WEBVTT - It’s A Girl! • EP 818

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, you don't know me will all about

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<v Speaker 1>that high school drama, Girl drama, girl, all about.

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<v Speaker 2>Them high school queens forever. We'll take you for a

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<v Speaker 2>ride and our comic.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl shared for the right teen.

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<v Speaker 1>Drama queens, Jay's my girl, up girl fashion, but your

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<v Speaker 1>tough girl, you could sit with us.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl drama, Queen drama, Queens drama, Queens drama drama, Queens drama, Queens.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, gang, let's get into it. Season eight, episode eighteen,

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<v Speaker 4>Quiet Little Voices their date April nineteenth, twenty eleven. Synopsis reads,

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<v Speaker 4>The big day has finally arrived, and the gang gathers

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<v Speaker 4>at the hospital to await the birth of Haley and

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<v Speaker 4>Nathan's baby. While they wait, they reminisce about the memories

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<v Speaker 4>they shared over the years. Boy do they And it

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<v Speaker 4>was directed by mister sex Pylon himself, Austin Nichols.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not realize he directed this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I didn't eat.

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<v Speaker 3>I really forgot, and I was watching it thinking who

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<v Speaker 3>directed this?

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<v Speaker 2>This is lovely?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, he did such a great job. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my gosh, there's so much to talk about with this episode.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that you're feeling a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you weren't given enough material, Rob, because it was

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<v Speaker 3>like a three day shoot for the entire episode. We

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<v Speaker 3>had no material, no new material. It was very little

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<v Speaker 3>and the rest of it was flashbacks.

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<v Speaker 2>But I actually, really.

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<v Speaker 3>I think the fans probably loved this episode because this

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<v Speaker 3>was obviously before streaming and so a chance to be

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<v Speaker 3>able to revisit all of these meaningful moments, and I

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<v Speaker 3>thought they were really expertly woven into the story and.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>It made me really happy to watch all those old moments.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved it too. And the irony is well two things.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was really well done. I think Austin

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<v Speaker 1>did such a great job, yeah, truly weaving this moment

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<v Speaker 1>where we're all sort of frozen in time in the hospital,

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<v Speaker 1>with these stories that make these characters who they are.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the device of having Jamie asking all these

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<v Speaker 1>questions is great. And it dawned on me when we

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<v Speaker 1>first got on our zoom and you were like, well

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<v Speaker 1>the sixteen minutes of material in this episode from Rob,

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<v Speaker 1>I went, oh my god, it was I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 1>Two minutes before the episode ended, by myself in my apartment,

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<v Speaker 1>I went Puerto Rico. I just like yelled it like

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<v Speaker 1>mad libs because I realized I realized we needed so

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<v Speaker 1>many extra days to go and shoot that episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and Joy, you had just had your actual baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, so I was on my maternity leave.

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<v Speaker 1>And essentially they had to they had to save days

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<v Speaker 1>so the budget from this episode could both give you

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<v Speaker 1>time off and then the extra days could go on

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<v Speaker 1>the Puerto Rico episode to get everybody down there to

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<v Speaker 1>shoot that travel extravaganza. And it it. I couldn't figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out, and then I did, and I'm just then

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<v Speaker 1>I did I feel that I've solved a puzzle that

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<v Speaker 1>matters to no one, but it mattered to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. And what Joy was saying earlier was I wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>upset about the amount of material Clay had in the episode.

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<v Speaker 4>I was joking before we started the podcast, saying we

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<v Speaker 4>have fourteen and a half minutes of actual new content

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<v Speaker 4>to discuss.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, yes, sorry, I didn't mean to imply that you

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<v Speaker 3>seemed unhappy with your own amount of work. That was

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<v Speaker 3>not I knew what you meant, but yes, thank you

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<v Speaker 3>for clarifying for our listeners.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry say so. A couple of things. One for our

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<v Speaker 4>fans that who aren't in the biz, A Bottle episode

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<v Speaker 4>is it's sort of an episode that you have to

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<v Speaker 4>catch up on the budget to save some money because

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<v Speaker 4>you've maybe overspent or maybe you have a big expenditure

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<v Speaker 4>coming up. So typically it'll be like a limited amount

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<v Speaker 4>of the cast or or all the cast, but in

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<v Speaker 4>like one location, so it's very easy to shoot. You

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<v Speaker 4>can shoot it quick. This is the This is the

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<v Speaker 4>MVP of Bodle episodes. I have never seen one done

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<v Speaker 4>better because not only is all of the cast in

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<v Speaker 4>one location, but genuinely forty to fifty percent of the

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<v Speaker 4>of the episode is flashbacks. I was watching this just going,

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<v Speaker 4>this is freaking genius.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and it managed to be good. It didn't feel

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<v Speaker 3>like it was hodgepodge together yes because they had to.

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<v Speaker 3>It actually felt really organic to the episode to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. And I got to say, as someone who is

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<v Speaker 4>not familiar with the earlier seasons, I freaking loved it

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<v Speaker 4>because the first time I cut to a scene of

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<v Speaker 4>Nathan and Haley and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 4>they how did they make James look so young? And

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<v Speaker 4>it was, oh my gosh, no, this is actually just

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<v Speaker 4>ye baby, James and baby Joy, Like, yeah, it was that?

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<v Speaker 4>Was that your guys' first kiss? That a dare you to?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I was, dude, you were so good in that scene. Joy.

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<v Speaker 4>My main takeaway was for the age you were at

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<v Speaker 4>and what we were doing. I just thought like you

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<v Speaker 4>were so steady and like grounded in yourself and you

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<v Speaker 4>were doing almost nothing while doing so much. But I

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<v Speaker 4>was just I remember just thinking like wow, at that age,

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<v Speaker 4>Joy was really crushing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. I really appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a I have a hard time watching myself,

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<v Speaker 3>particularly at that at that age, and couldn't you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I notice all of the things about myself

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<v Speaker 3>that I don't like or didn't like, and it's hard

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<v Speaker 3>for me to just get past it and like watch

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<v Speaker 3>the scene and appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 2>So I take that to heart. Thank you. Yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was fun to shoot all that stuff, but really

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<v Speaker 3>fun to watch James for me, in particular because he's

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<v Speaker 3>where he's grown, how he grew on the show as

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<v Speaker 3>an actor, as a human and as a character. Watching

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<v Speaker 3>all that play out, he was sort of the secret

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<v Speaker 3>star of the episode for me, just to see to

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<v Speaker 3>see that journey, even I love that they showed the

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<v Speaker 3>super vulnerable moment that he had with her in her bedroom,

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<v Speaker 3>coming in after the game and just saying like, I

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<v Speaker 3>need you, I just need a hug, I need to

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<v Speaker 3>be I need your comfort. It was so rich for

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<v Speaker 3>a high school for a high schooler to do that

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<v Speaker 3>high school boy, and for a young couple to understand

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<v Speaker 3>each other on that level. It was just really such

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<v Speaker 3>a nice reminder of where they've come from.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's especially nice to see that growth, and

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<v Speaker 1>I like that it's as impactful for us who essentially,

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<v Speaker 1>like the viewers, have seen all of it, and Rob,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like a newer viewer in a way, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to see things you didn't know. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you think about it in the story arc, in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of all of us really thinking that when we wrapped

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<v Speaker 1>season eight, we would be wrapping the show. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>such a great device to remind you of how far

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<v Speaker 1>these characters have come. I think particularly the flashback devices

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<v Speaker 1>with Nathan, because James was actually so young. Not only

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<v Speaker 1>has his character come so far, but James just as

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<v Speaker 1>a man looks so different in season eight than he

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<v Speaker 1>did in season one, and so in a really interesting way,

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<v Speaker 1>like the evolution of his character, but also him growing

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<v Speaker 1>out of that teenage boy youth really marks time for

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<v Speaker 1>us as viewers in the flashback in a way like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought all the rest of ours were great. I

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<v Speaker 1>love being reminded of the moment with Haley and Quinn.

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<v Speaker 1>I love going back to naming you Brook, like all

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<v Speaker 1>of it is so sweet to see.

