WEBVTT - Czech Hunter (feat. Ira Madison III)

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<v Speaker 1>Last night when I got home from your house, I

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<v Speaker 1>went into the bathroom and flipped the light on and

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<v Speaker 1>looked up and there was a huge fighter. And I

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<v Speaker 1>stayed calm, and I went and saw that the Gucci

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<v Speaker 1>shoebox was sitting out I've been cleaning up my closet,

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<v Speaker 1>and I took it and I opened it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>caught the spider in the shoebox. The chici ist capturing

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<v Speaker 1>of a spider that spiders spiders, that spider's casket that

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<v Speaker 1>spiders like. Hey, welcome to make career Rose, I, for

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<v Speaker 1>your recommendation, have been blasting Kelly Clarkson's Christmas albums um

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<v Speaker 1>alta watsoo. It's really putting me in the in the

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas spirit here. Don't you feel all Christmas right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas isn't canceled justice you. Um. We are so lucky

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<v Speaker 1>to be carrying that Christmas spirit for word with a

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<v Speaker 1>little episode on last holiday with none other than Ira

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<v Speaker 1>Medicine to the third co host, I have to Keep

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<v Speaker 1>It podcast, scorned Twitter user famous for being banned from Twitter.

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<v Speaker 1>This this movie really is in our Christmas cannon. I

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<v Speaker 1>would say absolutely. It is one of the few movies

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<v Speaker 1>I must watch every holiday season, and we are going

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<v Speaker 1>to break it down for you as to why it

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<v Speaker 1>should be in your Christmas Anne, get ready to do

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<v Speaker 1>a glow up and make sure you have some snacks

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<v Speaker 1>handy a big French Yeah. We are you happy to

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<v Speaker 1>be impell We are happy to be in plague. This

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<v Speaker 1>is like a version the show where we give yesterday's

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<v Speaker 1>pup gilt job to this take. I am and I

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<v Speaker 1>am plant. And before we get to IRAA medicine tap,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about what's going on in pop Girl jail today.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that French accent? That was my high school

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<v Speaker 1>French teacher who was a bitch would be so mad.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the most wonderful time of the year, don't you agree, friend?

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I mean, my body is a little broken

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<v Speaker 1>from spending maybe too much time at Universal Studios last Friday,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, I'm definitely are you still sore? My

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<v Speaker 1>my shoulders still hurt a little bit from the four

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<v Speaker 1>times that we rode them. Oh my god, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>my voice is still recovering. You can kind of hear it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we turned into woo girls for a day who and

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<v Speaker 1>like and and honestly like, Yeah, it wasn't just on

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<v Speaker 1>the rides. It was just kind of like we were

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<v Speaker 1>the high girls of Universal Students. It was it was

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<v Speaker 1>we really us in our skims. Our skims and are

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<v Speaker 1>like the sunglasses. We looked like de Mentors walking around

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<v Speaker 1>hat set. We went with our friend Ash, and I

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<v Speaker 1>will say that one of my favorite moments from the

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<v Speaker 1>day was at the end of the day, you know, exhausted,

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<v Speaker 1>we're trying to figure out what to do with our time,

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<v Speaker 1>and we saw this like caricature artist that was like

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<v Speaker 1>drawing this couple and we were like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>should we do that? That would be so fun or

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<v Speaker 1>like one of y'all said that actually it was, and

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<v Speaker 1>I immediately was like, uh no, I'm not doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>It will send my dysphoria of the wazoo. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Rose was like, oh my god, yeah, absolutely, me too,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Ash was like, oh yeah, me too. Like

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was like it was it was a

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<v Speaker 1>dysphoria domino effect where we all were like, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>that's um, that's really taking a risk on being perceived.

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<v Speaker 1>It really is like I don't need him drawing me

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<v Speaker 1>on a skateboard or something. Um. What was your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>part about Universal Rose. Besides the warm butter beer served

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<v Speaker 1>at Three Broomsticks. I actually enjoyed the studio tours, so

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<v Speaker 1>even though I think like it's kind of lame and

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<v Speaker 1>that it's not really a ride, but it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a nice little sojourn around the park with some exciting moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely one of my favorite parts of the day. I

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<v Speaker 1>was not excited, and at that point in the day

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<v Speaker 1>we definitely needed to sit for a while. Very brave

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<v Speaker 1>of us, honestly, to spend the whole day writing roller coasters.

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<v Speaker 1>After the emotional roller coaster that was the Sex in

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<v Speaker 1>the City reboot and just like that. Let me tell

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<v Speaker 1>you so, you know, as you all know, last week

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<v Speaker 1>we talked in depth about Sex in the City and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we had a lot of questions, um as

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<v Speaker 1>Carrie Bradshaw often does about and just like that and

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<v Speaker 1>what it would be and now we have some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>We've seen the first two episodes. We found out what

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<v Speaker 1>the tea is with Samantha she's in London, and how

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<v Speaker 1>to falling out with Carrie because Carrie fired her as

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<v Speaker 1>her publicist, which I'm going to call bullshit on that

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<v Speaker 1>is the laziest writing after everything they went through together,

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<v Speaker 1>that is not how their friendship would end. And like

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<v Speaker 1>the idea that Samantha Jones needs carries bullshit little column

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<v Speaker 1>money for her business, Like there's no way she's got

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<v Speaker 1>bigger fish to fry a baby. I don't actually need

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<v Speaker 1>a reason to know why Samantha like cut them off.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's a whole six seasons of toxicity in all

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<v Speaker 1>of their relationships that like we bared witness to and

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<v Speaker 1>to me, like it would be even more real to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we lost touch and I don't know why,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's even more painful to me, like and also

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<v Speaker 1>more realistic, like you lose friends and sometimes you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why and it sucks, and like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>totally agree with you. I think that like it was

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<v Speaker 1>just it didn't really hit at all. And I also

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<v Speaker 1>will say, like when Carrie says, like I thought we

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<v Speaker 1>would be friends forever, like that did like hit me

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<v Speaker 1>really hard. And in the first five minutes too, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, WHOA, Like they really are going in when

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of thought that, especially after all the hype

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<v Speaker 1>of this reboot, that there would be more things that

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<v Speaker 1>they would try to avoid because it's awkward and because

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<v Speaker 1>there's all this drama and ta around it. The real

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<v Speaker 1>awkwardness of the reboot for me is the ham fisted

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<v Speaker 1>wokeness of it. They're just going so hard with over

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<v Speaker 1>correcting how problematic Sex in the City was, and like

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<v Speaker 1>it is brutal. Every scene with Sato Ramirez A. K. H.

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<v Speaker 1>Diaz doing their podcast is just like it's like a caricature.

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<v Speaker 1>And I did feel called out when carry said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go record a podcast. It's like doing

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<v Speaker 1>jury duty. Um, that felt very Yeah, that was really

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<v Speaker 1>funny at us. One of the jokes that made me la. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>there were like three jokes that I laughed out loud

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<v Speaker 1>at and that was one of them. But the wokeness, it's,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the thing is, I just don't think Sex

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<v Speaker 1>in the City works in the framework of like apologizing

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<v Speaker 1>for the things that said. Honestly, I kind of wish

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<v Speaker 1>that they were just making the same show and like

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<v Speaker 1>correcting in subtle ways rather than trying to like actively apologize,

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<v Speaker 1>because it felt like I was like, is everyone non binary?

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<v Speaker 1>On this show? I think that, Well, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get to that. I will say, like, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>you're totally right, like leave the word woke out of

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<v Speaker 1>your scripts. And also like queer people don't talk like

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<v Speaker 1>don't And that's the thing that's really disappointing is that

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<v Speaker 1>there are no Latin or non binary writers in the end,

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<v Speaker 1>just like that room, Like I went into this and researched,

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<v Speaker 1>and like what we're seeing is like a product of

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Patrick King's imagination of what he thinks a Latin

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<v Speaker 1>non binary person is. And I say this like lovingly,

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<v Speaker 1>like I love sex in the city and I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be better, Like, but that is exactly what it

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<v Speaker 1>looks like on screen. Is it's not a real person, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's why you have moments like Cha, whose whole story,

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<v Speaker 1>whose whole character we've seen so far is like them

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<v Speaker 1>being like this non binary stand up comic rebel telling

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<v Speaker 1>Carrie to step her pussy up, like that they would

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<v Speaker 1>never say that, applying like drag terminology to this like

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<v Speaker 1>non binary stand up comic. Like it's just taking taking

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<v Speaker 1>someone who's so out of touch with real queer people,

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<v Speaker 1>like taking their idea of what the entirety of queerness

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<v Speaker 1>is like and funneling it into one character. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>and it perfectly cast though, like Sata is great. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>but even though everything they have to say is doing doing,

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<v Speaker 1>doing as much as they can with the material. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they're not in their thirties anymore, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>can't necessarily be the show that it used to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that the strengths, a lot of the strengths

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<v Speaker 1>of what we watched are those moments of nostalgia, right,

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<v Speaker 1>like Susan Sharon coming in, or like them, Susan Sharon

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<v Speaker 1>legend icon star. Susan Sharon should be in the main cast,

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<v Speaker 1>she should be the fourth girl. But yeah, maybe I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not shocked to see that. Like the majority of the

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<v Speaker 1>sentiment around the show, at least on my timeline, was

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<v Speaker 1>really negative. Do I think it was perfectly executed? Like no,

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<v Speaker 1>but like adapting to woke culture, like fumbling through a podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>being a mother, experiencing grief, like those are the problems

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<v Speaker 1>of like women in their fifties, and so coming away

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<v Speaker 1>from it, I was like kind of thinking about the

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<v Speaker 1>impact of nostalgia and like how it shapes the way

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<v Speaker 1>we watch, you know, cultural objects like this and their reboots.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Miranda kind of has always been awkward, right, Like

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<v Speaker 1>that's just how she's always been. But Like what has

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<v Speaker 1>changed between you know, the show ending and where we

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<v Speaker 1>are at now, is that Miran to became a meme queen.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone sees themselves in Randa. Everyone says Miranda's the favorite character.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a book called We Should All Be Miranda's right.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when we see like our our meme hero

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<v Speaker 1>failing when she's not adapting to the culture that we

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<v Speaker 1>have already thinks she's a part of, like it feels

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like tainted. And I don't know, what did

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<v Speaker 1>you think about the Miranda of it all? It didn't

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<v Speaker 1>ring true to me just because, like, yes, Miranda's awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think Miranda was always in a way, like

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<v Speaker 1>the most street smart of them. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she had some fumbles, Like there's an episode early on

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<v Speaker 1>in the series when her boss assumes she's a lesbian,

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<v Speaker 1>so she takes the woman with her too into a

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<v Speaker 1>party and like tries to make it work. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think like because of that, like and because of the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that these women live in New York City and

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<v Speaker 1>have for decades, like they're acting like these are their

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<v Speaker 1>first experiences with black women, with queer people, and like

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<v Speaker 1>that to me, either signifies that like it's bad writing

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<v Speaker 1>or that like in the world of the show, these

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<v Speaker 1>women have truly just been so siloed by their own

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<v Speaker 1>privilege that I guess they are having some kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like reckoning I think, uh, speaking of heterosexual characters making

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<v Speaker 1>bad decisions. I did finally watch Twelve Dates of Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>the second season for you. Thank you, Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel really seen and held by you. I love them.

