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Speaker 1: Talia is on the phone for To Catch a Cheater

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Speaker 1: today and she says that she's been dating her boyfriend

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Speaker 1: for a little over a year now, but she thinks

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Speaker 1: he might be cheating, so we're gonna see if we

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Speaker 1: can help her out. Talia, I'm sorry you're going through,

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Speaker 1: But why do you think your boyfriends cheating on you?

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Speaker 2: Because he's a serial cheater and I think I'm really

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Speaker 2: starting to actually like him. I know that's not like

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Speaker 2: a legit reason, but I'll explain.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I heard of him on y'all show and then

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Speaker 2: I just like randomly met him out one night at

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Speaker 2: a bar, okay, and I got so excited because I

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Speaker 2: was like, it was like meeting one of you guys.

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Speaker 3: So you heard of him on the show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, he's been on with you guys a lot.

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Speaker 2: His name is DeShawn.

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Speaker 3: Oh Okay, Yeah, we know DeShawn for sure.

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Speaker 1: If you if you have listened to the show for

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Speaker 1: a little while, then you may have heard of Sean on

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Speaker 1: here before. I think Deshawn's actually been on a To

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Speaker 1: Catch a Cheater before. Yeah, I think he was.

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Speaker 3: I don't remember if he was cheating or not. I

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Speaker 3: am I don't. I don't think he was okay, but.

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, So you know Deshaun then who calls into

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Speaker 1: the show a lot and has been on a to

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Speaker 1: Catch cheer before you think he's cheating?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then we talked about that, and then we

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Speaker 2: began we started becoming friends. And his expel friend was

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Speaker 2: actually such a she was never nice to meet at all,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, okay, and then eventually they broke

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Speaker 2: up and heart broke him for a while. Him being

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Speaker 2: on the show to catch like in the to Catch Cheer,

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Speaker 2: does that make you want to go out with him?

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Speaker 3: Like, I guess like you usually would give like the

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Speaker 3: opposite effect.

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Speaker 2: Well, he wasn't cheating like when he was on your show.

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Speaker 2: Do you guys found out that he wasn't cheating?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so solid, all right, But now you think

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Speaker 1: he's cheating.

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Speaker 4: Well, I know he's been shading in the past, and

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Speaker 4: he said he's been working late recently, and he's been

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Speaker 4: saying that he like.

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Speaker 2: Needs a little bit of space, which automatically makes me

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Speaker 2: think that he's getting like he actually wants to need

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Speaker 2: some someone else.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I knew that there was a chance he

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Speaker 4: might immediately know what's going on, because for.

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Speaker 1: Sure we talked to him all the time, Like he

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Speaker 1: calls up and we talked to him off the air sometimes.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, so.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna know it's me if we try to do

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Speaker 1: the thing where we're set up for flowers or whatever.

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Speaker 1: So Talia is on the phone and she thinks that

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Speaker 1: her boyfriend of a little over a year might be

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Speaker 1: messing around. So we're about to call him and see

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Speaker 1: if he is cheating on her. We're not going to

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Speaker 1: try to play any games because he's been on the

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Speaker 1: show a bunch. He was actually on it to Catch

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Speaker 1: Cheater a while back. I think it's been like over

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Speaker 1: a year at least since well, definitely over a year

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Speaker 1: because he's been dating to lean Out for a year.

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Speaker 1: But he's been on to Catch Cheater before. So we're

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Speaker 1: just gonna call up and ask him if he's cheating

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Speaker 1: on Telia. All right, And Telia, you just think that

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Speaker 1: he's had a history of being kind of shady, and

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Speaker 1: he's been acting shady now yeah, okay, all right, Well

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Speaker 1: here we go. I'm gonna call his name's Deshaun. He's

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Speaker 1: been on the show a bunch. You may have heard

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Speaker 1: him before. If you listen to the show a lot,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna call him right now and see if

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Speaker 1: Phil tells iph he's cheating on you.

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Speaker 3: Here we go. I love hey, dale.

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Speaker 5: Ah, that's.

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Speaker 3: It's sable. How you doing?

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Speaker 5: What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Not much? Man, Just call to check in and see

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Speaker 3: how you're doing.

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Speaker 1: It's been a while since we heard from you.

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Speaker 5: Just checking.

