1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, on work, sex, parenting, or more, 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: and all you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,759 Speaker 1: We will receive your letter. We will get your letter, 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: we will read your letter, and we will possibly read 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 1: it on the air, and you never know, it could 8 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 1: be yours. You never know. Buckle uppohold on tight. We 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank 10 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: you nephew. Subject why did she change her wardrobe? Dear 11 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I've been married for twelve years and I 12 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: love my wife, but sometimes I cheat. I tell all 13 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: the women that I am married, and I make sure 14 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: they have something to lose too before we go all 15 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: the way. So, having said that, one of my son's 16 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: teachers had that look in her eye like she wanted 17 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: to get to know me better. My wife loves her. 18 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: So it was just my luck that my wife asked 19 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: her to keep our son on Tuesday and Thursday nights 20 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 1: so she could take a public speaking class or work. 21 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: This teacher lady is fine and she knows it. I 22 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: started going home early to relieve her, and I always 23 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 1: let her know I was interested. After a week or so, 24 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: she started flirting back, so I paid her extra money 25 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: for babysitting so she would know what was up. She 26 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: propositioned me first, and she said she was bored at 27 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: my house, so I needed to come home early to 28 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: check on her. So I went home to check on her. 29 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: We started playing around, but I am not ignorant enough 30 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: to have sex in my own house, so we planned 31 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: to meet up the next day at a hotel. That 32 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 1: was Tuesday, but then on Thursday, things went left. I 33 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: got home early and this chick was in my house 34 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: wearing a tight fitting dress with her breast and behind 35 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: poking out, and she smelled like expensive perfume. Her hair 36 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: was done and she had on makeup. I loved it, 37 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: but she was overdressed for her babysitting job. I told 38 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: her to hurry and leave before my wife got home, 39 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: but it was too late. My wife walked in and 40 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: the first thing she asked was why did she change 41 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: her wardrobe? She didn't have that on when I left. 42 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: I was standing there looking stupid with my boy at attention. 43 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: Miss teacher lady lied and said she had a date 44 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: to get to. Nothing happened at all. So how do 45 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: I convince my wife? Listen, you serial cheater. Okay, if 46 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: you think I'm gonna help you convince your wife, but 47 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: this one time, one time you didn't cheat, You're crazy. 48 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: You get no sympathy. No sympathy here. Maybe Steve will 49 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: help you. I don't know, but I'm not helping you 50 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 1: at all because this is what you do. This is 51 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: what you do, and this time you just got caught. 52 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: I just have to tell you. You know you're wrong. 53 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: You know you're wrong. You said she was fine, She 54 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: gave you the eye, and you let her know you 55 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 1: were interested. You even paid her extra for babysitting. You 56 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: were playing around with her in your house and made 57 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: plans to see her the very next day. Then you 58 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: went home early to check on her. You said you 59 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: weren't that ignorant to have sex with her at your 60 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: own home. But you are stupid. Though nothing in this 61 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: letter says you're smarter that you respect your wife in 62 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: your marriage, because you've already admitted you're a cheater. You 63 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: did that in the first couple of sentences, and you 64 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: act like it's no big deal. I'm not helping you 65 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: get out of this. This is just too dumb for me. 66 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: It's too dumb, Steve. Thank you, Shelly. I'll take it 67 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: from here in mind, respect your opinion. Now I think 68 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:46,119 Speaker 1: you're spot on. Now let me get this, dumb ass man. 69 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: Some thoughts show stupid behind. Boy. You're so damned dumb. 70 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: You've been married for twelve years and I love my wife, 71 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: but sometimes I cheat. Right there, dog, you lost every 72 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: woman listening to this. There's nothing we can say or 73 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: anything we can say to you that's gonna fix this. 74 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: You're stupid. I wouldn't even have wrote no letter and 75 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: said nothing like this. You what are you talking about? 76 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: This fault? You're dumb. You You don't think somebody gonna 77 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: read this letter to know somebody's wife at high to 78 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: teacher for tuoson a Thursday that Noah lady has taken 79 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: a speaking class. You don't see nobody doing one and 80 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 1: one is two man. You' dumb. I tell all the 81 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: women I'm married, and I make sure they got something 82 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: to lose to what you don't care about the one 83 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 1: you've been to lose. You think they're gonna say, oh, 84 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: I got a lot to lose too, Let's lose it together. 85 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: That's what you think they're gonna say. So, having said 86 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: that one of my sons, teacher had that looking high 87 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: like she wanted to get to know me better. My 88 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: wife loves and so much. It was just my luck, 89 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 1: he would go, he luck it up. I liked this 90 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: part right when he said just my luck. I couldn't 91 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: believe it. Man that my wife asked her to keep 92 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: our son on Tuesday and Thursday night so she could 93 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: take a public speaking class for work. Teach a lady. Fine, 94 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 1: she know it. I started going home early to relieve 95 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:26,119 Speaker 1: her and always let her know I was interested. Well 96 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 1: after week or so, she started flirting back. So I 97 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 1: paid extra money for babysitting so she would know what 98 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 1: was up. Oh, you bought it. She propositioned me first 99 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: and says she was bored, and my boy, boy, no, 100 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: no she didn't, No, she didn't. You started paying her 101 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: extra money to let her know what was up. You 102 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 1: was propositioning her. Then you turned around and said she 103 00:05:55,640 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: propositioned me first. She says she was bored at my house. No, 104 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: that was that was to give you what you had paid. 105 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 1: Faull See says ain't none of y'all coming out and 106 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: saying it y'all suddenly doing it. You start giving her 107 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: extra money for babysitting so she could let her know 108 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 1: what was up. Then she said, well, I'm bored at 109 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: the house. You need to come check on me. You 110 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,919 Speaker 1: can start getting some of this money back in payment 111 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: forth immediately. That's what happened. Dog. Try to write in 112 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: here like ain't nobody like somebody's stupid. Nah, we get 113 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: to the rest of the stupid letter when we come back. Yeah, 114 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 1: all right, Um, we'll have part two of Steve's response 115 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: coming up on today's Strawberry letter the subject why did 116 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: she change her wardrobe? We'll get back into it at 117 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after right after this. You're listening, all right, 118 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry lettering and finish 119 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: up with your response. Well, this man been married twelve 120 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:08,600 Speaker 1: years and the subject is why she changed reward He 121 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: loves his wife, but he cheats somebody, Like I said 122 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: after he said that, Bro, you lost everybody in the letter. 