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<v Speaker 4>But I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think it becomes doubly effective as a device in a

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<v Speaker 1>way just because of where we found ourselves in the

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<v Speaker 1>trajectory of James's life. Yea, it's really cool. And to

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<v Speaker 1>see him then be this very still father figure who's

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<v Speaker 1>not doing a lot, who's just reflecting and sort of

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<v Speaker 1>explaining that to a child. It's really special and it

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<v Speaker 1>does give you that sort of I don't know, it

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<v Speaker 1>has like nostalgia that made me feel ready for the end,

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<v Speaker 1>even though we wound up getting this bonus of our

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<v Speaker 1>ninth season.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it connects.

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<v Speaker 3>It connects the audience by reminding them of everything they've

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<v Speaker 3>been through with the characters without them having to think

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<v Speaker 3>too hard about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Just it.

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<v Speaker 3>It creates the same moment as looking through a scrap

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<v Speaker 3>book and seeing, you know, here's of old friends and

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't take a lot. You don't have to live through,

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<v Speaker 3>relive through all of the moments that you had. You

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<v Speaker 3>just need these snapshot moments and then you look up

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<v Speaker 3>at the person in front of you, seeing how they've

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<v Speaker 3>aged and grown, and it immediately endears you and you

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<v Speaker 3>feel the sense of loyalty. Like I think it was

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<v Speaker 3>so smart because it created such a bonding experience for

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<v Speaker 3>the audience subconsciously, I think.

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<v Speaker 4>And it was so funny to that point that we're

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<v Speaker 4>seeing all of these flashbacks where it's like baby Brook,

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<v Speaker 4>baby Hailey, baby Nathan, and then we have a flashback

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<v Speaker 4>with Haley and Quinn and it's like Quinn from six

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<v Speaker 4>months ago.

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<v Speaker 3>And yet there was still a hair parade like every

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<v Speaker 3>all the different colors, all the different cuts, all the

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<v Speaker 3>different everything, like the fact that Quinn was a brunette

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<v Speaker 3>when she started on the show, and yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 3>only you know, six months prior or whatever, a year

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<v Speaker 3>or so, and how much that's changed. It still kept

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<v Speaker 3>the uh, it kept the nostalgia going.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, the James of it all was was awesome

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<v Speaker 4>because you really do see how much he grew as

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<v Speaker 4>an individual, and alongside the character of Nathan. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 4>was great, And like I said, it was fun for

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<v Speaker 4>me because it was all stuff I had never seen,

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<v Speaker 4>so it was like, wait, that's how Haley and Brook met.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait what It made me very interested to, like, I

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<v Speaker 4>gotta I gotta go back and see where this all started.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>I love seeing so much of this through Jamie's eyes too,

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<v Speaker 3>and just the that was a nice kind of mirror

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<v Speaker 3>effect that you are watching all these old memories, but

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<v Speaker 3>you're also seeing everything through the new, young perspective of

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<v Speaker 3>coming into the world. All of his narration was really

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<v Speaker 3>sweet and funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and it was sweet that they The episode was

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<v Speaker 4>bookended by Haley than giving the same voiceover about you know,

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<v Speaker 4>babies are God's way of saying He's not given up

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<v Speaker 4>on us yet, or something to that effect. Yeah. Sweet,

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<v Speaker 4>nice sentiment. And I love that we got to see

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<v Speaker 4>the myth of the nursery room window viewing window as

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<v Speaker 4>well as I mean, are the eighteen hundreds with the

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<v Speaker 4>delivery room that has stadium seating above it with a window.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so weird. It's the same by the way, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the same window when Peyton drops after the Peyton and

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<v Speaker 1>Lucas wedding, and then all of us appear like ghosts

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<v Speaker 1>out of mist. There's just more and more of us

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<v Speaker 1>up in that viewing room, and it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like this operating window.

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<v Speaker 1>It is simply not allowed. It is not allowed for

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<v Speaker 1>civilians to be in there. There might be an operating

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<v Speaker 1>theater at a teaching hospital. But let me tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>When my very best friend on Earth had to have

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<v Speaker 1>emergency knee surgery, and I tried to convince the surgeons

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<v Speaker 1>at and Yu Hospital to let me scrub in and observe,

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<v Speaker 1>and they said, ma'am, go sit down, And I said,

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<v Speaker 1>then let me sit in an operating theater. There has

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<v Speaker 1>to be there has to be an operating room with

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<v Speaker 1>a theater here. This is a teaching hospital. They were like, ma'am,

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<v Speaker 1>get out, just get out, like we will. We are

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<v Speaker 1>going to removee. Neil woke up from surgery and was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you crazy bitch, because I was sleeping in a chair

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<v Speaker 1>next to her bed, and the nurse was like, we

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<v Speaker 1>tried to make her leave. We just eventually we gave up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I am telling you from personal experience, I know

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<v Speaker 1>that there is no human they are going to let

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<v Speaker 1>observe a surgery, a delivery, no matter what medical terminology

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<v Speaker 1>you know from at one point or and they're playing

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<v Speaker 1>a doctor, they don't care, and a surgery.

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<v Speaker 3>Would be the most life A delivery. Yeah, are you

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<v Speaker 3>sing kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Hap to the oh in a room that's covered in tile.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, when have you ever given birth in

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<v Speaker 3>a room that's covered in time?

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, it looks like we're at the morgue.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks like ten years ago we built a step

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<v Speaker 1>for a morgue and they were like, we don't just

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<v Speaker 1>be cheaper to reuse that. It's so creepy.

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<v Speaker 3>Also so weird that the guy comes in, the dad

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<v Speaker 3>comes in, He's like, oh, I'm the baby's father, and

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<v Speaker 3>never goes who are you guys?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Also the fact that that means that literally just

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<v Speaker 4>anyone could just happen to stroll in and watch someone

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<v Speaker 4>give birth.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, because by the way, Chloe is supposed to not

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<v Speaker 1>know he's there because she thinks she's been abandoned. The

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing is that he doesn't alone she's having a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>She took a year abroad. I think she said.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, so she told her parents. I think, yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's right. So she has this whole concocted story

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<v Speaker 1>keeping this a secret, and then he shows up unbeknownst

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<v Speaker 1>to her. But it hangs out with Julian all night,

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<v Speaker 1>Like what I mean, hats off to that actor and

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<v Speaker 1>hats off to Austin because they made it work. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>they took this insane scenario off the page and they

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<v Speaker 1>made it really heartfelt. And I thought that that young

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<v Speaker 1>man did such a good job playing so lost and

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<v Speaker 1>so unsure of what he was doing and so overwhelmed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I liked getting to see in the same way

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<v Speaker 1>that you see Brooke be maternal with Chloe, helping her

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<v Speaker 1>through this. I liked getting to see Julian do that,

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<v Speaker 1>even for this person that he thought was a stranger

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<v Speaker 1>in the hallway. It's a very sweet moment for them,

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<v Speaker 1>and it made the surprise quite a reveal. But my god,

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<v Speaker 1>it is so hard for me to get past the

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<v Speaker 1>shenanigans of the theater and enjoy the episode because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so silly. Kind of takes me out.

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<v Speaker 2>That little bit that was a rough one.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually wonder for our friends at home. I really

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<v Speaker 1>am curious. I wish we could take callers on this show,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'd love to know if it just drives us

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<v Speaker 1>crazy as actors who are very used to you know, sets,

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<v Speaker 1>and what feels like jumping the shark or is the

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<v Speaker 1>audience also like, no, this is absolutely ridiculous. We feel

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<v Speaker 1>the same way. So if anyone wants to write in,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love.

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<v Speaker 4>To know comment on this gang because you don't have

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<v Speaker 4>to be in entertainment to go. That doesn't exist in hospitals, right,

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's not inside baseball. That's just anyone who's ever

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<v Speaker 4>been in a hospitals like what? Also, no other show

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<v Speaker 4>is even doing that because again, it doesn't exist, not real.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the strangest thing. But speaking of really good performances,

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<v Speaker 4>and just to jump ahead, a bit Levin has this

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<v Speaker 4>incredible moment when Brooke and Julian walk into the room

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<v Speaker 4>and the baby is born. There is the moment where

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<v Speaker 4>you can tell everything has changed for her. She wordlessly,

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<v Speaker 4>just with her eyes. You can see her say like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, no it's not yet, everything's changed.

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<v Speaker 3>And you see it in your eyes, Sophia, like the

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<v Speaker 3>shift that you receive.

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<v Speaker 4>That Yes, it was such a powerful moment. The storytelling

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<v Speaker 4>happening between Chloe and Brooke was, and then.

