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Budgie asked your 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:55.640 door about the draft process so far, also about what's essential, 0:02:55.720 --> 0:02:59.680 what he's essentially been a smear campaign against him. His answers, 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:02.960 what you expect from time Sun. It's definitely a learning experience. 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:04.720 There are a lot of things that aren't in your control, 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:07.320 and just getting the knowledge from your dad and your 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:10.560 just coach, family, friends and everybody you know that supporting 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:13.680 men helping me through this process is extremely important and 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:17.600 I'm thankful that I have those resources. We always understood. 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.840 Block out the noise, even from Jackson State and Colorado. 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:23.280 It's a lot of critics It's a lot of hate, 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:25.720 but we know what to do. We know how to 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:32.880 handle that in every way, so we remained happy. What 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:36.280 do you take away from what should or spoke to 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:38.240 Bucky Brooks about today? 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:40.960 Prime is prepared should do it for this day for 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:44.120 a very long time, mom, and he had the right 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.600 person on this corner who also had to endure the 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:51.720 same type of negative negativity in general from the media 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:54.880 based on his style of play, the way you approached 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:56.920 the game. Things that had nothing to do with his 0:03:57.000 --> 0:04:01.200 play were always use it against him. Should do understands 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:03.480 that he should understand that because everything they talk about 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:05.760 has nothing to do with the game of football. It 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:07.280 had nothing to do with what he was able to 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:09.640 do at Jackson State. He doesn't talk about him winning 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:11.920 at Jackson State. It doesn't talk about him winning at 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:17.480 Colorado despite the obstacles he had to overcome, despite having 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:20.800 you know, inadequate play at the old line, still being 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:22.839 able to complete seventy percent of his passes. 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:26.159 They don't talk about none of that. 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:30.160 We talk about the way an individual carries himself, his swag, 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:36.440 the way he talks, not about being in trouble. Nothing 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:41.440 is talking about that. Ridiculous stuff. Oh, showing off the watch. 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:45.800 I mean, so what it's all about having confidence. It's 0:04:45.800 --> 0:04:49.080 all about having belief. That's what it takes to play 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:52.640 at the next level and be successful. The fact that 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:57.320 the user as a negative says more about them than 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.960 it does should do her and I hope he never changes. 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:02.480 It's true and he continues to have success in all 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:03.800 that he does wherever he goes. 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:06.599 You want to get a player like that that's going 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:11.119 to change your franchise around. When someone comes out comes 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:15.400 out and says, I want someone to draft me that 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:19.839 wants a player that's going to change a franchise, that's 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:23.280 something you want in a quarterback. I know it's frowned 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:25.520 upon a little bit to have one that's his brash 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:26.760 and his vocal as that. 0:05:27.920 --> 0:05:29.279 But if you look at the film, you turn the 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:32.120 film on, you know what you get. It shouldn't be 0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:33.919 no problems at all. 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:39.080 Yeah, I'm sure time prepared him for this. His dad 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:41.440 prepared him for this. He's been at this, His dad 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:43.200 has been at this for a very long time. He's 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:46.280 been in the spotlight since his days at Florida State. 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:49.359 So he understands that there's a certain level of criticism 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:53.559 that comes along with being the guy, with being a good, 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:57.359 great football player. He understands that also it comes along 0:05:57.400 --> 0:06:00.960 with being a quarterback, and yeah, dejective is I think 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:03.359 the thing is a lot of times they try to 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:05.200 tell you what you can't do, but they never want 0:06:05.240 --> 0:06:08.240 to emphasize what you can do. Bring me a guy 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:10.400 and tell everybody what can he do, because I'm gonna 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.440 keep him away from what he can't do. That's my 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:14.320 job as a coach is to not put him in 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:18.080 a situation where he can't succeed. Okay, you said he's good, 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:22.479 he's not good on a read option? Okay, why would 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:24.000 I run his own read if that's not what he's 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:26.680 good at. I'm trying to put my players in a 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:29.760 situation where they can succeed. That's what a coach's job 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:32.599 is is to put a guy in a position where 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.440 he can succeed and get more out of him than 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:38.360 the players thought he can get out of himself. Yeah, 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:42.839 it's if it's gonna be this, I'm glad that you 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:45.000 know he's doing a great job, as good a job 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:47.720 that he's not a robot with Joe, he sees this thing. 