WEBVTT - Graham Norton: Britain's King of Late-Night

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Brian, Hi Katie So, Dame Judy Dench, Sir Elton

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<v Speaker 1>John and a talk show host walk into a studio

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<v Speaker 1>and sit down over drinks. It sounds like a setup

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<v Speaker 1>to a joke, doesn't it. But it's actually a typical

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<v Speaker 1>episode of The Graham Norton Show, the wildly popular British

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<v Speaker 1>comedy chat show. But if anyone is listening in the UK,

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<v Speaker 1>of course you know that our guest today is Graham

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<v Speaker 1>Norton himself and I am really tickled pink about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too, but maybe I'm not pink anyway. Listeners, remember

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<v Speaker 1>how we mentioned the last episode that we had something

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<v Speaker 1>special in store for you, Well here is a big

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<v Speaker 1>surprise everyone. We're coming to you today from London. That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>The pod took us across the pond. All we had

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<v Speaker 1>to do was at an end. The fine folks over

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<v Speaker 1>at the British Broadcasting Corporation invited us to record some

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<v Speaker 1>podcast episodes on their home turf and they didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to ask us twice. We're very excited to be here. This,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, won't be our only episode out of

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<v Speaker 1>London in collaboration with the BBC, so be sure to

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<v Speaker 1>stay tuned in the month ahead. Now, listeners, we like

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<v Speaker 1>analytics as much as the next podcast, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>know that most of you are not British. Perhaps you're

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<v Speaker 1>not familiar with Graham Norton or his TV show. Don't worry,

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<v Speaker 1>We're here to help you get acquainted. So the first

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<v Speaker 1>thing you should know is that the format of the

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<v Speaker 1>Graham Norton Show is essentially an a list cocktail party.

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<v Speaker 1>On camera. He invites several celebrities to sit down side

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<v Speaker 1>by side to chat and drink with one another. And

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<v Speaker 1>they're not just there to promote their latest projects. They

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<v Speaker 1>tell stories, they do impressions, even party tricks, and they

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<v Speaker 1>feed on one another's energy. The result is a rollicking

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<v Speaker 1>good time. It's incredibly entertaining. But Graham is not just

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<v Speaker 1>funning games. He is also an acclaim novelist and advice

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<v Speaker 1>columnists for the Telegraph, something of a British icon. I

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<v Speaker 1>just say he's just a plain old British icon and

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<v Speaker 1>frankly a guy who knows how to have a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>We began our conversation by asking him about the whole

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<v Speaker 1>spirit of the show and what it's designed to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Graham Norton, we are so excited a to be in

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<v Speaker 1>London and be to be sitting here with you. Well

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<v Speaker 1>vice eversy. I live in London, but the sitting with

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<v Speaker 1>you is exciting. I'm sure it's equally exciting for him.

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<v Speaker 1>So so I gosh, I have so many questions to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you, Graham, and I know Brian does as well.

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<v Speaker 1>But you've been doing your what do they call it

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<v Speaker 1>a chat show? Over here across the pond? We call

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<v Speaker 1>it a chat show for a long time, but but

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<v Speaker 1>in its current incarnation for about eleven years? Is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know, because I count from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>I count from when we started the Channel four with

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<v Speaker 1>a show called so Graham Norton and that was twenty

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<v Speaker 1>years ago this year. So thank you and in various forms,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing a chat slash talk show for that long, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and I genuinely I still enjoy it. I didn't you know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sort of extraordinary that you know that you would

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<v Speaker 1>get a job and be doing the twenty years later

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<v Speaker 1>and going, hey, it's a great job. And you do

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<v Speaker 1>it once a week every Friday night. You tape on Thursdays.

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<v Speaker 1>And I read that your goal is to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>everybody has a fantastic time. You're not there to poke

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<v Speaker 1>and prod people. That's our job, by the way here today,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's that's the difference. That's the difference

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<v Speaker 1>I think between kind of a news agenda and entertainment agenda.

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<v Speaker 1>I am not there to upset anybody. If people say

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk about what, why would I care?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care who you're dating. I don't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't If you're sick of talking about that film,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to bring it up. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not my job to upset you. And and also the

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<v Speaker 1>audience for our show don't want to see that. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to watch people be uncomfortable fort They just

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<v Speaker 1>want to relax and they wanted to be fun. They

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<v Speaker 1>want to watch some famous people on accouch having a

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<v Speaker 1>good time. And that's what we try to provide. And

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<v Speaker 1>you think this relax setting actually yields more from the guests,

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<v Speaker 1>right that, like, if they're comfortable, they actually will say

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<v Speaker 1>more about their lives and their backgrounds and all the rest,

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<v Speaker 1>and the audience will really get to know them. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of what I think. I think people if

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<v Speaker 1>if they're on guard. You know, these people, they're not stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>They've been around the block. They've been if not, they've

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<v Speaker 1>been media trained. But they you know, they know what

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing. So they're not going to tell you anything.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want to tell you. You know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>like asking O J. Did you do it? You know

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<v Speaker 1>he's not. That's there's no point. So, uh, if you've

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<v Speaker 1>watched people on the show, if you see the things

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<v Speaker 1>that makes them laugh, or how they react to a

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<v Speaker 1>shocking story, how they react to an anecdote or something,

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<v Speaker 1>it oddly is more of an insight into who they

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<v Speaker 1>are and the sort of person they are than to

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<v Speaker 1>just have them sat and chair by themselves answer questions,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, about their life or their career. You use

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Gosline as an example, when he laughed uproariously at

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<v Speaker 1>some story that he heard on your show, and kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what that revealed about him, his sense of humor,

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<v Speaker 1>his kind of naturalness, sensibility, because how cute he is

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<v Speaker 1>that we noticed already that was that was on festival.

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<v Speaker 1>But because they're because they because they share the couch

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<v Speaker 1>the guests, there's also really telling things about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the ones who are interested in the other people on

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<v Speaker 1>the couch, the ones that listen. There are some guests

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<v Speaker 1>and they are nameless, Seriously, they'll remain names. And they'll

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<v Speaker 1>sit there and I'll go, what are they looking at?

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<v Speaker 1>What are they looking at? And then I follow their

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<v Speaker 1>gaze and they're looking at the monitor that's at the

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<v Speaker 1>front of the little set for waiting for their close up,

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<v Speaker 1>waiting to see themselves. And I know that your idea

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<v Speaker 1>of a fantastic guest, and I would like to say,

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<v Speaker 1>just in advance, I would be a fantastic guest. This

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<v Speaker 1>is not my effort to book myself on your show,

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<v Speaker 1>but I did read that you like when people ask

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<v Speaker 1>other guests questions, absolutely, and you don't mind if they

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<v Speaker 1>kind of take the microphone from you and asked the

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<v Speaker 1>guests a question. And best shows, the best shows are

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<v Speaker 1>the ones where I sit in my chair and the

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<v Speaker 1>couch takes on a life of its own and they're

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<v Speaker 1>just talking to each other. And that's those are the

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<v Speaker 1>nights that I enjoyed the most, and I think the

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<v Speaker 1>audience do too, because if there's something sort of almost

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, sort of privileged about peering into

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of celebrity dinner party that you would never

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<v Speaker 1>normally be invited to. That it's like that dinner party

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<v Speaker 1>where you, you know, who would you like to have

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<v Speaker 1>dinner with? Dead or alive? Your guests happened to be alive. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>you're living that out almost every day, well every week, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And some of them I wouldn't choose after dinner. But

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<v Speaker 1>but well, we're going to get to that in a moment.

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<v Speaker 1>But actually I wanted to tell you both the funny

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<v Speaker 1>story to apropos of the asking a question. At one time,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on the Tonight Show when Jay Lenna was hosting,

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<v Speaker 1>and I came out and then there was a second

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<v Speaker 1>guest and I don't even remember his name, but he

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<v Speaker 1>was a young kind of actor and he was quite nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>and his big thing is that he could cry on

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<v Speaker 1>que as out, crying on to and or whatever. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was sitting at, you know, next him. But at

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<v Speaker 1>the Tonight Show, you don't kind of continue to engage.

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<v Speaker 1>You just kind of laugh and chuckling. You're sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like a potty plant. But when he said this, I

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<v Speaker 1>was waiting for Jay to say, okay, cry and he

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<v Speaker 1>never did. And it was It took all the strength

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<v Speaker 1>I had to not say ask him to cry, because

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<v Speaker 1>why would why would you bring it up if you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't going to do I don't know. I think there

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<v Speaker 1>must have been a miscommunication in the pre interview. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>so I I like asking questions. The guy who cries said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do anything you want except cry, right, And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just going to say that I can do it. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was going to ask you about the chemistry, grant,

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<v Speaker 1>because your show, obviously with three people on the couch,

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<v Speaker 1>so much of it depends on chemistry and how the

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<v Speaker 1>guests interact. Um has there ever been a moment where

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<v Speaker 1>the three I mean, it just did not seem to

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<v Speaker 1>gell at all. There are, oddly, there are some nights

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<v Speaker 1>when the guests are perfectly fine individually and the just

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<v Speaker 1>is zero chemistry. The funniest times is when that happens

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<v Speaker 1>is when they're all from the same movie. Sometimes we'll

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<v Speaker 1>have three or four people from the same movie and

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<v Speaker 1>you're watching them, think, Wow, that was a long shoot.

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<v Speaker 1>None like this. No bonding at all went on here.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly a lot of trailer time, separate trailer time went on.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you what do you do in that situation?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you get it kind of cranking? You don't,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. It's just not a very good show, really,

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<v Speaker 1>that's you know, And that's that's the nice thing about

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<v Speaker 1>having these long runs. You know, you do a bad show,

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<v Speaker 1>you go, we'll try about another one next week. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>do another one next one. How do you prepare? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we obviously read a lot of articles about you. I

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<v Speaker 1>know more about you than you probably know about you

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, Grant. But when you're doing a show

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<v Speaker 1>like that, do you read up on these folks or well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure it's the same when you did you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the morning shows and your talk show. You know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a team, so people will do. They do all the research.

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<v Speaker 1>They then write quite chunky boggs, I mean kind of

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<v Speaker 1>you know boggs, which I'll read. I read them on

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<v Speaker 1>a Tuesday night, and then we go in on a Wednesday,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's when we spend the day in the office

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<v Speaker 1>together and we kind of choreograph the interviews. So obviously

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<v Speaker 1>there's the core things we have to cover the product.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a film, a book, an album, whatever they have,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got to talk about those things. And we've got

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<v Speaker 1>to get all that right, and we've got to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about those things enough so that you know, the people

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<v Speaker 1>backstage are happy and the guests are happy, they handless.