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<v Speaker 3>Julian realizing it too and turning to Brooke. I mean

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<v Speaker 3>that moment I was. I actually I don't cry a

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<v Speaker 3>lot watching our show because I just feel kind of

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<v Speaker 3>removed from it, and but it's also so familiar that

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<v Speaker 3>I know a lot of it already, and I cried.

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<v Speaker 3>I just sat there and was like, my heart broke.

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<v Speaker 2>That was rough. Yeah, it's heavy, and.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys performances were so beautiful. Yeah, that's what made

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<v Speaker 3>me so happy about Austin as a director that he.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, who directed this?

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<v Speaker 3>Who allowed the actors to sit there and do their

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<v Speaker 3>work quietly? God bless whoever allowed the actors to do this,

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<v Speaker 3>because it's not common on our show.

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<v Speaker 4>And then it was just so sad and painful, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was such a great shot where it was like

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<v Speaker 4>it was sort of over everyone waiting for the news

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<v Speaker 4>about Haley to in the background Brooke and Julian who

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<v Speaker 4>were obviously super upset, and then you guys having to

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<v Speaker 4>pull it together and then walk over with the secret

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<v Speaker 4>which is like you are crying because your heart is broken,

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<v Speaker 4>not because of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh you did that so well, Sophie. Oh my god, speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so devastating. And it's really interesting because I

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<v Speaker 1>remember how impactful it felt for all of us at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, you know, particularly just existing in a world

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<v Speaker 1>where you read about people's stories. You know what people

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<v Speaker 1>go through, you know, trying to build their families and

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<v Speaker 1>all of these things. And it's crazy how how well

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<v Speaker 1>I think it played. And I remember it feeling special

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<v Speaker 1>then and now, like just by a nature of living longer,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, by nature of all of us being in

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<v Speaker 1>this phase of our lives. It's like it's even heavier

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<v Speaker 1>to me. And it's just there's there's elements of it that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the overarching story that I think we probably

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<v Speaker 1>could have done a bit better with. You know, some

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<v Speaker 1>of it feels a little talking point y, But my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, whoof this hits me even harder now,

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<v Speaker 1>just all the things we've seen.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just so glad it wasn't It wasn't talked to death.

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<v Speaker 3>There wasn't a page of explanation. It wasn't me too, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>it just wasn't overdone. The simplicity of a broken heart

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't require a ton of explanation. I everybody knows what

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<v Speaker 3>that feels like. And you just need to see the

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<v Speaker 3>exchange between the artists.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, emotion and.

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<v Speaker 1>I think too, you know, to your point about the

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<v Speaker 1>way it was directed, us being allowed to be in

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<v Speaker 1>it and instead of you know, doing the fast pushing

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, everything just crept up on you. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the camera moved in slowly and you start to wonder

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<v Speaker 1>is it slow motion or is it what's really happening?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just what's really happening. But everyone is having

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<v Speaker 1>it hit them in that way where it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>time slows down.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but it wasn't just that moment. It was the

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<v Speaker 3>whole episode, like the whole storyline. I should say, in particular,

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<v Speaker 3>because Austin was great about giving the appropriate tone per

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<v Speaker 3>scene depending on the storyline. But for you guys, when

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<v Speaker 3>Levin is in the bed and she keeps saying I

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<v Speaker 3>just couldn't do it alone. I couldn't do it alone,

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<v Speaker 3>he lingers on you just a little too long, and

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<v Speaker 3>it gives the audience the information they need, Like that

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<v Speaker 3>is kind of an interesting thing to say, is that

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<v Speaker 3>the only reason you're going to give up your child

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<v Speaker 3>because you're afraid you can't handle it on your own.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you start wondering is that.

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<v Speaker 3>It is Brooke going to say, hey, if that's the

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<v Speaker 3>only reason, like you are strong, you are that. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know if that's really the reason that you should, like,

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<v Speaker 3>if there's a whole lifestyle, if you know, there's so

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<v Speaker 3>many factors, But if it's just that you're afraid you

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<v Speaker 3>can't handle it, it just puts Brooke in such an

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<v Speaker 3>awkward position. And I feel like I could read all

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<v Speaker 3>of it on your mind in that moment. And then

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<v Speaker 3>we cut away to something else, but it was it

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<v Speaker 3>was a foreshadowing that there's something else coming.

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<v Speaker 2>No heartbreaking.

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<v Speaker 4>I love in the There was an earlier scene with

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<v Speaker 4>Nathan Haley. It's when when you're going Haley's going through

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<v Speaker 4>contractions and and you're like, just just tell me a story,

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<v Speaker 4>and he's like, I'm I'm blanking and she's like, just

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<v Speaker 4>You're like, just tell me any story in the history

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<v Speaker 4>of the world.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like about three little pigs. I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was so good man. And then the other

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<v Speaker 4>funny contraction moment that made me laugh was and and listen,

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<v Speaker 4>there's a there's a there's a lot of ways in

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<v Speaker 4>which this could just could happen. But in the moment,

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<v Speaker 4>I went, ok, this was written by a dude. When

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<v Speaker 4>Levin is on the bed and Brooke is there and

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<v Speaker 4>she's like, she goes she's obviously having a contraction, but

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<v Speaker 4>she goes, ooh contraction, And I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 4>I uh, could you imagine like in a war movie

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<v Speaker 4>if someone gets shot and they fell down the battlefield

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<v Speaker 4>and they were like, oh, good shot.

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<v Speaker 1>Like never, It's like.

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<v Speaker 4>You know again, I'm like, it doesn't take me out

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<v Speaker 4>of the scene. But I laughed, going like I've been

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<v Speaker 4>two deliveries with my wife and I never once heard

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<v Speaker 4>her go ooh contraction. It's like everyone knows why every yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, And isn't it ironic that we were allowed

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<v Speaker 1>to allow so much We were allowed to have so

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<v Speaker 1>much of the communication in this episode be without words,

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<v Speaker 1>and then literally the most obvious word is written as

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<v Speaker 1>dialogue for an actor to perform.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Hi, have you ever have you seen or heard?

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<v Speaker 4>Have you heard the story about Kevin Sorbo he played Hercules?

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<v Speaker 4>There's a clip. Everyone should do this, do yourself a favor. Everyone,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh boy, go on YouTube and uh just search Hercules. Disappointed.

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<v Speaker 4>So what happened was apparently there was in the script

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<v Speaker 4>there was a line he was supposed to deliver, and

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<v Speaker 4>then they had, like they do often scripts in parentheses,

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<v Speaker 4>a word to sort of a case the actor doesn't know,

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<v Speaker 4>like the tone of it, and the word was disappointed.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 4>Watch the clip because old Kevin sorbo no. He's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't recognize this world anymore and he takes a

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<v Speaker 4>dramatic pause and he just goes dear saw boy Dad

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<v Speaker 4>stayed in the episode. This was like that where it's

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<v Speaker 4>like they were like, we don't want to just to

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<v Speaker 4>say oh and not no, so let's put in parenthes.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a contraction. It was like that moment, Oh contraction,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>God, that's great.

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<v Speaker 4>That's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>You know he was screwing around. He had to have been.

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<v Speaker 4>She was, that's hilarious. And also like, it's even more

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<v Speaker 4>funny that the editor and the producers were like, let's

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<v Speaker 4>just keep it.

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<v Speaker 5>Believe it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he owes me money, keep it in. There was

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of fun in this episode. I again I

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<v Speaker 4>saw the writers writing to Rob as opposed to Clay.

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<v Speaker 4>When we get to the we get to the hospital,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I got snacks. I got this, I got comics.

0:23:06.560 --> 0:23:09.720
<v Speaker 4>There's something, and then Jamie goes, oh you got comics.

0:23:09.440 --> 0:23:11.040
<v Speaker 2>And Clay goes it was my favorite Rob.

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<v Speaker 4>They're called graphic novels.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah no, you said there that you said graphic novels,

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<v Speaker 3>but you said it like you were so disappointed in him.

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<v Speaker 2>So I made it so.

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<v Speaker 4>Great because this was a struggle in my personal life

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<v Speaker 4>because I read a lot of comics, and I had

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<v Speaker 4>to be like, I read graphic novels because at the

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<v Speaker 4>time I was turning thirty, and it felt just a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit weird to say, like I like comics, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Made you feel like you still had your head gear on.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, like exactly. It felt like a bit more

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<v Speaker 4>of a grown up when I called them graphic novels,

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<v Speaker 4>when let's be honest, it's just a couple comics glued together.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so great.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved that.

