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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels. Second date updates. You know, normally when we
Speaker 1: do second date updates, we talked to the person and
Speaker 1: we go, what do you think went wrong? Why are
Speaker 1: you not getting a callback? And they may be able
Speaker 1: to cite one instance or a lot of times they're like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I have no clue. Well, the guy
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update today has
Speaker 1: multiple reasons why he thinks he's not getting a call back.
Speaker 1: So that should be fun. Let's start listing them, shall we. Mike,
Speaker 1: what's up? How are you good? Ahead, it sounds like
Speaker 1: your first date was not the best. You know, I
Speaker 1: didn't think it was that bad in the moment, but
Speaker 1: looking back now I'm starting to kind of put the
Speaker 1: pieces together and I kind of take a figure to out.
Speaker 1: I don't know, is it something where you only have
Speaker 1: yourself to blame or were they circum stances outside your control? Well, like,
Speaker 1: I guess someone outside of my control. But I think
Speaker 1: I kind of just got awkward with it. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I think it was made. So what's the name of
Speaker 1: the girl that you want to call today? The girl
Speaker 1: I want to call today as Andrea? And where did
Speaker 1: you meet Andrea? On tender nicely? So it started off
Speaker 1: great anyway. I love when anybody says that there's such
Speaker 1: shame attached to it when it comes out of your mouth.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not the place you want to tell
Speaker 1: your mom, like, hey, look who I fell on Tinder.
Speaker 1: You don't want to take Tenderella home, all right, so
Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about Tenderella before you tell
Speaker 1: us what went wrong on the date. All right. Well,
Speaker 1: obviously I swiped right, so I thought she was high
Speaker 1: the right off the bat. She's a good looking girl.
Speaker 1: And then as I was looking through her pictures and stuff,
Speaker 1: I's noticed that she was athletic. She looked like she
Speaker 1: played sports and worked out. So, you know, she responded
Speaker 1: back to me and we started talking. She's really saffy,
Speaker 1: So I like that, you know, kind of the bantering
Speaker 1: back and forth. Yea, how long did you guys chat
Speaker 1: before you just ided to actually go on a date?
Speaker 1: It was about a week, so I think that's kind
Speaker 1: of long for tender. Yeah it is. Normally it's like
Speaker 1: ten minutes, right, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like, well, this is a long relationship. You
Speaker 1: guys were practically tender married at that point. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I was thinking about changing my status. Tell us about
Speaker 1: the date. What did you guys actually do? So on
Speaker 1: the date? You know, we went to an oyster bar
Speaker 1: um and she actually, yeah, I thought it was nice.
Speaker 1: She said I could pick her up um, which I
Speaker 1: thought was like okay, all right, you know, actually get
Speaker 1: to give to her place. So when to pick her
Speaker 1: up in that floor, I think I tarted losing control
Speaker 1: of the situation. But you started losing control before the
Speaker 1: situation even bad, Like yeah, yeah, I was listening to
Speaker 1: music in the car. I wasn't saying attention, you know,
Speaker 1: it was all excited about her. And I walked her
Speaker 1: into my vehicle, you know, if in the door floor,
Speaker 1: trying to be a gentleman and then give it a car.
Speaker 1: I turn on the radio and then just damn like
Speaker 1: right in her face, this music just starts blaring and
Speaker 1: it's just like talking about ing. I'm like, oh, like crazy,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, so red. It was so embarrassing. Did
Speaker 1: you did you apologize right away? I should have apologized.
Speaker 1: I've did the right thing to do. Instead, I just
Speaker 1: kind of like cut it down. And so I was like,
Speaker 1: did do you listen the little wayne? And she's like no, no,
Speaker 1: all right, I could see that'd be a bad suppression. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think it was. She's like, what's on this guy's mind?
Speaker 1: Already picking me up? Okay? I know, I know the
Speaker 1: tender and then the music. I don't think it was
Speaker 1: looking good for me. Right? Did you recover from that?
Speaker 1: Or did she seem disturbed by your music selection the
Speaker 1: whole night? It was a little awkward at first, obviously,
Speaker 1: but I think I started recovering, you know, doing well
Speaker 1: by the time we got to the restaurant. You know,
Speaker 1: we are talking, yeah, good and how how was the
Speaker 1: Oyster Bar? Oyster Bar was delicious? I meant, how is
Speaker 1: your time with her at the oyster Bar? Sorry, that's okay. Well,
Speaker 1: the time was a little awkward because, you know, like
Speaker 1: I said, we were talking everything's cool, and then I
Speaker 1: thought it'd be funny and trying to make a little
Speaker 1: joke about you know, oysters aprodisiacts and she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: well in my head it was funny. It was funny
Speaker 1: in my head. It just makes me roll my eye.