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<v Speaker 1>And then and then we try to find the other stories,

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<v Speaker 1>the funny stories and what you're looking for, our moments

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<v Speaker 1>where you can say, oh, you had a funny story

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<v Speaker 1>about your first pet, and then you have a funny

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<v Speaker 1>story about your first pet, and now we've got there's

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation going about animals or whatever, and those are

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of things we try to find. We then

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<v Speaker 1>kind of knit all that together in a sort of

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<v Speaker 1>a sc ripped and then we do this bizarre thing

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't quite know how we started doing it,

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<v Speaker 1>but when we get into the studio on a Thursday,

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<v Speaker 1>we do address rehearsal and the yeah and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the researchers play the researchers play it again, and we

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<v Speaker 1>do it and they tell the stories and we do

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<v Speaker 1>all this and it gives you you kind of it's

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<v Speaker 1>only after that you kind of go, you know, what

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't talk for like twenty minutes, or that guest,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was ages before I got to them,

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<v Speaker 1>or there's too much of them at the beginning, or

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<v Speaker 1>that interview seemed to go on too long, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we have another meeting, we changed things around, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we do the show. But but, but I imagine it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to replicate the real thing because you never know

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<v Speaker 1>they're going to say. Because sometimes the guests are so

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<v Speaker 1>much better than the researcher, right, we know. The bad

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<v Speaker 1>ones are when the researcher told Jill stories and they're

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<v Speaker 1>really funny, and then the actual person tells their own

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<v Speaker 1>stories and it's like, oh, that was it was funny

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<v Speaker 1>this afternoon. I was gonna ask you, sort of on

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<v Speaker 1>that note, what makes a great guest on your show?

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<v Speaker 1>And what do you think is the best show you've

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<v Speaker 1>ever had? Oh? Um, the show that kind of uh

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<v Speaker 1>we I suppose a lot of us we think we

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<v Speaker 1>like it was. It was a show we did with

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<v Speaker 1>some of the guys for Monument Men. So it was

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<v Speaker 1>Matt Damon, Bill Murray, and Hu Bonneville from Downton Abbey.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just one. Matt Damon got a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>into the sauce. They all got quite into the sauce.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, we didn't even mention that you get people

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<v Speaker 1>snuckered before they is that the word what's the British

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<v Speaker 1>word for drying? I think they're like twelve sauce a

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<v Speaker 1>drink is available, case it's available. But you always have

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of Van Blanc, yes, because I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>think if I look, you know, if I look like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having a nice time, then maybe someone else will.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It's I ever get in the grip of

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<v Speaker 1>the grape. No, no, I mean I do not on television. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but the monument Men's Guys they came on and because

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<v Speaker 1>it was a really I can't remember, there was someone

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<v Speaker 1>else in that movie, and he canceled at the last minute.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the studio was saying, were like, Bill Murray

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<v Speaker 1>might show up, but he might not. We don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It all depends on he is a nice time of

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<v Speaker 1>the premiere. They might he might join the others. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that idea of scripting it and rehearsing it,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, that was all out the window. We were

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, we had no idea what the show

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be until we found out who was

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<v Speaker 1>going to rock up. And so Bill Murray did rock up.

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<v Speaker 1>He was in a great mood and that was one

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<v Speaker 1>of those nights where I did nothing. I just watched

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<v Speaker 1>the couch. I watched the couch and wasn't Matt Damon

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<v Speaker 1>really good as well? Why were they were all terrific?

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<v Speaker 1>They just told their stories. They made each other. That

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<v Speaker 1>was lovely was they made each other laugh so much.

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<v Speaker 1>They enjoyed each other. When you were going over the

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<v Speaker 1>script and you're really Jumper is a sweater? I actually

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<v Speaker 1>asked it to where will will dumb her everything? I

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<v Speaker 1>take my woolet Jumper, So in this scene in the

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<v Speaker 1>hot tip, am I going to be in my wooley

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<v Speaker 1>j have any guests of this show? And I suppose

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<v Speaker 1>that is what makes a good on a bullet that

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<v Speaker 1>time point, I don't know. Katie expression on a bull

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<v Speaker 1>well be useful to the bull if they were nursing

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<v Speaker 1>a baby bull, although bulls they can. Yeah, that's it, boy,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll work with you later, Okay. And useless and privileged

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time, because you know I have the

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<v Speaker 1>best seat in the house. Can I ask you something? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>clearly I can. Everybody shares a couch on your show,

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<v Speaker 1>except Hillary Clinton, who came on last year. Did she

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<v Speaker 1>have like a lot of handlers making a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>demands or why did you decide to put her on alone?

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<v Speaker 1>Because the only little window of opportunity we had with

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<v Speaker 1>her was I think eleven o'clock in the morning, so

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of thought, we don't want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>whole show at eleven o'clock in the morning. So we

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<v Speaker 1>have done these one on ones and they we either

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<v Speaker 1>start the show with the one of when we did

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<v Speaker 1>a one woman with Charlie Sheen was in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of the drug Yes it was. It was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>towards the end of that, but yes, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>long period and we just kind of, actually, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot to ask other people to actually, yeah, he's HIV positive,

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<v Speaker 1>so that we're very serious and we wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about stuff like that. So so we do occasionally do these, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>single interviews. So with the Hillary because we only had

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<v Speaker 1>the left frolock in the morning, so we get we

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<v Speaker 1>put out there saying, look, if anybody wants to come

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<v Speaker 1>and see an interview with Hillary Clinton at eleven o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, feel free. So audience full, six hundred

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<v Speaker 1>people there, six d people. They show up. They did

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<v Speaker 1>not see until I think a quarter past four in

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<v Speaker 1>the after I read that what she heard her foot. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right, and she was in a cast, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she had one of those boot things. Yeah. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was extraordinary because we didn't we literally did not know

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on. They didn't tell you anything. They

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<v Speaker 1>were telling us as much as they could, but they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know how badly she had hurt her foot. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what you know, what, was she going to

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<v Speaker 1>need surgery? Da dada? She did rock up and she

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<v Speaker 1>was you know, I think she was on pain medication

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<v Speaker 1>by the end of the That makes for an interesting interview.

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<v Speaker 1>A little pain medication next with a little caepernet. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no booze. I think I did have to because otherwise

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<v Speaker 1>it would looked weird if I didn't have one. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was good. It was good for me that it

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<v Speaker 1>moved in the afternoon. So but but by the end

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<v Speaker 1>you could tell that the what was causing her pain

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<v Speaker 1>and she was uncomfortable. But but nice that she showed up. No,

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<v Speaker 1>nice that she showed up. And and it was one

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<v Speaker 1>of those weird things where the minute and elections over,

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<v Speaker 1>you suddenly see who they should have been all along.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, her interview was so great. Why weren't you

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<v Speaker 1>like this? Why was it so great? Because she was

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<v Speaker 1>she was on guarded she wasn't trying to second guess everything. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this was after the election of the inauguration, so she

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<v Speaker 1>could let her hair down, and she'd written a book

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<v Speaker 1>where she'd kind of put it all in there. And

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<v Speaker 1>the book. Have you read the book? I haven't read.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to read it. It's on my list. It

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<v Speaker 1>is good. And what isn't it interesting? The things she

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<v Speaker 1>can't let go of? These we well know, but like

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<v Speaker 1>but weird. There's like an interview where they didn't ask

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<v Speaker 1>her enough questions about foreign policy and stuff, and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I know what interviews she's talking. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was on the Intrepid. So you enjoyed her a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>She was funny and she also talked about the inauguration.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a clip from that interview. Let's take a listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's weak Shakespearean right. You went to

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<v Speaker 1>the in racial and that was because you were first lady,

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<v Speaker 1>not because you're being right. And and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>really tried to get out of going. Um, I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was going, not as the candidate or the

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<v Speaker 1>opponent but as a former first lady, because the tradition

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<v Speaker 1>is presidents and former first ladies all show up, regardless

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<v Speaker 1>of Republican or Democrat, to show support continuity of our government. So,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I didn't know what to expect. What

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to have happened was despite the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>campaign he ran, I wanted him to rise to the

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<v Speaker 1>occasion of being our president and being the president for everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>not just people who supported him. That didn't happen. And

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<v Speaker 1>so we were we were sitting there listening. I was

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<v Speaker 1>sitting next to George W. Bush and Bill was on

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<v Speaker 1>my other side, and we were listening to this really dark,

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<v Speaker 1>divisive speech that I just scribe as a cry from

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<v Speaker 1>the white nationalist gut um. It wasn't an outreach. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a narrowing and a hammering of what he had

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<v Speaker 1>said before. And it's reported, so I put it in

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<v Speaker 1>the book. It's reported that George W. Bush, as it ends,

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<v Speaker 1>says that was some weird ship. She's so likable. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so funny to hear her just say that, right, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's just you just feel like if that woman had campaigned,

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<v Speaker 1>she had done a lot better. Maybe, although she would

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<v Speaker 1>have offended a bunch of people. She'd have gotten a

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<v Speaker 1>denial from George W. Bush if that had happened before.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean careful, but but but I think she was

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<v Speaker 1>too cautious and too careful. If she had let her

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<v Speaker 1>personality show in this warm, funny side of her, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it would have made a big difference. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was something I don't know whether it's about. Because she

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<v Speaker 1>was a woman, she felt she had to be better

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<v Speaker 1>and try harder, but she was. But she was all

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<v Speaker 1>about doing her homework. She was all about I'm prepared,

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<v Speaker 1>and I say, you are up against this guy who

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Like I said, she was worried about her

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<v Speaker 1>foreign policy. That guy couldn't point out American CDs on

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<v Speaker 1>a map, and nobody cared. She always, I think, seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like the prepared girl in the front of the class,

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<v Speaker 1>always with her hand up in the A yes's exactly

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<v Speaker 1>Tracy Flick. But you know, I have to just say

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<v Speaker 1>that watching that inauguration, you had to admire how stoic

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<v Speaker 1>and poise she was because it must have really driven

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<v Speaker 1>her crazy. And you know what she would have said

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<v Speaker 1>about that, I'm always liked best when I'm a victim.

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<v Speaker 1>She's made this point several times. Because she was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>hurt and defeated, people are more sympathetic the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>to happen when her husband cheated on her with Monica Lewinsky.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that is very gendered. Actually there's something

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because people though, oh, I you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>hate her some because when we announced she was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be on, you actually saw it was weird. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never encountered Russian bots before, but suddenly, well yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that's so weird. And sure enough, even when

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<v Speaker 1>the show went out, when it was going out in

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<v Speaker 1>real time, um, the feed was really positive. It was

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<v Speaker 1>real viewers in Britain watching an interview with Hillary, and

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<v Speaker 1>once the morning came and they were up in Russia

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<v Speaker 1>and they had time, they want, Oh that happened, we

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<v Speaker 1>better get in there. Suddenly you all this negativity, but

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<v Speaker 1>at a random time when the show wasn't on anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>The show, yeah it was, it wasn't interesting. But also

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<v Speaker 1>I do think you know, the way that people hate her,

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<v Speaker 1>You I think fair enough hate a politician, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>be feel free to head a politician. But to those people,

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<v Speaker 1>you've gotta think, is there a male politician you hate

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<v Speaker 1>as much as you hate her, and I think the

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<v Speaker 1>answer is no, And therefore that has to be something

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<v Speaker 1>to do with gender. Well, do you think that Margaret

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<v Speaker 1>Thatcher faced some of the same problems that Hillary Clinton faced.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sort of too young to really well. Actually, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say other female politicians, even Theresa May. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>Theresa A definitely, I think she does. Is it a

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<v Speaker 1>similar kind of misogyny in your view? Certainly, I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's that slightly um, you know, head girl. But but

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<v Speaker 1>also with her, there's almost a sort of masochistic about it.