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<v Speaker 1>You basically forced me to watch it. And when we

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<v Speaker 1>we discussed it, you know the other night when we

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<v Speaker 1>were hanging out, and you didn't remember any of the

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<v Speaker 1>things that I was trying to tell you. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't remember any of the people. It's really what I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted was for you to experience was the vibes and

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<v Speaker 1>the experience. Let's set it up for everyone what the

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<v Speaker 1>show is about. So Twelve Dates of Christmas is a show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a reality show that's sort of like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>replicate what happens in a holiday rom com. So there

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<v Speaker 1>are three leads um and in this iteration, there was

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<v Speaker 1>one straight guy and two queer people, a queer woman

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<v Speaker 1>and a queer man um and they are staying at

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<v Speaker 1>this beautiful um Ski lodge during Christmas. I'm saying that

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<v Speaker 1>air quotes because it was obviously shot in like March July.

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<v Speaker 1>I yeah, um. And they have a series of romantic

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<v Speaker 1>interests who show up at the lodge and sometimes unexpected

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<v Speaker 1>ways and attempt to woo them as they go on

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<v Speaker 1>twelve dates, all leading up to choosing someone to take

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<v Speaker 1>home with them for Christmas, which again is obviously like

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<v Speaker 1>shot in August, and they they put like a wreath

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<v Speaker 1>on their dad's that door. Um. And then this season,

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<v Speaker 1>the like secondary twist was that after they took their

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<v Speaker 1>love interest home for Christmas, they would then spend New

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<v Speaker 1>Years with New York City at the top of the

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<v Speaker 1>Empire State Building. So it's it's like the Bachelor meets

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<v Speaker 1>the bisexual season of Are You the One? Through the

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<v Speaker 1>lens of love? Actually, I wish it had had more

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<v Speaker 1>of like the queer messiness of Are You the One?

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<v Speaker 1>Because Heina, who's this like non binary character that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, gets far in the competition, is like

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<v Speaker 1>very important for like non binary villain representation, as they

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<v Speaker 1>are like kind of the person that really throws a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of like kind of conflicts into the arena, but

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<v Speaker 1>not enough conflict In my opinion. Yeah, but I thought

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<v Speaker 1>like it was a good example of why there should

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<v Speaker 1>be more queer lead dating shows because like of the

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<v Speaker 1>inherent mess of your pool of love interests all potentially

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<v Speaker 1>being attracted to each other, and like we saw in

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<v Speaker 1>Twelve Dates of Christmas, two of the two of the

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<v Speaker 1>gay love interests like hooked up and ended up like

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<v Speaker 1>saying I love you to each other after guessing with

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<v Speaker 1>like a couple, um and then leaving together. Um Tina.

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<v Speaker 1>As we previously mentioned, like hooked up with the lesbian

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<v Speaker 1>who went home first. Um Heina is um Heina's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>big on lesbian. Have you ever seen their TikTok's? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're they're really funy ship. I didn't know that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to tune in. Other takeaways is that like

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<v Speaker 1>just the just the the the awe inspiring quality of

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<v Speaker 1>like heterosexual dating, Like the heterosexual lead is like the

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<v Speaker 1>most basic and like indecisive and boring person on the planet,

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<v Speaker 1>and like he truly is is like every episode is

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<v Speaker 1>the most attracted to the newest exactly because it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>shiny new thing for me to stick and every time

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<v Speaker 1>in the confessionals, but they like to be like he

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<v Speaker 1>talks about who the new girl is wo be like, yeah,

0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:52.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, a lot of qualities stick out to me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's attractive, she's the right height, she's gorgeous,

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<v Speaker 1>she's beautiful, and it's like every single time it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, kept talking about their height, which I thought

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<v Speaker 1>was so bizarre. And also like the gay guy, honest,

0:15:05.000 --> 0:15:07.920
<v Speaker 1>he was he was hot. He was hot. He was hot.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I liked his little like gray. And there

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<v Speaker 1>was other like painful moments in these first dates. There

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<v Speaker 1>was like a moment where this girl is trying to

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<v Speaker 1>like talk about herself for her personality's like, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a big Harry Potter fan. It's like if you

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<v Speaker 1>were on a first date like that is actually going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the least interesting thing about you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>come to the Universal Studios. There was another moment where

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<v Speaker 1>that the heterosexual guy was like, yeah, you know, our

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<v Speaker 1>relationship is like so amazing, like we're like Jim and Pam.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, oh, thank you for making me watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>I did enjoy it. Thank you for watching. I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>truly less to have you in my life and um

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<v Speaker 1>feel supported by you, especially after the last couple of

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<v Speaker 1>days have been a little sad after hearing that Anne

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<v Speaker 1>Rice died. It was announced by her son on on

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<v Speaker 1>social media that Anne had passed away at the age

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<v Speaker 1>of I believe eight was but we all know that

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<v Speaker 1>she was three and seventy two. Yes, Um, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what your relationship to Anne Rice is, but I

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<v Speaker 1>love and Rice. Like around the time that I started

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<v Speaker 1>watching Buffy, I like read a couple and Rice novels.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously loved the movie Interview with the Vampire Queen of

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<v Speaker 1>the Damned when it came out was huge for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess like I might have even stuck around longer

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<v Speaker 1>in the Anne Rice fandom if it was allowed, because

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<v Speaker 1>Anne Rice was famously extremely anti fan fiction and would

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<v Speaker 1>in fact like send her lawyers to sue people who

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<v Speaker 1>wrote Vampire Chronicles fan fiction. But she also wrote very

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<v Speaker 1>like explicitly queer care aracters, like at a time when

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<v Speaker 1>that was not a thing you were supposed to do,

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<v Speaker 1>like Lestat and Louis and interviewed the vampire just were gay.

0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:12.920
<v Speaker 1>They were gays who adopted Kirsten Dunst. And there there

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<v Speaker 1>was something circling Twitter about and Rice talking about trans people.

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<v Speaker 1>How like trans people are sacred and have like existed

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<v Speaker 1>in every culture and so like yes, well I may

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<v Speaker 1>not have agreed with and Rice's views on fan fiction,

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<v Speaker 1>I do um you know, like celebrate her and everything

0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:35.159
<v Speaker 1>she contributed. I think like the modern preoccupation with vampires

0:17:36.000 --> 0:17:39.159
<v Speaker 1>like was started by her, and like you do not

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<v Speaker 1>hump Twilight without and Rice, and for that we lift

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<v Speaker 1>her up in celebration. Don't, don't, don't don't don't. What

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<v Speaker 1>are your what's your favorite part about the holidays? My

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<v Speaker 1>favorite part about the holiday is is traveling. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>once I got my first real job and was able to,

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<v Speaker 1>I just became a holiday traveler. Yeah, because my grandmother's

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<v Speaker 1>birthday is December fourteen, and my niece's birthday is the

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<v Speaker 1>same day. So I visit home then between Thanksgiving, between Christmas,

0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:35.720
<v Speaker 1>and then I just Christmas. I'm just like gone, gone,

0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:47.520
<v Speaker 1>you are international, smile the that girl's chip about you've

0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:49.840
<v Speaker 1>spent well, you've been to like for for the holiday summers,

0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:51.600
<v Speaker 1>you go to like Paris or where else do you go?

0:18:51.760 --> 0:18:55.199
<v Speaker 1>Like I went right before the pandemic my last Christmas,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to um Bash the Mexican Love. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>just love being you know that, like I've always aspired

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<v Speaker 1>to be that um, that aunt um who you know

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<v Speaker 1>always travels from the holidays and then shows up with

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<v Speaker 1>like presents. It's like, Hi, I never see any of you,

0:19:16.119 --> 0:19:19.679
<v Speaker 1>and you a gift. Now I'm about to get out

0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:24.560
<v Speaker 1>of play big ant energy. I love that I newly

0:19:24.720 --> 0:19:27.400
<v Speaker 1>became an aunt almost a year ago, and I'm trying

0:19:27.680 --> 0:19:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to manifest or trying to fest that same

0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:34.439
<v Speaker 1>that same wealthy aunt energy. You need to buy more

0:19:34.560 --> 0:19:38.040
<v Speaker 1>calf Dan's. Yeah. Well, I also for me, it's really

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<v Speaker 1>about the opportunity to turn my nephew against my brother

0:19:43.119 --> 0:19:46.320
<v Speaker 1>and his wife and make him hate everything that they love.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my niece's favorite. As you just listen, you just

0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:54.320
<v Speaker 1>gotta like it's just a random day when you're feeling it,

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<v Speaker 1>just like hit her cash at with the money so

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<v Speaker 1>you buy just like I blessed I blessed the cash

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<v Speaker 1>app like the other day. Wow. I mean just imagine

0:20:05.440 --> 0:20:08.879
<v Speaker 1>like being like having you as your uncle. That's so

0:20:09.160 --> 0:20:14.000
<v Speaker 1>fucking cool. That's amazing. Yeah. Wow, well, um, speaking of traveling,

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<v Speaker 1>the setting for this movie that we're about to discuss

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<v Speaker 1>is Prague question Mark. Yeah, you all been to Prague.

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<v Speaker 1>I have not. I'm really mad because a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>mine um just went in October and I couldn't go

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<v Speaker 1>because I was working. I do like in an Eastern

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<v Speaker 1>European moment. I've been to Budapest, so like like it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a really hard when people do it because they're

0:20:46.280 --> 0:20:49.399
<v Speaker 1>really trying to They're really trying to show you that

0:20:49.600 --> 0:21:00.600
<v Speaker 1>they are international trials. Yeah, New York City. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I know never been to Prague, but I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to go. But but like I think only if I

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<v Speaker 1>stayed in the kind of hotel that Queen Lativa stays. Yes,

0:21:08.080 --> 0:21:12.000
<v Speaker 1>you got to stay in basically a castle. Yeah, truly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you know this world. But unfortunately

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<v Speaker 1>I have been to Prague before when I was like

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<v Speaker 1>in like freshman or sophomore year. No, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was in seventh or eighth grade on a

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<v Speaker 1>missions trip with me. I just took another step of

0:21:26.720 --> 0:21:33.280
<v Speaker 1>the I want to kill myself continue. No, it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was teaching check teens about Christ our Savior.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you buy any chance find out that you were

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<v Speaker 1>going to die um from a brain disease right before

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<v Speaker 1>you went? No? I didn't but the check teens that

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<v Speaker 1>I was teaching the Bible too were very hot, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember like being like, these are some like we

0:21:52.000 --> 0:21:54.840
<v Speaker 1>were both teens. I was like teens teaching teens about Jesus,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're a bit of a check hunter if you no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm believing. So for those so for those who have

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<v Speaker 1>never seen last Holiday before, the concede generally is like

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<v Speaker 1>Queen Latifa finds out that she has a terminal illness.

