 1>brito broken jupil in the morning