Speaker 1: And this is after she got in your car with
Speaker 1: a song that was blaring about sex, and then you're like, hey,
Speaker 1: these are apphrodisiacts like. I think. The only thing I
Speaker 1: could have said afterwards to make it more awkwards give
Speaker 1: like a little wink or something like, I don't matter
Speaker 1: what was your intention of the state? I mean, I
Speaker 1: actually liked our bantering on tender and stuff. I thought
Speaker 1: she's really funny and cool, and I've had hookups before
Speaker 1: off tender obviously, but I kind of wanted this to
Speaker 1: be a little bit something more. Okay, Okay, So after
Speaker 1: all that, did it seem like she liked you at
Speaker 1: the end of the day or was she just trying
Speaker 1: to get out of there dude? Once again? And we
Speaker 1: started thinking back up and then we get to her place.
Speaker 1: I started walking here to her door, and then you know,
Speaker 1: I thought the stars were aligning. This is it. You know,
Speaker 1: I've done this many times before. I leaned in for
Speaker 1: the kiss and then she's just going not not tonight.
Speaker 1: How'd you feel when she said that I was a
Speaker 1: little bit called off guard, honestly because that's never happened
Speaker 1: to me before. Not trying the brag, but I'm pretty
Speaker 1: good looking dude, and that's just turned down right at
Speaker 1: the doorsteps. You know. I feel like there's two ways
Speaker 1: you can say that. You can say that coyly where
Speaker 1: you're like, not tonight, gotta work harder for it, or
Speaker 1: you can say not ever. You know, looking back at it,
Speaker 1: it kind of seemed like she's just a little bit irritated.
Speaker 1: So I didn't know that she was, does me? Does
Speaker 1: They thought like just like she needed a moment to
Speaker 1: get away from tonight and maybe because thinking through decompress
Speaker 1: a little bit. Yeah. Have you tried to contact her
Speaker 1: since your date? Yeah? I reached out Sarah and tried
Speaker 1: texting her and calling her because she did give me
Speaker 1: her number, but she never really responded. You should have
Speaker 1: just sent her a link to that little Wayne song
Speaker 1: you were listening to. I wanted a box of Oysters. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, man, Well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. Okay, cool?
Speaker 1: Thanks man? All right, hold on Brook and Jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Second date all right, if you're just tuning
Speaker 1: in for today's second date update. Oh wow, sorry, song
Speaker 1: kind of came out of nowhere. It's Brook and Jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning. That's exactly what happened to Mike on
Speaker 1: his first date. He thinks that the girl might not
Speaker 1: be calling him back because a string of things went wrong.
Speaker 1: He met her on tender. They decided to go out
Speaker 1: to an oyster bar, but when they first got into
Speaker 1: his car, he forgot that his radio was on to
Speaker 1: a very inappropriate song. He turned his car on, and
Speaker 1: then I had to look over her and go, uh,
Speaker 1: sorry about that romantic Mike, Are you ready to do
Speaker 1: your second date update? Absolutely? Is that kind of like
Speaker 1: the song that was playing in your car when she
Speaker 1: got in? Yeah, except it was way way worse. Yeah, Mike,
Speaker 1: she denied your kiss at the end of the night.
Speaker 1: Is that actually why you want to call her? You know?
Speaker 1: Actually I really feel like there could be something way
Speaker 1: more than just a little tender hook up. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: I'll dollar phone of her right now, get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out why she's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: All right? I am little nervous, but all right, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, is Andrea there? Yeah? Did she?
Speaker 1: Hello Andrea? How are you? My name is Jubil and
Speaker 1: I host a radio show called Brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Okay, how are you doing today? Good? I'm sorry?
Speaker 1: Did you say you were calling from the radio? Yes,
Speaker 1: a morning radio show. What's going on? We do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called the second Date Update. What
Speaker 1: that is is if you go out on a date
Speaker 1: with somebody and then don't call them back after they
Speaker 1: get in contact with us to see if we can
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and find out what went wrong. Okay,
Speaker 1: and so somebody just emailed us about you. This is
Speaker 1: so weird. His name is Mike, and you guys met
Speaker 1: on tender Oh my god. Mike. Yes, Mike has been
Speaker 1: trying to contact you since your date, but apparently you
Speaker 1: haven't answered any of his phone calls or text messages
Speaker 1: and he didn't take the hint. Apparently, well, he took
Speaker 1: the hint. He knows that you don't want to get
Speaker 1: back to him for some reason, but he doesn't know why.