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<v Speaker 1>She has what three or four weeks to because she okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because she slips and hits her head while working in

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<v Speaker 1>the department store that she works in, which has a

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<v Speaker 1>hospital in it where she gets a cat scan. Literally

0:22:26.400 --> 0:22:28.879
<v Speaker 1>has a hospital in which, you know, every time I

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<v Speaker 1>go to Bloomingdale's, I'm like, you know what, let me

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<v Speaker 1>get a cat scan. Well, I'm here. The insurance covers that.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it was. You half believe it because

0:22:37.640 --> 0:22:41.320
<v Speaker 1>growing up I always got like my eye exams and

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<v Speaker 1>things done like Sam's Club, but definitely not a hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not question it as a teenager. When I

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<v Speaker 1>saw it at all, I was like, yeah, that makes sense. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So she embarks on this journey to Prague. It's because

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<v Speaker 1>she decides she's going to spend all of her money.

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<v Speaker 1>She's saving because she has like a recipe book, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like saving it her possibility. Very it's very

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<v Speaker 1>very sad um. But what's amazing is that she cashes

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<v Speaker 1>her four oh and kay, and they're like, oh, how

0:23:16.240 --> 0:23:17.680
<v Speaker 1>are you going to spend it? She's like, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna blow it all. And I also have to say

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<v Speaker 1>that when I was like extremely broke and had first

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<v Speaker 1>moved to New York City after my first publishing job,

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<v Speaker 1>I ran out of money and I did cash my

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<v Speaker 1>fur owen kay at the age of like twenty four,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was first saving. I had one once at

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<v Speaker 1>some point when you got a job. I look, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a four ward came when I was at BuzzFeed.

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<v Speaker 1>Where is it where? It's probably my My dad cashed

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<v Speaker 1>in his four oh when k and bought a house

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<v Speaker 1>in Costa Rica, um that I once spent a summer in.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was a bad decision on this part. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>Um he has since sold the house and gone back

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<v Speaker 1>to work. It is a really beautiful depiction of I

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<v Speaker 1>guess like kind of that wish fulfillment trope in like

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<v Speaker 1>films of like, what would you do if you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, had all this money to spend

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<v Speaker 1>in three or four weeks or whatever, and three or

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<v Speaker 1>four weeks to live as well? I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>would you do if you found out you only you

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<v Speaker 1>had less than a month to live and had a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of money to spend. What would you do? Well?

0:24:20.720 --> 0:24:23.720
<v Speaker 1>I would immediately take up smoking again cigarette case I

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<v Speaker 1>miss it and if I knew I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>die anyways, you know, definitely I would definitely go on

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<v Speaker 1>a European vacation probably, Um, where would you where? Where

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<v Speaker 1>would be the first stop? M? I mean I'd have

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<v Speaker 1>to see Paris? Yeah, of course. I would probably go

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<v Speaker 1>to New York. I would probably be boring and go

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<v Speaker 1>on like a vendor and see a bunch of shows.

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<v Speaker 1>I would buy a bunch of Heroin and like just

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<v Speaker 1>do it. What Yeah, that would be the thing you

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<v Speaker 1>would do. Yeah Heroin. Out of all the things you

0:25:02.840 --> 0:25:07.240
<v Speaker 1>could do, you're like Heroin. Yeah, Okay, got it, got it,

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<v Speaker 1>got it, got it, got it, got it. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>when she goes to Europe in this film, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to point out another thing that is as ridiculous

0:25:16.560 --> 0:25:21.200
<v Speaker 1>as a cat scan being in a department store. She

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<v Speaker 1>is in coach and she's like, why is supposed to

0:25:26.600 --> 0:25:29.120
<v Speaker 1>keep leaning back against me, like I don't have any room?

0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:32.040
<v Speaker 1>And then they're like, well that's because you didn't spend

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<v Speaker 1>the money on first class, and she's like how much

0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:37.399
<v Speaker 1>is it? And then it cuts to her like in

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:40.560
<v Speaker 1>first class with like lost or like the champagne or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, baby, there is the way you could

0:25:43.760 --> 0:25:50.720
<v Speaker 1>just like give them some cash an upgrade. There's a

0:25:50.840 --> 0:25:55.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of dollars, like delta, how do I do? This

0:25:56.400 --> 0:26:00.360
<v Speaker 1>doesn't work like that and it's usually booked. Yeah, used

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<v Speaker 1>to be like that. No, like it was never it

0:26:03.119 --> 0:26:05.840
<v Speaker 1>was never that easy. But I mean her in first

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<v Speaker 1>classes a moment as well as her um sitting down

0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:13.200
<v Speaker 1>at like the fancy French restaurant. Is it French's Yeah,

0:26:13.240 --> 0:26:15.920
<v Speaker 1>it's a French restaurant in the chef that she's always

0:26:15.920 --> 0:26:18.080
<v Speaker 1>and she said, I'll take one of everything. Well, this

0:26:18.160 --> 0:26:21.719
<v Speaker 1>is this is because also she's a foodie and loves cooking.

0:26:23.040 --> 0:26:26.399
<v Speaker 1>She this is I think, Uh, this was during like

0:26:26.640 --> 0:26:30.480
<v Speaker 1>Food Network, the Pinnacle of Food Network, and Emerald was

0:26:30.560 --> 0:26:33.119
<v Speaker 1>on TV and so her Possibilities book is all like

0:26:33.880 --> 0:26:38.800
<v Speaker 1>recipes that she was in the modern days, she'd be

0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 1>like on you know, like Tasty's Instagram. She like cooks

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:45.680
<v Speaker 1>all these amazing dishes and gives them to her neighbor

0:26:45.880 --> 0:26:49.679
<v Speaker 1>and then eats Lean Cuisine. Um does that? Did anyone

0:26:49.840 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 1>eat Lean cuisines? Did I remember those Swedish meatballs from

0:26:57.600 --> 0:27:03.600
<v Speaker 1>Lean Cuisine? Hit? Oh? My good? Hit really hit. No,

0:27:03.840 --> 0:27:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm just remembering it from like when I was broken

0:27:06.560 --> 0:27:09.720
<v Speaker 1>New York. I guess I have I have some Swedish

0:27:09.760 --> 0:27:14.600
<v Speaker 1>meatball trauma because of Ikea. Don't get me started the

0:27:14.720 --> 0:27:16.639
<v Speaker 1>era where everyone was like, let's go to Ikea for

0:27:16.680 --> 0:27:19.399
<v Speaker 1>the meat bawls. Weren't that damn good? No? No, and

0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:23.399
<v Speaker 1>like they were acting like they were it, like that

0:27:23.880 --> 0:27:27.640
<v Speaker 1>was culinary masterpiece, Like Queen Lativa cooked it and gave

0:27:27.680 --> 0:27:33.359
<v Speaker 1>it to her neighbor. So so Queen Latifa. Um. She

0:27:33.560 --> 0:27:39.840
<v Speaker 1>goes to the Grand Pop Hotel and she um like

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:43.439
<v Speaker 1>makes her way into this group of rich people. One

0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:45.920
<v Speaker 1>of them is the guy who owns the department store

0:27:45.960 --> 0:27:48.399
<v Speaker 1>that she used to work at something, and she's just

0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:52.600
<v Speaker 1>doing all these amazing things. She goes base jumping. Oh

0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:55.320
<v Speaker 1>we also forgot Queen Lativa's love interest in this movie

0:27:55.440 --> 0:27:59.280
<v Speaker 1>is ll cool Ja who looks so good the movie

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:05.159
<v Speaker 1>l l in a movie, Yeah, like get get him up,

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:08.920
<v Speaker 1>the Kangol Hat, take him out of whatever. In c

0:28:09.080 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 1>I S City, he's in Everybody's in a Damp Show?

0:28:13.800 --> 0:28:16.159
<v Speaker 1>Or C S I. Which one is the one with

0:28:16.320 --> 0:28:22.680
<v Speaker 1>the goth girl who's like the forensics, Yes, the Polly Parette, right,

0:28:23.160 --> 0:28:25.760
<v Speaker 1>I think so, Yeah, I think it's n C I S.

0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:28.920
<v Speaker 1>Maybe I think she left she had a stalker and

0:28:29.000 --> 0:28:33.920
<v Speaker 1>it was a wild story. I love sker not for

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:37.720
<v Speaker 1>their safety, but stalkers in general, just like amuse me

0:28:38.520 --> 0:28:41.200
<v Speaker 1>because everyone seems like a stalker these days. If you

0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:43.640
<v Speaker 1>had to stop, if you were to stalk someone, if

0:28:43.640 --> 0:28:46.240
<v Speaker 1>you see someone's tweets, it's just like, oh, you're stalking me,

0:28:46.760 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, like if Laura darn saw like a gay

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:54.440
<v Speaker 1>tweets about her, just like, oh, stalker behavior. But the

0:28:54.480 --> 0:28:57.000
<v Speaker 1>stalker takes it to the next level of I'm outside

0:28:57.040 --> 0:29:00.800
<v Speaker 1>your house. Yeah, if that's stalk anybody, who would it be?

0:29:01.560 --> 0:29:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. I don't know what mine answer would be, actually,

0:29:04.560 --> 0:29:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I know it's like that sounds like a lot of

0:29:07.600 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 1>effort to stalk someone. If if you had a stalker.

0:29:11.760 --> 0:29:14.680
<v Speaker 1>Would you be secretly kind of into it? Oh? Absolutely,

0:29:14.680 --> 0:29:16.840
<v Speaker 1>I'd be obsessed and then pretend to hate it. Would

0:29:16.840 --> 0:29:19.800
<v Speaker 1>be like very Jena Maroni from Dirty Rock having like

0:29:19.880 --> 0:29:22.240
<v Speaker 1>a relationship with her stalker. That would be me. I'd

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:23.800
<v Speaker 1>just be like showing her up to places with my

0:29:23.920 --> 0:29:31.840
<v Speaker 1>friend's life guys, sunglasses on. I'm so sorry, I think

0:29:31.880 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 1>I was. Yeah, exactly, I had to get a gun

0:29:35.560 --> 0:29:41.040
<v Speaker 1>this week security. So Queen Latifa is doing all these

0:29:41.080 --> 0:29:45.160
<v Speaker 1>amazing activities and it turns out at the end she's

0:29:45.200 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 1>not actually dying because the cat scan of the department

0:29:48.320 --> 0:29:51.920
<v Speaker 1>store was faulty, right, which makes sense. Don't get a

0:29:52.000 --> 0:29:55.160
<v Speaker 1>cat scan at your local department store. And it doesn't

0:29:55.160 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>even it doesn't even seem like a Nordstrom kind of

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:03.520
<v Speaker 1>department store. It seems like Sears Level or Coals. It's

0:30:03.560 --> 0:30:08.520
<v Speaker 1>called Coles has become a through line of this podcast.

0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:10.760
<v Speaker 1>Did you spend a lot of time at Coles as

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:13.400
<v Speaker 1>a as a youth? Oh? Yeah, all of my outfits

0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:15.280
<v Speaker 1>are from Coles. Is my favorite place to shop as

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:19.200
<v Speaker 1>a child, spot you can get back to school. Yeah,

0:30:19.520 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 1>I have never jeans on sale. I've never been inside

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 1>of Coles. Wow. Well, we went to Sears. I'm from Florida, Okay, yeah,

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:33.480
<v Speaker 1>from Milwaukee. Calls was very Midwest. How much cold cash?