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<v Speaker 3>I loved just giving you some quips with Quinn too

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<v Speaker 3>about Uno in the Game of Chance and all of

0:23:55.560 --> 0:23:58.600
<v Speaker 3>your little banter. That was really fun. It felt so natural.

0:23:59.320 --> 0:24:03.359
<v Speaker 3>I loved that the saltine stuff was so great. Every

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<v Speaker 3>line you said was just NonStop spittle, like a mouthful

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<v Speaker 3>of powder.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so great. Yeah, it's fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder how many people went to their cupboard and

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<v Speaker 3>got saltines out after the episode and sat with their

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<v Speaker 3>friends and tried to do this.

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<v Speaker 5>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>This was one of the early challenges because by now

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<v Speaker 1>we were on social media. I don't think Instagram existed yet,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe it had just started. But remember we all

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<v Speaker 1>we just started to get on Twitter around twenty ten,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember it was the saltine challenge was going around,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's ironic that we couldn't say that in the

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<v Speaker 1>episode because then we would have had to pay I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know whatever that company is, Nabisco or whatever, because

0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:52.600
<v Speaker 1>saltine is a brand. So you had to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know you can't eat six crackers in under

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<v Speaker 1>a minute? Because it was the saltine challenge.

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<v Speaker 2>That's oh right, crackers.

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<v Speaker 4>Also fun fact, So do you know that you are

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<v Speaker 4>the person who signed me up for Twitter? That tracks

0:25:08.320 --> 0:25:10.000
<v Speaker 4>you were on it. I didn't know what it was.

0:25:10.040 --> 0:25:11.600
<v Speaker 4>I was obviously on the show, and you're like, oh, yeah,

0:25:11.600 --> 0:25:12.760
<v Speaker 4>you got to get in this thing, and you like

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<v Speaker 4>actually helped me set up my account and then immediately

0:25:15.480 --> 0:25:17.960
<v Speaker 4>like followed me and tweeted out like Robs on Twitter

0:25:18.200 --> 0:25:20.240
<v Speaker 4>on Twitter and I got a jillion followers and was like,

0:25:20.320 --> 0:25:23.000
<v Speaker 4>what the hell just happened? So you are the one

0:25:23.040 --> 0:25:25.280
<v Speaker 4>who held my hand into the world of social media,

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<v Speaker 4>so thank you and also shame on you.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think you were the first one on our

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<v Speaker 3>show to have it, or you were like right on

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<v Speaker 3>top of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, well, first of all, rub You're welcome, an

0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:39.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Second, I was really and here's the irony, right, Like,

0:25:39.240 --> 0:25:42.240
<v Speaker 1>there's nothing I like to watch more online than videos

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<v Speaker 1>of people cooking. But I remember when Twitter first started,

0:25:46.720 --> 0:25:49.200
<v Speaker 1>I was like, who gives a shit what anyone's eating

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<v Speaker 1>for breakfast? Lame turns out me I do. I give

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<v Speaker 1>in a major way. But at the time I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this feels so stupid. And then when Deepwater Horizon happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and I, you know, had been working with all these

0:26:03.520 --> 0:26:08.199
<v Speaker 1>incredible climate lawyers and activists who were all based in

0:26:08.240 --> 0:26:11.639
<v Speaker 1>the South, like my friends in New Orleans, were like,

0:26:11.680 --> 0:26:13.840
<v Speaker 1>we went to golf shores and they are not telling

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<v Speaker 1>the truth about this disaster on the internet or on

0:26:16.200 --> 0:26:19.280
<v Speaker 1>the news. And I was like, well, we have the internet,

0:26:19.359 --> 0:26:22.159
<v Speaker 1>so maybe we should just do it. And Austin and

0:26:22.200 --> 0:26:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I flew down there with all the people from Global

0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:29.200
<v Speaker 1>Green and like essentially live streamed what was happening with

0:26:29.240 --> 0:26:32.840
<v Speaker 1>like our friends, you know, fishermen and all these amazing

0:26:32.880 --> 0:26:36.120
<v Speaker 1>people down in Louisiana who were like, we need help here.

0:26:36.160 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 1>This is an ecological disaster. And it's so crazy to

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:43.479
<v Speaker 1>me to realize, like we had no idea what we

0:26:43.480 --> 0:26:45.680
<v Speaker 1>were doing with social media. We just were like, well,

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:48.120
<v Speaker 1>this feels like a pretty good way to get information

0:26:48.200 --> 0:26:49.479
<v Speaker 1>out that people can't censor.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, and now used to be fun. Remember it used

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<v Speaker 4>to be.

0:26:56.200 --> 0:27:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Just like a place. It wasn't necessarily a weaponized cesspool.

0:27:00.200 --> 0:27:03.919
<v Speaker 1>But that's really I'm sorry, comes in rob that You're welcome.

0:27:04.040 --> 0:27:06.200
<v Speaker 1>Was when it was cute and fun and we could

0:27:06.280 --> 0:27:07.440
<v Speaker 1>joke about snacks.

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<v Speaker 4>It started off as the peach Pit, and it quickly

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:13.320
<v Speaker 4>devolved into that underground fight club in fight Club.

0:27:15.000 --> 0:27:18.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, now it's just the Hunger Games, But at the

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<v Speaker 1>time it was adorable and I do recall how excited

0:27:23.440 --> 0:27:28.199
<v Speaker 1>we were about some of those early challenges and it

0:27:28.240 --> 0:27:31.120
<v Speaker 1>made it into an episode though you know, we had

0:27:31.119 --> 0:27:33.400
<v Speaker 1>to lie about the said crackers.

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<v Speaker 3>Were either of you either, did either of you ever

0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:37.639
<v Speaker 3>accomplish this task?

0:27:37.840 --> 0:27:41.399
<v Speaker 2>Like is it. Is it accomplishable? It's not doable.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently. The issue is I suppose you could cheat and

0:27:45.119 --> 0:27:49.199
<v Speaker 1>like swig some water right before, but saltines are so

0:27:49.400 --> 0:27:52.359
<v Speaker 1>dry that you run out of saliva, like your mouth

0:27:52.440 --> 0:27:54.440
<v Speaker 1>can't make it fast enough.

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<v Speaker 4>I say this all the time because people ask like

0:27:57.520 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 4>my favorite scene, and this is one of them. Every

0:28:00.560 --> 0:28:04.400
<v Speaker 4>single take, I went full tilt, full tilt, Bookie. I

0:28:04.440 --> 0:28:06.320
<v Speaker 4>was trying to do it. It wasn't a bit When

0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:08.119
<v Speaker 4>you see me spinning out crackers, that's because I had

0:28:08.119 --> 0:28:11.040
<v Speaker 4>a mouthful crackers. Like that was me really committing. And

0:28:11.119 --> 0:28:15.880
<v Speaker 4>I take food challenges very seriously. I did not even

0:28:15.920 --> 0:28:20.400
<v Speaker 4>come close. No, it is so deceptively hard.

0:28:20.880 --> 0:28:23.280
<v Speaker 2>Wow will it work?

0:28:23.359 --> 0:28:26.200
<v Speaker 3>We think with rits or like something else or really

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 3>we know wheat thins.

0:28:27.400 --> 0:28:28.800
<v Speaker 2>It really has to be salted.

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:30.640
<v Speaker 4>Wee thing for sure. A week and you're fine because

0:28:30.640 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 4>the saltea is just it's just it's salt and basically

0:28:35.640 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 4>it just SUPs up anything liquid or liquid adjacent immediately.

0:28:39.320 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because it's dry, especially because I think it's made

0:28:42.200 --> 0:28:44.120
<v Speaker 1>to be that way for soup. A trisc it now

0:28:44.160 --> 0:28:47.200
<v Speaker 1>has a nice oil base and you could probably get

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 1>six triskts down triskits with all that wheat the way,

0:28:51.600 --> 0:28:53.440
<v Speaker 1>I think much more likely than a saltine.

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:54.680
<v Speaker 2>I feel like we need to try this.

0:28:54.880 --> 0:28:58.480
<v Speaker 4>Our next episode should just be us eating seeing comedy

0:28:58.520 --> 0:29:01.280
<v Speaker 4>snack foods we can eat six of under a minute.