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<v Speaker 1>She it's you know, that thing about wanting to be

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<v Speaker 1>a victim. She she walks into fire. I mean she

0:21:33.760 --> 0:21:37.199
<v Speaker 1>she wants it, she draws it on herself and in

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<v Speaker 1>a way, you know, after Brexit, you know, anything could

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<v Speaker 1>have happened when anybody who was Prime minister at that

0:21:42.640 --> 0:21:46.399
<v Speaker 1>point would have been a victim. But who wants that job,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like, get the job after it's happened. Don't

0:21:50.400 --> 0:21:53.920
<v Speaker 1>don't try to steer the country. You know in this inevitably,

0:21:53.920 --> 0:21:56.080
<v Speaker 1>whoever is prime minister right after Brexit is going to

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<v Speaker 1>have an impossible time. I think, yeah, and all the

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<v Speaker 1>boys scarpered and left it to head girl to clean

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<v Speaker 1>up the mess. She's like the vomit monitor or something.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's out in the hole with a bucket. Well,

0:22:08.240 --> 0:22:10.119
<v Speaker 1>the boys are waiting outside in the playground and is

0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:14.080
<v Speaker 1>it gone yet? And we'll come in when it's clean. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to take a break and when we come back,

0:22:16.040 --> 0:22:17.960
<v Speaker 1>we're going to talk about Brexit. We're going to talk

0:22:17.960 --> 0:22:21.000
<v Speaker 1>about Trump. We're going to talk about your childhood and

0:22:21.040 --> 0:22:24.680
<v Speaker 1>how you got to where you are today. We're basically

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<v Speaker 1>going to be here for five hours. Great, I hope

0:22:26.760 --> 0:22:29.080
<v Speaker 1>you're okay about that. So we'll be back right after this,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're back. You've written about what maybe called your

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<v Speaker 1>love love relationship with alcohol. You did go to a

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<v Speaker 1>A for a few days at one point, but obviously

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't stick. Anyone watching your show that can I

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<v Speaker 1>just say that thing about me going to a A

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<v Speaker 1>I I, what happened? Was that fake news? What it's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of fake news. All that happened was I was

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<v Speaker 1>staying in l A with Carrie Fisher and I was

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<v Speaker 1>getting a lift downtown to meet friends to go for drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>But we had to stop because she was going to

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<v Speaker 1>an a meeting on the way, So you just wrapped

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<v Speaker 1>her off. No no, she was driving, so I had

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<v Speaker 1>to go away lift with a y no no no,

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to go in and wait for the meeting,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she continued the drive down. So I so

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<v Speaker 1>I have attended a two or three waiting, but you didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't go to the I swung by, Okay, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>ever worry about your your drinking it off. I do,

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<v Speaker 1>not so much in terms of addiction, more in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of just health and what it's doing to myself. So

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<v Speaker 1>when I turned fifty, I had a big sort of

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<v Speaker 1>week called an emot What does that sound like? A

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<v Speaker 1>big health checky type thing? Okay, is something you do

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<v Speaker 1>to your car, right, okay? So a tuna yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>sort of thing. So I had what this scan and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like they give pregnant women. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>you're pretty buff. I just want to point out I cycle. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So so I'm there and they put that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>weird jelly on you. Oh yeah, I'm familiar with it.

0:24:11.560 --> 0:24:15.760
<v Speaker 1>Happy had two babies and many sonograms, so I'm not familiar.

0:24:16.320 --> 0:24:19.560
<v Speaker 1>You're young. You're young. So they're doing this and he's

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<v Speaker 1>going and this is the such and search and this

0:24:21.640 --> 0:24:25.240
<v Speaker 1>is and he goes and around here is the liver

0:24:25.359 --> 0:24:30.160
<v Speaker 1>and I literally went like, what is that? Like, wait

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<v Speaker 1>a second, we can't find it. It's covered with stuff.

0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:36.639
<v Speaker 1>There's an old cauliflower in here. And it was fine.

0:24:36.960 --> 0:24:40.040
<v Speaker 1>It was fine. Drink so far good, I must say

0:24:40.080 --> 0:24:43.480
<v Speaker 1>I do because it annoys me when people talk about

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<v Speaker 1>not drinking. So I don't talk about cutting down. But

0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:49.280
<v Speaker 1>of course this is in America, so I can. But yeah,

0:24:49.320 --> 0:24:50.840
<v Speaker 1>I do drink a lot less than I used to.

0:24:51.040 --> 0:24:55.000
<v Speaker 1>And what is your drink of choice? White wine, vodka, champagne,

0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:59.640
<v Speaker 1>anything you can see through I feel apart from yeah

0:24:59.640 --> 0:25:01.639
<v Speaker 1>that guy thing. Okay, so this is our bridge to

0:25:01.680 --> 0:25:13.240
<v Speaker 1>your background. Okay, yes you're from Ireland, yeah, pretty much.

0:25:13.720 --> 0:25:15.680
<v Speaker 1>And a little bit about your dad. So your dad

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<v Speaker 1>was a salesman for Guinness. Yes, very good. Yeah you

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<v Speaker 1>brought it back, Yeah we did, we did, so tell

0:25:20.800 --> 0:25:22.760
<v Speaker 1>us about that. And also you grew up in a

0:25:22.840 --> 0:25:26.840
<v Speaker 1>Protestant family in a Catholic stronghold in Ireland before the

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:29.479
<v Speaker 1>peace Deal, when you know, these two groups were at

0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:32.199
<v Speaker 1>each other's throats. What was that like? How did it

0:25:32.240 --> 0:25:35.240
<v Speaker 1>shape you? And I think my dad working in the

0:25:35.240 --> 0:25:38.159
<v Speaker 1>Guinness was just heated job. And what's interesting is, I

0:25:38.160 --> 0:25:42.160
<v Speaker 1>suppose from outside point is it's the big Irish firm.

0:25:42.240 --> 0:25:45.359
<v Speaker 1>You know, people have heard of Guinness, but really living there,

0:25:45.480 --> 0:25:47.560
<v Speaker 1>he just had a job and off he went every

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:50.439
<v Speaker 1>day and didn't came back. The growing up Protestant in

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<v Speaker 1>southern Ireland, County Cork, in County Cork, and I actually

0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:56.000
<v Speaker 1>moved around a lot, but always in southern My mother's

0:25:56.000 --> 0:25:58.919
<v Speaker 1>from Belfast up in the north, and I think people

0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:02.240
<v Speaker 1>kind of misconstruy was going on back then. There was

0:26:02.280 --> 0:26:05.080
<v Speaker 1>no trouble in the south. All the troubles were in

0:26:05.119 --> 0:26:09.360
<v Speaker 1>the north. But what was odd about it was that

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:14.439
<v Speaker 1>you were kind of isolated in the community. So I

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:17.560
<v Speaker 1>remember we moved to Abandon, where my mother still lived,

0:26:17.800 --> 0:26:20.400
<v Speaker 1>and we moved there during the summer holidays and we

0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:22.080
<v Speaker 1>lived in a house in the street and I played

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<v Speaker 1>with all the other kids and I went to the

0:26:23.560 --> 0:26:26.080
<v Speaker 1>birthday parties did during the summer. The end of the

0:26:26.119 --> 0:26:29.440
<v Speaker 1>summer we went to school. I never saw this children again.

0:26:29.480 --> 0:26:32.800
<v Speaker 1>They were segregated schools. Yeah, we went to a protest school.

0:26:32.920 --> 0:26:35.560
<v Speaker 1>They went to their school and we just didn't hang

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<v Speaker 1>out again, not in a kind of you know, because

0:26:37.800 --> 0:26:39.720
<v Speaker 1>obviously we were allowed to play together. No one sound

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:42.040
<v Speaker 1>like the jet. Yeah, it wasn't like that, and it

0:26:42.119 --> 0:26:44.560
<v Speaker 1>wasn't like kind of you know, the Protestant parents were

0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:46.600
<v Speaker 1>telling their kids not to play with the Catholic kids,

0:26:46.640 --> 0:26:48.879
<v Speaker 1>and the Catholic parents it was just you didn't go

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:51.040
<v Speaker 1>to school with them, so I don't know you anymore.

0:26:51.160 --> 0:26:53.920
<v Speaker 1>And that's just the way kids are. But I think

0:26:53.960 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 1>that it was kind of isolating and made you feel

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<v Speaker 1>slightly other, particularly because you know, in Ireland, Catholicism is everywhere.

0:27:02.320 --> 0:27:05.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, the Angelis comes on the TV at six o'clock,

0:27:05.960 --> 0:27:08.560
<v Speaker 1>the bells ring and there's the Virgin Mary on the radio.

0:27:08.960 --> 0:27:10.119
<v Speaker 1>You know, if you're on the bus and you'd go

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:13.639
<v Speaker 1>past a chapel, everyone on the bus blesses themselves, you know,

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:16.720
<v Speaker 1>and except you. Yeah, and and and obviously those things

0:27:17.160 --> 0:27:22.800
<v Speaker 1>have changed enormously. You know. I'm so proud the country that. Yeah,

0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm so proud of the country that Ireland has become.

0:27:24.600 --> 0:27:28.679
<v Speaker 1>It's well, especially with this recent historic vote on abortion.

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:32.520
<v Speaker 1>It blows my mind that that is a country that

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:36.880
<v Speaker 1>I left thirty years ago. That it would have been

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:40.399
<v Speaker 1>unheard of that the place I left would have a

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<v Speaker 1>referendum on gay marriage, have a referendum on abortion and

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:49.680
<v Speaker 1>have an overwhelming yes vote, not just a squeaking vibe. Overwhelming,

0:27:49.920 --> 0:27:53.160
<v Speaker 1>and that is down. I think to young people in Ireland,

0:27:53.280 --> 0:27:58.560
<v Speaker 1>they are terrific. They are fashioning a republic for themselves

0:27:58.720 --> 0:28:02.159
<v Speaker 1>that's fit for purpose. It has room for them to

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<v Speaker 1>live the life they want to live in it and

0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:06.800
<v Speaker 1>they're not being told what to do by the church anymore.