123 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:22,239 Speaker 1: H And you tell women all the time that you married, 124 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: and I make sure that they have something to lose too, 125 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: Like one like what and what woman do you get 126 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: to go along with this? To says, yeah, we can. 127 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: We got a family too, and we're losing it. Do 128 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: you understand how they don't make no sense and you're 129 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: trying to You're just telling us that in the letter 130 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,559 Speaker 1: because you're not finding a whole lot of man women 131 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: that wan't to do this. You just not dog. You 132 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: ain't nobody that fortune. You putting it out there like 133 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 1: you try to make it so like you know, if 134 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: you gonna like something lose, you make sure you a 135 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: women got something lose to you still And as a 136 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: teacher at the school is real fine. That's one of 137 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: your son's teachers and your wife loves her so much. 138 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: You said, with just your luck that your wife asked 139 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: her to keep your son on Tuesday and Thursday so 140 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: she could take a special speaking class. You said, hot dog, 141 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: that's just my luck. And I started going home earlier 142 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: to relieve her, but I always let her know I 143 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: was interested. Then about a week or so she started 144 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: flirting back, so I paid her extra money for babysitting 145 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 1: so she would know what was up. Then this food 146 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: says she propositioned me first, and says she boy Scott, 147 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:42,199 Speaker 1: you made the proposition by paying the extra money to 148 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 1: baby sit. All y'all doing is y'all doing an active prostitution. 149 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: But what you're doing is you're not calling it prostitution. 150 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: You paid her extra money to baby sit wink wink, 151 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: just so she would know what was up. She being 152 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:04,559 Speaker 1: tricking herself, got the message and said, I'm bored at 153 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: your house. You are to come home early and check 154 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: on me. What you think she wanted you to come 155 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: home and check, So now you take your stupid down 156 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: home to check with him. And y'all started playing around. 157 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: But then he say, I'm not so ignorant to have 158 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: sex in my own house. Okay, bro. So the playing 159 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 1: around y'all was doing slapping and kissing, depressing up on 160 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: each other, maybe some other things. But you didn't have 161 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 1: intercourse in your own house, is what you say. So 162 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 1: we're planning to meet up the next day at a hotel. 163 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 1: That was Tuesday, but then on Thursdays things went left. 164 00:09:56,360 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: Now we are to the letter. Things went left. I 165 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 1: got home early and this chick was in my house 166 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 1: wearing a tight fitting dress with her breasting behind poking out. 167 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: She smelled like expensive perfume, her hair was done, and 168 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: she had makeup on. I loved it because she was 169 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:20,240 Speaker 1: overdressed for her babysitting chip. So you don't get busted. 170 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,559 Speaker 1: You told her to harry up and leave for your 171 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: wife got home, but it was too late. Your wife 172 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:28,719 Speaker 1: walked in. The first thing she asked was why did 173 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: she change her wardrobe? She did not have that on 174 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: when I left. I'm standing there looking stupid with my 175 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 1: boy at attention. So miss teacher lady lied and said 176 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: she had a date to get to. Nothing happened at all, 177 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: So how do I convince my wife? Wait a minute, Hulda, 178 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: are you that stupid? So let me ask something. First 179 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: of all, you stupid for what you're trying to get 180 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: away with. But this last question, the girl had given 181 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: the explanation for the tight dress, makeup, breast booty out. 182 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: She says she had a date to get to. Nothing 183 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 1: happened at all, So how do I convince my wife? 184 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: What you gotta convince hub it's right there. But see, 185 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: you're so stupid. You then wrote a letter in and 186 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: you don't think that somebody out here gonna hear this 187 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: letter that note that there's a woman taking a special 188 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 1: speaking class. Where ain't that many of them? Who has 189 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 1: hired a school teacher that watches her son? That's fine, 190 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: ain't got a husband? You don't think none of that 191 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: gonna happen. And now you send upig going, how do 192 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: I convince my wife? Dog? The convincing is gonna have 193 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: to be after this letter. Al, you're gonna have to 194 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 1: convince her that you didn't write this letter because there's 195 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: another man somewhere with a son that's gotta teacher, and 196 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: who day wife was taking a special in speech class 197 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: at night, and Day was over that watching and he 198 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 1: wouldn't come home early. And then he saw this lady 199 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: with all this outfit on, and then told her to 200 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: hear him leave for his wife came home, and his 201 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: wife came home just like your wife can't who you 202 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:27,199 Speaker 1: see how stupid this is. I'm not fit to help you, God, 203 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: but you really that ain't even your problem. Your overall 204 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: problem is us about a stupid so And I just 205 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 1: I can't help stupid people. I just can't you. I can't. Dog. 206 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,440 Speaker 1: Your marriage is gonna be over shortly because you're gonna 207 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 1: get busted, you damn nick at busted matter you couldn't 208 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: even make it from Tuesday test. I bet you're disappointed. 209 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: You ain't got no cheap skills. You can't make it 210 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: two days, all right? Hit us up on Instagram at 211 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM to comment on today's Strawberry Letter. 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