0:29:01.480 --> 0:29:03.560
<v Speaker 1>Also, I actually think we should just do this at

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:07.520
<v Speaker 1>the next convention line everybody up at a table and

0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:11.000
<v Speaker 1>see what happens. And it's like maybe every I don't know.

0:29:11.040 --> 0:29:15.920
<v Speaker 1>Every two hours we come back for another cracker, which undoable.

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:19.120
<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, this is such a good idea. Are

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 4>you are you listening Friends with Benefits? This is your

0:29:21.920 --> 0:29:26.320
<v Speaker 4>next activity, Ray, get on it, let's go. That scene

0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 4>was so much fun. The banter with clan Quinn was

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:31.280
<v Speaker 4>so much fun. I love that we've now got to

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:34.720
<v Speaker 4>see them be light and silly two episodes in a row.

0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:38.800
<v Speaker 4>So I think, at least for me, that's when claan

0:29:38.920 --> 0:29:39.880
<v Speaker 4>Quinn shine the most.

0:29:40.160 --> 0:29:41.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, yes, for.

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:42.800
<v Speaker 3>Sure, you've finally just got to be happy.

0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:43.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:29:43.840 --> 0:29:46.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's nice to see the ease and the humor

0:29:46.200 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 1>with you guys, and you know, even just her running

0:29:50.800 --> 0:29:53.600
<v Speaker 1>around the hospital snapping photos. It's like you remember that

0:29:53.680 --> 0:29:57.680
<v Speaker 1>this is a joyous time and it does feel like

0:29:57.760 --> 0:30:02.200
<v Speaker 1>for you too, especially kind of a breath of fresh Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, because yet we had like two episodes of sort

0:30:06.440 --> 0:30:08.760
<v Speaker 4>of fun stuff and then it was just right into

0:30:08.840 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 4>like so much admire for a season. Hey, what's the

0:30:13.800 --> 0:30:17.720
<v Speaker 4>Is there any backstory to why Nathan collapsed during the game?

0:30:18.720 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, he was taking performance enhancing drugs in high.

0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:25.800
<v Speaker 4>School, so Dan was lying when the doctor was asking

0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:29.240
<v Speaker 4>him questions, and Dan Dan was being all self righteous he.

0:30:29.240 --> 0:30:31.160
<v Speaker 3>Knew I think Dan knew, yeah, and he was like

0:30:31.240 --> 0:30:33.320
<v Speaker 3>trying to get the doctor throw him off the trail

0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:34.800
<v Speaker 3>because he didn't want that on his record.

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:40.120
<v Speaker 5>Oh interesting, Yeah, but I don't remember that moment of

0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:46.120
<v Speaker 5>him like stroking Nathan's forehead with his knuckles before he

0:30:46.240 --> 0:30:46.960
<v Speaker 5>woke up.

0:30:46.880 --> 0:30:50.840
<v Speaker 3>And just being all sweet and fatherly and look on

0:30:50.960 --> 0:30:53.480
<v Speaker 3>James's face is so great, like why are you being

0:30:53.520 --> 0:30:54.200
<v Speaker 3>so nice?

0:30:54.760 --> 0:30:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:30:55.400 --> 0:30:57.520
<v Speaker 4>Hurry ah.

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<v Speaker 1>It registered for me almost like going, am I dreaming?

0:31:02.040 --> 0:31:02.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:31:02.640 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 1>You know what is going on here? It was nice

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:10.160
<v Speaker 1>to see those shifts. I mean, Dan is Dan, but

0:31:11.120 --> 0:31:13.280
<v Speaker 1>even to see him a bit out of character to

0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:17.560
<v Speaker 1>be reminded of when Victoria really shifts.

0:31:18.000 --> 0:31:19.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know it.

0:31:20.360 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I remember being so moved by watching that moment in

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:28.920
<v Speaker 1>season six, but seeing it again, I couldn't help but think, Wow,

0:31:28.960 --> 0:31:33.520
<v Speaker 1>it's really rare that we see an adult admit to

0:31:33.560 --> 0:31:38.520
<v Speaker 1>their adult child. I was wrong. This is the lesson

0:31:38.560 --> 0:31:42.720
<v Speaker 1>that I've learned. I wish I'd learned it sooner, and

0:31:43.640 --> 0:31:45.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Something about just seeing that in a

0:31:45.880 --> 0:31:49.960
<v Speaker 1>flashback really hit me. I love that they gave that

0:31:50.280 --> 0:31:51.040
<v Speaker 1>to Victoria.

0:31:51.840 --> 0:31:55.400
<v Speaker 4>Was that seen from season six? Hawd You have been right,

0:31:55.440 --> 0:32:00.160
<v Speaker 4>because it felt like that was Victoria changing, But I

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:01.920
<v Speaker 4>hadn't seen that, which means it had to have been

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:05.280
<v Speaker 4>you know, I know she wasn't anything like that seasons whatever,

0:32:05.360 --> 0:32:07.400
<v Speaker 4>you know, one through five or whenever she came in.

0:32:08.560 --> 0:32:11.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's it's nearing the end of season six because

0:32:11.920 --> 0:32:16.400
<v Speaker 1>she encourages Brooke to go after Julian, and then it's

0:32:16.400 --> 0:32:19.000
<v Speaker 1>the end of the season when she goes to his

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:23.600
<v Speaker 1>set and you know, admits that she's gonna that she

0:32:23.720 --> 0:32:26.560
<v Speaker 1>does love him and that she's going to let herself.

0:32:27.920 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 1>So it's it's kind of special to see the revelation again,

0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:37.320
<v Speaker 1>even though we've seen it. You know, it's been two years,

0:32:37.320 --> 0:32:40.520
<v Speaker 1>you forget, and it's it was cool for that to

0:32:40.600 --> 0:32:43.960
<v Speaker 1>kind of be a button. I liked that moment between them,

0:32:44.480 --> 0:32:47.640
<v Speaker 1>as Brooke is trying to imagine, you know, what a

0:32:47.680 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 1>different kind of parent shall be, what she will do

0:32:50.640 --> 0:32:53.719
<v Speaker 1>Differently thought it was really effective.

0:32:53.560 --> 0:32:56.560
<v Speaker 3>Because they had so many scenes to choose from. I

0:32:56.560 --> 0:32:58.520
<v Speaker 3>mean there were there were a lot of scenes where

0:32:58.600 --> 0:33:03.040
<v Speaker 3>Victoria had changed and was being more generous or kind,

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 3>and I really liked that they did choose that one,

0:33:07.640 --> 0:33:10.800
<v Speaker 3>and the flashback of the connection point between that and

0:33:10.920 --> 0:33:14.200
<v Speaker 3>Brooke talking about exactly what you're saying, the kind of

0:33:14.200 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 3>method that she wants to be. It was a really

0:33:17.600 --> 0:33:19.520
<v Speaker 3>it was kind of a perfect one for them to choose.

0:33:20.000 --> 0:33:22.960
<v Speaker 3>I think there were a lot of those mirroring moments.

0:33:23.160 --> 0:33:26.520
<v Speaker 4>What was the incident what happened to Haley that put

0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:29.160
<v Speaker 4>her in the hospital when Nathan was so worried about her?

0:33:29.480 --> 0:33:33.080
<v Speaker 3>I got hit by a car because Nathan was doing

0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:37.840
<v Speaker 3>he was always performing in performance enhancing drugs, and then

0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:42.920
<v Speaker 3>he got involved with a bookie and then look at

0:33:43.000 --> 0:33:46.320
<v Speaker 3>Rob's face. Yeah, and then Rick Fox hit me with his.

0:33:46.240 --> 0:33:51.760
<v Speaker 4>Car stop it no no freaking way.

0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:56.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh yeah, meaning to hit Nathan, but winds up

0:33:56.280 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 1>hitting Haley and she's pregnant.

0:33:58.920 --> 0:34:01.320
<v Speaker 2>And she's pregnant. That's right, I was pregnant, and he.

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:04.640
<v Speaker 1>Wants to hit Nathan because Nathan didn't throw the Ravens

0:34:04.680 --> 0:34:08.759
<v Speaker 1>game and Rick Fox and his his his crew were

0:34:08.800 --> 0:34:09.560
<v Speaker 1>betting on it.

0:34:11.440 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh. Yeah, that's incredible.