0:28:07.240 --> 0:28:10.360
<v Speaker 1>And it is the government of the people rather than

0:28:10.480 --> 0:28:13.240
<v Speaker 1>the government of Rome, and it's it's terrific. When you

0:28:13.280 --> 0:28:16.000
<v Speaker 1>were growing up, I know that your mom said, as

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:18.400
<v Speaker 1>even as a four year old, that you might be

0:28:19.000 --> 0:28:22.480
<v Speaker 1>faced with bullying and she gave you sort of coping

0:28:22.560 --> 0:28:26.440
<v Speaker 1>skills about how to deal with that, which was ignore

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:30.879
<v Speaker 1>the bullies. Just don't validate anything they've said. And it

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>seems to me that lesson is kind of stayed with

0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:37.359
<v Speaker 1>you your entire life. It is very good advice in

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:41.200
<v Speaker 1>stopping bullying in the You know, bullies want a reaction.

0:28:41.840 --> 0:28:46.320
<v Speaker 1>If you don't react that they sort they must get bored. However,

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:51.560
<v Speaker 1>I think it does make you overall slightly emotionally disengaged life.

0:28:51.680 --> 0:28:53.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, what advice would you give to your kids

0:28:53.560 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 1>if they were being bullied or did you prep them

0:28:55.560 --> 0:28:57.400
<v Speaker 1>for school? Did you give them you just got to

0:28:57.440 --> 0:28:58.960
<v Speaker 1>send them to a very nice school where that wasn't

0:28:58.960 --> 0:29:05.160
<v Speaker 1>going to happen. I mean everything, I think things happened,

0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:08.240
<v Speaker 1>and I think my daughter was actually bullied in high school.

0:29:08.480 --> 0:29:11.959
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know. I think every situation is different,

0:29:12.080 --> 0:29:13.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, in terms of how you handle it, and

0:29:13.880 --> 0:29:16.400
<v Speaker 1>you just hope you equip them with enough sort of

0:29:16.440 --> 0:29:21.040
<v Speaker 1>inner strength that they're able to forge ahead. But so

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:23.920
<v Speaker 1>don't you guys think I think like bullying is so

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:26.040
<v Speaker 1>going to be the next me too, the amount of

0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:29.040
<v Speaker 1>bullying in the workplace that goes on, Like really you're

0:29:29.120 --> 0:29:33.040
<v Speaker 1>online that too, But don't worry, Milannia. Trump's gonna handle

0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:37.600
<v Speaker 1>all that be better best, Actually Obama's would be better.

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:40.760
<v Speaker 1>So she cribbed for Michelle, like a third or fourth

0:29:40.760 --> 0:29:43.880
<v Speaker 1>time would be best. Did she rock up today? Did

0:29:43.960 --> 0:29:45.600
<v Speaker 1>you because we're doing this earlier in the week, did

0:29:45.600 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 1>she as she seen the light of day? No, actually

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:50.520
<v Speaker 1>is having a public appearance in the Veterans event, but

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:53.240
<v Speaker 1>I read that it was going to happen, so still

0:29:53.240 --> 0:29:56.240
<v Speaker 1>earlier as of this recording, we are unsure whether, but

0:29:56.320 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 1>it is apparently she is going to make an appearance

0:29:58.840 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 1>that is such an interesting thing, and who knows, you know,

0:30:02.400 --> 0:30:05.920
<v Speaker 1>everything becomes a huge scandal, like no matter what it seems.

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 1>I think he enjoyed this we were discussing earlier. I

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:10.920
<v Speaker 1>think he enjoys this stuff because inevitably it's a distraction

0:30:10.960 --> 0:30:13.280
<v Speaker 1>from the last scandal, which happened twenty minutes ago, which

0:30:13.280 --> 0:30:16.280
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't want to talk about. And also, these scandals

0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:20.200
<v Speaker 1>don't matter, So let's talk about Malanni a missing for

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 1>days rather than talk about the sanctions or the trade

0:30:25.280 --> 0:30:29.360
<v Speaker 1>deals and all that sort of stuff. Yeah. So, yeah,

0:30:29.560 --> 0:30:32.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, we talked about Trump seven. So back to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you when did you get a sense that you did?

0:30:35.000 --> 0:30:37.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, sort of at what age did you feel

0:30:37.840 --> 0:30:42.200
<v Speaker 1>like I'm gay? You know? Now this sounds like a joke,

0:30:42.240 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 1>but it's not. But a part of it. I think

0:30:44.320 --> 0:30:48.320
<v Speaker 1>part of my realization was slow. Partly I was I

0:30:48.400 --> 0:30:51.280
<v Speaker 1>was a late sort of tip for a twig, and

0:30:51.320 --> 0:30:56.360
<v Speaker 1>it was to with being Protestant in Southern Ireland. If

0:30:56.440 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 1>you talk to a lot of gay people who grew

0:30:59.800 --> 0:31:02.840
<v Speaker 1>up in kind of rural communities, they always feel say

0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:07.560
<v Speaker 1>they felt like a foreigner. They felt sort of all yeah,

0:31:07.760 --> 0:31:10.400
<v Speaker 1>they just felt slightly out of step with everyone, And

0:31:10.480 --> 0:31:14.080
<v Speaker 1>so you can imagine that if you actually can name

0:31:14.200 --> 0:31:17.240
<v Speaker 1>that growing up, you can go, oh, well, I feel

0:31:17.240 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>like that because I'm a Protestant, I am slightly out

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:24.080
<v Speaker 1>of step with everybody. Um. It was only when I

0:31:24.160 --> 0:31:31.000
<v Speaker 1>left Ireland diagorized that those feelings weren't Protestant feelings. Different, different,

0:31:31.840 --> 0:31:33.760
<v Speaker 1>you told the Guardian, and I was really struck by

0:31:33.760 --> 0:31:36.440
<v Speaker 1>this quote. I don't think anyone wants to be gay.

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:39.280
<v Speaker 1>For a cosmopolitan child living in London, on the right

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:42.000
<v Speaker 1>side of town, maybe it wouldn't cost them a second thought.

0:31:42.040 --> 0:31:44.160
<v Speaker 1>But when I was growing up it did cost me

0:31:44.200 --> 0:31:46.840
<v Speaker 1>a second thought. I thought I'd be a social pariah.

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:48.720
<v Speaker 1>So did it take you a while to kind of

0:31:48.760 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 1>accept who you are? And yes, you know, I hope

0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:56.280
<v Speaker 1>the world is different from most young people now, and

0:31:56.320 --> 0:31:58.960
<v Speaker 1>certainly that's the world we want to live in. My

0:31:59.040 --> 0:32:02.120
<v Speaker 1>worry is that a lot people still don't live in

0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:04.840
<v Speaker 1>that world. The trouble is I've sort of been out

0:32:04.840 --> 0:32:07.719
<v Speaker 1>of it for so long. You know, living in London

0:32:08.000 --> 0:32:12.000
<v Speaker 1>is you know, just what doesn't cross your mind, and

0:32:12.040 --> 0:32:15.040
<v Speaker 1>you forget how big the world is. But I have

0:32:15.080 --> 0:32:17.600
<v Speaker 1>to say when I went back to my old school

0:32:18.560 --> 0:32:21.520
<v Speaker 1>for you know, reunion, yeah, well know, to give up prizes,

0:32:22.600 --> 0:32:25.000
<v Speaker 1>like a prize day type thing. You know, I met

0:32:25.040 --> 0:32:27.720
<v Speaker 1>these kids. Not only were they you know, the role

0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:30.160
<v Speaker 1>was kind of obviously gay kids at your school, but

0:32:30.440 --> 0:32:33.680
<v Speaker 1>these ones were out and that blew my mind. Well,

0:32:33.720 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 1>I think to your earlier point about young people. You know,

0:32:36.160 --> 0:32:39.120
<v Speaker 1>my daughters are twenty six and twenty two, and you know,

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:44.080
<v Speaker 1>high schools all over the country have lgbt Q clubs. Uh.

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:48.280
<v Speaker 1>It is just a very different atmosphere where people are

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 1>encouraged to express their individuality and in a really positive way.

0:32:52.440 --> 0:32:54.640
<v Speaker 1>And I think it's wonderful. But you know what happened

0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 1>to you though, And I guess when you were in

0:32:56.520 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 1>college you almost died Graham, Katie, I did. You're making

0:33:02.000 --> 0:33:04.000
<v Speaker 1>fun of it now, but I read about it and

0:33:04.040 --> 0:33:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I was really upset. Well, I was mugged. I was mugged,

0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:10.400
<v Speaker 1>but not just mugged. No, I was stabbed as part

0:33:10.440 --> 0:33:12.800
<v Speaker 1>of the muggy. I must say, I don't remember the stabbing.

0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:14.200
<v Speaker 1>It's one of those things. I thought I was just

0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:17.720
<v Speaker 1>mugged and they ran off in the re really thought

0:33:17.760 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 1>you were just mugged and you were stabbed and beaten

0:33:20.480 --> 0:33:22.320
<v Speaker 1>and all the rest. They got to hit me over

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:24.959
<v Speaker 1>the head with a thing and it sounded like a

0:33:24.960 --> 0:33:28.000
<v Speaker 1>bit of like plastic piping, and then you realize, oh, no,

0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:31.560
<v Speaker 1>that is like a wooden thing. But the plastic piping

0:33:31.560 --> 0:33:36.640
<v Speaker 1>bit is the noise your skull makes here in London. Yeah,

0:33:37.160 --> 0:33:40.360
<v Speaker 1>and uh, we're playing into Trump's narrative now. It's so

0:33:40.480 --> 0:33:48.200
<v Speaker 1>dangerous here riding immigrants. So I they then, you know,

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 1>they ran so from my bag and they left me

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:53.520
<v Speaker 1>on the on the pavement and ran off and I

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.360
<v Speaker 1>watched them go and they didn't get up now, And

0:33:55.680 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>when I went to get up, I felt like I

0:33:57.840 --> 0:34:01.840
<v Speaker 1>was peeling myself off the ground. And that's odd. And

0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:04.320
<v Speaker 1>I looked down and you know, I'm just soaked with

0:34:04.360 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 1>blood and you lost half of your I did in

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:10.400
<v Speaker 1>the end, half my blood. But what was kind of

0:34:10.400 --> 0:34:12.000
<v Speaker 1>what I liked. I was at drama school at the

0:34:12.040 --> 0:34:14.000
<v Speaker 1>time and we were doing you know Shakespeare. You know

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:15.839
<v Speaker 1>that the Shakespeare people always go, you know, I've been

0:34:15.920 --> 0:34:19.160
<v Speaker 1>run through all that sort of stuff, and you've always thought, oh,

0:34:19.200 --> 0:34:21.360
<v Speaker 1>that's because they know, you know, they no special effects

0:34:21.400 --> 0:34:24.000
<v Speaker 1>back in Shakespeare stile, so people had to say I've

0:34:24.040 --> 0:34:27.359
<v Speaker 1>been run through. But in fact, it's what you say

0:34:27.400 --> 0:34:30.680
<v Speaker 1>because you're so surprised because your adrenaline is up, so

0:34:30.719 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>you didn't you don't feel it. It's like John Lennon

0:34:33.120 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 1>saying I've been shot, you know, and you look down

0:34:35.960 --> 0:34:39.560
<v Speaker 1>and go, oh, I've been stabbed. That sounds like Monty

0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:41.919
<v Speaker 1>Python and you and you have to say it out

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 1>loud because it's so astonishing. And then I sort of

0:34:46.400 --> 0:34:48.680
<v Speaker 1>wandered around a bit and then a very nice old

0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 1>couple rang an ambulance and they saved my life. Why

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:54.000
<v Speaker 1>did they do this to you? Do you think? Do

0:34:54.040 --> 0:34:56.280
<v Speaker 1>you think it was a random thing? Oh? Totally random?