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:50.520 I mean he's on social media, he hears these things. 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:54.720 He's not a robot. He has feelings, he has emotions, 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:58.880 and so no matter how much like no, eventually, yeah, 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.520 you hear it, You're all the negativity that that what 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:06.960 they're saying, it doesn't It doesn't make it any easier. 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:10.720 Now your dad can tell you like, hey son, this 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:12.440 is blah blah blah, but it doesn't make it easier. 0:07:12.440 --> 0:07:14.600 Oh Joe, I ain't trying to hear that. This is 0:07:14.600 --> 0:07:15.360 supposed to be one. 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:18.440 Of the Look, if you do it is what we 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:21.520 think he is and can and can become the player 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:22.560 that we think he can. 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:27.200 All that noise, that's all it is, is just noise. 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:32.160 He should have no impact what somebody says about you, 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:35.040 and his dad says, what you say about me is 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:36.239 not what I think of myself. 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:38.080 Absolutely. I just hope. 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:40.480 I just hope he has the mental fortitude not to 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:42.400 let it bother him. The fact that he's already been 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:45.760 through it for so long and he has prime as 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:46.200 his father. 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:48.360 I don't think it will because they know a lot 0:07:48.400 --> 0:07:48.800 of people. 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.120 When it comes to the media, and the media jumps 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:53.440 on you and they talk about you, sometimes it gets 0:07:53.440 --> 0:07:56.200 to certain people. But I think I think theer is 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:59.240 built different, Prime has been built different. So I think 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:01.800 he has a great on standing to ignore the blocking 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:05.600 noise out and when his time comes in April, wherever 0:08:05.600 --> 0:08:08.320 he goes, he shows up and shows that, you know 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:09.000 what out. 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:12.880 I mean, I'm excited showing man. 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:17.480 The Vikings are set to roll with JJ McCarthy. 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:20.120 Thank you, pursue Aaron Rodgers. 0:08:20.560 --> 0:08:25.320 Bikers have rejected multiple trade calls for JJ McCarthy, telling 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:28.440 other teams they're moving forward with him as their quarterback. 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:31.720 The team plans to add a veteran, but they're not 0:08:31.800 --> 0:08:35.520 pursuing Aaron Rodgers at this time. McCarthy. Now, it is 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:38.480 the off season, as QB one's. 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:39.679 That's a good thing. That's a good thing. 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:41.960 And listen, I don't like the way Aaron Rodgers is 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:45.160 using the leverage, using his past, his accolades, his recume, 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:46.280 and what he's done in the past. 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:49.040 The whole team steadily at hostage. Now some of the 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:50.439 reports they hold him hostage. 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:55.800 Move on, Oh no, you're allowing him just like Green 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:58.480 Bay allowed him to do all the things that he did. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:02.400 They're the Jets allowed out, allowed it. The Jets allowed it, 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:03.400 just move on. 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:06.280 And that's exactly what they should do. Now, this is 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:08.400 what I like about Minnesota. The reports came up, the 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:11.240 reports came out about Minnesota obviously. 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:13.440 Being in the hunt for trading for him, and what 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:14.520 they did right away. 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:17.000 It ain't even been two days. Oh, we're gonna mix 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.559 that real quick. We don't have time to play them 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:22.280 games with you. So obviously you haven't learned your lesson 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:24.240 with the last two places you've been to, because not 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:26.560 here you go tell the other teams you're not sure 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.440 on what you want to do, yet having them wait, 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:30.560 using the leverage that you do have, the little bit 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:32.640 of leverage you still have to play games. 