0:30:33.520 --> 0:30:40.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you have? Too much? I could last holiday, but

0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:45.240
<v Speaker 1>I won't, but you good? Yes, Yes, I worked at

0:30:45.280 --> 0:30:49.040
<v Speaker 1>a department store. Walk worked at Macy's. No way, what

0:30:49.120 --> 0:30:51.680
<v Speaker 1>did you do? I worked in the women's shoe department.

0:30:51.880 --> 0:30:55.720
<v Speaker 1>Of course, I also worked at a department store. I

0:30:55.840 --> 0:30:58.760
<v Speaker 1>worked at Bloomingdale's and worked in the men's shoe department.

0:31:00.160 --> 0:31:02.920
<v Speaker 1>But I worked at the blooming Deals in Soho Um

0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:06.640
<v Speaker 1>for six months and then on New Year's Day, I

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 1>had done a bunch of ecstasy the night before, and

0:31:09.560 --> 0:31:11.720
<v Speaker 1>I was on the floor and was like the most

0:31:11.800 --> 0:31:14.480
<v Speaker 1>hungover I've ever been. And I just looked around and said,

0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:16.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do this anymore and walked out.

0:31:17.240 --> 0:31:19.719
<v Speaker 1>You walked out kind of like Queen Lativa did, now

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:22.760
<v Speaker 1>that I'm thinking about it, And I remember for weeks afterwards,

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 1>um my manager like thought, I was in rehab and

0:31:26.720 --> 0:31:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I was just watching Veronica Mars at home. Parallel taste.

0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I worked at the mazeas in Um Milwaukee, which also

0:31:34.760 --> 0:31:36.920
<v Speaker 1>mass and blooming Gales are basically the same store. Well,

0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:41.040
<v Speaker 1>their parents coming yeah, yeah, um, sister, it's always wild

0:31:41.080 --> 0:31:43.440
<v Speaker 1>thing like the Beverly Center. Here, it's like it's a

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 1>maze's here, blooming gals, here be one store. Um. I

0:31:48.000 --> 0:31:51.160
<v Speaker 1>worked in Milwaukee. It was so I moved here in

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:55.080
<v Speaker 1>there's a brief period where right when I moved here,

0:31:56.120 --> 0:31:58.160
<v Speaker 1>I went broke and then I went home. For like

0:31:58.800 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 1>three four months, I worked at the Macy's shoot apartment there,

0:32:04.320 --> 0:32:06.880
<v Speaker 1>and I like just itching to get back to l A.

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what am I doing here? And basically every

0:32:10.040 --> 0:32:14.760
<v Speaker 1>day to keep myself staying, I just told lies just

0:32:15.040 --> 0:32:19.840
<v Speaker 1>fantastic lives are Like my coworkers what kind of like

0:32:20.040 --> 0:32:23.720
<v Speaker 1>I think? I told them I was engaged. Love, that's good.

0:32:23.840 --> 0:32:25.440
<v Speaker 1>It's like, you know, I just got to get back

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:28.760
<v Speaker 1>to l A. You know, behind like my fiance he's there.

0:32:29.440 --> 0:32:32.880
<v Speaker 1>What did your fiance do in this scenario? He worked

0:32:32.960 --> 0:32:36.520
<v Speaker 1>in the music industry? I'm sure, yeah, I Love. Do

0:32:36.600 --> 0:32:38.680
<v Speaker 1>you have any other poignant memories of working in a

0:32:38.760 --> 0:32:45.720
<v Speaker 1>department store either you? Well, so did you work on commission? Yes? So,

0:32:45.920 --> 0:32:49.680
<v Speaker 1>like the like the older people at the department store.

0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:52.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean it makes sense because capitalism, right, who work

0:32:52.760 --> 0:33:00.160
<v Speaker 1>on commission like they are throw it commercial. It's if

0:33:00.200 --> 0:33:02.960
<v Speaker 1>they see you talking to a customer that they like

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 1>made even brief eye contact what they walked in the store,

0:33:06.400 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 1>they will be up next to you like that's my customer, Ira.

0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, al right, girl, get your commission. It's also

0:33:14.800 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 1>such a the I think the scammiest thing about working

0:33:17.680 --> 0:33:20.600
<v Speaker 1>in a department store is signing people up for credit cards. Yes,

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, Okay. I used to work in American

0:33:23.680 --> 0:33:26.440
<v Speaker 1>Apparel R I P. M at the Flagship in New York,

0:33:26.480 --> 0:33:28.320
<v Speaker 1>and we also worked on commission and they would have

0:33:28.480 --> 0:33:32.560
<v Speaker 1>a white board with everybody's like commission sales on it

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:35.840
<v Speaker 1>and like arrange people and rank them. So that was

0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:38.320
<v Speaker 1>the first thing you saw when you like clocked into

0:33:38.360 --> 0:33:42.280
<v Speaker 1>work every day. It's also evil because for us, like

0:33:42.760 --> 0:33:44.800
<v Speaker 1>I think most people have figured it out. But you

0:33:44.920 --> 0:33:48.160
<v Speaker 1>can return anything to a department store. And the thing

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:53.200
<v Speaker 1>about Macy's was it used to be um Marshals um,

0:33:53.840 --> 0:33:57.400
<v Speaker 1>and so you could return things that like you would

0:33:57.480 --> 0:34:01.080
<v Speaker 1>bought at Marshal's and like the nineties, you return anything.

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:03.480
<v Speaker 1>That's the policy. I could take my bra off right

0:34:03.520 --> 0:34:06.800
<v Speaker 1>now and return it at a Macy's anywhere in they

0:34:06.960 --> 0:34:09.200
<v Speaker 1>take anything, and so The thing is you work on

0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:13.520
<v Speaker 1>commission in Milwaukee, like it snows there. The thing that

0:34:13.640 --> 0:34:16.080
<v Speaker 1>people would do would they would go and buy shoes

0:34:16.200 --> 0:34:18.640
<v Speaker 1>for like the holidays are like New Year's or whatever,

0:34:18.800 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>and then return them at the beginning of the year.

0:34:21.560 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 1>So like the money that you make on commission, when

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>someone returns it, that money comes back from dark yanked.

0:34:28.880 --> 0:34:31.360
<v Speaker 1>It gets yanked from you. So like you could have

0:34:31.520 --> 0:34:34.839
<v Speaker 1>a good ask Christmas and then in January when someone

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:38.560
<v Speaker 1>returns ship, like you have a bad year. Chat. Yeah,

0:34:38.680 --> 0:34:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that. I mean I was so Yeah.

0:34:41.040 --> 0:34:43.279
<v Speaker 1>I had moments where I would see a person that

0:34:43.360 --> 0:34:45.239
<v Speaker 1>I had helped walk back in the store like a

0:34:45.320 --> 0:34:49.400
<v Speaker 1>week later and just be crushed because I knew I

0:34:49.560 --> 0:34:51.840
<v Speaker 1>never noticed. I was laser. I only worked in American

0:34:51.880 --> 0:34:53.920
<v Speaker 1>mile for two months, but I was laser focused on

0:34:54.040 --> 0:34:57.280
<v Speaker 1>being like sop top sales person because at the flash

0:34:57.320 --> 0:35:01.320
<v Speaker 1>of American Apparel, the target demographics were like trust fund babies,

0:35:02.080 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 1>their mom's, gay guys, and then like girls looking for

0:35:06.600 --> 0:35:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Halloween costumes or girls looking for like outfits for their birthday.

0:35:10.239 --> 0:35:12.640
<v Speaker 1>And I am like the perfect person to sell close

0:35:12.719 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>to all of those people. You know what I mean,

0:35:15.080 --> 0:35:19.160
<v Speaker 1>you are um Ira. What was your sales style? Like

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:22.319
<v Speaker 1>how did you get people to buy things? It would

0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:24.640
<v Speaker 1>just sort of like you have to lead into the game.

0:35:25.600 --> 0:35:28.680
<v Speaker 1>A girl look so good, like come on, give me

0:35:28.680 --> 0:35:33.360
<v Speaker 1>a little walk. That would work on me. Actually no,

0:35:33.960 --> 0:35:35.919
<v Speaker 1>I don't know because when I go into a store,

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:38.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't want anyone to talk to me. And that's

0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:42.480
<v Speaker 1>the problem too. It's like being on that side, but

0:35:42.600 --> 0:35:44.320
<v Speaker 1>knowing when I walk into a store, it was like,

0:35:44.560 --> 0:35:46.920
<v Speaker 1>leave me alone. Yeah, I will ask you for help

0:35:47.000 --> 0:35:50.600
<v Speaker 1>if I need it, But to size great, give me

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 1>this like you walk into it, like the Bloomingdale's here,

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:56.080
<v Speaker 1>Like you walk into I was like, you're looking at

0:35:56.200 --> 0:35:58.640
<v Speaker 1>one shirt? Can I start a room for you? Baby? No?

0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:04.320
<v Speaker 1>You cannot. God, okay. I My technique doing sales was

0:36:04.480 --> 0:36:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I would walk up and I would say, uh, and

0:36:07.480 --> 0:36:09.880
<v Speaker 1>if you need anything else, my name is Francisco, like

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:12.759
<v Speaker 1>San Francisco. Because they need to remember your name at

0:36:12.760 --> 0:36:15.640
<v Speaker 1>the register. You gotta give them you gotta have a gimmick. Yeah, yeah,

0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:17.719
<v Speaker 1>And that was always my thing, which is an insane

0:36:17.880 --> 0:36:20.080
<v Speaker 1>thing to say to a person. They would always be

0:36:20.120 --> 0:36:22.360
<v Speaker 1>like why didn't you just but that it would they

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:24.560
<v Speaker 1>would always remember my name. But I used to. I

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:27.800
<v Speaker 1>picked up at least two, if not three different guys

0:36:27.960 --> 0:36:31.440
<v Speaker 1>while working at American Apparel. American Apparel was very crazy.