0:34:56.800 --> 0:34:58.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I was, I was. It wasn't It had nothing

0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:01.239
<v Speaker 1>to do with homopho or anything like that. I don't

0:35:01.280 --> 0:35:03.040
<v Speaker 1>think so. I mean, I was just by myself. I

0:35:03.040 --> 0:35:04.919
<v Speaker 1>was wearing a very nice suit, but I was gonna

0:35:04.960 --> 0:35:07.480
<v Speaker 1>say I was wearing a dress. And what's the big

0:35:07.520 --> 0:35:11.600
<v Speaker 1>deal was the suit was too well cut and it

0:35:11.640 --> 0:35:15.120
<v Speaker 1>was a nice second hand suit. Ruined, of course, ruined.

0:35:15.600 --> 0:35:21.359
<v Speaker 1>And that's the tragic Well after after you got out

0:35:21.360 --> 0:35:25.960
<v Speaker 1>of school, you actually dropped out of school, right. Ultimately,

0:35:26.000 --> 0:35:28.600
<v Speaker 1>when you dropped out, is this after before you joined

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:31.319
<v Speaker 1>the commune in San Francisco? Okay, what's the timeline? The

0:35:31.400 --> 0:35:34.720
<v Speaker 1>timeline is the timeline is I went to University College Cork.

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:37.719
<v Speaker 1>I did two years there and then moving with me.

0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:41.040
<v Speaker 1>Then I went to America for a year on one

0:35:41.080 --> 0:35:43.200
<v Speaker 1>of those in and we at these J one visas

0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:45.680
<v Speaker 1>we can go and work for things. So I did

0:35:45.719 --> 0:35:49.759
<v Speaker 1>that wait tables and I had I think it was

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:54.320
<v Speaker 1>a trailways. Are they gone now? Trailways buses? Yeah, Brian

0:35:54.400 --> 0:35:57.480
<v Speaker 1>hasn't ever ridden one, but they still still true. Yeah,

0:35:58.719 --> 0:36:02.600
<v Speaker 1>so seven day is rambler ticket for trailways. The idea

0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:04.160
<v Speaker 1>was going to land in New York and I was

0:36:04.200 --> 0:36:06.080
<v Speaker 1>going to get l A, but in fact it ran

0:36:06.120 --> 0:36:09.040
<v Speaker 1>out in San Francisco. Um, so I couldn't get to

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:10.840
<v Speaker 1>l A. But actually it was quite Google had some

0:36:10.840 --> 0:36:14.840
<v Speaker 1>phone number there and with this one woman, she gave

0:36:14.960 --> 0:36:18.279
<v Speaker 1>me the number for this commune. It was called Star Dance.

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:20.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it's called that. It's changed its

0:36:20.200 --> 0:36:22.160
<v Speaker 1>name now Start Dance. And I was sort of an

0:36:22.160 --> 0:36:24.080
<v Speaker 1>economic hippie. It was just it was cheap rent. So

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:26.560
<v Speaker 1>I just I lived in this commun shop was never

0:36:26.600 --> 0:36:28.640
<v Speaker 1>really part. I mean I was part of the commune.

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:30.719
<v Speaker 1>I did do everything with them. Did you stay there

0:36:30.880 --> 0:36:33.520
<v Speaker 1>and nearly a year? Um? And I loved it. I

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:36.600
<v Speaker 1>absolutely loved it. Um. Yeah, but you didn't love it

0:36:36.680 --> 0:36:38.600
<v Speaker 1>that much because she came back to London. It was

0:36:38.640 --> 0:36:42.800
<v Speaker 1>never my life. I always felt I couldn't really start

0:36:42.800 --> 0:36:45.759
<v Speaker 1>my life in America. And then you came back here

0:36:46.120 --> 0:36:49.240
<v Speaker 1>and you kind of struggled for a while to find work,

0:36:49.320 --> 0:36:51.279
<v Speaker 1>to get the sorts of parts you wanted. You want

0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:53.879
<v Speaker 1>to be a comedian, and at some point you sort

0:36:53.880 --> 0:36:56.640
<v Speaker 1>of wondered, am I a waiter trying to become an

0:36:56.640 --> 0:36:59.880
<v Speaker 1>actor and a comedian or am I just destined to

0:37:00.280 --> 0:37:02.320
<v Speaker 1>do what I'm doing now? Well, it's one of those

0:37:03.040 --> 0:37:05.760
<v Speaker 1>weird things that I think, you know, talking to people

0:37:05.920 --> 0:37:11.240
<v Speaker 1>on my show, there are certain common threads in people's

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:15.480
<v Speaker 1>success stories, and one of the common threads is they

0:37:15.640 --> 0:37:19.440
<v Speaker 1>are stupid, Like they made really terrible choices that you

0:37:19.440 --> 0:37:24.440
<v Speaker 1>would not recommend anyone make, but it turned out for them,

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:25.920
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So they're on the couch.

0:37:26.000 --> 0:37:29.160
<v Speaker 1>So they're on the couch. That's great, But there must

0:37:29.160 --> 0:37:30.880
<v Speaker 1>be lots of people who are not on a couch

0:37:31.160 --> 0:37:35.080
<v Speaker 1>who are struggling somewhere thinking, oh, maybe I shouldn't have

0:37:35.120 --> 0:37:38.319
<v Speaker 1>dropped out of school, maybe I shouldn't have moved to

0:37:38.480 --> 0:37:41.680
<v Speaker 1>l a nothing but fifty dollars, or maybe I shouldn't

0:37:41.680 --> 0:37:44.920
<v Speaker 1>have But we only hear the success stories. Those are

0:37:44.920 --> 0:37:46.960
<v Speaker 1>the people said. So I was one of those people.

0:37:47.000 --> 0:37:49.520
<v Speaker 1>If I had been my friend, I would have said,

0:37:49.680 --> 0:37:54.799
<v Speaker 1>give it up, just stop already. This is pathetic. It's

0:37:54.840 --> 0:37:59.520
<v Speaker 1>painful to watch you. It is clearly never going to

0:37:59.560 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 1>happen for you, but you hung in there. I hung

0:38:02.520 --> 0:38:04.480
<v Speaker 1>in there because I had no plan B. And I

0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:08.399
<v Speaker 1>think that's often. Uh, that's good advice to people don't

0:38:08.520 --> 0:38:13.000
<v Speaker 1>have a plan B. Again, No, I think it's it's

0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:16.040
<v Speaker 1>funny because you obviously always hear the opposite. Yeah, but

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I had no plan B. It wasn't I got a

0:38:17.880 --> 0:38:21.120
<v Speaker 1>plan A. I just had the plan. And when it

0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:23.680
<v Speaker 1>wasn't working, I had no option but just to continue

0:38:23.880 --> 0:38:27.920
<v Speaker 1>with the terrible plan. But happily I did started. I

0:38:27.960 --> 0:38:30.359
<v Speaker 1>started getting its radio work and then it's a TV work.

0:38:30.520 --> 0:38:33.080
<v Speaker 1>And the thing that makes me happy is my dad

0:38:33.200 --> 0:38:36.680
<v Speaker 1>lived to see me have some success, so he didn't

0:38:36.719 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 1>go to his grave worrying about me. Which would have

0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:42.080
<v Speaker 1>just been the most horrible thing to do to your

0:38:42.160 --> 0:38:46.080
<v Speaker 1>dad was to you know, let him die, thinking what

0:38:46.200 --> 0:38:48.359
<v Speaker 1>the hell is going to happen to that loser? So

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:51.600
<v Speaker 1>is your mom still? Yeah, I know she's still with us.

0:38:51.640 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 1>She's hanging in there, old boots. You're lucky. You're lucky

0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:58.120
<v Speaker 1>because it's hard when you lose both parents. You know,

0:38:58.440 --> 0:39:01.520
<v Speaker 1>there's you feel so Heather, Well, there's no good time,

0:39:01.640 --> 0:39:04.480
<v Speaker 1>is there? You're never ready? And my mom was ninety

0:39:04.480 --> 0:39:06.920
<v Speaker 1>one and my dad was ninety and I still, you know,

0:39:07.200 --> 0:39:11.800
<v Speaker 1>just I'm so sad that they're gone. When people say, oh, well,

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:14.160
<v Speaker 1>they lived a long life, and as though you want

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:16.480
<v Speaker 1>to put them out to pasture just because they're ninety,

0:39:16.560 --> 0:39:18.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, but I guess I think that on the

0:39:18.120 --> 0:39:20.680
<v Speaker 1>other hand, you are lucky to have somebody as long

0:39:20.880 --> 0:39:23.040
<v Speaker 1>as as that. Okay, I've gotta tee you web for this.

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:25.560
<v Speaker 1>I gotta te you up for this. So one of

0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:28.480
<v Speaker 1>your jobs in two thousand five is you moved to

0:39:28.520 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 1>the BBC with a show call. How do you solve

0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:37.120
<v Speaker 1>the problem like Marie uh beautiful guests getting mad? Take

0:39:37.200 --> 0:39:40.239
<v Speaker 1>this cloud and pin it down? How do you find

0:39:40.280 --> 0:39:44.320
<v Speaker 1>a word that means Marie h a flibberty gibbet a

0:39:44.400 --> 0:39:46.680
<v Speaker 1>will of will whisp a glass and she's doing this

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:49.240
<v Speaker 1>from memory. Our listeners get really mad when she doesn't

0:39:49.280 --> 0:39:51.440
<v Speaker 1>sing for an episode. I can't sing, but I love

0:39:51.520 --> 0:39:54.520
<v Speaker 1>to sing. No, not really, But but tell me about

0:39:54.560 --> 0:39:56.920
<v Speaker 1>that show, because it was with Andrew Lloyd Webber. He

0:39:57.080 --> 0:39:59.800
<v Speaker 1>was searching for Maria because he was going to do

0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:02.840
<v Speaker 1>the stage version of Sound of Music. He acquired the

0:40:02.920 --> 0:40:04.000
<v Speaker 1>rights and he was going to put it on the

0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:06.960
<v Speaker 1>West End, and he came up with this genius idea,

0:40:07.480 --> 0:40:08.960
<v Speaker 1>how do you solve a problem like Marial. I think

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:10.640
<v Speaker 1>it was one of those shows where the name came

0:40:10.719 --> 0:40:15.000
<v Speaker 1>up first. Yeah, it's so clever. It's clever. And they

0:40:15.080 --> 0:40:18.239
<v Speaker 1>did a casting show and so what was your role

0:40:18.280 --> 0:40:21.719
<v Speaker 1>in it? I literally go up next. It's blah blah

0:40:21.760 --> 0:40:24.360
<v Speaker 1>blah blah like the Ryan Secret. Yeah, yeah, that's what

0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I was doing. Yeah. So it was so easy. It

0:40:27.480 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>couldn't have been an easier job. Was it a massive hit?