0:34:19.080 --> 0:34:21.279
<v Speaker 1>So welcome to another storyline that would have had us

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:23.600
<v Speaker 1>landed on the soup. I probably did.

0:34:23.800 --> 0:34:24.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure it did.

0:34:25.640 --> 0:34:26.480
<v Speaker 4>What's so hold on?

0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:26.799
<v Speaker 3>What?

0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:30.520
<v Speaker 4>Like, what were the side effects of these performance enhancing drugs?

0:34:30.560 --> 0:34:33.480
<v Speaker 4>Because this is like it made him cramp, It made

0:34:33.560 --> 0:34:37.200
<v Speaker 4>him so dehydrated he passed out, which what? Okay?

0:34:37.920 --> 0:34:38.799
<v Speaker 2>And aggressive?

0:34:39.480 --> 0:34:41.239
<v Speaker 4>He was like a roid Ragi type thing.

0:34:43.480 --> 0:34:45.880
<v Speaker 1>I think it was very It was like a you know,

0:34:46.080 --> 0:34:49.719
<v Speaker 1>speedy I don't know, like some kind of upper right

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:51.720
<v Speaker 1>that just made him unstoppable.

0:34:52.120 --> 0:34:56.840
<v Speaker 4>Okay, he found some old fen Finn. That's a reference

0:34:56.880 --> 0:35:00.280
<v Speaker 4>that two percent of our audience wonderstand. That was a

0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:02.800
<v Speaker 4>a diet drug that was very hot for a minute

0:35:02.840 --> 0:35:05.560
<v Speaker 4>in the what late eighties early nineties, and then whoops,

0:35:05.640 --> 0:35:08.600
<v Speaker 4>see doozles discovered it was killing people and they quickly

0:35:08.600 --> 0:35:14.160
<v Speaker 4>took it off the market. Thanks gosh, did I just

0:35:14.200 --> 0:35:19.000
<v Speaker 4>bring the podcast to a screeching hole by reconcing failed

0:35:19.040 --> 0:35:22.439
<v Speaker 4>medication from the late eighties. That not why everyone tuned

0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:24.880
<v Speaker 4>in today. My bad.

0:35:36.239 --> 0:35:39.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm also laughing because we are never short on things

0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:41.920
<v Speaker 1>to talk about. And I'm looking at the clock and

0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I mean, we've talked about the entire episode.

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:51.000
<v Speaker 4>Bags like my notes, app, I got nothing I have

0:35:51.160 --> 0:35:52.080
<v Speaker 4>to same.

0:35:52.560 --> 0:35:55.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, we went through them all. It's the shortest

0:35:55.200 --> 0:35:58.799
<v Speaker 1>amount of notes I've ever taken on an episode. And

0:35:58.840 --> 0:35:59.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to do.

0:36:00.320 --> 0:36:07.319
<v Speaker 4>We'll let's do our listener question because conversation to us listener.

0:36:07.040 --> 0:36:09.320
<v Speaker 3>Question is is we don't know who it's from, but

0:36:09.440 --> 0:36:13.279
<v Speaker 3>hello to you. Haley tells Jamie he's not allowed to

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:15.720
<v Speaker 3>have a baby in high school. But what is something

0:36:15.800 --> 0:36:17.920
<v Speaker 3>you did in your life that you wouldn't want your

0:36:18.000 --> 0:36:26.120
<v Speaker 3>kids repeating? Oh, fun, fun question, friend. Quite a few

0:36:26.880 --> 0:36:28.520
<v Speaker 3>things and a superb super.

0:36:28.280 --> 0:36:29.719
<v Speaker 2>Don't want my daughter to join a cult?

0:36:30.840 --> 0:36:38.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, good luck following that answer either of us.

0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:40.360
<v Speaker 1>There's just so many things.

0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:44.040
<v Speaker 3>That is truly one of the if you can get

0:36:44.080 --> 0:36:48.279
<v Speaker 3>over yourself, it's one of the joys of parenting, the

0:36:48.400 --> 0:36:52.040
<v Speaker 3>opportunity to release the shame by continually talking about what

0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:54.880
<v Speaker 3>an idiot you were and how you can prevent your

0:36:54.960 --> 0:36:58.359
<v Speaker 3>child friendly how what you've learned, and and just being

0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:00.279
<v Speaker 3>able to be honest with them about it instead of

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:03.759
<v Speaker 3>tiding it like previous generations used to do just culturally,

0:37:03.800 --> 0:37:06.600
<v Speaker 3>like hide all the things. Yeah, it's a real pleasure,

0:37:06.760 --> 0:37:08.799
<v Speaker 3>And now I have to say absolutely.

0:37:08.840 --> 0:37:11.400
<v Speaker 1>And I also think there's something. I don't know if

0:37:11.440 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>you guys feel this way, but I know I certainly do.

0:37:14.680 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 1>I've really noticed it in my life in the last

0:37:16.960 --> 0:37:20.160
<v Speaker 1>two years, where to your point, I'm not embarrassed by

0:37:20.160 --> 0:37:24.319
<v Speaker 1>anything anymore, right, I'm like, if anything, this is just

0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:29.640
<v Speaker 1>pure comedic fodder, like the insane things that have happened

0:37:29.719 --> 0:37:35.000
<v Speaker 1>in my our lives. You have to laugh. And then

0:37:35.040 --> 0:37:37.480
<v Speaker 1>when you realize, you just find your own past and

0:37:37.520 --> 0:37:43.440
<v Speaker 1>your own embarrassing things. Laundry lists so funny, you're like,

0:37:43.640 --> 0:37:46.919
<v Speaker 1>oh cool, yeah.

0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:50.400
<v Speaker 4>Wow, Yeah. I would say suffering in silence and oh

0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:55.040
<v Speaker 4>and playing small, because those two cost me a lot

0:37:54.760 --> 0:37:57.440
<v Speaker 4>a lot. Playing small cost me a lot emotionally and

0:37:57.800 --> 0:38:00.000
<v Speaker 4>in terms of growth and figuring out who I actually was,

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:04.520
<v Speaker 4>and suffering in silence just brought a ton of pain

0:38:04.960 --> 0:38:08.239
<v Speaker 4>and time that was consumed when if I had known

0:38:08.280 --> 0:38:09.920
<v Speaker 4>to ask for help, and then it was Okay to

0:38:09.960 --> 0:38:13.000
<v Speaker 4>ask for help, I would, yeah, save myself a lot

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:14.960
<v Speaker 4>of tough seasons.

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:18.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel that too. Thank you for that.

0:38:19.160 --> 0:38:20.799
<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people can relate to that.

0:38:21.000 --> 0:38:23.480
<v Speaker 1>And Rob, I think that's a big part of it too, Right,

0:38:23.760 --> 0:38:28.400
<v Speaker 1>is like if you really follow the trajectory of maybe

0:38:28.440 --> 0:38:30.840
<v Speaker 1>some of the things we wouldn't wish on our kids,

0:38:31.160 --> 0:38:34.279
<v Speaker 1>I think that's where they start very often, is when

0:38:34.320 --> 0:38:37.799
<v Speaker 1>you suffer something in silence, when you're trying to be

0:38:37.960 --> 0:38:40.680
<v Speaker 1>mature or sort of prove that you can handle it,

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:44.799
<v Speaker 1>or you feel a little ashamed to admit you need

0:38:44.840 --> 0:38:47.680
<v Speaker 1>some help with something. Yeah, that's kind of how the

0:38:47.719 --> 0:38:49.719
<v Speaker 1>train leaves the station, and then by the time you

0:38:49.800 --> 0:38:52.839
<v Speaker 1>realize you want to get off, it's like speeding through

0:38:52.840 --> 0:38:54.799
<v Speaker 1>the mountains. I don't know why. Suddenly I've turned this

0:38:54.880 --> 0:38:58.160
<v Speaker 1>into like the Bucky scene and you know, the Marvel universe,

0:38:58.440 --> 0:39:00.319
<v Speaker 1>but you know what I'm talking about. It's like, oh God,

0:39:00.320 --> 0:39:01.640
<v Speaker 1>I can't get off now.