Speaker 1: So he asked if we could get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and get that answer on the radio. Yes, did
Speaker 1: you like Mike at all? Well? I what did he
Speaker 1: tell you, guys, what do you know? He told us
Speaker 1: how you met. He also admitted to us that he
Speaker 1: feels like your first date was kind of awkward. There
Speaker 1: was a point, I guess where he picked you up
Speaker 1: and you got in the car and he had a
Speaker 1: really inappropriate song blaring on the radio. He thought you
Speaker 1: might have felt awkward about that. Yeah, that was weird.
Speaker 1: He also told us how you turned him down for
Speaker 1: a kiss at the end of the day and you
Speaker 1: said no, not tonight or something like that. He told
Speaker 1: you a lot, Yeah he did. He told us all
Speaker 1: about your date. He also said that he really likes
Speaker 1: you and wants to see you again. Honestly, the most
Speaker 1: shocking part of the night was when he came to
Speaker 1: pick me up. He looked nothing like his cinder profile.
Speaker 1: He catfished you. No, no, it's something he didn't like,
Speaker 1: Like it wasn't like give it a different person. He
Speaker 1: had bruises all over his face. What did wait when like,
Speaker 1: he looks like he got this chicked out of him? Really?
Speaker 1: What he did not mention that huge black eye that
Speaker 1: lit like and I was like, oh my god, what happened?
Speaker 1: What did he say? He's so weird? He told me
Speaker 1: that he like does that sometimes gets into like fights
Speaker 1: with his friends, like mm A style in his backyard
Speaker 1: a month, like like a fight club thing, they fight
Speaker 1: each other. And so he was just super like whatever,
Speaker 1: like no big deal, and so like just looks like
Speaker 1: that a lot of the time because he and his
Speaker 1: friends feat the shit out of each other. So he
Speaker 1: does like Novice style MMA in his backyard, I guess,
Speaker 1: and he thought, I mean, was he saying this to
Speaker 1: impress you or no? I asked him why his face
Speaker 1: looks like scrambled a. He was like, wow, I just
Speaker 1: do this, not a big deal, like holy casual. So
Speaker 1: no big deal. Me and my friends just fight in
Speaker 1: the backyard once a month. Yeah. It was so weird.
Speaker 1: I mean, we could at least warn me that he
Speaker 1: was going to look like you know, these greaters went on.
Speaker 1: It's like, I would you have gone out with him though?
Speaker 1: If he would have said, Hey, by the way, this
Speaker 1: is what I do in my spare time, and I'm
Speaker 1: going to show up with a black eye. Oh that's
Speaker 1: so weird. It's so weird that what kind of psychological
Speaker 1: issues going to beat the crap out of each other?
Speaker 1: Like what if that he didn't tell us any of that.
Speaker 1: He just told us about your date and it was
Speaker 1: all good, except for those couple of weird things. He
Speaker 1: didn't tell us that. He showed up and looked like
Speaker 1: somebody had beaten him with a bag of pennies. It
Speaker 1: was horrifying and I couldn't believe it. I want to
Speaker 1: know a little bit more about his backyard, mma ring.
Speaker 1: You want to get in on it. Yeah, you want
Speaker 1: to get in on that action. Let's ask him about it, Andrew,
Speaker 1: because he's actually on the other line listening and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. What. Yeah, now he is not
Speaker 1: on the phone, Yes he is, Mike. How's he going? Ho? What?
Speaker 1: What are you doing? We mean, what am I doing? Well?
Speaker 1: I just wanted to tell me. You could just texted
Speaker 1: me or called me, and then I we have to
Speaker 1: do this. We'ven not to do this. Period. You could
Speaker 1: take up hand and just let it go. You're beating
Speaker 1: me your number, so obviously you're cool to give me
Speaker 1: your number, so you should expect a phone call or attack.
Speaker 1: My god. Okay, Andrew, that first off, my face looked great.
Speaker 1: Right now. I've never broken a bone or anything. It
Speaker 1: was just a little beat up, and for the record,
Speaker 1: I want so they're you just a little beat up?
Speaker 1: I wasn't even that Bet normally looks like the face
Speaker 1: with to a grinder, but this time it was fine.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, And that's supposed to be attractive to me, Andrew. Look,
Speaker 1: I had a fight the night before with my bros.
Speaker 1: So I don't know what you wanted to you're bros.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I didn't think it's gonna be that
Speaker 1: big of a deal. Honestly, you stalled by my pictures
Speaker 1: that I like athletic things and indy athletic things is
Speaker 1: one thing. Beating the out of each other in the
Speaker 1: backyard completely different. It's making me better. It's making me better.