0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:32.399
<v Speaker 1>It was? It did really well. We did a bunch

0:40:32.440 --> 0:40:35.840
<v Speaker 1>of them. We we cast Maria, then we did Joseph

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:40.640
<v Speaker 1>for Joseph and the Technicolor, we did Nancy from Oliver

0:40:41.360 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 1>did you say, were is Nancy? We didn't do that.

0:40:47.120 --> 0:40:58.360
<v Speaker 1>That one was called I do anything, Yeah, anything to me? Okay, sorry,

0:40:58.640 --> 0:41:02.319
<v Speaker 1>there were probably in a show to mood. It's also

0:41:02.400 --> 0:41:08.000
<v Speaker 1>heavily jet lag, so I apologize. But anyway, so how

0:41:08.120 --> 0:41:11.000
<v Speaker 1>what that sounds like? So much fun? It was hoot

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:14.680
<v Speaker 1>and holler, and I love Andrew. Working with Andrew is

0:41:14.800 --> 0:41:17.120
<v Speaker 1>just terrific. Have you guys interviewed him? You know what?

0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:20.120
<v Speaker 1>I know we tried to for this trip out of town. Yeah,

0:41:20.160 --> 0:41:21.920
<v Speaker 1>he blew us off ground, so maybe you can pick

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:26.359
<v Speaker 1>us up. But is he great? I really like him

0:41:26.400 --> 0:41:30.040
<v Speaker 1>because he's like a wonderful teacher because he is so

0:41:31.120 --> 0:41:37.319
<v Speaker 1>passionate and enthusiastic about certain things like art, like musicals,

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:42.040
<v Speaker 1>like music, and when he talks to you, it's infectious.

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:44.279
<v Speaker 1>So that's what I mean, exactly a great teacher. So

0:41:44.480 --> 0:41:46.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not that interested in any of those things, but

0:41:46.680 --> 0:41:49.840
<v Speaker 1>when I'm with him, I am, and and actually the

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:51.800
<v Speaker 1>love of music has sort of stayed with me and

0:41:51.880 --> 0:41:53.239
<v Speaker 1>I now I do go to see all the new

0:41:53.320 --> 0:41:55.960
<v Speaker 1>musicals and you know, have opinions like I know what

0:41:56.040 --> 0:42:02.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about. I haven't seen that because not my favorite.

0:42:03.200 --> 0:42:04.719
<v Speaker 1>When I when I met When I met him, he

0:42:04.719 --> 0:42:07.280
<v Speaker 1>would he would do that. He would refer to scenes

0:42:07.400 --> 0:42:09.279
<v Speaker 1>from Phantom of the Opera and I would just have

0:42:09.440 --> 0:42:12.200
<v Speaker 1>a smile. And not because I've never seen Phantom the Opera,

0:42:12.480 --> 0:42:14.120
<v Speaker 1>but when you were as rich as he is, he's

0:42:14.160 --> 0:42:16.239
<v Speaker 1>got every right to assume that everyone on planet Earth

0:42:16.360 --> 0:42:20.640
<v Speaker 1>has paid to see it. I did finally see it

0:42:20.800 --> 0:42:23.400
<v Speaker 1>with my mother. My mother wanted to see it. I

0:42:23.520 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 1>took her and it was to be mostly populated by

0:42:27.360 --> 0:42:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Japanese tourist theory. Really it was extraordinary. It was proper

0:42:30.800 --> 0:42:35.880
<v Speaker 1>tourist audience, like, wow, who are you? Well, he's enormously talented, right,

0:42:36.040 --> 0:42:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, so we can't just say nice things.

0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:42.120
<v Speaker 1>Who's a celebrity you really don't like? You know what?

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:45.120
<v Speaker 1>I think you guys will know this most I think

0:42:45.280 --> 0:42:50.240
<v Speaker 1>most people are nice in themselves. It's the people around

0:42:50.480 --> 0:42:55.600
<v Speaker 1>them that that is so true. I interviewed Galgadote recently

0:42:56.120 --> 0:42:58.000
<v Speaker 1>and I loved her and I wanted to talk to

0:42:58.040 --> 0:43:00.200
<v Speaker 1>her because she was in the Israeli Army. She has

0:43:00.200 --> 0:43:03.280
<v Speaker 1>a very interesting backstory, not just as a wonder woman.

0:43:03.800 --> 0:43:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Her publicist was such a jerk and kept cutting me off,

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:10.040
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, what are you doing? She's an

0:43:10.080 --> 0:43:14.040
<v Speaker 1>intelligent woman. She can have a smart conversation. I hate that,

0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:16.480
<v Speaker 1>But do you think I guess I won't be interviewing Keel.

0:43:18.400 --> 0:43:20.720
<v Speaker 1>So let's talk about a well known person that Katie

0:43:20.719 --> 0:43:30.640
<v Speaker 1>and I both like a lot, Judy Dench and Peter Bitch.

0:43:31.880 --> 0:43:33.560
<v Speaker 1>We have a clip, we have a clip. We want

0:43:33.600 --> 0:43:36.040
<v Speaker 1>to play and dud do you still go clubbing? Do

0:43:36.080 --> 0:43:39.359
<v Speaker 1>you still cut a robe? Do you? I have never

0:43:39.480 --> 0:43:43.080
<v Speaker 1>ever been to a club in my life? Terrible, Yes,

0:43:45.200 --> 0:43:47.799
<v Speaker 1>sorry for me like a rogue. Oh do I yes,

0:43:48.920 --> 0:44:02.400
<v Speaker 1>never been to a night club? Yes, you have? Absolutely.

0:44:03.680 --> 0:44:13.160
<v Speaker 1>They took us into the back door. Wouldn't the story

0:44:13.239 --> 0:44:20.880
<v Speaker 1>of her life? The only time? Is that really the

0:44:20.960 --> 0:44:23.120
<v Speaker 1>only time? Yes? Did you not have a nice night?

0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:27.279
<v Speaker 1>You look like you're having fun? Second, we did? I'm

0:44:27.400 --> 0:44:32.719
<v Speaker 1>gay and I've never been to heaven. That's astonishing. Why

0:44:32.760 --> 0:44:34.759
<v Speaker 1>were you there for God? That's a good question too.

0:44:36.920 --> 0:44:39.640
<v Speaker 1>I know the answer to that as well. You were

0:44:39.680 --> 0:44:42.279
<v Speaker 1>there to share what you were there to see share

0:44:42.400 --> 0:44:51.000
<v Speaker 1>the singer share. And of course it was all the

0:44:51.080 --> 0:44:55.080
<v Speaker 1>more fun because Elton John was with Judy den Yeah, exactly,

0:44:55.120 --> 0:44:56.920
<v Speaker 1>because they're kind of egging each other on and kind

0:44:56.920 --> 0:44:59.600
<v Speaker 1>of enjoying each other. Yeah, no, she was in there.

0:45:00.160 --> 0:45:02.840
<v Speaker 1>I think it was around tea with Mussolini time and

0:45:03.760 --> 0:45:07.240
<v Speaker 1>they Share was premier new single at the time. Believe

0:45:07.719 --> 0:45:12.919
<v Speaker 1>do you believe that? Surely the engineer should have picked

0:45:13.000 --> 0:45:18.520
<v Speaker 1>up on that and immediately got from And it was

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:20.719
<v Speaker 1>a very odd night because heaven is this big gay night.

0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:24.120
<v Speaker 1>It was a big gay nightclub in London, and you know,

0:45:24.239 --> 0:45:25.960
<v Speaker 1>so obviously we're there to see Share, but you don't

0:45:25.960 --> 0:45:28.560
<v Speaker 1>expect to see Judy and you don't expect Sir Ben

0:45:28.760 --> 0:45:34.000
<v Speaker 1>Kingsley to wander on and introduce Share. Audience audience was

0:45:34.320 --> 0:45:42.319
<v Speaker 1>like God's game. Can you explain the big red chair

0:45:42.440 --> 0:45:44.279
<v Speaker 1>on your show for people who haven't seen it? I

0:45:44.360 --> 0:45:47.040
<v Speaker 1>can the big red chair, Um, not the big red

0:45:47.080 --> 0:45:50.879
<v Speaker 1>share the big bigger chair to the big red chair

0:45:51.080 --> 0:45:52.319
<v Speaker 1>is I think we do. At the end of the show,

0:45:52.320 --> 0:45:54.719
<v Speaker 1>it's a segment where we get audience members in and

0:45:55.080 --> 0:45:58.640
<v Speaker 1>they basically try to tell their great story. They're one

0:45:58.880 --> 0:46:01.160
<v Speaker 1>good anecdote, you know, if you're all down you're in

0:46:01.239 --> 0:46:04.280
<v Speaker 1>the bar and everyone swapping stories. Oh this thing happened

0:46:04.280 --> 0:46:06.040
<v Speaker 1>to me, this is happened to me. You're a great one.

0:46:06.080 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 1>If you were at all boring. There's a big lever

0:46:08.160 --> 0:46:10.839
<v Speaker 1>and we flip it and you're gone. And it came

0:46:10.880 --> 0:46:13.560
<v Speaker 1>about because and again this is very British where it

0:46:13.600 --> 0:46:16.480
<v Speaker 1>came up, and there was a comic called Ronnie Corbett

0:46:16.920 --> 0:46:20.520
<v Speaker 1>and he used to tell these very long rambling stories

0:46:20.520 --> 0:46:22.040
<v Speaker 1>as part of the show. He's probably the two Ronnie.

0:46:22.040 --> 0:46:24.479
<v Speaker 1>They're a very famous double act here, and he would

0:46:24.480 --> 0:46:26.440
<v Speaker 1>tell these long rambling stories about I said to the

0:46:26.480 --> 0:46:30.120
<v Speaker 1>producer blah blah. And when he was a guest, we thought,

0:46:30.280 --> 0:46:32.279
<v Speaker 1>how funny. We'll get audience members to try to tell

0:46:32.480 --> 0:46:35.120
<v Speaker 1>stories and then we'll have a lever and death. Great,

0:46:35.200 --> 0:46:37.920
<v Speaker 1>just for one off thing. So it was done. And

0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:41.359
<v Speaker 1>then afterwards the line producer came to us and said,

0:46:41.800 --> 0:46:45.640
<v Speaker 1>do you know how much that chair cost? And we

0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:49.240
<v Speaker 1>were like no, anyway, we needed to use it again

0:46:49.640 --> 0:46:55.400
<v Speaker 1>because it was spending so so, so he came up

0:46:55.440 --> 0:46:57.520
<v Speaker 1>with this idea and now we use it every week.