0:39:02.200 --> 0:39:03.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:39:02.520 --> 0:39:09.560
<v Speaker 1>And I think to teach our children or encourage even

0:39:09.560 --> 0:39:15.880
<v Speaker 1>in ourselves at this stage, a quickness to be as

0:39:16.000 --> 0:39:18.239
<v Speaker 1>honest as you need to be so that you can

0:39:18.320 --> 0:39:22.360
<v Speaker 1>have more emotional resilience is really special.

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:23.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:39:23.719 --> 0:39:25.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so hard to do because it's not so

0:39:26.080 --> 0:39:28.839
<v Speaker 3>easy because it's not always just about I just have

0:39:28.880 --> 0:39:31.440
<v Speaker 3>to feel my emotion. There's other people involved, and you're

0:39:31.440 --> 0:39:34.960
<v Speaker 3>trying to sometimes protect a relationship or the possibility of

0:39:35.440 --> 0:39:37.719
<v Speaker 3>maybe it's me and I just haven't figured out what

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:40.040
<v Speaker 3>my problem is, and I'm subconsciously I'm like, maybe I'm

0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:42.080
<v Speaker 3>blaming the other person, but it's actually my problem, and

0:39:42.120 --> 0:39:43.719
<v Speaker 3>I want to solve that before I go complain about

0:39:43.719 --> 0:39:45.920
<v Speaker 3>this person to somebody else. And I certainly don't want

0:39:45.920 --> 0:39:47.759
<v Speaker 3>to start triangulating things. And so I'm just going to

0:39:48.040 --> 0:39:50.400
<v Speaker 3>keep everything to myself until I figure it out on

0:39:50.440 --> 0:39:54.640
<v Speaker 3>my own. And it's just not how we're wired. We're

0:39:54.680 --> 0:39:55.799
<v Speaker 3>wired for community.

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:58.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I think growing up, you also you only

0:39:59.000 --> 0:40:00.160
<v Speaker 4>know what you're exposed to to.

0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:01.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know.

0:40:01.239 --> 0:40:03.160
<v Speaker 4>And I had a dad who went to Vietnam when

0:40:03.160 --> 0:40:07.120
<v Speaker 4>he was eighteen. There was no language of the heart really,

0:40:07.360 --> 0:40:09.960
<v Speaker 4>you know, to speak of, and so I wasn't modeled

0:40:09.960 --> 0:40:13.200
<v Speaker 4>for me like asking for help or sharing about struggles.

0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:16.080
<v Speaker 4>So and that's through no fault of his because he

0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:19.359
<v Speaker 4>wasn't exposed to it either, you know. But it's it's

0:40:19.440 --> 0:40:21.439
<v Speaker 4>changing now. But like That's why I sort of didn't

0:40:21.440 --> 0:40:23.640
<v Speaker 4>know because it was like, oh, it's an in house job.

0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:26.160
<v Speaker 4>I got this was like the mantra, it's okay, I

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:28.400
<v Speaker 4>got this, you know. And it's like, turns out I

0:40:28.440 --> 0:40:30.879
<v Speaker 4>didn't have this, and I had a therapist. He gave

0:40:30.920 --> 0:40:34.080
<v Speaker 4>me a great line. He said, tell the truth and

0:40:34.080 --> 0:40:37.799
<v Speaker 4>tell it faster. And I love that, right, because it's

0:40:37.840 --> 0:40:40.400
<v Speaker 4>like that applies to everything, whether it's like I'm struggling

0:40:40.800 --> 0:40:42.799
<v Speaker 4>or like, hey, what you're doing is not okay with me.

0:40:42.840 --> 0:40:45.440
<v Speaker 4>But it's like I had such a hard time telling

0:40:45.440 --> 0:40:46.800
<v Speaker 4>my truth in the past because it would be like

0:40:46.920 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 4>is this going to upset them? Is it going to

0:40:48.680 --> 0:40:51.359
<v Speaker 4>rock the boat? Okay, I'll just I'll hedge it. I'll

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.319
<v Speaker 4>only say half of it, but I'll make it a joke. Yeah,

0:40:54.640 --> 0:40:56.960
<v Speaker 4>you know, And it's like, naw, dude, just tell the

0:40:57.000 --> 0:40:58.000
<v Speaker 4>truth and tell it faster.

0:40:58.640 --> 0:40:59.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:03.920
<v Speaker 3>We spend a lot of time performing just for that

0:41:04.120 --> 0:41:08.000
<v Speaker 3>to keep the peace or to protect our egos, and

0:41:08.320 --> 0:41:10.920
<v Speaker 3>we're worried about feeling insecure or being seen in a

0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:14.480
<v Speaker 3>certain way or being misunderstood from what our heart actually is.

0:41:15.480 --> 0:41:18.359
<v Speaker 2>And I it's to.

0:41:18.360 --> 0:41:23.000
<v Speaker 3>Feel like you're constantly performing that way but then how

0:41:23.000 --> 0:41:26.560
<v Speaker 3>can I ever actually grow if I'm not just being

0:41:26.600 --> 0:41:29.919
<v Speaker 3>honest and saying the truth and saying it faster. Even

0:41:29.960 --> 0:41:33.680
<v Speaker 3>if the truth is ugly, Hopefully there's good enough friends

0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:36.880
<v Speaker 3>around to go ooh, that was ugly, and then you

0:41:36.920 --> 0:41:40.160
<v Speaker 3>can deal with it and grow. But if you're never

0:41:40.239 --> 0:41:42.920
<v Speaker 3>exposing those parts of yourself and you don't ever have

0:41:42.960 --> 0:41:46.239
<v Speaker 3>safe people around to do that with, how are you

0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:47.560
<v Speaker 3>actually supposed to grow?

0:41:48.320 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 4>And if you are constantly curating other people's experience of you,

0:41:53.160 --> 0:41:56.000
<v Speaker 4>you are never giving anyone else a chance to actually

0:41:56.080 --> 0:41:56.400
<v Speaker 4>know you.

0:41:57.239 --> 0:42:01.240
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then you feel lonely and unsee for sure.

0:42:02.160 --> 0:42:05.839
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Okay, listener question.

0:42:06.800 --> 0:42:09.520
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I hope you all can. I hope everybody out

0:42:09.560 --> 0:42:11.799
<v Speaker 3>there can get something out of that. I certainly did.

0:42:12.280 --> 0:42:13.959
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I can relate to that a lot.

0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 3>It's a constant that's a constant journey.

0:42:17.360 --> 0:42:19.440
<v Speaker 4>It's like, oh, you only gave us a fifteen minute

0:42:19.480 --> 0:42:24.319
<v Speaker 4>long episode. Well, let us talk about trauma and healing, hey,

0:42:24.320 --> 0:42:25.960
<v Speaker 4>and that we can do for hours.

0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:29.080
<v Speaker 3>That we can do sort of our brand around here,

0:42:29.760 --> 0:42:31.480
<v Speaker 3>spin a wheel, folks.

0:42:39.400 --> 0:42:44.239
<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh. Most likely to spend hours curating the

0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:49.680
<v Speaker 4>perfect Instagram post was the wheel just listening to our conversation.

0:42:49.680 --> 0:42:55.840
<v Speaker 3>Wit, I will say that I end up doing. I

0:42:55.880 --> 0:42:58.640
<v Speaker 3>spend way more time trying to put together like a

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:01.080
<v Speaker 3>dumb reel, like just some that I think is funny,

0:43:01.160 --> 0:43:03.680
<v Speaker 3>like when my dogs opened up fertilizer all over my

0:43:03.760 --> 0:43:05.799
<v Speaker 3>couch and then I had to deal with cleaning that up,

0:43:05.800 --> 0:43:07.280
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, oh my god, this is funny.

0:43:07.280 --> 0:43:08.520
<v Speaker 2>And so I took some videos.

0:43:09.000 --> 0:43:12.800
<v Speaker 3>But I am so not tech savvy with this stuff,

0:43:12.840 --> 0:43:16.120
<v Speaker 3>and so it takes way too long, I find myself.

0:43:16.160 --> 0:43:19.399
<v Speaker 3>I don't know about hours, but way longer than I

0:43:19.440 --> 0:43:22.880
<v Speaker 3>wanted to spend, because usually I'll get halfway through and

0:43:22.880 --> 0:43:24.560
<v Speaker 3>then hit a button and the whole thing disappears and

0:43:24.560 --> 0:43:27.719
<v Speaker 3>I have to start all over again. It makes me insane. Yeah,

0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:29.560
<v Speaker 3>so I really don't post a lot of those things

0:43:29.600 --> 0:43:32.799
<v Speaker 3>because it takes too long. I don't my brain can't

0:43:32.800 --> 0:43:33.319
<v Speaker 3>handle it.