Speaker 1: Like I don't understand what what I don't I don't
Speaker 1: even know why you're so upset that you should be
Speaker 1: excited to have like friends that enjoy hanging outb So
Speaker 1: that should say something about my social life. I'm thinking
Speaker 1: about your social life. I'm I'm learning everything I need
Speaker 1: to know. I mean, what were you doing last day
Speaker 1: other night before? They were just petting your cat and
Speaker 1: watching Netflix? Or what are you judging me? Is that
Speaker 1: what's happening right now? Wow? Is this your Is this
Speaker 1: your attend to like get me out on a second
Speaker 1: date with you? Seriously? Oh, I just don't understand my
Speaker 1: AlSi you're coming out like bashing my face, which it
Speaker 1: already was bashed enough. Don't need any of that solacers
Speaker 1: and black with joggling onto your chest. It was just
Speaker 1: keep telling it was just from the night before. It
Speaker 1: was just a little cut, a little cut, weed, a
Speaker 1: little bit. I'm a man, I can handle it. It's
Speaker 1: not a big deal. Hell do you think that someone
Speaker 1: wants to kiss a person who's bleeding all over the room?
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Seriously, he leaned towards me. I was like, seriously,
Speaker 1: you want me to kiss that? Hell? Hell, Mike, I
Speaker 1: support your mma backyard fighting if you want to do that.
Speaker 1: But why don't you Why didn't you warn her though, like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show up in my face is gonna be bruised. Honestly,
Speaker 1: it was this the night before, you know, and I thought,
Speaker 1: you know, hey, I didn't think it looks that bad. Honestly,
Speaker 1: in comparison to other times Bruise told me it wouldn't
Speaker 1: be a big deal. I thought she'd be cool with it.
Speaker 1: Why would you plan a fight the night before a
Speaker 1: first date. Like if I mean, if that's gonna be
Speaker 1: your hobby, maybe wait till after. I mean, I get
Speaker 1: what you're saying there, but we planned this every month.
Speaker 1: It's the same day, so I wasn't gonna miss it.
Speaker 1: You know, it's the same day every month. It's more
Speaker 1: important than her. Look sometimes, you know, I go through there.
Speaker 1: I don'tly have like a scratch on my face anything
Speaker 1: completely fine, So like what that night a little bit rougher,
Speaker 1: I'll admit, but whatever. I didn't think it'd be that
Speaker 1: big of a deal. And right now things look fine,
Speaker 1: but you should come out to you know. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna thank you. Are you sure, Andrea? Because I would
Speaker 1: like to ask you out on a second date with Mike.
Speaker 1: We will pay for it if you'll go out with
Speaker 1: him again. I'd rather punch myself in the face than
Speaker 1: go on another date. It's really not that big of
Speaker 1: a deal. I don't know when you're thinking this a
Speaker 1: big deal. Look, I look great right now, I look
Speaker 1: see I look better than my kitter picture. Honestly, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm not into this. I'm sure there's somebody else out
Speaker 1: there who will totally appreciate it maybe, but not out Mike.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No second date, man, that's a bummer. Man.
Speaker 1: I really liked her. Yeah, I know. Hey, you know what, Mike.
Speaker 1: Sometimes in dating it can give you the upper cut
Speaker 1: and you can be up against the ropes. But I
Speaker 1: know that you can get back on track and stand
Speaker 1: up like the true champion you are and get back
Speaker 1: into dating world and do your thing again. Mike, I
Speaker 1: want you to come fight with me. I am not
Speaker 1: going to one of your backyard brawls. Mike, No, I
Speaker 1: don't want to do it. Broken Jewel in the morning
Speaker 1: text in at seven eight, five to nine two says
Speaker 1: that guy obviously forgot the rules to fight club. If
Speaker 1: they followed those rules, maybe he might have a second date.
Speaker 1: First rule of fight club. Don't talk about fight club.
Speaker 1: If you missed today's second date update, Mike wanted to
Speaker 1: call a girl named Andrea. She wasn't calling him back
Speaker 1: after they went out on a date. Why wasn't she
Speaker 1: calling back because when he showed up to go out
Speaker 1: with her, his face was pulverized. And it turns out
Speaker 1: that he and his buddies do a backyard mma fight
Speaker 1: once a month and he lost. He lost badly this
Speaker 1: last round, and he was all beat up, and she
Speaker 1: didn't want to date a guy who has backyard MMA
Speaker 1: fights with his friends. How can you blame her? I
Speaker 1: mean I would And who do you who do you
Speaker 1: tell your friends that you're dating. Hey, he's having a party.
Speaker 1: There may be some fistfighting in the backyard. But it's cool.
Speaker 1: I like his confidence though he's like, I wasn't planning
Speaker 1: on getting beat up the fight before. I was cool,
Speaker 1: Like he's just last time, I totally won. I just
Speaker 1: had a bad day. If you want a second it up,
Speaker 1: they remember, I'll gifted his email the show, and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back, Moving
Speaker 1: ninety two point five