0:36:31.640 --> 0:36:39.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah crazy and yeah yeah people were gay idiots

0:36:39.200 --> 0:36:43.200
<v Speaker 1>and gay shoplifters and like that was the shoplifting t

0:36:43.760 --> 0:36:46.319
<v Speaker 1>was insane. I had friends. I had a friend who

0:36:46.440 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 1>worked at American Apparel, like right after college and had

0:36:49.680 --> 0:36:52.560
<v Speaker 1>figured out how to make it so that just when

0:36:52.640 --> 0:36:55.480
<v Speaker 1>they rang people up, it was like zeroed out. So

0:36:55.560 --> 0:36:57.239
<v Speaker 1>they would have their friends come in and bring them

0:36:57.280 --> 0:36:58.880
<v Speaker 1>up at the register and they would just leave with

0:36:59.200 --> 0:37:01.960
<v Speaker 1>bags of cloth. We would do that too, or in backstop,

0:37:02.000 --> 0:37:05.040
<v Speaker 1>you like stuff or bags or whatever. Um. I used

0:37:05.040 --> 0:37:10.000
<v Speaker 1>to steal from a Banana Republic like college. The Banana

0:37:10.040 --> 0:37:16.759
<v Speaker 1>Republic game was and and m was the easiest to

0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:19.880
<v Speaker 1>steal from. Yeah, it has become it has become so

0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:23.880
<v Speaker 1>much harder to steal. But I've noticed on TikTok now

0:37:23.960 --> 0:37:27.720
<v Speaker 1>there's some people who make um like shoplifting hack videos

0:37:27.840 --> 0:37:33.080
<v Speaker 1>about where you can get away with it, and you

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 1>know what, I you know what I love about shoplifting

0:37:35.280 --> 0:37:39.799
<v Speaker 1>is people really think that they are like Carmen San

0:37:39.880 --> 0:37:43.920
<v Speaker 1>Diego level spy getting away with it. No one knows

0:37:44.080 --> 0:37:47.160
<v Speaker 1>when they're walking around targets stealing things like baby Girl.

0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:51.399
<v Speaker 1>They know that they just don't care. The jig is up.

0:37:51.640 --> 0:37:55.440
<v Speaker 1>They know that you are taking that like Hayndes underwear,

0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:58.120
<v Speaker 1>like whatever. The only people who know, the only people

0:37:58.160 --> 0:38:01.520
<v Speaker 1>who care are lost prevention. I don't care. I see

0:38:01.520 --> 0:38:04.320
<v Speaker 1>you stealing something. I have a good day. I'm not

0:38:04.480 --> 0:38:07.279
<v Speaker 1>chasing you out the store of this Gap. I did

0:38:07.400 --> 0:38:09.160
<v Speaker 1>used to work at a GAP at a Banana Republic.

0:38:11.440 --> 0:38:13.920
<v Speaker 1>Used to work at a Banana Republic also my my

0:38:14.040 --> 0:38:17.120
<v Speaker 1>senior year of high school, like very briefly I worked.

0:38:17.200 --> 0:38:21.600
<v Speaker 1>So I worked at Gap in undergrad and during the

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:29.600
<v Speaker 1>Red Campaign, by the way, and very very at the

0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:33.160
<v Speaker 1>Michigan Avenue of Chicago one so like I was so

0:38:33.320 --> 0:38:38.040
<v Speaker 1>sad that I started the day after like they got

0:38:38.080 --> 0:38:40.120
<v Speaker 1>the job and then they scheduled my first day for

0:38:40.280 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 1>the day after Oprah like came to the store and

0:38:43.280 --> 0:38:47.000
<v Speaker 1>at the Red campaign on TV. Fuck you gap um.

0:38:47.480 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 1>But then I went to Banana Republic. Uh, And Banana

0:38:52.200 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 1>Republic was the job that I used to transfer to.

0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:58.600
<v Speaker 1>When I moved to New York. I worked at the

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:01.879
<v Speaker 1>rock Fellow Center. Been a Republic. I think I worked

0:39:01.920 --> 0:39:07.279
<v Speaker 1>for eight shifts day. I just stopped coming in. That's

0:39:07.280 --> 0:39:08.960
<v Speaker 1>how you have to do it in retail because like

0:39:09.600 --> 0:39:13.360
<v Speaker 1>we're in, when you're working in retail, everyone's interchangeable, like

0:39:13.520 --> 0:39:16.359
<v Speaker 1>they will forget about you immediately. I'm I'm a really

0:39:16.440 --> 0:39:18.600
<v Speaker 1>bad retail employee. I do not know how to sell

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:21.799
<v Speaker 1>to people. I don't care if they buy anything. I'm

0:39:21.840 --> 0:39:24.600
<v Speaker 1>just they're trying to, you know, like get my money.

0:39:24.960 --> 0:39:27.680
<v Speaker 1>The best job was, honestly being at the cash register

0:39:28.160 --> 0:39:30.879
<v Speaker 1>because turn off your brain and you were scanning people.

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Don't put me on the sales floor. Also, I have

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:37.400
<v Speaker 1>to say in Bloomingdale's, the music that they played was hitting.

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who was making those playlists, but I

0:39:40.239 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 1>heard it put me onto a lot of things. But

0:39:42.680 --> 0:39:46.680
<v Speaker 1>like before they came out, So I mean, thank you too,

0:39:46.719 --> 0:39:51.400
<v Speaker 1>whoever I constantly heard. Is it any wonder it was?

0:39:52.640 --> 0:40:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I loved? Was it okay? So this is taking us

0:40:07.080 --> 0:40:10.440
<v Speaker 1>back to sort of, you know, like the moment I

0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:12.800
<v Speaker 1>guess that last holiday was released in you know, like

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 1>early mid adds culture. Yeah, two thousand six. Um, Queen

0:40:19.760 --> 0:40:23.800
<v Speaker 1>Latifa was I think hot off the heels of Chicago

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:27.000
<v Speaker 1>and she had done Taxi beauty shop, like she was

0:40:27.080 --> 0:40:29.080
<v Speaker 1>in a lot of these, and this was really her

0:40:29.239 --> 0:40:33.200
<v Speaker 1>first rom com roll because she had always been you know,

0:40:33.320 --> 0:40:37.120
<v Speaker 1>she was Matron Mama Morton and Chicago, and she kind

0:40:37.160 --> 0:40:43.680
<v Speaker 1>of always did like buddy comedy movies and which I

0:40:43.800 --> 0:40:46.960
<v Speaker 1>used to own bringing down the house. But this was

0:40:47.120 --> 0:40:52.960
<v Speaker 1>her first leading lady rom com roll, and unfortunately it

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:57.680
<v Speaker 1>was a flop. Yeah, it's sad because it's so good.

0:40:57.840 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 1>It's so good, holds up. I think it's really funny.

0:41:00.719 --> 0:41:04.440
<v Speaker 1>She's so charismatic carry like the plant of it in

0:41:04.560 --> 0:41:07.640
<v Speaker 1>and of itself is like obviously very predictable, but she

0:41:07.920 --> 0:41:11.040
<v Speaker 1>well it's also based on it's a rewike of like

0:41:11.120 --> 0:41:14.239
<v Speaker 1>a nineteen fifties you know movie or whatever. But she's

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:17.319
<v Speaker 1>like so charismatic and she like carries and there's I mean,

0:41:17.800 --> 0:41:22.120
<v Speaker 1>there had never been really a rom com with someone

0:41:22.239 --> 0:41:25.000
<v Speaker 1>like her as like, you know, the romantic lead, you

0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:27.279
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. I think I'm thinking a lot

0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:30.400
<v Speaker 1>about um. Do you remember when like Rebel Wilson was

0:41:30.560 --> 0:41:35.080
<v Speaker 1>like she was like I also I also tried to

0:41:36.360 --> 0:41:40.680
<v Speaker 1>personal beat well. First of all, background was like Rebel

0:41:40.719 --> 0:41:44.720
<v Speaker 1>Wilson was all like I'm the first plus size person

0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:47.560
<v Speaker 1>to be in a romantically blah blah blah, and everyone

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:50.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, Um, Queen Latifa is right there, Ricky Lake

0:41:50.880 --> 0:41:54.160
<v Speaker 1>is right there. I don't know if that was I

0:41:54.200 --> 0:41:55.879
<v Speaker 1>don't know if that was a great Rebel Wilson because

0:41:55.920 --> 0:41:58.719
<v Speaker 1>she saw Australia. Oh is she really? I actually had

0:41:58.800 --> 0:42:03.520
<v Speaker 1>no idea. Well, she's my Nemessida tell us Okay, So

0:42:04.040 --> 0:42:06.279
<v Speaker 1>I was it. When I was still a journalist. I

0:42:06.400 --> 0:42:11.120
<v Speaker 1>was in London for the Cats Junket, and you know

0:42:11.360 --> 0:42:14.960
<v Speaker 1>for that movie, everyone had to be like pre approved

0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:18.719
<v Speaker 1>by the talents teams for you to be interviewing them. Um.

0:42:18.840 --> 0:42:21.200
<v Speaker 1>The night before I was in my hotel in London,

0:42:21.320 --> 0:42:24.040
<v Speaker 1>I was on Grinder and someone hit me up and

0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:28.520
<v Speaker 1>and said like, you look like Rebel Wilson. And I said, oh,

0:42:28.640 --> 0:42:31.359
<v Speaker 1>that's funny, which I was like, I didn't know if

0:42:31.400 --> 0:42:34.359
<v Speaker 1>it was a compliment or not. I think she's pretty um,

0:42:34.840 --> 0:42:37.440
<v Speaker 1>but I thought it was funny because I was interviewing

0:42:37.480 --> 0:42:39.520
<v Speaker 1>her the next day. So I took a screenshot of

0:42:39.600 --> 0:42:41.840
<v Speaker 1>it and tweeted it and said like, l O L

0:42:42.000 --> 0:42:44.680
<v Speaker 1>this is, you know, funny because I'm interviewing her tomorrow.

0:42:45.520 --> 0:42:49.879
<v Speaker 1>I showed up to check in and the PR girl

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:51.840
<v Speaker 1>who was leading the junket, was like, um, just so

0:42:52.000 --> 0:42:56.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, you won't be interviewing Rebel anymore. And and

0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:59.840
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, can you tell me why? And

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:02.760
<v Speaker 1>she said, okay, I'll get back to you, and hours

0:43:02.880 --> 0:43:07.920
<v Speaker 1>later they said yeah, apparently her publicists just like you know,

0:43:08.200 --> 0:43:11.640
<v Speaker 1>said that they changed their minds about having you interview her.

0:43:12.120 --> 0:43:14.840
<v Speaker 1>And I did. I do think that her publicist was

0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:18.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, like trolling like or like looked up all

0:43:18.360 --> 0:43:20.360
<v Speaker 1>the journalists to make sure no one was gonna, you know,

0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:23.800
<v Speaker 1>like catch her out with a question or whatever. You

0:43:23.880 --> 0:43:25.839
<v Speaker 1>know what. I'm sure like the interview would have been

0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:30.640
<v Speaker 1>bad anyway, but that is my what have to say truly,

0:43:31.239 --> 0:43:34.200
<v Speaker 1>And also like because I think the problem was because

0:43:34.200 --> 0:43:35.960
<v Speaker 1>when I tweeted, I said, wouldn't it be funny if

0:43:36.000 --> 0:43:39.080
<v Speaker 1>I brought this up during the interview And I wasn't

0:43:39.160 --> 0:43:42.360
<v Speaker 1>going to. But also that would have been funny. And

0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:48.000
<v Speaker 1>those interviews, interviews are so awful, and when I when

0:43:48.080 --> 0:43:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I did them, I always tried to like make them

0:43:50.200 --> 0:43:52.960
<v Speaker 1>at least a little fun. And when you have a

0:43:53.160 --> 0:43:57.359
<v Speaker 1>good like good talent, they respond to it. For those

0:43:57.400 --> 0:43:59.719
<v Speaker 1>of you that don't know what a junket is, it's

0:43:59.760 --> 0:44:03.359
<v Speaker 1>based really like when they corral dozens of journalists, many

0:44:03.440 --> 0:44:06.360
<v Speaker 1>of them from like sealist and dealist, like you know,

0:44:06.600 --> 0:44:10.480
<v Speaker 1>media publications, and each of them gets two to four

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:16.080
<v Speaker 1>minutes to interview celebrities in this like death carousel of

0:44:16.239 --> 0:44:19.560
<v Speaker 1>like interviews, um for whatever movie. It is like that's

0:44:19.680 --> 0:44:24.480
<v Speaker 1>the same thing every time. At least you get a

0:44:24.520 --> 0:44:27.040
<v Speaker 1>little glam though sometimes because you're on camera for these junks.