0:46:57.760 --> 0:46:59.960
<v Speaker 1>So in fact, it was money well spent. That other

0:47:00.200 --> 0:47:03.560
<v Speaker 1>that happens. Then one thing leads to another in the

0:47:03.640 --> 0:47:08.880
<v Speaker 1>dog basket and he gets injured. Anyway, Um, okay, so

0:47:09.040 --> 0:47:13.120
<v Speaker 1>many bits of this story missing. So you're having sex

0:47:13.200 --> 0:47:22.319
<v Speaker 1>in a dog basket to another, hope, leave a pool,

0:47:22.440 --> 0:47:28.640
<v Speaker 1>leave a great and so basically is there an objection seat?

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:32.680
<v Speaker 1>It kind of flips the it just does anybody get hurt? No? No,

0:47:32.880 --> 0:47:35.719
<v Speaker 1>In fact, it looks more shocking on the screen when

0:47:35.719 --> 0:47:37.920
<v Speaker 1>you actually when if you do it, it's quite a

0:47:38.320 --> 0:47:40.799
<v Speaker 1>shallow little dip. It's not bad at all. We're going

0:47:40.840 --> 0:47:42.719
<v Speaker 1>to wrap things up pretty soon. Of course, we could

0:47:42.719 --> 0:47:44.440
<v Speaker 1>talk to you all day, but we know you probably

0:47:44.560 --> 0:47:47.080
<v Speaker 1>have a life and things to do. But you were

0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:50.600
<v Speaker 1>on Stephen Colbert and he asked you about Trump and

0:47:50.680 --> 0:47:53.879
<v Speaker 1>how people across the pond view him. So let's listen

0:47:53.920 --> 0:47:56.919
<v Speaker 1>to that. You're not the most political, but you guys

0:47:56.960 --> 0:48:00.160
<v Speaker 1>talk about Trump over there. Well, you know we're heard

0:48:00.160 --> 0:48:08.200
<v Speaker 1>if your political situation has reached us U across the pond, Yeah,

0:48:08.200 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 1>across the pond. Yeah, it's uh, you know to put

0:48:12.480 --> 0:48:16.840
<v Speaker 1>international news and we get it, and we do do,

0:48:16.920 --> 0:48:19.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, why not do? It's like shooting fish in

0:48:19.360 --> 0:48:22.040
<v Speaker 1>a barrel making fun of him. So so you know,

0:48:22.160 --> 0:48:24.440
<v Speaker 1>all these useless comedy writers are not like I can

0:48:24.560 --> 0:48:27.400
<v Speaker 1>do these jokes exactly because he writes them for you.

0:48:27.640 --> 0:48:32.480
<v Speaker 1>The fish happens to be the greatest democracy in the world. Unfortunately. Yes,

0:48:32.680 --> 0:48:34.160
<v Speaker 1>and you're shooting him with a gun, but he's got

0:48:34.239 --> 0:48:38.000
<v Speaker 1>a bomb, so yeah, it's it's worrisome. The other thing

0:48:38.440 --> 0:48:41.680
<v Speaker 1>that maybe people can explain is we're all aware that

0:48:41.800 --> 0:48:44.399
<v Speaker 1>his you know, his approval ratings are rock bottom, terrible,

0:48:44.480 --> 0:48:47.280
<v Speaker 1>never never, never been worse. But why aren't they zero?

0:48:48.000 --> 0:48:55.000
<v Speaker 1>That's what I like you who aren't those people who

0:48:55.040 --> 0:48:57.520
<v Speaker 1>were like because I get I get that you were

0:48:57.520 --> 0:48:59.879
<v Speaker 1>a fan of the Apprentice, you thought always straight talking,

0:49:00.000 --> 0:49:02.320
<v Speaker 1>you got to shake things up, But at this point,

0:49:03.000 --> 0:49:05.040
<v Speaker 1>who is going no, No, he's doing a good job.

0:49:05.760 --> 0:49:08.240
<v Speaker 1>And that's I think it's I think it's some cost,

0:49:08.400 --> 0:49:10.960
<v Speaker 1>Like people have already invested so much in him that

0:49:11.080 --> 0:49:18.120
<v Speaker 1>they're just going to ride the bomb all the way down. Wow, everyone,

0:49:19.040 --> 0:49:22.000
<v Speaker 1>And that joke hasn't aged well, has it? Because ratings

0:49:22.040 --> 0:49:27.400
<v Speaker 1>are quite almost normal now, Wow, Like, what do people

0:49:27.719 --> 0:49:30.839
<v Speaker 1>here think of Donald Trump? I know, obviously you can't

0:49:30.880 --> 0:49:33.880
<v Speaker 1>say for all all Brits, but in general, what's the

0:49:34.000 --> 0:49:36.600
<v Speaker 1>sentiment and is it does it fall along the lines

0:49:36.680 --> 0:49:40.120
<v Speaker 1>of Brexit? And I think there is there is certainly

0:49:40.200 --> 0:49:42.279
<v Speaker 1>some support from you here, you know, because we do

0:49:42.400 --> 0:49:43.920
<v Speaker 1>jokes about it on the show and every week, you

0:49:44.040 --> 0:49:46.920
<v Speaker 1>get some you know, treats about you know, stop making

0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:49.200
<v Speaker 1>fun of them, blah blah blah blah. But I think

0:49:49.360 --> 0:49:53.239
<v Speaker 1>overall people on one level they find him funny, but

0:49:53.360 --> 0:49:57.160
<v Speaker 1>another level, you know, they find him really worrying, particularly

0:49:57.280 --> 0:49:59.560
<v Speaker 1>because it breaks it. You know, we were supposed to

0:49:59.640 --> 0:50:03.239
<v Speaker 1>have this special relationship with America, and one of the

0:50:03.320 --> 0:50:05.959
<v Speaker 1>things we were told was after Brexit, will have great

0:50:06.040 --> 0:50:10.160
<v Speaker 1>trade deals with America. That doesn't look that likely. Now

0:50:11.440 --> 0:50:16.319
<v Speaker 1>it happened. I was like, don't, don't dunt. I thought, wow,

0:50:16.719 --> 0:50:20.320
<v Speaker 1>I just felt that portended a specific outcome in the

0:50:20.480 --> 0:50:22.320
<v Speaker 1>US and sort of Bill Clinton, by the way, and

0:50:22.400 --> 0:50:24.400
<v Speaker 1>he warned a bunch of the Hillary people, and I

0:50:24.560 --> 0:50:26.759
<v Speaker 1>thought they just didn't take it seriously. Yeah, the great

0:50:26.800 --> 0:50:29.600
<v Speaker 1>thing about you is you can vote Trump out. We've

0:50:29.680 --> 0:50:34.319
<v Speaker 1>done Brexit. Brexits happening, Brexits forever. There's no turning back. Well,

0:50:35.520 --> 0:50:39.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, hope springs eternal. But no, they seem absolutely

0:50:40.120 --> 0:50:43.759
<v Speaker 1>determined that this is going to happen. Do you think

0:50:43.800 --> 0:50:46.279
<v Speaker 1>there ought to be a second referendum? You know what?

0:50:47.239 --> 0:50:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Apparently I'm told that if there was, it would win again.

0:50:50.880 --> 0:50:54.239
<v Speaker 1>Because now people feel that the EU is bullying US,

0:50:55.480 --> 0:50:59.680
<v Speaker 1>so now there's more anti europe feeling rather than actually

0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:03.520
<v Speaker 1>they're negotiating a deal and it turns out they're really

0:51:03.600 --> 0:51:06.440
<v Speaker 1>good at it, and they used to negotiate deals for us.

0:51:07.480 --> 0:51:10.880
<v Speaker 1>They don't, but yeah, they think they're bullying us. So

0:51:11.400 --> 0:51:13.920
<v Speaker 1>I think breggsit would probably win again. There are a

0:51:14.000 --> 0:51:16.080
<v Speaker 1>lot of parallels though, when you think about it, between

0:51:16.200 --> 0:51:18.759
<v Speaker 1>what sort of the mood of the countries, both in

0:51:19.160 --> 0:51:22.840
<v Speaker 1>the US and in Great Britain, and this anti intellectualism

0:51:23.120 --> 0:51:26.440
<v Speaker 1>which I think has has surfaced in both countries, This

0:51:26.680 --> 0:51:30.879
<v Speaker 1>this kind of distrust of experts. There's a book called

0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:34.000
<v Speaker 1>The Death of Expertise. I know that the Education minister

0:51:34.160 --> 0:51:36.480
<v Speaker 1>who is now the Minister of the Environment, I'm told

0:51:36.960 --> 0:51:39.080
<v Speaker 1>not that I knew that, but someone Yeah, what did

0:51:39.120 --> 0:51:41.400
<v Speaker 1>he say? We have too many of someone's bring up

0:51:41.440 --> 0:51:45.480
<v Speaker 1>a point before the vast Basically experts are predicting that,

0:51:45.560 --> 0:51:47.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, the economy or tanka da dada, and you go, well,

0:51:47.360 --> 0:51:49.480
<v Speaker 1>I think this country has had enough of experts and

0:51:49.560 --> 0:51:52.960
<v Speaker 1>that really really, that's that's your takeaway. But also in

0:51:53.040 --> 0:51:55.080
<v Speaker 1>this country, and I'm sure it's the same in America,

0:51:55.440 --> 0:51:58.719
<v Speaker 1>where the results of the election has been forgotten. So

0:51:59.040 --> 0:52:01.720
<v Speaker 1>actually people who want to remain or an intellectual elite.

0:52:02.239 --> 0:52:04.799
<v Speaker 1>There was forty eight percent of the population. If that's

0:52:04.840 --> 0:52:07.759
<v Speaker 1>an intellectual elite, we're doing really well. And the same

0:52:07.800 --> 0:52:10.040
<v Speaker 1>in America. You know, we did win the popular vote,

0:52:10.160 --> 0:52:13.279
<v Speaker 1>but somehow that's been forgotten. Now it's as if you know,

0:52:13.680 --> 0:52:16.239
<v Speaker 1>the great, you know, the great working man and woman

0:52:16.280 --> 0:52:20.359
<v Speaker 1>of America voted for Trump, and it's like, no, some did,

0:52:20.680 --> 0:52:23.040
<v Speaker 1>but an awful lot of vote of reelery. So I

0:52:23.120 --> 0:52:24.960
<v Speaker 1>know we have to wrap. But just a couple more things.

0:52:25.560 --> 0:52:29.000
<v Speaker 1>You said after splitting up with your boyfriend on the radio.