0:43:33.400 --> 0:43:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I feel that way too, and it's weird because it

0:43:37.200 --> 0:43:40.360
<v Speaker 1>feels like such a chore. But then I also realize,

0:43:40.760 --> 0:43:44.320
<v Speaker 1>like there'll be a hundred things that could be interesting

0:43:44.360 --> 0:43:47.759
<v Speaker 1>to share, and of those I shared maybe two. I

0:43:47.880 --> 0:43:51.600
<v Speaker 1>just don't have the energy for it. I don't know.

0:43:51.760 --> 0:43:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I sometimes I wish I was better at it, because

0:43:54.239 --> 0:43:57.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, if only the things that feel like the

0:43:57.800 --> 0:44:01.720
<v Speaker 1>most important, like make it out there.

0:44:01.880 --> 0:44:04.279
<v Speaker 3>I know, I'd rather just call a friend to come

0:44:04.320 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 3>over and enjoy the weird moment with me.

0:44:07.160 --> 0:44:09.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do I really need to upload it for people?

0:44:09.640 --> 0:44:10.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:13.160
<v Speaker 1>It's like it's not the first place my brain goes.

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:16.279
<v Speaker 1>But then people that are really good at it, I'm

0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:18.680
<v Speaker 1>so amazed by. I'm like, how did you do that?

0:44:19.640 --> 0:44:20.760
<v Speaker 1>This thing that you made?

0:44:21.560 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 2>How lovely?

0:44:22.440 --> 0:44:24.920
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I don't know. I'm not that skilled.

0:44:25.320 --> 0:44:27.560
<v Speaker 4>I will overthink it, but I will. I will get

0:44:27.600 --> 0:44:30.200
<v Speaker 4>through the photo portion, like I don't really mess with filters,

0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:35.000
<v Speaker 4>but I will spend way too much time working with

0:44:35.040 --> 0:44:38.040
<v Speaker 4>like the nuance of the caption and being like this

0:44:38.120 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 4>word's too long, Okay, this word could be funnier.

0:44:41.360 --> 0:44:44.120
<v Speaker 1>The comedian you're working the joke, yea.

0:44:44.040 --> 0:44:46.680
<v Speaker 4>Yes, yeah, but it's like I will spend you know,

0:44:46.719 --> 0:44:48.239
<v Speaker 4>I'll save it as a draft, wake up next morn

0:44:48.239 --> 0:44:50.320
<v Speaker 4>and be like, no, no, it should have been witch.

0:44:52.680 --> 0:44:53.480
<v Speaker 2>I love that.

0:44:54.080 --> 0:44:56.600
<v Speaker 3>No, it's a creative outlet though that makes total sense

0:44:56.680 --> 0:44:59.360
<v Speaker 3>for the comedian that you are, and it's real work.

0:44:59.640 --> 0:45:01.960
<v Speaker 3>Like do you remember when Barbara was on the show

0:45:02.000 --> 0:45:04.600
<v Speaker 3>and she said that she dated Jerry Seinfeld and she

0:45:04.680 --> 0:45:08.040
<v Speaker 3>was saying that he was very serious about the business

0:45:08.080 --> 0:45:11.520
<v Speaker 3>of being funny. I think that was her quote. He

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:14.799
<v Speaker 3>was very serious about being funny. And I don't know

0:45:14.800 --> 0:45:16.960
<v Speaker 3>why that keeps coming up to me in random moments,

0:45:17.000 --> 0:45:18.879
<v Speaker 3>but I think that's part of it for you, Rob.

0:45:19.000 --> 0:45:21.520
<v Speaker 3>Isn't it like you're serious about being funny, You're good

0:45:21.520 --> 0:45:23.319
<v Speaker 3>at it, and you want it to work, so.

0:45:23.360 --> 0:45:25.160
<v Speaker 2>Of course you're gonna it's a creative outlet.

0:45:25.200 --> 0:45:28.319
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, and it matters to me. Tracks you know,

0:45:28.400 --> 0:45:30.359
<v Speaker 4>It's like if it's a photo and I'm not as

0:45:30.400 --> 0:45:33.160
<v Speaker 4>worried of like do I look handsome as much as

0:45:33.320 --> 0:45:35.040
<v Speaker 4>like if it's a caption, is like did I land

0:45:35.040 --> 0:45:37.640
<v Speaker 4>the plane? Is it as funny as it could have been?

0:45:37.840 --> 0:45:38.080
<v Speaker 3>You know?

0:45:38.200 --> 0:45:38.719
<v Speaker 4>Then I care.

0:45:39.920 --> 0:45:43.960
<v Speaker 3>Is there a character who would be spending hours on

0:45:44.000 --> 0:45:47.000
<v Speaker 3>social media trying to curate the perfect post, like I'd

0:45:47.000 --> 0:45:50.239
<v Speaker 3>say Alex. But I also feel like Alex would just

0:45:50.280 --> 0:45:53.480
<v Speaker 3>be like whatever, and she would just literally post anything.

0:45:53.880 --> 0:45:56.160
<v Speaker 4>She's too fast and loose I think to spray hours

0:45:56.200 --> 0:45:58.680
<v Speaker 4>doing it. I mean, I would say mouth because he

0:45:58.760 --> 0:46:03.160
<v Speaker 4>has that kind of time right now. He Wow and

0:46:03.239 --> 0:46:07.040
<v Speaker 4>he's he's hit with like he was like the first

0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:10.000
<v Speaker 4>person to ever have a podcast that I knew of. Yeah,

0:46:10.200 --> 0:46:11.960
<v Speaker 4>I could see him being savvy with it.

0:46:12.040 --> 0:46:14.960
<v Speaker 3>And he's always inventing himself, reinventing himself with different So

0:46:15.000 --> 0:46:18.160
<v Speaker 3>he's got like this push to get something out there.

0:46:18.320 --> 0:46:21.080
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, ok mouth answer.

0:46:21.560 --> 0:46:24.600
<v Speaker 4>Although I do love the idea of Dan sitting in

0:46:24.640 --> 0:46:29.160
<v Speaker 4>some dingy garage obsessing over like the right picture and

0:46:29.200 --> 0:46:30.760
<v Speaker 4>the right filter for his post.

0:46:31.200 --> 0:46:35.080
<v Speaker 1>By the way, Dan Scott definitely has a troll account.

0:46:35.600 --> 0:46:36.400
<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh.

0:46:36.520 --> 0:46:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's an absolute anonymous nightmare on the Internet.

0:46:41.280 --> 0:46:45.360
<v Speaker 3>How has nobody created a Dan Scott trolling account just

0:46:45.400 --> 0:46:47.759
<v Speaker 3>to start trolling all of us? Oh?

0:46:48.080 --> 0:46:54.040
<v Speaker 4>Come on, come on, so freaking fun. That's a great job.

0:46:54.160 --> 0:46:54.799
<v Speaker 2>You should do it.

0:46:55.800 --> 0:47:00.520
<v Speaker 4>I think Paul should do it. Good at being Paul's

0:47:00.520 --> 0:47:01.240
<v Speaker 4>funny man?

0:47:01.480 --> 0:47:05.440
<v Speaker 2>Is too busy? Yeah, it's true.

0:47:05.760 --> 0:47:06.160
<v Speaker 4>Bummer.

0:47:06.640 --> 0:47:09.920
<v Speaker 3>Next episode, Season eight, episode nineteen, where not to Look

0:47:09.960 --> 0:47:12.880
<v Speaker 3>for Freedom. Something tells me it's Puerto Rico.

0:47:14.480 --> 0:47:17.520
<v Speaker 4>Oh that means, uh, we got Cherry coming up, one

0:47:17.600 --> 0:47:19.960
<v Speaker 4>of Clay's new best friends.

0:47:20.120 --> 0:47:22.280
<v Speaker 2>He makes Cherry.

0:47:22.800 --> 0:47:26.719
<v Speaker 4>You're going to have to tune in to see. Oh yeah,

0:47:26.840 --> 0:47:29.840
<v Speaker 4>interesting is it a stripper? Is it something else? You

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:31.160
<v Speaker 4>just got to watch joy.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, thanks for hanging out with us on this

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