0:44:27.280 --> 0:44:29.759
<v Speaker 1>But sometimes it can go wrong because sometimes they have

0:44:29.920 --> 0:44:34.680
<v Speaker 1>like one person doing hair and makeup and it can

0:44:34.760 --> 0:44:39.160
<v Speaker 1>be rough. I hate the weird hotel. It's like I

0:44:39.200 --> 0:44:41.800
<v Speaker 1>don't love I tried to make them fun, and I

0:44:41.920 --> 0:44:44.480
<v Speaker 1>think that's why I like some of the some of

0:44:44.600 --> 0:44:48.480
<v Speaker 1>the interviews I've done have like gotten like good response,

0:44:48.640 --> 0:44:51.080
<v Speaker 1>and I think if I had been able to interview

0:44:51.120 --> 0:44:53.600
<v Speaker 1>Rebel Wilson, we would have had a great time, a

0:44:53.800 --> 0:44:56.480
<v Speaker 1>great time because also I looked I'd like watched some

0:44:56.600 --> 0:44:58.520
<v Speaker 1>of the interviews she did afterwards, and I feel like

0:44:58.800 --> 0:45:01.479
<v Speaker 1>she was the one who was bringing up like, isn't

0:45:01.520 --> 0:45:04.520
<v Speaker 1>it so weird that like my my cat character is

0:45:04.600 --> 0:45:09.480
<v Speaker 1>naked and you can't see my vagina like whatever, Like yeah, um,

0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:12.880
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I mean back to the main part of

0:45:12.920 --> 0:45:15.960
<v Speaker 1>the discussion. I mean Queen Latifa, I feel like, I mean,

0:45:16.040 --> 0:45:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I were like, what's your relationship to like the cultural

0:45:18.840 --> 0:45:22.520
<v Speaker 1>relevance of Queen Lativa, Queen Latifa, either at that time

0:45:22.719 --> 0:45:24.920
<v Speaker 1>or now or like to me, like, I feel like

0:45:25.040 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 1>her charisma really carries what could have been like a

0:45:27.200 --> 0:45:29.919
<v Speaker 1>very mediocre movie, right, Like, if you put anybody else

0:45:29.960 --> 0:45:32.480
<v Speaker 1>in that role, it really would not have been an

0:45:32.520 --> 0:45:36.240
<v Speaker 1>engaging watch. But she's so delightful to watch and actually,

0:45:36.280 --> 0:45:38.480
<v Speaker 1>like Roger Ebert and other critics at the time kind

0:45:38.480 --> 0:45:40.839
<v Speaker 1>of said similar things, even if they, you know, we're

0:45:40.920 --> 0:45:43.719
<v Speaker 1>kind of shady about the film. I've loved her to

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:46.120
<v Speaker 1>live in single, you know, so like you grew up

0:45:46.160 --> 0:45:50.319
<v Speaker 1>on Miss Latifa, and um, that was a good era

0:45:50.440 --> 0:45:52.560
<v Speaker 1>for her. I mean, her career has always been so interesting.

0:45:52.960 --> 0:45:55.280
<v Speaker 1>I think because of that she was a black celebrity

0:45:55.600 --> 0:45:57.719
<v Speaker 1>and so it was sort of like she had this

0:45:57.880 --> 0:46:00.880
<v Speaker 1>relevance and also from like her hip pop career that

0:46:01.080 --> 0:46:04.600
<v Speaker 1>was before, which she didn't really do much of that anymore,

0:46:05.239 --> 0:46:07.040
<v Speaker 1>but it was just sort of She's just always a person,

0:46:07.160 --> 0:46:10.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, is like a celebrity, this Queen Latifa, you know,

0:46:10.520 --> 0:46:13.560
<v Speaker 1>like she is a a Staple. Uh. And it was

0:46:13.680 --> 0:46:16.399
<v Speaker 1>nice seeing her get to do this but didn't really

0:46:16.440 --> 0:46:18.680
<v Speaker 1>work out, you know, like you think about this, you

0:46:18.760 --> 0:46:22.960
<v Speaker 1>think about just right. Yeah, where she's like from she's

0:46:23.080 --> 0:46:30.719
<v Speaker 1>romancing Common. She is is a physical therapist who loves basketball,

0:46:31.080 --> 0:46:35.640
<v Speaker 1>and Common has an injury and she's working as his

0:46:35.719 --> 0:46:39.400
<v Speaker 1>physical therapist. But her sister is into Common. The sisters

0:46:39.440 --> 0:46:41.880
<v Speaker 1>like going on dates with Common, but they have and

0:46:41.920 --> 0:46:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I think the sister baby Paula Patton uh, and they have,

0:46:45.040 --> 0:46:49.279
<v Speaker 1>but they start to fall for each other. That seems inappropriate,

0:46:49.400 --> 0:46:55.120
<v Speaker 1>That seems like a professional boundary, maybe like the beginning

0:46:55.160 --> 0:46:59.400
<v Speaker 1>of a medical malpractice immediately sued. But I mean, I

0:46:59.480 --> 0:47:03.560
<v Speaker 1>think is I wonder if that movie was successful when

0:47:03.719 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Last Holiday wasn't. And I wonder if maybe, like you know,

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:13.600
<v Speaker 1>because Queen Lativa is queer question Mark and like she's

0:47:13.600 --> 0:47:17.640
<v Speaker 1>acknowledged it, she's acknowledged her partner okay recently, and so

0:47:17.840 --> 0:47:20.880
<v Speaker 1>maybe like there was some dissonance with her being like

0:47:21.280 --> 0:47:26.319
<v Speaker 1>a straight romantic lead in these rom coms. But don't

0:47:26.360 --> 0:47:30.720
<v Speaker 1>debut at number four behind Iron Man two, Robin Hood

0:47:30.960 --> 0:47:35.959
<v Speaker 1>and Letters to Juliet Oh, Letters to Juliett. I'm gonna

0:47:36.000 --> 0:47:41.000
<v Speaker 1>google right film stated theater seven days. Oh wow. But

0:47:43.800 --> 0:47:47.120
<v Speaker 1>but you know, like she put she put butts in

0:47:47.280 --> 0:47:50.000
<v Speaker 1>the seats because when we talked about Last Holiday, it

0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:53.840
<v Speaker 1>was Queen Latifa in Last Holidays. It could not have

0:47:53.960 --> 0:47:58.360
<v Speaker 1>been anyone else. She was the moment, she had the chrisma.

0:47:59.440 --> 0:48:03.880
<v Speaker 1>That movie was I'm sure written for her specifically, and

0:48:04.000 --> 0:48:10.160
<v Speaker 1>she slayed something that I only realized retroactively as well. Say, um,

0:48:10.280 --> 0:48:13.520
<v Speaker 1>Chloe and Hallie Bailey made their acting debut in this movie.

0:48:13.640 --> 0:48:16.120
<v Speaker 1>They play like five year olds in this movie. I

0:48:16.239 --> 0:48:18.200
<v Speaker 1>had no idea. I only saw like after I read

0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:21.480
<v Speaker 1>the IMDb um for Last Holiday. You know what the

0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:28.319
<v Speaker 1>one that was I think successful before that was um

0:48:29.200 --> 0:48:32.359
<v Speaker 1>Beauty Shot Oh yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. I mean

0:48:32.440 --> 0:48:35.520
<v Speaker 1>that was massive and that was Steel Magnolia's right. It

0:48:35.600 --> 0:48:37.960
<v Speaker 1>was supposed to like be a quote unquote adaptation of

0:48:38.000 --> 0:48:40.320
<v Speaker 1>Steel Magnolias or something like that. I don't know, but

0:48:40.480 --> 0:48:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I love that. I should say it was just sisters

0:48:43.560 --> 0:48:48.680
<v Speaker 1>in the Barbershop that's been off of Barbershop. Um, yeah,

0:48:48.760 --> 0:48:50.959
<v Speaker 1>but I think that. I mean, I don't know which

0:48:51.360 --> 0:48:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Like Rose and I watched this movie um Last Holiday, um,

0:48:56.239 --> 0:49:00.279
<v Speaker 1>and it was like for me like such a um,

0:49:00.640 --> 0:49:03.840
<v Speaker 1>it was such a like an example of like what

0:49:04.000 --> 0:49:06.120
<v Speaker 1>it means to like enjoy your life. And obviously, like

0:49:06.280 --> 0:49:08.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think the film is trying to make this commentary,

0:49:08.400 --> 0:49:10.879
<v Speaker 1>but it was very like, you know, fuck the man,

0:49:11.080 --> 0:49:13.200
<v Speaker 1>fuck your nine to five, fuck like you know, are

0:49:13.239 --> 0:49:15.800
<v Speaker 1>broken health care because like, well it's also very of

0:49:15.880 --> 0:49:21.200
<v Speaker 1>its time. It's pre Obama, pre recessional recession. You know,

0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:24.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna blow it all. Yeah, yeah, And I think

0:49:24.440 --> 0:49:28.120
<v Speaker 1>in the movie, she like she could her health insurance

0:49:28.200 --> 0:49:31.239
<v Speaker 1>doesn't cover the procedure she needs. Yeah, she goes to

0:49:31.280 --> 0:49:33.000
<v Speaker 1>see that woman and the woman tells her it would

0:49:33.000 --> 0:49:36.440
<v Speaker 1>be like a crazy amount of money to get the surgery.

0:49:36.520 --> 0:49:38.919
<v Speaker 1>But also I feel like, is that how much money

0:49:38.960 --> 0:49:44.200
<v Speaker 1>she spends going on this holiday? Die? Which is a serve?

0:49:44.719 --> 0:49:48.320
<v Speaker 1>It's it's it's I feel like movies of this ilk

0:49:48.719 --> 0:49:52.120
<v Speaker 1>always lead into that though that like capitalism is like

0:49:52.239 --> 0:49:55.360
<v Speaker 1>the man is bad, like bosses or mean workers, that

0:49:55.480 --> 0:50:01.080
<v Speaker 1>it never translates, but the world like that capitalism is bad.

0:50:01.160 --> 0:50:03.200
<v Speaker 1>Let me go spend all this money and buy all

0:50:03.239 --> 0:50:05.359
<v Speaker 1>these things that will make me happy before I die.

0:50:05.640 --> 0:50:08.480
<v Speaker 1>But they do make her happy, they would make me happy. Well,

0:50:08.600 --> 0:50:10.640
<v Speaker 1>but the moral that she learns at the end is

0:50:10.760 --> 0:50:13.840
<v Speaker 1>that it's actually she's actually not happy being all alone

0:50:13.960 --> 0:50:15.960
<v Speaker 1>in this place that she's dreamed of all her life.