0:52:29.560 --> 0:52:32.239
<v Speaker 1>You said you'd prefer to live alone for the rest

0:52:32.320 --> 0:52:35.799
<v Speaker 1>of your life. Quote then live with towels that were

0:52:35.920 --> 0:52:41.600
<v Speaker 1>folded incorrectly? Are you a neat freak? But honestly, when

0:52:41.680 --> 0:52:44.320
<v Speaker 1>I when I do a book events and and that

0:52:44.400 --> 0:52:46.680
<v Speaker 1>was one particular book when that was when I said that,

0:52:47.280 --> 0:52:50.080
<v Speaker 1>it used to get this huge round of a bosom.

0:52:50.160 --> 0:52:55.719
<v Speaker 1>People who basically hate cohabiting. People cohabit because they have

0:52:55.920 --> 0:52:58.880
<v Speaker 1>to because it makes economic sense. I don't think anyone

0:52:58.960 --> 0:53:03.480
<v Speaker 1>wants to live with any I disagree. I love you

0:53:03.560 --> 0:53:07.440
<v Speaker 1>with my husband. People like things the way they like things. Well,

0:53:07.520 --> 0:53:10.120
<v Speaker 1>that's true. You have to compromise, exceed there you go.

0:53:10.600 --> 0:53:12.520
<v Speaker 1>So you know, it's like the toilet papers wrong, that

0:53:12.560 --> 0:53:15.200
<v Speaker 1>hung the wrong way around. It's kind of the bread

0:53:15.280 --> 0:53:18.960
<v Speaker 1>doesn't go there, you know. And also my problem is,

0:53:19.000 --> 0:53:21.640
<v Speaker 1>of course I'm old. So the longer you leave it,

0:53:21.840 --> 0:53:25.759
<v Speaker 1>the worst this gets. So are you interested in in

0:53:26.080 --> 0:53:30.200
<v Speaker 1>romance at this point? Always interested? Here? Are you on Tinder? No? No?

0:53:30.320 --> 0:53:33.759
<v Speaker 1>I was Grinder. No, I couldn't do Grinder because of

0:53:34.280 --> 0:53:36.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, well just what it is, and that I

0:53:36.719 --> 0:53:39.520
<v Speaker 1>worked for the BBC. But I felt I felt Tinder

0:53:39.719 --> 0:53:42.640
<v Speaker 1>was socially acceptable. I could do Tinder, but no more.

0:53:42.840 --> 0:53:45.359
<v Speaker 1>But no more. Okay, you've mentioned your books a couple

0:53:45.440 --> 0:53:47.200
<v Speaker 1>of times, and we want to give you a plug

0:53:47.200 --> 0:53:49.279
<v Speaker 1>because you have a new book coming out in the fall. Well,

0:53:49.360 --> 0:53:51.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I've got a book that's still for

0:53:51.120 --> 0:53:54.600
<v Speaker 1>sale in America called Holding. It's a novel published by

0:53:54.680 --> 0:53:57.440
<v Speaker 1>a Tria I think a t R I A. But

0:53:57.560 --> 0:53:59.319
<v Speaker 1>there's a new book we published here in the fall

0:53:59.440 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>and hope someone in America will buy. It's called a Keeper,

0:54:03.000 --> 0:54:05.279
<v Speaker 1>and and it's fiction. It's another novel. Yeah, this is

0:54:05.360 --> 0:54:08.320
<v Speaker 1>my this is my new thing. When I turned fifty,

0:54:08.360 --> 0:54:10.440
<v Speaker 1>I decided right enough, I've told you know, I've always

0:54:10.440 --> 0:54:12.440
<v Speaker 1>wanted to run a novel. And you know, you know

0:54:12.480 --> 0:54:14.040
<v Speaker 1>those people who say I'd love to be able to

0:54:14.080 --> 0:54:15.960
<v Speaker 1>play piano, I think there is a way you could

0:54:16.000 --> 0:54:18.279
<v Speaker 1>do that. You could just learn and shoot up about it.

0:54:18.680 --> 0:54:23.320
<v Speaker 1>So so that's that was my approach novel writing. I

0:54:23.360 --> 0:54:25.560
<v Speaker 1>thought enough talking about it, do it. So this is

0:54:25.600 --> 0:54:27.520
<v Speaker 1>my second one. I think you surprise people a bit

0:54:27.600 --> 0:54:30.759
<v Speaker 1>with the first one, that it was very soulful and

0:54:31.120 --> 0:54:34.120
<v Speaker 1>deep and thoughtful, and it was in some ways, you know,

0:54:34.239 --> 0:54:36.799
<v Speaker 1>the antithesis of parts of your show. I would say,

0:54:37.120 --> 0:54:38.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's certainly not the tele show at all.

0:54:39.120 --> 0:54:42.280
<v Speaker 1>But I think that's you know, we've all got multifacet

0:54:42.480 --> 0:54:44.640
<v Speaker 1>and people seem to want to put you in a box,

0:54:44.760 --> 0:54:48.880
<v Speaker 1>and then you know, if you deviate from their expectations,

0:54:49.080 --> 0:54:51.800
<v Speaker 1>they freak out. But then we do put ourselves in boxes,

0:54:52.040 --> 0:54:54.920
<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, you know if buttically at work, I

0:54:55.000 --> 0:54:56.879
<v Speaker 1>think you want people to treat you in a certain

0:54:56.960 --> 0:54:59.719
<v Speaker 1>way and assume you're a certain person. Um, you know,

0:55:00.040 --> 0:55:04.200
<v Speaker 1>And then at the weekend way and and and in closing,

0:55:04.320 --> 0:55:06.560
<v Speaker 1>speaking of the weekend, I read this quote of yours

0:55:06.640 --> 0:55:08.839
<v Speaker 1>and I really liked it, Graham, because I think it's

0:55:08.960 --> 0:55:13.000
<v Speaker 1>good advice for everyone. You said, you're talking about relationships,

0:55:13.040 --> 0:55:15.759
<v Speaker 1>and you said, I failed all my relationship exams, and yes,

0:55:15.880 --> 0:55:18.600
<v Speaker 1>it's a different life, but I'm still living. And then

0:55:18.680 --> 0:55:21.320
<v Speaker 1>you go on to say you're far better off finding

0:55:21.360 --> 0:55:24.200
<v Speaker 1>ways to enjoy the life you're living than mourning the

0:55:24.320 --> 0:55:27.239
<v Speaker 1>life you're not, which is a double whammy of unhappiness.

0:55:27.640 --> 0:55:29.399
<v Speaker 1>And if you want someone to share your life, well,

0:55:29.440 --> 0:55:32.239
<v Speaker 1>no one wants to share a miserable life. Look like

0:55:32.400 --> 0:55:34.600
<v Speaker 1>you're having fun, and someone might want to join the

0:55:34.680 --> 0:55:40.960
<v Speaker 1>parade a funeral, Cortege not so much. I'm so wise. Actually,

0:55:41.040 --> 0:55:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I really like that because I think, you know, it's

0:55:43.560 --> 0:55:46.120
<v Speaker 1>sort of a variation on the secret. You know, what

0:55:46.280 --> 0:55:49.239
<v Speaker 1>you put out you'll get in return, And I think

0:55:49.320 --> 0:55:54.359
<v Speaker 1>that's true. And I think happy people attract other happy people, right, Well,

0:55:54.400 --> 0:55:56.080
<v Speaker 1>I I get, I get, you know, I do advice

0:55:56.120 --> 0:55:59.319
<v Speaker 1>call them for the telegraphy, that's right, and agony uncle, yeah,

0:55:59.320 --> 0:56:00.919
<v Speaker 1>And I get so many let us from those people,

0:56:00.920 --> 0:56:03.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, being miserable and da da you know, I

0:56:03.840 --> 0:56:05.800
<v Speaker 1>really I really want to meet somebody's like, who the

0:56:05.880 --> 0:56:08.600
<v Speaker 1>hell wants to go out with you? You know you

0:56:08.719 --> 0:56:11.000
<v Speaker 1>have no you know, you're just you're literally sitting in

0:56:11.040 --> 0:56:13.560
<v Speaker 1>your house waiting to meet someone. That doesn't seem like

0:56:13.600 --> 0:56:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a party anyone wants to go to. So yeah, get

0:56:16.600 --> 0:56:18.800
<v Speaker 1>out live a bit. When you think about your future,

0:56:19.040 --> 0:56:21.200
<v Speaker 1>do you want to keep doing this as long as possible?

0:56:21.360 --> 0:56:24.759
<v Speaker 1>Do you see stopping the show and devoting your time

0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:27.879
<v Speaker 1>to writing? And I'd like to I love my job.

0:56:28.000 --> 0:56:30.400
<v Speaker 1>I like working. I suppose what I Ultimately I'd like

0:56:30.520 --> 0:56:34.000
<v Speaker 1>to work less, but not stop. People I know who

0:56:34.120 --> 0:56:37.640
<v Speaker 1>stopped working go a bit cucku because I just think

0:56:37.680 --> 0:56:39.799
<v Speaker 1>gives you too much time in your hands. And they

0:56:39.960 --> 0:56:42.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I could do that. The over analyze.

0:56:42.120 --> 0:56:44.920
<v Speaker 1>I agree with that. Yeah, you know they about me,

0:56:46.640 --> 0:56:49.520
<v Speaker 1>the obsessed, the obsessed about my nution and stupid things.

0:56:49.600 --> 0:56:51.480
<v Speaker 1>And so I do want to keep working, but I

0:56:51.520 --> 0:56:54.200
<v Speaker 1>would like to to write more. So it's about cutting back,

0:56:54.280 --> 0:56:57.440
<v Speaker 1>not stopping. Well, I am so happy to meet you.

0:56:57.640 --> 0:57:00.759
<v Speaker 1>This is so fun and not surprised seemingly you're you're

0:57:00.760 --> 0:57:03.880
<v Speaker 1>pretty good at chatting. Well, I like chatting. He's had

0:57:03.880 --> 0:57:07.520
<v Speaker 1>a little experience. Thank you Graham for coming on our podcast.

0:57:07.640 --> 0:57:12.760
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you. That does it for our first

0:57:12.800 --> 0:57:16.520
<v Speaker 1>podcast episode from London will be back this month with

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<v Speaker 1>more conversations from our trip across the Pond and are

0:57:20.200 --> 0:57:22.640
<v Speaker 1>huge thanks to the BBC folks who helped bring us

0:57:22.720 --> 0:57:26.440
<v Speaker 1>to the UK. That's Fiona Campbell, Jeremy Skeet and Katie Spending.

0:57:26.560 --> 0:57:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Thanks also to the team at the BBC's Millbank Studios

0:57:29.760 --> 0:57:33.840
<v Speaker 1>for recording today's episode and Tom in particular, Thank you Tom.

0:57:34.080 --> 0:57:35.880
<v Speaker 1>I want to give a shout out to our team

0:57:35.920 --> 0:57:39.400
<v Speaker 1>at Stitcher that's Gianna Palmer, Nora Richie and Jared O'Connell.

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