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:35.280 I'm glad that Minnesota came out and said what they said. 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:37.880 They're going forward with JJ McCarthy because you drafted him 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:38.120 for a. 0:09:38.080 --> 0:09:41.319 Reason, and you understand what he can do, especially with 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:43.199 the supporting casts he has around him, because you saw 0:09:43.200 --> 0:09:44.400 what Sam Donald was able to do. 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:46.079 He wasn't able to do it with the Jets when 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:46.840 they able to do with the Panther. 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:49.200 But all of a sudden he comes to Minnesota and 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:52.480 he has a career year, and that's this time that 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:55.360 JJ McCarthy to step up and do the same damn thing. 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.640 And that's what he's probably going to do because what 0:09:57.720 --> 0:09:59.480 he has around him is very very special. 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:02.160 Yeah, well you gotta find out what if the guy 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:02.679 can play them? 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:03.240 Now, Ojo? 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:05.760 I mean, you keep kicking the can, you keep kicking 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:06.719 the can down the road. 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:10.200 Yeah, but listen, even if he couldn't play, we didn't 0:10:10.240 --> 0:10:12.720 think Sam Donald would play anyone with the Jets. We 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:15.160 didn't think he could play wins with the Panthers. But 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.640 all of a sudden, magically he turned into god damn 0:10:17.679 --> 0:10:20.680 Houdini over that in Minnesota. But we saw what he 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:22.760 looked like the last two games of the season. When 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:26.040 I see, there's this thing called expectations. You tell me, 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:29.040 because think about what you just said. You didn't think 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:30.240 Sam Donald's gonna do that. 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:33.880 Nobody thought Sam Donald was gonna do that until expectations 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:37.280 came along. And then expectations came along, Oh we got 0:10:37.280 --> 0:10:39.360 to get the number one seed, and then what happened, 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:41.840 Oh we're in the playoffs. Then what happened? He turned 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:44.720 back into Sam Donald. You see, expectations is the number 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:47.840 one killer of goals and dreams, because the moment someone 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:50.120 expects something up see that's the only way you could 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:54.040 hurt me, Ojo. And if I don't expect anything, if 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:56.600 I'm in a relationship and I'm just casuallyting, I don't 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:58.679 expect nothing that you do, you, I'm gonna do me 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:03.120 if the more we have expectations in each other, See 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:05.880 that it bothers me, that it hurts me if you 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:08.959 do something that I don't agree with, See what I mean. 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:12.520 So the vacuums started to have expectations. We started to 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:15.920 have expectations for Sam Darnold, and you see what happened. 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:20.320 Now, now you you you was preaching a little too fast. Now, 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:21.920 I'm not sure if people need chet. I'm not sure 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:23.520 that people in your chat and catch that. But that 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:25.400 was a moment. That was a moment a lot of 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:27.440 people might have missed because we're talking about football, But 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:30.000 that's something that could apply to life that I think 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:30.880 a lot of people are missed. 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:32.679 But I miss it because as soon as I heard it, 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:34.440 you know, I keep that thing on me. 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:37.680 Yeah, you keep it all you expectation. Now bring that 0:11:37.720 --> 0:11:39.080 to me again, and I got to write it down. 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:40.600 Now when we get to the end of the year. 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:41.880 What I'm gonna do is I'm gonna take all these 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:44.160 quotes out of wrote down. Yeah, and I'm gonna make 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:49.280 a nightcap booklet called at Quotes so the people can 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:50.559 apply it to life. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:53.199 Expectations. Just get you. 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.959 Yeah, yeah, it's the number one is the number one 0:11:56.040 --> 0:12:01.560 killer of dreams and goals. Because here's the thing, Oh Joe, 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:05.040 Sam Donald nobody because they're like, man, he was terrible 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:07.840 with the Jets, Well, he was terrible with Carolina. Well, 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:10.400 we didn't get an opportunity to see him really at 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:13.560 Sam Friend, so everybody would expect him remember the last 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:17.200 two stops that they saw him that he wasn't that good. Okay, 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:21.000 So now he doesn't have any expectations. The more you win, 0:12:21.520 --> 0:12:26.040 the more expectations come along with that. So now the 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:28.400 last couple of games of the season, Oh Joe, we 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:30.000 got an opportunity to get the number one seed. 