0:50:16.280 --> 0:50:17.680
<v Speaker 1>She wants to go back and be with the people

0:50:17.680 --> 0:50:19.920
<v Speaker 1>who love her. But by that point L cool J

0:50:20.160 --> 0:50:23.279
<v Speaker 1>has flown to Prague to see her, to see her,

0:50:23.480 --> 0:50:27.920
<v Speaker 1>and she's dying, I love you. And it's very romantic

0:50:28.040 --> 0:50:34.200
<v Speaker 1>because because the nosy neighbor shows him her Possibilities book

0:50:34.400 --> 0:50:40.319
<v Speaker 1>and he's in it, which also she's right all back.

0:50:40.640 --> 0:50:43.879
<v Speaker 1>It's really creepy. She's cut out his picture and her,

0:50:44.680 --> 0:50:47.320
<v Speaker 1>She's cut out their faces and put them on a

0:50:47.480 --> 0:50:50.960
<v Speaker 1>wedding photo, which, oh my god, I didn't even think

0:50:50.960 --> 0:50:52.879
<v Speaker 1>about it. I don't know if I saw that, well,

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:55.560
<v Speaker 1>I probably would be flattered and I would be too,

0:50:55.640 --> 0:50:58.680
<v Speaker 1>but anybody else would be like what the fuck. But

0:50:58.880 --> 0:51:02.200
<v Speaker 1>also at the end of the movie, doesn't she she

0:51:02.520 --> 0:51:05.440
<v Speaker 1>doesn't the seat the boss or the CEO or whatever,

0:51:06.120 --> 0:51:12.040
<v Speaker 1>like yes of alleged and like she tells him like

0:51:12.360 --> 0:51:17.640
<v Speaker 1>life's worth living for, doesn't he want to jump because

0:51:17.719 --> 0:51:20.719
<v Speaker 1>he's like so destroyed by the fact that a woman

0:51:20.800 --> 0:51:23.160
<v Speaker 1>like Queen Latifa could have a better life than him

0:51:23.280 --> 0:51:25.719
<v Speaker 1>or something like. That's kind of why he decides to

0:51:25.800 --> 0:51:30.240
<v Speaker 1>commit suicide. Yeah, and also his assistant, who is his mistress,

0:51:30.400 --> 0:51:35.120
<v Speaker 1>has left him because Queen, because feeble power. Queen Latifa

0:51:35.160 --> 0:51:39.239
<v Speaker 1>was like, girl, you're better than him and this job.

0:51:39.400 --> 0:51:41.480
<v Speaker 1>You should do his job. Why are you sleeping with

0:51:41.600 --> 0:51:44.040
<v Speaker 1>him and being the mistress? And honestly they should have

0:51:44.160 --> 0:51:46.400
<v Speaker 1>gotten together. That's how the movie should have ended as

0:51:46.520 --> 0:52:07.160
<v Speaker 1>Queen Latifa and the red headed assistant. I do appreciate that. Like,

0:52:07.320 --> 0:52:09.399
<v Speaker 1>even though it is a rum come, I do feel

0:52:09.400 --> 0:52:12.719
<v Speaker 1>like when I watched this movie, it was predominantly spent

0:52:12.920 --> 0:52:15.800
<v Speaker 1>on like between Latifa, just like bibing, you know, just

0:52:15.920 --> 0:52:20.040
<v Speaker 1>like enjoying her life. The makeover Vermontage, a magup Vermontage

0:52:20.080 --> 0:52:23.200
<v Speaker 1>for all makeup Vermontages. What are some of your favorite

0:52:23.239 --> 0:52:31.560
<v Speaker 1>makeup vermontag isn't God definitely clueless? Obviously Princess Diremies Devils

0:52:31.640 --> 0:52:34.960
<v Speaker 1>product that is that is, I mean, that is the

0:52:35.160 --> 0:52:39.160
<v Speaker 1>iconic one, and then you get yes, such a vogue

0:52:39.360 --> 0:52:42.920
<v Speaker 1>and then it in then it ends with you know,

0:52:43.120 --> 0:52:48.120
<v Speaker 1>the are those the which I think we as a

0:52:48.239 --> 0:52:53.200
<v Speaker 1>community as a community need to let that it. It's

0:52:53.239 --> 0:52:56.640
<v Speaker 1>gotta go that along with like high Gay or like whatever.

0:52:56.800 --> 0:52:59.040
<v Speaker 1>I think High Gay is like recent enough that it's

0:52:59.080 --> 0:53:02.040
<v Speaker 1>still funny and there's more permutations of it to be done.

0:53:02.400 --> 0:53:06.880
<v Speaker 1>It's been a very long time. It's it's been when Christmas,

0:53:08.200 --> 0:53:11.960
<v Speaker 1>people do right, but people do the right? Are you

0:53:12.080 --> 0:53:16.000
<v Speaker 1>the eighth grade report card that I had my mom's basement. Yeah,

0:53:16.200 --> 0:53:22.120
<v Speaker 1>it's like all right, like everyone makes it into a

0:53:22.239 --> 0:53:26.279
<v Speaker 1>new thing. Let it. Actually, as much as I love

0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:31.640
<v Speaker 1>that movie, Devil wors Product, discourse could leave the Internet. Well,

0:53:31.800 --> 0:53:36.560
<v Speaker 1>the real villain of the the real villain of the

0:53:36.600 --> 0:53:38.400
<v Speaker 1>Devil war Is product is the friends we made along

0:53:38.440 --> 0:53:40.880
<v Speaker 1>the way. I think I tweet it was in my

0:53:41.000 --> 0:53:44.520
<v Speaker 1>hey day. I think I tweeted that the real in

0:53:44.560 --> 0:53:46.440
<v Speaker 1>the Devil Words product is all of you who were

0:53:46.560 --> 0:53:51.600
<v Speaker 1>shut up about this movie. I mean, Devil wors product is.

0:53:52.320 --> 0:53:55.359
<v Speaker 1>Can we categorize as a rom com? Also? I guess

0:53:55.480 --> 0:53:59.040
<v Speaker 1>technically maybe it's a workplace comedy, and it's a workplace comedy,

0:53:59.080 --> 0:54:01.600
<v Speaker 1>But you know, in the antheon of rom coms. You know,

0:54:01.680 --> 0:54:04.080
<v Speaker 1>as we're talking about Last Holiday, what are some of

0:54:04.200 --> 0:54:09.120
<v Speaker 1>your favorites? Yes, what are the best rob coms? One

0:54:09.200 --> 0:54:11.799
<v Speaker 1>of mine is Last Holiday. We were just talking about

0:54:11.800 --> 0:54:14.600
<v Speaker 1>how those are. That's like, literally Rosen my favorite. I'm Christmas.

0:54:14.640 --> 0:54:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Maybe don't watch the Holidays. The holiday we're talking about,

0:54:18.239 --> 0:54:22.319
<v Speaker 1>last holiday, last holiday. The holiday. Pretty Woman of course

0:54:23.719 --> 0:54:28.200
<v Speaker 1>is really iconic and like it's a it's a rom

0:54:28.320 --> 0:54:31.320
<v Speaker 1>com about a SECS worker, which I think is like

0:54:31.800 --> 0:54:35.880
<v Speaker 1>pretty cool. My best friend's wedding, Oh, my best friend's

0:54:35.920 --> 0:54:40.600
<v Speaker 1>wedding is it is Julia Roberts does a rom com. Okay,

0:54:40.680 --> 0:54:45.160
<v Speaker 1>America Sweethearts not one of my favorites, but it's it's good.

0:54:45.280 --> 0:54:48.400
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, my best friend's wedding is the moment Cameron

0:54:48.480 --> 0:54:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Diaz's performance, and that is incredible. Yes, the scene in

0:54:52.600 --> 0:54:56.600
<v Speaker 1>the bathroom alone, I've never said that I would have

0:54:56.880 --> 0:54:59.640
<v Speaker 1>killed her if that. If I was getting married and

0:54:59.760 --> 0:55:02.080
<v Speaker 1>that was going on, I would have said, Julie Roberts,

0:55:02.200 --> 0:55:05.680
<v Speaker 1>you're dead. You've never seen it. Wait, this is my

0:55:05.719 --> 0:55:07.560
<v Speaker 1>best friend's wedding or yeah, oh, I have seen my

0:55:07.600 --> 0:55:11.320
<v Speaker 1>best wedding, and I remember empathizing with the diabolical nature

0:55:11.400 --> 0:55:14.480
<v Speaker 1>of trying to break up this marriage. I also love

0:55:14.640 --> 0:55:17.120
<v Speaker 1>the way it ends, because it ends with her not

0:55:17.440 --> 0:55:20.399
<v Speaker 1>winning and her being alone at the wedding and her

0:55:20.520 --> 0:55:24.120
<v Speaker 1>gay best friend comes and it's like, yeah, this sucks,

0:55:24.280 --> 0:55:26.200
<v Speaker 1>but like we have each other, who plays the gay

0:55:26.239 --> 0:55:31.320
<v Speaker 1>best friend again? So it opens up with like the

0:55:31.920 --> 0:55:38.480
<v Speaker 1>musical number that is that is cinema. Okay, that is

0:55:38.600 --> 0:55:41.400
<v Speaker 1>that is a good time at the movies. Marty Scorsese

0:55:41.560 --> 0:55:46.240
<v Speaker 1>agrees that is what we need back in film. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god. I think my ultimate rom com obviously is

0:55:49.520 --> 0:55:51.320
<v Speaker 1>going to be Moonstruck. I mean I have it like

0:55:51.400 --> 0:55:53.800
<v Speaker 1>tattooed on my leg. I guess that is. It is

0:55:53.840 --> 0:55:55.840
<v Speaker 1>a rom com technique. Yeah it is. It's like a

0:55:55.960 --> 0:56:00.279
<v Speaker 1>prestige rama, is it, I mean, is it? Yeah? Yeah.

0:56:00.320 --> 0:56:03.760
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna be like, because there's always the romantic dramas,

0:56:03.800 --> 0:56:06.520
<v Speaker 1>but it is a romantic comedy. It's comedy. Yeah, it's

0:56:06.560 --> 0:56:11.960
<v Speaker 1>intentionally comedic. I do. I do love a rom com.

