1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Time out for today's Strawberry Letter and if you need 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more. 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 2: Please submit your. 4 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com by clicking Submit 5 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: the air, just like we're gonna read this one right here, 7 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 1: right now. 8 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 2: You never know. It could be yours. 9 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, could be Buckle up and hold on tight. We 10 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 3: got it for you here. It is Strawberry. 11 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: Letter subject they want equal Treatment. They're Stephen Shirley. I'm 12 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: in my late forties and my sister in law is 13 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: my best friend. My brother is cheating on her, and 14 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: she found out from their six year old son. I 15 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 1: was keeping their son, and we went to visit my mother, 16 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 1: his grandmother. Well, my stupid brother had his girlfriend over there, 17 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: having a fish fry in the backyard. My mother was 18 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: in the house mad as heck, but my dad was 19 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,160 Speaker 1: outside with them because the woman has a. 20 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: Really nice body. 21 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: My nephew didn't see the woman, but my mother was 22 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 1: so upset that she unleashed a rant and the boy 23 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: heard it from the other room. He could not wait 24 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: to tell his mom, and she called me and lit 25 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: into me about it. I told her that I was clueless, 26 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: and she didn't believe me. My brother blames me for 27 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:15,839 Speaker 1: bringing his son over to our parents home. My brother 28 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: ended up moving in with my parents temporarily and continued 29 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: to date this side chick even though he was trying 30 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: to work things out with his wife. I am stuck 31 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: in the middle because he has me counseling the side chick, 32 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: begging her to be patient while he figures out how 33 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: to leave his wife. He's not leaving his wife, and 34 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: I want to tell his side chick that, but that 35 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: would be even messier. The side chicks want the side 36 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: chick wants equal treatment as his wife. His wife wants 37 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 1: it all. If he wants to go back home, she 38 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: wants a new ring and a recommitment ceremony with a big, 39 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: fancy honeymoon. The side chick said, if she's going to 40 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: stay with him, she wants a commitment ring and a 41 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: big vacation to a romantic island to prove he's all her. 42 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: I told him he's in way too deep and he 43 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: needs to get his affairs in order. I've been living 44 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: with this guilt for almost a year. My therapist said 45 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: I should come clean and be honest with both women. 46 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 2: Should I do this to my brother? Okay? 47 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 1: No, no, don't do this to your brother. 48 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 2: Okay, but you. 49 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: Got to look at what it's doing to you, and 50 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,240 Speaker 1: way more importantly, you can't do this to yourself. 51 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 2: You just can't. 52 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: You got to get out of the middle of this. 53 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: This is a mess, and this has nothing to do 54 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: with you. You're not cheating on anyone. You innocently took 55 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: your nephew to see his grandparents, and now you're getting 56 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: it from all sides. Your brother's mad at you, your 57 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: bestie's mad at you, and the side chick even has 58 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: something to say, and she shouldn't have anything to say 59 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: about any of this. 60 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 2: It's amazing to me, though, that a six. 61 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: Year old, a six year old little boy couldn't wait 62 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: to tell his mom about the side chick. I mean, 63 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,239 Speaker 1: he must be really advanced, because when we were kids, 64 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: you know, constantly heard the phrase stay out of grown 65 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: folks vis But his mom probably. 66 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 2: Put them up to it. I don't know. 67 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: Listen, you've got to stop blaming yourself in all of 68 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: this and stop letting your brother punk you, and his 69 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: side chick and his wife, your bestie. They're all using you. 70 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: You got to stand up for yourself. Tell them all 71 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: to kiss your behind. You could have, you had a choice, 72 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: kiss your behind, Tell them to work it out, and 73 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: tell them to leave it. Leave you out of it. 74 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: You can tell one. You could tell them one of 75 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: those or all of those. All it is is misplaced 76 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: anger on the wife's part and trying to place blame 77 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: on the brother's part, and trying to get something out 78 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: of it on the side chicks part. I mean, your 79 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: brother's manage you, yet he's the one cheating. Your best 80 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: friend is managed you, although it's her husband that's a 81 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: fault here. 82 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: I mean, I think you should get you some. 83 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: Business immediately, because clearly you have none because you're in this. 84 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: You got to stop feeling guilty and thinking you cause 85 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: this and get on with your life. I mean, you've 86 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: been going through this for a whole year now, feeling guilty. 