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:32.800 Boom. 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:38.320 Oh we're the playoffs now, don't matter blah blah blah boom. 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:39.959 Yeah. 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:42.560 And you know that a that that playoff atmosphere is different. 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:46.880 Now that's a ball game than playing in the regular season. 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:51.160 Regular season, he looked phenomenal. Ye type of pressure again, 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:55.440 the one the one word expectation that comes with being 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:59.320 the quarterback, especially especially in that type of situation. So 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.800 I kind of I kind of understand and the team 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:04.400 you are playing or had to play. 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:07.600 M hm hm. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:11.800 Yeah, But that's what happens when you have expectations. Oh, Joe, 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:13.599 like I said, and I like to quate things the 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:16.200 relationship because the people, specially in not chat it's been 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.880 a relationship, relate to it. Yeah, it's the moment you 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:21.920 have expectations. You see when a couples in a marriage, 0:13:22.240 --> 0:13:27.160 there's an expectation You're gonna be faithful. I'm gonna be faithful. Oh, 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.760 I'm gonna protect you. You're gonna protect me. Come on, man, 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:32.080 I'm the honor of the vows that we stood before 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:37.120 God and we swore to each other. Now I have 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:42.840 that expectation. Hey, if you say, hey, what you're doing tonight? Uh, 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:44.880 I ain't gonna be able to see you tonight. And 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:49.960 everybody there's like, there's no expectations. I have no obligation, 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:52.160 you have no obligation to meet. I'll see you when 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:53.720 I see you, hollow when I holler. 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:56.520 And you know what I don't like about you know 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:58.760 what I don't like about the analogy and explation that 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:01.880 you give me right now. Yeah, marriage one normally doesn't work. 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:04.800 But the woman with had no expectations. Here you be friends, 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:08.040 you be, you be, you be, sneaky links over whatever 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:10.000 you want to call it, for years and years and 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:11.720 years and years all the way down the line, because 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:15.840 there are no expectations, so there's no failure or reason 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:16.960 for anything to ever end. 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:19.360 All but hair is that The hair is the sneaky part. 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:22.800 The ought your ware to get you. You see the 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:27.360 number one, the number one cause that call will cause 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:33.000 a relationship to end is uncommunicated expectations. Mmm, you see, 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.640 Oh Joe, she expected you to get up flowers and 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:36.440 you didn't give them. 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:38.400 Why didn't you tell me you wanted flowers? 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:42.480 You expected she expected you, Oh Joe, to plan this vacation, right, 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:44.640 you didn't know she wanted to go on a vacation. 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:46.760 Uncommunicated expectations. 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:47.920 Oh your thought? 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:50.480 Did you know what? He she gonna do this thing 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:52.560 for Father's Day. We're gonna do it, uh blah blah blah. 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:57.280 She didn't do it, you see, uncommunicated expectations. But again uncommunicated. 0:14:57.360 --> 0:15:03.000 But what's the end part? Expect I like that I. 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:03.440 Haven't heard that. 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:06.680 I haven't even heard that word before, not used, not 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:11.960 using this context and actually use together uncommunicated expectations. 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:13.480 Yes like that. 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:17.720 You see, she has an expectations, but she didn't communicate 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:20.720 them with you. You have an expectation, but you didn't 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:25.440 communicate them with her. So those uncommunicated expectations and what 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:27.840 happens A lot of times people have what we call 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:34.120 implosive personalities. They hold things, whole things, whole things. There's 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:39.800 only so much you can hold before it explodes. You term, 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:44.720 oh you went postal? Yeah, all right, boom. And so 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:47.680 now instead of just saying, well, you know, Chad, I 0:15:47.680 --> 0:15:51.000 thought that we were going to do this. No, one month, 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:53.760 go by, two months, go by, three months, go by, 0:15:53.960 --> 0:15:56.120 four months go by, and it's building. 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:57.480 Wait, you don't know. 0:15:57.680 --> 0:16:01.920 It's not been communicated, so you don't know it's building. 