0:56:12.600 --> 0:56:15.759
<v Speaker 1>And I think this era that Last Holiday came out

0:56:15.800 --> 0:56:18.560
<v Speaker 1>in was kind of the golden age of rom com

0:56:18.880 --> 0:56:21.879
<v Speaker 1>by the way they were really cranking them out, because

0:56:21.920 --> 0:56:24.719
<v Speaker 1>this was when j Lo was making all of her

0:56:24.840 --> 0:56:29.440
<v Speaker 1>rom coms. Kate Hudson, you know, the girls were working,

0:56:29.640 --> 0:56:32.239
<v Speaker 1>they were booked and busy turning these out a couple

0:56:32.280 --> 0:56:34.759
<v Speaker 1>of times a year. I love a teen rom com too,

0:56:35.120 --> 0:56:39.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, like, um, get over it never seen it

0:56:39.400 --> 0:56:43.960
<v Speaker 1>as a classic. Uh and then um, well the other

0:56:44.000 --> 0:56:46.240
<v Speaker 1>two I love like feel more like Devils was probably

0:56:46.320 --> 0:56:48.640
<v Speaker 1>probably work force comedy. It's like, don't tell me, I'm

0:56:48.680 --> 0:56:51.920
<v Speaker 1>the babysitter's dad as elements, but I think it's a

0:56:52.360 --> 0:56:56.320
<v Speaker 1>workless or a family comedy. Why would you classify that movie.

0:56:56.480 --> 0:56:59.919
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know these like kind of a family comedy. Yeah,

0:57:00.280 --> 0:57:06.640
<v Speaker 1>there's hijinks and working girl, but it seems more like workplace. Um,

0:57:07.200 --> 0:57:10.280
<v Speaker 1>just like Devil, But I don't know. I like Devil.

0:57:10.320 --> 0:57:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I love that we've shortened it Devil. I was on

0:57:13.719 --> 0:57:16.360
<v Speaker 1>the plane the other day watching Devil, and then people

0:57:16.400 --> 0:57:19.880
<v Speaker 1>think you're talking about the night movie. Oh, that was

0:57:19.960 --> 0:57:24.400
<v Speaker 1>a horrible movie. Just takes place on an elevator, Yes,

0:57:24.480 --> 0:57:26.560
<v Speaker 1>it did. The whole movie takes place on an elevator,

0:57:27.840 --> 0:57:30.640
<v Speaker 1>which is probably where I will die on an elevator,

0:57:30.880 --> 0:57:34.240
<v Speaker 1>really on the Tower of Terror. On the Tower of Terror,

0:57:34.440 --> 0:57:36.280
<v Speaker 1>so you would die going up, or you would die

0:57:36.360 --> 0:57:38.760
<v Speaker 1>in the actual right itself. Well, now it's guards in

0:57:38.800 --> 0:57:42.120
<v Speaker 1>the Galaxy. Oh it changed in l A. But in

0:57:42.240 --> 0:57:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Florida for like lawsuit reasons, because no, because they just

0:57:46.560 --> 0:57:51.720
<v Speaker 1>wanted to add a Marvel ride but tower. People have

0:57:51.880 --> 0:57:54.120
<v Speaker 1>died on the Tower of tot Also, have you seen

0:57:54.160 --> 0:57:58.160
<v Speaker 1>the Tower of Terror movie starring Kirsten Dunst. It was

0:57:58.240 --> 0:58:02.080
<v Speaker 1>a Disney Channel original movie about Tower of Terror. I

0:58:02.120 --> 0:58:04.960
<v Speaker 1>think it can maybe just a ride like as a

0:58:05.040 --> 0:58:07.960
<v Speaker 1>way to promote it. I feel like I've seen every

0:58:08.160 --> 0:58:13.320
<v Speaker 1>Disney Channel original every day. Yes you know that. I

0:58:13.600 --> 0:58:19.120
<v Speaker 1>that the girls were working specific age. If you were,

0:58:19.440 --> 0:58:23.000
<v Speaker 1>if you were watching Disney Channel as like like middle

0:58:23.040 --> 0:58:29.480
<v Speaker 1>school high school, you were like Friday Disney. If you

0:58:29.520 --> 0:58:32.600
<v Speaker 1>were our Lord and Savior Christy Carlson, Romano and newly

0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:36.800
<v Speaker 1>minted gay icon who also probably voted for drum Probably

0:58:37.080 --> 0:58:42.280
<v Speaker 1>um wait, I have seen this, Steve Guttenberg, Steve Gutenberg, Yes,

0:58:45.440 --> 0:58:49.120
<v Speaker 1>this is wild. If your life was a rom com,

0:58:50.280 --> 0:58:55.000
<v Speaker 1>what would the premise be? Love? I mean, I know

0:58:55.160 --> 0:58:59.040
<v Speaker 1>myself and my Leo behavior. My rom com would be

0:58:59.240 --> 0:59:02.760
<v Speaker 1>the one where like, oh, you're like you're you're like

0:59:02.840 --> 0:59:05.520
<v Speaker 1>in a high powered job and like you're you're sort

0:59:05.560 --> 0:59:08.280
<v Speaker 1>of mean and like you you yell at people and

0:59:08.400 --> 0:59:12.040
<v Speaker 1>then um, some like some person who like comes across

0:59:12.120 --> 0:59:15.840
<v Speaker 1>your path, Um, you find love? Love that I know exactly, Yeah,

0:59:16.200 --> 0:59:18.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, or like you know, I also think I

0:59:18.040 --> 0:59:22.000
<v Speaker 1>would be very much like intolerable cruelty like me and

0:59:22.120 --> 0:59:24.680
<v Speaker 1>my Like I could see myself in a rom com

0:59:24.840 --> 0:59:28.120
<v Speaker 1>where it's someone helps me find love, or it's the

0:59:28.280 --> 0:59:31.280
<v Speaker 1>reverse ones where it's like you are falling out of

0:59:31.360 --> 0:59:33.440
<v Speaker 1>love and you're feuding with your partner and then you

0:59:33.520 --> 0:59:35.320
<v Speaker 1>get back together at the ends, right right, you know

0:59:35.400 --> 0:59:39.560
<v Speaker 1>little Adam's rib moment. Mine would also be a workplace

0:59:39.760 --> 0:59:42.480
<v Speaker 1>comedy of some a workplace romcom of some kind, but

0:59:42.800 --> 0:59:45.160
<v Speaker 1>it would definitely be more of like an ugly Betty

0:59:45.240 --> 0:59:49.640
<v Speaker 1>scenario where I am, like, you know, executive assistant, like

0:59:50.000 --> 0:59:53.200
<v Speaker 1>can't fend for myself really like you know, just like

0:59:53.320 --> 0:59:55.560
<v Speaker 1>kind of bottom of the verial person in the environment.

0:59:55.560 --> 0:59:58.120
<v Speaker 1>And then it would definitely be makeover montage to like

0:59:58.560 --> 1:00:01.360
<v Speaker 1>win the guy or some thing like that. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe my boss. Maybe it'd be a little risque, like

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<v Speaker 1>there's an element of like, you know, uh, forbiddenness to

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship. But I'm sure woman assistant love that pretty

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<v Speaker 1>woman meets the intern. Yeah, the intern y Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>my rom com would just be She's the man starring

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<v Speaker 1>a man to mine. No, that movie is iconic remains

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<v Speaker 1>in like the non binary of Pam Beyond. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>truly a transnarrative. I mean, my rom comm would definitely

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<v Speaker 1>be like derivative of a Shakespeare play. As I think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like some of the best rom coms we

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<v Speaker 1>have are based on classic literature. That's our era, that's

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<v Speaker 1>our era. They were, they were studios were like, who's

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<v Speaker 1>the shakespeak another romo and Juliet Let Yeah, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to I want to do a rom com based on

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<v Speaker 1>the Tempest. That would be amazing. Get over it is

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<v Speaker 1>been somewhere nice dream by the way, no way, Kirsten

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<v Speaker 1>Dunt and they are doing a production of Midsummer Night's

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<v Speaker 1>Dream play within a play. Yeah you got you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>see this movie. It opens up with him him being

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<v Speaker 1>dumped and um vitamin C and the rest of the

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<v Speaker 1>town like show up behind him and saying Captain and

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<v Speaker 1>Tinneil's love will bring us together. I love that. So

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<v Speaker 1>as we talk about rom coms, I think rom coms

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<v Speaker 1>were the way that a lot of us like learned

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<v Speaker 1>what we thought relationships were like. But what I'm interested

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<v Speaker 1>in is things that we found like sexy as kids

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<v Speaker 1>are like that we thought were the models of what

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<v Speaker 1>sexuality were like, and so I'm really interested in, like

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<v Speaker 1>through media, what your first experience of something you thought

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of sexy, you're like erotic? What? So I'll

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<v Speaker 1>give my example, which is the Flintstones movie which one

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<v Speaker 1>Viva Rock Vegas the originally so first some reason halle

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<v Speaker 1>Berry and Kyle McLaughlin had to me this like insane

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<v Speaker 1>electric sexual chemistry. And I remember as a child being like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is hot and this is how like adults are

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<v Speaker 1>sexy with each other? Is there like scheming and like, um, barefoot,

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<v Speaker 1>I love a scheme? Yeah, Taylor was in this movie. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like made me feel like every romance he

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<v Speaker 1>pursue needs to have obstacles. Yeah, you can't just beat

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and start dating them. It's you have to overcome

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<v Speaker 1>them having another boyfriend, or it's like you are across

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<v Speaker 1>the globe from each other, or someone's scheming to keep

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<v Speaker 1>you apart. It's like you get turned on by obstacles. Unless,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, as we've discussed on this podcast before, it

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<v Speaker 1>is Twilight and there is no plot in the movie

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<v Speaker 1>at all, and there's no stakes to their relationship in

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<v Speaker 1>any way, and you're just in love and one of

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<v Speaker 1>you's a vampire. Yeah, Ira, what was your media sexual awakening?

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<v Speaker 1>I think about that. I mean it's so base, which

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<v Speaker 1>was I love horror movies, but you're like one elm Street,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, And it's it's not just like to like

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<v Speaker 1>the actual homoe erotic one. It's just like, wouldn't I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like those movies gave you like a hot guy

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<v Speaker 1>like a Johnny Depp or something. Yes, in a crop

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<v Speaker 1>top being stalked by the killer. Back to stalking, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>back to stalking. Honestly, this whole podcast is rounding to

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<v Speaker 1>a point, which is that stalking is hot and should

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<v Speaker 1>be more socially if you would like to stalk any

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<v Speaker 1>of us, and here are addressed security numbers. Here's my

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<v Speaker 1>preferred coffee shop Dred Pennsylvani. Yeah, we did it, Joe.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that could die too. That also could die. I

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<v Speaker 1>was with someone the other day who like earnestly was

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<v Speaker 1>like we did it, Joe, and like not even like

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<v Speaker 1>making you talk out of it, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're still doing that. It's been a year. Girl. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you do? Um? Do you have a wish

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<v Speaker 1>for the holiday? Like a holiday message to share with everyone?

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<v Speaker 1>I do you know? Um? Be kind to one another,

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<v Speaker 1>be kind, and most importantly, be kind to yourself. Spend

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<v Speaker 1>that money on yourself. That's right, Go buy a book,

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<v Speaker 1>buy a trip to Prague. Everyone should do their version

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<v Speaker 1>of like last Remember when everyone used to say, treat yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone should like last holiday themselves? Oh my God should

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<v Speaker 1>cast their falling? Did did Queen Latifa invent self care?

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you're like, If you're saving for something, look at

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<v Speaker 1>the world around you. Okay, look at it burning, and

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<v Speaker 1>take that thing you're saving for and go do something fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Just believing your possibilities. Yes, go to your sense, your

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