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Speaker 3: It's true. We're not checking on you for nothing, Sean.

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Speaker 1: We got we we got a an email about you,

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Speaker 1: and it's not for a date. It's somebody that thinks

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Speaker 1: you're cheating on them.

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Speaker 5: A man, why can't I just win tickets? Man?

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Speaker 1: You've been on to catch a cheer before, and to

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Speaker 1: your credit, you weren't cheating. But now Telea emailed us

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Speaker 1: and she thinks might be messing around.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, baby, Like Taliah, what the hell? What

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Speaker 5: the hell are we on the radio for? Like what

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Speaker 5: you got going on? I told you I needed space?

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Speaker 5: Like I don't even know how he's doing all of this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know that you told me you need a space.

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Speaker 2: So why I've been like literally nothing but supportive and

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Speaker 2: there for you, and now all of a sudden you're

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Speaker 2: asking for space like that's super sus.

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Speaker 3: Wait so Sshan said he wanted space from you, Taliah. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you guys are together or aren't?

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Speaker 5: No? We are not? This is crazy, Yes we are. No.

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Speaker 2: I think that I can help you. Think we can

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Speaker 2: think and reflect together. I love reflecting. Like we can

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Speaker 2: make this a group activity.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. You know, we only been DATD for like two months,

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Speaker 5: so I don't know why she's telling everybody it's been over. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: like everybody says that, like my friends came a year ago.

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Speaker 2: We met a year ago.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, yeah, you're right, we met a year of go.

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Speaker 5: We didn't start dating until two months ago.

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Speaker 2: Literally, all that is a semantic It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 5: Just because you knew me, just because we met me

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Speaker 5: was together the day that we met. You know, he wasn't.

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Speaker 2: John. I wasn't even going to bring this up because

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Speaker 2: the past is the past. But your past includes this

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Speaker 2: show and this segment more times than Spirit Airlines has

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Speaker 2: customer complaints.

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Speaker 5: Okay, damn, where did that come from?

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Speaker 2: I did it because you know what, It's true and

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Speaker 2: if we want this relationship to last, we have to

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Speaker 2: fight for it and be honest with each other.

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Speaker 5: To Sean, yeah, yeah, we we should fight for it.

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Speaker 5: But you know, I'm just I'm just tired of surrendering

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Speaker 5: right now.

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Speaker 2: You know, so what does that even mean? What does

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Speaker 2: that mean? You're tired of surrendering?

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So don't do that fight for us?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we got rambow overhead.

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Speaker 2: You're just giving up on us, like this is what

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Speaker 2: you do. And this is why you have such a sketchy.

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Speaker 4: Pass, is that you don't You just like things when

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Speaker 4: it's convenient for you, and when things go like a

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Speaker 4: little bit of right, you don't want to sit down

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Speaker 4: and work through it. You just want to abandon your

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Speaker 4: post and just go to another girl.

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Speaker 3: Are you cheating or listen?

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Speaker 5: You gotta be in a relationship with somebody to be cheated,

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Speaker 5: and we're not together. So how can I cheat on

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Speaker 5: somebody that I'm not You know that I'm not with

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean? And I know y'all hearing

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Speaker 5: what I'm hearing, y'all. Heir, she's crazy, I know, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Okay, just a little note for you, since you

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Speaker 2: love to be with women, don't ever call a woman crazy.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you don't even know what crazy is.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I apologize to saying I shouldn't have called

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Speaker 5: you that. But she's a little over the top. Is

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Speaker 5: that better? Do? Yeah? See this right now, listen too, man,

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Speaker 5: don't ya. Don't he this, y'all hear her.

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Speaker 2: I can't even like you, don't even sound like you

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Speaker 2: right now. So here's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: hang up. I'm gonna give you some time, and I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna call you tomorrow. Obviously you need like a good

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Speaker 2: night's rest or something. I love you, goodbye. I will

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Speaker 2: call you tomorrow.

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Speaker 5: She hung up.

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Speaker 3: She just hung up, so.

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Speaker 5: I can't catch a break man, great, well nless.

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Speaker 1: Actually gonna call you tomorrow, so hopefully you get you

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Speaker 1: enjoy the rest of your space today.

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Speaker 3: Because you're still in a relationship.

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Speaker 5: I'm blocking right now, what you guys, I will press

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Speaker 5: that block. But