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:03.640 It's building, it's building. 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:09.640 Boom. Then it blows. Yeah, you've been with me all 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:10.120 this time. 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:12.760 You should have known. You see how many time you 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:13.480 heard that O joke? 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:17.080 What I like, yeah, all the time, all the time, 0:16:17.080 --> 0:16:18.880 because you've been with him a serving mind. You've been 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:21.080 with someone for a certain amount of time. Ain't know, 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:23.120 women all the time. Oh, I know you're real well, 0:16:23.800 --> 0:16:25.880 I know you're real well. I knew what was gonna say. 0:16:26.120 --> 0:16:28.600 You could say something, Yes, he can finish the sentence 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:32.520 for you. But all of a sudden when they come 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:34.760 to certain stuff, Oh, you didn't want to. 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:38.200 Let they know you wanted that. I ain't know you what, Oh. 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:40.920 You can't read my mind. I threw you. Hence I 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:42.560 gave you a sign a few I gave you a 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:43.600 sign a few weeks. 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:48.440 Ago, a sign yeah what yeah? Yeah in the com 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:51.880 I mintioned it when it came on TV. Yeah, I 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:56.400 missed the signed that God gave me to. You should 0:16:56.400 --> 0:16:58.320 have told you'd say I missed the signed that God 0:16:58.360 --> 0:17:00.600 gave me. You left your ask long by sae months ago. 0:17:01.680 --> 0:17:05.120 I missed that sign. But then, and that's and that's 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:05.440 the thing. 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:09.000 I just think, you know, sometimes we we take for granted, 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:10.200 and you've been in a relationship. 0:17:10.320 --> 0:17:10.760 Just tell me. 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:14.679 I'm very I'm one of these guys on Joe. Just 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:17.320 tell me if you want to do something, tell me. 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:20.240 I don't have time. I got too much ish on 0:17:20.280 --> 0:17:23.280 my plate. Try to try to figure out what you want. 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:25.800 You can just open your mouth and say if you 0:17:25.840 --> 0:17:28.040 want to go here, say that, if you want to 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:31.560 eat that, say that, if you want this, say that. 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:36.919 But the guy me, you know, you know what to 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:39.640 talk about, you know what to talk about. On them shows. 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:41.879 What they got to do with this? 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:46.560 What that got to do with you telling me what 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:47.800 you would like to do? 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:53.280 And so I think the thing here for the Vikings, 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:54.800 they have an expectation. 0:17:54.920 --> 0:17:56.200 Now they see their offense. 0:17:56.640 --> 0:18:00.159 They realize that, hey, Jedda's gonna be Jedda Hawkinson has 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:03.480 been a Pro Bowl player. Addison, Hey, well, the more 0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:06.600 opportunities we give him, the better he can be. Yeah, 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:09.520 offensive line, maybe they add a piece to the offensive line. 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:14.000 But other than that, Yeah, I think you you you always, I. 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:16.879 Mean, you draft the kid when you drafted it, and 0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:20.800 now you keep kicking the can down the road. And 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:22.439 and he's like, hold on, what I got to do? 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:24.080 You took me and you told me I was the guy, 0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:27.080 and now I get hurt. Okay, I get that. I 0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:29.320 understand that I got hurt. There's nothing I can do 0:18:29.320 --> 0:18:32.959 about that, O Joe. But then I come back and 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:34.680 y'all got another guy. You tell me got it? I 0:18:34.680 --> 0:18:35.680 got to wait another year. 0:18:35.800 --> 0:18:38.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah, And that was that would bother. 0:18:38.400 --> 0:18:42.080 That would bother anybody, especially a quarterback that drafted where 0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:44.359 you got drafted, expected to start, but due to injury, 0:18:44.600 --> 0:18:47.600 he had a small setback. And now you've done all 0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:50.120 the work you need to do during the season last 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:53.520 year to get yourself back, not only in playing shape 0:18:53.520 --> 0:18:56.439 physically and mentally, but now you talk about bringing somebody 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:58.760 else in, another veteran president and telling me I got 0:18:58.800 --> 0:18:59.800 to take a back seat. 0:18:59.560 --> 0:19:02.879 To get Yeah, may wait a minute, what are we 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:05.679 talking about here? So I'm happy for him. 0:19:05.720 --> 0:19:08.639 I'm glad that the organization decided to hurry up and 0:19:08.800 --> 0:19:11.200 nix the rumors that were out there about Aaron Rodgers 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:13.920 coming in and let JJ McCarthy give him that sense 0:19:13.960 --> 0:19:16.960 of security mentally so he can go forward and know 0:19:17.040 --> 0:19:19.560 he's quarterback one and doesn't have to look over his shoulder. 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:32.200 Cam Hayward, the great defensive tackle for the Pittsburgh Steelers, 0:19:32.480 --> 0:19:34.960 was asked if he'll be doing any recruiting to help 0:19:34.960 --> 0:19:37.399 bring Rogers to Pittsburgh. I ain't doing none of that 0:19:37.520 --> 0:19:40.440