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Speaker 1: what happened on the date was just way too embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: All kinds of embarrassing stuff happened on that date. Well, James,

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Speaker 1: How are you going on? Guys? So the problem on

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Speaker 1: No not this time. So tell us a little bit

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Speaker 1: Her name is Lauren? Yep. And where did you meet Lauren?

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Speaker 1: We got set up on a blind date? Was it? Oh? Wow?

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Speaker 1: all right, hold on rooking Cuba in the morning. Update.

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Speaker 1: You know, James, I think I know how you screwed

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Speaker 1: It was all good and everything else, but the most

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Speaker 1: doll the phone right now? Hello? How can I speak

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Speaker 1: do you remember going out with James? You know what,

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Speaker 1: I don't think this is a good idea for me

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Speaker 1: that's why we're call It's not even about being embarrassed.

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Speaker 1: on No no, no, no, no, no, not at all, Lauren.

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Speaker 1: He's a complete weirdo. Like I thought he was a psycho,

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Speaker 1: First of all, it was like weird that he was

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