87 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: You're the one that needs to get away. They need 88 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: to all pay for your trip, not them. They don't 89 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: need to go anywhere. And as far as your therapist goes, 90 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: fire him whichever. 91 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,599 Speaker 2: You're the one that gave you this bad advice about 92 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 2: coming clean. 93 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 4: Steve's excellent response, I think what you said is spot on. 94 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 4: I agree one thousand percent with everything you said. I 95 00:04:28,839 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 4: can't really add nothing to this except a very unique 96 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 4: perspective because there are some lies being told anything, and 97 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 4: that's where I come in. 98 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 2: I love it. 99 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 3: Now. 100 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 4: This woman that wrote the letters is writing because she's 101 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 4: stuck in the middle. Obviously, I'm in my late forties 102 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 4: and my sister in law is my best friend. 103 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 5: Okay, there you go. 104 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 4: My brother's cheating on her, and she found out from 105 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 4: the si son. So the aunt was keeping her nephew, 106 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 4: which is a six year old, went by to visit 107 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 4: her mother with her nephew, which is the mother's grandson. 108 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 4: Your dumb brother had his girlfriend over his mom and 109 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 4: daddy house, having a fish fry in the backyard. 110 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 5: My mother was in the house mad as heck, as. 111 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 4: Most women would be, but my dad was outside with 112 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 4: him because the woman had a really nice body. 113 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 5: I don't know if that's the reason. 114 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 4: I think the daddy was out there because for her, 115 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 4: the daddy was just being the daddy. See the problem 116 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,479 Speaker 4: in this letter is now you say your nephew didn't 117 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 4: see the woman, but your mother was upset and was written, 118 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 4: and the boy overheard in the other room, and he 119 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 4: couldn't wait to go tell his mom. And she called 120 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 4: me and lied into you about it, and I told 121 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 4: her you was clueless, and she. 122 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 5: Didn't believe me. Well, why would you take the boy, 123 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 5: the nephew over. 124 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 4: To your mother's house if you knew your brother was 125 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 4: over there with another woman. That's no way you would 126 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 4: have done that. Because you're a nice aunt. You wouldn't 127 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 4: have done that to the boy. But your dumb brother 128 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 4: over there. You know what the problem with your brother is, 129 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 4: He got too much support. 130 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 5: For his bs. That's what's wrong. And when we come back, 131 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 5: I'll explain it. All right. 132 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at 133 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the our thank you Steve subject 134 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 1: of today's Strawberry Letter. They want equal treatment. We'll get 135 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. 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The subjects they want 149 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: equal treatment. 150 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, this is kind of crazy. 151 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 4: This woman got a brother that's cheating, and she was 152 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 4: keeping the brother's son. 153 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 5: Who is her nephews. 154 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 4: Her best friend is her brother's wife, which is her 155 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 4: sister in law. 156 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 5: She go over to the house. 157 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 4: Her brother got a chick over there having a fish 158 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 4: fry in the mom and daddy backyard's ignorant to begin with. Now, 159 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: the mama in the house mad as heck, But you 160 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 4: say your daddy was outside with him because the woman 161 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 4: got a really nice body. My nephew didn't see the woman, 162 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 4: but your mama was so upset she unleashed the ranch. 163 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 5: The little boy heard it. 164 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 4: He couldn't wait to go back home and tell his mama. 165 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 4: Your girlfriend, who is your best friend, the sister in 166 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 4: law to your brother's or brother's wife, who was your 167 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 4: sister in law, and your best friend lit into you 168 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 4: because she thought you was in on it. You told 169 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 4: her you was clueless, and she didn't believe me. I 170 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 4: said before, why would you take the boy over to 171 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 4: the house and expose your nephew to some god? But 172 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 4: you had no idea he was over here and you 173 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 4: didn't take the boy in the backyard. You he just 174 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 4: overheard the grandmother talking. So now, what didn't happen? Because 175 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 4: it is your brother that ended up moving in with 176 00:08:54,600 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 4: your parents because Hee got put out, and he's continued 177 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 4: to date the side chick with the banging body, even 178 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 4: though he trying to work things out with his wife. 179 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 4: Now you say you're stuck in the middle because he 180 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 4: got you counseling the side chick, begging her to be 181 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 4: patient while he figured out how to leave his wife. 182 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 4: Then you say he ain't leaving his wife, and I 183 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:22,959 Speaker 4: want to tell the side chick that, but that. 184 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 5: Would be even messier. 185 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 4: Your brother is the one that's that fault in this 186 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 4: whole thing, first of all, cheating on his wife. Second 187 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 4: of all, he took the side chick to his parents' house, 188 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 4: having a fish fry in the backyard, the daddy out 189 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 4: there supporting the son and Now he got you counseling 190 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 4: the side chick. The best way to do people who 191 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 4: bring BS to you is let them lay in their BS. 192 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 4: Get out of the support system business. You don't ever 193 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 4: help nobody do wrong unless you're a man. Unless you're 194 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 4: a man, and this is your boy, it is our 195 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 4: obligation to help. 196 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 2: You whatever man. 197 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 5: Different rules. 198 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 4: If because I got news for you, Okay, now here 199 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 4: what okay? Hold on, now, let me help you understand this. 200 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 4: If your girl gets in trouble, you're gonna help her 201 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 4: because that's your color. Now, y'all don't ever talk about 202 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 4: that side of this. But y'all comes to each other's 203 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:32,719 Speaker 4: rescue because. 204 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 5: I've heard it. What does that have to do with 205 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 5: the letter? Nothing. It's just don't get mad at me 206 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 5: when I tell you that. 207 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 4: The only way you're supposed to get involved in this 208 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 4: is if y'all was boys. You should stay out of 209 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 4: this because your best friend is your sister in law. Right, 210 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 4: so you definitely shouldn't be counseling the side chick because 211 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 4: your brother got everybody involved in his BS. Now, the 212 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 4: side chick wants equal treatment as your wife. 213 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 5: Now listen to this. His wife, won't it all. 214 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 4: If he wants to go back home, she want a 215 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 4: new ring and a recommitment ceremony and a big fancy honeymoon. 216 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 4: That ain't just to show re commitment. She just really 217 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 4: wants some stuff. She didn't want some stuff really, because 218 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:28,839 Speaker 4: you're gonna take a man back and do that, knows 219 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 4: this is some themes. You're considering taking him back because 220 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 4: you want him back, but you want some themes with it. Recommitment, 221 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 4: bigger ring, fancy honeymoon. Yeah, but now here the problem 222 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 4: is the side chick said. If she gonna stay with him, 223 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 4: she want a commitment ring, a big vacation to a 224 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 4: romantic hollary to prove that he's all hers. I told 225 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 4: him he in way too deep and to get his 226 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 4: fans in order. Let me explain to you what's wrong here. 227 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 4: Your brother is telling both women the same thing. 228 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 5: That's what's wrong, yep. 229 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 4: Because if he was telling them the truth, both of 230 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 4: them would might not be demanding the same. But he's 231 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 4: telling both of them, I want to be with you. 232 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 4: Give me a minute to work this out. Getting the 233 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 4: divorce's difficult. Give me a minute. I'm working this out. 234 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 4: I gotta get this chick out my life. She tripping 235 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 4: this what or nothing? This wasn't even about her, right, Baby? 236 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 4: I want you because here what Bruh can't do. He 237 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 4: don't have the money for an apartment. That's why he'd 238 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 4: have had to move back in with his mom and dad. 239 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 4: Ain't no where in the hell. He got two rings 240 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 4: and he go on two. 241 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 2: Vacations romantic getaway. 242 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 4: So as soon as y'all quit supporting this BS, it's 243 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 4: gonna all come to a head. 244 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 5: Now. 245 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 4: You say you've been living with this guilt for almost 246 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 4: a year, that's because he got too much help. Your 247 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 4: therapist says, I should come clean and be honest with 248 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,719 Speaker 4: both women. Your therapist is. 249 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 5: A woman, because the man would never say that. 250 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 4: Ain't no way the only way a man would say 251 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 4: that if he wanted to sleep with you. 252 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 5: Your therapist is a woman. 253 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, and this ain't the time for that. 254 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 5: Yeah all right? 255 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: Steve hit us up on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM, 256 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. You can also check out the Strawberry Letter 257 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: podcast on demand. 258 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show